TEXTING OS MODULE #3
MEET TO DATE 👋
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MODULE #1 Texting Strategy
MODULE #2 Match To Date
MODULE #3 Meet To Date
MODULE #4 Landing Second Dates
MODULE #5 Maintaining Momentum
MODULE #6 Spicing Things Up
MODULE #7 When Things Go Awry
MODULE #8 Rekindling Old Flames
MODULE 3 TABLE OF CONTENTS
I. Core principle
II. Intro text
III. Extend the invite
IV. Confirm day-of
MODULE 3 TABLE OF CONTENTS
I. Core principle
II. Intro text
III. Extend the invite
IV. Confirm day-of
INTRO TEXT
☝ Core principle for this module:
LESS IS MORE
MODULE 3 TABLE OF CONTENTS
I. Core principle
II. Intro text
III. Extend the invite
IV. Confirm day-of
INTRO TEXT
So you got her number…
INTRO TEXT
Immediately after you meet, send her an intro text
so she remembers you 🧠
● It’s smart to text her immediately, because it
*removes* the expectation she needs to respond
immediately (i.e. that you’ll have a conversation),
or that you need to ask her out immediately
INTRO TEXT
🥇 The best intro text is short and sweet
PART 1:
State who you are. For bonus points, say something
cute that will help her remember you
PART 2:
Say you’ll follow up later about a date. Ideally this is
something you discussed in-person.
INTRO TEXT
🐕 Met at the dog park?
{HER NAME}, this is {YOUR NAME} from the Clarksville
Dog Park. My bulldog Prince says hi :) I’ll check in
later to set up tacos
INTRO TEXT
🎉 Met at an event or party?
This is {YOUR NAME} from Blake’s housewarming.
Green shirt and big grin. I’ll text later this week so we
can grab those margaritas :)
INTRO TEXT
⚠ If she likes you, she will PROBABLY respond…
● She may “like” what you said, or send you an
actual response.
● It’s not great if she doesn’t respond, but if your
conversation went well, no response may just
signal that she saw your text when she was busy.
You can still ask her out if that was your plan.
MODULE 3 TABLE OF CONTENTS
I. Core principle
II. Intro text
III. Extend the invite
IV. Confirm day-of
EXTEND THE INVITE
When you’re ready, text her to set up a date 📅
● This is like extending an invite for a date once
you’ve got her number from a dating app
● There is no rush to ask her out — depending on
the expectation you set in your introduction text,
you may ask that night, or the next day, or in a
few days
EXTEND THE INVITE
You know how to do this already!
Want to check out T-Loc’s with me Thursday around
7? We can bring our pups 🐶
MODULE 3 TABLE OF CONTENTS
I. Core principle
II. Intro text
III. Extend the invite
IV. Confirm day-of
CONFIRM DAY-OF
This is literally the same as confirming online 👍
● Assuming your date is in the evening, text her
early afternoon (e.g. 10 am -2pm)
● Don’t overthink this!
CONFIRM DAY-OF
You know how to do this already!
Hey! Confirming we’re on for T-Locs tonight at 7?
CONFIRM DAY-OF
🥳 It’s that simple!
