Positive Psychology 2
Positive Psychology 2
Introduction:
Self
The word, “self,” has been used in a number of different and sometimes
conflicting ways by psychologists, sociologists, philosophers, and lay people
alike (Leary & Tangney, 2002b; Olson, 1999). The self refers to the individual as
the object of their own reflection, a continuous sense of identity that includes not
just the body but also the mind, emotions, and personality (James, 1890).Three
major human experiences form the foundation of the self: reflexive
consciousness, interpersonal being, and executive function.
The self is, historically, a relatively new idea (Baumeister, 1987).The concept of the self has
undergone significant changes throughout history. In the Middle Ages, people's identities
were closely tied to their social positions and occupations, leaving little room for personal
growth or individuality.During the Early Modern period (1500-1800), a shift occurred, and
people began to develop an interest in the uniqueness of the individual. This led to a focus on
the inner life, and the belief that fulfillment could be achieved through a deeper understanding
of oneself.Two influential psychologists who contributed significantly to our understanding of
the self are Sigmund Freud and Erik Erikson.
Freud
Freud maintained that the “self” is a multiplicity of forces and that other people are inherently
a part of understanding one's self.He described the self as a battle between three forces: the id
(instincts), ego (reason), and superego (morality). The id operates on the pleasure principle,
seeking immediate gratification of desires; the ego, governed by the reality principle,
mediates between the id impulses and societal expectations; and the superego represents
internalized moral values,often in conflict with the id’s instincts.
These elements clash through five psychosexual stages, each tied to biological drives. Freud
argued that unresolved conflicts during these stages shape adult behavior. Oral Stage (0–1
year): Babies seek comfort through sucking. Lack of nurturing can lead to dependence or
aggression.
Anal Stage (1–3 years): Toddlers learn control. Strict toilet training may cause obsessive
behavior or defiance.
Phallic Stage (3–6 years): Children form attachments to their opposite-sex parent, shaping
gender identity and morality.
Latency Stage (6–12 years): Sexual impulses fade as children focus on friendships and
learning.
Genital Stage (12+ years): Sexual maturity directs energy toward relationships and personal
growth.
Freud saw childhood experiences as the foundation of personality. Critics argued that he
ignored social factors and overemphasized sexual drives, prompting later revisions by
thinkers like Erikson.
Erik Erikson
Erikson built on Freud’s ideas but focused on social influences rather than biological urges.
He outlined eight stages of development, each defined by a key conflict that shapes identity.
1.Trust vs. Mistrust (0–1 year): Babies develop trust when caregivers provide stability.
Neglect breeds insecurity.
2.Autonomy vs. Shame (1–3 years): Toddlers assert independence. Overcontrol fosters
self-doubt.
3.Initiative vs. Guilt (3–6 years): Children experiment with roles through play. Criticism
stifles curiosity.
4.Industry vs. Inferiority (6–12 years): Success in school and hobbies builds
confidence. Struggles create feelings of inadequacy.
5.Identity vs. Role Confusion (12–18 years): Teenagers explore values and goals. Uncertainty
leads to confusion.6.Intimacy vs. Isolation (18–40 years): Young adults seek close
relationships. Fear of
rejection fuels loneliness.
7.Generativity vs. Stagnation (40–65 years): Midlife adults contribute through work or
family. Self-absorption causes stagnation.
8.Integrity vs. Despair (65+ years): Older adults reflect on life. Regret leads to despair.
Erikson saw identity as flexible, shaped by relationships and cultural shifts. Unlike Freud, he
viewed the self as an active agent rather than a product of unconscious forces.
Self-Concept
Self-Esteem
Self-esteem is commonly defined as the overall evaluation or attitude individuals have toward
themselves. It reflects how much value we place on ourselves and is shaped by our beliefs,
feelings, and self-perceptions (Rosenberg, 1965). It can be positive or negative, depending on
how we perceive our abilities, traits, and worth.
Trends in Self-Esteem:Studies have shown that self-esteem has increased among American
college students over the past few decades (Twenge & Campbell, 2008). This trend may be
attributed to various factors, including changes in cultural values, parenting styles, and
educational practices. However, this increase in self-esteem has also been linked to a rise in
narcissistic tendencies, highlighting the potential drawbacks of excessive self-esteem
(Twenge & Campbell, 2008).
Types of Self-Esteem
Self-Efficacy
Self-efficacy refers to the belief in one’s ability or competence to successfully perform a goal
or task or to influence an outcome (Bandura 1977; Lachman et al. 2011). According to a
concept analysis by Zulkosky (2009), self-efficacy is characterized by three defining
attributes:
1. Confidence in ability: An individual's belief in their capacity to execute tasks or achieve
goals.
