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 Mind Platter
Voices of Resilience: Reflections on Life's Unseen
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About the book
From acclaimed Lebanese-Canadian poet and speaker Najwa
Zebian comes a newly revised and expanded edition of her
debut collection, *Mind Platter*. This poignant compilation
offers over 200 reflections that capture life's complexities
through the lens of an educator, student, and human being who
once navigated silence in her early years. Arriving in Canada
from Lebanon at the age of sixteen, Zebian articulates the
experiences of feeling out of place and unheard, resonating
with anyone who has felt mistreated or overlooked. Covering
themes such as love, friendship, hurt, inspiration, and
integrity, *Mind Platter* invites readers to find their own
meaning within its pages, serving as a voice for the voiceless,
a source of comfort for the weary, and a reminder of the
strength we all possess to shape our own destinies.

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About the author
Najwa Zebian is a Lebanese-Canadian author, speaker, and
educator whose love for language emerged early through her
exploration of Arabic poetry and literature. Her formative
years were marked by a quest for belonging, a search that
deepened upon her arrival in Canada at the age of sixteen.
Despite feelings of instability in a new environment, Najwa
pursued her education, ultimately becoming a teacher and a
doctoral candidate in educational leadership. Her journey back
to writing was ignited by her first students, a group of young
refugees, prompting her to express her own healing journey
through poetry and prose. Since self-publishing her debut
collection in 2016, Najwa has resonated with millions around
the globe, establishing herself as a powerful advocate for
women and a voice for those facing displacement,
discrimination, and adversity. Her work encourages others to
cultivate a sense of home within themselves, inspiring them to
live, love, and create without fear.

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Summary Content List
Chapter 1 : Wholeheartedness

Chapter 2 : Common Sense?

Chapter 3 : No One’s Watching

Chapter 4 : An Enigmatic Feeling

Chapter 5 : Be the Master

Chapter 6 : The Nature of Life

Chapter 7 : Silver Lining

Chapter 8 : A Wish Come True

Chapter 9 : Life, Simplified

Chapter 10 : Goodness Gone Wrong?

Chapter 11 : Be Sensitive

Chapter 12 : Decide

Chapter 13 : A Battle to Win

Chapter 14 : The Language of Silence

Chapter 15 : The First Step

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Chapter 16 : What Would You Do?

Chapter 17 : Educate Me

Chapter 18 : Past What You See

Chapter 19 : It's You

Chapter 20 : The Stars Within

Chapter 21 : Reframe Gratitude

Chapter 22 : Moonless Nights

Chapter 23 : How Dare You

Chapter 24 : Clarity

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 Chapter 1 Summary : Wholeheartedness

Key Ideas Description

True Risk A meaningful risk is undertaken with conviction, not from external pressures.

Hope in Risks Taking risks with hope can lead to significant milestones in life.

Outcome Reflection A positive outcome validates the risk; a negative one encourages reassessment.

Learning Opportunities Every experience should be seen as a learning opportunity rather than wasted time.

Re-framing Viewing disappointments as learning experiences enhances personal growth.

Disappointments

Negativity vs. Positivity Focusing on negative experiences can increase negativity; turning them into lessons fosters
resilience.

Growth through Mistakes Mistakes are significant but constructive, contributing to personal growth.

Wholeheartedness

A true risk is only meaningful when it is taken with genuine

conviction and not due to external pressures. Choosing to
take risks with hope can lead to significant milestones in
one’s life vision. If the outcome is positive, it validates the

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choice; if not, it prompts necessary reflection and
reassessment of future risks.
Every experience is a learning opportunity and should not be
viewed as wasted time. Disappointment only feels like a
waste when it stems from unproductive efforts. By
re-framing disappointments as learning experiences, we can
enhance our personal growth.
Focusing solely on forgetting negative experiences can lead
to greater negativity in life. Instead, transforming each
negative event into a positive lesson fosters resilience and
enables a shift in perspective towards recognizing the
positives. Building a repertoire of good experiences stems
from the understanding that while mistakes can feel
significant, they ultimately serve as constructive experiences
that contribute to our growth.

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Example
Key Point:Transforming Negative Experiences into
Learning Opportunities
Example:Imagine you failed to land your dream job
after an intense interview. Instead of sulking in
disappointment, you choose to reflect on the experience,
identifying your weaknesses and understanding what
you can improve. Perhaps you realize you didn't
articulate your achievements well, or maybe the position
wasn't the right fit for you. Embracing this setback as a
lesson allows you to refine your skills and approach
future interviews with more confidence. Therefore, each
time you face a setback, you see it not as a defeat but as
a stepping stone towards your ultimate goals, paving the
way for personal growth and resilience.

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Critical Thinking
Key Point:Wholeheartedness in risk-taking
Critical Interpretation:The chapter emphasizes the
significance of taking risks grounded in personal
conviction as opposed to succumbing to external
pressures. While this notion advocates for authenticity,
it's important to critique whether all risks taken with
such conviction inevitably lead to positive growth.
Some psychological studies suggest that not all
risk-taking results in beneficial outcomes; for example,
the article 'Why We Take Risks' by John McGinnis
highlights the complexity of human decision-making
under risk, proposing that outcomes are often
unpredictable and are influenced by various cognitive
biases. Therefore, while the author encourages viewing
disappointments as learning opportunities, one must
question if such an optimistic reframing always applies,
especially in situations where risks may lead to
detrimental consequences.

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 Chapter 2 Summary : Common Sense?

Section Summary

Common Common sense is often confused with good sense, causing conformity to societal norms based on superficial
Sense? criteria like beauty and money. This leads to followers waiting for leadership on moral issues rather than taking
independent action.

True A true leader fosters critical thinking and independence among followers, encouraging them to think for
Leadership themselves. Blindly following can lead to a loss of personal judgment and accountability, making individuals
depend on others' beliefs.

Common Sense?

We often mistake common sense for good sense, conforming

to societal expectations and rankings based on beauty,
money, power, and status. This mindset leads us to follow
others’ beliefs rather than our own. While many recognize
moral wrongs, they await a brave leader to voice these issues,
choosing to follow rather than lead.

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True Leadership

A genuine leader inspires critical thinking and

open-mindedness, encouraging followers to free their minds.
Following a true leader should lead to independent thought,
not blind allegiance. However, when we blindly follow, we
become enslaved to others' beliefs and often blame them for
poor outcomes, ultimately relinquishing our ability to think
and judge for ourselves.

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Critical Thinking
Key Point:Blind adherence to societal standards
compromises individuality and critical thinking.
Critical Interpretation:The author argues that societal
norms pressure us to conform, equating common sense
with good sense, leading to a loss of personal judgment.
While this perspective highlights the issues of herd
mentality, it is crucial to consider the complexity of
social behaviors and the potential benefits of community
consensus. Individuals often rely on shared beliefs for
social cohesion and reassurance, suggesting that
complete independence from societal norms may not
always be desirable. Furthermore, philosophies by
thinkers such as John Stuart Mill advocate for individual
freedom while acknowledging the importance of
society, implying that a blend of personal and collective
beliefs is necessary for a balanced approach to morality
and leadership.

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 Chapter 3 Summary : No One’s
Watching
Section Summary

Freedom of Action The author encourages self-reflection on our motivations for good deeds, questioning whether we
Without would engage in them if we believed no one was watching. True fulfillment comes from acting without
Observation seeking recognition.

Value and Our actions often derive meaning from others' perceptions, influenced by whom we wish to impress
Perception and the context. The pursuit of praise can overshadow the genuine reasons for our actions.

The Importance of Sincere intentions lead to true happiness. When motives are rooted in goodness rather than competition
Sincere Intentions or desire for admiration, we achieve contentment.

Insignificant The metaphor of unnoticed plants illustrates that strength and beauty can grow in obscurity. Goodness
Beginnings Can can shine without the need for external validation.
Foster Strength

Conclusion The chapter emphasizes that true value lies in our intentions and actions, rather than in seeking
applause. Authentic goodness often remains quiet until it is naturally recognized.

Summary of Chapter 3: No One's Watching

Freedom of Action Without Observation

The chapter begins by posing a thought-provoking question:

Would we still engage in our usual activities if we believed
no one was watching? The author encourages self-reflection
on our motivations for doing good deeds, emphasizing the
fulfillment that comes from acting without the desire for
recognition.

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Value and Perception

We often derive meaning from our actions based on how

others perceive them. This perception can vary depending on
who we desire to impress and the context in which we
operate. While it is natural to seek positive acknowledgment,
the issue arises when the pursuit of praise becomes the
primary reason behind our actions.

The Importance of Sincere Intentions

The chapter highlights that sincere intentions lead to genuine

happiness and satisfaction in what we do. When our motives
stem from a place of goodness rather than competition or the
need for admiration, we can find true contentment.

Insignificant Beginnings Can Foster Strength

Zebian uses the metaphor of plants that grow unnoticed

under rocks to illustrate that strength and beauty can develop
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 Chapter 4 Summary : An Enigmatic
Feeling
Key Points Details

Permanent Nature of Once experienced, feelings become a permanent part of the heart with varying intensity.
Feelings

Control Over Feelings Individuals can choose to master their feelings or let feelings master them.

Impulsive Actions Being dominated by feelings can lead to impulsive actions rather than logical responses.

Methods to Manage People use talking, art, music, or writing as outlets to manage emotions.
Emotions

Impact of Verbalizing Sharing feelings verbally can diminish their essence and reduce control over them.
Feelings

Concerns About Sharing Sharing feelings may empower others and lead to hesitation based on fear or belief in the
Feelings inadequacy of words.

An Enigmatic Feeling

Once a feeling is experienced, it becomes a permanent part of

the heart, capable of fluctuating in intensity. No matter the
type of feeling—love, hatred, dislike, contentment,
disappointment, or gratitude—the key truth is that the more a
feeling is contained, the greater its power over you.
You face a choice: to master your feelings or allow them to
master you. Mastery leads to logical responses and planned
actions, while being dominated by feelings may result in
impulsive actions driven by emotion. Powerful feelings can
impede honest communication and provoke inappropriate

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expressions.
People employ various methods to manage their emotions,
such as talking, art, music, or writing. Although talking is
often viewed as a common outlet for expression, verbalizing
a feeling can diminish its essence. Once spoken, a feeling is
no longer under your control, and its interpretation is
dependent on others.
For those who are conscious of this power dynamic, sharing
feelings becomes a significant concern as it empowers others
regarding their emotions. This leads to frequent hesitation in
expressing true feelings to those around us. It's essential to
reflect on the reasons behind this reluctance: is it fear of
uncertainty or a belief that words may fail to capture the
depth of those feelings?

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 Chapter 5 Summary : Be the Master
Section Summary

Be the Master Encourages self-awareness and self-control in one's thoughts and feelings.

Bravery in Challenges individuals to confront personal contradictions, stressing the interconnection of emotions
Self-Honesty and beliefs.

The Challenge of Highlights the struggle for balance between conflicting internal forces, with different coping
Balance mechanisms observed.

The Importance of Emphasizes the need for recognizing control over one's feelings and thoughts, which builds confidence
Mastery and empowers personal growth.

Taking Control Encourages individuals to take charge of their thoughts and feelings to enhance decision-making and
embrace self-control.

Be the Master

Bravery in Self-Honesty

Are you courageous enough to confront the contradictions

within yourself? This includes recognizing the interplay
between your heart and mind, strengths and weaknesses,
confidence and uncertainty, beliefs and actions.
Acknowledge that these elements are interconnected and that
their existence relies on your acceptance.

The Challenge of Balance

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Everyone struggles to achieve balance between conflicting
internal forces. People cope with this challenge in various
ways—some surrender to one aspect, while others either
blame external factors or themselves for the imbalances
experienced.

The Importance of Mastery

Recognizing your control over your feelings and thoughts is

crucial for mastering them. Mastery fosters confidence,
which in turn provides motivation to pursue your dreams.
Being aware of your strengths can empower you to use them
effectively, while acknowledging your weaknesses allows
you to work on them and mitigate potential disruptions.

Taking Control

Be the master of your thoughts and feelings, which will

facilitate decision-making—big or small. Do not remain
stuck in uncertainty; instead, embrace your ability to control
yourself.

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Example
Key Point:Master Your Inner Dialogue
Example:Imagine waking up in the morning, facing a
decision that leaves you feeling anxious. Instead of
succumbing to confusion, you pause and deliberately
confront your fears and uncertainties. You acknowledge
that your confidence can coexist with doubt. By
accepting this complex internal dialogue, you gain
mastery over your feelings—transforming anxiety into
action. Your thoughts become your allies, empowering
you to make choices that align with your true desires,
rather than being paralyzed by contradictory emotions.
Embracing this bravery in self-honesty, you take
decisive steps toward achieving your goals.

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Critical Thinking
Key Point:Self-Mastery and Its Challenges
Critical Interpretation:While Zebian emphasizes the
importance of mastering one's thoughts and feelings as a
pathway to personal power, it's crucial to question
whether this conceptualization oversimplifies the
complexity of human psychology and the potential
influence of external circumstances. Mastery suggests a
level of control that might not account for varying
degrees of mental health challenges and external
societal pressures, such as those discussed by
psychologist Carl Rogers in his work on
self-actualization and the human condition, which
highlights the nuanced interplay between individual
agency and situational factors. Readers might explore
sources like "The Body Keeps the Score" by Bessel van
der Kolk to understand how trauma can impact our
perceived ability to achieve mastery over one's emotions
and thoughts.

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 Chapter 6 Summary : The Nature of Life
Chapter Summary

The Nature of Life Encourages reflection under a starry sky, prompting thoughts on personal life and desired changes.

