Emdr
Emdr
To do EMDR exercises yourself you have to keep in mind that you need two things.
1) On the one hand , bring to light the trauma (sensation, thought, mental image, symptom,
etc.) that you want to get rid of. This is the most difficult and what can cause the most
problems.
2) On the other hand, bilateral stimulation . This, as you will see in this article, is at your
fingertips.
One thing without the other, it doesn't work . If you do bilateral stimulation but have not
previously gotten your bad feelings out, it will not work. If you bring up your bad feelings but
don't do bilateral stimulation, it won't work either. And the latter is even more dangerous,
since it can lead to a reinforcement of the trauma. We need double focal attention (internal
and external) for EMDR exercises to have their full effect. With external stimulation we "let
go" of the trauma and desensitize ourselves to it. We leave it just as
another memory without it having a negative effect on us.
In other words, watching the EMDR videos below every day is not going
to have any positive effect on you (at least as would be ideal) if you do not
bring up your trauma. We need it to be physiologically “alive” within
you to let it go completely. We need you to feel some type of
psychosomatic stress to let it go.
Types of EMDR exercises
All EMDR exercises are based on bilateral stimulation to achieve correct processing of bad
experiences, phobias or fears, reducing the associated stress. This is achieved through the
connection of the two hemispheres of the brain. There are 3 main groups of EMDR exercises:
– Visual : Eye movements in a certain way
– Through sounds : Hear sounds alternately in both ears
– Kinesiological : Through small alternating taps on our body (usually arms or legs)
How often is it advisable to do EMDR
exercises?
EMDR exercises are quite intense so it is not recommended to do them more
than once every 5-6 days . Especially if you do long sessions of more than
an hour. We need your body and mind to adapt to this treatment and digest it little by little
(especially at the beginning).
What to do before EMDR exercises?
It is important that before doing the EMDR exercises that I show you below, you identify the
section that you want to improve. Diagnose your problem or aspect to improve in your life. In
short, the source of your trauma.
Why you find yourself like this is key. Looking at the past and the present. You have to delve
into those thoughts that are causing your current symptoms or emotions. What we are going
to do with this therapy is like digesting food that has not been digested . That is why it is
important to first see the food (thoughts, sensations) that has not been digested by our brain.
If you want, you can write it down on a sheet of paper. You have to do it just before you start
doing the EMDR exercise on video and keep that thought while you do it so that it is
processed properly in your mind. You have to give a name and surname to that trauma, fear
or process that makes you feel bad. It can be very good to write it down on a sheet of paper
to work on what worries you most. A list would be great. You have to write down the
situation/memory that makes you uncomfortable and the emotion it evokes in you .
It is good that you remember the specific aspects that generate the most concern and
anguish . EMDR exercise will set you free. Many times, other associated thoughts will come
to you. No problem. Continue with the exercise.
It is important to identify the stimuli that trigger the symptoms (smells, people, situations,
etc.) to correct them. Send information to our brain that no longer has to have a hard time
with all that.
Developing our action plan for EMDR and exercises
You have to know when the symptoms appear, how they have varied over time, what areas of
life they affect, what their intensity and frequency are, and the cause that
causes them. Also the negative emotions and beliefs associated with the
physical symptom. And, finally, create a map for each patient. We are all
different . So a thorough examination of how we think, what we have
done to deal with those negative emotions, and the resources we
currently have to deal with this problem is useful.
I consider it very useful to relax before performing bilateral stimulation.
It will probably help you to write all this information on a sheet of paper.
On the other hand, we must develop a plan of what we want to achieve with the EMDR
exercises:
1) Objectives that we want to achieve with EMDR therapy
2) What thoughts or emotions do we want to process correctly through EMDR?
The stages of EMDR exercises
For EMDR exercises with a therapist to be successful, it is good to complete all the stages of
their execution. I summarize them a lot for you. Because what interests me is that you know
how to do the exercises correctly as I explain later. There are 8.
Planning
The objectives that you want to achieve are noted and the negative anchors that you want to
process correctly are identified (symptoms, emotions, smells, sensations, etc.). The correct
predisposition of the patient to EMDR therapy and exercises is verified
Explanation of the process
The therapist must guide the patient about what EMDR therapy is, the
exercises and how they will be executed. It is good to find out about the
patient's health conditions and current medication. In addition, other
relaxation or self-control techniques can be helped here.
