Marriage - 2.3
Marriage - 2.3
PYQ's :
Q1) write a note in 150 words on ways of acquiring a spouse in simpler societies ?(
2012)
Q2) where do you situate ' live in relationship' within the institution of marriage? (
250W, 2013)
Q3) Describe marriage and describe the various types of Marriage in human societies.
(2014)
Q4) write a short note on Incest Taboos ( 2015)
Q5) Discuss the different forms of preferential marriage with suitable examples from
tribal societies in India .( 2017)
Q6) write a note in 150 words on ways of acquiring mate in Tribal society .( 2018)
MARRIAGE
Definition and problems associated with a universal definition of marriage.
Definition:
Ist definition:
Mallinowski and Radcliffe Brown in the book " Anthropological Handbook, Notes and queries
( 1951) " defined marriage as , ' A Union between a man and a woman such that children born
to the woman are the recognized legitimate offspring of both the parents'
Edmund Leach highlighted that this definition doesn't hold universality for defining marriage,as
explained below .
● [ Ghost marriage -An individual male marries on the behalf of and in the name of a
male relative who has died without getting married . All children born to the
individual get the name of the deceased , that is , 'Ghost' . Thus in this marriage
there are essentially two grooms getting married , and it violates the definition of
marriage given by Mallinowski and Radcliffe Brown]
2. Legitimacy of offspring:
Legitimacy is a legal terms, which is missing in its true sense in stateless societies .
Tribes like Todas of Nilgiris decides legitimacy by bow and arrow ceremony.
Conclusion: Thus the above definition can't be taken as a universal definition of marriage
.However Royal Anthropological Institution of Britain also accepted this definition.
Second Definition:
Kathleen Gough ( studied Nayar polyandry ) defined Marriage as a relationship between a
woman and one or more other persons, in which the child born to the woman , under
circumstances not prohibited by the rules of relationship, is accorded full birth status rights
common to normal members of the society or social stratum .
Deviations:
a) Polygyny
a) Man - Man marriage among Azande tribes .
2. Rules of relationship- rules vary between societies and hence considers even
stateless societies where legitimacy is decided by simple ceremonies .
3. Full birth status : includes all forms of rights like social , political , economic, etc
4. Society or social stratum : rights vary between members of different social strata thus
covers Indian Varna system , etc
Third definition:
Edward Westermarck defined marriage in ' The Future of marriage in western Civilization '
as " A relation of one or more men to one or more women that is recognized by the custom or
law "
● It takes into consideration all forms of polygamy including polyandry and polygyny and
group marriages also
Fourth definition:
Edmund Leach stated that marriage can , but doesn't always accomplish the following,
1. Establish the legal father of a woman's Children and the legal mother of a man's children
2. Give each or both the spouses a monopoly on the sexuality of the other.
3. Give either or both the spouses right over the labour of the other .
4. Give Either or both the spouses rights over the other's property.
Conclusion:
1. Although there are several definitions of marriage, none of them can encompass all
different kinds of unions. As a result, while being a universal institution, marriage lacks a
single accepted definition.
2. We might therefore assert, in line with Edmund Leach, that a single definition of
marriage cannot be extended to all cultures. As of now, Gough's definition of marriage
continues to be as inclusive as possible.
3. Robin Fox has emphasized that marriage is universal but the definition of marriage has
no universality .
Universality of
Marriage:
Mallinowski and Radcliffe Brown in the book " Anthropological Handbook, Notes and queries (
1951) " defined marriage as , ' A Union between a man and a woman such that children born to
the woman are the recognized legitimate offspring of both the parents '
connector :
● The reason for the existence of marriage for us is both biological and socio- cultural .
● Give either or both the spouses right over the labour of the other .
● Give Either or both the spouses rights over the other's property.
2. Utilitarian Approach :
Marriage serves two important needs,
a) To check mate competition :
● Year round sexuality in humans(both male and female) can lead to mate
competition.
● To avoid any friction between the members , marriage serves a very important
function by regulating institutionalized mating between culturally defined mates .
● Marriage was thus developed to provide legally binding standards and Meet
requirements of both the sexes.
● This would in turn led to societal disturbances and hence marriage evolved as a
solution.
Conclusion: The biological and sociocultural demands of man, a social animal, are intertwined.
The particular male and female requirements for marriage influenced the development of the
institution of marriage.
Types of Marriage
3) Group Marriages
1) Monogamy :
It refers to a union when there is a marital relationship between one husband and one
wife.
It is further of two types :
a) Non serial monogamy :
● Here a man tends to have a single wife throughout his life .
● Example , Indian Hindu society.
b) Serial Monogamy:
● Here a man has a series of wives after either divorce or death of his previous wife .
● Example , American societies and most of the modern societies now a days .
Features of Monogamy:
1) Monogamy seems to be the earliest form of marriage as per various scholars.
