Jennifer N. Baggerly (Editor) - Contemporary Case Studies in Clinical Mental Health For Children and Adolescents-Rowman & Littlefield Publishers (2024)
Jennifer N. Baggerly (Editor) - Contemporary Case Studies in Clinical Mental Health For Children and Adolescents-Rowman & Littlefield Publishers (2024)
JENNIFER N. BAGGERLY
University of North Texas at Dallas
ATHENA A. DREWES
New York Association for Play Therapy
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NISO Z39.48-1992.
I, Jennifer Baggerly, dedicate this book to my father and stepmother, Dr.
Leo Baggerly and Mrs. Carole Baggerly, for their lifetime of support and
inspiration to me and my daughter, Katelyn Jean Baggerly.
Foreword xxiii
Edward (Franc) Hudspeth
Preface xxv
Jennifer N. Baggerly and Athena A. Drewes
Acknowledgments xxxi
PART I: CHILDREN
1 Depression: Child-Centered Play Therapy with a Biracial Child 3
Peggy L. Ceballos and Marium Sadiq
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viii Brief Contents
Index 287
Foreword xxiii
Edward (Franc) Hudspeth
Preface xxv
Jennifer N. Baggerly and Athena A. Drewes
Inspiration xxv
Book Chapter Authors xxvi
What the Book Is Not xxvi
What the Book Is xxvii
Structure for Book Chapters xxvii
Begin with Case Studies xxvii
Brief Overview of Issues and Treatment Approaches xxvii
Treatment Goals and Objectives xxviii
Session Description and Transcript Analysis xxviii
Ethical and Cultural Considerations xxix
Parent and Teacher Consultation xxix
Sample Case Notes xxix
Resources xxix
Discussion Questions xxx
Our Hope xxx
Acknowledgments xxxi
PART I: CHILDREN
1 Depression: Child-Centered Play Therapy with a Biracial Child 3
Peggy L. Ceballos and Marium Sadiq
Childhood Depression 3
Child-Centered Play Therapy (CCPT) 5
CCPT with Childhood Depression 6
Case Study Application 7
Treatment Process 7
Ethical and Cultural Considerations 11
Parent and Teacher Consultations 12
Conclusion 12
Sample Case Notes 13
Session 1 13
Session 8 13
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x Contents
Resources 14
For Professionals 14
For Children 14
For Parents 14
Discussion Questions 14
References 15
Resources 39
For Professionals 39
For Children 39
For Parents 39
Discussion Questions 39
References 40
Discussion Questions 93
References 94
Session 4 119
Resources 119
For Professionals 119
For Children 119
For Parents 119
Discussion Questions 120
References 120
Session 8 146
Session 9 146
Session 10 146
Ethical and Cultural Considerations 146
Conclusion 148
Sample Case Note 149
Resources 150
For Professionals 150
For Parents 150
Discussion Questions 150
References 151
Resources 270
For Professionals 270
For Clients 270
For Parents 271
Discussion Questions 271
References 271
Index 287
Tables
1.1. Roberto: Transcript/Analysis
1.2. Roberto: Transcript/Analysis
2.1. El: Session 1
2.2. El: Session 2
3.1. Carla: Session 3
3.2. Carla: Session 10
4.1. Jake: Session 1
4.2. Jake: Session 6
5.1. Benjamin: Session 1A
5.2. Benjamin, Session 1B
5.3. Benjamin: Session 2A
5.4. Benjamin: Session 2B
5.5. Benjamin: Session 2C
5.6. Benjamin: Session 3
6.1. Huan: Phase 1A
6.2. Huan: Phase 1B
6.3. Huan: Phase 2A
6.4. Huan: Phase 2B
6.5. Huan: Phase 3A
6.6. Huan: Phase 3B
7.1. AutPlay Group: Session 1
7.2. AutPlay Group: Session 5
7.3. AutPlay Group: Session 10
8.1. Salvador: Session 1
8.2. Salvador: Session 2
9.1. Kanani: Transcript/Analysis
10.1. Jessica and Edward: Session 4
10.2. Jessica and Edward: Session 7
11.1. Jade: Session 1
11.2. Jade: Session 3
12.1. Jasmin: Session 1
12.2. Jasmin: Session 2
12.3. Jasmin: Session 3
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Textboxes
10.1. CPRT Progress Notes: Session 1
Foreword
I
n early 2002, while in an internship, I saw my first child and adolescent cli-
ents. I was a second-year student completing a master’s degree in community
counseling. At that point, my training to work with child and adolescent cli-
ents consisted of two courses: introduction to play therapy and child and ado-
lescent counseling. What I had to offer was funneled through knowledge gained,
yet, I had little practical experience applying this knowledge. Running through
my head were many theories, skills, and techniques and a lot of fear. The fear was
centered on the fact that I was working with a vulnerable population who had
little choice in their outcomes. Surrounding all the information I had learned was
a statement that I had heard over and over: meet them where they are.
Though children and adolescents have always experienced difficulties, in the
20 years or so since my first clients, it seems that these difficulties are more fre-
quent and pervasive. As we find ourselves following several years of an unex-
pected and overwhelming pandemic, we are more aware than ever of the mental
health issues facing children and adolescents. Did the pandemic cause more men-
tal health issues? Yes, but it did much more. The pandemic removed many of the
avenues of support available to children and adolescents, leaving mental health
issues an unencumbered path in which issues thrive.
While reflecting on my abilities 20 years ago and the pandemic, I could con-
clude that had I started practicing during the pandemic, I might have been under-
prepared. Then again, maybe not, because so much of what I learned through
working with my first clients came from being present and attentive. It came from
a hypothesis (diagnosis) and a conceptualization and was guided by a theoretical
philosophy and a willingness to meet them where they were. So, whether in the
room with them or connected through a teleconferencing platform, I believe that
I would have relied on what had guided my facilitation in the past.
Now, after having been an educator for more than 15 years, I understand
what helped me become a competent practitioner and educator. I learned that all
clients are unique and present with varying circumstances, but our first few cli-
ents help us develop case conceptualization skills that can be applied to the next
clients. Case conceptualizations are not easy. They take practice and experience.
Our first case conceptualizations are akin to trial and error and hunches and are
only guided by the facts we have collected. Through practice, we learn to look
deeper.
I believe that had I had a text like Contemporary Case Studies in Clinical
Mental Health for Children and Adolescents, my journey into case conceptual-
ization and client work would have been easier. The text adds to our founda-
tion in child and adolescent therapy as it is full of robust case examples covering
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numerous mental health issues. Across the child and adolescent cases, multiple
theoretical approaches are described and linked to treatment goals and objec-
tives. Adding to the practical nature of the text are realistic session descriptions
providing readers with a glimpse into how sessions might progress. Throughout
the 20 chapters, as one reads, I believe each reader will see themselves in the ther-
apist’s place. Seldom covered in most texts, but highlighted in this text, are the
sections, in each chapter, on parent and/or teacher consultation.
Contemporary Case Studies in Clinical Mental Health for Children and
Adolescents is not prescriptive, in that it does not attempt to assert that what
is described is the only way to work with a child or adolescent experiencing a
specific issue. The seasoned editors, Jennifer Baggerly and Athena Drewes, trans-
parently state that the text is not intended to be a step-by-step manual. Rather,
the extensive use of case illustrations along with questions for reflection make it
possible for practitioners to extrapolate beneficial principles that can be applied
to their clients.
As mental health practitioners, we are expected to conceptualize our clients
to develop the best course of action to help remediate their issues. The case con-
ceptualization process gives us a starting point to which we can connect empiri-
cally supported interventions. Through texts such as Contemporary Case Studies
in Clinical Mental Health for Children and Adolescents, we’re able to see the
linking of case conceptualization to empirically supported intervention. We can
see, through our clients’ worldview and circumstances, how one’s theoretical lens
can be applied.
As a counselor educator, I found Contemporary Case Studies in Clinical Men-
tal Health for Children and Adolescents to be an exceptional guide to help my
counseling students conceptualize and treat culturally diverse children and ado-
lescents. As a seasoned child and adolescent clinician, I found it to be a refreshing
reminder about applying key therapeutic principles and evidence-based proce-
dures with each unique client. I also found it to be a challenging call to consider
expanding my clinical strategies. In summary, this text is valuable for beginning
and experienced clinicians working with children and adolescents post-pandemic
and beyond.
Edward (Franc) Hudspeth, PhD, NCC,
LPC-S, ACS, RPT-S, RPh
Program Coordinator, EdS in Counselor
Education-Play Therapy
University of Mississippi
Preface
Jennifer N. Baggerly and Athena A. Drewes
Inspiration
The inspiration for Contemporary Case Studies in Clinical Mental Health for
Children and Adolescents came during the world’s life-altering COVID-19 pan-
demic during 2020, referred to as “the year from hell” (Wikipedia). In January
of 2020, I (JB) heard a medical professional say on television, “Life as you know
it will change because of this coronavirus.” I thought to myself, well, that seems
a little extreme. I wish I were wrong, but as we now know, millions of lives were
impacted for at least two years and some for even more.
Children’s and adolescents’ mental health plummeted. The pandemic trig-
gered some children to experience anxiety, depression, abuse, and grief. Children
who already had ADHD became more symptomatic during the COVID quar-
antine. Then the death of George Floyd ignited a social fire, in which some peo-
ple protested for justice while others balked. Hate crimes and political extremist
groups increased. This anger and tension in the community at large seemed to
reflect anger and tension within families.
Early in the pandemic, many mental health professionals (MHP) experienced
financial anxiety from not having as many clients and trying to figure out tele-
health. Then the surge hit with parents, educators, and medical professionals
inundating mental health professionals with referrals of children and adolescents
desperate for relief. Indeed, mental health became the second wave of the COVID-
19 crisis, cresting only after the medical outlook stabilized. It was all hands on
deck. As a counselor educator, I (JB) was teaching classes, providing counseling to
as many children and adolescents as possible, and supervising new professionals
who were trying to keep up. One new counselor said to me, “I don’t feel ready
but so many children need me. I need more than weekly supervision because there
are so many different problems that it seems I forgot how to counsel. I wish there
was a book that gave me concrete examples of what to do and say and how to
conceptualize treatment for lots of different children and adolescents.”
Like many MHP, this new professional experienced the pressing urgency of
numerous children struggling with contemporary challenges. Constant requests
to serve more and more children resulted in some MHP feeling so overwhelmed
that they worried that they had forgotten how to do things properly and forgot
about self-care. A physical book with concrete examples as well as case concep-
tualization analysis was needed to remind us of all of the key theoretical concepts
and strategies that lead to therapeutic change. We need to be reminded of how
to counsel lots of different types of children and adolescents struggling with lots
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of different recent realities. We need contemporary case studies that reflect this
changing world. We need Contemporary Case Studies in Clinical Mental Health
for Children and Adolescents.
to provide a theoretical rationale for why you said what you did or did what you
did.” I always love seeing the look of panic on my students’ faces when I say this
because then I can help them realize they know or need to know the theoretical
rationale. Then their faces turn to a look of contemplation and commitment to be
the best counselor they can be in each session.
Resources
Our chapter authors share their go-to resources for professional training, chil-
dren, and parents. If you are new to a subject and don’t know where to start, our
chapter authors will point you in a helpful direction. If you are well versed in an
approach, you may find something new.
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Discussion Questions
Each chapter asks you specific questions to extend your thinking and learning,
either on your own or in a group discussion. These questions are a helpful way
to engage colleagues in professional development, for personal growth by jour-
naling individually, and for use in academic settings to engage students in prob-
lem solving. Whichever way, we encourage you to think about and answer these
questions.
Our Hope
Our hope for you, the reader, is to experience new learning and renewal as you
work with contemporary issues and challenges with your clients. Honestly, we as
editors have learned so much from each chapter author, which in turn has helped
to improve our treatment approaches with some of our own clients. We believe
you will find this volume clinically useful as well.
Acknowledgments
W
e also wish to thank the reviewers whose thoughtful comments and
expertise guided our writing and revisions for the development of this
book. As always, any errors and omissions are our own:
Carleton Brown, University of Texas at El Paso
Celeste Fiori, University of Wyoming
Kenisha Gordon, Mississippi College
Sueann Kenney-Noziska, Play Therapy Corner
Donna Kreskey, California State University, Chico
Craig LeCroy, Arizona State University
Misti Lindquist, Azusa Pacific University
Jack Peltz, Daemen College
Richard Ruth, The George Washington University
Sean Scanlan, Chaminade University of Honolulu
Anne Stewart, James Madison University
Hayley Stulmaker, HLS Counseling PLLC
Daniel Sweeney, George Fox University
Gabriel Young, Pacific Oaks College
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PA RT I
Children
CHAPT E R 1
Depression
Child-Centered Play Therapy with a Biracial Child
Peggy L. Ceballos and Marium Sadiq
Childhood Depression
According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC, 2023),
approximately 2.7 million children, ages 3–17, were diagnosed with depression
between 2016 and 2019. Symptoms of childhood depression can present in a
variety of ways. Children experiencing depression may exhibit impairment across
cognitive, affective, physiological, and social domains (Burgin & Ray, 2022;
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Korczak, Madigan, & Colasanto, 2017). These symptoms can negatively impact
children’s level of functioning by impeding their school performance and impact-
ing their ability to participate in interpersonal relationships (Garber, 2006).
Researchers associate childhood depression with exposure to early life stress-
ors. LeMoult et al. (2020) conducted a meta-analysis and found that exposure
to early life stressors such as physical abuse, emotional abuse, sexual abuse,
the passing of a loved one, or domestic violence were linked to greater risk of
being diagnosed with major depressive disorder before the age of 18 years. Other
researchers have corroborated the significant link that exists between adverse
childhood experiences and depression (Satinsky et al., 2021). In addition, family
history of mental health problems such as depression (Maughan, Collishaw, &
Stringaris, 2013; Mills & Baker, 2016) and lack of social support (Rueger, Mal-
ecki, Pyun, Aycock, & Coyle, 2016) are factors linked to childhood depression. It
is important to note that childhood depression may leave the child prone to the
development of other mental health conditions (Weisz et al., 2006; Avenevoli,
Stolar, Li, Dierker, & Ries Merikangas, 2001).
According to Delaney and Smith (2012), the negative effects of early onset
of depression continue into adulthood. When depression appears in childhood,
there are more risks of developing comorbidity of mental health problems and
major depressive disorder later in life (Zisook et al. 2007). This is concerning
as statistics show that about 25% of children are diagnosed with major depres-
sive disorder by adolescence (Abela & Hankin, 2008). Maughan et al. (2013)
explained that depression in adolescents is preceded by anxiety, addictions, and
disruptive behaviors. The authors concluded that a combination of environ-
mental and genetic factors play a role in the development of depression during
childhood, affecting more girls than boys. According to Maughan et al. (2013),
diagnosing depression in childhood is difficult due to developmental concerns
and how depression often presents itself in comorbidity with other disorders.
The criteria to diagnose depression center on symptoms of continued sadness,
significant loss of interest in enjoyable activities, changes in appetite, fatigue or
diminished physical activity, feeling a sense of worthlessness or guilt, inability to
think concretely, and suicide ideation (American Psychiatric Association [APA],
2022). However, Allgaier et al. (2014) cautioned of the difficulties most men-
tal health providers face when trying to diagnose depression during childhood.
The authors explained several factors that contribute to this difficulty, including
developmental factors that cause symptoms to present in an atypical manner, the
presence of other disorders such as anxiety, and the struggle children face when
trying to express verbally what is happening to them. According to Sánchez Rus,
Solis, Rodriguez, & Suárez-Gómez (2021), because depressive symptoms in chil-
dren may present as irritability, lack of attention, and hyperactivity, the diagnosis
can be confused with ADHD. The authors also warned that both diagnoses can
coexist, making it hard for mental health providers to determine the best treat-
ment. Thus, Sánchez Rus et al. (2021) urged providers to closely monitor early
diagnosis to lower chances for later complications.
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(feelings, thoughts, behaviors) and to try new ways of being that allow them to
experience more congruence with their real self. The child-centered play therapist
believes in the child’s self-actualizing force and therefore does not need to use
activities or interventions (Landreth, 2012). Burgin and Ray (2022) stated that
in CCPT the safe environment characterized by the core conditions and created
by the application of CCPT skills “provide the child with the freedom to express
their experiences of depression, naturally moving towards confronting their per-
ceptions of inadequacy, and beginning to experience themselves as capable as they
build coping skills, resulting in positive integrations to self-concept” (Ray, 2018).
Treatment Process
The CCPT treatment plan consisted of seeing Roberto once a week for 50 min-
utes. Prior to starting sessions, I (first author) completed an intake session with
Roberto’s parents to discuss presenting issues and administered the Children’s
Depression Inventory (Kovacs, 1978) with Roberto, which measures depressive
symptoms in children over the age of 6. Roberto scored in the significant range
for multiple subscales on the assessment. Based on the intake and assessment
results, the parents and I collaborated to create the following therapeutic goals:
• increase Roberto’s awareness of his own feelings and how he could express
these feelings in socially acceptable ways,
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and talked about emerging play therapy themes but never disclosed specific play
behaviors or verbal disclosures that Roberto made unless it became necessary
(e.g., disclosing wanting to harm himself). There is also an ethical obligation to
attend to Roberto’s cultural background (ACA, 2014) by delivering culturally
responsive CCPT, which was done by following best practices provided in the
literature (Ceballos et al., 2021). In addition, it was important for me to imple-
ment culturally and age-appropriate assessments with Roberto to ensure that
results were valid and applicable to him. Finally, it was important for me to seek
supervision and relevant information regarding the client’s presenting issue (ACA,
2014). I made sure to have knowledge of depression in childhood and to seek
peer supervision as needed throughout the case to maintain objectivity.
Conclusion
Throughout Roberto’s time in therapy, he was able to make significant prog-
ress in identifying his feelings and noticing when they were coming up for him.
Through his growth, he found ways to express his anger and sadness, which
in turn reduced the angry outbursts that his teachers and parents reported. As
he worked through these feelings, Roberto’s parents and teacher also noticed a
decrease in his anxiety and his willingness to participate more in social activities,
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although he still showed signs of anxiety when faced with new tasks and was shy
when engaged with new people. I was able to effectively use CCPT with Roberto
to create a space in which he was able to explore his feelings in a nonpunitive
way and learn how to process and experience the symptoms of his depression.
Through play therapy and my attitudinal conditions, Roberto felt accepted and
was able to become more congruent without feeling further isolated. In addition
to validating Roberto’s feelings, I was able to validate his experience as a biracial
child. Roberto’s entire identity was considered in understanding him. Throughout
therapy, I found out there had been experiences of bullying related to his and his
parents’ racial identity. I perceived these as factors contributing to his conditions
of worth and perfectionistic themes. Through parent and teacher consultations,
Roberto’s parents and teachers increased insight into Roberto’s experience, which
in turn impacted their level of empathy for him. Overall, this case example shows
ways that CCPT can be used in treating childhood depression.
Session 1
Diagnosis/Presenting Problem: The child’s parents brought the child to counsel-
ing to address angry outbursts, feelings of anxiety, and difficulty in school.
Intervention: Child-Centered Play Therapy
Description of Play: The child worked to explore the playroom and become
familiar with the counselor. The client maintained a sad affect while playing with
the dolls as evidenced by speaking low and body language. The client appeared
uncomfortable with his sadness as evidenced by quickly changing the subject
when the counselor brought attention to his feelings.
Assessment: The child engaged primarily in exploratory play while he familiar-
ized himself with the playroom. It appeared important to the client that he was
able to explore and be in charge of himself as evidenced by confirming that he
was able to make his own choices in the playroom.
Session 8
Diagnosis/Presenting Problem: The child’s parents brought the child to counsel-
ing to address angry outbursts, feelings of anxiety, and difficulty in school.
Intervention: Child-Centered Play Therapy
Limits Set: Counselor set limits to protect counselor safety and provided choices
around how the client can express his anger.
Description of Play: The child worked to express his anger and, at the same time,
to maintain his relationship with the counselor. The client demonstrated guilt
when he was unsure of the appropriate way to express his anger as evidenced by
negative self-talk.
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Resources
For Professionals
Child-Centered Play Therapy Treatment Manual found in Advanced Play Ther-
apy: Essential Conditions, Knowledge, and Skills for Child Practice by Dee C.
Ray (2011).
Children’s Depression Inventory Assessment by Maria Kovacs (1978).
Dibs in Search of Self: The Renowned, Deeply Moving Story of an Emotionally
Lost Child Who Found His Way Back by Virginia Axline (1986).
For Children
A Terrible Thing Happened: A Story for Children Who Have Witnessed Violence
or Trauma by Margaret M. Holmes (2000).
Was It the Chocolate Pudding?: A Story for Little Kids about Divorce by Sandra
Levins & Bryan Langdo (2006).
When Sadness Is at Your Door by Eva Eland (2019).
For Parents
How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk by Adele Faber
& Elaine Mazlish (2006).
The Whole-Brain Child: 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child’s
Developing Mind by Daniel J. Siegel & Tina P. Bryson (2011).
Parents may also benefit from participating in a Child-Parent Relationship Ther-
apy group to practice strategies that help them engage relationally with their
child.
Discussion Questions
1. How do Roberto’s experiences as a biracial child impact his conditions of
worth?
2. How would you discuss Roberto’s potential depression diagnosis with his
parents and teachers?
3. What are different cultural views about depression that need to be consid-
ered. How would this knowledge be helpful in explaining Roberto’s diagnosis
to his family?
4. How did you see CCPT address Roberto’s symptoms of depression? Please
give specific examples.
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5. Is there other information and/or resources that you believe would be helpful
for parents and teachers to support Roberto?
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CHAPT E R 2
Adjustment Difficulties
Child-Centered Play Therapy and Critical Race Theory
with a Biracial Child
Keith I. Raymond and Angela I. Sheely-Moore
Laenor “El” is an 8-year-old biracial, cis male who racially identifies as “pinkish.”
During the intake, El’s Black American father, Daemon, and White mother, Laena,
reported changes in El’s demeanor since relocating to a new town the previous
summer due to Laena’s job promotion. Both parents expressed concerns about
El’s emotional and physical outbursts toward Laena when she attempts to disci-
pline him when house rules are broken. Both parents noticed how El has with-
drawn from expressing himself openly, with the exception of showing his anger
and frustration. Both parents acknowledged that similar to their old neighbor-
hood, their new town is predominantly White. However, with the recent move,
they reported El having difficulty adjusting to their new home and community.
Instead of meeting new friends, El prefers to stay home, gaming all day.
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identity while mitigating the potential conflict of choosing between his racial
identities based on influences from his parents, the environment, and other social
factors. El can form a strong biracial identity and choose how he self-identifies by
providing a safe space to explore his identity through play.
highlighted the negative impact of racism on Black, Brown, and indigenous cli-
ents through their underuse of mental health services when compared to their
White counterparts (Kilmer et al., 2019) and experienced racial microaggressions
in counseling (Sue et al., 2007).
Although play has been described as the universal language for all children
(Landreth, 2012), the nuances of play remain culturally contextualized. Hence,
it is important to include a theory that centers on the social and institutional
embeddedness of race and the impact of race on disenfranchised members of
society. Hence, it behooves play therapists to challenge and disrupt colorblind
ideologies by acknowledging the impact of race and racism. Critical Race The-
ory (CRT) provides the grounding to engage in such actions. There are five main
tenets of CRT, all of which centralize White people and their sociopolitical power
to maintain this supremacy over others for their benefit (Delgado & Stefancic,
2017). Using a CRT framework, my role with El is to invite the conversation of
race into the playroom by validating El’s experience of racism, racial microag-
gressions, and racist events such as George Floyd’s murder. Narrative storytell-
ing (Trahan & Lemberger, 2014), one of CRT’s tenets, honors the experiences
shared by people of color. Within the US society, embedded in White privilege and
power, the history of people of color is ignored and misrepresented—with min-
imal perspectives taken outside of a White person’s lens (Delgado & Stefancic,
2017). Providing space for El to explore and articulate his experience of a biracial
male living in a predominantly White community can affirm his experiences as
real and not imagined or taken out of context. My goal with El is to affirm his
biracial identity with equal value and worthiness for both racial backgrounds.
Session 1
The goals for my first session with El were twofold: to build rapport with El and
to empower El by having him decide if he wants to continue play therapy sessions
with me. After I introduced him to the playroom, El began to explore the area by
pointing, hitting, and eventually punching the bop bag with more force when he
learned that no video games were available in the playroom. He then proceeded
to share his plan to draw a picture.
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Treatment Goals
Upon receiving parental confirmation that El wanted to continue with therapy,
we agreed to the following treatment plan: (1) reduce emotional and physical
outbursts and aggressive behaviors and (2) increase the ability to communicate
feelings more assertively and constructively. The treatment objectives were as
follows:
1. Identify and express thoughts and feelings associated with emotional and
physical outbursts.
2. Explore and create meaning for El’s racial identity and develop a positive
self-concept.
3. Conduct parent consultations to discuss treatment goals, progress, and
recommendations.
During this same parent consultation, I shared the multicultural theme that
emerged from his play. I knew El’s play was interrupted because he could not
locate a crayon that matched his skin tone. Therefore, I asked his parents for
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Session 2
My objective for the second session was to incorporate additional toys and mate-
rials his parents suggested to better represent El’s world. I also wanted El to take
the lead by providing him opportunities to explore his biracial identity, which he
did by beginning the second session excitedly locating a marker that represented
his skin tone.
El experienced a significant breakthrough toward the end of the second ses-
sion as he courageously recounted his painful experiences with covert racism and
racial discrimination at school. El disclosed that his classmates made derogatory
racial remarks about his skin tone and implied that his mother could not be his
mother because she was White. From a CRT lens, it was my responsibility to
dismantle the colorblind rhetoric that maintains racism and White supremacy in
America. At that moment, I made it a priority to honor our racial identities and
empower El to narrate his own story to form his own racial identity. I facilitated
this by fostering a space for El to engage in counter-storytelling through his draw-
ings in opposition to the prevalent White dominant narratives told and upheld in
El’s occupied environments. I facilitated El’s counter-stories by encouraging and
empowering him to help him feel comfortable and confident in using his voice to
share his counter-stories to combat racist and discriminatory narratives and to
construct narratives that defined his experiences and worldview. I employed min-
imal tracking and paraphrasing responses to allow him to take the lead in telling
his story. By leaning forward, matching my tone and attitude to his effect, and
reflecting on El’s feelings, I conveyed that I was with him, heard him, understood
him, and acknowledged that his story mattered.
In the following sessions, El experienced intense emotions due to conflicting
issues related to his biracial identity and experiences of racial prejudice, which
required ordering a new bop bag to continue processing his feelings in a healthy
manner. During the working stage of El’s therapeutic process, he remained in
stage three of the biracial identity development model. Specifically, El understood
that he did not have the same privileges as his White peers. El began to articu-
late observed racial differences between himself and others, to express feelings
of anger toward his mother, and to share how he often felt betrayed by his mom
for scheduling play dates with the White parents of the students who made rac-
ist comments about him. Eventually, El demonstrated anxiety themes within his
play as he attempted to determine his racial identity. In subsequent sessions the
theme of anxiety dissipated with El’s increased comfort when he began to share
additional instances of racial prejudice within his social environments, which
prompted me to schedule frequent phone calls with his parents.
Parent Consultations
With El’s presenting issue centered on race, including discrimination, I conducted
regularly scheduled parent consultations to gain more insight into El’s home,
neighborhood, and school environment that seemed to impact El’s daily function-
ing and views about himself. During these consultations I also had to consider
the cultural impact of race on El’s parents by exploring their family dynamics
and cultural values (Holcomb-McCoy, 2009). Daemon and Laena had different
views about how to parent their child racially and ethnically. Although they both
identify El as Black, Laena did not want to disregard her White ancestry and was
unsure how to share her thoughts related to this issue with the family.
Based on El’s needs, I encouraged his parents to have conversations with El
about their own cultural background, to share information about Black and bira-
cial identity, and to encourage El to explore his racial identity freely. Using a CRT
perspective, I discussed with his parents the potential benefits of imparting cultural
knowledge and fostering a community that reflects both of his cultural identities
by adopting a cultural relativistic paradigm (i.e., a person’s behaviors, attitudes,
beliefs, values, practices, and worldviews understood in light of their own culture
and not judged by the standards of the White dominant group relative to the US
societal context) to dismantle the universalistic paradigm that devalues people of
color, such as El, and his position in predominantly White spaces.
Conclusion
El made significant progress in processing his racial identity issues and his experi-
ences of racism, discrimination, and racial microaggressions. Prior to termination,
El was able to communicate his thoughts, feelings, and experiences effectively
without getting easily angered as evidenced by a decrease in aggressive play and
the elimination of emotional and physical outbursts toward his mom. At the end
of therapy, El reached the final stages of the biracial identity development model
by gaining awareness of his biracial heritage and understanding that he can be
both Black and White and still identify as a Black male. As a result, El developed
a sense of pride in his biracial identity and gained self-confidence.
As a culturally competent therapist, I am aware that CCPT is a framework
based on Eurocentric thought. Based on El’s complex issues of racial identity, rac-
ism, racial microaggressions, and oppression, I knew I could not solely draw from
a White ideological approach that would unjustly reflect and devalue his racial
identity and discriminatory experiences. Integrating CRT, a social justice frame-
work, alongside CCPT served to deconstruct Western colonist beliefs that nega-
tively impacted El’s daily life and impeded his racial identity development. Using
both CCPT and CRT allowed me to help dismantle systems of White dominance
and oppression experienced in El’s occupied environments while demonstrating
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Session 1
Subjective: Client expressed frustration when he could not locate a crayon that
matched his skin tone. Client stated, “I don’t want to use any of these crayons”
before hitting the bop bag.
Objective: Client’s general appearance and dress were appropriate. Client’s
behavior shifted from calm to aggressive, releasing built-up tension. Throughout
the session, client’s mood fluctuated from happy, frustrated, and angry with con-
gruent affect. Client spoke minimally but talked clearly at an average rate and
volume.
Assessment: From a CCPT perspective, El demonstrated difficulty making deci-
sions independently due to relying on others to develop his self-concept. El tended
to communicate his thoughts and feelings by punching the bop bag rather than
verbally articulating his experience.
Plan: Client will continue with weekly counseling sessions. Counselor will incor-
porate additional culturally and developmentally appropriate toys and materials
in the playroom.
Session 2
Subjective: Client stated his feelings about the therapist: “I really like playing with
you.” Client explored self-racial identity and in relation to others when he stated,
“You are darker than me, so I am going to use this marker” and “You look like
my favorite cousin.”
Objective: Client’s speech was energetic while he drew a self-portrait and main-
tained direct eye contact with the therapist while selecting a marker. Client’s eye
contact decreased when he inquired about race and racial experiences. Client
articulated his feelings verbally, nonverbally, and physically. Client’s mood was a
mixture of happy, angry, and sad with congruent affect.
Assessment: From a CCPT perspective, El was vulnerable when describing his
disconnection with people of color and his experience of racial discrimination at
school. The therapeutic connection deepened as the therapist demonstrated the
three core conditions of CCPT. El felt more at ease disclosing personal infor-
mation along with his feelings. From a CRT perspective, El was provided the
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opportunity to explore his own racial identity and dismantle White ideologies
that did not accurately reflect his biracial identity.
Plan: Client will continue with weekly counseling sessions. The therapist will
schedule a parent consultation to discuss possible strategies for broaching topics
about racial identity.
Resources
For Children
Beauvais, G., & Jones, S. A. (2015). I Am Mixed. Stranger Comics.
Tyler, M., & Csicsko, D. L. (2005). The Skin You Live In. Chicago Children’s
Museum.
For Caregivers
The Conscious Kid. (2023). The Conscious Kid: Definitions of Words and Phrases
That Can Be Helpful to Understand When Discussing Race and Identity.
https://www.theconsciouskid.org/racial-literacy-key-terms
Parents. (2023). Six Things to Stop Saying to Kids of Different Races and Ethnic
Groups. https://www.parents.com/parenting/better-parenting/things-to-stop
-saying-to-kids-of-different-races-and-ethnic-groups/
Discussion Questions
1. Describe key considerations of El’s biracial experience and how it relates to
the historical structuring of race in America.
2. How did using CCPT and CRT in tandem work to help meet El’s treatment
goals? Provide examples.
3. As a therapist, what are some strategies that you would embody to avoid
the perpetuation of a colorblind ideology and racial microaggressions when
working with El and his family?
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CHAPT E R 3
Domestic Violence
Trauma-Informed Child-Centered
Play Therapy with a White Child
Jennifer N. Baggerly
Carla is a White 5-year-old girl living with her mother and 3-year-old brother in
a small apartment after her mother left her father due to domestic violence. Her
mother, Sara, presents as anxious and timid. Sara quietly explained that Carla
witnessed her father, Tim, yelling and slapping her (Sara) on a weekly basis for
more than a year during the COVID-19 pandemic. Prior to this domestic violence,
Tim lost his job due to pandemic layoffs and began drinking excessively. Sara
escaped with her children and moved in with her parents until she was able to
find an apartment. Sara obtained a restraining order so that her husband is not
allowed near their new home. Sara is concerned that Carla has become very
hyper and bossy toward her but cries excessively when Sara leaves her with any-
one other than her grandparents.
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Surveillance data shows that more than 10 million women and men experience
IPV each year (Breiding, Basile, Smith, Black, & Mahendra, 2015).
Numerous studies reveal the short- and long-term impact of domestic violence
on young children such as pervasive feelings of fear, powerlessness, and sadness
(Noble, Moore, & McArthur, 2020); anxiety and depression (Chen & Lee, 2021);
posttraumatic symptoms (Paul, 2019); disruptive behavior (Juan, Washington,
& Kurlychek, 2020); and physical and psychological barriers to learning (Lloyd,
2018). This impact of domestic violence on young children is often revealed in
their play during play therapy sessions (Tyndall-Lind, 2010; Weinreb & Groves,
2007). Kot & Tyndall-Lind (2005) found children exposed to IPV had play themes
of aggression, killing, death, and escape. For example, they described a boy who
engaged in aggressive play of shooting, hitting, and killing a Bobo blow-up doll
until he collapsed in exhaustion. Another girl used scary animals (i.e., spiders,
snakes, alligator, and other wild animals) to reenact the escape from her home
after a violent episode.
encouraging words; and safe responses to harsh words. Children learn to say to
angry siblings or peers, “I know you are angry. You look like you need time to
calm down. I’ll go do something else for now.” In addition, play therapists invite
parents who are safe and can regulate their own emotions into play sessions. Play
therapists facilitate positive parent-child connections through strategies such as “I
love you rituals” (Bailey, 2000), Theraplay activities (Booth & Jernberg, 2009), or
Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (Landreth & Bratton, 2019).
Implementing TI CCPT with children who have experienced IPV during
COVID-19 provides a safe space for children to develop an accurate emotional
understanding of their experiences. Children can adjust their self-concept from
“this is my fault, and I am helpless” to “even in scary situations, I am strong,
and I know ways to help myself be safe and calm.” Although it is difficult to
witness the harsh impact of IPV in the pandemic, play therapists can take self-
compassion breaks (Neff, n.d.) throughout the week and find inspiration in chil-
dren’s resilience.
Session Overview
In the first play therapy session, Carla was intrigued enough about the playroom
that she set aside her anxiety to investigate the toys. As in a typical first session,
she explored all the toys, playing with them for a few minutes and then going
on to the next toy. After 30 minutes of CCPT, I read Don’t Pop Your Cork on
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Mondays: Children’s Anti-Stress Book (Moser, 1988) to help Carla develop basic
calming strategies of deep breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, and so forth.
By the third play session, Carla began to play out her feelings and perceptions
related to IPV and COVID-19.
As shown in the Session 3 transcript below, Carla’s play themes were aggres-
sion, power/control, nurturing, and protection. Through her play, she developed
an emotional understanding of the danger she experienced and a sense of hope
that she would be protected.
In the next sessions, I continued TI CCPT and stage one of psychoeducation
for safety planning and anxiety management. Then I began stage two of restor-
ative retelling of her trauma narrative by introducing books such as A Terrible
Thing Happened (Holmes, 2000) and The Strongest Thing: When Home Feels
Hard (Adelman, 2022). I facilitated a sand tray for Carla to show how she per-
ceived the time living with dad. She depicted dad as “the Beast” from the Disney
Movie Beauty and the Beast; her mom as “Belle,” who was imprisoned by “the
Beast”; her brother as a dog; and herself as a lioness. When asked what is differ-
ent since they moved, Carla said, “The Beast is in a cage.” Later she added that
she hopes the Beast turns back into a prince.
play in my documentation or possible testimony. For example, I can not say that
Carla’s play proves violence by the father or that he is a dangerous person. I can
say, “In my professional opinion, Carla is processing perceptions of danger and
feelings of fear.” I can share assessment results from the Trauma Symptom Check-
list for Children that indicate she is in the clinical range for trauma symptoms.
I can also say that Carla needs to be in an environment in which she perceives
safety and has consistently calm parenting.
A cultural consideration for Carla was related to her parents’ religious belief
that the husband is the head of the household, and the wife must submit to him.
Because this belief is different from mine, I bracketed my beliefs and respected
their freedom of choice. During a parent consultation, I briefly explained that
spiritual faith often grows through different stages. Many adults are at a con-
ventional stage of conforming to traditional beliefs while other adults grow into
a more individual, reflective stage of analyzing their own values and becoming
more flexible in some beliefs (Fowler, 1995). I asked Sara what changes, if any,
she had noticed in her faith over the past few years. This prompted a discussion
of how her faith grew to a different stage than her husband’s. As a result, Sara felt
proud of her growth and less judgmental toward her husband.
Parent Consultations
Given these ethical issues, it was crucial for me to have regular parent consul-
tations with Carla’s mom. Prior to seeing Carla, I conducted a parent consul-
tation with Sara, her mother. Using Daniel Siegel’s hand model of the brain, I
explained strategies to calm the lower regions of Carla’s brain through deep
breathing, rocking, and soft voice rather than trying to reason with her prefrontal
cortex, which was “offline” during her anxious times. To reinforce these concepts,
I asked Sara to watch a parenting video by Tina Payne Bryson, 10 Brain-Based
Strategies: Help Children Handle Their Emotions and to read Siegel and Payne
Bryson’s (2016) No-Drama Discipline. These two resources helped Sara calm her
own anxieties so she could provide co-regulation to help Carla calm down. After
each play therapy session, I spent a few minutes informing Sara about what Carla
had learned in psychoeducation so that Sara could encourage, not demand, the
new skill at home.
To demonstrate my due diligence in my communication with Carla’s dad, I
emailed Tim to introduce myself and invited him to schedule a parent consul-
tation with me. After a few weeks, he scheduled an online parent consultation.
