Personal Development
Personal Development
12,13,14,15,16,17,19,20,21,22)
Deviance- violation of social norms.
Day 12
Conformity- social influence, involves change in order yo fit in the society.
SOCIALIZATION ENCULTURATION
Deviant Behavior- an act considered by public consensus, violation of some
-the process of interacting with -a process in which a child learn
social rule.
other people his/her own culture.
-we learn the language of the -product of socialization process.
culture we are born to as well as Type of Deviant Behavior Meaning Examples
the roles we play in life. 1. Infringement or Unhealthy act to self. Suicide, drug abuse,
Violation Against alcoholism, smoking,
Self illegal gambling,
Socialization Process prostitution
2. Violation on Life, Causing harm to Vandalism, abortion,
- human learn the expectations of society through socialization. Property,Liberty possession and rights rebellion, juvenile
and State delinquency, organized
-different based on race, gender and class. crime and syndicate,
graft and corruption.
Consequences of Socialization 3. Violation against Tampering natural Pornography, sexual
Sex Code and sex harassment, sex-
1. Establishes self-concepts. Laws transplant, adultery,
2. Creates the capacity for role taking. homosexuality.
3. Creates the tendency for people to act in socially acceptable way.
4. Makes people bearers of culture.
Types of Conformity
Agents of Socialization
1. Informative Conformity- occurs in situations in which there is high
1. Family- most important agent uncertainty and ambiguity.
2. School- teach children values and custom of the larger society. 2. Normative Conformity- occurs when we want to be liked by the
3. Religion- it influences morality. group. Good impression. Dominant form of social conformity.
4. Peer Group- a group of persons with common interest.
5. Mass Media and Technology-shapes basic orientation to life
6. Workplace- major agent pf socialization fir adults.
DAY 14
Human Dignity - A declaration adapted by the UN General Assembly
- December 10, 1948
- Latin term “dignus” which means “worthy”.
- Palais de Chaillot, Paris
- Constitutes the basis of fundamental rights in international law.
- Consist of 30 articles.
Human Dignity is:
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1. Inviolable -means can never be violated by others.
Social Group- consist of two or more people group who interact with one
2. Inherent -inseparable from the human condition.
another and who recognize themselves as distinct social unit. (Gidden, 1993)
3. Inalienable -means cannot be taken from us.
Classifications Meaning Basic Examples
Human Right- are universal and inalienable; indivisible; interdependent
of Groups Characteristics
and interrelated.
1. Primary Marked by Personal and Family, close
1. Universal- everyone is born with this regardless of the race, gender
Group concern for intimate friends, (love
ethnicity, residence, religion, cultural and ethnic background. one another. relationship, face relationships?)
2. Inalienable- can never be taken away. (relationship to face
3. Indivisible and Interdependent- all rights- political, civil, social oriented) communication,
cultural and economic are equally important and none can fully permanence,
enjoyed without the other one. strong sense of
loyalty, small in
The Common Good is the greatest possible good for the greatest possible size, informality,
number of individuals. and traditional
and non-
Three Essential Elements of the Common Good traditional
decision making.
1. Respect and promotion of the fundamental rights of the person. 2. Secondary Involves weak Large, Employees to
2. Prosperity or the development of society’s spiritual and temporal Group emotional ties communication worker clerks
goods. and little is indirect, to customers,
personal temporary, members of
3. The peace and security of the group and its members.
knowledge to group certain group,-
Universal Declaration of Human Rights (USHR) one another. cohesiveness is mates.
(Goal weak and based
- Authored by Eleonor Roosevelt. Oriented) on self-interest,
decisions are
based on Kinship- the most universal and basic of all human relationships.
rationality and
rules, structure is Two Basic Types of Kinshipties
formal, group
boundaries. 1. By blood ties that trace descent.
2. By marriage, adoption or other relations.
Courtship-an action where you express and confess your feelings for 1. Kinship by Blood- based on genetics relation or blood relation.
someone. Either accepted or rejected. Classification of Family according to Bloodline:
a. Patrilineal- family that traces ancestry from paternal or father
Traditional Courtship = Harana side.
b. Matrilineal- family traces ancestry from maternal or mother side.
