Stop Kiss Reflection
Stop Kiss Reflection
Jim Price
Acting
12 November 2019
This play conveys a very important message for today’s society. With the rise of
awareness for LGBTQ+ rights issues in modern America, this play tells a story worth hearing. It
examines a hate crime through the prism of a love story. Throughout the play, relationships are
explored, formed, and even ended. Diana Son elaborates on the depths of human emotion and
compassion which drew me in making this my favorite play I have read so far for this class.
This play has an interesting form. Son never depicts the incident following Callie and
Sara’s first kiss in which they are attacked by a man who beats Sara into a coma. Instead, the
audience witnesses the relationship between the two women and what happens after the attack,
and its effects, physical and psychological, on Callie. Though both women experience a
crossroads in life, this play highlights Callie’s journey. The story is told out of chronological
order: alternating scenes take place respectively before and after the assault, which is not shown
onstage. It took a few scenes into reading for me to understand this pattern.
One of the scenes that hit me the most is when Callie is in Sara’s hospital room and
untucks the sheet and rolls it back so that Sara’s feet are exposed. This reveals how much Callie
cares about her. She truly yearns for more that she can do to help Sara instead of just sitting back
and feeling depressed about the situation. Callie is a very observant human. She remembers the
little nuances of the people around her, such as the fact that Sara’s feet get hot when she sleeps,
and she typically sleeps with the sheet going the other way so that her feet are exposed. This
This play also kept me intrigued because of the fact that Sara is from St. Louis, Missouri,
and that is where I am from. There are several instances when Sara mentions things about St.
Louis such as living in Chesterfield and teaching at a private school. St. Louis is known for
having some of the best all-girl and all-boy Catholic high schools. I attended one of them. I
laughed out loud when Sara said, “Older lesbians just stay home and read. That’s what everyone
in St. Louis does, stays home and brews their own beer or does their e-mail.” This is honestly
I have really enjoyed reading this play and I found a lot of interesting themes and
concepts within it. Neither Sara nor Callie identify themselves as lesbians, rather they are
insecure and unsure of who they truly are. Callie specifically is an avoider. She likes to avoid
things she doesn’t want to deal with. Many people are bound to be going through similar
situations, so this is a play that many audience members can connect with and see themselves
being represented on stage throughout. Overall, I fell in love with this play’s characters and