Counseling Skills Notes
Counseling Skills Notes
Concept of Counseling
Example:
● Guidance: A high school counselor helps a student decide between two career
paths.
● Counseling: A counselor helps the student manage their anxiety about making
career decisions and explore their values and interests to reach a fulfilling choice.
● Psychotherapy: A therapist works with the student to address underlying
self-esteem issues that stem from past trauma.
Counseling originated from the guidance movement in the early 20th century. It
evolved into a professional discipline, incorporating theories from psychology and
sociology.
1. Key Developments:
Skills of a Counselor
Counselors need a range of interpersonal and technical skills to help clients effectively.
These include listening, questioning, and feedback.
1. Listening:
● Goal: Understand the client’s presenting problems and their root causes.
● Techniques:
○ Ask open-ended questions to explore thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.
○ Identify patterns and triggers.
● Example: A client struggling with anger management shares that they feel
triggered when criticized. The counselor explores how past experiences, like
childhood criticism, contribute to this.
1. Psychoanalysis
3. Humanistic Counseling
4. Gestalt Counseling
These approaches combine cognitive and behavioral theories to help clients address
dysfunctional thinking and behaviors. They emphasize the relationship between
thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.
Behavioral Counseling
○ Focuses only on the external behavior and may ignore deeper emotional
or cognitive issues.
○ Some critics argue it can be too mechanical and fails to address the whole
person.
Cognitive Counseling
○ The counselor helps the client identify, challenge, and replace irrational or
distorted thoughts with more rational, adaptive ones.
○ Focus on cognitive restructuring and improving problem-solving skills.
● Techniques:
○ May not be suitable for individuals who are unwilling to engage actively in
the therapeutic process or have limited cognitive abilities.
Reality-Oriented Counseling
○ The counselor helps clients assess their current behaviors, evaluate how
well these behaviors meet their needs, and explore new choices for
fulfilling those needs.
○ The counselor focuses on the present and encourages clients to take
responsibility for their actions.
● Techniques:
○ WDEP System: Helps clients clarify their Wants, explore their Directions
in life, evaluate their current behaviors, and make new Plans.
○ Behavioral Confrontation: Identifying ineffective behaviors and replacing
them with more effective choices.
○ Formulating Plans: Assisting clients in setting clear, realistic goals and
making concrete plans to achieve them.
○ Contracts: Formal agreements between the counselor and client
regarding desired behavior changes.
● Strengths:
○ Focuses on the present and empowers clients to take control of their lives.
○ Effective for clients dealing with relationship issues, personal
responsibility, and goal-setting.
● Limitations:
○ A-B-C-D-E Model:
■ A: Activating event.
■ B: Beliefs about the event.
■ C: Consequences (emotional and behavioral responses).
■ D: Disputing irrational beliefs.
■ E: Developing new, rational beliefs.
○ Cognitive Disputation: Actively challenging irrational beliefs with logical
reasoning and evidence.
○ Imaginative Disputation: Using imagery to help clients confront their
irrational beliefs.
○ Bibliotherapy: Reading self-help books to reinforce learning and
self-improvement.
● Strengths:
Applications
○ The family has a structure, which includes roles, rules, and boundaries
that define the relationships between family members.
○ Dysfunction arises when the family structure becomes unbalanced or
rigid, such as enmeshment (lack of boundaries) or disengagement (too
much separation between family members).
● Role of the Counselor:
○ The counselor actively engages with the family and often becomes part
of the emotional process.
○ The therapist encourages family members to express their authentic
feelings and facilitates a supportive, open atmosphere.
● Techniques:
● Limitations:
○ May not provide the structured tools needed for families that need more
direct intervention.
○ Intense emotional engagement can sometimes be overwhelming for some
families.
These systemic family counseling techniques can be applied across different clinical
settings and family situations, helping to improve family functioning and resolve
relational challenges.
Module 5
2. Solution-Focused Counseling
○ Narrative Counseling is based on the idea that individuals create and live
out their personal narratives or stories, and these stories shape their
identity and experiences.
○ Clients often adopt problem-saturated narratives, where the problem
defines them (e.g., "I am a failure" or "I am weak").
○ Narrative therapy focuses on helping clients reframe and rewrite their life
stories in a way that empowers them and creates new possibilities.
● Role of the Counselor:
4. Crisis Counseling
5. Group Counseling
○ The counselor facilitates group dynamics, ensuring that all members feel
heard and supported.
○ The counselor may provide structure for group meetings, but encourages
peer-to-peer interaction and group feedback.
● Techniques:
● Limitations:
These interventions provide flexible, effective ways of helping individuals and families in
a wide range of settings, from crisis management to long-term growth
Module 6
1. Professional Competence:
1. Informed Consent:
○ Dual relationships occur when the counselor has multiple roles in a client’s
life (e.g., both counselor and personal friend). This can impair objectivity,
create confusion, or lead to exploitation.
○ Counselors should avoid these relationships or disclose them to the client
if unavoidable, ensuring transparency and seeking supervision.
3. Non-Discrimination:
○ Clients have the right to make their own decisions regarding treatment,
including the right to terminate counseling at any time.
○ Counselors should support the client’s autonomy, offering guidance
without imposing their own values or opinions.
5. Avoiding Harm and Exploitation:
○ Counselors must ensure that their practice is designed to benefit the client
and not cause any harm. This includes avoiding coercion, manipulation, or
taking advantage of the client’s vulnerabilities.
○ Counselors should also take steps to prevent burnout and personal issues
from impacting their professional work.
6. Maintaining Professional Integrity:
1. Duty of Care:
○ Clients have the right to access their personal information and records,
and they have legal protection against discrimination or harassment during
the counseling process.
○ Counselors must respect these rights and ensure that their practice
complies with applicable laws.
9. Court Orders and Testimony:
Conclusion
Both ethical and legal issues in counseling are central to providing responsible,
effective, and client-centered care. Counselors must adhere to ethical standards that
prioritize the welfare of clients, avoid harm, and maintain trust. Simultaneously, they
must navigate the legal frameworks within which they work, ensuring that their practice
is in line with laws, regulations, and legal precedents. Balancing these elements is
critical for a successful and professional counseling practice.