I reviewed with Tim the same information as with Carla’s mother. Much of the
session was spent with Tim explaining that there was a lot of misunderstanding,
Sara had blown things out of proportion, and Carla was much better off with the
family back together. I reflected his feelings and perceptions while also presenting
him with facts. “You’re very frustrated because, from your perspective, this was
a misunderstanding. You just want things back the way they were. [Brief pause]
And Sara sees it very differently; the judge granted a restraining order; and we all
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need to help Carla be less scared. This will be a much slower process than what
you want, but the most important concern is Carla being calmer and confident. I
know you want that for Carla. For now, I encourage you to focus on reading and
viewing the resources I gave you.”
Conclusion
Carla made remarkable progress over 20 sessions of TI CCPT. She transformed
from being a perpetrator who put bugs on me while I was tied up to a calm, con-
fident, and cooperative child. Her mother also became more confident, gave her
choices, and set limits as needed. Her father chose not to engage with me past the
parent consultation but continued to pressure Sara to reunite. Fortunately, Sara
chose a calmer life for herself and Carla.
Session 3
Subjective: Child expressed feelings of satisfaction, confidence, meanness, and
projected fear and distrust.
Objective: During CCPT, child put toy spiders on Play Therapist’s (PT) shoulders
and said, “There are bugs all over you”; “You can’t escape these bugs; you’re
trapped.” Child used rope to pretend to tie PT to chair and pretended to stab
me. During psychoeducation, the counselor read Listening to My Body (Garcia,
2017) to help the child understand physiological sensations, feelings, needs, and
calming strategies.
Assessment: From a TI CCPT perspective, child is experiencing incongruence
between her ideal self as a safe and emotionally regulated girl and her current self
as experiencing fear with a desperate need to control to regain a sense of safety.
Carla has inaccurately symbolized her experience as “the world is always unsafe
so I must control people.” Play themes were power and control, nurturing, and
protection. She is developing an emotional understanding of the danger she expe-
rienced and a sense of hope that she will be protected.
Plan: Continue TI CCPT and psychoeducation book of I Am Stronger Than Anx-
iety (Cole, 2021) for stage one of establishing safety.
Session 10
Subjective: Child expressed feelings of confidence, determination, satisfaction,
and annoyance.
Objective: Child put on police vest, held handcuffs and gun. She said, “I’m the
cop now, and I’m going to arrest you for being bad.” She used the kitchen food
to make herself dinner and give the prisoner bread. Child caught prisoner from
breaking out of jail and said, “You’re not going to trick me.”
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Resources
For Professionals
Mindful Self-Compassion Breaks (audio) as described by Kristin Neff at https://
self-compassion.org/category/exercises/#exercises.
Posttraumatic Play in Children: What Clinicians Need to Know by Eliana Gil
(2017).
For Children
A Terrible Thing Happened: A Story for Children Who Have Witnessed Violence
or Trauma by Margaret Holmes (2000).
Don’t Pop Your Cork on Mondays!: The Children’s Anti-Stress Book by Adolph
Moser (1988).
I Am Stronger Than Anxiety: Children’s Book about Overcoming Worries, Stress
and Fear by Elizabeth Cole (2021)
Listening to My Body by Gabi Garcia (2017)
The Strongest Thing: When Home Feels Hard by Hallee Adelman (2022).
For Parents
NCTSN, “Helping Children with Traumatic Separation or Traumatic Grief
Related to COVID-19” (2020). https://www.nctsn.org/resources/helping-chil-
dren-with-traumatic-separation-or-traumatic-grief-related-to-covid-19
No-Drama Discipline: The Whole Brain Way to Calm the Chaos and Nurture
Your Child’s Developing Mind by Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson
(2016).
Recover and Rebuild: Moving on from Partner Abuse. Domestic Violence Work-
book by Stacie Freudenberg (2020).
Discussion Questions
1. How did IPV and COVID-19 uniquely impact Carla’s feelings, experiences,
perceptions, and behavior?
2. How did TI CCPT facilitate the achievement of Carla’s treatment goals? Give
specific examples.
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CHAPT E R 4
Jake, a White 6-year-old boy in elementary school, who repeatedly witnessed the
January 6 Washington, DC, uprising on television with his parents, started acting
out at home and school. His parents, who were in favor of the uprising and very
vocal about it while watching daily televised live reports and repeated showing of
the events, used negative discipline on Jake’s disruptive behaviors through harsh
name calling, yelling, and periodic swats on Jake’s bottom. Although Jake, his
parents, and his older brother and sister did not directly have anyone they knew
attend or die in the uprising, Jake began to experience nightmares, had anger
management problems, became more oppositional at home, and had major
behavioral problems in school. More specifically, his impulsivity resulted in rarely
attempting his academic assignments, frequent disagreements with peers, whin-
ing and tattling on peers, temper tantrums and name-calling when he did not get
his way on the playground, aggressive behavior by pushing and shoving peers,
and pacing in class. Jake’s parents noted increased negative behaviors at home
that included physical aggression with siblings and neighborhood children, and
frequent breaking of household rules. Jake was referred to the school psycholo-
gist for assessment and counseling.
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3. How would you manage your political views if they are different from the
parents’ views? Describe ethical considerations and consultation strategies
you would use when working with the parents.
cause ADHD include heredity/genetic factors, brain damage during fetal develop-
ment/after birth, smoking/alcohol during pregnancy, and babies born with low
body weight resulting in delays in the prefrontal cortex. Neurological correlates
of aggression in childhood, often comorbid with ADHD, were associated with
smaller amygdala volume and decreased cortical thickness in the brain (Thijssen
et al., 2015).
ADHD manifests in poor executive deficits in planning, attention, organiza-
tion, monitoring, and self-control. Common behaviors seen include always being
on the move, tapping fingers, shaking feet, pushing other children for no apparent
reason, talking incessantly, and fidgeting. These children also find it difficult to
concentrate on tasks with low task completion in a reasonable amount of time,
show difficulty doing assignments at school or at home, difficulty listening, day-
dreaming, not having a lot of patience, often making noise, interrupting others,
and difficulty calming down (Kasiati et al., 2022). Parents of children with ADHD
often complain about disobedience, defiance, and rebelliousness with aggression at
home (Jafari, Mohammadi, Khanbani, Farid, & Chiti, 2011).
As a result of these behaviors, many children with ADHD exhibit severe and
chronic academic symptoms in school. Prevalence rates indicate that children with
ADHD experience specific learning disabilities (SLD), which affects about 31% of
the ADHD population across studies (Reddy, 2010). A child’s high rate of exter-
nalizing behaviors can have a deleterious impact on classmates, teachers, and par-
ents. Children’s ADHD impulsivity can result in disagreements with peers, temper
tantrums when the child does not get her way, aggressive behavior, whining, and
tattling on peers.
Family Setting
The family setting in which a child is raised plays an important role and can
explain why some children are more aggressive than others. Research has shown
that parents who are rejecting, use physical punishment in an inconsistent and
erratic manner, and permit their children to express aggressive impulses are likely
to raise aggressive and hostile children (Patterson, 2002). By ignoring their child’s
aggressive behavior, they are legitimizing it and failing to teach the child how
to control their aggressive behaviors. Patterson compared families of aggressive
children to families of the same socioeconomic status and size without aggres-
sive children and found aggressive children often live in a setting where approval
and affection are not expressed and where family members are constantly in
conflict (e.g., arguing, threatening, fighting, and annoying each other). Patterson
contended that these coercive homes with negative reinforcement maintain these
coercive interactions.
CBPT Techniques
Play therapy techniques such as role- playing, feelings identification, problem
solving, developing social skills, and learning coping strategies are used. The par-
ent component involves stress management, establishing rules and expectations,
appropriate discipline to avoid punishing, improving parent-child relationship,
giving effective instructions to children, academic support, family problem solv-
ing, family communication, family cohesion, and long-term planning.
During role-play, children can imitate or pretend to be someone by using
objects around them and practice appropriate behavioral responses. This
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CBPT Strategies
I scheduled to see Jake for weekly 30-minute individual CBPT sessions for 8
weeks at his school. Throughout the sessions, I conducted numerous play-based
activities such as feelings identification and expression (e.g., what is behind the
anger; catharsis in expressing anger); self-calming techniques (e.g., the turtle tech-
nique, deep breathing); role-play (using puppets), a feelings thermometer and
drawing and using clay.
Session 1
In the first play therapy session, the goal was to help Jake feel comfortable in
the therapy room, know what the sessions would be like, and review the reason
Jake was in counseling and his treatment goals. I read the bibliotherapy book A
Child’s First Book about Play Therapy. Jake engaged in child-directed play for
15 minutes, during which time he reenacted the uprising by having his characters
scream and yell at the “grown-up” figures, bang and hit the block door and wall
he created, push in to get the “grown-ups,” and build up and smash down block
buildings. This playtime gave Jake an opportunity to reenact the disaster, have
cathartic emotional release, and allowed for discussion of feelings associated with
it. I used reflective comments and modeled feelings associated with his actions,
which helped to reduce his anger.
In the final three minutes, I taught Jake and practiced the hills and valley
finger breathing calming technique. For this activity, Jake used his nondomi-
nant hand and with pointer finger on his dominant hand he traces to the top of
his thumb while breathing in and then traces down the thumb while breathing
out. He repeats this breathing in and out while tracing each finger with a pause
between fingers. Jake’s homework was to keep practicing finger tracing, teach it
to his parents and siblings, and use it as often as possible.
Earlier that day, I saw Jake’s parents at the beginning of the school day for
a 30-minute session to teach them reflective statements and how to implement
natural consequences at home. (See Parent section for more details and additional
meetings.)
Session 2
At the beginning of the session, I reviewed the previous week, checked on
rehearsal use of the finger breathing, and did a quick practice of finger breathing.
I focused on identifying feelings and explained the “What’s under the Anger”
poster, which shows multiple feelings underneath anger. I encouraged Jake to
throw a bean bag at the different feelings and mention a time he felt that way. I
provided a handheld mirror for him to see how his face looked while showing
the feeling and to check if it was congruent with the chart. We played this for
five minutes and the Talking, Feeling & Doing board game for 10 minutes. Jake
was then able to have child-led play, which resulted in another abreaction of the
uprising using puppets. I used puppets to express empathy and role-modeled
appropriate responses and feelings identification. The last few minutes were
spent blowing on a pinwheel and taking deep breaths as a coping and calming
technique before returning to class. I encouraged Jake to try using his finger
breathing at home as homework.
Session 3
After reviewing the previous week, I shared the positive teacher comments that
Jake is showing some progress. Jake smiled. We discussed Jake’s report about his
breathing practice at home, when he used it, and the results. We practiced “I feel”
statements. I used a three-headed dragon puppet to show Jake how his thoughts,
feelings, and behaviors are related. I explained that the goal was to get the angry,
scared thoughts and feelings to lessen, and thereby not get the negative behaviors
to come out. We made a feelings thermometer with increasingly larger smiley
faces, which Jake colored accordingly. He agreed to use this at home and counsel-
ing to show how he was feeling.
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Then Jake had 10–15 minutes for self-directed play. Jake decided he wanted
to put on a puppet show about being on the playground and a problem he was
having with another classmate. I provided empathic responses and role-played
problem solving when disagreements and frustration were getting in his way. Jake
alternated with me in taking the role of classmate versus himself. The last three
minutes were spent on deep breathing using the pinwheel before returning to
class. His homework was to practice using “I” statements when needing some-
thing or in expressing feelings and using his feelings thermometer at home to
show his feelings.
Session 4
Week in review; checked in on trying “I” statements at home and practiced again
in session using “I” statements to express his anger. Read How to Take the Grr
out of Anger and played one round of the Angry Monster Machine board game.
Jake had the last 10 minutes for self-directed play. During this play, Jake’s play
was starting to change. He would build buildings, put miniatures on them, and
knock it down, but his aggression was noticeably less. He started to verbalize
more empathic feelings toward the figures inside the building, stating, “I feel
scared. There are angry people outside. I hope they don’t hurt us” as he played
out the reenactment. The last few minutes before returning to class were spent
with the hills and valley finger breathing, which Jake was also to use at home as
homework.
Session 5
Week in review with Jake stating that he liked using his feelings thermometer to
show his parents how angry he was feeling. I had Jake trace his left shoe on a
large piece of paper, and then his right shoe on it. He was encouraged to stomp
on the paper and say the things that make him angry. He was encouraged to let
out his angry feelings about school, classmates, parents, and siblings. After about
five minutes, Jake was encouraged to say positive things about himself. I led with
statements about how great a smile he had and how magical it was in being able
to make others smile back. Jake was able to come up with three positives: being
a fast runner, able to build things with blocks, and having a loud voice. Jake then
spent the next 15 minutes playing with the puppets and putting on a puppet show.
He had his puppets talk about being friends, and he and I role-played on making
friends and being able to share and not always win. The last five minutes were
spent having a cotton ball race. Using two cotton balls, one for Jake and one for
me and a straw for each, we took turns in slowly blowing the cotton ball across
the table; and then seeing how fast they could roll after taking deep breaths and
blowing hard. We repeated this a few times to help teach Jake control and patience.
Jake was encouraged to continue working on “I” statements at home and use of
his feelings thermometer.
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Session 6
Week in review; taught the turtle technique (Feindler, 2009). Jake was told the
story using a turtle puppet, of a boy turtle who had problems in school with his
classmates with name calling, tattling, and not listening to his teacher. A wise old
tortoise shared with the little turtle the secret of being able to calm down. The
turtle could pull his head in and count to 10, pretending a red light is shining.
Then as he counted down, the turtle would slowly breathe in and out, and the
light would change to yellow, and when the turtle felt calm, it would turn to
green. Then he could avoid getting himself in trouble. Jake was then encouraged
to wrap his arms around himself, put his head down and slowly breathe until he
felt calm (green light). This was practiced several times.
During child-led playtime, Jake shifted his play, deciding to use army figures
to set up a battle in the sand tray with figures having magical powers to build
force fields around themselves to protect themselves from the oncoming army.
His battle ended with all parties deciding not to fight.
Homework was to practice the turtle technique at home and teach it to his
parents. Session ended with Jake using the turtle technique.
Session 7
Week in review. I reviewed progress to date and discussed Jake’s upcoming treat-
ment termination with just one session left. We read the book The Very Angry
Day Amy Didn’t Have. I helped Jake with problem-solving skills and taught him
the sequence and mantra STAR—
1. STOP: What is the problem?
2. THINK: What can I do? Brainstorm solutions; look at all the possibilities.
3. ACT: Try it out and check your answer.
4. REACT: Did it work? Tell yourself, “I did a good job!”
During child-led play, Jake set up the dollhouse and showed what things make
him angry at home and how he manages his anger at home. Before ending, Jake
picked the turtle technique to practice. Parents were called to check on the prog-
ress and remind that next week was the last session.
Session 8
Review of the week; read about termination in A Child’s First Book about Play
Therapy. Coping cards were made, writing the name of each coping and calm-
ing technique on separate index cards with Jake drawing pictures on the cards
to help remind him what to do. The instructions were written on the back of
the card, a hole punched, and a ring attached to them. Jake and I went through
each card and practiced each technique twice, reinforcing them, and reviewing
his overall progress. I reviewed the problem-solving steps, STAR, with a situation
Jake picked about not liking to lose. Jake was given the cards to take home and
use whenever he started to feel upset or angry to help him calm down.
Parent Consultations
As described above, I met with Jake’s parents on a regular basis. The goal was
to teach positive parenting skills, help the parents use alternative and more pos-
itive means of modifying Jake’s behaviors and lessen the negative and aggressive
atmosphere in the home that was contributing to Jake’s behavioral dysregulation.
The parents were receptive and open in working with me and made significant
progress over the span of treatment in modifying their interactions with Jake and
using suggested techniques.
At the beginning of treatment, the parents were encouraged to “catch Jake
being good” by putting a sticker on their watch, and every time they looked at
their watch, give positive verbal praise for even the slightest positive behavior at
that moment (e.g., “I like how you are sitting so quietly”; “I see how hard you
are working on playing nicely with your sister”). I encouraged them to keep a
behavioral log and be specific in verbal reprimands, such as “Stop banging the
toy in the living room. You can bang it in your bedroom,” rather than just saying
“stop it” over and over with escalating anger resulting in swatting Jake’s bottom.
I also taught them natural consequences and encouraged appropriately set limits
by stating, “If you continue to bang the toy in the living room, and not play in
your room, then you choose to no longer play with that toy for the rest of today.”
The parents were very receptive to this guidance and willing to implement the
suggestions at home.
I also asked Jake’s teacher to keep a behavioral log and “catch Jake being
good” using the same intermittent reinforcement of randomly focusing on Jake’s
positive behaviors, which would subsequently increase over responding to nega-
tive attention-seeking behaviors.
After the third session, I contacted Jake’s parents to share the various self-
calming techniques, explain the feelings thermometer, and inquire about the
status of behaviors at home. Jake’s parents noted that there was progress with
Jake listening to them and responding without aggression when they set limits.
His interactions with his siblings showed improvement with fewer conflicts, and
Jake’s nightmares were diminishing. I reviewed with the parents their reflective
comments, frequency in “catching Jake being good,” and natural consequences
used.
In the fifth session Jake’s parents came in and reviewed their behavioral log,
how they were doing with limit setting and “catching Jake being good.” Parents
reported positive results in Jake’s lessening of behavioral problems, staying more
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focused, and absence of any nightmares. They stated that he still had occasional
temper outbursts when he got frustrated or did not get his way with his sib-
lings, but Jake was responding to using the self-calming techniques. Parents were
encouraged to continue their work with Jake, especially giving spontaneous pos-
itive reinforcement. Each parent was encouraged to pick a separate night that
was designated as Jake’s to spend a few minutes before bedtime to read a book,
rub his back, and help him settle into sleep. Parents were to keep those desig-
nated evenings with Jake regardless of how Jake behaved during the day. The
parents wondered how jealous the other children might become in reaction to
Jake’s exclusive time with a parent. I encouraged the parents to have designated
evening times for each of the children, as they, too, could benefit from the positive
attention.
In the seventh session, the parents reported Jake’s negative behaviors at home
were manageable, and interactions were much more positive than negative; all
sleep difficulties had ceased, and his interactions with siblings were significantly
better. We also discussed termination and my availability in the future should any
issues reemerge.
Jake’s teacher was contacted periodically regarding progress, and the teacher
reported steady positive change. By the seventh session, the teacher reported that
Jake’s disruptive behaviors had ceased in the classroom and his peer interactions
were significantly better. I let the teacher know that the next session would be
Jake’s last one but that she could contact me in the future should the need arise
regarding Jake.
Conclusion
Jake made significant progress in being able to be supportive and cooperative
with peers in the classroom, decreased tattling on peers, stayed focused on tasks
and completed assignments, and decreased to zero oppositional behaviors in
school and at home. He learned coping and calming skills, which he used regu-
larly, and was able to use empathy as well as alter his negative cognitive distor-
tions. Consequently, Jake’s relationships with his parents significantly improved,
aided by their use of positive feedback and decrease of negative punishment and
by altering their lifestyle by lessening TV viewing of violence.
Session 4
Subjective: The previous week was reviewed regarding anger levels and the use
of “I” statements at home by Jake. Jake stated that he was using “I” statements
when he could remember to use them and that it seemed to help him to slow
down and be able to express his feelings with his parents and not become so
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explosive. Jake’s free playtime showed noticeable shifts in not being as aggressive
and showing more empathy.
Objective: Read bibliotherapy book How to Take the Grr out of Anger and
played the Angry Monster Machine board game to help increase understanding
about feelings, problem solve, and allow for catharsis.
Assessment: Jake’s play is starting to change with noticeably less aggression, with
increased verbalization of empathic feelings toward the figures. He was able to
express his own scared feelings about potential anger and danger in his world. He
is showing more coping strategies and less reactivity.
Plan: Goal is to increase self-soothing and calming resources for Jake to use when
upset or angry. Hills and valley deep breathing was taught and homework given
to practice this at home.
Resources
For Professionals
The Angry Monster Machine board game—Childswork/Childsplay.
The Talking, Feeling & Doing game—Childswork/Childsplay.
CBT Workbook for Kids: 40+ Fun Exercises and Activities to Help Children
Overcome Anxiety & Face Their Fears at Home, at School, and Out in the
World by Heather Davidson, PsyD, BCN (2019).
The Mindfulness Workbook for ADHD: Effective Strategies to Increase Focus,
Build Patience, and Find Balance by Beata Lewis and Nicole Foubister (2022).
Thriving with ADHD Workbook for Kids: 60 Fun Activities to Help Children
Self-Regulate, Focus, and Succeed by Kelli Miller, LCSW, MSW (2018).
Understanding ADHD: A Neurodiversity Affirming Guidebook for Children and
Teens by Robert Jason Grant (2022).
For Children
A Child’s First Book about Play Therapy by Marc Nemiroff and Jane Annunziata
(1990).
How to Take the Grr out of Anger by Elizabeth Verdick and Marjorie Lisovskis
(2015).
I Am Stronger Than Anger: Picture Book about Anger Management and Dealing
with Kids Emotions and Feelings by Elizabeth Cole (2020).
My Whirling Twirling Motor by Merriam Sarcia Saunders and Tammie Lyon
(2019).
The Very Angry Day Amy Didn’t Have by Lawrence Shapiro and Charles Brenna
(1994).
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For Parents
The ADHD Parenting Guide for Boys: From Toddlers to Teens Discover How to
Respond Appropriately to Different Behavioral Situations by Richard Bass
(2023).
Explosive Children with ADHD: A New Approach to Managing Attention Defi-
cit Disorder in Children to Discipline and Empower Your Super Hero to
Achieve Success and Accomplishment by Pansy Bradley (2023).
What Your ADHD Child Wishes You Knew: Working Together to Empower Kids
for Success in School and Life by Sharon Saline (2018).
Discussion Questions
1. What contributing factors exacerbated Jake’s aggressive behaviors?
2. How would you work in an integrative manner on a short-term basis to
address Jake’s behavioral issues and ADHD? Would you consider referral for
medication?
3. What additional techniques or approaches would you use with Jake going
forward if you had more sessions to continue building self-regulation and
coping skills?
4. As a mental health professional, how would you talk with the parents about
potential possession of guns in the home and personal views about use of
violence?
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Benjamin is a 6-year-old African American boy living with his mother and father
and is a first grader attending public school. Both parents have full-time jobs out-
side the home. Benjamin has a 4-year-old brother. His parents sought counseling
services due to daily teacher reports of incomplete tasks, class disruptions, non-
compliance to teacher requests, and classroom outbursts resulting in referrals to
the principal’s office. An intake session was held with both parents, who shared
a history of concerns beginning in kindergarten with some disruptions at home.
When asked about day care and/or preschool attendance, parents shared that
Benjamin attended day care at 1 year of age; however, when COVID-19 occurred
at age 3 and day care closed, he remained at home. During that time, both par-
ents worked from home, navigating parenting and work responsibilities.
Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder
Current research shows that ADHD is the most common childhood neurode-
velopmental disorder, which affects 3–9% of school-age children and often per-
sists into adulthood (Ogundele & Ayyash, 2023). The core symptoms of ADHD
include pervasive inattention and/or overactivity/impulsiveness and impaired
functioning across multiple settings (American Psychiatric Association, 2022).
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Additional indicators of ADHD are a short attention span with difficulty sustain-
ing attention due to distraction from extraneous stimuli and internal thoughts.
Consequently, it then appears as if children with ADHD are not listening. When
children have difficulty focusing their attention, they also have difficulty with
follow-through on instructions and completing tasks in a timely manner. Some
children with ADHD may have components of hyperactivity as evidenced by high
energy levels, difficulty sitting still, impulsivity resulting in disruptive behaviors,
difficulty waiting for a turn, and/or interrupting others with questions/comments.
Due to these behavioral challenges, children with ADHD tend to have poor social
skills and low self-esteem (Ogundele & Ayyash, 2023). They also have decreased
working memory, which affects their ability to temporarily store, manipulate,
and retrieve information while completing tasks (Wiest, Rosales, Looney, Wong,
& Wiest, 2022).
Since the onset of COVID-19, children with ADHD had increases in emo-
tional symptoms (i.e., sadness/depressed mood, loneliness, conduct problems, and
sleep problems) compared to before COVID (Segenreich, 2022). Other researchers
found that during the COVID-19 quarantine, children with ADHD had increases
in anxiety and home learning difficulties (Jackson et al., 2022); deterioration of
functional impairment in home life, friendships, learning, and leisure activities
compared to children without ADHD (Hall, Partlett, Valentine, Pearcey, & Sayal,
2023); and hyperfocus on the internet with 28% of children with ADHD meeting
diagnostic criteria for internet addiction (Kuygun Karci & Arici Gurbuz, 2021).
ADHD symptoms can result in education problems that are predictive of
student underachievement and an increased risk of delinquency (Strelow, Dort,
Schwinger, & Christiansen, 2021). Because student success requires the ability to
attend to tasks, recall teacher instructions, and regulate behavior throughout the
school day, children with ADHD need effective treatment.
well-defined research, Halder and Mahato (2019) identify clinicians who some-
times hesitate to use CBT with children due to minimal levels of young children’s
language, communication, self-awareness of cognitions, and emotional compe-
tencies. However, Halder and Mahato (2019) explain that when working with
young children, the focus of CBT is on neutralizing behaviors rather than identi-
fying core cognitive errors.
Strategies
CBPT therapists use a variety of treatment strategies. Common CBPT strate-
gies are self-expression and abreaction as part of nondirected play; direct/indi-
rect teaching; stress inoculation; behavioral rehearsal/role-play; creative problem
solving within therapist-directed interventions; and psychoeducation to increase
children’s awareness of their strengths and weaknesses (Knell, 2011). Other
activities and experiential learning using varied techniques to enhance client self-
regulation, attention, and flexibility have been identified by Doulou and Drigas
(2022). CBPT strategies help children develop positive core adaptive cognitions
that prevent maladaptive automatic thoughts and self-talk from taking root in
the child’s development. The strategies also assist children in creating adaptive
self-statements as a coping strategy and boosting adaptive thoughts and behav-
iors (Drewes, 2009). Coinciding play therapy with psychoeducation and parent
sessions reinforces adaptive core beliefs and coping self-talk beyond the play
therapy sessions (Knell & Dasari, 2010).
During nondirective play, the CBPT therapist provides facilitative responses
to reflect observed actions, raises hypotheses around client thoughts, brings
awareness to problem solving, and states observed processing demonstrated by
the client. These play therapy facilitative response skills relate directly to CBPT
theory in that reflective and tracking statements focus on thoughts, feelings, and
actions, which can shift children’s awareness and lead to alternative outcomes.
Common reflective responses may include “I wonder what happens next,” or “I
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noticed you stopped and thought.” The specific facilitative responses made by
the therapist align with the client’s treatment goals while also considering the
individual development and progress of the client. Example response statements
for a treatment goal of increasing body awareness may include “Your body really
was able to stop right then,” “I noticed how you were really focused on where
your body was stepping,” or “Your pause tells me you are thinking about what to
do next.” During nondirected play, the therapist gains a sense of how children’s
thoughts and perceptions are merging with their skills and strategies. Balancing
unstructured client-led activities and structured counselor-led interventions is an
important aspect of the CBPT process (Knell & Dasari, 2010).
Session 1
I began the initial session with Benjamin using a check-in to briefly explain coun-
seling as a place to explore feelings and problems and develop problem-solving
skills. Benjamin shared that he is currently getting in trouble at school and desires
to no longer be in trouble with his teacher. After checking in, I introduced the
playroom and session structure.
My directive intervention for the first session consisted of a prompt for a
kinetic family drawing with the goal of learning about Benjamin and his family,
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building rapport, and assessing coping with directives and transitions. A timer is
used at the end of each session. I set the timer when there are 5 minutes left in
the session and let Benjamin know that when it rang, it was time to clean up the
playroom and end the session. Using the timer supports building skills and treat-
ment goals of coping with transitions, building compliance, completing tasks, and
using self-control.
Session 2
The second session began with a client check-in with Benjamin. As Benjamin
shared about his week, I reflected his feelings, understanding of experiences, and
choices made while exploring together whether his choices helped make problems
bigger or smaller. In doing so, I helped process his feelings, choices, consequences,
and thoughts as well as built his self-efficacy.
After check-in, I introduced the concept of a “pause button,” explaining how
pausing to think through and/or take two breaths can shift choices made, often
resulting in reducing negative outcomes.
After the “pause button,” I introduced and engaged him in a new game. The
Bubble Pause game consisted of using a bubble blower to produce bubbles all
over the room with a prompt to pop all the bubbles he could until I said “pause.”
Once “pause” is said, Benjamin would freeze until I said “un-pause,” and then he
returned to popping bubbles. While playing the game, my facilitative responses
focused on Benjamin’s actions, self-control, and abilities.
Once the game was completed, Benjamin was invited to choose what to play.
During his play, my facilitative responses focused on reflecting choices, feelings,
and observations of pausing to think by Benjamin and/or play characters (such
as deciding what to do next or problem solving). These facilitative responses
brought awareness to times when Benjamin naturally used his pause skill in deci-
sion making and within his play, helping to bring awareness to bridge and expand
skills within and outside of sessions. I used a timer to indicate 5 minutes left in
the session and when the timer rang, Benjamin and I cleaned up the playroom.
Session 3
Benjamin’s third session began with a check-in. He shared using the pause button
during the week.
After the check-in, we drew pause buttons on our hands, and I introduced the
Self Control song (Kisor, 2009). The song is an action song in which children fol-
low along, practicing body awareness and control, moving their body fast, slow,
and stopping. During the intervention, I reflected on Benjamin’s ability to control
his body and follow the song’s directions. The remainder of the session was non-
directive play chosen by Benjamin. I intermittently prompted him to “pause” and
“un-pause,” practicing pausing our actions and word.
Session 4
On the fourth session during check-in, Benjamin shared drawing a pause button
on his hand each day before school. He then shared using the pause button often
without prompting, such as on the playground at recess. Another example was
when he became distracted while the teacher talked and used the pause button
to focus on teacher-directed tasks. After check-in, I introduced the My Pleasure
game. I created this game using a Thumball™, a softball with panels consisting
of printed phrases, words, or images for throwing or rolling, with prompts such
as “take 5 giant steps.” The ball was gently tossed between Benjamin and me. I
read the prompt my thumb landed on when catching and requested that Benja-
min complete the task. Prior to completing the task, a crucial rule of the game
that I had is for the player to first respond with “no problem,” “yes, ma’am/sir,”
or “my pleasure.” The game addresses both working memory and self-control
through the steps of gameplay reinforcing pausing and thinking prior to taking
the action identified on the Thumball. Benjamin enjoyed playing the game and
needed reminders of the rules as he learned the steps. After game completion,
Benjamin was provided an opportunity for nondirective play with a timer used to
indicate the end of the session and clean-up time.
Parent Consultations
Parent session goals consist of reviewing play therapy sessions and how they
relate to addressing treatment goals and Benjamin’s progress observed in sessions.
Parents are provided with details of how interventions support Benjamin’s gain-
ing skills to process and cope with experiences and feelings, bring awareness to
choices, increase self-control, and build sense of mastery. I shared how Benjamin
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can pause his activity and then pick up where he left off, demonstrating increased
self-control. His parents shared about his progress at school with reduced acting-
out behaviors in class. I discussed parent strategies to implement a behavior man-
agement system to identify choices made at school, create a plan to encourage
and reinforce positive choices, and reward Benjamin’s use of coping skills and
strategies. Using a system to chart progress supports increasing parental obser-
vation of behavioral shifts and changes made and will also build Benjamin’s self-
esteem and mastery. To support parents in enhancing reflective listening and limit
setting at home, I recommended the book How to Talk So Children Will Listen
and Listen So Children Will Talk (Faber & Mazlish, 2013) and discussed it in
future parent sessions.
Conclusion
After four sessions, Benjamin increased his ability to comply with tasks at school,
demonstrated his ability to pause before acting on impulses, and increased his
awareness of his feelings and experiences. Working with Benjamin taught me how
younger children can increase awareness of internal cognitions as a part of learn-
ing new skills. Benjamin’s ability to express using his pause button on his own
without prompting, as well as then sharing no longer needing the pause button,
further taught me how children can quickly work through the process to build
awareness, make positive changes, and formulate positive cognitions. Benjamin’s
excitement at the process and observing his own increase in self-esteem shows me
the effectiveness of the CBPT process.
Session 1
Initial session with Benjamin, who eagerly entered the playroom and was engaged
with me. I did a check-in with Benjamin describing the play therapy process and
counseling goals, with Benjamin identifying a goal of not getting into trouble
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with the teacher. I had Benjamin complete a kinetic family drawing, which he did,
and shared enjoying swimming with his family. His play choice was to explore
the animal bins. I used facilitative responses focused on building rapport, feeling
identification, decision making, and mastery. Timer used at the end of the session
to prompt end of the session and picking up the playroom with initial hesitation
from Benjamin followed with compliance.
Session 2
Benjamin smiled and entered the session, engaging with me. Check-in completed,
with Benjamin sharing positive and negative aspects of his week. Psychoeduca-
tion of introducing and exploring how choices make problems bigger or smaller.
Interventions included teaching Benjamin how to use a “pause button” to stop
and think about choices. I then drew a pause button on his hand, practicing the
skill. Gameplay of Bubble Pause game to continue practicing the skill and build-
ing self-control. Benjamin’s play choice was floor play, creating a scene with vehi-
cles. My facilitative responses focused on choice, feelings, and decision making,
and when Benjamin naturally paused and thought about choices. The timer sig-
naled the end of the session, with Benjamin responding to the prompt, acknowl-
edging it as the time to clean up the playroom.
Session 3
Benjamin eagerly entered the session and engaged with me. During check-in, he
shared using the pause button during the week and having difficulty listening
during group time. I reflect on experiences with inquiry to ideas of how Benja-
min could improve listening to the teacher. He identified using the pause button
during group as a coping strategy. Interventions of drawing pause buttons on our
hands, practicing pausing and unpausing during the session, and actively listening
to the Self-Control song. The remainder of the session consisted of Benjamin’s
nondirective play selecting blocks, vehicles, and people to create a scene. Session
focus and my facilitative responses addressed choices, feelings, self-control, body
awareness, and building self-efficacy. A timer was used at the session’s end with
no prompts needed. Benjamin demonstrated his ability to understand and comply
with the session structure.
Session 4
Benjamin was involved in the session and with me. During check-in, he shared
drawing a pause button on his hand during the week and using it without prompt-
ing at school as well as to increase focus during group time. Intervention was of
teaching Benjamin the My Pleasure game. I provided prompts as he learned the
rules of the game, with Benjamin showing interest and desire to comply with the
game rules. I observed and reflected on Benjamin having difficulty remembering
the steps of gameplay. Plan to play My Pleasure game in future sessions with
the goal of building working memory, increasing focus, and ability to complete
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multiple-step tasks. Benjamin’s play choice of floor play, with a battle scene cre-
ated with the theme of good versus bad. The timer used at the end of the session.
Resources
For Professionals
Kisor, D. (2009). Self-control. I Can Settle Down: Songs of Self Control. Kisor
Music Studios, Fort Thomas, KY.
Mother May I Thumball™ [toy]. (2014). Maple Shade, NJ: Answers in Motion
LLC.
For Parents
Faber, A., & Mazlish, E. (2013). How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So
Kids Will Talk. Lagom.
Discussion Questions
1. How would you consider working with Benjamin moving forward to con-
tinue building and internalizing skills?
2. What other parenting skills and strategies would you work on with Benja-
min’s parents?
3. How can facilitative responses build client skills during nondirective play?
4. How could different cultures, socioeconomic statuses, and/or beliefs influence
working with a client such as Benjamin?
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interact with family, friends, school peers, coworkers, and members of their faith
community.
Children’s academic achievement is emphasized in Chinese families because
Chinese values link education with financial and social success. Children are
responsible to their parents, which creates pressure for children to perform well
so they can bring pride to their parents and family (Quach, Epstein, Riley, Fal-
conier, & Fang, 2015). These pressures can create distress for children, resulting
in mental health concerns such as anxiety. Parental warmth and support were
shown to moderate negative effects for the pressure and serve as a protective fac-
tor for ongoing negative mental health symptoms (Quach et al., 2015).
Anxiety
Anxiety is on the rise in Chinese children between the ages of 8 and 13 and is
rapidly becoming a top health concern (Gao, Liu, Xu, Mesman, & van Geel,
2022). As Chinese children acculturate to US values and become more indepen-
dent, anxiety becomes maladaptive, preventing them from achieving social and
academic competencies. Unfortunately, the traditional Chinese parenting style,
which is authoritarian in nature, contributes to Chinese American children’s anx-
iety (Gao et al., 2022). As generations become more acculturated in the United
States, an autonomy-supportive parenting style rather than a controlling parent-
ing style helps decrease anxiety in Chinese American children. Parents who main-
tain high expectations, consistent with Chinese culture, and can also allow for
children’s autonomy to create ideal environments for children to thrive in their
current culture.
COVID-19 had a profound impact on children’s functioning and mental
health (Litam & Oh, 2021). In the United States, people of color experienced
challenges of COVID-19 beyond that of their White counterparts. Many Chi-
nese people experienced COVID-related racial discrimination, which increased
the likelihood for this population to have diagnosable mental health concerns
and lower levels of life satisfaction (Litam & Oh, 2021). Asian children were
particularly susceptible to loneliness, low self-esteem, and social anxiety due to
COVID-related discrimination (Chen & Qin, 2020).
and learning style of children while using Adlerin theory as the foundation for
understanding and intervening with children (Kottman & Meany-Walen, 2016).
View of Children
Adlerian play therapists believe that children—and all people—are socially
embedded, creative, and goal oriented (Kottman & Meany-Walen, 2016). From
the time of birth, people strive to belong and find significance, or how they mat-
ter in the world. Their original social group is their family, followed by extended
family, neighborhoods, schools, spiritual or religious influences, and other com-
munities or organizations. The family constellation and family atmosphere are
significant contributors to lifestyle. Family constellation is how it looks, similar
to the representation of a genogram. This includes parental relationships (mar-
ried, divorced, widowed, same sex parents, adopted, etc.), birth order, sex or
gender roles and order, attachment breaks or deaths, blended families, and so
forth. Family atmosphere is how it feels to be in this family, which could include,
for example, anxious, athletic, achieving, outdoing, relaxed, chaotic, disengaged,
enmeshed. Because people are socially embedded, they must be understood in
relation to their social context and roles.
Children are creative. They create unique and individualized “lifestyles,” or
patterns of thinking, behaving, and feeling, based on their perceptions of how
they belong and gain significance within their family and then within other social
spheres (Kottman & Meany-Walen, 2016, 2018). They create beliefs about them-
selves, others, and the world and then interact in the world as if their beliefs are
true. Lifestyles are the amalgamation of multiple components that include such
concepts as personality priorities, goals of misbehaviors, life tasks, and Crucial
Cs, which will be described later in this section.