2) Family stability and Equilibrium
3) Monogamy Is biologically the most suitable form of marriage .
Conclusion:
1. Melville Jacobs and Bernhard stern has described, "Monogamy is the most
favourite form of marriage " . Even those societies who practised polygamy are shifting
to Monogamy. Even the tribals are abandoning Polygamy.
2. As Democracy is the standard form of Government, Monogamy is the standard form of
marriage all over the world.
Polygamy :
● Robert H .Lowie In his book 'Primitive Society ' describes that in every human society,
the number of male and female is approximately equal . Hence , except Monogamy all
other forms of marriage are socially and culturally constructed .
(1) Polyandry :
concept : An individual is married to more than one spouse at a time.
Definition of Polyandry :
John Lewis defines it , as" the marriage in which a woman can have more than one husband at
the same time "
● It is found in less than 1 % of the people of the world in small food
gathering societies
2. Religious reason : Example Todas of Nilgiri - The Todas sacrifice their ist girl child to
the goddess which leads to distorted sex ratio among them .
3. Political reason : Example Nayars of kerala. They belong to the matrilineal warrior
tribe where all male members are away on the frontiers to defend the territory . Female
formally ties the marital knot with her ritual husband who goes to frontiers , but can have
visiting husbands.
4. Bride price : Due to high bride price among certain tribes polyandry is preferred.
5. Levirate polyandry : in case the husband dies , marrying the husband's brother is
levirate polyandry.
Case Study : Todas of Nilgiris
The polyandry is quite common among the Todas of Nilgiri . The reason being marked access
of men over women and prevalence of female Infanticide .
When a man marries a woman among the Todas, it is accepted that she immediately
becomes the bride of his brothers, who typically reside together. Even a brother born
afterwards will be seen as sharing the privilege of his elder brothers . The eldest husband
conducts the traditional Bow and arrow ceremony when the wife falls pregnant, which in this
tribe establishes legal fatherhood, however all the brothers are reckoned as the father of the
child.
(2) Polygyny :
Definition: A man is married to more than one woman at a time.
● It is prevalent among many Muslim tribes .
● In Hindu Mythology, king Dasartha of Ramayana had three wives and many other
Indian and African kings also had several wives.
polygyny Is further of types :
1) Sororal polygyny : if the wives of a man are related as sisters . Example ,
● Crow Indians of North America .
● Australian aboriginals
● Eskimos of North America
● Swazis of Africa
2) Non- sororal polygyny : The wives of a man are not sisters. Example
● Tongas of Africa
● Nagas in North East India
● Santhals of central india
b) Eskimos work as fish hunters in the polar waters. The life of a fisherman is at constant
risk. As a result, there are fewer men. Thus, polygyny is artificially made possible.
2. Status symbol: As in polygyny one is requires to pay bride price , it becomes the luxury of
the rich . Example Nagas
3. Filial widow inheritance : seen in the case of Monarchial kingdoms . When the king with
several wives dies , the eldest son inherits all the widows of his father except his biological
mother .
4. Post - Partum sex taboo : to avoid sexual intercourse in certain societies , male prefer to go
for polygyny . Example Yoruba tribe of Africa.
5. Warfare : Response to excess women over men because of the prevalence of warfare
among societies .
Ralph Linton has thus rightly described " polygyny derives from a general male primate urge to
collect females " .
3) Group marriage :
a) It is also referred to as polygynandry.
b) Several men are married to several women at the same time .
c) Group marriage is actually " Sexual Communism "
d) Rights and obligations of marriage relati
e) D.N Majumdar has reported instances of polygynandry among the Khasas of Jaunsar-
Bawar .
f) It was also reported among Marquesans of Polynesia.
g) However , lowie , Morgan andRivers denied any existence of sexual Communism in
any part of the world.
According to GP Murdock (Study of World Sample of 554 societies), the data was as following :-
Case study :
Kathleen Gough's study on Marriage among Nayars of kerala
Kathleen Gough presented a detailed study on Nayars of kerala in her work " The Nayars
and the definition of marriage " Nayars are a group of landowner Castes living in Kerala
belonging to the warfare community .
Important terms :
1. Tharavad ( matrilineally extended family which consist of brothers and sisters, a
woman's daughter their children )
2. Karnavaran (Head of tharavad )
The Nayar Marriage is a case of Non - Fraternal polyandry where a female undergoes two
types of Marriages,
a) Talikettu kalyanam ( referred to as primary marriage by Kathleen Gough and Louie
Dumont )
b) Sambandham vivah ( secondary marriage by Gough and Dumont )
● The Talikettu Kalyanam is always done with a Nayar boy but has to be done with
the boy of another Tharavad.
● Karnavaran has the authority to get all the girls in Tharavad married before they attain
sexual maturity .
