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Lesson 1: Teen –
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SH R LOVE.
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DISCUSSION

“Being deeply
loved by
someone gives
you strength,
while loving
someone
deeply gives
you courage.”
- Lao Tzu
WHAT
IS
When healthy and purposeful, relationships
improve sense of self. Those with whom people
share relationships with, by supporting, attending
to them, and providing them a sense of
community, they help defend self-worth and views
 When healthy and
purposeful, relationships
improve sense of self.
Those with whom people
share relationships with,
by supporting, attending
to them, and providing
them a sense of
community, they help
When healthy and purposeful, relationships
improve sense of self. Those with whom people
share relationships with, by supporting, attending
to them, and providing them a sense of
community, they help defend self-worth and views
Relationsh
ips are not
static
 The concept of relationship is
very broad and complex. In our
model, personal relationships
refer to close connections
between people, formed by
emotional bonds and
interactions. These bonds
often grow from and are
 Relationships are not
static; they are
continually evolving, and
to fully enjoy and benefit
from them we need
skills, information,
inspiration, practice, and
3 kinds of relationship

1.Family
2.Friends
3.Partnership
​
1.Family The Bureau of the
Census defines family
as "two or more
persons who are
related by birth,
marriage, or adoption
and who live together
as one household."
 " But many people
have family they
don't live with or to
whom they are not
bonded by love, and
the roles of family
vary across cultures
as well as throughout
your own lifetime.
1.Family
 Some typical
characteristics of a
family are support,
mutual trust, regular
interactions, shared
beliefs and values,
security, and a sense
of community.
Family concept Non -
Traditional
Family

Traditional
Family
 Although the concept of "family"
is one of the oldest in human
nature, its definition has evolved
considerably in the past three
decades. Non-traditional family
structures and roles can provide
as much comfort and support as
traditional forms.
 Friends
A friendship can be
thought as a close
tie between two
people that is often
built upon mutual
experiences, shared
interests, proximity,
 Friends are
able to turn to
each other in
times of
need.
 Nicholas Christakis
and James Fowler,
social-network
researchers and
authors of the book
Connected, find that
the average person
has about six close
ties—though some
 Partnerships Romantic
partnerships, including
marriage, are close
relationships formed
between two people that
were built upon affection,
trust, intimacy, and
romantic love. We usually
experience this kind of
relationship with only one
 1. Relationships maintain happiness and health.

4. Relationships serve as behavioral an

3. Relationships meet interpersonal requirements.

a nce of a re lationship
Import

6. Good relationships maintain self-worth.2. Relationships avoid 5. Relationships serve as communication

isolation.
 1. Relationships
maintain happiness and
health.
1. Relationships maintain
happiness and Ahealth.
positive correlation between
happiness and relationships
exists. Sadness, which can be
due to problems such as
despair, marital argument,
family hostility, and job
discontent, at times result from
a lack of attention on relations
or badly handled relationship
troubles. Nevertheless, family,
friends, and associates can play
as social support and assist in
 1. Relationships maintain happiness and health.

4. Relationships serve as behavioral an

3. Relationships meet interpersonal requirements.

a nce of a re lationship
Import

6. Good relationships maintain self-worth.2. Relationships avoid 5. Relationships serve as communication

isolation.
2. Relationships avoid
isolation.
2. Relationships avoid
isolation.
Generally, we all need person-to-
person contacts. We endure even
when we disconnect from others. In
fact, even our dreams mirror our
longing to ending loneliness and
feelings of seclusion or drifting
apart. When our social environment
fails to replicate our requests and
desires, we attempt to fabricate
situations that reveal them, even if
unintentional. Human beings
therefore have the need to feel right
 1. Relationships maintain happiness and health.

4. Relationships serve as behavioral an

3. Relationships meet interpersonal requirements.

a nce of a re lationship
Import

6. Good relationships maintain self-worth.2. Relationships avoid 5. Relationships serve as communication

isolation.
3. Relationships meet interpersonal
requirements.
3. Relationships meet interpersonal
requirements.
We have a need to include others
and be included; to control others
and be controlled; and be loved and
to love others. Hence, inclusion is
about our view, whether we are “in”
or “out”. Inclusions relates to the
level to which we feel the need to
ascertain and sustain a feeling of
shared interest with others, how
much we take interest in others,
Control is about being “on top”
or “at the bottom”. Control is
the need to create and keep
up relationships that allow one
to experience acceptable
levels of influence and control.
It relates on the need to
establish and maintain
relationships that facilitate
satisfactory levels of influence
and power. To varying
degrees, we need to feel
 Affection determines how
“close” or “how far” we
are from the relationship.
It is the desire to offer and
accept love and
experience relationships
that are emotionally
secure. Affection relates
to our need to give and
receive love and to
 1. Relationships maintain happiness and health.

