PERDEV NOTES All
PERDEV NOTES All
PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT - is a simple and useful tool for understanding and training self- awareness
- It helps understanding your relationship with yourself and others.
MODULE 1: Knowing and Understanding Oneself during Middle and Late - It allows people to identify their strengths, weaknesses, and blind spots.
Adolescence - Increased self-disclosure generally leads to greater self-awareness.
“SELF”
- is the union of elements: body, thoughts, feelings or emotions, and sensations that
constitute the individuality and identity of a person.
4.) Attitude
- Attitude is shaped from a variety of factors like beliefs, thoughts,
expressions, associations and external influence.
- Your attitude is purely yours, uniquely yours.
- Attitude makes you and attitude ruins you.
- What you need to understand is that people will perceive you in illumination
of your attitude, both towards them and towards life.
ACTIONS
- Actions are the things you do and the ways in which you behave.
- Your thoughts and feelings have a big impact on how you act.
- If you feel happy, you are likely to do nice things. However, if you feel angry,
you likely to act differently.
6.) EARLY ADULTHOOD ROBERT HAVIGHURST
- Late teens or early 20s to 30sTime of establishing personal & economic 6 DEVELOPMENTAL STAGES WITH DEVELOPMENTAL TASKS
independence, career development, selecting a mate, learning to live with On the other hand Robert Havighurst identified six major age periods. Although many theorists are
responsible for contributing to the Developmental Tasks Theory, it was Robert Havighurst who elaborated on this
someone in an intimate way, starting a family & rearing children. development theory in the most systematic and extensive manner.
Robert Havighurst defines developmental tasks as one that arises at certain period in our life, the
7.) MIDDLE ADULTHOOD successful achievement of which leads to happiness and success with later tasks while failure leads to
unhappiness, social disapproval, and difficulty with later task.
- 40 to 60 years old time of expanding personal & social involvement &
responsibility
1.) Infancy and early childhood (birth till 6 years old)
- Assisting next generation in becoming competent & mature individuals,
- In this stage, the child begins to learn different physical activities like
reaching & maintaining satisfaction in a career
walking, crawling as well as starting to read and forming concepts.
8.) LATE ADULTHOOD
2.) Middle childhood (6-12 years old)
- 60s and above
- Middle childhood is the stage when the child learns different physical skills
- Time for adjustment to decreasing strength and health, life review,
for simple games as well as developing concepts for everyday living.
retirement and adjustment to new social roles
3.) Adolescence (13-18 years old)
- During the adolescence period, the child achieves more mature relations
with others. The child gets to know oneself and prepares himself for the
coming years.
The concept is influenced by culture, but it generally relates to: 4.) Nurture relationships and connect with others. Our connection to others
● Enjoyment of life is what builds us up and keeps us strong.
● Having the ability to cope with and ‘bounce back’ from stress and
sadness 5.) Learn to manage stress. If you have trouble winding down or managing
● Being able to set and fulfill goals thoughts to find relaxation, yoga or writing your feelings down might be of
● Having the capability to build and maintain relationships with help.
others
6.) Get involved and join in. Being part of a group with common interests
According to the World Health Organization (WHO), mental health is “a provides a sense of belonging so find out about sporting, music, volunteer
state of well- being in which the individual realizes his or her own abilities, can cope or community groups locally.
with the normal stresses of life, can work productively and fruitfully, and is able to
make a contribution to his or her community 7.) Build your confidence. Learning improves your mental fitness and taking
on a new challenge can build confidence and give you a sense of
PSYCHOLOGICAL WELL-BEING achievement.
- quite similar to other terms that refer to positive mental states,
such as happiness or satisfaction, and in many ways it is not 8.) Be comfortable in your own skin. Everyone is unique and should be
necessary, or helpful to worry about fine distinctions between celebrated. Know who you are and what makes you happy.
such terms.
- If I say that I’m happy, or very satisfied with my life you can be 9.) Set realistic goals and deal with tasks one at a time. It is good to be
pretty sure that my psychological wellbeing is quite high! specific when you set a goal to help keep you on track.