The Rush of Life Discusses the fast-paced nature of life, highlighting the need to balance personal goals with
responsibilities to others, and the subjective value of time.

The Consequences of Emphasizes the risk of neglecting important relationships while chasing ideals, and the
Distracted Living importance of reflecting on how time is spent with loved ones.

A Call for Reflection Urges readers to reconsider the significance of time spent with loved ones and solitary
contemplation, highlighting their deeper meaning in life.

The Nature of Life

Imagine yourself outside on a starry night, letting the calm

breeze awaken your thoughts. In this moment of reflection,
consider where you are in your life and what changes you
want to make. This space for contemplation can lead to fresh
perspectives and resolutions.

The Rush of Life

In our fast-paced lives, we often focus solely on our

individual goals, neglecting our responsibilities and
commitments to others. The question arises: how do we
discern what is truly worthwhile or a waste of time? Each
person's definition of time varies depending on their passions

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and roles—an artist may find non-creative time wasted, while
a parent may feel guilty being away from their children.

The Consequences of Distracted Living

As we pursue our ideals, we risk neglecting those who matter

most, potentially losing sight of their importance until it's too
late. Reflecting on how we spend our time is crucial to
maintaining our relationships and recognizing the value of
shared moments.

A Call for Reflection

Before dismissing time spent with loved ones or alone in

thought as unimportant, take a moment to reconsider the
significance of these connections. The next time you view
these moments as trivial, think twice—they may hold deeper
meaning in the tapestry of life.

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Chapter 7 Summary : Silver Lining

Silver Lining

Embrace Your Happiness

The chapter encourages readers not to hide their happiness or

achievements due to the fear of envy from others. It
emphasizes that genuine beauty comes from within and
enables one to appreciate the goodness in themselves and
others.

Value the Present

Being content and valuing the present moment is highlighted

as crucial. The text suggests that appreciating what you have
creates a foundation for hope and positivity, allowing for
personal growth and empathy towards others.

Acknowledge Inner Beauty

Everyone possesses inner beauty, which coexists with less

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desirable traits like envy and negativity. The author notes
that these negative traits can distort others' perceptions of
your success, attributing it to superficial factors instead of
your hard work and determination.

Resist External Negative Influences

It's pointed out that some people may unintentionally affect

your feelings due to their own insecurities. The chapter
advises readers to reject the notion that their happiness stems
from wrongdoing and to recognize that others may be
responding to their own negative traits.

Hold Your Inner Beauty

Readers are encouraged to maintain their inner beauty,

allowing it to outweigh other negative characteristics, as this
is essential for personal resilience and progress amidst others'
confusion about your joy.

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Example
Key Point:Embracing your happiness fosters
personal growth and resilience amidst negativity
from others.
Example:Imagine standing tall amid a crowd, each
person casting glances of envy your way. Instead of
hiding your joy from their stares, you choose to shine
brightly, letting your achievements inspire rather than
intimidate. By acknowledging your happiness, you
appreciate the path you have taken, allowing it to fuel
your ambition and inspire those around you. This
embrace creates a ripple effect, fostering an
environment where positivity and growth flourish, not
just for you, but also as a beacon for others to recognize
their own inner beauty.

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Chapter 8 Summary : A Wish Come
True

A Wish Come True

Have you ever intensely desired something, only to feel

uncertain about your feelings once you finally achieved it?
This chapter explores the internal conflict that arises when
our wishes come true. It questions the reasons behind our
doubts, suggesting that they may stem from self-worth
issues, changes in perspective, timing, or the fading hope that
initially fueled our desire.

The Nature of Desire

The text reflects on the idea of winning and its implications.

Is it merely the thrill of victory that we seek, or do we value
the accomplishment itself? The pursuit of our wishes often
leads us to want validation of our worthiness, causing us to
overlook the deeper appreciation of what we desire.

Appreciation Before Acquisition

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The author emphasizes the importance of learning to
appreciate our desires before attaining them. Well-being
necessitates understanding and valuing our needs. If we
cannot cherish what we do not have, we will struggle to find
fulfillment even after achieving our goals.

The Role of Self-Care

Moreover, the chapter underlines the necessity of caring for

our hearts and minds. Instead of waiting for external changes
to find contentment, we should nurture our inner selves to
avoid the temptation to change our circumstances for
happiness.
Ultimately, the message advocates for being mindful in our
wishes, ensuring that our hearts and minds are in alignment
with our true needs and desires. This understanding will lead
to a more authentic appreciation of our achievements and the
desires we hope to fulfill.

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Critical Thinking
Key Point:The conflict of achieving desires vs. the
reality of fulfillment.
Critical Interpretation:The chapter presents a critical
notion that achieving what we desire doesn't always lead
to satisfaction, highlighting the disconnect between
expectation and reality that many individuals face.
While Zebian posits that doubts about achieved wishes
often originate from self-worth issues and shifting
perspectives, it’s essential for readers to question the
universality of this perspective. For instance, studies
such as those in psychological research by Wood et al.
(2003) suggest that individuals can also experience
fulfillment and satisfaction following the achievement
of goals, contingent on their intrinsic values and
personal motivations. Therefore, while Zebian’s insights
are valuable, one must recognize that the journey
towards fulfillment is nuanced and subjective, and her
assertions may not encapsulate the diverse experiences
of all individuals.

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Chapter 9 Summary : Life, Simplified

Life Simplified

Define Your Own Standards

Never feel pressured to conform to someone else's

expectations. Create your own standards based on your
unique abilities, potential, and vision for your future.

Understand Your Vision

Take time to clarify what you want to achieve in life. Your

personal conviction about your goals will guide your
decisions and actions.

Know Yourself

You are the best judge of your capabilities. Reject labels like
"average" and strive to be phenomenal in your own way
without comparing yourself to others.

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Pursue Acceptance Internally

Do not seek validation from those you perceive as better than

you. Self-acceptance should come from within, independent
of external approval.

Aim for Personal Growth

Focus on your own dreams and aspirations. Work towards

improving yourself daily, aiming to be better than you were
yesterday, and envisioning a brighter future.

Celebrate Progress

Cultivate positivity by acknowledging and celebrating your

successes. Envision the happiness that comes from your
growth and achievements.

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Example
Key Point:Define Your Own Standards
Example:Imagine standing at a crossroads, feeling the
weight of others' expectations pulling you in different
directions. You realize, however, that the true path
forward isn't dictated by those around you but by the
unique dreams that ignite your passion. By establishing
your own standards, you begin to see your individual
strengths illuminated before you. You create a checklist
that caters to your potential, assessing your abilities
against your personal goals rather than external
benchmarks. As you navigate life, you confidently
choose the route that aligns with your vision, knowing
it’s designed specifically for your journey, not anyone
else’s. With each step you take, you embrace the
freedom of living authentically, and the satisfaction of
pursuing what genuinely matters to you, fosters a
profound sense of fulfillment.

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Chapter 10 Summary : Goodness Gone
Wrong?

Goodness Gone Wrong?

When someone you’ve helped makes you feel unappreciated,

do you ever wish you could take back your good deeds? Do
you regret doing good for the wrong people? Personally, I
don’t agree with regretting your kindness. All your actions,
whether good or bad, belong to you.
Instead of regretting your good deeds towards the wrong
person, it’s better to regret taking time away from those who
genuinely appreciate you. Never regret a good deed. Your
work, even if unacknowledged, contributes to your personal
growth and character.
Consider your purpose behind your actions. If your goal is to
please others, your happiness hinges on their perception,
which can lead to disappointment. However, if your aim is to
be a genuinely good person and to foster a positive attitude,
disappointment will come less often, and you’ll feel
compassion for those who overlook your kindness.
Focus on your purpose and personal growth. Once we

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understand that we need to change our perspective before
attempting to change others, our intentions will align more
positively.

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Example
Key Point:Embrace your kindness without expecting
recognition.
Example:When you extend a helping hand, envision the
warmth of your gesture enveloping someone in need.
You might recall that time you spent hours helping a
friend prepare for an important presentation; their lack
of gratitude stung, didn't it? Instead of letting their
indifference overshadow your acts of kindness, shift
your focus to the personal growth that arose from that
experience. Each act of goodness enriches your
character, teaching you resilience and deepening your
capacity for empathy, regardless of how it is received.
Remember, the true value lies not in acknowledgment,
but in the intention behind your actions.

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Critical Thinking
Key Point:Regretting kindness to ungrateful
individuals misses the bigger picture of personal
growth and purpose.
Critical Interpretation:In this chapter, Najwa Zebian
presents the idea that kindness is an inherent quality that
should not be regretted, even if it goes unappreciated.
She emphasizes the importance of self-growth and the
intrinsic value of helping others, regardless of their
responses. However, one might argue that continual acts
of kindness towards those who do not reciprocate can
lead to emotional exhaustion and potential resentment,
contradicting the principle of maintaining one's own
happiness and well-being. This is particularly true if
such actions are motivated by a desire for appreciation
or recognition rather than genuine altruism. Sources
such as Brené Brown's 'The Gifts of Imperfection' and
Martin Seligman’s work on positive Psychology, offer
alternative viewpoints that suggest being mindful of
where we direct our kindness can be just as crucial for
our emotional health.

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Chapter 11 Summary : Be Sensitive

Be Sensitive

It is frustrating when people think they are superior to others

or speak down to them without knowing their story.
Observing individuals take pleasure in others' failures, seek
approval from those in power, and spread negativity can be
irritating. The lack of mutual kindness, such as not returning
a smile or judging by appearances, adds to this irritation.
Despite these frustrations, it is essential to maintain
sensitivity and recognize negative behaviors as a means of
growth. Learning from irritations is valuable, and one should
work to be constructive in response to them, understanding
that, as humans, our ability to help is sometimes limited by
others' willingness to engage.

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Chapter 12 Summary : Decide

Decide

Sometimes, life presents us with challenges that seem

overwhelming. We often stress, complain, and worry instead
of tackling these challenges head-on. It is essential to
remember that everything that enters our lives is a result of
our acceptance and decision to let it in.
When faced with a challenge, we have two choices: accept or
deny its existence. If we choose to accept, we should
prioritize our tasks and allocate the appropriate time and
energy to the challenge. Conversely, if we ignore it, we must
take responsibility for that choice, as it’s important to
acknowledge that everyone has their own problems to
manage.
Challenges exist regardless of our attitude towards them. Our
approach to these challenges dictates our experience of life.
Sometimes, the satisfaction of overcoming a challenge can
outweigh the challenge itself. Therefore, we should not take
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Chapter 13 Summary : A Battle to Win

A Battle to Win

In this chapter, the author reflects on the various faces or

personalities we exhibit in different social environments.
This introspection raises several questions about our
communication styles and the effort we exert based on the
people around us.

Self-Reflection and Authenticity

The chapter emphasizes the importance of recognizing these

different personas and their implications on our identity. It
highlights the internal conflict that arises when these
personalities confront each other, prompting a deeper inquiry
into one's true self.

The Importance of Inner Harmony

The author urges readers to address any discrepancies among

their various identities. If these personas are not reconciled, it
leads to confusion about one’s beliefs and true nature.

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Taking Action

Without waiting for others to notice our contradictions, the

author advocates for self-reflection and resolution of internal
conflicts. This introspective battle is essential for achieving
self-acceptance and genuine confidence, which will naturally
manifest in interactions with others.

Conclusion

Ultimately, the chapter encourages readers to embark on a

journey of self-discovery and reconciliation to achieve peace
within themselves, leading to authenticity in their
relationships and daily life.

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Chapter 14 Summary : The Language of
Silence

The Language of Silence

Silence can be both frustrating and intriguing. It is open to

interpretation, allowing us to read it in any way we desire.
While it may seem effortless, maintaining silence often
requires more energy than speaking, as it involves holding
back our true thoughts and feelings.

The Power of Silence

Silence conveys a range of emotions including happiness,

sadness, acceptance, and disappointment. It can occur
unintentionally, often leading to misunderstandings as people
interpret it differently. Unlike spoken words, silence lacks
tone and awakens various inner voices, prompting us to
contemplate its meaning.

Reflection on Silence

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Consider whether you use silence deliberately as a
communication tool and how you perceive the silence of
others. It is essential to give silence the attention it deserves,
rather than letting a single perspective dominate your
interpretation.

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Chapter 15 Summary : The First Step

The First Step

Achieving Greatness

To achieve greatness, one must be willing to take the right

steps. While some may settle for an average life, others strive
for the extraordinary, which often brings stress and
challenges.

The Barrier to Extraordinary Goals

Between us and our extraordinary goals lie numerous steps

that can obscure our vision of the end goal. Losing sight of
this goal can lead to diminished hope and belief in our
direction. We can choose to linger at the starting line or take
decisive action by taking that first step.

The Momentum of Progress

Once we take the first step, continuing to the next becomes

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easier because we want to preserve our investment. It's vital
to focus on immediate steps rather than getting overwhelmed
by the ultimate goal, while still believing that it exists.

The Value of Rarity

Some achievements are considered valuable because they are

rare, and therefore, many shy away from pursuing them due
to uncertainty. However, if one has an extraordinary goal, it's
essential to take that first step forward.

Embracing Hardships

Accepting that hardships are part of the journey towards

greatness is crucial. Recognizing that holding on during
tough times is harder than giving up will guide you through
the process. Just as one wouldn't worry about reaching for
fruits before planting the seed, beginning the journey is the
necessary first step.

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Chapter 16 Summary : What Would You
Do?

Chapter 16: What Would You Do?