Adler believed that children are goal directed, and their behaviors are pur-
poseful; the goals and behaviors are often out of people’s awareness (Adler,
1927/1998). Their behaviors have the goal of meeting their perceived needs, and
others’ reactions to their behaviors reprove what they already believe to be true
about themselves, others, and the world. They continuously seek—and find—
feedback that supports their lifestyles, which reinforces their thoughts, emotions,
and behaviors. Most often, without intervention this loop continues over time
and across situations.
According to AdPT, children and all people react to life from an encouraged
(well) or discouraged (unwell) lifestyle (Kottman & Meany-Walen, 2016). People
who are discouraged have lifestyles that are not socially advantageous and are
potentially destructive. Because the lifestyles are consistent, they will continue
until they receive feedback or have experiences that disprove what they already
believe. Counseling and play therapy can be an experience that disproves some-
one’s lifestyle and creates new and encouraged beliefs, emotions, and behaviors
toward self, others, and the world (Kottman & Meany-Walen, 2018).
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questions “What is this child trying to gain from this behavior?” “What does this
behavior communicate to others and reveal about the child?” Children use mis-
behavior because they feel discouraged and believe socially constructive behavior
is unable to meet their needs, or they have not had experience and support to
develop socially constructive behaviors.
The five life tasks are family, love/friendships, work/school, self, and spiri-
tuality (Mosak & Maniacci, 2008). All people are challenged with these tasks
throughout life. People meet these tasks with different degrees of success, and
some tasks can prove more challenging than others at different points of life.
Children in therapy often experience greater challenges in the life tasks of family,
friendships, and/or school.
Unlike the other elements of lifestyle described in this chapter, Crucial Cs
are the assets or the qualities people must possess to handle the challenges of life
(Lew & Bettner, 1998, 2000). The four Crucial Cs are count, connect, courage,
and capable. A child must believe that he or she counts or matters in the world,
is able to connect with others in meaningful ways, has courage to make mistakes
and be imperfect, and is capable of handling hardships and uncertainty. The play
therapist seeks to discover the child’s current Crucial C functioning, encourage
positive change, and strengthen areas that are lacking.
Nondirected play and directed interventions such as sand tray, storytelling,
doll play, puppets, dance or movement, and art among other strategies can be
used to help Adlerian play therapists learn about the child (Kottman & Meany-
Walen, 2016, 2018). Counselors use what they have learned about the child’s
personality priorities, goals of misbehavior, functioning at life tasks, Crucial Cs,
and assets as well as family constellation and atmosphere, support and resources,
and other information to develop their conceptualization of the child. The cli-
ent conceptualization provides a framework from which Adlerian play therapists
develop treatment plans (Kottman & Meany-Walen, 2016).
Next, the Alderian play therapists move into the third phase, helping the child
gain insight. Here, therapists create interventions that are intentionally geared
toward helping children become aware of their lifestyle characteristics (Mosak
& Maniacci, 2008). As children become more aware of their typical patterns of
emotions, thoughts, and behaviors, they are more able to make informed deci-
sions about the changes they want to make and how they want to make those
changes (Kottman & Meany-Walen, 2016).
During the last phase of AdPT, helping the child gain insight, therapists teach
and/or provide opportunities and experiences for the child to replace destructive
patterns with constructive patterns (Kottman & Meany-Walen, 2016). Thera-
pists capitalize on the resources, assets, and interests of the child to help teach
and practice new skills. Some children need specific instruction and repeated
opportunities to try new ways of being. Other children naturally begin to imple-
ment new patterns of emotions, thoughts, and behaviors in and out of play ther-
apy sessions.
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teachings, and she is steadily growing in her understanding of self. The spiritual
and self life tasks are not of significant concern at this point. Her family relation-
ships are strong and supportive. The family can be a source of support as she
struggles in other areas. She experiences more challenges with friendships and
school at the present time. She isolates from peers and friends, and reports feeling
shame and guilt because of their accusations. School has become a challenge as
Huan has increasingly become uninvested and disengaged in academics.
Huan showed the greatest strengths in the Crucial Cs count, connect, and
capable and a low level of courage. Huan had a history of collaborative and sup-
portive dynamics within her family and school relationships. She integrated feed-
back and experiences that supported her knowing that she was able to succeed.
Her perceptions of those experiences helped strengthen her Crucial Cs of count,
connect, and capable. Huan showed a reduced sense of courage over the past
year. Due to COVID-19 and its tertiary societal impact, which included negative
comments and behaviors from her peers, Huan has a fear of making mistakes and
causing problems. She becomes nearly stagnant in her ability to take risks and try
new things because of her belief that she will fail or cause harm to herself, family,
or others.
Huan has developed beliefs about herself, others, and the world that are dis-
couraged and unproductive to developing and employing social interest. She has
the mistaken beliefs that she is bad, is dangerous, and does not belong; others are
better than she is, are the deciders of good and bad, and belong in her commu-
nity; and the world is unkind, doomed, and a scary place.
Strategies used during play sessions to accomplish these goals and objectives
included child-led play, storytelling and metaphor, art, movement, and directed
play activities.
Treatment Process
Huan’s mother called me at the recommendation of Huan’s school counselor and
teacher. I held an initial meeting with Huan’s parents and grandmother to gather
background information about Huan, including Huan’s development, parents’
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perceptions of the problem, identified concerns from the school, and their obser-
vations of Huan over the past couple of months.
Phase 1
In addition to gathering information, my goal was to initiate a relationship (phase
1) with the significant adults in Huan’s life as described in the parent and teacher
consultation section below. I built an egalitarian and collaborative therapeutic
relationship (phase 1) with Huan by using nondirective play, asking and answer-
ing questions, leading directed play activities, and using foundational play ther-
apy skills. I understood that setting clear and direct expectations is traditional in
Huan’s family and may facilitate comfort. I also knew that experiences in school
or other settings in predominantly the White, midwestern United States often
allow for children to be rather autonomous and to make choices, which could
contribute to Huan’s anxiety in school. I started the session using a nondirective
strategy and allowing Huan to explore the playroom independently. I was pre-
pared to make modifications to this plan as necessary.
This exchange was paced slowly to match Huan’s affect. Based on what I
knew about Huan’s presenting concerns and culture, I made the intentional and
therapeutic decision to be clearer and more direct about the expectations of the
play sessions while also allowing for and encouraging Huan to make choices.
Huan and I drew pictures. Huan drew pictures of a rainbow, trees, flowers,
and sun. I wanted to eliminate the suggestion of competition or any expectation
that they need to do the same thing, so I drew pictures of overlapping shapes. I
focused my verbal attention on Huan and her work. I reflected feelings, tracked,
and used encouraging statements. By the end of the session, Huan voluntarily,
and with some enthusiasm, showed me her picture and explained what she drew.
The primary emphasis during the next two sessions was to continue build-
ing a collaborative relationship in which Huan felt safe, valued, and respected.
Throughout the treatment process, the therapeutic relationship was fostered and
maintained. Therapy generally moves through the subsequent phases in order;
however, it is not a strictly linear process. Phases may overlap throughout sessions
as new information is revealed and opportunities to gain insight and practice new
strategies emerge in the session. For example, in the first session I provided infor-
mation, which is a focus of phase 4.
Phase 2
In phase 2 (investigating the client’s lifestyle), I continued to give Huan choices
and would sometimes have a directed activity planned. Huan still presented with
anxiety, but those behaviors reduced as she became more comfortable. My goal
was to gather enough information about Huan that I could create a lifestyle con-
ceptualization and treatment plan.
I started the third session by exploring Huan’s perception of her family.
Adlerian play therapists take notice of the product (what the child creates)
and the process (how the child goes about creating) of play and activity. At times
Huan would appear to be unsatisfied with her drawing. She turned over the page
or asked for another sheet of paper. I reflected feelings, encouraged, tracked, and
allowed for silence. I meta-communicated about Huan’s goals of behaviors.
I was attentive to how Huan went about an activity, how she handled chal-
lenges, and how she perceived herself. Huan showed a desire for things to be just
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Phase 3
Huan and I gradually moved from phase 2 to phase 3 (helping the child gain
insight). Here, my goal was to help Huan understand patterns of her thoughts
about herself, others, and the world; how she belongs; and how she believes she
gains significance. I helped Huan develop insight into the goals of her behaviors
and how they have or have not been working for her. I used what I learned about
Huan to develop a conceptualization and treatment plan. In addition to the skills
I used in previous phases, I used more meta-communication and directed activi-
ties to help Huan develop awareness.
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Phase 4
The goal of reorienting/reeducating the client (phase 4) is for the client to learn
new perspectives, ideas, or skills and/or practices new ways of thinking, feeling,
and behaving. Some of the changes are made and practiced in session. Others are
developed outside of session such as at home or school. I attempted to use what I
knew about Huan to make the best use of time and resources. For example, one
intervention (taking risks) could be useful in both goals, or connecting things that
happen in session with things that happen at home or school (refuting mistaken
beliefs about her role in COVID-19).
In the sessions, I created challenges Huan could complete and feel success-
ful and challenges that would require her to handle adversity. This responded to
Huan’s treatment goals in which she would take appropriate risks and develop
courage to be imperfect, and she would try new things without a guarantee of
success. Examples of these interventions are juggling scarves; drawing pictures
with her nondominant hand; balancing a peacock feather; and creating a sculp-
ture with recycling, odds and ends and leftover materials such as egg cartons,
straws, cereal boxes, tape, and so forth.
I provided materials for Huan to create an “insecurity/security” blanket
(described below). This intervention was started in the play sessions and later was
taken back and forth between home and therapy. This allowed Huan to practice
positive self-talk between sessions.
I believed Huan’s parents and grandmother would be best suited to give
their experiences and perspectives of the pandemic as well as how they had been
impacted because of their shared cultural experience and family values. Huan’s
family and I found statistics and evidence to counter Huan’s belief that their fam-
ily was responsible for COVID-19 and its effects.
Huan’s teacher was also made aware of Huan’s beliefs and the peer interac-
tions at school. The teacher created lessons that allowed all students in her class
to research facts about the pandemic and other current events. The goal was to
educate all students on this matter, create opportunities for students to express
their concerns, and to dispel inaccuracies and misunderstandings between stu-
dents. Huan was also able to use this as study time at home and as a point of
discussion with her family, both of which are in her treatment plan.
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Conclusion
Huan developed a more logical awareness of the global pandemic, its origins, and
its impact. Huan practiced courage in the playroom, developed friendships in the
classroom, and reduced her sense of responsibility for the effects of the pandemic.
Then, she naturally started to take appropriate risks in the classroom and engage
more in academic work.
Our treatment plan targeted only a few specific areas of concern (academic
motivation and courage). At the end of fourteen sessions, Huan was regularly
showing courage to be imperfect. She took initiative and appropriate risks in the
play sessions, she laughed more and was silly at times as well. Huan’s parents
and teachers reported that she took appropriate academic and social risks, and
she was tending to schoolwork at home as parents desired. Huan’s fidgety and
avoiding behaviors faded without any direct attention to them. Likewise, she was
able to set boundaries by communicating her needs and limits in social situa-
tions, which suggested that her pleasing personality priority was being managed
in a more encouraged manner than before. With the collaborative approach to
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Huan’s treatment that included her family, teachers, and school, Huan was able
to develop skills that helped her thrive.
Session Notes
Huan, 1/26/2023, 4 p.m.
Huan was present and engaged in the play therapy session. As is consistent for
Huan, she asked permission before initiating any play activity. For most of her
session, she chose to play with the dress-up clothes and medical kit. Huan took
turns being the patient and the doctor. She showed themes of empathy and rela-
tionship, control, mastery, and being capable.
Huan appears to be practicing Crucial Cs courage and capable. She showed
courage by being vulnerable as the patient and by being willing to engage with
and help others by being the doctor. She also showed capable by believing that
she was able to help patients, which mitigates her goal of misbehavior, proving
inadequacy.
Huan strives for belonging by pleasing others. She has the mistaken beliefs
that she is responsible for the pandemic and for bad things happening. Huan
overcompensates for her mistaken beliefs by striving to be perfect and having
a lack of courage. She believes that if she is perfect and does not make any mis-
takes, she will not cause any more harm.
I will continue to allow Huan to make choices in the playroom, with the goal
of her practicing courage and experiencing positive feedback and natural conse-
quences. We will also play Hoops of Control next session to help her gain insight
into what is within her control and what is out of her control.
Hoops of Control
Age/Participants: 5 or older; 1–100 participants
Purpose: Participants will be able to identify situations that are within their con-
trol and situations that are out of their control.
Materials: One hula hoop for every 1–3 participants. Rope, tape, or other mark-
ers to section off different areas on the floor could be used in place of hula hoops.
Considerations: participant mobility, space, number of participants
Directions:
1. Place hula hoops on the floor.
2. One person will read a list (below) of scenarios. After each scenario, partic-
ipants jump inside the hula hoop if it is within their control, and they will
jump on the outside of the hoop if it is out of their control.
3. Repeat through all the scenarios.
Processing Questions:
Take a mental note of participants’ hesitancy, mistakes, or other reactions during
the game and refer to these during the processing questions.
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1. How do you know if something was in your control or out of your control?
2. Which ones were difficult? Easy?
3. What about (scenario) made it difficult or easy to know if it was within your
control?
4. In cases where the participant said, “It depends” (or something similar), what
were your thoughts about this scenario? What would your answer depend
on?
5. How do you feel when you do/don’t have control?
6. What are things in your life that are in your control? Out of your control?
7. What things do you wish you had control of?
Sample Scenarios: Due to space limitations, only a brief list for young kids was
included.
Make additions and adjustments as needed to fit your clients’ experiences.
Interweave serious and silly scenarios, pointed and general scenarios.
1.You have a substitute teacher.
2.It’s raining, and you can’t go outside for recess.
3.You didn’t brush your teeth.
4.You did your homework.
5.You are sad because you lost a toy.
6.You yelled at your parents because you were sad.
7.Who your friends choose to be friends with. Or how your friends act
toward others.
8. Your bedtime, chores, or routines at home (or other home expectations).
9. Your principal colored their hair pink.
10. How you treat/react to other people.
Security/Insecurity Blanket
(T. Kottman, personal communication, January 4, 2007)
Age/participants: 5 and older; individual, family, or group sessions
Purpose: To help participants gain insight into mistaken beliefs or negative self-
talk. To identify assets and positive qualities.
Materials: blanket or comparable size cloth such as fleece material, fabric markers
Directions:
1. Explain that a security blanket is something that people use as comfort. They
wrap up in their security blanket when they feel sad or scared, or when they
want to feel cozy and loved. Define “security” and “insecurity” if necessary.
The counselor can explain that sometimes people focus on their insecurities
even if they aren’t true or don’t feel good. We’re going to focus on both (or
see modifications).
2. On one side of cloth, the participant writes or draws her insecurities. For par-
ticipants who have difficulty thinking of them or putting them into words, be
prepared to give examples that you think are true for the participant.
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3. On the other side, the participant does the same as in step 2 with securities.
Have a list of these prepared as well.
4. This can be a multi-session activity.
Processing Questions:
1. Which list was easier?
2. Which do you think of more often?
3. Which of the securities or insecurities do you think is most true?
4. What are your top three insecurities that would you like to erase or change?
5. What securities would you like to have on there that aren’t there yet?
6. What securities or insecurities do you think others would say about you?
7. Do you think it’s possible for anyone to have only securities and no
insecurities?
8. How can insecurities be helpful or motivating?
9. Where/how do you think you came up with your insecurities? Securities?
10. Which of the insecurities is/are not true, even though it/they feel true?
11. Which of the securities are you most proud of or thankful for?
12. How can you erase or change insecurities?
13. How do you add more securities?
Modifications:
1. Counselor makes a blanket for the participant.
2. Focus on one area (security or insecurity).
3. Write the insecurities with washable markers so when washed only securities
remain.
4. Make a smaller version for the participant to be able to keep in her pocket as
a transitional or comfort object.
5. Participants (or counselors) solicit securities from their family and/or friends
to reinforce assets.
Discussion Questions
1. Only two areas of concern were directly addressed through the treatment
process, despite other areas being identified as potentially problematic such
as Huan’s over-functioning pleasing personality priority and proving inade-
quacy goal of misbehavior. Yet, these areas improved over the course of treat-
ment. What may account for these changes? What are your thoughts about
not specifically addressing these areas? What areas would you have addressed
or not addressed?
2. How has COVID-19 impacted your beliefs about self, others, and the world?
Why is this awareness important?
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3. Huan lived in a rural community, Midwest United States. How does this
impact your understanding of the client and the treatment plan? How did
culture influence Huan’s lifestyle?
4. How has your family of origin, atmosphere, and constellation influenced who
you are and how you believe you belong and find significance in the world?
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CHAPT E R 7
Six boys, ages 11 to 13, were referred for counseling services. Four of the boys
had been diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder (low support needs), and
two had been diagnosed with Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder with some
suspicion of other neurodivergence-related diagnoses. According to their par-
ents, all the boys had difficulty with peer connection and social navigation. I will
refer to these boys as Andres, Brian, Cody, DeShaun, Ezekiel, and Farrell. Each
boy presented with a variety of strengths and needs. I sought to properly under-
stand each child individually to learn about their social connection strengths and
the needs that may require support.
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Group Approach
Before children or adolescents begin participating in a social group, it is essential
to assess their current social strengths and needs (Radley, Dart, Moore, Battaglia,
& LaBrot, 2016; Grant, 2017). For the group experience to be as smooth and
successful as possible, it is important that the children and adolescents participat-
ing be similar in their social strengths and needs. If the gap in social presentation
between the group members is too great, it will become challenging to improve
social navigation and may create further issues with children and adolescents
being uncomfortable in the group. This could affect group members’ willingness
to participate (Grant & Turner-Bumberry, 2020).
Hull (2014) noted that the role of the therapist in neurodivergent focused
groups is to provide relationship. Further, the therapist can help model in an
affirming manner for group members a safe and natural way of learning what
they need or want to see in their life. Sweeney, Baggerly, and Ray (2014) espoused
that the group-play therapist has a crucial role in the functioning and success of
the group process. It is important for the therapist to model what is expected and
exhibit a belief in the process as well as communicate this belief to group members.
AutPlay Therapy
AutPlay Therapy as an integrative family play therapy approach designed to
address the mental health needs of neurodivergent children (Grant, 2023). The
foundation of AutPlay Therapy consists of seminal play therapy theories and
approaches integrated within a neurodiversity affirming framework. This seemed
like a good basis for my group design as the process of integrating play ther-
apy theories and approaches while staying committed to neurodiversity affirming
practices is already established in the AutPlay framework.
AutPlay Therapy has an outlined play- group process. Grant and Turner-
Bumberry (2020) stated that AutPlay Therapy groups provide a sense of belong-
ing for children. Many autistic and other neurodivergent children are left out of
groups and activities that involve neurotypical peers. In AutPlay Therapy groups,
children can develop relationships, practice navigation, and have positive recre-
ational experiences. Children and adolescents can gain a feeling of acceptance
and optimism about social situations, especially social situations with peers. They
may also discover they are not alone and that other peers have the same needs
they do. For guidance with my group, it felt important to follow the AutPlay
Therapy play and social groups affirming tenets:
• The group should be a safe and supportive environment for children and ado-
lescents to interact in a way they feel comfortable.
• Group processes should promote a natural and playful opportunity to learn
and practice connection and social navigation.
• The group experience should provide opportunities to build self-esteem and
confidence, especially in social situations.
• The group should provide an opportunity to establish friendships.
• The group should also provide a supportive environment for parents.
As the therapist, I am the most important component of the AutPlay Therapy
group process. My affirming beliefs, attitudes, interactions, and selection of pro-
tocols would provide the foundation for a successful group experience. I under-
stood that the children participating in the AutPlay group would need me to be
flexible and adaptable, switching smoothly from child-led relationship building to
psychoeducational teaching while maintaining a neurodiversity affirming stance.
This would require me to be a participant, a role model, and a guide—staying
present with the happenings of each group member.
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Session 1
The group began with me introducing myself and sharing a bit about the group
goals (i.e., connecting, building relationships, and having fun). I also communi-
cated that the group was a safe place to be yourself and covered a few basic
group rules (i.e., different is okay, no bullying, participate at your own comfort,
and keep group happenings confidential). After explaining the group rules, I
introduced the Minecraft coloring activity.
Later Sessions
In the next few sessions, we continued to complete various Minecraft-themed
interventions that promoted connecting with each other. In session 4, we engaged
in a role-play activity of having each boy choose a character and then we acted
out scenes from Minecraft. Each boy got to create a short scene for all of us
to play out together. My goal for session 5 was to transition to some LEGO
activities. I introduced creating a Minecraft environment using Minecraft LEGO
bricks. The boys all worked together on a large table to create a LEGO Minecraft
world. They communicated to establish what they wanted and how it would be
designed.
Last Session
My goal for session 10 (the final group session) was to have the boys reflect on
their group experience and think about what they wanted to remember and take
with them from the group. I also wanted to celebrate each of them and their time
in the group and end the group on a positive feeling. I introduced an intervention
called All of Us Chain. In this intervention we each have seven strips of paper.
There is a strip of paper for each group member and for me. We signed the strips
of paper and wrote or drew something on each strip of paper that we wanted
to give to the other members. Once everyone received their strips of paper from
each member, each member used glue to link the strips received from others to
form their own individual chain. The end product was each of us having a chain
of seven links with things written or drawn on each one from our other group
members.
Parent Consultations
AutPlay Therapy functions ideally as a family play therapy approach involving
both the child and the parent in the therapeutic process. In AutPlay groups, par-
ents participate in initial meetings with the therapist to assess the child’s best
fit in a group. I gave instructions to the parents on how the group would prog-
ress through 10 meetings. I encouraged parents to take an active role in promot-
ing connection and social navigation with their child. At the end of each group
meeting, I provided the parents with an information sheet that described what
had been implemented and processed in the group. I further encouraged the par-
ents to connect with each other outside of group meetings to facilitate social
opportunities.
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Autism cannot be labeled as one thing, one “look,” or one manifestation of symp-
toms. It is a vast and varied spectrum. The differences between two individuals
with the same autism diagnosis can be many. As a professional working with
autistic and other neurodivergent children, it is important for me to remember
the individuality of the diagnosis and strive to understand each child with whom
I am working. This was especially true as I facilitated this group of six boys with
social connection goals. In this group, the children varied in their social navi-
gation needs and strengths, how socially capable they felt, and what particular
social situations were difficult. Despite these differences, the group of boys were
able to find social connections and navigate with each other through various
interventions with a positive outcome.
Group Meeting 1
Subjective: The group members shared their Minecraft drawings and some brief
information about themselves. Each member shared something, and a couple of
members expressed excitement about being in the group. E: “I love this group!”
B: “This is going to be a fun group!”
Objective: Initially, each group member appeared to be reserved, likely anxious
about the new experience. The group members were slow to begin talking and
interacting.
Assessment: From an AutPlay and Neurodiversity Paradigm perspective, this first
group meeting looked typical. Neurodivergent children often have needs with
social navigation and connection. These processes can create high levels of anx-
iety, fear, and confusion. It was expected that the members would be anxious
and reserved, needing time and opportunity to feel comfortable and sure about
the process. The Minecraft intervention was chosen because it represented each
member’s special interest and would likely help them feel more comfortable shar-
ing about themselves. The whole group did relax some and were able to begin
interacting through the Minecraft intervention.
Plan: Structured play interventions that align with the group members’ special
interests will be implemented to encourage connection and positive social interac-
tion. This will be meshed with therapist reflections that support social navigation
and neurodiversity affirming principles.
Group Meeting 5
Subjective: The group members worked together to create a Minecraft world
from LEGO bricks. The group members worked mostly independently in parallel
play. Occasionally, a member would ask if something could be moved or added
or ask for help finding a LEGO piece. Communication such as “Can I use that
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piece?,” Does anyone have this piece?,” and “Can I add to this or move this?”
were made throughout the creation time with responses given.
Objective: The group members seemed to value each other’s space and ideas in
creating the world. When members needed to work together or needed help, they
communicated in appropriate ways. Once the creation was completed, all the
group members seemed pleased with the process and the final outcome.
Assessment: From an AutPlay perspective, the group showed progress from the
first session. They were now able to navigate some social situations on their own
without the therapist’s instruction. The LEGO creation provided an opportunity
for the members to work together, requiring them to interact and communicate.
Overall, the process went well and showed group members’ growth.
Plan: Structured play interventions focused on the group members’ special inter-
est in LEGO. Interventions will progress requiring more social group interaction
and less facilitation from the therapist.
Resources
For Professionals
Grant, R. J. (2023). The AutPlay therapy handbook: Integrative family play ther-
apy with neurodivergent children. Routledge.
Silberman, S. (2015). Neurotribes: The legacy of autism and how to think smarter
about people who think differently. Allen & Unwin. AutPlay Therapy. https://
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For Children
Congratulations, you’re autistic! by Katie Bassiri (2022).
Some brains: A book celebrating neurodiversity by Nelly Thomas (2020).
Understanding autism: A neurodiversity affirming guidebook for children and
teens by Robert Grant (2021).
For Parents
Autistic Self Advocacy Network, https://autisticadvocacy.org/
Autistic Women & Nonbinary Network, https://awnnetwork.org/
Sincerely, your autistic child: What people on the autism spectrum wish their par-
ents knew about growing up, acceptance, and identity edited by Morénike
Giwa Onaiwu, Emily Paige Ballou, & Sharon daVanport (2021).
Discussion Questions
1. What were some of the reasons for focusing on connection and social naviga-
tion with a group of neurodivergent children?
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2. Why was it important to understand the boys’ special interests and use the
special interests in focusing on group goals?
3. As a therapist, what neurodiversity affirming constructs and cultural issues
would you need to be aware of to effectively facilitate a group of neurodiver-
gent children? Give specific examples.
4. What would be some of the benefits of an integrated group approach with
this population?
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Salvador is a 9-year-old Mexican American boy with a learning disability who lives
with his mother, father, and 3-year-old sister in a town on the Texas–Mexico border.
In 2021, Salvador’s grandmother died due to complications with COVID-19. Due
to limited income, she could not afford to stop her work in a factory and contracted
COVID-19 from an infected coworker. However, because Salvador’s grandmother
was undocumented, she did not have insurance and was afraid to go to the hos-
pital. She died in their family home. Afterward, Salvador experienced fear of dying
and grief but did not receive counseling due to quarantine restrictions. In 2022,
Salvador’s favorite older cousin, Rubin, was shot and killed by a semiautomatic
gun during community violence at a school-sponsored soccer game. Afterward,
Salvador expressed his anger by being extremely disrespectful to teachers and
other adults in the community; avoided playing soccer, which he loved; persever-
ated on “what-if” scenarios regarding Rubin and his grandmother; and stopped
trying at school because “what’s the use since I may die soon, too?” Salvador’s
school counselor recommended that his parents seek counseling to address his
compound grief.
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Grief
Grief is a normal process following the loss of a loved one (Treglia et al., 2021).
Grief in children after a family member’s death can result in an array of typi-
cal responses such as sadness, loneliness, anxiety, guilt, anger, and helplessness.
Grief can cause changes in thoughts (e.g., disbelief or protest, imagining alterna-
tive scenarios); behaviors (e.g., avoiding grief triggers, inability to connect with
others); emotions (e.g., guilt, anger); and physiology (e.g., stomachaches, head-
aches) (Center for Prolonged Grief, n.d.). Children’s ability to recover from grief
is based on several factors such as their age, support systems, and circumstances
surrounding the family member’s death. Although many children’s sense of secu-
rity, relationships, and meaning are challenged after the death of a loved one,
positive personal growth is possible if emotional support is provided (DeAngelis,
2022).
Unfortunately, during the COVID-19 pandemic, many children had caregiv-
ers who were also stricken with grief, hindering their ability to provide emotional
support. In addition, quarantine impeded interaction with other support systems
such as school staff, community members, and counselors. These circumstances
increased the likelihood of children’s atypical grief response of Prolonged Grief Dis-
order (PGD), defined as “intense yearning or longing for the deceased (often with
intense sorrow and emotional pain), and preoccupation with thoughts or mem-
ories of the deceased (in children and adolescents, this preoccupation may focus
on the circumstances of the death)” (APA, 2022). PGD is persistent and pervasive
and interferes with functioning (Center for Prolonged Grief, n.d.). About 10% of
children experience traumatic, complicated, or prolonged grief for which clinical
therapy may be required (Treglia et al., 2021).
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Community Violence
According to the CDC National Violent Death Reporting System, 20,663 people
were victims of homicide in 2020, with the most common method being fire-
arms (Liu et al., 2023). “Violence erodes entire communities—reducing produc-
tivity, decreasing property values, disrupting social services, and making people
feel unsafe in the places where they live, work, and learn” (CDC, n.d., p. 1). The
National Child Traumatic Stress Network (NCTSN, n.d.a) stated that chronic
community violence can destroy children’s sense of safety, put them in survival
mode, make them ready to gear up for fight or flight, and dampen their outlook
on the future as well as their sense of control.
Traumatic Grief
Community violence that results in a sudden and unexpected death of a loved
one can cause childhood traumatic grief that is severe or prolonged and inter-
feres with children’s functioning (NCTSN, n.d.a). In addition to grief symptoms
discussed above, traumatic grief is characterized by intrusive memories about the
death (e.g., nightmares, guilt, horrifying thoughts about the death); avoidance and
numbing (e.g., withdrawal, avoiding reminders of the person or events related to
the death); and physical or emotional symptoms of increased arousal (e.g., irrita-
bility, anger, trouble sleeping, increased vigilance, and fears about safety for one-
self) (NCTSN, n.d.a). Unfortunately, any thoughts, even happy ones, about the
person who died can trigger fears and upset the child. Reminders that may trig-
ger distress are trauma reminders (e.g., places, situations, people); loss reminders
(e.g., photos, special occasions previously enjoyed with the person who died); and
change reminders (e.g., situations, people, or things that change such as no longer
attending a sporting event). Intervention is needed to prevent ongoing mental
health problems in children with Prolonged Grief Disorder and Traumatic Grief.
with children who are Latinx and/or struggling with grief (Deligiannis & Pinilla,
2022; Salinas, 2021; Thanasiu & Pizza, 2019).
Sand tray therapy is a child-centered technique created by Lowenfeld (1979).
Also known as “The World Technique,” this child-centered approach consists of
a tray of sand, water to be added into the sand tray, if the client chooses, and
miniatures of various items for the client to create an imaginative and symbolic
world in the sand tray to reflect their inner experiences (Lowenfeld, 1979). The
World Technique is based on the principles of psychoanalysis, particularly the
concept of the unconscious mind and the symbolic nature of play (Lowenfeld &
Brittain, 1982). During a sand tray session, the child is invited to create a “world”
in the sand tray, using the miniature figures to represent various elements of their
inner and outer worlds. The therapist encourages the child to freely express him-
self through the placement and manipulation of the figures within the sand tray.
Sand tray is particularly helpful for children with traumatic grief as it allows
for posttraumatic play to help them process death and unconsciously reenact
trauma in an effort to self-soothe (Webb, 2010). When children use miniatures
in the sand tray, they project feelings, thoughts, and experiences onto miniatures,
creating a safe distance to process death emotionally and cognitively (Homeyer
& Sweeney, 2022; Salinas, 2021). Children can relive memories of their loved
one who died and re-create what they would like to have said or done. Children’s
symbolic play in the sand tray allows counselors to view what a child under-
stands and thinks about the death, and it gives counselors an opportunity to
intervene appropriately (Webb, 2010). The burying theme is often seen in sand
tray of children who are grieving (Green & Connolly, 2009). It metaphorically
allows children to play out the burial of their loved one. It also allows avoidance
of the painful emotion when recalling and making sense of a death (Green &
Connolly, 2009).
As described by Lowenfeld and Brittain (1982), sand tray materials include
the following:
1. Sand: The central component of a sand tray, typically a fine-grain, clean sand
is used. It should be easily moldable and provide a suitable texture for creat-
ing landscapes and designs.
2. Sand Tray: A container or tray specifically designed for the sand play. It is usu-
ally shallow, rectangular, and made of durable materials such as wood, plas-
tic, or metal. The sand tray is standardized at approximately 75 cm x 50 cm
x 7 cm and painted blue to create an image of sky or water that contains
the sand (Hutton, 2004). A tray that is too small can quickly be filled and
overwhelm a child who has been traumatized, and thus should be avoided
(Mattson & Veldorale-Brogan, 2010).
3. Miniature Figures: These are small, three-dimensional objects that represent
people, animals, objects, and symbols. They are placed in the sand tray to cre-
ate scenes and narratives. Miniature figures can include humans of different
ages, genders, and occupations; animals of various species; vehicles; natural
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elements (trees, rocks); and symbolic objects (bridges, fences). They offer a
wide range of options for the child to express her thoughts and experiences.
4. Natural Elements: Additional natural materials such as twigs, leaves, shells,
and stones can be provided to enhance the sand tray experience. These mate-
rials can be used to create landscapes, add details, or provide a sensory aspect
to the therapy.
5. Other Props: Depending on the therapeutic goals or specific interventions,
additional props may be included that target the client’s individual experience,
such as tombstones, religious items, beer bottles, cars, or hospital bed. These
props can provide opportunities for role-playing, storytelling, or exploring
specific themes.
It is important to note that the selection of sand tray materials may vary
based on the therapeutic approach, the child’s age and preferences, and the ther-
apist’s assessment and goals for the session. In addition, ensuring the safety and
cleanliness of the materials is crucial to maintain a hygienic and secure therapeu-
tic environment.
When conducting sand tray, my role with the client is to
1. develop a warm relationship where he feels accepted and valued,
2. give him the freedom to lead in his sand tray creation,
3. accept his feelings and behavior unconditionally, and
4. encourage his self-expression (Homeyer & Sweeney, 2022; Lowenfeld & Brit-
tain, 1982).
My goal with the client is to help him readjust to life without his grandmother
and cousin. Additional goals include helping him to process the fear he has related
to his own death and build coping skills for times that he feels sad or is reexperi-
encing trauma symptoms.
Sand tray treatment procedures and strategies that will be helpful to Salvador
are (1) introduction and explanation, (2) free play, (3) intentional prompts, (4)
symbolic play and storytelling, (5) processing and reflection, and (6) closure and
integration (Homeyer & Sweeney, 2022; Lowenfeld & Brittain, 1982). First, it is
important to explain the purpose of sand tray to Salvador in a mature manner
so that he does not confuse it with the idea of just playing in the sand. This is
important because he thinks he is “too old for kid toys.” Next, it is important
that Salvador has unstructured time to freely explore the sand tray and select
miniature figures to which he feels connected. Prior to the start of the session,
the counselor should equip the room with miniatures that Salvador can relate to,
given his loss—for example, a miniature mask to represent life during COVID-
19, a miniature soccer ball to represent his passion for the game, and a miniature
gun to represent the community violence leading to his cousin’s death. Having a
well-thought-out array of miniatures can allow the client to engage in symbolic
play in the sand, act out scenes, and create narratives. Further, the counselor may
use specific prompts or themes to guide the client’s play in the sand tray. These
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prompts can be related to the client’s current concerns or therapeutic goals. For
example, I suggested that Salvador create a scene in the sand of himself and his
family.
Finally, after the sand tray is created, the counselor should facilitate a reflec-
tion and discussion with the clients, allowing them to share their thoughts and
feelings about their creation. The counselor encourages the client to explore the
connections between the sand tray and real-life experiences, promoting integra-
tion and understanding. The counselor also assists clients in summarizing their
sand tray experience. This can involve identifying insights gained, discussing cop-
ing strategies, and setting goals for future sessions or outside the therapy context.
Session 1
My goals for the first session were to develop rapport, assess Salvador’s working
diagnosis, identify his treatment goals, facilitate his expression, and provide some
beginning coping skills. I prepared by providing a room with a sand tray and
hundreds of miniatures categorized as described above. After introducing myself,
obtaining informed assent including limits of confidentiality, I invited Salvador to
engage with the sand tray.
After the sand tray, I asked what he would like to accomplish in our counsel-
ing together. We agreed on the following:
Treatment Goal: Decrease grief, anger, and disrespect and increase effective emo-
tional and behavioral regulation.
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Objectives:
1. Express grief related to his grandmother and cousin and develop a restorative
understanding of their deaths.
2. Identify and connect experiences, emotions, and perceptions underlying grief
and anger.
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Session 2
My goal for the second session was to continue to develop rapport with Salvador,
understand the relationship he had with his grandmother and cousin, and help
him work through the pain of grief. By session 4, Salvador began to identify his
feelings related to grief, and his anger intensified as he talked about his loved
ones who died.
In the next few sessions, Salvador began to speak more openly about missing
his grandmother and cousin. He was able to identify feelings that made up his
grief, which included anger, sadness, shock, confusion, and joy. He also began
TABLE 8.2. SALVADOR: SESSION 2
Transcript Analysis
T: “Today, I want to invite you to create a scene This directive prompt is geared at helping the
in the sand of the moment you found out Rubin client begin to work through the pain of his grief.
died.”
S: [Salvador quietly brings to the sand tray a car, Working in the sand can elicit unconscious
cellphone, people, and road signs. He creates feelings for the client. As Salvador reflected on his
a scene in the sand of him and his family driving memory of learning about Rubin’s death, he was
home from dinner. Before he can announce that flooded with anger. He then refused to continue
he is done, Salvador destroys his scene and buries working in an effort to avoid his anger.
the miniatures in the sand.] “I don’t want to do this
anymore!”
T: “I can see that you are angry. Thinking about Reflection of feeling and meaning. Here, the
Rubin is difficult.” therapist acknowledged Salvador’s anger.
S: [Salvador remains silent] Children are often unsure how to respond to
reflections of feelings.
T: [Matches Salvador’s silence] I gave Salvador space to sit with his thoughts.
S: “I wish he was still here.” After giving Salvador time to process his
thoughts, he expressed his yearning for Rubin.
T: “You wish Rubin was still alive. It’s okay to be Reflection of content. Therapist normalized
angry. I noticed you working hard in the sand tray Salvador’s feelings of anger and then reflected his
until something upset you.” nonverbal behavior to elicit a response.
S: “Yeah, I remember my mom getting a phone Salvador felt comfortable and safe with the
call from my tía on our drive home, and she was therapist to describe his memory.
screaming. I heard everything. She said Rubin had
been shot and was rushed to the hospital, but he
did not make it.”
T: “So, you remember being in the car when you Reflection of content helps Salvador feel heard.
got the news and hearing your tía’s pain. Wow, that Therapist empathized with the client.
must have been a lot for you to take in.”
