CONTENT

Preface
Relationship
2. A good relationship
3. Becoming the one
4. Finding a good woman
5. Where men go wrong
6. A good woman (Who is she)
She has etiquette
She holds on her boundaries
She views world with gratitude
She is teachable
7. What a good woman wants
Respect
Love
Three ways to make her feel loved
Dependency
How to know if she is dependent on yo
How to make her dependent on you
8. Where to find her
9. Twelve things You should NOT do with women
BONUS - Is she the potential bride for you?

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 Preface

This book is for a common man who is looking for a

healthy relationship with a woman and want to live a

peaceful and happy life .

This book is purely written on observation, learning, and

case studies. Additionally, this book is written by a woman

who wants to help men to understand women in a better
way and live a good life.

You will find everything you need to know to have a good

and healthy relationship. There is only and only one motive

of this book and that is finding a good woman and
keeping her.

There is no game, trick, or any kind of formula to bring 10

women to your bed.

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 Relationship

A relationship means the involvement of two people

aspiring to grow together in a certain area of life. And

when it comes to love-relationship it is growing together in

all areas of life till the end!

Before talking about a good relationship, let’s see what a

bad relationship is -

“Two people prioritising one’s desires expecting to have a

healthy outcome”

You cannot build something with a long shelf-life by

sticking two uneven shapes of blocks.

Now, It doesn’t matter who among the partners is wrong

and right. What matters is if you are in a bad relationship -

YOU are wrong.

How?

There are only two scenarios that can happen, either you

are one who is a predator or you are the one who is prey.

And, in both cases you need improvements. Especially

being a man you can’t complain and victimise yourself

(You should never).

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The problem with society is it shows compassion for the

victim and believes that the victim has done nothing

wrong

and needs no improvement.

If something wrong is happening in your life, YOU are the

one who is responsible and YOU are the one who can

change it.

You need to analyze your situation, work on yourself and

be better.

Victimising self is a weak man's trait and an immediate

turn-off for any woman.

Besides this, if You are a predator - Have wrong behavior,

addictions, or killing your relationship in any way And you

think you have a good girl who tolerates all

mishappenings

and doesn’t leave you, Let me tell you one truth -

If she would be good, she won’t be surviving with you.

She lacks self-esteem, isn’t confident, has no boundaries,

and thinks she deserves that behavior.

No doubt she may be a good soul, but dear men, good

souls do not necessarily become good wives/mothers.

Even

women on the street have good souls.

Now, If you are the one in a bad relationship, You know

what to do.
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 A good relationship

I have seen men having not so good love life, compliment

their bros who are having a good relationship in this way -

“Oh Man, You got lucky to get an understanding woman”

Sounds common, But I feel here you miss the efforts,

backstage preparation, experience, and learning of that

man.

If it’s all about luck, then why isn't there any lucky simp?

Think about it.

For a woman -

A good relationship is the combination of a deep emotional

connection, a fruitful dependency, admiration, and

immense respect for the man she is with.

And you know what, this all depends on YOU.

A woman is a highly dependent creature, her reactions are

the reflection of the actions of the man she is with.

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If you will act strong she will feel vulnerable in your

presence, If you will act weak she will overpower you.

I can bet you when you succeed in giving a woman a

good

relationship she will never leave you.

What you want from a relationship is also a matter of

concern.

To give, you first need to be in an abundant stage, and to

be in an abundant stage you need to be selfish and earn

all

those traits. This rule applies to almost all fields of life of a

man.

In further chapters of this book, you will get to know how

to be the one, find the one and enjoy your peaceful life.

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 Be the one

Before finding a good match for you, you First need to be

the good one.

How can you be the good one?

Here are FOUR domains of life you need to be proficient in.

1- Your Financial Status

2- Your Physical strength

3- Your emotional stability

4- Your Decision making

NOTE : You don’t need to be 100% in all domains but it is

required to be close to 50-60% in each one of them.

Your Financial status : As I said, You don’t need to be

a rich guy, have 10 cars and a bungalow. It is just that you

must have a good earning source that fulfills your needs

and you can also afford a woman’s expenses.

A man’s financial status gives an assurance of security to a

woman because for a woman living with a man who

doesn’t earn well, is similar to going on an extra war and

taking up the burden.