10.) Reach out for help when you need it. Everyone needs support from time
FACTORS THAT INFLUENCE THE MENTAL HEALTH AND WELL-BEING: to time. Talking to a family member, a friend, your doctor or one of the many
1.) STRUCTURAL FACTORS services can be of great help.
- such as safe living environments, employment, education, freedom from
discrimination and violence, and access to economic resources. OUR MENTAL HEALTH CAN INFLUENCE:
● How you feel about yourself, the world and your life
2.) COMMUNITY FACTORS ● Your ability to solve problems and overcome challenges
- such as a positive sense of belonging, community connectedness, and ● Your ability to build relationships with others and contribute to your
activities to highlight and embrace diversity, social support, and participation communities
in society. ● Your ability to achieve your goals
3.) INDIVIDUAL FACTORS Why should mental health matter to you and your family?
- such as the ability to manage thoughts and cope with stressors and having When your mental health suffers, it can become hard to enjoy life.
communication and social skills to support connection with others. You may start to feel run down, both mentally and physically. Many of these
changes can make it harder to enjoy a balanced and rewarding life.
Everyone can benefit from learning how to enhance and protect their mental
health—whether or not they’ve experienced mental illness or a substance
use problem.
4 BASIC DIMENSIONS OF HEALTH AND WELL-BEING LESSON 2: Identify Causes and Effects of Stress in One’s Life
1.) THOUGHTS STRESS
- The way you think about something has a big impact on your mental health. - a reaction to a stimulus that disturbs our physical or mental equilibrium.
- Changes in your thoughts often go along with changes in your mental - In other words, it's an omnipresent part of life.
health. - A stressful event can trigger the “fight-or-flight” response, causing hormones
- When you feel well, it's easier to see life in a more balanced and such as adrenaline and cortisol to surge through the body.
constructive way. When you aren't well, it's easy to get stuck on negative - It is the body’s response to a threatening situation or to change.
things and ignore positive things. - Aside from being a reaction (or response), Stress is also a stimulus as well
as a relational condition between persons and the situations they are in
Examples of helpful thoughts: (Feist and Rosenberg 2012).
● I know I can cope and get through these rough times - This involves the interactions between the hormones, glands and nervous
● There are things in my life that I feel excited about! system where the adrenal gland drives the production of cortisol or better
● I know my friends really care about me known as “Stress hormone”.
3.) Behaviors Example: A student who studied so hard for the examination then
- Behaviours are the ways you act and respond to your environment. took and got an outstanding grade in it, he may feel happiness and
- Some behaviours are helpful, and some can be harmful. enjoyment.
- Changes in behaviour often go along with changes in mental health.
2.) DISTRESS
Examples of helpful behaviors: - Distress refers to a negative reaction of the body towards a given stressor.
● Working on a solution to a problem one step at a time - It may alter the mood and emotions and can cause problems in health, and
● Reaching out to a friend or family member for support and even affect the way a person thinks.
understanding
● Practicing your spiritual activities Example: When a student failed in his subject he may experience
sadness and disappointment.
4.) Body reactions
- Body reactions are changes in your body functions such as heart rate,
breathing, digestion, brain chemicals, hormones and more.
- Changes in your body reactions often go along with changes in your mental
health.
3. Meditate. Just ten to twenty minutes of quiet reflection may bring relief from 3. Practice relaxation. Deep breathing, meditation and progressive muscle
chronic stress as well as increase your tolerance to it. relaxation are good ways to calm yourself. Taking a break to refocus can
have benefits beyond the immediate moment.
4. Visualize. Use your imagination and picture how you can manage a
stressful situation more successfully. 4. Exercise daily. Schedule time to walk outside, bike or join a dance class.
Whatever you do, make sure it's fun. Daily exercise naturally produces
5. Take one thing at a time. Make a list of things you need to get done and stress- relieving hormones in your body and improves your overall physical
start with one task. Once you accomplish that task, choose the next one. health.