Unplanned Moments

Often, the moments that take our breath away are unplanned
and seem distant, much like stars. They are dreams we
continuously hope for, despite a sense of hopelessness
surrounding them.

Reflecting on Desires

What have you been thinking about lately? Consider the

energy you invest in pondering "what if" scenarios regarding
that desire. This includes contemplating potential outcomes
and strategies for coping with the results, whether they are
favorable or not.

Imagine the Unexpected

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Now, envision receiving what you desire unexpectedly, in a
moment when you were focused on moving past it. Picture
this happening in a delightful and unexpected setting that
rekindles your appreciation for life.

The Impact of Fulfillment

Would receiving this desire restore your hope? Would it

compel you to reconsider its significance in your life?
Alternatively, would it push you to move on faster, realizing
you could find happiness independent of that longing?

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Chapter 17 Summary : Educate Me

Chapter 17: Educate Me

Overview

In this chapter, the author expresses a vision of education that

goes beyond rote memorization and standardized testing. The
focus is on nurturing critical thinking, self-respect, and a love
for learning.

Key Principles of Education

1.
Understanding and Respect

- Education should include teaching students how to

interpret and think critically, showing respect and
acknowledging their humanity.
- It’s important for educators to demonstrate vulnerability
by sharing their own mistakes.
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Encouraging Independence

- Students should be guided to learn self-reliance and

resilience, recognizing that falling is part of the learning
process.
- The emphasis should be on self-discovery and personal
growth rather than strictly on grades.
3.
Inspiring Confidence

- Educators should foster a belief in students' potential,

encouraging them to dream big and ask questions without
fear of judgment.
- The goal is to cultivate a love for learning by reducing
anxiety around academic assessments.
4.
Empowerment and Lifelong Learning

- Education should be about equipping students with the

tools to learn independently and effectively engage with the
world around them.
- The chapter emphasizes the importance of promoting the
idea that every individual can make a meaningful impact in
their community and the world.

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Conclusion

The chapter advocates for an educational approach that

inspires curiosity and self-motivation, ultimately aiming to
create lifelong learners who see the potential in themselves
and the world.

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Chapter 18 Summary : Past What You
See

Past, What You See

If we truly understood the struggles everyone faces, our

compassion for one another would deepen. Instead, we often
envy the beauty, wealth, and happiness of others, failing to
realize that these individuals may be grappling with their
own challenges. The traits we admire in others can be their
means of coping with life, illustrating that perfection is
unattainable.
Just because someone appears to be thriving doesn't mean
they aren't dealing with issues in private. Many have learned
to handle their problems without seeking sympathy, often
prioritizing others' happiness over their own struggles.
We must refrain from judging others or deeming their
successes as undeserved. If we could see beyond the surface,
it would evoke remorse for our judgments and wishes for
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Chapter 19 Summary : It's You

Understanding Respect and Self-Worth

Differentiating Disrespect

It's important to recognize the distinction between people

who disrespect you due to your actions and those who do so
simply because of who you are. Self-blame is common, but it
may stem from others' jealousy of your qualities.

Embracing Your Value

Acknowledge that being envied is a sign of your worth.

While some may superficially praise you, they might secretly
wish for your downfall. Don't let societal pressures force you
into conformity or silence.

Living Authentically

Never feel that being a good person is a flaw. You owe no

one proof of your integrity if you are already convinced of it

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within yourself. Strive to believe in yourself and the
goodness that you embody.

Pursuing Knowledge and Relationships

Prioritize gaining knowledge and nurturing your spirit over

accumulating material wealth. Foster loving relationships
while ensuring mutual respect; give more than you take, but
also avoid greed.

The Power of Silence and Speech

Choose your words carefully and speak when necessary.

Silence can often be more damaging than the truth. Surround
yourself with people who empower you, rather than forcing
you to make painful choices.

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Chapter 20 Summary : The Stars Within

The Stars Within

I've gotten used to telling my secrets to the stars because they

understand the language of my heart and mind like no one
else does. They never ask questions and always listen. I
believe in them, just as they believe in me. Their beauty
inspires me to dream, leading me to trust that I can reach my
dreams, no matter how distant they may seem.

Self-Communication and Understanding

After reflecting, I realized that the stars serve as an excuse

for my communication with myself. I learned to listen to my
own heart before sharing it with others and to understand my
mind before voicing its thoughts. This self-coaching and
motivation helped me be honest with myself, making my
honesty with others genuine.

Self-Respect and Belief

I taught myself to respect my journey and the freedom I

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received at birth. In turn, I made the stars ponder about me
just as I have wondered about them. I learned to see the best
in myself and to maintain belief, not allowing anyone to
instill doubt. I cherish happiness in simple things, as
recognizing the beauty in stars prepares me to appreciate the
full moon's beauty.

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Chapter 21 Summary : Reframe
Gratitude

Reframe Gratitude

We often lament that we are burdened with more than we can

handle. If we understood the true essence of this sentiment,
we would shift our focus from complaining to gratitude.

Reflection on Abundance

Take a moment for honest self-reflection. Consider all the

things in your life. Are you managing them well? Your heart
is capable of limitless love, yet many of us build walls
around it for protection. But what exactly are we shielding it
from?

Capacity for Joy

Your heart yearns to give and to experience joy from life's

simple moments: a child's smile, a mother's hug, or an
unexpected act of kindness. Despite this, many become

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desensitized to these small joys, chasing after larger sources
of happiness while neglecting the precious little things.

Mind's Abilities

Your mind is a powerful tool, equipped to help you navigate

problems and to prioritize your own needs. However, it's
easy to let doubt creep in, allowing others to sway your
beliefs about yourself.

Gratitude over Complaints

Before voicing your complaints about life's demands,

contemplate all that you already overlook. If you feel
overwhelmed, it may actually be a sign that you have been
blessed with more than you realize.

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Chapter 22 Summary : Moonless Nights

Moonless Nights

The Resilience of Hope

Even in darkness, like on moonless nights, the stars still

shine. Life continues to believe in existence despite
challenges; clouds may hide the sun, but the belief in its
presence endures.

Acceptance and Patience

The earth longs for rain, and despite the wait, it accepts it.
Similarly, abandoned trees provide refuge for restless birds,
symbolizing acceptance and patience in life.

Embracing Life After Loss

Death can spark new life in our hearts, awakening us to the

beauty around us. The narrative challenges us to reconsider
our expectations of greatness, resilience in the face of failure,

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and the capacity to love despite past hurts.

The Journey of Life

Life is portrayed as a journey, not a destination. Happiness is

derived from actions rooted in faith and principles. True
fulfillment comes from being unique and believing in one's
personal journey rather than chasing a predetermined fate.

Cultivating Unique Hope

The chapter emphasizes maintaining hope and patience,

suggesting that happiness is not only attainable but comes in
ways that reflect our individuality. It's a reminder that what is
meant for you will arrive in its own time.

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Chapter 23 Summary : How Dare You

Summary of Chapter 23: How Dare You

Purpose and Enemies

Living a purposeful life inevitably invites enemies, especially

when one is concerned about the well-being of others. The
societal norm often pushes for self-interest, urging
individuals to prioritize personal gain over compassion.

The Cost of Compassion

The text questions the notion that compassion is a luxury,

arguing instead that true humanity requires empathy and
connection. It criticizes a world that conditions people to
ignore their intrinsic compassion in favor of material success.

Nature of Compassion

Compassion is described as an inherent quality rather than a

conscious choice. While society may portray selfishness as a

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pathway to happiness, the text emphasizes the importance of
nurturing one’s true compassionate nature.

Self-Care vs. Selfishness

Readers are encouraged to prioritize self-improvement and

inner growth without descending into selfishness. True
self-care involves listening to one’s heart, recognizing the
need to help others, and upholding personal dignity by
rejecting injustices.

Conclusion

In a society leaning towards emotional detachment, the call

to action is to revive genuine human connection and
compassion, fighting against the tide of indifference and
embracing our natural empathy.

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Critical Thinking
Key Point:Compassion as an Inherent Quality vs.
Societal Conditioning
Critical Interpretation:Najwa Zebian argues in this
chapter that compassion is not merely a choice but an
intrinsic part of our humanity. This perspective
challenges the prevailing narrative that prioritizes
self-interest and material success, urging individuals to
reconnect with their empathetic nature. Readers might
critique this standpoint, positing that it oversimplifies
the complexities of human behavior influenced by
cultural conditioning and individual circumstances. As
discussed in 'The Altruism Equation' by Lee Alan
Dugatkin, the expression of compassion can be
situationally influenced, suggesting that not all
individuals naturally embody empathy in every context.

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Chapter 24 Summary : Clarity

Clarity

The Nature of Perception

We often wait for circumstances that may never arise,

blinded by our hopes and desires, while ignoring the reality
that surrounds us. Our perception of reality can be skewed by
what we wish it to be rather than what it truly is.

Growth Through Reflection

Despite these distortions, our thoughts lead us to reflection,

learning, and growth. Mistakes become opportunities for
realization and self-improvement. The essence of our reality
is shaped by our desires, which influences our interpretation
of life’s events.

The Power of Choice

At weak moments, the strength we exhibit can be more

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convincing than physical strength. Choosing calmness over
anger and goodness over negativity is pivotal. Life
challenges our resilience, and it is essential to consciously
choose integrity and faith in ourselves and the process of
healing.

Building a Resilient Soul

Resilience involves gathering the pieces of our soul after

disappointments and transforming them into a mosaic. We
should not settle for negative beliefs about sincerity or
honesty but instead focus on empowerment, learning, and
healing.

The Importance of Belief

To heal and grow, it is crucial to believe in the potential for

change and the arrival of healing. Just as the earth accepts
rain after a drought, we must also embrace the healing that
time can bring, despite our distorted views of reality.

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Critical Thinking
Key Point:Perception of reality can be biased by our
desires and hopes.
Critical Interpretation:The summary highlights how our
expectations often skew our understanding of reality,
emphasizing the idea that belief can distort perception.
While this viewpoint encourages introspection and
growth, it may oversimplify the complexity of human
perception, which is also shaped by diverse experiences
and societal contexts. For deeper understanding, readers
can consult resources like 'Thinking, Fast and Slow' by
Daniel Kahneman, which discusses cognitive biases and
perception.

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Best Quotes from Mind Platter by Najwa
Zebian with Page Numbers
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Chapter 1 | Quotes From Pages 90-92

1.A risk that you take is only genuinely yours when
you put your whole heart into it and go for it with
your own convictions, not because of pressures
from others.
2.If a risk ends positively, then you've made the right choice,
and if it does not end as you hoped it would, that calls for a
reflection on your part and an evaluation of the
implications for new risks that you take.
3.Time is only wasted when it is used for efforts that prove to
be disappointing, and we only regard that time as a waste.
4.When you focus on forgetting negative experiences instead
of taking time to reflect on them and learn from them, you
put yourself at the risk of inviting more negativity into your
life.
5.Instead of falling back on all of the bad things that have

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 happened to you, you are building a good, positive bank of
experiences that has, at its base, the understanding that
'mistake' is too big and too negative of a word, while
'experience' is bigger and more constructive to your life.
Chapter 2 | Quotes From Pages 132-134
1.We often forget that common sense isn't always
good sense.
2.We accept the way that people are ranked, as if people were
made to be put in some kind of order based on a set of
predetermined criteria.
3.We recognize what is morally wrong, but we wait for
someone brave, someone not afraid to speak up and
verbalize what is wrong, and we follow that person.
4.A true leader is one who aspires to make those around him
think critically and perceive the world with an open mind.
5.When a leader that we blindly follow makes a mistake, we
love being able to blame them for leading us to a dead end.
6.It doesn't make sense. Does it?
Chapter 3 | Quotes From Pages 138-140

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1.When was the last time you did something good,
without anyone knowing about it, and felt like
you’d accomplished something?
2.It is not wrong to want to be perceived in a good way. We
all want to be good people. But, this becomes problematic
when that praise that we receive becomes the purpose of
what we do.
3.When we have sincere intentions, nothing can stand in the
way of us feeling happy and content with what we do.
4.The beautiful part is that the rays of a shining light will
eventually penetrate through the darkest of nights, and
people will see how truly good you are without you going
out of your way to prove it.
5.Some of the most beautiful plants have their beginnings
unnoticed under rocks, but that only makes them stronger.
6.If the goal of the sun was to impress us with its light, it
would rise when we wake up and set after we sleep.

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Chapter 4 | Quotes From Pages 141-143
1.Once you feel any kind of feeling, it lives forever
somewhere in your heart.
2.The more you contain a feeling, the more power it has
within you.
3.If you master it, your response will most likely be logical,
and your actions will be planned.
4.Once a word is said, it dies. That's it; it's out of your
control now.
5.At these points, we should reflect on the reason for holding
back.
Chapter 5 | Quotes From Pages 144-146
1.Are you brave enough to be honest with yourself?
2.One does not exist without the other.
3.If we are unable to realize that we have control over our
feelings and thoughts, and not the opposite, we cannot
master them.
4.Mastery gives us confidence, and confidence gives us
motivation to move on to pursue our dreams.

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5.Don't linger in uncertainty somewhere in the middle.
Chapter 6 | Quotes From Pages 151-153
1.Imagine sitting outside in the darkness and silence
of a starry night, allowing the soft heavenly breeze
of the night to peacefully awaken every cell inside
of you.
2.How do we differentiate between what is and what is not a
waste of time? It is relative. The definition of time itself
changes from one person to the next.
3.Next time you perceive spending time with your family as
a waste of time, think twice.
4.If we don’t reflect, we may lose those who are precious,
only to realize their significance after they’re gone, when
it’s too late.