2. Sense of control: An individual's perception of their ability to influence outcomes.
3. Motivation: An individual's drive to perform tasks or achieve goals.Zulkosky's (2009)
analysis also highlights the importance of understanding the antecedents, consequences, and
empirical referents of self-efficacy. By recognizing these factors, researchers and practitioners
can develop interventions that enhance self-efficacy and promote positive outcomes.
One of Bandura’s most influential papers on this topic is "Self-efficacy: Toward a Unifying
Theory of Behavioral Change", published in Psychological Review in 1977. In this work, he
explains that self-efficacy is shaped by four main sources:
According to Lippke (2017), self-efficacy is not only a determinant of behavior but also a key
component in personality development. It influences how individuals set and pursue goals,
make decisions, and cope with difficulties. Research suggests that higher self-efficacy is
linked to better academic performance, job satisfaction, and mental well-being (Lippke,
2017). This supports Bandura’s (1977) assertion that individuals with high self-efficacy are
more likely to persist in challenging tasks.
Self-efficacy also has an important role in the capacity of an individual to learn and develop
skills. Bandura (1977) suggests that high self-efficacy individuals tend to continue working
on tasks that are difficult and build resilience under failure. This also applies to the
acquisition of motor skills, especially among children.
Self-knowledge
According to Wilson and Dunn (2004), individuals often rely on introspection to understand
themselves, but this process is flawed due to unconscious influences and cognitive biases.
Their study highlights that much of our mental life occurs outside of conscious awareness,
leading to misinterpretations of our own motivations, feelings, and behaviors.For example,
people may rationalize decisions after the fact without realizing that external factors
influenced them, demonstrating a phenomenon known as introspection illusion (Wilson &
Dunn, 2004).
Sources of Self-Knowledge
Wilson and Dunn (2004) identified several sources of self-knowledge, including:
2. Social feedback: Seeking feedback from others about one's behavior and performance.
According to Neisser (1988), self-knowledge can be categorized into five distinct types:
1. Ecological self-knowledge: Knowledge of one's own body and its position in the
environment.
2. Interpersonal self-knowledge: Knowledge of one's own social identity, relationships, and
interactions with others.
3. Extended self-knowledge: Knowledge of one's own past, future, and personal history.
4. Private self-knowledge: Knowledge of one's own thoughts, feelings, and experiences.
5. Conceptual self-knowledge: Knowledge of one's own abstract concepts, values, and
beliefs.
Aspects of self-knowledge
Types of Self-Discrepancies
Higgins (1987) identified two types of self-discrepancies:
1. Actual-Ideal Discrepancy: A discrepancy between an individual's actual self and their
ideal self, leading to feelings of disappointment or frustration.
2. Actual-Ought Discrepancy: A discrepancy between an individual's actual self and their
ought self, leading to feelings of guilt or anxiety.
Self awareness
According to Wicklund (1975), OSA can be induced through self-focusing stimuli, such as
mirrors, cameras, or audiences, leading individuals to compare their current state with ideal
self-standards.
Positive psychology
Positive psychology is a branch of psychology that focuses on human strengths, well-being,
and flourishing rather than just treating mental illness. It was formally introduced by Martin
Seligman and Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi and emphasizes positive emotions, engagement,
relationships, meaning, and accomplishments (PERMA model).Positive psychology is a field
of study that focuses on promoting human flourishing, well-being, and strengths, rather than
solely addressing mental illness (Seligman & Csikszentmihalyi, 2000). This approach
emerged as a response to psychology's historical emphasis on dysfunction and pathology.
● Bravery – Standing firm for what’s right, even when it’s hard as hell.
● Perseverance – Pushing through, no matter how tough things get.
● Honesty – Living and speaking the truth, no matter who’s listening.
● Zest – Bringing that fiery enthusiasm and energy to every damn thing you do.
This Virtue is about how we connect with and care for others.
The VIA system provides a framework for understanding and developing human strengths,
which can lead to increased well-being, life satisfaction, and resilience. By recognizing and
cultivating our character strengths, we can improve our relationships, work performance, and
overall quality of life. For instance, strengths like gratitude, kindness, and fairness can foster
stronger relationships and a greater sense of community, while strengths like perseverance,
Seligman’s (2003) framework builds on the VIA classification and is centered on three key
elements:
1. Positive Subjective Experiences – emotions like happiness, optimism, and
contentment.
