Understanding The Self
Understanding The Self
Activities:2018
Paper: 1: Understanding the Self
Independent Thinking-
Independent thinking signifies performing something according to our own beliefs
and opinions. To develop Independent thinking, one must act and do. Just reacting to a
certain situation may not suffice. It takes some time for our child to build Independent
thinking skills. When our children grow and reach teen age, they will be very curious to
inquire and challenge the systems and beliefs they once actively used. The sued to live in a
world that created everything for them especially from their parents; in fact, parents were
their sole support for satisfying all needs and requirement.
increase your capacity for independent thought by limiting the conventional opinion you
absorb Independent thinkers are not necessarily contrarian but they don‟t agree with the
status quo by default. They devise new criterion for perceiving the world rather than seeing
everything through the screen of their computer
2. Immerse ourselves in experiences that conflict with our current perspective- Instead
of substituting a new conventional thought for the old one, deliberately seek out experiences
that challenge your views.
3. Watch the process from a distance-Leaving your normal life behind can you the freedom
to see issues from another perspective. Watching the world instead of eating it up gives you
the peace of mind to think for yourself.
4. Randomize our sensory inputs-Instead of visiting the same places, eating the same foods
and talking to the people, you can actively pursue new experiences. Many people cling to the
familiar to simplify decisions and create a sense of security
5. Practice disbelief- Without becoming a cynic, you can develop the habit of instinctively
distrusting thoughts that rely on conventional wisdom.
6. Use logic at all time- Human minds are trained to think like others. We are social beings
and easily flow with the masses. Logic is a gift everyone possesses but very few have the
courage to use it. Make sure you maintain a same mind at all times and think logicall.
Critical Thinking-
Critical thinking is the intellectual disciplined process of actively and skillfully
conceptualizing, applying, analyzing, synthesizing and or evaluating information gathered
from or generated by, observation, experience, reflection, reasoning or communication as a
guide to belief and action.
Critical thinking is that mode of thinking- about any subject, content or problem- in
which the thinker improves the quality of his or her thinking by skillfully analyzing assessing
and reconstructing it. Critical thinking is self-directed, self-disciplined, self-monitored, and
self-corrective thinking. It presupposes assent to rigorous standards of excellence and mindful
command of their use. It entails effective communication and problem-solving abilities as
well as a commitment to overcome our native egocentrism and socio centrism.
Creative Thinking-
The word „Creativity‟ is derived from the Latin word „Creatus‟ which means to bring
into being. Creativity has been defined as the use of one‟s intellect to produce novelty and
meaningful ideas. It refers to creative potential, to creative production and to creative
productivity.
Normally, the word creativity is associated with arts like painting, dancing etc. but
creativity does not mean a talent associated with the arts alone.
Creativity is a blessing from nature but we can develop it by careful planning through
education. Hence it is necessary that parents and teachers provide healthy conditions at
home and in the school. This would enable children to express themselves and contribute
something new for the society which may be termed as creativity. So, the following
suggestions can work satisfactorily in the stimulation and nourishment of creativity-
1. Freedom to respond.
2. Encouraging originality and flexibility.
3. Removal of hesitation and fear.
4. Avoidance of blocks to creative thinking.
5. Proper organization of the curriculum.
6. Reform in the evaluation system.
7. Use of special techniques for fostering creativity viz- a) Brain storming, b) Use of
teaching models, c) Use of gaming technique.
8. Teaching by example.
Problem solving-
The Concise Oxford Dictionary (1995) defines a problem as, „A doubtful or difficult matter
requiring a solution‟ and „something hard to understand or accomplish or deal with‟.
1. Problem identification- This stage involves detecting and recognizing that there is a
problem; identifying the nature of the problem; defining the problem.
2. Structure the problem- This stage involves a period of observation, careful
inspection, fact-finding and developing a clear picture of the problem.
3. Looking for possible solution- during this stage we will generate a range of possible
course of action but with little attempt to evaluate them at this stage.
4. Making a decision- This stage involves careful analysis of the different possible
courses of action and then selecting the best solution for implementation.
5. Implementation-This stage involves accepting and carrying out the chosen course of
action.
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Q. No.2: Visit to the slums and national calamities and stories of different children to
top empathy which is inherent.
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Q. No.3: Exercise to have inner observation for self knowing which in stress or in
emotions and to develop skills of self management.
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Q.No.4: Group discussions on the current issue to develop psycho-social skills like
interpersonal relationship skills effective communication skills.
Ans: INTRODUCTION:
The importance of interpersonal communication (IPC) has been growing especially in
the context of globalization and privatization where the economies of the developed and the
developing countries move from an industrial to service-oriented economy and that has
placed IPC in the center among all other skills that help in developing and sustaining in
business. Today‟s service economy puts a premium on relationship building among
employees, peers, departments, organizations, and customers. Of course developing and
maintaining these relationships is the goal of business communication. Cultural diversity,
globalization, organizational restructuring, worker specialization, and technology contribute
to the current emphasis on interpersonal skills.
