*I would also like to find a like minded male,open minded as well as down

to earth who likes to enjoy life to the fullest,where we can participate in

activie grew up in alaska, since i have lost my dad when i was
10 yrs old.So mach for a walk
and i will also like to find someone who i can share my interest with as
well as they sharing theirs with me too

I'm an optimistic person with a sense of humor,fairly easy going,and i don't

think that i'm too critical about things,but I also believe that it takes
two people contributing to a relationship to make it work

I grew up in alaska, since i have lost my dad when i was 10

yrs old.spend time with
friends and pursue his own interests and hobbies as well end together even
better, since i have lost my dad when i was 10 yrs old. one who cheats in a
relationship,one man is
enouso want to be in a relationship where I can totally trust the other
person and not dwell on how the relationship is not working

I DO NOT expect a man to be a servant to me,spending all his time working

and and cleaning,i believe there is give and take in a relationship

I realize that at times its more convenient for me to do

laundry,cook,clean,and i have no problem doing that.I consider myself to be
a fairly honest and truthful person and expect the same in return

I'm not wealthy and don't expect someone to attempt to deceive me or play
me.Everybody makes mistakes and i usually give people the benefit of the
doubt,but if the same pattern keeps emerging,then i guess i should put an
end to it

I do not want to meet someone who may think that they will take advantage of
me or lie to me and cheat on me under false pretenses, soorry if that sounds
harsh

I'm not accusing anybody of any wrong doing,but i'm being upfront and honest
about that,so you know where I stand from the beginning.With all due
respectas well,i hope that you are upfront and honest with me, as well

I realize that I am 28 years old and that you are some what Older than me,if
you would still like to correspond,that's fine...we will see how things go
after we get to know each other.

Well,I hope that this lets you know a little about me,and i hope I don't
come across as being too cynical,harsh or mean sounding.

I will give anybody the benefit of the doubt,You know we are all human and
definitely make mistakes as well,but I also don't like being taken advantage
of

I'm just asking you to keep it real and be honest from the beginning,that
way,nobody is wasting their time forgetting their feelings hurt
I also realize that at times two people are just too different to be in
relationship together but it doesn't mean that its anybody's fault,its just
that they are too different to be compatible

I love American
foods,rice,pasta,chicken,deer,pork,fish,shellfish,potato,vegetables,everything
rich in all nutrients

I am on the computer getting into it more and more!!!dancing is important to

me I want soon badly to get better at it !!!

It is such a positive way of having fun and expressing yourself,and you get
to show your woman to the world on the dance floor like a beautiful flower
equal partnership takes two to tango,compromise,communication is sooooo
important!!!!

I will always be who I am at the core my soul my being who I am and what
makes me,Butttt!!!I am chuck full of potential I actually can be taught!!!!!
LOL!!!

Woman need to be like a guiding light for men we sometimes have atendency to
miss the little things,not on purpose.

Man and a woman should work as a team together,I cook,clean,dust,and do

laundry,but I wouldn't wish all that on one person ever

I know what it is to do all those things its allot to do and would drive
anyone person to either loose their mind or run away

I am the kind of person that is affectionate!!love to cuddle,and get lost in

kiss!!!! intimacy and foreplay is important along with romance!!!

I also am very,very much into giving and receiving oral,from the one I love
and live with

I am a giver the more I make the one I love feel loved and explosive the
more turned on I get the man love is like a rare fruit that I just can't get
enoueg hope this get you to know me

I would like you to know a little more about me,and life has been filled
with heartbreaks and i don't want anymore hurt or pains

I want to find a man,who wants a relationship based on Truth,Real Love not

love,Compassion,Friendship,Loyalty,and Honesty!!!!

I also want to be able to be Romantic to him with Love,not him telling me

thing he likes,If you love me,you will do this or that for me

I want to be able to do anything to make my man happy,because I Love Him,not

because he tells me to do it.

All i am Looking for is real,true and pure Love and hope you can make me
feel real,pure and true Love bcos you sound very nice and sweet and you are
someone i will never want to loose if i have lol...

Well as you know Exercise is very important and I generally try to live some
what healthy lifestyle,exercising and some sort of jogging,3-4 days a week
and eating healthy

Well not every one loves sweets and candies but trust me,I love sweets and
pastries,but try not to over do it, and also make each other feel
happy,loved,cared,wanted and Satisfied.

I'm looking for someone who is humble,hard working,faithful,honest,trust

worthy and knows how to treat a woman like the way woman need to be
treated,respectful,love kids and family

Communicative,have a good sense of humor,someone who will be there for me

when i need his help or support,share ideas together as husband and wife

I'm ready for that its very important to know what you want so that you stop
wasting time,yours and others, while trying to find the person who is a
great match for you..

But do you have plans of meeting someone some day when God permit to spend
the rest of the life left with you???

