Marriage The Contract That Binds You
Marriage The Contract That Binds You
The marriage license bureau was headed by a young woman of about age
25. I asked her to explain to me the general and statutory implications of
the marriage license. She was very cooperative, and called in an Assistant,
a tall Black man who at the time was working on an Operations Manual for
internal departmental use.
This is not the case in the secular realm of the state's marriage license
contract. The State is the Principal or dominant party. The husband and
wife are merely contractually "joined" as business partners, not in any
religious union. They may even be considered, he said, connected to each
other by another "dotted line."
The picture he was trying to "paint" was that of a triangle with the State at
the top and a solid line extending from the apex, the State, down the left
side to the husband, and a separate solid line extending down the right side
to the wife, a "dotted line" merely showing that they consider themselves to
have entered into a religious union of some sort that is irrelevant to the
State.
Consideration on the part of the husband and wife is the actual fee paid
and the implied agreement to be subject to the state's statutes, rules, and
regulations and all court cases ruled on related to marriage law, family law,
children, and property.
He also said that it is very important to understand that children born to the
marriage are considered by law as "the contract bearing fruit" - meaning
the children primarily belong to the State, even though the law never comes
out and says so in so many words.
The first is the Doctrine of Parens Patriae. The second is the Doctrine of In
Loco Parentis.
Parens Patriae means literally "the parent of the country" or to state it more
bluntly - the State is the undisclosed true parent. Along this line, a 1930s
Arizona Supreme Court case states that parents have no property right in
their children, and have custody of their children during good behavior at
the sufferance of the State.
This means that parents may raise their children and maintain custody of
their children as long as they don't offend the State, but if they in some
manner displease the State, the State can step in at any time and exercise
its superior status and take custody and control of its children - the parents
are only conditional caretakers. [Thus the Doctrine of In Loco Parentis.]
That is why family law and the Domestic Relations court calls "divorce" a
dissolution of the marriage because the contract continues in operation but
in amended or modified form. He also pointed out that the marriage license
contract is one of the strongest, most binding contractual relationships the
State has on people.
The Assistant replied that in the several years he had worked there, he was
not aware of anyone else asking these questions. He added that he was
very glad to see someone interested in the legal implications of the
marriage license and the contractual relationship it creates with the State.
His boss, the young woman Marriage Bureau department head stated,
"You have to understand that people who come in here to get a marriage
license are in heat. The last thing they want to know is technical, legal, and
statutory implications of the marriage license."