Positive Psychology
Positive Psychology
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FREEDOM Of REACTIVE
* Stimuli =
CHOICE
:
RESPONSE
- PROACTIVE (you take ownership of your actions a choices and use them to
learn & grow ;
being real w/ yourself & others)
- EMOTIONS are haywired in the brain &
may not response to reason .
& change benavior from learning by association to rational & purposeful behavior .
your
RESPONSE ABILITY
self-authorship (the ability tr choose our response)
creative empowerment
conscious action ,
unconscious reaction
·
40 %: Intentional /Actions & Behaviors]
3 DISTINCT MISSIONS
1) curing mental inness [achieved]
c) making the lives of all people more happier , productive ,
and fulfilling [ not achieved)
3) identifying I nurturing high talent& genius (not achieved]
TWO VICTORIES of the DISEASE MODEL
1947 ,
home of the so-called major inness was treatable
now , 14 are treatable ,
2 are curable (Seligman , 1994)
and
play .
1988 ,
APA Convention Theme : PREVENTION
- Depression -
repairing damage .
- teaching children & adults skills of optimism
-
learned optimism .
& prevention focus should be about taking strengthe-hope optimism courage interpersonal
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honesty temperance love future-mindedness
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and
building on them to buffer
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against depression .
A PARADIGM CHIFT
TREATMENT of ILLNET -
PREVENTION Of ILNESS -- FUHANCEMENT of HEALTH
FACTORS for LIVING A FLOURISHING LIFE :
MENTAL HEALTH
not merely the absence of mental illness (Keyes ,
2002 : Ryff &
Linger 1998)
,
of positive levels of feelings & Psychosocial functioning and not simply the
> presence
absence of mental illness .
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productive) activities ,
and a adaptation I
pacity .
ABNORMAL PSYCHOLOGY VS .
POSITIVE PSYCHOLOGY
· studies mental illness tries to battle these mental illnesses &
focuses on mental health
FLOURISHING U .
WITHERING
there things cannot control
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even if you want to thourish ,
are
you
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without withering
, you cannot see the importance of flourishing .
LANGUISHING
absence of mental health
o more prevalent than depression
described as quiet despair , "Hollow", or "empty"
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Wh how levels of
wellbeing w/ a
diagnosable
mental illness
EXPERIENCES Of POSITIVITY
&
* a person who is mentally healthy think more positively experience more
positive emotions than negative certions. They consistently think & feel good .
*
negativity :
important for survival &
adaptation
people who
Pessimists -
inherent feeling or a
positive outcome to their own abilities
-
external attribution occurs when a negative/positive event is attributed to the
situational context.
outcome
we
temporary or temporally
fixed factor .
of the biggest benefit that positiveemotions provide is an enhanced ability to build skills
&
develop resources for use later in life
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&
-
lower rates of depression -reduced risk of cardiovascular disease
-lower rates at distress
-greater resistance to common colds
better coping skills during hardships & stress
EXPERIENCE
of POSITIVITY Or HAPPINESS ...
limit/satiation point
has
depends on circumstantial factors (country ,
income ,
beauty & attractiveness ,
etc . )
ENGAGEMENT
the activities in our lives is important for us to learn and nurture
1 in ,
grow
our personal happiness .
> we all need something in our lives that entirely absorbs us into the present
"flow" into
moment ,
creating a
of blissful immersion the task or activity .
is
I
concept of engagement something much more powerful than
simply
" being happy"
> happiness is one of the many by products of engagement.
* FLON
includes the loss of self-consciousness & complete absorption in an activity
.
Crikszentmihalyi (1989)
·
·
living in the present moment& focusing entirely on the fast at .
hand
-
FLOW occurs when the perfectcombination of challenge and skills/strength is found
.
ACHIEVEMENT
in life small like reading for
having explicit goals ,
even ones an hour
to
everyday , and making efforts to achieve them are important our well-being
* builds self belief &
strengthened self-esteem .
. .
VITALITY
-healthy body I healthy mind =
happy life
-
a
feeling of aliveness (physical & mental sense)
-
-
meaning
having meaning is like having a compass that provides direction & sense
of purpose .
belonging and/or serving something greater than ourselves
happens when we ignite our character strengths and virtue beyond oneself
(self-transcendence)
relationships are usually seen as the most important source of meaning in life .
- another
way of meaning is when we experience a sense of awe-sensation of being
a
part of something much larger than ourselves
,
,
colleagues ,
and their community at large .
personal happiness
"HAPPINESS is not a destination ,
it is a way of life"
HAPPY PEOPLE are ....
-more
healthy
-
more creative
live longer more productive
-
-
-
have happier relationships
HOW DO WE GET HAPPINESS ?
·
about half seems to be inherited
There is not great deal do about that
a
you can
·
about half seems to be developed
·
Money & health are not related .
·
optimism ,
gratitude ,
&
positive family relationships are related.
⑧ REPTILE BRAIN
good for primitive stuff
3 core questions 3 Stress
,
response .
