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 Introduction
The purposeof thisworkbookis to strengthenyour
understandingandusabilityof the toolsand concepts
discussedin the NaturalVibingaudiocourse.

However,do not lookat thisworkbookuntilyou'velistened

to the entirecourseat leastonce.Withoutlisteningto the
audiocourse,the skillbuilderworkbookwill be rendered
meaningless.

Onceyou'velistenedto the coursea fewtimes,go through

the entireskillbuilderworkbookThe. exercisescontainedin
'\*
theworkbookwillwireyourbrainand helpyoudevelopthe
necessaryintuitionsto seamlesslyusethe conceptsand

toolsin thiscoursewithouthavingto cognitivelythinkabout

them.

Havefun andenjoy,

*t*ffi*

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TableOf Contents
Mylnfluences . ....,4
FiveMisconceptionsAboutWomen& Vibing ......6
Vibes ........3.1
SevenFundamentals .,.....18
GettingOverPickUp LinesDependence .....22
MentalGamesThatPutYourAbilityTo ApproachWomen
In
AnySituationOn Steroids ....27
Commonalities ........33
EtchingYourselflntoA Woman'sBrain ....42
EvokingEmotionalEmpathy ..... .......44
BecomingAn Authorityln HerWorld ........46
PlayingLow-status ........48
The RightWayTo ComplimentA Woman& Let HerKnow
ThatYouLikeHer ...51
SuggestingThatA HigherPowerls BringYou& A Woman
Together . .......53
UniversalFemaleQualities ...56
Pigeonholing ....59
UsingColdReadingTo CreateCommonalitiesAndAllude To A HigherPowerBringYouAndA WomanTogether
67
UsingColdReadingTo LowerYourStatus .......70
SevenArchetypesIn Stories ......73
TheMonomythStructure .....82
UsingStorytellingTo EtchYourselfIntoHerBrain..
StoriesThatTap IntoStructuresIn HerPsycheThatDrive
-
HerTo BeWithYou Now ........92
StoriesThatSuggestA HigherPowerBroughtYou Together
WithA Woman ......96
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Mylnfluences
Here'sa shortlistof peoplewho influencedmy ideasfor this
course.By no meansis this listexhaustiveand l'ma sure
l'mforgettinga few.

HubertDr.eyfus
Homer
MartinHeidegger
RobertCialdini
RobertGreene
KeithJohnstone
JosephCampbell
ChristopherVogler
DavidKeirsey

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 Five
Misconceptions
AboutWomen&
Vibing
Misconception#1.SucceedingWithWomenls a Numbers
Game& lf YouAren't Woman'sTypeYou BetterMove
OntoAnotherGirl

Misconception#2: The BestWayTo GetA Girlls To

BecomeFriendsWithHerFirst

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Misconception#3: once You'veEstablishedYourselfAs
The Prize& SparkedAttractionWithA Woman,You Can ,.,
RevertBackTo BeingYourwimpy SelfAnd She'llStillLike
You,

Misconception#4.lf YouMakeA WomanLaugh,GetHer

PhoneNumber,Or MakeOutWithHer,You'reIn LikeFlynn

Misconception#5: lf l'mDifferentFromA Woman,Thenlt's

NextTo lmpossibleTo VibeWithOr AttractHer

Youmayintellectuallyknowthesethingsare
misconceptionsYet. there'sa goodchancethatat some
pointduringyourlifeyourlimbicsystememotionallybought
intoone of thesemisconceptions(Almost.everymanon the
planetis guiltyof emotionallybuyingintothese
misconceptions.)
'\*
I wantyouto be brutallyhonestwith yourselfandthinkof two
situationswithwomenthatdidn'tworkout becauseyou "emotionally"
boughtintoone of thesemisconceptions.

Writethe experienceout in excruciatingdetail.Thenwrite

out howthingswouldhaveplayedout differentfy you
appliedthe NaturalVibingmodel.

Situation# 1

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Situations# 2

lf you appliedthe NaturalVibing modelwhat

would the differencebe in your outcome?

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lf you appliedthe NaturalVibingmodelwhat

wouldthe differencebe in your outcome?

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lf you appliedthe NaturalVibingmodelwhat

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 This nextexerciseis a variationon the former.

There'sachancethatat a certainpointduringall of your

interactionswithwomenyouflounderbecauseyourlimbic
systememotionallybuysintooneof these
misconceptions.

