The Congruent Process

What is the Outer Game?

Till now we have talked about the INNER STUFF

How to crush limiting beliefs?

What mindsets do you have to adopt

What is attraction psychologically?

We worked on your inner world

But now we will work on the Outer World

So what the heck is the outer game

In simple words, it is the technical part of the interaction that you have with a girl

that leads to sex

There is a path that every interaction takes that leads to sex

Here it is

Social hook point —> Flirting + Having fun —>Kino—> Makeout /Kiss —→

Logistical escalation —→ Close

Almost every interaction which ends with sex takes this route

Including marriage

From starting the conversation to sex

These are the thing that you have to do in an interaction

This stuff might look a little intimidating to you right now and that's okay

I'll give you a detailed plan of how you have to execute this shit

But first, understand

With every girl, you want to fuck right now

Either you

have met her for once or have talked on IG with her

or you have just made eye contact with her for once

With most of the girls, you are at the Position of Social HOOK point

Or at most Flirting & having fun

That’s it
What is Social Hook Point ?

Its the point where girl is hooked to your social value and is ready to have an

interaction with you or not leaving you

She may or may not know you yet

But she knows this for sure

That you are not a thief or criminal and she can talk with you for a moment

Most of the girls in your Social circle comes under this category

They are hooked to you socially

Till now you just have to know this

Building attraction : The Verbal Game

In female psychology, we talked about what attracts women

The time we are living in

You can't prove to her that you are the alpha by hunting a tiger down or doing

some shit
Having muscles abs & shit are also crap

You can go to the gym if you want to for looking good

But as we talked earlier women are not that shallow beings

Strength & muscles don't define your attraction level to her

The parameter of building attraction has changed over time

Holding a conversation & passing shit tests are more of the things that build

attraction

What builds attraction during a conversation?

1. Pumping her emotions

Anything that pumps her emotional state builds attraction

A good sense of humor

Making her laugh

Amping up her emotional states build attraction like crazy

2. Putting out your intent

For getting the girl you want you to have to tell her that you like her and

you find her sexually attractive

When you put this thing out

It makes the interaction go Man to Woman direct

It shows that you have a dick

It tells her that she is hot & gives her the validation

It builds the sexual tension

and again it pumps her emotions

3. Passing her tests

Girls test you

They are wired to do that

And her testing you just means that she is asking you

"Are you an Alpha? "

If you pass the test, she'll get attracted to you

Because you turned her subconscious brain on

4. Leading

She is attracted to you

But making things happen is your job

You have to touch her

You have to go for the kiss

You have to ask for her number

You have to take her to your home

 If you fail to do so

It comes off as a really big turn off

So basically in any conversation you just have to do these 4 things

1. Pump her emotions

2. Put out your intent

3. Pass her tests

4. Take the lead

That's it if you do this

The girl will be attracted to you and want to fuck you

THE RULES OF VERBAL GAME

If you are sexually interested in a girl and interacting with her

You have to follow these rules no matter what happens

1. Don't talk too much logical shit to her

When you are interacting with a girl

Don't focus on talking too much logical shit

And if the conversation is going that way just change the topic

You can't attract a girl logically (remember)

 You can't convince her that you are the awesome fun-loving guy by logic

And remember the GOLDEN rule

" You don't have to change her mind, You just have to change her

mood "

2. Be Polarising

The only dude with whom she can have a neutral interaction is her friends

But you are not talking with her to be her friend

You are there to fuck her

So every interaction must be sexual or polarising

That's when you'll be able to spike her emotions

The vibe of every interaction must be

"I hate you or I love you "

" You are such a dick or You are kind of cool "

( we‘ll be talking about this stuff in detail don't worry )

3. Be expressive like Fuck

How many humans do you meet on a daily basis who are full of life

So

If you are talking about something

 You are feeling it with your deepest fucking core

You are experiencing that stuff right then & there

4. You are not seeking a reaction

If the girl is not responding to your stuff in a way you want her to

Then that situation doesn't affect you

You are doing stuff for yourself

You are not waiting for her reactions

You do what you are doing & ultimately at some point shell like you for it

FLIRTING
What is flirting?