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Chapter 7 | Quotes From Pages 159-161
1.Don't worry about those who cannot be happy for
you, who cannot see the beauty within you.
2.Beauty from within allows you to see goodness in others.
3.Everyone has this beauty, but it exists along with other
characteristics, which may be in an imbalance at times:
envy, hatred, pessimism, ungratefulness, discontent,
jealousy, etc.
4.People have a difficulty admitting that you are actually
successful because of your hard work or because of your
determination.
5.Hold on to that beauty within you and let it prevail over
other characteristics because that is what keeps you moving
forward.
Chapter 8 | Quotes From Pages 165-167
1.Once we learn to look deep into our hearts and
deep into our minds, we will learn to want that
which we appreciate before we have it.
2.If you cannot appreciate what you don't have before you

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 have it, you will not appreciate it after you have it.
3.What we ignore is the fact that our hearts and minds are in
need of constant care so that they do not feel the need to
change others for them to be content.
Chapter 9 | Quotes From Pages 168-170
1.Don't ever force yourself to live up to anyone's
standards.
2.Be the phenomenal person that you know you can be.
3.Don't settle for the label average or think that you are no
different than those around you.
4.Don't think that you deserve any less than what you have or
that you don't deserve any better.
5.Live your life working to make who you are today better
than who you were yesterday.
6.Celebrate your little successes and improvements.

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Chapter 10 | Quotes From Pages 193-195
1.Don't ever regret a good deed. Ever.
2.Your work builds you and your personality.
3.If your purpose is to please others and look good in their
eyes, then you are bound to be disappointed.
4.You will be disappointed for them, not in them.
5.Once we realize that we need to change the way we view
the world before we try to change others, our purposes will
be geared in the right direction.
Chapter 11 | Quotes From Pages 196-198
1.It irritates me when people actually believe that
they are better than others.
2.It irritates me when people judge others based on their
looks before they even get to know them.
3.If you have that sensitivity, never let it go.
4.At the end of the day, we’re all human, and sometimes we
cannot extend our helping hands further than they can
reach.
Chapter 12 | Quotes From Pages 202-204

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1.We forget that, for something to be in our lives in
the first place, we must have accepted it and
decided to let it into our lives.
2.You either accept the challenge or deny that it exists.
3.That's the reality of life. It is the attitude with which we
conquer life's challenges so that we live happily.
4.Sometimes the feeling of achieving something is greater
than the achievement itself.
5.Life never comes against you. The way you deal with it
comes against you.

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Chapter 13 | Quotes From Pages 221-223
1.The real challenge is when all of these faces or
personalities come in confrontation with each
other in order to determine which one is really
representative of you.
2.If all of those personalities or faces that you have are not at
peace with one another, then you are still uncertain of your
beliefs and of who you really are.
3.Take a break and deal with your issues before you worry
about dealing with the issues of others.
4.The sooner you have this confrontation with yourself, the
sooner you can be comfortable with yourself.
5.After you reach a consensus with yourself, your
genuineness will shine upon every single person you meet
without you trying.
6.After that, you will feel the true confidence in yourself that
you've always longed for.
Chapter 14 | Quotes From Pages 236-238
1.Silence is not a language, yet it could be more

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 powerful than any language, and it is present
absolutely everywhere.
2.When speaking words, we can change what they mean by
simply changing our tone, but silence has no tone.
3.The silence of another person awakens many voices within
us: those that will tell us what we want to hear, those that
will tell us exactly what we need to hear.
4.Do you actively and selectively use silence as a form of
communication?
5.Do you give the silence of others the attention and thought
that it needs?
Chapter 15 | Quotes From Pages 242-244
1.In order to achieve greatness, you have to be
willing to take the right steps towards it.
2.But some of us do not accept anything less than what is
extraordinary, and this is where the most stress is bound to
come our way.
3.Instead of looking too far ahead to see that end goal, pay
attention to how you can nail the next step and believe in

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 your heart that your end goal exists.
4.Giving up is not easy, but holding on is definitely harder.
5.You wouldn't worry about reaching for the fruits on the
highest branches of a tree before planting the seed, would
you?

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Chapter 16 | Quotes From Pages 263-265
1.Often, the moments that take our breath away are
those unplanned, those that we have long hoped
for, but deep down, feel hopeless about.
2.Think about it and think of how much energy you're
putting into thinking about it, into the what if this and but
what if that.
3.Imagine that what you have been thinking about was given
to you at the time when you least expected it.
4.Would it make you hopeful again? Would it make that
thought come back even stronger?
5.Or would it make you want to walk away even faster
because you finally got what you wanted after realizing
that you could live happily without it?
Chapter 17 | Quotes From Pages 271-273
1.Educate me, not by making me memorize facts,
but by teaching me how to read between the lines,
how to critically think, how to deeply understand.
2.Educate me by respecting me. Educate me by treating me

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 as a human.
3.Educate me by showing me that you make mistakes just
like I do. Educate me by showing me that I am not perfect,
and neither are you.
4.Make me believe that no question is ever stupid and no
dream is ever too big.
5.Educate me by making me love to learn. Educate me by
taking away the fear of tests, marks, and standardization.
6.Where I start and where I end are not as important as the
journey I had to take from one to the other.
7.Educate me by making me more dependent on myself and
less dependent on you.
8.Educate me, not just about words and pictures in a
textbook, but about the world.
9.Educate me by empowering me, by making me truly
believe that I can make a difference in the world.
Chapter 18 | Quotes From Pages 315-317
1.If only we knew the tests that each of us has
encountered, we would be much more

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 compassionate towards one another.
2.Just because people don’t complain to you, doesn’t mean
that they don’t have problems. It means that they’ve
learned to accept their problems and deal with them
without wanting you to worry.
3.Don’t judge. Don’t give yourself the right to decide
whether a person deserves what he or she has or doesn’t
have.
4.Worry about yourself. Appreciate what you have.

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Chapter 19 | Quotes From Pages 327-329
1.You have to realize the difference between people
who consistently disrespect you because of the way
you deal with them and those who disrespect you
because of who you are.
2.You know why? It's because they just might be jealous of
who you are.
3.Don't ever allow anyone to make you feel that being a good
person is something bad.
4.You don't have to prove anything to anyone if you've got
the proof you need for yourself.
5.Seek wealth of knowledge and spirit, not wealth of money.
6.It's better for your words to hurt others than for your
silence to hurt you.
Chapter 20 | Quotes From Pages 353-355
1.I've gotten used to telling my secrets to the stars
because they understand the language of my heart
and mind like no one else does.
2.I taught myself to listen to my own heart and to not make

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 others listen to it before myself.
3.I taught myself to see the best in myself, to believe in
myself, and to not allow anyone to make me doubt myself.
4.I allowed myself to see happiness in the simplest of things
because I truly believe that if I can't see the beauty of the
stars, I may never appreciate the beauty of a full moon.
Chapter 21 | Quotes From Pages 358-360
1.If we only knew what that truly meant, we would
stop complaining and start showing more
gratitude.
2.Are you handling them correctly?
3.You have a heart that has the capacity to love until no limit
can be drawn, but somehow, you build a tiny little wall
around it to protect it.
4.Yet, somehow, you make it immune to seeing those things
because you're so busy looking for bigger sources of
happiness, not realizing that, if you can't appreciate the
little things, you can never appreciate the bigger ones.
5.Before you complain of being given more than what you

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 can handle, think of everything that you already have that
you take for granted.
6.If you think that you've been given more than what you can
handle, you must have been given more than what you
deserve.

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Chapter 22 | Quotes From Pages 366-368
1.Even on moonless nights, the stars don't cease to
shine.
2.How can you be great if you expect to take more than you
give?
3.The life you have ahead of you is a journey, and happiness
is not a destination.
4.Faith is in the heart, but it plants its seeds in your actions.
5.Let the uniqueness of your heart overflow with hopeful
patience that the happiness it deserves already exists.
Chapter 23 | Quotes From Pages 393-395
1.If you have a purpose in life, you will have
enemies.
2.We seriously have forgotten what being human means.
We've become machines.
3.We don't make ourselves compassionate; we are born
compassionate.
4.Put yourself first, but not in a selfish way.
5.Listen to your heart when it tells you to help.

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Chapter 24 | Quotes From Pages 430-433
1.You may wait for a sunrise that may never come.
You may ignore the thought of an inevitable
sunset. You may anticipate an opportunity in front
of a closed door. You may wait for a chance that
will never be given to you.
2.At your weakest moments, the strength you display can be
more convincing than strength itself.
3.Goodness is a choice. It is not the default. It is not easy.
4.If you do not believe in people, how will you empower
them? How will you learn? How will you become strong?
5.You see, we really are a distortion ourselves, yet we expect
reality to be so clear.

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Mind Platter Questions
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Chapter 1 | Wholeheartedness| Q&A

1.Question
What does it mean to take a wholehearted risk?
Answer:A wholehearted risk is one that you take not
due to external pressures but out of your own
convictions and hopes for the future. It embodies
putting your entire heart into an effort that you
believe will help fulfill your life’s vision.

2.Question
How should we reflect on risks that do not turn out as
hoped?
Answer:Instead of viewing unsuccessful risks as failures, we
should see them as opportunities for reflection and learning.
It’s crucial to evaluate what went wrong and how we can
apply the lessons learned to future endeavors.

3.Question
Why should we value our time and experiences, even

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those that are disappointing?
Answer:Time should not be regarded as wasted if we learn
from our experiences. Disappointments can teach us valuable
lessons and help shape our personalities. Experiencing
setbacks enriches our journey and can lead to personal
growth.

4.Question
How can we change our perspective on negative
experiences?
Answer:By consciously transforming negative events into
positive lessons, we can gradually retrain our minds to focus
on the good in life. This shift helps us build a reservoir of
positive experiences and keeps us from being overwhelmed
by negativity.

5.Question
What is the significance of viewing mistakes as
experiences?
Answer:Viewing mistakes as mere experiences allows for a
more constructive approach to personal growth. It helps us

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understand that each setback contributes to our overall
journey rather than defining it, leading to resilience and
progress.
Chapter 2 | Common Sense?| Q&A
1.Question
What is the main idea of common sense as presented in
this chapter?
Answer:The chapter emphasizes that common sense
is often misguided and that individuals frequently
conform to societal expectations rather than
thinking independently. It suggests that what is
deemed 'common sense' may not be good sense.

2.Question
Why do people rank themselves and others according to
beauty, money, and status?
Answer:People rank themselves and others based on societal
norms and values that place undue importance on superficial
qualities such as beauty, wealth, and power. This social
ranking can lead to unhealthy comparisons and self-esteem

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issues.

3.Question
What does it mean to be a true leader?
Answer:A true leader inspires critical thinking and
encourages others to perceive the world with an open mind,
rather than simply following them. They facilitate intellectual
freedom and personal empowerment.

4.Question
Why do people often wait for someone brave to speak up?
Answer:Individuals may hesitate to voice their opinions,
often waiting for someone else to take the lead due to fear,
insecurity, or conformity. This tendency reflects a desire for
validation and support in challenging societal norms.

5.Question
How do people become 'slaves' to others' beliefs?
Answer:People become slaves to others' beliefs by allowing
external influences, opinions, and societal standards to
dictate their own thoughts and judgments, thereby losing
their capacity for independent thought and self-expression.

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6.Question
What is the consequence of following leaders blindly?
Answer:Blindly following leaders can lead to disillusionment
and confusion, particularly when those leaders make
mistakes. It reinforces a cycle of reliance on others instead of
developing one's own views and judgment.

7.Question
What can be learned from this chapter about personal
responsibility?
Answer:The chapter highlights the importance of taking
personal responsibility for one’s beliefs and decisions. It
underscores the value of critical thinking and encourages
individuals to question societal rankings and act according to
their own principles.

8.Question
How does the author suggest we can honor a true leader?
Answer:To honor a true leader, we should not just follow
their lead blindly; instead, we should acknowledge how their
philosophies and actions have encouraged us to think for
ourselves and develop our own understanding.

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9.Question
What does the phrase 'we nullify our ability to think'
imply?
Answer:This phrase implies that by conforming to societal
norms and failing to engage our critical thinking, we
surrender our autonomy and intellectual capacity, becoming
passive recipients of others' beliefs.

10.Question
What should we do instead of blindly following others?
Answer:Instead of blindly following others, we should
engage in self-reflection, think critically about the
information we receive, and strive to form our own beliefs
and judgments based on evidence and reason.
Chapter 3 | No One’s Watching| Q&A
1.Question
What does it mean to do something good without seeking
recognition?
Answer:Doing something good without seeking
recognition reflects the purity of intention. It means
acting from a place of goodness within ourselves,

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rather than for the approval or praise of others.
This often leads to a deeper sense of accomplishment
and fulfillment, as we align our actions with our
values.

2.Question
Why do we seek praise for our actions?
Answer:We seek praise as a means of affirming our worth
and the value of our actions. It stems from an innate desire to
be perceived positively by those we respect or who hold
influence in our lives. However, relying too heavily on this
external validation can shift the focus from intrinsic
motivation to competition or approval.

3.Question
How can sincere intentions affect our happiness?
Answer:When our intentions are sincere, they align with our
true selves, allowing us to find joy and contentment in our
actions. This intrinsic motivation is powerful enough to
provide happiness regardless of external circumstances,
reinforcing the idea that our value comes from within.

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4.Question
What metaphor does the author use to describe growth
and recognition?
Answer:The author uses the metaphor of beautiful plants
beginning unnoticed under rocks, symbolizing that hidden
struggles can lead to strength and beauty. Just as the rays of
sunlight break through darkness to illuminate these plants,
true goodness and strength will eventually be recognized,
even if they start from unnoticed beginnings.