S: “Yeah, I do not like thinking about it. I should Salvador makes deeper meaning of feeling guilt
have been there with him.” for not being present when his cousin died.
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to adjust to life without his grandmother and cousin. The counselor provided
Salvador a prompt, “On one side of the sand tray, create a scene of ‘family time’
before your loved one died, and on the other side, create a scene of ‘family time’
now after your loved one died.” Salvador was able to understand that he could be
happy even after his loved ones died and that playing soccer was a great way to
honor his cousin rather than it be reminder of his death. Once Salvador practiced
his coping skills and better understood his grief, his disrespect toward teachers
also decreased.
Parent Consultations
I collaborated closely with Salvador’s parents by meeting with them at the begin-
ning of each session while Salvador drew or colored a mandala in the waiting
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room. Recognizing that his parents were also grieving, I gave them resources
described below, encouraged them to practice positive coping strategies with Sal-
vador, use a thermometer scale to illicit the intensity of his feelings on a regular
basis, talk with him about grandmother and his cousin, and engage in religious
rituals (e.g., lighting candles at church).
Conclusion
Salvador made remarkable progress in understanding his grief and expressing it
to others. Sand tray provided him an expressive outlet to process his experiences
and create hopeful scenes of the future. Salvador accepted that the deaths were
out of his control, but he could control how he coped with the loss. Salvador and
his parents decided together to honor his grandmother and cousin on their birth-
day anniversary by doing a balloon release. This encouraged Salvador to stay
connected to his family even after death and send them messages of love.
As a therapist, I learned to trust the process of grief work. During some ses-
sions, Salvador was too angry to participate in sand tray, at which point I allowed
him to engage in free play. There were also sessions in which we did not discuss
grief at all. It was important for Salvador to be in control of his grief journey and
open up when he was ready.
Session 4
Subjective: Counselor provided client prompt for sand tray, “create a scene in the
sand of the moment you found out Rubin died.” The goal of the prompt was to
help client work through his pain of grief. Client included a car, cellphone, peo-
ple, and road signs in the sand. Client became angry while working in the sand
and buried miniatures. He reported learning about his cousin’s death while driv-
ing home with his family. Client realized that he had guilty feelings for not being
with his cousin when he died. Counselor demonstrated box breathing to client in
which he draws the outline of a box with his finger and takes a deep breath in
and out each time he draws out a line. Also, counselor and client agreed that it
might help client to focus his anger on a soccer ball and kick it as a way to cope.
Objective: Client became angry during session as evidenced by him burying his
miniatures. Then, he displayed sad affect when talking about his cousin. His
behavior was developmentally appropriate. Client was oriented to time, place,
and situation.
Assessment: Client is working through the pain of his grief and remains moti-
vated for treatment.
Plan: Next session, help client adjust to life without the deceased according to
Worden’s task 3 by providing directive prompt for sand tray. For example, on one
side create a scene of life before grandmother and cousin died, and on the other
side create a scene of life now. Process with client.
Resources
For Professionals
Creative Interventions for Bereaved Children by Liana Lowenstein (2006).
NCTSN. Cultural and Contextual Considerations in the Treatment of Childhood
Traumatic Grief. https://www.nctsn.org/resources/cultural-and-contextual
-considerations-treatment-childhood-traumatic-grief
Sandtray Therapy: A Practical Manual, Fourth Edition by Linda E. Homeyer &
Daniel S. Sweeney (2022).
For Children
NCTSN. Ready to Remember: Jeremy’s Journey of Hope and H ealing. https://
www.nctsn.org/resources/ready-remember-jeremys-journey-hope-and-healing
NCTSN. Taking Care of You. https://www.nctsn.org/resources/taking-care-of-you
When Someone Dies: A Children’s Mindful How-To Guide on Grief and Loss by
Andrea Dorn (2022).
For Parents
NCTSN Video and Resources. I Don’t Know How to Support My Child through
Loss: Multigenerational Cultural Perspectives. https://www.nctsn.org/
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Discussion Questions
1. What were some of Salvador’s unique experiences and needs as a result of his
compound grief?
2. How did sand tray facilitate the achievement of Salvador’s treatment goals?
Give specific examples.
3. As a therapist, what beliefs, biases, and/or emotions would you need to
bracket to effectively work with Salvador and his family?
4. What actions could you take to promote social justice advocacy related to
medical services for undocumented families and gun violence?
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CHAPT E R 9
Family Stress
Filial Therapy with an
Indigenous American Family
Risë VanFleet
Kallik was an 8-year-old boy who originated from arctic Alaska. He bore a tra-
ditional Inuit name, although the one here is substituted to preserve his privacy.
His tribal affiliation is not included here, either, for privacy reasons. His father had
been killed in a fishing accident two years prior, and when his 16-year-old sister
attempted suicide, his mother, Kanani, moved both her children to the “lower 48”
to live near her sister and her family. This represented a considerable change from
their close-knit arctic village to an East Coast town of 50,000 people. Kallik had
difficulty adjusting to his new physical and cultural environment. He was some-
times heard crying during the night, and he resisted going to school. In school
he often refused to do his work and said very little when asked what the problem
was. The school counselor asked Kanani if she would seek help for him. His sister
was already in treatment for her own issues. Kallik had not made many friends
and often stayed in his room at home. Kanani said she was unable to get him to
talk about what was on his mind. Kanani then contacted some key people in her
former Native Alaskan district who directed her to me.
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nested environmental structures included (a) the microsystem of the child’s imme-
diate settings and relationships, such as family, school, friends, and neighbors; (b)
the mesosystem of interrelationships between and among these settings directly
involving the child such as the intersection of family and school, family and the
child’s friends and neighbors; (c) the exosystem of events and interactions that
have indirect impact on the child and family, such as the parents’ employment,
extended family, social media, local governments; (d) the macrosystem of wider
systems that also have indirect influence such as social norms, socioeconomic
status, political systems, culture, laws; and finally, (e) environmental changes
that take place throughout the child’s and family’s life, including planned and
unplanned events (Bronfenbrenner, 1979; VanFleet, 1985). It is clear in Kallik’s
case that factors at each level were operating, and careful consideration of them
would potentially influence the success of any intervention.
Filial Therapy
Filial Therapy (FT) is a systematic and time-limited family intervention cre-
ated and developed by Drs. Bernard and Louise Guerney over the past 60 years
(Guerney & Ryan, 2013; Topham & VanFleet, 2011; VanFleet, 2014; VanFleet
& Guerney, 2003). Based on a psychoeducational model, FT empowers fam-
ilies in direct ways. The therapist trains and supervises parents as they learn
to conduct one-to-one nondirective play sessions with their own children. As
parents develop competence in the four play sessions’ skills of structuring,
empathic listening, child-centered imaginary play, and limit-setting, they begin
to understand more clearly the meaning of their children’s play themes, from the
children’s points of view. This allows them to deepen their empathy and demon-
strate fuller understanding of their children’s dilemmas, worries, and problems,
as well as their hopes, desires, and dreams. FT has been shown through contin-
uous research on the Guerneys’ family model as well as several derivative pro-
grams to be effective in ameliorating children’s problems while strengthening
the family (Bratton, Ray, Rhine, & Jones, 2005; Guerney & Ryan, 2013; Van-
Fleet, 2014). It has also been shown in controlled research that the most dysreg-
ulated children and most dysregulated parents show the greatest gains with FT
(Topham, Wampler, Titus, & Rolling, 2011).
FT is based on an elegant integration of multiple theories. It includes psycho-
dynamic, humanistic, behavioral, interpersonal, cognitive, developmental/attach-
ment, and family systems perspectives and applications. Its core values include
genuineness, empathy, relationship, empowerment, collaboration, humility, and
playfulness, among others (VanFleet, 2014). Its reliance on nondirective parent-
child play sessions makes it particularly well suited for children ages 3 to 12
years, but it can be adapted for adolescents as well. Ideally, all children in the
family are involved.
The therapist typically trains parents how to conduct the play sessions in three
training sessions, and then observes five or six sessions in person. Each training
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activity and each play session is followed by the therapist going through a collab-
orative feedback process with the parent in which they cover the things that the
parent has done well followed by just one or two things to work to improve the
next time. As parents gain skills, additional discussion about the play themes and
parent reactions are included. Parents typically can become very skilled in these
play sessions.
When the parents are competent in conducting the play sessions, they are
moved to the home setting. The parent conducts the sessions on their own and
then meets with the therapist to discuss what went well, what presented problems,
the primary play themes, and parent feelings about the sessions and the play. All
of this is processed with parents in an empathic, supportive manner while moni-
toring the child’s progress. FT focuses not only on empowering the child through
the play sessions, but on building self-efficacy in the parents through this collab-
orative process.
Because FT is a process-oriented, relationship-centered approach, it has many
complexities that are sometimes overlooked by those unfamiliar with it. These
subtleties are critical so that the parents feel understood and supported, just as
the FT process helps them become more empathic and supportive of their chil-
dren. Limits are used sparingly during the play sessions but are important in rees-
tablishing parental authority in some cases. Problems typically begin to show
resolution within four to six sessions, and this in turn increases parental moti-
vation to continue. Near the end of the FT process when parents are conducting
weekly half-hour play sessions with each of their children, the therapist helps
them generalize what they have learned to daily life. By this time, the parents are
quite skilled, and this generalization to the more complex realm of daily life is
done with relative ease.
FT can be used in conjunction with other forms of play therapy or behavioral
intervention, depending on the nature and severity of presenting issues. It is a
flexible approach that has been used successfully in many countries and cultures,
in large part because family is so important to human existence everywhere, and
play is universal in children.
I have trained countless professionals throughout the world to conduct FT.
Within North America, this has included more than 90 indigenous American/
Inuit professionals representing approximately 20 different tribal affiliations. I
have been invited repeatedly by several native organizations to offer FT to indig-
enous professionals and paraprofessionals through the years. Many have noted
the compatibility of the approach with their cultural values. Frequently, during
professional training sessions, when I showed a listing of the FT values next to
documents detailing tribal and cultural values, participants’ suspicions of yet
another intervention ill-suited to tribal social values dissipated. During one such
workshop, all the participants asked for copies of both documents and later con-
firmed that their experiences with FT bore out the harmony of the method with
their families. Glover (1996, 2003), who applied and researched a variation of FT
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Case Study
Case Conceptualization
Using Bronfenbrenner’s Ecological Systems Theory, Kallik and his family had
experienced trauma and pressure from virtually all of the system levels within
which they were embedded. Within the microsystem of the immediate family,
they had experienced the unexpected and traumatic death of Kallik’s father and
the suicide attempt by his sister. Kallik had struggled in school, and his mother
was at a loss as to how to reach and help him. The teacher meetings suggested
that no one knew how to help Kallik, and they seemed to expect Kanani to “fix”
the problem. Kallik also had few opportunities to make new friends.
On the mesosystem level, because of their relocation, Kanani had good sup-
port from her sister and family, but she felt displaced from the village she had
lived in her entire life and disconnected from her culture. The indirect influences
on Kallik included Kanani’s job, which was low paying while her expenses had
mounted, and she was away from home longer due to having to commute to it. On
the exosystem level, Kanani was unsure of the impact of social media on both her
children, and she worried they could come under bad influences because she was
not there to monitor them. The economic pressures only compounded the stress
Kanani felt and added to her feelings of helplessness. Within the macrosystem, she
said she felt like she was in a totally different country where she did not understand
what was expected of her. She also had experienced occasional overt racist remarks
when in the vicinity of her work. Although she tried to provide love and care for
her children, she felt inadequate to the task when immersed in such a different
environment.
Treatment Goals
The treatment goals were set after an individual meeting between Kanani and
me followed by a family play observation, one of the assessment methods used
in FT. I also conducted a nondirective play session demonstration with Kallik
that Kanani observed, and she and I discussed it afterward. I then held another
meeting with Kanani individually so we could discuss all questions she had, the
play session she had observed, and my recommendation of Filial Therapy as
the primary intervention. I recommended FT because of its alignment with the
family’s cultural values, as Kanani readily recognized, and its potential to build
family empowerment, not only for the children, but also for Kanani. Because
Kanani’s sister was an important support, and their traditional values empha-
sized extended family and community, I asked if Kanani would like her sister
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to participate as well, and we could have all the children in the two families
participate in the FT play sessions. Kanani quickly accepted this idea, and her
sister was immediately accepting of it as well. For the sake of brevity, this chap-
ter focuses only on the FT sessions held with Kanani and Kallik, but both entire
families were involved eventually in the one-to-one parent-child play sessions
and discussions with me.
Goals were developed through a collaborative process with Kanani, and later
with Kallik and his sister. Kanani had clearly stated her goals from the start, so
they were discussed in more detail, and plans to meet them were set in place. For
Kallik, goals were to help Kallik overcome his discomfort of going to school,
and for him to participate in some neighborhood events and play with his cous-
ins, in hopes that this would facilitate his making new friends. Goals for Kanani
included learning the FT skills and applying them in her play sessions with Kallik,
and her modified FT sessions with her daughter. Family goals were to strengthen
all their relationships, help them all feel understood, foster their adjustment to
their new life, and find ways to have fun together. Kanani also wanted to find
opportunities through which she and her children could engage in traditional cul-
tural rituals, practices, and games.
FT Treatment Process
During my initial play session with Kallik, he had played without speaking
with me, and Kanani had seen how I had responded by never requiring him to
speak. While I fully expected that Kallik would eventually talk more with his
mother than he had with me, I prepared Kanani in our next mock session how
to respond if he remained quiet, but also how to handle various limits and other
challenging situations.
We also discussed what play items might make the playroom more culturally
familiar to Kallik. I already had some items from my many trips to Alaska, such
as bears, moose, and caribou, as well as two authentic Alaska native-made yo-
yos (igruuraak, Inupiaq), sometimes called Eskimo yo-yos, that I had purchased
from the Alaska Native Hospital gift shop in Anchorage. Kanani suggested add-
ing a few more drums, some sled dogs and a sled, snow machines, a kayak, a
seal, whales, some white material that could represent snow, traditional hunting
implements, and traditional clothing items. I acquired those items and included
them in the playroom for all future sessions.
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this part of his play at home as he would likely reveal more to us in subsequent
sessions.
Indeed, that is what happened. In the next two sessions that I observed
directly, he continued this theme, although it took different forms, sometimes in
the sand tray, sometimes with puppets, and sometimes with the animal groups.
The animal groups engaged in battles with each other, and usually the “bully
animals” prevailed. Kanani’s skills grew rapidly as she reflected more of the char-
acters’ feelings, narrated the battles, and followed his play beautifully.
His play during his fifth filial play session took another turn. He pulled out
one of my conga drums and sat on the floor and tapped it. He found another
drum and asked his mother to join him. She followed his lead with the rhythms
without being asked, but it appeared that that was precisely what he had intended.
He gathered his animal groups once again and then whispered something to the
“vulnerable” group. Kanani told me later he had said they needed better ways
to protect themselves. He then moved back and forth between the animals and
playing some rhythms on the drums. Once again, he asked Kanani to join him. At
this point, he asked Kanani to keep playing the drums, and he gathered the ani-
mal group that had been bullied and moved around the playroom while he made
dancing movements with them in his hands. During the next battle, the bullied
animals scared off the bully animals by telling the drummer (Kanani) to drum
very loud and fast. The bully animals ran away in fear.
For the first time, Kallik laughed aloud. Kanani commented, “Oooh, that felt
good to see how those bullies were so afraid.” As the play continued, she had
other excellent empathic listening responses that were very accurate, such as,
“Those animals don’t have to be afraid anymore. They know they are strong! The
bullies were full of hot air.” Kanani had been very skilled throughout the session,
and she immediately noted the themes when I asked her impressions. She saw
that the threat theme had morphed into one of power and mastery over the bul-
lies. She also commented on the drumming and how Kallik had once heard some
well-known and impressive high school drummers in a program at the Alaska
Native Heritage Center in Anchorage.
We decided to hold one more play session in my presence before she would
transfer the play sessions to home. Before we headed into the sixth play session,
Kanani asked to talk with me privately. She excitedly told me that Kallik seemed
to be doing much better at school and had proudly walked away from one of the
other students who had called him names in the past. He had begun talking more
at home, seemed more relaxed, and smiled much more frequently. He had also
asked his mother if they could get some drums so that he and his cousins could
play with them together. There had been other reparative play themes besides the
ones mentioned here, but after just five filial play sessions, he had made notable
improvements at home. During the sixth session, Kallik involved his mother in
nearly everything and used the human figures to create a family in front of the
dollhouse. At the end of the session, he proudly showed his mother his skills
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with the Alaska Native–made yo-yo and then turned to me (in the corner of the
room “doing my work” as usual) and showed me his skills. Both his mother and I
reflected how proud he was of his ability to use them.
Conclusion
Filial Therapy was particularly useful with this family, in part because its val-
ues and practices were a good match with the traditional values and parenting/
family practices of this family. Empowerment of parents as change agents for
their own children coupled with empowerment of children through nondirective
play worked well in this case as both mother and son found their way in their
new home. Because FT honors and engages family members as individuals and
as partners, parent and family input about their own unique backgrounds and
cultural identity is incorporated easily into the process. One of the great strengths
of FT is that parents already have a relationship with their children; and even
though they might struggle, children and parents alike want to have a healthy,
secure attachment with each other. The therapist provides some guidance and
encouragement in learning the skills to create this, but the content of the sessions
belongs to the family members themselves. The flexibility of FT conducted with a
true partnership between therapist and family makes it possible to capitalize on
indigenous values and traditions in unique ways that empower and serve families
well.
and care in finding the moose. After he had dragged the imaginary moose across
the floor to the kitchen set, he announced, “Now we will have food for the win-
ter.” Kanani responded, “That was very hard work, but you are proud you got a
moose to feed everyone.”
Kanani and I discussed possible play themes from this, and for the first time
she asked, “He saw his father and our whole village hunting. Do you think he is
filling in for his father?” We discussed this as a possibility and decided it would
be good to monitor the development of his play themes in the next session.
The play themes seem to relate to the goals of identity and relating to his
culture, working through the loss of his father, and development of competence
and confidence through traditional skills. For Kanani, this session showed her
skill development to be at a high level as she followed this powerful play. She
also expressed how touched she was that he was finally opening up and how his
indigenous heritage was so important to him. She reported that they were talking
and playing more in general at home, and the presenting problems were lessening
as Kallik seemed to be more “himself.”
The plan is to observe two to three more play sessions to see how the play
and the relationship develop.
Resources
For Professionals
Alaska Native Tribal Health Consortium. https://www.anthc.org/what-we-do/
behavioral-health/
Children of the First People: Fresh Voices of Alaska’s Native Kids (Children of the
Midnight Sun) by Tricia Brown (2019).
Filial Therapy: Strengthening Parent-Child Relationships through Play (3rd ed.)
by Risë VanFleet (2014).
For Parents
A Parent’s Handbook of Filial Therapy: Building Strong Families with Play (3rd
ed.) by Risë VanFleet (2022).
Discussion Questions
1. What did you learn about working with indigenous people and Alaskan
natives that you did not know?
2. Which parts of Kallik’s play were particularly revealing or moving to you?
What impressed you about Kanani’s responses to Kallik?
3. How will you show cultural humility when working with indigenous people
and Alaskan natives?
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CHAPT E R 1 0
Divorced Parents
Child-Parent Relationship Therapy
with Parents of a White Child
Dalena Dillman Taylor and Caitlin Frawley
Elijah is a 7-year-old, White, cisgender boy who lives with his mother, Jessica. Eli-
jah’s father, Edward, lives nearby in a studio apartment with a new girlfriend. Elijah’s
parents, Jessica and Edward, divorced in July 2022 after a 10-year marriage. Jes-
sica reported that she and Edward divorced last year because of intense conflict
resulting from her occupation as an emergency room nurse during the COVID-19
pandemic. During the pandemic, Jessica was called to work long hours and often
needed to isolate from extended family because of her frequent COVID exposures
during this time. Edward, an auto mechanic, reported feeling lonely and isolated
from the world because of Jessica’s occupation as an emergency room nurse.
The resulting tension and constant arguments precipitated their divorce. Jessica
explained that she is seeking counseling for Elijah because of recent changes in his
behaviors at home, including frequent outbursts, rule breaking, and hitting. Also,
Elijah is having a difficult time adjusting to his new routine because of a shared
custody agreement (split week between mother’s and father’s apartments). Elijah’s
father, Edward, also wants to be involved in Elijah’s mental health treatment and is
willing to meet with the counselor as needed.
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additional information about Elijah’s history. Elijah witnessed his parents argue
and often yell at each other during their marital distress period (roughly 1½ to 2
years). However, there was no reported history of intimate partner physical vio-
lence or domestic abuse in the household. In addition, the parents reported that
there were no previous experiences of child abuse, neglect, maltreatment, or addi-
tional adverse childhood experiences. Prior to this time, Elijah had not received
mental health diagnoses, therapy/treatments, or medication. Parents indicated
that Elijah had significant levels of externalizing problems. During the past year,
he started experiencing frequent emotional outbursts that were explosive during
times of transition (e.g., routine transition, leaving one parent’s house to go to the
other parent’s home). He had hit his mother during one of his outbursts. He has
also started “testing boundaries” and pushing back on household rules through
statements such as “mom lets me do that at her house,” despite their reported
consistent parenting practices and household rules. Jessica and Edward agreed
that they sought counseling because they want to help Elijah stay safe, as well as
experience relief from his high levels of distress.
Following the intake process, we determined that Jessica and Edward were
appropriate candidates for group CPRT with other caregivers and that Elijah’s
presenting concerns (externalizing problems) and areas of distress (divorce, fam-
ily transitions) were compatible with the goals and research-evidence outcomes
associated with CPRT treatment. In the following sections, we describe Bratton,
Landreth, Kellam, and Blackard’s (2006) CPRT treatment manual process with
Jessica, Edward, and other caregivers in their group.
Treatment Objectives
1. Jessica, Edward, and Elijah will experience stronger parent-child relationships
through increased feelings of trust, empathy, and connection.
2. Jessica and Edward will learn to sensitively understand and accept Elijah’s
emotional world.
3. Jessica and Edward will use Child- Centered skills and principles during
30-minute special playtimes.
4. Elijah will experience growth in feelings of self-worth and self-esteem.
5. Elijah will experience increased adaptive coping and communication capaci-
ties and decreased emotional outbursts.
Session 1
During the initial CPRT group session, we aimed to establish a safe space for
Jessica, Edward, and the other caregivers in the group so they could share their
experiences in a comfortable and nonthreatening manner. In addition, we ori-
ented them to the CPRT group and introduced the main objectives of treatment.
We provided an overview of how children communicate their inner world and
experiences through their natural language of play. During the session, Edward
asked whether he would learn some concrete methods of disciplining his son
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Session 2
For CPRT session 2, our objective was to help the caregivers prepare to facili-
tate their first special playtime with their children. We reviewed the “Be-With”
Attitudes: I am here, I hear you, I understand, and I care (Landreth & Brat-
ton, 2020), and how parents may use and operationalize these principles during
their sessions. We discussed how parents will prepare for their special playtimes
through (1) gathering toys and materials for play sessions, (2) establishing a con-
sistent and predictable weekly time (e.g., Mondays at 3:30) for play sessions, (3)
choosing an appropriate and private setting to conduct play sessions each week.
Edward and Jessica discussed times that would work with their schedules on a
consistent and predictable basis that would also align with their shared custody
schedule. Jessica decided that she would facilitate special playtimes on Mondays
at 4:30 p.m., and Edward chose Wednesdays at 6 p.m. Jessica and Edward also
discussed shopping for toys together to maintain some consistency in materi-
als, because Elijah often feels frustrated when he is missing toys from the other
house.
Session 3
In session 3, we continued our work from the previous session with the objective
of preparing Edward, Jessica, and the other group members for their initial home
play session with their child this week. We covered the importance of structuring
the sessions and environment, allowing the child to take the lead during special
playtime, and provided a brief introduction to limit setting with concrete exam-
ples. We asked the caregivers to share their feelings and expectations related to
conducting their initial home play sessions, and Jessica and Edward shared sim-
ilar feelings of excitement and worry with other parents in the group. We asked
two caregivers to record their sessions the following week based on their previous
role plays (i.e., chose two parents who showed greatest potential for success and
openness to receiving feedback).
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Session 4
During session 4, we focused on checking in with group members about their
experiences conducting the initial special playtimes with their children. We
ensured that we had enough time to discuss their experiences, review previous
skills, and review recordings for the first time. As parents shared their experiences
during the initial home play sessions, we encouraged their efforts, validated and
normalized reactions, and reflected their feelings. Edward shared that he really
enjoyed his playtime with Elijah but asked a few questions by accident. We nor-
malized his use of questions during this initial session by emphasizing the fact
that they are learning a new language and way of being with their child. Edward
shared that Elijah invited him to play with musical instruments together, and how
he felt very connected with Elijah during this play. Jessica shared that she felt
some jealousy as Edward discussed his playtime and disappointment that Elijah
did not invite her to join in his play. Another caregiver in the group, Tom, let out
a sigh of relief, and shared, “I’m glad I’m not the only one . . . when Kate (Tom’s
wife) played with Jacob, they were doing all kinds of fun things together, and it
made me think—she should just do two sessions per week instead of me doing
one.” Jessica thanked Tom for sharing his experience, and we encouraged Jessi-
ca’s and Tom’s vulnerability in group while pointing out what they did well (e.g.,
allowing the child to take the lead, not inserting themselves into their child’s play,
using reflective responses). When it came time for selecting a participant for video
recording this week, Jessica volunteered because she desired the group’s feedback
and support.
Session 5
We facilitated session 5 with similar objectives as the previous session by pro-
viding support and encouragement as parents continue conducting play sessions.
Jessica shared her video recording of her week’s play session with Elijah, and we
worked to point out what Jessica was doing well during her session, such as her
use of reflections of feeling. After pausing the recording, we asked Jessica what
she felt most proud of during this session. Jessica shared that she was happy to
see her use of reflections and reductions in questions. Also, Jessica shared that she
felt more connected and sensitive to Elijah’s experiences during this session. She
shared that she felt happy when Elijah invited her to play with the musical instru-
ments; however, she also discussed her acceptance of Elijah when he decided he
wanted to move on and play more independently.
After reviewing tapes, we reviewed limit-setting procedures to be used during
play sessions. We demonstrated limit setting for the parents (along with other
skills) and invited the group members to practice limit setting and reflecting
together in role-plays. Edward expressed that he was unsure that this method
would work with Elijah, especially if he gets upset or distressed during the ses-
sion. We validated his worries and asked if other group members shared simi-
lar concerns about scenarios that are specific to their child. Jessica encouraged
Edward to “give it a try” and disclosed that she is similarly nervous about trying
out this new way of limit setting.
Session 6
We began session 6 by inviting informal sharing among the caregivers and dis-
cussing their experiences during this week’s play sessions with their children.
Edward shared that he needed to use limit setting during this week’s session
because Elijah desired to continue his special playtime. Edward shared that he
used the A-C-T (i.e., Acknowledge the feeling, Communicate the limit, and Target
an alternative) limit-setting approach but stumbled at first because he was avoid-
ing toys being thrown. However, Edward continued setting the limit, and even-
tually, Elijah was able to transition from the play session. Edward expressed that
he was surprised that it worked, but he wanted to “give it his best shot and stick
with it” based on Jessica’s words of encouragement during last week’s session.
After reviewing group members’ session recordings, we transitioned to discussing
age-appropriate choice-giving practices that provide children with opportunities
to make positive decisions. The parents practiced choice giving in role-play exer-
cises, and Edward volunteered to share his recording during next week’s session.
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Session 7
Session 7 began similarly to the previous week, with caregivers sharing their expe-
riences with parenting and facilitating play sessions during the week. When it
came time for the supervision component, Edward shared his recording from his
special playtime with Elijah. We noted his use of appropriate limit setting, as well
as his use of reflective responses and overall connection with Elijah throughout
the session. Edward shared, “setting the limit felt easier this time. . . . The small
success last week gave me the confidence to continue setting limits and worry less
about Elijah doing the wrong thing or not listening. . . . I trust myself more, and I
trust Elijah, too.”
After discussing others’ sessions and providing video feedback, we transi-
tioned into a discussion about self-esteem building responses that parents can use
during their play sessions. As we did with the other skills, we demonstrated self-
esteem building for the parents to observe. Next, we invited parents to get into
role-play pairs and practice self-esteem building responses with each other.
Session 8
For session 8, we continued providing space to discuss parenting experiences and
weekly play session experiences, as well as review videos. In terms of new group
material, we introduced encouraging skills and differentiated encouragement and
praise. We provided an overview of encouragement and how parents can pro-
mote their children’s self-esteem and self-direction/motivation through encourag-
ing rather than praising. Jessica and Edward both shared their tendency to praise
Elijah, and other caregivers discussed similar natural tendencies.
Session 9
During session 9, Edward and Jessica both shared that they noticed significantly
fewer outbursts during the day with Elijah. In addition, they agreed that choice
giving has been a “game changer,” and they notice that Elijah is feeling more
empowered to make positive choices with both parents. During this session, we
discussed and encouraged the use of A-C-T limit-setting practices outside of the
play sessions. Edward and Jessica agreed that this would be helpful for getting
on “the same page” and giving Elijah some extra consistency and predictability
during this time of change and transition. We further emphasized the power of
limit setting and how this approach to setting limits can promote safety within
the parent-child relationship.
Session 10
For our final CPRT session, we invited the group members to think about their
own personal experiences, growth, and challenges during the previous 9 weeks.
Jessica and Edward shared that they feel more connected to Elijah, and that they
feel more connected in their co-parenting capacities after learning these new
ways of relating with Elijah. We shared our observations of parents’ growth in
acceptance, empathy, and trust in their children during this treatment process. We
encouraged parents to continue their weekly play sessions even after the group
ended to maintain gains and their positive connection with their child.
Conclusion
Divorce can be a challenge because of the many changes that occur within a short
period. Divorce coupled with the impact of the COVID-19 pandemic created even
more challenges for Elijah, Jennifer, and Edward. Although CPRT is an evidence-
based intervention that would be a good fit, Jennifer and Edward still needed an
open mind and willingness to engage in the process together. This commitment
may not always be apparent or possible for divorced couples. We would encour-
age counselors to consider a parent’s potential for engagement in the process with
the other parent in the same group. Could divorced parents you work with, over
time, become more open to the CPRT process, or would individual parenting
work need to take place first?
In just over 10 weeks, Jennifer and Edward made significant strides toward
their goals for their relationship with Elijah and toward co-parenting. Although
at times, commitment to the 10 weeks was a struggle, they persevered and found
meaning in their special playtimes with Elijah. Both reported a strengthening in
the parent-child relationship as well as gaining tools to work together to help
Elijah during this transition. Parenting after divorce is not easy; and yet, when
parents put in time and effort in a CPRT group, parenting can be very rewarding.
These parents made the best of their situation, and Elijah benefited from their
efforts.
Sample Case Note
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Discussion Questions
1. Prior to beginning CPRT, parents need openness, commitment, and goals that
align with the CPRT program. What other considerations would be import-
ant to ponder prior to parents/caregivers starting CPRT?
2. Based on the research presented regarding divorce and the potential long-
term impact on children, what potential modifications may be needed to
CPRT for parents/caregivers who are not as likely to be on the same page as
Jennifer and Edward?
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PA RT I I
Adolescents
CHAPT E R 1 1
Depression
Cognitive Behavior Therapy and Expressive Arts Therapy
with a Chinese American Adolescent
Yu-Fen Lin and Chi-Sing Li
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Depression in Adolescents
Adolescence is a significant period of change for many young people and was
termed “a period of storm and stress” by G. Stanley Hall due to frequent conflict
with parents, mood disruptions, and risk-taking behavior (Stirrups, 2018). Typ-
ically, adolescents experience various emotions, including sadness, anxiety, and
stress. However, when these feelings persist and interfere with daily life, they may
be a sign of depression if symptoms occur for at least two weeks. Depression can
significantly impact an adolescent’s thoughts, emotions, and behavior and may
manifest in a variety of ways. Common symptoms include persistent feelings of
sadness or hopelessness, loss of interest in activities they used to enjoy, changes
in appetite or weight, difficulty sleeping or sleeping too much, fatigue or loss of
energy, difficulty concentrating or making decisions, feelings of worthlessness or
guilt, or thoughts of self-harm or suicide (American Academy of Child and Ado-
lescent Psychiatry, 2017). If five of these symptoms occur over the same 2-week
period, a diagnosis of Major Depressive Disorder may be met (American Psychi-
atric Association, 2013).
Adolescents with depression may also experience physical symptoms such as
headaches, stomachaches, or other aches and pains (American Academy of Child
and Adolescent Psychiatry, 2017). Depression in adolescents can have severe con-
sequences if left untreated. It can impact their academic performance, relation-
ships with peers and family members, and overall quality of life. In some cases,
depression can lead to behaviors of self-harm or suicide attempts.
Recent research suggested that Generation Z (Gen Z, born between 1997 and
2013) may be more inclined to depression than Generation X and Y (Parker &
Igielnik, 2020). This may be attributed to this generation’s heightened stressors
and demands, such as academic and career-related pressures, economic instability,
social isolation, and the political climate. Moreover, Gen Z is the first generation
to grow up surrounded by digital communication. They spend less time in direct
face-to-face contact with others, which is one reason why they had the highest-
ever generational reports of depression even prior to COVID-19 (Djafarova
& Bowes, 2021; Harari, Sela, & Bareket-Bojmel, 2022; Saw, Aggie, & Jeung,
2021). The growing influence of social media platforms could also be a factor in
the elevated incidences of depression among Gen Z. Studies have linked social
media use to an increased risk of cyberbullying, social isolation, and negative self-
comparisons, which can exacerbate depressive symptoms (APA, 2021; Tandoc,
Ferrucci, & Duffy, 2015). Recently, the US Surgeon General (2023) warned about
the negative impact of social media on adolescents’ mental health as follows:
• Social media may perpetuate body dissatisfaction, disordered eating behav-
iors, social comparison, and low self-esteem, especially among adolescent
girls.
• When asked about the impact of social media on their body image: 46% of
adolescents ages 13–17 said social media makes them feel worse.
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(Tompkins, 2018). On the other hand, Expressive Arts Therapy uses creative
processes such as art, music, dance, and drama to help individuals explore and
express their emotions in a nonverbal and creative way. This can provide an out-
let for emotions that may be difficult to express in words. It can also help adoles-
cents develop a sense of self-awareness and self-expression (Mealer, Cutcliffe, &
Gish, 2017).
When used together, CBT and Expressive Arts Therapy can provide a holistic
approach to treating depression in adolescents (Mavroveli & Papacharalambous,
2018). Expressive arts therapy can help adolescents become more aware of their
emotions and their physical sensations. This increased awareness can comple-
ment the cognitive strategies learned in CBT and help them develop greater self-
awareness and emotional regulation skills. Empirical evidence has demonstrated
the efficacy of Expressive Arts Therapy in reducing depressive symptoms and
improving overall mental health in this population. For instance, Timulak and
Connelly (2012) reported that Expressive Arts Therapy was effective in reducing
depression and enhancing self-esteem among adolescents who were experiencing
emotional difficulties. In addition, adolescents with depression may struggle with
low self-esteem and confidence. Expressive Arts Therapy can provide them with
a sense of accomplishment and mastery, which can boost their self-esteem and
confidence (Kaimal, Carroll-Haskins, & Mensinger, 2016).
Expressive Arts Therapy (Malchiodi, 2005) has emerged as a potentially
effective intervention for treating depression in adolescents. By incorporating cre-
ative arts such as music, dance, drama, and visual arts, this therapeutic approach
offers a nonverbal outlet for adolescents to express themselves and process their
emotions. The effectiveness of Expressive Arts Therapy can be attributed to sev-
eral factors (Timulak & Connelly, 2012). First, the nonverbal nature of creative
arts can enable adolescents to communicate their feelings in a way that may feel
less intimidating than traditional talk therapy. Second, engaging in expressive arts
can promote a sense of accomplishment and empowerment, enhancing motiva-
tion to continue treatment and work toward recovery. Finally, the sense of own-
ership that adolescents may experience over the creative process in Expressive
Arts Therapy can provide a source of control and self-determination.
In conclusion, Expressive Arts Therapy offers a safe and supportive envi-
ronment for adolescents to express themselves and process their emotions. Inte-
grating this with CBT can improve mental health and well-being in adolescents.
However, further research is needed to better understand the mechanisms under-
lying Expressive Arts Therapy’s therapeutic effects and identify the specific fac-
tors contributing to its effectiveness.
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Session 1
My (first author’s) counseling goals for the first session with Jade were to inform
her about the counseling process, develop rapport, and establish a therapeutic
alliance through compassionate listening, validation, and empathy. Being aware
of Jade’s Asian family background and culture, I tried to create a safe and trust-
ing environment so that she felt comfortable in counseling. I also allowed Jade to
take her time to open up and share herself, as she had not used counseling ser-
vices before. During our telehealth counseling session, Jade was initially unwill-
ing to show herself through the camera. Hence, I invited her to share with me a
piece of music that could represent her experience, and she did. I tuned in to her
emotions by reflecting on the sadness of the music she selected. Later, she felt
more comfortable and could share more about her anxiety and depression. Since
the COVID-19 pandemic, Jade indicated that she experienced multiple symptoms
of depression, such as sadness, irritability, crying spells, lack of concentration,
loss of appetite, and insomnia. Music seemed to be a channel for Jade to express
herself and her experience. At the end of the first session, I presented a simple
breathing exercise for her to practice, which seemed to help when she felt nega-
tive emotions.
I did not immediately set goals with Jade but gave space and time for the
process of relationship building. My immediate goal was for her to feel totally
at ease, reduce her defensiveness, and gradually trust the therapeutic process. In
addition, the breathing technique assisted her in gaining some level of control
and regulation of her emotions.
Sessions 2 and 3
My goals for the second and third sessions were to continue encouraging Jade to
express her experience, thoughts, and emotions freely and strengthen our thera-
peutic alliance. Through deep listening and unconditional positive regard toward
her, I could assess her depression, loneliness, and sadness during the pandemic.
Jade also enjoyed painting with watercolors, which is a traditional and esteemed
Chinese art form, so part of the session was to discuss her painting and let her tell
her story. Through expressive arts and music, Jade found the medium to express
herself and gained more awareness of her thoughts, emotions, and behaviors.
