Title: Family Lessons
Title: Family Lessons
According to Dr. Beth Handman’s speech, family is the basic unit for a child’s social
development. As morning shows the day, a child’s behavioral outcome is totally based upon
parents’ initial way of handling them. Since the primitive definition of family having a father and
a mother is changing to many different modern kinds, the procedure of socializing a child is also
changing. Some common ways of socializing a child are rewards, punishments and modeling.
Firstly, rewards are positive reinforcements for good social behavior by a child. It
enhances the positivity and healthy relationship between parents and children. For example, a
parent might say, “Finish the work to watch TV,” and that indicates a child is bound to get
Punishments, on the other hand, set strong impacts on a child. They circle a child to a
limit beyond certain regulations as for example, when a parent says, “No TV for bad grades,” the
child remembers to get good grades for watching TV. However, punishments can be
controversial as well. Sometimes children can learn the act of bribery. For example, “Take the
garbage to get cookies,” may teach a child to bribe someone in the future than developing
responsibilities.
Finally, modeling is the most powerful tool for social development of a child. It is about
following examples, making role models, and admiring people. For example, when a mother is
studious then the children are more likely to be the same. Children model their family members,
societies, teachers and television as well. Sometime TV may lead to negative consequences as
based upon their way of teaching and handling them, or serving themselves as role models.