I would love to spend the rest of my life being in love with someone,though
i know it is not easy to come across true love this days,its very hard to
find the right person but that doesn't mean you need to give up

I want someone who makes me laugh,who is kind to people as well as

animals,someone who is confident but laidback,funny or at least can make me
laugh and smile

I need someone who loves their family,i need to be attracted to them and
finally i want someone that when they come through the door at the end of
the night will come and take me in their arms and kiss me

I want the sexual attraction to stay for a long long long time as the word
of love can move mountains all both needs is trust,understanding and
faithfulness

Love comes from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faithful is
not easy to come across the right person been true love this days thought
the word love is very hard to find

But once you come across the right person that your heart desire and need to
settle with you ain't gonna regret,that is why am also looking for someone
special,i believe you need to work at a relationship to help it grow and
become all you wish it to be

I believe that each person needs to give 100% and be open and honest with
the other, I believed lots of long soft deep kissing

Looking for both low and high maintenance person as no one is perfect on
this world except God,One who likes time with his friends but will put our
relationship first.A romantic person who thinks of others more than himself.

I need someone willing to accept me and get to know them when they are
around. someone to walk hand in hand with,to be my friend and lover and to
find true happiness with

I'm looking for a person who is family oriented and ready to settle
down...someone who loves children and is looking forward to have their own
some day if God permit.someone who will be at my side when there is need of
help or share ideas together etc.

Woman been faithful,get tender care of love You believe beauty lies in the
eyes of the beholder? someone can be generous outside but be very ugly
inside Babe!

Have you ever been in a relationship before? I truly believe that once you
love someone you always do just in a different way perhaps What are your
likes and dislikes in a relationship? so tell me about your last
relationship umm likes...

I love to kiss but let me be serious here..I like a man who will not only
show me that he loves me but will tell me.I think it is very important to
tell someone all the things you love about them,not constantly but often

I dislike a relationship that tried to suppress who the individuals are, I

think it is very important to have two people with two lives who come
together and intertwine their interests while still keeping something of
themselves there are so many things that make up a wonderful relationship
that it's hard to put into words.

I truly believe that when the right person comes along we know it Some
people are in love with the idea of being in love and they don't even know
the right meaning of this for letter word been ( L O V E )

Trust is an important part of relationship The most important part precious

no trust no relationship as passion of love is what we are all saking for
Love is the passion that we feel inside of our hearts that we can't hide

We pretend to hit it, but it burns us more and more until the pain grows and
grows and it never ends

To love someone genuinely is to stand by his or her side when he or she

needs your help(50/50) feel your presence and share ideas together as
husband and wife

Do you think you can be beside of your life partner when she needs your
help/supportive when it comes to to that, feel your presence,share ideas as
lovers etc

As passion is not having sex(though sex is attach to marriage to make both

partners happy) But it's making love forever Sex was attach to a
relationship/marriage to make both partners happy to enjoy their marriage
passion is an amazing thing.hard to put into words as love is a noble act
ofself giving,offering trust,faith, nd loyalty.

The more you love,the more you lose a part of yourself, yet you don't become
less of who you are, you end up being complete with your loved ones

Women need to be adore and cherish like the way she need to be treated human
nature, thats why alot of couples fail they lose there passion for each
other and then seek someone else to make them feel that way both have to be
able to give and take from each other this is a rose flower to welcome you
once more as love can be expressed in a myriad of different methods,but the
most timeless and most treasured will always remain the classic

I promise you as every single person in this world waits for love in their
life. Some people say love didn't come to them but it was right in front of
their eyes

Some people wait a life time for true love,I should know,I'm still waiting
for my true love but i think at this time it is at the door step waiting for
me as nothing is impossible

well precious i been waiting a long time for the right man one who wants to
being love and not a game called love,i been there did the fun love not for
me it hurts to much

I'm just seeking a mate to enjoy all life offers us and when i find him we
will be in love and everyone will know it we might make love on a mountain
top or on the sand of an ocean who knows

All relationships have some adjustment periods,but being hurt shouldn't be

part of being in love,loving relationships have good qualities,such as
support from your partner,a willingness to communicate,adesire to
compromiseand open an honest

communication.When you do not have these fundamental qualities in a

relationship,that relationship isn't likely to grow,and become something
that you desire

We all turn to our loved ones for support from time to time,When your love
done does not offer you their support it may be time to look at your
relationship,as we all want to nurture those that we love,we want the best
in life for those that we care about
If your partner is unwilling to listen to you,and to your problems,they are
not meeting your needs when you need support. Support can come in many
forms,someone lending an ear,someone going out of their way to help you,or
somethingas simple as a phone call to cheer you up

Make sure your partner gives you support when you need it.When engaging in a
relationship with another person there is always going to be things that you
do not agree upon.You want to have the ability to compromise so both
partners are getting their wishes met

This may mean one night you watch football,and one night your partner
watches a movie you enjoy.It might mean that your partner can agree to try a
dish that you enjoy cooking.In any organization with more than one person in
it,there will be more than one opinion,work with your partner to see that
both of you can compromise on different subjects

If someone isn't willing to compromise,they are not willing to acknowledge

your wants and desires

If they can not acknowledge your wants they are likely not emotionally
developed enough for you to have your needs met.Openand honest communication
is one of the more desirable qualities you want to have in a relationship.