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To help you out, here are the 3 questions I used to ask

myself while judging men :

Does he earn? If yes then will I be able to run a house

within that earning?

Does he have any side hustle?
Does he invest?

These 3 questions give a broader idea about the man, his

mindset, and his awareness about the responsibilities.

It is a must to have any two of them. Not necessarily to

have both the last things, You can be a good investor

without having any side hustle and that’s perfectly fine.

At this moment, you must know how to generate at least

this much money so that you can give a good life to your

family.

2. Your Physical Strength : I believe in having simple

rules in life instead of complicating it. So, I came up with

these two simple lines which if you understand properly,

you don’t need anything else.

Be healthy enough to live longer so you won’t leave

your kids midway through life.

Be strong enough to fight back so you won’t leave

your family to be attacked by others.

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You don’t need to be a wrestler, a 6-pack guy, or a

bodybuilder (If it’s your hobby then it’s a different thing).

What we, women look for is a man who can stand in front

of us *confidently and can fight back, if needed.

NOTE : Must include one physical activity in your daily life.

It could be gym, game, or anything else.

What it does is, when you tell a woman about your daily

activity, let’s say gym, the image of you she will have after

that will be tempting enough that it will amplify your

chances of being the one for her.

Not just in the starting phase, it keeps your relationship

thriving for a lifetime.

You can also think of it in a way that you met a woman

who has been doing Yoga for the last 2 years and has a

very flexible body - So whatever emotions you will get

after listening to this similarly we women get too.

“You want flexibility, we want strength.”

3. Your emotional Stability : Women themselves are

emotional creatures, in a day we went through 100s of

mini ups and downs, NOW in this situation if you ask us to

live with an emotionally unstable man, It’s a Hell NO!

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How emotional instability is seen by Women -

There are 3 masculine traits that if exceeded count in

negativity.

Aggression, Dominance, Fragile Ego.

You must be aggressive, dominating, and have an ego but

it is highly important to know from where it is coming.

Aggression : An unnecessary aggression shows you lack

control of yourself. If you will be highly aggressive, your

woman will not be open to you emotionally or will not trust

your guidance either, because she knows that if you have

been exploited by your own emotions how will you protect

her from her chaos.

Protecting your woman emotionally is as important as

protecting her physically.

And, you can’t be a victim and a warrior at the same time.

Dominance and fragile ego : Whenever a man tries to

impose his dominance it is always a sign of insecurity and

fragile ego which ultimately represents weakness.

Women test it by hitting your ego to see your reaction and

judge you on that basis.

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These factors are important for a woman and cannot be

negotiable.

Also, If you have any of these traits and the woman is still

with you, There is something wrong with her. Most

probably it will be low self-esteem.

So, you shouldn’t feel proud if a woman is tolerating your

toxic behavior, because you are just compensation for her

leftover traits.

4. Your Decision Making : Being a man, everyone around

you is dependent on you and your decisions. This
dependency is a natural pressure to push you in a direction
of taking the right decision.

Your decision making has a great impact on every aspect

of life including “how a woman views you”

I got to know this thing when I was analyzing the

dependency concept of females, and I realized that the

men I am dependent on are the men who make the best

decisions among all the people I know.

Concluding: Your decision-making is directly proportional

to the dependency of your woman on you.

The more clear, wise, and unbiased decisions you make

the more women around you will rely on you.

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Women are not made to be responsible for the finances

of the family, protect it physically, lead it with logic and

provide emotional stability to the family. So, whenever you

give this task to a woman for a lifetime,

YOU allow her to overpower and rule you and also,

disrespect you.

Within a few years, she will get frustrated by it and

eventually will resent you for being weak.

Even the woman with the purest soul in this world will

disrespect you for being weak.

Not our fault, gentlemen, we are built like this.

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 Finding a good woman

Yes, good women do exist and that is also in a high

number, it is just you need to put in a little effort to vet

them properly.

Your Expectation

What are you looking for?

This is very important to note that - whether you will get a

woman you want or not depends on the expectation you

are having.

If you will have those unrealistic standards that don’t

match the reality of the society you are living in, then

there are very good chances you will get frustrated with

your search and resent the women for it.