● After puberty the couple cohabitate and perform some rituals after which the husband
doesn't posses any sexual monopoly on his wife .
● Now the girl can undergo ' Sambandham Marriages' with the higher caste Namboodri
Brahmins . These husbands will behave as visiting husbands .
● Edmund Leach has highlighted that the concept of Fatherhood is absent in the
Namboodri Brahmins with the Nayar children.
● Responsibility towards the child lies with the tharavad . The father has to be
acknowledged by the tharavad to accord full birth rights to the child.
● Any Sambhadham Husband can be recognized as the father of the child who provides
certain expenses related to child birth .
● Prince Peter stated that the Sambandham is a means by which Matrilineal Nayar caste
exist in the patrilineal Namboodiri milieu.
(B) Types of Marriage based on relations :
1. Consanguineous marriage
2. Non - Consanguineous marriage
1. Consanguineous marriage:
a) Uncle - Niece Marriage :
● This type of marriage leads to generation gap .The principal here include simple
give and take .
● The group that received a daughter in marriage must return a daughter in the
next generation.
● It is most common in South Indian and Central Indian tribes . The central Indian
tribes refer it as 'Dudh Lotawa'
b) Cousin marriages
i) Parallel Cousins : Children of the siblings of the same sex . They can be ,
1) Matrilineal parallel cousins ( Mosida - Mosi's daughter )
1. Proscriptive norms :
● These norms restrict marriage among specific groups in a society.
● Example Incest taboo
2. Prescriptive norms : The rules here prescribe whom a person should marry . Violation
of the rules attract sanctions .Endogamy and Exogamy are the main regulations
under prescriptive marriages .
a) Exogamy :
● when a person marries outside a specific social group/ lineage group / clan ,of
which he is a member .
● There can be village Exogamy, Caste Exogamy, Religion exogamy , Race
Exogamy, gotra Exogamy.
● Gotra is the maximum unit of exogamy in the Indian Hindu social system.
● Example Clan exogamy like Toda Clan exogamy , Gonds and Bhils also
perform Clan exogamy. Hindus follow strict caste exogamy.
● In Modern societies where stratification is prevalent along class lines , a member
would marry within his own class .
b) Endogamy :
● Lewis defined endogamy as follows : The rule that requires a person to marry
within a specific social group of which he is a member . In the Indian context , the
caste is defined as an endogamous unit .
● It can be clan endogamy , religion endogamy , caste endogamy ,etc.
● Example , the gonds marry within the Gond tribe ,Hindu follow strict gotra
exogamy .
Both these types of Marriages are widely prevalent in both tribal and modern societies . Eriksen
writes that all human groups are both endogamous and exogamous to varying degrees ,
that an endogamy once can be an exogamy other time . So, it is a matter of consideration.
3. Preferential norms :
● These marriages are preferred and don't attract any sanctions .
● These include ,
a) Cross cousin marriage (among kachin of Burma)
b) sororate and
c) levirate .
Marriage payments
Marriage payments refer to all exchanges of commodities or services between the bride's and
groom's kin groups that occur prior to, following, or during the wedding.
Frequency of marriage payments :
According to the survey conducted by G.P . Murdock in 1957 [world's ethnographic sample ] ,
the frequency of marriage payments are given below ;
2. Bride wealth
● Lowie (1927) describes that Bride wealth provides status to the girl and is a symbol of
value and dignity in a patriarchy.
● It is common in simple Societies
● It is paid by the groom's kin group to the bride's family .
● It is seen as compensation to the bride's family over the loss of two working hands .
● It establishes man's monopoly over the reproductive rights of women .
● It cements the relationship between the two kin groups .
Example :
1. Swazi , Neur and Masai tribes of Africa pay bride price in the form of cattle .
2. The American Cheyenne Red Indians pay in the form of horses .
3. Bride price :
● A payment made to purchase a bride .
● The groom's kin is obliged to transfer resources to the bride's kin .
● It is also regarded as a social menace like Dowry.
Both levirate and sororate are found among the Scheduled Castes and scheduled
tribes .
4. Suitor service :
● It is a replacement of bride wealth in poor sections of societies .
● To obtain rights over the bride and her unborn offspring, the groom or any of his
relations must work for a set amount of time.
● Examples , agricultural tribes like Gonds and Ho , Birhor, Chenchu in India.
● It may also involve living with the girl's family like a servant as in Lepchas
● It may be limited to certain tasks like hunting for in - laws in Siriono Red Indians.
5. Gift exchange:
● It is a form of marriage transaction which is bidirectional ( from both boy's and girl's
family )
● Sister exchange is one classical example among gift exchange found among Tiv tribe
of Nigeria
● Other Examples include , In Samoa ,gifts exchanged by both the sites are of equal
value
● Trobriand islanders .