. When we try to understand and develop communication skills we cannot escape
these larger integration issues. Human communication is a complex and intriguing
phenomenon. Both form (syntactics) and content (semantics) of the communication reflect
the personal characteristics of the individuals as well as their social roles and relationships. In
this era of communication revolution, the effectiveness of communication has been
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emphasized in all contexts. But the primary focus is only on the elements of language not on
the psychological (cognitive), social and cultural factors.
The aim of this article is to highlight the links between psychology and interpersonal
communication skills. Psychological approaches to interpersonal communication will help us
in identifying the key concepts in developing interpersonal communication skills.
PSYCHOLOGY AND HUMAN COMMUNICATION:
Psychology is generally concerned with studying the mind, the brain, and human
behaviour. The frame work of human cognitive architecture is helpful in discussing how
different types of thought, as well as the corresponding areas of psychology, relate to each
other along a continuum, and how this continuum, in turn, relates to human communication
processes. Cognitive, cultural, developmental, perceptual, and social psychology, all hold
implications for communication research.
The fields of psychology and communication are closely related, to the extent that the
line differentiating the two is often quite blurry. Psychology may be considered an
established discipline when compared to communication. So communication may benefit
from the relatively consolidated approaches of psychology. The relationship between
psychology and communication has been productive in the past as well as in the present. So,
the researchers in the field of communication will continue to both learn from and inform
psychologists.
UNDERSTANDING INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION:
The unique characteristics of interpersonal communication can be explored by tracing
the meaning of the word interpersonal. It is derived from the prefix „inter‟ meaning
“between”, and the word person. So, interpersonal communication literally occurs between
people. On one sense, all communication happens among people, yet many interactions don‟t
involve us personally. Communication exists on a continuum from impersonal to
interpersonal. The heart of interpersonal communication is shared meanings between people.
We don‟t just exchange words when we communicate.
Interpersonal communication can mean the ability to relate to people in written as
well as verbal communication. This type of communication can occur in both a one-on-one
and a group setting. This also means being able to handle different people in different
situations, and making people feel at ease. Gestures such as eye contact, body movement, and
hand gestures are also part of interpersonal communication. The most common functions of
interpersonal communication are listening, talking and conflict resolution. Types of
interpersonal communication vary from verbal to non-verbal and from situation to situation.
Interpersonal communication involves face-to-face communication in a way that
accomplishes the purpose and is appropriate. Stewart & Angelo in their book Together:
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influence and power; and affection refers to the need for friendship, closeness, and love. Each
person‟s interpersonal needs are different. An awareness of the interpersonal needs of the
individuals will enable us to better understand their communication behaviour. The Schutz
system suggests that a successful interpersonal encounter is one where the interpersonal
needs of the participants are satisfied. We engage in interpersonal communication and
compare our opinions, attitudes, and beliefs with those of others.
In the same way, George C. Homans (1950) identifies three elements that are present
when individuals get together to perform some task: sentiment, activity, and interaction.
Sentiment refers to the need that motivated the individuals to join one another as well as to
the positive and negative feelings that participants develop toward one another. Activity is the
label given to the specific acts the participants perform that are related to their task.
LANGUAGE, BEHAVIOUR AND INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION:
There is a concrete and complex network of links among the elements such as
language, behaviour and interpersonal skills in the process of communication. Social
psychologists focused on behavior in interpersonal relations, their research served as a
gateway for research examining communication in interpersonal relationships. In the words
of Heath and Bryant (2000): Particularly since 1960, scholars adopted communication as the
central term because they wanted to study it as a significant and unique aspect of human
behavior (p. 59).
According to Larry A. Samovar and Richard E. Porter (1991:p.8) communication is...
a dynamic transactional behavior-affecting process in which people behave intentionally in
order to induce or elicit a particular response from another person.
In addition to the previous definition, they add the proponents of a channel, through
which the communication takes place; a responder, who observe the communicative
behaviour; encoding and decoding, i.e. the processes of producing and interpreting
information; and feedback, which refers to the information available to a source that permits
him or her to make qualitative judgements about communication effectiveness. As Samovar
and Porter put it: ...communication is complete only when the intended behaviour is observed
by the intended receiver and that person responds to and is affected by the behaviour
(1991:p.12). Thus their definition is largely based on intentional communication in an
interpersonal context. This is only to show that there are several ways to define and
understand the field of interpersonal communication in various dimensions correlating
„language‟ and „behaviour‟.
CONCLUSION:
The above explorations and explanations bring out the „intrinsic‟ and „extrinsic‟ links
between psychology and interpersonal communication. Researchers in the field of
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