Herearea few hints:

Do you everwalkawayfroma girlyou'retalkingto

becauseyou feelthatyou aren'ther physicaltype?
Do you everchickenout on kissinga womanbecause
you'reafraidit will killthe vibe?

Do youfindthatyourinteractionswithfemalesfallapart
onceyou'veestablishedyourselfas the Prizeandsparked
attraction?

Do youfindit hardto keepyourinteractionswithwomen

goingbecauseyoufeelthatyou havenothingin common
withthem?

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 lf yourlimbicsystemforcesyouto buyintooneof these
\* misconceptionsduringyourinteractionswithwomen,write
out exactlywhathappensBy. becomingconsciousof what
happensinsideyourlimbicsystem,you cantakecontrolof
youremotionsand rectifythe problem.

Whatmisconception(or misconceptions)doesyour
limbic system buy into that causesyou to flounder
with women?

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How could you apply the skills from the naturalvibing
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 Vibes
Thesedayswe normallythinkof emotionsor moodsas inner
psychologicalstatesThink.of love,hate,anger,sadness... or
anyotheremotionyoufancy.

Thesearethingswe feelon the inside,right?

Well,notaccordingto theancientGreeksThey.hada
differentconceptionof moods.Theybelievedmoodsare
somethingwe findourselvesinsideof. Theycolorourworld.
In fact,theirGodswerepersonificationsof thesemoods.
For example,they believed,when the GoddessAphrodite
appearseverythingis in lightof the erotic.
There are even remnantsof this Greek conceptionin our
culture.When referringto romanticlove,mostwomendon't
"l
say, feela lot of lovetowardshim."
"l'm
Insteadtheysay, in lovewithhim."
In otherwords,theyare insideof love.
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The best way to thinkof vibes is to use the ancientGreek
conceptof moods.
Vibes are neithersomethingyou feel nor somethingthat
emanatesoutwardfromthe inside.
lnstead,we are insideof vibeandfindthemtakingus over.
You cannotchangea woman'svibeif you'reoutsideof it.
Thinkof whenyou go to a party.There'san overallvibe to
the party.
Granted,differentclustersof people at the party may be
insidea slightlydifferentvibefromothers.
But if you paycloseattention,you'llnoticethat theirsubvibe is
actuallyinsideof the overallvibeof the party.
When you're party,you can eithertune intothe vibe or
at a
...
not. lf you don't,you aren'treallypart of the party.You're just
a creepyoutsider.
Beingcool is one'sabilityto adapt and tune into the vibe
othersare in.
The next time you'reout at a party,nightclub or bar, pay
attentionto the overallvibr or meta-vibe(The. louderthe
music is blaringin a place the better.That'sbecauseit
impedesyoufromonlytuningintothe contentof whatpeople
are talkingabout.As a result,yourperceptionwidens.)
Location# 1: Whatwas the meta-vibeof the partV,bar or
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What was the vibe of a girl you wantedto talk to?

Whatare threethingsyou could havedone to sync your

vibe up with hers?

1.)

2.)

3.)

Location# 2: Whatwas the meta-vibeof the party, bar or

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what was the vibe of a girl you wantedto talk to?

what
are threethings you coutd have done to
sync your vibe up with hers?
1.)

2.)

3.)

Location # 3: what was the meta-vibeof the party, bar or

club?

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Whatwas the vibe of a girl you wantedto talk to?

Whatare threethingsyou could havedone to sync your

vibe up with hers?

1.)

2.)

3.)

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TheSeven
FundamentalsFor
Approaching \-
Women& Vibing
Overtime,l'veobservedthatoncea man mastersthe seven
fundamentals,he doesn'tneedto usepickup lines.

Overthe nextcoupleof monthsI wantyou to work on

incorporatingthe sevenfundamentalsintoyourinteractions
withwomen.Eachweekyou'llbe focusingon a different

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 one.Bytheendof twomonths,
you'll noticea bigshift
in
l- howwomenrespondto you.
Week1: Writedownthe fundamentalyou aregoingto
focuson this week.

Afterincorporatingthis fundamental,how hasit

changedthe natureof your interactionswith women?(lf
you do not noticea change,you maywantto spendan
extraweekworkingon this fundamental.)

\- Week2: Writedownthe fundamental

you are going to
focuson this week.

After incorporatingthis fundamental,how has it

changedthe natureof your interactionswith women?(lf
you do not noticea change,you maywantto spendan
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focuson this week. \-

After incorporatingthis fundamental,how has it

changedthe natureof your interactionswith women?$f
you do not noticea change,you maywantto spendan
extraweekworkingon this fundamental.)

