CHAPTER 1
INTRODUCTION:
PLANTING THE SEEDS
Beyond Seduction
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All rights reserved.
Cannot be reproduced in any manner, except for
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None of the content in this book should be
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"All roads that lead to success have to
pass through hard work boulevard at
some point."
- Eric Thomas
Introductions
First of all; welcome to the journey toward becoming the best version of
yourself. If you're reading this, it means you've decided to take control
of your life and make massive changes.
That's a huge step and one that requires courage, commitment, and a
deep desire to learn and improve.
I’M PROUD OF YOU.
Congratulations on taking that first step, and know that you're not alone
on this journey. There are countless other men out there who have
made the same decision and bought Beyond Seduction who are
working towards their goals daily.
In this book, you’ll be given the right tools and guidance to join them in
achieving your full potential, to finally break out of your cage and
embrace your most masculine, seductive self.
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To get the most out of this book, you need to have an open mind, a
willingness to learn, and a deep desire to change.
It won't be easy, and there will be challenges and setbacks along
the way. But if you're ready to put in the work and persevere, you'll
be amazed at what you can achieve.
Secondly, understand that I’m a huge believer in tough love.
I don’t believe in telling you soft lies.
I tell you what society is too afraid to tell you.
I tell you what your parents never told you.
I tell you what school will never teach you.
You need to become angry over the fact that at this moment in time,
you’re far away from being the best version of yourself and you
need to convert that anger into fuel to become better.
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You won’t be able to “unfuck” your life if you ain’t got the
internal motivation to do so.
I am trying to help you, but this course will be of no help if you
refuse or neglect the things I am about to teach you.
"You can only lead a horse to the water, you can't force it to
drink."
In order for this to work you need to actively listen to what I am
telling, and more importantly- follow through with it.
Say to yourself:
“I am done, I want to grow, I want to learn, I want to evolve. I
want to become the best version of myself. My time on this
precious Earth is limited, I want to live my best life. Today is the
first day of the rest of my life.”
THAT’S YOUR NEW REALITY.
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To get the most out of this book you need to have a strong desire
to learn and improve.
This means being open to new ideas, willing to try new things and
committed to putting in the work.
To maximize your progress, follow these steps:
Develop a deep desire to master the principles and techniques
in this book.
Read each chapter twice, once for an overview and once with
complete focus.
While reading, take breaks to reflect on how you can apply the
principles and techniques to your own life.
Practice what you learn at every opportunity, and track your
progress over time.
Reflect on your mistakes and areas for improvement, and use
those lessons to guide your growth.
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Remember, this journey is about more than just reading the
book.
Reading this will only give you the knowledge necessary to
apply it to your own life.
Reading is passive, reading isn't taking action
Actively applying the principles and techniques to your
own life and seeing real progress and change is.
If you're willing to put in the work and take action, I have no
doubts that success is inevitable for you.
Action is the foundational key to all success.
Small steps lead to huge progress.
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Who am I?
Alright, done with the formalities, how are you, brother?
Let me introduce myself, I go under Unlimited Knowledge and it suits the
name of the book quite well because this book isn’t just a quick guide to
get laid. It's so much more, it goes Beyond Seduction, it goes beyond the
superficial level of talking to women.
I'll not only teach you a few lines (like all the scam courses in this niche) ,
but this book will change your entire character to one who's irresistible to
women.
It’s filled with unlimited knowledge.
The reason I’m anonymous is that in the last few years, we have seen
several examples of that the truth can only be spoken without a face.
In modern society, you can’t even disagree with a person who identifies as
a cat, so if I had shown my face I would have been thrown out by society
for saying things like: "Women are just kids, they're kids with tits”
What's my story? Well, I once was the prototypical nice guy. A young
man in neediness and despair, constantly lovesick, wishing, hoping,
vacillating, and clingy.
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If a girl even displayed the slightest of interest in me I was all over her like a
cheap suit.
And ONE girl actually fell in love with the weak man I once was. But
naturally, I was so afraid to lose her, aching for her, and one hundred
percent available for her, all the time, and because of that, of course, she
wanted nothing to do with me- so she cheated on me with my best friend.
Yup.
I went completely off the grid, with one goal in mind: To become THE MAN
no woman would want to leave, EVER.
Long story short, I studied and researched game and female psychology for
years and naturally became very good at it to the point where I’ve now slept
with 137 women over the last 7 years. And yes, yes, I know it's nothing to
brag about because sex without love is just as hollow and meaningless as
love without sex, but it proves one thing: MY METHODS WORK.
The knowledge I’ve learned on my journey is something I feel obliged to
pass on to my fellow men.
Because with no guile and no game- there NO GIRL.
Yes, I know I’m interesting, but let’s focus on YOU.
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The Importance Of Mastering Game
Once and for all, let's settle this.
I know what you might be thinking.
"Game, isn't that just a bunch of manipulative tricks and lies that
guys use to try to get girls to like them?"
NO.
Some guys might look at it that way, but I don't.
I don't look at myself as a pick-up artist.
I once did but I quickly realized that I stopped looking at women as
humans and more like objects.
Everything I teach you comes from a love for women, building
genuine relationships, and not using them as cum banks.
That's why I'm here to tell you that game is so much more than
manipulative tricks to get laid.
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Game is about understanding the dynamics of attraction and learning how to communicate with
women in a genuine, confident way.
It's about being a good listener and showing genuine interest in the other person.
It's building rapport and creating a connection.
There are endless different principles of game, and game have several purposes.
You can ‘game’ people you don’t find attractive, your boss, your friends, your family. Why?
Because game is the art of influencing and persuading others to align with your goals and
desires.
Not necessarily get a girl, that’s simply what it is associated with.
Game is about presenting yourself confidently and compellingly and as a result, being able to
navigate social situations to achieve your desired outcomes.
Q- "Why learn game?"
Well, Darwin talked about the survival of the fittest.
In early times it meant that the strong ones survived, but physical strength doesn’t help you get
ahead of society today.
The whole idea of survival of the fittest is an anachronism.
There’s a new era: Survival of the smoothest.
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Unfortunately, 99% of men struggle with their game because it requires a combination
of practice, knowledge, skill, and most importantly; BALLS.
But as with everything else in life: Every skill can be learned.
With the right resources and guidance, you can master game, and as a result unleash
your innermost seductive, dominant, masculine self.
THAT'S WHERE THIS COURSE COMES IN.
With the right tools and guidance, you will learn how to effectively navigate social
situations, especially with women.
To understand game, you must first understand what you're up against.
Thousand of years ago, power was gained through physical violence and maintained
with strength.
Women had no way to compete, but they realized men’s biggest weakness.
Our desire for sex.
They created “the game”, seduction, and manipulation as a way to control men, to get
a psychological advantage, since they never could get a physical advantage.
Luckily, men can master game and seduction, while women will always be physically
weaker.
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With time men drifted away from physical violence and entered women’s
playing field... words and manipulation.
In modern society, power isn’t gained through physical power but through
words.
That’s why it’s so important to learn game, because if you don’t learn the ways
of game you’ll always lose.
YOU CAN’T JUST FORCE YOUR WAY TO POWER ANYMORE, YOU MUST
TALK YOUR WAY TO POWER.
Humans were meant to seduce, it’s in our nature.
We are the only species who can communicate through words, we just thought
power was claimed and maintained through battle and warfare because we saw
it in the animal kingdom thousands of years ago, mind-blowing - right?
The reason we are the dominant species in the world is because of our ability to
communicate through words.
By using language, we can articulate complex thoughts, express emotions, and
coordinate actions with others.
Our critical thinking can go beyond just instinct, unlike animals.
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Anyway, women are masters at using their words to persuade others, they’re the
master of seduction and game.
Just look at how much power women have over men in the current state of society.
Turning one man after the other into betas by attacking man’s biggest weakness,
our desire for sex.
Beyond Seduction will simply teach you how to beat women...
...at their own game.
Finally, to answer the question I asked at the beginning of this book:
“Game, Isn't that just a bunch of manipulative tricks and lies that guys use to try to
get girls to like them?”
Sure, some of the principles I’ll teach you in this book is manipulation.
But does it matter?
Manipulation has gained such a bad reputation, but you’re ignorant if you can’t see
that you’re getting manipulated every single day.
EVERYTHING IS MANIPULATION.
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Placing snacks closest to the counter at the grocery store, the
commercials popping up while you’re scrolling through social media, by
your friends, by politicians, by women.
Manipulation can be either positive or negative, depending on the
intentions and consequences of the act.
Positive manipulation involves using persuasion or influence to
encourage someone to make a beneficial decision or take positive
action.
Negative manipulation involves using deception or coercion to gain an
unfair advantage or control over someone else.
Placing snacks closest to the cashier is a bad form of manipulation
because it's unhealthy for you.
Heck, I’ve manipulated you into buying this book, but it’s a positive way
of manipulation... because I know it will help you.
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Same with women, there’s nothing wrong with manipulating a woman to
like you, because you know she’ll never experience someone better than
you.
Finally, women manipulate you all the time, as I mentioned earlier- by
DNA they know our weaknesses. They wear make-up, show their curves,
and hits our weak spots.
Get rid of the “Manipulation is bad” mindset.
YOU’RE EITHER PLAYING THE GAME, OR LOSING AT IT- THERE’S
NO IN-BETWEEN.
"This is manipulation, it’s on the edge of morality."
-Said by - Fat people, married ones, and simps with no game
Listen.
Game is warfare.
Women use their tactics. We use ours.
All is fair in love and war.
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The Importance of Becoming a High-Value Man
Women are born with value, their irresistible beauty.
All they have to do during their lifetime is to preserve and maintain it. Men
on the other hand, we are born with nothing, no value at all.
An empty canvas, a blank slate.
But with hard work and determination, we can transform ourselves into a
work of art.
A shining diamond worth a hundred thousand.
But in order to do that we must shape our own destiny.
We must rise from the ashes and reach new heights.
We are masters of our own fate.
Sure, it's hard. But remember, diamonds are only created through
massive pressure.
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You see this all the time.
Hard-working men who worked their entire life to buy a yacht.
That yacht will be filled with women who have done absolutely
nothing, except being beautiful...
Do you see what you're up against?
How do you solve this?
How can you with "no value" participate in this game called
"life"?
You must of course become a man of value.
A high-value man.
Q- "What exactly is a high-value man?"
Beyond Seduction - Introductions: The Importance of Becoming a High-Value Man
Good question.
When I talk about a high-value man, I'm referring to someone who
possesses certain qualities that make them highly desirable and
respected.
Think of a high-value man as someone who ticks off many boxes
in terms of what people look for in a partner or friend.
There are 8 hallmarks of a High-Value Man.
Those are the following:
Confidence:
A high-value man is confident in himself. He knows his worth and
carries himself with self-assurance.
This doesn't mean he's arrogant, but rather he has a healthy belief
in his abilities and value as a person.
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Ambition and Drive:
He's motivated and works hard to achieve his goals. Whether it's in his
career, personal life, or other pursuits, he has a clear vision and a clear
plan of what he wants and is actively working towards it.
Emotional Intelligence:
A high-value man understands his own emotions well and can empathize
with others.
He's a good communicator, able to express himself effectively and handle
conflicts in a mature and respectful manner.
Financial Responsibility:
A high-value man takes responsibility for his financial well-being, by
managing his finances wisely.
High-Value men aren't necessarily rich, but these qualities combined will
often end in massive success and financial freedom.
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Kindness and Respect:
He treats others with respect and kindness, valuing their well-being and
showing empathy toward their perspectives...
..Until proven otherwise.
High-Value men ruthlessly cut people off and annihilate them if the
respect isn't returned or if they're disrespected.
Integrity:
A high-value man acts with honesty and integrity, sticking to his principles
and moral values. You can trust him to do the right thing even when
nobody's watching.
Continuous Self-Improvement:
He's open to learning, self-reflection, and personal growth. He constantly
seeks knowledge and is interested in learning from others.
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Leader Of Men:
High-Value men are the alphas.
The guys able to lead and inspire others.
They're confident in making informed decisions and can
motivate those around them.
They're the ones people seek during tough times.
Ultimately, becoming a high-value man involves a combination
of factors and requires a willingness to put in the effort and take
action toward self-improvement.
In this book, I’ll provide you with all the knowledge, and skills
you need.
All I demand from you is that you take it into practice.
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Finally, there is no such thing as "don't hate the player, hate
the game."
Because there's nothing to hate.
That’s just the way it is.
As Darwin perfectly said: “survival of the fittest.”
Yes, we are all born with different biological prerequisites to
become successful, but if you make yourself a victim you’re
fucked.
Then you have created an illusion of limitation, which is
holding you back from developing, and holding you back from
becoming your true, authentic masculine self.
We are all dealt different hands of cards at birth, but once
you use it as a limitation you’re doomed.
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The Importance Of Becoming a Sensual Virtuoso
Studies have shown that 58% of females aren’t sexually
satisfied.
It has also shown that the average girl only reaches climax and
orgasm 20% of the time.
Those numbers are outrageous and catastrophic.
There are multiple reasons for this:
The majority of men settle with average, repetitive, boring
vanilla sex.
The majority of men lack sufficient knowledge about female
anatomy.
The majority of men simply use the female body as a way to
masturbate.
The majority of men struggle to truly satisfy women and their
needs.
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Trust me, I assure you that the 42% who claimed to be content
merely said so because they are accustomed to AVERAGE or even
BELOW-AVERAGE sex.
Because they view sex as boring, vanilla missionary intercourse, they
are unable to comprehend what it is like to be carried to the pinnacles
of ecstasy by their man.
Every woman has seen and heard how it feels to be taken to the
heights of ecstasy by a man, word travels fast in "Ladyland", but very
few have experienced it.
In the beginning, they might question themselves, but after a while
with mediocre sex, they will start to blame their man and his
incapability.
This leads to infidelity.
The #1 Reason for divorces and break-ups is the infidelity of
women.
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Yes, you guessed it.
Female infidelity is driven by male sexual incompetence - most men
don’t know how to truly satisfy a woman - leading to bad sex,
cheating, pain, and destruction.
Good sex is the foundation of a relationship, without it would fall
apart. Just like a house, without a foundation, it would fall apart as
soon as it saw a gust of wind.
And trust me on this, just because she doesn't complain, doesn't
mean she's satisfied.
The stats don't lie, most women aren't sexually satisfied. If she isn't
cumming 2-3 times and screaming your name each time you're
having sex, then she's NOT SATISFIED.
That's why it's so important to step up your bedroom game,
because who can have all the game in the world and be the perfect
seducer- but if she's not sexually satisfied she'll leave for a more
capable man.
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What You Have In Store
Beyond Seduction is the change every man looks for.
It’s jam-packed with all my secrets and tricks to seduce beautiful
women. Instead of having trouble getting women, your problem
will be to keep them at arm’s length.
Q- "Why Is It Called Beyond Seduction?"
Well, this isn't JUST a dating blueprint, no..
It's so much more, it goes Beyond Seduction.
This book will go beyond the surface level of seduction and explores
deeper aspects of relationships, connection, and personal growth.
While the core principle of my teachings revolves around enhancing
your attractiveness to women, it's important to note that the majority
of the concepts I'll discuss have broader applications in your
personal growth and success across various areas of life.
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This book will be separated into two/three parts,
depending on which version you bought.
You see, a man has two primary drives.
One towards love, sex, and companionship and one
towards power, success, and accomplishment.
Part 1 (The Attraction Playbook) will take you on a self-
improve journey, to become a high-value man and to
create a lifestyle that screams:
“Ladies, abandon your boring, mundane, unfulfilled lives
and step into my exciting world, full of interesting people,
new experiences, good times, easy living and dreams
fulfilled.”
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In the first part, I’ll teach you aspects that will not only
help you improve your game and ability with women, but
also skills that will enhance your career and personal life,
such as communication skills, social skills, body
language, personality, and appearance.
Part 1 (The Attraction Playbook) will teach you
attraction:
“Working on yourself and improving yourself to the point
where women are magnetically attracted to you and want
to be around you.”
Why chase, when you can attract?
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Part 2 (The Seduction Playbook) will take you down the rabbit
hole and teach you the ways of game, and how to seduce top-
tier women.
It will turn you into the man every woman wants, not what she
says she wants, but what she really wants, deep inside,
beyond her social programming, where her fantasies and
daydreams lie.
Part 2 (The Seduction Playbook) will teach you seduction:
“to lead astray, to make someone do what you want them to
do, to make someone act in a certain way which they would not
do otherwise, almost like casting a spell.”
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Part 3 (The Sex Playbook) (If bought) will turn you into your most sexual self, the
kind women can't resist.
You'll be able to make women experience new realms of pleasure.
And after she has experienced one night with you every guy after will be nothing but
an absolutely, totally, utterly disappointment.
Part 3 (The Sex Playbook) will teach you lovemaking:
"unveiling the depths of desire and vulnerability within her soul."
I hope you’re as excited as I am.
Your life is about to change.
Let’s get into it.
Note- Take any of the points, techniques, or wisdom provided to you in this book for
granted, and you’ll become an “incomplete” seducer.
The principles are built upon each other, creating a formula for success.
Look at it as a mathematical equation; if one of the values is missing, the formula
won't work.
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PART 1:
THE ATTRACTION PLAYBOOK
HIGH-VALUE BEHAVIOR & ATTRACTION
“Working on yourself and improving
yourself to the point where women are
magnetically attracted to you and want to
be around you.”
CHAPTER 2
CRAFTING YOUR
IRRESISTIBLE AURA:
STYLE, PERSONALITY AND PHYSIQUE
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All rights reserved.
Cannot be reproduced in any manner, except for
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None of the content in this book should be
considered professional advice.
“There are no ugly men, just lazy ones.”
- Unlimited Knowledge
Crafting Your Irresistible Aura
It's not enough to just be yourself.
You must be your best self.
Being yourself doesn’t attract women... being your most attractive
self does.
If you want to improve your odds of meeting women and become a man
of value you’ll have to make some changes to yourself.
Your appearance is the crucial foundation of your personal brand and
will profoundly shape the way others perceive you.
Hence, the first and most important step towards becoming a high-value
man.
Regardless of your location - be it work, public, or online - the manner in
which you showcase yourself will determine your triumph and the
prospects that come your way.
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It's impossible for an ugly woman to become beautiful naturally. Hair,
lips, and breast can all be purchased, but that's not beauty, that's
renovations.
Men are lucky. We can have our little flaws and still be attractive
because we are warriors.
By making a few changes to your appearance, it is easily possible to
significantly improve your attractiveness and appeal, going from a 3-6
with ease.
Do some slight improvements to your personality as well and you’ll
go from a 6-8.
Lift some weight and you'll become a 9.
Hence my introduction quote:
“There are no ugly men, just lazy ones.”
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Visualize for a moment that you had no prior knowledge of Mark Zuckerberg's
identity.
Imagine him standing next to a random, muscular guy, who is dressed in well-
fitting chinos, a well-fitting shirt, a sleek haircut, and a nice, shiny watch.
(Google Mark Zuckerberg for a better mental image.)
Now, based purely on your initial impression, who would you perceive as a more
high-value individual?
Exactly, the well-dressed, jacked guy.
Value is an illusion.
People see you the way you present yourself.
The moment people lay eyes on you, they put you into a mental category, and
once you’re categorized it’s extremely hard to be seen another way, hence;
There’s nothing more critical than making a positive first impression - be it in
dating, business, or any other aspect of life.
Your first impression sets the tone for all future interactions and will be the
deciding factor in securing success or missing out on opportunities.
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You must present yourself in a manner that commands
respect and exudes confidence.
You must present yourself in a manner that reflects
your goals and values.
Women and potential business partners won’t take you
seriously until you appear as a high-value, classy,
mature man. That’s just factual.
Some of you may find it harsh, but facts don’t care
about your feelings - unfortunately.
Alright, we have narrowed it down; You need to create
a masculine, classy, mature appearance.
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Q- “But UK? What’s a classy, masculine, mature
persona?”
Great question.
Your persona can be divided into three parts:
Style, physique, and personality.
In the initial three chapters of this book, I will delve into
these three crucial topics, beginning with "your style."
While these sections may not be the most thrilling parts of
the book, it is arguably the most significant parts of the
book.
If one of the values is missing, the formula won't work,
remember?
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So What's Your ‘Style’?
Your style is your overall appearance;
Grooming, cologne, accessory, and wardrobe choices.
All these factors make up the foundation of your personal
brand.
As I talked about earlier it's the first thing people notice about
you, and it shapes their initial perception of you.
As a result, understanding and honing your personal style is
paramount to crafting a lasting, positive first impression that
will open doors to countless opportunities.
Unfortunately, most men don't take it seriously.
Beyond Seduction - Crafting Your Irresistible Aura: Style
Grooming: When it comes to your beard, it's best to keep it
trimmed to a medium length, around the 7-day growth phase.
If you are unable to grow a full beard, then keep your face
clean-shaven or use a beard pencil to fill in the blanks.
Nobody finds a patchy half-grown beard attractive.
Avoid growing your beard too long, as it may get in her mouth
during kiss closing.
When it comes to pubic hair, keep it trimmed short or clean-
shaven.
Your balls should be clean-shaven. Same with your back,
shave it, get rid of it. It’s a massive turn-off.
Chest hair is fine.
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Finding the right hairstyle can be more challenging, as everyone has
different face shapes, hairlines, and hair textures.
It's important to invest in your appearance, therefore find a skilled,
trustworthy barber who can help you identify a hairstyle that suits
you.
Invest in your appearance.
If you're having trouble finding a barber you like, there are also tons
of apps and websites that can help you find a suitable hairstyle.
It’s also important to keep your hair healthy;
Only shampoo it 2-3 times a week, pat dry instead of rubbing -
patting dry your hair is a gentler method than rubbing vigorously, and
it helps prevent damage to your hair.
When you rub your hair with a towel, you create friction, which
causes the hair cuticles to become rough and lead to breakage and
split ends.
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And if you’re starting to recede begin on finasteride, or
other hair loss treatments immediately.
Go to a doctor or skin specialist, especially if male pattern
baldness is in the family.
Finally, steer clear of crazy hairstyles and hair colors like
man buns, mohawks, crazy blond, and the like.
A great reference for a sophisticated and refined hairstyle
that suits almost anyone is Michele Morrone's hairdo.
I myself am currently rocking a similar hairstyle.
(Google for a reference, I can't add a picture due to
copyright.)
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Cologne and Deodorant: When choosing a cologne, it's
important to find one that has a masculine scent that you
personally like.
You need to feel confident when you wear it.
Avoid the mainstream brand like Calvin Klein and Ralph Lauren
as everybody is using them, you want to stand out.
Bring a female friend or ask a female employee for help, you need
to consider the preferences of others, especially females.
Spray once on your shirt, once on your neck, and once on your
wrist, and rub them together.
Way too many guys overdo it, so the entire room smells like a
perfumery as soon as he walks in, you don't want that.
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Just take a moment and imagine that you’re going into
the bathroom after a girl took a massive dump.
There’s no way in a million years that you’re going to
find her attractive, that's just how it works.
It works the same with your smell, if you smell bad she's
never going to find you attractive, no matter how good
your game is.
Your scent is actually extremely seductive if you get it
right.
You want to come off as a sexy, mature, well-organized
man.
Not a sweaty, basement dweller of a gaming rat, with
fabricated cheese power under your fingernails.
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Hygiene: The importance of good hygiene cannot be
overstated.
You must prioritize good hygiene by showering daily (that
includes scrubbing your balls, penis, and ass crack).
Same here, choose a soap that has a masculine scent
that you personally feel confident while wearing.
If you have acne or problematic skin, start implementing a
skincare routine to help improve your skin's appearance.
Additionally, everyone should prioritize following a lip
routine by using lip balm or chapstick to keep them
moisturized in order to prevent chapping.
(No, it's not gay)
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Trust me, women don’t get turned on by your chapped lips.
Brush your teeth at least twice a day and do it before meeting
girls, going out, etc.
Also, buy a tongue scraper or use a spoon and scrap your
tongue as 90% of the bad smell comes from your tongue.
Your fingernails should also be cut short and filed to avoid
cutting the inside of her vagina, and to gain a more masculine
appearance.
Women find guys who bite or let their fingernails grow
extremely unattractive.
Women pay extreme notice to a man's hands for some reason.
Also, remove the dust and dirt under your toenails, trim them
short, and scrub between your toes when you shower.
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Clothing: Clothing with neutral colors without logos is a must-have
as it’s easy to mix and match.
Colors like black, navy blue, white, brown, and gray.
They also give off the classy, mature, masculine vibe you’re looking
for.
This will give your wardrobe the basics so you can easily add some
flashy pieces to stand out; Mixed colored shirts, textured jackets,
etc.
What you're going for is the old-money vibe.
Avoid expensive brands like LV, Gucci, and the like.
Why?
Because it means you're either middle-class and trying to appear
rich (unattractive) or that you are rich, but are so insecure that you
need to show off. (unattractive)
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I'm not going to strip you of your identity, because a lot of
people have spent years figuring out a style that suits them,
and your style is a big part of your personal brand.
But if you're an average guy who hasn't spent too much
attention to what he's wearing then your wardrobe should at
least have:
1 pair of navy blue chinos, 1 pair of beige chinos, 1 pair of
jeans, 1 pair of black trousers, 3 pairs of slacks/suit pants;
black, navy blue, grey, 1 pair of beige linen trousers, 3 white
t-shirts, 3 black t-shirts, 3 navy blue t-shirts, 1 white shirt, 1
white linen shirt with short sleeves, 1 black shirt, 1 navy blue
shirt, 3 polos in neutral colors, 1 suit jacket (matching one of
your slacks - one complete suit), 1 neutral jacket, 2 belts
(brown and black), 1 pair of white sneakers, 2 pair of Oxfords
(blown and black - to match your belts), 2 sweatshirts in
neutral colors, 1 hoodie.
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Fitting clothes is essential for creating a polished and put-
together appearance.
Avoid clothing that is too big or too small, opt for pieces that
fit your body well.
To add a touch of sophistication to your outfit, wear a watch
and belt in matching colors.
When it comes to watches invest in a respected piece:
doesn’t have to be expensive, an Orient, Seiko, or Hamilton
will do fine.
These items don't have to be expensive, as long as they add a
neat and presentable touch to your outfit.
Avoid wearing smartwatches or sports watches when going to
clubs or social events.
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To create the appearance of a more muscular physique, you can
layer up. Sweatshirt, flannel shirt, and jacket.
To stand out from the simps who are dying to get her attention you
can add jewelry, rings, and bracelets to the mix, but don’t overdo
it, then you'll come off as feminine.
Wearing opposites, such as a white t-shirt with a black jacket, is
also a stylish way to add interest to your outfit.
Remember that there are only two ways to stand out: in a positive
or negative way.
When it comes to style the key is to stand out in a positive way, as
that is what women will care about and be attracted to.
Negative attention (bad hygiene/bad choice of clothing) is simply
noise in the background, and nobody wants to be around noise;
It’s annoying and disruptive.
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If you are not checking off all standards that have been
outlined, you must take action and make changes to them
now.
Don't let procrastination hold you back from achieving your
goals.
Procrastinate your procrastination.
Procrastination can wait until tomorrow.
Show yourself that you are committed to learning and
growing and that you are ready to embrace a new way of
life.
I can only provide guidance and direction, but it's up to
you to take the steps needed to walk the path toward
success.
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You kept on reading, didn’t you?
Dork.
I mean it brother.
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Leave Your Cage
Alright, on to personality.
What most of you are struggling with is being way too serious and
unexpressive.
Especially around women.
As I’ll talk about later in this book, you should be detached and non-needy
when talking to women, but not unexpressive.
Next time you’re at a club or a bar take a moment and notice how some guys
are trying to attract women by being cool, tough, hard, and unexpressive.
Leaning against the wall by themselves hoping that women will come flooding
their way.
They won’t.
WOMEN JUST WANT TO HAVE FUN.
Being unexpressive and serious only work in Hollywood movies. Flirt, tease,
banter, and flirt some more.
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Women are irresistibly drawn to fun guys.
Women flirt with fun guys.
Women date fun guys.
Women sleep with fun guys.
Most guys in 2023 have forgotten how to have fun.
They’ve ‘unlearned’ fun.
Every interaction with women should be infused with fun.
Because if it isn't fun.. then what's the point?
EVERYBODY WANTS TO HAVE FUN.
When talking to women everything you say, everything you do must come
from a place of being cocky-funny.
Well, why I'm I saying this now?
BECAUSE IN ORDER TO DO THAT YOU NEED TO BE CONFIDENT
AND OUTGOING.
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Q- “Ohh, but @unlimitedknowlegde I am an introvert, there is
nothing I can do about it.”
Shut up.
Bullshit.
Listen, man.
Being an introvert can often feel like you have a weight or
burden around your neck, holding you back from fully expressing
yourself.
It's like being a bird in a cage, unable to spread its wings and fly.
However, unlike the bird, an introvert has the potential to break
free from these constraints and fully embrace their own unique
personality and strengths.
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It's time to break free from the constraints that hold you back.
Being an introvert is an obstacle, you are holding yourself back, giving the
‘extroverts’ an advantage.
You need to stop using your introversion as an excuse to justify your inaction.
BECAUSE THAT’S WHAT IT IS.
Your “introversion” isn’t the reason why you’re bad at dating, why you can’t make
new friends or why you can’t start a business.
Those are all lousy excuses to justify your inaction.
Stop using it as an excuse and start doing what's necessary to excel.
This means exposing yourself to uncomfortable situations and learning to be
comfortable with discomfort.
By facing these challenges and continuing to push yourself, you will learn to embrace
your true, authentic self and overcome any barriers that may be holding you back.
Don't let your introversion hold you back from achieving your full potential.
It's time to spread your wings and fly.
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It's time to break free from all the crap that's been holding you back.
Being an introvert doesn't have to be a burden. It's time to embrace your true self
and all your quirks and stop using your introversion as an excuse for inaction.
You must be comfortable in your own skin, and most importantly stop taking life
so fucking seriously.
We're all just tiny specks on a small planet surrounded by infinity, in the
grand scheme of things you’re a fucking nobody.
Don't be afraid to be yourself and try new things.
It's not fucking rocket science, just go out and talk to people.
Introduce yourself, ask them questions, and show genuine interest in their stories.
Trust me, people love talking about themselves and if you show interest in them,
they'll be interested in you too.
And don't stress about making mistakes or looking silly.
We all screw up every now and then, but nobody cares.
That's human.
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People have become so fucking egocentric, they care more
about having a bad hair than all the wars and poverty going
on in the world.
They're all just fragile machines programmed with a false
sense of their own importance.
Once you realize that you won't care anymore.
Let go of that rope, embrace your true self, and start living life
to the fullest.
You deserve it.
Every time you have the opportunity to put yourself in an
unfamiliar or uncomfortable situation, take it.
Stay in the situation for as long as you can handle it. This will
with no doubt help you become more confident and resilient.
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Some Examples Are:
Cliff jumping
Make eye contact with people, don’t break it until they do.
Call instead of texting
Meet new people
Dance wild on the dance floor
Travel to a new country
Send a risky text
Go to the gym
Take a cold shower
Ask a homeless man for a quarter
Call a random number in the phone book and ask for movie
recommendations.
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I once talked to a guy who didn’t shower or shave for weeks until he
smell like a sewer, then walked down the streets in a flower dress
with a dildo strapped to his forehead.
He never feared public humiliation ever again.
Frankly, I don't think he feared anyone or anything again.
(Except for a lawsuit)
I don’t think getting rejected seems so bad anymore.
If you want to be successful in social situations and with women,
you need to be able to approach and talk to people without
hesitation or fear.
Let me rephrase:
You need to be able to approach and talk to people without showing
hesitation or fear.
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Remember that the person you are talking to is just another
human being, no different from you in the grand scheme of
things.
There is no such thing as fear;
Emotions are just energy and motion that you have trapped
inside your head because of a thought.
My #1 tip for shy people is to focus on the other person and
ask them questions about themselves.
People love talking about themselves and sharing their
stories.
Showing interest in them will make them feel more
comfortable and open to interacting with you.
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Remember that we are naturally attracted to people who seem
friendly and interested in us.
You need to rewire and reprogram your brain. Say to yourself: “My
time here is limited, my fear is fucking stupid, let me use my time
here wisely and get to know many people as possible.”
It's normal to feel shy or introverted at times, but you need to
understand that we all have both introverted and extroverted
tendencies. It’s not black and white. There is so much to our
personality, you can’t just label yourself as an introvert or extrovert.
Instead of labeling yourself as one or the other, embrace your
extroverted side and make an effort to connect with others.
That's is all that is required; Effort and most importantly: Belief
Remember the last time you felt “extroverted” and try to remember
why you felt that way. Trust me, you’ll feel more alive and fulfilled.
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To Summarize:
1) Practice Socializing: Like everything else, the more you do it. The
easier it gets.
The more you practice socializing, the more comfortable you will become
with it.
Just imagine pushing a car. It’s hard to start, but once you get rollin it
becomes easier.
The same applies to life:
“You don’t need to be great to start, but you need to start to be great”
Start by joining social activities that align with your interests, and try to
actively participate in conversations and interact with others, especially the
women there, but don’t try to game them yet, just befriend them.
One step at a time.
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2) Push Yourself Outside Your Comfort Zone:
Take small risks and step out of your comfort zone. The
comfort zone is where dreams come to die.
This involves introducing yourself to new people, speaking up
in a group setting, going to the gym, or trying something new
that involves social interaction.
Everything you desire is outside your comfort zone -
otherwise, you would already have it.
3) Focus On The Other Person: Instead of worrying about
what you will say or do, try to focus on the other person and
show genuine interest in them.
This will help you feel more at ease and allow the organic
conversation to flow more naturally.
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Doing the things I mentioned above will simply let you
connect/reconnect with your extroverted side.
You will feel much more alive and accomplished.
Life will feel a lot more fulfilling once you leave your cage.
As to any other issue, quick fixes don’t exist.
In order to make lasting changes and improve your situation, you
need to be willing to put in the effort and endure some challenges.
Difficult times can be difficult, but they will make you stronger and
more resilient.
You'll emerge stronger and more steadfast than ever before.
It is in these trying moments that you'll uncover the true depths of
your character and discover the unwavering strength that lies within
you.
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True growth happens by overcoming obstacles and challenges.
Hard times do in fact create strong men.
As I’ve mentioned before, we are just organisms on a planet
surrounded by infinity.
It doesn’t matter if you make a fool out of yourself every now and
then.
Try to remember the last time you saw someone make a fool out of
themselves. See?
You don’t fucking remember.
Because you don't care, just like the rest.
You could literally piss in the streets and people wouldn’t remember
you, they would just remember a guy who pissed in the streets.
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We’re living in a cold fucking world, put your feelings in your pocket
and realize that nobody gives a fuck about you and use it to your
advantage.
Life isn't meant to be lived in the same place, hanging with the
same people, and going to the same bar.
Since the dawn of time humans have been social and adventurous
creatures, and we still are.
Some people have simply just become too comfortable being
comfortable.
Today is a new day and an opportunity to start making positive
changes in your life.
Embrace it brother and take the first step towards a more fulfilling and
exciting future.
Today is the first day of the rest of your life.
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Unleash Your Confident Self
"Confidence is not walking into a room thinking you are better than
everyone; it's walking in, not having to compare yourself to anyone at
all."
There’s no magical pill you can swallow to instantly become
confident, and no magical words you can tell yourself- unfortunately.
Yes, positive internal self-talk can to some degree shape your
external reality but it’s not enough to create unshakable confidence.
The only way to become confident is to have an undeniable
stack of proof that you are who you say you are.
Following along?
Q- How Do I Create My Undeniable Stack Of Proof?
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You cannot be truly confident if you don’t like yourself,
and you cannot truly like yourself if you’re not proud of
yourself.
Read that sentence again.
What it essentially means is that you need to become
proud of yourself.
How?
Accomplishments.
Most guys in 2023 are overweight, drag themselves to
their 9-5 (which they hate), order some nasty fast food to
dinner, jerks off, don’t give af about how they look, smell,
and look like sewers, identify as non-binary, genderfluid
dragonkins, and have settled for an average/below
average life.
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No wonder why they aren't confident.
We live in the most comfortable time of human civilization and people are
more insecure and depressed than ever.
Those really attentive noticed that I answered my question within that
sentence.
People have become too comfortable.
Let me ask you this: Do you think our ancient ancestors were depressed
and insecure?
FUCK NO.
They were busy hunting, providing, and surviving.
Good times create weak men.
Weal men create hard times.
Hard times create strong men.
Strong men create good times.
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I truly believe that unhappy and insecure men aren’t building
something.
I believe builders thrive.
Building a physique
Building a family
Building a business
Building a social circle
Whatever. As men, we need something bigger to tie this
‘meaningless’ life too.
Without it, we are like fish, swimming meaninglessly around in
our meaningless bowl.
Getting more depressed by the day.
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In order to become confident, in order to achieve accomplishments- YOU NEED TO
BUILD SOMETHING.
Many guys focus on their self-improvement journey and that’s a good place to start.
But where does it truly all start?
Your habits.
A Fulfilling Life Is Found Within Your Daily Habits
“You will never change your life until you change something you do daily. The secret
to your success is found in your daily routine.”
- John Maxwell
So what have we figured out? Correct, the best way to gain confidence is to constantly
grow and focus on becoming a better man than you were yesterday.
The answer? Habits.
Habits WILL change your life.
The biggest difference between those who are dissatisfied with themselves, and those
who are satisfied, lies in the habits they have acquired.
Read that again.
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Good habits and the discipline to follow them are the keys to
building an unshakable level of confidence, while bad/no
habits open doors to not feeling good.
Habits are simply a plan.
Think about it;
If we didn't have our habits, we would have to make up our
minds on every decision during the day, and this would lead to
complete chaos.
We are depending on our habits.
Good habits are those which have positive physical,
emotional, or psychological consequences.
Bad habits are those actions you repeat that have negative
consequences.
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We all have good and bad habits.
The clue here, the missing piece to the puzzle is to add to the
good ones and get rid of your bad ones.
The problem is that good habits demand commitment and
discipline, while bad ones are often an “easy route”.
What I like to refer to as a chase for cheap dopamine.
IMPORTANT:
Before we can proceed any further you need to make a list of all
your good habits and your bad habits.
Imagine a week during your life, where you go through all your
daily tasks.
Then write down everything you’re proud off, and everything you
think you would be better without.
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If you refuse to write this list then turn off your whatever device
you're reading this on, there’s no point to continue- you’ve
wasted your money.
Why?
Because everything in this book is based on being confident and
having an indestructible frame.
Everything about game, attraction, seduction-
it won’t work if you’re not confident in your ability to seduce
women.
The mathematical equation, remember?
Now, turn off your device, grab a piece of paper, and write.
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I'm waiting.
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Still waiting...
This will help you brother.
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Jordan Peterson once said:
“If you want to know something about yourself, sit on your bed one
night and say, what's one thing I'm doing wrong, that I know I'm
doing wrong?
That I could fix. That I would fix.
You meditate on that, and you'll get an answer. It won't be the one
you want. But it'll be necessary.”
- Dr. Jordan Peterson
Sure, this sounds scary, but what we fear doing the most is
usually what we need to do the most.
You need to ask yourself what you fear the most.
Change or Mediocrity?
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I’ll give you some inspiration.
Bad Habits:
Smoking, porn, junk food, meaningless social media scrolling,
watching movies or series, sleeping after school or work, being anti-
social, staying inside, unnecessary resting, sleeping in, going to bed
late, procrastination, partying every weekend, taking drugs, blaming
instead of taking responsibility, being overly emotional, negative
self-talk, self-criticism, gaming.
Good Habits:
Socializing, working on a side hustle, working out, nofap, cold
showers, eating clean, reading (self-improvement books, like you’re
doing right now- good job), following a sleep schedule, following
good personal hygiene, picking up women, dating women, sleeping
with women, laying plans ahead of time, limiting screen time unless
it’s work-related, regularly stepping outside your comfort zone,
constantly seeking to learn new skills, saving instead of spending
money, investing, practicing gratitude, learning game.
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Alright, once you have figured out all your bad habits I’m not
going to ask you to just quit them.
No, what I want you to do is pick one of the good habits from
my example list or a habit you want to implement and change
whatever bad habit you have with one of those.
Examples:
Taking drugs with the 'boys' until 2 AM < Working on your
business idea until midnight
Meaningless scrolling on TikTok < Reading
Jerking off < Cold showers
Sleeping in < Working out
Spending money < Investing money
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You can choose any habit.
What's important is to pick a specific positive habit to turn to
when the temptation to engage in a negative one arises,
so it becomes a straight swap.
Write down the list.
Developing discipline requires a great deal of effort and
commitment.
It may seem impossible at first, but with time and practice,
anyone can develop self-discipline.
It's nothing but a mental switch that involves making
conscious choices to resist temptation and stay focused on
your goals.
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Discipline is NOT just about forcing yourself to do something
you don't want to do;
It's about developing a mindset that enables you to make better
choices and follow through on them consistently.
This mental switch requires a lot of hard work and
perseverance, but the rewards are well worth it.
You have the ability to take control of your life and make
positive changes that will help you reach your full potential.
But none of this matters if you ain’t have an inner deep drive to
do so.
You won’t be able to “unfuck” your life if you ain’t got internal
motivation to do so, you need to find your reasons.
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What Do You Want Out Of Your Life?
Do you want to become a millionaire?
Do you want total freedom- financial, time, and location freedom?
Do you want to become a better man for your family and friends?
Do you want to retire your parents?
Do you want to sleep with countless supermodels?
Do you want to find one beautiful, feminine woman and settle down
with her?
You need to find your ‘why’ - your unwavering motivation to continue
when difficult times arise.
Without it you’re just back in the fish bowl, swimming meaningless
towards... nothing.
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The key to success is to focus your conscious mind on
things you desire, not things you fear.
A lot of young men in 2023 just want to ‘escape the matrix’ and
get filthy rich.
Is that what you truly desire?
Find your own WHY statement.
Your own firm rock of motivation standing strong however
strong the storm gets, write it down, and constantly work
toward it.
If your goal is to become filthy rich, don't just start a drop
shipping website because everybody says to do so.
Find your own desires, because if 100 rats are trying to get
through a tiny rat hole only a few will get through.
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Q- "But UK, I don't know what to do with my life"
Listen, brother, very few people do.
It's fascinating how much we've become obsessed with fitting in, by
presenting ourselves in a certain way.
That's why nobody knows what to do because nobody is
THEMSELVES anymore.
We've become captives of superficiality, willingly surrendering our
authenticity to conform to societal expectations. It's as if we've
forgotten the beauty of embracing our true selves.
We're drowning in a sea of filters, polished images, and hollow
validation. We measure our worth by the number of likes, followers,
and comments we receive. But what about the substance behind those
digital façades?
Success in my eyes is doing what YOU find interesting for a living and
preferable and making money at it as well.
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Don’t just start a drop-shipping website just because everyone says it’s an easy
way to make money because it will drain you out.
You’ll have zero motivation and discipline will only take you so far.
And don't tell me: "Making money is my passion."
No, making money isn't the journey, making money is the end result.
Do you think I would've put in so many hours in writing this book if this wasn't a
passion of mine? Helping men become better with women? Helping men improve
their lives?
No.
Anyway, if you are trying to fit in and be someone you’re not- how the hell are
you going to find out what your authentic passion is?
READ THAT AGAIN.
The world needs your authenticity, and your unique contributions, not another
manufactured image. Live life, do what makes you- your authentic self, the
person behind the sea of social masks, filters, and social programming happy,
then turn that hobby into a business.
That’s the only way to achieve happiness and success in this fucked up society.
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Besides this I can’t help you, discipline isn't something that can be taught;
It's something that must be cultivated and practiced over time.
It’s a mental switch.
A war against temptation.
Me and several others have won the war but in order to win you need to
stop justifying your inaction and start to take full responsibility for your
own life.
The world isn't a magical realm where someone will magically show up
and save you.
It's you, and you alone.
You are the protagonist of your own story, the captain of your destiny,
and the master of your fate.
Life is an adventure, and it's up to you to make the most of it.
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I get asked all the time: “UK, I always break my no fap, how can I
overcome the temptation?”
And that’s exactly what I mean;
You’re not taking full responsibility for your life, you’re waiting for
someone to come save you.
There are no magical words I can say that will prevent your hand
from ‘magically’ getting drawn to your dick.
It’s only you vs your mind.
You’re just being a totally weak bitch, sorry man- but facts don’t
care about your feelings.
You’ve probably heard this quote a thousand times: “Nobody is
coming to save you” and it’s so true.
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That’s essentially what it is to be a true man;
to be able to resist temptation and accomplish what most don’t.
"A true man demonstrates integrity and self-discipline, making
conscious choices aligned with his values and long-term goals.
He understands that short-term pleasures or momentary distractions
can hinder progress and deter him from achieving what truly matters.
Instead of succumbing to the allure of instant gratification, he stays
focused on his mission, knowing that the journey to greatness requires
dedication, sacrifice, and perseverance."
That’s the only way to separate yourself from the 99%.
The 1%’s job is to do the impossible and succeed.
The 99%’s job is to hope and believe that the 1% fail.
The power to change your habits and achieve your goals ultimately lies
within you.
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Life isn’t unfair or extremely hard, in fact, it’s pretty easy once you
realize this:
The only thing holding you back from reaching what you want to
become is the self-imposed bad habits you have required.
That sentence may be the most important sentence of this whole
book.. heck, the most important sentence in your life.
And take my word on this:
ZERO changes will occur in your life until you’ve really grasped the
meaning of that sentence.
The biggest and only obstacles standing between you and your
desired achievements are the self-imposed bad habits you've
developed over time.
These habits will hinder your progress, drain your motivation, and
prevent you from realizing your full potential.
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I take immense pride in the work of writing that sentence, but unfortunately
cannot put my name on it since I still remain anonymous.
However, I think it’s so superb that maybe someday I’ll claim it as my own
and go down in history books.
Think about it and try to convince me that I’m wrong.
YOU CAN’T. You just had an epiphany, didn’t you?
Finally, I just want to say that the human brain is wired to always want
more, and that's a good thing.
But it tricks you into believing that you haven’t come as far as you really
have. Sometimes you just need to take a step back and appreciate how far
you’ve come.
Be proud, never satisfied.
And I’m not telling you to get rid of your bad habits all at once, break your
goal into smaller goals, one bad habit at a time- it’s a marathon, not a
sprint.
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If you’re focusing on it all at once you’ll get paralyzed;
Ending up doing nothing at all.
So the big question arises: “UK, why does all of this
increase my confidence?”
Well, what actually is insecurity?
Insecurity is essentially the fear of not measuring up, the
belief that everyone else is better than you, and worrying
about what others think of you.
But what if you're achieving what they deem impossible?
Suddenly, you surpass them, you have more value than
them- they become insignificant.
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Lions don't concern themselves with the opinions of sheep.
You can walk into any room and think:
"HA, Lol, what a bunch of totally, utterly losers."
Think about it:
Most girls and guys have a daily routine of waking up, taking a
dump, going to school or work, returning home, texting, watching
Netflix- repeat.
However, this lacks value.
There’s no value in that.
You on the other hand are proud of the work you put in every single
fucking day and are on an unyielding path toward success.
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"Every step you take toward your goals is a testament to
your strength and unwavering spirit.
You’re driven, dedicated, and believe in yourself, you are
destined to achieve greatness.
You’re pressing forward during hard times, and will
undoubtedly reach your destination.
With your unbreakable will and steadfast courage, you are
destined to reach the summit of your dreams.
And always remember- diamonds are only created through
massive pressure."
-Unlimited Knowledge
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If you’re proud of the work you put in every single day it’s
impossible to be insecure.
Upon concluding this chapter, you ought to possess a sheet of
paper containing the following:
All your bad habits
A compilation of positive habits to adopt immediately when
faced with the temptation to engage in a negative one.
Your 'WHY' statement - the driving force behind your actions
and the ultimate objective you strive for in life.
Snap a photo of it, set it as your lock screen, hang it above
your bed.
Do whatever it takes to ensure you read it daily.
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Alter Ego
Finally, you NEED to create some alter egos.
Every man plays different characters in different areas of life, some of
you do it without even realizing it.
If you're meeting a girl's parents you're not the same person as when
you're hanging out with the boys.
SAME YOU, DIFFERENT CHARACTERS.
Alter ego is Latin for "other I" and these can be built.
You should create alter egos because you can't afford to be a single
dimension person.
You cannot box yourself in to: "I am like this, I am not like this"
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Then you give yourself an unnecessary disadvantage.
You must have broad principles, flexible rules, and different layers to
your personality, not only will it help you on a personal level, but
women find it extremely attractive, almost irresistible; a man with
layers to his character.
Building an alter ego is probably the most important element of
changing your life.
If you create a new self, there won't be any past memories holding
your 'alter ego' back.
The purpose of creating an alter ego can vary depending on your
current situation, you'll need to take a problem and create an
alter ego who's more capable of overcoming it:
Stepping into a new industry, getting over a breakup, carving a new
personality, becoming a masculine and polarizing man, etc.
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First, you need to name your alter ego, and figure out what type of man
he is, build his values and character traits:
What does he do that you can't?
Where does he go?
What does he wear?
What thoughts keep looping around in his head?
What words does he use?
How does he speak?
This is easier if you select a role model, either a fictional figure or
someone you admire, even me.
My first alter ego was Tyler Durden. He was a good one for me since I
was once a sensitive and withdrawn man and Tyler Durden is the
complete opposite.
He's carefree and uninhibited.
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You need to find some that work for you and your needs.
Good ones- Hank Moody (Womanizer), James Bond (Stoic and Masculine),
Micheal Corleone (Composed and Dominating), Ari Gold, Harvey Spectre,
etc.
Then you need to find a trigger, something that makes your alter ego come
out, a switch.
A trigger song that gets you into your alter ego state.
Doesn't have to be a song, can be something you wear that switches your
alter ego on and off.
Personally, I have a Vintage Omega Seamaster Automatic Gold Plated
Silver Dial (fucking sexy) which I inherited from my grandfather, when I take
it on I become the alter ego I crafted out of his personality, he was the most
masculine man I've ever met. A WW2 war hero, fucking badass.
If you want to learn more about alter egos (YOU SHOULD) then read:
The Alter Ego Effect by Todd Herman
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Jacked 101
“Without commitment, you cannot have depth in anything,
whether it’s a relationship, a business, a hobby, or the gym.”
Finally, on to your physique.
Firstly, I'm not a personal trainer, I am just here to ignite a fire
inside you.
To get your ass to the gym.
I've been going to the gym for 7 years now and it has completely
changed my life.
Going to the gym doesn't only make you focus more on your
health, what you eat, and makes you stronger and more
attractive, but it teaches you a valuable life lesson:
Small steps lead to huge progress.
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Why You Should Become Jacked
Every man’s dream is to build a physique they can be proud of, and in
2023, a lot of them are hitting the gym - a positive trend.
However, they often make a lot of mistakes in their fitness journey.
There are various reasons why men strive to build a muscular
physique.
For some, it is a personal goal to achieve a certain level of fitness or
strength.
Others feel that having a muscular body enhances their physical
attractiveness and boosts their confidence.
But where the desire to build muscle really stems from is the societal
norms and expectations that equate masculinity with physical strength
and muscularity.
But why should you become jacked?
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Well, some women say they simply don’t rate physical appearance as
being particularly important for attraction.
That might be true to some degree, but let’s be honest, who do you
think a girl would fuck if she had the choice between Henry Cavill in
“The Witcher” or Jonah Hill in “22 Jump Street”...
You don’t need to look like Arnold Schwarzenegger in the ’70s.
But adding muscles to your appearance is a necessity as a man.
The Benefits Of Lifting Weights:
Longevity: Regular weightlifting will improve your overall health
by reducing the risk of chronic diseases and maintaining physical
function as you age.
Increased Testosterone: Weightlifting naturally increases
testosterone levels, leading to improved muscle mass, energy,
and sex drive.
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Masculine Appearance: Building muscle creates a more
masculine appearance, giving men broader shoulders, a chiseled
chest, and a powerful physique- extremely attractive.
Increased Attractiveness: Many women find a muscular physique
attractive, by lifting your problem won’t be getting women, it will be
keeping them at arm’s length- especially once you’re done reading
part 2 of this book.
Increased Respect: Men respect other men who are physically
strong and capable of defending themselves, lifting weight will
improve your status and respect among your peers- that’s just how
the male brain works; you respect a guy who could whoop your
ass.
Increased Respect: Men respect other men who are physically
strong and capable of defending themselves, lifting weight will
improve your status and respect among your peers- that’s just how
the male brain works; you respect a guy who could whoop your
ass.
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Improved bone health: Regular weightlifting helps strengthen bones
and reduce the risk of osteoporosis, a condition characterized by weak
and brittle bones.
Enhanced metabolism: Building and maintaining muscle mass
increases metabolism.
Boosted mood, confidence, and mental health: Exercise in general,
including weightlifting, promotes the release of endorphins, which are
your body's feel-good hormones, they improve your mood and reduce
stress and anxiety- getting in shape also boosts self-confidence.
Reduced risk of chronic diseases: Weightlifting reduces the risk of
various chronic diseases, including type 2 diabetes, heart disease, and
certain types of cancer.
Improved posture and balance: Proper weightlifting techniques can
help improve posture and balance- extremely helpful in order to have
high-value body language.
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Lifting weights consistently isn't only good for your body, but also for
your mind. It’s a way to build discipline, you're callusing the mind.
Showing up at the gym and putting in the effort, both on good and
bad days, is crucial.
It's during the tough times that true character is revealed and sets
you apart from other men who only hit the gym twice a week for a
quick arm workout, then retreat to their couch, munching on chips
and jerks off.
By consistently showing up and putting in the work at the gym, you
are developing the discipline necessary for success in other areas of
your life.
There is no greater feeling than being able to stand naked in
front of the mirror and be genuinely proud of your body. That's
true confidence.
Feeling confident that you could inflict physical damage on
everybody in the room if shit hit the fan.
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How To Not Give Up
I guess most men have tried to go to the gym, the problem is that most of
them go a few times, and then give up.
Why do people give up?
It's either a lack of confidence, insecurity, will, or time. All in all, it’s a lack
of self-respect.
They come up with bullshit excuses, justify their inaction, and instead,
they go off chasing cheap dopamine.
Before you go to the gym for the first time I want you to write down why
you started.
Could be a sentence, a paragraph, or a whole page of reasons.
Every time you don’t want to go to the gym, read that note of yours. Start
a fight with the “Inner Bitch” in your head who tells you to just stay in bed
and watch another episode of Netflix.
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Because that's your enemy, “the inner bitch”. You can’t let him control you.
You need to be in full control of your mind. Because if you aren't, then what
are you?
Then you're nothing but a puppet of your own feeling and a slave to
your own brain.
If you feel like quitting, remember why you started.
Make sure you have one sentence written down to explain why you started,
read that sentence whenever you aren't motivated.
Another way is to remember some hardship you went through; it could be a
heartbreak, a friend you fell out with, etc. Can be anything. USE THAT as
FUEL to become better.
Tell yourself that probably right now your ex is getting pounded by a jacked
dude. That's probably the reality too, sorry to tell you.
Aren't you pissed yet?
Aren’t you motivated to outwork that dude pounding your ex? Outwork him
in every fucking aspect of life?
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How To Become Jacked
Now that you know why you should go to the gym, it’s time to talk about how
you get jacked.
We have two categories:
Lose weight
Gain weight
What do these categories have in common? You build muscle along the way.
But how do we gain and lose weight? Let me put it very easy for you.
Calorie deficit and Calorie surplus.
If you want to gain weight you need to eat more calories than you burn and if
you want to lose weight you need to eat fewer calories than you burn.
How many calories we burn daily varies from person to person, depending on
age, daily activity, weight, and height.
You can easily find out approximately how many calories you burn throughout
a day with a simple Google search.
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Here’s an example, this dude burns 2700 kcals a day, if he eats 3000
kcals he will gain weight. If he ate 2500 kcals a day he would lose weight.
“Wow, is it that simple?” Yeah.
In theory, it doesn't matter what you eat. You could lose weight by only
eating chocolate and gain weight by only eating salad. But, of course, that
wouldn’t be healthy for you.
In this example, the body burns 2700 kcals naturally, if you want to lose
weight you can, of course, do cardio to burn extra kcals, this will
accelerate the weight loss process. For example, a 30-60 min walk every
day, could be in the streets, treadmill, or the woods.
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Let's talk about how you can become jacked.
We have a few key points:
Rest
Protein and calorie intake
Training
Rest
When you train, you break down muscle tissue.
You need to rest to build them back up. You should sleep 8 hours each day, no
mid-day naps, and 8 hours of consecutive sleep.
Not more, not less.
When that alarm clock goes off you wake up, regardless of how comfortable that
warm pillow feels in the morning. You got shit to do, work on your side hustle, read
a book, work out, your 9-5, meet a girl.
Andrew Tate once said, “The alarm clock doesn't wake me up, I wake up the alarm
clock.”
That should be your mindset. Because you're focused. Focused on the goal,
focused on building a legacy, you have that deep inner drive to grow, remember?
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Protein and calorie intake
Protein is extremely important when it comes to building muscle,
because of amino acids (the building blocks of protein), which repair
and maintain muscle tissue.
(You break down the muscle tissues when you work out.)
A golden rule is 2 g of protein per kg body weight. 2:1 ratio.
1 kg = 2.2 lbs.
I weigh 97 kg/214 lbs so I consume 200 g of protein each day.
Great sources of protein are eggs, chicken, beef, fish, etc.
Calorie intake depends on if you want to gain or lose weight, as I
showed in the picture on the previous page.
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Training
I recommend a push, pull, and leg split.
That way you train six times a week and hit all body parts twice
weekly.
You should not start your gym journey with this split. As I said
before, start slow, and master form and technique.
