My names are zhdan viktar

Where originally are you from? And where do you live now?
I was born and raised up in texas, I moved to cleveland ohio after the death
of my parents
Have you ever been married, before with kids?
I am a widower with two daughters (twins) . I lost my wife last five years . I
was emotionally devastated and lost full focus, but I stood firm because I have to
be strong my daughters Right now, they the apple of my eyes and the Light of my
life... I have so much delight in them
I am new here and to online dating, registered some days back, just decided to
give it a try and I contacted you. I really do not have so many clues on how online
dating is done.

Do you like to get married again? I can also remarry again, if only the woman
love me and love my son so much, that she care about the family been together as
one big family with so much love and care.

With the Experience you have had so far do you really believe that you can find
your soul mate through online dating?
As for me I believe and also have the courage that I will find the woman whom
I which to spend the rest of my life with. I do believe in soul mates. I have
colleagues that met their wife through online dating, got married and live very
happily together..
Do you believe in distance relationship?
I don't think that long distance between too committed people would be a
problem, as long as I know that my partner would be faithful and when there is True
love, Happiness & Trust in the relationship with smashing communication as well,
And i believe communication is important in a relationship too.

Are you willing to relocate if you find your soul mate?

To me it depends on my soul mate; if she willingly wants me relocate to her
house of living, its Okay with me, but if she wants to relocate to my house its
Okay with me, or if she wants us both to relocate to a new location, that again
will be Okay with me.
How has your present marital life affected you so far?

How do you normally spend your leisure time?

Listening to music, Cuddling up reading a magazine or watching TV,
Cooking.... I love walking in the Park
How much do you enjoy walking in the park?
I enjoy it a lot; feel the fresh air of the nature, viewing the beautiful
green trees.
Are you a God fearing woman?
I am a God fearing man, I do have my Christian faith to credit for my life,
attitude and success; however, I don't use the name of God to attract women for my
character speaks for itself. I am not the type of man who is focused entirely on
himself.
What are Your Hobbies?
I enjoy travel, going to the beach, camping by a lake, gardening, home
decorating, Comedy Clubs & Dinner Theater, music, my dog, & celebrating special
occasions.As well as spending some time out with my friends and also with my son.
What�s Your Favorite color?
My favorite colors are both white and red, because the white stands for a
pure heart and the red stands for love, so when you add the both of them together
you have a pure heart love, that is me because I do have a pure heart for love.
hkgbytry I mean how many brothers and sisters you have? What about your parents?
Unfortunately my both parents are dead too and I am the only child my
parents gave birth to, so you see my dear my son is the apple of my eyes and the
only close family I have at the moment.
Do you seek for a particular age before coming into online? How old are you?
I do not seek for a particular age, because I feel age is numbers, you do not
know where love can hit you up from. It can be someone younger than you or perhaps
older than you. I i will be completing 51 years old by October.
How often do you like to go out; I mean going partying?
I do not go out often that much ever since, I lost my late wife, because going
out alone seems not enjoyable to me, so the few time that I go out must be with my
son and I will be looking forward to go out with that specialwhich is you Someone
someday
How many relationships have you been into before you came into online dating?
I had three (3) deep relationships in my life; The first I had was when I was still
a teenager with a girl named Amber, we were both attending the same school she was
from Chicago, then we used to see each other everyday helping each other with our
assignment, unfortunately our final exam at high school, she told me that her
parents will be living the country for Canada and she was going with them also, I
felt like wooh!!!, that means that you are going to live me, she said she does not
know what to do, so they left I was really unhappy during that period.
The second was with my late wife and was my longest..After her death I stayed a
year and 5 months alone were I had a very special lady Named Ana; she was from
Canada, I thought I was gonna get married to her. We stayed 3 months together and I
later found that she lied about her relationship life and has cheating on me, so I
had to broke up with her and it hurts so much and so bad but I guess she doesn't
deserve me or perhaps we are not meant to be! Since then, I have been single and I
decided to come into online dating and find my soul mate then i found you dear

Do you know what went wrong in your past relationship?