Measuring memories
The memory of the patient who presents the symptoms is chosen and false beliefs and
physical symptoms are integrated into it. The intensity of physical symptoms and the degree
of validity of negative beliefs are usually scored. Negative beliefs are intensified and a
positive statement about the process is subsequently made. The ideal is to identify an
image with the trauma to work with it
Desensitization, the key part
This is when we proceed to bilateral stimulation . It is the most important part of the process
because new unpleasant sensations or physical symptoms usually appear. The normal thing
is for these emotions to arise and to work with them through bilateral stimulation again. This
phase is the hardest of the EMDR exercises because it is where the worst part of the trauma
is accessed.
changing to positive
In this phase we must reinforce the positive message declaration that we made. Now we
have control of that situation in a positive way and it is verbalized. The positive belief has to
be totally assumed. It's very important. We need positive experiences to have good mental
health.
Relaxation
Relax and release any sensation of tension that may have remained with
any known technique.
Scan again
It is again seen if the patient can think about these traumas without
experiencing bad sensations . If not, return to the desensitization step.
Re-evaluation
In subsequent sessions you can see the aspects that will continue to be improved with the
EMDR exercises.
A practical example of an EMDR exercise
I give you an example with steps of how to approach the EMDR session in a practical way.
Example clinical case
A person who had a very bad experience on the street and is now afraid to leave their
house (agoraphobia) . I want to remind you that the key to this method is to evoke a bad
past experience while doing a task that requires your attention in the present (such as moving
your eyes horizontally).
Step 1
Small relaxation before EMDR exercises
Step 2
We must visualize a very positive situation in our life, something that makes us feel great.
And thinking about this we do bilateral stimulation , for example, moving the eyes
horizontally from one side to the other. Thus our brain identifies this stimulation with
something positive. And then you declare in a positive way how you want to feel (for
example, "I feel great being on the street") with the EMDR exercises that you are going to do.
Step 3
That person must remember their bad experience (image) and focus on the aspects that
cause the most unpleasant sensations about it (emotion). You may have previously noted
them to work on them. Evoke everything bad about that experience. The beliefs, emotions
and symptoms that cause you the most discomfort. The memory that causes you the
greatest anxiety . It is unpleasant to visit that image or sensation, but necessary. It is good
to identify an image with that bad memory. The limiting beliefs that harm you. It is also a
good idea to say negative emotions out loud. But it is not necessary. That is why EMDR
exercises are useful for people who do not want to talk about their most internalized fears or
negative beliefs. The important thing is that they bring it to light themselves, but there is no
need to communicate these feelings otherwise you want to cause too much stress in the
patient.
Step 4
Bilateral stimulation is elicited for a minute or so by rapid movement of the eyes from side
to side (such as occurs in REM sleep), alternating sounds in each ear, or alternating taps on
the legs or arms ( tapping). There are also EMDR devices that produce alternating vibrations
in the hands to help with this bilateral stimulation.
Normally the technique that works best is bilateral stimulation through horizontal saccades.
You don't have to move your head. Simply move your eyes from one side of the visual field to
the other horizontally. About 50 movements are usually done each time. The patient is
asked how he feels at the end of this minute (or we ask ourselves)
Step 5
The patient talks about the images, thoughts or sensations that have gone through his or her
head while doing the EMDR bilateral stimulation exercise. What has come to mind during
bilateral stimulation? How do you feel? Where do you feel it physically? You can speak it out
loud. You don't have to judge it as good or bad, just feel it. Many times the patient can
remember other associated thoughts. It is time to also work with them. Our mind works freely,
solving problems by itself. You have to be patient and work with each of the emotions that
have come to you until you exhaust all the associations that are connected to the trauma.
There may even be physical movements or crying. It flows with them. They are not attempted
to be avoided. Everything is fine with them.
Step 6
Bilateral stimulation is repeated for another minute with any sensation that appears. Until
those sensations become completely neutral .
Step 7
The bilateral stimulation of the EMDR exercise is interrupted from time to time to ensure that
information processing is being carried out correctly. We talk about the sensations that
we are having. It is a way to support the process.
Step 8
Steps 4 to 7 are repeated until the negative sensations or thoughts disappear completely.
The normal thing is that these sensations/thoughts/emotions mutate towards more positive
sensations. Once the positive ones are given and the negative ones have disappeared, we
reinforce the positive ones with more bilateral stimulation . And with more positive views.
We imagine ourselves in that situation that was previously negative but from a positive
point of view . In our example, it could be enjoying a walk with friends.
Step 9
The patient says his positive statement out loud (“I feel great being on the street”), fully
assuming it to also work on it with EMDR. The step of introducing healthy thoughts into our
minds that help us through bilateral stimulation is essential. For example, changing "I'm a
loser" to "I did what I could at the time."
Step 10
Another set of bilateral stimulations is produced until the patient fully
assumes the positive belief.
Step 11
Tension accumulated in the body is released through a relaxation exercise (ideally guided
visual relaxation), releasing any physical tension we have in any part of our body.
Step 12
If unpleasant symptoms or emotions appear, we return to step 2 of EMDR exercises to
desensitize those sensations as well. And if it feels good, we do a last set of eye
movements to reinforce those good body sensations.