After unrealistic standards, there is one more important

thing which is the prioritization of expectations.

Where unrealistic standards leave you with frustration and

resentment, the wrong prioritization of your expectations

will give you a hellish life.

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What should be the qualities your woman has?

Ans 1 - Oh! She must be fair.

Ans 2- She must have an hourglass body shape

Ans 3 - She must earn at least x amount per month

Ans 4 - She must not be less than 5’10.

And so on!!

Dear men - If you think these are priorities,I will have no

sympathy for you if you go through a fake case or live a

miserable life.

Only I will feel bad for your kids.

Act a little mature, look for what values she is having, how

her family is, what her goals in life are, what she thinks of

a husband, or how she wants to spend her life.

After knowing all these if she is fair, tall, earns good, etc’

everything is complimentary.

But DON’T prioritizes complimentary over necessity.

Having a wife with a common body shape and good

values is far better than a wife with an hourglass shape
and an affair with her boss.

If you have a choice, make it best.

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Where men go wrong while looking for a woman

Keeping looks as the top priority.

This case is similar to the women who keep the money

as the top priority. This is not the way to find the right

partner.

Well-maintained woman with values will become a

better mother than a beautiful woman with an attitude.

Remember - You are looking for a lifetime person, not for

one nightstand.

2. Keeping a woman’s earnings a concern.

This has become a trend to find a woman who has a

good earning source and unknowingly or knowingly
men have made it their priority.

It is also due to the social status a working woman

brings to a family in this modern society, which is highly

appreciated.

Getting a woman who knows how to earn is a plus point

but it shouldn’t be a priority.

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3. Choosing a woman to show off

Every man wants a hot woman but most of them want her

to show off in their circle.

I find no sense behind it, how can you find the right person

with the wrong intentions?

But this is how our minds are conditioned to look for social

acceptance and praise first and then at the end see if YOU

accept it.

Break this conditioning, open your eyes and be serious

about this thing. Prioritize your peace over any other thing.

So, now as you are aware of what not to do,

Here are some basics of finding a good woman:

Her expenditure shouldn’t eat up all your savings. Do

figure out how much she spends per month besides

her living charges then calculate, in how many days

you can earn that amount in a month. It doesn’t

matter if she earns or not.

There is no perfect ratio of it but it should be less than 15

days. Find a girl who fits in it.

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Don’t go for a girl where you have to fit in, either by

dropping your expenses or working hard to earn more just

to match up the scale.

Why does it matter?

Being a man, financial strength is a part of your honor. If

you are capable of providing a woman with her monthly

expenses in let’s say 3 days, You hold power over her that

she will never try to challenge and will have a deep

respect for.

This is one of those things which draws lines for women

that they can’t cross even when they are at their peak of

emotions
Your past experiences must be a matter of pride for

her. Whatever you have gone through, built, and laid

the foundation of, she must be proud of that thing.

There are different ways to test it, you can test it by

telling her a story of a man who is having a similar story

like you and observing her reaction, or put her in

scenarios, or just by knowing her opinions about the

struggles you have lived.

How does it help?

When you choose a woman who looks up to you for who

you are and feel privileged to be with you, will think of you

the same throughout your life.

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Because she is fascinated with your potential, experience,
and winnings which will always be there in you.

But when you choose a woman who is fascinated with

your smartness,money and charm, Her love will fade away
when you will be in your hard times.

There will be women for whom what you have

experienced doesn’t matter, they just can’t connect with it
- It’s a red flag and a big NO.

With such women gaining respect will become a

challenge for you, And of course, you don’t want to fight
another war in your life.

For example, for me, a man who has gone through gender

transformation holds no respect. It doesn't matter

whatever hardships he has gone through, I can never

respect him. Because his hardships aren’t valid and not

connected to me.

So, A woman who is your biggest admirer, values your

experiences, and honors you, is the perfect woman for

you.

These two basics of finding a woman will always keep you

away from fighting another war to gain respect from your

woman.

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 A good woman (Who is she?)

What a good woman is not -

She is not perfect

She is not free from feminine chaos

She is not 100% understandable

If you find any woman like this, she is pretending to be

perfect but she is not. Be aware of such fake feminine

souls.