Make your body get used to lifting weights.
Push day - Bench press, chest, shoulder, triceps.
Pull day - Deadlift, back, biceps, traps.
Leg day - Squat, quads, hamstring, calves. (DON’T SKIP LEG
DAY)
I like to train abs on pull day.
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I am no personal trainer, I am just a brother who has walked this
path before you.
Therefore, you must do your own research on what program to
follow and what diet to eat, based on your current situation and your
prerequisites to becoming jacked.
I’m just here to motivate you, to light that fire inside you.
Don’t go to the gym, do a few sets and go home.
It’s at the gym you put the effort down, work those muscles, and
push yourself.
Do two more reps when you feel like quitting. Feel the pump, feel
the burn.
Remember, things take time. You’re not going to wake up tomorrow
and see results. It's a process, trust it. It will pay off, and when you
finally see results it's the best feeling in the world.
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CHAPTER 3
UNLEASHING YOUR
SOCIAL SAVVY:
SOCIAL SKILLS OUT OF THIS
WORLD
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Cannot be reproduced in any manner, except for
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None of the content in this book should be
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“The paradoxical secret of charisma is that it’s not
about trumpeting your good qualities but making
the other person feel good about himself. Real
charisma makes the other person feel important;
when they finish an interaction with you, they feel
better about themselves than they did before.”
-Brett and Kate McKay
Thriving In a Digital Age
I won’t lie.
Due to the ubiquitous influence of social media (and the pandemic), most
young people in modern society straight up lack social skills.
Rather than engaging in face-to-face interactions and conversing with others
as fellow human beings, they have become immersed in their phones.
They have become cyborgs, relatable?
But what if I told you that one of the most important attraction switches
for women is a man with social savvy?
(Men who understand social dynamics and etiquette)
And what makes people truly like you is if you show genuine interest in
them?
Would you reconsider your phone usage?
I’ll let you answer that for yourself.
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Anyway, social media has become an integral part of
our lives.
It has changed the way we communicate and interact
with each other.
It has provided us with a way to connect with people
from all over the world, but at the same time, it has
also taken away our ability to communicate effectively
in person…
The lone-wolf propaganda spread on social media
didn’t help either.
The reason it became so popular is because it
provides them with a convenient excuse for their lack
of social skills.
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It gives them a sense of justification for staying isolated,
instead of putting in the effort to develop the social skills
necessary for building healthy relationships, not only
with women- but to network.
And anybody who knows a bit about business knows
that networking is the most important thing in order to
succeed.
Sure, you can take the chance on staying isolated, put
some money into Bitcoin, and hope for the best- but it
won’t work.
Whether your goal is to become a multi-millionaire or
attract women- social skills are your most important
weapon.
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So, the big question arises.
Q- “How do I lock down social venues with my presence?”
Well, the easiest way to become the most popular and likable guy in
your city is to;
Treat the people below you like kings and queens.
You can make more friends in two months by becoming
interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to
get other people interested in you.
Wow, read that again.
Just picture this:
You normalize to always be befriending staff and hired guns at social
places.
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For Example: You’re at the community swimming pool- you know the
security and lifeguard there.
Because of that, you’re allowed to bring booze or snacks into the pool and
turn it sort of your private villa pool.
Imagine what goes in the heads of the other people there;
“Who the fuck is that guy?”
“How is he able to get away with that?”
“He must be the owner or something”
Or at the gym:
You walk in.
The coach comes over to greet you, does some banter, and by the time you
head over to the weights section, everyone has shaken your hand and
acknowledged your presence.
Any new girl/dude in the gym immediately puts you at the very top of the
“people I need to know” in that gym.
That's power.
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Or at the Cafe/Restaurant:
You enter and the barista already has your coffee ready, with a +1
because she knows you often bring girls there.
Your regular waiter comes and asks you how you are and
compliments your girl, brightening up her face.
What do you think goes on in the girl’s mind when she sees this?
“Wow, he’s like the king here”
By the time food arrives, you’re already this mythical figure in her
mind.
She’s charmed out of her senses by the power and status you hold.
You’re pleasing her most powerful sexual organ- her imagination.
Doing this makes them gives you massive social proof and
authority in a set location.
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Q- “How do I do this?”
You show genuine interest in other people.
You’re walking in with a smile, shining up the room like a star in the
night sky.
You remember their first names, you tip before ordering, you banter
with the staff.
You compliment them, ask about their shift timings, you verbalize
their world back to them; “It must be so hard to deal with people who
act arrogant”
You get the contact of the first staff you meet at any menu and
future pace saying; “You’ve been so kind to give me the best seats
today. I’ll see you this weekend with my friends. I’ll call you a day
prior”
(Guess what he will do when you’re back with friends/girls? Correct,
gives you the best seats.)
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You don't criticize, condemn or complain, you give honest and
sincere appreciation.
You’re being a good listener, you talk in terms of their interests,
you make them feel important - and you do it sincerely, you show
respect for their opinions, you’re honestly trying to see things from
their point of view, you’re being sympathetic with their ideas and
desires.
You praise and give honest appreciation, you ask questions
instead of giving direct orders, and finally, and most important; you
give them a fine reputation to live up to.
It’s seriously so easy to become the king at any venue and
get perks at little cost.
The only mental switch you need is to see staff as friends, not
as servants.
Here's another book tip for you if you want to master social skills:
How To Win Friends & Influence People By Dale Carnegie
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Anyway, the idea of showing genuine interest holds true
everywhere, whether your goal is to impress women with
your social savvy or just get people to like you.
As mentioned before, women love men with social savvy.
That means being skilled at navigating social situations
and understanding social dynamics.
Being able to pick up the subtle norms of social
interactions and behave accordingly, is seen as a
desirable trait by women.
If you show her that you understand and respect the
social norms and dynamics that are important to a
woman, you will become more attractive to her.
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For Example: When at a restaurant, she wants a man who talks to the
waiter or bartender with respect and treats him/her as a human, not as
a personal servant.
Strike a conversation with the waiter, casual small talk.
Being able to effortlessly spark conversations with strangers is so
attractive.
A man who respects the norm has good manners, is polite, and
adheres to social etiquette is extremely attractive to women.
The list goes on and on:
Including others who seem lonely
Helping an old lady over the street
Helping a mother with a stroller onto the bus
Petting a dog on the street.
Giving a homeless man $10
Tipping the waiter at a restaurant
It's all about having layers to your character, and effortlessly mastering
social situations.
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Q- “I’m having a hard time with small talk, how can I
improve this?”
There’s nothing that’ll get you further in life than being able to
small talk.
Especially in a society where everybody is self-absorbed and
distracted by their phones.
What is small talk?
Small talk refers to a casual and light conversation that takes
place in social situations or when meeting new people.
It typically involves discussing topics that are not too deep or
personal, such as the weather, current events, hobbies, or
interests.
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The purpose of small talk is to break the ice and establish
a connection with others:
Leading to more meaningful conversations and
relationships.
Essentially, small talk is an important social skill that helps
to build rapport and establish trust.
The definition of small talk is:
“It typically involves discussing topics that are not too
deep or personal, such as the weather, current events,
hobbies, or interests.”
BORING.
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I don’t want you to make lame ass statements like:
“Nice weather today.”
That’s not small talk, that’s just you making a fool out of yourself.
Your goal is ALWAYS to stand out.
Like stars in the night sky, it's the people who stand out that capture
our attention and leave a lasting impression in our minds.
That is what you want to become, a shining star in the night sky.
Your first step towards becoming a shining star is to avoid questions
starting with:
Do, Where, Were, Who.
They’re easy to answer with yes, no, or a name. You’re immediately
closing the conversation loop by asking closed-ended questions.
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What you should ask is:
What, Would, How, Why, At what moment did you__, If
you could___
These are great because they’re charismatic and open-
ended.
They are hypothetical and leave the door open for all kinds
of follow-up questions and discussions.
As always you first need to lead the conversation toward the
topic you want, for example:
When talking to staff you need to show genuine interest, and
since you know nothing about them except that they’re staff-
your topic of conversation should be their job.
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First, you ease them in with:
“So, how do you enjoy being a (bartender for example)”
You’re leading them into a charismatic question-
Then your follow-up should be something along the lines of;
“Interesting.
I bet it must be frustrating dealing with so many arrogant
people (verbalizing their world back to them), so at what
moment did you realize that you wanted to become a
bartender?”
You’re showing genuine interest, you’re honestly trying to see
things from their point of view:
IT’S IMPOSSIBLE TO NOT BE LIKED.
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From there, he/her will in 9/10 cases share their entire life story,
and all left for you is to maintain eye contact and actively nod your
head.
Learn to ask the right questions and people will talk for hours.
IT’S IMPOSSIBLE TO NOT STAND OUT.
Another Example:
POV: You’re in a cab on your way home with a girl after a night out.
You: “So, how’s the cab business these days?
(How question)
I bet it must have been hard during the pandemic. (showing
genuine interest)”
*His response*
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You: “You’re doing a good job man (complimenting), I bet it’s hard
staying calm with so many disrespectful passengers in the back seat-
especially after a night out.
(Verbalizing his world back to him)”
*His response*
You: “Haha, I get it (or whatever is fitting with his response) so at what
moment did you realize you wanted to become a cab driver? "
(At what moment question)
Note- Nobody WANTS to be a cab driver, you’re just setting the scene
for him to open up about his tough past.
*Him opening up*
*Just give a sympathetic response, and end the conversation.*
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In this scenario, you want to continue the conversation you
had with the girl, but just think of the emotions going
through her head.
She’ll fall in love with you right there, a strong, masculine,
alpha male, yet so sympathetic and genuine.
Revealing the layers of your character- give him a fat tip at
the end of the drive and say:
“Really nice talking to you brother, all the best, stay safe.”
You have made his day, made a friend, and made a girl
fall head over heels for you;
Just by being genuine and asking the right questions.
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Unfortunately, I can’t give you word-for-word sequences like
this for every single social interaction, but by now I bet you
have understood the principles;
Ask the right questions, be genuine, and stand out.
What I can do for you on the other hand is create a list of
open-ended charismatic questions you can rehearse and
use in your day-to-day life.
Take a screenshot, print out, or write down these questions,
as I’ll refer to them a lot in part 2 of this book-
these questions are extremely effective on women.
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The Charismatic Edge
Every guy wants to be charismatic.
But what actually is charisma?
Well, charisma is egoless.
It’s the art of giving someone space to express their full
opinions, ideas, and feelings.
In that regard, charisma has nothing to do with you;
It’s about how you make the other person feels.
So what’s the best way to give someone space to voice
themselves?
Ask the right questions.
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Remembering all the questions I’m about to list will be
hard, you might remember 2-3 but that won’t cut it.
YOU have to master the art of asking the right
questions.
I have already provided you with some guidelines;
Stand out, show genuine interest, and avoid questions
starting with:
Do, Where, Were, Who. Ask: What, Would, How, Why, At
what moment did you__, if you could___
But let’s dive deeper down the rabbit hole.
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Highlights/Lowlights Questions
Alright, let us take a classical example: Someone you know has
been on vacation, as soon as he/her enters the room everybody
asks: “How was the trip?”
These basic yes/no questions are more burdensome than
empathetic ones because they pressure the other person to steer
the conversation somewhere.
Here’s the trick; Instead of asking the most obvious question-
take the obvious question and make it more detailed and
personal.
“What was the best part of your trip?”
“What was the worst part about your trip?”
This opens doors for new oceans of conversation topics to
explore.
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The Art of Asking Charismatic Questions
When it comes to conversation, we can all identify a dull
question.
Whether it's "Where are you from?" on a date or "Do you
enjoy working here?" in an interview.
These questions are polite but they lack charisma.
What you want to do is ask questions that peel back the
layers of people’s personalities.
REMEMBER: That’s done by taking ‘normal’, boring
questions and asking them in a surprising way by, presenting
new perspectives, and delving into unfamiliar points.
It makes all the difference in creating memorable interactions.
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Example:
“Where do you live?” < "What was the biggest cultural shock you
experienced when you moved to (city/country)?"
That’s memorable.
That is charisma.
Howard Stern and Sean Evans are masters at this.
Check out their shows and take notes.
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Why?
Researchers at Harvard tried to find out the best way to
appear more charismatic, the result?
Mastering the art of follow-up questions.
Q- “So what’s the perfect follow-up question?”
The answer is rather straightforward: why?
Just look at Joe Rogan.
His podcast has generated $300 million in revenue by
posing the question "Why?" instead of the typical inquiry of
"tell me about your experience on that project" used by
most reporters.
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By challenging his guests with "why" questions, he encourages
them to reflect on their choices and reveals their underlying
values.
"Why", “When did you realize___?” and “At what moment___?”
questions serve as excellent follow-up questions because they
stimulate deeper thought and uncover individuals' authentic
beliefs.
You: “What do you do for a living?
*“I’m a lawyer.”*
You: “Cool” (WRONG)
You: “Cool, at what moment did you realize that you wanted to
become a lawyer?/Why did you become a lawyer?”
(CORRECT)
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Finally, before I share a list of charismatic questions let
me just say this.
Most people ramble about their accomplishments because
they want to make themselves feel better or cover up their
imposter syndrome.
That’s not confidence or charisma.
That is insecurity.
Remember, interesting people, people who stand out, are
confident enough not to be the center of attention.
They don’t have anything to prove.
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Charisma On Command
These are primarily aimed at women you want to
seduce, but some of them can be used for casual
small talk with men, women, or staff.
Note- Some of these questions require rapport.
And remember, the goal is the make the other person
feel good about themselves.
Therefore you must avoid questions about past
relationships, religion, political views, death, etc.
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“Beauty is common, it’s either something you’re born
with or paid for.
But what’s rare is a great energy and outlook on life. The
real question is what do you have inside that would make
me want to know you as more than just a pretty face in the
crowd?”
“If you could make up anywhere in the world tomorrow,
where would it be and why?”
“What’s your sneakiest trick to seduce guys?”
"Say we'd lived in a self-sufficient, automatic society
where money wasn't a motivation, how would you
spend your days?"
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“At what moment did you realize that you wanted to
become a___?”
“You're more than just a pretty face in the crowd.
I can sense that there's a depth and complexity to you that's
waiting to be discovered. What's one thing you wish more
people knew about you?”
“I’m not going to lie, you seem like trouble. If you had a
warning label, what would yours say?” (Must be said in a
playful way)
"What do you want out of life?"
"What's something that never fails to make you smile or
laugh, no matter how many times you've experienced it?"
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“What’s the biggest turn-off in a guy?”
“If you could have a new chance at life, what things
would you do differently?
“I know a guy who couldn't get women if his life
depended on it.
No matter what he says or does they reject him.
There is a clear divide: some men are found attractive by all
women, while other guys aren’t found attractive by none.
From your female perspective: What would you say is the
one thing that sets them apart?"
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“What was the happiest moment of your life?”
“I have an interesting question, it will tell me a lot
about you, so answer carefully:
(Say it in a playful way)
You’re stranded on a deserted island and could only
bring 3 items. Which three items would you bring and
why?”
“Most people are slaves to their bills, if money
wasn’t an object, how would you spend your
days?”
“What’s the worst thing about being in a
relationship?”
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“What is something you’ve never done that you’ve
always wanted to do?”
“You have a certain sense of mystery and intrigue
about you. What's something that people might be
surprised to learn about you?”
“We are all socially programmed, wearing different
masks to different social occasions, if you removed
the programming and masks, which 3 words you
would use to describe yourself?”
“What’s your ultimate goal in life?”
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“If you could have any job in the world tomorrow, what
would it be and why?”
“Where would you want to go if we could get out of here
right now and run away together?”
“When you were younger, what did you want to be when
you grew up?
“How does it feel to be such heavily in love with me?”
(Must be said in a playful way, you’re teasing her)
"Tell me something interesting about you." -> follow up
question: "__(Her name), tell me something about you
that you've never told someone before (While maintaining
strong eye contact)
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Finally, unlike topics like math or science, social skills are more of a “learn
on the job” kind of skill.
When you’re a child, you can learn how to manage conflict, make friends
and navigate groups by doing it. But not everyone learns the same lessons
the same way. Not everyone comes from the same background.
Learning social skills can be difficult if you weren’t exposed to traditional
group dynamics as a child.
If you struggle with a mental illness like anxiety or depression, or even if
you just didn’t have a lot of positive role models when you were growing up.
Sometimes, social skills take a whole lifetime to refine, and some never
master them.
I have now given you the basic tools, but as with anything else in life,
knowledge is only 10%.
The remaining 90% comes from experience.
Go out, and practice.
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The Dynamics Of Social Circle
Okay, we have now covered the basics of social savvy, small talk, and
building connections.
But what's more important?
Your social circle, your brotherhood, the girls you're around regularly.
Nothing has a higher ROI in 2023 and onwards.
Friends help friends, that's why it's so important to build a good social circle.
Building a social circle is fun.
But before you do that, YOU MUST ENJOY YOUR OWN COMPANY.
Learn to do things SOLO.
People will love your company only when you first love your own.
Then recruit people who are the best at something.
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Think about it: We all have different skill sets.
One is best at bringing the party, one is great at money, one
is great at networking, one brings the funny elements, etc.
The ratio should be equal, although you can and should
have different social circles for different purposes.
Some will have more girls, some will have more guys.
On the other hand, as you grow wiser, stronger and more
successful, you will lose touch with a lot of old friends.
You simply won’t be able to relate.
That’s alright because it’s the healthy churn of life.
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How do you increase your social value though? Think, what do you have that
others want? or better yet, NEED?
Do you bring fun, excitement, and amazing emotions to the table? Do you
have access to women?
Different circles have different needs, and to penetrate them, you need to put
yourself on their radar.
You must go to places of common interest, if you want to meet a ladies' man
you need to go to a nightclub or a bar, if you want to find the "fun guy", go to
a standup show, if you want to find your "money guy" go to conferences etc.
You can't expect people to just magically appear in your life, you need to go
out and create your own destiny.
Then FIND RAPPORT through stories, shared experiences, and charismatic
questions.
What this does is, it helps you DIG FOR COMMONALITIES.
Then, to have a reason to keep in touch, you plan a future event, like having
a drink with them to do the common interest again.
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CHAPTER 4
THE TRIAD OF INTEREST:
BODY LANGUAGE, EYE CONTACT AND
TONALITY
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“Body language is a universal language
that speaks louder than words."
-Albert Mehrabian
Introductions
Albert Mehrabian, the person who famously said the
introduction quote created the 7-38-55 communication
model.
A model that states that 7% of the meaning of feelings and
attitudes takes place through the words we use in spoken
communications, while 38% takes place through tone and
voice and the remaining 55% of communication of these
factors take place through the body language we use
(specifically our facial expressions).
Do I have your attention now?
Do you understand the importance?
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Body language, eye contact, and tonality are the 3
crucial elements of nonverbal communication, the triad
of interest- that will lead to respect and initial interest,
and attraction within seconds.
This is the first part of the Game Formula:
INTEREST + ATTRACTION + SEDUCTION = SEX.
Seduction Principle:
How you say it < what you say.
If you have CPG you can literally say the stupidest shit
and women will still find you interesting.
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Confident body language (C), piercing eye contact (P) and great
tonality (G) lead to interest & respect - NO MATTER WHAT;
hence- it's equally important to focus on these 3 elements when
talking to men.
CPG will make every woman fall head over heels for you, and
cause every woman to want a piece of you.
Why?
Because you’re standing out from the horde of men trying to get
her attention; women receive attention the same way, several
times a day, dozens of times a week, hundreds of times a
month by hoards of men.
You must stand out, like a shining star in the night sky,
remember?
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The Power Of Great Tonality
If you dress properly and maturely, smell good, and have
confident body language, great tonality, and maintain eye
contact she will find you interesting, 100% of the time.
Let's start with tonality.
First off:
The way you speak conveys a tremendous amount of
information about who you are and your value.
By using your voice correctly you’ll be able to hold a
woman’s attention easily, and even more mind-blowing:
and make what you say more attractive, regardless of the
words coming out of your mouth.
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Women are attracted to masculine traits, and what’s a typical
characteristic of masculine men?
A LOW VOICE.
Therefore, women will respond better to your voice if you
speak lower in pitch.
This doesn’t mean that you should speak in your best Shaq
O’Neal impression, rather, you need to find the lowest natural
part of your speaking voice and emphasize that.
The simplest way to get a lower voice naturally is to speak
from your belly.
Singers do this all the time.
Try it and observe its magic.
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Simply repeat a phrase, and see if you can feel it coming from your nasal
cavity, your throat, your chest, and your belly.
As you get used to those different feelings, you’ll notice that you can
emphasize one or the other.
You want to be speaking from the chest and gut, which will sound lower and
more resonant than speaking from your throat or head.
The second most important thing when it comes to tonality is to speak
slower.
People who speak too fast tend to do so out of fear of losing the attention of
the audience.
I bet you’ve noticed- when you panic you speak faster; a presentation in
high school? An important business meeting? Talking to a girl you like?
You’re in a rush, worried that you’re not going to be able to say everything
you want to say.
This is especially true when guys approach beautiful women.
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The words tumble out of them in a rush because they’re
afraid the girl won’t let them finish and due to extreme
nervousness.
What you don’t realize is that the rushed speech communicates
low value.
It communicates insecurity- an extremely unseductive, and
unattractive trait.
Squash this habit.
The rule is to talk slower than you think is natural, and
louder than you think is natural.
When you notice yourself getting nervous, just stop, take a
deep breath, and then continue at a slower pace.
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It’ll make you sound more in control, which again will help you
feel more in control.
Speaking slower while maintaining eye contact builds extreme
amounts of sexual tension, fumbling your words, speaking fast,
and looking in all directions have the opposite effect.
YOU’VE BEEN MISSING OUT ON A HUGE POTENTIAL IN
ATTRACTION BUILDING.
Speaking slowly is a classic alpha male trait.
A alpha male takes his time because he knows people will
listen.
And if they don’t he doesn’t give a fuck because he knows it’s
their loss at the end of the day.
Slow down. Take your time. Have trust in yourself.
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Personally, I like to take this to the extreme level.
Sometimes I’ll purposefully insert a long pause
before a keyword:
"I just gotta say… you truly are… something special.”
Trust me, people literally get drawn in by that little
pause.
This is equally important when talking to men and
women, everybody wants to be around the alpha
male.
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The final part of mastering voice tonality is to speak louder
and more direct.
Just notice how often others, and you use brutal ‘value-
killers’ like;
“Um”, “Soo”, “Ahs”.
REMOVE THEM FROM YOUR VOCABULARY.
They make you sound, uncertain, weak, and insecure- beta
traits.
Normalize to recognize when you say them, and instead
just… say nothing.
Or even better, use them as a way to insert long breaks, like
the technique I talked about a page back.
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Let us go back to alpha male characteristics.
Do you think he is afraid of the sound of his own voice?
No.
Do you think he is afraid of showing his presence? No.
Do you think he’s questioning whether people pay
attention to him or not? No.
The alpha male speaks loud and direct, not afraid to get
himself heard.
The beta male on the other hand? He’ll constantly worry
and fear speaking up for himself.
Therefore, speak louder.
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By following these simple changes to your tonality-
loud, low, direct, and slow - you’ll immediately feel
a huge impact on the amount of attraction you can
build in a woman just by talking to her.
And it’s not just around women.
You’re demonstrating value, read by men and
women in subtle ways.
EVERYBODY WANTS TO BE AROUND HIGH-
VALUE MEN.
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The Power Of Confident Body Language
Next up in my ultimate interest formula is body
language.
It’s the most important part of non-verbal
communication and the most important way to
communicate confidence, display value and generate
attraction.
Women constantly read your body language in subtle
ways in order to determine if you’re capable of
providing for her and her potential offspring.
It's just inserted into their DNA.
I'll talk more about this in chapter 6: 'Cracking The
Code'
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Comfortable and confident body language WILL
make any women want to talk to you.
It will make them more attracted to you, and it will
improve your results, especially when combined
with style, smell, tonality, and eye contact.
Same with men.
They want to be seen and hang around other high-
value men, causing you to check off the center-of-
attention attraction switch I’ll talk about later.
Men will respect you and don’t dare to fuck with you
once your body language is in order.
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Changing your body language for the better is an easy fix with
some practice and routine building.
Good body language starts with the chest.
A simple yet effective way to improve your body language is by
raising your chest.
Stand tall with your feet shoulder-width apart, and consciously lift
your chest.
You'll notice that this small adjustment immediately changes your
whole body's alignment, making you appear more confident and
engaged. You're probably sitting and reading this, just push your
chest out. Felt that? That's power.
This easy technique is the quickest and most straightforward way
to upgrade your body language and make a positive impact on
others.
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This is no secret, most of us spend countless hours in front
of phones, TVs, and computers as the cyborgs we have
become.
This results in a slight forward hunch in your shoulders.
You can fix this by stretching the muscles that run across the
front of your shoulders, this is easy to do in a door frame:
Hold your arm out so the upper arm is at a right angle from
your body, and your forearm points up.
Rest the forearm against a door frame and gently twist into it-
EACH DAY.
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Alright, on to more concrete examples.
Let’s start with your hands.
Most guys have difficulty figuring out what to do with their
hands, but there is a straightforward rule to follow:
Never cross your arms over your chest, and don’t fidget.
No-No’s.
Why?
Because crossing your arms comes off as unfriendly or
unapproachable- it’s also a sign of self-defense often
used when you’re not comfortable, so it just screams
insecurity, same with fidgeting.
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When most of you guys pick up chicks you’ll be at a party, a
club, or a bar.
So one of your hands should always be occupied by a drink.
Your ‘free hand’ should either rest on your lap and be used to
emphasize what you say by hand movements- gestures with
your hand to enhance your speech.
If you're not holding a drink you should use gestures to
emphasize what you're saying with both hands.
Also actively use it to touch the girl you’re talking to.
Laughing? Touch her tight, arm, etc.
Also, when holding your drink, don’t try to protect it like your
life is at stake.
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For some fucked up reason a lot of guys do this, they
protect their drink by holding it out away from their body, with
their whole wrist bent around it like a buffer, to guard it from
being bumped or spilled in a crowded club.
Horrible body language.
It sub-communicates a tremendous amount of
defensiveness.
Instead, hold your cup loosely, from above, and let your
hand holding it dangle naturally by your side.
That's what your body language should convey: You're
confident in your surroundings, you're free, you're the king of
the fucking world.
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When it comes to attraction building there are also some
additional specifics to keep in mind.
Lean back brother.
You’re trying to convey social proof-
YOU’RE USED TO TALKING TO CHICKS.
You’re not some noob getting all excited about finally talking to
a girl.
Leaning in is weak as it communicates too much interest.
Lean back and let her lean in.
Being the one leaning in sub-communicates that you're the
pursuer while the one leaning out is the prize.
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This rule is not set in stone of course.
It works on a date but if you’re in a loud club where you can’t
hear each other, you may feel like you need to speak directly
into her ear for her to hear you.
This is fine, but get her to lean forward and place her ear next to
your mouth.
Just don’t ‘peck’ which means leaning into her ear as you say
something, let her come to you.
Also, when you’re in this position it facilitates a lot of escalation
potential.
In the PUA community, we call this kino. (Escalate by touch)
Simply slide your hand on her hip or on her back.
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When it comes to game, the whole game is about letting her
sense that you have more value than her, that’s essentially
what the whole ‘game’ is about.
Leaning back is therefore a great way of not showing more
interest in her than she shows in you, also known as;
you have more value than her.
Finally, a useful technique to consider is to pay attention to
where your feet are pointing.
Yes, I know it sounds silly but hear me out.
If people find you interesting their feet tend to point toward
you.
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For instance, in a crowded club, take a look at
couples.
Men who struggle with women tend to have their
feet directed towards the woman they are
interested in, while the woman's feet point to the
side.
On the other hand, successful men will have
women's feet pointing toward them.
The easiest way to spot this is when an attractive
woman enters a group.
Notice how everyone's feet turn towards her, while
less attractive women don't receive the same
attention.
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This unconscious behavior of the feet reveals one's
level of interest.
It’s, therefore, an IOI, an indicator of interest.
(I’ll talk more about this later)
Anyway, back to the point.
Since one key rule of the game is to not appear more
interested in her than she is in you, it’s important to
not let your feet point more toward her than her point
toward you.
If you can keep track of this one, you’ll notice it
powerfully reduces “overeager” vibes which can kill
your game.
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Finally, I just want to address a topic.
Your mind follows the body. Woah, mind-blowing, right?
Next time you feel down, watch your body language. You’re
closed off, making you as small as possible.
This is a natural human reaction.
But what do you think will happen if you do the opposite if you
instead of closing yourself up made yourself as big as
possible?
You’ll automatically feel much more confident, comfortable,
and in control.
For women confidence in a man equals competence, that's
why it's so important to master it.
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I could talk about body language for hours, but to avoid getting this
book over 1000 pages long I have summarized it:
Walk slower.
Chest forward.
Chin up.
Have a purpose behind every step.
Feet firmly planted in the ground
Shoulder over knees.
Don’t cross your arms or legs.
Take up space.
Don’t protect your drink like your life is at stake.
Avoid being on your phone, especially when you walk into rooms
where there are people.
Don’t lean towards objects when you’re talking or waiting.
Smile
Point your feet away from her.
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The Power Of Strong Eye Contact
Maintaining eye contact can be intimidating, especially if you
struggle with social anxiety or insecurities.
The idea terrified me in the beginning as well, felt like I was
standing on the edge of a cliff.
Some find it scary to look someone in the eyes because they
feel like they are being analyzed or judged.
However, eye contact is one of the most important aspects of
communication and has a big impact on how you are perceived
by others.
By avoiding eye contact, you come across as disinterested,
untrustworthy, or lacking confidence- unattractive & low-value
behavior.
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As with everything that’s scary;
The solution is to expose yourself to it until it’s no longer
uncomfortable.
There’s no quick fix.
EXPOSURE. EXPOSURE. EXPOSURE.
But of course, I’m not going to throw you to the wolfs and let you
figure it out all by yourself, so here’s a list to make the process
easier:
1) Practice making eye contact with people you’re already
comfortable with.
Friends, family, or even your pet.
Start by looking at their eyes for a few seconds, then gradually
increase the length of time you hold eye contact.
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2) Seek out opportunities to make eye contact with
strangers.
This is as simple as making eye contact with a
cashier while making a purchase, or looking at
people while walking past them on the street.
The more you do it, the more comfortable it will
become.
Especially do this with people who have less value
than you; as you don’t bother if they judge you:
Homeless people, a kid, etc.
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3) Relax and focus on the person you are talking to.
Remember that people are not trying to intimidate or judge
you.
They are just looking at you because they are interested in
what you are saying or doing.
4) If you feel uncomfortable making eye contact, try looking at
the bridge of the person's nose, in between their eyebrows, or
just above their eyebrows.
This will help reduce discomfort but will have the same effect as
piercing eye contact.
You can't tell the difference.
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Q- "Why is eye contact so important?"
Eye contact conveys power and has a strong influence on
our interactions with others because it is connected to our
primal instincts for survival.
As infants, we instinctively make eye contact with our
caregivers in order to attract their attention and ensure
that we receive the care and support we need to thrive.
We take this into our adult lives.
Maintaining eye contact makes you get more attention,
and creates a deeper emotional connection (and women
value emotional connections above all.)
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Looking people in the eyes is also another ‘alpha
male’ trait, a high-value trait.
It also shows interest, engagement, and confidence.
When you make eye contact with others, it indicates
that you are listening and paying attention to what
they are saying.
On the other hand, avoiding eye contact can give the
impression that you’re not interested, not being
truthful, or extremely insecure, a very unattractive
and unseductive combination.
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Eye contact also increases sexual tension when talking to
women.
Have you ever tried to maintain eye contact with a woman over
a long period of time?
Many of you might find that tingling feeling uncomfortable.
But guess what it is?
It’s actually sexual tension at its finest.
In order to have sexual tension, you need to have sexual
polarity. A strong dominant masculine essence and a fragile
submissive feminine essence.
Strong eye contact creates that: two souls connecting, on a
deep level, by looking into each other's soul.
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Q- "Should I maintain eye contact all the time?"
It’s unnatural to maintain eye contact throughout the whole
interaction.
The rule is 70/30. (70% eye contact)
It's natural to break eye contact occasionally, maintaining it
all the time will just make you look like a creep.
Just be sure to make eye contact again after looking away,
and never break the eye contact downwards (signals
insecurity) - always break it to the sides.
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No, eye contact doesn’t only display your confidence and builds sexual
tension. There are multiple benefits to it.
Firstly, it improves communication.
You’re actively showing that you're interested and are paying attention
to what the other person is saying.
If you’re talking to a person who looks all over the room I can
guarantee that he’s not listening to what you’re actually saying, he’s
just listening enough to figure out how he’s going to respond- a huge
difference.
Also, it makes the girl you’re talking to feel more special, like you
actually care, unlike the rest of the horde of horny men whose only
focus is to get into her pants.
You're genuine and authentic- two traits women find extremely
attractive.
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This is the problem in the modern dating market. Women are
used to guys who want to take advantage of them, the
classical cum and run.
As a result, they've created layers of bitch shields and anti-
slut defenses.
Women are funny.
All the techniques that are so effective in beginning a
relationship violate every principle necessary to
maintaining one.
In order to get a women you need to be a cocky-funny
asshole.
But in order to keep her around you need to be sincere,
genuine, and focus on building trust, and a deep connection.
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Here's the problem with one-dimensional guys, guys
without layers to their character.
Most guys can easily get into a relationship, the classic
extroverted bad boys, but they can't maintain one.
While the stereotypical nice guys can easily maintain a
relationship but can get into one.
In order to be good with women you need to combine the
two personality types.
A charismatic, wild, cocky funny asshole, combined with
the genuineness and authenticity side of a nice guy.
A lamb and a lion.
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Eye contact (among other things) builds the genuine and
authentic connection I'm talking about.
It builds trust and rapport.
Eye contact is a gold mine for rapport building.
Rapport means building a deep connection with someone, and
nothing builds a better connection than strong, confident eye
contact.
Just the two of you, against the world, locking eyes.
Two souls connecting on a deep spiritual level.
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CHAPTER 5
INDESTRUCTIBLE FRAMES:
SHIFTING PERSPECTIVES
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“Reality is an illusion, albeit a persistent one.”
-Albert Einstein
Introductions
How many average frustrated chumps do you think are
sliding into her DMs and flirting with her at the club?
A lot.
As I mentioned in “Crafting Your Irresistible Aura” you
need a way to stand out, a shining star, remember?
Both in your appearance and in the way you behave.
The trick is not to seem desperate.
Neediness and desperation is a very unseductive
combination.
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You need to come off as a “man with options”.
Nobody wants the guy nobody else wants.
Same if a guy attracts a lot of girls, then even more girls will
find him attractive.
That’s just how the competitive female brain works, but it’s
also basic human psychology:
We are attracted to what others find attractive.
We want what others have.
This is why social proof is so important.
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Desirability is nothing but a social illusion.
Why do you think people follow trends?
Why do you think every girl has a crush on Leonardo
DiCaprio?
IT’S ALL A SOCIAL ILLUSION.
Nike Air Forces aren’t so fucking cool - you just want a pair
because everybody else does.
If you manage to establish a reputation that you’re
irresistible to women you won’t have to chase them
anymore - they’ll chase you.
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So, how do you come as a “man with options?”
You must be the opposite of needy.
You tease, flirt, banter, disqualify, and tease some more.
You must be “free-flowing” just like you would be if you couldn’t
give less fuck if she come home with you tonight or not, or as
you would behave around an ugly 1/10.
You flip the whole game on her.
You become the prize, not her.
She becomes the pursuer, and you’re teasing her like you're
teasing a cat playing with a string.
Here is where “frames” come in.
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Frames = Your interpretation of reality.
It’s how you interpret people, the world, events, situations,
etc.
Framing events a certain way is therefore an opportunity to
see life differently.
The point is to frame the world in a specific way, to create a
reality that’s in your favor.
Frames are mental models, mental structures, cognitive
frameworks.
It’s basically a tool that helps you to organize and interpret the
world and its events.
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Frames influence how we perceive and interpret events,
and can shape our thoughts and actions in response to
those events.
Different frames can lead to different interpretations of the
same information, and can thus lead to different decisions
and actions.
For example, framing an issue in terms of potential gains
can lead to different decisions than framing the same
issue in terms of potential losses.
This is known as the framing effect, a cognitive bias
where you can react differently to a particular choice
depending on how it is presented (framed).
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Let’s look at a common example; newspapers use
frame control to “manipulate” you every day.
Let's say there is a news story about a new government
policy that will increase taxes for the wealthy.
A newspaper with a conservative bias will frame the story
in a way that emphasizes the negative impact the policy
will have on small businesses and job creation, using
language and imagery that evokes feelings of fear and
uncertainty.
They’ll use headlines such as "New Tax Hikes Threaten
Small Business Survival" or "Job Losses on the
Horizon with New Tax Policy".
Beyond Seduction - Indestructible Frames: Introductions
On the other hand, a newspaper with a liberal bias
might frame the story in a way that emphasizes the
positive impact the policy will have on reducing income
inequality and increasing funding for social programs,
using language and imagery that evokes feelings of
fairness and social justice.
They’ll use headlines such as "New Tax Policy A Step
Toward Fairness" or "Additional Funding for Social
Programs with New Tax Policy".
In this example, the same event and policy are reported
but the frames used in the story are different.
The same story is perceived in two different ways.
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The first one frames the policy as a negative, harmful thing,
and the second one frames it as a positive, fair thing.
This just illustrates how powerful frames are, and that the
same event can be reported differently depending on the
frames used by the newspaper - which will influence how
you as a reader perceive and understand the event.
In short; frames are the mental structures that shape how
we interpret and make sense of reality.
Depending on the situation, an event can mean an unlimited
number of things.
Your outcomes will depend on how you see the event.
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Events are simply just events. It is up to whether to frame
them as positive or negative.
Example:
A guy sees a beautiful woman and chooses to approach her.
His mind is wandering, it’s out of control, he has no frame
control and his body language collapses.
This causes him to be insecure, and desperate. He thinks:
“Oh, I really hope this girl likes me, I hope I don't get rejected.”
You don’t even need to hear the rest of the story in order to
figure out that this will end in an outrageous disaster.
Let’s “reframe” it.
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A man sees a beautiful woman, he knows that most
women don’t offer him anything except what’s between her
legs.
He knows he has more value than her.
He thinks:
“That’s a cute chick. Let me go see if I like this girl, but if
she doesn’t bring more to the table than just a pretty face
I’m going to walk away.”
As a result, his chest gets pushed up, he looks her in the
eyes, he’s calm, detached, assertive, and knows he’s the
prize.
HUGE FUCKING DIFFERENCE.
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Another Example:
The girl he approached rejected him:
“Oh no, what's wrong with me, am I so ugly? Maybe I’m too
short. No, maybe I’m too skinny. Fuck man, what’s wrong
with me.”
Reframed:
“Poor girl, she lost out on the prize, I could have given her
the best night of her life; besides, her grandma is probably
sick. That’s why she was in such a bad mood.”
Are you seeing the difference?
Same situation, different perspective. Powerful.
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There could be millions of reasons why the girl rejected
him, but for some fucked up reason our brain always
assumes the worst.
Reasons why she could have rejected him:
Just broke up with her boyfriend
Wanted a night out with the girls
Sick family member
Our interpretations of reality ain’t always correct.
WHAT WE THINK OF AS REALITY IS IN FACT JUST AN
INTERPRETATION OF IT.
We can apply this to all situations in life.
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Let’s look at another example:
You're waiting in line to take a piss at a public restroom
and another guy sneaks ahead of you.
Most people will think:
“What the fuck man? Fuck you! You’re a fucking dork.”
This would be a completely normal reaction.
That’s because we frame events as a result of our
individual lifeworld beliefs, experiences, and
knowledge.
READ THAT AGAIN.
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From young age, we are taught not to sneak in line because
it’s rude, disrespectful, and outside of the “social norm.”
But as you might start to understand - you subconsciously
choose to react this way because of your past
experiences.
The guy might have been a jerk, or maybe not. Your
interpretation of reality is neither wrong nor right.
There are a billion other reasons why he snuck in line.
He was late for a meeting with the president.
He was about to shit his pants.
He was about to throw up because his kid infected him
with norovirus.
His wife was about to give birth to their first child
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Reframed: “Hehe, that guy was about to shit his fucking pants.”
Just imagine how many hours, days, and years you’re wasting
throughout your lifetime by irritating over something that might not
be true at all.
Your girlfriend left you?
“What’s wrong with me, doesn’t she love me anymore? Maybe she
never did. I’m such a loser.”
Reframed:
“Her loss, she probably had some other dreams to chase. She’ll
regret it once she settles for a mediocre man after her mediocre
dreams fall apart.
I might have loved this woman but it’s not the "ultimate" love in the
world, and letting go doesn’t mean that I’ll never experience greater
love later in my life.”
Beyond Seduction - Indestructible Frames: Introductions
Your buddies didn’t want to go to a concert?
“Wtf, don’t they appreciate my presence anymore?”
Reframed: “They’re probably not as into Coldplay as me.
I’ll just go myself and catch up with them later - this forces me to interact
with others, maybe I even meet some like-minded individuals so I can
build an even more badass social circle.”
Your father ain’t supporting your decisions?
“I’m just going to do what my father says, I don’t want to disappoint
him.”
Reframed:
“Fuck it man, from now on I’m going to say “no” to people who are not
in alignment with my path.
If my father ain’t supporting me it’s time to cut the leaves on the family
tree. I get one life, one opportunity to make something out of it. I’m not
going to waste it by pleasing everyone else.”
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Nothing is real, nothing is fake.
It’s all an illusion, so choose an illusion that makes reality
end up in your favor.
Your “reality” is all in your head.
Next time you get annoyed, sad, pissed off, or irritated
take a moment to reframe the event - into an outcome that
suits you.
Our inner reality shapes our external one.
If you think the world is a miserable place, that everyone is
against you and everyone wants to hurt you, then you’ll
mold up an external experience that completely aligns with
your existing internal one.
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But if you think that the world is a wonderful place, that everyone
is supportive and wants to help you, then you create an external
reality that perfectly matches your existing internal one.
I’ll repeat myself - nothing is real, nothing is fake.
The impact something has on you can be decided by you - but
only if you take a moment and unlearn everything you’ve been
taught and rebuild your entire belief system based on critical
thought.
READ THAT AGAIN.
Finally, life is not about waiting for the storms to pass, it's about
learning to dance in the rain.
Effectively using frames to shape a reality that suits you is how to
can learn to tie on your dance shoes even when the storm seems
the darkest.
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Frame Necessities
Now you should have a general understanding of what
frames are and how you can use them in your day-to-day life.
You can frame everything, but some things are easier to
frame than others.
For Example:
It’s easier to reframe that the guy who snuck in line was about
to shit his pants (objective frame), than that it’s your ex's loss
since she left you (Personal frame.)
We can categorize frames into two categories:
Objective frames and personal frames.
Beyond Seduction - Indestructible Frames: Frame Necessities
Objective frames are easy to reframe as they’re based
on observable facts and the context of the situation.
All you have to do is take a moment to calm down and
reframe it as something funny.
Personal frames are harder because they often come
in the form of a physiological attack, like rejection, or
someone damaging your reputation.
If your personal frames aren't strong enough they’ll
eventually break or crack.
Beyond Seduction - Indestructible Frames: Frame Necessities
Look at personal frames as the foundation of a building.
If the foundation is weak the building won’t be able to
stand strong.
It will get destroyed in a storm or maybe as soon as it
saw a gust of wind. If they aren’t strong enough it
ain’t going to work.
You need to make your frames so strong, to the point
where your frames interweave with the external world
and become completely harmonious.
If you manage to ingrain positive personal frames it will
be the most useful tool of your life.
It can protect you from all psychological attacks.
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To reframe events you need to fulfill two requirements.
Positive internal self-talk
Self Belief - Confidence
Note- *You may now begin to recognize that each
component of this book is built upon each other.
To reframe successfully, confidence is essential, and to
attract stunning women, strong frame control is
paramount, etc.
Even though part 1 isn't as exciting as parts 2 & 3 it's
equally important.
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Back to it. You cannot reframe rejection with: “poor girl, she
didn’t want to have sex with a masculine badass like me.
Well, well, her loss” if you are depressed, fat, and sick of
yourself.
Your frames will immediately break.
You need to actually believe that you are the prize, that
you’re more valuable than her.
That’s why it’s so important to work out, quit your bad habits
and focus on your appearance and goals.
Doing these simple things will in 2023 put you in the top 1% of
men.
It will allow you to reframe everything. It will make you
unstoppable.
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To make sure you guys get the point I’ve written a little poem, enjoy:
To sculpt oneself, to strive and toil,
Is to hone one's form and set one's sights on the goal.
With discipline and drive, one can rise above the fray,
And join the elite ranks of the strongest and the boldest, that way.
For with a strong body and a clear mind,
The world is yours to conquer.. to shape.. to bind.
With each step and each rep, you'll find yourself anew,
Unstoppable, immortal, a true force to pursue.
So work on yourself, with focus and with grace,
And see how your reality will shift and take shape.
For the power to reframe all lies within your hands,
And with the right mindset and effort, you will transcend.
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If you follow the guidance provided to you in this book you will
become a high-value man- no doubt.
Another way to win the frame battle between you and her is the
screen her for what she actually is, and what she brings to the
table.
Most when put women on pedestals.
They get obsessed with her beauty. As I said in the introduction
of the course.
Men's biggest weakness is sex and females' irresistible beauty.
In reality, most women don’t have anything to offer except
what's between their legs. In 2023 very few women actually
bring something to the table- use it to your advantage.
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If you’re able to look past her beauty you’ll quickly find out
that she doesn’t have any value at all.
Beauty is nothing but a shit test, it weeds out the losers who
get dumbstruck by it.
Remember that most girls just get up in the morning, takes
a dump, and then spend some time watching Netflix before
they start hitting up all the guys in their DMs.
There's not much value in that.
That's how you prize frame yourself.
Stop seeing women as these magical
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Different Types Of Frames
Everything is possible. I am always improving. Success is
inevitable for me. (Persistence frame)
I love the world, everyone is friendly and has good
intentions. (Socializing frame)
I love myself, I am so happy that I am such a handsome
man. I love life. (Gratitude frame)
I can’t wait to go to the club tonight. All the girls there
want me. (Enthusiastic frame)
I am happy, jacked, and excited about life. (Self-belief
frame)
Beyond Seduction - Indestructible Frames: Different Types Of Frames
You need to learn to recognize your bad
interpretations.
You need to understand that these “bad thoughts”
are just how you interpret the world or yourself at
that moment in time.
Actively use these different types of frames.
Take a screenshot of the previous page and look
at it whenever you feel 'down'.
Create a better 'reality', a reality that suits you.
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Master Frame Control
Frame control is about leading and directing the flow of the
interaction in a way that is consistent with your own goals and
desires;
to guide the conversation in a way that’s favorable to you.
It’s all about communicating effectively and being in full control
of your thoughts and emotions.
It’s a technique that lets you manage the perception of reality in
the conversation.
Everybody walks into different social occasions with different
perspectives of themselves and others, frame control is how
you make YOUR reality shine through.
Beyond Seduction - Indestructible Frames: Master Frame Control
To lead and direct the flow of interactions is an art.
As I said frame control is all about being able to
guide or direct social interactions.
Classic Example:
Most women go into conversations with men thinking
of themselves as the prize, strong frame control will
turn the tables.
There are three main principles you need to master
in order to dominate frame control and truly use its
power:
Beyond Seduction - Indestructible Frames: Master Frame Control
The first one is how much trust and comfort
she has in you.
If she feels comfortable around you and trusts
you, it's going to be a lot easier to control the
interaction and make her fall into your frame.
Same with your friends and colleagues.
It's easier to use frame control once you
already have rapport with someone.
Beyond Seduction - Indestructible Frames: Master Frame Control
The second thing that comes into play is how
strong your own frame is.
Self-belief frame: “I’m the prize, she’s so fucking
attracted to me.”
Our inner reality shapes our external one.
Everything you say, everything you do will
automatically come from a place of 'non-neediness'
She'll sense that your frame is as strong as a rock
standing firm in the ocean in the strongest of
storms. Her words, her beauty- don't affect you.
Beyond Seduction - Indestructible Frames: Master Frame Control
The third thing that comes into play is using physical and
verbal/nonverbal cues to establish and maintain your frame.
For example, if you're actively using touch, moving your
body, standing straight, close, and confident, maintaining
eye contact, speaking in a clear and confident tone, and
using hand gestures while you're talking, it's going to help
establish your frame.
It’s not only about the words you say, it’s about your
dominant aura- body language speaks louder than
words, remember?
When combining these 3 principles, everybody will willingly
fall into your frame.
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The 3 Key Principles
Pre-framing
Pre-framing is a tactic that sets the context or frame for an
upcoming conversation.
It's essentially "prepping" her mindset before introducing a
specific topic or idea.
You can for example pre-frame the conversation by
saying something like:
"I really value open and honest communication in
relationships."
This pre-frame establishes a context of trust and honesty-
and will cause her to become more open and honest.
Beyond Seduction - Indestructible Frames: The 3 Key Principles
Another way is to for example ask her if she’s
adventurous and spontaneous early on in the interaction;
if she starts to qualify herself it’s not only an indicator of
interest but it will also give you an easy way out if any
LMR (last-minute resistance) occurs as you’re about to
close.
“You said you were spontaneous, right? Let’s go to that
bar/afterparty, etc.”
She has no choice but to go with it since she has
already agreed.
(As humans we'll do anything to protect our reputation.)
Beyond Seduction - Indestructible Frames: The 3 Key Principles
Pre-framing is an extremely powerful technique, it can
be used in any situation (business, dating,
discussions, politics, etc.)
With the goal of getting the outcome to end up in your
favor, the examples above are just a way to elucidate
my point.
It's all about setting the stage in order to get the
outcome you want later in the interaction.
Just like in chess, you need to think moves ahead.
You'll ALWAYS lose to the guy who thinks 10 moves
in advance.
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Reframing
Reframing is what I talked about earlier in the
chapter.
If a guy sneaks in front of you there are two ways to
interpret the situation.
He’s a fucking asshole < He was about this shit his
pants
The first approach spreads hate and negativity, while
the second approach is to show empathy and have a
positive outlook on the world.
Beyond Seduction - Indestructible Frames: The 3 Key Principles
The takeaway is that you may never truly know the truth
(nothing is right nor wrong) but it's always better to
assume something positive.
Life is supposed to be fun.
Humans have walked this Earth for 5 million years, and
we still haven't figured out why, so I would say it's safe to
assume that we don't have a bigger purpose than to
reproduce and have fun.
Most people spend their lives being angry, miserable, and
sad.
Fuck that- reframe and create a life worth living.
Beyond Seduction - Indestructible Frames: The 3 Key Principles
Hateful and negative interpretations will be harmful to your
own mental well-being.
While positive perspectives will gain you more control over
how you interpret and understand reality.
This, in turn, gives you more power over your own life.
Your interpretation of reality is your interpretation and
nobody has the right to question it.
Rejection?
A sign from the universe that she wasn't right for you.
Failed business?
Lesson learned.
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Sick?
Your body needed a rest, you’ll return stronger.
Job loss?
A chance to find a better opportunity.
Bad grade?
A learning opportunity to improve.
Car accident?
A reminder to be more cautious on the road.
Argument with a friend?
A chance to clear up misunderstandings and strengthen the
relationship.
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Bad weather?
An opportunity to enjoy indoor activities.
Not getting what you want?
A chance to reassess your priorities and goals.
You might think of this as some superstitious, pseudo-
scientific bullshit, but it’s not.
Yes, as with everything else it requires practice - but after a few
months you’ll automatically reframe every event positively and
in an instant; without even thinking about it- this must become
a habit.
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Box Framing
The importance of establishing dominance early on in the
conversation cannot be overstated.
There's a technique you can use to do that without being
aggressive or dismissive of the other person's point of view.
It's called box framing.
Basically, you want to put their point of view (their frame), into
a smaller box.
Then, you want to wrap your own point of view (your frame),
into a bigger box that encompasses theirs.
By doing this, you're not denying or rejecting their frame.
Instead, you're acknowledging it but showing that your frame is
a stronger and more comprehensive one.
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Get it?
It's a subtle way to assert yourself in a conversation without
being confrontational, especially with women as they’re
easily spooked.
Let’s look at an example most guys have experienced;
she says “I have a boyfriend”, in 9/10 cases she’s just saying it
to get rid of you, implying that you’re trying to hit on her and that
she has higher value than you;
she doesn’t actually have a boyfriend.
In fact, nine times out of ten, when a woman says,
"I have a boyfriend," what this translates to is, "You just
telegraphed too much interest."
Beyond Seduction - Indestructible Frames: The 3 Key Principles
It has nothing to do with whether she actually has a
boyfriend.
In fact, if she is attracted to you, she will often deliberately
hide the boyfriend from you until after you have had sex with
her.
Whether she mentions him or not in no way proves that he
actually exists, only that she had the motive to mention him.
The bottom line is, don't ask about her boyfriend, and don't
appear fazed if she mentions him.
Most likely he doesn’t even exist.
Just take it as an instance of a lack of interest caused by you
telegraphic too much interest far too soon.
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Here you want to put her frame inside a small box,
acknowledge it then wrap your frame around hers.
“Woah! Slow down sweetheart, I don’t even know your
name, I only date blond girls anyways.” (if she’s a
brunette)
You have acknowledged that she is in a “relationship”,
but have also belittled her and made her frame sound
ridiculous by emphasizing your own importance;
“You’re not up to my standard anyway”
You’re flipping the game on her, the roles have been
reversed, you’re no longer the pursuer - she is.
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Box framing can be used in discussion/social/business settings as
well; let’s say you’re discussing what’s better;
You think A is the best alternative, while your adversary thinks B
is better.
If you start trashing alternative B your adversary will close up and
go on the defensive: that’s basic human psychology. Instead, you
want to acknowledge alternative B but put it into a smaller box
than alternative A.
“I love alternative B, it’s great, but alternative A is magnificent, it’s
the greatest.”
Put their opinion in a smaller box and wrap your own box around
theirs. That’s the name of the game.
Powerful stuff.
Beyond Seduction - Indestructible Frames: The 3 Key Principles
Break Her Frame
Remember when I said frames are like the foundation of a
house?
Well, women's frames aren't that strong, because they're
never tested anymore.
Guys fall into women's frames like flies fall into spider webs.
It's easy to break their frames, but it requires balls.
It requires you to play the game right at the border of what's
seen as 'acceptable social behavior'
Beyond Seduction - Indestructible Frames: Break Her Frame
A “frame battle” often occurs during shit tests.
I’ll dive deeper into shit test later but to quickly get a
general understanding;
A shit test is when a girl says or does something to judge
the reaction or response from you.
The purpose is to confirm to her that you are capable of
doing what needs to be done to provide for and protect
her and your potential children.
Example:
“Do you use this line on every girl?”
Beyond Seduction - Indestructible Frames: Break Her Frame
What she’s trying to convey (her frame):
“You're pursuing me, I’m used to getting a lot of attention from
guys.
This is normal for me, I’m not easily impressed and not easy.
I have high standards and am of higher value than you.”
To break her frame you must have a stronger frame, your
response (your frame) must convey that:
“I have high standards and don’t settle for just anyone. I don't
chase after women, they chase me.
I’m not afraid to qualify or disqualify women, and I get my way
with women.
I’m the prize, she’s the pursuer, not the other way around,
Anyway, who gives a fuck, I don’t need what you got.”
Beyond Seduction - Indestructible Frames: Break Her Frame
Let me give you a word-for-word example of the same conversation but with
two different frames.
Lean back and enjoy the power of strong frames.
Example 1:
Her: “Do you use this line on every girl?”
You: “Eh...no, not at all, I came up with that specifically for you.”
Example 2:
Her: “Do you use this line on every girl?”
You: “Do you say that to all the guys you’re attracted to? I have a 7-date rule
anyway, so keep it in your pants tiger.”
Do you see the difference?
As humans we like to have control of conversations due to the feeling of
power, and because we want to feel like we are heard and have our opinions
respected.
Frame control will give you that finishing touch.
Beyond Seduction - Indestructible Frames: Break Her Frame
Both parties will always subconsciously try to impose their
frame, that’s why it’s called a ‘frame battle’, but the one with
the stronger frame always wins.
Remember this, strong frames aren’t being arrogant, it’s
about being a little narcissistic.
You must convey that you set high standards for yourself
through words (like the example above) because if you’re
trying to impose or force a prize frame through bragging
and arrogance it will have the opposite effect.
This is extremely important, and a mistake a lot of guys
make.
Trying to impose prize frame = Lower value.
Beyond Seduction - Indestructible Frames: Break Her Frame
This means attempting to control the situation and
dictate the terms of the interaction through direct
statements like:
“Lol, do you know who I am?", "I am the prize.”, “Do you
know how much I make a year?” will be perceived as
lacking value or being of low status, it’s too arrogant.
On the other hand, assuming prize frame = Higher
value.
This means that having a sense of self-worth and not
being overly concerned with external validation will be
perceived as having high value or status.
In other words, being comfortable in your own skin and
confident in your own worth will be attractive to others.
Beyond Seduction - Indestructible Frames: Break Her Frame
Example (you’re trying to convey that you have other
options):
Example 1:
“I don’t care, I already talk to a dozen of girls.”
(ignorant and arrogant = unattractive)
Note- Yes, you're conveying social proof, but it's through a
direct statement- it must be conveyed in an indirect way-
like being seen around other women.
Example 2:
“Look cutie, I don’t date girls over 5’6.”
(cockey-funny = attractive)
Beyond Seduction - Indestructible Frames: Break Her Frame
In example 2 she will subconsciously think:
“Wow, he’s been in the game for a while, this is
common for him.