The positive feeling of “checking off” tasks is very satisfying. It will motivate
you to keep going. 5. Set aside time for yourself. Schedule something that makes you feel
good. It might be reading a book, go to the movies, get a massage or take
6. Exercise. Regular exercise is a popular way to relieve stress. Twenty to your dog for a walk.
thirty minutes of physical activity benefits both the body and the mind.
6. Eat well. Eating unprocessed foods, like whole grains, vegetables, and
7. Hobbies. Take a break from your worries by doing something you enjoy. fresh fruit is the foundation for a healthy body and mind. Eating well can
Whether it’s gardening or painting, schedule time to indulge your interest. also help stabilize your mood.
8. Share your feelings. Stay in touch with friends and family. Ask them how 7. Get enough sleep. Symptoms of some mental health conditions, like mania
they have dealt with a similar situation that may be “stressing you out.” Let in bipolar disorder, can be triggered by getting too little sleep.
them provide love, support and guidance. Don’t try to cope alone.
8. Avoid alcohol and drugs. They don't actually reduce stress: in fact, they
9. Be flexible! If you find you’re meeting constant opposition in either your often worsen it. If you're struggling with substance abuse, educate yourself
personal or professional life, rethink your position or strategy. Arguing only and get help.
intensifies stressful feelings. Make allowances for other’s opinions and be
prepared to compromise. If you are willing to be accommodating, others 9. Talk to someone. Whether to friends, family, a counselor or a support
may meet you halfway. Not only will you reduce your stress, you may find group, airing out and talking can help.
better solutions to your problems.
10. Go easy with criticism. You may expect too much of yourself and others.
Try not to feel frustrated, disappointed or even “trapped” when another
person does not measure up.
5 TIPS TO HELP TEENS COPE UP WITH STRESS: STRATEGIES FOR COPING WITH STRESS:
1.) Get some sleep ● Talk about problems with others.
- Between homework, activities and hanging with friends, it can be hard to get ● Take deep breaths, accompanied by thinking or saying aloud, “I can handle
enough sleep, especially during the school week. Ideally, adolescents this.”
should get nine hours a night. ● Perform progressive muscle relaxation, which involves repeatedly tensing
and relaxing large muscles of the body.
2.) Focus on your strengths ● Set small goals and break tasks into smaller, manageable chunks.
- Spend some time really thinking about the things you’re good at, and find ● Exercise and eat regular meals.
ways to do more of those things. Focusing on your strengths will help you ● Get proper sleep.
keep your stress in perspective. ● Practice consistent, positive discipline.
● Visualize and practice feared situations.
3.) Engage in physical activity ● Focus on what you can control (your reactions, your actions) and let go of
- Physical activity is one of the most effective stress busters. what you cannot (other people’s opinions and expectations).
● Work through worst-case scenarios until they seem amusing or absurd.
4.) Do things that make you happy ● Lower unrealistic expectations.
- Besides physical activities, find other hobbies or activities that bring you joy. ● Schedule breaks and enjoyable activities.
That might be listening to music, going to the movies, or drawing. Keep ● Accept yourself as you are; identify your unique strengths and build on
doing these things even when you’re stressed and busy. them.
● Give up on the idea of perfection, both in yourself and in others. Give
5.) Talk to someone yourself permission and cultivate the ability to learn from mistakes.
- It’s so much easier to manage stress when you let others lend a hand.
3.) FOREBRAIN
- The forebrain is the most anterior division of the developing vertebrate
brain, containing the most complex networks in the central nervous system.
- The forebrain has two major divisions: the diencephalon and the
telencephalon.
● DIENCEPHALON - is lower, containing the thalamus and
hypothalamus (which together form the limbic system) Above the brain stem are other parts of the old brain that also are involved in the
● TELENCEPHALON - is on top of the diencephalon and contains processing of behavior and emotions (The Limbic System).
the cerebrum, the home of the highest-level cognitive processing
in the brain. THALAMUS
- The thalamus is the egg-shaped structure above the brain stem that applies
- It is the large and complicated forebrain that distinguishes the human brain still more filtering to the sensory information that is coming up from the
from other vertebrate brains. spinal cord and through the reticular formation, and it relays some of these
remaining signals to the higher brain levels (Guillery & Sherman, 2002).