- FIGHT
~
FLIGHT
&
FREEZE
② MONKEY -
MAMMAL BRAIN
good for emotions ,
helping one another .
·
FIGHT : Emotion of Anger
o
FLIGHT : Emotion of Fear
·
FREEZE : Emotion of Depression
③ ANGEL -
HUMAN BRAIN
inventing
good for insight , cooperation , .
- JOY & LOVE centers of the brain ; high speed problem solving
.
- FRONTAL LOBES ; insight & creativity , positive cooperative relationships .
Neoneurogenesis .
We w
know The brain is cells all the time .
now
growing new
What we focus on ,
we develop new brain tissue to support.
Intermediate Brain
Paleo pallium
emotions Rational Brain
limbic system ne opallium
Monkey intellectual ~
human
&
neocortex
Primitive Brain O
Archipallium /
preservation ,
amygdala
aggression
lizard
REFRAMING
1
something happens . You feel unhappy That is natural
bad .
you acknowledge that you're feeling unhappy ask yourself "How can feel good "
1 How as , this ?
.
3 Let your mind find something good about it Ronder the good in the bad .
.
megative center ad
manifesting
TYPICAL WAYS I REFRAME
SHIFT-UP
1.
quiet the brain :
focus clearly on the feelings ofbreathing & on
your heartbeat .
3 as
you notice ,
a more positive feeling comes into your krain , focus on that& enjoy it.
positive-centered
POSITIVE PSYCHOLOGY
to mainstream psychology . While mainstream
complimentary Psychology focuses on
-
focuses on the complementary gods of building up the strengths we
do want
& aims at a comprehensive approach to overall human flourishing .
PSYCHOLOGY
-MAINSTREAM is just as positive Positive s
a Psychology
building human
cring mental illness .
strength
.
we have the
capacity to "reverse our capes"
environment
-
We create a new
persona depending on our & whenever necessary .
INDIVIDUAL LEVEL
focuses on a study of positive individual traits or the more positive behavioral ,
emphasizes the
study of the whole person.
-focuses on each individual's potential & stresses the importance of growth
& self-actualization .
1. The research of Albert Bandura & his research self-efficacy .
on
3
. Prevention programs by Albee (1982) & Conon (1994)
·
CHALLENGES to UNDERSTAND HAPPINESS ·
WELL-BEING :
assumption that happiness comes from achieving something & gaining stuff.
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·
ATTITUDE & HEALTH
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MORBIDITY -
how attitude can ultimately influence our overall health .
LONGEVITY-life expectancy
-
·
HEALTH is MEASURED in
3 WAYS :
illness.
.
2 How long a person lives after contracting an
Lifespan is likely to
.
3 How long a
person's .
be
·
HAPPIER PEOPLE LIVE LONGER BECAUSE :
less anxiety ,
fear ,
&
anger
> loss depression
·
long term depression can lead to life-threatening illnesses & accidents .
·
NEED for PERSONAL a
HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS
·
NEED For WEALTH BEYOND MONEY
pechological is
<
wealth needed .
does not
necessarily equate with happiness .
money
FLOW : source
a
of rental energy that helpsfocus attention & motivate action ,
especially when there's a specific .
goal
EMOTIONAL WELL-BEING
·
THREE BASIC WORK ORIENTATIONS +nat RELATE to
HAPPINESS in the
WORKPLACE :
i . Work is not
simply a
job that paye bills .
2 .
Work is more than just a career that's enjoyed some of the time
.
3 Work is a vocation or a calling and provides intrinsic satisfaction .
·
HAPPINESS in th WORKPLACE
>
effective & contructive communication between workers & bosses
creates happiness .
acknowledge strengths & limits (You cannot give what you dont have]
-
have self-confidence
MOTIVATION
·
-
higher needs
SELF-ACTUALIZATION
-
LIFE PURPOSE /AESTHETICS
INTELLECTUAL
ACHIEVEMENT
JELF-ESTEEM / LOVE
BELONGING/CONNECTIONS
SAFETY
SURVIVAL
· SELF-REGULATION -
·
EMPATHY -
COPING wI STRESS
·
POSITIVE RELATIONSHIPS -
SENSE of COMMUNITY
ALTRUISM -
to helpa be of benefit to others even if no direct personal benefit
exists .
to altruistic .
-people are hardwired be
·
InSTINCTIVE COMPASSION · EMPATHY
-
tribialism be a
strategy for the future
new
may
-
·
SPIRITUALITY
-
HOW to LIVE a
MEANINGFUL LIFE
·
know what your strengthe are
·
use those strengths in the service of something larger than yourself
Positive
·
Institutions
institutions that enable the hest in human nature
· mentoring , democracy ,
free pass
met
having all our personal needs
HAPPINESS means :
ARISTOTLE :
life lived with virtue .
DARIN MCMATON simply function of good feeling but rather living good lives that
of
:
never
will include a good deal of pain .