He must have tons of other girls who want to take a trip
down to his D town, he’s like a forbidden fruit and I
badly want to taste it.
I get so excited by things I can’t have.
Shit, the temptation is too much, the only way to get rid
of it is to yield to his frame and taste it.”
Beyond Seduction - Indestructible Frames: Break Her Frame
She might have thought of herself as the prize initially in the
interaction, but now the roles are reversed.
You’ve become a prize to be won, causing her to go out of her way
to get you.
Seduction Principle: Be the “unavailable” man.
Don’t be unobtainable, but create barriers and make it hard for you.
Making yourself “unavailable” will cause her to want you even more.
Being easy, and falling into her arms WILL NOT allure her.
Being a forbidden fruit WILL.
Women are excited by what they cannot have.
Think of it this way: The forbidden fruit looks inviting, you see it,
but you cannot have it.
The only way to get rid of the temptation is to yield and taste the
fruit.
Beyond Seduction - Indestructible Frames: Break Her Frame
Experiences From My Frame Journey
When you're trying to improve your frame control, you'll
come across challenges that will test your frame and
values.
It's human nature to want to survive and avoid conflict, and
in ancient times, falling into someone else's frame could
mean the difference between being accepted or rejected by
a tribe.
But evolution hasn't CAUGHT up to that in today's
society, disagreeing with someone’s frame isn’t life-
threatening.
Despite that, our brains still operate with a primitive
mindset, so you need to be aware of this.
You must go against your own nature.
Beyond Seduction - Indestructible Frames:Experiences From My Frame Journey
You’re not going to die if you have the courage to stand firm in your
own frame.
Having the confidence to stand firm on your frame is attractive in
itself.
Also, as I mentioned earlier;
It's crucial to hold a sense of self-worth and to feel confident that you
deserve to be heard and treated with respect.
You must actually be the prize in order for your thoughts and values
to be deserving of consideration and acceptance.
But good news, when you’re done with this book you’ll have more
value than 99.9% of men and women in both social and sexual
contexts.
If you truly believed that you’re the top G whom every woman is
attracted to and would kill to fuck, your actions will flow automatically
no matter what happens externally.
Beyond Seduction - Indestructible Frames:Experiences From My Frame Journey
I’ve created 10 Rules Of Life - daily affirmations.
These are positive internal self-talk at its finest.
Ingrain these rules into every cell of your body and
you’ll learn to use frames much more effectively.
Take a screenshot, print out, write down, or open this
page every day.
Read them every morning and you’ll create an external
reality that aligns with your internal one.
Beyond Seduction - Indestructible Frames:Experiences From My Frame Journey
Rule 1:
"If it was easy everybody would do it.
I am not everybody. I am a motherfucking badass who got my
priorities straight."
Rule 2:
"I am calm and collected. I don't crack under pressure.
I am in full control of my mind.
I am always composed.
Hard to impress."
Beyond Seduction - Indestructible Frames:Experiences From My Frame Journey
Rule 3:
"I am unattached to places, events, and people.
I walk my own path in life, my path is the best path.
I say no to people and things not in alignment with my
path."
Rule 4:
"I don't want comfort.
I know personal growth happens outside the comfort zone."
Beyond Seduction - Indestructible Frames:Experiences From My Frame Journey
Rule 5:
"I am confident. I work out. I am proud of my body when standing
naked in the mirror.
I know if shit goes south I could inflict physical damage on everyone in
the room.
I dare look people deep in the eyes.
I am happy, jacked, and excited about my life."
Rule 6:
"My standards are high in life. With myself, my time, and the people
surrounding me.
I know it's better to be alone than being around the wrong people."
Beyond Seduction - Indestructible Frames:Experiences From My Frame Journey
Rule 7:
"I have made peace with the past so it doesn't fuck
with the present and future.
I have found inner peace and I am ready to
dominate."
Rule 8:
"I love that I am so disciplined.
I know it's the one thing separating the successful
from the average."
Beyond Seduction - Indestructible Frames:Experiences From My Frame Journey
Rule 9:
"I conquer my GOALS, I face challenges and
confrontations head-on.
I never give up, I never complain."
Rule 10:
"I am a winner.
Everybody wants my attention.
Women crave me.
I am always improving, success is inevitable for me."
Beyond Seduction - Indestructible Frames:Experiences From My Frame Journey
"Should I go through all this in part 1 just to be more
attractive to women?"
Well, the answer is yes and no.
When you set out on the journey of self improvement you’ll start out alone, with only your
hesitation and negative internal self-talk by your side.
As you venture further into it you’ll find yourself venturing further in your understanding
. As you learn, as you practice, as you fight the good fights, as you move from left to right
on your journey, you’ll discover something remarkable. The continuum keeps going,
forever, beyond the land of women, beyond everything you thought you wanted, beyond
what you can possibly see.
You’ll find yourself again standing alone. But not lonely and alone like before, but tall and
assured, in your strength, in your truth, in your masculinity, needing no validation from
women or anyone ever again.
That’s when you’ve made it.
When you have grown so much that your value has surpassed what you thought was ever
possible.
You’ll no longer seek the validation of others because you know, deep down, in your core,
that you have more value than them.
So no, this isn't to attract women, you should do all this for you, and you only. Attracting
women is just a byproduct of the hard work you have put in.
Beyond Seduction
Now you’ve been taught to develop the confidence, self-
worth, skills, work ethic, and body language of a high-
value man.
Now you need to develop the game to back it up.
Let’s jump into the fun part of the book.
GAME.
Beyond Seduction
PART 2:
THE SEDUCTION PLAYBOOK
GAME & SEDUCTION
“To lead astray, to make someone do what
you want them to do, to make someone act
in a certain way which they would not do
otherwise, almost like casting a spell.”
CHAPTER 6
CRACKING THE CODE:
UNDERSTANDING WOMEN & THEIR
COMPLEXITIES
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None of the content in this book should be
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"All women are different, yet all
women are wonderfully the same"
What Is a Woman?
The question every man has asked himself throughout history.
Obviously, the answer isn’t straightforward, because men keep asking
themselves the same old question over and over again:
So, what is a woman?
Well, I’ve thought about it and my realization is that women are just like children.
Hear me out:
They cry to manipulate situations, just like kids.
They crave and need attention, just like kids.
They scream when they're in danger, just like kids.
They want to be protected and provided for, just like kids.
They think emotionally not rationally, just like kids.
They ignore you when they're mad, just like kids.
They love stuffed animals, just like kids.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: What Is a Women?
They love sweets and candy, just like kids.
They get mad when they don't know where you are, just
like kids.
They want to follow you everywhere, just like kids.
They always want to know what you’re doing, just like
kids.
What most men don’t realize is that women are
shockingly similar to kids at their core.
If you remove their social programming you’ll find the same
little girl she once was at her core.
The reason?
Because women are the primary caregivers of children.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: What Is a Women?
That’s why most times, women seem to only have empathy for
kids and other women because they can relate to them.
Whereas, they lack empathy for men.
That’s why the masculine-feminine dynamic can be so
confusing at times because most men are trying to deal with
women in the same way they deal with men.
Here’s where the problem occurs:
Men think rationally.
Women and kids think emotionally.
Most men are trying to give a logical response to an emotional
demand.
IT DOESN’T WORK.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: What Is a Women?
The reason Casanova was such a successful seducer
was that he was an adventurer, a poet, and a writer.
He provided women with strong, deep emotions;
Giving an emotional response to their emotional
demands.
Anyway, when you have a better understanding of women
it’s impossible for you to hate them.
It also becomes impossible for you to let them frustrate
you, when you know they have the wiring of a child.
WOMEN ARE KIDS WITH TITS.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: What Is a Women?
What Type Of Women Exist?
For you to become better with women, you first have to
understand them.
But before we dive down that rabbit hole you need to
understand what type of women exist in our current society.
I love women, with all my heart. That’s one of the main reasons
why I started my page, to spread the message;
To share my love for the beauty of the feminine without
putting them on a pedestal.
But this is no secret, some women in 2023 are fucking hoes.
Yes I said it, but what’s worse is men who believe ALL women
are hoes.
Now, that’s a lie.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: What Type Of Women Exist?
This is a result of dating podcasts bringing in trashy girls;
The worst of the worst and red pill content that turns guys into
women haters.
Misogynists simply don’t have game, because you can’t hate
women if you’ve experienced the true, genuine, tenderness of a
woman's affection.
In the middle of the night, when she’s in a subconscious state, and
she turns and just lays on your chest, and holds you tight.
That my friend, is the greatest feeling a man can experience.
But yeah, sure, the number of OnlyFans girls, attention-seeking
bitches, and disrespectful hoes at your local nightclub is increasing,
but it doesn’t mean high-quality, beautiful, feminine, good-hearted,
kind women don’t exist;
YOU’RE JUST LOOKING IN THE WRONG PLACES.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: What Type Of Women Exist?
You can’t blame a clown for acting like a clown, you need to ask
yourself why you’re still going to the circus, get it?
Let me put it this way, there are 4 types of women in the world.
Hoes
Those no one cares about
Hot women
Beautiful women
Just forget the hoes and the ones no one cares about because let me
be honest:
NOBODY CARES ABOUT THEM.
I’m not saying that to be rude, no, it’s just a matter of fact.
Just like women don’t care about the overweight, ugly, cashier at their
local gas station, we men don’t care about those type of women.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: What Type Of Women Exist?
Just like you can't expect a fish to climb a tree, you can’t expect a dork with zero
value and no game to effortlessly sleep with 9 and 10s.
Likewise, hoes can’t expect to get their hands on a high-value man, because
they haven’t managed to preserve the irresistible beauty they were dealt at birth,
they have lost their value.
So let’s focus on hot women and beautiful women.
There's a difference between hot women and beautiful women.
Hot women are everywhere. Nice ass and a good rack of tits. They’re
beautified, not beautiful.
Beautiful women are rare.
They have the kindness, the goodness, the gentleness of the feminine spirit.
Hot chicks speak to our impulses-
“I want to fuck the shit out of you”
Beautiful women speak to us on a deeper level, they speak to our imagination-
“I want to wake up beside you, I want to protect you, I want to care for you, I want
to provide for you.”
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: What Type Of Women Exist?
If you deeply contemplate, I think every man will discover two remarkable
women in his life: one possessing stunning beauty (Beautiful women) and
the other radiating irresistible allure (Hot women)
The thing is;
Beautiful women are lonely.
Not only because they're intimidating to others, but because others put
them on pedestals.
As a result never fully included in the lives of others.
Men are rarely honest with them about their intentions and women are
jealous and mistrustful toward them.
They're placed on a pedestal- in their own little magical realm, far away
from the rest.
They're set apart, not included.
Hot women get hit on all the time. Beautiful women rarely do.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: What Type Of Women Exist?
This is because hot women as said speak to our impulses-
“I want to fuck her, therefore I must talk to her.”
Beautiful women on the other hand are mysterious, they have depth,
and complexity to them- it confuses men, hence; they’re looked past.
As a result of this beautiful women find nightclubs pretty depressing,
and most of them don’t even want to be there because of their values
and because beautiful women are often shy and withdrawn.
Another difference is that beautiful women who act innocent in public
love to be degraded in bed.
While the slutty ones who have no grace in public want to be “cuddled”
and cared for.
That’s because women reveal their repressed desires sexually.
It’s during sex a woman is truly in touch with her soul.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: What Type Of Women Exist?
Every other time what you see and hear is just her socially
conditioned side coming out.
The ‘politically correct’, sexually repressed, all up in her head and
not in touch with her body.
That’s what you see coming out.
The innocent ones don’t want to reveal their sexual side because
they don’t want to be seen as a slut.
The slutty types don’t want to reveal their need for love and care
because they don’t want others to think she’s not “strong and
independent”
The biggest makeup women wear is not cosmetics…
It’s her personality.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: What Type Of Women Exist?
Another distinguisher between hot women and beautiful women is what
they’re attracted to.
Hot women are attracted to the classical ‘shiny objects’: money,
expensive clothes, fancy watches, your car, social status, etc.
They’re easy to attract- flash is better than the guy next to you she’s
yours.
As Zan Perrion said: “Aquire shiny object, acquire hot women.”
Do you think beautiful women care about these things? Hmm, you’re
starting to get it now?
Quality women are beautiful women, and the answer is: No, they don’t
care.
They’re attracted to you- the beauty inside you, what lies beyond your
social programming.
They don’t care about your superficial layers, they want you, for who
you are and only you.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: What Type Of Women Exist?
They’re attracted to masculine men with a lifelong passion, a passion
bigger than him, a passion bigger than her, a passion bigger than his
life.
THE HIGH-VALUE MEN.
The men who also are set apart by society, but by their own
choice.
The men that chase something more than just the obsession to fit in,
to present themselves in a certain way to please others.
The men who are authentic, something more than just captives of
superficiality,
The men who chase something else than just trying to navigate the
sea of filters, polished images, and hollow validation of modern
society.
The men who measure their worth by something more than the
number of likes, followers, and comments they receive.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: What Type Of Women Exist?
High quality attracts high quality.
These are the classical ‘power couples’ when a high-value man meets a
beautiful woman.
So if you’re ever faced with a decision between choosing a hot woman and
a beautiful woman, ALWAYS choose the beautiful one.
Beautiful women are the most magical creatures on earth, and a smile
graces my countenance just by writing about them.
Stop disliking women as a whole just because you’ve interacted with one
hoe.
Don’t let one woman spoil the way to feel about all women.
Don’t let one bad apple change the way you feel about them as a whole.
Please, whatever you do, don't become a women hater.
DUDES, KINGS, BROTHERS, TRUST ME WHEN I SAY IT;
THERE ARE STILL QUALITY WOMEN OUT THERE.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: What Type Of Women Exist?
“In a realm of enchantment, behold the ethereal presence of
feminine beauty. They move with grace, their eyes reflecting
galaxies and their laughter like silvery bells. Their touch
soothes and ignites, their radiant forms adorned with
elegance. They embody love's purest manifestations,
inspiring and captivating with their mystical allure.
They are the magic of womanhood.”
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: What Type Of Women Exist?
What Do Women Want?
"To truly connect with a woman, you must first seek to understand
her heart, for it is a treasure chest of emotions and desires."
In order for you to become better with women, you first have to
understand them.
Female psychology is often looked at as a confusing and complex topic,
but it’s not as perplexing as you may think.
While men and women share similarities, we have distinct differences.
As a man, it's essential to understand the nuances of how women think,
act, and function, as well as their desires.
It's a question that has puzzled men throughout history.
The answer, however, is surprisingly straightforward.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: What Do Women Want?
Throughout history women have always chosen the resourceful
alpha male, back then resourcefulness meant the ability to provide
protection and fulfill basic primal needs like food and water.
In today's society, safety and nourishment are relatively
widespread.
However, women are still instinctively attracted to these timeless
traits of the masculine man:
Strength, confidence, courage, fearlessness, independence,
leadership, and assertiveness.
In other words, these traits are timeless and continue to hold
significance in how women perceive and are attracted to men,
regardless of societal or cultural shifts; so don’t hit me up with “This
doesn’t work on women in my culture.”
BS, female psychology is universal.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: What Do Women Want?
When you narrow it down to its core; women desire a man who
can handle challenging situations, provide a sense of safety, and
fulfill the roles of a provider, protector, and lover all in one.
“Ah, Unlimited Knowledge, all women aren’t attracted to the
same”
To that, I say: All women are different, yet all women are
wonderfully the same.
They all want a masculine man, who’s comfortable in his own
skin.
A man other women want to bang
A man other men want to be.
Across generations, there has been a natural and powerful
attraction between masculine and feminine energies.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: What Do Women Want?
The concept of "opposites attract" holds true, as the dynamic
interplay of masculine and feminine energies has been a
fundamental force in relationships and the reproduction of human
life.
The inherent differences between these energies create a magnetic
pull, where each complements and balances the other.
So, the question arises:
What happens when society brainwashes young men into believing
that masculinity is toxic?
Well, unfortunately, it disrupts the natural balance and dynamic
between the masculine and feminine energy.
When young men are misled into believing that masculinity is
something negative or harmful, it will impact their self-perception
and behavior.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: What Do Women Want?
This distortion has resulted in a generation of confused,
insecure, anxious, doubtful, worried, nervous, and shy young
men, and has hindered the development of positive masculine
traits, such as confidence, strength, leadership, and
assertiveness.
Ultimately, it has led to a distorted understanding of gender
dynamics and hindered the natural attraction and synergy between
masculine and feminine energies that have existed throughout
history.
Men wearing skirts, increased rates of depression, the
transformation of Agent 007 into a female character, and a rapid
decline in testosterone levels are just some of the signs pointing
toward the gradual fading of the traditional masculine spirit.
The masculine spirit is slowly dying, but if you want to succeed in the
modern dating market you need to reignite your masculine spirit.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: What Do Women Want?
Female Psychology Explained
For ages, men have considered “Female Psychology,” or the female
way of thinking, to be one of the greatest mysteries in the universe.
Psychoanalysts, philosophers, and poets have spent countless
amounts of time agonizing over this topic.
Well, the good news is that female psychology
can be explained to men in a perfectly understandable way.
You can learn how female logic works just like you can learn the
functions of a computer or the technical specifications of a car.
Every function of the human brain has an evolutionary purpose, we
can agree on that, right?
The evolutionary purpose of female logic is to achieve two basic
goals:
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: Female Psychology Explained
1) To create ideal conditions for the birth of her children, and ideal
conditions to protect those children during their early years of
development.
2) To influence the men and the environment around her to give
her and her children support and protection.
This influence usually manifests as manipulation, which when you
really think about it:
In this scenario may be seen as a positive force used by the
woman instinctually as a means to support life.
Think about it, if women weren't so biologically obsessed with
creating the right conditions for their children, you and I wouldn't
be her.
Mankind would have ended millions of years ago.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: Female Psychology Explained
As men, we NEVER think about it.
When you're out partying or looking at an attractive woman on the
street;
Do you think:
1) "Damn, I want to fuck the shit out of that ass."
or
2) "In order to have sex with that woman I need to make sure the
environment and she is capable of giving our potential children the
perfect conditions."
Exactly, we might look the same, but we're wired completely
different biologically.
Men seek to reproduce, women seek to take care.
That's why you and I are here.. millions of years later.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: Female Psychology Explained
Completely changes the way you look at women, doesn't it?
Anyway, a woman naturally achieves these goals by creating
within herself a sense of emotional congruence.
When creating such emotions, women are especially concerned
with “how she feels right now” as opposed to a male-logic concern
of “how A correlates to B"
Hence; Men think logically, women think emotionally.
In psychologically healthy women, these will be emotions of
pleasure and safety.
In other, (not so healthy, or those with a traumatizing background)
women: drama, histrionics, and hysteria serve a similar purpose.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: Female Psychology Explained
Female psychology is deeply rooted in emotional understanding,
enabling women to link their current emotional state to a series of
external factors, even if those factors seem physically illogical or
irrational.
For women, the emotional significance outweighs the need for a
strictly logical or rational cause, and this is what causes confusion
among men.
To women, accepting and acknowledging the emotion holds greater
importance than pinpointing a logical or rational explanation.
Think of female logic as a sequence of emotional states, connected
along an imaginary chain:
→b→c→x→y→z→u→a→b→
While for men it's:
→a→b→c→d→e→f→g→h→
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: Female Psychology Explained
In this emotional sequence, the elements don't need to follow what
men might see as logical or physically connected patterns.
Instead, they are linked based on how one emotion (let's call it
emotion b) led to another emotion (emotion c), and so on within the
woman.
There's no requirement for any other correlation between the
elements, and it's uncertain which element may cause the next one in
the sequence.
So, it's not about traditional cause-and-effect relationships but rather
about how emotions are connected within the woman's experience.
I'm sorry if this became very academic, but there's no better way to
explain it.
I'll try to explain it like I would explain a 10-year-old:
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: Female Psychology Explained
POV: *Unlimited Knowledge Explaining Female Psychology To a 10-Year-Old Boy*
"Imagine you have a magical emotion chain for a girl, and it goes like this: a-x-c-h-
u-a-e-b.
But you're a big boy now, so you know that wasn't the usual pattern of the alphabet.
In this special chain, the emotions are connected in a unique way, not following the
normal rules that we men might understand.
For example, emotion "b" can make the girl feel emotion "c," and then emotion "x"
might make her feel emotion "h," and so on.
There's no specific reason why these emotions are linked like this, and it's a bit like
a magical mystery.
It's not following the usual patterns that we usually see in our everyday lives.
Instead, it's about how these emotions are connected in her heart, like a secret
emotional code.
So, it's all about the feelings and how they make her experience the world, not just
following regular logic or rules. Isn't that fascinating?
Emotions can sometimes be like a magical adventure!"
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Most women use chick logic, which means they rely more on emotions to make
decisions.
Not all women do this, though. For example: If you have a female boss she'll make
rational decisions no matter what, but that's because of layers of social filters, she's not
herself in that moment of time, it's an alter ego, she's a boss.
And it's not so bad that if a girl craves milk, she'll get a glass of orange juice.
There is to some degree logic behind their decisions.
WOMEN ONLY TURN TO EMOTIONAL REASONING WHEN THEY FEEL STRONG
EMOTIONS OR WHEN THEY'RE IN UNCOMFORTABLE SOCIAL SITUATIONS.
For example, if a girl gets upset she'll turn to emotional decision making.
But here's the problem: There is NO clear connection between their emotions and
what causes them.
Even she might not know what caused the emotional outburst.
That's why I always say that women are free-flowing creatures, they do whatever she
feels in THAT MOMENT OF TIME.
That's why you should never take a women's word so seriously.
Don't listen to what she says, observe what she does.
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It's important to understand that applying what some people call "male logic" to
women's emotions doesn't work.
It has the opposite effect.
It leads to frustration for her.
That's why women get even more pissed when you are trying to "solve" their
problems with your male logic.
So if there's one lesson to take away from this:
She doesn't want you to solve her problems, all she wants is your support and
that you try to understand her.
You might be thinking: "What can I do to get a better understanding? Or fix
the issue? How can I make her think more logically?"
And the answer is simple: No one knows, not even me.
It's truly a magical mystery.
All you can do is try to find humor in the never-ending drama the feminine
seems to enjoy so much.
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A smart man once said: "If things were so good before, it would have never
changed."
Just a couple of years back it was completely normal that the man had
complete leadership in the relationship.
It's just in recent years that women have taken more and more control.
What most people fail to notice is that it has to be 60/40.
The man needs to have a little more control in order for any healthy relationship
to work. Not too much, 60% is the sweat balance.
Why? Well, back in the day, and most men today like to relax when they get into
a committed relationship. In an attempt to relax, the man will start an attempt to
establish control of her behavior as soon as he gets in touch with her emotional
side.
This almost always leads to disappointment, because often a woman will
dramatically escalate her use of female logic the more she is sexually attracted
to her man.
The more logic and control a man attempts to establish, the more the woman
will escalate emotionally. For her, it’s a matter of self-defense to preserve
her sense of identity as a woman.
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(Same with men, if his women become too controlling they'll put on their armor
to preserve their masculinity.
Anyway, when a man tries to have his woman’s female logic repressed and
transformed into male logic, he actually represses his woman’s sexual
attraction towards him.
You must understand that the kind of emotional thinking within the woman-
which I identify as female psychology is strongly linked to her sexuality.
That's why there some many washed-up couples who resent each other, who
stick together despite the hatred because they're both too scared to be alone.
Dealing with a woman and her female psychology in the proper way is difficult,
but the best advice I can give is that you cannot relax in the way you normally
intend to relax.
This is because if you could naturally understand a woman when she is thinking
with her female psychology, you would no longer be a real man, but rather quite
an effeminate man.
Instead, to make a woman happy and sexually active, you must cultivate a
constant state of awareness within yourself: be aware of her emotional state,
without allowing her emotional state to affect you.
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And that is all I'm doing here, I am making you aware of the problem.
Because the only way to at least try to solve a problem is first to be aware
of it.
From my experience, the best way to deal with female psychology is to help
your woman to actually enhance it, instead of trying to change it.
Obviously; this must happen in such a way that you never lose your masculine
frame, because if you do that then you will become her “male girlfriend”;
emotionally close- sure, but without the sexual tension that is at the very
center of any healthy relationship.
At its core, female logic is somewhat schizophrenic. Haha, I'm not kidding.
Therefore, in order to at least try to deal with it successfully, you have to
position yourself in a little bit of a schizophrenic manner;
You must be able to talk womanese, without ever losing the sexually active and
aggressive frame of the masculine male.
Your masculine frame.
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When I went through my first break up I remember I bought: “Men are
From Mars, Women are From Venus” in the hope to get a better
understanding of women.
While these types of books can help you understand female
psychology to a certain degree there's a HUGE problem.
In the process they emasculate the man, stripping them of their
masculine core.
A MASSIVE PROBLEM.
Because to maintain sexual attraction from a girl, you need to
understand female psychology but at the same time remain as your,
true, real, authentic, masculine self.
You do not effectively resolve the differences between male logic
and female logic by becoming more female.
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Finally, by now you understand that women have a special way of rationalizing
their emotions, call it 'Female Psychology', 'Chick Logic', whatever.
I don't have all the answers, nobody does, and I don't think anyone ever will.
It's one of the mysteries of the world.
Some things are best left unanswered.
Your takeaway from this chapter is that chick logic is a fundamental weapon in
the female arsenal for managing their relationships with men.
Chick logic leads to notions such as “If you don’t talk about it, it never
happened.”
When you hear a phrase like this from a woman, understand that what this
means in practice is that she doesn’t want to talk about something that “causes”
her to feel bad.
Never mind whether the whole incident was captured on video, that’s
completely irrelevant to her.
As long as she never talks about it, she never has to feel those bad emotions.
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The crux of my argument is:
NEVER trust a women's words when she's in an emotional state.
Regardless of her emotional state, happy or not, doesn't matter.
Don't take her words seriously.
If she's happy she can want to have your children today, and break up
with you tomorrow.
If she's upset she can hate you now, and tell you that you're the only one
for her and that she loves you more than anything in the world 15
minutes after.
The feminine energy is free-flowing and present in the moment by
nature.
She makes decisions based on her current mood.
Be aware of the problem and act accordingly.
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The Magic Pussy Syndrome
Magic Pussy Syndrome Or MPS is a syndrome that has become popular in
recent years.
"Unlimited Knowledge, what the fuck is MPS?"
Well, MPS is the belief that because a woman has a pussy, she is entitled to
special privileges at other people’s expense. Such as free drinks, free dinner,
alimony, and child support.
It's important to note that not all women suffer from this all the time.
Most women have a bit of it in them, at least some of the time.
For example, I recently met a woman who said she had been dating two
guys at the same time except that she wouldn’t allow them to date other
women.
Now this was not an otherwise bad woman, in fact, she was a good girl.
But she believed that because she was a woman, she had the right to
behave this way, and that the men she dated did not.
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As a man, understanding and acknowledging MPS will grant you
significant power, as long as you strike a delicate balance by not taking it
too seriously.
Demonstrating that you're above a woman's MPS will disrupt her superior
attitude.
If you show this rare and superior frame, a woman will be wonderfully
transformed into pursuing you.
This is because MPS usually acts as a screening mechanism for women,
to see if you're able to provide for her potential children, remember?
While many men may accept the MPS frame, only the best (All of you that
own Beyond Seduction) recognize this frame of her, BUT DO NOT
ACCEPT IT.
But you must also recognize women with too much MPS as it can be a
very effective method to eliminate women from your life who will prove to
be a pain in the ass, and you can accomplish this very early on in your
interactions with them.
It will save you a lot of time and energy.
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For example: Imagine that you met an attractive woman, and you plan a
day 2 (I call dates day 2), like going to play tennis and then getting
something to eat.
But she shows up late without a significant reason.
Now, her next actions are crucial in understanding her behavior and MPS.
If she apologizes and makes it up to you in some way, like offering to pay
for the transportation, then you can let the lateness slide and not worry too
much about it.
However, if instead of apologizing, she follows up with a request or
demand for something not on the original plan and expects you to pay for
it, this it's a massive red flag.
Too much MPS, if she shows no consideration for your time or tries to
take advantage of you financially, it's a sign of MASSIVE trouble ahead.
If you don't address this behavior right away, she will continue to act in a
way that tests your limits until she reaches your breaking point.
Most guys let this slide- BECAUSE SHE HAS A PUSSY, but it will only
result in a painful future. She'll officially own you.
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Anyway, MPS is more obvious in women with low-self esteem, hoes,
and hot women.
Beautiful women rarely have MPS.
Because hoes and hot women are so used to weak men suppressing
their opinions, wants, and desires in an attempt to gain their validation,
they take it as a personal insult when a strong man refuses.
There is nothing you can do to correct these women, and unless you
enjoy pain, lol, it is best to avoid any sort of serious relationship with
them.
Any relationship with such women is a dead end in both directions.
They will react with frustration to a man who does not supplicate to
their MPS because they take it as a personal offense.
It's just a dark, toxic path of being on a leach ahead.
I bet you can think of a women you know with massive MPS, what it
essentially means is that she feels superior to you.
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Origins of MPS
Magic Pussy Syndrome became a thing because female sexual arousal is
initiated by words, whereas male sexual arousal is a result of visual
stimulation.
This creates an obvious mismatch between male and female sexuality, and as
a result- attractive women become overloaded with attention from men.
Typically, men often start interactions with women by showing their attraction
based solely on visual factors.
However, relying solely on her looks doesn't work; every guy gives her
compliments on her look, several times a week, women have become
immune, women want something more, something enigmatic, something
deeper.
The result of this is that, over time, many women believe that they are entitled
to special advantages in our society BECAUSE WEAK MEN PUT THEM ON
PEDESTALS.
With men approaching and giving in to a woman's needs all the time, and
demanding nothing more from the woman than that she looks good, it has
become extremely easy for women to exploit men's weakness:
Our desire for sex.
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Pussy Trance
The effect on men who haven’t come to grips with MPS is something I like to call Pussy
Trance.
Men in Pussy Trance treat all women as if their pussies are magic, where the woman is
literally carrying his balls around in her purse.
How you know that you're in a Pussy Trance:
1. If you find yourself in the company of a woman, doing something you don’t really want
to do, and you aren’t sure how you came to be doing it, you’re tranced.
2. If you approach a woman you are interested in, and she ends up leading the
discussion in directions that you don’t want to go, you are tranced.
3. If at any time, you make excuses for a woman’s bad behavior just because she is a
woman, you are either tranced or in danger of being tranced. If this bad behavior is
affecting you personally and you are still making excuses for the woman, you are
definitely pussy tranced.
If you see yourself in any of the above situations, you are already ahead of most guys,
merely by the fact that you are now taking steps to understand what’s going on.
Being pussy tranced means essentially that you're a massive, totally, utterly SIMP.
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Dealing With MPS
Think of MPS as an integral psychological aspect of most women that needs to be taken
into account when interacting with them or when seducing them.
Since you never can choose a woman (only give her an opportunity to choose you) it
means that biologically, females choose for sex. Therefore, let the woman feel as though
she has free reign to choose whether or not to have sex with you, without any pressure
from you.
If she feels the need for her ego to be stroked (she needs to feel as if her pussy is magic),
it’s no big deal, if your intentions are to cum and run.
This means that you should never, ever allow a woman like this into a serious
relationship with you, without first ensuring that everything else she brings to the table is
complementary to or supportive of your non-sexual interests.
In other words, let the woman choose for sex, but ensure that you, the man, are the one
choosing her, the woman, for the relationship. And you must absolutely ensure that your
choice is not based on the fact she has a pussy and she happens to be physically
attractive.
Values > Looks.
Golden Rule: When dealing with women who insist on being treated like ladies, first make
sure that they are acting like ladies.
If they aren’t acting like ladies, don’t treat them as if they are, no matter what they look like.
If you do, you are officially the definition of a simp.
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Female Manipulation
Note- Pay close attention, inside this chapter I'll literally SOLVE relationships, and
teach you how to maintain a healthy one.
Manipulation is an instinctual behavior deeply rooted within female biology.
Manipulation is also a learned behavior, due to one’s need for survival, as I mentioned in
the introduction of this book; Women are physically weaker, so they had to adapt.
From a biological point of view, there is not too much of a difference between biologically-
rooted and learned behavior.
In fact, from the point of view of both modern neurobiology and evolutionary psychology,
behaviors repeated and learned over time become deeply rooted in the neurological
patterns within the brain, to the point where the behavior becomes largely unconscious.
As individuals, we are prone to choose behaviors that support survival, and manipulation
has certainly been selected as a desirable survival skill, especially among women.
Manipulation is defined as: "The attempt to influence another person’s mind to achieve a
certain outcome."
I'm telling you this because most of you don't understand women, as said you're always
looking at the world through a male perspective.
We might look the same, but we are wired completely differently.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: Female Manipulation
In order to best understand and manage relationships with women,
you MUST understand that there are various stages of manipulation
that a woman will go through during the course of a relationship with a
man.
On the biological level, females are programmed to:
1. Elicit a strong sexual attraction in one or more strong males.
2. Feel a strong sexual attraction for such males.
3. Become impregnated by her choice of male.
4. Have a male to provide materially for both her and her infant child.
5. Afterwards, she will subconsciously tend to operate in such a way
as to have her sexual attraction for that male decrease.
6. Wash, rinse, repeat: she will tend to have more sexual intercourse
and more children with other strong males.
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I like to call this "betaization," where the alpha male becomes "beta," meaning he
becomes "secondary" or "subservient" within the relationship over time.
This change happens slowly and almost imperceptibly to both.
You've probably noticed:
Girl finds alpha.
Alpha falls for girl.
Girl turns alpha into beta.
Girl leave beta for alpha.
There are two reasons why girls manipulate:
• Safety and comfort for her and her children, with their survival being the primary
purpose.
To thereby influence the man’s mind in such a way that he will feel compelled
to protect her and her children, especially before pregnancy, during the
pregnancy, and throughout the children’s early developmental years.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: Female Manipulation
The more manipulation is used by a woman, the more it becomes natural and
unconscious to her.
It is like learning to play a musical instrument: at first it is difficult and you
need to pay conscious attention to each note being played. Then, as mastery
is gradually achieved, manipulation becomes more and more unconscious.
It's like everything: It's hard to push a car, but it becomes easy once the
wheels start rolling.
Behaviors are slow to develop and also slow to be unlearned.
However, for a woman’s sexuality to be satisfied, her manipulation attempts
against you mustn't be too effective. Now, this is your responsibility.
You must learn to observe female behavior and give the right responses, with
the goal of making her happy on the emotional level, as opposed to
responding to manipulation attempts on a logical level.
You can't give a logical response to an emotional demand.
Learning to respond appropriately requires knowing the various stages of
female manipulation.
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She'll attempt to own you mentally by following these stages:
• Testing You
• Seeking Communication
• Putting You to Work
• Evolutionary Selfishness
• Self-Determination
Testing You- “Let me be a little bitch to him.”
A woman instinctively knows that men can impregnate multiple women with
fewer consequences, while she bears a higher risk and burden in pregnancy.
Therefore, she looks for qualities like physicality and leadership abilities in a
man. In modern society, qualities like intellectual capacity and strength of
personality have gained importance, but in times of hardship like war,
physical qualities are more important.
A woman will always test you if she is attracted, seeking a balance between
survival and sexual desire.
A woman's evaluations of you are essential in choosing you as a suitable
mate, hence: Shit tests, ASD, LMR, MPS.
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Seeking Communication- “Open up to me, please.”
Once a woman has tested you and is confident in your strength and suitability, her
focus shifts to making you commit exclusively to her.
Many men, who passed the initial tests, struggle to understand this next stage. It can
be challenging for the average man to recognize this stage (because he isn't aware
of it), and because women often conceal their true intentions behind seemingly
innocent and indirect attempts to communicate.
Women naturally value communication greatly, but at this stage, they often use
language to confuse you, hoping to gain your loyalty and cooperation.
Problems often arise when a woman feels you lack proper communication skills,
even though she's communicating indirectly and unprecise.
Women often place the blame on you, even though she chose you deliberately in the
first stage.
During this second stage, women pretend to seek deeper communication, but in
reality, she aims to test your strength even further.
A strong man will sense the attempt to weaken him and react with anger or
withdrawal, which she'll find sexy, but she'll play upset.
This often leads to the 'classical illogical arguments' that have no clear basis.
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Putting You To Work- “Honey, please take out the trash,
and fix the fence and please hurry!”
When and if a man opens himself emotionally up to a woman he's
fucked.
From that point onwards she effectively owns the frame of the
relationship.
Now, FINALLY, the active destruction of attraction can begin, and
please don't hate women for this, it's just the way they're biologically
wired.
She'll now start her attempts to take over aspects of your life that
directly affect your material interests, a man's weak point, his stuff.
For example, purchase decisions will now be made “jointly” which, in the
cool light of rational analysis, really are the result of the woman’s
manipulation attempts and your desire to maintain some semblance
of peace in the household, because if it's on thing we men value,
PEACE and QUIET.
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Female Evolutionary Selfishness-
“I am never satisfied no matter what you do or how hard you
try.”
This stage begins once she has succeeded in having you (formerly strong)
open up to her emotionally.
In this stage, any communication with you is only for the purpose of deriving
something useful for her and her children.
At this stage she will exhibit a total disregard for your psychological and
material interests. You'll constantly be put under the power of a strong and
constant psychological double bind, along the lines of:
“If you don’t open up to me I am not satisfied. You don’t communicate with
me.”
simultaneous with
“As soon as you open up to me I will use the information you provide in a
totally selfish way for my own needs.”
Women will tell you to be vulnerable and use it agaisnt you at the first
opportunity.
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Female Self-Determination-
“I am full grown, independent woman now.”
During the self-determination stage, you will encounter another double
bind that's even more powerful than before.
As you start seeking the emotional communication she had been asking
for, she will express feelings of oppression, boredom, or dissatisfaction.
These expressions will leave you feeling bewildered, ashamed, or guilty.
If you decide to detach and not care about her words or actions, she will
label you as an unloving partner, leading to negative emotions within
you. In this stage, women voice their resentment and dissatisfaction,
especially with partners who have become psychologically weaker over
time.
Men who successfully navigate these stages without a decrease in their
partner's sexual attraction are exceptionally strong. Such men avoid
becoming psychologically weaker through this process, but they are
rarer exceptions. (This is you, as you now are aware of the problem)
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"Why? Why? Why?" you might be thinking, "why slowly but surely destroy the
relationship?"
Well, it's not a choice, just like you and I want to fuck every woman we walk
past on the streets, it's something we're drawn towards.
It's natures way to ensure we, as a species, survive.
Nature creates initial attraction between partners, which eventually decreases
to ensure safer upbringing for offspring and more sexual interactions with other
partners, leading to a wider spread of genetic material.
This pattern is not entirely different from some animal species where the
female often harms the male after mating, but in humans, this harm is mostly
psychological.
Symbolic "killing" happens on a psychological level, although some men may
react more seriously, damaging their health with substance abuse or abusive
behaviors.
Long-term monogamous relationships simply aren't natural, they are a
social construct, an illusion of hope, that we humans created, in the
search for meaning, stability, and happiness.
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Results Of Manipulation
When all the sexual attraction has evaporated the outcome depends on cultural beliefs.
In cultures where women can't leave their partner the end result is usually clinical
depression.
Clinical depression occurs when her sexual attraction for her man decreases or dies
out completely, and she is prevented from having sex with other males by social
restraint.
The woman in this case has to face a practically impossible conflict between her
emotions, which demand sexual satisfaction, and her societally-restrained behavior,
which prohibits sexual satisfaction.
In modern, politically-correct societies, a common end result of the manipulation
process is the woman ending the relationship, or acting in such a way that the man has
no other choice but to end the relationship.
Cheating is very likely to happen in either case.
There you go, gave you a completely different view on relationships, didn't it? Well,
hope isn't lost.
Here's how to avoid the different stages.
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Counter Manipulation
Once you understand the manipulation process, you can effectively counter
female manipulation.
Testing - Solution
Testing is an ongoing aspect of the relationship, as women unconsciously
use it to assess your genuineness and authenticity.
However, if you are fully congruent, you'll naturally pass these tests
effortlessly, and they will not have a significant impact.
Maintaining attraction in the relationship is crucial, and the best way to do so
is by engaging in regular social interactions with other attractive females.
Create sexual tension.
Maintaining friendships with other women will in fact positively impact the
relationship's dynamics.
All in all, the clue is to continue to be the man you were when you entered
the relationship.
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Seeking Communication - Solution
When you hear a woman say, "I don't feel we are communicating," it's not just about
exchanging facts; it's an emotional statement revealing her confusion and disconnection
from the relationship.
When she blames you for her emotional distress, it's because women tend to externalize
their feelings, seeking masculine leadership to handle their emotions without fear.
The most crucial word in such statements is "feel," and it matters more that she feels
something, even if it's not indifference.
Women want to feel strong emotions, remember?
The problem isn't that you're not communicating.
The problem is a lack of strong emotions.
It’s so important that in many cases it doesn’t matter what she feels, as long as it’s any
emotion stronger than indifference.
Anything with passion will do, as long as it’s followed up, in all cases, with the
appropriate level of physical commitment.
And always make sure that intense displays of passion are followed by intense displays
of affection. Let me be blunt: Fuck her hard, fuck her good. (See The Sex Playbook:
Part 3)
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Putting you to work - Solution
This can easily be stopped simply by saying “no.” Do it sometimes. Just say no.
If your girl has become accustomed or used to you obeying or complying with her requests immediately without
hesitation, then refusing a request is going to stop her in her tracks.
She will literally not know what to do.
Lots of drama will ensue, as attack is a usual defense mechanism for women, so be prepared. But note that drama isn't a
bad thing, strong emotions remember?
Bad emotions are better than no emtoions.
Another way to handle her constant requests is by teasing and fun. You can gently make fun of her being “bossy,” and so
forth: "Oh, you're a big girl now, bossing around the house."
Yet another effective way to handle her attempts to put you to work is to negotiate with her.
For example, if she demands that you change her tires, you can kindly request that she prepare a special meal while
you're out.
While tit for tat may seem thoroughly unromantic, by the time you're is in this situation, romance is already out the
window.
There is nothing to lose, and only your self-respect to regain.
That's why it's so important to set the culture of doing things, small gestures for each other prior you come to this stage
of the relationship.
Finally, be proactive and act like a leader: women want to feel useful and contribute to something meaningful. Spend
some time to give your her meaningful work, ensuring that you are the one who determines the direction of the
relationship.
You will find that agreeing on specific tasks becomes much easier. When you appreciate a good woman for her specific
contribution, she will be delighted in her relationship, and feel she made an excellent selection in a man.
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Female Evolutionary Selfishness - Solution
Understanding evolutionary selfishness is essential, considering that a woman's primary concern is for her
own well-being and of her children.
Most women find it challenging, if not impossible, to feel altruistic or merciful towards a grown man.
Your role as a man is to be her protector, and this holds great value in the eyes of a woman.
To assert your value, you must take the lead in the relationship and give her tasks within that context.
Putting a price on your leadership means having your own moral standards and communicating that you
expect specific behaviors and treatment from the woman to retain your role as her leader and protector.
The solution is to set clear boundaries and follow through with consequences.
Self-Determination - Soulution
There's no solution for this stage, if you get to this stage it's over. In her mind, the relationship has ended or is
about to end.
She is basically telling you that she no longer views the two of you as a unit. As difficult as it may seem, at this
stage you may need to be prepared to let her go. Your best chance to salvage the relationship is to start right
back at the beginning; let her know that you are equally prepared to leave the relationship if you are not
getting the respect and admiration that you want and deserve.
You never want to be in a position where you are chasing or begging a woman. Not only is that a pathetic
position for a man to find himself in, but any shred of sexual attraction that had remained in the woman will be
completely destroyed by doing so.
In reality, a man can survive just about anything, including the ending of a cherished relationship. Therefore,
consider this stage as the ultimate test of how much of a man you really are.
If you fail this test, the game is over ( with this particular woman.)
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: Female Manipulation
Finally, not all women have the same drive to manipulate and destroy their
man, usually hoes, the ones no one care about, and hot women are more likely
to manipulate than beautiful women.
This is a result of:
Hot women usually have daddy underlying issues, having a hard time
submitting to the masculine spirit.
Hoes because they were so used to attention in their 20s but as their
beauty drifted with age they received less; hence betaization of their man to
feel superior again.
The one no one cares about because they were usually looked at as 'the
outcast' and want to feel some control for once in their life.
I'm not saying that beautiful women won't try, but they usually had a strong,
masculine, father so they're more used to 'being under the wing' of a man.
More feminine, more submissive, and easier to deal with.
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Female Subcommunication
Evolution is the reason why we are like we are, agree? Good.
Historically men have always wanted to 'own' their partner's body, as a result,
women have created a language called womenase, also called
subcommunicating.
In this secret language, women communicate their sexuality freely but in a way
that most men cannot hear or understand. Women have learned the hard way
through millennia that men have a psychological need to create a type of
distinction among women, the classical whore and madonna complex; slotting all
women into a category of either “whores” or “Madonnas”.
Subcommunication involves communicating indirectly using various techniques
like double meanings, unclear statements, emotions, and vagueness. Women
use subcommunication for several reasons:
1. To keep social harmony intact.
2. To avoid taking direct responsibility for their words or actions.
3. To hint at their intentions without outright stating them.
4. To set boundaries and guidelines for interactions.
5. To avoid committing to a specific stance and keep their options open.
Subcommunication puts the burden on us men to correctly interpret the hidden
meaning behind the communication. Sounds familiar?
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: Female Subcommunication
As said, throughout history, men have desired to control women and their
bodies.
To protect themselves from this oppression, women developed a secret
language that men couldn't understand, but other women could.
.
Women use subcommunication when it's risky to be direct in their
communication. For example: women can be quite promiscuous, but the
consequences have been severe throughout history.
Back in the days, women faced social isolation, death, and humiliation for being
seen as promiscuous.
But more importantly; Women still fear being labeled as sluts if they discuss their
sexuality openly, especially outside of their trusted circles , and this is the reason
behind their anti-slut defenses, shit tests, and last-minute resistance which I'll
talk about later.
This means there's yet another huge distinguisher between men and women.
Men are more direct and straightforward in their conversations, getting straight to
the point, while women often prefer subcommunication, using indirect and subtle
cues to convey their messages.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: Female Subcommunication
One reason for female subcommunication is their preference for maintaining
harmony in communication rather than focusing solely on objective truth.
The more feminine a woman is, the more she values harmony. In contrast,
men express the truth succinctly, directly, and in a straightforward manner.
Think about it: Men gain social power through logic, mathematics, physical
strength, and endurance, essentially by asserting themselves in their
environment.
Women gain social power through communication. They try to avoid social
conflict and use subcommunication as a tool to manipulate others to give
them what they want.
For example: If you had an alcoholic friend you would solve it by being silent
for as long as possible, but then finally sitting down with him and say: “Man,
you are destroying your health, you gotta stop that drinking now” without too
much concern for empathy or understanding.
But a woman? She would take an approach of subcommunication - she
would show empathy and make an effort to understand her friend, in the
hope that she will change, while remaining harmony.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: Female Subcommunication
Why am I telling you all this? Well, if you're not aware of female
subcommunication, it will make you feel less confident and cause problems
in your relationships.
When you get caught up in this hypnotic state, you'll end up doing whatever it
takes to make her happy, even if it's not good for you, just to shut her up.
And 1,2,3.. you're pussy tranced. She'll slowly turn you into a beta and lose
feelings for you both romantically and emotionally.
Note- Even though I'm writing from the perspective of being in a relationship
it's important that you realize that subcommunication beings the moment you
see her until she no longer has any feelings for you.
Anyway, using subcommunication allows women to keep their options open,
create plausible deniability, and set boundaries without explicitly stating
them.
You may think: "Well, women can't be subcommunicating all the time,
because if they were they would never directly reject me."
Congratulations, you're correct, they aren't.
Women will use logic and direct speech, BUT ONLY when it suits their
purpose.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: Female Subcommunication
Lets us look at an example: Suppose you are out on a date with a woman, and you say
you have to stop by your apartment to pick something up.
Out of the blue she says: “OK, but we’re not having sex!!!”
This is a direct statment- but there's still a hidden agenda.
Most men would be baffled by such a statement. However, what she's subcommunicating
is something completely different than whether or not she'll have sex with you.
Here is what’s really happening: First, she is testing your response, this is called a shit
test.
If you get flustered by it, she most certainly will not consider having sex with you
. If your response is “Yeah, so, that was pretty random, who’s talking about sex here?”
the door for sexual engagement remains open.
Second, she is establishing a frame of interaction where she is taking no responsibility for
the outcome.
If she ends up naked in your bed, well, that’s not her fault because she said “no sex.”
Never mind that it “just happened.” Third, the next day she can tell all her friends who
ask: “I specifically told him “no sex” before I went into his apartment.”
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: Female Subcommunication
The takeaway, what you need to understand, is that for a woman to
promote and maintain harmony within her environment, emotional states
are more important to her than physical facts.
Women may very well lie, or at least shade the truth, in order to preserve
positive emotional states or prevent negative emotional states.
So back to what I said earlier, and maybe the most important part:
Even when women “lie” with their mouths, their bodies or emotions may
be telling the real truth, so don't listen to what she says, observe what
she does.
Alright, in order to deal with sub communication besides what I said above it's
essential that you strive to cultivate a state of awareness when you're around
women, because subcommunication CANNOT be underestimated.
If you allow yourself to relax too much and keep yourself in an unaware
state, you will completely miss the meaning of female communication.
Accept the fact that it is instinctual for women to express themselves in this
indirect way, just like it's instinctual for you to express yourself in a logical way.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: Female Subcommunication
To be able to deal with subcommunication you need to shift from a mindset where
you take everything she says at face value, to a mindset where you interpret what
she says and put it through a subcommunication filter.
Whatever you do, do NOT take her words seriously. Always think about what the
hidden meaning can be.
For example: You approach a girl with a corny pickup line and she immediately
shuts you down by saying: "I have a boyfriend.", 9/10 times the boyfriend doesn't
exist, she's sub communicating that you're telegraphic too much interest too soon
(which she doesn't want because of the madonna/whore complex.)
Another thing that is imporant to note is that female subcommunication often has an
underlying sexual meaning.
The more a woman subcommunicates in your presence, the more sexually attracted
to you she is. She wouldn't bother to maintain inner harmony with a guy she didn't
find interesting, make sense?
Finally, the best way to deal with subcommunication is to learn how to keep yourself
on the edge between masculine and feminine, but with an emphasis on the
masculine.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: Female Subcommunication
And no, I'm not telling you to be feminine. But in order to increase sexual and emotional
arousal within a woman you will need to learn to shift between two identities in an
almost schizophrenic manner.
At times you will want to talk to women in a very masculine way: directly, succinctly,
and logically. At other times, you want to talk to women in a very indirect way. This is
done through disqualifying and other techniques I'll cover later in the book.
For example, telling a brunette girl: "Look, you're cute, but I don't date blond girls" is a
type of sub communicating.
To be able to use subcommunication, you will need to continuously practice the art,
because it is not the natural mode of conversation for a man, but we'll talk more about
this later in the book.
But agian, it's a fine balance. To make a woman happy whether in the context of a
committed relationship or in lighter and less-committed interaction you need to learn
how to talk womanese while at the same time keeping your focus on your masculine
frame.
If you leave out the art of speaking in womanese, you run the risk of becoming a cold,
distant and boring person in her eyes. If you become too much of an expert in speaking
womanese, she will no longer distinguish you from a woman and she will certainly lose
attraction for you.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: Female Subcommunication
Alternation between male and female communication is actually
extremely seductive to women.
In seduction, anything which causes polarity will be sexually
stimulating.
One basic aspect of the female psyche is the need for both
stimulation and polarity. When you meet that need in a woman you
make her happy.
One of the main characteristics of today’s woman is boredom, mixed
with a search for emotional stimulation.
By being the man who is able to talk womanese while at the same
time remaining a real, masculine man, you put yourself far above
almost all other men in her eyes.
She will feel completely challenged when a man starts to
communicate with her in womanese while still leading her like a
man.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: Female Subcommunication
What Do Women Truly Desire?
By getting this guide you’re stepping into the world of ‘game’.
Many young men in 2023 hold a common belief that women are solely
attracted to money, fame, and looks.
WRONG, that's a misconception.
Before delving into this new world, it's crucial to leave behind this
misconception at the door; because if you don’t everything will seem
hopeless, like you’re getting into the ring with prime-time Mike Tyson,
when in reality you don’t.
Money, fame, and looks may initially catch attention, but they’re just
superficial attraction switches.
They give you initial interest from women.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: What Do Women Truly Desire?
So yes, fame, money, and looks are helpful, but not required.
My method is based on female psychology, so it works regardless of your looks or
money.
Anyways, money only attracts disloyal women.
By all means, get rich, but do it for you.
Then tell every woman you interact with that you're poor AF.
That’s how you’ll find loyalty.
What women truly desire deep within their hearts, behind their layers of
superficial social filters, is:
A masculine man.
A man who is self-assured and doesn't seek validation from others, a non-needy man.
A man who naturally draws attention and has a commanding presence in any room, an
alpha male.
A man who maintains strong eye contact, showing his attentiveness and confidence
while building sexual tension.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: What Do Women Truly Desire?
A man who treats others, including bartenders and strangers, with
respect and kindness while also being assertive.
A man who exhibits chivalry by pulling out her chair, opening her car
door, and helping her with her coat.
A man who prioritizes the safety and comfort of his girl by walking
closest to the curb, standing behind her on the way up on the
escalator, and in front of her on the way down.
A man who understands his own desires and the desires of his
partner.
A man who is exciting, and evokes strong emotions by being
unpredictable and fun.
A man who is strong and assertive, but also maintains politeness and
kindness towards others until shit hits the fan.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: What Do Women Truly Desire?
A man who values himself highly and recognizes his worth, a high-value
man.
A man with layers and depth to him, for example, a man who can be
dominant in bed yet also compassionate and generous towards those in
need.
A strong leader and a lover.
A lamb and a lion.
A leader. A provider. A protector. A lover. A fighter.
“A beacon of masculinity, in a world that may falter,
A man to treasure, a love to alter.”
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: What Do Women Truly Desire?
Sure, a lot of men still have these qualities in 2023, but why are they
still unsuccessful in the dating market?
The challenge lies in the fact that it takes a considerable
amount of time for a woman to truly understand, connect and
get to know you.
However, if you possess money, fame, and looks, these qualities will
initially spark initial interest and provide you with more time to
demonstrate your value before rejects you.
Look, women are beautiful but ruthless.
When we men scout for girls we immediately think, “She seems cute,
I could definitely fuck her;” or “Nah, pass.”
We experience attraction at first sight and make instant judgments
about whether we could sleep with her or not.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: What Do Women Truly Desire?
However, for women, it takes much longer.
They don't feel immediate attraction, only initial interest.
From that interest, they rapidly categorize men into three groups:
Potential partner/sexual partner
Friendzone
Creep
What I am trying to say- the crux of my argument, is that even if you
possess the qualities that a woman truly desires, she won’t be aware
of it because she won't give you enough time to show it.
This is because she has already categorized you as friendzone or
creep, due to your lack of social skills, difficulty in displaying your
value (DHV), struggles to start a conversation, poor appearance and
body language, or saying something that repelled her, or the most
common reason;
you lacked the confidence to approach her in the first place.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: What Do Women Truly Desire?
You have the option to either learn "game" (referring to social skills or
strategies for attracting women) or focus on becoming rich, famous, and
good-looking.
However, even if you achieve wealth, fame, and physical attractiveness,
you still need to learn game in order to keep her around once the initial
interest vanishes, and that’s the hardest part;
keeping her around.
Unlocking the power of 'game' is the key to unlocking the door to
ultimate success, not money, fame, and looks.
Sure, there are some women, a minority perhaps, who are only
interested in money. But beautiful women are much more interested in
personality than bank accounts.
There are certain personality traits of a man that attract women like a
magnet ...And if you learn what they are and how to use them you’re
game.
These are called attraction switches.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: What Do Women Truly Desire?
CHAPTER 7
THE MAGNETIC PULL:
UNDERSTANDING ATTRACTION SWITCHES
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“Attraction is not a choice.”
-David DeAngelo
Attraction Switches
If you want to be irresistible to women, then you need to know
about "attraction switches".
These are the traits and behaviors that women naturally find
irresistible in men.
From confidence to social skills, humor to physical fitness, and
status to many other qualities, activating these switches will help
you attract and seduce the women you desire.
The key to getting women is attraction.
Once a woman is truly attracted to you, you can say the stupidest
shit and make all sorts of mistakes in your game and still be
successful with her. If she’s not, there’s very little you can do to
make her interested in taking things to the next level.
Beyond Seduction - The Magnetic Pull: Introduction
A lot of men fail to comprehend how attraction works for women, leading to
HUGE mistakes.
It is crucial to acknowledge that women have different attraction triggers than
men, it sounds obvious, but it’s the fundamental principle of the game.
A lot of guys tend to prioritize their physical appearance in hopes that will be the
missing piece to getting women, the last piece to the puzzle.
Well, killjoy. IT WON’T.
Women are much more responsive to behavioral signals. Yes, paying
attention to your appearance and getting in shape will help you, but
nowhere near as much as it would help a woman.
Women are emotional creatures while men are physical ones, this is why porn is
male-dominant and why books like 50 Shades are smash hits among women.
Look at it this way: What women want in a man is more personality based;
Confidence, social status, dominance, and masculinity while what men want in
women is more looks-based; Attractive body, beautiful face, well-groomed,
femininity.
Beyond Seduction - The Magnetic Pull: Introduction
To succeed in pickup, it's crucial to grasp that women's attraction stems from a
single concept: status.