With all these steps we ensure that the trauma of the past is stored correctly with the most
powerful resources we have in the present. The entire mind works to properly process
information through this bilateral stimulation that stimulates both brain hemispheres in
EMDR exercises.
EMDR: Video exercises
Since many times a picture is worth a thousand words, I leave you some EMDR videos with
exercises that can help you practice EMDR on your own. It is important that you follow all the
steps that I mentioned above to perform the exercises correctly.
There are many resources on the internet to be able to perform EMDR exercises yourself. I
only put the best ones here . The ones you have to use no matter what if you don't have
money and want to apply your own EMDR. To do the exercises that I propose here, I
recommend using headphones if they have sounds and a quiet place to do them.
EMDR: Pre-relaxation exercise
Here I could put thousands of relaxation exercises. You can choose the one that relaxes you
the most. This is just a very quick example of bilateral relaxation. But you can do
visualizations, meditations, etc.
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Trauma, according to the EMDR technique, has a lot to offer us, which is why we are going to mention EMDR
therapy and its main phases.
Neurologist Francine Shapiro developed the EMDR technique in the late 1980s, based on the theory that there is a
physiological component to every ailment.
In 1987, Francine Shapiro realized that by moving her eyes from side to side, the discomfort she experienced in
the face of unpleasant feelings could decrease or disappear. And from there EMDR therapy is born.
It is based on the fact that trauma is information stored in the brain in a dysfunctional way, so it cannot be
integrated into everyday experience and when faced with a similar stimulus in some way there are symptoms that
can be fear, anger, rejection or physiological blockage or muscular.
EMDR for the treatment of trauma is a therapy that is endorsed by the scientific community, the WHO and
certain organizations. In this therapy, the mechanism in the brain to integrate information is launched.
Information that was not well stored previously, with the stimulation of the mechanism, allows the event to be
integrated into memories in a healthy way.
For this reason, more and more people are going to an EMDR therapist to release their traumas, and therapists
are valuing this therapy as an interesting way to treat patients. And much faster than other techniques.
1. Plan design
It is an initial phase in which the clinical history of each patient is recorded, memories are collected to process with
the corresponding therapy and physical sensations. It can be a belief, smell or sensation , whatever detail is
considered. An agreement will also be established on the therapeutic objectives to be worked on in the sessions.
2. Patient preparation
The therapist is dedicated to explaining to the patient what the method consists of, indicating the theory and
foundation on which it is based. It also clears up doubts, tells the expectations of success and everything necessary
so that he becomes familiar with the method that is going to be used with him. The key is to discover that the
patient is suitable for this therapy and trusts the therapist.
Informed consent is given, which is where the process is explained, in addition to knowing the person's current
medical conditions and whether they take any medications.
3. The evaluation
Through this point you identify the memory that you want to process. Once you know what it is, the patient will be
asked for an image that represents this memory to start working on it. It begins by verbalizing negative emotions
and feelings and then making a positive statement that will be used in the installation phase.
To measure memory, you must access a structure and measure the main elements of memory. Each baseline of this
memory must be measured against the emotions, cognitions, and physical sensations when examining it.
In this phase 3, the initial VoC (validity of positive cognition) and SUD (degree of disturbance you are feeling when
you think about that image) scores will be recorded.
4. Desensitization
It is in which new disturbing emotions, physical symptoms or memories arise . You have to focus and pay
attention. Bilateral stimulation is worked on. If the process is blocked here, other more advanced strategies and
procedures can be used.
In this phase is when the moment of the trauma is accessed in which the worst part of the memory is and the level
of disturbance must be assessed . The patient must make free association with the bilateral stimulation set. You
have to exhaust the associations and situations that connect with the memory. It should be done until you no
longer feel any disturbance when remembering the corresponding scene.
6. Body examination
In this phase we seek to release residual physical tension . The traumatic event must be
remembered with positive cognition. You have to search the body for possible pain or unpleasant sensations that
are processed to eliminate tension. It is usually resolved easily and effectively, but there may be new information
and other complicated experiences that could lead to new paths.
If a sensation of stinging, discomfort or discomfort appears in the body in this phase, you should return to the
desensitization phase. If it is good, a set of eye movements is done to reinforce the good feeling.
7. Logout
This seeks to ensure that the patient recovers a state of balance , even if the reprocessing has not been
completed. The patient will record in a diary situations, memories, thoughts, and more that may occur in the future
to process them in the same way as is done. The patient will learn to relax and contain emotions.
The session is closed and it is evaluated until the next session. What is sought with this phase is to ensure the
stability of the patient and guide them at the end of each reprocessing session.
8. Re-evaluation
At the beginning of the next session, the target from the previous session is accessed again to assess whether it still
has residual disturbances and whether the results are maintained. What is valued is the effectiveness of the
therapy in previous sessions.
