Mastering Team Skills and Interpersonal Communication
Mastering Team Skills and Interpersonal Communication
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“Who Am I?” paper: this three-page paper should
include your own personal mission statement.
• For example,
Due in the next class
– what is your purpose in life?
– What values are important to you and what do you stand for?
– What do you want to be and do in your life (your life goals)?
– What attributes and capabilities are important to you?
– What experiences have influenced your development?
– What is your theory of leadership and what role will leadership
play in life?
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into the real you.
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Learning Objectives
5. Identify three major modes of listening, describe the
listening process, and explain the problem of selective
listening
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Communicating Effectively in Teams
• What is a team?
• A unit of two or more people who share a mission and the responsibility
to achieve a common goal.
• Such teams are often cross-functional, pulling together people from a variety
of departments with different areas of expertise and responsibility.
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Communicating in Teams
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Communicating in Teams
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Communicating in Teams
• The diversity of opinions and experiences can lead to better decisions,
however,
• competing interests often lead to tensions that highlight the need for
effective communication.
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Advantages and
Disadvantages of Teams
Advantages Disadvantages
• The interactions and processes that take place among the members
of a team are called group dynamics.
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Factors Influencing Group Dynamics:
Assuming Team Roles
Members of a team can play various roles, which fall into three categories:
The roles that individuals assume often depend on whether they joined the group
voluntarily or involuntarily and their status in the group. Until roles and status have
stabilized, a team may have trouble accomplishing its goals.
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Factors Influencing Group Dynamics:
Phases of Team Development
• Some teams may move forward and backward through several stages before they
become productive, while others may start being productive right away.
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Factors Influencing Group Dynamics:
Resolving Team Conflict
• Team conflict can arise for a number of reasons. It can both be constructive and
destructive.
• The following seven measures can help team members to successfully resolve
conflict:
– Proactive behavior. Deal with a minor conflict before it becomes a major conflict.
– Communication. Get those directly involved in the conflict to participate in resolving it.
– Openness. Get feelings out in the open, then deal with the main issues.
– Research. Seek factual reasons for the problem before seeking solutions.
– Flexibility. Do not let anyone lock into a position before considering other solutions.
– Fair play. Do not avoid a fair solution by hiding behind the rules.
– Alliance. Get parties to fight together against an “outside force” instead of against each
other.
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Overcoming Resistance
• When you face irrational resistance, try to remain calm and detached to
avoid destructive confrontations and present your position in a convincing
manner.
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Overcoming Resistance
• Make people aware of their resistance. When people are noncommittal and
silent, they may be tuning you out without even knowing why.
– Continuing with your argument is futile. Deal directly with the resistance, without being
accusing.
• Evaluate others’ objections fairly. Focus on what the person is expressing, both
the words and the feelings.
– Get the person to open up so that you can understand the basis for the resistance.
• Hold your arguments until the other person is ready for them. Getting your point
across depends as much on the other person’s frame of mind as it does on your
arguments.
– Do not assume that a strong argument will speak for itself. Address the other person’s
emotional needs first.
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Collaborating on Communication
Efforts
Agree on project goals before you start. Starting without a clear idea of what
you hope to accomplish often leads to frustration and wasted time.
Give your team time to bond before diving in. If people have not had the
opportunity to work together before, make sure they can get to know each other
before being asked to collaborate.
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Guidelines for Collaborative Writing
Establish clear processes. Make sure everyone knows how the work will be done,
including checkpoints and decisions to be made along the way.
Avoid writing as a group. In most cases, the best approach is to plan, research,
and outline together, but assign the actual writing to one person or divide larger
projects among multiple writers. If you divide the writing, have one person do a final
revision to ensure a consistent style.
Make sure tools and techniques are ready and compatible across the team.
Even minor details such as different versions of software can delay projects.
Check to see how things are going along the way. Do not assume that everything
is working just because you do not hear anything negative.
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Giving Constructive Feedback
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So, What is Feedback Anyway?
Feedback
is a Signal or a
Statement
that is used
as an active
listener/Speaker to
confirm
understanding of any
Communication.
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What is Feedback?
• Feedback is a private, confidential conversation,
usually between two people
– Think carefully about which media to use when you give feedback.
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Giving Constructive Feedback
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Making Your Meetings More Productive
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Making Your Meetings More Productive
• You will help your company make better use of meetings by;
• preparing carefully,
• conducting meetings efficiently, and
• using meeting technologies wisely.
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Preparing For Meetings
• The key to productive meetings is careful planning of purpose,
participants, location, and agenda.
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Preparing For Meetings
• Decide on the time when you will hold the meeting, and reserve the
facility.
– An agenda will aid in this process by putting the meeting plan into a permanent, written
form.
– Distribute the agenda to participants several days before the meeting so that they will
know what to expect and can come prepared.
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Conducting and Contributing to Effective Meetings
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Conducting and Contributing to Effective Meetings
• However, allow enough time for all the main ideas to be heard, and give
people a chance to raise related issues.
– Follow agreed-upon rules. One way a leader can improve the productivity of a
meeting is by using parliamentary procedure.
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Conducting and Contributing to Effective Meetings
• Encourage participation. Some participants are too quiet and others are too
talkative.
– The best meetings are those in which everyone participates, so a leader must not let
one or two people dominate the meeting while others doodle on their notepads.
– Speak up if you have something useful to say, but do not monopolize the discussion.
• Close effectively. At the end of the meeting, the leader should summarize the
discussion or list the actions to be taken and specify who will take them and
when.