5.Question
In what way is the sun's behavior compared to our need
for approval?
Answer:The sun, which rises and sets regardless of whether
we are awake to witness it, symbolizes authentic actions that
require no external validation to exist. If the sun sought to
impress us by only shining when we were awake, it would
compromise its true purpose. Similarly, we should strive to
act with authenticity rather than for the sake of seeking
approval.

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Chapter 4 | An Enigmatic Feeling| Q&A
1.Question
What happens to a feeling once you experience it?
Answer:Once you feel a certain emotion, it resides
eternally in your heart. It can fluctuate in intensity,
becoming stronger or weaker over time, but it
remains as a part of your emotional landscape.

2.Question
How does one make a choice regarding their feelings?
Answer:You have the option to either master your feelings or
allow them to master you. Mastery leads to logical responses
and planned actions, while letting them take control might
result in impulsive and unsound decisions.

3.Question
What can powerful feelings prevent us from doing?
Answer:Powerful emotions can hinder us from expressing
what is right or compel us to voice what is inappropriate,
often guiding our actions in ways that are instinctive rather
than reasoned.

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4.Question
How do people typically deal with their feelings?
Answer:People express their emotions through various
outlets such as talking, creating art, making music, or
writing, which are common methods of processing their
internal experiences.

5.Question
Why is talking about feelings considered a 'red line' for
some individuals?
Answer:For many, voicing emotions can be risky because it
transfers a degree of control over those feelings to others.
Once spoken, they lose their power, as the words can be
interpreted and judged by others.

6.Question
What should we reflect on when we hold back our
feelings?
Answer:We should consider whether our restraint stems from
uncertainty about our emotions or a belief that our words
won't adequately represent the depth and complexity of our
feelings.

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Chapter 5 | Be the Master| Q&A
1.Question
How can one begin to master their thoughts and feelings?
Answer:To master your thoughts and feelings, start
by cultivating self-awareness. This means being
brave enough to face and acknowledge all parts of
yourself—your strengths, weaknesses, confidence,
and doubts. Engage in honest reflection to break
down any walls between your heart and mind,
allowing you to recognize how these seemingly
contradictory components are interconnected.
Embrace the journey of understanding that control
over your feelings comes from within, not from
external pressures or circumstances.

2.Question
What role does confidence play in pursuing dreams
according to this chapter?
Answer:Confidence is crucial in the pursuit of dreams
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feelings. When you are aware of your strengths and
acknowledge the hard work that contributed to them, it
fosters a sense of confidence. This confidence, in turn,
motivates you to overcome challenges and strive towards
your goals, enabling you to take action towards realizing
your dreams.

3.Question
Why is it important to acknowledge both strengths and
weaknesses?
Answer:Acknowledging both strengths and weaknesses is
essential because it provides a realistic view of oneself,
leading to personal growth. By recognizing your strengths,
you can leverage them effectively, while admitting your
weaknesses allows you to develop strategies to manage or
overcome them. This balance is key to mastering your life
and making informed decisions that reflect who you truly
are.

4.Question
What risks come with allowing one side of ourselves to
dominate the other?

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Answer:When we allow either our strengths or weaknesses to
dominate our inner landscape, we risk losing balance.
Surrendering to negativity can lead to a sense of helplessness
and stagnation, while overemphasis on positives without
acknowledging flaws can result in arrogance and a
disconnect from reality. Both extremes limit our ability to
respond to life's challenges effectively.

5.Question
How does one achieve emotional resilience in face of
uncertainty?
Answer:Emotional resilience is achieved by acknowledging
and taking control of one's feelings and thoughts. Rather than
lingering in uncertainty or being paralyzed by indecision,
practicing self-awareness allows you to make empowered
choices. When you understand that you are in charge of your
emotional responses, you can cultivate resilience by facing
challenges head-on and learning from each experience.

6.Question
What does it mean to be 'the master' of your emotions
and decisions?

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Answer:Being 'the master' of your emotions and decisions
means taking full responsibility for how you feel and react to
situations. It involves recognizing that your thoughts shape
your emotions and that you have the power to influence both.
Mastery comes from practice, self-reflection, and the courage
to face both your strengths and weaknesses, allowing you to
make deliberate choices aligned with your true self.

7.Question
What is the implication of not taking control of our
thoughts and emotions?
Answer:Failing to take control of our thoughts and emotions
can lead to feeling overwhelmed and reactive rather than
proactive. It creates a cycle of blame and helplessness, where
external circumstances dictate our inner state, ultimately
hindering personal growth and the ability to pursue dreams.
Without taking ownership, we remain prisoners of our
uncertainties.

8.Question
In what way can self-reflection contribute to personal
empowerment?

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Answer:Self-reflection contributes to personal empowerment
by enabling individuals to understand themselves deeply,
including their motivations, fears, and desires. This
understanding fosters confidence and clarity, which are vital
for making informed decisions. When people reflect on their
experiences, they can learn from them, leading to a stronger
sense of agency and the ability to navigate life's complexities
with purpose.

9.Question
What is a common struggle people face in mastering their
emotional landscape?
Answer:A common struggle in mastering the emotional
landscape is the internal conflict between accepting one’s
vulnerabilities and wanting to present a strong front. Many
individuals might feel compelled to prioritize external
perceptions of success over their emotional truths. This
duality often results in stress and disconnection from one's
authentic self, making it difficult to achieve true mastery.
Chapter 6 | The Nature of Life| Q&A

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1.Question
What does the author suggest about reflecting on our
lives and priorities?
Answer:The author emphasizes the importance of
reflection in understanding our lives and priorities.
Taking a moment to pause, like imagining sitting
outside under the stars, helps us to consider where
we are, what we truly value, and what needs to
change in our lives. This reflection can lead to a shift
in perspective, allowing us to appreciate what is
genuinely worthwhile rather than just chasing an
ideal.

2.Question
How does the author define 'waste of time'?
Answer:The author defines 'waste of time' as a subjective
concept that varies from person to person. For instance, an
artist may view time not spent creating as wasted, while a
mother may feel similarly about time away from her
children. It highlights that what is considered a waste of time

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often depends on individual values and goals.

3.Question
What warning does the author provide about becoming
too focused on personal ideals?
Answer:The author warns that getting caught up in our
personal ideals can lead to neglecting our relationships and
responsibilities toward others. This preoccupation can make
us lose sight of what really matters, potentially causing us to
hurt those who are important in our lives without even
realizing it until it's too late.

4.Question
What should we consider when we feel time spent with
family is unimportant?
Answer:When perceiving time spent with family as a waste,
the author encourages us to reconsider. We should reflect on
the significance of those moments and the potential
consequences of taking loved ones for granted, as their value
might only be fully realized after they are gone.

5.Question
How can mindfulness change our perspective on time

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spent alone or with loved ones?
Answer:Mindfulness encourages us to be present and
reflective. By allowing ourselves time to think, whether
alone or with loved ones, we can gain clarity on what truly
matters, helping us to prioritize meaningful connections over
the relentless pursuit of personal goals.

6.Question
In what ways can reflecting on our intentions lead to
personal growth?
Answer:Reflecting on our intentions helps us to realign our
actions with our true values, leading to personal growth. By
considering what we want to change or keep in our lives, we
can make conscious decisions that enhance our well-being
and deepen our relationships.

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Chapter 7 | Silver Lining| Q&A
1.Question
What does it mean to hold onto the beauty within you?
Answer:Holding onto the beauty within you means
embracing your inner positivity, kindness, and
resilience, allowing you to see goodness in the world
and appreciate the simple joys of life. It helps you
cultivate optimism and gratitude, enabling you to
hope for the best not just for yourself but for others
as well.

2.Question
How can appreciating what you have impact your
happiness?
Answer:Appreciating what you have can significantly
enhance your happiness by fostering a mindset of
contentment. When you focus on the blessings in your life
instead of what you lack, you create a more positive outlook
which attracts further positivity and fulfillment.

3.Question
Why do some people struggle to celebrate your success?

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Answer:Some people struggle to celebrate your success due
to their own negative feelings like envy, pessimism, or
insecurity. They may project their own struggles onto your
achievements, attributing your success to external factors
instead of recognizing your hard work and determination.

4.Question
What role does forgiveness play in maintaining your
inner beauty?
Answer:Forgiveness plays a crucial role in maintaining your
inner beauty by freeing you from the burden of resentment.
By forgiving others, you allow yourself to move forward and
focus on the positive aspects of your life, rather than getting
caught up in negativity and grudges.

5.Question
How can you prevent others from affecting your feelings
or happiness?
Answer:To prevent others from affecting your feelings or
happiness, cultivate a strong sense of self-worth and
confidence. Recognize that their negativity often stems from

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their own issues, not from you. Surround yourself with
supportive people and practice self-compassion to reinforce
your inner beauty.

6.Question
What should you focus on when faced with criticism or
negativity from others?
Answer:When faced with criticism or negativity, focus on
your accomplishments and the hard work that led you there.
Remind yourself of the beauty and goodness within you,
which gives you strength and keeps you grounded in your
truth.

7.Question
Why is it important to see the silver lining in every
situation?
Answer:Seeing the silver lining in every situation is
important because it encourages resilience and hope. This
perspective helps you tackle challenges with a positive
mindset, making it easier to find solutions and learn from
experiences rather than feeling defeated.

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8.Question
How can you nurture positivity in your life?
Answer:You can nurture positivity in your life by practicing
gratitude, engaging in activities that inspire you, surrounding
yourself with uplifting people, and being mindful of your
thoughts. Setting aside time for self-reflection and pursuing
passions can also enhance your positive outlook.
Chapter 8 | A Wish Come True| Q&A
1.Question
Why do we doubt our wishes once they come true?
Answer:We often question our desires after
achieving them due to a variety of reasons: a sudden
feeling of unworthiness, a change of heart, or the
realization that the timing was not right. This doubt
can also stem from the understanding that the
gratification we seek from achieving these wishes
may not outweigh the actual value of the wish itself.
It leads us into a cycle of questioning what truly
brings us happiness.

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2.Question
What is the importance of appreciating what we desire
before we attain it?
Answer:Appreciating what we wish for before we have it is
crucial because it ensures that our desires arise from true
need rather than fleeting impulses. When we learn to value
our wishes, we set ourselves up for greater contentment when
we achieve them, as opposed to merely chasing after a
feeling of winning which can ultimately leave us unsatisfied.

3.Question
How can we ensure that our wishes are aligned with our
true needs?
Answer:To ensure that our wishes align with our true needs,
we must develop a practice of self-reflection. This means
regularly checking in with our hearts and minds,
understanding their requirements, and nurturing them. By
doing so, we prepare ourselves to value our desires
appropriately, which helps in recognizing their true worth
and necessity.

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4.Question
What should we be cautious about when wishing for
something?
Answer:We should be cautious about the intentions and
motivations behind our wishes. It is essential to approach our
desires with a clear understanding of what we genuinely need
and why, rather than being swept away by fleeting emotions
or societal pressures. This careful evaluation helps us avoid
disappointment and fosters a deeper sense of fulfillment.

5.Question
How can one cultivate a mindset that appreciates what
they have?
Answer:Cultivating a mindset that appreciates what we have
involves practicing gratitude and mindfulness. By focusing
on the positives in our lives, acknowledging our
achievements, and recognizing the value of our current
circumstances, we can learn to be content. This, in turn,
creates a solid foundation for when we pursue new wishes.
Chapter 9 | Life, Simplified| Q&A

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1.Question
What is the main message of Chapter 9 from 'Mind
Platter' by Najwa Zebian?
Answer:The main message is to live life on your own
terms, defining your own standards and pursuing
your own vision for the future without comparing
yourself to others.

2.Question
Why is it important not to compare yourself to others?
Answer:Comparing yourself to others can lead to feelings of
inadequacy and hinder your personal growth. Instead,
focusing on your unique journey allows you to recognize and
celebrate your own achievements and potential.

3.Question
How can one define their own standards in life?
Answer:One can define their own standards by reflecting on
their abilities, dreams, and aspirations, allowing their
personal vision to guide their decisions and actions.

4.Question
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dreams?
Answer:Self-acceptance is crucial as it empowers you to
chase your dreams confidently, free from the need for
external validation. When you accept who you are, you can
focus on your development rather than seeking approval
from others.

5.Question
How should one approach setbacks or failures in their
journey?
Answer:Approach setbacks as opportunities to learn and
improve, rather than as failures. Each setback can provide
valuable lessons that contribute to your growth and help you
become a better version of yourself.

6.Question
What practices can help in celebrating small successes?
Answer:You can keep a journal of your achievements, no
matter how small, and regularly reflect on them. Celebrating
even minor milestones can boost your motivation and
reinforce a positive mindset.

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7.Question
How can you create a vision for your future?
Answer:To create a vision for your future, take time to think
deeply about what truly matters to you. Consider your
passions, values, and the impact you want to make, then
articulate this vision clearly and use it as a guiding star.

8.Question
What does it mean to live in a positive state?
Answer:Living in a positive state means maintaining an
optimistic outlook, focusing on potential solutions instead of
problems, and surrounding yourself with uplifting thoughts
and influences.

9.Question
Why is it vital to dream big according to the chapter?
Answer:Dreaming big is vital because it propels you toward
greater possibilities, challenges you to expand your
capabilities, and ignites motivation, fueling your journey
toward fulfilling your potential.

10.Question
How can you ensure personal growth over time?