What qualities does a good woman have -

When it comes to traits there are a lot of traits that make

you confused in distinguishing between women because

on a superficial level every woman comes from a different

background and is different.

These are basic qualities every good woman has

She has etiquette

Manners are a sign of class and a good woman

maintains them. Manners do not just mean sitting or
walking properly, they include being aware of where you
are, what you are saying, and how you are saying it.

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Awareness of how you have to act is very important and
all good women hold this.

This quality can easily be tested by observing her

reactions to certain situations.

2. She holds on to her boundaries

No good woman is good without boundaries. Strong

boundaries tell about the preserving nature of a woman,

and if she is preserving herself, that’s a signal that she will

also preserve your status, family, and kids. She is a keeper.

How to test boundaries -

How much allowance a woman is giving to you is the best

way to know about the condition of her boundaries and of

her life too.

Let’s understand it better with an example -

Assuming you, a man with a strong body, good style, and

good opening lines, went on a date with a woman(You are

talking for the last 3 days). During that first meeting, she

allows you to hold her hand.

Men who have a lower value than you are out of their zone

and yes, they need to put in efforts to come to this place

where you are.

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And Men who are of higher value than you, might be

allowed to far more extent on the first meet only.

This is how women are, your value decides where you will

be placed.

Just to clarify, value is different for different women, for

some it is money, for some it is status or for some it is

wisdom.

Coming back to the example -

If we flip it in a way that she refuses your offer of holding

her hand and maintains a good distance,

The man lower than you have not even a chance to go on

any date with her.

And for the man of higher value than you have very less

chances to get there.

I don’t think after this example you need an explanation on

how her boundaries will tell you the state of her life.

3. She views the world with a perspective of gratitude

This is the most important point you must not overlook if

you love your peace.

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There are two types of women :

1. Who views the world with a perspective of gratitude.

These women feel blessed for the things they have, will be

less likely to be negative, and have a happy and healthy

mindset.

2. Who views the world with a perspective of the victim

mindset.

These women feel that the world is cruel and they have

gone through a lot of misery, will be more likely to

complain about life and things, and have a depressed and

toxic mindset.

Also, this is a thing that you can easily predict about a

person just by having a few conversations with them.

There is a vast difference between living a life with the 1st

woman and 2nd one.

“ A woman who is grateful for the things she is having will

make your life more happening, will be a ray of hope, and

a source of peace for you.”

4. She is teachable

A teachable woman is a greatest and unique asset a man

can have.

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She is like water and will take the shape of the

vessel you will keep her in. SO, you hold the power to

shape her accordingly.

Note: Never misuse this power. Women always have an

upper hand in almost all situations. And here if you

misguide a woman that misguidance will be used against

you one day maybe in a different way.

Misguiding a woman is similar to teaching your 2-year-old

son to beat the old age people - One day it will burst on

you in its most drastic way.

How to test her teachability.

A simple exercise you can do for it is keeping a different

perspective than her on a topic by giving her examples,

data, or anything. Here what you have to focus on is “How

is she perceiving it”

Is she closed?

Is she listening to it interestingly? (Very good sign)

Is she only focused on her points and trying to
dominate?
Is she saying yes to just avoid conversation?

Note: Don’t throw words as an attack on her belief system

or principles.

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Complementary Qualities of a good woman, that you

may NOT like

We all have negative traits or a few traits that are

complementary to our best traits but don't sound positive

to others.

When I guide women, I ask them to make a list of qualities

they want in a man and then make an adjacent list of traits

that will come along and that they may not like.

This assessment helps them to deal with reality and

accept the truth instead of repelling a good man just
because of a few not-so-good complementary traits.

The same rule applies to you too, There will be some traits

which you have to bear-like:

If she has strong boundaries it will be hard to get the

woman and she will be having many restrictions and

rules that you are supposed to accept.

Feminine chaos - The more a woman will be feminine

and submission, the more she will be emotional,

sensitive, and vulnerable. And you have to be a rock

for her.

With a high self-esteem woman, you cannot throw

orders without any explanation. She knows her place

and cannot tolerate it if anyone places her below that.

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 If she is highly teachable, there are chances she gets

easily influenced and manipulated.

Besides this general analysis, it is important to know that

Is she a good woman for YOU?

