Soft Skills
Soft Skills
DEBATING SOPHISTICATING
- Argumentation, giving opinion - It is a deliberate violation of
based on the truth and evidence general accepted rules
- To share point of view with logical - It is a wrong way in giving reasons,
and nature arguments in the spitit of ambiguous explanations, illogical
receiving opinions and comments and wrong illogical and wrong
from other sides categories
- It is a sharp weapon to protect - Sophisticating in order to cover the
legitimate views, arguments and wrong points and to cheat people
opinions
Barries in communication:
- Noise
- Language
- Environment
- Feeling
- Relationship, authority
- Corporate culture
The ways of communication:
- Language and verbal: speaking – writing – behaving – listening
- Non-verbal
Essential skills by language communication: Basic skills:
- Sending information skill: speaking, wriring
- Receiving information skill: behaving, listening
Understanding your audience:
- Be welcomed
- Be important
- Be comfortable
- Be understood
Sending information skills: Speaking and Writing
- The 5C rule: Clear, Complete, Concise, Correct, Courteous
Writing tip: write what to do, do what you write
Listening skill:
- Not in passive listening: Not focusing to speaker, Attitude and feelings are heartless
- Active listening: focus on the speaker, Encourage dialogue and interactive, Positive
feedback on the information
10 Non-verbal communication: Shape, Costume, Face, Hand, Eye contact,
Voice/volume, Distance, Moving, Smell, Touching.
- Always use polite words to others: Thank you, Sorry, Please, You’re welcome;
Excuse me, Allow me,…
- Use vocabulary in appropriate context
- Use humorous words to release the tension
- Talk smart to keep face
- Always “Biết người, biết ta”
Meeting with your customers/partners
- Choose a comfortable sitting position (the back basing on the wall, the face towards
the door)
- Always stand/ sit opposite to customers (respect the personal space from 0.5m-
0.7m)
- Uses 55% body language, 38% voice, 7% words
Preparing to the presentation
- Prepare materials:
+ It need to be prepared a few days in advance in checking all document as well as
tools
+ The presentation must be appropriate to the target audience
+ Compose a logical outline and take note key points of the presentation
+ Organize with visual tools (slides, projectors, video-clips, photos, board…)
+ some extra materials should be prepared for distribution (if possible)
- Develop a presentation strategy
+ Content: For education, or information, or entertainment?
How many parts need to be presented?
+ Target audience: How to use the professional language?
Your audience: mass, professional, “boss”, colleagues…?
- Use the appropriate structure:
+ Build the title for presentation
+ Presenting following level: from Overall/Highest to detail
+ Make sure the continuously of the content
+ Control the presentation time
+ Classification the content from Simple, Medium and Complex
Always check the meeting room in advance:
- Check the meeting room at least 2 hours before the presentation
- Check the power source
- Check projector, the screen, connection devices, sound system, microphone,
computer…
- Check presentation materials incomplete
- Stationery: pen, flip chart, with paper, mop…
The main structure of the presentation:
- Introduction:
+ Make attraction and present relevance of the topic to audience
+ Build relationships to all audience
+ Present the main topic and introduce the overview of content
- The body:
+ Limit the presentation within 5 parts or points
+ Adjust contents basing on the abilities and the needs of audience
+ Set time basing on announced program
- Conclusion:
+ Summarize all key points
+ Note to the limitations
+ Give follow-up activities or future directions
Some tips for using slides:
- Use the sentence instead of paragraph
- Insert picture, charts, drawings
- Adjust the font size according to room
- Do not use abnormal fonts
- Use light colors for comfortable
- Use charts instead of statistic tables
- Use the same format
- Maximum 100 words in a slide, give the slide number
Visual supports:
Before presenting:
- Always confident and be natural
- Deep breathing
- Well team working
- Rehearsal repeatedly for the presentation
- Pay attention to the impressive opening
- Prepare well all evidences
- Present what you know in clear, concise and quick
Answer questions:
- Listening carefully to the whole questions. You can ask until understanding
- Be honest about matters that you do not know. Do not lie!
- Avoid talking with inly one person
- Always say “thank you” when being asked
SERVICE ORIENTED
According to Philip Kotler, customers basically have 2 main need:
- Physically: physical, material requirements…
Ex: Customers need to withdraw money at the bank
Customers want to buy a bread
- Emotional: emotional satisfaction requirements
Ex: Customer send a complain to the bank about its services
Customers want to serve bread quickly & clean
Formula for conducting a service
Service = Attitude + Clever behave + Implementing process
5 elements for forming service quality
- Reputation: do and keep exactly what promised and published
- Responsibility: ready to help and implement customer requests; Always take
responsible by yourself
- Guarantee: employees’ knowledge and ability to make customers trust
- Sympathy: care to individual customers
- Tangible elements: facilities, tools, staff, landscape, decoration, etc.
According to Philip Kotler, customers in service always expect:
- Be welcomed
- Be respected
- Be important
- Be comfortable
- Be safety
- Be understood
Customer value formula
Value = Personal benefits – {Costs + Complaints}
High quality service orientation:
- Nowadays, a good service means speed & efficiency
- The goals:
+ Make sure services are the same in anywhere
+ Eliminate unnecessary mistakes
+ Check and control the quality in the best condition
+ Establish new & appropriate standard systems