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Answer:Ensure personal growth by committing to daily
reflections, setting realistic goals for improvement, seeking
knowledge and new experiences, and making a conscious
effort to become a better version of yourself each day.

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Chapter 10 | Goodness Gone Wrong?| Q&A
1.Question
What should I do if I feel unappreciated for my good
deeds?
Answer:Instead of regretting your acts of kindness,
recognize that your good deeds contribute to your
own growth and personality. Focus on the intention
behind your actions rather than seeking validation
from others.

2.Question
Is it wrong to regret doing good for people who don't
appreciate it?
Answer:Regretting your good deeds is not necessary; instead,
regret wasting your time on those who don't recognize your
efforts. Your kindness reflects who you are, independent of
others' responses.

3.Question
What is the true purpose behind performing good deeds?
Answer:The true purpose is to be a good person and cultivate
a positive attitude. When your actions stem from a genuine

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desire to uplift and help others, your fulfillment doesn't rely
on their acknowledgment.

4.Question
How can I change my perspective when feeling
disappointed by others?
Answer:Realize that disappointment often arises from
expecting appreciation. Focus on understanding that some
people may not recognize their blessings, and shift your
thoughts to the positive impact your kindness can create.

5.Question
What are the consequences of seeking validation from
others for my actions?
Answer:Seeking validation from others can lead to
disappointment and frustration, as their reactions are beyond
your control. A healthier approach is to derive satisfaction
from your own values and intentions.

6.Question
What mindset should I adopt to remain resilient when
facing ungratefulness?
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act out of true kindness, your sense of fulfillment will come
from knowing you have done the right thing, not from others'
gratitude.

7.Question
How does our view of the world influence our actions?
Answer:Our perception shapes our reactions and purpose; if
we change how we perceive the world and focus on kindness
without expectations, we can create more meaningful
interactions and experiences.

8.Question
What can I learn from unappreciated efforts?
Answer:Unappreciated efforts teach resilience and the value
of self-worth. They can also encourage you to reassess your
motivations and ensure that your actions stem from a place of
genuine kindness rather than a desire for recognition.
Chapter 11 | Be Sensitive| Q&A
1.Question
Why is it important to recognize and be sensitive to the
negative behaviors of others?
Answer:Recognizing negative behaviors helps us

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maintain our values and moral compass. It enables
us to be aware of injustices and motivates us to
respond with compassion rather than indifference.
Rather than becoming immune and apathetic, we
can channel our sensitivity into positive action,
fostering an understanding of our shared humanity
and encouraging an environment where kindness
prevails.

2.Question
How can we handle the irritation caused by others'
negative actions?
Answer:We can manage our irritation by reminding ourselves
that we can only do so much. Instead of allowing negativity
to overwhelm us, we can focus on being a source of
positivity ourselves. Engaging in self-care and establishing
boundaries can also be beneficial. It is essential to recognize
our limits and not force ourselves to extend help when it is
met with resistance.

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What does it mean when the author talks about the
importance of not becoming immune to sensitivity?
Answer:When the author emphasizes not becoming immune
to sensitivity, it highlights the value of being attuned to the
feelings and experiences of others. Acknowledging our
emotions allows us to connect deeply with humanity,
prompting us to create change rather than turning a blind eye
to wrongdoing. Sensitivity is portrayed as a strength that
fosters empathy and drives us to improve the world around
us.

4.Question
What is the role of kindness in combating negativity as
discussed in this chapter?
Answer:Kindness acts as a counterbalance to the negativity
mentioned in the chapter. It serves as an affirmation of our
shared humanity, where simple gestures of goodwill can
ripple out and inspire a culture of support and positivity. The
author suggests that when we respond to negativity with
kindness, we uplift not only ourselves but also others who

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might be struggling with similar feelings.

5.Question
How can someone cultivate a positive environment
despite the presence of negativity?
Answer:To cultivate a positive environment amidst
negativity, one should focus on surrounding themselves with
uplifting individuals, practicing gratitude, and engaging in
acts of kindness. Setting boundaries with negative influences
and actively promoting positivity, such as celebrating small
victories and sharing support with others, can help build a
nurturing community.

6.Question
What should we consider when faced with someone who
does not reciprocate kindness?
Answer:When faced with someone who does not return
kindness, it is crucial to remember that their actions often
reflect their own struggles rather than our worth. Rather than
taking it personally, we can choose to express compassion
and understanding. This mindset reinforces the idea that our

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kindness is valid and that we should continue to spread it,
irrespective of others' responses.

7.Question
In what ways can sensitivity be turned into a tool for
personal growth?
Answer:Sensitivity can be transformed into a tool for
personal growth by allowing us to observe and analyze the
negative aspects of human behavior. This awareness
promotes self-reflection and encourages us to cultivate
emotional intelligence. It helps us navigate our relationships
thoughtfully and enables profound connections with others,
enhancing our ability to express empathy and support.

8.Question
What is a suggested course of action for someone
overwhelmed by the negativity around them?
Answer:If someone feels overwhelmed by negativity, they
should focus on self-care strategies such as mindfulness
practices, seeking support from trusted people, and engaging
in positive activities that lift their spirits. It can also help to

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limit exposure to negative influences where possible and
redirect energy towards constructive endeavors that foster
growth and joy.
Chapter 12 | Decide| Q&A
1.Question
What are the two choices we face when life presents us
with challenges?
Answer:We can either accept the challenge and
prioritize how we approach it, or deny that the
challenge exists and ignore it.

2.Question
How should we handle the challenges that come into our
lives?
Answer:We should accept that we must deal with challenges
instead of taking them personally. We need to give them the
appropriate time and energy based on their importance.

3.Question
What responsibility do we have towards our own
challenges?
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our challenges, whether that means facing them or ignoring
them. It's essential to take ownership of our decisions.

4.Question
What impact does our attitude have on how we navigate
life’s challenges?
Answer:Our attitude can determine how we experience
obstacles. A positive attitude can help us conquer challenges,
while a negative attitude may cause us to feel overwhelmed.

5.Question
Why is it important to give ourselves credit for handling
difficult times?
Answer:Recognizing our own resilience and ability to deal
with challenges can empower us and improve our confidence
in facing future difficulties.

6.Question
What reminder does the author give about facing
challenges?
Answer:The author reminds us that we have dealt with
challenges before, and that even when the reason for a
challenge is unclear, it is meant for us to face.

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7.Question
How should we perceive challenges in the context of our
lives?
Answer:Challenges should be viewed as opportunities for
growth rather than burdens. Accepting them with a proactive
mindset can lead to personal achievements.

8.Question
What is a key takeaway regarding our internal response
to life’s hurdles?
Answer:The key takeaway is to find peace within ourselves,
acknowledging that life itself is not against us, but rather our
response to life's circumstances can be what we struggle
with.

9.Question
How can recognizing the importance of a challenge affect
our approach to it?
Answer:By realizing that every challenge serves a purpose,
we can approach it with a sense of curiosity and
determination rather than dread.

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What transformation can happen when we shift our
perspective on life's difficulties?
Answer:When we shift our perspective to see challenges as
part of our journey, we can build resilience and find joy in
our accomplishments, no matter how small.

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Chapter 13 | A Battle to Win| Q&A
1.Question
What does it mean to wear different faces in different
environments?
Answer:Wearing different faces means adapting our
personality and behavior based on the people we are
around. It can reflect our desire to connect and fit
in, but it may also indicate a lack of authenticity if
we are not true to ourselves.

2.Question
Why is it important to confront our different personalities
or faces?
Answer:Confronting our different personalities is crucial
because it helps us understand our true self and beliefs.
Unresolved contradictions can lead to uncertainty and
discomfort, while bringing these internal conflicts to light
can help us attain inner peace.

3.Question
How can one find the personality that feels most
comfortable?

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Answer:To find the most comfortable personality, one must
reflect on their values, beliefs, and experiences. This involves
recognizing which face is authentic rather than one created
for others' approval, leading to genuine interactions.

4.Question
What should we do if our different faces are in conflict
with one another?
Answer:If our different faces conflict, we should take the
time to examine and resolve these discrepancies within
ourselves. It’s essential to reflect on why these differences
exist and work towards a consensus to achieve
self-acceptance.

5.Question
What can we do to ensure we are genuine with others?
Answer:To ensure authenticity with others, we must first be
genuine with ourselves. By acknowledging and reconciling
the various aspects of our personality, we can present a
sincere self to the world, allowing our true confidence to
shine.

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6.Question
How does resolving internal contradictions influence our
confidence?
Answer:Resolving internal contradictions helps us feel
comfortable in our own skin, which directly enhances our
confidence. When we accept ourselves as we are, we carry a
sense of assurance that is felt by others, leading to more
profound connections.

7.Question
What should one do if they feel unsure about who they
really are?
Answer:If feeling unsure about one's identity, it's essential to
take time for introspection. Engage in self-reflection to
understand your core beliefs and values, and confront any
inconsistencies within yourself to foster clarity in who you
truly are.

8.Question
Why is it important to prioritize personal issues before
engaging with others?
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unresolved internal conflicts can affect how we interact with
others. By addressing personal challenges first, we can
approach relationships with greater clarity, authenticity, and
peace, enhancing our interactions.

9.Question
What is the ultimate outcome of confronting oneself?
Answer:The ultimate outcome of confronting oneself is
achieving inner peace and self-acceptance. When you
reconcile the different facets of your personality, you will
naturally exude confidence and authenticity in all your
interactions.
Chapter 14 | The Language of Silence| Q&A
1.Question
What is the significance of silence in communication
according to the text?
Answer:Silence is a powerful form of
communication that can convey a range of emotions
and thoughts more compellingly than spoken words.
It is present everywhere and can reflect happiness,

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sadness, acceptance, deep thought, disappointment,
and more. Unlike spoken words, silence holds no
tone, which opens it up to interpretation and
personal reflection, leading listeners to explore their
inner thoughts and feelings.

2.Question
How can silence impact our perception of others and their
feelings?
Answer:Silence can create an intriguing dynamic in our
interactions, as it allows us to interpret the feelings and
intentions of others based on our own experiences and
emotions. It can awaken various internal voices that guide us
to feel shame, guilt, pride, or other emotions depending on
our interpretations of that silence. This subjective
interpretation emphasizes the importance of being mindful
and thoughtful about how we perceive others’ silences.

3.Question
How might one’s intention affect their interpretation of
silence in communication?

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Answer:One's intention significantly shapes how silence is
interpreted; for example, if you approach silence with a
mindset of suspicion or fear, you may interpret it negatively,
thinking others are upset or angry. Conversely, if you
approach silence with openness and curiosity, it can lead to a
deeper understanding of the other person or even
self-reflection. This self-talk can either affirm or challenge
our thoughts, shaping our emotional responses.

4.Question
What questions should we ask ourselves regarding the use
of silence in communication?
Answer:We should consider whether we actively and
consciously use silence as a means of communication, how
our silence might be interpreted by others, and whether we
give adequate attention to the silences of others.
Additionally, we should reflect on whether we allow one
dominant voice within us to color our understanding of a
situation or if we seek diverse perspectives.

5.Question

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Can silence take more energy than speaking, and why?
Answer:Yes, silence can take more energy than speaking
because it requires self-restraint and the effort to hold back
thoughts and feelings that one may wish to express. This
internal struggle can be emotionally taxing, as you are
navigating your own thoughts while trying to convey a
message or emotion non-verbally.

6.Question
Why might it be important to pay attention to the silence
of others?
Answer:Paying attention to the silence of others is crucial
because it can reveal underlying emotions or messages that
are not communicated verbally. Understanding these silent
cues can enhance our empathy, foster deeper connections,
and allow us to approach interactions with greater sensitivity
and awareness.

7.Question
How does silence act as a mirror of our inner selves?
Answer:Silence acts as a mirror by reflecting our inner

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thoughts, emotions, and convictions. When faced with
silence, we are prompted to engage with our own feelings
and beliefs, which can reveal much about ourselves,
including our fears, desires, and insecurities. This
introspective aspect of silence allows us to gain insights into
our identity and emotional state.
Chapter 15 | The First Step| Q&A
1.Question
What is the significance of taking the first step toward
achieving greatness?
Answer:Taking the first step is crucial as it marks
the transition from inaction to action. It sets the
momentum for achieving extraordinary goals.
Without this step, one can remain stagnant and lose
faith in their journey, whereas once they take that
initial step, they are more likely to continue
progressing.

2.Question
How does uncertainty affect our ability to pursue
extraordinary goals?

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Answer:Uncertainty can deter individuals from pursuing
their goals because it introduces doubt about their ability to
succeed and fear of the unknown. However, greatness often
requires stepping into that uncertainty to embrace challenges,
suggesting that the rare and valuable achievements come
with risk.

3.Question
Why should we focus on the next step instead of the end
goal?
Answer:Focusing on the next step keeps you grounded and
manageable, preventing overwhelm. When you concentrate
on immediate actions, it helps maintain motivation and belief
in your ability to reach the ultimate goal, making it easier to
achieve the extraordinary.

4.Question
What does the metaphor about planting a seed imply
about pursuing greatness?
Answer:The metaphor illustrates that just as you must plant a
seed and nurture it before you can expect to harvest fruits, in

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life, you must take foundational steps and endure challenges
before you can achieve significant milestones. It emphasizes
patience and the importance of starting from the ground up.

5.Question
What mindset is necessary for pursuing extraordinary
goals?
Answer:A mindset that embraces hardship, resilience, and
the understanding that the journey to greatness will involve
struggle is essential. Recognizing that persistence is often
harder than giving up prepares one for the challenges ahead
and reinforces commitment to the goal.