We met many good people in life, a few are amazing but

still, we can’t make them our partners. Knowing who will

be good for you saves a lot of time and effort.

Some straight points that will help you

She must fit into your standards and lifestyle.

She must be happily willing to walk on the path of your
vision
She must understand your insecurities and comfort
them instead of provoking them
She must inspire you to be a better person and

appreciate your winning (Whether they are big or small)

There may be scenarios where a woman doesn’t fulfill all

these criteria but if it is 70-80% in, then wife her. Rest you

can guide her and make her the way you want.

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 What she wants

After knowing that she is the one, you need to know what

she wants to stand out and get her.

Respect

Yes, this sounds masculine because usually, we hear that

men want respect and women want attention. But for any

good woman respect comes before attention.

Firstly I want to clear some myths about respect, which

modern women preach :

1. Respecting her doesn’t mean you have to accept all her shit.

2. Respecting her doesn’t mean allowing her to disrespect you.

3. Respecting her doesn’t mean following her.

4. Respecting her doesn’t mean tolerating her misbehaviour.

5. Respecting her doesn’t mean agreeing to “Her life her

choice”.

I see a lot of modern men fulfilling these points in the

name of respect and it is funny how the same men are left

or cheated on by the same women they respect.

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I see a lot of modern men fulfilling these points in the

name of respect and it is funny how the same men are left

or cheated on by the same women they respect.

Unaware women believe that respecting means simping.

Which is not true.

And the same thing they teach to other men around or

manipulate their boyfriends to simp in the name of respect.

And, the climax is here : They dump the man who simps

for them.

Conclusion : Don’t be a simp.

What exactly does a woman mean by respect

I will keep it easy, just take care of two things, her boundaries
and her values.

Her boundaries : If she has put on some boundaries do

respect them.

Now, If you will not try to cross her boundaries then how

will the relationship become stronger?

What most men do is try to cross the boundary with a

push, manipulation, or emotional blackmail which is not a

good way.

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Even if you succeed in it, she will remember it as regret,

not a good memory.

Whereas, when you win her trust, give her commitment

and time to open up, she gives you special leverage to

cross the boundary without ever feeling guilty about it.

This thing counts in “you respect her boundaries”

Her Values : I had a conversation with a man while I was

looking for a partner. The questions he asked and the

motive behind them were disrespectful to my values,

whereas they were very common and normal for him (He

was woke). So, it was a big NO.

Disrespecting values means making her feel inferior, and

guilty and is an attack on her core self.

This is similar to, when a woman disrespects a man’s

masculinity. He feels rage, and anger and an attack to his

ego.

When you are thinking of building a long-lasting

relationship with each other, you can’t lay its foundation on

the negative emotions.

Any person making you feel inferior or negative instead of

boosting your confidence and courage is a red flag.

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If you don’t like her values or they don’t align with your

plan, change the girl. Find someone who does.

Keep it simple.

Love (How a woman wants to be loved?)

Simple - The way a man wants to love her.

A man and woman are natural beings, nature has made us

for each other. And we sync best when we are in our

authentic selves.

A woman who is connected to her feminine self finds

satisfaction and happiness in serving her man, respecting

him, and following him - And this is what a man wants

from a woman.

Same ways - If you as a man are connected to your

masculine self, you will have a strong urge to protect,

provide and give to your woman - And that’s what a

woman wants.

The whole motive of making this example here is to make

you understand that if you are not masculine enough to

be in connection to your manhood, your woman will never
be able to feel loved with you.

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3 ways to make her feel loved :
Make her feel safe
Take care of her
Play with her

Make her feel safe : Safety is a big concern for almost all

women. It doesn’t mean you always have to keep standing

in front of her with a weapon in your hand. That’s not what

she wants.

It is only the presence of you in her life that will make her

feel safe, whether you are hundreds of kilometers away

from her, doesn’t matter, what matters is she knows you

are there for her.

Safety is directly correlated to your strength (Physical +

Emotional)

Your physical strength will assure her of protection from

the external world.

Your emotional strength will assure her of protection from

her inner chaos.

When a woman is with a weak man, she feels prone to

attack. That’s the reason, women keep their guards up

when they are around any not-so-strong man.