- The thalamus also receives some of the higher brain’s replies, forwarding
them to the medulla and the cerebellum.
- The thalamus is also important in sleep because it shuts off incoming
signals from the senses, allowing us to rest.
CEREBELLUM
- The cerebellum (literally, “little brain”) consists of two wrinkled ovals behind The key to the advanced intelligence of humans is not found in the
size of our brains.
the brain stem.
- It functions to coordinate voluntary movement. What sets humans apart from other animals is our larger cerebral
- People who have damage to the cerebellum have difficulty walking, keeping cortex—the outer bark-like layer of our brain that allows us to so
successfully use language, acquire complex skills, create tools,
their balance, and holding their hands steady. and live in social groups (Gibson, 2002).
- Consuming alcohol influences the cerebellum, which is why people who are
drunk have more difficulty walking in a straight line. In humans, the cerebral cortex is wrinkled and folded, rather than
smooth as it is in most other animals. This creates a much greater
- Also, the cerebellum contributes to emotional responses, helps us surface area and size, and allows increased capacities for learning,
discriminate between different sounds and textures, and is important in remembering, and thinking. The folding of the cerebral cortex is
learning (Bower & Parsons, 2003). referred to as corticalization.
CEREBRAL CORTEX
AMYGDALA
- The cerebral cortex is the outermost layered
- The amygdala consists of two “almond-shaped” clusters (amygdala comes
structure of the brain and controls higher brain
from the Latin word for “almond”)
functions such as information processing.
- Is primarily responsible for regulating our perceptions of, and reactions to,
- The cerebral cortex, the largest part of the
aggression and fear.
brain, is the ultimate control and information-processing center in the brain.
- The amygdala has connections to other bodily systems related to fear,
- The cerebral cortex, made up of billions of neurons and glial cells, is divided
including the sympathetic nervous system (which we will see later is important in fear responses), facial
into the right and left hemispheres and into four lobes.
responses (which perceive and express emotions), the processing of smells, and the release of
- If you would divide the brain right down the center into two equal parts, we
neurotransmitters related to stress and aggression (Best, 2009)
would have a right and left hemisphere. Although they are equal in size,
they are not the same and do not have the same functions.
HYPOTHALAMUS
- Located just under the thalamus (hence its name)
LEFT SIDE
- The hypothalamus is a brain structure that contains a number of small areas
- controls the right side of the body.
that perform a variety of functions including the important role of linking the
- It also accomplishes tasks that involve academic and logical
nervous system to the endocrine system via the pituitary gland.
thinking like mathematics and science.
- Through its many interactions with other parts of the brain, the
- The left hemisphere controls the muscles on the right side of the
hypothalamus helps regulate body temperature, hunger, thirst, and sex, and
body
responds to the satisfaction of these needs by creating feelings of pleasure
RIGHT SIDE
- coordinates the left side of the body and achieves tasks that
HIPPOCAMPUS
involve creativity and arts.
- The hippocampus consists of two “horns” that curve back from the
- The right hemisphere controls those on the left
amygdala.
- The hippocampus is important in storing information in long-term memory.
- The two sides of the brain communicate with one another through the
- If the hippocampus is damaged, a person cannot build new memories, living
corpus callosum that connects them.
instead in a strange world where everything he or she experiences just
fades away, even while older memories from the time before the damage
THE RIGHT BRAIN
are untouched.
- Based on the left-brain right brain dominance theory, the right side of the
brain is best at expressive and creative tasks.
- Some of the abilities popularly associated with the right side of the brain
include:
● Recognizing faces
● Color
● Motions
● Images
● Music
● Intuitions
● Reading emotions
● Creativity
THE LEFT BRAIN 3.) OCCIPITAL LOBES
- The left-side of the brain is considered to be adept at tasks that involve - Located at the lower back of the head.
logic, language, and analytical thinking. - It receives and processes visual information.