Week4: Write down the fundamentalyou are going to

focus on this week.

After incorporatingthis fundamentalnhow has it

changedthe natureof your interactionswith women?(lf
you do not noticea change,you may want to spend an
extra week working on this fundamental.)

Week5: Write down the fundamentalyou are going to

focus on this week.

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changedthe natureof your interactionswith women?(lf
you do not noticea change,you maywantto spendan
extraweekworkingon this fundamental.)

Week6: Writedownthe fundamentalyou are goingto

focuson this week.

After incorporatingthis fundamental,how has it

changedthe natureof your interactionswith women? (lt
\
you do not noticea change,you maywant to spend an
extraweek working on this fundamental.)

Week7: Write down the fundamentalyou are going to

focus on this week.

After incorporatingthis fundamental,how has it

changedthe natureof your interactionswith women? (lf

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you do not noticea change,you maywantto spendan
extraweekworkingon this fundamental.)

GettingOverPi
ck UpLine
Dependence
Mostguysrelyon pickup linesto approachwomen.This
takesthe focusoff the sevenfundamentalsand putsit on the
linescomingoutof theirmouthThe..problemis thatthe
wordscomingout of theirmouthteeteron irrelevanceWhat.
doesthe legworkin makingan approachworkarethe 7
fundamentalsNot.thepickup lines.

SmallCaveat:I don'tobjectto you usingpickup lines.I think

they'regreat.In fact,I usethemtimeto time.Whatl'vegot an
issuewithis relyingon a pickup lineto talkto a woman
andthinkthatthe lineis goingto getthe girl.Thismindset will
crippleyoursocialskillsand successwithwomen.

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 InsidenaturalvibingI gaveyoufourpickuplinestailor-made
\..* to onlyworkif you'reusingthe 7 fundamentals.

Beforemovingontoanyotherpickup lines,I wantyou to

onlyusethesefourlinesuntilyou startconsistentlygettinga
positivereactionsfromthesefourlines.
Whenyougetanythingbut a positivereaction,you may
"This
havethoughtslike, lineis terriblelt. wouldneverwork
on thisgirl."

Butthe realityis this:You'renotgettingthea positive

reactionbecauseoneor moreof the sevenfundamentalsis
missing

Everytimeyouget a lessthanpositivereaction,I wantyou

to mulloverwhathappenedThink.aboutwhatfundamentals
, weremissingThen.openthisworkbookandwritedownwhat
'\-- you couldhavedonedifferently.

Less than positivereaction # 1

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Lessthan positivereaction# 3

Lessthan positivereaction# 4

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Less than positive reaction# 6

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Less than positivereaction# 8

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MentalGamesThat
PutYourAbilityTo
ApproachWornen
\- InAnySituationOn
Steroids
lf you'rebrimmingwithfearaboutapproachingwomenin a

certaincontext, -you'remind
unconsciouslyor maybeeven
-

consciously has imaginedrejection.

Alas,we tendto manifestbehaviorscongruentwiththe script

our unconsciousmindhasbeenrehearsing:lf your
unconsciousmindhasbeenrehearsingrejection,you'll
i manifestrejectionbehaviors.
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Changeis whenyougivetheunconsciousminda more
appealingscript.

A greatway to do this is to imaginefromA to Z the approach

goingwell.Actuallywriteoutstep-by-stephowyourideal
approachwithina specificcontextwill playout.

So what I wantyou to do is writeout step-by-stepyour

ideal approachesin variouscontexts.

Superbig warning:Do not attemptto memorizewhatyou

writeout. Do not workyourselfup intoa tizzyif your
interactionsdo not followexactlywhatyou wrote.The point
is to giveyourunconsciousmindan alternative.

Write out what ideallywould happenif you approached

two seatedwomen

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 Write out what ideallywould happenif you approached a
womanwith her back turned awayfrom you.

Write out what ideallywould happenif you approached a

group of five women.
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Write out what ideallywould happenif you and a
wingmanapproachedtwo women.

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Write out what ideallywould happenif you approached a
girl walking.

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Commonalities
Oftentimes,commonalitieshavelittleto do with people
sharingthe samevalues,tastes,or beliefsA. usefulmental
constructfor thinkingabouta commonalityis a placetwo
peoplehavebeenor are in now.