During our third therapy session, some of Jade’s cognitive distortions, which
connected to her depression, were identified. Jade tended to see only the worst
possible result of any situation and overgeneralize the outcome. For example,
Jade saw her parents watching TV and enjoying each other (event); she jumped
to a conclusion that “they don’t care about me or need me” (cognitive distor-
tion); she felt neglected, left out, and unloved (emotional consequence); and she
locked herself in her room for 24 hours (behavioral consequence). Another exam-
ple is that Jade did not receive many texts from her friends in school (event);
she thought “all my friends hate me because I’m Chinese” (cognitive distortion);
she felt abandoned (emotional consequence); and she deleted phone numbers of
several friends (behavioral consequence). Based on these two experiences, Jade’s
thoughts exhibited the cognitive triad of depression that she was unlovable, her
world was falling apart, and there was no hope for her future. I offered Jade psy-
choeducation on the cognitive triangle; helped her understand that her thoughts,
emotions, and behaviors affected one another; and helped her develop balanced
thoughts of “my parents need time together, and they do spend time with me
daily” as well as “my friends may also be feeling depressed or awkward, and I
have a choice to reach out to them.”
Later Sessions
Because the third counseling session was a turning point for Jade, I continued
to encourage her to express herself through her water painting. I continued to
explain expressive arts and CBT strategies to her. As a result, she began making
connections between her depression and her lack of communication with fam-
ily and friends. With psychoeducation, she understood her cognitive distortions,
which impacted and deepened her depression. By using CBT strategies, I was able
to help strengthen her cognitive ability so that she could examine her thought
process and ultimately dispute her negative and distorted thoughts. The mindful-
ness techniques helped her regulate her emotions and lower her stress level. As a
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result, Jade was willing to practice more effective communication skills with her
parents and friends to express her needs.
Parent Consultations
Parent consultations in the context of Asian Americans play a significant part in
the success of therapy. The problem presented by the individual client is more
appropriately viewed as a family challenge in a collectivistic and systemic con-
text. Because the parents play a vital role in assessing and treating the problem,
regular parent consultations with the client’s consensus would be helpful. The
counselor needs to communicate with parents in a culturally responsive way and
view parents as a reliable resource for the adolescent client while protecting the
privacy of the adolescent within confidential limits.
Conclusion
Jade made incredible progress by participating in CBT and Expressive Arts Ther-
apy. After several sessions, Jade could express her inner world and gain insight
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and significant awareness of herself and her depression through Expressive Arts
Therapy. In addition, she identified her cognitive distortions and replaced her
negative and self-defeating thoughts with more positive and reasonable thoughts
through Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. As her counselor, I learned that although
many Asian parents may hold biases toward counseling, many are willing to step
out of their comfort zone to access counseling to support their children, especially
in times of crisis. In addition, the fundamental therapeutic skills of empathy, con-
gruence, and nonjudgmental acceptance aided in building an effective therapeutic
alliance with Asian clients. Most importantly, I learned to be mindful of the cul-
tural background and the impact of the family system when working with Asian
clients. Integrating Expressive Arts and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy helped cre-
ate a successful outcome for Jade and her family.
Session 3
Subjective: The client expressed her perception of her relationships with her par-
ents and friends through water painting. In the painting, she positioned herself in
the dark corner of her room, crying while her parents watched TV in the living
room and her friends played happily in the playground. The client stated that she
felt isolated, abandoned, and unloved. When asked whether her parents cared for
and loved her often, the client admitted they did but said they should have played
with her instead of watching TV. She blamed her friends for not inviting her to
their gathering. However, the client did not express her needs to her parents or
friends.
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Objective: The client initially had low energy but was willing to turn on the
camera to have eye contact with the counselor. While showing the watercolor
painting of her family and friends, the client got teary and expressed some sad
emotions. The client was able to articulate more negative emotions through her
painting activity.
Assessment: The client seemed to have difficulty communicating her needs with
her parents and friends. Her depressive symptoms were associated with her cog-
nitive distortions that her parents and friends did not love and care about her as
they did not play with her. The drawing activity helped the client to recognize her
internal processing.
Plan: Introduce the cognitive triangle and educate the client on relationships
among emotions, behavior, and cognition. Encourage the client to communicate
her needs.
Resources
For Professionals
American Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry AAPI Resource Library,
https://www.aacap.org/AACAP/Families_and_Youth/Resource_Libraries/
AAPI_Resources.aspx
American Art Therapy Association, https://arttherapy.org/
International Expressive Arts Therapy Association, https://www.ieata.org
National Asian American Pacific Islander Mental Health Association, https://
www.naapimha.org/
National Coalition of Creative Arts Therapies Associations, https://www.nccata
.org/
Discussion Questions
1. What issues should a therapist pay attention to when working with an Asian
client, particularly after the COVID-19 pandemic?
2. As a therapist, what knowledge and understanding of the Generation Z pop-
ulation could help to build a therapeutic alliance with a Generation Z client?
3. What would be a culturally responsive way to explain Jade’s depression, CBT,
and Expressive Arts Therapy to her parents?
4. In what situation would you consider family therapy with the adolescent and
her parents?
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CHAPT E R 1 2
Social Anxiety
Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Behavior Therapy
with a Pakistani American Adolescent
Yu-Fen Lin and Samuel Bore
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Social Anxiety
From a developmental perspective, social anxiety is a common mental health
issue affecting many adolescents who worry about being judged or evaluated
by others. Adolescents can experience excessive fear and self-consciousness in
social situations, leading to avoidance and isolation. Adolescents with social anx-
iety may avoid social situations or struggle to interact with others. The DSM-5
defines social anxiety disorder (SAD) as a persistent and intense fear of social
conditions in which others may negatively evaluate the individual (American
Psychiatric Association, 2013). Adolescents with social anxiety may struggle to
identify and understand their emotions. Social anxiety in adolescents has been
linked to psychological inflexibility (Figueiredo, Alves, & Vagos, 2023), perfec-
tionism (Wang et al., 2022), social media (Barry, 2022), racial/ethnic teasing and
discrimination (Douglass, Mirpuri, English, & Yip, 2016), and parents’ exposure
to trauma (Cho, Woods-Jaeger, & Borelli, 2021). Individuals experiencing social
anxiety need to seek support and treatment from mental health professionals,
which can significantly improve their quality of life.
Case Application
Based on the information about Pakistani American Muslim adolescents, social
anxiety, and MB-CBT treatment approaches, we can now apply them to Jasmin.
Her desire for self-expression and assimilation with her peers is typical for teen-
agers. According to Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Jasmin presents with
social anxiety symptoms due to a combination of genetic, personality, and envi-
ronmental factors. Specifically, her social anxiety is exacerbated by an Islamopho-
bic environment; acculturation stress of wanting to be accepted and blend in;
social media; psychological inflexibility; genetic predisposition; and her parents’
exposure to September 11 trauma and discrimination. Currently, Jasmin’s Mus-
lim identity and school experiences play a role in her desire for self-expression,
which conflicts with her parents’ expectations.
Triggers to Jasmin’s social anxiety include her peers’ influence to wear
makeup, which leads to her self-consciousness and anxiety when not wearing
it. Jasmin’s conflicts with her parents over makeup and self-expression have
created a stressful family environment, leading to anxiety and unhappiness.
Jasmin’s avoidance of going out without makeup increases her anxiety and
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Session 1
The goal for the first session with Jasmin was to develop a relationship, com-
plete an assessment, explain the MB-CBT approach, and introduce some cop-
ing skills to help her begin to feel less anxious without fighting her anxiety but
rather learning to ride the anxiety wave. Before the session started, I (first author)
ensured that her parents had signed the parental consent in the file. After intro-
ductions, I obtained informed assent from Jasmin and discussed limits to confi-
dentiality. This was followed by assessing Jasmin’s mental health and well-being
by evaluating her emotional, behavioral, and cognitive functioning; recognizing
her strengths and weaknesses; and identifying any underlying issues contributing
to her current difficulties.
To identify Jasmin’s level of anxiety, I administered the Reynolds Children’s
Manifest Anxiety Scale, 2nd edition (RCMAS-2) (Reynolds & Richmond, 2008).
RCMAS-2, a brief self-report inventory, is used to identify the nature and level of
anxiety in children from 6 to 19 years. T-scores below 39, from 40 to 60, from 61
to 70, or greater than 71 are categorized as less problematic, no more problem-
atic, moderately problematic, and highly problematic, respectively. Jasmin pre-
sented with moderately problematic anxiety with a score of 75 on the RCMAS-2
scale.
At the end of the first session, I asked Jasmin what she wanted to accomplish
in therapy. Jasmin and I agreed on the following goal and objectives:
Treatment Goal: Jasmin would manage her anxiety, improve her self- esteem,
develop practical communication skills, and develop a sense of self-acceptance.
Treatment Objectives:
1. Decrease anxiety by practicing mindfulness techniques to regulate emotions.
2. Confront fears related to going out without makeup.
3. Increase self-awareness and acceptance of thoughts and emotions.
4. Challenge and reframe negative thoughts and beliefs about herself and her
appearance.
After assessing Jasmin’s needs, I created a treatment plan with interventions
and techniques. My treatment strategies were to introduce MB-CBT methods
such as breathing, cognitive restructuring, and exposure therapy to help Jasmin
manage her anxiety, challenge negative thoughts, and feel more comfortable with-
out makeup over time.
TABLE 12.1. JASMIN: SESSION 1
Transcript Analysis
T: “Hi, Jasmin. It’s nice to meet you. How are you Introduction and rapport building.
feeling today?”
J: “Hi, I’m feeling a bit nervous but also hopeful.” Clients, especially adolescents, often feel
nervous and awkward in the first counseling
session.
T: “That’s understandable. I’m glad you’re here. Can Supporting the client and assuring her
you tell me a bit more about what has been going on experience is common.
for you?”
J: “Yeah, it’s been tough. I go to school early Encouraging the client to express herself and
every day just to put on makeup, and I feel really tell her story.
uncomfortable when I’m not wearing it. I also feel
really lonely and isolated at school, even though I
have a few friends.”
T: “Your loneliness and uncomfortableness sound Paraphrasing and reflecting on the client’s
painful. I can imagine how difficult that would be.” feelings for understanding and empathy.
J: [Nodding, appears emotional] The client experiences empathy from accurate
reflection of feelings and is emotional.
T: “Mmm.” [Silence] Minimal encouragement and therapeutic
silence.
T: “I have some ideas on how to help. Have you Instilling hope. Introducing the mindfulness
heard of mindfulness before?” approach.
J: “No, not really.”
T: “Well, mindfulness is a way of paying Explaining the mindfulness approach in simple
attention to the present moment, without and age-appropriate language.
judgment or distraction. It can help with
anxiety and stress, and can also help you
feel more connected to yourself and others.”
J: “Sounds interesting.” Indicates openness to process.
T: “And have you heard about Cognitive Introducing the CBT approach.
Behavior Therapy, or CBT before?”
J: “No.”
T: “Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is a Explaining the CBT approach in simple and
therapeutic approach that focuses on the connection developmental-level language.
between our thoughts, emotions, beliefs, and
behavior. Our perceptions and interpretations
of events are more significant than the events
themselves in determining how we feel and behave.”
J: “That is more interesting . . .” The client appears fascinated by the
explanation of CBT.
J: “I am not sure . . . but maybe paying attention to
the present moment and what I am thinking about?”
T: “You got that right; you pay attention.” I am encouraging the client and continuing to
build rapport.
J: [Smiles . . . appears proud of her achievement] Noticing the client’s nonverbals.
T: “You are proud you got it right. Let’s start with Validating the client by reflecting on feelings.
some deep breathing exercises today. I’ll guide you Introducing the client to the MB-CBT approach
through it. Take a deep breath in through your nose and guiding her through techniques.
and hold it for a few seconds, then slowly exhale
through your mouth. Please
do that a few more times as you pay attention to
your breath.”
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Session 2
The goal for the second session was to work with Jasmin to master and practice
breathing exercises.
Session 3
In the third session, I introduced the cognitive activity of identifying and challeng-
ing negative thoughts and beliefs. In addition, I encouraged Jasmin to be aware of
body sensations when experiencing anxiety.
During the next sessions, I assisted Jasmin in honing her awareness of her
bodily sensations and expressing them to me. We also worked on new meth-
ods, such as exposure therapy, to help her feel more comfortable with her nat-
ural appearance without makeup. I also motivated Jasmin to challenge herself
by going out without makeup more often and to acknowledge and reward her
successes.
TABLE 12.3. JASMIN: SESSION 3
Transcript Analysis
T: “How are you today, and how was last week?” Checking in with the client.
J: “Things have been good and better.” Client’s update
T: “Oh, tell me how the week was good and better.” Giving the client an opportunity to expand on
her experience
J: “The mindful exercises have been helpful, and it’s Client progress details
easy to perform them.”
T: “You are pleased that you are mastering the Reflection of feelings. Validation of client’s
breathing technique and happy it is helpful.” efforts.
J: “Yes, but I am still struggling with feeling anxious The client opens up about her struggles; an
and self-conscious.” indication of a good rapport and trust between
the client and therapist.
T: “I am glad they are helping. You feel a little Reflection of feelings. Validation that her
discouraged in still feeling anxious and self- struggle is common. Encouragement for the
conscious. This is typical to see some progress client to go deeper.
and want more relief. I can help with that. Which is
occurring more?”
J: “I think the anxiety is less and the self- Demonstrates self-awareness and understands
consciousness is more.” the difference between the two.
T: “I am glad you have been paying attention to your Paraphrasing and praising the client for effort
physical sensations, noticing that your anxiety is less. and introducing a new technique
That was one of the techniques we worked on last
week. How about we work on a cognitive technique
today?”
J: “Okay, sure.”
T: “This technique will help you identify the Explaining the nature of the technique before
connection between thoughts, feelings, and introduction
behavior. Then we develop a balanced thought.”
J: “Okay.”
T: “Here we go. Just like the last exercise we Technique details and practice
practiced; I would like you to be as comfortable as
you can . . . please think of a situation where you feel
self-conscious . . . like when you’re at school without
makeup. What thoughts come to mind?
J: “All the other students are thinking ‘look at that Because of the therapeutic rapport, she was
ugly girl. Muslims are so weird and never will fit in.’” honest about her thoughts.
T: “Sounds like an all-or-nothing thought. When you Identify the type of cognitive distortion;
think that, how do you feel and then how do you introduce the cognitive triangle by drawing a
behave?” diagram of thoughts leading to feelings and
then behavior
J: “I feel self-conscious, lower my eyes so I am only She connects the cognitive triangle.
looking at the ground, and avoid talking to anyone.”
T: “If you change the thought to something more Many adolescents need initial guidance when
balanced like ‘I am friendly, smart, kind, and have developing a balanced thought. Later, I will
pretty eyes and a warm smile even when I don’t help her challenge the cognitive distortion by
wear makeup’ then how would you feel and behave? examining the evidence and then prompt her to
More self-conscious or less? More withdrawn or develop her own balanced thoughts.
less?”
(continued)
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remarks were made. In addition, I addressed the teacher’s concerns and questions
about her behavior and academic performance. On Jasmin’s teacher’s recommen-
dation, we referred Jasmin to the school’s Student Support Team (SST) for addi-
tional support and mentoring.
I also met Jasmin’s parents and educated them about the benefits of MB-CBT
and how it could help them manage anxiety and healthily express themselves. As
I did for Jasmin, I assured Jasmin’s parents of my respect for their cultural and
religious values. To help them understand her treatment process, I explained the
rationale behind the treatment approach and goals and addressed their concerns
or questions. I addressed scheduling arrangements and transportation to ensure
that Jasmin attended her counseling sessions. In addition, I provided Jasmin’s
parents with a list of parent training community resources.
Conclusion
After implementing MB-CBT, Jasmin made significant progress in her treatment.
At the termination of counseling, she could apply MB-CBT techniques to identify
and challenge her negative thoughts and beliefs regarding her appearance and
interaction with her parents and friends.
Jasmin developed new coping strategies and self-acceptance and reported
being more confident and less self-conscious about her appearance. Her rela-
tionship and communication with her parents improved. Not only did Jasmin
become more autonomous, but she also expressed herself better while respecting
the divergent views of her parents. I was sensitive in considering cultural and
ethical issues concerning Jasmin and her parents as Pakistani Americans and their
Muslim faith. I also facilitated parent and teacher consultations to ensure that
Jasmin received appropriate support and understanding at home and school.
Overall, the MB- CBT approach has been effective in helping Jasmin to
improve her well-being and relationships and to achieve a greater sense of self-
awareness and acceptance. As a therapist, I was mindful of cultural and ethical
considerations and tailored the therapy to meet Jasmin’s specific needs.
Session 1
Subjective: Jasmin expressed concern about her appearance and interest in wear-
ing makeup. In addition, she reported feeling very anxious about her parents.
Objective: Initially, Jasmin appeared sad and anxious during the session. Her
body language was closed off and tense, and she spoke softly and avoided eye
contact. However, Jasmin seemed a bit relaxed after the breathing exercise.
Assessment: Jasmin is experiencing value conflicts and communication problems
with her parents, contributing to anxiety, social isolation, and low self-esteem.
Her fear of judgment and rejection is consistent with a diagnosis of social anxiety
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disorder. The pressure to conform to her parents’ beliefs and values exacerbates
her symptoms. Her grades have started slipping; she has missed several school
days due to anxiety and stress.
Plan: Mindfulness-based cognitive therapy will provide Jasmin with skills to man-
age her anxiety and increase her self-acceptance. She will learn to challenge her
negative thoughts about her appearance and develop a more positive self-image.
Resources
For Clients
Butterfly hug, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGGJrqscvtU&t=34s
Creating a mindfulness anxiety plan, https://positive.b-cdn.net/wp-content/uploads/
2021/12/Creating-a-Mindfulness-Anxiety-Plan.pdf
Guided box breathing, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zq07gbFLCAs&t=148s
For Therapists
Body Scan Meditation guided meditation led by Kabat Zinn, https://www.you
tube.com/watch?v=u4gZgnCy5ew
Discussion Questions
1. What attention should a mindfulness-based CBT counselor focus on when
working with adolescents dealing with social anxiety?
2. What developmental issues are worth considering in relation to adolescents’
social anxiety?
3. Describe some social justice advocacy strategies that counselors could use
with Muslim clients.
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David is a very intelligent 16-year-old White male who lives with his mother, Debra,
and 12-year-old sister, Suzie. David’s father, Ed, lives in a nearby apartment with
his new girlfriend. During the intake session, Debra said she has been divorced
for 1 year. She stated that the divorce was because Ed had become a radical
who joined an extremist political group. Yet, she knows that Ed tells people the
divorce was because she is a “crazy b—” who misunderstood him. Debra tear-
fully explained that she is seeking counseling for David because of his depression,
isolation from friends, and extreme disrespect as well as outbursts toward his
father. Ed does pay child support, so he insists on seeing David according to the
standard custody agreement despite David’s resistance. Ed does not believe in
counseling, so he refused to participate in the intake session.
Impact of Divorce
Although the United States divorce rate has declined from 944,000 in 2000 to
689,308 in 2021 (Centers for Disease Control, 2022), still 30% of 12- to 17-year-
olds do not live with both parents (Anderson, Hemez, & Kreider, 2022). The
impact of divorce on adolescents is multifold. Harold and Sellers’s (2018) review
found interparental conflict such as divorce can result in adolescents’ (a) sleep
problems of getting to sleep and staying asleep; (b) externalizing symptoms of
aggression, conduct problems, and antisocial behavior; (c) internalizing problems
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Hwan, 2022). Violent domestic extremist groups in the United States can be cat-
egorized into four ideologies of violent far-right, violent far-left, religious, and
ethnonationalists (Doxsee et al., 2022). Violent far-right groups have extremist
ideology such as racial or ethnic supremacy, opposition to government author-
ity, hatred based on sexuality or gender identity, or conspiracy theories that do
not correspond to mainstream political parties in the United States. Violent far-
left groups have extremist ideology such as opposition to capitalism, support for
environmental causes or animal rights, pro-communist, or support for anarchism.
Extreme religious terrorist groups are motivated by a faith-based belief system,
such as Christianity, Hinduism, Islam, Judaism, or other faiths. Ethnonationalists
are motivated by racial, ethnic, or nationalist goals. In each of these groups, vio-
lence is most often perpetrated by a single individual or a small network rather
than a larger group.
Extremist groups’ rhetoric is readily accessible on the internet, where ado-
lescents tend to spend hours of time (Rousseau & Hassan, 2019). The danger
for adolescents is that they are still developing their cognitive ability for discern-
ing facts versus opinions, moral judgment, ideology, and identity (Wong, Hall, &
Wong Hernandez, 2020). Not all adolescents reach formal operations with the
ability to consider various perspectives, systematically test hypotheses, or show
hypothetico-deductive reasoning. This makes some adolescents prone to hold ide-
alistic beliefs without considering complexities of problems or contradictions of
values. Adolescents can be psychologically vulnerable to extremist groups if they
have preexisting mental illness, traumatic experiences, socialization problems,
experiences with discrimination, or delinquency (Harpviken, 2020).
In contrast, some adolescents have developed formal operations with the abil-
ity to understand why others have certain perspectives, so they are less prone to
be swayed by rhetoric of extremist groups. However, typically adolescents have
not reached post- formal operations with the ability to understand relativism
(e.g., knowing perspectives of truth are based on culture or historical context
and are not absolute) (Wong et al., 2022). Therefore, adolescents may understand
a different perspective but are insistent that their truth is the right way without
the cognitive ability to navigate complexities while maintaining emotional regu-
lation, which results in cognitive distortions, condemnation of others, and emo-
tional cutoff.
Based on this information, because David is very intelligent, he seems to be
the latter type of adolescent who has developed formal operations but not post-
formal operations. David may understand that his father’s extremist group holds
ideas that are dangerous and against David’s values. However, David’s extreme
anger and emotional cutoff from his father seem to indicate that David has his
own cognitive distortions and needs help navigating cognitive complexities while
maintaining emotional regulation.
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Treatment Approach
Given David’s developmental level, he will benefit from both Cognitive Behavior
Therapy (Beck & Weishaar, 2018) and Expressive Arts (Rubin, 2011) for several
reasons. First, David has the developmental capacity to analyze his thoughts and
develop balanced thinking. Second, his depression and withdrawn stance require
a nonverbal engagement to activate his experiences in a nonthreatening manner
through expressive arts. Third, he needs coping strategies and conflict manage-
ment skills to use during interactions with his father.
Expressive Arts
Expressive arts such as drawing, painting, collages, clay creations, sand tray,
music, dance, or drama can promote healing in clients when a therapist guides
clients in thoughtful reflection on the process (Malchiodi, 2005; Rubin, 2011).
Through expressive arts, adolescents can authentically and effectively express
their experiences, perceptions, feelings, and desires without the limits of words
(Malchiodi, 2005). D. W. Winnicott was credited with saying “it is only in being
creative that the individual discovers the self.” This deeper understanding of self
can promote self- acceptance, which can improve interpersonal relationships.
Recent research shows expressive arts with adolescents helped decrease their
stress and anxiety (Lindsey, Robertson, & Lindsey, 2018), increase empathy
(Gujing et al., 2019), and increase social competence (Forrest-Bank, Nicotera,
Bassett, & Ferrarone, 2016).
Numerous expressive art strategies may be helpful to David. In the first ses-
sion, I will begin with a sand tray mindfulness activity, asking David to describe
how the sand feels and looks without judgment of good or bad but rather curios-
ity and attentiveness. This practice lays a foundation for him to use this mindful-
ness skill with people. Then I will ask David to select miniatures to represent each
member of his family followed by reflective processing (Homeyer & Sweeney,
2022). This activity helps me identify his perceptions and possibly negative cogni-
tions toward family members.
In a subsequent session, I will ask David to use markers or oil pastels to draw
a safe place as a visual reminder that he can self-soothe by visualizing his safe
place (Guzman, 2020). I will ask David to select a current song that represents
himself now and a song that represents his hopes. This activity can help pro-
vide him motivation for the difficult work in therapy. The color-your-life activity
(O’Connor, Schaefer, & Braverman, 2015), representing prominent emotions with
different colors in an outline of a person (Drewes, 2001), will help David express
contrasting emotions he experienced before and after his parents’ divorce. I will
ask David to create collages of himself and his parents by finding pictures on his
phone and online that represent them as a method to help David appreciate their
unique characteristics and complexities.
To increase David’s sense of power, I will ask him to complete several other
art activities such as power affirmation (e.g., writing an affirmation using block
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letters); strength shield (e.g., drawing a shield and writing his strengths in it);
power and protection symbols molded from clay; building boundaries, not walls
(e.g., gluing paper around a drawing of self); and bridge drawing of where he
wants to go in his relationship with his dad and the obstacles he will have to
overcome (Guzman, 2020).
Treatment Goals
My overall treatment goals for David are to decrease his depressive symptoms
and increase healthy coping and communication strategies. My treatment objec-
tives for David are:
1. verbally or artistically expressing his experiences, perceptions, feelings, and
desires with eventual emotional regulation by the end of each session;
2. consistent monitoring of automatic thoughts and either replacing with reality-
oriented balanced thoughts or committing to value-oriented actions at least
once a session;
3. developing a healthy understanding of his parents’ divorce as evidenced by
believing that it was not his fault and respecting parents’ freedom of choice;
and
4. demonstrating healthy and effective coping and communication strategies at
least once per session.
To accomplish these treatment goals and objectives, I will use the expressive art
activities and CBT treatment strategies described above.
Initial Sessions
With this deeper understanding of divorce, political extremist groups, and treat-
ment approaches, we can now apply them to David. My goals for the first session
were to develop rapport, assess David’s working diagnosis, identify David’s treat-
ment goals, facilitate his expression, and provide some beginning coping skills.
I prepared by setting out the sand tray and hundreds of miniature items orga-
nized into categories (e.g., people, domestic animals, wild animals, cartoon char-
acters, household items, nature, spiritual items, death and scary items, etc.). After
introducing myself, obtaining informed assent including limits of confidentiality, I
invited David to use the sand tray.
After the sand tray, I asked what he would like to accomplish in our counseling
together. We agreed on the treatment goals listed above. I also gave David at least
two practical coping strategies for some symptom relief. I explained and demon-
strated deep breathing to calm his body and the 5-4-3-2-1 grounding activity (e.g., 5
things he can see; 4 things he can touch; 3 things he can hear; 2 things he can smell;
and 1 thing he can taste) to calm his mind. See Session 1 transcript for a summary.
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For the second session, I asked David to use markers or oil pastels to draw
a safe space and helped him internalize the safe space through deep breathing,
mindfulness, and visualization. Then I explained the cognitive triangle. Afterward,
I used dominos to help him understand the connection between triggers such as
his dad’s voice, his physiological responses of tense muscles, thoughts, feelings,
and behaviors. Finally, I guided David in progressive muscle relaxation. During
the third session, we discussed categories of thinking errors such as all or noth-
ing, overgeneralization, personalization, and catastrophizing. To help David apply
this, I used an expressive arts technique of searching social media for examples of
thinking errors. He was quite enthusiastic about this and found a video of a young
child crying because he did not get to eat all the candy to illustrate all-or-nothing
thinking. He also found a video of a “Karen” (i.e., an entitled woman loudly com-
plaining about not getting what she ordered) to illustrate catastrophizing.
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Middle Sessions
During session 4, David’s anger toward his father became intense again.
To reinforce the concept of psychological boundaries, I guide David in the
expressive art activity of “building boundaries, not walls” (Guzman, 2020).
Throughout the rest of the sessions, I integrate DBT and ACT skills with expres-
sive arts activities.
Parent Consultations
Given these ethical issues, it was crucial for me to have regular parent consulta-
tions with David’s mom and document due diligence in my communication with
his dad. At the end of each session, I gave his mother a brief overview of skills
that I had taught David such as deep breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, “I”
statements, and psychological boundaries. As I described the skill to the mother, it
not only reinforced the skill for David but also taught his mother to use the skills
as well. I coached his mother to not demand that David use the skill but rather
encourage him to use it by role-modeling the skill for him. I found that focusing
parent debriefs on skills learned in session satisfies parents’ curiosity about the
session and gives them a sense of relief and empowerment. If the father requested
information about the sessions, I would focus on skills I had taught David.
In divorce cases, it is common for parents to complain about and disparage
the other parent. I manage this by reflecting feelings and perceptions. “You are
incredibly angry that his father said that, and you are worried that your son will
believe it. I will work on helping your son examine evidence about what is true
and what is not. I will help him learn strategies to set boundaries.” Sometimes
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volatile parents will not respond well to children using skills such as “I” state-
ments, so I asked David, “What do you think will happen if you tried this with
your dad?” David was up front by saying, “I can try it with mom but not with
dad, because he will punish me.” In this case, I coach David either to not use
the skill or modify it in some way. During a parent consultation with his dad, I
reframed the skill as important for David to use with peers and asked him to be
gentle and encouraging when David practices it at home.
Conclusion
David made remarkable progress in understanding that his parents’ divorce and
his father’s behavior were not his responsibility to “fix.” He was able to change
automatic negative thoughts into balanced thoughts such as “I prefer that my dad
would not believe these things, and I am only in control of staying committed to
my own values.” David experienced empowerment in setting psychological bound-
aries with both his mother and father through calming himself and communicat-
ing his desires. As a therapist, I learned that David was a resilient adolescent with
a bright future in managing his own relationships and being committed to creating
a just society.
Session 1
Subjective: Client expressed his perception of family members in the sand tray by
illustrating his mother as a “trapped princess,” his sister as “an annoying yappy
dog,” his father as “an angry ape,” and himself as “a loyal big dog trying to pro-
tect the princess from the ape.” Client stated, “I’m not depressed, I’m just pissed
and embarrassed of my dad. I just want to chill in my room with video games
most of the day.”
Objective: Initially, client’s posture was slumped over, his speech lacked energy,
and his eye contact was minimal. During the sand tray, his speech gained more
energy, and he increased eye contact with counselor. After counselor explained
and demonstrated coping strategies of deep breathing and 5-4-3-2-1 mindfulness
activity, client’s body was more relaxed.
Assessment: From a Cognitive Behavior Therapy perspective, David appears to be
experiencing depressive symptoms due to thinking errors about himself, his fam-
ily, and his future. Expressive arts appear to motivate him to express his thoughts
and feelings.
Plan: Counselor will provide expressive arts activity of drawing safe place and
introduce concept of the cognitive triangle.
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Session 4
Subjective: Client expressed intense anger at his father for a gesture that came
across as racist. Client stated that he felt embarrassed by it and was concerned
others would view him as racist. Client was able to identify evidence that oth-
ers would not necessarily assume he was racist. Client described strategies of “I”
statements and respectful assertiveness to help establish psychological boundaries.
Objective: At the beginning of the session, client’s voice tone, facial muscles, and
arms were tense, indicating anger. After discussing psychological boundaries and
expressive art activity of “building boundaries, not walls,” client’s body and face
were more relaxed.
Assessment: From a CBT perspective, client had a thinking error of personaliza-
tion and thought fusion that his father’s beliefs were imbedded in him. However,
examining evidence, thought defusion, coping strategies, and communication
strategies helped David decrease his anger and gain confidence in developing psy-
chological boundaries while still maintaining a respectful relationship with his
dad.
Plan: Explain distress tolerance of radical acceptance and interpersonal effective-
ness of DEAR MAN (a DBT acronym for Describe, Express, Assert, Reinforce,
Mindful, Appear, Negotiate). Expressive arts activity of online collages of himself
and his parents.
Resources
For Professionals
CBT Toolbox for Children & Adolescents by Lisa Weed Phifer, Amanda K.
Crowder, Tracy Elsenraat, & Robert Hull (2020).
Creative Interventions for Children of Divorce by Linda Lowenstein (2006).
Essential Art Therapy Exercises: Effective Techniques to Manage Anxiety, Depres-
sion, and PTSD by Leah Guzman, ATR-BC (2020).
For Adolescents
CBT Workbook for Teens by David Lawson (2021).
Stuff That Sucks: A Teen Guide to Accepting What You Can’t Change and Com-
mitting to What You Can by Ben Sedley (2017).
Suffer Love by Ashley Herring Black (2016).
For Parents
General Guidelines for Parents to Talk to Children about Mental Health, https://
www.mentalhealth.gov/talk/parents-caregivers
How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk by Adele Faber
& Elaine Mazlish (2006).
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Parenting after Divorce: Resolving Conflicts and Meeting Your Children’s Needs
by Philip Stahl (2007).
Discussion Questions
1. What were some of David’s unique experiences and needs from the overlap of
divorce and his father’s political extremism?
2. How did combining CBT and Expressive Arts facilitate the achievement of
David’s treatment goals? Give specific examples.
3. As a therapist, what beliefs, biases, and/or emotions would you need to
bracket to effectively work with David and his family?
4. What steps would you take to manage ethical and legal issues related to
David’s case and family? How would you respond if you received a subpoena
for custody dispute?
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CHAPT E R 1 4
Sexual Abuse
Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavior Therapy and Creative
Approaches with a Biracial Adolescent
Felicia R. Neubauer
Ava is a 16-year-old biracial female who lives with her biological mother, Ms.
Johnson, and her 14-year-old sister, Alexis. Ava sees her biological father on
weekends. He and her mother separated when Ava was 10. Ms. Johnson began
dating, and when the COVID-19 lockdown happened, she allowed her par-
amour to stay with them for financial reasons, as she was not working. During
the pandemic, Ava was not allowed to see her father for several months due to
his asthma, which was a risk factor for COVID-19. When Ms. Johnson became ill
with COVID-19, the paramour went into Ava’s room nightly and raped her. When
Ava began visiting her father again, she disclosed the child sexual abuse (CSA).
Ms. Johnson brought Ava for treatment because of continued anxiety, flashbacks,
nightmares, noncompliance, crying frequently, and isolating herself.
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that women who experienced CSA during their adolescence had more perina-
tal depression and anxiety than women who did not experience CSA. Kendall-
Tackett et al. (1993) also found that the degree of symptomatology was related to
specifics of the CSA, such as if there was penetration, the duration and frequency
of the abuse, force, the relationship of the perpetrator to the child, and maternal
support. de Arellano et al. (2014) found that the severity of trauma symptoms
after CSA can also be related to the child’s experience of other childhood trau-
mas, including medical trauma, exposure to domestic violence, terrorism, and
natural disasters. The severity and duration of trauma symptoms depend on how
quickly effective treatment such as Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavior Therapy
(TF-CBT) is provided to the child (Cohen, Mannarino, & Deblinger, 2006).
Description of TF-CBT
TF-CBT (Cohen et al., 2006) is an evidence-based treatment developed by Judith
Cohen, MD, Esther Deblinger, PhD, and Anthony Mannarino, PhD, and refined
over the past 25 years to help children and adolescents recover from trauma. The
TF-CBT model was originally designed and found to be efficacious in treating
and reducing symptoms related to child sexual abuse. Later research indicated
that TF-CBT was efficacious in treating and reducing symptoms for children who
had experienced other traumas as well, including domestic violence, terrorism,
and natural disasters (de Arrelano et al., 2014). Twenty-one randomized con-
trolled trials conducted throughout the world document that TF-CBT was supe-
rior for improving children’s trauma symptoms and responses (TF-CBT, 2023).
TF-CBT is a hierarchical treatment approach with several components
including psychoeducation, relaxation, cognitive coping, trauma narrative and
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Stabilization Phase
The stabilization phase consists of psychoeducation, relaxation skills, affect mod-
ulation skills, and cognitive coping skills (PRAC) for adolescents. Caregivers
also receive this content as well as parenting skills to respond properly to the
trauma and behavioral difficulties. Beginning with psychoeducation, adolescents
and caregivers are separately provided information about the specific trauma(s)
the adolescent experienced and how TF-CBT can help. They are reassured that
not every trauma they experienced will necessarily be a focus of the TF-CBT
because the skills will generalize. During psychoeducation, the adolescent and
caregiver answer questions about what information they already know about the
specific type of trauma they endured. This helps the therapist be able to praise
involvement, identify accurate and inaccurate information, and discern possible
cognitive distortions. The therapist then adds information and corrects misinfor-
mation. This approach is engaging and works well for gradual exposure of the
trauma early in treatment.
In the stabilization phase, adolescents also learn and practice relaxation skills,
affect modulation skills (e.g., feelings identification, expression, and regulation),
and cognitive coping. These skills are taught so that adolescents and caregivers
can manage general symptoms as well as trauma symptoms rather than avoiding
them. Gradual exposure in which the adolescent and caregiver talk about the
CSA occurs in each session.
Parenting and behavior management also begin for the caregiver in this phase.
The therapist starts by praising caregivers for seeking services. The therapist gives
effective instructions on behavioral management such as exploring functional
analysis of behavior, explaining differential attention (e.g., reinforcement and
extinction of behaviors), giving 5-minute work chores as consequences for inap-
propriate behavior, providing positive attention, and demonstrating active listen-
ing. These skills are used throughout TF-CBT and hopefully after treatment ends.
The therapist also assesses the caregivers’ coping skills as well as teaches
them relaxation skills, affect modulation skills, and cognitive coping skills. The
therapist encourages caregivers to practice the skills in the session and for home-
work in between. In contrast to the adolescent’s sessions where cognitive coping
is addressed in the second phase, caregivers learn cognitive coping and restruc-
turing during the stabilization phase. This helps caregivers begin to change their
thoughts and feelings related to their adolescent’s trauma so caregivers can give
more helpful responses.
When using TF-CBT with adolescents, it is helpful to use playful strategies
such as artwork, using the What Do You Know? card game for psychoeduca-
tion (Deblinger et al., 2019), and using the Triangle of Life online application for
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cognitive coping and processing (Mannarino & Cohen, 2014). Bibliotherapy and
relevant games can also make treatment more fun.
Integration/Consolidation Phase
The integration/consolidation phase focuses on the final components of TF-CBT,
namely in vivo mastery (if needed), conjoint sessions, and enhancing safety skills.
(Note: If there are ongoing safety issues related to immediate environment, then
safety skills are addressed in the stabilization phase). The therapist helps the ado-
lescent identify concerns and locations for in vivo mastery. For example, if the
adolescent is afraid to go down into the basement because that was where the
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(PTSD), with some symptoms of depression and anxiety. Ava’s PTSD symptoms
focused on the CSA by Ms. Johnson’s paramour. She did not endorse symptoms
related to racial trauma or microaggressions and felt that she had a solid support
network in this area. Ava had been a fairly compliant child who did well academ-
ically and behaviorally. Now, however, she was often quick to sass her parents
when they asked her to do something, and she was sometimes short with teach-
ers. The results of the behavior measure were within norms for her age, but her
mother was frustrated with the noncompliance and her negative attitude.
Ms. Johnson reported that she herself was having significant difficulties since
Ava disclosed the sexual abuse, although she was supportive and believing. Ms.
Johnson reported that she felt bad that Ava not only dealt with the repercus-
sions of their COVID-19 restrictions but was also sexually abused by the man
she trusted to take care of Ava while she was sick with COVID-19. She blamed
herself for not being aware, acknowledging that she was too sick to do more than
sleep for much of her illness. Ms. Johnson also blamed COVID-19 for creating
the groundwork for the sexual abuse to take place.