SONJA LYUBOMIRSKY :
experience contentment positive well-being with sense
of joy , or ,
HEDONIC ADAPTATION
ability to adapt changes in our life circumstances.
new things boost for a short while but we still go back to our set point
AFFECTIVE FORECASTING
IMPACT BLAS
underestimating ability to recover From difficult experiences -
"psychological immune
"
system
> Major cause of Mistakes in affective Forecasting .
I leads to avoid certain decisions because of an inflated Fear that it'll harm our
happiness or covet certain outcomes that don't actually boost our happiness as much
as we think it will
USEFUL TIPS :
1) Don'tpostpone your happiness
2) Don'tunderestimate your resilience .
3) Spend your money on experiences.
KINDRESS o COMPASSION
to suffer together
-
FORGIVENESS
> hurts & conflicts we experience take a considerable toll on our psychological &
physical well-being
holding onto grudges& dwelling on them undermines our happiness .
) it is associated w/ lower stress levels ,
better moods , higher happiness &
happier relationships
MIND WANDERING
study of 15 000
,
people (MATT KILLINGSWORTH
·
47 % of the time . We are thinking something else than what we're doing .
·
people less happy when their minds are wandering than when they're not.
+ IPS :
1) Forgive quickly
5) Practice mindedfulness
a) Jelf compassion
DURATION NEGLECT
length of an experience has little effect on the memory of that event.
This factor affects how we remember pain & joy .
people's judgement of the unpleasant painful experience depends little of
very
the duration of those experiences.
limited to unfamiliar experiences.
> TWO FACTORS : the peak when the experience was the most painful & how quickly the
pain diminishes .
-
It slowly -
more painful
-
Duration neglect -
EXPERIENCING SELF
> feels pleasure &
pain ,
moment to moment
[ by
not]
·
DURATION MEGLECT both effects operate on classical system / style : averages & norms ,
·
PEAK-END RULE by sums .
depression
compromises ability to trust others .
DOWNWARD COMPARISON -
HEDONIC TREADMILL
SEE :
WANT :
perceived happiness comes from the pursuit ,
wanting something .
BUY :
consumer buys more data as part of his mobile phone plan.
ADAPT : Short lived . Comes back to happiness set point.
HAPPY :
experiencing happiness
HEDONIC ADAPTATION
I
also known as hedonic treadmill
SELF-CONTROL
> or
self-regulation
C
ability to control our impulsesa channel our effort in a
way that will
allow us to reach particular goals .
LACK Of SELF CONTROL
inability to restrain one's amotions ,
desires ,
or impulses .
results in undesirable negative consequences like being arrested or losing
a good friend .
I higher self-control: higher well-being .
OTHER BARRIERS
1) Unrealistic Expectations .
2) contempt for happiness :
3) other people .
4) The media .
j) We don't decide to be happy
MENTAL HEALTH
maintenance of successful mental activity .
I maintaining productive daily activities & fulfilling relationships with others
EMOTIONAL STATE -
experience of emotion
PSYCHOLOGICAL STATE-quality of our thoughts
RELATIONAL STATE -
-
bonavioral
-
cognitive
physical
-
-
emotional
perception
-
emotion
-
signaling
-
physical
-
benavior
I
I
thinking difficulties
-
problems Focusing attention
or mentall illness.
extreme emotional highs & lows
>
sleep problems
symptoms of mentall illness are as it is not the consequences of poor parenting or behavior .
result of abnormal brain Functioning . ~ it is not the result of personal weakness or deficits
in personality .
mentall illness is a brain disorder it is not the manifestation of malevolent spiritual intent.
>
only in exceptional cases is it caused by nutritional Factors.
mental illness is rarely if over caused: it is not caused by poverty.
by stress alone .
MENTAL ILLNESSES that begins in CHILDHOOD & persist into ADOLESCENCE
-
Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)
-
Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD)
-
Schizophrenia
-
Panic Disorder
-
Social Anxiety Disorder
-Eating Disorders
-
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder
-
Addiction
DEPRESSION
- a persistent low mood that lasts for more than 2 weeks.
&
feelings of severe despair might cloud the "light at the end of the tunnel" &
interfere with your simple daily activities .
common SYMPTOMS :
MAINTAINING WELLNESS :
&
setting small , specific& realistic
, goals .
reaching out for support & staying connected
sustaining a healthy lifestyle through diet & physical Fitness
· self-motivation with supportive thoughts .
HOMESICKNESS
*
feelings of hostalgia For Familiar surroundings , people , and things give you a sense
e .
OBJECTIVE COMPONENT
> standard of living
> level of living
-
SUBJECTIVE COMPONENT
>
"quality of life"
. STANDARD of LIVING
1
>
-
WHO defined it as :
income & occupation
standards of housing
sanitation & nutrition
level of provision of health
recreational & other services
all be used measure socio economic status and collectively
may as of ,
2. LEVELS of LIVING
>
-
consists of a components :
health
food consumption
education
clothing
recreation
& conditions
occupation working
housing
social security
recreation & leisure & human rights
3. QUALITY OF LIFE
>
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