So,forexample,imagine mananda womanmeetand

bothdiscoverthattheotherhasbeento MadagascarThey.
i \'* discusstheirexperiences:shelovedit; he foundit retched.
Nonetheless,theysharethe commonalityof beingin
Madagascar.

Thinkbackto a few pastinteractions.withwomenthatyou

feltyou hadnothingin commonwith.

Usingthe mentalmodelthatcommonalitiesare placesoneis

in or hasbeento, comeup withfivecommonalitiesyou
actuallyhador mighthavehadwiththem.

Interaction# 1

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fnteraction # 2

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Interaction# 3

1)

2)

3)

4)

5)

Interaction# 4

1)

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Interaction# 5

1)

2)

3)

4)

5)

Therearefive typesof commonalities:past,present,future,

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 Thinkingbackto a pastinteractionwith a woman,I want
'\-
you to musterup five pastcommonalitiesyou did (or
could've)establishedwith her.(Remember,past
commonalitiesrangefrom placesyou'vebeento movies
you'veseento booksyou'vereadto jobs you'vehad to
anythingyou'vedoneor experiencedin the past.)

1)

2)

3)

4)

5)

Thinking backto a past interactionwith a woman, I want

you to musterup five presentcommonalitiesyou did (or
could've)establishedwith her. (Hint: present
commonalitiesrun the gamutfrom similarliving
conditionsto sharedexperiencesin the here and now to
mutualknowledgeabout a currentevent.)

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2)

3)

4)

5)

Thinkingbackto a past interactionwith a womana

woman,I want you to muster up five future
commonalitiesyou did (or could've)establishedwith
her.

1)

2)

3)

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5)

Thinkingback to a past interactionwith a woman,I want

you to musterup five wide commonalitiesyou did (or
could've)establishedwith her.

1)

2)

3)

4)

5)

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Thinkingbackto a pastinteractionwith a woman,I want
'.*-
you to musterup five deepcommonalitiesyou did (or
could've)establishedwith her.

1)

2)

3)

4)

5)

Thinkingback to a past interactionwith a woman,I want

you
to muster up five diametricallyopposedaspirations
playing
betweenyou and a woman and come up with a rore gameto turn
them into future commonarities.

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EtchingYourself
lntoA Woman's
Brain
lf youusuallymeetwomenoutsideyourimmediatesocial
circle,thisis a crucialstep:lt leadsthewomanto seeyou as
morethansomeidiothittingon her.

Lateron in the workbookwe aregoingto go throughmore

exercisesfor etchingyourselfintoa woman'sbrain.Butfor
now,I wantyou to comeup withfive ways you couldetch
yourselfintoa woman'sbrain.

Come up with five ways you could etch yourself into a

woman'sbrain.

1)

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 EvokingEmotional
Empathy
Gomeup with five ways you can evokeemotional
empathyin women
I

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2)

3)

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 BecomingAn
Authorityln Her
World
There'sa strangemechanismbuiltintoeveryhuman'sbrain
thatcausesthemto perceivethosewho understandtheir
worldand themselvesas possessingthe answersto their
problemsAdditionally,.whenyoutriggerthismechanismin
women,theyfeel morecomfortablecomplyingto yourevery
whim.

Think back to your last interactionwith a woman and

come up with five ways you could'vebecomean
authority in her world.

1)

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PlayingLow-status
Withinspecificcontextsit canactuallymagnifythe vibeand
increaseyourPrizabilitybyloweringyourstatusin a very
specificway.

Thinkingbackto a pastinteractionwith a woman,come

up with fivewaysyou couldnveloweredyour status.
write out in excruciatingdetailwhatyou would have
saidto herto do so.

1)

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TheRightWayTo
ComplimentA
Wornan& LetKnow
ThatYouLikeHer
As you learned,thisis a crucialstepto succeedingwith
womenandplaysa similarroleto pfayinglow-status.

However,it'sone mostguysmanageto messup.

Theyeithercomplimentherin waythatturnsthemintoa
grovelinggimp,complimentlikea plasticandslimyRico
Suave,or don'tcomplimentat all.

Pointblank:Learningthisskillis worthitsweightin gold.

Eitherthinkingbackto a past interactionor imagining

one, come up with five ways you could let a woman
knowthatyou likeher.

1)

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Eitherthinking back to a past interactionwith a woman or

imaginingone,come up with five ways to compliment her.