It's not about status in terms of fame, but rather about high-value status or status
in your current environment that truly matters.
This might be the most important sentence in the book so pay close attention:
A woman will NEVER be attracted to you on an emotional or sexual level if
she doesn't respect you, or if she doesn't look up to you.
Improving your ability to recognize high-status behavior will go a long way in
enhancing your success.
What I want you to do is assess the status of those you encounter in various
social settings.
Observe the behavior of high-status individuals and incorporate it into your own.
For instance, a high-status person tends to sit in the most comfortable chair and,
in case there aren't enough chairs for everyone, he takes a seat while others
stand.
He positions himself to have a clear view of the room, indicating that he's in
control of his surroundings.
Beyond Seduction - The Magnetic Pull: Introduction
He speaks slowly, confidently, and deliberately, with the belief that
others will listen to him.
He often speaks first or last in a conversation, showing that he's in
charge of the interaction.
He's less invested in those around him than they are with him.
He has social proof, which is the idea that others look to him for
guidance or validation.
He has a large social circle and is respected by his peers.
He makes confident decisions for himself and the group, which
shows that he's a leader.
He is not needy or desperate for the attention or approval of
others.
He is confident in himself and doesn't seek external validation.
Beyond Seduction - The Magnetic Pull: Introduction
He has strong and assertive body language.
He stands tall, maintains eye contact, and uses expansive
gestures.
He is decisive and takes action when necessary.
He doesn't hesitate or second-guess himself, but rather makes
confident decisions and follows through with them.
By integrating these high-value behaviors into your own conduct,
you'll be perceived as a high-status individual, thereby increasing
your attractiveness to women.
Status, just like desirability, it's a social illusion, behave like a high-
value man and others will perceive you as one.
Let's dive deeper down the rabbit hole.
Beyond Seduction - The Magnetic Pull: Introduction
Pre–Selection
Pre-selection is a concept that suggests that women are more attracted
to men who are already attractive to other women.
The idea is based on the psychological phenomenon of social proof,
where people look to others to determine what is desirable.
Pre-selection gives you an advantage because it creates the illusion of
being desired by other women.
This can be done by flirting with other women in front of your target,
being seen in the company of attractive women, etc.
I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again:
Desirability is basically a social illusion, and it's basic human psychology
that we are attracted to those whom others find attractive. We want what
others want.
Why do you think people are following trends?
Because other people do it.
Beyond Seduction - The Magnetic Pull: Pre-Selection
Therefore, establishing the reputation of that you’re irresistible to
women is an effective way to attract even more women.
This is why social proof is so important and why having your social
media filled with pictures where girls show interest in you, lean in,
hug you, etc, is crucial.
You can also create this illusion by going out with female friends
and using one of them as your wing girl.
All men who get a lot of pussy have strong wing girl game, myself
included.
It's effortless because you let your wing girl do the majority of the
work.
The reason is girls are much better at influencing other girls in an
attraction or dating setting.
Beyond Seduction - The Magnetic Pull: Pre-Selection
It’s simple, get one of your female friends to befriend your target, and
after a few minutes of some small talk, do this: have her point you out
from across the room. Now it is important for you to talk to the other
girls you went out with. And avoid at all costs looking over at your
wing girl and your target.
THIS SHOWS MASSIVE PRE-SELECTION.
Your target will 100% feel envy and attraction when she realizes that
other girls want you, and that you are the center of their attention.
When she points you out to this girl, she should say something like:
“You see that guy over there? He's one of the best people I know, he
has a huge heart.
But understand this; he's bad news when it comes to girls, they all
just love him.
They fall for him because I've heard some things about him in bed,
but it doesn't matter. I'm just gonna introduce you in a second, but
just be careful around him.”
Beyond Seduction - The Magnetic Pull: Pre-Selection
It’s verbal magic.
Your wing girl has primed the target girl to have a perception of you, as
a womanizer, and she has seen you talking to girls, which confirms it
for her.
The key part? Your wing told her to "be careful" around you because
"I've heard some things about him IN BED."
Then finally have her introduce you, and you don’t even have to do
anything.
She’s already imagining you inside her.
Anyway, if you fail to create the illusion of desire, women will lose
interest quickly, worst case scenario: not be interested at all.
Think about it this way: Assessing whether a man truly has attractive
personal qualities can take a lot of time for women, but if other women
find him attractive, he must have those qualities.
Therefore, pre-selection is a major attractive quality.
Beyond Seduction - The Magnetic Pull: Pre-Selection
Confidence
Confidence is a highly valued attribute when it comes to attracting
women.
Throughout history, women have been attracted to alpha males who
possess the ability to provide for and protect them.
In ancient times, this meant being able to hunt and gather food, and to
defend their territory against predators.
However, in modern society, these basic needs are largely met, and
women are looking for other qualities in men.
Despite this, women are still naturally drawn to men who possess traits
of the traditional alpha male, such as strength, courage, fearlessness,
independence, leadership, and assertiveness.
These qualities all stem from confidence, which is why it remains a
crucial trait for attracting women.
Beyond Seduction - The Magnetic Pull: Confidence
Women want to feel safe, protected, and supported by their partners.
They want a man who can handle difficult situations with ease and remain
calm under pressure.
In short, they are looking for a provider, protector, and lover all rolled into
one.
To attract women, it's crucial to be confident when interacting with them.
Even if you don't feel confident, you can still project confidence by acting
in a confident manner.
Constantly ask yourself, “What would a confident man do in this
situation?” and act accordingly.
Never second guess yourself.
Never apologize for being you.
Never suppress your own needs, wants, and desires in order to gain
her validation.
Don’t be afraid to speak your mind.
Cut out self-deprecating humor.
Beyond Seduction - The Magnetic Pull: Confidence
Women may find shy awkwardness charming, but if you want to create
powerful physical sensations drawing her towards you, be bold.
Note- In "The Art of Seduction," Robert Greene suggests that being perfect
can actually work against you when it comes to seduction.
He argues that if you come across as too polished and flawless, you may
appear unapproachable, intimidating, or even insincere.
Embracing your imperfections, on the other hand, can make you more
relatable and likable to women. By being honest about your flaws, you may be
able to connect with her on a deeper level and create a sense of intimacy.
Greene does not advocate being careless or lazy about your appearance or
behavior.
Rather, he suggests that acknowledging and owning your imperfections can
be a way to enhance your charm and attractiveness, as long as you are still
making an effort to present yourself in the best possible light.
Why am I telling you this?
SO YOU CAN’T MAKE ANY EXCUSES.
Beyond Seduction - The Magnetic Pull: Confidence
This will (should) make you feel confident about your ‘shyness’
and your flaws.
Your approach and game don’t need to be perfect, you just
need to own it.
This doesn’t mean you should walk up to her and tell her you’re
shy.
This means you should approach her even though you’re shy
and she might respect you more and find you more attractive
since you still did it despite being nervous.
Listen, man, women aren't devils, they're angels.
They won't embarrass you if you approach them even though
you're nervous.
They'll respect it. Own it.
Beyond Seduction - The Magnetic Pull: Confidence
Center Of Attention
The idea of being the center of attention goes back to the concept
of status.
Women tend to gravitate towards those who appear to be in a
high-status position, as it indicates power, resources, and high-
value.
When you are the center of attention, it signals to women:
“He is a man of value, others want his attention, I want it as well.”
If people are focused on you, looking at you, or talking about you,
then she’s going to want to spend more time with you as well.
She’s basically getting massive FOMO (Fear of missing out)
Irrespective of the source of attention, whether it is from men or
women, the idea of being the center of attention remains
significant.
Beyond Seduction - The Magnetic Pull: Center of Attention
It goes back to what I said earlier.
Desirability is ultimately a social construct.
You can easily create this illusion by getting a wing girl, or
inviting your friends out to celebrate something- and since
it’s a special occasion get a table in the VIP section of the
venue.
Trust me, once they see you in a high-value position women
will come flooding your way.
If you've paid attention you'll start to see that a lot of the
game is played indirectly through being a part of a
brotherhood or having a big social circle, that's why it's so
important to get out of your introverted cage and learn
social skills.
Beyond Seduction - The Magnetic Pull: Center of Attention
Excellence
Again, one of the most powerful attraction switches.
Being excellent at anything, doesn't matter what.
Displaying excellence doesn’t only mark you as sexually worthy, but it
makes you interesting.
It means you have layers to your character, an extremely attractive trait.
Keep in mind that merely being exceptional at something is not sufficient;
it's equally essential to demonstrate your excellence, demonstrate your
value. Of course not in a bragging manner.
You want to do it seamlessly.
Simply put yourself in environments where you have a chance to show off
what you are excellent at.
Beyond Seduction - The Magnetic Pull: Excellence
Socially Savvy
Women are generally more perceptive when it comes to reading social
cues, status, and interpreting social behavior than men.
The phrase "socially savvy" means that someone is skilled at navigating
social situations and understanding social dynamics.
If she sees that you’re on her level with this, it will spark attraction.
Being able to pick up on these subtle social cues and behave accordingly,
is seen as a desirable trait by women.
If you show her that you understand and respect the social norms and
dynamics that are important to a woman, you will become more attractive
to her.
For example; When at a restaurant, she wants a man who talks to the
waiter or bartender with respect and treats him/her as a human, not as a
personal servant.
Beyond Seduction - The Magnetic Pull: Socially Savvy
Strike a conversation with the waiter, casual small talk.
Being able to effortlessly spark conversations with strangers is another
way to show your social savvy.
A man who respects the norm, has good manners, is polite, and adheres
to social etiquette is also extremely attractive to women.
The list goes on and on:
Including others who seem lonely
Helping an old lady over the street
Helping a mother with a stroller onto the bus
Petting a dog on the street.
Giving a homeless man $10
Tipping the waiter at a restaurant
It's all about being a classy, mature, gentleman.
Beyond Seduction - The Magnetic Pull: Socially Savvy
Non-Reactive
Stoicism is often stereotyped as a masculine trait, characterized by
emotional strength and the ability to remain unaffected by the
stresses and difficulties of life.
And yes, you guessed it. Women love masculine traits in men.
Being able to handle life's little ups and downs without becoming
emotional or reactive demonstrates maturity, self-control, the ability
to remain level-headed in challenging situations, and overall value.
Be like a firm rock in the ocean, unbothered by ever-rising waves.
For Example:
The girl you're talking to turns around and starts talking to another
guy (She’ll do this as a shit test - to make you jealous, yes - women
are manipulative)
Beyond Seduction - The Magnetic Pull: Non Reactive
Instead of getting jealous, making a scene, or walking away in anger
simply tell her: “You’re so bad at this”
Then give her dating advice.
When she beings talking to you again tell her: “What happened to
the other guy? You guys would have made such a cute couple, both
equally dorky” (Playfully)
She’ll be ready to sleep with you right there on the spot.
Any obstacle life throws at you, brush it off.
Keep calm and carry on.
One of my friends once got fired from his job, was in massive debt,
all whilst going through a divorce and the only thing he said was: “I’ll
figure it out”.
Now that’s being stoic.
Beyond Seduction - The Magnetic Pull: Non Reactive
Non-Reaction Seeking
This is NO secret: Women love calm, composed men with a
nonchalant demeanor. Men who can deal with life's ups and downs
with ease.
Stoic men.
We all know one, the guy who tries to be the loudest in the room, trying
to get a reaction left and right, so desperate to be seen and heard.
It’s UNATTRACTIVE.
Why? Well, let me give you some insight into basic human psychology.
As humans, we seek validation from those with higher status than us,
those above us on the social hierarchy.
Likewise, we tend to ignore those of lower status.
Beyond Seduction - The Magnetic Pull: Non-Reaction Seeking
That's just a result of us as a species being social creatures. But what does it you're
trying to get a reaction from her?
If you're desperate to get her attention and validation? It means that you're LOWER
STATUS than her, therefore UNATTRACTIVE.
Golden Rule Of Game: No Respect - No Attraction.
This is also one of the reasons why it doesn't work to chase women or try to get your ex
back.
Because once you become the pursuer, you also become the on with less value; and if
you have less value than her, she won't respect you.
Anyway, stop being so desperate for validation, cultivate a more nonchalant demeanor,
and trust me, your success with women will 10x.
In fact, women get turned on by men who give a fuck about them. It goes back to the
theory of the 11th man.
If you have 10 men in a room with a woman and all the guys give her attention and
suddenly an 11th man walks in, only he doesn't seek her attention, she’ll naturally be
drawn to him in order to gain his validation as well. Their ego can't resist it.
But be careful; once the 11th starts to seek her attention she won't be interested
anymore, his seductive spell is broken.
Beyond Seduction - The Magnetic Pull: Non-Reaction Seeking
The Fun Guy
Next time you’re out take a moment and notice how some guys are trying to
attract women by being cool, tough, hard, and unemotional.
THAT SHIT ONLY WORKS IN HOLLYWOOD MOVIES.
(Unless you already have social proof and high status in the environment.)
Notice how all these cool guys are leaning against the wall all by themselves,
waiting for women to approach them.
IT DOESN’T WORK.
Women are irresistibly drawn to fun guys. They flirt with fun guys. They date fun
guys. They sleep with fun guys.
Being the guy who is always enjoyable to be around makes you attractive.
JUST DON’T BE THE QUIET GUY IN THE CORNER.
Yes, you should be detached and non-needy, but not unexpressive.
Beyond Seduction - The Magnetic Pull: The Fun Guy
Women are more emotional than men.
They feel negative emotions stronger than we do, but they also feel positive
emotions stronger than we do.
BE A SOURCE OF GOOD EMOTIONS AND WOMEN WILL FLOCK
AROUND YOU.
That leads us to the question you've asked yourself throughout this chapter.
How??
Well, it’s pretty straightforward. Tease, flirt, banter, and flirt some more.
There are 3 main weapons in your seductive arsenal.
Teasing: “Standing very close to me - bit keen?”
Disqualifying: "You're like the mom of the group, aren't you"
Challenging: “Wow, how's a pretty girl like you single? Come on, let's find
you a boyfriend.”
(More on this later)
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Note- Whenever you're doing this it must not be said with a serious
tone, everything you say, everything you do must come from a place of
being confident and playful.
Why does it work? By disqualifying you’re becoming the ‘unavailable,
forbidden’ man. By teasing your evoking emotions and showing some
interest (making you available again - taking her on an emotional
rollercoaster ride) By challenging you’re displaying your value.
And that my brothers is the secret to attracting women:
EMOTIONS + VALUE.
Finally, be the guy who initiates fun activities.
- Would You Rather
- Two Truths and a Lie
- 21 Questions
Stand out from the rest of the guys vying for her attention.
Be fun, be positive, be exciting, and you'll stand out like a vibrant
fish in a vast ocean.
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Protector Of Loved Ones
Attraction switches were selected for by evolution, make sense?
Yes, it does. Women want a lover, protector, and provider, all in one man.
We men are moved by our missions, goals, and purpose.
But women? From a prehistoric and biological standpoint their world
revolves around love, sex, and nurturing.
Their world has revolved around love since the dawn of time.
They want to feel that you’ll take care of her and your children (even if she
has no intention of actually having kids with you.)
Evolution hasn’t caught up to birth control.
This one can be hard to show off directly, but work it into the DHV stories
you tell about yourself. (I’ll talk more about this later.)
Beyond Seduction - The Magnetic Pull: Protector Of Loved Ones
Effortlessness
Effortlessness is a highly desirable trait when it comes to attraction.
Women are drawn to men who seem to effortlessly navigate their lives
with grace and ease. In the eyes of women, attractive men do
everything easily, effortlessly.
On the other hand, one of the biggest turn-offs is the sense that you’re
trying too hard; forcing something to happen.
The importance of cultivating an effortless demeanor cannot be
overstated.
If you're constantly striving and pushing to make her like you, you’re
basically conveying insecurity. Instead, cultivate a sense of ease and
flow in your interactions.
This can be done by simply framing yourself as the prize, by having an “I
don’t give one fuck about if she comes home with me tonight or not”
attitude.
Beyond Seduction - The Magnetic Pull: Effortlessness
Focus on being present, and screening her for her deeper qualities.
What does she have to offer except a beautiful face?
If you’re constantly thinking about how to impress or win her over, then
you’re not going to flick the effortlessness switch.
You'll come off as the one with less value which equals no respect = no
attraction.
Ultimately, the key to being effortlessly attractive is to focus on
yourself and your own interests, rather than obsessing over how
she perceives you.
When you're comfortable in your own skin and confident in your game,
women will be drawn to you naturally.
So, instead of trying too hard to make things happen, focus on letting
good things flow to you, and trust that your own inherent attractiveness
will shine through.
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This is a major fucking turn-off and will signal to her that you lack
confidence and self-esteem.
Instead, focus on projecting a positive image of yourself.
This doesn't mean boasting or bragging, but rather simply emphasizing
your strengths and positive qualities.
When you feel good about yourself, women are more likely to be
attracted to you.
OTHERS SEE YOU THE WAY YOU SEE YOURSELF.
Finally, attraction is not a choice.
Hit all of these switches and you will have the women fawning over
you.
You will still need to apply good game to successfully advance, but the
more you can keep her attracted, the easier things will go.
Normalize to push these buttons and hit them constantly.
Beyond Seduction - The Magnetic Pull: Humility
CHAPTER 8
SHIT TESTS DECODED:
TRIALS OF RESILIENCE
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“Shit tests are meant to see if you have
boundaries, if you’re insecure, and how strong
your frame is.”
Introductions
Note- The principles I will teach you in this guide can be used to respond
to shit tests from both men and women, but I will solely focus on women in
my examples.
You might be thinking: “What the fuck is a shit test?”
Trust me, you’ve been shit-tested hundreds of times during your life.
You’ve just been too ignorant to notice.
That’s about to change.
Shit test are used to gauge your ability to take care of her and your
potential children. This testing is biologically programmed into women, I
talked about this inside chapter 6: 'Cracking The Code'.
In that chapter I also talked about how important it is for women to
maintain inner harmony, therefore women test men in order to avoid
facing the Madonna/whore complex, this means she wants to avoid being
seen as a hoe.
Beyond Seduction - Shit Tests Decoded: Introductions
A shit test is a challenge or obstacle that is intentionally designed to
test your confidence or resolve.
Shit tests are used in social or interpersonal contexts.
It's intended to either undermine your confidence or to see how you
will react to a difficult situation.
Some people use shit tests as a way of trying to gauge the strength
of another person's character, while others use them as a way to
assert their own dominance or superiority in a given situation.
Even though this chapter is designed to understand female shit tests
it's important that every time a man tries to disrespect you it's a shit
test.
That's why bullies exist.
If a man shit test you and you don't respond properly he'll countine
testing you in order to feel superior.
Beyond Seduction - Shit Tests Decoded: Introductions
This means that men shit-test other men to establish
dominance, while women shit-test men to gauge their
reactions and see how they respond to difficult situations.
When a woman shit tests you her purpose is to confirm that
you are capable of doing what needs to be done to
provide/protect her and her potential offspring with you.
If you lose your composure during a little test, how the
fuck are you going to be able to protect and take care of
your potential children?
It’s been ingrained in women since the dawn of time;
To test the man’s capabilities before settling with him.
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Depending on how you react, she’ll either become
completely disinterested, or she’ll take note and start to view
you as an alpha male.
Most guys fail these tests from women miserably and they
have piss poor results with women to show for it.
Once you know how to pass them, however, you’ll notice
that your success rate with women will skyrocket.
Look at it as a test to make sure you’re good enough for
sex, relationships, or good enough to even deserve more of
her attention.
Beyond Seduction - Shit Tests Decoded: Introductions
Essentially, a shit-test is a tool for the chooser to evaluate the
pursuer.
I like to look at shit tests as the female evaluation mechanism; to
check if you’re a timid, insecure, uncertain, passive beta male or
the strong, masculine, alpha male she wants.
Remember when I said women like men comfortable in their own
skin?
Well, a shit test is an evaluation of exactly that.
When a woman shit tests you, they usually frame you as the
pursuer, the one with “lower value” in the conversation.
As I mentioned in 'Indestructible Frames';
It's a frame battle.
Beyond Seduction - Shit Tests Decoded: Introductions
She’s trying to convey that:
She’s of higher value than you.
She’s the prize.
It is common for her that guys pick her up.
You're the pursuer.
You're trying hard.
She's out of your league.
But it's all a show for the cameras.
All she wants to find out is if you're capable to handle pressure
and checking your confidence levels.
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Female Psychology:
“A man who can pass my shit tests is worth keeping. The more shit
test he can pass, the more attractive he becomes to me. I love
confident, assertive men who don't crumble under pressure.”
But remember this: Being shit tested is a good thing.
She only test men she finds interesting.
Being shit-tested means that she gives a fuck about you.
She wouldn’t even bother to test a low-value man; instead, she will
just become non-responsive and leave as soon as possible.
Therefore, a shit test can be considered an indicator of interest of
sorts which we will talk about later.
She wouldn't bother to sub communicate in order to maintain
harmony with a man she doesn't care about having harmony with.
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I love shit-tests, not only because they’re fun; but because she delivers you
with the possibility to demonstrate and display value served on a gold plate, but
also an exciting way to test yourself.
It’s a moment of truth for a man. It reveals who he really is and what he's
made of.
Think of it this way:
Shit tests aren’t designed to throw a seduction off track, it’s an indicator of
interest, an opportunity to display value, and an unspoken invitation for you to
rizz her. Don't look at shit tests as an obstacle, it's fun.
When facing a shit test, the best thing to do is to stay calm and not let her
words or actions rattle you.
Remember: It’s not an attack on your character. It's a way for her to
assess your suitability for a relationship. Keep your cool and respond in a
way that shows confidence and assertiveness without being aggressive or
confrontational.
A shit test is a frame battle as which I talked about earlier.
The one with the stronger frame will always win.
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It’s helpful to frame the shit test in a way that makes it easier
for you to pass it.
Frame the reasons why she might be giving you a shit test in
the first place in a way that benefits you.
Example:
Her: “You’re too short for me.”
Instead of taking it personally and seeing yourself as the
problem you can reframe it.
“Lol, she’s so fucking insecure.” or “Hehe, wtf, she’s trying to
put me down to make herself feel better, what a fucking
loser.”
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If you take it personally you’ll probably answer something
like:
“Actually no, I'm the average height for a male.”
But if you reframe her motivation behind the shit-test to a
reality that benefits you, and which affirms you as the prize
and her like an insecure loser you’ll probably answer
something like:
“I won’t be when you’re on your knees.”
See the difference?
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The Do’s & Don’ts
How to FAIL a shit test:
Let her see you stumble, struggle to respond, go uncomfortably silent, get
noticeably embarrassed or upset, or try to defend yourself.
Among stumbling and getting upset there are 3 main categories to define a bad
response:
Logical answers, explaining yourself, and apologizing.
NO-NO's!!
Let’s look at an example:
Her: “Aren't you gonna buy me a drink”
Bad responses:
Logical answers - “Are you down for it?”
Explaining yourself - “Of course, I was just about to.”
Apologizing - “Sorry, I totally forgot.”
Beyond Seduction - Shit Tests Decoded: The Do’s & Don’ts
There are on the other hand 8 main categories for good
response, those are the following:
Quick Note- Remember what I said, how you say it matters as
much as what you say.
Confident body language, piercing eye contact, and great tonality
will convey confidence.
This means she’ll still subconsciously sense your confidence
even though you give a bad answer.
But combine CPG with a good answer?
Her panties will be dripping wet 5 minutes into the interaction.
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Good Responses:
1) Challenge her
Say this with a playful tone to demonstrate you aren't seeking
validation and are willing to challenge her to match your level of
confidence.
Example: “Sure, if you sing me a song.”
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2) Dominating
Works wonders if you have a masculine aura and persona or if you
manage to come off as a dominant, masculine, alpha male.
If you’re skinny and haven’t quite yet managed to master the art of
imposing your masculine frame on her then I would go for a
different type of response.
Play to your strengths.
Example: “No, unless you first show me that you are more than
just a pretty face.”
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3) Ignore
Totally ignore her, and switch the topic.
If you’re in a social setting you can take it a step further and
hit on another girl instead.
Note- Be careful with this one as it's an easy way out.
It can only be used if you found what she said as a red flag, a
dealbreaker.
Beyond Seduction - Shit Tests Decoded: The Do’s & Don’ts
4) Flipping It Back At Her
Knock her off the pedestal she has placed herself
on and climb up on it yourself.
Example:
“Is that your pick-up line?
Do you ask that to all guys?”
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5) Misinterpret On Purpose
These types of responses are fucking hilarious (my personal favorite).
Why?
Because if she starts to qualify herself by explaining that she meant
something else- that’s an indicator of interest.
She's feeling the need to explain herself, because she cares about your
opinion of her.
Genius? Yes, you're welcome.
Unfortunately, it only works if you're standing far away or in a crowded,
loud place; bars, clubs, etc.
Example: “WHAT? You want to take me home? Slow down tiger, we just
met, you can’t say stuff like that. Keep it in your pants”
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6) Treat Her Like a Little Girl
These are also fucking hilarious.
Do you understand why I love shit test?
This is a perfect opportunity to shake her frame.
Example:
“You’re a big girl now, I’m sure they won’t ask for ID.” or “Little
girls shouldn’t drink, don’t you prefer some milk?”
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7) Agree And Amplify
This is the ‘classic’ technique to ace her shit tests and it has been
used by pick-up artists for the last decades.
What you do is make her statement sound ridiculous to the extent
that she knows that you're a veteran at the game;
Irony, make it sound as ridiculous as possible, that’s the name of
the game.
Example: “Of course sweetheart, how many do you want? A
thousand?”
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8) Disagree And Exaggerate
Simply the opposite of agree and amplify. Irony.
Make it sound as ridiculous as possible.
Example:
“No darling, I only have $2 in my wallet, I spent all my money on my Lego
collection.”
See the distinction between good and bad responses?
The underlying factor for bad responses is that you convey lower value.
However, with good responses, the dynamics are reversed, leading her
to appear as the one with less value.
She falls into your frame. It’s all about frames.
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The mathematical equation, remember?
In order to ace shit-test, you need to ace frame control, in
order to ace frame control you need to be confident, etc.
I highly recommend sticking to one of the categories when
you’re starting out.
Pick one that comes the most naturally to you.
If you’re a jacked, dominant guy by nature you should stick to
a dominant response.
If you’re a funny, ironic guy by nature you should stick to
agree and amplify or disagree and exaggerate.
This is because you need to come up with your response
quickly.
If you start to hesitate you have FAILED THE TEST.
Beyond Seduction - Shit Tests Decoded: The Do’s & Don’ts
If you don’t stick to one category your mind will start to think about all the 8
categories and you will most likely fuck up because you get paralyzed, too
much to think about at once.
Once passing shit tests becomes a walk in the park you can start to expand
your horizon of answers.
A shit test could be anything.
It would be impossible for me to cover them all, but here are some of the
most common ones.
Practice the various response techniques and create your own unique
answers as you read through.
Feel free to send your answers to me on Instagram or Twitter and I'll review
them for you.
In a real-life situation, when you’re on the spot you won't have time to refer
back to this guide, you need to be free-flowing.
These are simply suggestions or guidelines for you to understand the
concept.
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The Shit Test Blueprint
1) "Do you always do what other people tell
you to do?"
She’s trying to convey:
“I’m the prize, let me test his confidence by
attacking his pride. No real man wants to be a
beta.”
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Good responses:
“Only when I roll naked in bed and she tells me to take off my
pants.”
"Yeah, I don't really have a backbone, so I just go along with
what others say." *You need to say this with extreme amounts
of sarcasm, while maintaining strong eye contact and confident
body langage*
"I try to, but my inner rebel always gets in the way."
Ignore
Misinterpret: “You work at McDonalds? Hmm, good for you,
somebody gotta flip the burgers”
"Depends on how persuasive they are. And if they offer
snacks."
“You’re pretty insecure? aren’t you?”
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Bad responses:
“No, what makes you think that?”
"I value the opinions of others, but I also make my own
decisions based on what's important to me. I believe in
being assertive and standing up for what I believe in."
(Explaining yourself)
"I have my own mind and I don't let others dictate my
actions. I make decisions based on what feels right for
me."
"I take advice from others, but I also trust my own
instincts. I'm not one to blindly follow others."
*Anything that makes you explain yourself, apologize,
or get pissed.*
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2) “I just want to be friends”
She’s trying to convey:
“I like him, he interests me, but I’m unsure about my
feeling, let me throw the ball to him and see how he
respond. I sure hope he doesn’t becomes needy.”
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Good responses:
“Finally, a girl who doesn’t want to sleep with
me...” *Social proof*
“Me too, I could need a female friend. Every girl I
talk to just wants to fuck me.”
“Awesome, as long as we can roll around naked
in bed.”
“I understand, everybody hopes to have at least
one, hang in there, don’t give up.”
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Bad responses:
“I really thought we had something special.”
“I want to be more than just friends.”
“What about friends with benefits *smirk*”
(cringe af)
“Why?”
“What did I do wrong?”
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3) "Do you think you're good
enough for me?"
She’s trying to convey: “I am the one with
higher value, I want this guy to put me on a
pedestal like all the other guys do, I want his
attention.”
Note- If she says this she is really fucking insecure.
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Good responses:
“Don't flatter yourself, darling. You can just
say I'm handsome, I won’t judge you.”
“Not good enough or you can’t handle
me?”
“Don’t worry sweetheart, I don’t date (her
hair color; blond/brunette, etc) girls.”
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Bad responses:
"I'm not just good enough, I'm exceptional. And
that's the truth, whether you like it or not."
“Are you delusional?”
“I could have anyone I want. I just choose to be
here with you."
"I may not be perfect, but I promise to always
be honest, loyal, and work hard to make our
relationship successful." Note- *I puked just by
writing that sentence, it's so bad.*
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4) "Are you scared of commitment?"
What she actually means: She’s trying to gauge your
level of interest, she’s interested, but not yet 100% sure
about you.
Women love the thrill of the chase, don’t lay your feeling
out for her, make her read your intentions through hints
and suggestions. There is too little mystery in the world.
Too many people say exactly what’s on their minds.
Women yearn for something enigmatic, something to
feed their fantasies with.
Hints, suggestions, and mystery will do wonders to
achieve this.
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Good responses:
“Nah, you just remind me of my little sister, it
freaks me out.” *great disqualifier, use sarcasm.*
“Hell yeah, I’m fucking terrified. Constantly
having to break up fights between my girlfriend
and all the other girls who also want my
attention? That would be too much.”
“What was your name again? - Max curiosity?
Ah, that explains it.”
“100%, I have no patience for female drama. As
soon as it starts, I leave.” (Pre-framing)
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Bad responses:
“No, I’m not scared. I could see a future with you.”
“No, I’m not.”
“Is that wrong?”
"I don't have any fear of commitment, but I do believe in
taking the time to build a strong foundation and make sure
we're both on the same page before fully committing. I value
open communication and a mutual understanding in any
committed relationship." *BORING, HER PUSSY JUST
DRIED UP*
"Commitment is not something that scares me, rather it's
something I take seriously. I believe in building a strong bond
with my partner and making sure we have mutual
understanding and trust before taking that next step."
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5) “Did you miss me?”
She’s trying to convey: She just wants
attention.
Note- Be playful and keep the mysterious/sexual tension in
the relationship intact by being detached.
The mystery is the lifeblood of seduction. Without it,
attraction does NOT exist.
Extra notes- All the bad responses can be used, but only
when you mean it.
Use them rarely so they actually mean something when
you say it.
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Good responses:
“I know.”
“I would have missed me too”
“Prove it”
Bad responses:
“I miss you too and I'd love to catch up soon."
“Let’s meet tomorrow”
“I want to see you too.”
“I miss you too.”
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6) "Why should I trust you?"
The classic shit test.
The best way to attack someone on a deep,
personal level is to attack their trust.
She tries to shake your frame.
Never explain yourself, logic doesn't work with
women, emotions do.
You can't give a logical response to an emotional
demand. Women don’t think rationally, they think
emotionally.
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Good responses:
“Don’t worry darling, I have a direct line to the truth
fairy, and she'll vouch for me.”
“Woah, you shouldn’t, we just met. I barely know
your name” *With sarcasm*
“Because I have a very good poker face and you'll
never be able to tell if I'm lying."
"Because I have a PhD in Trustworthiness."
Bad responses:
Any response you explain your “why”.
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7) "You seem like a player"
She’s trying to convey:
“I’m gonna try to shake his frame.
I him attractive.
Let me see if he’s worth my while or not.”
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Good responses:
“Lots of women say that, and I still don’t
know why, I guess it’s just my aura. Can’t
handle it?”
“Only Monday thru Saturday.”
“You can just say I’m handsome, I won’t
judge you darling.”
“And you seem like you’re lonely. I guess
we’ll both find out soon enough.”
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Bad responses:
“Thanks”
“No, I’m not.”
“What makes you say that?”
*Laugh* (breaks sexual tension)
“Yeah, I’m absolutely a player.”
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8) “Are you seeing other women
when you’re not with me?”
She’s trying to convey:
“I’m bored, I need attention, validation, and
my daily dose of strong emotions.
Let me start an argument.”
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Good responses:
“Don’t worry sweetheart, not on the same
day.”
“Aw, that’s cute, you’re already getting
jealous over me?”
“Absolutely, wanna bring someone in?”
“Only Monday thru Friday.”
“Monkey see, Monkey do”
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Bad responses:
“No!! I’m not.”
“Yes, but they’re nothing like you baby.”
"No, I am not seeing anyone else. I value
our relationship and I am committed to
being faithful to you."
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9) "Can you make me laugh?"
She’s trying to convey:
“I want to assess his ability to evoke the strong emotions I
crave and how well he performs under pressure.”
Note- These are hopeless, she wants you to screw up so
she can shake your frame, even if you tell her the
funniest joke in the world she will resist it - just to make
you look like a fool.
Never tell a joke, challenge her instead.
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Good responses:
“Sure, but first you gotta tell me a poem.”
“If you beat me at a game of thumb war.”
“Slow down women, you’re getting way too
interested in me, I barely know your name.”
Bad responses:
“I can’t think of anything funny”
*Trying to tell a joke*
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10) "I don't sleep with guys on the
first date"
The classic ASD - Anti-Slut Defense. I’ll talk
more about this later, but women's biggest fear
is being slut-shamed by their friends, society,
and even you.
As a result, she creates these “fake” barriers so
she has an excuse if she ends up sleeping with
you.
“I told him that we aren’t going to sleep
together.”
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Good responses:
“Easy women, I barely know you. Besides, I
have a 7-date rule.”
“Easy tiger, I’m saving myself for someone
special.”
“Woah, calm down girl, you’re not getting lucky
tonight, I barely know your name.”
“We'll just have to stick to playing Scrabble all
night then.”
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Bad responses:
"I completely understand, everyone has their own
personal boundaries."
"That's a good standard to have, it's important to take
things slow."
"Oh come on, what's the harm in having a little fun?"
"Well that just kills the mood."
"Are you sure you're not just playing hard to get?"
“I promise we won't”
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11) "Why are you still single?"
She’s trying to convey:
“I want to sleep with him but I’m going to
make one last attempt to shake his frame.”
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Good responses:
"I haven't met anyone who can handle my
awesomeness, can you?"
“No women have passed my tests lately.”
“What did you say your name was again? -
Max curiosity? Ah, that explains it.”
“The real question is why don’t you have a
boyfriend?”
“Woah! Slow down doll, I barely know your
name.”
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Bad responses:
"I'm focusing on my personal and career
growth right now."
"I value my independence and I enjoy being
single."
“What’s wrong with that?”
“Should I?”
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12) “How would you describe
yourself?"
She’s trying to convey:
“I’m interested but let me see what you
have to offer, I sure hope you say
something funny, and not something
logical, that would just be boring.”
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Good responses:
“A handsome man who eats confidence for lunch”
“I’m literally the worst, stay away” *Sarcasm*
“Look, you’re cute but not really my type” (Great disqualifier)
“Handsome, white, tall, horny, and you?”
“My exes described me as an asshole.”
Bad responses:
The way you would actually describe yourself.
Remember: Logic NEVER works when responding to shit tests.
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13) "How much money do you make?"
She’s trying to convey:
“I wonder if he’s able to provide for me and our potential
offspring, I also wonder because I want to gauge my
potential earnings and the possibility to use his social
status for my own personal benefits.”
Note- A high-value man doesn’t need to show off or
brag, he communicates his value in subtle ways through
his confidence.
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Good responses:
“Oh, it’s bad. Ain’t much money in being a
professional Midget UFC organizer.”
“Enough, but I wasted it all by buying the
world's greatest and largest rubber duck
collection.”
"I know I'm interesting, but let's talk about you
for a bit."
"Mommy didn't teach you manners? Poor girl"
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Bad responses:
“Does it matter.”
“A lot, you want a drink?”
“I prefer not to discuss my personal finances,
but I'm comfortable and able to support myself.”
*What you actually make*
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14) "Is that your pickup line?"
She’s trying to convey:
“He’s making a move on me, imma call him out
on it to see if it shakes his frame.”
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Good responses:
“Oh no, you don’t want to hear that, trust
me. Besides I only date brunettes/blonds/girl
over 5’6, etc.”
“Yeah, I practice it in the mirror every night.”
“Can’t handle it?”
“You’re welcome, doesn’t happen to you
that often I guess?”
“It sure is, but I only use it on naughty girls.”
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Bad responses:
“No.”
“Did you like it?”
“What makes you think that?”
“I was just trying to start a conversation,
sorry.”
“Sorry, I’ll leave you alone.”
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15) "What's your biggest flaw?"
She’s trying to convey:
“I’m interested but I want to check if he
has any red flags, can he be trusted?”
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Good responses:
“I tend to eat too much confidence for
lunch.”
“I have too many women hitting up my DMs,
I can’t keep up anymore.”
“Ah, trust me, you can’t handle it.”
"I'm bad news"
"I know one of yours...(pause) you're way
too curious.
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Bad responses:
*An actual flaw*
“I have none, I’m perfect.”
“Can’t even name one.”
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16) "You’re not the type of guy I usually
go out with."
She’s trying to convey:
“I find you interesting, but you have not quite yet
earned my attention.”
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Good responses:
“You’re right, I’m the type of guy you stay in
with.”
“Great, your stepping outside your comfort
zone, you’re a big girl know” *Smirk*
“Oh, look at you, you’re leveling up.”
“Go out? Oh no, look you’re cute but I don’t
date blond girls.”
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Bad responses:
"That's okay, I prefer to be judged based on my
personality and character, not my appearance."
“I’m better than them.”
"I understand, different people have different
preferences, and that's perfectly normal."
"That's interesting, can you tell me more about the
type of guys you usually go out with?"
“You’re not my type either.”
“Okay, I’ll leave, I’m not good enough for you.”
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17) "Why should I choose you
over other guys?"
She’s trying to convey:
“I like you, I’m on the fence about submitting
to your frame, pass this shit test and I’m
yours.”
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Good responses:
“The real question is why should I choose you over all the
other girls hitting on me.”
“Because I have the greatest rubber duck collection in the
world.”
“Hold on there sweetheart, look, Beauty is common, it’s either
something you’re born with or paid for. But what’s rare is a
great energy and outlook on life. The real question is what do
you have inside that would make me want to know you as
more than just a pretty face in the crowd?”
“The real question is why you deserve to abandon your
boring, mundane, unfulfilled life and step into my exciting
world, full of interesting people, new experiences, good times,
easy living and dreams fulfilled?”
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Bad responses:
“I’m better.”
“That’s for you to decide.”
"I'm a good listener and always try to
understand others."
"I'm honest and trustworthy, and always keep
my promises."
*Anything where you explain your “why”.
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18) "I'm not looking for hookups."
Another classic shit test, it’s only an
ASD (Anti-Slut Defense), don’t
worry, hold your frame and reaffirm
the “prize” mentality.”
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Good responses:
“What makes you think that I want to hook
up with you?”
“Lol, cute.”
“Why is that on your mind so quickly.”
“Well, I am. Just not with blond/brunette
(whatever she is) girls.”
“Slow down darling, let’s see if I find you
attractive first.”
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Bad responses:
“Why not, you’re boring?”
“Good, I hate women who sleep around.” (This is
especially bad since she will interpret it as slut-
shaming, making her even more closed off- because
when she says this; she wants to sleep with you.)
“Look at me, I’m handsome.”
“Oh, my bad.”
“Neither am I.”
“What are you looking for”
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19) "Can you handle a strong,
independent woman?"
Just walk away bro, she has been
brainwashed, she has “toxic” written on her
forehead.
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Good responses:
*Ignore, walk away*
“Let’s see how strong you really are. Arm
wrestle. You and me. Now.”
“Now what makes you think that I want that?”
“I can see why you’re still single.”
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Bad responses:
"I believe in equality and respect in a
relationship, so I can definitely handle a strong,
independent woman."
"I admire strong, independent women and would
be honored to be with someone like that."
“I don't think I could handle a woman who's
stronger and more independent than I am."
"I don't like strong, independent women, they're
too hard to control."
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20) "What do you do for a living?"
She’s trying to convey:
"Let’s see if he tries to impress me.”
Never tell her what you actually do.
A truly confident man doesn’t brag or have the
need for external validation.
You can do it eventually, but keep it a mystery in
the beginning.
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Good responses:
“Lighter repair man”
“White slave trader” *Only use on white
chicks*
“I’m collecting rubber ducks.”
“Lego Fixer”
*Anything, as long as it sounds
ridiculous.*
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Bad responses:
*What you actually do.”
“I work 80 hours a week on a science
project and I make a lot of money.”
*All types of qualifying and bragging*
I'm literally having a hard time coming up with these
'bad responses'
It's not in my nature anymore, lmao.
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21) “Why are you so mysterious?”
She’s trying to convey:
“I can’t figure you out, it drives me crazy but
I love it at the same time.
You’re not like the other guys.”
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Good responses:
“I have issues.”
“Trust me, you don’t want to know.”
“You don’t want to go down that
rabbit hole.”
*Anything that makes her even more
curious.*
Bad responses:
*Anything that explains your “why”*
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22) "Do you have any exes that
still talk to you?"
She’s trying to convey:
“I wonder if he has any exes; especially if
they still want to talk to him, then he must be
a trustworthy, mature, classy man.
I want what other women want.”
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Good responses:
“Yeah, they can’t leave me alone.”
“They’re lining up to get back with me.”
“Yeah, but they just want to fuck me, I’m
not that easy.”
“Cute, you’re already getting jealous.”
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Bad responses:
“No, fuck them.”
“No, I don’t have any.”
“Yes, I'm talking to them every day, we are
like best friends.” (too much qulifying)
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23) "Do you have any female
friends?"
She’s trying to convey:
“If he has female friends other women want
to be around him. If they want his attention,
then I want it as well.”
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Good responses:
“No, every girl just wants to fuck me, it’s
hard out here. Maybe you’re different?”
(lowkey friend-zoning her - making her
crave you even more)
“Some, but they all just fall in love with me,
super annoying”
“Nah, they just want my dick or my
money.”
“Cute, you’re already getting jealous.”
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Bad responses:
"No, I don't associate with women."
"Yes, I have friends of all genders,
including female friends. Everyone
deserves respect and friendship
regardless of gender."
“Yes, I have some.”
“I mostly hang out with guys, they’re
more fun.”
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24) "Do you like me just for my
looks?"
She’s trying to convey:
“Let’s see if you look at me as more
than a mere face in the crowd, I hope
you’re not just after my pussy.”
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Good responses:
“Great question woman, you’re leveling up.
You tell me. What do you have inside that
would make me want to know you as more
than just a pretty face in the crowd?” (This is
great because if she starts qualifying herself
then it’s an IOI - indicator of interest.)
“You’re pretty insecure? aren’t you?”
“Yeah I do, did you think you were special or
something?” *playfully*
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Bad responses:
“No, not at all, I love your personality as
well.”
“Yes.”
“Don’t say that."
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25) "This is a bad idea"
She’s trying to convey:
“I want to fuck you, I’ll give you another ASD,
that way I can justify it so I’ll feel less like a
slut.”
This will occur when you're kissing her or
undressing her.
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Good responses:
“Absolutely” *Continue to escalate physically.*
“Sure is, we are going to hell.” *Continue to
escalate physically.*
“Yeah, worst. ever.” *Continue to escalate
physically.*
“Totally, we shouldn’t be doing this.” *Continue
to escalate physically.*
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Bad responses:
“What? Why, what’s wrong.”
“Should we stop? Want to talk about it?”
*Anything logical*
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26) “What are you looking for in
a relationship?”
She’s trying to convey:
“I’m interested in you, this is a signal.
I hope you catch on.
You have now passed all my shit tests. I can
finally submit to your frame.”
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Good responses:
“So far, you’re not doing a good job”
*playfully*
“I’m not looking for anything serious but you
seemed lost so I’ll help you out”
“A crazy bitch who can match my aura and
crazy enough to roll with me.”
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Good responses:
“So far, you’re not doing a good job”
*playfully*
“I’m not looking for anything serious but
you seem lost so I’ll help you out”
“A crazy bitch who can match my aura and
crazy enough to roll with me.”
Bad responses:
*Go into a deep story about what you actually
want*
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Finally, shit-test doesn’t always come in the form of
a psychological attack.
Some women for example like to make extremely
sexual comments after they’ve met you, especially
here in the West:
“I give amazing blowjobs”
Don’t be tricked, it’s a shit test.
If you become uncomfortable you fail.
Just hold your nerve, and say “respect.”
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Beauty is also a shit test; probably the most common one,
because it weeds out the losers who get dumbstruck by it.
Shit tests are essentially a tool to gauge your level of
confidence.
If you can't handle beauty, you've already failed.
To end this chapter; it's important to not come off as stiff
and robotic.
You don't want to be the guy who only spits one-liners
and fails to engage in meaningful conversations.
Shit tests are just funny obstacles to get past. The goal is
to establish rapport and create a deeper bond between
the two of you.
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CHAPTER 9
UNMASKING INDICATORS OF INTEREST:
PAYING ATTENTION TO THE CUES
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"Women use signals to communicate their
interest or disinterest in a man, to gauge his
level of interest, and to move the interaction
forward or backward."
- Neil Strauss
What Are IOI?
Ready to hear something crazy?
Most potential 'soulmates' never even meet because men
suck at catching signals.
Yes, I’m talking to you.
You really, truly, utterly suck at it.
Women fear the thought of approaching men because of their
fear of being slut-shamed by their friends, society, and you -
Once you grasp the concept, it will shed light on many of their
actions and the reasons behind their behavior.
Beyond Seduction - Unmasking Indicators of Interest: What Are IOI?
Anyway, as a result, women send subtle signals in the
hopes that men will approach them.
However, 90% of men do not catch these signals,
which means that 90% of women have to settle for
someone they are not interested in.
This is extremely frustrating for women because when
she sends signals she’s basically saying:
“Come here and talk to me for a bit.”
It’s an “unspoken” invitation for you to approach and
you don’t catch on.
Beyond Seduction - Unmasking Indicators of Interest: What Are IOI?
Sure, it is unfair - they can send signals and you have
to do all the work.
But life isn’t fair, it’s your duty as a man - accept it.
In the PUA community, we call these signs Indicators of
interest (IOI).
IOI refers to the subtle cues that women use to show
that they are interested in you.
They are basically behaviors from women which
communicate - consciously or not - that she is attracted
to you.
Beyond Seduction - Unmasking Indicators of Interest: What Are IOI?
It’s very important for you to learn how to read and
recognize these signs.
Why?
Because a key principle of pickup is that you must get your
target interested in you before you move into qualification
and comfort;
And IOIs are how you know when to switch gears.
A golden rule to follow is:
Once you get three IOI you can safely escalate, knowing
with certainty that she’s interested.
Beyond Seduction - Unmasking Indicators of Interest: What Are IOI?
You need to normalize looking for IOI because you can’t
seduce someone who isn’t interested.
That’s fundamental to game;
No interest - no attraction.
These cues can vary depending on the situation and the girl,
but there are some common IOIs you must learn to recognize.
Same as with shit tests, IOI can be anything.
You need to develop an intuition and learn to recognize them.
It’s up to you to interpret it as an IOI or not.
Beyond Seduction - Unmasking Indicators of Interest: What Are IOI?
Some signals are intentionally sent, while others are
done subconsciously.
Here are some common IOI to give you a guideline:
Her body is oriented towards you despite others
being present.
She touches you while talking.
Her feet point towards you.
She shit tests you.
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She wants your attention: sends double texts, answers
quickly over text, remembers important details about you,
keeps coming back to talk to you at a party, makes an effort to
spend time with you and get to know you, calls you and her
friends know about you.
She makes small adjustments to her appearance when you're
looking at her (smoothing hair, reapplying lipstick, etc.)
She maintains eye contact with a soft smile.
She finds you hilarious - laughs at every joke.
She removes physical barriers between the two of you.
She licks/bites her lips.
She briefly breaks eye contact by looking down (a sign of
submissiveness)
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She leans into you or brushes against you.
Her body language is open (shoulders back, arms
uncrossed)
She improves her posture when you pay attention to
her.
She enters your personal space.
She stands near you or constantly moves closer to
you for no specific reason.
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She gives feedback and agrees with what you’re saying.
She exposes more skin while you're looking
She caresses herself or scratches her inner arm or wrist.
She asks genuine questions - especially about you:
- “Are you single?”
-“Do you have a girlfriend?”
-“What are you working with?”, etc.
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She continues to engage in the conversation and makes an
effort to keep it alive (through text and IRL)
She mirrors your posture, gestures, or actions.
She’s constantly blushing, smiling, and nodding.
She plays with a straw, her drink, her hair, her necklace, or
a toothpick while looking at you or talking to you.
She keeps looking over at you.
She calls you an asshole/jerk.
She flirts, banter, and tease you.
Beyond Seduction - Unmasking Indicators of Interest: What Are IOI?
I know what you're thinking: "How's being called an asshole an IOI?
Well, weak men think being called “nice” is a compliment.
Strong men know that the greatest compliment a man can receive from a woman is
“You’re an asshole.”
Assholes and jerks tease, disqualify and challenge women. But interestingly, this
makes women very attracted to them because they do not suck up to women or try to
please them. Even though these women say the men are rude, narcissistic, selfish &
proud, they love and admire their guts.
But because nice guys are helpful, kind, and generous, they are unable to challenge a
woman's ego.
They're always so pleasing and easy to get along with, that women only always have
nice things to say about them. Too boring.
Nice guys never arouse sexual interest in women because their behavior is simply too
pleasing.
They get a lot of compliments for being helpful. And the compliments manipulate them
into thinking they might get some action sometime in the future.
So much for being nice.
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If she hates you, she at least has a feeling for you. It's better to be hated
than to not stand out at all.
She would rather choose a man who spikes her emotions either
positively or negatively than a mundane and boring man who makes her
feel nothing.
Anyway, you should memorize this list and use it actively when talking to
women.
These are almost all nonverbal cues.
Normalize paying attention to people’s nonverbal cues, not just to
women.
They say more than a thousand words.
If a girl shows you signs of interest, you can continue the conversation,
escalate, or ask more questions - take it into mid-game. I'll teach you
later.
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If she’s not giving you any IOIs, you must change the topic to
something more interesting, or save yourself time and
energy and politely walk away as there is no use in forcing
you on her.
Hint: It will only chase her further away.
Seduction Principle: Not everybody is going to like you.
The quicker you realize this the better your game will
become.
Learn to use IOI effectively and move on to another girl if you
aren’t receiving any.
You can’t seduce them all.
Beyond Seduction - Unmasking Indicators of Interest: What Are IOI?
If you really master frame control here’s also a simple way to
become fearless around women.
Back in my PUA days I used to do this all the time:
Frame EVERYTHING they do or say as an indicator of
interest.
NO MATTER WHAT… The girl is interested in me.
Before I approach a girl I repetitively tell myself that she
wants to get in my pants.
“She’s so fucking attracted to me.”
“Within 5 minutes she’s going to be begging for me.”
Beyond Seduction - Unmasking Indicators of Interest: What Are IOI?
No matter who the girl is, if I ever meet Taylor Swift she’s going
to be attracted to me like a magnet.
Our inner reality shapes our external one, remember?
Short-term confidence does in fact comes down to a mental
switch, while true confidence requires an undeniable stack of
proof that you are who you say you are.
The Art Of Evoking IOI
Yes, you can evoke IOI - and it’s so fucking powerful.
As I said, since almost everything can to some degree be an
IOI I can’t name them all, but I’ll give you some lines and tricks
you can use to evoke IOI.
Memorize and enjoy:
Beyond Seduction - Unmasking Indicators of Interest: The Art Of Evoking IOI
1) The Magic Words
Tell her: “Beauty is common, it’s either something you’re
born with or paid for.
But what’s rare is a great energy and outlook on life.
Tell me, what do you have inside that would make me want
to know you as more than just a pretty face in the crowd?”
Her eyes will sparkle due to your poetic words, and if she
begins to qualify herself then it's definitely an indicator of
interest.
Beyond Seduction - Unmasking Indicators of Interest: The Art Of Evoking IOI
2) Squeeze her hand once you’ve built some
rapport
Example-
“You look thirsty, let’s get you a drink.”
Then grab her hand and lead her through the crowd,
squeeze her hand, and if she squeezes back then it’s
another IOI.
Beyond Seduction - Unmasking Indicators of Interest: The Art Of Evoking IOI
3) Shit test HER
Shit testing her will lead to a shit test coming in return if
she’s interested.
Shit-tests are an IOI because she wouldn’t even bother
to shit-test a guy she didn’t care about.
Example:
You: “So, why don’t you have a boyfriend?”
Her: “The real question is; why don’t you have a
girlfriend.”
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4) Don’t Introduce Yourself
During a cold approach- do not introduce yourself by
name.
This gives her the opportunity to ask for your name,
which is another IOI.
This is the easiest way to evoke an IOI.
Powerful.
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5) Wild Statements
“I just have a feeling that your favorite color is blue, hmm
am I right? What’s the odds, that's mine as well.”
If she’s interested she’ll qualify herself and agree with
your statement in hopes that it will make you like her
more, but it doesn’t mean she’s disinterested if she
doesn’t agree.
Simply say: “Well, it was worth a try, it only works 1/10
times.”
She’ll laugh and you can get back to your organic
conversation.
Beyond Seduction - Unmasking Indicators of Interest: The Art Of Evoking IOI
Finally, some guys think that women aren't responding to their
messages because she's playing hard to get.
That's simply a lie.
She isn't responding to your messages to play hard to get.
She isn't responding to your texts because she's busy.
She isn't responding to your texts because she's playing games.
The reason why she's not responding is because she's not fucking
interested.
It's equally important to look for indicators of disinterest as it's to look
for indicators of interest.
As I said, everybody isn't going to like you, that's just a fact you need
to accept.
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Sure, some women play games. but 9/10 don't.
When a woman truly wants you, she'll make it easy for
you.
But why isn't she interested?
Well, girls flake on guys because they fail to demonstrate
their value.
So in fact, the problem isn't that she’s not INTERESTED.
The problem is that you're UNINTERESTING.
Let us fix that.
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CHAPTER 10
UNVEILING THE ARMOR OF
THE HEART:
ANTI SLUT DEFENSE AND LAST MINUTE
RESISTANCE EVASION MASTERY
Beyond Seduction
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"Last-minute resistance is not a test, it's a sign
of discomfort."
- Eric Disco
Last Minute Resistance
Have you ever been with a woman and had an amazing time as things
progressed romantically?
Perhaps it started with a dance to a favorite song, and gradually, you
both grew closer, feeling the rising excitement.
As her kisses became more passionate and she drew you nearer, you
could also sense her arousal increasing.
Eventually, one of you decided to find a more private setting, and the
intimacy continued to escalate.
You felt a deep connection on every level, convinced that this moment
couldn't be more perfect.
But suddenly, she pulled back and said, "Stop!"
Well, that's LMR in a nutshell.
Beyond Seduction - Unveiling The Armor Of The Heart: LMR
And, like most men, you were probably left scratching your head wondering
“what went wrong?”
Actually, nothing went wrong, the woman is responding appropriately. This
phenomenon is known as Last-Minute Resistance (LMR) and virtually every
man has experienced it. LMR can be defined as female resistance to sexual
intercourse after the female has already agreed to spend time in an isolated
venue with a man.
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Last-minute resistance is a term used to describe an individual's reluctance or
indecision in the face of engaging in a specific action or behavior, especially
when they have previously agreed or intended to do so.
It also refers to a person's subconscious defense mechanisms that prevent
them from taking a certain step, despite having made a conscious decision to
do so.
All of you guys will sooner or later experience LMR, either in the bedroom,
before taking her to your place, or before kissing her.
A common example is if she prevents you from escalating beyond a certain
point in the bedroom; she refuses to undress further by saying: “We can’t do
this” or “This is such a bad idea.”
Beyond Seduction - Unveiling The Armor Of The Heart: LMR
LMR occurs for several reasons.
For example: She feels things are moving too quickly, she is nervous, she is
shy, and she doesn’t want to feel slutty by giving it up too easily.
All in all, it's because she’s not comfortable yet.
You need to see it from a female perspective, as men sex has no potential
consequences, we can cum and run and never see her again.
If a woman becomes impregnated by a man and the man does not stick around
to protect her and her child, this can be a real danger for the woman. This is a
basic, instinctual fear inside almost every woman alive.
Evolution hasn't caught up to birth control.
So LMR has nothing to do with whether she wants to have sex with you or not,
it's only a result of that she doesn't know you well enough. She doesn't know if
you're going to stick around if she potentially becomes pregnant
Hence; to avoid LMR in the first place it’s important to develop and build comfort,
PRIOR to taking her home, even before hitting on her.
Beyond Seduction - Unveiling The Armor Of The Heart: LMR
A golden rule is: The more comfortable, chill, and relaxed a girl feels around you, the
more open and receptive she will be towards physical escalation.