4. Relationships serve as behavioral an

3. Relationships meet interpersonal requirements.

a nce of a re lationship
Import

6. Good relationships maintain self-worth.2. Relationships avoid 5. Relationships serve as communication

isolation.
4. Relationships serve as
behavioral anchor.
4. Relationships serve as behavioral
anchor.
Aside from satisfying
our need for
inclusion, control,
and affection,
relationships serve as
directions for proper
behavioral and
emotional responses.
They help convey
sorrow, joy, and a
 1. Relationships maintain happiness and health.

4. Relationships serve as behavioral an

3. Relationships meet interpersonal requirements.

a nce of a re lationship
Import

6. Good relationships maintain self-worth.2. Relationships avoid 5. Relationships serve as communication

isolation.
5. Relationships serve as
communication channels.
5. Relationships serve as
communication channels.
Relationships are a type
of communication
channel; they are
venues of
communication
concerning whatever
things can take place.
They provided the
prospect to speak about
 1. Relationships maintain happiness and health.

4. Relationships serve as behavioral an

3. Relationships meet interpersonal requirements.

a nce of a re lationship
Import

6. Good relationships maintain self-worth.2. Relationships avoid 5. Relationships serve as communication

isolation.
6. Good relationships
maintain self-worth.
6. Good relationships
maintain self-worth.
When healthy and
purposeful,
relationships improve
sense of self. Those
with whom people
share relationships
with, by supporting,
attending to them, and
How to Nurture Relationships
1.Connect with your family
2. Practice gratitude
3. Learn to forgive
4. Be compassionate
5. Accept others
6. Create rituals together
7. Spend the right amount of time together
 Keeping
Healthy
Relationsh
ips
Good relationships are
fun and make you feel
good about yourself.
The relationships that
you make in your
youth years will be a
special part of your life
and will teach you
some of the most
In a healthy relationship, both
partners:

 Are treated with kindness and

respect
 Are honest with each other
 Like to spend time together
 Take an interest in things that are
important to each other
 Respect one another’s emotional,
 Romantic Relationships
The love we feel for the
person we have a
romantic relationship with
is different from our love
for friends or family. When
a person enters into a
marriage, we naturally
anticipate it to be
enduring and that
anticipation or
permanence, at least in
Dimensions of Love
1.Passionate love- is
what we feel when we
first fall in love; it
shows our attraction
and focus on a single
person, While some
succeed to withstand
possible love or over a
lifespan, it often
2. Companionate love
– intensifies over
time. As a couple’s
feeling of trust and
caring for one
another nurtures,
they, involve
themselves in one
another’s life and
reciprocally react to
each other’s needs.
 Pragma is a
style of love that
emphasizes the
practical
aspects of love.
It is an arranged
marriage.
Mania is a style of
love characterized
by volatility,
insecurity, and
possessiveness. It
is more likely an
obsessive love.
 Agape is an
altruistic,
selfless love. It
has spiritual
value,
frequently
described as
Eros is a
sexual
love that
carries
couples
together.
 Ludis refers to a
style of loving that
emphasizes the
game of seduction
and fun where
partners do not see
their relationship as
permanent.
 Storge, in
comparison is the
love we have for
god friends and
family members. It
does not contain
sex at all, although
at one time or
another, we may
 Among these
various forms of
love, there is one,
often overlooked,
that is particularly
impactful in today’s
world—Philautia,
the Greek term
1.Initiating stage.
2.Experimenting stage.
3.Intensifying stage
4.Integrating stage.
5.Bonding stage
6.Differentiating stage
7.Circumscribing stage
8.Stagnating stage
9.Avoiding stage.
10..Terminating Stage.
 Researchers have found
out that relationships are
essential to one’s
happiness (Berscheid
1985; Berscheid and Reis
1998, Larsen,
 To achieve and maintain
happiness on relationship.
attraction, love
and
commitment
with attachment
and intimacy.
 Sternberg’s
Triangular
Theory of Love
which creates 8
Types of Love
 Three Components
of Love

Intimacy Passion Decision/commitme

ACTIVITY
 Directions: State
whether these
statements are True
or False.
Evaluation
 Married
April 27th

o n t e re y ,
In M
C a lif o rn ia
 Monter
rey, CA

Married April
27th