2. Positive Individual Traits – strengths such as resilience, courage, and perseverance.
3. Positive Institutions & Communities – societal structures that nurture well-being.
Research has shown that character strengths and virtues are essential components of human
flourishing. A study by Ruch, Gander, Wagner, and Giuliani (2019) explored the
relationships between character strengths and virtues, providing insights into the structure of
character. The study found that character strengths can be organized into six core virtues,
including wisdom, courage, humanity, justice, temperance, and transcendence. This
framework highlights the importance of cultivating character strengths in order to promote
overall well-being and life satisfaction. By understanding the relationships between character
strengths and virtues, we can better develop interventions and practices that foster human
flourishing.
To date, the VIA-IS has been refined several times, and the current version appears reliable
and valid for identifying strengths in adults. Regarding the reliability of the measure, all
scales have satisfactory consistency and stability across 4 months. Correlations among scales
are higher than expected given that the inventory was designed to measure 24 unique
constructs. Women score higher on humanity's strengths than men, and African Americans
score higher than members of other racial and ethnic groups on the scale of spiritual strength.
Evidence of the measures validity includes the following three sets of findings:
1. Nominations of strengths by friends and family correlate at about a .50 level with
2. The majority of the scales correlate positively with scores on measures of life satisfaction.
3. Factor analyses provide some support for the existence of six virtues.
Flourishing
PERMA Model
The PERMA model is a widely recognized framework for understanding and promoting
well-being and flourishing. Developed by Martin Seligman, a renowned positive
psychologist, the PERMA model identifies five core elements that contribute to human
flourishing:
1.Positive emotion: Positive emotion is a fundamental aspect of human flourishing. It
encompasses a range of emotions, including hope, interest, joy, love, compassion, pride,
amusement, and gratitude. These emotions are essential for our well-being, as they
broaden our attention, increase our creativity, and foster social connections. When we
experience positive emotions, we are more likely to engage in activities that promote
our growth and development, and we are better equipped to cope with adversityPositive
emotions, such as hope, interest, joy, love, compassion, pride, amusement, and
gratitude, are essential for flourishing (Fredrickson, 2001).
2. E - Engagement: Engagement refers to the state of being fully absorbed and immersed in
an activity. This state, also known as flow, is characterized by heightened focus,
concentration, and enjoyment. When we are engaged, we lose track of time, and our sense of
self disappears. Engagement is essential for our well-being, as it increases our motivation,
boosts our self-esteem, and enhances our overall sense of fulfillment. Moreover, engagement
helps us develop new skills and abilities, which can lead to greater confidence and
competence. Engagement, or being fully absorbed in activities, is critical for well-being
(Csikszentmihalyi, 1989).
4. M - Meaning: Meaning refers to the sense of purpose and significance that we derive from
our lives. It encompasses our values, goals, and aspirations, and it gives us direction and
motivation. When we have a sense of meaning, we feel connected to something larger than
ourselves, and we are more likely to experience a sense of fulfillment and satisfaction.
Meaning also helps us cope with adversity, as it gives us a sense of perspective and purpose.
Having a sense of purpose and meaning in life, and belonging to something greater than
oneself, is essential for well-being (Kashdan et al., 2009).
Method
Design
ABA design was used for the present study which involved a pre-intervention administration
of self-awareness and flourishing questionnaires, identifying character strengths by rank
ordering the 24 strengths in descending order, knowing about one’s top five strengths from
others (parent, best friend, sibling/cousin/roommate, one classmate with whom the
participant had less interaction), the 10-day long intervention stage for enhancing a chosen
character strength, followed by a post intervention administration of the same self-awareness
and flourishing questionnaires. The participants maintained a journal for writing about their
thoughts and feelings during the conduction of the practical (optional). The before and after
scores on self-awareness and flourishing were compared.
Sample
The participants consisted of the students themselves.
Measures
The Flourishing Scale - The Flourishing Scale was developed by Ed Diener and
Robert Biswas-Diener (2009). It is a brief 8-item summary measure of the respondents'
self perceived success in important areas such as relationships, self-esteem, purpose,
and optimism. The scale provides a single psychological well-being score.
Data collection
To assess self-awareness and psychological well-being, we collected data in different stages
to ensure a thorough assessment. First, participants took two assessments: the Flourishing
Scale and the Self-Awareness Questionnaire to understand the initial levels of well-being and
self-awareness.
Next, participants ranked 24 character strengths based on how they saw themselves. To add
another perspective, four people-a parent, a best friend, a cousin, and a classmate they barely
interacted with were asked to pick the participant’s top five strengths. This allowed us to
compare self-perception with how others viewed them.This allowed us to compare
self-perceptions with external evaluations, a method that has been shown to enhance
self-awareness and identity development.