6.Question
What does it mean to convince oneself of the need for
hardships in pursuit of greatness?
Answer:It means acknowledging that the path to
extraordinary accomplishments is rarely smooth and involves
obstacles and difficulties. By accepting this reality, you can
prepare yourself mentally and emotionally for the challenges
that will arise, making you more likely to persevere.

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7.Question
How can one maintain belief in their goals despite
setbacks?
Answer:By focusing on the immediate next steps instead of
the overwhelming whole journey, and by reminding oneself
of past successes or breakthroughs, one can cultivate ongoing
belief and motivation, mitigating the influence of setbacks on
their self-worth and aspirations.

8.Question
What is the relationship between rarity and the pursuit of
extraordinary goals?
Answer:Rarity heightens the value of extraordinary goals, as
they are seldom pursued due to the perceived difficulty in
achieving them. This can create a mindset that discourages
people from attempting to reach these lofty aspirations, even
though those that do often experience significant fulfillment
and growth.

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Chapter 16 | What Would You Do?| Q&A
1.Question
What is the essence of longing for something we desire
but feel hopeless about?
Answer:The essence lies in the contrasting emotions
that arise when we yearn for moments or desires
that seem distant and unattainable. These are often
the dreams we hold dear yet feel unworthy or
incapable of achieving, much like a butterfly drawn
to the light but never quite reaching it.

2.Question
How can unexpected moments change our perception of
hope?
Answer:Unexpected moments can reignite hope in us by
demonstrating that life can bring us joy and fulfillment when
we least anticipate it. They can highlight the potential for
happiness beyond our current struggles and doubts,
reminding us that sometimes, what we seek arrives at a
moment when we are not actively pursuing it.

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3.Question
What do you do when you realize you have been
overthinking a desire?
Answer:It's important to pause and reflect. Instead of fixating
on the outcome, one should consider directing that energy
into appreciating the present or exploring new avenues that
may bring unexpected happiness. This shift in focus can
often alleviate the burdens of overthinking and open the door
to new possibilities.

4.Question
How can one react upon receiving what they once
desperately wanted, after moving on from it?
Answer:Upon receiving it, one might feel a mix of elation
and introspection. While some may rejoice in their
achievement, others might realize that their past desire no
longer holds the same significance. This realization can lead
to personal growth and a deeper understanding of happiness,
often making one appreciate life itself more than the specific
desires they once chased.

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5.Question
What role does environment play in the realization of our
desires?
Answer:The environment plays a critical role in shaping our
experiences and expectations. A beautiful, unfamiliar place
can stir feelings of wonder and possibility, allowing us to
reconnect with our desires in a more profound way. It
emphasizes that sometimes, stepping out of our comfort zone
can lead to the fulfillment of desires we were once shackled
to.
Chapter 17 | Educate Me| Q&A
1.Question
What does it mean to educate someone beyond
memorization?
Answer:To educate someone beyond memorization
means to foster critical thinking and a deeper
understanding of concepts. It involves teaching them
how to read between the lines of information,
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curiosity, and learn to analyze and interpret
information independently.

2.Question
How can an educator respect a student's individuality?
Answer:An educator can respect a student's individuality by
recognizing and valuing their unique perspectives and
experiences. This can be achieved by treating them as human
beings, being open about their own mistakes, and
acknowledging that both the educator and the student are on
a learning journey together.

3.Question
Why is it important for students to learn how to support
themselves after failures?
Answer:It's important for students to learn how to support
themselves after failures because it builds resilience and
self-confidence. By understanding that falling down is a part
of growth, they develop the ability to get back up and
continue their journey. This self-reliance nurtures a mindset
that embraces challenges and strives for improvement.

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4.Question
What role does encouragement play in education?
Answer:Encouragement plays a crucial role in education as it
helps students believe in themselves and their potential.
Educators can inspire students by showing faith in their
abilities and by seeing the best in them, which can become a
significant source of motivation, especially when external
validation is lacking.

5.Question
How can tests and grades affect a student's love for
learning?
Answer:Tests and grades can create anxiety and a fear of
failure, which may stifle a student's natural curiosity and
desire to learn. By taking away the fear associated with them
and promoting a focus on personal growth and the learning
process, educators can help cultivate a genuine love for
learning that is not solely based on performance metrics.

6.Question
What is meant by making education about the student?
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the learning experience to meet their interests, needs, and
goals. This approach emphasizes the importance of student
agency and encourages them to take ownership of their
education, fostering a lifelong learning attitude.

7.Question
How does empowerment in education transform a
student's future?
Answer:Empowerment in education transforms a student's
future by equipping them with the confidence and belief that
they can make a difference in the world. By recognizing their
unique qualities and potential, students are more likely to
take initiative, pursue their dreams, and contribute positively
to society.

8.Question
What is the significance of teaching students to see the
world beyond textbooks?
Answer:Teaching students to see the world beyond textbooks
is significant because it encourages them to connect lessons
with real-life experiences and global issues. This broader

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perspective helps develop critical thinking and fosters
empathy, enabling students to understand their roles in a
larger context.

9.Question
In what ways should education equip students for
decision-making?
Answer:Education should equip students for
decision-making by providing them with essential skills,
such as critical thinking, problem-solving, and
self-assessment. Instead of just imparting knowledge,
educators should guide students in evaluating options,
weighing consequences, and making informed choices that
reflect their values and aspirations.
Chapter 18 | Past What You See| Q&A
1.Question
What is the main message about compassion in Chapter
18?
Answer:The chapter emphasizes that if we knew the
struggles and tests others face, we would cultivate

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more compassion for them. It reminds us that
everyone has their battles and that what we often see
on the surface—beauty, wealth, happiness—may
hide deep personal struggles.

2.Question
How should we respond to our feelings of envy towards
others?
Answer:Instead of envying others for what they have, we
should reflect on our own lives and appreciate what we
possess. It's important to recognize that everyone has their
own challenges, and envy only obscures the understanding of
others' realities.

3.Question
What does the chapter say about judgment and
perception?
Answer:The chapter warns against making judgments based
on outward appearances. It suggests that just because
someone appears to be happy or successful does not mean
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looking beyond the surface.

4.Question
Why is it important to accept our own problems?
Answer:Accepting our own problems allows us to deal with
them maturely and not project our issues onto others. It
fosters resilience and the ability to help others without
burdening them with our struggles.

5.Question
What role does happiness play in our perception of
others?
Answer:Happiness can often be deceptive; it might seem that
others are content and free from issues, but this happiness
could be a way of coping with their personal battles. We
shouldn't assume that external signs of happiness equate to a
lack of internal struggles.

6.Question
What should we focus on instead of judging others?
Answer:We should focus on our own lives, be grateful for
what we have, and avoid comparative thinking which can
lead to jealousy and resentment.

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7.Question
How can understanding others' struggles affect our
relationships?
Answer:Understanding that everyone is fighting their own
battles can enhance our empathy and strengthen our
relationships. It can help us be more supportive and kind,
reducing unnecessary judgments.

8.Question
What warning does the chapter give about desires?
Answer:The chapter advises caution in what we wish for.
Sometimes, life may fulfill a desire but at the cost of
something truly needed, highlighting the complexity of our
wants versus our needs.

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Chapter 19 | It's You| Q&A
1.Question
What is the difference between people who disrespect you
based on your actions and those who disrespect you based
on who you are?
Answer:The former group disrespects you due to the
way you deal with them, while the latter disrespects
you simply because of envy toward your inherent
qualities. This often stems from jealousy, where they
may claim to praise you but secretly wish to see you
fail.

2.Question
Why is it important not to blame yourself for how people
treat you?
Answer:Often, we internalize disrespect and assume it
reflects our worth. However, realizing that some people may
disrespect you out of jealousy can empower you to
understand your value rather than degrade it. Acknowledging
that their treatment may stem from their insecurities allows
you to separate their actions from your self-worth.

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3.Question
How should we respond to those who respect us and those
who don't?
Answer:We should celebrate and nurture the relationships
with those who respect us while recognizing that we do not
need to prove ourselves to anyone who disrespects us. It’s
essential to surround ourselves with people who uplift us
rather than drag us down.

4.Question
What does it mean to seek wealth of knowledge and spirit
rather than wealth of money?
Answer:It implies prioritizing personal growth, learning, and
spiritual fulfillment over material possessions. True wealth
lies in the depth of purpose we find in knowledge and our
connections with others, not just in financial success.

5.Question
What should be our approach to love and respect in
relationships?
Answer:We should love openly and allow others to love us in
return. We must also respect others, but not at the cost of our

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dignity. This means giving generously while being cautious
not to allow ourselves to be taken advantage of.

6.Question
How can we maintain our self-worth and tranquility in a
world that often pressures us to conform?
Answer:By believing in our goodness, living authentically,
and choosing silence when necessary, we can protect our
self-worth. It’s crucial to uphold our values, pursuits, and
dreams, refusing to be muted by societal pressures.

7.Question
What does it mean to give more than you take?
Answer:This encourages a mindset of generosity and
selflessness. It suggests that we should focus on contributing
positively to our relationships and communities rather than
solely seeking our own gains.

8.Question
What should you do when faced with the choice between
speaking up or remaining silent?
Answer:Choose silence unless speaking out will hurt you. It
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your silence to undermine your values or self-esteem.
Chapter 20 | The Stars Within| Q&A
1.Question
Why do you tell your secrets to the stars?
Answer:The stars understand the language of my
heart and mind like no one else does. They never ask
questions and always listen, making them a safe
space for my thoughts.

2.Question
What do the stars symbolize for you?
Answer:The stars symbolize trust and beauty. They represent
something distant yet inspiring, reminding me to trust in my
dreams and reach for what may seem far out of reach.

3.Question
How have the stars influenced your self-communication?
Answer:I realized that the stars were an excuse for
self-communication. They taught me to listen to my own
heart and mind before sharing my feelings with others.

4.Question
What lesson did you learn about honesty from your

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reflections on the stars?
Answer:I learned that I must be honest with myself before I
can be honest with anyone else. My truth must start within,
or it risks becoming a deception towards myself.

5.Question
How do you express self-respect based on your
experiences?
Answer:I respect myself by valuing my path and the freedom
I have. I celebrate my journey and the choices that lead me to
personal growth.

6.Question
What does seeing beauty in simple things mean to you?
Answer:Seeing beauty in simple things allows me to
appreciate life's moments. It mirrors my ability to appreciate
larger wonders, like the beauty of the stars and the moon.

7.Question
How can I cultivate trust in myself according to your
experience?
Answer:You can cultivate trust in yourself by nurturing
self-awareness, reflecting deeply on your thoughts and

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feelings, and motivating yourself to believe in your own
worth.

8.Question
Why is it important to believe in oneself before seeking
validation from others?
Answer:Believing in oneself is crucial because it forms the
foundation of genuine self-worth. Without self-belief,
seeking validation from others becomes hollow and
unsatisfying.

9.Question
How do the stars encourage dreaming despite their
distance?
Answer:The stars encourage dreaming by showing that
beauty exists beyond what is immediately reachable. Their
presence inspires hope and ambition, encouraging me to
believe in pursuing my dreams.

10.Question
What does the journey of self-discovery look like for you?
Answer:My journey of self-discovery involves listening to
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myself to grow through introspection, much like gazing at
the stars and pondering their mysteries.
Chapter 21 | Reframe Gratitude| Q&A
1.Question
What should we reflect on when we feel overwhelmed by
life's challenges?
Answer:We should take a moment to honestly
reflect on all the things we have in our lives. We
often complain about being given too much to
handle, but if we pause and consider the capacity of
our hearts and minds, we might realize that our
struggles are actually opportunities for gratitude.
It's important to ask ourselves if we are handling
our blessings correctly and appreciating the little
joys in life.

2.Question
How can appreciating small moments lead to greater
happiness?
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random act of kindness, helps us cultivate a sense of
gratitude and joy that enriches our lives. If we focus only on
seeking larger sources of happiness, we may overlook the
simple, fleeting moments that bring genuine joy. By finding
happiness in small details, we create a foundation for
appreciating greater experiences.

3.Question
What does the text suggest about the heart's capacity to
love?
Answer:The text suggests that our hearts have an immense
capacity to love without limits. However, we often build
walls around our hearts to protect them, which can prevent us
from experiences of love and joy. Instead of protecting
ourselves too much, we should embrace our ability to love
and allow ourselves to feel, to give, and to share without
hesitation.

4.Question
Why is it important to recognize what we take for
granted?

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Answer:Recognizing what we take for granted is crucial
because it helps us shift our perspective from complaints to
gratitude. By acknowledging the things we often overlook,
we can cultivate a deeper appreciation for our lives, reducing
feelings of overwhelm and enhancing our mental well-being.
When we understand that we have been given more than we
realize, it shapes how we respond to life's challenges.

5.Question
What is the relationship between our mind's capabilities
and self-doubt?
Answer:Our minds have the capability to reason logically
and navigate through problems effectively. However,
self-doubt often arises when we allow others to influence our
perceptions of our capabilities. Instead of trusting ourselves
to solve our own challenges, we might seek validation from
others, leading to insecurity. It’s crucial to harness our
mind’s power to prioritize our own needs and confirm our
inherent worth.

6.Question

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What key message is conveyed about happiness and
lasting fulfillment?
Answer:The key message conveys that true happiness comes
from appreciating the present and recognizing the beauty in
everyday moments. Temporary sources of happiness may
come from external achievements or possessions, but they
tend to fade. Lasting fulfillment, however, is rooted in
gratitude and the ability to cherish even the smallest joys in
life.