Also, Safety brings dependency in relationships which is a

sign of a healthy relationship.

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 Take care of her

Don’t be a cold man without emotions and at the same

time don’t be an over-caring calling 30 times a day.

I will give a simple trick to it :

“ Must show concern when she needs it, make it a choice

when it is her desire.”

For applying this, you have to understand the difference

between her needs and desires.

You have to be there when she needs you - it counts

in safety and amplifies her dependency on you.

It is your choice to be there when she desires - Don’t

always neglect this thing, if you are willing to make it

and she behaves well you should do it but rest it’s

your choice and mood at the moment.

These things preserve your respect and value in front of

her. A man who gives equal importance to a woman’s

needs and desires is a man woman considered dumb.

Play with her

Not with her innocence, please.

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Tease her, make her feel irritated, or make her feel jealous

sometimes, in short, give her a reason to think more about

you or invest in you.

This is true, that women like the roller coaster ride of

emotions. Be the one to ride it but make sure to bring it to

stability so it won’t derail and require another day to fix it.

How to find out if she is in love with you or not?

If most of the time she is like a kid in front of you - She is

in deep love with you.

Dependency

Women seek dependency just like men seek sex.

If you won’t get it from your wife, you will look for it outside.

Same way if she will not feel dependent on you, she will

look for it outside.

So many wives are dependent on their brothers, fathers

or best friends, or someone else. And if you closely look at

the condition of their husband, he is probably a weak

man.

I believe it is a shame for you if in presence of you, your

wife is dependent on someone else.

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It demonstrates how weak and pathetic you are.

Before describing the dependency part, let me clarify the

co-dependency thing.

Let’s say,

You are with a woman who is dependent on you. Now she

calls you for every small decision, even the daily life ones.

She is dependent on you to make her happy, make her

mood light, to go out and enjoy, travel, order something, etc;

This woman is codependent on you and over time will

become toxic.

(Only proceed with such a woman when you have the

courage and time to change her and teach her the ways of

living)

A codependent woman will never be able to inspire you in

life. Because she is herself in the darkness and needs your

light to shine every time.

It is not only toxic for you but also for your family and

kids.

What does dependency feel for a woman ?

It feels like there is a man who will :

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It feels like there is a man who willBe a rock for her in hard
times

Hold her up when she falls

Appreciate her when she put in efforts

Pull her out of the confusion of life

Stops her from making wrong decisions

How to know if she is dependent on you or not

Does she share everything with you before executing

Does she change her mind when you give some other

opinion? (This is a major sign. If she changes her mind

80% of the time, she is highly under your influence

and is dependent on you

Does she listen to you patiently and act on your advice?
Does she avoid doing the thing you say NO?

If your answer is yes to the above questions then you are

with the right girl.

But, if it is a No,Here are some tips to make it happen.

How can you make a woman dependent on you?

I want you to think of this question “To what type of man

can you easily be dependent?”

A man who is more powerful, intelligent, trustable, and

responsible than you.

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I am expecting your answer will be close to this because

naturally, this is how power is given from one to another.

So, if you want to take charge of a woman’s life, you need

to be in a higher position than her and prove yourself that

you can make the right decisions at the right time.

The aspect of your life that matters for a woman’s

dependency on you

Financial state
Emotional state
Decision making

I have already described them over the portion “Be the

one” In case you haven’t gone through it, I will advise you

to read it first.

A wise person once told me this :

“ A woman is like a ladder and can only be dependent on

one wall at a time.”

This thing has always stuck with me and had a great

impact on my life.

What it means is - If a woman is dependent on a

man(Father, brother, friend) unless she didn’t loose this

dependency she can not depend on another

man(Husband).

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Just like the ladder, to make the ladder inclined over one

wall you need to first remove it from the prior one.

What you(Men) can take inspiration from it is ;

“if you are not that wall for your woman, someone else will”

So, better be capable of making her dependent on you.

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 Where to find her
The most awaited question, Isn’t it?

Let me bust a myth for you “Good women do exist and

they are nearby you”

Now before going forward with where and how to find her,

We will fix “What’s wrong you are doing”.