COMFORT IS KEY.
Comfort is built through organic conversations and time.
I'll teach you everything you need to know inside: Building Bridges: Comfort &
Rapport The A-Z Guide
This chapter is just to give you an insight into the female mind during dating and give you
an understanding of the phenomenon.
Think about it this way:
LMR is difficult for men to understand because men do not experience this in the same
way.
Men do have a corresponding fear, one that is experienced at the very beginning of the
sexual encounter, and that is the fear of the approach.
Since women do not normally approach men, they often find it difficult to understand this
male fear, in the same way men find it hard to understand LMR.
But what if the women smiled at you before approaching and waved you over? Would it
be easier to approach? Fuck Yes. Same with women, if you build comfort it will be easier
to sleep with you without fear.
Beyond Seduction - Unveiling The Armor Of The Heart: LMR
Remember that her LMR reaction is a test for her to judge your strength and your
dependence on her.
Before mating, a woman needs to feel like she is with a man who is strong and
able to take care of her and her child in case of pregnancy.
If a man demonstrates that he is dependent on her for either sex or psychological
support, she instinctively knows that he is not the man with the best genes for
her.
And the best way to judge a man’s strength is to observe him under pressure.
These tests (Shit tests, LMR tests, and ASD tests) are merely part of the female
biological instinct.
So if you ever become needy or desperate when she tests you, she will reject
you. Instead, you should do a freeze-out, which I'll talk about inside: Game
Unleashed: Techniques To Make Women Addicted To You
Doing a freeze-out will give you social proof because you convey that you have
options.
And if other women want you, she'll want you to.
Beyond Seduction - Unveiling The Armor Of The Heart: LMR
One way to avoid LMR besides comfort is to plan ahead.
Break the task into smaller, manageable steps and create a plan of action. This
can help her feel more in control and reduce stress and anxiety.
If she agrees to go back to your place and then resists in the last minute you
need to make it easy for her.
Break it into smaller, more “doable” tasks (I live 5 minutes away, it’s just around
the corner, we’ll go straight back, etc.) and always have a purpose for the
invitation so she can justify it to herself and her friends.
“I said we weren’t going to have sex, he just told me we were going to look at
some art/video/have a drink, etc.”
You need to understand that a woman will rarely do anything during a pickup that
makes her feel responsible for what may happen between the two of you.
To whatever degree she feels responsible, her anti-slut defense, bitch shield, or
last-minute resistance will be activated.
Thus she has a need for plausible deniability.
Beyond Seduction - Unveiling The Armor Of The Heart: LMR
For example, if you were to say to her, "Hey, let's go back to my place and
have sex," she would have to say no, even though she wanted to say yes,
because saying yes would make her responsible for what is about happen.
But if instead you were to say, "Hey, let's stop by my place on the way to
that party, I have to show you my tropical fish," now she has an excuse
and plausible deniability to stop by your place, and then, oopsie!
She’ll have sex with you.
Then she can tell all her friends that: "One thing led to another…”
Persistence is another way to relieve her of any responsibility for what is
happening.
Of course, don't confuse persistence with begging, arguing, or being
pushy, needy, or creepy.
All it means is don't give up too easily. Girls will test you to find out how
easily you throw in the towel, they want to gauge your self-confidence, it’s
essentially a non-verbal shit test.
Beyond Seduction - Unveiling The Armor Of The Heart: LMR
Just assume that she is giving a little token resistance, and continue.
If she didn't resist at least a little bit, she would feel like a slut, and if you
have learned anything about female psychology in this book you'll know
that's not going to happen.
And if you can't take her crap, how in the world are you going to
protect her from other people's crap?
This can be tricky as being overly aggressive will misinterpret all resistance
as being merely token and will eventually lead to you facing rape charges.
However, if you aren’t persistent enough and accept the ‘defeat’ every time
a woman resists, you’ll lose out because in many cases she was secretly
hoping you would be a little more forceful.
Also always take the shortest form of transportation and reduce the time to
get there by 50%.
If you live 10 minutes away, tell her it’s only 5 minutes - etc.
Beyond Seduction - Unveiling The Armor Of The Heart: LMR
Anti Slut Defense
Before sex, a woman has 100 reasons why she doesn't want to sleep with
you.
After sex, a woman will have 100 reasons why you're worth sleeping with -
mind-blowing, right? Hear me out:
A WOMAN'S LINE OF REASONING SIMPLY FOLLOWS THEIR
BEHAVIOR BUT IT’S JUST A WAY TO JUSTIFY THEIR ACTIONS.
However these ‘reasons’ are not true, they’re an anti-slut defense.
A defense mechanism women have adapted to avoid getting slut-shamed
by you, their friends, and society. Gave you a general idea of what it is?
ASD stands for anti-slut defense and is a common technique used by
women to abstain herself from responsibility during situations where
intimacy is likely.
It’s very similar to an LMR.
Beyond Seduction - Unveiling The Armor Of The Heart: ASD
She may wonder whether she is a slut or a bad woman for being
so aroused so quickly in your presence.
Keep in mind that ASD can be very specific: some women may
feel like sluts if they have sex with you on the beach and yet be
perfectly at ease having sex with you in hotels.
Other women may feel that they are sluts if they have sex with you
in a hotel and be perfectly at ease on the beach.
ASD usually has triggers, a specific line each girl has, and if she
goes past that line she feels like a slut.
Some women don't have any at all, for some kissing can be the
trigger, and for others; taking off their pants can be the trigger.
Some women even have different triggers at different levels of the
escalation ladder; also known as; more obstacles for you to get
past.
Beyond Seduction - Unveiling The Armor Of The Heart: ASD
An ASD is likely to happen in a public place, while you're still at the
club, for example.
An ASD will come in the form of rejection; she will reject your attempt
to kiss her and get physical with her, or she might even suddenly
appear completely disinterested in you.
Women do this as a result of the environment around them; women
care more about their friends' opinions than their own.
She’s afraid of being judged by people around her, her friends, and
even you.
It’s a good thing if she’s afraid of being judged by you, she doesn't
want to come off as “slutty” or “easy”.
She wants you to like her and see her in a positive light.
Now, let's talk about how to avoid it.
Beyond Seduction - Unveiling The Armor Of The Heart: ASD
In order to avoid drawing out an ASD from her, it is important that
you take responsibility away from the girl.
You must take her away from the social pressure, away from the
environment where she feels judged.
The most important factor is to get her away from her friends.
This can be done by taking her to the bar, to buy her a drink.
To isolate her one-on-one.
Take responsibility away from the girl and find a solution to the
situation.
Always get her further and further away from her friends.
If you want to leave the club/bar but she’s being difficult, remove the
responsibility from her. Tell her “2 minutes, I just want to grab some
food, we will come right back afterward.”
Beyond Seduction - Unveiling The Armor Of The Heart: ASD
Once out, you can go for the pull (after mid game of course)
Say something like “Remember the afterparty I talked about?
Let’s go, I got some chill friends I want you to meet.”
(Use this as a fake time constraint in your opener: "Hi, quick
question, I'm on my way to an afterparty, but me and my friends
had a discussion and need a female perspective on
something__"
If she answers with “No, I can’t leave my friends.”
You answer with something like: “Of course, I live 5 minutes
away, we will just say “hi” and go straight back. I promise”
If she doesn't want to go, you can go full simp mode as a last
effort. “I don’t want to sleep with you if it means I’ll never see you
again.”
Beyond Seduction - Unveiling The Armor Of The Heart: ASD
Once you get to your apartment, all the social pressure is taken away;
at this point, you’ll probably face some LMR, simply de-escalate before
re-escalating.
Never be aggressive, forceful, or pressure the girl.
If she truly doesn't want to go with you, let her be.
Ask for her socials or number, take her phone, and change your name
to “Your future ex” or something else, as long as it's funny, a way to
stand out. Hit her up later.
You don’t even need to ask directly for her number or Instagram, you
can ask her: “So what steps can we take to continue this conversation.”
Why?
Because she needs to be comfortable with the idea, if you make it
sound like it’s her initiative she’ll be much more comfortable, her giving
it to you instead of asking is also another indicator of interest.
Beyond Seduction - Unveiling The Armor Of The Heart: ASD
Your reputation does also matter.
Are you discreet? A question women ask themselves all the time.
Consider when you are in a group of people, and some of the men begin
making distasteful comments about a certain woman’s sexuality.
Are you eager to make fun at the woman’s expense? Or consider if you have
an opportunity for a secret rendezvous with an attractive woman.
Are you the type of person to openly discuss the possibilities with your
friends, as if you were a child about to travel to Disney World for the first
time? Or would you likely brag about your conquest after the fact to anyone
who will listen?
Doing any of these things will position you as a man that is not discreet and
who cannot be trusted with any decent woman’s honor.
You will automatically and unfailingly raise the ASD of the women around
you. This is something, however, that women will rarely, if ever, talk about.
WOMEN SIMPLY AVOID MEN WHO ARE NOT DISCREET.
Their reputation is on the line, and as humans, there is nothing we value
more than our reputation.
Beyond Seduction - Unveiling The Armor Of The Heart: ASD
Men who fucks lots of girls don't need to brag about their conquests as if they
somehow “got lucky.”
Men who want to enjoy the company of many women must first learn to cultivate
and display the quality of discretion.
You are a man that is comfortable with women and their sexuality, and at the
same time, you know when to keep your mouth shut.
You are not disturbed by female sexual expression and at the same time, you
know how to discreetly create the circumstances that will allow the woman the
freedom to express herself.
While you love and enjoy sex and have no embarrassment about your sexual
desires as a healthy man, sex is not something so rare and unusual for you that
you are compelled to reveal private details to the woman’s friends, or even your
own friends.
You will find that even women who have a liberated view of sexuality will in
fact avoid men who do not display discretion.
While many people today will not judge a woman for being promiscuous, other
people will still judge her quite harshly. Naturally, she will feel comfortable with
non-judgmental people and will want to avoid people with a deeply-ingrained
"you're a whore if you're easy" complex.
Beyond Seduction - Unveiling The Armor Of The Heart: ASD
Finally, a woman’s feelings of ASD will be projected onto the man
in question, meaning that she will tend to feel that it is entirely your
fault if she begins to feel bad about feeling slutty.
Men who don't know any better will often think they did something
wrong, but that's the problem with men without understanding for
the perplexed female mind.
So next time you're enjoying the beautiful presence of a beautiful
woman and she goes cold or comes up with ridiculous excuses as
to why she can't proceed any further know that it's an ASD.
You didn't do anything wrong, it's just a sign that you've escalated
beyond her trigger point.
She wants you, she just wants to make sure that'll call her
tomorrow and not be left looking like a slut.
Beyond Seduction - Unveiling The Armor Of The Heart: ASD
Lastly, trying to rush your way through LMR or ASD will
never end well.
Each time you back of during your freeze-out, escalate a little
further the next time and repeat.
The girl will become much more comfortable with the subtle
and small escalations, things will feel slower and less rushed
and she will feel much more relaxed and turned on.
If you play it right you will eventually hear… “Do you have a
condom?”
Beyond Seduction - Unveiling The Armor Of The Heart: ASD
ASD & LMR: Examples And Answers
Find logical solutions to all her excuses. Take the responsibility away from
her. Make it easy for her.
Here are a few examples:
Her: “I need to wake up early tomorrow.”
You: “I have to get up at —*2 hours before her, depending on what she
says.” so that’s not even a problem.”
Her: “I am not going to sleep with you”
You: “Don’t worry, I have a 7-date rule, I am not in the mood anyway, we are
just going for a drink.”
Her: “My friends won’t let me leave, we are having a girl's night out”
You: “I understand, don’t worry. I live just around the corner. We are just
going for one drink, we’ll come straight back.”
Beyond Seduction - Unveiling The Armor Of The Heart: ASD
CHAPTER 11
BREAKING THE ICE:
COLD APPROACH AND OPENING
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“If you don’t open, you’re not in the
game.”
-Erik von Markovik
Introductions
The basic format for getting women is FMAC.
"FMAC" is an acronym that stands for "Find, Meet,
Attract, Close,"
Find: This step involves identifying your target. T
his involves going to bars, clubs, social events, etc.
Meet: Once a target has been identified, the next step is
to approach and initiate a conversation with her.
This involves using different types of openers or
conversation starters.
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Attract: The next step is to build attraction with the woman by
demonstrating desirable qualities (hit her attraction switches),
such as confidence, humor, social proof, and much more.
This involves using various techniques, such as teasing,
storytelling, or demonstrating value.
Close: The final step is to "close" or seal the deal by getting
the woman's phone number, socials, setting up a date, or
taking her home.
Beyond Seduction - Breaking The Ice: Introductions
The first thing you need to know about the actual process of
picking up women is how to cold approach and open women.
A cold approach is when you’re walking up to complete
strangers, people you have no prior connection with, and trying
to make conversation.
An opener is the first thing you say.
Why is this important?
Because women won’t approach you due to their anti-slut
defense.
This means that you can never choose a woman, all you
can do is give her an opportunity to choose you, hence:
Cold approach.
Beyond Seduction - Breaking The Ice: Introductions
Those brand new to game ALWAYS ask me for pickup lines
or “openers” both with the mentality that if only they had the
right opening line, the rest would be a piece of cake.
WELL, FORGET IT.
It’s some pseudo-bullshit.
No specific line will make her panties drop.
The good news? Opening up is not difficult at all.
All you need is the right mindset and a few simple tips to
follow. But, here's the catch:
The opening part is actually the easiest part of an
approach.
Beyond Seduction - Breaking The Ice: Introductions
You can plan out your opening, there's no need to be quick
on your feet.
Unfortunately, most men give up before they even talk to their
target.
They give up before doing the simplest phase of seduction;
talking to her.
Look man, I get it. If you’re new to the game cold approaches
are stressful, but that’s only because you haven’t built any
rapport yet and fear rejection.
Here’s where frames come in. Instead of thinking: “Ah shit, I
hope this girl likes me.”
You should think: “She looks cute, but I hope she’s more
than just a pretty face.”
Beyond Seduction - Breaking The Ice: Introductions
And if she rejects you? So fucking what?
Rejection isn’t bad for you, it's a pity for her.
She lost out on the prize and the best night of her life.
Rejection doesn’t hurt unless you let a stranger have full
control over your sense of self-worth.
REFRAME - REFRAME - REFRAME.
Back to my point: The first thing you say to a woman
matter very little.
Some guys have told me that they can’t think of anything or
that they need a really good line, to that I say: You don’t,
you’re thinking too much.
Beyond Seduction - Breaking The Ice: Introductions
Just give up on your need for perfection.
As far as opening lines, a grunt or a fart is sufficient.
“How are you?”, followed by a “Looks like the party’s over
here.” *slightly disqualifying*, followed by a “Sooo, how do
y’all know each other.” usually does the trick- even a "Hi"
works.
Secondly, approaching her is doing her a massive favor, she
gets to talk to the most handsome, high-value, jacked man in
the room.
REFRAME - REFRAME - REFRAME.
Get it? Use frames effectively.
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Thirdly, when you’re about to approach a woman all your
emotions are going to try to fuck you up, but they are there
to try to confuse you.
YOU CANNOT TRUST THEM AT ALL.
There is no such thing as fear, emotions are just energy
and motion that you have trapped inside your head because
of a thought.
When talking to women you’re going to feel shy, insecure,
and self-conscious every now and then, and that is
completely normal, even I do sometimes.
You must deal with it like a pebble in your shoe, it’s
uncomfortable, but you ignore it.
Beyond Seduction - Breaking The Ice: Introductions
During the opening, social conditioning is working in
your favor.
It may be hard to open a stranger, but it’s even harder to
be rude to someone who comes up to you in a
reasonable, polite way.
Makes sense?
All the pressure you feel when it comes to opening a new
girl lands double on her the moment you open your
mouth.
She isn’t superhuman.
Women get equally nervous, even more nervous than you
when you’re opening your mouth.
Beyond Seduction - Breaking The Ice: Introductions
That being said, you can improve your chances of
opening successfully by understanding a few principles
and by following a few simple rules.
First of all, it’s important to know the purpose of an
opener.
No, there is no magic opener that will make her panties
drop right then and there, so don’t even try, I have said
that enough times by now.
Rather, the purpose of the opener is simple:
to distract her conscious mind for a few moments while
you show off your personality and display value.
Beyond Seduction - Breaking The Ice: Introductions
By distracting her mind you’ll easily get through the “How do I get
rid of this guy?” phase which is a common thought among women
when approached by men.
And no, this isn’t because women are cruel.
This is because women are smart.
YOU NEED TO PUT YOURSELF IN THEIR SHOES.
You must see the world through their EMOTIONAL based way of
thinking.
Think… have you ever been trapped in a conversation with
someone with whom you weren't interested, then you'll
understand how uncomfortable it can be.
Imagine this happening to you several times a day, almost every
day, for many years.
Beyond Seduction - Breaking The Ice: Introductions
Wouldn't you recognize the need to shut those people
down before they even got started?
Over time, as women interact with enough ‘nice guys’
and simps, they begin to create simple, yet effective
strategies for countering this barrage of bore.
These strategies make up what is metaphorically
called her protection shield, also known as immediate
rejection.
The basic principles of an opener are therefore:
Give yourself an opportunity to show off your personality
by distracting her mind, and demonstrating your value,
before immediate rejection.
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Q- “How can I do that?”
Easy, you use fake time constraints and use indirect
openers.
Indirect openers mean that instead of showing your
intentions right away: “Hi, I think you look really pretty.”
you’re engaging in casual small talk, I’ll talk more about
this later - don’t worry.
Fake time constraints mean giving an indication of that
you’re having limited time for the conversation despite not
actually having a pressing obligation:
“Quick question before I gotta regroup with my friends.”
Beyond Seduction - Breaking The Ice: Introductions
The second most thing to know about the opening?
It’s not about what you say.
It’s about how and who says it.
Beyond Seduction - Breaking The Ice: Introductions
If you’re insecure and uncertain about the approach you’ll come
off as needy and insecure - rejected.
THEREFORE THE #1 KEY TO OPENING IS TO PROJECT
CONFIDENCE.
It comes back to what we talked about in part 1; great tonality,
confident eye contact, and confident body language will convey
that you’re a confident, comfortable person completely
unintimidated by her beauty.
If you manage this you can literally say the stupidest shit and
she will still find you interesting.
You can say: “Hey dickhead, you’re cute.” and she’ll just laugh.
Beyond Seduction - Breaking The Ice: Introductions
Opening Essentials
As said, when you’re about to approach a woman all your
emotions are going to try to fuck you up.
To overcome this you must actively use The 3-second
rule:
You have three seconds to approach her after you’ve
spotted her.
If not the girl will think of you as a creep and you’ll get
nervous, start questioning yourself and you’ll 100% blow it
because uncertainty, insecurity, and disbelief will start to
creep in.
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Now, this rule is honored as often as not in the breach, but the key point is that you do not
want her to sit there, waiting for you to open.
If she senses that you want to open before you actually open her, your value will plummet
more and more the longer you wait.
She should NEVER sense you waiting to open.
That projects weakness.
For example: If you make eye contact with a woman in a bar and you smile at each other
it’s normal for the man to approach her; if you spend 5 minutes gathering the balls to
approach she’ll already see you as insecure.
A woman always knows what you’re thinking.
Academic research shows that women can read body language about 10 times better than
men.
I know this might be hard to believe. But, for example, if you are out on a date with a
woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.
And if you do not know exactly what to do and how to kiss her, and you just sit there
nervously by her, she will not help.
This is true at all stages of the date life cycle: when you first approach, you get her number,
you ask her out, when you have to kiss her ... always.
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Now, there are plenty of reasons to violate the three-second rule.
For example, if you’re in the middle of a conversation with your friends, you
shouldn’t end it just to go talk to her.
But don’t orbit, don’t sit around waiting for an opening to start talking to her.
If the moment isn’t right to open her, go do something else and come back
and open her later.
*Don’t use this as an excuse to not open*
It's like being in traffic, you need to be aggressive but still yield to those who
have the right of way.
And if you're one of those guys who are 'waiting for the right moment, or
wonder if she is single, then STOP waiting. No moment is 'right' and a girl is
never 100% single.
A woman always has a guy she’s kind of seeing, a guy she’s kind of sleeping
with, a guy who likes her that she tolerates, or a guy she can call.
If you don't know a move, another guy will.
Beyond Seduction - Breaking The Ice: Opening Essentials
The second rule of the opening is to never approach her from
behind.
Always come in at a slight angle so it’s not too direct and
confrontational.
You should speak to her over your shoulder, so it looks like
you’re ready to walk away at any minute as it displayed non-
neediness and detachment.
Obviously, this isn’t always possible.
But if you walk right up to a girl and open her, you are making her
important, you are giving her value, falling into her frame, and
making her the prize.
“You are worth me walking across the room for.”
Already you’ve put yourself at a disadvantage.
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Instead, if you open her casually, over your shoulder, like you just
noticed her, your body language says, “I suppose you might be
worth talking to for a moment”.
You haven’t given her a pedestal to stand on, and that’s half
the battle.
Obviously, this rule should not be taken to an extreme.
When there's a girl in your presence, simply begin talking to her
without hesitation.
If a girl is signaling a clear interest in being approached (for
example, by maintaining eye contact across a crowded room),
there's no need to contrive a scenario where you ‘just noticed her’
Instead, complete whatever you're doing, walk over to her, and
initiate a conversation.
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The Opener
Finally, it’s time to open, to initiate a conversation.
Even if you are uncertain it's important to initiate contact.
Failure to do so will only result in being left out of the game
entirely.
Seduction Principle: If you don’t open, you’re not in the
game.
Starting conversations is a skill that’s developed over time, so
begin building the habit today.
You can always fine-tune your approach in the future.
Beyond Seduction - Breaking The Ice: The Opener
Make a promise to yourself to start opening up, and stop
giving yourself excuses not to.
A common excuse is “I am an introvert”.
We have already covered this in part 1; No, you’re fucking
not.
Your introversion isn’t why you’re bad at dating, or bad at
making conversation.
It’s just a lousy excuse you use to justify your inaction.
Make the decision to stop dreaming about talking to
beautiful women and to start actually talking to them.
If you can make that commitment, the rest is a piece of
cake.
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I must also clarify this: Most men make the mistake of
believing that a woman who doesn't talk to or acknowledge
him is a bitch, that’s simply not true.
In most cases she’s just shy or insecure as the less
attractive women he’s ignoring - if not more so.
Women are more self-conscious than men.
Some women are like a fine, vintage wine; full of
complexity.
Just as you would savor a fine wine and take the time to
appreciate its nuances, some women also require time to
get comfortable enough to open up around you.
You might not like it at first, but with time everything
changes.
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Different Types Of Openers
Openers can be separated into two main categories;
Indirect and direct.
An indirect opener is when you’re not obviously trying to pick
her up.
You’re not directly indicating that you find her attractive.
While direct openers are the opposite, you’re showing your
intention right away.
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Indirect - Example: “Oh my god” “did you see those two
girls fighting outside?”
Her: “No, what happened?”
“Um, two girls were fighting outside over this little guy
who was half their size, it was pretty brutal. He was just
standing there laughing as the police came and arrested
the girls.”
Direct - Example:
“Hi, can I buy you a drink?”
“You’re wearing that dress like you’re doing it a
favor.”
“Hi, just gotta say; You’re the perfect combination
between sexy and cute.”
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The trick is to land somewhere in between as giving her too
much attention early on signals insecurity while being too
cold and disinterested will make no one even bother to talk
to you.
You must combine the two attitudes at the same time, two
attitudes at the same moment.
This can be done through push & pull (Be cold - show
interest)
The best way is therefore to start with a indirect opener (Push)
Then hit on her as soon as the conversion has a natural flow
(Pull), then disqualify her (Push), and repeat.
Push-pull-push-pull.
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That’s because you should never confess your love or intentions to a
girl you’re trying to seduce.
You must let her figure it out, let her read it in your manner.
Being silent about it will create much more tension, interest,
and mystery than addressing it directly ever will.
There’s too little mystery in the world.
Most guys say exactly what’s on their minds or show their inventions
right away.
The problem with this is: Women earn for something enigmatic,
something to feed their fantasies, strong emotions to feed their
chick logic.
Hints, suggestions, and mystery does this, hence; choose indirect
openers. Making yourself “unavailable” will cause her to want you
even more.
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Being easy, and falling into her frame will not allure her.
Being a forbidden fruit will.
Women are excited by what they cannot have and a forbidden fruit looks
inviting, you see it, but you cannot have it.
The only way to get rid of the temptation is to yield and taste the fruit.
The key to seduction is to be the “unavailable” man. Don’t be
unobtainable, but create barriers and make it hard for her. That’s the
ultimate temptation. Be a prize to be won, and she’ll go out of her way to
get you.
The importance of being unpredictable and keeping her in suspense can
not be overstated.
Behave in a way that leaves her wondering: “What is he up to?”
Mystery is the lifeblood of seduction.
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Seduction Principle: Once you become predictable, no one is
interested anymore.
If you’re too persistent and overwhelming a girl you like with
romantic attention you won’t convince her of your affection.
IT HAS THE OPPOSITE EFFECT.
You just show her your impatience, neediness, and insecurity.
Seem intrigued, yet don’t show any particular interest in her.
Once she feels what to expect from you, your seductive spell on
her is broken.
Nothing is more unseductive than familiarity.
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Before we move on to my actual openers I also have a technique I
like to call ‘dark openers’, some techniques I picked up from my
PUA days, they're on the moral borderline and you’ll understand
why very quickly.
Bring a lint in your pocket when you go out, then wordlessly walk up
to her and pretend to take the lint off her clothes (which you have
hidden in your palm as you walk up) then tell her:
“How long has that been there?”
Another dark one is to stick your elbow out or place yourself in front
of her as she walks by, then yell “owwww” as if she hurt you, and
when she stops accuse her of grabbing your ass.
These are great because you’ll immediately kick her down from her
pedestal and she’ll start trying to get your validation because she’s
embarrassed.
It’s much more rewarding to be funny, than a creep.
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Opinion Openers
Opinion openers fall under indirect openers, and it’s pretty self-
explanatory.
All you need to do is to ask for her opinion on a specific topic.
My favorite is the “jealous girlfriend”, and will, in fact, be the only
one you need.
You: “Me and my friends had a discussion and we need a female
perspective.
Would you date a guy who’s still friends with his ex?”
Her: “Yes/No”
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You: “Well, the reason I am asking is that my buddy has this
new girlfriend, they’ve been dating for a couple of months.
And she discovered that he’s still friends with his ex.
They’re not fooling around or anything, just friends but she
wants him to cut it off.
Should he?”
Note- This also works if your ‘target’ is with her friends, as
they would start to discuss the topic, often disagree with each
other, and really engage in the conversation.
You’ve evoked strong emotions in them, they find you
interesting.
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Her/They: *Doesn’t matter what she/they say, just seem
intrigued*
You: “Alright, thanks”
*Pretend to walk away.*
They/She will think:
“Don’t go, I really found that conversation interesting, you didn’t
hit on me.
You’re so detached and non-needy, so different from any other
guy I’ve talked to.
Are you interested in me? I don’t know, I want to find out. I want
more of you.
Please come back.”
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You: Walk back, this time you take a seat and say:
“Actually it’s more than that. He has this old box of letters and photos
from her kept in the back of his closet. But she found it and she flipped
out.
Do you think he should get rid of it?”
*If in a group they will continue to discuss with each other, if she’s alone
she will discuss it with you.
Whenever the discussion comes to an end say: “In fact, it’s worse than
that. She doesn’t just want him to get rid of it, she wants him to burn the
box.”
From here you can say: “Thanks, I owe you one. Just don't cash it in
Monday thru Saturday.”
*Anything funny as long as it makes her laugh - then ask for her name, if
she asks for yours afterward then it’s an IOI, she’s interested* from
there- continue the conversation with one of my charismatic questions.
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Note- Remember CPG (Confident body language (C), piercing eye
contact (P), and great tonality (G) throughout the whole interaction
and constantly look for IOI from the list presented to you in
‘Unmasking Indicators of interest’.
Congratulations, you’ve opened.
This opener has been battle tested by me and several pick-up
artists for years, and yes, it works, everytime.
Feel free to customize and make your own.
Let’s quickly look at why it works so you can use it as a template
to develop your own opinion openers.
“The jealous girlfriend” works because it asks a question about
which people will have strong opinions, but which most people will
not agree about, it is also great because you’re building rapport,
creating a connection, building comfort, and distracting her mind.
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A bad opinion opener is something like,
“What do you think about this hat?”
because it doesn’t trigger any sort of emotional reaction, and
can be answered with one or two-word responses.
By engaging the set (group) or target (individual) emotionally,
the set or target will focus on the conversation, rather than
you;
giving you plenty of time to display some value before they
realize that this is a pickup.
It’s subtle and indirect and before she even realizes she’s
being gamed she will already be interested in you.
That makes a good opinion opener the best possible
opener.
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There are several others that build upon the exact same
principle, always start with a fake time constraint, make it evoke
an emotional reaction, and start with “me and my friends had a
discussion” (“or me and another girl over there had a
discussion” *Social proof*)
Examples:
“What’s the difference between love and being in love?”
“Would you say all is far in love and war?”
I won’t give you any more opening lines than this - just to
emphasize my point.
OPENING LINES DOESN’T MAKE HER ATTRACTED TO
YOU.
It’s your aura that matters, but always go for indirect openers,
so you distract her conscious mind.
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The Perfect Group Opener
Occasionally the girl you like, also known as; your target, will
be busy talking to her friends.
Sometimes you won’t have time to wait for an opportunity to
catch her alone.
While this might seem even scarier than approaching her
alone, you must realize that she’ll more often be surrounded
by other people than completely by herself.
This opener works great on groups because it’s exciting for
both men and women, so if there are any men there the
chance of they cockblooking you will be reduced.
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It starts just like the previous ones and builds on the exact same
principles, slowly working yourself in, and building trust;
without revealing your intentions.
Also, when doing group openers a sly trick to use is to ignore, and
even neg the women you desire, while winning over her friends,
especially male friends as they’re likely to cock block.
It’s a way to challenge her and knock her off her little pedestal;
a way to steal her prize frame.
Shifting all your focus on her reveals your intentions and takes
away your mysterious aura. Yes, she’ll love your attention and
validation in the beginning by shifting all your focus on her, but it
quickly becomes annoying and cloying.
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Chasing a woman shows neediness, insecurity, and
weakness. A very unattractive combination.
Your persistent presence will not make her like you.
Being a little cold and mysterious will not make her angry, but it
will make her question herself.
“Doesn’t he like me, maybe he doesn’t find me interesting”
Also, revealing your intentions for her in front of her friends
puts massive pressure on her.
Even if she's interested in you she will reject you because of
ASD.
She's afraid of being slut-shamed by her friends, remember?
She values discretion.
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Anyway, once her vanity is at stake she’ll try to show you
that she’s desirable; making her chase you.
Even neg her if she tries to interrupt:
“Wow, is she always so attention seeking” or “
She’s so demanding” then follow up with “Is she always so
demanding?” or “How do you handle her?”
Even throw in a:
“Haha, look guys, her nose wiggles when she laughs.” and
get the other people in her group to notice and laugh about it.
Back to the opener itself:
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You: “Hey guys, I gotta get back to my friends in a minute, but
me and a few friends were just having a debate about something
and wanted to get a quick opinion on it.
So if a girl who has a boyfriend goes out to a club and kisses
another guy just for fun, would you consider that cheating?”
Group: “Of course that’s cheating.”
You: “Right exactly, that makes sense. What about if a girl goes
out to a club, gets drunk, and then starts making out with other
girls just for fun. Would you consider that cheating?” (Take a seat
here)
Group: Here you will often get mixed responses.
In all-girl sets, it will almost always get a response saying it’s
completely fine! If you do get this response, then you can use a
neg and mention double standards in a playful manner and be
sure to keep on smiling.
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You: “Right. That’s interesting. The real reason I asked is
that my friend over there is dating a girl at the moment
and whenever she goes out she gets wasted and makes
out with other girls.
Now, of course, some guys might be into that (said while
smiling), but my friend gets really annoyed about it and
think it’s cheating.
She denies it of course and says it’s definitely not
cheating, hence why we wanted to get another opinion on
it.”
Group: The response here could be anything- depending
on if they're drunk , if there are any guys in the group, etc.
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When delivered in the right way and with the right posture,
voice tonality, and body language it will be a great opener
to use as the first part of your ‘routine stack’.
From here continue to build rapport and attraction and
move on to DHVs, charismatic questions, etc, to take it to
mid-game.
The Cocky Funny
Finally, we have the cocky funny opener where everything
you say or do comes from a place of humor and
confidence.
She’ll never know quite sure if you’re hitting on her or just
fooling around since everything you say is in a half-
jokingly manner.
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If you do it long enough she’ll start playing along and
suddenly it will become the reality.
Start with an opener, the elbow or the lint, etc, doesn’t
matter.
Then walk away.
Then “accidentally” bump into her again and say:
“Ahh, you again, you sure like to hang around me, don’t
you?”
Then ask for her name and say “Well, (name), I must
reunite with my friends, but I’ll bet you come back again, I
get stalker vibes from you.”
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Wait a little and bump into her again.
Stop and stare at her with a big cocky smile, then take your arm around her
and say: “Ahh, you know what? You would make a good girlfriend for me.”
She’ll probably say: “No” or “Not a good idea” or “I have a boyfriend.”
Then say: “Woahh, slow down… Didn’t quite catch your @ there. You better
repeat after me, let’s see: …..(name)..?”
She’ll laugh and continue to reject you.
Say “You know what (name) you’re a terrible girlfriend, we are done.”
Then point at another girl in the bar and say “She will be my new girlfriend.”
Then follow up with: “You’re officially downgraded from Booty call #1 to Booty
call #10.”
You’ve now stirred up so much emotions, and she’ll most definitely be
interested and you can slow down on the cocky funny part and continue
impressing her by asking charismatic questions.
This one requires balls though, and requires that the girl a few drinks down.
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Finally is a great opener if you're approaching a set of two women. Ask them if they're
willing to the best friend test.
Ask the two girls how long they’ve known each other, if they respond over 6 months
then say: “Yeah, I could totally tell.”
They will say: “How? blah blah”
Then say, rather than explaining, I’ll give you two the best friend test.
Now they’re excited and will huddle closer.
Then say: “Do you both use the same shampoo?”
If they look at each other then say: “ The answer doesn’t matter, you’ve already
passed.”
“But we don’t use the same shampoo” or “How did you know?”
You: “You looked at each other before you answered and if you didn’t know each other
that well you’d kept eye contact with me.
But when two people have a connection, they look at each other first and communicate
almost telepathically before answering. They don’t even need to speak with each
other.”
In 99% of cases, they’ll look at each other again as you say this. Then call them out on
it again, and they’ll burst out in laughter.
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CHAPTER 12
SEALING THE DEAL:
MID-GAME AND CLOSING
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“Mid-game is the soul of game.”
-Unlimited Knowledge
Mid Game Masterclass
The mid-game is a critical but often overlooked aspect of the
dating and seduction game.
While there are a hundred so-called ‘dating experts' on the
internet who posts cringy openers, the mid-game is always
neglected, despite being the most crucial stage in the
process.
In fact, fuck the opener.
Too many people focus on impressing her with an opening
line when the whole purpose of the opener is to distract her
conscious mind long enough to get into the mid-game and
further demonstrate your value.
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That just shows how many ignorant idiots there are out there,
don’t listen to everyone on the internet.
In fact, the mid-game holds far more significance than the
opening phase.
Even you have been brainwashed into believing that the
opener is all that matters.
It don’t.
Many beginners mistakenly focus on perfecting their openers
and fail to realize that they have already been successfully
opening and interacting with girls long before they even
discovered the concept of game.
It's not like you're never talking to girl, right?
It is during the mid-game where many missteps and mistakes
occur, girls flake on you if your mid-game is weak.
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The lack of attention to the mid-game will be detrimental
to your progress in the dating arena.
It is during this phase that your interactions with women
can either flourish or fizzle out, depending on how well
you navigate through it.
The mid-game involves building rapport, creating a
connection, managing logistics, handling objections or
tests (ASD’s and shit tests), and ultimately escalating
towards intimacy.
Sounds difficult?
Well, it's actually not.
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It requires a keen understanding of social dynamics,
confidence, emotional intelligence, and effective
communication skills.
Mastering the mid-game is crucial for achieving success
with women, as it sets the stage for building genuine
connections and establishing a strong foundation for
further interactions.
It is where your ability to read and respond to social cues,
adapt to changing situations, and lead the interaction
effectively will make all the difference in whether an
interaction progresses or stalls.
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Even though I will state several times during this book that no
rapport equals no attraction you can’t get hung up on it.
Yes, the game is played in comfort, but you can’t let it hold you
back from escalating.
Calling mid-game the “comfort phase” will lead you down the
wrong track.
Yes, the main focus during mid-game is to build comfort and to
make the girl as comfortable as possible.
But you can’t diffuse tension, avoid escalation out of fear of
making her nervous or leaving a bad impression and cater to
her needs.
Sexual chemistry requires tension between the masculine
and feminine spirit.
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This will only make you end up in the friend zone, despite opening well,
attracting well, and qualifying properly.
Being too nice literally pushes girls away from you.
Sexual feelings depend on the creation of tension.
Without tension, anxiety, and suspense there cannot be sexual desire
between the two of you, being too nice = too feminine = no sexual
attraction.
Get rid of your nasty habit of avoiding conflict.
That's why I always say that women are funny:
All the techniques that are so effective in beginning a relationship violate
every principle necessary to maintaining one.
In order to get a women you need to be a cocky-funny asshole.
But in order to keep her around you need to be sincere, genuine, and
focus on building trust, and a deep connection.
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Only building comfort is a stereotypical Mr. nice guy trait. While
only escalating is a stereotypical 'bad-boy' trait.
You need to combine the two. Build comfort, tease, banter, flirt,
disqualify, escalate (she pulls back), back to comfort building,
repeat.
Push-Pull-Push-Pull
So yes, comfort building is important, but should not be your main
focus.
Yes, it helps you make the girl comfortable with the idea of
sleeping with you, reducing last-minute resistance and avoiding
buyer's remorse, but it also defuses sexual tension.
If you receive 3 IOI or get a general feeling that she’s interested
just skip the whole comfort & rapport phase (which is the next
chapter) and go straight to attraction building (own chapter about it
later)
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Why?
Because if she’s initially interested she’s not going to get any
more comfortable with the idea of sleeping with you from any
attempt of yours to make her comfortable in a conventional
sense, but rather merely from you consistently showing her
that her initial attraction to you was not a flash-in-the-pan
fluke.
In fact, only focusing on trying to make the girl “comfortable” is
counter-productive.
If you ONLY wanted to make sure she was comfortable, then
you would NEVER escalate and you would diffuse tension
instead of building sexual tension.
You’d be like a fish in a bowl, completely stuck, in fact, more
like a dead mouse in a trap.
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If a girl doesn’t feel sexual tension with you, you’ll
immediately land in the friend zone.
If you receive three or more IOI, just escalate by touch
(kino) or the other examples provided later in the course.
If not, use the rapport-building sequence provided to you
in the next chapter and look for IOI as you build comfort,
once you get one, make an attempt to escalate, if she
complies - awesome, if not, take a step back and build
more comfort.
Always try to escalate, if it doesn’t work - take a step
back, and go back to rapport.
Patience is key. If she doesn't comply it doesn't mean
she's not interested, it's just an ASD.
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Meeting girls at clubs or bars have its benefits because
women come to these venues with one intention;
To have fun and let loose.
As a result, women are more open to being "seduced"
quickly since their Anti-Slut Defense (ASD) is lowered in this
environment.
We men are simple creatures, we see a woman and
immediately puts her in a box; fuckable or unfuckable.
Women often adapt this mindset when they’re drunk.
But outside clubs and bars expect it to take about seven
hours from qualification to seduction as their ASD, social
programming, and barriers are working on overdrive.
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Sometimes it will take less. Sometimes it takes more.
But as a general guideline, know that if you’re consistently
taking much longer than seven hours to get to seduction,
you’re progressing too slowly and will wind up in the friend
zone more often than you should.
Mid Game Step By Step
The comfort stage can be divided into three parts:
Comfort 1, Comfort 2, and Comfort 3. C1, C2, and C3 are
distinguished by the location of comfort building.
C1 involves building comfort in the original meeting
location (let us say the grocery store), while C2 focuses on
comfort building in other locations where intimacy is not
possible (texting)
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Lastly, C3 involves comfort building in a seduction
location (your house/apartment).
The key here is that you’re fundamentally doing the
same things in all phases of comfort.
And what are these things?
Firstly, you are smoothly building attraction with lots of
casual contact, teasing, and disqualifying, while diffusing
future last-minute resistance by taking a “two steps
forward, one step back” approach.
Let’s say you meet her and use the jealous girlfriend
opener.
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You: “Me and my friends had a discussion and we
need a female perspective. Would you date a guy
who’s still friends with his ex?”
Her: “Yes/No”
You: “Well, the reason I am asking is that my buddy
has this new girlfriend, they’ve been dating for a
couple of months.
And she discovered that he’s still friends with his ex.
They’re not fooling around or anything, just friends but
she wants him to cut if off. Should he?”
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Her: *Doesn’t matter what she/they say, just seem
intrigued*
You: “Alright, thanks” *Pretend to walk away.*
She will think: “Don’t go, I really found that
conversation interesting, you didn’t hit on me.
You’re so detached and non-needy, so different from
any other guy I’ve talked to. Are you interested in me?
I don’t know, I want to find out. I want more of you.
Please come back.”
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You: Walk back and say:
“Actually it’s more than that. He has this old box of letters
and photos from her kept in the back of his closet. But she
found it and she flipped out. Do you think he should get rid
of it?”
Whenever the discussion comes to an end you can for
example say:
“Thanks for the help, you seem kind. I just met you I can
already sense that there are so many good things about
you and just a few bad.”
And if you understand female psychology you know
that this will drive her crazy.
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Secondly, you are using text game to keep the girl
hooked (C2), while using texting game to set up a
date.
(I talk about this inside my texting guide later in the
course)
I don’t like to call it date, let’s refer to it as ‘day two’.
Why?
Because high-value men reject the man-pursuing-
woman model inherent in the word date;
while maintaing value and refusing to chase.
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Thirdly, you are building compliance by rewarding
good behavior from the girl and punishing bad
behavior.
Use the point system; 10 points if she’s doing
something you like, -10 points if she doesn’t behave -
it’s a genius way to add a playful vibe to your texting
game.
"Three points to Gryffindor" etc.
Fourth, you are keeping the girl supplied with good,
happy emotions, generating temperature spikes, and
taking her on an emotional roller coaster ride. (Send
her memes, quotes, and gif on something you’ve
talked about while teasing her in a playful way)
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Fifth, you are building rapport and an emotional
connection. (Opening up, and telling her personal
stories - can be initiated by playing a game like Two
Truths, One Lie, etc.)
Lastly, and most importantly, you are continuing to hit
her attraction switches while remaining consistent and
congruent to the image you initially presented, your
masculine frame.
That seems like a lot to juggle all at once, but most of
them because quite simple with a little practice.
Mid-game is the soul of game. Don’t be one of the
many newbies who get bogged down in the minutiae of
opening; how you handle the mid-game will
determine how successful you are.
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Closing Masterclass
Closing is a subjective concept that can vary greatly depending on
your intentions and desires.
Some of you might have bought this course just to fuck tons of
women, others because you want to date a specific girl.
I won't intervene with your desires, but just remember that we men
are responsible for our impact. When a woman trusts you enough
to open her body, her emotions, her heart, well.. that's a profound
thing, and should not be taken lightly.
If you don’t find her attractive, don’t pursue her.
"With great power comes great responsibility"
Anyway, the transition from mid-game to closing often comes in the
form of a kiss, a kiss close.
Here you have 4 options depending on the situation:
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Option 1
One approach to closing is to take the initiative and go for it
when you feel that the timing is right.
After you've received enough indicators of interest (IOIs) from
her, such as her showing signs of attraction through body
language or verbal cues, and you’ve been engaged in a
playful and organic conversation for a while just go for it.
Once you notice that she's receptive to your physical
escalation, such as responding positively to gentle touches on
her shoulder, just look her in the eyes, lean towards her, wait
for her to come a little closer, then move to kiss her.
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Option 2
The second one is the kiss-close routine.
You: “Do you want to kiss me?”
Her:
“Yes” You: Kiss her
“No” You: “Ahah, don’t worry. I didn’t say you could,
just seemed like it was on your mind.”
“I don’t know” You: Kiss her
It’s that easy.
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Option 3
Another way is to suddenly stop the conversation, and
look her in the eyes. If she maintains eye contact for three
seconds, then it's usually a clear indicator that she wants
the kiss.
You might find this uncomfortable, but in fact it’s the
greatest thing in the world. Sexual tension.
“Um,um, but UK.. what happens if she rejects me?”
Mm, Yeah? and what if a meteor hits your house?
Stop taking your life so fucking seriously.
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Option 4
The last one is a technique I use when any LMR
occurs.
When she closes up and all her ASD and LMR alerts
start to ring you need to flip the script on her, accuse
her of hitting on you.
This can be done by moving closer to her face, like
you’re about to kiss her.
She will probably say something like: “No, stop it, I
said no” while giggling (because deep down she can’t
resist your sexual masculine energy, she just doesn’t
want to be slut-shamed by you or society.)
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From there, you want to move even closer and say: “I am
not going to kiss you.”...
…Move EVEN closer while you repetitively say: “I am not
going to kiss you.”
Then suddenly stop right in front of her lips and say:
“You better not kiss me, I have 7-date rule.” (Accusing
her of hitting on you.)
Look her straight in the eyes with your most seductive-
fuck eyes, and feel the sexual tension, at this point, it’s
about to explode, she’s so desperate for the kiss.
Hold it for a second and then say: “Hey! I have rules about
this stuff.”
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From there you can slowly pull away, you don’t have to
worry about kiss closing anymore because she will
initiate the kiss for you.
Taking Her Home
If you’re in a club or a bar you should always give yourself
fake time constraints as you open: “Just a quick question,
heading to an afterparty, but would you… *opinion
opener*…”
This does 4 things:
Let her know what's up.
Let you know if she has any concerns about going home
with you.
Let you know if she has a boyfriend.
She won’t be surprised when you go for the pull later in
the interaction.
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This way, you can use that ‘afterparty’ as your get-out.
After you kissed her, you can, for example, play 21
questions and slowly ask more sexual questions (example
of 21 questions inside the texting chapter) to make her
start visualizing having sex with you, then ask her to join
you at the afterparty.
Inviting her along right after the kiss shows impatience,
she'll feel like a slut.
Anyway, it doesn't necessarily need to be an afterparty,
can be to listen to your playlist, show her a piece of art,
your view, your cat, etc.
The only requirement is that there is a purpose for the
invitation so she can justify it.
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“Want to come back to my house and watch my cat do a backflip?”
(You don’t need a cat)
It’s just so she can justify it to her friends.
After arriving at your house or apartment, there are several essential
tasks that you must prioritize.
How To Prepare Your Place & Yourself
Sex is as much a psychological experience as it is a physical
experience for women. Even the slightest distraction can turn her off
and completely ruin her mood.
Her emotions can change in a split second. Chick Logic 101.
Therefore, always bring her back to your place, where there will be no
external distractions.
A woman needs to be comfortable before she can even think about
having sex with you.
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Properly preparing your place will both show and convey that
you’re a safe, mature, classy man while having takeaway boxes,
clothes, and full ashtrays laying around will immediately turn her
off;
causing her to walk out the door.
Once she notices the class and hygiene you follow, she’ll be
willing to do more freaky things in bed.
She realizes that you’re a trustworthy and classy man;
making her crave you even more.
Here’s a list of essential items, and tips & tricks to both get your
house, and yourself ready for the naked shenanigans which are
about to happen.
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Music is comforting, you want a chill vibe. Buy a smart speaker and
put on a playlist you’ve created for these “special” occasions.
Shave and wash your dick. She doesn’t want to suck your dick & lick
your balls if it’s covered in hair and smells like shit.
Trim your nails, she doesn’t want the inside of her vagina to get cut
or hurt when you finger her. Fingering her with long nails is like her
sucking your dick by using her teeth.
Clean & organize your place, make your bed, and provoke a feeling
which makes her go “woah” when she enters your crib.
Women love organized men. Therefore, buy nice-looking furniture,
get a nice comfortable couch, dim LED Lights, and put beautiful art
on your walls (great charismatic question to ask her; “what does this
painting make you feel?”)
Have an extra pair of essential toilet equipment: Towels,
toothbrushes, soap, toothpaste, etc. She will love you for it, trust me.
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If you’re coming back after a night out tell her:
“Do you mind if I take a quick shower? I’d like to feel fresh after a night out.”
This also shows that you’re a guy who values hygiene. If you’re lucky she
might even join you;)
Get a liquor cabinet, and offer her drinks or wine. Be her personal
bartender. (They love it)
If you have roommates, then tell them in advance.
Place pictures of friends and family where it's unavoidable for her to not
see them. This will make her feel safe, also known as; more comfortable.
Tell her personal stories about when you were young, how you and your
brothers saved a cat… blah blah. It could be anything as long as it
portrays you in a good light. It builds comfort, and yes, I mention comfort
a lot, but that just shows how important it is (continuing rapport building,
reinsurance before sex.)
Have a flat screen and make sure Netflix is installed and make a
YouTube playlist with funny animal videos (works every time, especially if
she’s drunk!)
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Give her a blanket, and if you’re living in a country
where it’s normal to wear shoes inside, tell her to take
them off.
This will make her feel more comfortable and casual.
Keep the temperature around 74 degrees F or 23 C.
Have a guitar deliberately placed, and learn at least
one song. They love it.
Examples: “Romance d’amour”, “Nothing Else Matters -
Metallica”, “Wish You Were Here - Pink Floyd” or “Slow
Dancing in a Burning Room - John Mayer.”
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Put a small table between the couch and TV, so you can place
your drinks, and your laptop, so she can change the music.
Even tease her “You have such bad taste in music, we can’t date
anymore.”
Plan the next meeting BEFORE sleeping with her.
This reassures her of the fact that you’re not using her just for sex.
If you’re good at picking up women you're going to have that
“fuck-boy” vibe, a great way to balance it out is by learning to
massage which is a Mr.nice guy trait.
Tell her you worked out yesterday and your shoulders are so
tense, then ask her for a massage, then disqualify her “You're
doing it all wrong, let me show you” and then give her an amazing
massage. (Thousands of tutorials on YouTube.)
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Once you have talked some banter, maybe played a
game, and continued to build rapport, tell her:
“How rude of me, I totally forgot to give you a house tour.”
Next, take her hand (she'll love it) and give her a tour of
your place, saving the bedroom for last.
As you lead the way, you'll have already set the mood
with your carefully curated sex playlist playing softly in the
background, once you enter the bedroom start the
foreplay routine inside The Sex Playbook.
If any ASD should occur (I most likely will) just do a
freeze-out.
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Recap
That was probably a lot to take in so I’ll give you a quick
recap or ‘one way’ of cold approaching, mid-game, and
closing.
In this recap I’ll assume that your target is with a group -
let’s face it, she probably will.
1) Smile when you enter the room, once you see a girl you
like approach her within 3 seconds.
2) Recite a memorized opener
3) Open the group, not the target - if there are a lot of men
in the group focus on them, as it seems less desperate
and to prevent cockblocking.
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4) Neg the target, especially if she interrupts:
“How do you roll with her?”
“Those shoes look really comfortable”
“Eww, you spit on me!”
“You blink a lot.”
5) Convey your awesome personality to the whole group, this
can be done by telling stories, showing a magic trick, jokes, or
humor.
You can memorize some stories in advance and use the
same one each set.
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6) Solely focus your attention on the men and less attractive
women, if your target laughs at one of your jokes then neg her:
“Ahaha, your nose wiggles when you laugh.”
Make sure to get her friends to notice and laugh about it.
7) Ask the group how they all know each other, and find out if your
target is with any of the guys in the group.
If there are only females then ask: “So, where are your
boyfriends?” If your target says she has a boyfriend then
respectfully say goodbye: “Pleasure meeting you.” Then walk
away.
8) If she’s single, find a way to discretely isolate her (ask her to
help you carry some drink) or if it's not possible say to the group
“I’ve sort of been alienating your friend, is it all right if I speak to
her for a couple of minutes?”
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9) Isolate her from the group by showing her something cool, and
take her to sit nearby.
As you go through the crowd you can take her hand and squeeze
it, if she squeezes back then it’s an indicator of interest, and you
can safely escalate.
10) Sit down and do an ESP trick, to capture her interest.
11) Tell her: “Beauty is common but what’s rare is a great energy
and outlook on life, tell me, what do you have inside that would
make me want to know you as more than a mere face in the
crowd?”
If she begins to qualify herself then that is another indicator of
interest.
Continue with organic, genuine, and authentic conversation. Get to
know each other, build rapport, and occasionally tease, flirt,
disqualify, and banter with her.
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12) Suddenly stop talking, and don’t open your mouth
until she starts talking, if she begin her sentence with:
“Sooo” then you can kiss close.
13) Then do kiss close routine: “Would you like to kiss
me?”. One of three things will happen:
She says “Yes” and you kiss her.
She says “Maybe” or hesitates, and you say “Let’s find
out,” and kiss her.
You get a “No” and reply “I didn’t say you could. It just
looked like you had something on your mind.”
14) Tell her: “Let’s get out of here.”
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The Day Two
Often the logistics don’t work, her social programming might be too hard to
break through due to her strong ASD or her friend's intervention.
You might have met a hot girl, had fun the night you met her, and invited her
to another place, as said before; if the logistics don’t work simply take her
phone number or socials and set up a day two, be nonchalant about it-
convey that you have options.
If you obtain her phone number, a unique approach to stand out is to
playfully take her phone and add your contact information as "Your Future
Ex" or something similarly playful.
Then text yourself from her phone so she'll have something funny to look at
when she wakes up the day after: "Hey, it's Julia, can't wait to see you on
Sunday at __ (location and time), I'll wear something sexy:)"
This creative little gesture will make you stand out, capture her attention,
and make her laugh.
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As a man playing the ‘game’ there’s one rule, and that is not to do what everyone else does,
you must stand out - in your own fascinating, exciting way.
Anyway, back to it. Your plans to see a girl a second time begin before you ask for her
number.
The correct strategy is to “seed” an activity that the two of you might do together.
Most guys just invite her out for dinner, but as you know that can be a painful, drawn-out
event that involves two people stuck together for an entire night of awkward
conversation.
The second problem with dates is that often women can see it as an attempt to buy her
affection, Without men, most restaurants and as many florists would get bankrupt. You must
relate to this: How many times have you taken a woman out to dinner, you’ve bought gifts and
flowers, and she turned you away?
You should know: It is in the natural order of things if this happens.
When you do that sort of thing, you are sending a clear message: “I do not think you like me
for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and your affection.”
Your good intentions are usually seen by women as overcompensation for insecurity or weak
attempts at manipulation.
Hear me out, it’s not the most terrible idea in the world, but if you already have built some
rapport and found some common interest then do that instead, something new, something
exciting, remember?
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“There’s a great climbing gym I’ve been meaning to check
out,” or “Have you heard about that new pizza place?”
You can still do this even if you haven't found a common
interest yet. Just have a casual conversation, and drop ideas
for interesting things to do until she bites, until she reacts by
saying:
“Oh, that sounds fun. I’ve always wanted to go to a climbing
gym/ try that pizza place/whatever.”
But you don’t have to invite her yet. Let it drop. Then, later (for
example if she doesn’t comply with your attempt at closing),
you say something like:
“Give me your number and we’ll go try that new pizza place.”
Introducing it this way also makes it a less pressured event.
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Also, what most guys get wrong is they take her number/socials at
the end of the interaction. Why?
You want her number so you can spend time with her … but you’re
spending time with her now?
Don’t be in a rush to leave, and don’t be afraid to ask her Instagram
in the middle of the conversation, then you can even check out her
profile in front of her and tease her;
“You are such bad news, I don’t know if we can hang out.”/if she
plays music: “Oh, a musician, then you can write our break-up
song.”/If she has pictures with a guy: “You look smokin’ hot tonight,
it’s a good thing that you have a boyfriend; if not, we would have
been in real trouble.”
If she says, “Well, I guess it’s a good thing that I don’t have a
boyfriend)” then you’re golden.
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Alright, back to activities. It’s important to seed interesting
activities.
As said, typical AFC dates are dinner and a movie; but that CAN
be a horrible date. You’re at the mercy of the movie being good
because if the movie is a dud you have a major, new,
unnecessary roadblock.
While the movie is playing you can’t converse and have fun and
laugh … and during dinner there’s always the possibility of you
sitting there, looking at each other with nothing interesting to talk
about.
Also, I don’t like the word ‘date’, I call it a day two, that’s what it is;
you seeing the girl for the second time.
Calling it a date just puts tons of unnecessary pressure on you, as
it’s associated with ‘man-chasing-girl’, which we high-value men
don’t do anymore.
Frames, remember?
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So, the big question; If dinner-and-a-movie is a terrible day
two, what’s a good one?
Well, I’ve already mentioned it; anything that gives you
interesting things to look at, do, or talk about while spending
time together.
Often group activities make great day two’s because it’s
easier to be comfortable, and to present your best self.
But really, coming up with a great day two is about coming up
with activities that you already want to do, your interest.
I can’t help you with what those are because I don’t know you
on a personal level.
Tennis, climbing, working out, taking a hike, whatever, just
invite her along.
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This way, you’re already having a fun night; and each other’s company is just the icing on the cake.
Genius? Yes, I know.
She’ll associate the overall fun of the evening with you, and when you isolate her and escalate, it
feels spontaneous and natural.