After this, the participants went through a 10-day intervention focused on improving one
specific character strength. They practiced exercises related to that strength and were
encouraged to apply it in daily life. They could also keep a journal to reflect on their
experiences.
Once the 10 days were over, they took the same two assessments to see if anything had
changed. By comparing their scores before and after, we could measure the impact of the
intervention on their self-awareness and overall well-being. This approach gave us both
data-driven insights and personal reflections on how focusing on strengths can enhance
psychological growth.
Flourishing scale 35 43
Items Analysis
When I first sat with this question, things felt heavier. I wrote about feeling like I
1.What do i think about myself? had lost my innocence and honestly, that came from a place of being
overwhelmed, emotionally drained, and feeling detached from who I used to be.
But now, after everything I’ve been through the fallouts, my perspective has
shifted.In this phase of reflection, I realize something powerful: I am stronger
than I give myself credit for.
Earlier, I had a more pessimistic view of myself. I would question my ability to
deal with things, always caught up in why can’t I handle this? But now, I've
started moving from that helpless mindset to a more action-oriented space.
Instead of getting stuck in doubt, I’ve begun actually doing things, taking steps,
trying to bring back that version of me who didn’t just care for herself but also
looked out for others with love and intention.
2.What are my strengths and I feel like I have strong empathy and the ability to care deeply for others. That’s
weaknesses? something that’s always been part of who I am. I can listen, show up, and support
those I love with everything in me. I’ve always been the type to take care of the
little things, I take stand for the right ones.But when it comes to myself? That’s
where everything shifts. I realized that while I can be a rock for other people, I
struggle to be the same for myself. I find it hard to take a stand for myself. I stay
quiet when I should speak up. I push my needs down to not upset others. And in a
way, I’ve become dependent on outside support to feel validated.Little by little.
I'm learning to see myself the way I see others-with compassion, with worth, with
love.
So yeah,I still have moments where I feel dependent. I still struggle to take my
own side. But now I’m aware of it. I don’t ignore it. And that awareness is the
first step toward change I guess,right? And i won’t say i have gained a whole
control over my weaknesses but at least i’ve started being aware of it and
knowing what should be done now.
3. What are my values? I’m aware of some of the values that define me by core. And I think for me that
would be kindness, appreciating others, uplifting them and genuine -heartfelt
kindness. The other values that define me are honesty, trust and taking stand for
truth and dealing with fairness.I value helping others-not to prove anything, but
because it makes me feel alive.I started seeing how my values weren’t just ideals
they are choices I should make every day. Well, these words are the most
common words everybody looks for in a person ,but there might be some
situations where I might lose one of these aspects,I realized I need to hold them
for myself, not just for the world.
I think purpose doesn’t need some magical answer like”THIS IS MY
4. What is my Purpose in life? PURPOSE”.I realized maybe my purpose isn’t a job, a title, or one grand mission.
Maybe it’s in the little things: the way I get back up when I fall, the way I love
hard, the way I protect the softest parts of me and others.Maybe my purpose is to
become-to grow, to love, to heal, and to make something beautiful out of my
chaos. I don’t have to have it all figured out. But I do know this: I want to live a
life where I don’t abandon myself. Where I find peace. Where I show up for
people-but first, for ME.
Sadness- That hits when people drift away. When misunderstandings tear
something beautiful apart. When I feel unimportant or forgotten by the ones I
gave the most to. It’s not just loneliness-it’s that ache of being emotionally
invisible.
Anger- It builds in silence. When I suppress things to avoid conflict, when people
misunderstand me or twist my words, when I feel like no one is trying to see my
side while I break myself seeing theirs.
And fear- When I realize I might lose people I thought were permanent. When I
fear I’ll never fully be enough just constantly too much or not enough, dancing
between those extremes.
6. What type of person do I I want to be someone who’s strong but still soft, bold but kind.One who paves
want to be? her path and achieves her goals.A person who doesnt live in fear or apprehension
about her future but instead starts taking steps and is optimistic about herself .
One who is kind to herself as well as others and connected to spirituality.
7. How do others see me? Others see me as a good person I guess. As far as i have seen, none has any
objection and grudge against me but honestly i feel there are people who might be
hurt because of me and honestly i do not want to make anybody upset because of
me .
8. How do I want others to see I want others to see me as a good, lively person who clears her goals and aspires
me? to at least one quality from me.