- The left-brain is described as being better at: - Contain areas that help in receiving shapes and colors.
● Language
● Logic Injury to the occipital lobes may affect:
● Critical ● Distortion of the visual field
● Thinking ● Perception of size, colour, and shape.
● Numbers
● Reasoning
3. Blueberries
- Blueberries are packed with antioxidants that may delay brain aging and
improve memory.
4. Turmeric
- Turmeric and its active compound curcumin have strong anti-inflammatory
and antioxidant benefits, which help the brain. In research, it has reduced
symptoms of depression and Alzheimer's disease.
5. Broccoli
- Broccoli contains a number of compounds that have powerful antioxidant
and anti-inflammatory effects, including vitamin K.
6. Pumpkin Seeds
- Pumpkin seeds contain powerful antioxidants that protect the body and
brain from free radical damage. Pumpkin seeds are rich in many
micronutrients that are important for brain function, including copper, iron,
magnesium and zinc.
7. Dark Chocolate
MODULE 6&7: Emotional Intelligence What is emotional intelligence? (According to Michael Akers & Grover Porter)
LESSON 1: Understanding the Intensity and Differentiation of Emotions May For most people, emotional intelligence (EQ) is more important than one’s
Help in Communicating Emotional Expressions intelligence (IQ) in attaining success in their lives and careers. As individuals, our
success and the success of the profession today depend on our ability to read other
EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE people’s signals and react appropriately to them.
- can be defined as the ability of a person to command respect by building
relationships or by the ability to get along with the people or situation. Therefore, each one of us must develop the mature emotional intelligence
- In a sense this is what Schwartz (1997) view: what actually matters is not skills required to better understand, empathize and negotiate with other people —
how much intellect or mind one has, but how it is used. particularly as the economy has become more global. Otherwise, success will elude
us in our lives and careers.
Emotional Intelligence: Before we explain the meaning of the word EQ, let
us define first the terms emotion and intelligence. “Your EQ is the level of your ability to understand other people, what
Literary or Dictionary Definition: motivates them and how to work cooperatively with them,” says Howard Gardner, the
- Emotion is any agitation or disturbance of mind, feeling, passion, influential Harvard theorist. Five major categories of emotional intelligence skills are
and any vehement or excited mental state. But emotional recognized by researchers in this area.
intelligence can be defined as the ability of a person to command
respect by building relationships or the ability to get along with
people or situations. UNDERSTANDING THE FIVE CATEGORIES OF EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
(EQ)
Some view emotional intelligence as a position and proactive attitude towards all 1.) SELF-AWARENESS
aspects of life. There are four emotional ingredients as cornerstones for intelligence. - The ability to recognize an emotion as it “happens” is the key to your EQ.
These are: - Developing self-awareness requires tuning into your true feelings. If you
1.) EMOTIONAL LITERACY evaluate your emotions, you can manage them.
- Just as literacy enables people to be aware of what is happening around
them, emotional literacy helps people become more aware of them as well The major elements of self-awareness are:
as other people’s emotions. ● Emotional awareness - Your ability to recognize your own
- By managing other emotions, problem solving becomes easier and better. emotions and their effects
- Emotional literacy also helps build self confidence through emotional ● Self-confidence - Sureness about your self-worth and capabilities.
honesty, energy, emotional feedback, intuition, responsibility and
connection. 2.) SELF- REGULATION
- You often have little control over when you experience emotions. You can,
2.) EMOTIONAL FITNESS however, have some say in how long an emotion will last by using a number
- Emotional fitness strengthens one’s resilience and believability for listening of techniques to alleviate negative emotions such as anger, anxiety or
and managing conflict. depression.