And whatever you do: Don't ask her out like the normal AFC; "Do you want to grab a coffee?"
BORING.
Dare to be funny; “If you’re not married by next week and I don’t get hit by a truck, let’s grab coffee”
not only does it evoke stronger emotions, it's more dominant as well.
"What time should I come over?" < "Get ready, I'm coming over"- she wants your masculine
dominance.
Lastely, another huge mistake that most men make with women is to disclose their feelings too
early.
Women are trained to deal with receiving attention from men.
Most men do not realize that a woman is approached the same way several times a day by hoards
of men, this translates into dozens of times a week, and often hundreds of times a month.
This, mates, is called experience. And experience matters.
Nothing irritates a woman and puts her on the run faster than a guy who says, “You know, I really
like you” after only one or two dates.
If you do, you are just like all the other guys who fell for her too fast. You are emotionally
immature.
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Finally I just want to say:
Mastering the art of picking up women is an art.
You’ll have to play the game over and over in order to
master it, so get ready to fail.
In order to excel at anything there are always hurdles,
obstacles, or challenges you must get past.
It’s what bodybuilders call the pain period.
Those who push themselves and are willing to face pain,
exhaustion, humiliation, rejection, or even worse will
eventually succeed and become champions, the rest are
simply left on the sideline.
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The same applies to women.
The ones who are willing to take a risk and inspire her to
say yes will succeed, while the rest will envy the guy who
does have the balls.
When you're hesitating, there's ALWAYS a guy out there
who will take action.
That someone is you, you’re an action-taker, and are
willing to go outside your comfort zone.
If I am right, then I have no doubts that great things and
success will come your way, both with women and in
your personal life.
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CHAPTER 13
BUILDING BRIDGES:
COMFORT AND RAPPORT A-Z
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"People will forget what you said, people will
forget what you did, but people will never
forget how you made them feel."
- Maya Angelou
No comfort, No attraction.
The #1 key factor for her to be attracted to you and comfortable
with the idea of sleeping with you is comfort and rapport.
If you want to establish a strong connection with a woman,
you need to build rapport.
This means creating mutual trust and understanding between
you and her.
When you have rapport, communication becomes effortless,
and you feel like you're on the same wavelength.
Now, building rapport requires some specific techniques, such
as active listening, mirroring body language, finding common
ground, sharing stories, and showing empathy.
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By using these strategies, you create a comfortable environment
where she can open up to you, leading to a deeper understanding
and connection.
Note- Whether you're looking to improve personal relationships,
advance professionally, or simply navigate social situations with
ease, building rapport is a crucial skill to have.
It will help you establish meaningful relationships, increase your
influence and persuasion, and communicate effectively.
Before we dive further into it: Think of rapport like an empty pot in the
middle of two people, and every time one person opens up about
themselves, those feelings go in the pot.
If one person adds too much into the pot the other one can become
nervous and start to pull away. This pot needs to be filled equally on
both sides for everyone in the interaction to feel comfortable to
continue to open up and build trust and comfort.
That’s the basics, let’s dive deeper down the rabbit hole.
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In order for her to be comfortable in your presence you need to
connect with her on a deep level.
She needs to feel like you really see and appreciate her for who
she is.
That way, she'll let her guard down and not feel like she's being
judged for wanting to have sex.
YOU’LL DISARM A LOT OF HER POTENTIAL ANTI-SLUT
DEFENSES.
It's not easy to fake a genuine connection, especially since
women are better at picking up on whether someone is really
present in the moment than we men are.
So, she'll notice if you're thinking about something else, are
distracted, or are trying to get in her pants.
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You need to be mentally and emotionally present and put her
at the center of your attention.
A lot of men get stuck in their heads, worrying about the next
move, but this is a real game killer.
You need to build a genuine connection, ask her deep
question, get to know each other on a deep level; share each
other dreams, hopes, and stories. CONNECT like two
souls emerging into one.
If a girl senses that you have an ulterior motive, she’ll eject.
This takes us to my first tip: Mirroring
You know how when you see a couple in deep rapport, they
tend to adopt similar postures and movements?
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If he has his hands on his hips, so will she.
They’ll drink with hands on the same side of the table, at about the same time, etc.
To speed up the development of your rapport, start mirroring her posture, arm
position, and so on.
Note- If she mirrors you back then it’s an IOI.
You can safely escalate to kino
(Escalate by touch), and since she’s already mirroring you she will kino you back,
genius?
Yes.
Kino is a well-known term used in the PUA (pick-up artist) community.
It refers to physical touch. It's short for kinesthetic, which refers to the sense of
touch.
The idea behind kino is that physical touch helps build comfort and connection with
her, and can be used to create a more intimate and romantic atmosphere.
Kino could be anything that involves touch, it doesn’t need to be ‘sexual’.
Examples: Handshakes, high-fives, playful taps, etc.
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Touch her, it’s not dangerous.
Guys are way too passive.
Social programming and evolution have just made us so sexually screwed up and
obsessed that we get nervous and uncomfortable whenever another person touches
us.
Playful handshakes and high-fives are a great way to overcome her social
programming so she’ll be more receptive to more sexual, escalating touching later.
Win-Win.
Another key aspect of rapport is mutual revelations of vulnerability.
Not emotional, but vulnerable.
This is a very important step, but a lot of guys make a huge mistake here: They tell
stories about them behaving in a low-value way while making themselves vulnerable.“I
was so hurt when my ex-girlfriend dumped me, I thought I’d never meet another girl.”
This is the wrong way to do it.
Yes, you’re revealing vulnerability here, but you’re also conveying:
“I’m the kind of guy who gets dumped and has a hard time dealing with it.”
That’s low-value behavior.
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“What can I do to help her to open up?”
The most important thing you can do is to open up yourself first.
Without you opening up first, women are not going to follow your
lead.
Think about it: when you open up about yourself, you run the risk of
not being accepted.
People are not that willing to put their guard down unless you let
yours down first. Therefore, be vulnerable, but do it by telling stories
(could be fake) that portray high-value behavior.
Could be anything: How your mother fell down some stairs, but you
managed to get her to the hospital, how you and your brothers saved
a cat stuck in a tree when you were younger, etc.
The key is to connect on a deep level while showing
vulnerability while displaying high value.
You're hitting the “protector of loved ones” attraction switch while
telling a story about how you kept your head up during a crisis.
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There should be some ‘truth’ to your stories.
Simply take an actual story and exaggerate it-
tell it enough times and it will just become better and better.
It’s important not to come off as bragging – if the DHV (demonstrate high
value) spikes in your story don’t feel natural, you’re going to do more harm
than good.
And of equal importance, you need to be aware of the ways in which the
stories you tell reinforce or damage your value.
For example, if you are talking about an ex, and you describe her negatively,
think about what that says about you?
That you’re somebody who lets himself get tied down to low-value women?
and therefore must not be too high-value yourself?
It’s better is to praise the women you once loved.
"I wish her all the best, we simply had different wants and dreams."
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For example, if you’re escalating by bringing up sex and the
conversation naturally fades to talking about the last time
you had great sex.
Rather than just focus on the freaky aspects of it, talk about
how powerful the connection was.
(This sub communicates that you have had enough sex to
not be blown away merely by the in-and-out mechanics of
it).
Then go on about how you kissed and touched each other
exactly the way you wanted to be kissed and touched.
(This sub communicates that you understand women’s
physical experience of sex).
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That’s what it’s all about, sub-communicating DHV without
bragging.
In the example above I NEVER praise myself directly, but the story
itself demonstrated a tremendous amount of value merely by praising
the woman I was with.
You must also lead the conversation the way you want it to go instead
of forcing it.
If you bring it up by saying:
“Let me tell you about this former model I was dating whom I had
amazing sex with” she would have interpreted it as bragging and she
wouldn’t believe a single word that would come out of your mouth.
Another aspect to focus on is matching her tone and energy level.
If the girl that you’re talking to is soft-spoken, you should match her
tone and not overpower her with a loud rambunctious one.
This is subtle and it makes her feel comfortable and like more
understood.
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Another gem is complimenting her insecurities.
It's literally verbal foreplay.
Find something no one has thought to flatter before.
If she has man hands - compliment it.
If she has a big nose - compliment it.
All you have to do is to sniff out the parts of her ego that needs to be validated.
Make her be seen how she wants to be seen.
It's one of the fastest ways to build rapport and break through her resistance.
Another foolproof technique is future projections.
What you want to do is share a fantasy about anything exciting:
Taking a trip, going on an adventure, getting married, you name it.
Share a fantasy that conveys:
“Lady, abandon your boring, mundane, unfulfilled life and step into my exciting world,
full of interesting people, new experiences, good times, easy living, and dreams
fulfilled.”
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Have fun with it and be extravagant, make it sound as ridiculous as
possible.
Do not say it seriously.
Women feel emotions stronger than we do, so if you can get her really
imagining this exciting future with you, she’ll get the emotional kick as
if it really happened.
Women are stimulated through the imagination.
This is why erotic books like 50 Shades are an infamous smash hit
among female readers.
Meanwhile, guys are dominating porn usage because their arousal
has more direct visual triggers.
(And no, don’t worry about future-projecting marriage.
Be light and fun about it, and it’ll be a blast. She’s not going to hold
you to it).
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Example (keep it light and with a playful tone):
You: “You know what? I’ve thinking a lot lately about the things
that really matter in life.”
Her: “Like what?”
You: “Adventure, excitement, creating unforgettable memories.
I've always dreamed of traveling the world, exploring new places,
and meeting interesting people.”
You can even make it sound more ridiculous by being a little
poetic:
“The promise of adventure, the pursuit of new horizons, crafting
immortal memories.
My dreams have been fueled by the prospect of a global odyssey,
unearthing hidden gems, and encountering intriguing characters.”
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Her: (If she likes you she’ll automatically agree, if she agrees then it’s
an IOI) “That sounds amazing.” *Smiling*
You: “You think? I must admit, you’ve piqued my interest tonight, if
you keep it up might earn a spot by my side on my incredible journey.
(Being challenging - Remember: Always tease, disqualify, and
challenge.)
Just imagine: You and me experiencing all the beauty and wonder
this world has to offer, sharing unforgettable moments and creating
memories that will last a lifetime as we walk down the sandy beaches
of Greece with sand beneath our toes, the salty breeze caressing our
faces, the sun setting in a blaze of orange and pink.
A moment of pure magic, a moment that stays with us forever. *sighs*
If only you were blond/brunette (disqualify)”
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In conversation, remember: Be light, cocky-funny, playful, maintain eye
contact, great tonality, tease, flirt, challenge, and disqualify.
Would a man who only tried to get in her pants say things like that?
No, FUCK NO.
You're evoking strong emotions, you're standing out from all the guys who're
trying to get into her pants.
You're speaking chick logic while maintaining your masculine frame.
Anyway, back to the point.
Overall, what you need to remember is:
In order for her to be comfortable around you, and comfortable with the idea
of sleeping with you, you must focus on building a deep and genuine
connection with her.
So, next time you're with someone you're interested in, remember to be
present, and vulnerable (not emotional) while DHVing (displaying high value)
and letting her imagination wander by describing playful fantasies.
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Once you have built some rapport, women usually tend to open up.
Telling you about her family, her past, where she's from, and stories that shaped
her into who she is, when this happens:
Don’t interrupt her with stupid comments.
Avoid: “That’s good,” “That’s funny,” “Oh, that’s so bad for you,” etc.
Just STFU and listen.
Sometimes less is more with women. Avoid silly comments, nod your head, and
think about charismatic questions you can follow up the conversation with.
My last advice would be just to- relax! Why is this important?
Because, in most cases, whatever you feel – she feels! If you feel relaxed, she’s
going to relax too. If she sees that you are nervous she’s going to get nervous too.
So, don’t look around nervously like you just got out of jail or drink your coffee every
10 seconds.
In fact, you want to create a bubble where you two are focused on each other and
none of the things outside your table matters. You should feel like you two are
alone in the whole world in a cafe full of people.
That is the power of rapport.
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CHAPTER 14
GAME UNLEASHED:
TECHNIQUES TO MAKE ANY GIRL ADDICTED TO YOU
Beyond Seduction
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None of the content in this book should be
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"To be successful with women, you have
to know what you're doing, but not care
what you're doing."
- Neil Strauss
Introductions
What I am about to teach you are the fundamental building blocks of game.
This is the most important chapter of this book if your goal is to attract women.
By mastering these concepts, you will have a solid foundation upon which to build your
skills and confidence in attracting and connecting with women.
Pay close attention and take notes as we delve into the fundamentals of game.
And before we dive in: Forget all mum fed you.
Women do not dig “good guys”.
Good guys are “just friends”. Once you get stuck in the friendship zone, you have
received a life sentence.
There is a very good reason for this: women do not pick men based on whether they are
“good guys”. Women go after the men they “feel” attracted to.
And guess what? Being a “good guy” will never make a woman attracted to you.
Until you accept this fact and begin to think according to it, you will never have
the success with the women that you want.
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Disqualifying
Disqualifying/negging are often misused and misunderstood in
the world of seduction.
They are one of the most overused tactics and are responsible for
why most woman calls guys ‘assholes’ or why you might get a
drink thrown in your face.
However, this conception is based on a misunderstanding of what
a neg or ‘disqualifying’ really is.
Disqualifying her is not an insult, and it should not be used to
put her down.
Instead, it is simply a comment that implies disinterest or non-
neediness towards her.
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Look at it this way: It is a type of comment that someone who is
genuinely interested in her would not make.
Q- "Why should I disqualify?"
BECAUSE IT GIVES YOU THE UPPER HAND IN THE
CONVERSATION.
YOU BECOME THE ONE WITH THE STRONGER FRAME.
Because it knocks her off the pedestal she has placed herself on,
gives you a stronger frame, evokes strong emotions, shows non-
neediness, shows her that you understand womanese by
subcommunicating, and you become the forbidden fruit she can’t
have, and the forbidden fruit is tempting-
and the only way to get rid of the temptation is to yield and taste the
fruit.
Women don't want men they easily can have.
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Seduction Principle: Women are excited by what they
can’t have, become the ‘unavailable man.’
Don’t be ‘unobtainable’ but create barriers and make it hard
for her by disqualifying her.
You’ll become the ultimate temptation. Become a prize to be
won, and she’ll go out of her way to get you.
Back to the point:
Disqualifying basically conveys: "You're not quite up to my
standards yet."
NOTE- NEGS AND DISQUALIFYING SHOULD NEVER BE
DONE IN AN ARROGANT WAY BUT IN A
PLAYFUL/IRONIC WAY.
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What do most guys do when they meet a woman they really like and
she is not interested?
They will try to convince her to the contrary in every possible way.
Well, I have news for you: You cannot change how she “feels” when
it comes to attraction.
You cannot convince a woman to feel attraction for you with “logic
and reasoning”.
Think about it. You are trying to give a logical response to an
emotional demand.
But by disqualifying you are giving an emotional response to an
emotional demand.
Whether she's interested or not, disqualifying piques her
curiosity.
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Let's take the classic examples of:
"Nice nails, are they real?" or “Cool boots, you’re the 4th girl
I’ve seen wear em tonight.”
Most guys who lack confidence in their game would never
use this type of comment.
They would be too afraid of offending her and ruining their
chances of having sex with her. When in reality it’s the
opposite.
Being too nice is a turn-off.
The key to getting laid is to dare to take bold social
risks and dare to offend her.
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The key to delivering an effective neg is NOT to use it as a
zinger or a put-down.
Instead, you must deliver it with sincerity or playfulness.
For instance, when you ask "are they real?" about her nails, you
should genuinely like them, and when you compliment her boots,
you should appreciate her fashion sense.
Guys screw up by delivering those classic negs as zingers;
causing them to become ‘assholes’, but a neg doesn’t work if it
feels like you’re trying to get one over on her.
After you disqualify her she shouldn't be thinking:
"Fucking asshole", she should be thinking:
"I need to work hard in order to gain his validation."
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Negs don’t even have to be “negative” – what they’re really
doing is negating your own interest.
For example, another classic:
“You and I would not get along, we’re too alike”
Are you saying anything bad about her?
No, merely that you’re not interested in dating her.
Another possibility along these lines is:
“I wish you were brunette. I’m taking a break from blondes for a
while.” or “You’re cute, but I don’t date blond girls.”
There is no conceivable way in which this is an insult, but it does
the job of demonstrating your lack of interest.
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All in all, the purpose of negging/disqualifying is to break the
frame of you being just another guy who’s hitting on her, to
get around her bitch shield.
You are demonstrating that you have not put her on a
pedestal just because she’s an attractive woman. A very
attractive trait.
More examples:
"You're 2 inches too short for me"
"You remind me of my little sister"
"You're like the mom of the group, aren't you"
"You're too innocent for me, come let's find you a
suitable guy"
"Ahaha, your nose wiggles when you laugh."
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"That might be the stupidest thing you've said all night,
sometimes just shutting up makes you more attractive, this is one
of those times (her name)
"Look, you're cute, but I don't date blond girls (opposite of her hair
color)"
"You're like a sister to me."
"We would make such a good couple if you were a few inches
taller."
"Sorry, I never date women I meet at clubs."
We're gonna be best friends. Just promise you won't fall in love
with me, deal?"
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One thing to keep in mind is that once you use a disqualifier,
immediately move on to the next topic.
Don't sit there and have a 20-minute conversation about why you
don't date girls you meet in bars.
Only stay on the topic if you want to escalate the interaction in that
direction.
You can escalate the interaction by combining a disqualifier with some
sexually suggestive or escalation comments.
Push & pull.
One of my favorites is "It's really too bad that I don't know you well
enough to tell you what I'm thinking at the moment".
When disqualifying, remember to keep smiling and you may also want
to kino or touch her at the same time in order so that she knows that
she still has a chance to get you.
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Teasing
Being able to tease women, make them laugh, and have
fun with you is one of the most critical skills in your
seduction arsenal, yet most men seriously struggle with
it.
Teasing is a playful and engaging way of expressing
interest in a girl.
It will spark excitement and intrigue.
Incorporating teasing into your interactions will add fun and
lightheartedness that will help you build rapport and
deepen your connection with a woman, while being funny.
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When teasing, the key is to be good-humored, it should be a
playful vibe and should come from a place of being ‘cocky-fun’.
It’s essential to strike a balance between playful banter and
genuine conversation.
You can’t be a line-spitting robot.
You must create an organic conversation where you
occasionally tease her, the same applies to all principles in this
book.
You can’t just tease, disqualify, challenge, tease, disqualify,
challenge.
You must show a genuine side and occasionally use the
techniques provided to you in this course.
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Anyway, back to teasing.
By learning and applying the methods in this chapter, you’ll
be able to create a more dynamic and engaging interaction,
leading to a stronger attraction between you and the
woman.
Let’s get into it.
The goal of teasing is to foster a fun, light-hearted
atmosphere while building a connection.
By refining your teasing abilities, you’ll be able to create
more meaningful and memorable interactions with women,
ultimately enhancing your dating experiences.
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Above all, teasing is one of the best ways to flirt with women.
The reason why teasing is flirty is that it adds depth to your
relationship with the girl.
Being playful has the effect of bringing you closer to a girl whilst
also keeping the interaction lighthearted.
It’s also a great way to showcase sexual interest to a girl.
That's what this is all about: Tease, disqualify, tease, repeat,
push & pull, send mix signals.
Anyway, it can also help you recognize when a woman is
sexually interested in you, her teasing you = IOI.
In addition, teasing has the result of allowing women to relax
more in your presence, share intimate jokes, and build the first
foundations of sexual tension.
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When you tease a girl in the right way, she will start to
flirt back with you.
The best way to tease a girl in a flirty way is to be
deliberately playful with her in conversation.
This means staying away from boring and serious
conversation topics.
(This can be done by fluff talk which I’ll teach you how to
do this later in this chapter.)
Here are three quick ways to be more playful, fun,
and flirty around women you have just met:
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A Flirty Nickname
Giving a girl a fun nickname is one of the easiest ways of teasing
her in conversation.
Here are a few examples:
- “Girl from (add the town she is from)” instead of her real name.
- If her name is “Stacey”, call her “Tracey.” (Misinterpatete her
name, but don’t make a big deal out of it)
- Something ridiculous: Baby Face, Cool Kid, Sugar, Sweetie,
Darling, etc.
- “You’re such a little brat/punk/dork”
- “Don’t worry sweetie, everything will be just fine.” *Jokingly
comforting her*
Be creative: If she's in the military, call her Yoda, due to their green
uniforms, etc.
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A Teasing Accusation
Women do not like to make it overtly obvious that they like
someone due to their social programming, barriers, and anti-
slut defense.
You already know this by now.
Therefore accusing her of hitting on you elicits an
immediate reaction from most women, it also knocks her off
the pedestal she has placed herself on.
Most women will deliberately try so seem disinterested in
you as a result, but that's how you know it's working.
Use this to be playful with her in dialogue:
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Examples:
“I know what you’re up to, stop trying to seduce me.”
“Wtf, were you checking out my ass?”
“Easy tiger, don’t look at me with your seductive eyes, we barely
know each other. ”
“How does it feel to be such heavily in love with me?”
"Stop undressing me with your eyes."
“You are just saying that to impress me.”
“Hey, stop thinking those dirty thoughts, we just met.”
Anytime you can accuse a girl of making a move on you is a great way
to tease her in conversation.
Teasing accusations doesn't only have to be that she's hitting on you,
you can cold read tease her as well: "You look hot in that dress tonight,
it's a good thing that you have a boyfriend, or else we would have been
in trouble."
This is also great because it revels whether she has a boyfriend or not.
Genius? Yes.
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Playful Statements
If you can make a fun statement to a girl about her behavior,
insinuating that she is boring, it always induces a playful vibe,
unless she doesn’t have any sense of humor.
(then she’s not worth your time anyway, you screen her,
remember?)
Examples:
“You are staying in on a Friday …yawn.”
“Wow, who would have known you were this boring on a
night out.”
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Q- "What to tease about?
The best way to tease a girl is about her thoughts or actions.
Remember that teasing is a fun and playful way to be flirty with
women.
Therefore, you should NEVER get personal and mention
anything that she may feel insecure about, such as her weight,
her hair, or her make-up, for instance.
The same applies to disqualifying and negs. You never want to
hurt her feelings. “You’re too fat for me.” is not a tease or a neg.
It’s straight-up rude.
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Teasing Her Thoughts
Teasing a girl’s thoughts will add a fun and dynamic aspect
to the interaction, but you need to be genuine.
If she says something stupid or doesn't know an obvious
fact, fire lose.
Some great ways to poke fun at a girl’s thoughts:
“You are 25 years old and did not know that, hmm,
somebody didn't pay attention in class..”
“You have a REALLY interesting way of thinking about
that.”
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Teasing Her Actions
The best way to tease a girl’s actions is to be playful about how she
conducts herself around you, examples:
“You are standing very close to me - a bit keen?”
“Following me around all night is a bit desperate.”
Or if she does or says something stupid put her in the friendzone: “I think
somebody needs a timeout, go sit over there and I’ll get you some crayons
to draw with.”
or "I can't believe you just said that- you're in the friendzone." or "Haha,
that's funny, my little sister does the exact same thing." or "That's the
dumbest thing I've heard, you're downgraded form booty call 1 to booty call
10"
The key to successfully teasing a girl’s actions is to construct playfulness
around her chasing after you and following you around.
This comes back to prize framing, knocking her off her pedestal in a
playful manner.
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Teasing Without Context
Often you'll need to wait for her to behave in a certain way
in order to tease her.
Luckily there are two techniques you can apply with
immediate effect- without any context.
Mimicking her & misinterpreting.
These are also great because there is very little you can
do wrong...
Examples:
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Tease mimicking
Mimicking a girl’s voice in a fun and lighthearted way is a great
way to playfully poke fun at her and initiate flirting.
This can be repeating what she has said in a funny tone or
copying her body language in an accentuated way.
If she gets jokingly mad (if you disqualified her too much for
example) then you can huff at her and make an upset face while
you’re playfully exaggerating her accent.
Repeat her words back to her with your hands on your hips, with
a big fat smirk on your face.
Works every time.
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Tease misinterpreting
Misinterpretations are some of the best and funniest ways to
tease a girl.
If you paid attention during the shit test chapter you would
know that it's one of my favorite things to do around women.
What I want you to do is to take what she says, and then
repeat it back to her, deliberately misinterpreting what she has
just said to you.
For extra effect, you can misinterpret what she is saying like
she is hitting on you all of the time.
*Tons of examples inside the shit test chapter*
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When I tease women I always like to suggest that everything she
is doing is aimed at getting my attention or that she is trying to
flirt with me sexually.
This can be done in a lot of different ways, but one of my
favorites is to tease her outfit.
I often suggest that she is wearing her outfit on purpose just to
try and sexually provoke me.
Examples:
“Oh, so you are wearing leggings today to try and get my
attention then, I’m not that easy woman.”
“High heels for afternoon cocktails… seems like you are
trying to get my attention.”
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The point is that you are inferring that she is trying to hit on
you, and anything that she does can be misinterpreted in
this manner.
You can also do this by teasing her body language and
accusing her of sitting in a certain way just to get your
attention, like in the example below.
Examples:
“You are sitting closer to me than most people usually
do, bit keen?”
“Easy sweetheart, do not try and look at me with your
seductive eyes, I know what you’re doing, calm down.”
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Tease Her Topic Of Conversation
Drawing attention to her conversation topic is a fantastic
way to tease her.
It's genius, just take a look.
Examples:
“You are just bringing up traveling to try and get me
to go with you.”
“Speaking about making food is not going to get me
to come over for dinner darling.”
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Note- I can’t stress this enough.
When you make these types of teasing statements, the aim is to make it
evident that you are flirting with her.
Remember to not be serious in your tone or facial expression, it’s all fun and
jokes.
Keep it sarcastic, keep it light, and tease the shit out of her.
Tease For Sexual Tension
The final subject I'll touch on when it comes to teasing is sexual tension.
Sexual tension is.. yes, a result of tension.
No tension = No attraction.
That's why eye contact is so important- it creates tension.
But teasing is also another way to add tension.
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But creating sexual tension is also possible through
teasing a girl sexually.
This can be done by disagreeing.
Most of the time, most men tend to look for ways to
agree with what a girl is saying in conversation in hopes
that it will make her more attracted to him.
That’s a fairytale lie.
The reason for this is that many of us place an attractive
woman on a pedestal and, as a result, fall into acting
submissively around her, also known as;
falling into her frame- UNATTRACTIVE.
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By disagreeing with a girl, you show that you value
yourself and are not afraid of conflict with her in
conversation;
also known as maintaining your own frame.
But most importantly, disagreeing creates sexual
tension.
Saying:
“I do not agree with that”
when she offers an opinion will create much more
sexual tension than falling into her frame ever will.
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Another way to create tension is to just say “no”.
In fact, you should normalize to say “no” to beautiful
women.
All you have to do is say no when a girl asks you to do
something for her.
This could be a request to buy her a drink, drive her
somewhere, hold her bag, or dance with her on a night
out.
The main point of saying no is to highlight that you are not
afraid of conflict with her by setting a personal boundary.
Show your strong, masculine spirit and her panties will
start dripping.
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Sexual Teasing By Valuing Your Time
Being a slave to your watch when interacting with women
is also a great way to create sexual tension.
Therefore, when you are speaking to a girl, a glance at
your watch, checking the time on occasion, and saying
that you have to go soon works wonders, this is called
‘fake time constraints’
This works because of scarcity
If a girl knows that her time with you is limited, she will
invest more in your interaction.
(If she's interested.)
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In sum, teasing women in conversation is fun, especially
by creating lighthearted conflict.
It is also a sure and definitive way to spark sexual
interest.
Interactions between men and women should be fun and
interesting;
Like a dance.
The intertwining of masculine and feminine spirits in a
harmonious dance is elevated to perfection through playful
teasing.
All fun and games.
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Challenge
The next principle is being challenging.
Being challenging isn’t as easy to define as the other principles in this chapter,
because it can be done in many different ways.
But the basic idea behind it is that women are attracted to men who are
confident and assertive, and who don't necessarily give them what they want
right away.
Men who challenge and shake her frame, and don't suppress their own wants,
desires, and opinions in an attempt to gain a women's validation.
It works because in the desire to please women, most men strive to get
women’s approval or permission. This is yet another of those bad ideas.
Women are not attracted to servile men. Of course, I'm not suggesting that
rude or harsh behavior is the key. But, if you think that treating a woman well
means to always try and get her approval, I strongly urge you to think twice.
Women get actually annoyed with approval-seeking men.
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In practice, being challenging involves teasing, playfully
insulting, straight-up challenging her to a game, etc or even
ignoring her to create a sense of tension or uncertainty.
The goal is to create a dynamic where she is interested in
earning your attention or approval, rather than the other
way around.
It essentially goes back to the prize frame;
The cat string theory (women love the thrill of the chase, if you
give it up to easily - she’ll be bored), and the forbidden fruit
theory (women are excited by what they can’t have.)
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How you choose to do it is up to you, but here are some of my
personal favorites. I often like to challenge girls to be more exciting
and adventurous.
When you do this, you will open up a Pandora’s Box of energy into
the interaction. During an interaction with your target, all you have
to do is to ask her:
“Are you spontaneous and adventurous?”
What girl on a night out partying is ever going to say “no” to this
question? By answering “yes,” a girl is allowing you to follow up
with a powerful question:
“What can we do right now that would be adventurous?”
As you can imagine, this type of question will generate some fun
answers.
I have witnessed everything from “We could kiss.” to “Let’s make a
child.”
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This is also another great way to provoke IOI.
If she likes you she’ll answer something fun, if she doesn’t
like you she’ll not be open to the idea (she might also be
boring)
Anyway, if she answers something funny it’s an IOI. She
wants and is willing to invest more time together.
Note- Asking this early on in the interaction is also a great
way to make her more open to the idea of going home with
you later, or continuing somewhere else.
If any LMR occurs simply tell her: “I thought you said you
were spontaneous?”, this is a last effort, if she rejects just
take her socials or number and text her later.
Don’t try to force it.
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Back to the point.
If you do not get the desired response from your target (if she answers
something boring), then you can make a power statement:
“You just said you are adventurous… give me something more exciting.”
It was this statement that notoriously led to the “let’s make a child” response.
(I used protection, don’t worry.)
No one-night stand baby or STDs for me.
Another way to challenge her is to set her up with another guy (forbidden fruit
theory).
If you’ve gotten 3 IOI attraction toward you will skyrocket when you use this
sneaky trick.
It’s simple, the idea is to challenge her to a game of fuck, marry, kill.
If you’re feeling extra playful, you can introduce this topic by disqualifying her;
“I like you, but unfortunately I don’t date blond girls anymore, don’t worry, let’s
play fuck, marry, kill. Trust me, we’ll find you a suitable guy.”
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If she says "no" tell her:
“Actually I am not in the mood anymore, you would have lost
anyway.” disqualifying her.
This can be done even if she says yes to play; just as a way
to tease her, give her a bone and suddenly take it away.
She will be like, “No we have to play, it's fun!”
“Fine, Gosh!”
And 1,2,3.. suddenly she’s chasing you.
Then you must pick the 3 guys in the room with lowest
value, look for nonverbal cues, bad body language, least
handsome, etc.
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When she has chosen whom to fuck, marry, and kill you need
to make fun of her bad choices, and accuse her of being
hopelessly in love with the guys she chose to marry just as a
tease.
Grab her hand and say:
“Come on, I will introduce you to him, I can’t wait to see you
guys fall deeply in love.”
100% of the time she’ll pull back, so don’t worry.
This is also a great way to escalate physically (kino) and a
great way to provoke an IOI by squeezing her hand, if she
squeezes back she’s interested, remember?
Beyond Seduction - Game Unleashed: Challenge
You don’t even need to play fuck, marry, kill to do this.
Simply bring up relationships in your conversation and if she’s
single, tell her;
“You’re single? What’s wrong with you? Come, let’s find you a
boyfriend.”
(proceed to go around the bar, pointing point the ugliest dudes
you see.)
Another way to challenge is to find the most outrageous reasons
why you two could never be friends.
Ask her a question, could be anything: Red or blue, cat or dog,
etc…
No matter what she answers, you must disagree with her.
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You: “You know this means that we can’t be friends anymore
right?”
Her: *Laugh* “Why? blah blah”
You: “Alright, we can give the friendship one more chance, on one
condition. That you’ll never bring up the cat vs dog topic ever
again.”
Yes, yes. It’s ridiculous, I know, but that’s the point.
Even make her pinky swear or shake your hand, make her
promise to never bring it up again.
TENSION = SEXUAL ATTRACTION
It's just a way to show her that you're not afraid to disagree with
her, not afraid to make her level up to your standards.
An extremely attractive trait.
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This does 3 things:
You’re lowkey friend-zoning her (Being challenging -
forbidden fruit theory)
You’re adding to the playful vibe (Evoking strong emotions)
You’re building sexual tension by disagreeing. (Provkes
sexual tension)
You don’t need to ask questions to do this either.
You can simply find ridiculous reasons why you could never
work by the information she shares throughout your
conversation.
“You’re from New York? Yeah, it would never work between
us.”
“We could never be friends, we’re both too stubborn.”
“You are such bad news, I don’t know if we can hang out.”
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Another way is to use a trick I like to call ‘Sleepless Nights’.
It goes as follows:
“There are 3 things I like about you”
Afterward, offer two compliments to her based on how she desires
to be perceived. These may include characteristics such as
spontaneity, humor, physical appearance, femininity, etc.
Her: "What's the third?"
Then tell her: “The 3rd thing? I cannot say.”
Her: “What is it? Please say it! Blah Blah..”
You: “No can do baby, if I say it you’ll stop doing it, and I can’t let
that happen.”
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This is so simple, yet so powerful.
What you’re doing is introducing elements of mystery or
uncertainty, which will make her curious, eager, and desperate
to find out.
You’re stimulating her imagination.
And what’s the one thing women want more than anything?
FEELING STRONG EMOTIONS.
This can also be done in an alternative way, also during
texting, it goes like-
“There are so many good things about you and just a few
bad.”
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Anyone who knows female psychology knows that this will
drive her crazy.
Girls are emotional, curious, and somewhat vain creatures.
So, when you give her a compliment and an insult at the same
time, she'll go crazy wanting to know what the “bad” thing was.
Don't tell her, though. Give her these excuses, and get her to
keep chasing:
“Why do you only want to hear the bad? Stop being so
negative, Captain Negatron. Besides, I really don't think you
would want to know.”
If texting: “Okay fine, I'll tell you...” Then, don't text her back for
a few minutes and say the following: “You know what? Never
mind.”
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Then after she's chased you a bit, you can finally give her a
response like:
“The good thing is that you're pretty cute... the bad thing is that
girls like you are usually a lot of work to deal with.”
And if you’re texting her you can say something like- “The bad
thing is you're not here right now to share this astonishing wine
with me.” to hint at a date.
Lastly, just occasionally challenge her to games, nothing crazy or
serious; Fun, light, and silly.
Thumb war, rock-scissors-paper (for who buys the next drink for
example), who can finish their beer first, or who can walk straight
after 10 vodka shots.
I think you get the point by now.
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No, one more thing. Actively use allow it.
"Huh, what do you mean?"
Well, women love men who indirectly state ownership. Not like
controlling her, but showing leadership in a funny, challenging
way.
An easy way to show dominance and control is to allow her to
do things.
"Are you trying to be cute? I'll allow it, but no funny
business."
"Are you trying to make me like you? Fine, I'll allow it."
"Are you trying to be a bad influence on me? That's not
allowed."
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Closing Words- Tease, Disqualify, and Challenge
If you’ve followed me for a while you’ll surely have noticed
that these 3 principles are what I look at as the fundamentals
of the game.
And there’s a reason behind it that I’ve never shared
before… until now.
By disqualifying you’re becoming the ‘unavailable, forbidden’
man.
By teasing your evoking emotions and showing some
interest (making you available again - taking her on an
emotional rollercoaster ride)
By challenging you’re displaying your value.
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And that my brothers is the secret to attracting beautiful
women:
EMOTIONS + VALUE.
In order to attract a woman, it is essential to be able to provide
these two simple things.
Fortunately, you no longer have to worry about this as I have
provided you with word-for-word examples of how to do it.
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Freeze-Outs
Freeze-outs are one of the most powerful weapons in
your pickup arsenal, but unfortunately one of the hardest
to pull off.
Applying them is going to require balls of steel.
If you fail to learn how to use them wisely, your outcome
may not be as favorable as it could be.
Grow some balls or lose out, up to you.
Lets get into it.
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Regarding freeze-outs, there are two main categories:
one occurs when a girl is unresponsive to your attempts to
schedule a second date, while the other is used to overcome last-
minute resistance.
I'll examine each type separately.
To handle a situation where a girl is unresponsive to your efforts to
schedule a second date, it's essential to take a huge step back.
Avoid calling, texting, emailing, liking her social media posts, or
whatever else you might do.
The most effective approach is to continue living your life without
pursuing her actively.
Tip- Game more than one girl at a time will make it easier to stay
occupied and not fixate on the unresponsive girl.
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Seduction Principle: The more you want her, the less she
wants you. The less you want her, the more she wants you.
Note- If she ever gets in touch with you, you run into each
other, or if you call her again a few weeks later and actually
talk to her, it’s very important that you do not make her feel
bad for not getting back to you.
If you guilt-trip her in any way, you will undercut the power of
your freeze-out.
Instead, your frame must always be that you barely noticed
that she hadn’t gotten back to you.
If she apologizes unprompted, that’s a good sign, an IOI, but
brush it off like you didn’t even notice.
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Q- "Why does it work?"
Because the more you chase her, the more likely you are to chase
her away.
In some cases, she’ll love your attention and validation in the
beginning, but it always quickly becomes annoying and cloying.
Chasing a woman shows neediness, insecurity, and weakness.
A very unattractive combination.
Your persistent presence will not make her like you, and being a
little cold and mysterious will not make her angry, but it will make
her question herself.
“Doesn’t he like me, maybe he doesn’t find me interesting”
Once her vanity is at stake she’ll try to show you that she’s
desirable; making her chase you.
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Freeze Out During LMR
Freeze-outs used to overcome LMR (Last-Minute
Resistance) can be more challenging.
Despite feeling hesitant about this technique, you will realize
its power once you grow some balls and tries it.
The process is relatively straightforward.
While you’re escalating physically, particularly when
removing her underwear, she may ask you to stop.
This is a typical example of LMR, which stems from
women's fear of being slut-shamed (ASD).
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Also, for most of human history, sex has meant
pregnancy, and pregnancy carried a non-trivial risk of
death (about 1 in 1000 as recently as a hundred years
ago).
Even if she survived pregnancy, she would be
basically helpless for over a year, requiring you to
provide for her.
In those circumstances, women naturally experience a
fear that is similar to, but many times stronger than,
what we feel before approaching a woman.
Evolution hasn’t caught up to birth control and
modern medicine yet.
Beyond Seduction - Game Unleashed: Freeze-Outs
If this happens your first response should be two steps
forward and one step back, worst case:
stop it completely and continue the physical escalation
again in a few minutes, and get around LMR that way.
However, sometimes, she’ll make it clear that she’s not
having it.
This is where you really need balls of steel.
What you simply do is stop making out with her, and
instead check your email or socials.
Pick up a book, start browsing, WHATEVER. Freeze her
out.
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You must seem unaffected as it’s essential that you do
not seem bitter, angry, or disappointed.
If she questions you about your behavior, you must be
very clear with your response.
The slightest bit of petulance will be a major DLV (display
of lower-value.)
Instead, remain emotionally unaffected and explain to her
that your sexual arousal mechanism only functions in
an "on" or "off" mode.
That's extremely effective.
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Tell her you do not enjoy going halfway.
You can even give her a gentle kiss on the cheek to show
that you are not upset.
Then, lean back and allow her to come to you.
If you execute this technique correctly, she will with 99.9%
certainty come back to you.
Walking away from a girl mid-makeout can be difficult, but
the technique's power lies in this act.
Let me talk you through an example:
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You make out, you remove her shirt, she removes your
shirt, you start to remove her bra.
What's this?
She's stopping you from going any further? Don’t worry,
just an LMR.
Back up one or two steps, then continue.
Wash, rinse, repeat.
It's not real. It's just ASD; anti-slut defense.
She doesn't want you to think she's easy. So you cuddle,
you talk.
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She asks dumb questions like how many siblings you have;
you answer honestly and make her feel comfortable again.
Then you start from the top: You make out, then remove her
bra. She lets you this time.
You suck her breasts.
She arches her back.
She is aroused now.
She gets on top of you and starts grinding.
You are hard.
You are excited.
You want her.
You lift her off and begin to unbutton her pants.
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She pulls your hand away and says "This is so bad," you
agree, breathing heavily into her ear.
“You’re right, we shouldn't be doing this."
You make out more. You reach for the pants again.
Wash, rinse, repeat.
But she still stops you.
So you blow out the candles, turn on the light, turn off the
music, and ruin the atmosphere.
Then you grab your phone and check your e-mail while
she lies there confused. (This is the freeze-out part)
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She was feeling good a moment ago, enjoying your
attention, your touch, and the intimacy of the room;
now you're taking it all away.
She rolls over and starts kissing your chest, trying to reel
you back in.
You put down your computer, turn off the light, return her
affection.
You reach for her pants.
She stops you.
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She says you just met.
You tell her that you understand.
You turn the light on again.
She asks what you're doing.
You tell her that when a woman says no, you respect that, but
it just pushes a button in you that turns everything off.
You are not upset.
You tell her this in a matter-of-fact voice.
She rolls on top of you and whines, playfully, "No."
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She wants to have sex.
All she wants to know is that you're going to call her afterward
so that she feels good about what she did;
even if she doesn't actually want to see you again.
You let her know that.
You tell her, "Take off your pants."
She does. You enjoy yourselves and give each other endless
orgasms over the course of the night, the morning, and
perhaps even for years afterward.
That's the power of a freeze-out.
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Push & Pull
Women expect men to take the lead.
Some men don’t, out of fear.
They think: taking the lead = chasing women.
While other men think: chasing women = taking the lead.
We all know how it ends when you chase a woman; it only
pushes her further away.
Chasing doesn’t work because chasing sub communicates lower
value: if you’re chasing her, that must mean she’s higher value
than you, otherwise, she would be chasing you.
That's one of the most important principles of the game.
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You can’t refuse to chase either, since she expects you to
take the lead due to anti-slut defense.
Women don’t escalate with men out of fear of being slut-
shamed by their friends, society, even you.
This means; if you’re waiting for her to make a move you’re
going to 1) wait forever, 2) give all the other guys with bigger
balls than you the opportunity to swoop in ahead of you.
While you aren't escalating, they are. And if she’s interested
she’s not going to wait for a pussy like you.
You’ve lost her.
This might seem like a hopeless situation, no matter what you
do - it’s wrong.
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Hold on. The solution? Push & Pull.
Push & pull almost checks all the boxes of the game.
Mystery, unpredictable, non-needy, teasing, disqualifying,
complimenting.
You remain unpredictable, you remain a mystery, and refuse to fall into
her ‘prize’ frame.
On the other hand, you continue to provide opportunities for her to spend
time with you, you continue to provide her with good emotions, and you
continue to escalate.
Push & pull is essentially a way to chase and escalate - without chasing.
The clue is to compliment her (pull her closer) only to push her further
away (disqualify).
Or show interest (pull) then go cold (push)
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Example:
“Look, you’re cute, but I don’t date blond girls.”
It works because of the cat string theory: Have you ever seen
a cat play with a string?
When the string just dangles above its head, just out of reach
the cat goes crazy for it.
It jumps up, dances around, and chases it all over the room.
(Push & pull)
On the other hand, if you just drop it on the floor the cat just
looks at it for a second and walks away, it’s bored, and
doesn’t want it anymore. (Chasing)
Women works the same.
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They don’t want to bird that just sits in its cage, they want to
cage a bird that's hard to catch.
She wants to feel like she has won the prize.
The more you push her away, the more she’ll run towards
you.
But you can’t only push her away, you need to give her
some IOI, hence pull (“Look, you’re cute”, then push. (“But I
only date blond girls.”)
Constantly keeping her on the edge.
Another way to push & pull is through mixed signals that
are up for interpretation.
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Example:
When you call a girl for the first time, and you don’t ask her
out, and you get off the phone first, you are practicing push-
pull.
She is receiving mixed messages:
“He seems to like me, he seems to enjoy my company, but he
didn’t ask me out. Why didn’t he ask me out?”
Or when you invite a girl to a group activity: on one hand,
you’re asking her out, but on the other, it doesn’t feel like a
date, so she doesn’t know where she stands.
Mixed signals = Attraction
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Keep this dynamic going.
If you praise her for something (which you should do, often) make
sure you deflate her a little, too.
It’s playful, fun, exciting, and something new. You’re making her
feel strong emotions.
Be really engaged in a conversation over text one day, then don't
respond back in a day.
When you give, you have to take is the golden rule.
Another way to push & pull is through physical touch (Kino)
Two-steps-forward, one-step-back is a form of push-pull.
An example of this is being the first one to stop kissing; incredibly
powerful.
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Women are so used to men trying to get every inch of physical
affection they can, so when you stop things, they’ll often have a
powerful surge demanding more.
You can use the control you have over her physical reactions in
this way as a springboard for cocky humor as well.
"Aren't you a naughty girl"
Learning to calibrate how much push goes with how much pull
takes time and experience.
Try to develop a feel for when you’re leaning forward, and when
she is.
A little attention can go a long way, and you’ll probably start to
pick it up pretty quickly. If this is new to you, don’t be afraid to
push a little harder than you’re used to.
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In fact, while you’re learning, if you never push hard enough
to get a negative reaction, you’re probably pulling too much
and not pushing enough.
Get out of your comfort zone and you’ll probably discover that
you have much more latitude than you think you do.
And remember that a negative reaction doesn't equal bad.
Being called an asshole by a woman is actually a
compliment.
It only means she's annoyed because you haven't fallen into
her frame like all the other guys, but simultaneously it makes
her feel extreme amounts of sexual desire toward you.
There's a reason why women fuck the 'bad guys' and
avoid nice guys.
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Cold Reading
Cold reading is a technique used to make assumptions about
a person based on their appearance, body language, or other
cues, and then use those assumptions to build rapport and
establish a connection with them.
It’s the art of telling people truisms about themselves without
any prior knowledge of their personality or background.
It involves making vague, general statements or predictions
that could apply to almost anyone, then relying on the target's
willingness to fill in the gaps and provide more information
about themselves.
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Cold-reading helps demonstrate value and earn goodwill
from the person you’re interested in.
There are three basic cold-reading fundamentals that
work.
The first fundamental is to look at your target and notice
what you see.
Most people give off a lot of information without realizing it,
but we don't always pay attention.
Therefore, make a habit of looking and practicing on
people you aren't talking to.
Observe their clothes, shoes, jewelry, and hairstyle.
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While it's hard to generalize what all this means, over time, by
combining what you see with what you know or discover about
people, you'll become an expert in cold reading.
This information will help you start a conversation with someone,
such as commenting on a unique piece of jewelry or asking about a
designer brand they're wearing.
Note- Become an expert on watches, this allows you to cold-read
high-value men and will open new doors in your social circle.
Watch guys loves other watch guys.
To do this you should invest in a respected piece yourself: doesn’t
have to be expensive, an Tissot, Orient, Seiko or Hamilton will do
find.
“That's a beautiful AP, special occasion today?”
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The second fundamental is to offer an observation about the
person and if they agree, say "Yes, and..." and offer a
second observation.
If they hedge and say maybe, turn that maybe into a yes by
saying "Yes, but..." and then make a connection.
Never respond to a "no" from them with a "no" yourself,
always with a "yes, but."
The use of "awareness words" such as "see," "notice," and
"know" will help the person agree with you.
And that’s the whole point, to make them agree and connect
on a deep level.
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Example:
You: “I feel like you spend a lot of time worrying about
relationships.”
Her: “Not really.”
You: “Yes, but you know that there are many different types
of relationships.
We have a relationship with money,” (no reaction) We have
a relationship with our body and health.”
Her: “Yes, I totally stress about my body too much! How
could you tell?”
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Lastly, there's a set of almost "cheating" cold reads where
you praise the person and then point out the opposite of that
compliment is hidden inside them.
These work because the "hidden" quality applies to
everyone.
The key to all cold reading is to focus on the positive.
Everyone would rather hear positive things about
themselves, so whenever you can, spin things in a positive
direction.
That'll get them saying "yes" to you more often.
Remember, if someone rejects this approach, fall back on
other technique and say, "Yes, but...".
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Example:
“You look confident, but I can tell you sometimes have a lot
of self-doubt.”
“You’re very outgoing, but I’ll bet you get really shy
sometimes.”
Preferably you should cold read with something everyone
can relate to:
"You seem like someone who is very independent and self-
sufficient. I bet you enjoy spending time alone and pursuing
your own interests."
Without knowing you I bet you agree, right? You’ve just been
cold read.
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You’re being cold-read at least once a day.
Movies, books, and motivational accounts cold read all the
time, they make you relate- to create a connection with the
audience.
Example from Fight Club: “We work jobs we hate, to buy
shit we don’t need, to impress people we don’t like.”
Everyone can agree to this, causing you to create a deeper
connection with Tyler Durden, hence:
Cold Reading builds rapport, comfort, and connection.
To give you a full understanding of what cold reads are,
here are some movie examples:
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In "Silver Linings Playbook," Pat uses cold reads to build
rapport with Tiffany.
He says, "I bet you were a big slut in high school," to which she
responds defensively:
"What the hell is that supposed to mean?"
Pat explains that he can tell she's an easy target because she's
wearing a "slutty" outfit, but then he goes on to compliment her
on her honesty and openness, using it as a way to start a
deeper conversation.
This means that cold reading can also be used as an interesting
opener, a way to stand out.
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In "The Prestige," John Cutter uses cold reading to help his
magician friend Borden with his act.
Cutter observes Borden's behavior and offers insights such
as:
"You're a man who's used to keeping secrets," and "You're a
man who's easily distracted by his own thoughts."
These insights help Borden create a more convincing
performance and win over his audience.
Planting seeds.
This means that cold reading can also be used to pre-frame,
a way to get your desired outcome.
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In "The Girl on the Train," Rachel uses cold reading to try
and solve a mystery.
She observes the behavior of the people around her and
makes guesses about their lives.
For example, she says, "I see a woman who is loved, truly
loved, but not by her husband," to a stranger on the train.
This cold read turns out to be accurate and helps Rachel
uncover a key piece of information in the case.
There are endless examples like this, but I think you get
the point.
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Capture Her Attention
Finally, I’ll teach you a cold read that will with 100% capture
her attention.
You: “I’ll tell you something about yourself that other people
probably don’t know. People sometimes see you as shy or
bitch? I am right?”
Her: “Yes, yes, totally?”
You: “Do you want to know why?”
Her: “Yes”
What you’re doing is creating a vicious yes-ladder, capturing
her attention by requiring an obvious affirmative answer.
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You: “I’m watching your eyes as you talk, and every
time you think they go down and to the left. That means
you’re a kinesthetic person.
You’re someone who lives in your feelings." (all women
do)
Her: “oh my god, yes.. that’s so true.”
In fact, I’ll teach you all these eye clues as they’re a
great way to start an exciting conversation and teach her
something new.
The eyes go to one of the seven positions when
someone thinks.
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Each position means that they’re accessing different parts of the brain.
There is a theory called the "eye accessing cues" or "eye movement
theory" that suggests that people tend to look in certain directions when
they are thinking about certain types of information.
This theory was developed by Richard Bandler and John Grinder, co-
founders of the field of neuro-linguistic programming.
According to this theory, when people are thinking about visual
information, they tend to look up to the right or up to the left.
When they are thinking about auditory information, they tend to look to
the right or to the left.
When they are thinking about kinesthetic (tactile or physical)
information, they tend to look down to the right or down to the left.
According to the eye accessing cues, the following positions of the
eyes indicate certain types of thinking or processing:
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Up to the right: visual construction (creating or
manipulating mental images)
Up to the left: visual recall (remembering or recalling
visual information)
Right: auditory digital (analyzing or thinking about
auditory information)
Left: auditory recall (remembering or recalling auditory
information)
Down to the right: kinesthetic (thinking about physical or
tactile information)
Down to the left: emotional states or internal self-talk.
I have no idea if this study is scientifically supported but it
doesn’t matter, who gives a fuck- as long as she believes it.
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How To Compliment Her
At this point in the book it probably sounds like you shouldn't compliment girls, you
should.
The problem with most guys- they give basic compliments.
99% of guys are here. They call a girl "pretty" "beautiful" "hot"
Brother, she's just going to put you into the box of simps. You're just another nobody
to her.
ZERO MEMORABILITY.
Every guy gives her compliments on her look, several times a week, women have
become immune, women want something more, something enigmatic, something
deeper.
Some of you might already be aweare of this and as a result tries to give her more
specific compliments, like:
"I like the shade of your eyes"
"You're the perfect combination between sexy and cute"
"I don't know what you're doing, but keep doing it"
The problem? Still not memorable enough. We want her to be HOOKED.
Beyond Seduction - Game Unleashed: How To Compliment Her
The right way: is to SPEAK TO HER IDEALIZED SELF.
Her idealized self is who she aims to become every single day.
When you compliment her as if she is ALREADY who she wants to be?
She's going to remember that compliment on her deathbed.
How to find out her idealized self is done by asking who she admires.
"If there was one person you could become like when you grow up, who
would it be?"
It can be a celebrity, family member, or a friend.
Example:
If she admires her mother, she's probably a girl who respects family values.
Her idealized self is a kind, nurturing woman. A good compliment would be:
"I love how considerate you are of the people you care about"
Has any guy EVER said that to her? NO, stand out.
Beyond Seduction - Game Unleashed: How To Compliment Her
Fluff Talk
Fluff talk is a technique to make women feel more relaxed and
open to the idea of being approached and seduced.
By engaging in friendly, ‘non-threatening’ conversation you will
create a sense of connection and trust with her.
It’s essentially small talk: get-to-know-you conversation.
A way to build rapport.
This is the next step after your opener.
This is an important and unavoidable part of comfort building, and it
happens every time you talk to a girl.
However, a lot of guys don’t get the most out of this part of the
game, letting attraction fade.
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During fluff talk “future projections” are great.
Future projection is any time you get a girl to talk about
an imaginary, positive future.
Because women feel emotions stronger than we do,
having them imagine positive future situations that
involve them causes your value in their eyes to
skyrocket.
Talk about trips she’d like to take, talk about her dream
job, talk about her favorite band (and of course tease
her for her bad taste in music), talk about anything
exciting she might have in her future.
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Emphasize positive topics and involve yourself in the
conversation by painting a picture:
If she dreams of exploring the Greek islands, share your vision
of how blissful it would be to swim in the warm Mediterranean
waters and suggest renting a yacht for the two of you.
Just make it sound as ridiculous as possible, the key to her
heart is to evoke strong positive emotions, remember?
Examples:
“If you could wake up anywhere in the world tomorrow, where
would it be?”
“If you could have any job in the world when you wake up
tomorrow, what would it be?"
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This does two things.
First- you’re not coming off as fucking boring.
Second- you avoid falling into the trap of “interview mode”
where you would ask tedious, monotonous, dull, uninteresting,
tiresome, dreary, humdrum, lifeless, and stale questions like;
“what’s your major”, “what’s your job?” or “do you have any
brothers?” that she has probably answered a thousand times.
INTERROGATION IS NOT SEDUCTION.
Seduction is the art of setting the stage for two people to
choose to reveal themself to each other.
What’s the difference between fluff talk and small talk? Well,
small talk is boring. Fluff talk is fun and exciting.
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Small talk is boring because it always results in ‘interview
mode’.
There are three good ways to avoid interview mode.
First- “question into statement.”
The concept is quite straightforward.
Instead of asking her a question you're curious about, make a
guess at what the answer might be, and tell her.
For instance, you could say, "I have a feeling you might be a
psychology major."
Even if your guess is incorrect, you'll still have initiated an
intriguing and engaging conversation. “No, I do bio. Why’d
you think psych?” and then you do a cold read, or you just ask
a follow-up question.
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Don't worry about getting it wrong; your confidence in
offering a guess will make up for any mistakes you
might make.
In fact, getting it wrong might even make the
conversation more interesting.
The second way to avoid interview mode is to ask more
playful variants of interview-type questions.
For example, instead of asking, “What do you do for a
living?” you should ask, “When you were a kid, what did
you want to be when you grew up?”
You could also combine these two techniques: “I bet
you wanted to grow up to be a doctor when you were a
kid.”
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This can be followed up with teasing.
If she asks you how you knew, play with her. “Well, you clearly
think you know what’s best for everyone.”
The third way to avoid the interview is to ask deeper, more
charismatic versions of the standard questions.
For example; “What’s your favorite part of your job?”
The focus here is not on the nuts and bolts of what she does for
a living, but rather on getting her to feel the positive emotions
she associates with her job.
The more specific and unique the questions you can ask, the
better you’ll do.
Listen carefully to her answer, and ask an insightful follow-up
question.
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Psychological Tricks For Instant Attraction
Lastly in your seduction arsenal;
There are certain tricks, actions, and behaviors that will make any
woman interested.
It’s important to note that the common thread among them is that
they are enjoyable and bring excitement to the other person.
By introducing them to new experiences, you’ll create a sense of
novelty and interest that will spark attraction.
The clue is to be fun and exciting, while letting her experience
something new, something she has never experienced before,
something exciting.
Evoke strong emotions, remember?
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The Palm Reading Game
Tell her that you know palm reading.
Offer to read her hand, only if she promises to not make fun of you.
Tell her to give you her hand; for added effect tell her to give you her
dominant hand as it sounds more scientific.
Then point at any line and say:
“This is your fate line and it reads that you’re going to live a long and
happy life together with your future husband.”