Watch to see that your partner is not secretive,nor are they willing to tell
lies to avoid certain subjects

For example, if a partner is married,and fails to tell you that,you can

rightfully assume if they can lie about big things,they can lie about small
things.While you may not like everything your partner may say,freedom to be
honest should be therein your relationship.

Likewise, you need to be open and honest with your partner, a relationship
based upon false truths is not likely to be successful, because both
partners do not have the correct frame of reference in inter relationship
there are many qualities that make relationships good support,compromise,
and open and honest communication is just a few of these qualities that you
may desire in a relationship

Engage only in relationships where both partners can openly discuss their
wants and needs,this can take practice.

Remember loving relationships grow and only become better,eliminate those

who do not meet your needs when they continually fail to support you, will
not compromise, and will not be honest.

These three qualities alone will help you nurture and develop a deeper
relationship with your partner.MONEY Happiness is the only thing on earth
that cannot be paid by any diamonds,gold or money.Money and love aren't the
samething.The more you spend money,the less you have,the more you spend
love,the more you get in return

Love doesn't cost money,but it does require the payment of your heart.A man
can inherit a house and money from his parents, but only the Lord can give
him asensible wife. Love is when money and materialistic things no longer
matter.

It's when you're holding the hand of the woman you love and you feel like
the richest man in the world,you have everything.With money, we can buy all
things, but with love, we find everything that really matters.It isn'tmoney,
fame, or power, no, the greatest adventure in life is love.Power is one
thing, money and power are two things,but love is everything

You need trust to love, but first you need to love in order to trust.To love
someone is to understand each other, to laugh together, to smile with your
heart and to trust one another.One important thing is to let each other go
if you can't do this

Love is like a wonderful feeling of compassion and satisfaction. It should

be given respect and trust, and it should receive that love back.The best
proof ofloves trust.True love is the greatest thing that you can experience,
it can weather any storm

Loving, trusting and respecting each other totally can bring you to true
love and happiness. It's hard to love and hard to trust, but finding love and
finding trust was a gift from you to me.Relationships should never be taken
forgranted. The choice of being with another life is an amazing thing

Trust, loyalty and respect are a must for eternal happiness. No matter how
much you love someone if you doesn't have these ingredients you will never
succeed.To be in love means being patient but to be patient you must trust
him/her first

You can never find love through the eye or ear, so you must trust the only
thing that will never fade until you die, your heart.Love is like trust,
when you find your special someone it is as if you're trusting them with
your heart.Trust is what you put in someone's hands.

Faith is what you hold on to.Trust is what makes everyone realize that you
are always there for them. Faith is what makes everyone realize that you are
always there to help them in case they need some help. Love makes not
everyone, but the only one in your life who is special,think that you are
always there for her, to be with her, to cherish her, to fulfill her dreams,
to share with her and most of all, to make her realize how much you really
love her

Distance doesn't matter if you really love the person, what matters most is
your honesty and trust for that relationship to work out.Without romance,
love gets dry. Without respect, love gets lost.Without caring, love gets
boring.Without honesty, love gets unhappy, and without trust,love gets
unstable.
Love is a wonderful gift, trust in it, believe in it, give it, and it will
be returned to you to give again and again.You can get advice from family,
friends and strangers, but the best advice comes from your heart; it never
lies trust it.There may be many people that are trustworthy, but only a few
are worthtrusting with your heart, choose wisely.

To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved. For you can love

many,but without trust you have nothing.The heart already knows what the
mind can only dream of. Trust your heart.Distance can not, and will not hurt
a bond between two people that is based on mutual respect, trust,
commitment, and love

Jealousy is not a sign of true love, it's in securities that comes in the
way,bcos love has just one important ingredient, Trust.Do you trust me?Love
means never doubting anything. It means trusting and being honest with each
other Someone can be as beautiful on the outside as they are on the
inside,but when he or she betrays your trust,they become the ugliest person
in the world.

Love is patient. Love is kind. It does not envy. It does not boast. It is
not proud.It is not rude. It is not self seeking. It is not easily angered.
It keeps no record of wrong doing. It does not delight in evil, but rejoices
in the truth.It always protects, trusts, hopes,perseveres.Love takes many
things, trust,hope, wishes,dreams, and everything you've got, even when you
know it'snot going be enough.

Love is not always fire works and shooting stars, sometimes it's a simple
understanding and trust between two people Questions What was your most
memorable childhood moment? What was your big childhood fear? (i.e.-the
dark,monsters, etc.)

What did you always want to be when you "grew up"?Is it what you are doing
now? What changed?What was your favorite game as a child?Where did you go to
school?Whats the funniest thing that has ever happened to you?