Conclusion:
John Lewis writes that the marriage payment Emphasizes the fact that marriage doesn't
concern the marrying couple alone Marriage is an alliance between the two kingroups in which
the couple concerned is merely the most suspicious link .
Marriage Regulations :
● The nature, structure, and purpose of marriage in a culture are governed by certain
norms and standards.
● Every community has some laws governing marriage, although these laws differ from
society to society. However, there are some norms and standards that apply to all
cultures
● The word INCEST means sexual intercourse within a closely related person of one's
family like Mother - son , Brother - sister,etc
● The word TABOO refers to a Prohibition of such sexual intercourse on moral basis .
● Lewis defined" Incest as a term applied to any such prohibited union "
● Prohibition existed to only those who are held to be within the family , even though there
may be several degrees of biological distance or they are hardly related at all . Example
Father - daughter incest is tabooed in all societies .
1. Psychoanalytic Theory :
● proposed by Sigmond Freud .
● According to this theory, a strong sexual attraction exist between two persons of a
closely related family like Mother and son , Father and Daughter , Sister and Brother ,
etc
● Incase if the INCEST is not socially or Morally prohibited , it may lead to sexual relations
among the close family members .
● Therefore taboo is a way to control it .
criticism :
● Studies indicate that certain children do have an innate propensity for incest, but it
would be erroneous to generalise from such a finding.
● The theory also falls short of addressing why most kids in families without elders don't
engage in incest.
● Kachin tribesmen- mating with daughter or sister is incestuous , but with mother is
adulterous .
Criticism :
1. Eriksen refused this theory saying that people in many cases are ignorant of the
possible negative genetic effects of inbreeding. Therefore avoiding inbreeding can be a
consequence of incest taboo but it can not be a cause of it .
2. Population genetics studies have revealed that various endogamous Castes have
been observed to lose all recessive harmful genes and flourish for generations.
● Tylor explained it as a choice "between marrying out or being killed out " incase of
hostilities among different kin groups .
● Those who marry outside increased their chances of survival and strength.
Criticism :
1. Why did not man select to wed one or two members of his group outside . This would
have produced several ties, avoided the suffering of losing numerous members, and
diverted resources.
● Therefore incest taboo is necessary for Protection of family members from disturbance
and chaos .
Criticism :
1. This theory fails to explain brother - sister incest in the ancient Egypt and Inca empires .
Conclusion:
Significant criminal cases involving father-daughter incest are currently on the rise in western
society. According to studies from 2016, 1.5% of women in India admitted to engaging in
incestuous relationships. To sum up, even though the taboo against incest has certain
evolutionary roots, the current generation is defying the traditional institutions.
b) By elopement :
● This method is observed among Gonds , Bhils and Garasias of Rajasthan
d) By Intrusion:
● Sometimes a girl forcibly enters the house of a boy she likes .
● Sometimes gets insulted but continues to stay there , till she is accepted as daughter-in-
law .
● Example , kamar and Munda tribes .
● In Ho tribe it is called as Anadar means disrespect.
e) By mutual consent :
● The couple gets married in mutual agreement with or without the consent of either
side of the parents .
● In Santhal tribe , it is called as Raja - Raji
● In Ho tribe - it is called as Raji Khushi
b) By Exchange :
●The Brother gives his sister in marriage to another man and gets the latter's
sister as his wife .
● This marriage saves both the families from marriage expenditure.
● Examples , In Santhals and Bhils , it is called Golanti- bapla .
c) By Negotiations :
● In Few tribes , it either includes Dowry and bride price between the parents of
either side .
● Ho tribe called it Andi - marriage
● Karia Tribe - Asli marriage
● Santhals - Kiran bahu bapla .
As a threat to marriage:
While live -in relationships are gaining more and more acceptance among the younger
generation. It is still far away from replacing marriage as the latter provides greater financial
and emotional security and also includes bonding of domestic groups and kinship ties .
Even in the most advanced civilization, live-in relationships are viewed as a step before
marriage in order to determine compatibility. It is not viewed as a complete substitute for
marriage.
Conclusion:
Marriage and live-in relationships each have advantages and disadvantages. Whatever kind of
relationship one chooses, it must ultimately serve the needs of both partners and be based on
mutual respect and commitment.
Functions of Marriage:
● Marriage is a social institution with functions, rights and responsibilities almost common
to all kinds of marriages across the world .
● Edmund Leach , while trying to attempt a universal definition of marriage enlisted
functions of marriage, one or more of which is found in every society . They are ;
1. It establishes the legal father / Mother of a woman's/ man's child .
2. It gives either or both the spouses a monopoly on the sexuality of others .
3. It gives either or both the spouses right over the labour of the other .
4. It gives either or both the spouses right over the other's property.
5. It establishes a joint fund or property for the benefit of the children.
6. It establishes a socially significant relationship between domestic groups of husband and
wife.
Apart from these , marriage also fulfills other functions,