Pick another line and say: “This is your luck line, and it seems like
you have incredible luck! If I read it right it says that tonight is your
lucky night, you’re going to meet a ridiculously handsome man
today. I wonder where he is?” *smile at her*”
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Finally, pick a third random line; “And finally, woah, hmm,
I’m not sure if I read this right but it seems like this is
your… *pause* … stupid line! for believing in all this
crap.”
100% laugh guarantee.
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5 Lies
The 5 lies game might be the simplest and easiest trick in
this chapter.
It demonstrates that you’re a man of value, as well as
increasing physical attraction and making you come across
as an exciting guy (exactly what she wants.)
The prize for winning the bet can be anything; a kiss, her
socials, phone number, a date, could be anything, but
always take into consideration how much rapport you’ve
built.
If you’ve already built, rapport, trust, attraction, and
physically escalated, then this is a great spot to put a kiss on
the line.
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The introduction to this trick is easy, simply ask her if
she wants to play a game, and which girl will say no to
that?
No one.
You: “So, let’s play a game.”
Her: “Okay, what type of game?”
You: “Oh? Getting worried? Don’t worry darling. It’s
really simple and really fun. If you win I’ll do….. If I win,
you have to…….”
Her: “Ok, how do we play, blah, blah.”
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You: “It’s easy. It’s called the 5 lies game/5 questions game. I’m
going to ask you 5 questions and all you have to do is to tell me a lie
for each answer. Easy right?”
Her: "Ok sure."
You (Alternative): (Tease her for being stupid) “Ok. So do you want
me to start with a practice question or are we good to go?”
Her: “No, let’s start.”
You: “Right, so what’s your name?”
Her: Britney (or whatever). Some girls will actually tell you their real
name here, giving you a great chance to give a playful neg.
You: “See I told you it was easy. Now, where do you come from?”
Her: *Wherever*
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You: Here, you need to pause, look down for a minute and touch
your face or something similarly distracting. After a short pause,
change your tone of voice and ask “how many questions was
that”?
Her: If she answers 3 you win (most people will lose on this
question). However, if she correctly lies to you and says a
different number you proceed to the 5th question.
You: Here you need to be taken back and appear somewhat
shocked. Say: “Wow, I don’t believe it, you really got me. Have
you played this game before?”
Her: “No, I’ve never played before” (Which is a truth, so you won)
You: “Great. I’ll have a JD and Coke, that kiss, ___(whatever you
put on the line)”
Her: “#$?@&*, I don’t believe you got me….”
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You: "Don't worry sweetheart, I’ll teach you how to play so
you can win drinks off your friends in the future.
On question, 4 always ask how many questions have been
asked thus far.
People who are helpful by nature will usually help you out and
give you the right answer.
The 5th question is done in a way to catch out
proud/egotistical people so between the 2 of those questions,
you have the majority of people covered.”
*And here you can neg by saying, “and obviously you’re not a
helpful person (while smiling)”, or compliment her with “and
you’re obviously a helpful person” depending on which
question you got her*
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ESP Routines
Routines based on extra-sensory perception (activities or performances
that involve using extrasensory perception ‘ESP’, such as telepathy,
clairvoyance, or psychokinesis) can be lots of fun.
They’re a great way to keep things lighthearted and amusing while
demonstrating value. The key is to have fun with them, and never take
them too seriously.
Example:
One of the simplest ESP tricks is to simply say. “Okay, think of a number
from one to four.” You lead the target towards saying “three” by spacing
out the keywords: “Think of a number from one … … (snap your fingers
here), to “… four.”
Very few people won’t say “three” here because their brains try to
complete the sequence.
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She’ll be mind-blown if you get it right, and she under any
circumstances should think of another number, simply say;
“Well, fuck it, it only works ¼ times.” and she’ll laugh.
Same with 1-10. Make her think of a number between 1-10, and
give her a short time to think about it. In 80% of cases, it’s 7.
If you guess right she’ll clap her hands in joy and shock, if you fail
just tell her:
“Well, it only works 1/10 times” and watch her laugh.
Pick-up artists use these all the time, if you’ve ever read “The
Game” by Neil Strauss you’ll know exactly what I’m taking about,
in fact the first ESP routine I’m going to talk about in this chapter
is credited to Neil Strauss, it’s called ‘The Cube.’
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The Cube
Neil Strauss's cube trick is a psychological game that are
used to build rapport and connection your target.
It involves asking the person to imagine a cube in their mind
and then asking them a series of questions about the cube,
which will reveal information about their personality and
thought processes.
In fact, instead of me sitting here trying to explain it, you can
watch him do it live here:
The Cube - Neil Strauss
If the hyperlink isn't working:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=quZzZykpOPA
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Mind Reader
This might seem advanced, but it is actually pretty simple.
Tell her:
“Okay, I can read your mind.
Think of a number between two and ten. Now multiply it by
nine.
Now split the number into two separate numbers. Now add
the digits together, and subtract five.”
(If she struggles with the math, tease her).
Example: 4x9= 36= 3 & 6: 3+9= 9. 9-5= 4
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“Okay, now pick a country that begins with that letter of
the alphabet:
for example, if your number is 3, you might pick Chile,
because C is the third letter of the alphabet.”
(If she struggles to come up with a country, tease her
about her sense of geography).
“Okay now pick an animal which has a name which
begins with the last letter of that country’s name.
Lastly, think of a color that begins with the last letter of
the animal's name.”
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Once she’s done all this, turn to her and say:
“You’re thinking of an orange kangaroo from Denmark.”
You can even tease her because Kangaroos aren’t
orange, and they don’t come from Denmark.
Note- This one works because the math always comes
out to four, and there just aren’t that many countries that
have a name beginning with D.
(Don’t try this on someone from the Dominican Republic,
however).
Likewise, there aren’t many animals that start on K, so
it’ll always be a kangaroo.
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Red Hammer
This is a unique and engaging routine that can be used
to impress and captivate anyone.
This routine utilizes the principles of extra-sensory
perception (ESP) to create the illusion of mind-reading
and prediction.
It’s simple, distracts her mind, and tell her to quickly
name a color and a tool;
It’s 70% of times a red hammer, I’ve also witnessed a
blue screwdriver, simply fold the paper and write red
hammer on one side, and blue screwdriver on the other
side.
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You: “Okay, let’s play a game. I’m actually psychic.
Just do exactly what I say and don’t ask questions. You’ll
understand when I’m done.”
*Ask the bartender for a pen and a sheet of paper in front
of the girl or bring it from home.
From there, write Red Hammer on it.*
“Okay, tell me the year of your birth.”
Her: “1996, blah, blah.”
You: “Awesome, now add 4 to it until I interrupt you.”
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2000, 2004, 2008, she has to do the math, simple shit.
If she’s having a hard time then tease her;
“Somebody didn’t take notes in High School.” When she
added four a few times to that date you interrupt her.
You: “Tell me a color! Quick! Now!” (Rush her, put her under
a lot of stress)
Her: Red/Blue
You: “Keep going, keep on adding four..come on, hurry up.”
*Then after a few times you interrupt again*
You: “Think of a tool! Quick! Hurry!”
Her: Hammer/Screwdriver
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*From there make her add 4 a few more times, then slowly
take out that sheet, …unfold it*
You: “What were your answers again?”
Her: Red, and Hammer / Blue, and Screwdriver
(Show the sheet, and watch her eyes sparkle in excitement)
Finally, one thing to remember is that if your ESP routine
doesn’t work, you can still laugh it off. “Oh, see, that just goes
to show there’s no such thing as ESP.”
Note- It’s important to avoid “dancing monkey syndrome”,
where you’re just performing tricks to entertain her.
Do one of these tricks, at most, per interaction. And never do
one of these tricks a second time as she’ll figure it out very
quickly.
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If she ever demands something from you: “Look again, I’m not a
dancing monkey.”
If she asks you to do it again then challenge her: “No, that’ll be $40, this
shit ain’t free.”
Finally, when it comes to these tricks it doesn’t actually matter what you
do as long as it’s exciting and you initiate to do something fun along with
her or a group as it demonstrates value (people look to you for
excitement.)
There are multiple games to play:
Would You Rather: Asking each other funny and sometimes
challenging "would you rather" questions. For example, "Would you
rather be able to talk to animals or speak all human languages fluently?"
Are They Boning: When you're out with a girl look at other couples and
try to tell what type of relationship they have. Have they slept together,
he looks like a simp, etc, trash talk the other guy too increase your own
value.
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Two Truths and a Lie: Tell three statements about yourself,
two of which are true and one is a lie. She has to guess
which one is the lie. (If you don’t manage to tell her lie, tease
her of course; “We could never be together, you’re such a
good liar.”
The list goes on… be creative, be fun, be exciting.
And to those guys who think these tricks are childish, well
WOMEN ARE KIDS WITH TITS.
Women fall in love with guys who evoke strong emotions,
someone who stirs emotions in them in a way that cannot be
explained.
Combine these with a masculine frame and the other
techniques provided to you in this guide and you'll become
irresistible to women:
Become a man with layers to him.
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CHAPTER 15
MASTERING TEXTING GAME:
STANDING OUT FROM THE CROWD
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None of the content in this book should be
considered professional advice.
"Texting is like a game of words, where
every message is a move, and every reply
reveals a piece of the puzzle."
Introductions
Disclaimer- The principles outlined in this texting guide are equally
applicable to face-to-face interactions, and the principles that apply
to face-to-face interactions are equally applicable to texting.
Whether you're communicating in person or through a screen, the
fundamental principles of game, communication, and female
psychology remain the same.
Since most of today's society date through dating apps, I have
chosen to include a whole chapter based on it.
The perks of texting are that it's much easier to come off as a high-
value man, because, well, it's online.
She doesn't see you.
You can sit in your pajamas and text like a god, especially after
reading this chapter.
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Before we dive deeper down the rabbit hole, there are two
things you need to know about texting;
1)Texting is only a way to set up an irl meeting.
Nothing destroys your game more than becoming her ‘text
buddy’.
You need to realize this;
Women use simps as free resources and external validation
machines, but they’ll NEVER sleep with them.
They just string them along until the simp wises up to the fact
that he’ll never have ‘his turn’ with her.
But until that day, women will gladly milk simps dry.
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2) Texting is much harder than face-to-face interactions for
several reasons;
Firstly, the lack of personal touch.
Secondly, there is more competition in the digital realm as it's
easier to showcase one's value.
Furthermore, many men may lack the confidence to approach a
woman in person, leading to more individuals vying for her
attention through texting.
If you have ever seen an attractive girl’s DMs you’ll know exactly
what I mean, their DMs are fucking stacked.
So if you are one of the losers who think it’s easier to text a girl
than approach her in real life you have been proven wrong.
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Women flake on guys because they fail to demonstrate their high
sexual market value, especially during texting
(she has more options = more competition = she’ll choose the one
with the most value = you have to display even more value than
usual.)
If you were strategic about using your texts to playfully and
effectively communicate to her that you are a masculine man with
high social status and are preselected by women, she would not
flake on you.
NEVER.
Before we dive any deeper I want to talk about the basics of
texting, there are a few guidelines to follow in order to present
yourself as a high-value man.
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The Essentials
As said before;
all of the techniques that work in face-to-face interactions can
be applied to texting as well.
It's important to maintain a teasing, disqualifying, and
challenging tone, which is even easier online since you have
more time to craft your messages.
The key is to project yourself as a high-value man right from
the start and maintain that impression or frame throughout the
entire conversation.
To achieve this, you can follow these tips:
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Be brief, BUT direct- Being able to communicate effectively
using concise language is a clear indicator of high value.
It demonstrates that you have a strong command of your
thoughts and can express them succinctly.
Additionally, using fewer words helps to avoid giving away
too much of your attention too soon, which will come across
as needy or desperate.
Doing this also allows you to maintain an air of mystery and
intrigue, while still conveying your message effectively.
Aim to get your point across with precision, and you'll come
across as a confident and high-value man.
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Show non-neediness- Demonstrating non-neediness is a crucial
aspect of projecting high value in any interaction, including texting;
you already know this by now.
The importance of adopting a mindset of detachment cannot be
overstated.
Just as in real life; you must be willing to leave the conversation at
any moment.
Seduction Principle: Nothing is more anti-seductive than a
desperate and needy man.
This can be done by treating her like a complete stranger whom
you are interested in getting to know, but haven't yet decided if
she’s worth your time.
By taking this approach, you'll naturally come across as more aloof
and mysterious, which will make you 10x more attractive
(especially if you have already received some IOI)
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You must also be mindful of the frequency and length of your
messages, as excessively long or frequent messages will convey
neediness or desperation.
Ultimately, the goal, the key to texting is to strike a balance
between showing interest in her while maintaining a sense of
independence and self-respect.
By doing so, you'll project confidence and value, and ultimately
have more successful interactions; Push & pull.
The moment you become emotionally attached, you run the risk of
losing your confidence and projecting neediness or desperation;
both in texting and irl.
This will with 100% certainty lead to you overthinking every text and
struggling to come up with the right response.
You must avoid this trap at all costs.
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To avoid falling into this trap, it's essential to remain free-flowing
and detached in your texts.
By adopting a ‘free’ mindset you'll be able to respond to her texts
more confidently and authentically, without worrying about the
outcome.
"To be successful with women, you have to know what you're
doing, but not care what you're doing." Remember?
It's crucial to shift your mindset from:
"I want to impress her" to "Let's see if she can impress me."
This change in perspective allows you to recognize your own value
and position yourself as the prize in the interaction, prize frame,
prize frame, prize frame, you know this by now.
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If you approach a texting conversation with the intention of impressing her,
you will come across as needy or overly eager.
On the other hand, adopting a ‘prize frame’ (seeing yourself as the prize)
makes you more attractive and desirable.
Remember, you have a lot to offer, and she should be eager to get to
know you, instead of trying to impress her, focus on being your best self
and let her impress you.
Overthinking and obsessing over texts is a sign of insecurity or low self-
worth; or both.
Women are much more perceptive than men.
They literally have a 6th sense that instantly spots your insecurities.
She will sense it, she will feel it, she will read it in subtle manners, and
most importantly; she will find it unattractive.
Instead, stay present in the moment and focus on enjoying the playful
conversation rather than getting hung up on the details.
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Emojis, yay or nay?- When it comes to using emojis in texts,
the answer is generally "nay."
While emojis can add a fun and playful addition to some
conversations, they can also detract from the overall tone and
mood of the interaction.
In particular, using too many emojis can completely remove
any sexual tension or flirtatiousness in the conversation,
making it more difficult to build a deeper connection with her.
If you imagine a classic masculine figure like James Bond, it's
unlikely that he would use an excessive number of emojis
when texting a girl.
The use of 15 heart emojis, followed by 12 smiling emojis, for
instance, would be seen as too effeminate or immature for
someone with Bond's reputation.
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Instead, Bond would use concise, confident language that conveys
his intentions clearly and without ambiguity.
He might use an occasional emoji to add some personality or
humor to the conversation, but he would keep it understated and in
line with his image as a sophisticated, suave gentleman.
Seduction Principle: When in doubt or when you’re feeling
insecure, always ask yourself what a more masculine, confident
man would do.
Anyway, relying too heavily on emojis will make you appear less
confident and less mature, which is a turn-off for all women.
That being said, there are some situations where an emoji can be
a helpful way to convey a certain tone or emotion in a text
message, for example, if you’re talking about anything sexual.
Just be sure to use them sparingly and consider the overall effect
they will have on the conversation.
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Make it easy for her to respond- Never close the
conversation loop. If she asks you “How’s your day been?” and
you answer with a simple “Good” you're fucked.
You need to give her a chance to build upon your answer.
Always answer these kinds of questions in a way that portrays
you in a good way. “good, was at work, then I hit the gym, how
about yours?”
As you already know, women love men who care about their
bodies and health.
It's important to make it easy for her to respond and keep the
conversation flowing.
One way to do this is to avoid closing the loop by giving short or
uninteresting answers to their questions.
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Giving her something to respond to and building a rapport
around shared interests and values increases the chances of
keeping the conversation going, giving you plenty of time to
tease, be playful, play games, and most importantly establish a
connection.
Keep in mind that texting is a two-way street, if you're not getting
much engagement from her, it’s a sign that she’s not interested.
If you find that she’s responding with short, one-word answers
like "ahah," "yes," or "cool" to all your messages, she’s not fully
invested in the conversation.
You might fool yourself into believing that she’s busy, but you’re
lying to yourself.
Busy people make time for what’s important to them.
That’s why they’re busy in the first place.
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During the entire history of human civilization, people have
always prioritized love above anything else, and she’s no
exception.
If she likes you, she’ll make time for you.
If she’s not interested simply focus your attention on
someone who is more responsive and engaged in the
conversation.
A handsome, high-value, masculine badass like you
deserves someone who is excited to talk to you and invests
in building a connection.
Love isn't a one-way street.
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Never Double Text- It's important to maintain a sense of balance,
there must always be a balance of effort, in face-to-face interactions
and during texting.
One common mistake a lot of guys make is to double or triple-text her.
This comes across as fucking desperate or overly aggressive and will
be seen as unattractive.
Instead, wait for a response before sending another message. This
way, you will avoid coming across as needy or clingy.
As said earlier, you must to pay attention to the effort she is putting
into the conversation.
You want to make sure that she is investing more time and effort than
you are.
If you find that you're always the one initiating the conversation or
sending longer messages, you must re-evaluate the balance.
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This can be done by mirroring.
Mirroring is a great technique to use when texting.
By matching the tone, length, and style of her messages, you will
create a sense of balance in the conversation.
If she responds with short messages, you respond with short
messages as well.
And if she takes a while to respond, take the same amount of time
to respond back.
This will for some you might seem destructive to your game, but
it’s not.
Women want men with higher value than them.
So it is more destructive to your game to chase her than
mirroring her ‘cold’ style.
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Lead The Interaction- As I’ve probably said a thousand times by
now, you must keep the conversation fun and engaging.
This means being flirty, teasing, and disqualifying in a playful way.
Take her on an emotional rollercoaster ride by mixing things up and
keeping the conversation unpredictable.
However, it's important to choose your topics of conversation
carefully.
Avoid topics that are too heavy or controversial, such as politics and
religion.
Instead, focus on lighter topics that you both enjoy.
Music, life goals, movies, dark humor, what she would do if she won
$1.000.000 in a lottery, you name it…
Could be anything as long as it sparks interesting conversations; Use
the charismatic question earlier in the book.
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You Need a Way To Stand Out- Texting is a more challenging way to
connect with her, especially when you consider the competition out
there.
With so many people vying for her attention, you need to find a way to
stand out from the crowd.
Just imagine how many horny dorks are pursuing her.
To stand out you must keep the conversation fun and engaging.
This can be done by sending her funny memes or gifs that will make
her laugh, during or in the aftermath of an organic conversation.
This will help you to stand out and be memorable in her mind. Plus, it's
a great way to continue the conversation in a playful way.
By being witty, funny, and playful, you will capture her attention and
make her want to talk to you more, operant conditioning at its finest;
“He made me laugh = I want to talk more with him.”
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Don’t Talk Too Much- Some men just straight-up talk far too much over text.
They send miles-long paragraphs about how their ex did them wrong, telling
her their entire life story.
Not only is it unattractive, it's fucking boring.
She doesn’t care man about your feelings, in fact, she doesn’t want to know,
in her head she has created a mental image of you as a strong, masculine,
capable man.
By talking too much you will destroy it. Sometimes just shutting up will make
you more attractive.
Avoid oversharing and bombarding her with long, rambling messages.
Keep it concise and to the point.
This also allows you to create an air of mystery around you, craving her to
want more.
Once she knows everything she is bored, because she wants to figure you
out.
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It should take a lifetime for her to figure you out.
Also, women love attention, they want the attention to be on them,
because they want your validation.
Mainly focus on her, and only give her snippets of information
when she specifically asks for it.
This is also a great way to look for IOI, because if she doesn’t ask
any questions about you, she doesn’t care about you.
Finally, you must maintain a sense of strength and masculinity
when you’re texting her.
Avoid texting about your feelings, insecurities, or problems, as this
will make you come across as emotionally weak and needy.
Instead, focus on projecting a confident and mysterious persona
that will make her want to know more about you.
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While it's okay to open up a little bit and share some details about
yourself, always be mindful of how much you're sharing and how it
may be perceived.
Stop running to girls with your problems.
Women find it challenging, if not impossible to feel merciful towards a
grown man.
She’s not meant to be your therapist.
You're supposed to be her protector.
The key is to maintain a sense of mystery and intrigue that will keep
her interested and wanting to know more about you.
"Like a captivating story, the key to kindling her curiosity lies in
weaving a tale of mystery and intrigue, leaving her yearning for the
untold chapters of your enigmatic allure."
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Play Games With Her- Playing games is a fun and easy way to
break the ice, build a connection/rapport, simply just have fun, or
get a conversation flowing.
Which game you want to play is completely up to you; Would You
Rather or Two Truths, One Lie as mentioned earlier are some
great ones, but my favorite is 21 Questions.
The idea is simple; take turns asking each other questions to get
to know each other better.
But here's a tip: If you want to make her comfortable with the idea
of being intimate with you (which I’m certain most of you are) don't
be afraid to gradually escalate the questions to more sexual
topics.
Causally talking about sex conveys that you are comfortable with
sex, which is read by women: "He's so comfortable with the idea
of sex, he must be extremely good at it."
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Note- This is a great game to play during real-life
meetings as well, especially if you’ve had a few drinks.
These questions are also perfect to screen for certain
personality types, for example; if she answers question
16th with:
“Buy myself purses and designer shoes” she could just as
well tattoo “toxic” on her forehead.
But feel free to use your own questions.
Be creative.
Be fun.
Be exciting.
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1st Question: “Where did you grow up?”
2nd Question: “What's something that always puts you
in a good mood?”
3rd Question: “If you could change one thing in the
world, what would it be and why?”
4th Question: “If you could wake up anywhere in the
world tomorrow, where would it be?”
5th Question: “Who’s your celebrity crush?”
6th Question: “If you could have any job in the world,
what would it be?”
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7th Question: “What's the biggest turn-off in a guy?”
8th Question: “If you could have dinner with a historical
figure, who would it be and why?”
9th Question: “What’s your favorite sex position?”
10th Question: “What's something you're really excited
about right now?”
(She’ll probably imagine the two of you having sex based
on the last question.)
11th Question: “What’s the one thing that makes you
feel like a little girl again?”
12th Question: “How would you describe yourself with 3
words?”
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13th Question: “Do you want to kiss me?” (If
you’re face-to-face use the kiss close routine; If
she says yes- kiss her. If she says no- “Oh, I didn’t
say you could, just looked like you wanted to.”)
14th Question: “Lights on or lights off? or “Hard
and fast, or slow and sensual?”
15th Question: “When did you lose your
virginity?”
16th Question: “What would you do if you won
$1.000.000?”
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17th Question: “What's the craziest sexual experience
you've had?”
18th Question: “What’s the most adventurous place you
have had sex in?”
19th Question: “What are your goals in life?”
20th Question: “What's the biggest turn-on in a guy?”
21st Question: “What’s your biggest sexual fantasy?”
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Most of these questions are either charismatic, open-ended,
or sexual.
Once you’re done playing you’ll have endless follow-up
questions to dive deeper into one of the specifics she told you.
Also, these questions build sexual tension and create a more
intimate connection between you.
The key is to make sure she's comfortable and willing to play
along - if she's not interested, respect her boundaries and
switch to a different topic, or tease her for being boring, up to
you.
You’ve now built rapport, sexual tension, evoked strong
emotions and you stood out.
She already imagines you inside her.
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Decoding Her Silence
If you're in a situation where you've been texting her for a
while and suddenly she goes cold and leaves you on read, it
can be frustrating and confusing.
It's natural to wonder if she's intentionally ignoring you or if
she simply forgot to respond.
Fortunately, I’ve assembled a few methods you can use to
figure out what's going on, but before I reveal them to you
there are few thinks you need to take into consideration.
First is the context of your conversation.
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Was the last message you sent her a question that required an
answer?
If so, and she didn't respond, there's a good chance that she's ignoring
you.
Another factor to consider is her behavior leading up to the sudden
silence.
Was she enthusiastic and responsive in your conversations before? Or
was she already starting to pull away?
If she seemed disinterested or unenthusiastic before, then she's simply
not interested in you.
It's also worth considering her overall communication style.
Does she typically respond quickly to messages, or does she take a
while to reply?
If she's normally quick to respond and suddenly goes silent, it’s a sign
that something's up.
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As a last effort you can use the sentences below, but wait a few
days after your last message.
If she’s still not reaching back it’s time to move on.
It's not worth pursuing someone who's not interested, and there
are plenty of other people out there who will appreciate your
attention.
You’re the prize brother, remember that.
“Dear diary, I was talking to a cute girl, but she vanished,
should I call 911?”
“Hope you’re not this quiet during sex”
“Hey, I would like your advice, you see- I talked to this really
cute and interesting girl, but she seems to be muted, what
should I do?”
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Optimize Your Profile
Alright, you now know the basics of texting, but do you remember
one of the biggest attraction switches?
Social proof.
And since most of you guys text women through Instagram or
Tinder here’s a guide to optimize your profiles.
Having the right profile is literally the most important thing out
there.
You need to demonstrate some type of value, what separates you
from the rest of the guys?
Optimizing your profile correctly will do exactly that.
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For your profile, you want to maximize three things:
1. Status
2. Looks
3. Money
I suggest that you take a moment to check out Iman Gadzhi's
Instagram profile before proceeding any further.
His Instagram is perfectly optimized.
It possesses a wide range of desirable qualities, including social proof,
status, looks, physique, and wealth.
@imangadzhi
I wished I could show you mine, but then the whole point of being
anonymous is pointless.
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Also, in today's fast-paced digital world, we are no longer just
ourselves.
“Eh, what?”
Hear me out.
It may seem strange, but as human beings, we now have a
second half - our phones and our social media.
Whether you like it or not, we have evolved into a form of
cyborgs, with technology becoming an essential part of our
daily lives.
You must understand and adapt to this reality, as the ability to
navigate the digital landscape is becoming increasingly
essential for personal and professional success.
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Although I have referenced several times earlier in this book
the concept of "survival of the fittest," we are now entering a
new era - "survival of the smoothest"
The concept of "survival of the smoothest" has become
increasingly relevant in the context of the digital age.
This means that those who are most adaptable and can
seamlessly use social media correctly will have a greater
chance of thriving in this rapidly changing world.
I bet your mom has taught you your whole life the importance
of a first impression.
Well, yeah, in the current world people are forming first
impressions of you all the time, including people you don't
even know.
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This requires you to be much more intentional about how you present
yourself online, as your social media presence is just as important as your
physical appearance and behavior.
Job interview? They’ll check out your social media.
Going on a date? She’ll check out your social media.
Business opportunity? They’ll check out your social media.
Met a cute girl at a bar? She’ll check out your social media.
Some of you may think that being completely anonymous on social media
is a better option, but you’re wrong.
You might believe that anonymity will add a sense of mystery to your
persona, but in reality, it will likely lead to you being categorized into the
'creep,' category which I will discuss later in this chapter.
Embrace your inner cyborg, let's get into it.
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Reconstructing Your Social Media
As I mentioned earlier, many of you may be using dating apps,
but have you considered what message it communicates?
It comes across as fucking needy - as if you have no other
option but to resort to using dating apps.
We both know that you have more value than that.
That's why I want to introduce you to a better option -
Instagram.
In fact, I believe it's the best dating app out there in 2023.
Why?
Because your Instagram account is the ultimate tool for
connecting with women and other high-value individuals.
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By giving them a glimpse into your life - the people you hang out
with, the places you visit, and your social status - you will establish
social proof and build trust.
But here's the thing: if you're going to use Instagram effectively,
you need to start by erasing all your current posts and revamping
your bio.
Why?
Because your current posts is low quality, not in terms of camera
quality, but in terms of what they communicate about you…
Your Bio
Excessive use of emojis and cheesy motivational lines, eh -
puked.
It’s cringe-worthy, makes a terrible first impression and just
screams insecurity.
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Instead of revealing too much in your bio, keep it short and
concise, dropping subtle clues about yourself.
Optimally, linking to your second page, which could be your
business page, hobby page, workout page, or any other account
that showcases your passions.
(Beautiful women love men with a passion bigger than him, her,
and life, remember?)
This way, you can pique curiosity and intrigue, encouraging her to
explore your creative endeavors without giving away everything
upfront.
It adds an element of mystery and encourages her to delve deeper
into your content to discover more about you and your unique
interests.
Let your creativity shine through your posts and stories, and let
your second page be a gateway for her to discover your passions
and talents.
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You see, women are drawn to creativity.
The first account should be your primary, personal account, where you
share your everyday life and connect with friends and family.
The second account is your opportunity to display your "North Star" - that
one thing you're passionate about and excel at or are learning to excel at,
more than most.
It could be anything from fitness and cooking to travel, art, your business, or
music.
Optimize For Looks
Let's face it, in the world of online dating, first impressions are everything,
and your images play a crucial role in determining whether she will be
interested in you or not.
Investing in some good images will go a long way in making it easier to
attract women.
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This will not only show off your interests but also help to create
a more interesting and engaging profile.
When it comes to optimizing for looks, there are two main
things you want to focus on: your face and your body.
On the other hand, if you lack an attractive physique or a good-
looking face, your focus should not be on texting women but
rather on enhancing your appearance.
Optimize For Money
I understand that many of you may not have substantial
wealth.
Does it matter? No.
On social media, appearances can be deceiving, and it's all
about creating a social illusion.
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You can still give off the impression of wealth by sharing pictures from
various locations, such as a road trip to the capital city or a vacation
destination.
Upgrading your wardrobe with more fashionable clothing, buying a
‘cheap’ but respectable watch, and sharing photos of it will also help
enhance your image.
Even posting pictures from a night out at a club, at a high-profile gym,
etc, will contribute to creating a perception of affluence.
The goal is to appear as a highly social individual with a jam-packed
lifestyle.
By showcasing your activities and outings on social media, you will give
the impression of being a person with a bustling social calendar.
Posting about your hobbies, interests, and events you attend adds
more depth to your persona.
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The more you can demonstrate that you are a dynamic,
outgoing individual, the more appealing you’ll become to her.
You must create the illusion I talked about earlier, the illusion
of a lifestyle that screams:
“Ladies, abandon your boring, mundane, unfulfilled lives and
step into my exciting world, full of interesting people, new
experiences, good times, easy living, and dreams fulfilled.”
So no, it's not about having an abundance of cash.
Instead, the key is to exhibit a life overflowing with
thrilling, novel encounters that ignite strong emotions.
It's Female Psychology 101: Women are innately driven to
seek out fresh experiences that stir their passions, that spike
strong emotions.
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This is because most girls live conventional, humdrum lives,
following the same routine of work/school, home, and socializing
with friends and family, day in and day out.
They can't help but feel that there must be more to life than this.
If you can effectively use your social media to portray your
exciting experiences, you can constantly remind her of what she's
missing out on.
Stimulating her desire to become a part of it.
In today's world, anyone can put together a few flexing photos and
create an illusion of wealth.
But it's not just about material possessions, it's about creating an
illusion of freedom.
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Gone are the days when simply flaunting money and exotic trips were
enough to impress.
Women are looking for authenticity, personality, and social status, and
most importantly, they crave the real you.
In 2023, the game has changed.
It's no longer about traditional flexing because artificial intelligence
and technology have made it easy to fake a desirable lifestyle.
The new "flex" is all about having time, location, and lifestyle
freedom.
It's about doing things that most people can't because they're tied to
their corporate jobs or stuck in their homes.
Imagine going on a hike among the mountains on a Tuesday
afternoon, while others are stuck in their offices- think what it
communicates.
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Picture yourself having a carefree chat with your buddies,
windows down, cruising with gas in the tank, while others are
cooped up indoors.
The new "quality" photos are not perfectly staged or
professionally shot, but rather in-the-moment, capturing the
spontaneity and nonchalance of your lifestyle.
Focus on being authentic and wrapping yourself in a lifestyle
that resonates with the type of woman you want to attract.
The key is to showcase the real you, with a genuine
personality and a lifestyle that reflects your unique interests
and values.
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Embrace the freedom that comes with being true to yourself and
living life on your own terms, and you'll attract women who
appreciate you for who you are, not just for the material
possessions you flaunt.
The Golden Mindset is simple:
Nonchalance, Authenticity, and Naturalness.
Posing, and selfies both literally and metaphorically, is a thing of the
past. 2010 called.
What's truly valued now are random, in-the-moment photos of you
and your tribe, captured by your friends.
Set the culture among your social circle by making it a norm to take
random photos of each other all the time.
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Whether you're out for a daytime coffee or playing a sport,
whip out your phone and start snapping pictures.
Everyone does the same, and then you share the photos with
each other.
As it's an unspoken rule.
When you do this, every picture will convey a story.
You with some girls on a hike, you with the boys at a gun
range, or you with your social circle raising a toast.
You score a goal, make a basket, or talk to a beautiful girl.
These photos capture moments that define you as the cool
guy, the one who's living life to the fullest.
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Finally, don’t be afraid to show the real you.
Who are you?
It's a question that most guys never really ask themselves.
Instead, they end up copying the basic influencer types who command
zero respect. But your Instagram should be a reflection of your true self.
You don't have to always pretend to be perfect or flawless.
In fact, you should embrace and display your harmless flaws in your
stories every once in a while and add them to your story highlights.
For example, if you're out with your friends and you accidentally spill
something, ask your friend to capture a video of the moment where you
all just laugh about it.
It's these candid, authentic moments that truly connect with others and
showcase your genuine personality.
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Authenticity is rare in 2023, but really attractive.
Authenticity is the most valuable currency, and the current and
upcoming generations have realized that the fake, flexing lifestyle
of influencers is not to be trusted.
They crave genuine connections with people who are like them,
and that's how you can make women realize they like you - by
showing them that they are "like you."
What do women love?
Travel, art, food, humor.
Your stories should convey your personality and include your
unique, "weird" twists.
Be funny, be interesting, and watch as women start replying to
your stories and engaging with you.
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Even if you're an older dude, you can learn from the younger
generation (18-23 range) who share a lot on Instagram.
Take notes while maintaining your own air of mystery.
Drop breadcrumbs, and do crazy, random fun things like
jumping over a small fence in the middle of the night, skinny
dipping, etc.
It doesn't have to involve money.
Instead, focus on showcasing your chill lifestyle with your
amazing social circle of beautiful women and cool dudes.
Let others know that if they're not with you, they're missing out
on something special.
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Optimize For Status
This chapter is closely linked to the previous one, but
instead of emphasizing wealth, freedom, and adventures,
it's essential to highlight status, social proof, and social
circle.
These elements will significantly impact a woman's
perception of you and will be just as crucial as money and
adventures.
Building a strong social circle and having social proof will
demonstrate to women that you are well-liked and
respected, which will increase your desirability in their
eyes.
We want what others have, remember?
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If you have any pictures of you in ‘high status’ positions, then
post them.
Examples:
Pictures with celebrities.
Pictures where girls lean into you, sit on your lap, looks at
you, etc.
Pictures with your friends.
Pictures with multiple women.
Pictures where you socialize.
If you’ve got pictures to trigger pre-selection, then that’s perfect.
This just means that you’ve got other girls who are interested in
you.
For women, this is huge; girls want what other girls want.
So, make it clear that you’ve got other girls who want you.
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You need to realize this, and I guess most of you already have if you’ve
made it this far into the book.
Part of understanding women is understanding that they’re attracted to
high-status men.
I don’t make the rules, I just tell them how they are.
Actually, I find it funny, because when I tweet about it some guys get mad
at me for saying girls are attracted to status, but they’re ignorant.
Why? Because we men are exactly the same.
A girl with a fat ass and huge tits is attractive to us.
So deal with it.
But again, as I’ve said earlier in the book; Money, looks, and status is
helpful, but not necessary.
Game, social skills, and emotional intelligence is.
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Money, looks, and status gives you initial interest, but this is a chapter about
texting, and in online dating initial interest is EVERYTHING.
So if you don’t have the balls to approach women face-to-face, then stop
whining, and focus on what way others perceive you through your social
media.
Neglecting to optimize your profile means you'll simply blend in with the
masses, a face lost in the crowd.
But if you take the time to curate your image and highlight your best
qualities, you'll stand out like a vibrant fish in a vast ocean.
Do’s & Don’ts
First, limit your posts to 9 or fewer. Anything more than that can come across as
excessive and uninteresting.
Instead, use stories to share snippets of your day-to-day life, giving a glimpse into
your world without overwhelming with posts and put your stories on your highlights.
Avoid turning your profile into a "cockfest" with only pictures of guys in every photo.
Mix it up with a diverse group of friends to show your social proof and highlight your
cool social circle.
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A group photo with multiple women and one or more guys will
create intrigue and interest.
Selfies? No.
Selfies may have been a trend in 2010, but now they're passé.
Instead- do as I told you earlier and ask a friend to capture
candid moments of you in action, whether it's hiking, playing a
sport, or enjoying a hobby.
Let your photos tell a story about your life and interests. And
when it comes to captions and bios, don't settle for cringe-
worthy cliches.
When posting photos with women, avoid pictures with just one
girl as it may send the wrong message.
Other women may assume she's your girlfriend and lose
interest.
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Instead, aim for photos where women are leaning into you,
laughing with you, looking at you, or even giving you
something.
(You + 1 guy + multiple girls)
Also post pictures with your awesome social circle doing
awesome shit.
And finally- Do NOT put YOUR ENTIRE LIFE on Instagram,
but treat it as a SNEAK PEEK INTO YOUR LIFE.
Like a keyhole that a girl (and guys) see your life from- but
still need the keys (sliding into your DMs and meeting you)
to actually get the full treatment.
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Online Openers
Equally to face-to-face interactions, there’s no magical opener that’ll
make her panties drop.
Forget about it.
Lucikly there are several advantages to starting a conversation over
text, which may not be available in face-to-face interactions.
Unlike in-person conversations, where your primary objective is to
divert her attention until you can display your value, beginning a
conversation online offers distinct advantages.
When opening face-to-face, your entire goal is to grab her attention
long enough to display your value.
However, in the online world, before you even deliver your opening text,
she will 100% have already scanned through your profile, searching for
subtle clues to assess your value.
(Hence the importance of optimizing your profile)
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This means that you have already sold yourself before even
saying a word.
(If done right) this preconceived notion of your value will work to
your advantage.
Your profile is your first and only chance to make a great
impression.
Are you starting to realize the significance of optimizing your
profile?
It’s a make or break for your chances of making a lasting
impression.
Just consider the sheer number of average frustrated chumps who
are vying for her attention.
To stand out from the crowd, it is imperative that you take
advantage of every available opportunity to showcase your value,
and your profile presents an ideal platform to do so.
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Listen, women are beautiful but ruthless.
She will within 5 seconds categorize you, you’re either:
Potential partner/sexual partner
Friend zone
Creep
Most guys in 2023 fall into the latter category due to their lack of game
and understanding of female psychology.
So how do you end up in the ‘potential partner’ category?
She must sense that you have more value than her, just by looking at
your profile.
When it comes to opening itself- I have a strategic approach that
always works.
I like to funnel in girls who I meet through my social circle + content +
approaches into my Instagram.
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Once they follow me back, I send them a meme, quote, or
post related to something we have in common or a vibe we
shared.
This helps to build some rapport and create a connection.
I don't just randomly slide into a girl's DMs.
I wait for her to post a story and see what she's about.
The only acceptable way for me to slide into her DMs is
by replying to her story with a funny, cocky, or
charismatic remark.
I want to come across as a cool dude who's giving off good
vibes, so she knows about my existence in a positive way;
not as a needy bitch.
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Once we start exchanging messages, I focus on building a
back-and-forth banter and sharing reciprocity.
I mix in every "share" with some more conversation and
gradually work towards inviting her on a date.
In online dating, I believe in being direct and not wasting
time on girls who don't seem interested.
For example, I challenge her by saying: "Beauty is common,
what qualities do you have that make more than just a pretty
face in the crowd?" and a few texts follows it up with:
"You actually might be more than just a pretty face, what do
you think about cute boys and wine?"
After all, on Instagram, there are literally billions of women to
connect with.
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And if you refuse to take my advice on using Instagram as a dating app,
despite all I've just told you then here are a couple of openers for Tinder,
etc.
"You seem like the kind of girl I would have got detention in middle school
just to hang out with."
It's good because you accuse of her being naught (let's be honest; if she's
using dating apps then she's naught.) and it's easy to build upon- common
answer would be: "You seem worse" or "Nooo, I'm a good girl."
Another great one is: "You look like my future ex-girlfriend."
It's great because you're future pacing- that is, you're already discussing a
possible arrangement between the two of you, yet you're being detached by
adding "ex", it also adds an element of humor.
She'll probably reply with: "Oh, why's that? to which you can follow up with
another assumption: "Because you look like trouble, I try not to fall for it."
Keep it fun, keep it causal, you don't want to invest too much into it as it
gives you needy vibes.
Beyond Seduction - Mastering Texting Game: Online Openers
Setting Up The Date
Remember the goal of texting? To set up a date, you don’t want to
become her texting buddy.
This word-to-word sequence always works. Because it's so indirect, it
doesn't seem brash or imposing.
You: "Hmm...so what do you think of cute boys and vodka(/ or
wine?)"
Her: "Haha, I do tend to like both of those things."
You: "Well, it turns out I can get you both. You live in the (your city)
area?"
Her: "Why yes I do. How about you?"
You: "Yep, I know this really cool ( place to meet) that we should link
up at. It's the perfect spot to enjoy some good company and drinks.
What do you say?"
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And it doesn't have to be wine, could be an activity, whatever, doesn't
matter as long as there is a purpose behind the invitation.
Or else her bitch shield will get activated, and asking her to: "come
over" will only result in her thinking that you're taking advantage of
her, and she'll resent you.
If you're going to take that approach at least lower her ASD:
I told a girl I’m seeing, that my sex drive has been low lately. (Lied of
course) But asked her to come over.
She came and after about 5 mins, I started taking her clothes off.
She said: “I thought you weren’t horny”
Wettest pussy I’ve ever experienced.
Make her feel desired.
It's so easy guys.
Beyond Seduction - Mastering Texting Game: Online Openers
CHAPTER 16
MY REALIZATION:
A MOMENT OF CLARITY
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All rights reserved.
Cannot be reproduced in any manner, except for
brief quotations in book reviews, crediting the
author.
None of the content in this book should be
considered professional advice.
"Sex without love is as hollow and
meaningless as love without sex."
Brother,
As I said at the beginning of the book I've slept with tons of women as a result
of learning game.
Some of you might think that it sounds awesome, but sorry to break it to you,
it's not.
I've broken hundreds of hearts as a result.
Having the knowledge inside this book is powerful, and with great power
comes great responsibility.
You are now responsible for your impact.
When a woman trusts you enough to open her body, her emotions, her heart,
well.. that's a profound thing, and should not be taken lightly.
It's a good thing that you've set out on the journey of learning game, but if you
go down the 'pick up artist' route you'll quickly realize that you won't see
women as humans anymore, more like a doll.
An object to test your lines, and routines on.
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The beauty of her free feminine spirit will be lost in the dark cloud of
your hidden intentions.
Most of us enter the land of women because we are all searching
outside ourselves for our missing piece, but we are all looking in the
wrong direction.
If you go down the route of pick up artistry you'll lose your sense of
self, instead of finding it.
Sure, you'll get laid. But as the famous saying in The Wolf Of Wall
Street: "I've been a rich man, and I've been a poor man. And I choose
rich every fuckin' time."
likewise; "I've had sex with love, and sex without love. And I chose
sex with love every fuckin' time."
You'll quickly realize that sex without love is as hollow and
meaningless as love without sex.
Beyond Seduction - My Realization
I've learned the same lesson as every pick-up artist before me,
and the same lesson you will if you pursue this route:
The only way to win the game is to master it, then eventually
leave it.
If your intention with the knowledge inside this book is to lock
down one girl then I applaud you.
If your intentions are cum and run in every underground pub in
your city, then give it a second thought.
Sex in its purest form is the exchange of energies.
When you sleep around with messed up women with a dark past
you'll absorb their energy and it will stay with you for a long time.
I would recommend you use the knowledge inside this book as a
gateway to date around, not sleep around.
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Dating around and learning to know different girls on a deep level
will make you realize that no woman is perfect.
As a result, you can stop chasing this fairytale version of a girl
you have created in your mind; let me be blunt: she doesn't exist.
Your expectations of a woman will become realistic, allowing you
to finally form genuine, real relationships.
This is important because just as women are biologically
programmed to destroy the relationship men are biologically
drawn to seek new pleasures and adventure as a way to
reproduce.
Dating around prior to settling down will make it easier to avoid
the urge to adventure when it arises because you know there
isn't a perfect girl waiting for you out there.
Beyond Seduction - My Realization
When I started mastering game I couldn't maintain a relationship.
That is when I realized that all the techniques that are so effective in
beginning a relationship violate every principle necessary to maintaining
one.
In order to get a woman you need to be a cocky-funny, challenging, polarizing
'asshole.'
But in order to keep her around you need to be sincere, genuine, and focus on
building trust, and a deep connection while maintaining your dominant frame as
the leader of the relationship.
That is why most 'bad boys' can easily get into a relationship, but can't maintain
one.
And why most 'good guys' can't get in one, but easily maintain one (get'll get
pussy trance, unfortunately.)
The reason is simple: A woman needs to be attracted to you mentally,
physically, and emotionally in order to fall in love with you.
Bad boys don't attract her mentally, while good guys don't attract her
emotionally and physically.
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The key to actually forming a well-functioning relationship is, therefore, to
combine the attributes of the stereotypical bad boy with the stereotypical
attributes of a good guy, but still maintain the leadership of the
relationship without getting pussy trance.
Once I realized this I started focusing on not seeing the woman I was with as
an object, but rather focusing on the beauty of her soul, her values, her
stories, her opinion, her smile, her laughter, the glimpse of light in her eyes,
that is when I figured it all out.
I had an epiphany.
When I started building genuine rapport and caring about her on a deep level
I realized that women sense that in subtle ways.
They became completely irresistible drawn to me as long as I combined it
with the wild, unpredictable, polarizing, challenging, cocky-funny side I
acquired as a 'pick-up artist.'
In hindsight of it all, I realized that women simply love men they respect, men
who are lovers of women, men who understand chick logic, men who know
how to flick the right attraction switches while maintaining their masculine
frame, with no hidden intentions.
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Love is the most precious gift you can give someone.
The crux of my argument is that the real flex isn't that you've slept with
thousands of women.
The real flex is settling down with a beautiful, loving, feminine woman who
loves you, and only you, for who you are, whom you've built deep rapport
with, and whom nobody else can touch.
A woman you won't necessarily find attractive forever.
But a partnership where you both have the discipline and willingness to
love, despite nature's cruel way of destroying your relationship, is the real
flex.
Even though you wake up knowing each other's imperfections, each other's
vulnerabilities, each other's red flags, your hearts still overflow with the
certainty that you are each other's one, whom you desire to share your life
with.
That's a flex.
That's love.
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To those who bought Beyond Seduction: The Ultimate Edition, stay with me as we dive into part 3:
The Sex Playbook.
To those who didn't: You can get access to part 3 by going back to Gumroad and buying the
edition called: Part 3 ONLY: The Sex Playbook.
The Sex Playbook was released before Beyond Seduction, so to avoid that the owners of The Sex
Playbook had to pay for it twice I had to do it this way.
Throughout this journey, I sincerely hope I've transformed your perception of women, guiding you
toward a richer understanding of their so what 'perplex' minds.
Now, as we reach the end, all I ask for in return is your honest thoughts on the book, particularly
the parts that resonated with you deeply. If you could kindly return to the email you received after
purchasing and grant it a glowing 5-star review, it would mean the world.
As men, we have an unwavering duty to uplift one another, giving it a good review will do so that
the algorithms on Gumroad push it out to even more men, saving them a lifetime of pain and
misery by not ending up with women with massive Magic Pussy Syndrome who Pussy Trance him.
In unity, we stand as brothers, supporting and guiding each other toward a brighter, empowered
future.
Brothers help brothers.
Sincerely,
Your Brother,
-Unlimited Knowledge
Beyond Seduction - My Realization
PART 3:
THE SEX PLAYBOOK
BECOMING A SENSUAL VIRTUOSO
“Unveiling the depths of desire and
vulnerability within her soul.”
CHAPTER 17
SETTING THE STAGE:
INTRODUCTIONS AND FOREPLAY MASTERY
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Cannot be reproduced in any manner, except for
brief quotations in book reviews, crediting the
author.
None of the content in this book should be
considered professional advice.
"Foreplay is like a long, slow dance, where
you're both eager to take the next step but
want to savor every moment along the
way."
- Unlimited Knowledge
Introductions
Studies have shown that 58% of females aren’t sexually satisfied, it
has also shown that the average girl only reaches climax and
orgasm 20% of the time.
Those numbers are outrageous and catastrophic.
There are multiple reasons for this:
The majority of men settle with average, repetitive, boring
vanilla sex.
The majority of men lack sufficient knowledge about female
anatomy.
The majority of men simply use the female body as a way to
masturbate.
The majority of men struggle to truly satisfy women and their
needs.
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The main reason for divorces and break-ups is the infidelity of
women.
Female infidelity is driven by male sexual incompetence because most
men don’t know how to truly satisfy a woman.
Sex must be viewed as a privilege for the women, not a favor to you.
Sex isn’t something a woman gives and a man takes. It is something that
must be shared. It’s about the connection of souls, and the two of you
losing yourself in each other.
It’s about creating a vacuum where nothing else exists except the two of
you and your passion.
You pleasuring her, and her pleasuring you.
Arguably one of the most powerful forces on the planet is the human drive
for reproduction. We all think about sex on a daily basis, even women.
In fact, women think and crave sex even more than men, they just don’t
want to be pressured, lied to, or made feel like a slut.
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There are 8.001.931.998 billion people on Earth, and some men still
believe women don’t like sex?
It’s ridiculous.
Women love sex.
Women need sex.
Their world revolves around sex.
Once a woman is “unleashed” her physical needs are often more
ravenous than a man's.
It’s just certain barriers and programming walls to be overcome in
order for her to feel comfortable enough to surrender to them.
Bottom line: Every woman has a deep desire to be fucked into
oblivion, but they need a dominant, capable, masculine, competent
man to take the lead, if not they'll look for a more capable man.
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Foreplay is hands down the most overlooked part of
sexual intercourse.
Skipping foreplay is like going down a waterslide without
water.
It's boring, going to hurt, and wouldn't be a pleasurable
experience at all.
On the other hand, with the techniques you’re about to learn
she’ll feel like she's going down Niagara Falls.
She’s going to be so aroused that even the slightest touch
will send her to “orgsmland”.
Proper foreplay sets the scene for proper sex.
Make sure to have plenty of bed sheets & towels - this is
going to be a wet experience... for both of you.
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Foreplay is everything that happens before you start touching
each her vulva.
It's all about getting her in the mood and turning her on.
As a guy, you can get turned on pretty quickly just by seeing a
sexy woman, but women need more teasing and mental
stimulation.
She needs to be taken out of her logical mind.
That's why porn usage is male-dominant; because of our visual
triggers, while women are more likely to read erotica and watch
movies with sexual stories that let them use their imagination to
picture what's happening; due to their emotional triggers.
Fifty Shades, 365 Days, the list goes on...
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Sexual Response Cycle
The sexual response cycle refers to the sequence of physical and
emotional changes that occur as a woman becomes sexually aroused
and participates in sexually stimulating activities.
The sexual response cycle has four key phases:
1. Desire
2. Arousal
3. Orgasm
4. Resolution
Why am I telling you this?
Because you need to understand females on a deep level in order to
truly please them.
By learning what's going on in her body you can take complete control of
her orgasms, joy, and pleasure.
Before we take a deeper look into foreplay you must understand the
changes that occur in her body.
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Phase 1: Desire
Indicated by the following:
Muscle tension increases.
Heart rate quickens and breathing gets faster.
Nipples become hardened.
Blood flow to her vagina increases, resulting in swelling of the
clitoris and inner lips.
Vaginal lubrication begins.
Her breasts become fuller and the vaginal walls begin to swell.
This is the phase where she starts wanting to have sex with you.
Usually, this happens before you’ve even entered the bedroom.
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Phase 2: Arousal
Include the following:
The changes which began in “Phase 1” will get more intense.
The vagina continues to swell from increased blood flow, and the
vaginal walls can turn darker.
Her clitoris becomes highly sensitive (she’ll feel the slightest touch)
Her hands become sweaty.
Heavy & faster breathing - blood pressure continues to increase.
Muscle spasms begin in the feet.
Here’s the sad reality.
Most men aren't able to carry her beyond this stage.
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Phase 3: Orgasm
This phase is the climax of the sexual response cycle.
It's the shortest of the phases and generally lasts only a few
seconds, but the techniques you’ll learn in this course will grant
you access to a secret power.
The ability and competence to give her multiple orgasms in a
row, causing them to last for minutes.
Women completely lose themselves the moment they orgasm,
they disappear into another dimension.
It’s hard to understand if you’ve never made a girl cum before,
but once you’re done reading and applying the techniques you’ll
understand exactly what I mean.
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Phase 3: Orgasm
Include the following:
Involuntary muscle contractions begin.
Blood pressure, heart rate, and breathing are at their highest rates,
with a rapid intake of oxygen.
Muscles in the feet spasm.
There is a sudden, forceful release of sexual tension.
A rash or "sex flush" may appear over her entire body.
Her body temperature rises.
Her vaginal muscles contract like trying to grab your dick.
Her stomach will move up.
Her eyes will roll backward in delight.
Her legs will start to shake.
Heavy breathing/moaning.
Her asshole tightens.
*Take a screenshot or write down these points, they'll be extremely
useful once we get into edging and other techniques.*
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Phase 4: Resolution
This phase comes right after the orgasm ends, but she’ll still
be aroused.
During this phase, the body slowly returns to its normal level
of functioning.
She’ll often feel a sense of well-being but can also feel
fatigued and sleepy.
The techniques you’ll learn in this course will make you
capable of making her return to the orgasm phase and make
her experience multiple orgasms by edging and taking her
between the different phases;
giving her the best and most pleasurable experience of her
life.
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Prepare Your Place & Yourself
Sex is as much a psychological experience as it is a physical
experience for women.
Even the slightest distraction can turn her off and completely ruin
her mood.
Her emotions can change in a split second.
Therefore, always bring her back to your place, where there will
be no external distractions, and where all the focus is on the two
of you, and the wild sexual naked shenanigans you're about to do
with each other.
It needs to be sexual, romantic, and personal. Two souls
which connect, on a very deep level of intimacy.
As I said in part 2: “A woman needs to be comfortable before she
can even think about having sex with you.”
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Properly preparing your place will both show and convey
that you’re a safe, mature, classy man while having
takeaway boxes, clothes, and full ashtrays laying around
will immediately turn her off; causing her to walk out the
door.
Once she notices the class and hygiene you follow, she’ll
be willing to do more freaky things in bed.
She realizes that you’re a trustworthy and classy man.
Making her crave you even more.
In chapter 12: 'Sealing The Deal' I created a long list to help
you prepare your place & yourself for shenanigans that are
about to happen.
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Eliminate Her Insecurities
Let me tell you an untold secret about women.
They’re more self-conscious & insecure about their bodies than any other
creature on Earth.
Studies show that 80% of women aren’t satisfied with their bodies.
Even a small mole on their boob can be enough for them to not want to
undress.
As I say this you may think: “Fuck, that's going to make it even harder” but
that’s not the truth. You can use it to your advantage. Turn the “obstacle”
into an opportunity.
We all have insecurities, but have you ever been complimented on one of
your insecurities?
That shit makes your day, and you’re not going to forget that person. It's
basic human psychology.
Beyond Seduction - Setting The Stage: Eliminate Her Insecurities
So let’s assume that every girl is insecure about her body.
Imagine what you’re going to make her feel if you say:
“I should call the police, it should be a crime to wear clothes with a
body like that.”
She’s going to fucking love you, and she’ll suddenly want to undress to
receive even more compliments and positive feedback on her body.
It’s operant conditioning at its finest. It's like training a dog; give
it a snack and it'll do it again.
Compliments about how "she looks so sexy in that body" and "that
body should not be wearing clothes" will go a long way in establishing
comfort as well, which leads to more orgasms and better sex.
Keep on complimenting her body throughout, once she has taken off
her bra, say; "wow" with a genuine facial expression, then give her a
passionate kiss.
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In order for her to have sex with you, open up, let loose, and orgasm
she needs to feel a deep sense of emotional connection, intimacy &
comfort around you.
She also needs to feel like a beautiful, feminine, sexy woman as well as
feel unique and special, like she is the only woman you have in your
life.
Complimenting her on her body when it’s at its most vulnerable checks
all the boxes above.
It will also help you break through any last-minute resistance if it occurs,
but trust me, once you start with the foreplay routine there’s no way
back (for the both of you), you’re both going to be too fucking horny to
suddenly say “no”.
Rule Of Thumb: Compliments about her body = more secure and
comfortable = willing to undress further.
Here's another compliment you can give her, to take her over the top: "I
don't know what I did in my past life to deserve this, but I must have
been a good guy."
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Once she knows you are head over heels over her body she's going to be
much more willing to let loose, and she'll be 1000x more comfortable and
much more capable of having an orgasm.
Was just about to finish this chapter, but I remembered another great one.
I read it on a PUA forum a few years back and it works wonders, tell her:
"I hope you're not one of those girls that's too shy to take off your
underwear because you're not 100% clean shaved. Guys really don't pay
attention to that."
INSTANT COMFORT.
The only time you're allowed to be a simp is during foreplay.
The point of all these lines is to make her less insecure about her body.