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c. Bilineal- family that traces ancestry from both sides.
Marriage 2. Kinship by Marriage- “in law”, by law, bounded by marriage.
-considered as one of the foundations of kinship. Family- growth of society, basic unit of society.
A. Monogamy- has only one wife or one husband. Politics of Kinship- creation of political alliances. Form of political
B. Polygamy- person may have more than one spouse at a time. dynasty.
1. Polyandry- (from Greek “poly” or “many” and “andros” or
Household- one or more people in the same dwelling.
“man”. Woman may have more than one husband.
2. Polygyny- (from Greek “poly” or “many” and “gyne” or Compadrazgo (God parenthood)
“women”. Man may have more than one wife.
3. Group Marriage-family is consist of multiple husband and 1. Padrinos (God fathers)
multiple wife. 2. Madrinas (God mothers)
Categories of Legitimacy
of Authority
1. Legal Have been either elected
Authority or appointed to office.
By law. E.g president of
the state.
2. Traditional Rule based on
Authority inheritance of the title.
E.g monarchs.
3. Charismatic Based on personal
Authority attachments of
subordinates. Based on
characteristics,
experience or even skills.
E.g showbiz artist that
entered politics.
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Daniel Goleman- an American psychologist who developed a framework of 5. Social Skills/ -knowing or acknowledging
five elements/domain that define emotional intelligence. Handling others
Relationship -can manage disputes,
Five Elements/Domains of Definition excellent communicators and
Emotional Intelligence are master at building and
1. Self-Awareness -people with high EI are maintaining relationships.”
usually self-aware
-is fundamental and primary
-you are willing to take an TRUE OR FALSE
honest look to yourself
-you know who you are TRUE 1. The characteristics of self-regulation are thoughtfulness ,comfort
2. Self-Management -ability to control emotions with change, integrity and the ability to say no.
and impulses
-self regulation FALSE 2. You are self-regulated if you will understand your emotions and
-to control or handle your you don’t let your feelings rule them. Self-awareness.
emotion
-think before you act TRUE 3. A person with empathy are good at recognizing the feelings of
-characteristics of self others, even when those feelings may not be obvious.
regulation are thoughtfulness,
comfort with change, TRUE 4. You are motivated if you are willing to defer immediate results for
integrity and ability to say long-term success. You’re highly productive, love challenge and are very
no. effective in whatever you do.
3. Self-Motivation -people with high EI are
usually motivated. FALSE 5. You are a person with empathy if you can manage disputes, are
-your highly productive, love excellent communicator and are master at building and making relationships.
challenge and are very Social Skills.
effective.
DAY 18 Robert Plutchik constructed a diagram of emotions visualizing eight basic
emotions.
By John D. (Jack) Mayer
Postulates of Plutchik’s Wheel of Emotion:
Emotion:
Basic Emotions are the most basic and primary ones: trust, fear,
-operate in every part of a person
surprise, disgust, anger, anticipation and joy.
-affect many aspect of a person Combinations the adding up of various primary emotions will
produce a new one like joy + trust = love ,joy + fear =guilt ,joy +
-bridge thought, feeling and action surprise = delight
-the person affects many aspects of the emotion Opposites there is a duality with emotions hence each one has its
polar opposites. E.g : sadness opposite of joy, trust opposite of
Feelings: disgust, fear opposite of anger, surprise opposite of anticipation
Intensity, this degree of change in intensity, from very strong to not
-emotions are human beings
so much, produces the diverse amount of emotions we can feel. E.g
-help keep us on the right track trust goes from acceptance to admiration, fear goes from timidity
to terror, surprise goes from uncertainty to amazement
-most reliable indicators of how things are going in our life
Other Terms:
Emotion comes from a French word “emouvoir” which means “to be put
By Dr. Maurice Elias: into motion”.
What is an emotion? Emotions are particular types of energy.
1. An emotion is usually caused by a person consciously or Emotions are neither positive or negative.
unconsciously evaluating an event as relevant to a concern or goal
that is important. Emotion are responsible of changes in attitude and behaviour.
2. The core of emotion is readiness to act and the prompting of plans.
Emotions are followed by action.
3. An emotion is usually experienced as a distinctive type of mental
state.