In this phase it is important to see that all aspects of the treatment plan are addressed.
a) Visual: the patient moves his eyes from one side to the other guided by the therapist.
c) Kinesthetic: the therapist gently and alternately hits the patient's hands or shoulders. This gesture
facilitates the connection between the two cerebral hemispheres, achieving the processing of
information and the subsequent reduction of emotional load.
It is important to highlight that the therapist guides the process at all times, making clinical decisions
about the direction the intervention should follow. The goal is for the patient to process information
about the traumatic incident, leading to an “adaptive resolution.” In the words of Francine Shapiro, this
means: a reduction in symptoms; a change in beliefs and the possibility of functioning better in
everyday life. Finally, it is important to highlight that the approach used in EMDR is based on three
points: early life experiences; stressful experiences of the present and desired thoughts and behaviors
for the future.
EMDR treatment can range from 3 sessions, for a simple trauma, to more than a year for complex
problems.
Phase Description
2 Preparation An induction is done so that the patient knows the steps and becomes
familiar with the processes to follow within the sessions:
to. The therapist teaches the patient as well as psychophysical
techniques for managing states of anxiety and emotional
discomfort , such as: breathing and relaxation exercises, so that the
subject has these “weapons” and can be better able to face the
problems. emotional challenges by controlling your energy, thoughts and
emotions when exposed to traumatic memories or even everyday
situations.
Positive
The conflicting memory is paired with some paradigm or positive thought
5 Cognition
and another set of bilateral stimulation is performed again.
Facility
The chaining
In chaining, the objective is the formation of a behavior from other simpler ones that already
appear in the individual's repertoire, by reinforcing their combinations . In other words, it is
about achieving a functional unit that is made up of pre-existing behavioral subunits, which add
up to a new behavior. Therefore, we must count, from the outset, on behaviors that are
fragments of the final behavior. In the chain, first of all, the behavior that you want to achieve
must be analyzed, to specify the function and the component behaviors. The level of detail of
these operations will depend (in addition to the task) on the behavioral repertoires of the subject
being worked with. It is essential to know what behavioral fragments the client has available. The
same (final) behavior can be achieved with different intermediate behaviors. In chaining you
can start at both the beginning and the end. This technique is used in behaviors that the subject
knows but does not know how to do: for example, in the development of domestic autonomy
skills, such as dressing, eating or personal hygiene.
In forward chaining, the order of operations is followed from beginning to end. For example, you
learn to drive a car by slowly synchronizing the different operations that that person could do
separately anyway. In backward chaining you start at the last step. For example, in the
behavior of putting on pants, the boy or girl would be helped to put them on except for the last
thing that needs to be done (for example, zipping up); So, you have to teach him to finish the
process. Once he has learned it, he then starts at the previous step (for example, fastening the
button), and is taught to finish the behavior from that point on. It is not as common as the
previous one. Now, there is a third way to do it, which consists of the complete presentation of
the task. In this procedure, the client will execute the steps from the beginning to the end of the
chain on each trial and continue, repeating the entire chain, until all the steps (the entire chain)
are learned.
Contingency contract
A behavioral contract (or contingency contract) is an agreement that is formalized in
writing, between two or more people, and that specifies the behaviors that each of the
parties must execute and the consequences that will arise, as well as failure to comply with the
agreement. that includes the contract. It implies, therefore, the reciprocal exchange of rewards
contingent on the behaviors specified in the contract.
It is not necessary that they be very long, nor complicated, but simpler and more understandable,
the better. What is really important is that it is very clear what consequences will arise from
compliance or non-compliance with the conditions (conduct) agreed in the contract. Contracts
must be specific, the following information must be included: who (the person who has to do the
behavior and the one who gives the consequence), what (the specific behavior and the resulting
consequence), when (it will happen, and also the consequence) and the characteristics of both
the behavior and the consequence (intensity, duration, topography, people involved, etc.). They
must be written in positive terms , that is, specifying the desired behavior, not what is not
wanted. They must have a clear beginning and end. Obviously, they can be renegotiated or
exhausted at the end of the contractual period.
Writing and signing the contract is always a way to emphasize what you are trying to do and, in
the process, we ensure that the agreements will not depend on interpretations or the memory of
the parties. A good contract should ensure the possibility that the participant will be
successful in his or her efforts . It is advisable to include additional bonuses if the person
exceeds the contract minimums; In this way, it will be to your advantage to try to do your best. It
must be negotiated, and it should be right for both parties and also allow for renegotiation
. Furthermore, it should fade once new patterns of behavior and reinforcement have been
established. One of the objectives should be to reduce dependence on the contract and maintain
new behaviors and new reinforcements in an informal way in the natural environment.
Raise self-esteem
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