Freedom From Sin: Anta Waliyyunaa Fagfir Lanaa Warham-Naa Wa'anta Kahyrul-Gaafireen
Freedom From Sin: Anta Waliyyunaa Fagfir Lanaa Warham-Naa Wa'anta Kahyrul-Gaafireen
He says:
Know that the heart is like a fortress. The
Shaytan is the enemy who wants to invade
the fortress, own, and control it. And there is
no way to protect the fortress except by
guarding the entrances. The doors cannot be
guarded if we are ignorant of them and the
Shaytan cannot be repelled except through
knowledge of his routes of penetration. The
doors and pathways of the Shaytan are the
qualities of the slave and they are many.
[Mukhtasar minhaj al-qasidin, Abridgement of the path of
the seekers, Ibn Qudama, pg. 193-194].
Now the point of the author is that
Shaytan is able to influence us and work
his tricks of illusion and deception
precisely because we are not vigilant
enough and not knowledgeable enough
of our shortcomings and of our negative
qualities.
Take for example envy and greed. When
these shortcomings are stimulated for Every human being is gifted with
some reason. We become, for example, the light (nur) of insight. This
envious of the wealth, fame or insight however, is blocked and
knowledge of another individual, or we even seriously impaired if greed
become greedy for more worldly and envy gets the upper-hand over
possessions. The first thing that then us. Once this happens, once we fall
happens is the natural light (nur) of the victim to envy and greed and many
heart becomes dim. It must be other negative qualities – such as
remembered here that innately (bil- fascination with money, impatience,
fitrah) we are equipped to know the suspicion, bad-temper and so forth
Devil's ruse. - Shaytan comes into our hearts
and beautifies the actions that
result from these blameworthy
attributes.
Whether the actions we want to
take are haram or ugly in the
extreme, we will do them because
Shaytan makes them appear
acceptable to us. The result is we
adopt a sinful path while at the
same ironically thinking we are
living the good life.
The final general cause of sin we having a look at are the impact of social circles on
the direction people take in their lives. It is crucial that we look at this matter in a
balanced and mature fashion. Many parents we talk to have the tendency to place
all the blame of their child's misbehavior on the circle of friends. This is not entirely
correct, indeed in this kind of judgment we are denying our children their
independence and their sense of individual responsibility. The same points apply in
the case of the disgruntled wife towards her husband and vice versa. In saying this
we are not denying that the group has an impact.
The point here is that we have to look at both the
individual and the social circle. We need to work hard
on excavating and reviving our own spiritual
tendencies and on disciplining the rebellious elements
in our selves. We also have the added responsibility of
assisting our families to those same ends. Much of the
work starts in the family and on the relationships inside
the family. It amounts to denial to simply blame the
circle of friends for all the woes of the world. This
however is not the complete tale. It would be equally
short-sighted to ignore the influences outside the
family.
Imam Ghazali, may Allah be satisfied with him, in his excellent
book " The beginning of guidance" recognizes that in addition to
basic requirement of being faithful to the commands of Allah, the
Most High, who we mix with and on what basis we mix with them
is fundamental to the spiritual life. Let’s start with a verse from
the Quran. Allah, the Most High says in Surah al-Kahf, verse 28:
And tie yourself to those who call on their Lord in the mornings and at
night seeking only His Face…
and towards the end of the same verse He, the Most High, says:
And do not follow (obey) those whom we closed off their hearts from
Our remembrance and who follow their own whims and desires…
It is clear from this verse that Allah instructs his Prophet (s),
may the peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, and
consequently the entire Ummah to associate with others on the
basis of certain criteria. On the one hand we are instructed to
associate with the spiritually enlightened and on the other to
break ties with the spiritually dead. The word used in the verse
to connote spiritual blindness is "ghaflah". The meanings of this
term include the shortcomings of negligence, forgetfulness, and
intellectual blindness. It is also instructive to note that these
traits form the basis of the unrepentant sinful life.
So we are obliged to be In another tradition narrated by
discriminatory in the choice Abu Dawud and Tirmidhi, may
of our associations and that Allah be satisfied with them, the
for a very important reason. Prophet (s) said, "A man adopts
Both Imams Bukhari and the din of his close friends, so
Muslim, that the Prophet look carefully at the person you
(saw), said: befriend."
The example of a good A third tradition I want to cite
companion (jalis) and a bad here from the collections of both
one is like a perfume Bukhari and Muslim is one often
vendor and a blacksmith. not seen in this context and a
The perfume vendor either hadith I believe to be critical in
gives you something or you any discussion of companionship
purchase an item from him and friendship. Abu Hurairah,
or you receive a pleasant may Allah be pleased with him,
fragrance from him. The narrates that the Prophet (s)
blacksmith however either said, "Women are married for
burns your clothes or you their wealth, pedigree, beauty
acquire a bad smelling and din, go and marry them for
odour from him. their din and you will succeed."
The lessons from these prophetic traditions are numerous. We
will consider a few relevant to the issue under discussion. It is
human nature to absorb to a degree the qualities of people we
respect, admire, and regularly associate with. This process of
absorption is effectively compared by the Prophet (s) to the way
perfume and the stench of the blacksmith’s shop or even the
smoke and smell of burning wood clings to one’s clothes.
It is also generally accepted that although temperament fails to
escape the laws of hereditary, environment can effectively
change and fundamentally modify those traits. If one is serious
about one’s spirituality and moral development and that of one’s
children we have to choose our friends and associates.
All of these sayings directly teach against passive friendships.
It’s not a good practice just to fall into a friendship or
companionship no matter how the person’s style or personality
impresses one. Suhbah or companionship is encouraged in
Islam. Friendship is to be valued and respected. They fulfil all
sorts of needs the individual might have. But all this goes with a
price. The central focus of a Muslim ought to be his din for the
simple reason that din is ultimately his vehicle of nearness to
Allah, the Most High.
This principle is given an interesting context in
the third hadith quoted earlier. After indicating
the common and largely materialistic motives of
the choice of partners, the Prophet (s) says, "Go
marry them for their din…". The reason for this,
Imam Nawawi in his Gardens of the Pious
indicates is precisely because our spouses are
our closest companions. And when the spouse is
strongly orientated towards the religious life we
should actively seek that companionship to
improve our own.
Ghazali however reminds us in his Beginning of
Guidance: Know that your Companion that
never leaves you whether you are travelling or
staying at home, asleep or awake, indeed in life
as in death is your Lord, Master, Owner and
Creator, and whenever you perform
remembrance of Him, He is your company. And
He, the Most High, has said so [Imam Ghazali is
referring to a hadith qudsi here], " I am the jalis
(someone who regularly sits with one) of the
person who remembers Me."
And tie yourself to
those who call on
their Lord in the
mornings and at
night seeking only
His Face… al-khaf
:28
Thank you