It is slightly hard to imagine that you didn’t find a good girl

in your most populated city or wherever you live. Imagine

by yourself, count the single female population of your city,

let’s say it is 1000, not all 1000 of them will be degenerate

500 of them will be of no use (for you obviously

200 of them will be close to declining (Hard to change
200 of them will be on the middle ground (Neither

feminine nor feminist- Easy to change with a good

influence )
Rest 100 will be the conservative ones.

(This is a general calculation of almost all cities in the

world, there may be a variation in % depending on the

country)

According to the above data, you have 100 conservative

ones and 200 middle-ground women.

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And if you have reached this book, You are capable of

getting a woman among 100 or changing a middle ground

woman to a good one with a strong influence.

So, you say the point that good women do not exist nearby

has been dismissed from now onwards.

what's wrong you are doing

Having standards far away from reality

“I am 28, looking for a 23-25-year-old woman with no past

relationship or love.”

You should know what’s wrong with this statement. And

this is not made up, I got responses like this from not only

one or two but numerous of them.

She is a 23 years old woman, how can you expect she

won’t have any love or relationship where she is openly

exposed to the men, media, and modern culture.

Yes, I agree there are women like this but they are rare

and the percentage of you getting rare is close to zero.

This is not a demotivation but an introduction to reality.

“ Including self in exceptional cases is a womanly thing - A

man always functions based on reality, not on assumptions.”

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( This was just an example, I am not promoting marrying

any non-virgin, slut, or any other type of woman - It is all

your choice. )

Make standards according to the society you are living in,

the type of family you want to build, and the life you want to
live.

If you want to live a hollow life go for external beauty and

your ego-boosting traits only, If you want peace go for the

values and her character.

Here are some spot recommendations for you where you

can find the girl :

1. Holy places : A woman who seeks emotional stability

and prioritizes peace, visit the holy places frequently

because it makes us feel safe and we get a different kind

of divine power from there.

Whatever religion you belong to, go to your sacred place

and keep your eyes on and approach the girl that seems

good for you.

2. Gardens, Parks, and beautiful spots: The majority

of feminine women love flowers. Or if not flowers, they

love nature and beauty. The reason behind it is it helps us

to connect with ourselves.

So, all of them will have a good number of feminine women.

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3. Market / Shopping malls : This is the need of every
woman. Every woman includes those 100 conservative
and 200 middle ground ones. So, the chances of you
getting the girl there are high.

4. Orphanage / old age home : All are common places

which every city has. The motive behind mentioning these
well-known places is just to remind you of the fact that “You
just need to keep your eyes open and hold on a willingness
to approach and you will get the girl.

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 Things You should NOT do

with women

( Instant turn-offs and can get you friend-zoned.)

1. Saying “you are out of my league and can get a better

man.”

2. Asking directly about a woman’s virginity or sexual past

in a few meetings only.

3. Giving way too much attention.

4. Keeping her confused for a long time. (Your clarity with

goals represents your frame and state of mind)

5. Saying too much please and sorry. (Turn off)

6. Expecting and waiting for her to lead.

7. Complaining about your life frequently.

8. Crying oftenly in front of your girl.

9. Jumping into connecting on an intimate level before

having an emotional connection.

10. Being afraid of her. (No woman respects a man who

is afraid of her : this sounds weak)

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11. Using your status to please her (You will only attract

wrong woman by this)

12. Being overly aggressive or emotionally absent

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 IS SHE THE POTENTIAL BRIDE
FOR YOU?

How to choose the right woman?

What to look into a woman before marrying her?

How can I know if she is the right woman or not?

And many more question…

Men around the world are struggling with such questions.

Here are the 8 basic things about women which usually

men miss out on initial days of dating and then regret in

the long term.

Let’s directly dive into them :

1. HER BELIEF : I keep it first because most people don’t

even think about it, while it is so important that whatever

she believes will be passed on to your children and will also

affect your family’s atmosphere.

In the initial days of dating, it’s tough to know fully about a

person’s beliefs, but just by knowing superficially, we can
somewhat have an idea and can save ourselves from not-
so-good ones.

How to do so : Try to get into a conversation where you talk

about traditions, religions, rituals etc; You can also share
some of your family’s rituals and observe her reaction.

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Or you can also comfortably ask her : Do you follow

some rituals like this?

keep her words in mind, and do check it out later on if

she only speaks or performs them too.

