Defining Communications Skills
Defining Communications Skills
Commonness
The ideal communication situation requires
commonness. Commonness is achieved by:
•The sender tuning his message for his receiver;
•A receiver that is prepared to receive the
message;
•A sender who fully understands the receiver.
•Note:
Communication does not solve all problems;
Community participation should not be
assumed.
Communication Tools
Here, we want to respond to specific
communication needs.
We identify the communication objectives we
want to attain and communication activities are
developed for that purpose.
Now the communication tools we are going to
use in those activities are exactly that:
• they are not the “product” or the “output”.
1) Perception:
The overriding cause of most communication
problems is perception, which can be defined as
a person’s view of reality.
Since no two people could have the same
training and experiences in life, they do not see
things exactly alike.
The sender meaning and the receiver
interpretation are not always identical, but it is
not necessary that they be so, it is sufficient if
the receiver understands the essence of what
is being transmitted.
5) Perfunctory attention: -
Most of us do not generally listen all that the
other person is telling us.
One of the reasons why we pay only marginal
attention to incoming communication is that while
average speaking speed is only 120 words per
minute, listening capability is about 500 words per
minute.
This enables us to listen marginally.
The extra time is devoted to thinking about
some problem, evaluating what are being told,
forming a rebuttal to what the other person is
saying and even to idle wandering.
This marginal listening acts as a barrier to
communication.
8) Hidden agenda: -
People often do not say what have in mind.
They try to hide their intentions behind words.
This is often considered to be “tactful” or
“diplomatic”, and at times it really is. It is not
always wise to be direct.
Subtlety in communication allows the
communicator to retrace his steps if he perceives
that the response is not favorable.
9) Value laden words: -
Value laden words such as “fair days work”,
management prerogatives”, democratic rights”,
“good conduct”, “discipline”, etc. arouse
emotions.
To the extent, a communication arouses
emotions of the receiver; his ability to respond
objectively and rationally becomes limited.
10) Omission: -
As information moves upward from operations
to top management, it is summarizes at each
level of management until it reaches the top in
capsule form.
This process of summarization involves deletion
of those parts of in-coming communication which
the summarize consider, in his judgment, to be
less relevant, or unfavorable to him.
11) Context: -
Words have meaning only in context.
Thus, when a company declares 8 percent
bonus, it has different meaning to workers if other
companies in the same region and industry were
paying 10 percent than if they were paying only 6
percent bonus.
12) Hoarding: -
Many people derive a sense of power and
prestige by hoarding information.
Some managers have an instinctive aversion to
pass on information.
It adversely affects both moral and efficiency.
13) Information overload: -
The decision maker is virtually inundated with
information and it is one of his jobs to scan and
sift the mass of in-coming information.
This screening and sifting of information
causes and distortions.
Thus, information load acts as much a
communication barrier as lack of it.
How to make communication effective.
It is very vital to observe the principles of
communication which include:
a)clarity of thought,
b)clarity of expression,
c)avoiding jargons and ambiguity,
d)completeness,
e)correctness,
f)brevity,
g)Attentiveness,
h)integrity,
i)timelines,
j)objectivity, and
k)adaptability.
Other strategies included the following: -
1) Create an environment of trust and
confidence: -
The first and the most vital condition for
creating an environmental of trust and
confidence is that management should live up
to its words.
It requires that management must develop
sound policies, particularly personnel policies,
put them in writing and communicate them
widely.
Further, whatever the policies, they should be
administered judiciously and fairly, without fear or
favour.
Management should also avoid” divide and
rule” tactics.
2) Reference: -
Effective communication can take place only
when the message is tuned to the language and
frame of reference of the receiver.
Communication can be effective if
management is sensitive to the needs, fears and
frame of reference of workers.
3) Listen empathetically: -
Empathic listening requires that the receiver
steps into the shoes of the sender and tries to
look at things from this point of view.
Your image
• Self image
• Projected image
• Received image- consider them all.
Self concept
It refers to:
• Attitudes
• Beliefs
• Judgements
• Perception about self
• You need self knowledge to over come self
doubt
Productive thinking
• Write down a list of ten things that you feel
confident about
• List ten skills that you would like to acquire
• Do you have the opportunity to practice your
high confidence skills, when?
• How can you develop your undeveloped
skills?
• What is your plan.