We are most vulnerable when we are naked, if you compliment her when
she's at her most vulnerable she’ll fucking love you, and she'll be much
more open to completely submit to your lead.
Now it is time to dive into the good stuff, the foreplay act itself.
Let's dive deeper down the rabbit hole.
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Foreplay A-Z
This isn't going to be your “normal”, quick, impatient
foreplay.
This sequence will take 30 - 45 minutes and consists of
constant teasing; sending her over the edge before you’ve
even penetrated her.
This technique works wonders and has been battle-tested by
me, my friends, and several of the brothers in The Masculine
Alliance.
I could have charged $10.000 for this chapter alone, this
will revolutionize your life.
Let’s get into it.
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The Beginning
Once you're in the bedroom, push her gently but dominantly up
against the wall, with one hand behind her head, and one at her
waist.
Look her straight in the eyes and move closer to her lips, but don't
kiss her yet!
Stop right in front of her lips, then whisper;
"You have no idea how much I've had to restrain myself tonight" in
her ear.
(Especially if you met her at a bar and you're both drunk, she's
going to be wet only by hearing that one sentence.
Dirty talk is a must in order for her to be swept off her feet. Start
doing it during the foreplay so you can use more advanced lines
later on in the interaction.
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This is a good way to break the ice when it comes to dirty
talking, which can often be scary especially if you're new to it.
Then start kissing her slowly and passionately on the neck.
Start as far down on the neck as possible and work yourself
up against the ear.
Right below the ear is one of the most erogenous zones in her
body - so don't go there immediately.
Note- Tease and build up.
This pattern will repeat itself throughout this guide.
Always work yourself from the least erogenous zones to the
most erogenous zones.
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Once you've kissed the lower half of her neck for about
1-3 minutes, then move upwards and start to kiss her
right below the ear for 1-3 minutes.
Already at this point it's probably the longest foreplay
she's ever experienced, but you're just getting started.
Stop kissing her on the neck and act like you're about to
kiss her lips (stop 2 inches in front of her lips)
She's going to want the kiss so bad at this point, but
fortunately/unfortunately for her, she's going to have to
wait.
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She’ll probably have her eyes closed in anticipation of the kiss, but if
her eyes are open, stare her in the eyes and give her a cocky smile.
Take her hands and pin them above her head with one of your hands
(dominance).
Then start the "neck kissing routine" on the other side of her neck (for
another 5 minutes).
Her heartbeat will be so high and she's going to crave your dick at this
point. Nobody has ever made her feel like this before.
What you're doing is a push & pull, you're sort of switching between
different phases.
It doesn't only tease her, but it makes her body used to switching
between different phases - making it easier for her to orgasm again
after she's reached the Resolution phase - making it easier for you to
give her multiple orgasms and become her "best ever."
Anyway, let's continue.
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Lift her up as portrayed in the image below.
Except both of your hands should be under her ass (holding the weight)
and her back should rest against the wall.
This is sexy in itself, but will also make it easier for you to make a
smoother transition to the bed.
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After you’ve lifted her up, you can finally kiss her on the lips.
The sexual tension will be so high at this point, so don’t be surprised if it's the most
romantic, sensual kiss of her life.
Once 1-3 minutes have passed it’s time to continue the foreplay shenanigans in
bed.
Turn around and place one hand on her back to stabilize (as portrayed in the
picture on the previous side) and carry her over to the bed.
Either lay her or throw her on the bed.
The Middle
At this point, she’s laying on her back. Place your body in a position where you
don’t rest your body weight on her. It’s uncomfortable for her, and it's a common
mistake a lot of guys make.
Stand on your knees and place your hands on each side of her body, standing
over her on all fours, like a lion before he dominates his prey.
She finally thinks she’s about to experience your dick…
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…but not yet. Constantly tease her, so go back to the “neck routine” on
each side, but you can occasionally kiss her on the lips.
Do this for 5 minutes before taking it any further.
After 5 minutes of passionate kissing, look her in the eyes, and say
calmly, but confidently: “I am going to fuck you into oblivion today.”
You probably got hard just by reading that, just imagine how she’ll feel.
She’s going to cum just from hearing those words.
Next, kiss her from the waistline up towards her breasts. Pull her shirt
up as you go, once you reach right below her tits: tell her: “Turn
around” in a commanding way.
She’ll love it, a commanding man who knows exactly what he wants.
Then kiss her on the back/side of her neck and below her ears - from
behind for as long as you want. (at this point she should be laying flat
on her stomach with her face facing downwards
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Get her up on her knees, either command her or lift her up.
Regardless, tell her either: “Take your shirt off” or “Hands up” and then take her
shirt off yourself.
Don’t just take it off, this is a great opportunity to be vocal in bed, which adds a
whole new element to the sex.
Remember- Sex is as much psychological as it’s physical for women, being
vocal satisfy arguably her most powerful sexual organ, her brain.
Then command: “Lay down on your back.” or pick her up and lay her down
yourself. At this point, she’ll be dying to fuck you, and most men would give into
their urges, but you’re not most men. You’re a fucking strong, masculine, sex
god.
At this point, you can take off your own shirt (she’ll feel more comfortable, and
she’ll be turned on by your jacked physique)
Her pussy is so fucking wet, but go back to kissing her on the lips for a while
before you slowly work yourself downwards towards her waistline, but don’t kiss
directly on her tits yet, kiss in between her breast until you reach her waist.
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This is what’s going through her mind at this point,
SHE CRAVES YOUR DICK.
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The Big Finale
Then it’s finally time to take off her pants but stay away from her vulva
for just a little longer.
Start caressing her legs using your hand - slight, gentle & smooth -
which sends shivers down her spine.
Start from her feet on the outside of her leg, and work yourself up
towards her underwear (1), repeat on the other leg (2) then do the
same on the inside of her leg (3) and repeat on the other leg (4).
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Then do the same, except this time you’re going to kiss her. (follow the
same patterns as above, but instead of caressing with your hands, kiss
her.)
At this point, she’s definitely thinking you’ll start liking her pussy, but you
won’t. You’re making her earn it.
In the next phase, it’s finally time to remove her bra.
If you don’t know how to take off a bra, you can do 3 things:
Command her: “Take off your bra”
Watch videos on YouTube.
Buy a bra, or borrow your mom’s and practice.
You don’t want to fuck up here, women find it extremely hot & sexy when a
man easily takes it off:
“This man knows exactly what he’s doing, he has done this before, which
means other girls have wanted him, but now he's mine."
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At this moment she can begin to be impatient - all she wants in the world
is your hard dick deep inside her vagina.
Take off your pants, so you’re both only wearing underwear - command
her: “sit on my lap” or just physically place her there.
The point is to make her feel your hard dick pressing against her
dripping wet vagina. Make her feel how hard you are for her.
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This is the last phase of the foreplay, so take your time - tease
her as much as possible.
Now you should be sitting in the position pictured on the
previous side and can start kissing her breasts.
Same here as before, work yourself from the less erogenous
zones to the most erogenous zones.
Kiss her breasts in circles - as far away from the nipple and
slowly start to work your way towards it.
Repeat on the other breast, you can do this as many times as
you want - until even you can’t stand the teasing anymore.
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Note- Use your tongue on the nipples, don’t bite them (they’re
extremely sensitive at this point.)
Lift her up, lay her down on her back and kiss her breasts for
another minute before you slowly start kissing downwards toward
her vagina.
Once you arrive at the destination, do the same exact thing as
before - You’ve probably already guessed it - work yourself from
the less erogenous zones to the most erogenous zones.
Kiss around it, before you finally lick her dripping wet pussy.
The most amazing part?
You’ve just given her the hands-down best foreplay of her life
- without touching her pussy once.
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CHAPTER 18
ANATOMY OF PLEASURE
THE WONDERS WITHIN
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"Knowledge of the body, its functions, and its
pleasures is the foundation of self-understanding
and respect for others."
- Shere Hite
Female Anatomy Elucidated
This might be the most boring part of part 3, but damn - it’s
important.
Most men don’t know anything about her vulva & female
anatomy.
I’ve even gotten compliments from girls I’ve slept with on how I
found her clitoris, this means men she has slept with in the past
didn’t even find it…
It’s unacceptable.
In order to be a complete sex god you need to know your
way around the female body.
Let’s get into it.
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External Anatomy
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Vulva- The vulva is all genitals on the “outside” of her body: the
labia, clitoris, vaginal opening, and the opening to the urethra, etc.
While vaginas are just one part of the vulva, many people say
“vagina” when they really mean the vulva. But the vulva has a lot
more going on than just the vagina.
Vagina- Her vagina is the other area of her body, besides her clit
that is super sensitive and feels incredible for her when it’s
stimulated with your tongue, fingers, or dick.
The vagina is the opening where your dick goes in. Inside it, you’ll
find tons of good spots, like the g-spot and deep spot.
Clitoral Hood- The clitoral hood is the little flap of skin that covers
her clitoris.
It protects her clitoris from getting hurt and it’s basically the
equivalent of a man’s foreskin.
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Clitoris- Her clitoris is the most important part of her vulva when you
are eating her out, and fingering her.
It’s the most sensitive part, and basically the equivalent of a man’s
penis head.
As you can see in the picture, it’s located just underneath her clitoral
hood.
However, the clitoris extends far behind the surface. The clitoris is
actually 9 to 11 centimeters long in total, so you don’t necessarily
have to focus solely on the tip of her clitoris to provide her pleasure
when you lick or finger her pussy. (more on this later)
70% of women achieve orgasm through clitoris stimulation - so this is
hands down the most important part of her vagina.
If you don’t know how to find the clitoris, then click here.
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Labia Majora & Labia Minora- Her labia majora & minora are
the flaps of skin indicated in the picture that run along the
outside of her vagina (lips).
They begin at her clitoris and end under the opening of her
vagina.
As you can see, her labia majora is much larger than her labia
minora.
The sensitivity of these varies from woman to woman.
Some women will adore it when you lick their labia, while others
will be indifferent to it. Here, you’ll need to watch how she reacts
to in - then adjust and adapt.
Anyway, use this to your advantage and start licking her labia
once you are done with the “foreplay routine”, as it’s the least
erogenous part of her vulva.
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Urethral Opening- Her urethral opening is where she pees
from, so we won’t be paying much attention to it when eating
her pussy, fingering her, or fucking her, unless you have
some crazy fetish, but I don’t wanna know.
Anus- Her anus also possesses a lot of nerve endings and
can be quite pleasurable to have stimulated too if both of you
are into that shit.
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Internal Anatomy
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G-Spot- Her G Spot is located on the front wall of her
vagina about 2-3 inches or 5 - 7.5 cm inside the anterior
wall of her vagina.
(around the second joint on your middle finger)
The G-spot is an area inside her vagina where you can
access her clitoris internally.
If you’re using your fingers, feel for a place surrounded
by valleys, it will feel ribbed.
Her G-Spot won’t feel pleasurable to touch until she is
thoroughly aroused and horny, but that won’t be a
problem after you’ve done the foreplay routine.
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A-Spot- As you can see in the picture, her A-Spot is
located much deeper in her vagina on the anterior wall
by the cervix.
When stimulated it can lead to longer and very powerful
orgasms.
Unlike the G-sport, this area is smooth.
Using your fingers to reach her A Spot is difficult, but
your middle finger, nail down should reach it.
The A-Spot is also called the deep spot.
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Cervix- Her cervix is very sensitive, and while some
women love having their cervix stimulated during sex,
others can find it irritable or even painful.
Here, you’ll need to watch how she reacts to it - then
adjust.
Anus & Rectum- Her rectum is the area inside her anus.
Some girls love anal sex, being fingered anally, or being
rimmed, while others don’t.
You must talk to her about it and experiment.
Don’t try to force it in, that will ruin the whole experience,
and she’ll just remember you for the guy who tried to force
a dick up her ass.
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Warning: Anal sex isn’t like it is shown in porn.
They use ass-numbing creams etc.
Some pornstars have to wear diapers for days after an anal
scene.
Just imagine Lana Rhoades in a fucking diaper, ahhh. Fucking
hilarious.
Anyway, to have anal sex you’ll have to use tons of lube and
take it really slow, communicate with her as you go.
You want it to be a pleasurable experience for her.
Once you’re in, pause for a few seconds (she needs to get used
to having a dick up her ass), before you slowly start working it in
and out.
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CHAPTER 19
THE PSYCHOLOGY OF
FEMALE SEXUALITY:
NURTURING THE PRIMITIVE FEMALE WITHIN
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"Her body was an instrument, and the
notes she played were pure ecstasy."
- Unknown
The Benefits Of Female Orgasm
You’ve properly heard that some women are not capable of
having an orgasm.
Well, let me put that rumor to bed - it’s bullshit.
I don’t care what people have told you in the past, even if
you heard it from women.
Every woman is perfectly capable of experiencing an
orgasm(s).
The only reason why she hasn’t experienced it yet is
because her partner doesn’t have this course.
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The benefits of the male orgasm are clear.
Men must ejaculate to deposit sperm in the vagina, that's how
children are made.
It’s a clear evolutionary purpose for it.
Female orgasm doesn’t serve any important evolutionary purposes
in theory, however.
The pleasure it can cause will encourage females to have more
sex - which will result in the reproduction and preservation of our
species.
This is why sex is so enjoyable, nature wants you to have more of
it!
The benefits of being able to give girls orgasms are therefore:
More (pleasurable) sex = better sex-life = better relationships =
happier life.
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Break Through Her Barriers And Programming Walls
Every woman has that wild, primitive female inside her that just wants to
make love and nurture children - (also called femininity.)
Unfortunately, mainstream media, culture, and society have brainwashed
them, causing them to reject and hide those feelings deep inside
(madonna/whore complex), so you’ll need to help her bring them out.
You’ll need to take her out of her logical mind, and bring her to a “state of
mind” with only powerful emotions.
That’s what the foreplay routine is for, to captivate her attention and
replace whatever else is happening in her head with a stronger, sexier
signal.
If you do, those juices will start to flow and she’ll be way more receptive to
getting intimate and opening up.
Everything else, her work, problems, stress, - everything will be blocked
out.
All her focus will be on the two of you and the souls connecting
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You Must Be a Sexual Threat
In modern society, sex has become taboo.
This is due to social programming (they don’t want you to enjoy life.)
Young men and women consume this mainstream bs, causing men and
women to feel ashamed about their sexuality - which of course is wrong.
Sex is the most natural thing on Earth, more natural than grass, dirt, and
stone.
Without sex, the only living organism in the world would be fucking sea stars.
(They reproduce asexually - a great fun fact to tell women btw.)
There is nothing more natural than sex.
It's the celebration of life, of being naked in the beauty of your souls
connecting - she being the feminine complement to your masculine polarity,
and vice versa.
Everybody around you is there because of sex.
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Why am I telling you this?
Because you cannot be shy or stifled about sex if you want to pleasure her.
You must be a sexual threat (in a good way.)
Every word you say, every move you make, and every touch must come
from the underlying frame of being a sexual man.
You can’t be afraid of your masculine sexual presence - In fact, masculine
sexual presence is a huge turn-on for women.
You need to realize that she wants to be treated like the lady she is, by the
dominant man you are.
Doing this will make her more open to losing her mind and soul in the sex -
leading to more orgasms.
“Pleasure is a feeling of being taken past our limits, of being overwhelmed
by another person, by an experience.”
- Robert Greene
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Mindset
Women rarely initiate sex- unless you're a master at the game.
That's because women love to be desired and “seduced” by men. It makes her feel
feminine and beautiful.
Women want sex as much as men (if not more than men). They just don’t want to be
pressured, lied to, or made to feel like a slut.
This shouldn't be a problem, but it is. The ones to blame? Mainstream media and
AFCs.
Mainstream media has brainwashed them into believing that “loving sex = you’re a
slut” and average frustrated chumps who have pressured and forced them into
having sex with them.
This is why women are so closed off nowadays. ASD through the roof.
This is also why learning game and understanding the methods to remove that
societal brainwashing through deep rapport is so important.
As I’ve said before, sex is just as much a psychological experience as its a physical
experience for her.
The environment and the guy she’s with must make her comfortable. If she’s not
120% comfortable it won’t be a pleasurable experience at all.
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Their World Revolves Around Sex
We men are moved by our missions, goals, and purpose.
Sex is just a small part of our daily lives, agreed?
Good.
But women?
From a prehistoric and biological standpoint their world revolves
around love, sex, and nurturing.
Their world has revolved around love since the dawn of time.
They’ve always wanted to be ravished. They want to lose their
minds and soul in sex, but of course with the right man.
With the man who knows his way around the female body- who
knows all the spots, and has a deep underlying love and respect
for females.
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Women have been brainwashed, but men have as well.
Brainwashed into believing that you must behave and be within your
limits. That’s not true.
Deep down she wants to be fucked into oblivion, talked sexually to, and
dominated like the beautiful, feminine woman she is, by the strong,
masculine, alpha male you are.
Sex must be viewed as a privilege for the women, not a favor to you.
Sex isn’t something a woman gives and a man takes.
It is something that should be shared. It’s the connection of souls.
It’s about creating a vacuum where nothing else exists except the
two of you and your passion. You pleasuring her, and her
pleasuring you.
Your focus must be to give her the best time of her life, and she’ll do the
same to you.
Be the DOMINANT in the bedroom, she will automatically become the
SUBMISSIVE.
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CHAPTER 20
FINGERING AND
CUNNILINGUS MASTERY:
GOING INTO THE DEEP
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"Sexual pleasure is an awakening of the
senses, a symphony of touch, taste,
scent, sight, and sound."
- Unknown
Fingering & Cunnilingus Mastery
Fingering and cunnilingus are two of the most fun and pleasurable things
you can do to women.
Fingering is all about using your fingers to shower her with pleasure, while
cunnilingus is oral sex performed on the vulva and clitoris, which will make
her go absolutely crazy if done right.
And to those who don't eat pussy, well, you're missing out on huge
potential, and not only that. If you refuse to do it, you emotionally repel the
girl. If she doesn't feel sexy, it won't be a pleasurable experience at all.
But I get it, if it's a one-night stand I wouldn't go down on her either, but if
it's a girl you're in a long-term relationship with or a girl you want to build a
deeper emotional connection with: Go down on her!
But how do you do them properly?
Well, that's what I am about to tell you.
Grab your notebook, here are all the tips and tricks you need to master the
art of fingering and cunnilingus.
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The Pancake
This is an easy, but extremely fucking powerful
technique.
1. Start by sticking your tongue out of your mouth and drop
it down over your chin.
Relax it, and make it wide and flat.
Your tongue will be in this exact position throughout.
Don’t try to make any shapes with it.
Don’t curl it up. Don’t perform a flicking motion.
It’s important to keep your tongue relaxed, wide, and flat, to
ensure that you cover as much area of her vulva as
possible, giving her maximum stimulation to all the good
spots.
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2. Start with the base of your tongue at the bottom of her
vulva, then slowly move your head upwards from the
bottom of her vagina to the top so that your tongue moves
from the base until the tip of your tongue passes over her
clitoris.
If done right your tongue should be still, and your head
should do all the movement. The tongue should follow the
head.
Try it out now, and let me imagine how stupid y’all look
while licking the air;)
3. Once you reach her clitoris - pull away (don’t make
contact with her vulva on the way down), then start over
from the bottom & repeat.
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Important things to keep in mind- Don’t apply pressure, all
your energy should be going into keeping your tongue wide,
flat, and relaxed.
If you are not hearing, seeing, or feeling much of a reaction
from her (faster breathing, moaning, eyes rolling back, etc.)
then you can start to apply pressure, but with your neck.
But, the goal should always be to use the minimum amount of
pressure.
You should start by being light as a feather, so light that you’re
barely touching her.
Move as slowly as possible, but again - if you are not hearing,
seeing, or feeling much of a reaction from her, then try moving
your head faster.
The benefit of this technique is that your head is doing the
movement, causing you to be able to perform this technique
over a longer time.
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The Vortex
1. Start by making a small “O” shape with your lips.
Rule Of Thumb- The “O” shape should be a little bigger than her clit, but
again you’ll need to see how she reacts to it.
Every girl is different.
Some find it more pleasurable when you make a wider “O” and suck in her clit
- together with a large part of her labia and vulva. Some girls even like it if you
switch between the two.
But as always, listen to her body for feedback, then adapt.
2. Place this “O” over her clit and the surrounding area, then gently start
sucking it.
This will cause her clit to get sucked up into your mouth and will feel
extremely pleasurable for her.
Note- Do NOT bite her, only your lips and tongue should touch her vulva and
the surrounding area.
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Different Variations
Constant Vortex- Keep a constant level of suction.
You can start by doing this variation, most women haven’t experienced this kind of pleasure
before, so give her an introduction to this technique before escalating to more advanced
variations.
But again, women are different - for some women, this variation will be enough for her to
orgasm.
Rhythmic Vortex- Suck & Release.
When performing this you’ll be sucking and releasing the pressure rhythmically, pulling her clit
in and out of your mouth and releasing it.
Here you can switch between going slow and fast, or just keeping the pace steady. Up to you,
you’re the one in control.
Licking Vortex- Similar to a constant vortex, but when her clit is in your mouth you’ll be using
your tongue to massage her clit.
From personal experience: This is most girls' favorite, and if done right it will lead to crazy
orgasms.
Watch her eyes roll back in joy & pleasure, powerful stuff.
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UP, DOWN - SIDE, SIDE
The basic cunnilingus technique, but still extremely powerful.
What you're doing is flicking her clit with the tip of your tongue,
side to side and up and down.
This can either be done by positioning yourself between her
legs or beside her.
Anyway, this will make her go over the top and can be a great
technique to implement beside the vortex and the pancake to
spice it up with some extra variation.
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The Short Squeeze
1. Grab her clitoris between the tips of your forefinger and thumb.
Hold the entire length of the clitoris between your thumb and forefinger.
Remember- Her clitoris is extremely sensitive, this must be done
carefully and with ease. Too much pressure will ruin the experience.
2. Hold her labia open with the thumb and forefinger of your non-
dominant hand.
Use half-inch strokes with your dominant hand in a direction up towards
her stomach and down towards her vagina.
Move your thumb up and forefinger down, and vice versa, as if you're
rotating her clitoris.
Her clitoris is basically a small penis, therefore you can thrust it up and
down - basically jacking her off.
This will make her go absolutely wild if done properly.
Note- To perform this technique she needs to be warmed up and
extremely wet.
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The Straight Finger
Gently insert your middle finger into her vagina against the top wall (nail
down). Straighten your middle finger, and make it as long and hard as
possible.
Only make it straight and firm once it’s inside, inserting a straight and
firm finger will not be comfortable for her.
At this point, the tip of your finger should be as deep as possible.
Relax it against the top wall before you gently start moving the finger up and
down (pressure against the top wall), you can apply more pressure after a
while.
Eventually, you can start moving your finger in & out, slightly pushing it up
against the top wall.
This is such a powerful technique because women have 3 sensitive zones
at the top wall.
The bottom of the clitoris, her g-spot, and her a-spot (the deep spot). This
technique allows you to stimulate all 3 zones at the same time, making her
go absolutely crazy.
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Clit Clock- Imagine that her clit is a clock.
Gently use the tip of your tongue or finger and work yourself
around the “clock”.
Start by doing this after the “foreplay routine” before you
slowly start using more advanced techniques.
She’s going to be so aroused after the foreplay that even
the slightest touch on her clitoris will send her into oblivion.
Mix & Match- You can freely use these techniques
interchangeably.
Do the clit clock while stimulating her g-spot with your finger
or the vortex while doing the straight finger.
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Powerplay
Introducing some element of a power play when you’re eating her pussy,
fingering, or fucking her is incredibly hot - for both of you.
Tell her: “Do you trust me?”
Then pull out a bandana, tie, or anything that you can use as a blindfold.
Using a blindfold during sex will make her get even more heightened and
powerful orgasms because when one of our senses gets cut off our other
senses get reinforced.
You can intensify the powerplay by “choking” her (press on the sides of her
neck with the tip of your middle finger and thumb) and paint her reality.
Tell her verbally how much she loves it: "You love when I tie you up and
fuck you senseless, don't you?"
You can also pull out a handcuff or rope and tie her hands together - of
course with her permission.
Some girls love this, the feeling of being 100% submissive, in the control of
a dominant man.
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Come Hither Motion
This is the most used fingering technique of them all. The reason?
It's one of the best.
The motion is pretty much like scrolling on a PC mouse.
Grab a mouse, and turn your hand around, so your palm is up and the
mouse is flipped.
Then scroll the mouse wheel toward you with your middle finger.
That’s how it works.
Ahh, you’re looking so dumb right now, giving that mouse a real good
time ey?
Anyway, do this against her g-spot and apply pressure at the tip of your
finger. Start with one finger, after a while you can progress further by
adding your index finger, so two fingers.
Important- Instead of having your finger side by side, put them on top of
each other to hit the spots even harder.
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Different Variations
A-Spot orgasm: You can also use the “come hither” to stimulate her a-spot. Put a
pillow right below her ass.
This lifts the vulva up, so your hands will line directly with the a-spot, making it
much easier for you, and more pleasurable for her.
Your whole finger will need to be inside her.
Circular movement: You can “massage” the g-spot and the a-spot by moving
your finger in circles as you perform the come hither, women fucking love that.
Double Trouble: Rest your palm on her clitoris while performing the come hither,
but instead of moving your finger, move your whole hand up and down.
Keep your fingers still. Your fingers will press against her g-spot while the palm
stimulates her clitoris - stimulating them both simultaneously.
Don’t put much pressure on her clitoris, be gentle.
If you manage - try to move your hand in a “circle” as you go up and down.
Fucking powerful, this will make her go wild.
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How To Make Her Squirt
Squirting is when a woman releases a clear, fluid from her Skene's glands
during sexual arousal or orgasm.
You may have heard that not all women are capable of squirting but again,
it's bullshit.
Yes, some women find it easier than others, but it's not impossible.
It is not entirely clear why some women find it easier to squirt than others.
Many factors can affect a woman's ability to squirt, including her mindset,
level of arousal, and overall sexual experience.
Some women may simply have a naturally higher level of arousal, which can
make it easier for them to reach the point of squirting.
Other women may have to work harder to achieve the same level of arousal
and may need to engage in more intense or prolonged sexual activity in
order to squirt.
But of course, that won't be a problem after the foreplay guide.
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Her overall sexual experience and level of arousal won't be a problem after following
the steps in this guide.
If you follow this guide to detail and she still won't squirt, then her mindset is the
problem.
You see, when a woman is about to squirt it feels like she's about to pee.
Therefore, she tightens the muscles and doesn't let go.
This problem occurs because she's uneducated about her own body.
It's physically impossible for her to pee when she's turned on.
Just like it's impossible for you to pee when your dick is rock hard.
During sexual arousal, the muscles in the pelvic floor contract and puts pressure on the
bladder, which temporarily halts the urge to urinate.
Also, her sphincter muscle tightens so the urine cannot leave her bladder.
Note- Sphincter muscles are located throughout the body, and can be found
surrounding various ducts and openings.
In this case, I'm talking about the the sphincter muscles around the bladder, which
control the release of urine.
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To fix this issue; tell her to use the bathroom in advance and teach her what I've just taught
you.
*Yes, she'll be turned on even further if you teach her about her own body*
What Is Squirt?
The exact composition of the fluid produced during squirting isn't quite clear, and there is
still much debate among experts about its nature and origins.
However, studies have shown that the fluid produced during squirting is similar in
composition to prostate fluid in males.
This fluid contains high levels of glucose and prostatic-specific antigen (PSA), which is also
found in male prostate fluid.
Why am I telling you this?
Because a huge percentage of women also believe that the squirt itself is pee, which also
makes them really insecure and self-conscious about the idea of squirting and letting
themselves go.
If she hasn't squirted before you need to explain all this to her and make sure you get your
point through:
You find it sexy when she squirts, you want her to squirt and you want her to experience the
pleasure of it.
Note- Never be afraid to bring it up, you're already at your most vulnerable.
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The Process
The come hither is the perfect motion to make her squirt, especially if you use
"The Double Trouble".
Reminder of "The Double Trouble": Rest your palm on her clitoris while
performing the come hither, but instead of moving your finger, move your
whole hand up and down.
Keep your fingers still. Your fingers will press against her g-spot while the palm
stimulates her clitoris - stimulating them both simultaneously.
The Set Up:
She must be laying on her back with a pillow under her ass. (The pillow
should have a towel on top, this is going to be wet.)
Her legs should be widely spread and her knees should be bent so only the
underside of her feet, her back, and her ass touch the bed.
You should have the knee of your dominant leg between her feet and the
other on the outside of her feet, and support your weight with your non-
dominant hand
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How It Is Done
Note- She must be extremely wet before starting this process.
Insert your finger, support your index finger with your middle
finger so they're on top of each other, and rest your palm on her
clitoris.
Start pressing against her G-spot as you would with the double
trouble.
Pick up the pace, and just keep going.
Trust me, your arm is going to get fucked, it's a tiring process, but
push through the pain.
If it becomes unbearable then switch hands, but try to wait until
her first orgasm.
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Support Her
Even though you taught her what squirt is, and that she's
not going to urinate she might still be unsure about it since
it is completely new to her.
During the process, you'll need to keep reassuring her
with your support.
For example:
"If you can't hold it anymore just push it out with force, it's
going to be so sexy and pleasurable."
"Just let it go, it's not pee, squirt for me, it's sexy."
"You think it's pee but it's not. Trust me and follow my lead."
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Postprocess
It's important to tell her how sexy it was, and paint her reality:
"You loved it, that felt amazing, didn't it?"
Once the initial fear of squirting is gone she'll just want it more
and more.
Do some pillow talk, return to the foreplay process, or continue
fucking her.
Some women just want to relax after she has squirted while
others want to continue with the naked shenanigans.
But one thing is sure; once you've made her squirt she'll
not want to sleep with anyone but you ever again.
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What To Do When She Reaches Climax
Just like guys, most women have a refractory period when they
orgasm.
Her clitoris and vulva become ultra-sensitive, and when it’s touched,
it’s almost painful.
Instead, focus your attention elsewhere, kissing around her vagina,
and inner thighs, or go back to the foreplay routine.
Do whatever, except make contact with her clit and vulva.
After a minute or two, you can test how sensitive she still is by kissing
the bottom of her vagina and gauging her reaction. If she flinches,
then wait longer.
If she enjoys it, move higher and higher until you can touch her clit
and she enjoys it.
Any flinching on your way up and you’ll need to wait longer.
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CHAPTER 21
EXPLORING A NEW WORLD:
BECOME THE BEST SHE HAS EVER HAD
Beyond Seduction
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"The art of pleasure is the art of fully
experiencing and embracing the sensual
joys of life."
- Lebo Grand
Become The Best She Has Ever Had
As I’ve said earlier, there are two kinds of sex.
Boring vanilla sex, basically using the other person as a way to
masturbate.
99% of the population falls under this category.
And there is hot, passionate, wild sex; which I will teach you
now.
Nobody will ever tell you these tips and tricks, so let them stay
between you and me.
Our unfair advantage over 99% of men.
The Beauty of these tricks?
She’ll NEVER want to sleep with another guy again, because it
will lead to nothing but disappointment.
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1. Make Her Beg For Your Dick
Your first thrust is a sacred event.
Most guys just put their dick inside her as fast as possible, but
you’re not like most guys.
You’re a sex god.
You can delay instant gratification for long-term
satisfaction.
One of the reasons that the foreplay routine is so long is: She’s
literally going to beg for your elite dick, but since you’re the prize
you don’t want to give it away that easily.
All the way through the foreplay routine she’s just craving your
dick, but you (a high-value man) are making her earn the right to
experience your dick, making her want it even more.
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After the foreplay, eating her pussy, and fingering her it's
finally time for her to experience your magical dick.
But again, don’t give it to her right away.
Tease her even more.
Play with her clit with the tip of your penis, and drag it up
and down between her labia.
Rub the outside of her vulva with your dick.
Even give her false thrusts, pretend like you’re about to put
it in, even stick the tip of your penis in - then pull out at the
last moment.
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Note- Be prepared, at this point she will be so aroused that she’ll beg
you to fuck her, don’t be surprised if she grabs your dick and put it in
herself.
She's going to be craving and begging for it.
Along with that, command her & dirty talk -
"Tell me how bad you want it."
"Your pussy is so wet for me.'"
“You can’t wait to feel my cock slide in you, can you?”
“Beg for my cock”
*See “Unlimited “Dirty Talking” Knowledge for more lines and
information about dirty talking.*
Then finally, you can insert that hard cock of yours deep inside her
vagina and it will send her absolutely ballistic and give her an
experience out of this world.
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2. Your New Way Of Stroking
Let me change the way you stroke forever.
The technique you’re about to learn should become your
foundational stroke for the rest of your life.
Since you haven’t read this part yet, you probably stroke like
99% of men. In and out, in and out, normal boring vanilla sex.
If you haven’t caught on to it yet; most of the sensitive parts are
on the top wall of her vagina.
The g-spot, the bottom of her clitoris, and the a-spot are all
located at the top wall.
There’s nothing exciting on the bottom wall. (some spots, but
won’t dive into it).
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Therefore, I introduce to you: The Scooper
Instead of normal, monotone, boring, straight line, in and out
stroking, i want you to scoop up against her top wall, hitting
all the spots.
Press your dick against the top wall as you pull back -
touching all her spots with force, friction, and satisfaction.
Watch her eyes roll back in pleasure.
Put a pillow under her ass, the angle she’ll be at with a
pillow under her ass will be perfect for you, making it much
easier to hit the inside of her top wall.
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3. Edging
Edging is a powerful tool you can use to amplify her orgasms. You
can use it during sex or any other activity that can make her orgasm,
fingering, eating her pussy, etc.
When you can definitely tell she is getting close to climaxing (For
details, see “Phase 3: Orgasm” under “Setting The Stage”), start to
slow down, so she DOESN’T orgasm.
You can even tell her: “You need to deserve this orgasm.” with a
calm and dominant tonality.
Then spend twenty seconds to two minutes doing alternative
pleasurable, sexual activities that won’t make her orgasm.
Examples:
Kiss around her vagina.
Normal “in & out” vanilla sex type of stroking, at a slow pace.
The neck kissing routine from the foreplay sequence.
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Then, when she has calmed down just a little bit, return to eating,
fingering, or stroking her as normal.
*Normal means the techniques you learn in this course, that’s
the “new” normal.*
Do this until she’s about to reach climax again, then stop again and
spend time on other pleasurable, but non-orgasm-inducing activities
until she has calmed down.
Start again with your newly learned, powerful, godlike techniques
until she cums.
I can guarantee you that edging her like this will cause her to have
one of the most powerful orgasms of her life, if not the most
powerful.
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To take it a step even further:
When she’s about to cum tell her:
“Don’t fucking cum until I say you can cum.” in an “angry”,
dominant way.
Then tell her: “Don’t fucking cum, not until I say 1.” Then slowly
count down ”10, 9, 8, 7, 6, 5, 4, 3, 2…..1”
*boom, explosion*
Chances are high that she’ll squirt all over the fucking bed.
Just imagine doing this to a girl, you probably got hard just by
reading this, imagine how she’ll feel in that exact moment.
She’ll literally NEVER want to sleep with another man again.
Everyone after you will be nothing but a disappointment.
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4. Tease Thrusts
This powerful technique will literally make her beg for your dick.
It consists of 10 phases.
Let’s get into it.
Give her half-inch thrusts with just the tip of your dick.
This should be slow, in a very teasing way.
Do nine of these, but on the 10th go all the way in.
The first nine thrusts are just a build-up to the big finale.
Once you’ve rolled her eyes back in pleasure with the 10th thrust, go
back to half-inch thrusts, then do 8 of those, but on the 9th and 10th,
you should go all the way in, while using The Scooper.
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Then:
7-3
6-4
5-5
4-6
3-7
2-8
1-9
Once you’re done with one “cycle” you can do a repetitive cycle,
or just go with the flow and do some short strokes, then
somewhere you go all the way in no specific order.
The point is to tease her to the point where all she wants in the
world is to be deeply stroked by your dick.
You’re giving her something new, exciting, unpredictable, making
her feel something she’s NEVER felt before.
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5. Pairing
Women love penetration with clitoral stimulation.
Always look for opportunities to reach down and stimulate her clitoris with your fingers in a
circular movement.
Consistency is the most boring thing in bed, therefore you must combine all the techniques
above; teasing (short & long strokes), scooping, and edging.
6. Be Unpredictable
I’ll introduce you to four new techniques as well:
Hitting the sidewalls with your dick
Bring your dick up and down (while you’re inside her vagina.)
Doing a circular motion with your hips; so your dick hit all her walls and spots with force
and pleasure.
Deep and shallow thrusts with varying speeds.
Remember- 90% of guys are just in & out stroking (boring)
Just switching between these techniques itself will probably make her see you as her “best
ever”.
Imagine what the combination of dirty talking, the foreplay routine, eliminating her
insecurities, knowing your way around her body, and all the fingering and licking techniques
will do to her, it will literally send her out of this world, with tears of joy due to all the
pleasure.
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Sex Positions For Intense Orgasms
As I’ve said before, you need to be unpredictable.
The problem most long-term sexual partners have is that the sex
becomes very repetitive.
Bring in these exciting variations, take her by surprise and your sheets
will be covered in pussy juice.
The positions you'll learn shortly will also help you hit her spots even
better.
Note- Feel free to use the basic sex positions as well, missionary,
doggy, cowgirl, etc.
The list goes on…
The more variation, the better. Not just for her, but frequently switching
between positions will make you last longer as well.
Let’s get into it.
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The CAT
This is a face-to-face position, like missionary, but you need to ride
much higher than normal missionary.
Your shoulders and head should be about six inches higher up the
bed than normal.
What this does is that your penis doesn't go all the way into the
vagina. Instead, the stem or root of it is pulled hard against the
clitoris.
Stimulating her clitoris and the erogenous zones in her vagina at
once.
Making her go absolutely ballistic.
If she’s comfortable with it, rest your chest against hers, but if you’re
a heavy fella you’ll need to rest your weight on your elbows or palms.
This position will take her to the heights of ecstasy.
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The Spoon
In this position, you’ll need to lie side-by-side and you should be
curled up around her, penetrating her from behind.
The spoon position allows for a great deal of physical intimacy,
as there is full-body contact.
Wrap your arm around her and gently rub her clitoris in a circular
motion as you slowly penetrate her with your dick.
Double trouble.
Making her go absolutely wild.
This position can either be done in a slow, romantic, and
controlled way, or in a wild, fast, dominant way where you use
your second hand to choke.
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The Legs-On-Shoulders
She needs to lie on her back and you should be standing her
your knees.
Bring up her torso and legs and hold them tight so she doesn’t
fall.
Bring her knees towards your shoulders, and have her ankles
resting on your shoulder.
This makes your dick directly hit her G-spot as you’re thrusting in
and out, giving her an extreme G-spot orgasm.
*I drew this myself, don't
judge*
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The Splitter
Lie her on her back (either command her or physically move her) while you
kneel in front of her.
Take one of her other legs and lift it up into the air so that it rests on your
shoulder.
This is a powerful position because of the alignment of your body, your dick
will be able to get in nice and deep, hitting her deep spot.
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The Crossed Legs
Command her or lay her down on the edge of the bed (Her legs
should be hanging over the edge.)
You should be standing on the floor.
Lift her legs up in the air, and cross them over each other to make an
“X.”
Place her ankles on your shoulders or balance them by holding them
up against your body.
This position is optimal for hitting the G-spot, due to the alignment of
your bodies.
(Just like “The Legs-On-Shoulder”).
But this one adds another element of pleasure because of the
crossing of the legs which makes for a very tight fit, which is
extremely pleasurable for both of you.
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The Bridge Of Orgasm
Get into basic missionary.
Then sit up so you’re sitting on your ankles with your knees spread apart.
She will be laying on her back. Make her keep the underside of her feet flat on
the bed, and arch her hips up so she’s in that bridge position.
From there, grab her hips for leverage as you thrust into her.
This position is not only great for deep stimulation and hitting the G-spot, but
her clitoris is right there for easy access.
You can easily stimulate her clitoris with one hand as you simultaneously give
her an amazing time with your dick.
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CHAPTER 22
WHISPERS OF PASSION:
UNLIMITED “DIRTY TALKING” KNOWLEDGE
Beyond Seduction
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None of the content in this book should be
considered professional advice.
"Dirty talk is the art of verbal seduction, where
words become whispers of desire, igniting a fire
of passion in the depths of the soul."
Introductions
First of all: I don’t like the phrase “dirty talk” since there is nothing dirty
about sex, or talking about sex.
Alas, this is what people call it, so for clarity I have to meet society
where it’s currently at.
It should be called sexual talk or erotic talk.
Sex is the most natural thing on Earth, it should be looked at as “dirty”.
Anyways, dirty talk can feel like walking through a minefield if you’re
new to it.
Most people feel completely embarrassed and ridiculous by the thought,
but that’s because they’ve never been taught the basic guidelines;
Which is exactly what I am going to teach you in this chapter.
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Some of you love dirty talking, while some of you might think:
“Fuck this chapter, there’s no way in a million years, I’m NEVER
going to try dirty talking. It’s cringe.”
That’s fine by me...
...BUT you’re missing out on an unlocked superpower:
Giving an advantage to all the guys who ARE willing to dirty
talk and you’re missing out on a HUGE opportunity to make her
feel desired and open up.
Remember when I said sex is as much a psychological as it's a
physical experience for women?
Use it to your advantage;
stimulate her brain and she will cum just by thinking about your
words.
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Women are aroused through the imagination.
This is why erotic books like 50 Shades are infamous smash
hits among female readers.
Meanwhile, guys are dominating porn usage because their
arousal has more direct visual triggers.
Dirty talk is an often overlooked but compelling aspect of
eroticism.
It activates the imagination, supercharges sexual polarity, and
adds a steamy air of liberation to your naked shenanigans.
Dirty talking intensifies the connection of souls, making the sex
much more intimate and personal.
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Common Mistakes
The most common mistake is being childish about it. Laughter kills sexual
tension, you shouldn't be laughing during sex.
Stop giving your dick or other body parts nicknames as well.
Don’t moan. The only noise you should be making in bed is sexual words.
A woman moans, and a man paints pictures in her head through sexual
words. Masculine-Feminine Polarity.
Sex is, on a very deep level, about the synergy of masculine and feminine
energy.
The masculine energy = dominating.
The feminine energy = submitting.
Stop asking her: “Do you like it?” It’s a TURN-OFF.
Analyze her body language instead, you’re a SEXGOD- you know your way
around the female and the signs she gives when she enjoys it. (Eyes rolling
back, moaning, her vagina contracts against your dick, etc.)
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What You Should Do
I know it’s hard for a lot of guys to do this.
The idea terrified me in the beginning as well.
The simple act of opening your mouth and letting these words fall out can
feel like standing on the edge of a cliff.
That paralyzing feeling of risk is often generated by a fear of negative
judgment from the girl.
Your mind locks up because it thinks it’s unsafe to go where you’re going,
and wants to protect you from messing up and ruining the girl's positive
image of you.
When in fact, that’s not reality at all. Reality is; she wants you to be vocal,
she’s supporting you.
Once you manage to ingrain this mindset dirty talking will become 10x
easier.
The cliff won’t feel so high anymore.
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Whether you’re feeling this resistance or not; you should always
use lighter phrases to warm her up.
Starting with: “My dick was made for your tight little pussy.” will
make her think: “wtf is this”.
You must start slow, with lighter phrases, and ease into it before
you eventually use stronger and more erotic lines.
If you think about it, the same rule applies here.
Remember when I said, “Always work yourself from the least
erogenous zones to the most erogenous zones.”
Here’s another rule: Always use lighter phrases first, before you
build up to stronger ones.
Build-up is everything.
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If you’re feeling resistant to dirty talk, a great way to overcome
that fear is to begin being vocal even before you get intimate.
(You can do this even though you’re not feeling resistance.)
For example: When you arrive at your apartment and you’ve
kissed her, say:
“You look so fucking sexy tonight.” or “Everything about you
turns me on”
These lines aren’t as rough as the more hardcore lines we’ll
talk about later.
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Check In On Her
As I’ve said before, most guys settle for boring vanilla sex, so most
girls haven’t experienced dirty talking before.
Therefore, when dirty talking always check in on her.
She needs to be following along.
You’ll need to see if she is receptive to it or not.
Dirty talking can’t be a one-way thing.
Both of you need to be involved.
Example:
During the “foreplay routine” tell her: “You want my dick so bad right
now, don't you?”
If she doesn’t respond, tell her: “Tell me how bad you want it.”
Once she gives a response you can start using stronger lines.
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6 Different Categories
We can divide dirty talking into 6 different categories:
Build-up, deep emotional connection, describing, painting her reality,
dominance, and instructions.
When dirty talking: always whisper those dirty lines into her ears or look
deeply into her eyes like you're staring into her soul.
This will help her submit herself completely to you.
Your voice should be calm, but also assertive and dominant.
You should have a sexual tonality.
Remember- The best dirty talk is authentic and comes from a place of desire
and passion.
Don't be afraid to let her know exactly what you want and how she makes you
feel.
Let's get into it.
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Build Up
Getting her ready for stronger lines + breaking the ice +
getting her out of her logical mind.
Examples:
“You’re so sexy right now.”
“Your ass looks lonely without my hands on it.” (this one
has a sense of humor to it, so only use it during the build-
up.)
“I should call the police, it should be a crime to wear
clothes with a body like that.” (same here, only use during
build-up)
“You’re about to experience something amazing.”
“You want this so bad, don’t you?”
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Deep Emotional Connection
Creating a bond between the two of you- making sure there’s
nothing to hide.
Examples:
“Everything about you turns me on.”
“I want you right now.”
“You’re so sexy,( hot, etc.) right now”
“Just your presence turns me on, what have you done to
me?”
"I want to explore every inch of your body."
"You make me so fucking hard."
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Describing
Verbally telling her what's going on, stimulating her most “powerful”
sexual organ- her brain.
Actively use words like: “pussy, mine, sexy, ravish, wet, etc.
Examples:
“I love the way you suck my balls.”
“I love the way you’re sucking my hard dick.”
“Your body/pussy tastes amazing.”
“You’ve been dreaming about a dick like this, huh?”
“I swear to you, I won’t stop until your legs are shaking and the
neighbors know my name.”
*anything you’re doing* “I love eating your wet pussy, etc.
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Painting Her Reality
Extremely powerful, you’re basically making your words come true, simply by
saying them.
It also makes her more confident, and comfortable while it also turns her on.
Examples:
“Your pussy is so wet right now.”
“Your mouth my made for my dick.”
“Your pussy was made for my hard cock.”
“You’re such a horny girl, aren’t you?”
“You’ve never been fucked liked this before.”
“Your pussy loves my dick.”
“This isn’t a dream, your pussy loves this.”
"I'm going to make you scream with pleasure."
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Dominance
A huge TURN ON for her.
It allows her to completely submit to you.
It’s all about controlling her pleasure and being in full control.
Examples:
“I am going to fuck you senseless.”
“I am going to fuck you into oblivion today.”
“Your tight pussy is mine, where- and whenever I say so.”
“I am going to take you from behind and fuck you senseless.”
“I can’t wait to slide my big cock, inside your tight pussy.”
"I'm going to make you come over and over again."
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Instructions
Telling exactly what you’re going to do to her + telling her what to do.
Examples:
“Spread your legs for me.” Sit on my lap.”
“Lick my balls.”
“Turn around.”
“Tell me how much you love my dick.”
“Moan louder.” “Ride my dick until I say stop.”
“Suck my hard cock.”
“Say my name.”
“Tell me how much you love my cock/being “Tell me your pussy belongs to
fucked by me.”
my big dick.”
“Don’t dare cum yet, not until I say so.”
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CHAPTER 23
THE FINISHING TOUCH:
PERFORMANCE ENHANCING TRICKS
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"Dirty talk is the art of verbal seduction,
where words become whispers of desire,
igniting a fire of passion in the depths of the
soul."
Performance Enhancing Tips & Tricks
"Success is found within your daily habits.”
When I am talking about success I am not only talking about
money & business.
I am talking about every aspect of life, game, longevity, health,
physique, mentality.. the list goes on.
$100.000.000 in the bank won’t matter if your health is not
in place.
Why am I mentioning this?
Because the following factors can decrease sex drive and
testosterone in men which generally speaking is already on a
decline:
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Excessive weight
Poor diet
Little to no exercise
Poor sleep habits
Dehydration
Overconsumption of caffeine and alcohol
Good habits positively impact all aspects of life, while bad habits
negatively impact all aspects of life.
You need a high-sex drive to be a sexual man.
To maintain a high testosterone level you’ll need to implement
good routines:
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Regularly drink water. About 16 cups or 4 liters a day.
Buy a 1-liter water bottle and bring it along wherever you go. Refill it 4
times a day and set yourself a time constraint to drink up.
Work out and follow a training program.
Train at least 4-6 times a week. Lift weights, but remember to do your
cardio.
Excessive weight can lead to a decrease in sex drive while lifting
weight leads to an increase in testosterone = a higher sex drive.
Follow a proper sleep schedule.
Go to bed and wake up at the same time every day- sleep at least 7
hours, but nothing more than 8 hours. You’ve shit to get done, your
time is valuable.
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Stay true to a diet, and implement “foods of the goods”.
Foods that increase your testosterone production and help dilate
the blood vessels (more blood flow to your dick, which gives you
harder and “longer-lasting” boners.)
Doing this doesn't only help you perform better in the bedroom right
now, it’s also a way to sustain a robust sex drive throughout a
lifetime.
Once a man hits his 50s, he is no longer physically designed to
reproduce, and therefore he experiences a natural decrease in
testosterone.
You don’t want to be 50 and sit there with a sloppy dick that doesn’t
work. You still have 40 years to live…
“By failing to prepare, you’re preparing to fail.”
-Benjamin Franklin
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Foods To Implement
Note- Only eat this in “healthy recommended amounts”
Avocados- They’re great because it’s packed with heart-
healthy fats, vitamin B6 and folic acid.
Avocados help fuel the body and increase energy = lasting
longer.
Vitamin B6 helps hormone production in men, which is key for
a strong sex drive.
Being rich in unsaturated fat and low in saturated fat makes
avocados an ideal aphrodisiac.
As a food that’s good for both the heart and the arteries, it will
help keep the blood flowing to the spot you want… your dick.
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Watermelon- Watermelon contains an amino acid called citrulline, which is
converted into arginine in the body.
It helps you get a harder erection because it dilates and relaxes the blood
vessels, making it easier for blood to flow into the penis- it’s just like the basic
effect of Viagra.
An increase in blood flow = Stronger erections
Spinach- Contains tons of nitric oxide which helps arteries expand and fill up
with blood.
Seafood- Oysters, caviar, and lobster are rich in zinc and vitamin B6, both of
which are vital for testosterone, without which you’d have the sex drive of a
dead slug.
The omega-3 fatty acids in oily fish make the blood less sticky, enhancing blood
flow to your dick.
A lot of fish, especially fatty/oily fish like; tuna, salmon, and mackerel are high in
magnesium.
Magnesium boosts your testosterone levels.
It helps your body process nitric oxide, which helps relax muscle tissue inside
your cock and encourages blood to flow into it.
Beyond Seduction - The Finishing Touch: Performance Enhancing Tricks
Blueberries and oranges/orange juice- They’re packed with
flavonoids.
This makes them one of the best foods for handling erectile
dysfunction.
Flavonoids encourage blood flow, which allows your dick to
become engorged after it’s been stimulated.
Nuts- When bad cholesterol gets stuck in your arteries and blood
vessels, it blocks blood flow to your organs, including your dick.
Almonds, walnuts, peanuts, and other varieties of nuts are rich in
high-density lipoprotein (good cholesterol) which absorbs bad
cholesterol and carries it back to the liver, where it breaks down
and get discarded as waste- giving you an increase in blood flow to
your dick. (stronger & harder erections)
Beyond Seduction - The Finishing Touch: Performance Enhancing Tricks
Beef- Beef is a great testosterone booster.
It has tons of zinc, but it also contains an amino acid called leucine
which improves your testosterone levels and increases your sex drive.
Win-Win-Win.
Multi Tablets with Vitamins & Minerals- All the goodies in one
tablet, Vitamin D for sexual function, Vitamin E for healthy sperm
count, Vitamin B3 for energy, and Zinc for testosterone... the list goes
on.
Take one tablet each day.
Note- Don’t replace the foods I mentioned above with these pills, you
must take them in addition to your healthy meals filled with food of the
goods.
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Stronger & Harder Erections
Your PC muscles are the muscles that support your bladder and
rectum and help control your urine flow.
The PC muscles are instrumental in erectile function, stamina, and
ejaculation quality, and should therefore be trained.
There are multiple reasons for you to train them;
Stronger erections
More intense orgasm and force of ejaculation
Stops premature ejaculation
Lasting longer
Lessens the urge to urinate frequently.
Beyond Seduction - The Finishing Touch: Performance Enhancing Tricks
You should train them even if you can’t relate to these issues because you will when you
get older.
When you’re young, your PC muscles are typically taut and robust, but as you age, they
will become weakened.
Again, you don’t want to be 50 years old with a non-functioning penis and piss your pants
because your PC muscles are weak.
1) First, you need to locate the PC muscles, this can be done by stopping your urine flow
midway through a piss while concentrating on the muscles you use to squeeze the flow.
2) Once you’ve located it you’ll need to find a chair and sit down. Start contracting the
muscle and hold it for 3 seconds, before you slightly push out for 3 seconds (imagine that
you’re taking a shit)
3) Rest for 3 seconds, so 1 repetition is 9 seconds (3 seconds while contracting, 3
seconds while pushing out, and 3 seconds rest.)
4) Do 10 repetitions, then take a 2-minute break.
5) Do this 3 times (3x10), twice a day- 60 reps daily.
6) Once you’ve mastered the technique, you can start to hold and push out for longer.
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Impeccable Ways To Last All Night Long
She wants you to fuck her and give her endless orgasms all night.
At this point in the course, you almost possess all the powers to
fulfill her wishes, except one.
All the things you’ve learned in this course will be useless if you cum
the second you put your dick inside her.
(well, that’s a lie, because the foreplay sequence itself is the most
pleasurable experience of her life, but you get the point.)
You’ll be an “incomplete” lover if you can’t last longer than 2
minutes.
This final chapter will give you the final piece to the puzzle, making
you the complete lover.
A masculine force of sexuality that she simply cannot resist.
Beyond Seduction - The Finishing Touch: Performance Enhancing Tricks
Fuck More- If you have just started having sex, it’s still something “out of
the ordinary for you”.
Just like for example alcohol and training: You’ll build a higher tolerance,
the more you drink.
You’ll get stronger, the more you work out.
Sex works the same way.
The more you fuck, the longer you’ll last.
Stop-Start Method- It consists of having sex in fit and starts: thrust a few
times, then stop.
Thrust a few times, then stop.
It works, but if you don’t do anything during the stops, it makes the overall
sexual experience less natural and passionate, and it could be harder for
her to reach an orgasm.
Either add some position switching, fingering, or eating her pussy during
the “stops” and it will work wonders for you (and her)
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Go Into Your Logical Mind- Be careful with this one. It basically
contradicts everything I’ve written in this course, taking attention away
from your souls connecting, but desperate times call for desperate
measures.
Take your mind off the sex with deeply un-arousing thoughts. You will
reduce the pleasurable sensations you are experiencing and it will make
you last longer.
Note- Only use this technique if cumming quickly is a huge problem for
you.
UNO Reverse Card- An old classic that most men have used.
This is a technique you use to overcome those key moments when you’re
almost about to cum.
Stop doing activities that stimulate your dick and focus attention
elsewhere.
Slow down, change position, squeeze your dick or go over to oral; do
whatever it takes to reject ejaculation.
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Switch It Up- It’s reductive to think of sex as just penetration,
you already know this.
Sex is so much more.
Switching between thrusting, eating her pussy, and fingering
her doesn’t only help you last longer, but add’s an element of
surprise to the sex.
You can for example:
Eat her pussy for 2 minutes, fuck her for 2 minutes, then finger
her for 2 minutes, then kiss her (neck, lips, and tits) for 2
minutes, then fuck her for 2 minutes.
That’s 10 minutes right there.
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Switch It Up- Slow Down (Alternate thrust speed)- Porn
misrepresents sex and portrays it in a bad way.
You don’t need to thrust her with breakneck speed all the fucking time,
slow down.
Do it romantically.
*But of course, sometimes go all out and fuck her so the whole city
hears her scream your name, but there needs to be a balance.*
Switch between paces, but remember; a slower rhythm stimulates the
tip of the penis less, allowing you to last longer, while a quicker tempo
overloads the tip of your penis with stimuli; which leads to inevitable
ejaculation.
“The flame that burns twice as bright burns half as long.”
- Lao Tzu
Remember to control your breathing and occasionally do some pillow
talk.
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Closing Words
Congratulations!
Doesn’t it feel good to know that from now on you can look every woman deep in the eyes, and
think: “She has no idea what I can do to her, she would NEVER want to sleep with another guy
except me if I had her in my bed for 5 minutes.”
That’s the ultimate masculine frame.
As you now venture out on the journey of mastering game, remember that it will take time.
Trust the process. I would highly recommend you read through this guide again as I am certain
that you missed a lot of my points.
With the amount of information inside this course, it's literally impossible to remember it all by
reading through it only once.
Finally, as I said at the end of part 2, all I want in return for sharing all my secrets is your honest
review of the book sent to me on mail, Instagram, Twitter, or Telegram, and make sure to go
back the email you received after purchasing and give it a 5-star review.
If you possess any burning questions that you believe this book has left unanswered, do not
hesitate to get in touch with me, preferably through Instagram DMs.
Good luck on your journey, I'll be with you every single step of the way.
Your brother,
-Unlimited Knowledge.
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