What was your most embarrassing moment?What was the single most significant
turning point in your life?Personal Beliefs What religion,if any,do you
believe in?What things do you feel passionate about?Do you believe in love
at first sight?Whats the difference between love,romance and sex?

Do you believe it is proper for people to express their feelings in

public?How man desires do you want children? why?What is your idea of a
dream.... house,car,vacation What is your life dream?If you had three
wishes,what would they be?What do you want most from life?

What did you want to be when you "grew up"?Is it what you are doin gnow?
What changed?What if you create the absolute, perfect job for yourself? What
would it be?Preferences and Peeves does you prefer the cold or hot? Why?Are
you a morning or night person? Why?What is your biggest pet peeve?What if
you could bea comic strip character? Who would it be?

What do you do when you feel sad or depressed?Are you a cat-person or

dog-person? you feel angry or upset?What three words best describe you?Do
you save for a rainy day or live life as it comes?Romantic Inclinations What
is your idea of a perfect date?What is your favorite romantic gesture?

What are the top ten gifts you love would like to receive?What is your idea
of the perfect romantic gift?What is your idea of the perfect romantic
vacation? Describe an interest you have that you would truly hope your
partner could share with you What is the one dream for your life you most
look forward to having come true?

Could you tell me why you wouldn't be able to move under any circumstances,
What is your birth order and how has it shape who you are today? Are you
doing what you love?if not,what would you rather be doing?What are three of
your best attributes you can offer your partner?

Besides love,what one trait have you noticed in couples that have maintained
a successful relationship for many years?Looking back on your life, of what
are you most proud?Describe some personal habits that are important to you.

Describe an interest you have that you would truly hope your partner could
share with you.What is the one dream for your life you most look forward to
having come true? In general, how many nights a week do you go out for
entertainment?11.What sorts of things do you like to do when you go out on
the town?

If you had three wishes, what would they be? During a typical week, what
sort of physical activities do you enjoy?What is the most adventure
something you've done in the past year?How big is your extended family? What
are the holidays like for you and your family?What is the most spontaneous
thing you have ever done?

How important is it to you that your partner fulfill traditional gender

roles? Would you like a woman who will cook, shop and keep house? Would
youlike a woman who maintains the cars, manages the finances, and is handy
around the house? What do you most like to do on a day off? What is one
thing you could start doing today that would most improve the quality of
your life?

When do you feel most afraid? If you could accomplish only one thing during
the rest of your life, what would it be? They say life is about simple
pleasures, what is your simplest pleasure, and how does it make you feel?
What do you find physically attractive? Describe your own personal style.
Tonight you can do anything you want, no penalties, no reprisals, and the
cost is unimportant. What are you going to do?

How would you spend a romantic evening with someone you have been dating for
more than one year? Looking back at your life, describe one particular event
that you wish you had handled differently? What do you think are the three
best traits you have to offer a partner? Does life look good to you right
now? Describe your current emotional health

Tell me about your closest friend. How long have you known him/he,and what
do you like best about him/her? Describe your spirituality. What are your
general feelings about money and personal wealth? Describe your
parents'relationship with each other.What are you looking for in a
relationship partner? How do you react when your angry? If I had a bad day
what would you do for me? Describe your spirituality. What are three of your
best attributes you can offer your partner

Hello,
How are you doing?I am Glad to hear back from you and I can see that this
is the better way to get to know more about each other. Well right now am
not doing anything cause of my Granny because am the one

taking care of her....By the end of the month i will be in state.... I will
like you to tell me more about you by Answering this Questions...
1) How Old are you?
2)What do you seek for in Relationship?
3)What type of relationship do you seek for?
4)What interest you Most?
5)What type of Lady are you Looking for?
6)What do you do for a Living?
7)What do you for fun?
8) What are your turn on and Turn off?
9)Can you Love this Lady?
10)Would you hit your Lady with any Reasons?
11)Do you have a Kids?
12)Do you want some Kids in the Future?
13)Like How Many Kids do you
14)Why are you single?
15)What is have you experience when U have been single?
16)Does Distance and Age Matters to you most?
17)Are you Looking for a Tug or someone who Loves going to Club,and who as
tattoos?
18)What is Love to you?
19)How do you treat your Lady?
20)Do you Have faith?
21)Are you religion?
22)What Church do you attend to?
23)Do you Love Public Intimacy?
24)What do you Like and What you don't Like?
25)Whats your Favorite Food and whats your favorite Movies and Colors?
26) Can you Delete Your Profile from Dating Sites?
Casey

I'm Casey 28years old and i don't believe in age cos is just a
number..i am single never married and am from Wood Peg Road, USA Marrieta
Georgia Atlanta beach,.I'm a single and young Christian 27 F' who enjoys
reading mags,comic books and some romantic novels,, swimming at the beach
side, I like watching adventurous movies movies, and I also like listening
and dancing to tunes from hip hop, Rnb,pop and reggae. I'm about 5 feet 9
inches tall. I'm light in complexion and mixed. My dad is and an American
and my mom are mixed. I live in Long Beach in California alone and I
attended the California State College and I majored in Art and craft.I Want
a serious relationship leading to marriage. That is why I'm looking for
someone who's ready for me, someone who has all the good qualities a woman
will look for in a man and also someone responsible.*

70.165.44.208 8080*

1) How Old are you? I am 29 years Old..