Treatment Goals
Treatment goals were as follows:
1. Increase Ava’s understanding about trauma and the CSA and its impact on
her.
2. Increase her coping skills through relaxation, affect modulation, and cogni-
tive coping.
3. Discuss and process thoughts and feelings related to the CSA to the point of
accurate understanding and restoration.
4. Increase her knowledge about age-appropriate sex education and her per-
sonal safety skills.
5. Reduce her noncompliance.
CSA of her daughter, and used strategies such as Socratic questioning, evidence
gathering, and psychoeducation for her to learn to reprocess.
Figure 14.1. “Before I Told” Drawing courtesy of Felicia Neubauer, based on client(s)’
representations.
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In preparation for this phase, I talked to Ms. Johnson to remind her that this
is the part of treatment that increases anxiety, and we needed to work together
to help Ava not avoid treatment and to discuss her own avoidance if it arose. I
also continued to work with Ms. Johnson on her own skills and behavior man-
agement. Once trauma narration began, I met with Ava first to review homework,
including skill practice, and elicit the trauma narrative chapter for the session.
First, I elicited an introduction; I wrote down everything Ava said and then read
it back to her for additional gradual exposure and clarification to make any cor-
rections. Then I shared the chapter with Ms. Johnson, without Ava present, so
that Ms. Johnson could process it.
In the following session, I elicited a chapter that was identified by Ava as eas-
iest, which was when her mother became ill, followed by the disclosure and first
experience of CSA. These and the remaining chapters were elicited in the order
described above. After each chapter was written, I shared it with Ms. Johnson by
herself so she could process the information.
Once the trauma narration was completely elicited, I worked with Ava to use
strategies including psychoeducation, evidence gathering, and Socratic questioning
to process her current and previous thoughts. I helped Ava facilitate more appro-
priate thinking and better feeling about the trauma experiences. This is shown as
follows:
As the chapters were reprocessed, I shared them with Ms. Johnson again.
When the entire trauma narration was reprocessed, it was put in order, and then
I worked with Ava and Ms. Johnson to prepare them for the conjoint sessions
where Ava would share the trauma narration directly with her mother. This
included having them identify which coping strategies they would use if needed,
having Ava give input into how she wanted her mother to respond, and having
Ms. Johnson practice her responses. The conjoint sessions were then held to pre-
pare them, share the narration, and talk with each to process the experience.
The remaining components of the TF-CBT, such as age-appropriate sex edu-
cation, were completed in subsequent sessions. I spoke with Ms. Johnson to dis-
cuss the subject matter with her and to encourage her to do the sex education
with Ava herself, so she knew exactly what was being said and so she could share
her values and beliefs. In preparation for the sex education discussion with Ava,
I gave Ms. Johnson a book (What’s Happening to My Body: Book for Girls,
Madaras, 2007) to review and use. Although many caregivers prefer that the
therapist discuss the sex education directly with their adolescent, Ms. Johnson
did talk with Ava herself. Ava did not need to do in vivo exposure, so that is not
included here.
In the final component, which overlapped with conjoint sessions, I explained
to Ava that everything she did during the trauma was the right thing, because she
survived it, and the skills she learned are additional tools for her toolbox. This
is important so Ava did not feel that I thought she responded “wrongly” at the
time. Then what-if situations were discussed and role plays were done where she
practiced the concepts of personal safety skills, including yelling no, getting away,
telling an adult, and continuing to tell until someone believes and helps her.
Ending Treatment
During the final session, Ava and Ms. Johnson completed the same standard-
ized measures for posttreatment results, which showed that Ava had significantly
fewer trauma symptoms and no longer met full criteria for a posttraumatic stress
diagnosis. These results were shared with Ava and her mother. I gave Ava her
certificate of completion. We shared cupcakes together and discussed the impor-
tance of continuing to use her treatment skills. I stressed that if Ava has thoughts
or feelings about her traumatic experiences, she should continue to talk to her
mother about it, and they could call for booster sessions if needed.
The therapist also needs to assess whether adolescents have significant trauma
symptoms related to the impact of COVID-19. TF-CBT skills can generalize to
manage many traumas. Ava processed her COVID- related concerns with the
skills she learned in TF-CBT.
In cases of abuse, the therapist needs to ensure that abuse was reported to
authorities and obtain the report number for case records. If the abuse was not
properly reported, then the therapist needs to contact police and/or their local
Child Protective Services. Finally, therapists need to be aware that they may be
called into court to testify. Therefore, every effort needs to be made to keep accu-
rate and timely records as well as review state rules and regulations. In cases
of divorce, therapists need to read the most recent divorce decree to determine
which person has rights to obtain mental health services. The therapist needs to
inform all parents or caregivers of the treatment being provided and offer to meet
with them as needed.
Parent Consultations
As described above, I provided parent consultation and guidance throughout TF-
CBT to Ava’s mother, Ms. Johnson. I invited Ava’s father to join the process. He
declined to do so on a regular basis due to distance and time constraints. How-
ever, he was willing to engage in a few telehealth sessions in which I informed
him of treatment goals and strategies, common symptoms of CSA, Ava’s progress,
and parenting strategies to facilitate her coping skills. Although Ava’s father expe-
rienced intense guilt and anger regarding her CSA, he declined to seek his own
counseling mostly due to stigma. Therefore, I normalized his feelings, coached
him on the same coping skills I was teaching Ava, and provided him parenting
resources as shown below.
Conclusion
Ava and her mother appeared to benefit from TF-CBT. Standardized measures,
anecdotal information, as well as my observations, showed significant treatment
progress and symptom reduction. The willingness of Ava and Ms. Johnson to
work on and implement the components was instrumental in Ava’s symptom
reduction. Implementation of behavior management reduced Ava’s noncompli-
ance. Ava was able to process the CSA and the impact of her mother’s illness.
Ms. Johnson was able to reduce her self-blame and to be instrumental in her
daughter’s symptom reduction. Both Ava and Ms. Johnson learned how resil-
ient they are. Despite being guardedly confident in the beginning of treatment
during COVID-19, I learned that the TF-CBT worked well related to the impact
of COVID-19.
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Resources
For Professionals
Helping the Traumatized Child: A Workbook for Therapists (Helpful Materials
to Support Therapists Using TFCBT: Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral
Therapy) by George Sachs (2015).
NCTSN. Secondary Traumatic Stress in Professionals Treating Child Sexual Abuse,
https://www.nctsn .org/resources/ secondary-traumatic-stress-professionals
-treating-child-sexual-abuse
TF-CBT Web 2.0: A course for Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy,
https://tfcbt2.musc.edu/
For Parents
Healing the Harm Done: A Parent’s Guide to Helping Your Child Overcome the
Effects of Sexual Abuse (English and Spanish edition) by Jennifer Y. Levy-
Peck (2009).
NCTSN. Creating Supportive Environments When Scary Things Happen, https://
www . nctsn . org/resources/creating - s upportive - e nvironments - w
hen- s cary
-things-happen
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Discussion Questions
1. What behaviors might be noticed in an adolescent that might concern a par-
ent about possible trauma?
2. If Ava had refused to go into detail in the trauma narrative, how could the
therapist have helped her work through avoidance?
3. If Ava’s father had also wanted to participate in the TF-CBT, how might the
therapist work with separated parents?
4. How did the therapist work with Ava to identify a table of contents and sub-
sequent hierarchy for trauma narration?
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CHAPT E R 1 5
Self-Harm
Dialectical Behavior Therapy with an
African American Adolescent
Anelie Etienne and Domonique Messing
Ashly Johnson is a 14-year-old African American female. Ashly lives with her
mother, Amber Johnson, a 34-year- old African American woman, and three
younger half siblings, James Johnson, 10, Kevin Johnson, 7, and Nicole Miller,
5. Ashly’s mother’s boyfriend, Robert Miller, is a 39-year-old Caucasian man and
is the father of Nicole, and he resides in the home. Ashly’s father, Levi Smith, is a
35-year-old African American man who lives three towns over with his girlfriend,
Sarah King, who is African American, and Ashly’s half sister Leah Smith, who is
6. Ashly and her father have a strained relationship, in part because he is unable
to consistently spend time with Ashly. Mr. Smith works a factory job with no paid
time off and relies on his girlfriend for transportation. Ashley’s mother and her boy-
friend (Mr. Miller) have a contentious relationship, often having verbal arguments
and one reported physical fight occurring during Ms. Johnson’s pregnancy with
Nicole. Ashly frequently stayed with a friend, who lived up the street, to escape
the tension and fights at home. Until recently, the family lived in a predominantly
African American neighborhood.
Mr. Miller recently won a lawsuit against his former construction employer and
decided to move the family to a more affluent, predominantly Caucasian neigh-
borhood. As a result, Ashly changed schools and struggled to make new friends.
Ashly reports that “the neighbors are mean, and I feel like an outsider at school.”
Ashly shared that at school “a group of girls called me nig—and monkey.” Ashly
is ostracized by her peers, and her grades have begun to decline. Ashly has told
her mother, “I feel sad all the time.” Ashly wants to move back to her old neighbor-
hood and frequently shares this with her mother. However, Ms. Johnson is unable
to afford rent without Mr. Miller. Ashly’s father expressed that he is unable to care
for her financially and that she must stay with her mother. Ms. Johnson recently
noticed cuts on Ashly’s right arm. Ms. Johnson is seeking counseling services for
Ashly due to her cutting, experience of racism, isolation, and declining grades.
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Non-Suicidal Self-Injury
Non-suicidal self-injury (NSSI) is defined as “purposeful, self-inflicted destruction
of one’s own body that is neither socially endorsed (e.g., piercing, tattooing, scar-
ification) nor deliberately intended to lead to death” (Rojas-Velasquez, Pluhar,
Burns, & Burton, 2021, p. 368). The rate of self-injurious behaviors among ado-
lescents is between 17 and 60% (Rojas-Velasquez et al., 2021). Of those who
engage in these behaviors, 90% of them use it to cope with difficult and unpleas-
ant feelings (Rojas-Velasquez et al., 2021). Literature on NSSI has been domi-
nated by studies primarily focused on middle- to upper-class young Caucasian
women. African Americans and other ethnic communities are underrepresented
in the NSSI literature (Rojas-Velasquez et al., 2021). This gap in the literature
may lead practitioners to believe that fewer disparities exist across different eth-
nicities; however, African American youth experience race-related stressors that
create significant long-lasting mental health outcomes (Williams, 2020). Risk fac-
tors for African American youth include emotional dysregulation, difficult social
and familial relationship, poor coping skills, and coexisting mental health condi-
tions (Rojas-Velasquez et al., 2021).
Studies have established that people who engage in self-injurious behaviors
are much more likely to attempt suicide, especially female adolescents (Koth-
gassner et al., 2021). The number of African American female adolescents who
engage in self-injurious behaviors or attempted suicide has recently increased
(Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, 2023). This increase is understand-
able given that many African American female adolescents may have experienced
hate speech and have lacked the tools to manage the distressing emotions. Afri-
can American girls who engaged in self-injurious behaviors within the context of
hate speech need an evidence-based intervention to recover.
Treatment Goals
Ashly’s treatment goals were developed with the family. The family and I explored
where we should begin. Ashly stated, “I don’t really know what depression is or
why I feel this way.” When developing treatment goals, I combine the client’s lan-
guage with my clinical understanding. Therefore, Ashly’s initial treatment goal is
“Ashly will be able to understand her depression better.” Ashly stated, “I want to
be able to know why I am feeling this way.” Ashly’s initial objective is “Ashly will
learn emotional vocabulary in individual weekly sessions to better describe what
she is feeling.”
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During the initial assessment, a safety plan was developed due to Ashly’s his-
tory of cutting. The family and I reviewed Ashly’s protective factors, which she
identified as “support from my cousins, going for walks, drawing, and sometimes
reading.” We identified her triggers, which she stated are “mom not listening, not
being able to see my cousins, and tension at home.” We also identified which
adults Ashly views as supportive. Ashly identified an art teacher (at her former
school), her older cousin, and sometimes her mother. We also reviewed 24-hour
emergency community resources when my therapy office is closed.
Treatment Process
My goal for the first session was to begin building rapport with Ashly, explore
confidentiality and its limits, and explain what DBT is and how I believe it could
help her overcome her current mental health struggles. I prepared my office by
turning off the overhead lights and turning on the lamp on my desk. I also put
fidgets out for Ashly to use if she became nervous or needed a distraction. After
introducing myself and giving Ashly three fun facts about me, I asked Ashly to
do the same. I then explained to Ashly what Dialectical Behavior Therapy is and
how I believed the different skills could help her. I recommended that we start
with distress tolerance skills. I invited Ashly to engage in a distress tolerance
activity called Pros and Cons to examine the pros and cons of having drama and
stress and not having it. See table 15.2 and figure 15.1, Activity from sessions 1
and 2 (Moonshine, 2008).
Figure 15.1. Activity. Figure courtesy of Domonique Messing based on client’s representation.
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My goal for Ashly’s second session was to continue exploring distress tol-
erance and build on the skills learned from the Pros and Cons work sheet. This
week I wanted to provide Ashly with a skill she can use outside of the session to
aid her during stressful or difficult situations. I explained to Ashly that observe
breathing is a breathing technique that would help ground her, keep her focused
on the present moment, and distract her from the stressful situation.
Parent Consultations
The first parent consultation meeting was with Ms. Johnson. Mr. Smith was
scheduled to join this session; however, he was unable to attend. Mr. Smith did
not provide a reason for his absence. I informed Ms. Johnson that parent consul-
tations are essential to the therapeutic process because they allow me to support
her while she supports Ashly. I explained that these meetings are an opportunity
for her to express her concerns, receive validation, and learn the strategies Ashly
was learning in her sessions. Ms. Johnson expressed concern, stating, “I don’t
know if I will always have time to make these meetings because I have other
kids with a lot going on.” Ms. Johnson explored other options for meeting with
me, including online virtual and phone sessions. During parent consultation, Ms.
Johnson and I reviewed and practiced the skills Ashly had been working on in the
session.
Conclusion
Throughout treatment, Ashly gained numerous DBT coping skills to assist her in
managing her depressive symptoms and self-harm behavior. Ashly identified DBT
coping skills that could aid her in stressful situations, even though she reported
not implementing them consistently. Ashly and her family reported that she no
longer cut herself. Ashly identified one peer with whom she has become “good
friends.” Ashly continued to be open to learning more DBT skills to manage her
mental health symptoms better and remained in ongoing individual therapy as
needed.
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Session 1
Subjective: The client expressed uncertainty about beginning the therapeutic
process, specifically using DBT. She expressed that the initial activity felt “like
schoolwork” and was hesitant to write down her thoughts. The client acknowl-
edged her depression symptoms; she stated, “Sometimes it’s too much, and I just
want to relieve the pain.”
Objective: At the start of the session, client was quiet and only engaged this ther-
apist when prompted. The client used fidgets during the session. The client visibly
relaxed when this therapist also agreed to complete a Pros and Cons work sheet.
This therapist and client explored how understanding the pros and cons of a
situation can assist the client in problem solving and finding ways to cope and
manage stress or drama.
Assessment: From a Dialectical Behavior Therapy perspective, Ashly appears to
be experiencing symptoms of depression and self-harm due to stressors in the
home, experiencing hate speech at school, moving to a predominantly White
neighborhood, not experiencing validation, and lacking coping skills.
Plan: This therapist will teach concepts of DBT and use different worksheets and
activities to reinforce problem solving and effective ways for Ashly to cope with
current life stressors and crises.
Resources
For Professionals
Dialectical Behavior Therapy: Volume 1—The Therapist’s Guidebook, https://a
.co/d/4MxCg7b
Dialectical Behavior Therapy: Volume 2—Companion Worksheets, spiral-bound,
https://a.co/d/57t4P2t
For Teens
The DBT Skills Workbook for Teens: A Fun Guide to Manage Anxiety and Stress,
Understand Your Emotions and Learn Effective Communication Skills (Life .
. . Health and Wellness Books for Teenagers), https://a.co/d/6VJDH8c
For Parents
DBT Skills Workbook for Parents of Teens—A Proven Strategy for Understand-
ing and Parenting Adolescents Who Suffer from Intense Emotions, Anger, and
Anxiety, https://a.co/d/0dlDJKI
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Discussion Questions
1. What contributing factors exacerbated Ashly’s depression symptoms?
2. As a therapist, how would you prepare to talk to your client about race or
racism?
3. As a therapist, how would you prepare yourself to deal with potential triggers
from the case that could create therapy-interfering behaviors?
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CHAPT E R 1 6
Jenny is a 16-year-old White adolescent female. She moved into our area of
England about a year before she and her family commenced therapy. She lives
with her mother and her younger sister. The family moved to be near their mater-
nal grandmother and her partner after Jenny experienced bullying due to her
Tourette syndrome. Jenny attended the local high school about 20 miles from
where she lived until the school closed due to the COVID-19 pandemic. When the
lockdown ended, she returned to school. Unfortunately, the stress of being back
in school was too much for her, and she was unable to control her Tourette syn-
drome of vocal and motor tics. Her Tourette syndrome presented as her running
down the school corridors past classrooms banging on doors and windows while
making threats. This was taken very seriously by school personnel, and she was
excluded from school with the caveat that she was not to return until she was
“better.” Since her mother’s parenting style was permissive, her mother struggled
to set boundaries or sanctions when Jenny’s behavior was unacceptable, which
put Jenny at risk for exploitation.
Tourette Syndrome
Tourette syndrome (TS) is a complex neurological disorder characterized by
repetitive, sudden, uncontrolled (involuntary) movements and sounds called tics
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Needed Interventions
Play therapy is an intervention that gives children the needed space to come to
terms with the stress and multiple losses experienced by a child who has been
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bullied and at risk for sexual exploitation (Cattanach, 1992). Cattanach advised
that it is important to assist children to repossess their bodies and find an iden-
tity other than one bound up in their past. Adolescents who have been sexually
exploited may struggle with the idea of traditional play therapy and may feel it
is too “childish” for them. However, an outdoor setting for play therapy may
intrigue adolescents.
Beyond the four walls, being outdoors allows “the therapist to hold an inter-
nal psychological frame around the work with the client . . . trusting in their
own confidence and competence” (Jordan, 2015, p. 93). A sense of “competent
therapist self” is a key to feeling able to move away from the “geographical”
concept of walls and toward an understanding of “symbolic” walls, created by
the therapeutic relationship. Because feelings of psychological safety are depen-
dent on feelings of physical safety, Fearn (2014) suggested that in outdoor play
therapy “There is a balance to be struck between children’s vital need for risk and
challenge and adult concerns for their safety” (p. 117). Fearn goes on to note, “In
most cases, children can be trusted to learn to assess and take manageable risk
for themselves and it is vital for the development of self-other awareness that
they do so” (p. 117).
Adolescents who have been bullied and sexually exploited need assistance
with body boundaries to identify safe and unsafe touch. They also need actual
experience with safe touch in which they are in control of touch and touching.
Horses are large, sensitive creatures that are also very touch sensitive and will let
their feelings be felt immediately if they are touched or approached in ways they
do not like. Horses can provide the safe touch and trusting relationship that ado-
lescents who experienced bullying and exploitation so desperately need. The lov-
ability conveyed from the horse to adolescents may help build their self-esteem
(Gilligan, 2001). Therefore, combining horses with outdoor play therapy for ado-
lescents who experienced bullying and exploitation is a powerful intervention.
In AAPT, a strong emphasis is on animal welfare, in which the animal must enjoy
and not merely tolerate most interactions. The therapist-animal relationship is a
metaphor for the therapeutic relationship between the therapist and client(s). The
focus of client-animal relationship through play is in service of therapeutic goals
(Faa-Thompson, 2022).
and referrers are set on outcomes that are unachievable and miss too many steps.
We tend to strip everything back, take small steps, and build strong foundations
that we can revert to when challenges are too difficult.
The treatment plan focused on the fun that the family was having together
while not ignoring the issues they were facing. We looked at goals for the family as
well as Jenny, so that Jenny was not viewed as “the problem needing to be fixed.”
We found common ground. We did this by emphasizing that like horse herds,
“Families come in all shapes and sizes”; “Families are all unique”; and “You can
choose your friends, but you cannot choose your family.”
expressive about parts of their body that they do not like to be touched. Jenny
learned to “listen with her eyes” and to notice when her grooming was plea-
surable for the horses or not. We used these grooming opportunities to discuss
human-to-human touch and consent. We encouraged Jenny to think of how she
could respond in the future to unwanted human touch.
right and even made seats for each other to sit on. They sat close to one another
in a triangle with their backs resting against each other and rested their “self-
esteem” on their laps. This fortress had an inner and outer ring that was much
larger than the two before, so the horses couldn’t reach over as it was more inter-
woven. This time the barrier held strong.
We debriefed with the family about what they had learned in the sessions.
They were able to say that when they worked together and stopped trying to
control everything, things worked out well. Mum stated that she felt proud
of herself that she could take charge as she was always the one to back down.
Grandmother was able to state that she felt relieved that she didn’t have to be the
one always coming up with solutions. Jenny stated that she was pleased that her
mother could keep her safe. We do not go into long debriefs in EAFPT as then it
would become a talking therapy and defeat the whole purpose.
Session 8
Below is a short transcript of the beginning of session 8. Mum, grandmother, and
Jenny had arrived, and all three are smiling broadly.
A check- in, as described above, is important at the start of each session
because it reveals the processing that has occurred in the family between sessions.
formulaic approach relies on the manual’s guidance rather than the expertise of
the therapists.
Conclusion
EAFPT can be incredibly effective by enhancing the development of empathy,
efficacy, confidence, relationship, and much more. This work is far more complex
than individual work, however, and requires considerably more training and skill
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than many assume. With that said, simple activities in nature with animals who
have both voice and choice alongside well-qualified and experienced group ther-
apists have the potential to make significant differences in short periods of time.
By being in the moment and working within safe therapeutic space with animals
who are free to be themselves, clients discover their own freedom to let down
their guard and be themselves as well. Working with families is totally different
from working individually and needs a heightened skill set. Therapists in this field
need to be:
• skilled and trained in systemic family therapy;
• fluent in equine ethology and behavior;
• skilled in knowing when to use humor as a defuser, and adaptable and able
to switch the session plan immediately depending on what the family present,
the animals present, and the wider environment presents;
• skilled in splitting attention—if you have found it difficult to split attention
between one person and one animal, it’s magnified with a group of people
and animals; and
• able to work as part of a good human therapy team. There is no room for
therapists’ egos in EAFPT.
Resources
EAGALA, https://www.eagala.org/
IIAAPT, https://iiaapt.org/
https://www.tourettes-action.org.uk/
http://www.turnaboutpegasus.co.uk/
Discussion Questions
1. What does the human therapist need to be adept in when doing Equine
Assisted Family Play Therapy™?
2. What else is important when undertaking group work?
3. In your opinion, would this intervention have been as effective if the horses
were not free to choose whether to attend sessions?
4. What else might have helped this family?
References
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Childhood.
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Eating Disorders
Enhanced Cognitive Behavior Therapy with
a Mexican American Adolescent
Sara Cantu
Eating Disorders
Eating disorders are a group of psychological disorders related to eating behav-
iors that result in a lower quality of life and social functioning (Qian et al., 2022).
Eating disorders include anorexia nervosa (AN), characterized by restrictive eat-
ing; binge-eating, characterized by overeating to the point of pain; and bulimia
nervosa (BN), characterized by attempts to control weight through use of com-
pensatory behaviors (e.g., vomiting, laxatives, extreme exercise, or fasting) (NIH,
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2021). Eating disorders can cause serious damage to the heart, kidneys, intestines,
throat, and teeth.
The median age of onset for BN and AN is 18 years old and for binge eating is
21 years old (NIH, 2021). The prevalence of eating disorders in the United States
is 1.2% for binge eating disorder with a lifetime prevalence of 2.8%; .3% for BN
with a lifetime prevalence of 1%; and .6% for AN (NIH, 2021). Overall, the life-
time prevalence of an eating disorder diagnosis is .91%, with a 12-month prev-
alence rate of .43% (Qian et al., 2022). However, US adolescents who develop
an eating disorder between the ages of 13 and 18 have a lifetime prevalence of
2.7%, which is 33.7% higher than if the onset were 21 years or older. The fre-
quency of anorexia in Hispanics/Latinos is lower compared to the non-Hispanic
White population, whereas the frequency of binge eating disorder and bulimia is
comparable to the non-Hispanic White population (Perezet al., 2016).
symptoms remained above the threshold needed for diagnosis (Atwood & Fried-
man, 2019). In addition, a significant portion of current research supporting the
use of CBT-E has been conducted in connection with Fairburn, CBT-E’s creator,
creating concern for the possibility of allegiance effect influencing outcomes
(Groff, 2015). It is important for counselors to keep these limitations in mind
when considering the implementation of CBT-E. For Claudia, I carefully consid-
ered these limitations as well as benefits and decided that CBT-E was the best
treatment approach for her, as will be described below.
CBT-E Stage 1
In the initial assessment, the client will begin to engage in treatment, will be pro-
vided information related to their eating disorder, create a formulation with the
help of the clinician, discuss expectations of treatment, plan for real-time self-
assessment, discuss homework, and confirm the next appointment (Fairburn,
2008). To better understand the client’s eating disorder, clinicians gather informa-
tion related to current disordered eating behavior, current concerns related to the
eating disorder, development and history of the eating disorder, coexisting mental
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health or medical concerns, personal and family history related to health and
mental health, a quick personal history, current life circumstances, and the client’s
attitudes toward treatment. In addition, height and weight are taken at the con-
clusion of the first session. The initial assessment typically can be conducted in a
longer first session, no longer than an hour and a half.
It is important that the clinician consider medical concerns and the possible
need for medical oversight during treatment. The clinician should gather medical
information in the initial assessment including recent blood work results, recent
EKG and bone density results if available, risk of suicide or self-harming behav-
ior, current significant mental health concerns, current substance use, as well as
a release to work with other medical providers supporting the client. Potentially,
significant medical concerns, suicidality, or substance use could preclude a client
from participating in CBT-E before addressing outstanding risks.
During the first session, the clinician collaboratively creates with the client
a formulation, a tool to conceptualize the eating disorder with the client used
throughout treatment. A formulation is a visual diagram of cognitive distortions
that represent overemphasis on body shape, weight, and control over body shape
and weight; subsequent behavior; and reactions that perpetuate the cognitive dis-
tortion and behavior that keep the client in her eating disorder. The formula-
tion is created using the client’s words and focuses on the pattern that maintains
the eating disorder. Common maintaining mechanisms include overevaluation of
shape and weight, overevaluation of control, dietary restriction, dietary restraint,
being underweight, and changes in eating triggered by situations. The client is
given a copy of the formulation to review. The formulation will be at the center
of treatment planning.
The clinician explains to the client what to expect in treatment, with empha-
sis placed on the importance of completing each step of treatment such as ses-
sions, self-assessment, homework, and in- session weights. In-session weights
are an opportunity for the client to be responsible as well as face reality; this
happens through weighing during sessions only, speaking the number out loud,
graphing weights showing trends, and addressing concerns with the clinician.
The remaining sessions in stage one, each 50 minutes in length, follow a pat-
tern: weight once a week, review records for quality, discuss attitude and patterns,
determine and follow agenda with client, summarize, and discuss homework. The
goals of these sessions are to provide education related to eating disorder diagno-
sis, establish a regular eating pattern, and arrange for family support. A regular
eating pattern focuses first on routine rather than changing what a client is eating.
The client is asked to eat breakfast, lunch, snack, dinner, snack, and sometimes a
snack before lunch. Fairburn (2008) emphasizes, “Implementing the regular eat-
ing intervention is a skill that all CBT-E therapists need to acquire. It involves
conveying the rationale well, being persuasive, tackling objections and obstacles,
and praising all signs of progress” (p. 81). Involvement of family is based on their
family’s ability to support change and limited by family’s contribution to the dif-
ficulty of creating change.
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CBT-E Stage 2
During stage two, the clinician and client review progress using informal assess-
ment or formal assessment completed outside of session, identify barriers, review
formulation to gain a deeper understanding, and design stage three, prioritizing
the most pressing maintaining mechanisms. During stage two, it is determined
whether a longer version of CBT-E over 40 weeks rather than 20 would be most
appropriate, based on the client’s needs and health.
CBT-E Stage 3
Stage three includes the same components as stages one and two, as well as tar-
geting maintaining mechanisms in individualized ways. Depending on the client,
stage three can include identifying overevaluation; creating greater importance
in other domains; addressing shape checking, avoidance, and the idea of feeling
fat; historical review; managing mind-set; education on dieting; dietary restric-
tion; mood intolerance; addressing dietary rules; learning problem- solving
skills; and functional mood modulatory behavior.
CBT-E Stage 4
Finally, stage four follows the same structure as sessions in stage three. The dif-
ference in stage four compared to stage three is that sessions become increas-
ingly more future focused and less focused on the present. It is recommended
that treatment concludes once maintaining mechanisms have been disrupted and
the client has begun to change patterns. It is not expected that all symptoms or
behavior of the eating disorder have completely ceased. A final session is held 20
weeks following the last session of stage four. In the final session, the clinician
and client determine whether there is a need for additional treatment based on
significance of eating disorder symptoms.
Case Study
Given the evidence-based research, I implemented CBT-E to treat Claudia’s eating
disorder. I believed CBT-E would help disrupt the maintaining mechanisms of her
eating disorder and begin to alleviate her eating disorder symptoms quickly. Her
parents and health care providers were willing to be part of her treatment by sup-
porting her change in behavior.
Goals for Claudia’s first session included building rapport, gathering infor-
mation about Claudia’s current eating disorder symptoms, providing information
related to eating disorders, creating a formulation together, discussing expectations
of treatment, planning for real-time self-assessment, discussing homework, and
confirming the next appointment. Once I introduced myself, I discussed confiden-
tiality and Claudia’s current eating disorder symptoms and provided some basic
information to Claudia about eating disorders and the idea of a formulation, I
encouraged Claudia to work with me to create a formulation of her eating disorder.
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Parent Consultations
Parents or other family members are an integral part of treatment when work-
ing with adolescents who have been diagnosed with an eating disorder. Family
plays an important part in supporting the client to log real-time self-assessments
and providing the opportunity for the client to establish regular eating patterns.
Family members are often included in sessions to make them aware of the specific
nature of the client’s eating disorder, the nature of treatment, and how they can
play a supportive role.
Conclusion
Through the course of CBT-E, Claudia learned about the maintaining mecha-
nisms of her eating disorder, how her thoughts and behavior were reinforcing the
importance of the maintaining mechanisms, and how she can disrupt this pat-
tern and create new healthier patterns for herself. Claudia and her family worked
together to create a routine of regular eating supporting Claudia’s new outlook.
Working with Claudia, I learned the importance of collaborating with Claudia to
regularly revise and fine-tune her formulation. These updates ensured that Clau-
dia’s sessions were specific to her needs and relevant to her progress each session.
Session 1
Subjective: Client was hesitant to describe eating disorder behavior; she attempted
to justify her behavior and focused on decrease in eating disorder behavior
after parents become concerned; she expressed lack of motivation when talking
about creating a regular eating routine. Client stated, “It’s really not a problem
anymore.”
Objective: Client sat with arms and legs close to body, hands in lap, she made
direct eye contact when spoken to. Client spoke clearly and thoughtfully. When
working together to create formulation, the client was cooperative and careful to
follow directions.
Assessment: Reflected in the client’s formulation, she is involved in thinking
errors and behavior related to her body and weight that perpetuate the pattern of
the eating disorder.
Plan: Counselor will follow prescribed steps in CBT-E manual; the remaining ses-
sions of stage one will emphasize pattern and attitude of self-assessment, and
establish a regular eating pattern.
Session 8
Subjective: Client was smiling and cooperative. Client was engaged with craft
materials, expressive and thoughtful in the way that she chose to use them. Client
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adjusted what she created as she thought about different parts of herself, demon-
strating reflectiveness.
Objective: Client was relaxed, sitting with relaxed posture, making direct eye
contact throughout the session. She was actively engaged in creating a visual rep-
resentation of herself, adding new ideas and details as she worked.
Assessment: Client demonstrated an overevaluation of her appearance through
discussion and visual representation that she created. She can identify other areas
of herself that are important and recognize the impact that placing significant
emphasis on her appearance has on other areas of her life.
Plan: Client and I will work together to enhance the importance of other domains
for self-evaluation by identifying activities that she will become involved in and
creating a specific plan for her to begin these activities.
Resources
For Professionals
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FINAL.pdf
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-for-self-monitoring/?wpdmdl=2298&masterkey=5f4cd05c9f8e6
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download/t5-1-topics-to-cover-when-assessing-the-eating-problem/?wpdmdl
=654&masterkey=5c6fc29ef10b9
For Adolescents
Individuals 10 Actions, https://higherlogicdownload.s3.amazonaws.com/AED
WEB/27a3b69a-8aae-45b2-a04c-2a078d02145d/UploadedImages/Publica
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National Association of Anorexia Nervosa and Associated Disorders, https://
anad.org/
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For Parents
Cognitive Behavior Therapy for Eating Disorders in Young People: A Parent’s
Guide by Riccardo Dalle Grace and Carine el Khazen (2021).
Nine Truths about Eating Disorders, https://www .aedweb.org/publications/
nine-truths
Your Child’s Weight: Helping without Harming Birth through Adolescence by
Ellyn Satter (2005).
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Discussion Questions
1. What health-related information would you gather to ensure that Claudia is
ready for CBT-E?
2. What are the benefits of creating a formulation in collaboration with Claudia?
3. What ethical considerations are important to consider when working with
Claudia and her family?
4. When working with Claudia, or another adolescent diagnosed with an eating
disorder, what personal beliefs or opinions about food and body would you
need to be aware of?
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Robby is a 17-year-old African American high school cisgender male who lives
with his grandparents in a small town in North Carolina. His mother intermittently
stayed with them for extended periods but would leave due to her struggles with
illicit substances. Robby’s father left his mother and him when he was 8 years
old, and the father later remarried. Throughout his school years, Robby had man-
aged to stay out of any sort of legal trouble. However, recently he was arrested
for breaking and entering into a store and stealing a vaping device and a small
package of synthetic THC. As part of his sentence, Robby was court ordered
to receive a mental health assessment and treatment. He was diagnosed with
depression and substance use disorder.
Depression
The Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA,
2020) estimates that 21 million adults (8.4%) in the United States had at least
one major depressive episode in 2020. This was highest among individuals ages
18–25 (17.0%). Among adolescents (ages 12–17), it is estimated that 4.1 mil-
lion adolescents (17%) in the United States had at least one major depressive
episode in 2020. In 2020, an estimated 41.6% of US adolescents with a major
depressive episode received treatment. Depression in adolescents can look like the
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Motivational Interviewing
For the case of Robby, we draw from the major tenets of Motivational Inter-
viewing (MI). MI is a counseling approach for eliciting change with a particular
emphasis on helping clients explore and resolve ambivalence, defined as a struggle
to articulate conflicting values that work against positive change (Miller, 1995;
Miller & Rollnick, 2002, 2004, 2009). This emphasis on resolving ambivalence
is essential because ambivalence often creates stumbling blocks along a client’s
road to living a healthier, more fulfilling lifestyle (Miller & Rollnick, 2002; Roll-
nick & Miller, 1995). MI is a client-centered approach in which the counselor
accepts people as they are by viewing clients’ own values, motivations, abilities,
and resources as important and valuable. MI is based on the Rogerian funda-
mental principle of empathic understanding (Rogers, 1951), although MI differs
from traditional Person-Centered theory, as it is more focused and goal-directed
toward resolving client ambivalence (Miller & Rollnick, 2002, 2009). It is a col-
laborative approach, supported by the belief that every person has the motivation
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and resourcefulness to change. Clients who are ambivalent may not have had the
opportunity to feel understood (Miller & Rollnick, 2002).
MI encourages counselors to assist the client with examining and resolving
ambivalence, because ambivalence is understood as the main obstacle to over-
come when attempting to change. As the counselor, we must remember that moti-
vation must originate from the client. The counselor relies on the client’s intrinsic
goals and values to create change. The counselor works with the client to express
all feelings related to changing a behavior to resolve ambivalence. Readiness
for change is understood as a product of interpersonal communication, and the
counselor should remain open and responsive to a client’s motivational signals.
For example, resistance from the client could mean that treatment is moving too
fast. A counselor can notice this and adjust his or her motivational strategies to
remain flexible with the client. Finally, the counseling process is supported by a
collaborative relationship.
Four MI Principles
Miller and Rollnick (2002) share four key principles that are central to MI. The
first, expressing empathy, focuses on the importance of seeing the world through
the eyes of the client. This is critical, because when a client feels understood, an
open expression of thoughts and feelings is possible. Reflective listening is an
important part of expressing empathy, as well as normalizing ambivalence about
change (Miller & Rollnick, 2002). This reflection and normalization of ambiva-
lence not only helps the client to feel understood, but also helps to reduce defen-
siveness and resistance.
The second principle, developing discrepancy, describes how exploring dis-
crepancies can facilitate change. When the client can see that there is a difference
(or discrepancy) between behavior and goals, or values and goals, they may be
more likely to make changes. Rolling with resistance refers to avoiding arguments
for change. When a counselor notices opposition from the client, they should not
oppose it directly. Instead, resistance is the client signaling for the counselor to
adjust their approach. By inviting new perspectives without imposing, the coun-
selor maintains a supportive stance, affirming clients’ autonomy and ability to
solve problems with their own insight (Miller & Rollnick, 2002).
The final principle, supporting self-efficacy, describes a self-fulfilling proph-
ecy that occurs from a counselor’s belief in the client’s capacity to lead their own
change. Operating under this principle, a counselor acknowledges that his or her
own expectations have a profound impact on client outcomes. By understanding
that the power to choose is inherent within the client, not the counselor, a coun-
selor can advocate for change through expressing belief in the client’s abilities,
personal responsibility, and by offering to help, but not create, the process of
change.
Since the original approach, authors have applied MI to different types of
clients and presenting concerns. We encourage readers to consult literature on MI
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and adolescents (e.g., Naar & Suarez, 2021) to ensure that it is tailored to devel-
opmental needs of the age group. In the following case study, we offer the case of
Robby through the eyes of Motivational Interviewing principles. In addition, we
apply a creative approach taken from an earlier article on creative approaches to
Motivational Interviewing (Crowe & Parmenter, 2012). This is just one activity
from the article, and readers are encouraged to consult the full article to see more
creative approaches that align with each of the MI principles.
treatment. The judge also ordered Robby to pay restitution, in the amount of
$350, to replace the window he broke when he entered the tobacco store, and to
participate in victim-offender conferencing, a practice consistent with the princi-
ples of Restorative Justice (Karp, 2019).