1)

2)

3)

4)

5)

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',-.
. Suggesting
I ThatA
HigherPowerls
BringingYou & A
WomanTogether
This is an extremelypowerfultechniquefor skirtingaround
any sexualresistancefromwomen.lt giveswomenthe
necessaryjustificationto act on theirfeelingstowardyou.

Gomeup with five examplesof suggestingthat a higher

power broughtyou and a womantogether.

1)

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of SuperiorLivingi;.
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 UniversalFemale \-
0ualities
Here'sa shortlistof qualitiesfemalesuniversallyperceiveas
possessing:

1).Thoughshemaybe selfishat times,sheis sensitiveto

other'sneeds

2) . Sometimesshelsoutgoing;whileat othertimesshe'sshy
and reserved.

3) . Sheputsothersbeforeherown needs
\
4). Shegetspersonalsatisfactionfromhelpingothers.

5) . At timesshefeelsunderappreciated

6) . Sometimesshe can be perceivedas meanbuton

the insideshe'sa goodperson

7). She'sveryperceptiveaboutpeopleandsocialdynamics

8). She'sfun to be around

9). Shelovesattention

10) .She'sintelligent
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thosearoundhertakethe lead.

12) .There'sapartof herthat'san individualand beatsto its

owndrum.

13) .Shedoesn'tliketo be manipulatedby others.

14) .Shecan be understandingat timesyetstubbornat

others.
15).Shehas a lot of potential - that
hasn'tbeenrealized
maybesomethingis holdingherback?

16) .Shesexuallyor emotionallyknowswhatshewantsbut

isn'tcompletelysatisfied.
i \*- 17) .Shewantsto be likedby others

18) ,Althoughshe seemsto haveit togetheron the outside,

sometimesshefeelslikea completemesson the inside.

19) .Sometimespeoplemaynotthinkshehasit together...

yet she hasrnorepotentialthantheythink.

20) .Shecan be criticalof herself

21) .Sometimesshefeelsthatshe'sgonedownthewrong
proverbialforkin the road.

22) .Attimes,she emotionallygoesfor somethingbutthen

hasto justifyit in hermind.
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23) .Peoplecloseto herhavetakenadvantageof her.

24) .Whileshe hasa knackfor understandingpeople's

problems,shedoesn'ttoleratestupidity.

Come up with 24 moreof your own:

1).
2) .
3) .
4) .
5) .
6) ,
7) .
8) .
e) .
10) .
11). \

12).
13) .
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 Pigeonholing
We'veall beentaughtthat pigeonholingisn'tverynice.That
it'smeanto slotpeopleintocategoriesBut.whendoing
advancedcoldreading,it'susefulto slotwomeninto
categoriesBecome.a masterat thisandyou'llquicklybuild
powerfulvibes,becomean authorityin women'sworlds,and
makethemfeelcomfortablegettingsexualwiththem.

I wantyouto strengthenyourobservingandpigeonholing
skills.

I thinkthisseriesof exercisesyou'regoingto go outduring day

to a fairlycrowdedexercisesparkan everyconversation with
, fivewomen.

You are nottryingto seducethem.Yourobjectiveis to

observeandpigeonholethem.And thengo to the bathroom
or yourcar andwritein the answersto thevariousquestions.

Girl# 1
Whatcategory(or combinationof categories)doesshe
fall into in the KeirseyTemperamentSorter?
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 Howold is she andwhatcriticalmomentsis she

probably
goingthroughbecauseof her age?

what are her primaryrealitysortingstrategies?

Whatareher primarysensorymodalities?

what are five uniquethings you observeabout her:

jewelry,
clothing, education,and taste in music? (These
observationswill give you fodder to tie in your Barnum
descriptions.)

1).

2).

3)

4).
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Girl # 2
Whatcategory(or combinationof categories)doesshe
fall into in the KeirseyTemperamentSorter?

Howold is she andwhatcriticalmomentsis she

probablygoingthroughbecauseof herage?

Whatareher primaryrealitysortingstrategies?

Whatareher primarysensorymodalities?

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What are five uniquethings you observeabout her:
clothing,jewelry,education,and taste in music? (These
observationswill give you fodder to tie in your Barnum
descriptions.)

1).

2) .

3) .

4) .

5) .

Girl# 3
Whatcategory(or combinationof categories)doesshe
fall into in the KeirseyTemperamentSorter?

Howold is she andwhatcriticalmomentsis she

probablygoingthroughbecauseof her age?