2)What do you seek for in Relationship?What I am seeking is a man as laid
out in Proverbs 31. A man who is strong (but not overbearing), loyal,
respectful, kind and sweet. That carry himself like the king he is in all
situations. That arouse my intellect as well as physical desires. Looking
for a that somebody that I can share my entire self with. Somebody that is
not afraid to be loved as well express love..I seek for a Serious and Long
term relationship,Someone I can spend the rest of my Life with.
3)What type of relationship do you seek for?Well I will like to tell u that
am a Sensitive Woman,Am Honest,Kind,Caring, and Truthful...I seek for a true
and Serious relationship that will last forever..You r so Handsome....I
don't play games and I am looking for a serious relationship with marriage
being the ultimate goal!
4)What interest you Most?Wow..I have God Interest, have interest in Kids.
and also have interest with the man I Love with My Heart!!
5)What type of Guy are you Looking for?
6)What do you do for a Living?I work as Sales Girl here but right now am not
doing anything, Only stay with my Granny in Shop..
7)What do you for fun?I Love reading,singing,Watching tv,going to
beach,Sports,Swimming,Outdoors,Camping,and Fishing
8) What are your turn on and Turn off?My turn on is someone who is
Honest,truthful,friendly and someone who can make me Happy, My turn Off is
.. I don't like someone who lies,someone that Love talking dirty
online,someone who is Just Looking for a Sex Online that was not serious..
9)Can you Love this Guy? Yeah Definitely I will Love Him till the end of my
Life..
10)Would you hit your Guy with any Reasons?I will never Hit my Guy and I
will never Hurt His Feelings. I will never Argue with Him. But work things
out fine with each other and understand each other better.
11)Do you have a Kids?Nope I don't have a Kids But I wish to have some in
the Future.
12)Do you want some Kids in the Future?Yeah
13)Like How Many Kids do you want?2 or 3
14)Why are you single?Been single for about 2 years back.I am single cos I
haven't meet the right man and I Just broke Up with my Man
15)What is have you experience when U have been single?Being Single is the
Most Dullest thing I ever Seen
16)Does Distance and Age Matters to you most?Distance does not matter to
me,Everything as to do with Trust and true Feelings and Emotional and also
Age is Just a Number But Love matters Most.
17)Are you Looking for a Tug or someone who Loves going to Club,and who as
tattoos?I am not Looking for someone like that in My Life.
18)What is Love to you?Love is Not About finding the right person but
creating the right relationship and also Love is the Good thing in Life..
19)How do you treat your Man?I treat Him with Respect,Care,Honor Him and I
treat Him Like a King
20)Do you Have faith?Yeah I have faith and Believe that with God everything
is Possible.
21)Are you religion?Yeah
22)What Church do you attend to?I do attend to Catholic Church
23)Do you Love Public Intimacy?Yeah, Public intimacy is my thing.I miss that
though.I like to held and to walk while holding hand still,it's fun I guess.
24)What do you Like and What you don't Like?I don't Like Liar, I hate dirty
things Around the House. I Love Singing,Reading and I Love cleaning the
House in other to have a Good Surroundings
25)Whats your Favorite Food and whats your favorite Movies and Colors?My
Best Food is Pizza and My Favorite Movies is Titanic and Passions My best
color is Blue.
26) Can you Delete your Profile from Dating Sites?
Yes I will..
I Hope I have answered all the Questions and I will Love to Answer Any
One you ask me with Honesty and trust. Please Be Honest with me and Never
Let me Down.
I cant wait to hear back from you..
Your Sweet Baby Girl....
Casey....

=================================================================Communication=====
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Thank You baby,How are you doing Today?... I will be back to state Soon and
i will be happy to meet you in person when i get back...I really enjoy
reading your mail thanks a lot....I would like to continue this with
you......... You have qualities in a Man that I would treasure...
Communication as you know is very important to me. First in getting to know
one another this is very valuable. But the important part of communicating
is being honest. We can talk and talk and make ourself look and sound good
but unless we are completely honest we will be disappointed when the time
comes to finally meet each other in person. I have lived now for a awhile
and have traveled many places and therefore I feel I have learned to
accepted myself for who I am,I always try to be a good person to myself and
others. I perfer people who are nice, kind, respectful and honest...
People who view themselves better than others or think they are I do not
like. I want to find a Man who respects him self. A man who takes care of
himself mentally, spirituallly and physcially. I want a Man who is willing
to work hard at our relationship. Someone who will contribute to improving
and helping us grow together and as a family. While we are able he needs to
and wants to work hard (like I will) to have nice things in life and to work
hard so we can be comfortable together in order to enjoy ourselves. We must
be the example for our child in raising a family and he must be the man I
will love forever. There is so much more I could tell you but I will end
here. I only hope you can understand where I am coming from. Again,
speaking of age - I am at a point in my life - where I do not want to play
games. I have opened myself to you and would like to know more about you
and see other pictures of you. I have seen the ones on your profile so
please send me a new recent picture of yourself. And finally one last thing
with regard to age - there is an age difference between us - so I will just
come out and ask you - how do you view and feel about that our age
difference? Please tell more about when we can meet and what plans you may
have for the future.....That's my pics for you and i will love to have
yours... I hope to hear from you soon.
Take Care..

