Sermon: Taming the Tongue
Introduction
Words are powerful. With them, we worship, teach, comfort, correct - but also hurt, divide, and destroy.
Scripture makes it clear: how we use our words matters deeply to God.
James 3:5 says, "The tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts. Consider what a great
forest is set on fire by a small spark."
Let's explore what God says about the tongue - and how we can learn to tame it.
1. The Tongue is Small but Powerful (James 3:3-6)
James compares the tongue to:
- A bit in a horse's mouth - small, but controls the whole animal.
- A rudder on a ship - small, but steers great vessels.
- A spark - tiny, yet can ignite a wildfire.
Key Truth: Words can bless, or they can burn. A careless word can ruin a reputation, damage a relationship,
or stir division in a church.
Example: One rumor or harsh comment can spread rapidly - like fire on dry grass.
2. The Tongue is Difficult to Control (James 3:7-8)
James says no one can fully tame the tongue - it's "a restless evil, full of deadly poison."
Does that mean we give up? No - it means we recognize our need for the Holy Spirit. What's in our hearts will
eventually come out of our mouths (Matthew 12:34).
Prayer: "Lord, guard my lips. Let me speak with wisdom, love, and restraint."
3. The Tongue Reveals the Heart (James 3:9-12)
Sermon: Taming the Tongue
With the same mouth, we praise God and curse others made in His image. James says this contradiction
shouldn't happen.
A spring can't pour both fresh and bitter water. Likewise, a heart full of Christ should produce words that
reflect His love and truth.
Challenge: What do your words reveal about what's in your heart?
Conclusion
Taming the tongue is not about perfection - it's about daily surrender to Christ. When we walk with Him, He
changes not only our behavior, but our very hearts.
Psalm 19:14: "Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in Your sight, O Lord,
my rock and my redeemer."
Practical Steps
- Pause before you speak - ask: Is it true? Kind? Necessary?
- Pray daily for wisdom and self-control.
- Fill your heart with God's Word - what fills your heart will fill your mouth.