Cheating and lies made my last relationship ended. I am a very comprehensive

person. When there is something wrong with my relationship, i don�t fight and be
hysterical. I like to talk, because a better conversation is always the best
solution for everything. But of course with every experience one encounters, you
learn more on how to deal with it and there is always something new for you to
discover.
What are your goals or dreams in life?
My goals and dreams in life is to get married to a kind, caring, loving and
understanding woman, whom I will call my wife, who I will love and we will both
live together and have a loving family forever.

Do you smoke cigarettes or drink alcohol or do drugs?

I had never smoked in my life neither used drink alchohol, and never pretend
too, its not for me. If I drink alcohol, Well I drink socially, if I go out with
some friends and they are drinking something light its okay

So tell me what is your favorite food?

I'm proud to be a vegan
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What�s your favorite drink?

My favorite drink is Red Wines, but I prefer Champagne more likely sometimes.

Do you have any favorite sport team you support in particular?

I'm a keen golfer and I also play Tennis. Golf and Tennis are my favorite
Sports to play, I'm a Big Fan of Tiger Woods and Michael Jordan.. I also watch
NBA .. My Favorite Basketball team is Lakers Of Los Angeles, I also love the Miami
Dolpins too.

What inspires you in life?

God
Do you believe in true love?
Yes

How do you feel when someone upset you? And what will you do to calm yourself down?
I do feel unhappy for that moment; go to quite place and listening to a cool
music that will calm me down.

What turns you off?

Anything fake, lies, deceit, cheating, quarreling and argument turns me off.

If you could change something about yourself, what would it be & why?
I am who I am, accept me, reject me, but I'm still me

What motivates you?

I'm motivated by life itself, because life is what you made it.
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What attracts you to a man?
Truthfulness and respect. It really makes me get closer to a lady, Is the
person inside, I do considers that more important because beauty fades with time
but the person inside appreciates with time.

What do you go for in a man?

I want you to know that i go for the inner beauty in a woman, which is her heart,
because it radiates and it speaks for itself over time and for women like you who
are family oriented is an added advantage to me my dear.

What are your likes and dislikes?

I like Faithfulness,honesty and Trustworthiness and I dislikes dramas, cheating,
lies, unfaithfulness and racist.

So what do you expect from me?

Love, Trust And Understanding

Can you drive?

Yes I can,i have Porsche Hybrid car.

Who is your mentor?

as for me. My mentor is my late dad, he was a nice, caring and understanding dad,
who loves and take good care of his family, he always speaks the truth and he is a
self discipline man, my dad is ready to risk everything he has for his loved ones,
but I do feel the pain because he never lived to enjoy me, he was really the best
dad in the world. he always tells me that uneasy lies the head that wears the
crown, so for you to be successful in life you have to face some challenges.
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So tell me; What are some of the places you have visited
I have been out of the States several times on different occasion, maybe on a
work trip, or vacation trip. My work has took me to places like; Italy, Spain,
Malaysia, England. while on vacation trip I have been to; Ajax of Netherlands,
Switzerland, Italy, Yugoslavia, Greece, Dublin of Ireland, Bermuda, Paris of
France, Rio De Janeiro of Brazil, and Dubai, and I would love my next vacation trip
to be with that special someone and thats you.

What is your biggest fear?

Losing my loved ones.
 Taking the roll of a father and mother to Hannah.

Describe the perfect vacation you have had!

Flying to Paris, then taking a train through France, Switzerland, Italy,
Yugoslavia, and Greece. Then spending 1 month on a Greek Island together with my
daughter. I had the time of my life, and these are my fondest memories. I will do
it again.