Casey..

====================== Relationship Essential ======================

I think the most important key to a successful relationship is when you

truly enjoy each others company.I think the key to a successful relationship
is to love them with all your heart, and to always show them that you do.
And of course to always be honest,Trust, good communication and a lasting
friendship...Commitment is the greatest key to a successful relationship. If
you are committed you will always find a way to work things out....Passion.
Without feeling passionately towards your mate the communication, sex,
intimacy, and ultimate closeness will not be there, which in turn leaves
each partner wanting/needing more from the relationship than they are
getting...Communication... talking and open honest communication about how
you feel. What makes you happy and what upsets you. If you don't tell your
partner then they can't do what makes you happy and vice
versa...Communication. In many instances, 'communication' can be used in
place of 'relationship'.If you withhold something from your spouse or lie to
them, the communication (or relationship) has ended. If you chose not to be
truthful, because you're afraid they may leave or be upset, you've got
nothing to lose -- the relationship is already over. You may continue to go
through life together, but you'll never have a 'relationship...I feel that a
relationship should always be based upon honesty and acceptance. When you
can fully accept yourself, honesty will come naturally. This in return will
leave your partner feeling comfortable with you, knowing there is nothing to
hide. If two people can see each other in full view with complete
acceptance, they can build a successful relationship from this...I will be
Coming to Boomfield.. Well My Ex Boy Friend really Hurt me and it really
Pain me, I caught him with my Best Friend and he even trying be rude and
want to be beating me on it...And i hate something like that and i dont want
a Man that will be beating me...So I want a Good and Lovely Man, But I Think
you are the One for me...I will be to be communicating with you And soon we
will be together...I don't know when i will been in state but if we
continue like this and this leads to a good way for us by then i will know
and i will come to meet you there state but just let us be communication on
here going...I will Love to have your Pics and i will be happy to have you
soon in my Arms...My Granny say Hi to you, She said she will be Happy to
meet you soon because i have tell her a lot about you.. Soon i will be in
state because am still my Granny and i need to take care of her very well..
Hope to hear from you soon..

Mica

====================== Trust and Honest ======================

I believe that the most important 'key' to a successful relationship would

have to be 'trust'. I believe that with trust, love will follow. However,
what I have noticed is that many people think trust, or expect that trust is
to be earned by the other person, when in all actuality it is something that
comes from within yourself. All too many times people will say they don't
trust due to past experiences. What they don't realize is that they have
built up those proverbial walls to protect them from the very thing they are
searching for... yes, there is a risk in trusting someone, but when you
finally find that 'right' person, it makes all the past experiences and
lessons learned very much worth the risk. All of life's little lessons do
not have to be painful... even when they seem so at the time. You just have
to chalk it up to experience and move on. Nothing is worth closing your
heart. Nothing is worth living in a world of fearing what bad 'may' come to
you. Without trust, you close your heart to the happiness and joy that true
love brings. It's only my experience... and it's what I believe has given me
the wonderful gift of 'true' love. It's a hard thing to do, a scary thing,
but very much worth it. This is not to go without saying that some people
may betray your trust... that's the risk... but why allow past betrayals to
prolong the pain by building a fortress around your heart that not only
protects you from pain/betrayal, but also denies you the ability to
experience happiness and joy? Most have been hurt enough by one person, why
allow them and their actions to stop us from finding what we search for? I
say open your hearts to trust and bask in the beauty, happiness, and joy, of
the true love that will follow. For everyone there Is a someone, you just
can't find them if you hide away all your life...

Mica..

