12: Emotional Development: Student Objectives
12: Emotional Development: Student Objectives
Development
Student Objectives:
To learn the definition of emotional development
To learn about the emotional development of a school-
aged child
To learn about the emotional development during
adolescence
To learn about regulating emotions
To understand how to assess and deal with negative
emotional development
12.1 Introduction
Along with cognitive, physical, and social
development, all children go through the
stages of emotional development.
Development
As you might remember from previous modules, by the time a
child reaches toddlerhood, they have started to develop their
sense of self. They also begin developing new emotions such as
shame and pride thanks to the maturation of the frontal lobe
and other areas of the brain. This also facilitates a new
sense of independence in these children, and they will begin
to defy authority. When the child reaches the age of two or
three, they will begin showing signs of empathy, which
indicates that they can read the emotional cues of others.
Verbal skills also begin to develop around this time, and with
these skills, children develop verbal reasoning. This means
that they will start talking about their feelings, which is
something they have not been able to do before. This continues
into preschool, and they can verbalize emotion, such as “I am
sad” or “I am mad.”
Preschoolers also begin to understand the rules that have been
set forth by their school, family, and even society in regards
to emotions. They recognize non-verbal cues from each other,
and they can finally distinguish between negative emotions
such as anger, fear, and sadness. These children also have
empathy, though, at this point, they can only understand
empathy when using it with people they know well, such as
their family.
For example, a child who has been teased for showing that they
are scared of something might feel shame the next time they
get scared. They understand the concept of mixed emotions.
Research shows that by the time a child reaches the age of
six, they start to understand that people can experience one
emotion, and then a different emotion almost immediately
following the first.
FACT
Emotional regulation, identified as a child’s ability to
label, recognize and control their actions, is a major part of
social development
Source: CPD
Assignment
Emotional Development
Conclusion
Emotional development occurs from the first months of birth
all the way through to the adolescent years. Some researchers
even argue that our emotional development continues well into
adulthood, and for some, throughout our lives. Many adults
have problems with their own emotions, and in many cases, this
can be traced back to the way their emotions developed in
childhood. This is why it is so important that children be
allowed to develop their emotions naturally and not be forced
to suppress them when at an impressionable age.