Cap Values Statement
Cap Values Statement
Values Statement
11/12/18
1. Faith
2. Family
3. Love
4. Health
5. Safety
6. Loyalty
7. Dependability
8. Trust
9. Communication
10. Friends
4. Write a brief explanation on why you selected each of your top 5.
1. The reason I chose faith is because I believe in my faith over all things.
2. Family is the next most import thing because if you don’t have family then you have no one. It doesn’t
matter if that family is blood or not.
3. Love is next because you need love in your life. Without love for someone or something you have an
empty void in your life.
4. Health because if you or your loved ones are not healthy, then that can cause a large amount of stress
and worry.
5. I want to always know my family and I are safe because without safety I couldn’t focus on other things.
I’ll give you a very personal example. When I was being trained to
lead others through values clarification, I had to participate in a series
of similar exercises. It was mortifying to realize that “Honesty” was
near the bottom of my list while “Joy” was near the top. I really
believed that I could not share my honest list without the others
questioning my character.
Our leader saw me squirming and made his way over, reviewed my
list, and congratulated me. In all of his years of training, no one had
ever put “Joy” in their top 5. He then told me that “Joy” was as valid a
value as “Honesty”, “Discipline”, or any of the others.
In fact, too many people put “Honesty” in their top 5 because they’re
afraid if they don’t, people will believe they’re dishonest. That is not
the case. You can value “Honesty” highly but it may not be in your top
10 or 25. For example, “Honesty” and “Kindness” are often at odds.
“Do these jeans make my butt look big?” “Do you like my new car?”
How many of us would choose honesty and hurt someone’s feelings?
By the way—my choice of “joy” turned out to be completely on-target
for me. I won’t stick to a task or an organization if I can’t make it fun
for me AND the others involved. Drudgery, misery, and mean/grumpy
people will chase me right out of the door. In the “Tao of Pooh” – I’m
a Tigger through and through. I quit apologizing for this value and
consequential activities and goals around the age of 25.