Although Robby was happy to not be in jail, he was angry that he got caught
and was resistant to change. He was not one to talk about and share his feelings
and was upset about having to meet with a mental health counselor. From Rob-
by’s perspective, he was managing his life well enough and wished he could can-
cel the appointment with the counselor, avoiding it. Although Robby recognized
that he had been unhappy for quite some time, he was not interested in seeking
help or making changes in his life.
First Sessions
Prior to the first appointment, at the urging of his grandmother, Robby reviewed
my (second author’s) counseling website. The website mentioned that I was
skilled in using the method of Motivational Interviewing. Robby was slightly
interested in knowing more about what to expect, especially because this would
be his first visit with a mental health counselor. He was less than excited when he
entered my counseling office for his first appointment, but by the end of the ses-
sion Robby was surprised that he had talked more than he thought he would. In
fact, he noticed that he felt like a big weight had been lifted after that initial visit.
As his counselor, I did not judge him, even when he admitted that when he felt
down, he used his vape to smoke THC to take his mind off things. And when he
told the story of why he’d broken into the convenience store, Robby was relieved
that he did not feel judged.
When Robby realized that he was about to enter his third session, he was sur-
prised to find himself not experiencing feelings of dread. As the alliance between
Robby and me continued to develop, grow, and strengthen, he felt more com-
fortable sharing his thoughts and feelings related to his life. As he could safely
talk about and share how he was feeling, details about his parents and the deep
depression that used to remain beneath the surface began to bubble up to the
top. Robby spoke of feeling confused, especially when he was little, why his mom
would come back and then leave again, and why his grandparents never wanted
to talk about it.
Keeping true to the spirit of MI (Rollnick & Miller, 1995), I worked to build
a partnership, working together in a collaborative way, and I avoided the role of
the expert. Robby noticed feelings of being valued and accepted as I demonstrated
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respect for his ability to make decisions for himself and be autonomous. Robby
also sensed that I was compassionate and caring, most especially because, on sev-
eral occasions, I discussed the importance of us working to understand what was
in his best interest. Lastly, the concept of evocation was quite evident, as I encour-
aged Robby to generate ideas during our sessions.
he? It does not impact his grades at school or anything else. What was the big
deal? I heard this ambivalence and planned to highlight this in a future session,
instead still focusing on expressing empathy to continue to build the therapeutic
alliance. In a future session, I began to plant the seed that there might be ways
for Robby to cope with his feelings other than using substances, and that Robby’s
legal trouble might indicate that something needs to change.
Case Discussion
The River of Life activity was a creative exercise coupled with Motivational Inter-
viewing techniques that helped Robby see more deeply the impact of his parents’
leaving when he was young. Although he had some knowledge of this impact,
the visual arts allowed him to conceptualize this as a rock in his river. As the
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counselor, I drew out pain and unhappiness from Robby’s childhood based on
these events and his grandparents’ tendencies to bottle up their own thoughts and
feelings related to this. In addition, I continued to work with Robby to see the
connection between the THC vaping and how this was a negative coping behavior
for the pain he felt. As sessions continued, I used additional creative techniques
and MI principles to change Robby’s behavior so that he replaced his substance
use with other, more positive, healthy coping strategies.
Today, we discussed difficult events in Robby’s life, that I will keep private, and
I provided empathy without judgment by statements such as “You felt confused
and hurt.” I believe doing this without giving advice is helping Robby develop his
own motivation to move toward his goals of living a better life. Grandpa, one
thing that might be helpful for you to try is to ask Robby during dinner to share
one positive and one negative about his day, without giving advice. Then, you
share one positive and one negative about your own day.
I also invited his grandparents and mother to feel free to schedule a consul-
tation session with me. I made it clear that I would keep Robby’s privacy but
would help them understand MI principles and interactions with Robby that may
be helpful. If Robby had difficulties with teachers at school, I would ask Robby’s
permission to send his teachers and school counselors an email with brief sugges-
tions on how to help him (i.e., say “I know you want to do well in this class. You
seem down today. What’s going on? How can I help?”).
Conclusion
Robby made considerable progress through MI. The immediate empathy he expe-
rienced substantially decreased his resistance to counseling to the point of not
just seeing it as a meaningless obligation forced on him by the judge but, rather,
seeing it as a valuable experience to help him achieve his own goals. Robby was
able to explore the discrepancies between his substance use and his desire to one
day be a respectable father. He developed a new perspective of self-efficacy in tak-
ing steps toward managing his depression now and in the future; using healthy
coping strategies; setting realistic expectations and boundaries with his parents;
and building reputable relationships so that he could become an engaged and
respectable father one day.
Seeing Robby’s progress confirmed our belief that creative techniques coupled
with MI principles can add dimension, especially when working with young peo-
ple experiencing depression and substance use.
Plan: Use MI principles to begin to build the therapeutic relationship, roll with
resistance to change, develop discrepancies. Consider creative techniques to illus-
trate life events and take pressure off talk therapy alone.
Session 3
Subjective: Client appeared more comfortable and willing to share with this
counselor. Started processing feelings related to parents’ departures, grandpar-
ents’ unwillingness to communicate, and the role THC played in coping with this.
Objective: Engaged in River of Life activity that encouraged client to use visual
art to create his own river that depicted major life events that impact him today.
Used MI techniques to continue the relationship and begin to develop discrepan-
cies and roll with resistance.
Assessment: Client understood impact of parents’ departures and grandparents’
lack of communication in a deeper sense. Began to understand and explore THC
and its relationship to coping.
Plan: Will continue to use creative applications of MI with client to reinforce
change.
Resources
For Professionals
Crowe, A., & Parmenter, A. (2012). Creative approaches to Motivational Inter-
viewing: Addressing the principles. Journal of Creativity in Mental Health, 7,
124–140, doi: 10.1080/15401383.2012.684662
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For Adolescents
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Discussion Questions
1. Based on the case study of Robby as presented in this chapter, what would
you do next in session if you were the counselor working with Robby?
2. As the counselor working with Robby, you pick up on some defensiveness
and resistance from Robby in session 6. Use MI language to describe how
you would conceptualize this and outline your “next steps” for treatment.
3. What other creative techniques could you imagine using with Robby? How
would you use these in combination with MI?
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Miller, W. R., & Rollnick, S. (2002). Motivational interviewing: Preparing people
for change (2nd ed.). Guilford Press.
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interviewing, stages of change, and therapeutic process. Journal of Cognitive
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LGBTQ
Gestalt Therapy and Liberatory Approaches with a
Dominican American Adolescent
Ana Guadalupe Reyes
LGBTQ People
According to the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI, 2023), lesbian,
gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ) people are at greater risk for
poor mental health across all developmental stages, highlighting the importance
of culturally responsive mental health services across the life span. Some of the
issues most commonly reported among LGBTQ youth are depression, anxiety,
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Gestalt Therapy
Gestalt theory is a holistic, phenomenological, experiential, process- oriented,
and relational approach to counseling (Perls, Hefferline, & Goodman, 1951;
Yontef, 1993). Gestalt therapy focuses on the totality of living organisms (i.e.,
emotions, senses, bodily sensations, and thoughts) to increase clients’ moment-
to-moment awareness, thus increasing their ability to live fully, make choices,
and accept responsibility (Perls et al., 1951; Yontef, 1993). The therapeutic rela-
tionship is considered an opportunity for authentic encounters between the cli-
ent and counselor, with moment-to-moment experiments co-created by the client
and counselor. Experiments provide opportunities for the client to fully engage in
exploration, growth, and self-acceptance while being in a relationship with the
counselor and experiencing the relationship, and exploring their intrapersonal
process (i.e., physical sensations, emotions, thoughts) in the here and now (Perls
et al., 1951; Yontef, 1993).
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Gestalt therapy will benefit Jose Luis because our initial focus will be build-
ing a therapeutic relationship where Jose Luis can authentically experience them-
selves and me. Being in a caring and authentic relationship with a counselor who
shares some social and cultural identities (i.e., queer, nonbinary, Latine) may also
support Jose Luis in exploring and accepting their intrapersonal experience. The
experiential nature of Gestalt therapy will also provide opportunities for Jose
Luis and me to co-create different experiments to help them further explore dif-
ferent ways of being and to experience themselves differently.
Intersectionality Theory
Intersectionality theory aims to explore and understand people’s social locations,
power relations, and the impact of systemic and structural oppression on those
with marginalized identities (Collins & Blige, 2016; Crenshaw, 1989). Conse-
quently, intersectionality theory demands the understanding and interrogation
of our historical and current social, political, and ideological context “to bring
the often-hidden dynamics forward in order to transform them” (Carbado, Cren-
shaw, Mays, & Tomlinson, 2013, p. 312) through reflexivity, practice, scholarship,
research, and activism (Collins & Blige, 2016). In counseling, intersectionality
theory can be used as a lens or framework to explore clients’ social and cultural
identities, the impact of systemic and structural oppression on their overall well-
being and create comprehensive treatment plans that include advocacy inside and
outside of the counseling room.
Using intersectionality theory as a framework with Jose Luis will help me
explore their social and cultural identities, such as their race, ethnicity, sexuality,
gender identity, language(s) spoken, ability status, and religion/spirituality during
the initial phases of our work together, so that I can engage in ongoing reflec-
tion and exploration of their experiences of oppression outside of sessions and
in sessions with Jose Luis. Further, I will engage in reflection and exploration of
ways to dismantle the power structures present in our work (i.e., moving from
power over the client to practicing power sharing with the client) and the power
structures present in the client’s life (i.e., at school, at home, and within their
community).
Expressive Arts
Expressive arts, also called “creative interventions,” are creative, nonverbal thera-
peutic modalities used to facilitate clients’ connections to implicit experiences and
deeper feelings that may otherwise be absent from conscious awareness (Purswell
& Stulmaker, 2015). Expressive arts in counseling offer opportunities for creative
expression, catharsis, and the development of insight and awareness. Examples
of expressive arts techniques include bibliotherapy, poetry, film, music, music vid-
eos, drawing, painting, puppet shows, clay, role-play, and sand tray (Purswell &
Stulmaker, 2015; Riley, 1997). Integrating expressive arts into clinical work with
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As I approached my work with Jose Luis and their parents, I kept in mind
that LGBTQ youth, particularly youth of color, experience significant disparities
in mental and physical health concerns due to ideological, institutional, interper-
sonal, and internalized oppression. Yet, a deficit-based view of LGTBQ youth
of color is limiting and can promote harmful narratives. Thus, I explored ways
to honor the strengths, resilience, and resistance of Jose Luis. During my initial
sessions with Jose Luis and in parent consultations, I explored Jose Luis’s Com-
munity Cultural Wealth (CCW; Yosso, 2005) to help inform Jose Luis’s treatment
plan, including the clinical interventions implemented. The CCW model helped
me recognize and honor the different forms of capital (i.e., aspirational capital,
linguistic capital, familial capital, social capital, navigational capital, and resis-
tant capital) that helped Jose Luis “survive and resist racism,” cisgenderism, het-
erosexism, and linguicism (Yosso, 2005, p. 154). I encourage you to learn more
about Yosso’s (2005) CCW model. Unfortunately, an in-depth overview of the
CCW model is outside this chapter’s scope.
Intake Session
My goals for the intake session were to develop rapport with Jose Luis and their
parents, obtain informed consent from the parents, and informed assent from
Jose Luis. Further, I aim to complete an initial assessment of family dynamics and
explore Jose Luis’s presenting concerns from their and their parents’ perspectives.
Session 1
My goals for the first session were to develop rapport, assess Jose Luis’s CCW,
start exploring their social and cultural identities, and delve into what brought
them to counseling from their perspective. After reintroducing myself, I invited
Jose Luis to ask me any questions they had for me to shift the power dynamic
between us and start building a collaborative therapeutic relationship.
At the end of the first session, I thanked Jose Luis for trusting me enough to
share their sexuality and gender identity and experiences coming out to friends. I
reminded them that we will start exploring their treatment goals during our next
session. See Sample Case Note for a summary.
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Session 2
My goal for the second session was to continue facilitating Jose Luis’s expression
of their feelings, thoughts, and experiences and identify their treatment goals.
After exploring Jose Luis’s feelings and thoughts, I invited them to write down
three things they wanted to accomplish during our sessions. We agreed to work
on the following:
Treatment Goal #1: Increase self-awareness and integration of various aspects of
self as evidenced by Jose Luis’s self-report.
Objectives:
1. Engage in self- reflection exercises such as journaling or guided reflection
prompts to help them explore thoughts, emotions, and experiences.
2. Identify and explore core beliefs and values.
3. Foster self-acceptance and self-compassion.
4. Practice mindfulness and present-moment awareness.
5. Encourage exploration of different aspects of self.
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Treatment Goal #2: Increase Jose Luis’s acceptance of emotions as they arise, as
evidenced by Jose Luis’s ability to label, express, and experience their emotions.
Objectives:
1. Develop emotional awareness by encouraging them to identify and label dif-
ferent emotions as they arise and explore their physical sensations and accom-
panying thoughts.
2. Normalize the experience of emotions.
3. Identify triggers and patterns.
4. Explore the functions of their emotions.
Treatment Goal #3: Increase ability to communicate needs as they arise to others
as evidenced by Jose Luis’s ability to verbalize their needs in the counseling ses-
sions, their parents’ report, and Jose Luis’s self-report.
Objectives:
1. Identify and clarify personal needs.
2. Explore barriers to communication.
3. Develop communication skills.
4. Practice expressing needs in counseling sessions.
5. Collaborate with Jose Luis’s parents/family to support and reinforce their
progress in communicating needs.
Jose Luis and I agreed to periodically assess their progress and revise their treat-
ment goals.
Later Sessions
As we enter the working phase of our time together, I aim to explore Jose Luis’s
contact boundary disturbances (i.e., how they make and break contact with
themselves, me, and others) in session to co-create experiments with them that
help them achieve their treatment goals. For example, we will practice mindful-
ness and present-moment awareness in sessions to help Jose Luis connect with
their inner experience. In later sessions, we will continue shifting the treatment
plan and approach to meet the emerging needs of Jose Luis (e.g., referrals to
support groups and gender-affirming medical care). Further, Jose Luis and I will
continue exploring ways to integrate their parents and family members into their
counseling sessions, as needed, especially as they continue exploring their desire
to come out to their parents.
Session 4
Now that we’ve developed more trust and established a sense of safety in our
therapeutic relationship, I aimed to support Jose Luis in exploring their somatic
experience of anxiety through an expressive art intervention in the fourth session.
On the following page is a short transcript of our session.
TABLE 19.2. JOSE LUIS: SESSION 4
Transcript Analysis
Ana: “Gently close your eyes and simply become I facilitated a grounding practice to help Jose Luis
aware of your breath. There is no need to change connect to their somatic experience in preparation
it—simply notice the natural rhythm of your breath for the expressive arts intervention.
[pause]. Allow your body to move with each
inhale and exhale [pause]. Now, gently shift your
awareness to any part of your body where you feel
anxiety and notice what you feel or sense [pause].
Now, gently shift your awareness back to your
breath and notice your breathing—again, there is
no need to change anything. Just become aware
of your breathing [pause]. Now slowly start wiggling
your toes and moving your arms. When you are
ready, open your eyes.”
[Jose Luis opens their eyes.]
“Now, I want you to draw how you experience your
anxiety.”
Jose Luis: “Okay, this should be interesting [smiles].” Jose Luis appeared both excited and nervous
about the expressive arts. Yet, they were willing to
draw their experience of anxiety.
Ana: “First, you are going to draw the outline of your I described the expressive arts activity and
body—think of it as drawing a gingerbread person allowed space for Jose Luis to ask any clarifying
(Drewes, 2001). Then you are going to draw/write questions.
how you experience your anxiety inside your body
(the gingerbread person) or anywhere on the page.
You can use any of the materials here.”
Jose Luis: “Can I play some music as I draw?” Jose Luis expressed a desire to play music and is
still asking for permission to bring themselves into
our clinical work.
Ana: “Of course, you will have about 15 minutes There are several pros and cons regarding
to draw; if you need more time we can adjust as whether we play music during an expressive arts
needed. How does that sound?” activity because music is evocative. However,
it seems important for Jose Luis to play music,
and the music they choose to play is something
we can explore at the end of the expressive arts
intervention while we process their drawing.
Jose Luis: “Sounds good. But I don’t think it will
take me that long at all.”
[starts playing music]
Ana: “It sounds like you have a sense of what you
are going to draw.
Jose Luis: “Yup.”
Ana: You have fifteen minutes starting now.”
Ana: “You have five minutes left.”
Ana: “You have about one minute left.”
Jose Luis: “Ya casi [translation: Almost ready].”
Jose Luis: “Ya termine [translation: I am done].” See Figure 19.1 for sample artwork.
[showing Ana their drawing]
Ana: “Estabas enfocade mientras dibujabas
[translation: You were focused while you drew].”
Jose Luis: “No pensé que me iba a conectar de esa Jose Luis found this expressive arts intervention
manera. Pero cuando comencé a dibujar puedo helpful, allowing them to connect with their
conectar más [translation: I didn’t think I was going experience in ways they hadn’t before.
to connect that way. But when I started drawing, I
was able to connect more] with my anxiety and how
it feels like in my body . . . you know. I am surprised
by what I drew.”
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For the remainder of the session, we processed Jose Luis’s experience of the
expressive arts intervention, what the drawing presents to them, and their expe-
rience of anxiety. Jose Luis was able to vocalize how their experience of anxiety
feels like a storm within that leaves them feeling trapped and stuck.
In the following sessions, Jose Luis’s ability to experience and express their
emotions increased as they explored and integrated previously disowned parts of
themselves. In addition, Jose Luis started identifying environmental triggers such
as experiences of discrimination, bullying, and tension within their family system,
which increased their anxiety.
advocacy interventions that benefited Jose Luis. For example, during parent con-
sultations, I provided psychoeducation regarding adolescents and mental health.
I also consulted with the school counselor and principal regarding school policies
that were negatively impacting the client and engaged in advocacy against anti-
LGBTQ legislation. I also reviewed the Competencies for Counseling with Trans-
gender Clients (ACA, 2009) to support my work with Jose Luis.
Parent Consultations
The language I spoke when I provided mental health services was an ongoing cul-
tural consideration because Jose Luis’s parents are monolingual Spanish speakers.
Thus, during the intake session, I spoke primarily in Spanish, especially when
speaking to the parents, and at times talked to Jose Luis in English and would
translate what Jose Luis or I said into Spanish to ensure that the parents under-
stood what was being said. Another important cultural aspect was ensuring that
the parents felt a sense of respeto and personalismo during the first few sessions.
Therefore, I met with them often for parent consultations and offered brief par-
ent consultations over the phone as needed. During parent consultations, I only
spoke Spanish and ensured that all resources and referrals provided offered cul-
turally and linguistically responsive services.
Conclusion
Throughout our work together, Jose Luis met all the treatment goals they estab-
lished, and they came out to their parents, who at first struggled with support-
ing the client as they explored what this meant for them as parents. Jose Luis’s
parents attended a local group for parents of LGBTQ youth, learned ways to
support Jose Luis, and started using nonbinary and inclusive language in Spanish.
With their increased self-awareness and self-acceptance, Jose Luis started explor-
ing their experiences of internalized oppression and became playful with their
gender expression.
As a therapist, I remembered the power of self-acceptance and family of ori-
gin and creation. As Jose Luis grew in their self-awareness and self-acceptance,
they became more creative and playful in session and outside of session, which
served as a reminder of the importance of healing from internalized oppression to
experience a sense of liberation and empowerment.
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Resources
For Professionals
Gay, Lesbian and Straight Supporters Network (for teachers and students),
https://www.glsen.org/about-us
Erasure and Resilience: The Experiences of LGBTQ Students of Color Report,
https://www.glsen.org/research/latinx-lgbtq-students
National LGBTQIA+ Health Education Center, https://www.lgbtqiahealtheduca
tion.org/
For Clients
National Queer Trans Therapists of Color Network (NQTTCN)—Mental Health
Fund, https://nqttcn.com/en/mental-health-fund/
• The NQTTCN Mental Health Fund provides financial support of up to $100
per session for up to eight sessions with a mental health professional.
GLBT National Youth Talkline: (800) 246-7743
National Coalition of Anti-
Violence Programs: (212) 714-1141 (English and
Spanish)
Trevor Project:
• Webchat: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/get-help/
• Crisis Line: (866) 488-7386
• Text: Texting “START” to 678-678
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For Parents
Somos Familia—resources for families who have a child who identifies with the
LGBTQ+ community, in English and Spanish, https://www.somosfamiliabay
.org/resources/
Family Acceptance Project, https://lgbtqfamilyacceptance.org/
Discussion Questions
1. How may your social location impact your work with Jose Luis and their
parents?
2. How would you work to dismantle the power structures present in our work
with Jose Luis and their parents?
3. How would you engage in advocacy to dismantle the power structures pres-
ent in Jose Luis’s life?
4. How would you approach your work with Jose Luis after reading this
chapter?
5. Moving forward, how can you approach your work with queer adolescents
in ways that are affirming and liberating?
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CHAPT E R 20
Gender
Narrative Therapy with Parents of a Nonbinary
Transgender Korean American Adolescent
Brooks Bull
Lisa, a White, 50-year-old mother, called me for help with her 12-year-old child,
Alex. According to Lisa, Alex had recently come out as a nonbinary transgender
person (they/them pronouns), and the family needed help “figuring out what to do.”
The family consisted of Lisa, Charlie (Lisa’s partner of 10 years); and Alex, who Lisa
adopted at age 8 months from Korea. Alex, who was assigned female at birth, had
typical development until age 9 when “things started to go off course socially.” Lisa
explained that Alex has always been extremely socially isolated, has a hard time
making friends, and is overall quite depressed and lonely. Lisa’s hope was that ther-
apy could provide the emotional support for Alex to “figure out the gender stuff and
get back on track.” She explained that Alex’s disclosure had created a lot of new
tension and conflict between Charlie and her, a new dynamic in their relationship.
This case illustrates how work with transgender adolescents and their parents
must address both the cultural and familial level of meaning making. On the soci-
etal level, oppressive, pathologizing discourses are everywhere (on the internet,
around the watercooler, and on the playground). On the family level, individuals
are trying to make sense of gender and the emergent unfolding of identity devel-
opment and creating their own idiosyncratic meanings and stories. Caregivers
play a vital role in providing a safer space where the transgender child can be
themselves and go through the evolving process of adolescent identity develop-
ment. In this way, both cultural and familial context are a major part of the diag-
nostic and treatment planning picture.
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Narrative Therapy
Narrative therapy is one of the few family therapy theories that overtly addresses
societal and cultural discourses in its view of problem formation and resolution.
White and Epston (1990) revolutionized therapy by highlighting the need to sep-
arate people from problems, or as Winslade and Monk (2008) later put it, “the
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problem is the problem. The person is not the problem” (p. 2). Nowhere is this
simple intervention, externalizing, more obviously important than in therapy
with families with transgender and nonbinary children. By separating the child’s
gender identity from “the problem,” the therapist opens up space to identify the
actual sources of distress—dominant cultural discourses that oppress members of
the family, and the intrapsychic and interpersonal meanings that support those
oppressive discourses.
Remembering
In narrative practice, therapists ask questions to populate a client’s narrative with
allies and witnesses, and if possible, bring other supportive people into the con-
versations (White & Epston, 1990). Connecting parents and transgender children
with other families like theirs is of paramount importance. The therapy conversa-
tion must extend outside the confines of the session room to adequately address
the role of oppression. In fact, therapy with transgender families that exists solely
within the therapeutic system further reifies the notion that to have a transgender
child is a private problem only to be addressed within a mental health setting.
Part of a narrative therapist’s job is to puncture the pathologizing conception that
produces this insular system and connect transgender children and their parents
with the mirroring and growth that only come from and within community.
Parallel to connecting client families to other trans families, another form
of remembering can come in the form of filling in history. Dominant discourse
would have us pretend transgenderism is a new thing, something that has caught
on due to the internet or some other venue of social contagion. In contrast, learn-
ing about transgender history provides a tapestry of human experience into which
the clients can weave themselves. Giving clients books to read and films to watch
that provide allies, elders, and ancestors where previously there was a void can be
a powerful intervention. No longer is having a transgender child just a modern
thing, or a fad, but just another example of a long history of human diversity that
has always been present in all cultures including our own.
Regarding the role of clinician, assessment of Alex’s gender identity is not the
primary task of the clinician (Chang, Singh, & Dickey, 2018). On the contrary,
helping parents understand how to support their child on a journey of identity
exploration is the therapist’s primary job. An awareness of oppressive discourses
including adultism (the idea that children cannot know themselves due to their
age) as well as binarism (the idea that there are only two valid gender identities
and that they correspond strictly to biological sex) are key guiding principles.
The overall treatment goal is to increase parental support for Alex’s nonbi-
nary transgender identity. The objectives are as follows:
1. Develop a strong working relationship with parents and child.
a. Meet parents and child apart from the problem.
b. Engage family with hope and optimism about having a transgender family
member.
c. Clearly articulate therapist’s position and beliefs on gender identity.
2. Assess both family-level and societal dynamics.
a. Identify dominant discourses impacting parents’ current understanding of
Alex’s gender identity.
b. Externalize this oppressive cultural force as The Problem.
c. Map the effects of The Problem for each member.
3. Replace problem- saturated narrative with alternative and local narratives
that support Alex.
a. Identify unique outcomes and exceptions (times when Lisa and Charlie are
not swayed by oppressive binary discourses).
b. Thicken alternative narratives with new language, experiences both from
within the family and from new allies (remembering).
4. Connect Alex and parents with community of other transgender families.
Treatment Process
Most of the work with this family happened with just Lisa and Charlie. Alex
was more of a visitor to this therapy who could redirect and deepen the parents’
work. The first session was devoted to letting Lisa talk about how she had previ-
ously understood Alex’s struggles before they came out as nonbinary. After that, I
shifted my attention to helping Lisa and Charlie externalize the problem and find
a way to describe the feelings that were getting in the way of them really being
there for Alex.
TABLE 20.1. LISA: SESSION 1
Transcript Analysis
T: “How have you understood Alex’s loneliness and Clients need space to tell the story as it exists
isolation in the past? What stories has your family currently before entering into a revising and
told about why Alex’s life is the way it is?” re-storying.
L: “I always put it in the framework of adoption— Lisa was quick to identify the meta-frameworks
that Alex struggled because they were (almost impacting her understanding, and names “being
always) the only adopted, only Korean American adopted” as the lens through which she saw
person in the room. I always thought about it in Alex’s distress.
those terms first.”
T: “And now things are starting to shift in your Tentative question from therapist invites the
understanding?” client to language more of the insight.
L: “Right. Gender was not on my radar in any way
until recently, even though as I think back on it
now, there were lots of gender-related moments of
distress throughout the years.”
T: “It makes sense to me that the very real The therapist looks for opportunities to frame
importance you saw in Alex’s status as an adopted the work as a process of discovery, a quest
kid got in the way of you seeing other aspects of the parent is embarking on. This provides the
their identity. I think that’s part of what’s so powerful foundation for the new narratives (alternative
about dominant discourses—the stories we as a and local discourses) to be created.
culture tell to make sense of experience—they shine
a big light on some things and leave so much else
in total darkness. So, you’re starting to turn your
flashlight to other areas, yes?”
After an initial meeting with Lisa alone, I asked that she come to the next
session with Charlie as well. Early on, the main task is to externalize and shift the
problem language away from the child’s gender identity and locate the problem
in whatever is getting in the way of the parents being supportive. This is best
done without the transgender person, who does not need to be subjected to the
microaggressions of their parents; therapists can be the buffer between the child
and their parents’ early journey out of the stranglehold of anti-trans discourse.
Charlie and Lisa were very open to shifting the focus to becoming a stronger
team again and “getting their car back on the road.” This was the first part of
externalizing the problem and shifting the problem focus away from Alex’s gen-
der itself. In this case, what was getting in the way most for Lisa and Charlie was
a feeling of fear and pressure—fear that Alex was more in harm’s way as a result
of being a nonbinary trans person, and pressure to stop Alex “from making a
huge mistake.” As part of this therapeutic approach, I always directly address and
challenge anti-trans rhetoric as it comes up for clients, and ultimately give the
child strategies for self-advocating in different contexts, including with their par-
ents. I explain and demonstrate this therapist posture and intervention in session
3 with Alex’s stepfather, Charlie, who brought up a term he learned from a quick
internet search called Rapid-Onset Gender Dysphoria.
TABLE 20.2. LISA AND CHARLIE: SESSION 2
Transcript Analysis
T: “I see you two as very caring, engaged parents. These questions help clients externalize the
I wonder what it’s like for you to be in a situation problem and shift problem talk away from the
where you are at odds with Alex and unable to child’s gender identity itself.
connect. That must be a terrible feeling, and
certainly a problem we can work on together. Can
we find words to describe this problem? Take it out
of Alex, away from gender completely, and give it a
name?”
C: “I’m not sure I follow you.” Clients can be confused early on and need
guidance to shift an entrenched problem away
from a family member.
T: “Understandable! I am asking you to think and The therapist uses a strengths-based
talk about this in a very different way. Here’s what I approach to join the client system and create a
mean. From everything I’ve heard thus far, it seems collaborative atmosphere.
like you two are a great team and can handle just
about anything in terms of family and parenting
life. [Both parents nod] So, it strikes me as a big
problem that you are not able to join together and
support your kid through this new development. It
has shaken up your family and put you all at odds.
That seems like a problem to me.”
C: “Ah, I get it now. Like we have to get the car Charlie offers a metaphor that will be used
started again before we figure out where to go.” throughout therapy.
T: “Exactly! Your car is limping along on the The therapist looks for opportunities to use client
shoulder of the road right now.” language and images and increase the field of
possibilities in terms of how the clients story
their experience.
L: “It might actually be in the ditch at this point”
[both parents chuckle ruefully].
T: “You need some help getting back on the road, Therapist occupies a hopeful position that
and we can definitely do that together.” emphasizes a future with possibilities not yet
articulated. Importantly, therapist does not
create conversations that guarantee a specific
outcome in terms of the child’s gender identity
but, rather, emphasizes the journey the family
is on to be as present and engaged with one
another as possible.
TABLE 20.3. LISA AND CHARLIE: SESSION 3
Transcript Analysis
C: “I found something online that I think is really Anti-trans discourse makes its way into the
important. It explains how this stuff comes therapeutic conversation. This is an important
up so quick, out of nowhere. [Charlie looks to moment to intervene upon both to deepen the
me.] Have you heard of Rapid-Onset Gender alliance with Charlie as well as open up alternative,
Dysphoria (ROGD)? Apparently, it’s spreading like more local discourses.
crazy.”
T: “I’ve heard those words before, social These questions locate the term ROGD firmly
contagion and ROGD, they keep coming up in in the sphere of cultural/public discourse and
conversations like this one and on my computer then ask the client to find more personal, local
screen, and it seems like they mean so many meanings. There is more possibility and room for
different things depending on who is speaking. new meanings in the personal, and so the therapist
Charlie, I am wondering what those words mean deepens this as much as possible.
for you, what they bring up?”
C: “I saw it online, in a forum for parents of kids The therapist observes the dynamic between
who suddenly come out as trans, just like Alex. Charlie and Lisa at this moment, noting Charlie’s
It explains a lot for me. [Lisa tries to speak, but need to keep speaking and not allow Lisa’s voice
Charlie talks over her.] I thought, OK, there’s a to interject. The power of the dominant discourse
name for this thing, and a reason so many kids is directly affecting how the partners interact,
are coming out nowadays. I mean, this wasn’t changing what is usually a reciprocal give-and-take
happening in my high school!” into a monological speech.
T: “I’m glad you brought this up, Charlie. It’s so Therapist validates importance of content and
important to address these messages head-on. potential emotional reasoning behind it before
It makes sense to me that a part of you would challenging.
welcome this type of explanation because it
makes it feel like this gender thing might go away
if you challenge it correctly. Is that right?”
C: “Yeah. This all just feels so sudden. I just want Charlie is able to share the fear behind their interest
to make sure Alex isn’t doing something to be in ROGD and opens the door to talking more about
cool, or get attention or something, in a way that his anxieties about the future.
will later feel like a huge mistake.”
T: “I hear you. You really want Alex to be safe The therapist validates the emotion and fear behind
and feel good. I have some resources to share the parents’ content, and then directly challenges
with you that will help put ROGD into context the anti-trans discourse by providing context and
[see resource list for Serano]. The truth is that psychoeducation. Then the therapist asks the
term is being deployed in a really sneaky way to client to tell a more personal, local story about how
invalidate young people’s experience. The rapid they have seen and understood their child’s gender
part is really insidious because it makes it sound identity over time.
like a kid disclosing their identity is the same
thing as a kid having an identity. Let’s pause
there. Can you look back and tell me about how
Alex’s gender has made itself known to you over
the years?”
L: “I’d like to jump in here. I’ve been thinking Lisa enters the conversation speaking from more of
about this a lot, actually, about how the words a personal, local location as opposed to Charlie’s
Alex is using are so jarring and alarming to us, talk, which is heavily influenced at the moment by
while at the same time not much has changed. public discourse. The therapist must attend to both
Charlie, you might not agree with me, but I don’t levels of talk and always try to create more space
think Alex’s presentation has changed much at for alternative stories to grow.
all. Still our little tomboy in most ways. So, I think Lisa also offers powerful language that the
for me it’s about what this means for the future, therapist uses to externalize the problem. The
what being transgender means for Alex in three Monster Feeling becomes shared language for
or five or even ten years. That part really scares when the parents are snagged by fear and start
me. That is the feeling I really want to shake, it’s to feel drawn to anti-trans discourses that invite
like a monster comes over me—us?—and all parents to adjudicate their children’s identities.
I can think of is the future, and I feel so much
worry.”
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Conclusion
Alex benefited greatly from having a space for their parents to explore, make
mistakes, and learn about transgender and nonbinary identities. Meeting other
families with trans children and teens created a network of mirroring and alli-
ances for all three family members and a rich resource where they could bring
specific questions as they arose. The issues they faced when Alex was 12 were
different than when they were 15, and having a deep and broad community was
paramount. Alex continues to identify as a nonbinary transgender person, and
now at age 15 has added understanding of other aspects of their identity as well.
They have recently become more interested in learning more about their heritage
as a person of Korean descent and have enlisted Lisa and Charlie to take Korean
classes with them. The family continues to prioritize “being in it together” above
all else and ensuring that they are relating with one another in real and authentic
ways that fit for their family as opposed to letting That Monster Feeling take over
and make decisions for them. They continue to meet with me as needed, mostly
to process continuing anxiety about Alex’s future as a trans person in a violently
oppressive anti-trans culture.
Resources
For Adolescents
The Gender Quest Workbook by Rylan Jay Testa, Jayme Peta, & Deborah Cool-
hart. Instant Help Books.
It’s Perfectly Normal: Changing Bodies, Growing Up, Sex, and Sexual Health by
Robie H. Harris. Family Library.
Some Assembly Required: The Not-So-Secret Life of a Transgender Teen by Arin
Andrews. Simon & Schuster.
Discussion Questions
1. What is the main role of the therapist in working with transgender adoles-
cents and their parents? Does this case challenge any of your notions about
the role of assessment in this work?
2. How does narrative inquiry invite therapists to challenge dominant cultural
discourses? Does this bring up any misgivings or confusion about your role?
3. As a therapist, what might you need to learn about transgender history as
well as the current political landscape to work effectively with Alex and their
family?
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4. What professional community might you need to find to work with transgen-
der families? How would you respond if you received a request from a client
who wanted to be connected to more community?