Building sexual tension in a fun manner

How do you flirt ?

You flirt by using

1. A couple of verbal techniques

2. By using the flirty smile in the interaction

3. By making sexual Eye contact

4. Physical actions ( mild touching )

Flirtatious smile - That Half smirk

which is playful & cocky use that

While making any comment or for teasing her

Naught Eye Contact - When you pull her or tease her in a playfully way

You want her to know why you are doing this and you are sexually interested in

her

So have that mysterious eye contact

1. Love me hate me technique

This is one of the most effective techniques that build killer attraction

What this technique does is emotionally or physically pushes the girl back

And then you pull her in

 the signal it gives is

1. You like her But you don't need her

2. She is the one who is chasing you

How do you do them?

First, you ignite the push & then you pull her back

This is the main reason why women like jerks they push chicks a lot

Make sure that vibe is a little bit sexual

Here are some common examples of Love me hate me technique

1. You: You are the most beautiful girl I have seen tonight ( Begin counting on

fingers ) No wait, actually the fourth-best

2. You: You are either the coolest girl I have ever met or the craziest
 3. You : Hey Nice Dress

She: Thanks

You: My grandmother brought it last week

But push-pull works physically as well & it's great

1. Hug her and then push her saying" that's enough little girl " ( by having the

flirty smile on your face telling her that what's going on )

2. Decrease the proximity between you & her look into her eyes say

something like this

You: Sophie I want to tell you something ( looking deep into her eyes )

She: Yes

You: There is something on your teeth ( laughs )

3. What do I do most of the time is?

See on what thing she has spent most of her time

Like if she is wearing a really good dress

Just disqualify her on that first

 You : Hey what are you wearing

She : I am wearing XYZ brought this

You : Don’t walk with me while wearing this ( having that flirty smile )

She : You re such an asshole

You : Your eyes are so beautiful ( making eye contact)

4. You :You know, I bet we'd make a really good couple

But I ll give you a divorce

Because I don’t like girls wearing ( whatever she is wearing )

It is just like creating the mystery around her that you like her & now she is

chasing you

Understand that you have to Push & Pull her at the same time

Doing more of one thing will kill the interaction

Hell lot of push without pulling = You are a jerk who is just having fun
Hell lot of pull = Needy creep

The best balance is

60% PUSH 40% PULL

It's like rewarding your dog with a biscuit whenever he does the trick

Actions that you have to take

Start using these techniques in every interaction

When you are interacting with a girl

Just think How I can make this situation more fun for you & her

First, you’ll be copying the stuff that I’ll give you

And as time passes you will start creating your own

This the journey

For being something you have to copy it first & over the time
 You ll develop your own style to it

Teasing her

Teasing is a fun way of igniting feel-good emotions & making her laugh

Make sure that the vibe is always playfully & funny

1. Treat her like your little sister - The way you tease your younger siblings you

can do that

2. Giving her nicknames - give her a funny nickname to her on your first meet

and use it in the conversation

it will make you memorable

3. Call her out - If you find something funny in her

Exaggerate it & laugh

If she touches you by mistake " Now you are finding excuses to touch me around

"
4. Mimicking her - This works good

for teasing & making things fun

E.g - she says " you say this to every girl "

You in an exaggerated voice " YOU SAY THIS TO EVERY GIRL "

5. Misinterpreting what she said -

If she says "I'll kill you "

You can reply " I love you too babes "

6. Cocky Funny - The idea is you are being cocky & funny at the same time

EG:

"You are lucky we are having a date, You know I missed a meeting with Trump

because he is more boring than you "

If she compliments you say “ Are you hitting on me “

Again

You don't have to memorize it all

Just start using 1 or 2 in your conversation

But do use them

And keep practicing them

And keep adding your own stuff to it

Initially, you'll be in your head

Because you'll be copying some of this stuff

But over time you'll get good at this

A note on improving your sense of humor -

1.Watch shit loads of standup comedy & use that stuff in your conversation
2.Don't try to be funny