====================== Trust And Intimacy ======================

You seem to be an open hearted man and I looking forward to that day I would
see you face to face... But, just so you know, I thought I would tell you
what I was looking for, and see what you think... All I am looking for is
"True Love," no Games, no Playing around, just want to find my soul mate in
life...the one man I Will connect with in every way... I do know very much
about you, yet any woman that does not treat you with respect, true love,
genuine kindness and caring is absolutely a fool. True Love can be given
without being shared, but a shared Love still allows for your special loved
one to grow. To me, there is nothing more special than a shared Love. One
that delights in our loved one's achievements, and growth as a person. One
hat has no jealousy, anger or mistrust. I believe when I have met the right
person, we will believe so completely in each other, and Love each other so
completely, that we will trust without hesitation as well....I am a lovingly
touchy person. I am not saying that I am perfect but I always try to do
right. I like to hold hands, hug and kiss ... when appropriate.... I like
open affection, but in good taste, not for affection sake. I love to look
into my loved one's eyes, and often get accused of starring... But I stare
at flowers too, they never complain that I could look at them from when the
blossom until they fade away... I like being touched too. Held and having
my hair played with... I like simple things. I want my soul mate to be
my best friend, so I can always talk with him about anything and be able to
work things out when it matters.Life is so short, why do people make it so
complicated by wanting everything they see...and forgetting that we are here
to Love one another, not "bed as many as we can" and have nothing true and
genuine when our time comes... I believe it takes "a lot of time" to know
someone, and when an actual "relationship" does start ... I still believe
intimacy should be saved until "you know" they are someone you want to be
with. Hope that wasn't too much, but it is honest and all of me.I have Been
Hurt and Cheated Before and i don't want that to happen to me again.. ..I
look forward to reading your thoughts about all I have said...

====================== Let's Be Together ======================

My heart has already found it's way you. I want you and no one else. You
mean everything to me. I think we should try and make this work. You have to
know you're the one, and only one I want. Not only are you perfect for me,
you're the perfect lover and I hope we can and will be more. I could never
ask for better then what we have had.. I am hoping you're feeling the same
way because my heart is set on you, and only you, Hope to hear from you soon
Mica
====================== Darling ======================

I want you to know you brought love and laughter to my empty, sad and
boring life.. My heart had known only emptiness until the day you came and
filled my heart to overflowing with your loving ways. Your sense of humor
has turned my frown into a smile. You taught me how to love again, you
taught me to give and receive love by trusting in you and believing. You
taught me to go the extra mile. And though there are miles between us, I
never stop thinking of you, you have brought a change into my life and my
heart is forever yours.. I want to walk on the beach with you. It would be
so peaceful and romantic as we sit and watch the sun as it sets . Being with
you makes me happy.. You keep me alive. I'm so lucky I found you, the man of
my dreams. I hope I never lose you, if I did then it would break my heart so
badly. Thinking of you makes me smile 'cause knowing that you love me so
much means the world to me. You're so sweet like the smell of roses and
you're so romantic like the sunset. Your love is what's keeping me strong. I
am so depressed right now and your love is all that is keeping me strong. I
love you so much. I can wait to be with you physically one day. Forever that
is.i just cant wait to be with you. Kisses and hug for you.

Mica
====================== Just A Word ======================

U're a really Handsome man. It's nice to put a face with who am talking
with Like you, I also miss holding hands and I really do hate not having
someone to share life with and it does get lonely,but the best things truly
do come to those who wait. I would really like to meet you in person, but I
wonder how, being as were half way around the world from each other. Fate
and destiny are some pretty wild factors though, wouldn't you say? So
nothings impossible if we put our minds to it. Not to mention I would love
to say "Honey I'm home" and then lift me up in Ur arms and kiss my precious
lips.Thanks again for responding so quickly. How did you like mine? well I
guess I'll let you go, until Ur next Email. hope to hear from you soon. You
will be someone in whom I can confide in and share everything with and
vise-versa.....Mica
====================== My Thought So Far ======================

