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The document is a book titled "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents" published in 2015 by Lindsay C. Gibson. It discusses how emotionally immature parenting can impact children's development and offers guidance for adult children on how to heal from the effects and establish emotional independence from their parents. The book contains several chapters that outline different types of emotionally immature parents and strategies for adult children to set boundaries, manage feelings of low self-worth, and strengthen their own emotional capabilities.

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The document is a book titled "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents" published in 2015 by Lindsay C. Gibson. It discusses how emotionally immature parenting can impact children's development and offers guidance for adult children on how to heal from the effects and establish emotional independence from their parents. The book contains several chapters that outline different types of emotionally immature parents and strategies for adult children to set boundaries, manage feelings of low self-worth, and strengthen their own emotional capabilities.

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Lindsay C.

Gibson

Adult Children
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Immature
Parents:
How to Heal
from Distant,
Rejecting, or
Self-Involved
Parents

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