What are the five most important things in your life

God, Family, health, Living to help others without asking for anything in
return. Finally living long enough to tell you that I think you are great. Remember
this. I live to help and if you ever need my help, it's there for the asking Good
luck and much wisdom.
What do you spend most of your money on
Investing on business, going shopping and spending vacation abroad with my
little angle Hanna.
What would you cook for a date at home?
Smiles!!! That is going to be a secrete because I will be making her favorite
meal...Even if I do not know how to, before then I must get instructions from good
quality chefs and also read cooking books, to meet up to perfection the day I will
cook the meal.
What are your favorite movies
The Avengers, patriot, Romeo and Juliet, Pearl Harbor, Fly Boys, Titanic,
Superman so many of them but this few I have just listed are my top list.
What are your favorite TV Shows
Merlin, Smallville, One Trill Hill, Everybody Hates Chris, Ellen De Generes,
Oprah, TSCC, Heroes, Jerry Springer, Keeping up with the Kardashians E! Online
What brand of music do you like
I love blues, 80s, 90s, Rnb, Jazz, Hip Hop, Gospel Jams, RocknRoll.
Do you have a favorite musician in particular
hmmm, Phil Collins is a nice who inspires me in terms of music for that he is
my number one musician
What about your favorite music band
Mine is ABBA
Tell me one special place you would like to take me to when I come to you
We would go to Tahiti for a 2 weeks vacation, just the two of us....Tahiti is
the largest island in the Windward group of French Polynesia, located in the
archipelago of the Society Islands in the southern Pacific Ocean.
Do you think you can be trusted by your man?
Yes I can be trusted, because I am ready to open up my mind and my heart and
also lay down my life for the woman I love.
What positive lessons have you learned from your past relationships that will help
you succeed in future relationships
Love, Trust And Understanding.
Marriage they say "Is For Better, For Worse" do you believe in this principle
Yes I do believe in that, because that is where you have to show that you love
your partner very much.
On a serious note; have you ever thought of leaving your country in search of the
man you want to be with in the future?
Yes that is why I am here on online dating so that I can find a woman from
another country I learn from her culture and also she learns from my culture.

If you are at a loose end what are some of the following things you do
I will have hope and never to give up.
What do you think is the biggest mistake that men/women make in their relationships
Not trusting, understanding and trying to find time and share things with each
others.
If you could wake up tomorrow with any superpower, what would it be?
Hmm, that would be the power of Clark Kent also known as superman, I wanna be
the one to save the day.
Describe some of the most important things in your life
My daughter happiness and me having a complete family is the most important
thing I pray for in my life.
if you found yourself in a trouble would you accept youeself I will admit my
self, accept my mistakes, and face the consequences, because I do abide to the
truth.
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Yes I would help in anyway, because it's good to help those that are in need,
and God loves a cheerful giver.
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In a relationship how do you see a situation whereby the woman earns more money
than the man
A good relationship where two lovers understand each other, they're concerned
for each other and they respect one another, I don�t think that there will be
problem about that, to me is no problem as far as they both love their selves.
So baby tell me ! What the plan for the first night we met
A room full of Rose flowers... Hot Oil and candles... I will welcome my Queen
to our new World of undying Love and forever happiness, I will lay you on our bed
like a Queen and take off your clothes one by one, and you do the same to me too.
And we start from the Bathroom, we bath each other and make sweet love from the
Bathroom to our room and then continue from where we stop all night long
Are you financially stable
Yes of course I am financially stable, I do receive a Valuable income and I
can take good care of my family, make and keep them happy
What is Your best Moment in Life
My best moment was the day I went to the hospital when my wife was giving
birth and I heard the voice of my daughter crying and then I knew I'm a father with
so much joy in my heart.
Your worse moment in life
Jan 16th. 2010 When I donated my Kidney to my Wife... But she couldn't make it
through alive
Do you like holding hands and exchanging casual kisses with your partner
Yes..Holding her close and make her feel the warmth of my body while kissing
her.

Have you talked about your feelings with someone else?

Yes and you are the only person whom I am sharing my feelings with.