– It ensures that all participants agree on the outcome and gives people a chance to
clear up any misunderstandings.
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Using Meeting Technologies
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Listening
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Improving Your Listening Skills
• Your long-term career prospects are closely tied to your ability and
willingness to listen.
How?
The Importance of Listening Skills
• Effective listening;
• stay in touch,
• up to date, and
• out of trouble.
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Listening
Remember! Listening is
a gift you can give to
anyone and it doesn’t
cost you anything
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Recognizing Types of Listening
• The types of listening differ not only in purpose but also in the amount of
feedback or interaction that occurs.
1. You may ask questions, but basically information flows from the
speaker to you.
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Recognizing Types of Listening
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Recognizing Types of Listening
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Recognizing Types of Listening
• Effective listeners:
• ask questions,
• summarize the speaker’s message to verify key points, and
• encourage the speaker through positive body language and
supportive feedback.
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Understanding The Listening Process
Sensing
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Understanding The Listening
The Listening
ProcessProcess
Sensing
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Understanding The Listening
The Listening
ProcessProcess
Perception
Interpretation
Evaluation
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Understanding The Listening Process
Perception
Interpretation
Evaluation
Action
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Overcoming Barriers to Effective Listening
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Overcoming Barriers to Effective Listening
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Listening Process Barriers
Mental Barriers
• Inattention
• Prejudgment
• Closed-mindedness
• Pseudo listening
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Listening Process Barriers
• Noisy surroundings
• Speaker’s appearance
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Listening in the Workplace
Improving Listening in the Workplace:
• Stop talking.
• Control external and internal distractions.
• Become actively involved.
• Separate facts from opinions.
• Ask clarifying questions.
• Paraphrase to increase understanding.
• Take notes to ensure retention.
• Be aware of gender differences.
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Improving Your Nonverbal
Communication Skills
Non-verbal Communication
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Understanding Nonverbal Communication
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Communicating a message
• The range and variety of nonverbal signals is almost endless, but you
can grasp the basics by studying six general categories:
– Facial expressions. Your face is the primary site for expressing your
emotions; it reveals both the type and the intensity of your feelings.
– Gestures and posture. By moving or not moving your body, you express
both specific and general messages, some voluntary and some involuntary.
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Recognizing Nonverbal Communication
– Your tone, volume, accent, and speaking pace say a lot about who you are,
your relationship with the audience, and the emotions underlying your
words.
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Recognizing Nonverbal Communication
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Recognizing Nonverbal
Communication
• Touch. Touch is an important way to convey warmth, comfort, and
reassurance.
• Time and space. Like touch, time and space can be used to assert
authority, imply intimacy, and send other nonverbal messages.
– Keep in mind that expectations regarding both time and space vary by
culture.
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• Personal territories, however, can vary both culturally.
• Take Saudi Arabia for example, you might find yourself almost nose
to nose with a business associate because their social space
equates to intimate space in North America.
• If, on the other hand, you were visiting a friend in the Netherlands,
you would find the roles reversed, you would be doing the chasing
because their personal space equates to our social space.
• Americans tend to pull in their elbows and knees and try not to touch
or even look at one another while riding the bus.
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PROXEMICS
Public space ranges from 12 to 25 feet and is the distance maintained between
the audience and a speaker.
Social space ranges from 4 to 10 feet and is used for communication among
business associates.
Personal space ranges from 2 to 4 feet and is used among friends and family
members, and to separate people waiting in lines at teller machines for example.
Finally, intimate space ranges out to one foot and involves a high probability of
touching. We reserve it for whispering and embracing.
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Developing Your Business Etiquette
• Keeping in mind that the impressions you leave behind can have a
lasting effect on you and your company—so make sure to leave
positive impressions wherever you go.
The Importance of Business Etiquette
• The following slides present three key areas in which good etiquette is essential:
Effective Listening
The Workplace
Successful Productive
Social Settings
Teamwork Meetings
Online Communication
Nonverbal Communication
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Etiquette In The Workplace
• Workplace etiquette includes:
– Personal appearance in the workplace sends a strong signal to managers,
colleagues, and customers.
• Pay attention to the style of clothes where you work and adjust your style
to match.
• Pay close attention to cleanliness and avoid using products with powerful
scents.
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Etiquette In The Workplace
• No one expects (or wants) you to be artificially upbeat and bubbly every
second of the day, but a single negative personality can make an entire
office miserable and unproductive.
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Etiquette in Social Settings
From business lunches to industry conferences, you represent your company
when you are out in public, so make sure that your:
Appearance Personal
and Actions Introductions
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• From business lunches to industry conferences, you represent your
company when you are out in public, so make sure that your appearance
and actions are appropriate for the situation.
– First impressions last a long time, so get to know the customs of the company
culture when you meet new people.
• Business is often conducted over meals, and knowing the basics of dining
etiquette will make you more effective in these situations.
– Choose foods that are easy to eat while you are trying to carry on a
conversation.
– Leave business papers under your chair until entrée plates have been removed.
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• Misuse of mobile phones in restaurants and other public
places is a common etiquette blunder.
– When you use your cell phone in public, you send the message that people
around you are not as important as your call and that you do not respect your
caller’s privacy.
– Do not talk about politics, religion, or any other topic likely to stir up emotions.
Some light chatter and questions about personal interests is fine, but do not get
too personal.
– Do not complain about work, avoid profanity, and be careful with humor.
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Business Etiquette Online
• Electronic media seem to be a breeding ground for poor etiquette.
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Business Etiquette Online
• Do not use “reply all” in email unless everyone can benefit from your
reply.
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