9. How satisfied am I in my Lately the relationships aren't going great with some of my loved ones but I am
relationship? trying to make it better and build it again. Apart from this the relationships with
others are going great.
10. Where do I see myself in In five years, the vision is to be more confident, independent, and deeply
five years? grounded in both personal and professional life.To grow emotionally becoming
more self-aware, balanced, and capable of handling responsibilities and
relationships with maturity.
11. 3 4
12. 6 6
13. 5 6
Discussion:
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The aim of
this practical was to identify character strengths and conduct a character strengths
intervention for enhancing self-awareness and flourishing. To begin with, participants
were asked to complete two self-assessment tools-the Flourishing Scale Questionnaire
and the Self-Awareness Questionnaire. These tools helped participants reflect on their
overall psychological well-being and personal insight.Following this, the VIA
Inventory of Strengths was administered. Participants were required to evaluate and
rank all 24 character strengths provided by the inventory in descending order, based on
how strongly they believed each applied to them.Once the ranking was completed,
each participant identified their top five character strengths from the list. In addition to
this, they were also asked to choose the lowest-ranked strength,the one they felt they
possessed the least.To address and develop this weakest strength, participants
underwent a 10-day intervention. This intervention involved daily tasks and reflections
designed to consciously practice and enhance that particular strength in real-life
situations.Now talking about the top five strengths the ones marked by participant are
as follows:
Forgiveness and Mercy:The participant ranked Forgiveness and Mercy as the highest
strength, suggesting that they value peace and emotional growth in themselves and
others. This strength indicates a willingness to move past grudges, offering
compassion even in difficult circumstances. It reflects the participant’s inclination
towards emotional maturity and healing, both personally and in their relationship.
Interestingly this strength hasn't been marked by others which suggests that their
forgiveness is something more private, a quiet strength they practice for their own
peace of mind rather than seeking external validation for it or this could also be the
case that she tends to practice this strength more internally which doesn’t come into
notice easily.
Appreciation of beauty & excellence:She possesses an attitude that the world around
her is beautiful and deserves appreciation.It reveals the participant’s deep sense of
aesthetic value and their ability to see the best in the world around them. Whether
through art, nature or an achievement must be really inspirational for her. She has a
positive outlook towards the world. Her strength really showed through in how her
roommate and best friend saw her,suggesting that the people closest to the participant
truly notice and appreciate her way of recognizing and celebrating beauty, talent, and
high standards. She likely shares those little moments of beauty with them, showing
just how important that is in her emotional and social world.
Fairness was ranked third by the participants, indicating that they place significant
importance on justice, equality, and impartiality.This shows that she values fairness
and takes stand for the right ones .She values treating others fairly and avoiding
favouritism.Fairness showed up again and again in how her best friend and parent
described her. It really shows that her strong sense of justice isn’t just something she
knows about herself it’s something the people closest to her see and admire too.
Kindness: the participant then moves forward ranking kindness as her fourth strength.
This reveals deeply values being compassionate and caring toward others. She may
prioritize empathy, understanding, and helping those in need, all of which are key
aspects of kindness.kindness appeared across all rankings, from the Parent to the
Classmate, indicating that the participant’s kindness is highly visible to others. This
shows that the participant’s empathetic behavior is not only recognized but is likely an
essential part of their social interactions and relationships.
The participant’s top five strengths -Forgiveness and Mercy, Appreciation of Beauty &
Excellence, Fairness, Kindness, and Open-Mindedness really show what kind of
person she is.when compare their own view with how others see them, there’s a strong
match especially with Fairness, Kindness, and Open-Mindedness. That means people
close to them also value these things in them. The only little difference is that
Forgiveness and Mercy might not be as visible to others maybe because it’s something
they practice quietly.
Among the 24 character strengths, Self-Regulation was chosen as one of the least
expressed in the participant's VIA Inventory results.the intervention activities she
employed were three goals for everyday, water intake log, reduced social media usage
and developing a morning routine.Throughout the 10-day intervention, the participant
noted a gradual improvement in intentionality and awareness of personal habits.Also
the scores on er flourishing scale got increased from 35 to 43 which shows the
intervention left a successful impact.
Conclusion
The practical served as a valuable journey of reflection and growth. It emphasized that
character strengths are not fixed traits, but qualities that can be developed with effort
and awareness. The intervention experience added a practical dimension to the
understanding of personal strengths, making the learning process both meaningful and
transformative.In essence, the activity fostered a greater sense of self-awareness,
emotional maturity, and inner discipline, making the entire learning journey not just
academic—but deeply personal and transformative.
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