THREE STEPS YOU CAN DO TO HANDLE NEGATIVE EMOTIONS: STEP 2: TAKE ACTION
Once you've processed what you're feeling, you can decide if you need to
STEP 1: IDENTIFY THE EMOTION express your emotion. Sometimes it's enough to just realize how you feel, but other
Learning to notice and identify your feelings takes practice. In addition to times you'll want to do something to feel better.
focusing on your feelings, check in with your body, too. You may feel body sensations
with certain emotions — perhaps your face gets hot, for example, or your muscles ● Think about the best way to express your emotion.
tense. - Is this a time when you need to gently confront someone else? To talk over
what you're feeling with a friend? Or to work off the feeling by going for a
● Be aware of how you feel. run?
- When you have a negative emotion, such as anger, try to name what you're
feeling. For example:
a. It won't solve anything to show my anger to Ian. It may even make
For example: him feel superior! But my feelings tell me that I need to avoid
That guy Ian in my study group makes me so mad! getting in another situation where he takes control over a project.
I get so jealous when I see that girl/ guy with my ex. b. I'll hold my head high around my ex, then I'll put on some sad
I feel afraid whenever I have to walk past those bullies. songs and have a good cry in my room to help me release my
feelings and eventually let go.
● Don't hide how you feel from yourself. c. My fear of being around those bullies is a sign that they have
- You might not want to broadcast your feelings to other people. But don't gone too far. Perhaps, I should talk about what's going on with a
suppress your feelings entirely. school counselor.
- Simply naming the feeling is a lot better than pretending not to have it or
exploding without thinking. ● Learn how to change your mood.
- At a certain point, you'll want to shift from a negative mood into a positive
● Know why you feel the way you do. one. Otherwise your thinking may get stuck on how bad things are, and that
- Figure out what happened that got you feeling the way you do. can drag you down into feeling worse.
- Try doing things that make you happy, even if you don't feel like it at the
For example: time.
a. Whenever we do group projects, Ian finds a way to take all the - For example, you might not be in the mood to go out after a breakup, but
credit for other people's work. Our teacher thinks Ian's the star of going for a walk or watching a funny movie with friends can lift you out of
the team, even though he never has his own ideas. that negative space.
b. When I see my ex flirting with other people, it reminds me that I
still have feelings for him/ her. ● Build positive emotions.
c. Even though the bullies don't pick on me, I see what they do to - Positive feelings create a sense of happiness and well being.
other people and it worries me. - Make it a habit to notice and focus on what's good in your life, even the little
things.
● Don't blame. - Noticing the good things even when you're feeling bad can help you shift the
emotional balance from negative to positive.
LESSON 3: Ways to manage various emotions
● Seek support.
- Talk about how you're feeling with a parent, trusted adult, or a friend. They HOW TO EXPRESS YOUR EMOTIONAL PAIN THE HEALTHY WAY:
can help you explore your emotions and give you a fresh way of thinking
about things. METHOD 1: Opening Up
- And nothing helps you feel more understood and cared for than the support 1. Find a counsellor.
of someone who loves you for who you are. 2. Keep an open mind.
3. Be open with whoever is willing to help you.
● Exercise. 4. Talk to a friend or family member.
- Physical activity helps the brain produce natural chemicals that promote a 5. Try to avoid confronting someone when you're already angry.
positive mood. Exercise also can release stress buildup and help you from 6. Remember to listen.
staying stuck on negative feelings.
METHOD 2: Managing Emotions Physically
STEP 3: GET HELP WITH DIFFICULT EMOTIONS 1. Exercise to help deal with depression.
Sometimes, no matter what you do, you can't shake a tough emotion. If you 2. Develop relaxation techniques.
find yourself stuck in feelings of sadness or worry for more than a couple of weeks, or 3. Learn how to meditate.
if you feel so upset that you think you might hurt yourself or other people, you may 4. Allow yourself to cry.
need extra help. Talk to a school counselor, parent, trusted adult, or therapist.
Counselors and therapists are trained to teach people how to break out of negative METHOD 3: Expressing Your Feelings through Creativity
emotions. They can provide lots of tips and ideas that will help you feel better. 1. Keep a journal.
2. Try expressing yourself through art.
3. Consider writing about your pain.