Learning Questions
Learning Questions
Reappraisal Questions
Reappraisal questions allow the coachee to look at the situation or issue from another perspective. By stepping
outside of their current mind maps/perspective and seeing things from a different angle, they can have insights
that can support them to move forward.
Example questions include:
How could you think about this issue from a different perspective?
Can you describe this issue as an image or picture?
Have you ever tried an alternative approach? What were the results?
If this was your boss dealing with this issue, how do you think they would deal with it? What would they do?
If this was a personal relationship, how would you handle the issue differently to how you are at work?
What do you think the other person might be feeling regarding this issue?
If you could observe this situation from a 3rd person point of view, what do you think you would see?
How can you look at this issue differently?
What is a different perspective you could have regarding this issue?
How might you think differently about this?
Would you be willing to explore another perspective on this current situation?
If you could zoom out and look at this issue from afar, what would you notice?
If this were a friend telling you their story, what would you be saying to them to help them reframe it?
Imagine you are your future self, 20 years from now, what would you say to your present self?
If you had a choice, what would you do?
Lets pretend we are in a theatre and run this situation as a movie. You’re sitting in the audience watching the
movie, what do you see?
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Learning Questions
Thinking Questions
Thinking questions explore the coachees thinking on the topic being discussed. They are often used to allow the
coachee to move into a reflective space and focus on their thinking instead of the problem. They usually lead to
an insight or new connection.
Example questions include:
How long you have you been thinking about this? (Days/weeks/months/years)
How often do you find yourself thinking this? (How many times each hour/day/week)
How frequently are you thinking about it?
When are you most likely to think about this?
How long do you think about this for when you do think about it? (Minutes/hours)
How strong is this thought with you? On a scale from one to ten?
How important is this topic to you, for example, on a scale of one to ten?
How high is this in your priorities now, e.g. is it in your top 3,5 or 10 priorities now?
What priority would you like it to be?
How committed are you to resolving this topic, on a scale of one to ten?
What is the ratio of thinking you do about the problem as compared to the solution?
How motivated are you to resolve this topic?
How much effort have you invested in thinking about this?
How do you feel about the thinking time you have given this so far?
What common threads do you notice in relation to your thinking about this and other issues? (Patterns)
How clear is your thinking about this?
What stage are you at in your thinking about this?
How could you take your thinking to the next step?
What lens might you be looking through in your thinking?
What aspects of your thinking are most important/effective?
How does your thinking about this compare to your thinking about other topics?
Can you see any gaps in your thinking?
What needs unpacking?
What are you not thinking about that might help you find resolution?
What ideas/thoughts have crossed your mind about this that you may have dismissed?
How do you feel about what you’ve done so far?
From the thinking that you have already done on this, what are the main insights that you have had about this up
to now?
What are your insights so far?
If you could label your emotion in one or two words, what would it be?
Describe in one word how you’re feeling in this moment?
Can you describe in a couple of words the impact this is having on you?
What are the 3 key emotions around that?
Can you label the sensation you’re feeling in your body?
How do you feel when you think about this topic?
How could you describe what is going on for you in a sentence?
How would you name your experience, in just a few a couple of words?
If you had to give that a label, what would that be?
What would be one word or picture that you could associate with this issue regarding your feelings?
If you look at the impact on others of you being this way, how would you say in one word?
How would you describe your team’s reaction to you in a short phrase?
How would you describe your relationship to your subordinates in one word?
If you were to put a label on this habit, what would that be?
Mindfulness Questions
Mindfulness questions are focused on the coachee’s direct experience in the moment. Allowing them to see
what is present and discover new insights from what is happening in the moment. This also dampens down the
limbic system response and increases the coachee’s ability to generate new thinking and insights.
Example questions include:
For more information on the science behind thinking, reappraisal, labeling and mindfulness questions refer to the
NeuroLeadership Journal No.1 Edition.
Based on this insight, what do you think would be the next step forward for you?
What is your plan for achieving these targets?
Now that you have had this new understanding about the situation, what do you think you can do?
What planning do we need to implement to ensure your success in this area?
What are your options, based on this insight?
Do you have a plan for moving forward in this area?
How clear is your plan for achieving this objective?
What are the milestones for achieving this goal?
What are the major steps for achieving your goal?