Remember : “Her belief will become reality for your child”

2 . THE FIRST LIE : Do you remember the first time any of

your girls lied to you? I hear a ‘NO’. Most men don’t,
because they didn’t notice that.

Here the lie isn’t important, but the important thing is what
she gives the excuse behind that. Most women reply with “I
said that in fun” although there was no fun in that situation.
The problem arises when men take this thing casually.

Her excuses reveal her thought process and the way

she perceives the world.

Remember : “if she can lie without any strong reason,

there are chances she can cheat without any doubt”

3. ADMIRE - “your wife must admire you”. Admiration

doesn’t mean you have to be perfect in every aspect.

Admiration means she can see through your uniqueness

and qualities and she is so influenced by them that she
feels honored to be around you.

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For this : you must have to glorify your core qualities

and be transparent while meeting her.

Remember : “where there is admiration there is no need

for practicing submission”

4 . HER FAMILY : why I give value to this is that family plays

a vital role in the development of any child. And, Dear men-

your girl is no different, her core values and perspective will

be deeply intertwined with her family values. When you are

marrying, you are going to add a person to your family who

must have at least some similarities to your core values and

principles.

Be interested in knowing her family, how her relationship

is with each member of her family, and how her family

members treat her.

Remember : “In marriage- it’s not only you and she, but it’s

also your family and her family ”

5 . HER VIEW : How does she view the world?

The simplest way to test it is just to see if she views the

world from a position of gratitude or a position of envy. A

woman's view of the world tells a lot about her, because

the way she feels about herself, is the way she feels

about the world.

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For example- when she is insecure about her looks then
she will get a feeling of jealousy of any beautiful thing.

Remember : “You are a part of the world and her view of

the world will surely reflect on you”.

6 . EMOTIONAL STABILITY : I consider an emotionally

unstable woman as a big red flag not for only men but also
for other women.

Emotions are a major part of a woman’s life and imbalance

of emotions is natural but not managing them,not doing
anything to stabilize them, using them to hurt others – No it
should not be acceptable.

But unfortunately, most men get caught in this trap.

Make sure you check out her emotions how much she is
stable with them and if she is not what activities she is
doing to improve that issue.

Most important, her emotions will have a great impact on

your child’s life. Your child may feel deprived of emotions
and remain confused about them or live his whole life
fighting against them.

Remember : “Her uncontrolled emotions will blow up

your logic”

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7 . WORDS ALIGN WITH ACTIONS : This is mostly

advised to women about men. But I feel this is a common

thing. If her words go north and her actions go south- She
is not the one.

The problem is it’s tough to recognize this thing

because the person creates a scenario where you

don’t get any clue or evidence. But here is something

which will help you out - ‘Confusion’.

So anytime you find yourself in deep confusion, Take a

pause and rewind everything and just see for the

alignments of her words and actions. In maximum cases
the confusion occurs only due to a lack of the sync of
words and actions.

Remember : “ Her words tell you what you want to hear,

Her actions tell you what you must hear”

8 . Framing sentences : How she frames her sentences

especially when she is speaking about a person she
doesn't like or she messed up with or when she has an
argument with you - matters a lot.

Framing sentences means whether she tells you the

whole scenario or just says the part which makes her

victim and the other person evil. If it happens once, it

will happen again.

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Most women do this unconsciously, it became their

habit to just pick up half of the situation,mould it a

little bit, and present it in their favour.

Remember : “ How she is framing others, is the same way

she will frame you”

Dear men – Do test the woman who are you going to live

with, have children and spend your whole life.

Marriage is neither a game nor a joke. Take it VERY

seriously; there is nothing wrong with accurately testing a

woman. After all, it’s about your life, status, and family.

“You are a man, a fighter, a protector, a provider; you are

not expected to make mistakes, especially when the

mistake is choosing the wrong woman.

You cannot, because if you do, everything will stand

against you, nature, and the laws.”

Last but not least -

“PUT IN EFFORTS AND DO BELIEVE IN GOD - LIFE WILL

SERVE HAPPINESS AND PEACE TO YOU”

ALL THE BEST FOR YOUR JOURNEY!

By - @askindianwoman

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