Personal Development: Knowing Oneself
Personal Development: Knowing Oneself
Chapter 2
Knowing Oneself
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Who Am I?
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Adolescence is the time when young
people start to ask questions about
themselves , about their future, and
even about their religious and political
beliefs. During the adolescent stage
of development, the young person
grapples with his or her identity. This
may seem very philosophical to
some, but to know oneself is the first
step in personal development.
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For Plato, the beginning of knowledge is
self-knowledge. The ancient Hindu writings
Upanihads confirmed, “Enquiry into the truth of
the “Self” is knowledge.” The Persian poet
Rumi ruminated, “Who am I in the midst of all
this thought traffic?” and the American poet
Walt Whitman celebrated his “Self” as “a
simple, separate person.”
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Concept of Self
Definition
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Self
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Self
– is an intangible entity that directs a person’s
thoughts and actions. It is outside the physical realm
of the person.
- is the essence of a person: his thoughts, feelings
and actions, experiences, beliefs, values,
principles, and relationships.
- The “Self” includes a person’s life purpose,
meaning and aspirations.
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Since our approach to personal development
is holistic, we will integrate the various definitions
of “Self” from the philosophical, spiritual, and
psychological realms, but we will focus and give
more emphasis on its psychological definitions.
If the “Self” is defined as the cognitive and
affective representation of one’s identity, it is then
defined in terms of human characteristics such as
behavior and thought.
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PERSONALITY
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APPROACH
By Katherine Briggs and Isabel Briggs Myers
1. E or zI (Extraversion or Introversion) – is how an individual prefers
to channel his or her energy when dealing with people, whether it is
inward (introversion) or outward (extraversion).
2. S or N (Sensing or Intuition) – is how one prefers to process
information, whether through the use of senses such as being able to
describe what one sees, or intuitively like dealing with ideas.
3. T or F (Thinking or Feeling) – is how an individual prefers to make
decisions, either thinking or using logic and analysis, or feeling which
uses the cognitive senses based on values or beliefs.
4. J or P (Judgement or Perception) – is how an individual prefers to
manage one’s life, whether through judging, which means a planned
and organized life, versus perception, which has a more flexible
approach to living.
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