My honey,
I am taking a break right now and I wanted to take time to write you
about something I have been thinking about.I have been thinking about the
man that I would love and would love me for a very long time. I had almost
given up when you wrote me and we started talking. You have given me so much
joy my love you just don't know how you touch me. You make me have feelings
I did not know existed because I have never felt them before. I guess it is
the feeling of being in love with a good man. Maybe there were some times in
the past when I thought I was in love but it was never like it is with you.
You make me feel so wonderful. It is so sweet to know you are loved and that
is what you make me feel because I really feel you love me. I don't know
why. I know I love you but to feel that you are loving me back and really
feel it is special. I don't know of anything that I have done to deserve
you. I don't think I have done anything to deserve you but I am not going to
question it and neither am I going to take it for granted. I cant take you
for granted because I know much more than most men how hard it is to find a
good man. A man with a genuine heart, a man who is actually as special as he
is pretty. A man who knows how to love a man back and make him feel special.
A man who thinks like I do enough that I feel he gets me.And that I feel I
get him. But I know we are in different parts of the world and are different
in many ways but I still feel like we have a lot in common. And I feel that
it is just beginning and that as good as things seem to be the best is yet
to come. There are many things I want to learn about you. What you like and
dislike. How to make you happy. And how to tread softly and make sure I do
not do anything to lose you because that has happened to me in the past as
well. I have made mistakes. I don't want to make any with you. You mean too
much to me. It would hurt me very bad to lose you and so I must feel I am
doing everything I can to keep you. No half hearted efforts in anything. No
taking you for granted. Always having a little bit of amazement that you are
with me. To feel that you are living in my heart and that you feel
comfortable there for you and for me. To never forget how lucky I am. What I
see so many men do is to have a good man and then take him a little to much
for granted, to forget how blessed they are. And when they forget that that
is when they lose them. I may not do everything exactly right but I want to
always remember and feel how lucky I am just to be talking with you. Let
alone how rare it is to truly love and be loved. You make me feel loved,
that is the greatest gift you have given me. I pray that you also have
patience and forgiveness that you can give me because I am only a lady
sweetheart and I am going to make mistakes. I only can hope and pray that
nothing comes between us that we cant handle together. I see you as being so
many things to me. My lover, my best friend, and everything in between. I
see you as being the father of my children, the man I want to share whatever
happiness I can find with and him with me. A man I will always trust and who
knows he can trust me. I see you as so many things, I feel you as so many
things. I am often at a loss for words when we are talking. You fill up my
head you fill up my heart and I dont know which way is up.I don't just love
you and I need you. I need your words and your love and yes soon your touch.
But I will not ask for too much too fast because I think that would be a
mistake.On somethings sweetheart I look to you to lead the way. That is how
I want it to be and how I think it should be. That is the way it has to be
to me. I hope you understand what I am trying to say. I want to be very
careful. The wrong word at the wrong time can be so damaging to a
relationship and I hope that you feel we are building one because I do. In
ways we are taking baby steps and in others we are moving very fast I
think... I am looking to you for guidance about where we go and what we talk
about.... That is what I feel most comfortable with and is the way I want
it. I am flexible. If you want to call me your love I have no problems with
it.. But if you feel the need to back away from those kinds of things that
is fine with me too. It is up to you sweetheart. I will be happy as long as
I know you are comfortable and happy. If anything I do bothers you tell me
before I do it too many times. A relationship is a dynamic thing I think and
grows and develops between two people and how they nurture and care for it
matters very much. A relationship must be fed to keep it healthy I think and
it matters what you feed it. I hope I am making sense to you and that you
approve of what I am saying.Remember I care I hope you would enjoy this!!!!
It's my thoughts so far
Mica...
====================== Until The End of Time ======================

Ever since you walked into my life I have been smiling. There hasn't been a
night when I have gone to sleep with a frown on my face, and it's all
because of you. Honey, I am glad that you came into my life. I have always
wanted the love of my life to be understanding, loving, caring, and
faithful. I wanted someone who would accept me for who I am. I know that
I�ve found that person in you. My heart told me that my King was there when
I first said hello to you in mails. I didn't have to think twice when I
asked you to be my husband. I knew that you were the perfect match for me. I
don't think that there is, or that there ever could be, anyone better than
you out there for me. I love you with my whole heart. I have never trusted
anyone the way I trust you. Sometimes I even doubt myself, but I know I will
never doubt you because you are my true love. I know deep down inside that
you will never break my heart or let me down in any way. Thank you for
everything, honey. I pray to God every day to bless you with everything you
deserve. I will love you until the end of time.
Always and Forever Yours,
Mica...

====================== My Feelings For You ======================

I have felt so wonderful today thinking about you. reading your letters make
me so happy to know that an amazing man who believes in true love like I do
actually exists. your words touch me so deeply I feel as though I have
possibly found my true love after all. I also don't want to be hurt or
played with anymore.. I know a love that is shared between two people is the
greatest gift imaginable and I dream of it. if you were so kind and giving
as to share your love with me, I would share my whole love with you and I
feel by sharing all of our love with each other it would grow more beautiful
with every passing moment to become a love that connects our hearts and
souls so deeply it will allow us to grow together and become a love that
lives and breathes as one... I love the idea of marriage but I know it is
much more than just two people living together. I believe a marriage is the
point in time at which our bare souls have grown so closely together and
have created an unconditional love for one another so great that it joins us
forever as one. that is what I believe a soul mate is and a soul mate is who
I want to share my life with. if you share my thoughts and honestly believe
in true love as i do i will promise to open my heart to you and all I ask in
return is the same. I love the feeling of touch ~holding the one you love
and being held is a wonderful feeling, whether it's cuddling on the couch
watching a movie together, running my fingers through your hair, massaging
your neck or back or feet after a long day, writing invisible I love you's
with my finger on the palm of you hand, a warm hug and a loving kiss can be
appropriate anytime ~anywhere. I would love to hold your hand in mine and
walk anywhere with you. Those things don't embarrass me at all ~I would feel
so lucky to be holding your hand knowing you�re the one who truly cares for
me. I also want you to know that I feel making love is only possible when
two souls love each other so deeply and want to be as physically close as
possible and it is the most intimate form of physical touch we can
experience. I feel like I have never truly made love because I have never
had someone who has truly loved me. as for you hypothetical question, if we
were married I would all ways want to bathe with you.. if you were my
Husband I would want to take care of you in every way possible because I
would be your Wife and would all ready know you would do the same for me
without hesitation. It's late and even though we are not married and were
not up making love all night I feel a love for you beginning and hope you
feel the same.. I want you in My Life and i will be Happy to have you as my
Partner i have been searching for since all this while..