Just have fun & you'll say Funny shit

This covers flirting

Start using this stuff in your interaction

and start pumping her emotional state

BUILDING THE SEXUAL TENSION

A big part of flirting is building the sexual tension

If you do only fun fun fun with girl

She will think that this guy can't take the lead

So setting the Man to Woman vibe from the start of the interaction is really

important
Here is how you build that vibe

1. Eye Fucking -

Look into her eyes & imagine all the crazy things you ll do with her on the bed

Do this & she'll get wet

You are not having an eye staring competition but make sure she gets wet &

break it first

Start using it in the interaction

2. Proximity -

Enter into her personal space, is she is not comfortable with it

Take a step back & do it again

But get close enough to her that you can feel her breathe

3. Not speaking - When she is talking something to you or explaining some shit

Just stop replying & keep looking at her

It will get uncomfortable & when she asks for your reply

Just reply with something sexual

That you just want to kiss her Right now or shit

4. Vocal Tonality -

When you are saying something sexual

or you are talking when you are in her personal space

Just make your voice a little bit thinner

Like how your voice becomes when you breathe a little heavy

That's how you have to do it

The next step is just escalating & fuck

PASSING HER SHIT TESTS

What are shit tests & why girl shit tests you?

A shit test is basically some shit thrown at you for testing your congruency

It’s a test which tells people how much of a man you are?

How much Self Sufficient you feel?

Girl shit tests you for determining are you an alpha male or not
She might do it consciously or subconsciously

But she’ll test you

And she’ll test you until you are with her

It’s just female nature

She wants to feel your masculinity this way & she wants that for her whole life

Is shit testing good or bad?

If a girl gives you shit tests its a good thing

Because it means she is sexually interested in you and see you as a potential

mate

If you pass her shit tests she is bound to get attracted to you
Passing the shit test -

There can be 100 replies to a shit test and there is no point in remembering them

because there can be 10000 shit tests

So here I am giving you the recipe of passing every shit test that comes your way

1.Exaggerate & Laugh -

Girl: I don’t date short guys

You: Yeah I am a little dwarf even in my heels ( laugh )

What you have done here is you amplified what she said

& gave her the proof that

“ Bitch I am completely secure in my value & you ll feel safe with me “

2. Reframe it -

Girl: I don’t date short guys

You : WOW wait

We have just met & you are thinking of dating

Take it slow babes

Now what you have done here is you reframed it in a way that now she is the one

who is chasing you

And now she will seek validation from you in the reply

Which you wish not to give

3. Ignoring it -

Girl: I don’t date short guys

You : Yeah Cool

So I was saying that Moon is a satellite too

What you did here is you just don’t give a FUCK to what she said

And the signal that she got is

“ Girl I am a fucking alpha male , I don’t give a Fuck about your opinion “

Some common shit tests & how you pass them

1. “I have a boyfriend” - it is the most basic common shit test

That girls give if they kind of sense that dude is interested in her

The truth is

Existence of her boyfriend doesn’t matter , you can fuck her anyway

So what you can reply to this is

“ COOL! say my hi to him” (IGNORING IT )

Or “ I have a boyfriend too “ ( laughing & ignoring her again )

2. “Buy me a Drink “

What she is saying is

Yo , You beta male

Since you don’t think that you can fuck me with who you are

You have to compensate for that by buying me a drink & I ll still not fuck you

The correct reply to it will be

1. Why ???

2. “No you buy me a drink “ ( Flipping the script )

3. “ Girls who are under 16 don’t get any drinks

BTW how the fuck you entered in the club “ ( disqualifying her )

3. “ How many girls have you slept with? “-

NO matter which girl asks you this

The best reply which I give is

“NO I am a virgin “ ( naughty smile )

4. Hold my Bag

No matter what happens

Never hold a girls bag

You are the man not her little bitch

Straigth reply NO !!! thats it