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AAPT. See Animal Assisted Play Therapy aggressive behaviors, 44; in communication, 27; family
ableism, 98 settings and, 46; media violence and, 45; in play, 21,
abreaction, 64 35
academic achievement: child-centered play therapy and, alternative discourses, 275
6; Chinese, 78 ambivalence, 248
ACE. See adverse childhood experience American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy
A-C-T limit-setting approach, 144 Code of Ethics, 147
adaptive self-statements, 64 American Counseling Association Code of Ethics,
ADHD. See attention deficit hyperactivity disorder 146–47
Adler, Alfred, 78 American Psychological Association Ethical Principles of
Adlerian play therapy (AdPT): analysis, 85–88; anxiety Psychologists and Code of Conduct, 147
and, 77–94; Asian hate and, 77–94; basis for, 78; case AN. See anorexia nervosa
study application, 82–89; with Chinese American anger, 8, 50
child, 77–94; client conceptualization, 82–83; Animal Assisted Play Therapy (AAPT), 225–26
cultural considerations, 90; discussion questions, anorexia nervosa (AN), 235
93–94; egalitarian relationships in, 80; ethical antisocial behaviors, 44
considerations, 90; goals, 83–84; hoops of control, anxiety: Adlerian play therapy and, 77–94; Asian
91–92; parent consultations, 90; phases of, 80–81, hate and, 77–94; case study applications, 82–89;
85–86; security/insecurity blanket, 92–93; session childhood depression and, 4; Chinese American child
notes, 91–93; teacher consultations, 90; transcript, and, 77–94; Chinese parenting style and, 78; divorce
85–88; treatment process, 84–89 and, 138; separation, 34. See also social anxiety
adolescent depression: adolescent resources, 166; Asian hate, 159, 164; Adlerian play therapy and, 77–94;
analysis, 161–62; Asian culture and, 159; assessment, anxiety and, 77–94; cultural considerations, 90;
165–66; case conceptualization, 163; case study discussion questions, 93–94; ethical considerations,
application, 161–64; Chinese American adolescent 90; parent consultations, 90; session notes, 91–93;
and, 157–66; Cognitive Behavior Therapy and, teacher consultations, 90
157–66, 186–87; consequences of, 158; COVID-19 Association for Play Therapy Best Practices, 103
and, 159; cultural considerations, 164; discussion attention, 80–81
questions, 166; ethical considerations, 164; attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD):
Expressive Arts Therapy and, 157–66; Gen Z and, African American child and, 61–73; analysis, 66–69;
158; goals, 163; major, 247–48; objective process, associations with, 44–45; behaviors common with,
165–66; parent consultations, 164; parent resources, 45; case study applications, 65–70; child-centered
166; plan, 165–66; professional resources, 166; play therapy and, 5; Cognitive Behavioral Play
sample case notes, 165–66; social media and, Therapy and, 61–73; Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
158–59; subjective process, 165; symptoms of, 158; and, 62–63; COVID-19 and, 61–73; cultural
transcripts, 161–62 considerations, 70; delinquency and, 62; depression
adolescent resources: adolescent depression, 166; child symptoms differentiated from, 12; discussion
sexual abuse, 208; Cognitive Behavior Therapy, 166, questions, 73; disruptive behavior and, 44–45;
193; Dialectical Behavior Therapy, 220; divorce, emotional symptoms of, 62; ethical considerations,
193; eating disorder, 244; Enhanced Cognitive 70; indicators of, 62; parent resources, 73;
Behavior Therapy, 244; Expressive Arts Therapy, professional resources, 73; psychoeducation and, 65;
166, 193; extremism, 193; gender, 283; Motivational session notes, 65–73; specific learning disabilities
Interviewing, 256; self-harm, 220; substance use and, 45; statistics on, 44, 61–62; symptoms of,
disorders, 256; Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavior 61–62; transcripts, 66–69; treatment goals, 65;
Therapy, 208 underachievement and, 62; working memory and, 62
AdPT. See Adlerian play therapy autism: analysis, 99–102; assessment, 104–5; case study
adverse childhood experience (ACE), 5 application, 99–102; child resources, 105; cultural
affect modulation skills, 199 considerations, 103; discussion questions, 105–6;
African American adolescent: Dialectical Behavior ethical considerations, 103; group approaches to,
Therapy and, 211–21; Motivational Interviewing 96; group play therapy and, 95–106; integrative
and, 247–57; self-harm and, 211–21; substance use play therapy and, 96–97; misinterpretations of, 96;
disorder and, 247–57 objective process, 104–5; parent consultations, 103;
African American child, 61–73 parent resources, 105; plan, 104–5; professional
age-appropriate assessments, 12 resources, 105; sample case notes, 104–5; session
287
288 Index
notes, 99–102; social activities and, 96; statistics on, Child Behavior Checklist, 48
96; subjective process, 104–5; transcripts, 99–102 child-centered play therapy (CCPT): academic
AutPlay Therapy: analysis, 99–102; assessment, 104–5; achievement and, 6; actualization and, 5; age-
belonging and, 97; case study application, 99–102; appropriate assessments and, 12; analysis, 9–10,
child resources, 105; cultural considerations, 103; 23, 24; assessment, 13, 27; ADHD and, 5; with
discussion questions, 105–6; ethical considerations, biracial child, 3–15, 19–28; caregiver resources,
103; foundation of, 97; neurodivergence, 99–102; 28; case study, 7–10, 22–25; childhood depression
objective process, 104–5; parent consultations, and, 5–7; child resources, 14, 28; conditions for,
103; parent resources, 105; plan, 104–5; process of, 6–7; confidentiality and, 11–12; critical race theory
97; professional resources, 105; sample case notes, and, 19–28; cultural considerations and, 11–12,
104–5; subjective process, 104–5; tenets of, 97; 22, 25; diagnosis session, 13; discussion questions,
transcripts, 99–102 14–15, 28; domestic violence and, 31–39; ethical
Axline, Virginia, 5 considerations, 11–12, 25; goals, 7–8, 23; homeless
children and, 6; intake sessions, 7; internalized
behavioral logs, 54 behavioral problems and, 6; interpersonal skills and,
behavioral reversal, 64 33–34; intervention session, 13; objective processes,
belonging, 91, 97 27; parent consultations, 12, 23, 25–26; parent
“Be-With” Attitudes, 142 resources, 14; plan, 27; presentation session, 13;
biracial adolescent, 197–209 professional resources, 14, 28; responses used in, 5–6;
biracial child: child-centered play therapy and, safe environment and, 6–8; self-acceptance and, 21;
3–15, 19–28; developmental stages, 20; identity self-understanding and, 21; session notes, 13–14, 22,
development, 20; in White community, 22 24, 27; space for, 5; subjective processes, 27; teacher
Black categorization bias, 20 consultations and, 12; transcripts, 9–10, 23, 24;
BN. See bulimia nervosa treatment process, 7–10, 23; with White child, 31–39;
breathing exercises, 35, 50, 116 White privilege and, 26
Bryson, Tina Payne, 37 childhood depression, 8–10, 13–15; adverse childhood
bulimia nervosa (BN), 235–36 experiences and, 5; anxiety and, 4; ADHD symptoms
bullying, 212–13 differentiated from, 12; child-centered play therapy
and, 5–7; communication and, 4, 6–7; conditions of
calming strategies, 35, 50 worth and, 6; criteria, 4; cultural background and,
capable, 81, 91 5; diagnostic difficulties with, 4; early life depressors
case study applications: Adlerian play therapy, 82–89; and, 4; factors linked to, 4; family history and, 4;
adolescent depression, 161–64; anxiety, 82–89; gender and, 4–5; impairment from, 3–4; later life
ADHD, 65–70; autism, 99–102; AutPlay Therapy, mental health problems and, 4; microaggressions and,
99–102; child-centered play therapy and, 7–10, 11; parent consultations and, 12; physical symptoms
22–25; Child-Parent Relationship Theory, 140–46; and, 5; self-concept and, 6; statistics on, 4; symptoms
child sexual abuse, 201–6; Cognitive Behavior of, 3–4
Play Therapy, 48–53, 65–70; Cognitive Behavior Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT), 12; analysis,
Therapy, 161–64, 188–90; critical race theory and, 143, 145; case study application, 140–46; cultural
22–25; Dialectical Behavior Therapy, 215; disruptive considerations, 146–47; discussion questions, 150;
behavior, 48–53; divorce, 140–46, 188–90; eating divorce and, 137–50; effectiveness of, 139; ethical
disorders, 239–42; Enhanced Cognitive Behavior considerations, 146–47; initial intake, 140–41;
Therapy, 239–42; Equine Assisted Family Play objectives, 141; origins of, 138; overview, 140; parent
Therapy and, 226–31; Expressive Arts Therapy, resources, 150; professional resources, 150; religion
161–64, 188–90; extremism, 188–90; family stress, and, 147; session notes, 141–46, 149; transcripts,
127–32; Filial Therapy, 127–32; gender, 276–78; 143, 145; with White child, 137–50
Gestalt therapy, 263–68; grief, 114–17; gun violence, Children’s Depression Inventory, 6, 7
114–17; LGBTQ people, 263–68; Mindfulness- child resources: autism, 105; AutPlay Therapy, 105;
Based Cognitive Behavior Therapy and, 171–74; child-centered play therapy, 14, 28; child sexual
Motivational Interviewing, 250–54; narrative abuse, 208; Cognitive Behavior Play Therapy, 56;
therapy, 276–78; neurodivergent, 99–102; nonbinary critical race theory, 28; disruptive behavior, 56;
transgender adolescent, 276–78; sand tray therapy, grief, 119; gun violence, 119; neurodivergence, 105;
114–17; self-harm, 215; social anxiety, 171–74; sand tray therapy, 119; Trauma-Focused Cognitive
substance use disorder, 250–54; Tourette syndrome, Behavior Therapy, 208; Trauma Informed Child-
226–31; Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavior Centered Play Therapy, 39
Therapy, 201–6; Trauma Informed Child-Centered child sexual abuse (CSA): adolescent resources, 208;
Play Therapy, 34–36 analysis, 203, 205; biracial adolescent and, 197–209;
CBPT. See Cognitive Behavior Play Therapy case study application, 201–6; child resources, 208;
CBT. See Cognitive Behavior Therapy COVID-19 and, 197–209; cultural considerations,
CBT-BN. See Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Bulimia 206–7; developmental impacts of, 197; discussion
Nervosa questions, 209; ethical considerations, 206–7; goals,
CBT-E. See Enhanced Cognitive Behavior Therapy 202; intake, 201–2; parent consultations, 207; parent
CCPT. See child-centered play therapy resources, 208–9; professional resources, 208; sample
Index 289
case notes, 208; sex education and, 206; statistics, confidentiality: child-centered play therapy and, 11–12;
198; symptoms of, 197–98; transcript, 203, 205; Trauma Informed Child-Centered Play Therapy and,
Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavior Therapy and, 36. See also ethical considerations
197–209. See also sexual exploitation risk connect, 81
A Child’s First Book about Play Therapy, 49, 53 COVID-19: adolescent depression and, 159; African
Chinese American adolescent: adolescent depression and, American child and, 61–73; ADHD and, 61–73; child
157–66; Cognitive Behavior Therapy and, 157–66; sexual abuse and, 197–209; Cognitive Behavior Play
Expressive Arts Therapy with, 157–66; nonbinary Therapy and, 61–73; coping strategy resources for,
transgender, 273–84 33; deaths from, 109–10; domestic violence and, 32;
Chinese American child, 77–94 grief and, 109–20; parental burnout and, 32; sand
Chinese parenting style, 78 tray therapy and, 111–20
Chinese virtues, 77–78, 82 courage, 81, 91; for imperfection, 90
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Bulimia Nervosa CPRT. See Child-Parent Relationship Therapy
(CBT-BN), 236 criminal charges, 36–37
Cognitive Behavior Play Therapy (CBPT): with African critical race theory (CRT): assessments, 27; caregiver
American child, 61–73; analysis, 49, 52, 66–69; resources, 28; case study applications, 22–25; child-
aspects of, 63; assessment, 56; ADHD and, 61–73; centered play therapy and, 19–28; child resources,
case study application, 48–53, 65–70; check-ins, 28; cultural considerations and, 25; discussion
64; child resources, 56; collaborative structure questions, 28; ethical considerations and, 25; goals,
of, 64; communication engagement through, 63; 23; objective processes, 27; parent consultations and,
cultural considerations, 53–54, 70; discussion 25–26; plan, 27; professional resources, 28; session
questions, 57, 73; disruptive behavior and, 43–57; notes, 22, 24, 27; subjective processes, 27; tenets of,
ethical considerations, 53–54, 70; flexibility in, 64; 22
framework of, 46–47; goals, 48–49, 65; objective CRT. See critical race theory
process, 56, 65; parent consultations and, 54–55, Crucial Cs, 79, 81
70–71; parent resources, 57, 73; plan, 56; problem CSA. See child sexual abuse
solving skills and, 46; professional resources, 56, cultural considerations: Adlerian play therapy, 90;
73; rationale for, 43; role play and, 47–48; safe adolescent depression, 164; Asian hate, 90; ADHD
environment and, 63; sample case notes, 55–56, and, 70; autism, 103; AutPlay Therapy, 103; child-
71–73; school-based, 47; self-control and, 46; centered play therapy and, 11–12, 22, 25; Child-
self-reports, 64; self-talk built through, 63; session Parent Relationship Theory, 146–47; child sexual
notes, 49–53, 65–73; short term results of, 47; socio- abuse and, 206–7; Cognitive Behavior Play Therapy
emotional understanding and, 63; strategies, 49, and, 70; Cognitive Behavior Therapy, 164, 191;
64–65; subject process, 55–56; techniques, 47–48; critical race theory and, 25; Dialectical Behavior
transcripts, 49, 52, 66–69; with White child, 43–57 Therapy, 219; disruptive behavior, 53–54; divorce,
Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT): ADHD and, 146–47, 191; eating disorders, 242; Enhanced
62–63; adolescent depression and, 157–66, Cognitive Behavior Therapy, 242; Equine Assisted
186–87; adolescent resources, 166, 193; analysis, Family Play Therapy, 231; Expressive Arts Therapy,
161–62, 189–90; assessment, 165–66, 192–93; 164, 191; extremism, 191; family stress, 132–33;
case conceptualization, 163; case study application, Filial Therapy, 132–33; gender and, 281; grief,
161–64, 188–90; with Chinese American adolescent, 117; gun violence, 117; LGBTQ people, 268–69;
157–66; cultural considerations, 164, 191; discussion Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Behavior Therapy, 176;
questions, 166, 194; divorce and, 183–94; ethical Motivational Interviewing, 254; neurodivergence,
considerations, 164, 191; extremism and, 183–94; 103; nonbinary transgender adolescent, 281; parent
goals, 163; lasting effects from, 62; objective consultations and, 26; religion and, 54; sand tray
process, 165–66, 192–93; overview of, 46; parent therapy, 117; self-actualization and, 11; self-harm,
consultations, 164, 191–92; parent resources, 219; social anxiety, 176; substance use disorder, 254;
166, 193–94; plan, 165–66, 192–93; professional Tourette syndrome, 231; Trauma-Focused Cognitive
resources, 166, 193; reinforcement techniques of, Behavior Therapy and, 206–7; Trauma Informed
63; sample case notes, 165–66, 192–93; subjective Child-Centered Play Therapy, 36–37
process, 165, 192–93; transcripts, 161–62, 189–90; cultural discourses, 275
with White adolescent, 183–94
cognitive coping skills, 199, 203 DBT. See Dialectical Behavior Therapy
cognitive distortions, 186 delinquency, 62
cognitive triangle, 189, 203 Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT): adolescent
collaboration, 125 resources, 220; African American adolescent and,
comfort, 80 211–21; analysis, 217–18; assessment, 220; case
communication: through aggression, 27; childhood study application, 215; core beliefs, 213–14; cultural
depression and, 4, 6–7; Cognitive Behavior Play considerations, 219; design of, 213–14; discussion
Therapy and engagement in, 63; of feelings, 49 questions, 221; ethical considerations, 219; objective
community feeling, 80 processes, 220; parent consultations, 219; parent
Competencies for Counseling with Transgender Clients, resources, 220; plan, 220; professional resources,
269 220; sample case notes, 220; self-harm and, 211–21;
290 Index
skills sets, 214; subjective processes, 220; transcript, Ecological Systems Theory, 124–25, 127
217–18; treatment goals, 215–16; treatment process, emotional regulation, 34, 214
216–18 empathic understanding, 248
discrepancy, 249 empathy, 125, 249, 252
disruptive behavior: analysis, 49, 52; assessment, 56; empowerment, 125
ADHD and, 44–45; case study application, 48–53; encouragement, 12
child resources, 56; Cognitive Behavior Play Enhanced Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT-E):
Therapy and, 43–57; cultural considerations, 53–54; adolescent resources, 244; analysis, 240–41;
domestic violence and, 32; emotional factors in, 44; assessment, 243–44; case study, 239–42; cultural
environmental factors in, 44; ethical considerations, considerations, 242; discussion questions, 245; eating
53–54; family factors in, 44, 46; genetic factors in, disorders and, 235–45; ethical considerations, 242;
44; interventions, 47; January 6 uprising and, 43–57; limitations to, 236; Mexican American adolescent
media violence and, 45; objective process, 56; parent and, 235–45; objective processes, 243–44; overview,
consultations and, 54–55; parent resources, 57; 237; parent consultations, 243; parent resources,
physiological factors in, 44; plan, 56; professional 244; plan, 243–44; professional resources, 244;
resources, 56; reenactments and, 49–50; sample case research on, 236; sample case notes, 243–44; stages,
notes, 55–56; session notes, 49–53; statistics on, 237–39; subjective processes, 243–44; transcripts,
44–46; subjective process, 55–56; transcripts, 49, 52; 240–41; treatment goals, 237
triggers, 44; with White child, 43–57 Equine Assisted Family Play Therapy (EAFPT): analysis,
distress tolerance, 214, 216 229–30; barriers activity, 228–29; case study
divorce: adolescent resources, 193; analysis, 143, application, 226–31; cultural considerations, 231;
145, 189–90; anxiety and, 138; assessment, discussion questions, 232; effectiveness of, 231–32;
192–93; case study application, 140–46, 188–90; ethical considerations, 231; learning from, 230–31;
Child-Parent Relationship Therapy and, 137–50; overview, 227–28; resources, 232; sexual exploitation
Cognitive Behavior Therapy and, 183–94; cultural risk and, 223–32; skills required, 232; Tourette
considerations, 146–47, 191; discussion questions, syndrome and, 223–32; transcript, 229–30; treatment
150, 194; ethical considerations, 146–47, 191; goals, 227; treatment process, 227; White adolescent
Expressive Arts Therapy and, 183–94; extremism and, 223–32
and, 183–94; impact of, 138, 183–84; initial intake Equine Assisted Growth and Learning Association
session, 140–41; objective process, 192–93; parent (EAGALA), 227
consultations and, 191–92; parent resources, 150, ethical considerations: ADHD and, 70; Adlerian play
193–94; plan, 192–93; professional resources, 150, therapy, 90; adolescent depression, 164; Asian hate,
193; rates, 183; routine shifts and, 140; sample case 90; autism, 103; AutPlay Therapy, 103; child-
notes, 192–93; session notes, 141–46, 149; statistics, centered play therapy and, 11–12, 25; Child-Parent
138; subjective process, 192–93; transcripts, 143, Relationship Theory, 146–47; child sexual abuse
145, 189–90; treatment approach to, 186–88; and, 206–7; Cognitive Behavior Play Therapy and,
treatment objectives, 141; White adolescent and, 53–54, 70; Cognitive Behavior Therapy, 164, 191;
183–94 confidentiality and, 11–12; critical race theory and,
domestic violence: behavioral impacts of, 31–32; child- 25; cultural background and, 12; Dialectical Behavior
centered play therapy and, 31–39; children’s books Therapy, 219; disruptive behavior, 53–54; divorce,
on, 33; cognitive strategies for, 33; COVID-19 and, 146–47, 191; eating disorders, 242; Enhanced
32; defining, 31; disruptive behavior and, 32; learning Cognitive Behavior Therapy, 242; Equine Assisted
and, 32; play themes and, 32; statistics on, 32; Family Play Therapy, 231; Expressive Arts Therapy,
triggers, 32; White child and, 31–39 164, 191; extremism, 191; family stress, 132–33;
Dominican American adolescent, 259–71 Filial Therapy, 132–33; gender and, 281; grief,
117; gun violence, 117; LGBTQ people, 268–69;
EAFPT. See Equine Assisted Family Play Therapy Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Behavior Therapy, 176;
EAGALA. See Equine Assisted Growth and Learning Motivational Interviewing, 254; neurodivergence,
Association 103; nonbinary transgender adolescent, 281; sand
early life stressors, 4 tray therapy, 117; self-harm, 219; social anxiety,
eating disorders: adolescent resources, 244; analysis, 176; substance use disorder, 254; Tourette syndrome,
240–41; assessment, 243–44; behavior and, 231; Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavior Therapy
237; case study, 239–42; cultural considerations, and, 206–7; Trauma Informed Child-Centered Play
242; discussion questions, 245; Enhanced Therapy, 36–37
Cognitive Behavior Therapy and, 235–45; ethical Expressive Arts Therapy, 263; adolescent depression
considerations, 242; formulation, 238, 240; initial and, 157–66; adolescent resources, 166, 193;
assessment, 237–38; medical information, 238; analysis, 161–62, 189–90; assessment, 165–66,
Mexican American adolescent and, 235–45; objective 192–93; case conceptualization, 163; case study
processes, 243–44; parent consultations, 243; parent application, 161–64, 188–90; with Chinese American
resources, 244; plan, 243–44; professional resources, adolescent, 157–66; cultural considerations, 164,
244; sample case notes, 243–44; statistics, 236; 191; discussion questions, 166, 194; divorce and,
subjective processes, 243–44; transcripts, 240–41; 183–94; effectiveness of, 160; ethical considerations,
treatment goals, 237; types of, 235–36 164, 191; examples of, 262; extremism and, 183–94;
Index 291
goals, 163; objective process, 165–66, 192–93; consultations, 117–18; parent resources, 119–20;
parent consultations, 164, 191–92; parent resources, plan, 118–19; professional resources, 119; recovery
166, 193–94; plan, 165–66, 192–93; professional from, 110; responses to, 110; sample case notes, 118–
resources, 166, 193; sample case notes, 165–66, 19; sand tray therapy and, 111–20; session notes,
192–93; self-awareness and, 160; self-expression and, 114–17; subjective processes, 118–19; transcripts,
160; subjective process, 165, 192–93; transcripts, 115–16; traumatic, 111
161–62, 189–90; with White adolescent, 183–94 Guerney, Bernard, 125
extremism: access to, 185; adolescent resources, Guerney, Louise, 125
193; analysis, 189–90; assessment, 192–93; case gun violence: analysis, 115–16; assessment, 118–19;
study application, 188–90; categorizing, 185; case study application, 114–17; child resources, 119;
Cognitive Behavior Therapy and, 183–94; cultural cultural considerations, 117; discussion questions,
considerations, 191; discussion questions, 194; 119–20; ethical considerations, 117; grief and,
divorce and, 183–94; ethical considerations, 191; 109–20; objective processes, 118–19; objectives, 115–
Expressive Arts Therapy and, 183–94; impact 16; parent consultations, 117–18; parent resources,
of, 184–85; objective process, 192–93; parent 119–20; plan, 118–19; professional resources, 119;
consultations and, 191–92; parent resources, 193–94; sample case notes, 118–19; sand tray therapy and,
plan, 192–93; professional resources, 193; sample 111–20; session notes, 114–17; statistics on, 111;
case notes, 192–93; subjective process, 192–93; subjective processes, 118–19; transcripts, 115–16
transcripts, 189–90; treatment approach to, 186–88;
White adolescent and, 183–94 Hall, G. Stanley, 158
hate speech, 212–13
facilitative responses, 65, 67 Herman, Judith, 33
Fairburn, C. G., 236 human nature, 21
family acceptance, 274 humility, 125
family constellations, 79, 82 hypervigilance, 34
family stress: analysis, 129; case study, 127–32; cultural
considerations, 132–33; discussion questions, 134; “I feel” statements, 50–51
ethical considerations, 132–33; Filial Therapy and, inadequacy, proving, 80–81
123–34; goals, 127–28; home-based sessions, 132; Indigenous American family, 123–34
office based sessions, 130–32; parent resources, Intake Questionnaire for Child-Parent Relationship
134; professional resources, 134; sample case notes, Therapy, 140
133–34; transcripts, 129 integrative play therapy, 96–97
Filial Therapy (FT), 138; analysis, 129; case study, internalized behavioral problems, 6
127–32; conceptualization, 127; core values of, interpersonal effectiveness, 214
125; cultural considerations, 132–33; development interpersonal skills, 33–34
of, 125; discussion questions, 134; environmental intersectionality theory, 262
contexts and, 123–25; ethical considerations, interventions: child-centered play therapy and, 13;
132–33; family stress and, 123–34; goals, 127–28; disruptive behavior, 47; for sexual exploitation risk,
home-based sessions, 132; with Indigenous American 224–25
family, 123–34; integrations into, 125; limits in, intimate partner violence. See domestic violence
126; office based sessions, 130–32; parent resources,
134; process, 128–32; professional resources, 134; January 6 uprising, 43–57
psychoeducation and, 125; sample case notes,
133–34; training, 126–27, 128–29; transcripts, 129 LGBTQ people: analysis, 265, 267; case study
application, 263–68; client resources, 270; cultural
gender: adolescent resources, 283; assessment, 282; case considerations, 268–69; discrimination towards,
study application, 276–78; childhood depression and, 260–61; discussion questions, 271; ethical
4–5; cultural considerations, 281; current resources, considerations, 268–69; Gestalt therapy and, 259–71;
283; ethical considerations and, 281; historical intake session, 264; liberatory approaches and,
resources, 283; narrative therapy and, 273–84; 259–71; mental health risks, 259–60; minority stress
objective processes, 282; plan, 282; sample case and, 260; parent consultations, 269; parent resources,
notes, 282; subjective processes, 282 271; professional resources, 270; sample case notes,
genuineness, 125 270; transcript, 265, 267
Gestalt therapy: case study application, 263–68; liberatory approaches, 259–71
Dominican American adolescent and, 259–71; lifestyles, 79; investigating, 80, 86–87
LGBTQ people and, 259–71; overview, 261–62 life tasks, 79, 81
grief: analysis, 115–16; assessment, 118–19; case study limit setting, 12; A-C-T approach, 144; Filial Therapy,
application, 114–17; child resources, 119; COVID- 126
19 and, 109–20; cultural considerations, 117; Linehan, Marsha, 213
defined, 110; discussion questions, 119–20; ethical local discourses, 275
considerations, 117; gun violence and, 109–20;
Mexican American child and, 109–20; objective MB-CBT. See Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Behavior
processes, 118–19; objectives, 115–16; parent Therapy
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media violence, 45 282; plan, 282; sample case notes, 282; subjective
Mexican American adolescent, 235–45 processes, 282
Mexican American child: grief and, 109–20; sand tray noncompliant behaviors, 44
therapy and, 111–20 nondirective tenants, 5
MI. See Motivational Interviewing non-suicidal self-injury (NSSI), 213–14
microaggressions: childhood depression and, 11; racial
identity and, 22 one drop rule, 19–20
mindfulness, 214 oppositional behaviors, 44
Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Behavior Therapy oppression, 11
(MB-CBT): analysis, 173–76; assessment, 177–78;
case study application, 171–74; client resources, 178; Pakistani American adolescent, 169–78
cultural considerations, 176; discussion questions, parental burnout, 32
178; ethical considerations, 176; objective process, parent consultations: Adlerian play therapy, 90;
177; with Pakistani American adolescent, 169–78; adolescent depression, 164; Asian hate, 90; autism,
parent consultations, 176–77; plan, 178; professional 103; AutPlay Therapy, 103; child-centered play
resources, 178; sample case notes, 177–78; social therapy and, 12, 23, 25–26; childhood depression
anxiety and, 169–78; subjective process, 177; teacher and, 12; child sexual abuse, 207; Cognitive Behavior
consultations, 176–77; transcripts, 173–76 Play Therapy and, 54–55, 70–71; Cognitive Behavior
minority stress, 260 Therapy, 164, 191–92; critical race theory and,
misbehavior goals, 79 25–26; cultural considerations and, 26; Dialectical
Motivational Interviewing (MI): adolescent resources, Behavior Therapy, 219; disruptive behavior and,
256; African American adolescent and, 247–57; 54–55; divorce and, 191–92; eating disorder,
analysis, 253; assessment, 255–56; case study 243; Enhanced Cognitive Behavior Therapy, 243;
application, 250–54; cultural considerations, 254; Expressive Arts Therapy, 164, 191–92; extremism
discussion questions, 257; ethical considerations, and, 191–92; family dynamics and, 26; grief, 117–18;
254; objective processes, 255–56; parent gun violence, 117–18; LGBTQ people and, 269;
consultations and, 254–55; plan, 256; principles Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Behavior Therapy,
of, 249–50; professional resources, 256; sample 176–77; misunderstandings and, 37–38; Motivational
case notes, 255–56; subjective processes, 255–56; Interviewing and, 254–55; neurodivergence, 103; sand
substance use disorder and, 247–57; teacher tray therapy, 117–18; self-harm, 219; social anxiety,
consultations and, 254–55; tenets of, 248; transcript, 176–77; substance use disorders, 254–55; Trauma-
253; treatment goals, 251 Focused Cognitive Behavior Therapy, 207; Trauma
Multicultural and Social Justice Competencies, 268 Informed Child-Centered Play Therapy and, 37–38
muscle relaxation exercises, 35 parent resources: ADHD, 73; adolescent depression,
166; autism, 105; AutPlay Therapy, 105; child-
narrative storytelling, 22; racial identity and, 24–25; centered play therapy, 14; Child-Parent Relationship
responses to, 25 Theory, 150; child sexual abuse, 208–9; Cognitive
narrative therapy: analysis, 278–80; assessment, 282; Behavior Play Therapy, 57, 73; Cognitive Behavior
case study application, 276–78; gender and, 273–84; Therapy, 166, 193–94; Dialectical Behavior Therapy,
nonbinary transgender adolescent and, 273–84; 220; disruptive behavior, 57; divorce, 150, 193–94;
objective processes, 282; overview, 274–76; plan, eating disorder, 244; Enhanced Cognitive Behavior
282; sample case notes, 282; subjective processes, Therapy, 244; Expressive Arts Therapy, 166, 193–94;
282; transcript, 278–80 extremism, 193–94; family stress, 134; Filial Therapy,
National Association for Social Workers Code of Ethics, 134; grief, 119–20; gun violence, 119–20; LGBTQ
147 people, 271; neurodivergence, 105; sand tray therapy,
neurodivergence: analysis, 99–102; assessment, 119–20; self-harm, 220; Trauma-Focused Cognitive
104–5; AutPlay Therapy and, 99–102; case study Behavior Therapy, 208–9; Trauma Informed Child-
application, 99–102; child resources, 105; cultural Centered Play Therapy, 39
considerations, 103; defined, 98; discussion questions, pause button, 67, 68, 69, 70
105–6; ethical considerations, 103; group approaches personality priorities, 79, 80
to, 96; group play therapy and, 95–106; integrative Person-Centered theory, 5, 248
play therapy and, 96–97; objective process, 104–5; PGD. See Prolonged Grief Disorder
paradigm of, 98; parent consultations, 103; parent playfulness, 125
resources, 105; plan, 104–5; professional resources, Play Therapy Best Practices, 147
105; sample case notes, 104–5; session notes, pleasing, 80, 91
99–102; statistics on, 96; subjective process, 104–5; political views, 44. See also extremism
transcripts, 99–102 positive core adaptive cognitions, 64
No-Drama Discipline (Bryson & Siegel), 37 power, 80–81; affirmation, 187–88
nonbinary transgender adolescent: assessment, 282; problem-saturated stories, 275
case study applications, 276–78; Chinese American, problem solving skills, 64; Cognitive Behavior Play
273–84; cultural considerations and, 281; discussion Therapy and, 46
questions, 283–84; ethical considerations, 281; professional resources: ADHD, 73; adolescent
narrative therapy and, 273–84; objective processes, depression, 166; autism, 105; AutPlay Therapy, 105;
Index 293
child-centered play therapy, 14, 28; Child-Parent consultations, 117–18; parent resources, 119–20;
Relationship Theory, 150; child sexual abuse, 208; plan, 118–19; procedures, 113–14; professional
Cognitive Behavior Play Therapy, 56, 73; Cognitive resources, 119; sample case notes, 118–19; session
Behavior Therapy, 166, 193; critical race theory, notes, 114–17; strategies, 113–14; subjective
28; Dialectical Behavior Therapy, 220; disruptive processes, 118–19; transcripts, 115–16
behavior, 56; divorce, 150, 193; eating disorder, saving face, 82
244; Enhanced Cognitive Behavior Therapy, 244; schemas, 186
Expressive Arts Therapy, 166, 193; extremism, 193; self-acceptance, 21
family stress, 134; Filial Therapy, 134; grief, 119; gun self-actualization: child-centered play therapy and, 5;
violence, 119; LGBTQ people, 270; Mindfulness- collectivistic cultures and, 11; cultural considerations
Based Cognitive Behavior Therapy, 178; Motivational and, 11; discrimination and, 11; individualistic
Interviewing, 256; neurodivergence, 105; sand cultures and, 11; oppression and, 11
tray therapy, 119; self-harm, 220; social anxiety, self-awareness, 160
178; substance use disorder, 256; Trauma-Focused self-calming techniques, 49
Cognitive Behavior Therapy, 208; Trauma Informed self-concept: childhood depression and, 6; from others,
Child-Centered Play Therapy, 39 27
Prolonged Grief Disorder (PGD), 110 self-control: aggressive toys and, 21; Cognitive Behavior
protection symbols, 188 Play Therapy and, 46; development of, 8
psychoeducation, 64, 199; ADHD and, 65; Filial Therapy self-efficacy, 249
and, 125 self-expression, 64, 160
self-harm: adolescent resources, 220; African American
racial identity: Black categorization bias, 20; conflict and, adolescent and, 211–21; analysis, 217–18;
21; development in children, 19–21; linear process of, assessment, 220; case study applications, 215;
20; microaggressions and, 22; narrative storytelling cultural considerations, 219; Dialectical Behavior
and, 24–25; physical features and, 20; pride in, 26; Therapy and, 211–21; discussion questions, 221;
recognizing, 20; social features and, 20; stages, 20 ethical considerations, 219; objective processes, 220;
racially colorblind ideology: disrupting, 22, 24–25; parent consultations, 219; parent resources, 220;
racism and, 21–22 plan, 220; professional resources, 220; religion and,
racism: racially colorblind ideology and, 21–22; 215; sample case notes, 220; subjective processes,
validation of, 22 220; transcript, 217–18; treatment goals, 215–16;
relationship, 125 treatment process, 216–18
relaxation skills, 199 self-reports, 64
religion: Child-Parent Relationship Theory and, 147; self-talk: Cognitive Behavior Play Therapy and, 63;
cultural considerations and, 54; self-harm and, 215; domestic violence and positive, 33
Trauma Informed Child-Centered Play Therapy and, self-understanding, 21
37 separation anxiety, 34
remembering, 276 sex education, 206
resistance, 249 sexual exploitation risk: defined, 224; Equine Assisted
RESPECTFUL model, 215 Family Play Therapy and, 223–32; interventions
responsibility, returning, 12 for, 224–25; statistics, 224; Tourette syndrome and,
Restorative Justice, 251 223–32; White adolescent and, 223–32
re-storying, 275 Siegel, Daniel, 33, 37
revenge, 80–81 SLD. See specific learning disabilities
Reynolds Children’s Manifest Anxiety Scale, 172 social anxiety: analysis, 173–76; assessment, 177–78;
River of Life activity, 252–53 case study application, 171–74; client resources, 178;
Rogers, Carl, 5 cultural considerations, 176; defined, 170; discussion
role play, 49, 64; Cognitive Behavior Play Therapy and, questions, 178; ethical considerations, 176; levels of,
47–48; fantasy in, 53 172; Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Behavior Therapy
and, 169–78; objective process, 177; with Pakistani
safe environment: child-centered play therapy and, 6–8; American adolescent, 169–78; parent consultations,
Cognitive Behavior Play Therapy and, 63; principles 176–77; plan, 178; professional resources, 178;
of, 33; Trauma Informed Child-Centered Play sample case notes, 177–78; subjective process, 177;
Therapy and, 33 teacher consultations, 176–77; transcripts, 173–76;
SAMHSA. See Substance Abuse and Mental Services triggers, 171–72
Administration social connection groups, 95
sand tray therapy, 188–89; analysis, 115–16; assessment, social interest, 80
118–19; case study application, 114–17; child social media: adolescent depression and, 158–59;
resources, 119; COVID-19 and, 111–20; cultural thinking errors in, 189
considerations, 117; discussion questions, 119–20; socio-emotional understanding, 63
ethical considerations, 117; goals, 113; grief and, Southern Poverty Law Center, 184–85
111–20; gun violence and, 111–20; materials, 112– specific learning disabilities (SLD), 45
13; Mexican American child and, 111–20; objective STAR sequence, 53
processes, 118–19; objectives, 115–16; parent strength shield, 188
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Samuel Bore, PhD, LPC-S, is associate professor and chair of counseling programs
at the University of North Texas at Dallas in the School of Behavioral Health and
Human Services. Dr. Bore is also a certified school counselor and licensed profes-
sional counselor in Texas, with expertise in school counseling, marriage, and fam-
ily counseling. He has more than 20 peer-reviewed publications in research areas
such as group work in schools, school counselor and administrators’ collabora-
tion, ethics in school counseling, self-injury among teenagers, cultural straddling
among immigrants and refugees, and spirituality.
Sara Cantu, PhD, LPC-S, LMFT-S, RPT-S, CEDS-C, counsels children and adoles-
cents in private practice in Frisco, Texas. She is also director of curriculum and
certification for the International Association for Eating Disorder Professionals.
Sara has worked with children, adolescents, and adults affected by eating disor-
ders and their families at all levels of care. She is a certified eating disorder spe-
cialist approved consultant.
Dalena Dillman Taylor, PhD, LMHC, RPT-S, is associate professor at the Uni-
versity of North Texas in the Department of Counseling and Higher Education.
She earned her doctoral degree in counseling and completed her master’s degree
in counseling from the University of North Texas. Dr. Dillman Taylor’s primary
research interests include advancement of Adlerian Play Therapy field toward
evidence-based practice, counseling and educational services for high-need chil-
dren and families, and counselor development and supervision.
Anelie Etienne, LMSW, dedicates her career to improving systems and serving
youth impacted by poverty, mental illness, substance abuse, housing instability,
and other contributing factors to child neglect and maltreatment. She has worked
with the local department of social services for nearly a decade as a child pro-
tective services investigator, project manager for families involved with the child
welfare system, and currently as grants coordinator, she accesses federal, state,
and local funding to create housing opportunities.
Caitlin Frawley, PhD, LMHC, earned her doctorate degree in counselor educa-
tion from the University of Central Florida. She completed her master’s degree in
mental health counseling at Teachers College, Columbia University, in New York
City. She is a licensed mental health counselor. Her clinical experiences include
providing play therapy and counseling to children in the foster care system and
youth survivors of sexual abuse.
Robert Jason Grant, EdD, LPC, RPT-S, is the creator of AutPlay® Therapy. He is a
therapist, supervisor, and consultant, and uses several years of advanced training
and his own lived neurodivergent experience to provide affirming services to chil-
dren and their families. He is an international trainer and keynote presenter and
multi-published author of several articles and books. He is currently serving as
past chair on the board of directors for the Association for Play Therapy.
Chi-Sing “Denny” Li, PhD, LPC-S, LMFT, is professor in the Counselor Educa-
tion Department of Sam Houston State University. He has been a licensed pro-
fessional counselor (LPC) and a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT)
in Texas for 30 years. His research and numerous publications are focused on
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cross-cultural issues in counseling, group counseling, and crisis and trauma coun-
seling. Dr. Li was awarded the Outstanding Counselor Educator of the Year in
2023 by the Texas Association for Counselor Education and Supervision.
Domonique Messing, LCSW, RPT, MBA, is a clinical social worker and registered
play therapist. She currently serves clients in private practice and specializes in
working with children, adolescents, young adults, parents, and expectant moth-
ers. Domonique has extensive experience in various evidence-based treatments,
practicing from a person-centered approach.
Jason O. Perry, PhD, LCMHC, is teaching assistant professor and director of the
McClammy Counseling and Research Laboratory at East Carolina University.
He has a passion for serving the needs of the people from his home of Eastern
North Carolina. He has nearly 23 years of combined experience in the areas of
child and family mental health, adolescent substance abuse, career counseling,
and corrections.
Lisa Remey, MEd, LPC-S, RPT-S™, Certified FirstPlay® Practitioner, and private
practice owner, Bluebonnet Center for Play Therapy in New Braunfels, Texas. She
has specialized in play therapy for 20 years and has worked with children, fam-
ilies, and the military community, supporting them from infancy to adolescence
and is passionate about training play therapists through speaking and supervision.
Marium Sadiq, MA, LPC, RPT, is a third-year counseling doctoral student at the
University of North Texas. She is a licensed professional counselor and a regis-
tered play therapist who practices using Child-Centered Play Therapy. Through-
out her time as a therapist, she has continuously noticed the impact of CCPT as a
culturally aware approach to help support children with depression.
Risë VanFleet, PhD, RPT-S, CDBC, CAEBI, is a licensed psychologist (PA), reg-
istered play therapist-supervisor, certified dog behavior consultant, and certified
animal ethology and behavior instructor with 48 years of clinical, supervisory,
administrative, and teaching experience. She is well known internationally for her
decades of work training mental health professionals in Play Therapy and Filial
Therapy. She is president of the Family Enhancement & Play Therapy Center,
Inc., in Boiling Springs, Pennsylvania. She is the founder and president of the
International Institute for Animal Assisted Play Therapy®.