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Chapter 22 | Moonless Nights| Q&A
1.Question
What does the imagery of stars shining on moonless
nights signify?
Answer:The stars shining despite the absence of the
moon symbolizes resilience and the persistence of
hope. Even in the darkest times, there is still light to
be found, reflecting the idea that even when
circumstances seem bleak, positivity and potential
for greatness continue to exist.

2.Question
How can we interpret the concept of waiting for rain
while yearning for water?
Answer:This metaphor illustrates patience and faith in the
process of life. Just as the earth waits for rain, we too must
recognize that blessings may take time to arrive, and
understanding this can prevent us from becoming despondent
during our dry spells.

3.Question
What lesson can we take from the abandoned trees and

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the restless birds?
Answer:Abandoned trees receiving birds represent the idea
of providing support and sanctuary even when we ourselves
feel neglected. It teaches us that we can still be a refuge for
others despite our own challenges.

4.Question
How does the mention of death springing new life relate
to our outlook on life?
Answer:This idea suggests that endings can lead to new
beginnings. In experiencing loss or disappointment, we can
awaken to new opportunities and appreciate the beauty in life
we may have previously overlooked.

5.Question
What does the text suggest about the relationship between
giving and greatness?
Answer:The text proposes that true greatness comes from a
balance of giving and receiving; if you only take without
giving back, you cannot truly be great. This stresses the
importance of contributing positively to the world and others

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around you to cultivate your own greatness.

6.Question
In what way does the writing challenge the fear of
failure?
Answer:By questioning how one can lose hope after a single
failure, the text encourages resilience and persistence. It
suggests that failure is a part of the journey toward success
and should not deter one from pursuing their goals.

7.Question
What is the significance of the statement about fate
chasing us rather than us chasing fate?
Answer:This implies that rather than trying to control every
aspect of our lives, we should trust that our destinies will
unfold in their own time. The notion invites a sense of
surrender and acceptance in the journey of life.

8.Question
How does one's uniqueness relate to the arrival of
happiness?
Answer:The text emphasizes that each person's individuality
leads to happiness arriving in its own unique way. This

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instills a sense of hope that, despite hardships, our specific
qualities and experiences attract joy tailored to us.

9.Question
What role do principles play in decision-making
according to the passage?
Answer:The passage suggests that adhering to one's
principles ensures that decisions are aligned with core values,
which can prevent future regrets. Principles act as a guiding
force, ensuring integrity in our choices.

10.Question
How does the text encourage the reader to maintain
faith?
Answer:It encourages readers to cultivate faith in their hearts
and to take action based on that faith. By doing so,
individuals will align themselves with their true paths,
leading to outcomes that are genuinely meant for them.
Chapter 23 | How Dare You| Q&A
1.Question
What is the significance of having a purpose in life
according to Chapter 23?

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Answer:Having a purpose in life is inherently linked
to the reality of facing enemies. This reflects the idea
that when you stand for something meaningful, you
are likely to encounter opposition. Your purpose
often aligns with the well-being of others, which
challenges the self-centered worldview prevalent in
society.

2.Question
What does the text imply about societal values and
compassion?
Answer:The text suggests that societal values often promote
selfishness and undermine compassion. It criticizes a world
where success is measured by personal gain at the expense of
caring for others. The encouragement to prioritize
self-interest can lead to a detachment from our inherent
compassion.

3.Question
How does the excerpt relate to the concept of authority?
Answer:The text questions the blind respect of authority

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figures who promote these societal values. It encourages
readers to reflect critically on authority, implying that
questioning authority is essential to being truly human and
connected to our compassionate selves.

4.Question
What is the relationship between our inherent
compassion and societal expectations?
Answer:Inherent compassion exists in everyone, yet societal
pressures can lead to a selective heartlessness. The text
argues that we suppress our natural compassionate instincts
due to a belief that prioritizing our own needs—often framed
as a route to happiness—is the right approach.

5.Question
What does 'putting yourself first' mean in a healthy way
according to the excerpt?
Answer:Putting yourself first means focusing on personal
growth and self-betterment rather than engaging in selfish
behavior. It involves listening to your heart and prioritizing
actions that nurture your dignity and well-being without

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disregarding others.

6.Question
Can material success provide true happiness as per the
insights in Chapter 23?
Answer:No, material success, embodied in the form of a
paycheck or societal accolades, does not equate to true
happiness. The text highlights that true fulfillment comes
from sacrifice, compassion, and connection with others rather
than superficial achievements.

7.Question
How can one reconcile their desire for personal success
with compassion for others?
Answer:One can reconcile these desires by redefining
personal success as growth that includes uplifting others.
Focusing on self-improvement that fosters compassion
ultimately leads to a more fulfilling life, where personal and
communal well-being coexist.

8.Question
What message does the author convey about human
interactions in the modern world?

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Answer:The author conveys that modern human interactions
often neglect basic compassion and empathy, resulting in a
society that feels more machine-like than human. This
disconnection is detrimental to our understanding of what it
means to be truly alive and compassionate.
Chapter 24 | Clarity| Q&A
1.Question
What does the metaphor of waiting for a sunrise that may
never come signify?
Answer:It symbolizes the human tendency to hold
onto hope for opportunities or renewals that may
not materialize, leading us to ignore present realities
and possibilities.

2.Question
How does one often misinterpret their own perception of
reality?
Answer:One's perception of reality is influenced by desires
and hopes, which can blind them to the actual circumstances
they face.

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3.Question
What role do thoughts and realizations play in personal
growth?
Answer:Thoughts lead to contemplation and learning;
realizations drive self-reflection and understanding, while
mistakes contribute to personal development.

4.Question
What does the choice between expressing anger or
remaining calm signify about personal strength?
Answer:It illustrates that true strength often lies in the
conscious decision to handle emotions responsibly rather
than succumbing to them, showcasing resilience in adversity.

5.Question
Why is goodness described as a choice, not a default?
Answer:Goodness requires intentional effort and
commitment rather than being an automatic response; it
challenges individuals to act positively amidst difficulties.

6.Question
In the face of disappointments, what should one do with
the pieces of their soul?

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Answer:Instead of leaving pieces behind, one should gather
them to create a stronger, more beautiful self, representing
resilience and the ability to cope with pain.

7.Question
Why is believing in people essential for empowerment
and personal growth?
Answer:Believing in others fosters trust and hope, which is
fundamental for mutual support, continuous learning, and
overcoming personal challenges.

8.Question
How does the comparison of our perception to a
distortion reflect on our expectations of reality?
Answer:It suggests that our flawed perceptions challenge our
unrealistic expectations for clarity in reality; understanding
our biases can lead to more realistic views.

9.Question
What is the significance of believing in healing and the
passage of time?
Answer:Belief in healing signifies an acceptance of process
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necessary for restoration.

10.Question
What does the analogy of thirsty earth rejecting rain
convey about human nature?
Answer:It conveys that, like the earth, humans are inherently
receptive to life's blessings, emphasizing the importance of
remaining open to positive change after enduring hardships.

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Mind Platter Quiz and Test
Check the Correct Answer on Bookey Website

Chapter 1 | Wholeheartedness| Quiz and Test

1.A true risk is only meaningful when it is taken
with genuine conviction and not due to external
pressures.
2.Every experience should be viewed as a waste of time if the
outcome is disappointing.
3.Focusing solely on forgetting negative experiences leads to
greater positivity in life.
Chapter 2 | Common Sense?| Quiz and Test
1.People often confuse common sense with good
sense, conforming to societal expectations.
2.True leadership encourages blind allegiance among
followers.
3.Many people are willing to take the lead in addressing
moral wrongs without waiting for someone else to speak
up.
Chapter 3 | No One’s Watching| Quiz and Test

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1.We only engage in activities for recognition and
praise.
2.Sincere intentions are essential for genuine happiness
according to the chapter.
3.Our actions should be primarily guided by how others
perceive them.

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Chapter 4 | An Enigmatic Feeling| Quiz and Test
1.Feelings, once experienced, become a temporary
part of the heart that can fluctuate in intensity.
2.Mastery of feelings leads to logical responses and planned
actions, while being dominated by feelings results in
impulsive actions.
3.Verbalizing a feeling always maintains its essence and
keeps it under your control.
Chapter 5 | Be the Master| Quiz and Test
1.Bravery in self-honesty involves recognizing the
interplay between your heart and mind.
2.People cope with the challenge of balance by always
blaming external factors for their imbalances.
3.Mastery of thoughts and feelings is essential for effective
decision-making.
Chapter 6 | The Nature of Life| Quiz and Test
1.In our fast-paced lives, focusing solely on
individual goals leads to better relationships with
loved ones.

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2.Taking time for personal reflection can lead to fresh
perspectives and resolutions in life.
3.The time spent with loved ones is often trivial and
unimportant.

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Chapter 7 | Silver Lining| Quiz and Test
1.The chapter encourages readers to hide their
happiness or achievements due to the fear of envy
from others.
2.Valuing the present moment is highlighted as crucial for
personal growth and empathy towards others.
3.The author suggests that negative traits can distort
perceptions of success, attributing it to superficial factors
rather than hard work.
Chapter 8 | A Wish Come True| Quiz and Test
1.The author suggests that achieving our desires
leads to uncertainty about our feelings.
2.According to the chapter, it is unnecessary to appreciate
our desires before we achieve them.
3.Self-care is only about external changes according to the
text.
Chapter 9 | Life, Simplified| Quiz and Test
1.You should always conform to others' expectations
to find success.

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2.Self-acceptance should come from external validation and
approval from others.
3.Celebrating your successes is important for cultivating
positivity in life.

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Chapter 10 | Goodness Gone Wrong?| Quiz and Test
1.Regretting your good deeds is essential for
personal growth.
2.Your happiness should depend on the appreciation you
receive from others.
3.Focusing on your purpose can help you feel compassion for
those who overlook your kindness.
Chapter 11 | Be Sensitive| Quiz and Test
1.People should embrace negativity as it doesn't
contribute to personal growth.
2.It is important to remain sensitive to others regardless of
their behavior.
3.Judging people by their appearances is encouraged as a
way to assess them accurately.
Chapter 12 | Decide| Quiz and Test
1.Challenges in life are a result of our decisions and
acceptance of them.
2.Ignoring a challenge will lead to personal growth and better
handling of future challenges.

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3.Embracing challenges with a positive mindset can
minimize their stressfulness.

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Chapter 13 | A Battle to Win| Quiz and Test
1.The chapter discusses the various personalities we
exhibit depending on the social environment we
are in.
2.The author believes that it is unnecessary to resolve
discrepancies among our different identities.
3.Self-reflection is deemed essential for achieving
self-acceptance and genuine confidence according to the
author.
Chapter 14 | The Language of Silence| Quiz and Test
1.Maintaining silence requires less energy than
speaking.
2.Silence can convey emotions such as happiness and
disappointment.
3.Silence has a clear tone that allows for easy interpretation.
Chapter 15 | The First Step| Quiz and Test
1.To achieve greatness, one must be willing to take
the right steps.
2.The journey to extraordinary goals is free from challenges

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 and stress.
3.Once the first step is taken, continuing becomes easier due
to the desire to preserve our investment.

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Chapter 16 | What Would You Do?| Quiz and Test
1.The unplanned moments that take our breath
away are similar to stars and are often dreams we
continuously hope for.
2.Reflecting on desires only involves considering the positive
outcomes of achieving what we want.
3.Imagining receiving what you desire unexpectedly can
encourage you to appreciate life more.
Chapter 17 | Educate Me| Quiz and Test
1.Education should emphasize rote memorization
and standardized testing according to the chapter.
2.Critical thinking and self-respect are important parts of the
educational approach discussed in the chapter.
3.The chapter suggests that falling is a sign of failure rather
than a learning opportunity.
Chapter 18 | Past What You See| Quiz and Test
1.The struggles that people face are often visible and
easy to understand.
2.The admiration we feel towards others may stem from their

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 coping mechanisms for their personal challenges.
3.We should judge others based on their apparent successes
and the qualities we admire in them.

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Chapter 19 | It's You| Quiz and Test
1.Self-blame only occurs when others are envious of
your qualities.
2.Prioritizing knowledge and nurturing relationships is more
valuable than accumulating material wealth.
3.Being a good person is often viewed as a flaw in society.
Chapter 20 | The Stars Within| Quiz and Test
1.The author believes that stars understand the
language of her heart and mind better than anyone
else.
2.The author encourages her readers to ignore their own
thoughts and feelings before communicating with others.
3.The author believes that respecting one's journey and
believing in oneself is crucial for happiness.
Chapter 21 | Reframe Gratitude| Quiz and Test
1.We should focus on complaints rather than
gratitude to understand our burdens better.
2.Our hearts are capable of limitless love but we often build
walls around it to protect ourselves.

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3.Most people find joy in life's simple moments and never
overlook them.

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Chapter 22 | Moonless Nights| Quiz and Test
1.The chapter 'Moonless Nights' suggests that even
in difficult times, hope and belief in existence
persist.
2.In order to find happiness, one must always conform to
predetermined expectations set by society.
3.The chapter implies that even after experiencing loss, it is
possible to find beauty and love again.
Chapter 23 | How Dare You| Quiz and Test
1.Living a purposeful life invites enemies according
to Chapter 23 of 'Mind Platter'.
2.The text argues that compassion is a luxury and not an
inherent quality.
3.True self-care involves ignoring the need to help others in
favor of personal gain.
Chapter 24 | Clarity| Quiz and Test
1.Our perception of reality is always accurate and
not influenced by our desires.
2.Mistakes can become opportunities for realization and

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 self-improvement.
3.Resilience means settling for negative beliefs about
oneself.

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