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\_ Whatareher primaryrealitysortingstrategies?

Whatareher primarysensorymodalities?

Whatarefive uniquethingsyou observeabout her:

clothing,jewelry,education,and tastein music?(These
observationswill giveyou fodderto tie in your Barnum

1)

2).

3).

4).

5).

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 Girl# 4

Whatcategory(or combinationof categories)doesshe

fall into in the KeirseyTemperamentSorter?

Howold is she andwhatcriticalmomentsis she

probablygoingthroughbecauseof her age?

What are her primaryrealitysorting strategies?

Whatare her primarysensorymodalities?

What are five uniquethings you observeabout her:

clothing,jewelry,education,and taste in music? (These

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 obseruationswill giveyou fodderto tie in your Barnum
L descriptions.)

1).

2) .

3) .

4) .

5) .

Girl# 5
, (or
Whatcategory combinationof categories)doesshe

\* fall into in the KeirseyTemperamentSorter?

How old is she and what critical momentsis she

probablygoing through becauseof her age?

What are her primaryrealitysorting strategies?

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Whatareher primarysensorymodalities?

Whatarefive uniquethingsyou obserueabouther:

clothing,jewelry,education,and tastein music?(These
observationswill give you fodder to tie in your Barnum
descriptions.)

1).

2) .

3) .

4) .

5) .

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UsingColdReading
To Create
CommonalitiesAnd
AlludeToA Higher
PowerBring You
And A Woman
Together
Insidethe NaturalVibingcourseI gaveexamplesof using
coldreadingto createcommonalitiesandalludeto a higher
powerbringyou anda womantogether.

Gomeup with five exampleof using cold readingto

createcommonalitiesand to intimatethat a higher
powerbringingyou and a womantogether.

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UsingColdReading I

To LowerYour
Status
Gomeup with five examplesof using cold readingto
lower your status.

1)

2)

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L SevenArchetypes
ln Stories
Givethe definitionof the followingarchetypesandcomeup
witha storybasedon thesearchetypes.

Hero

Comeup with a story usingthe heroarchetype

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 Mentor

Gomeup with a story usingthe mentorarchetype

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\

ThresholdGuardian

Gomeup with a story usingthe ThresholdGuardian

archetype

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 Herald

Comeup with a story usingthe heraldarchetype

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 Shapeshifter

Comeup with a story usingthe shapeshifterarchetype

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 Shadow

Gomeup with a story usingthe shadowarchetype

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Trickster

Gomeup with a story usingthe tricksterarchetype

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 \
TheMonomyth
StructureThe.
Hero'sJourney
Here'sa quickguideto all the structuralstepsto the hero's
journey:
...'..
Stage1: OrdinaryWorld

Stage2. Thecallto adventure

Stage3: Refusalof the call

Stage4: Meetingwiththe mentor

Stage5: Crossingthe firstthreshold

stage6: once acrossthe firstthresholdthe heronaturally

encountersnewchallengesandtests,makesalliesand
enemies,andbeginsto learnthe rulesof the specialworld
Stage7: Approachto the inmostcave

Stage8: Supremeordeal

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 Stage9: Reward
\

Stage10:Roadback

Stage11: Resurrection

Stage12:Returnwithelixir

I wantyou to comeup with a story thatgoesthrough

eachstructuralstage:

Stage1: OrdinaryWorld:

Stage2: The call to adventure

Stage3: Refusalof the call

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Stage4: Meetingwith the mentor

Stage5: Crossingthe first threshqld

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 \* stage6: once acrossthe first thresholdthe hero
encountersnewchallengesand tests,makes
naturally

alliesand enemies,and beginsto learnthe rules of the

specialworld

Stage7: Approachto the inmost cave

Stage8: Supremeordeal

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Stage 9: Reward

Stage10: Roadback

Stage11: Resurrection

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Stage12: Returnwith elixir

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 UsingStorytelling
To EtchYourself
Into Her Brain
come up
with fivestorieswhereyou
etchyourselfinto the woman'sbrain.
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aretrademarksof SuperiorLivinglnc.
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 StoriesThatTap
lntoStructuresIn
HerPsycheThat
DriveHerTo Be
With You - Now
come up with five storiesthat tap into structuresin her
psychethat drive her to be with you - llow.

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StoriesThat
SuggestA Higher
-Power Brought
TogetherWithA
Woman
Gomeup with five stories that suggest a higher power
broughtyou togetherwith a woman.

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