Psychotherapist Self-Care: Practitioner-Tested, Research-Informed Strategies John C. Norcross University of Scranton
Psychotherapist Self-Care: Practitioner-Tested, Research-Informed Strategies John C. Norcross University of Scranton
Self-Care Corner
John C. Norcross and Robert A. Brown, Eds.
Psychotherapist Self-Care:
Practitioner-Tested, Research-Informed Strategies
John C. Norcross
University of Scranton
This article is intended solely for the personal use of the individual user and is not to be disseminated broadly.
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Psychotherapists, by definition, study and modify human behavior. That is, we study and modify
other humans. Psychological principles, methods, and research are rarely brought to bear on
therapist themselves, with the probable exception of our attempting to diagnose one another.
Although understandable and explicable on many levels, the paucity of systematic study on
psychotherapists' self-care is unsettling.
Self-care and self-change have occupied a sizeable portion of my professional career and, not
coincidentally, my personal life. Dr. Robert Brown and I have commissioned and edited articles for
the Self-Care Corner during the past year, for instance. Over the past 2 decades, colleagues and 1
have conducted numerous studies to identify what distinguishes the self-change of mental health
professionals from that of educated laypersons, to survey practitioners about what they use and do
not use to soothe themselves, and to interview seasoned psychotherapists about their personal
struggles and salvations. We have taken the Socratic dicta of "know thyself and "heal thyself" to
heart—and to the lab (for summaries of this research, see Brady, Healy, Norcross, & Guy, 1995;
Brady, Norcross, & Guy, 1995; Guy, Freudenberger, Farber, & Norcross, 1990; Norcross &
Aboyoun, 1994; Norcross & Guy, 1989; Norcross & Guy, in press; Norcross, Strausser, & Missar,
1988; Prochaska, Norcross, & DiClemente, 1995).
The resulting compilation of self-care strategies is clinician recommended, research informed,
and practitioner tested. In the scientist-practitioner tradition, we have tried to meld psychothera-
pists' in-the-trenches recommendations with the nascent empirical findings. Here, in outline form,
are 10 consensual self-care strategies, with a few illustrative examples from my own practice and
life, as I struggle to practice what I preach (and research):
1. Recognize the hazards of psychological practice. Begin by saying it out loud: Psychotherapy
is often a grueling and demanding calling. A growing body of empirical research attests to the
negative toll exacted by a career in psychotherapy. Although each of us experience distress
differently, the literature points to moderate depression, mild anxiety, emotional exhaustion, and
disrupted relationships as the common residue of immersing ourselves in the inner worlds of
distressed and distressing people (Brady, Healy, et al., 1995). In Freud's (1905/1933) words, "No
one who, like me, conjures up the most evil of those half-tamed demons that inhabit the human
breast, and seeks to wrestle with them, can expect to come through the struggle unscathed" (p. 184).
Perhaps the most significant benefit to be achieved from openly acknowledging the strains of
practicing psychotherapy is the realization that virtually all mental health professionals experience
similar kinds of pressure. Confidentiality, isolation, shame, and a host of additional considerations
lead us to overpersonalize our own sources of stress, when in reality they are part and parcel of the
common world of psychological work. Disconfirming our individual feelings of unique wretched-
ness and affirming the universality of the hazards are in and of themselves therapeutic. Moreover,
appreciating the universality and accepting some of the inevitable distress associated with conduct-
ing psychotherapy contribute to the creation of corrective actions.
2. Think strategies, as opposed to techniques or methods. One of the overarching lessons from
our research is that effective psychotherapist self-change is characterized by a complex, differential
pattern of change strategies (Prochaska et al., 1995). These strategies or principles represent an
intermediate level of abstraction between concrete techniques and global theory. Given the diversity
of individual preferences and available resources, we recommend broad strategies as opposed to
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specific techniques. For example, if a colleague is plagued by occupational anxieties, the research
suggests that the strategies of counterconditioning and helping relationships may well prove
effective. Once the strategies are identified, then individual practitioners can discover for themselves
the available and preferred techniques for implementing these strategies. For instance, massage,
exercise, and meditation for counterconditioning and peer support groups or clinical supervision for
helping relationships.
3. Begin with self-awareness and self-liberation. Quantitative studies and interview surveys
alike confirm the conventional wisdom on the centrality of self-monitoring our own distress level.
In one illustrative study, both program directors and professional psychologists identified "self-
awareness/self-monitoring" as the top-ranked contributor to optimal functioning among psycholo-
gists (Schwebel & Coster, 1998). For some of us, this self-monitoring requires that we also attend
to interpersonal feedback from significant others about our functioning. In my case, I attend to my
wife's observations that I am looking haggard, working longer hours, or traveling too often to
supplement my own monitoring.
In several of our studies devoted to discovering the successful self-change strategies of psycho-
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correlate their in-session behavior to subsequent mood, problem-focused strategies are always near
the top of the list.
6. Emphasize the human element. Psychotherapists have probably internalized advice for
improving the therapeutic product: Emphasize the interpersonal element in their own self-care. In
several of our studies, mental health professionals consistently report greater use of helping
relationships than educated laypersons in dealing with their own distress. In related studies,
increased use of helping relationships correlates positively with effective self-care—-just as the use
of social support typically does with laypersons. Expectedly, psychotherapists find helping rela-
tionships to be both satisfying and efficacious for themselves. As with any of these broad strategies,
the number and range of techniques are impressive—peer groups, loving relationships, close
friendships, clinical supervision, and so on.
7. Seek personal therapy. It is well established and widely known that the majority of mental
health professionals, with the exception of biologically oriented psychiatrists, have sought personal
therapy. What is equally well established but not widely known is that (a) more than half of
psychotherapists following completion of their training utilize the very service they provide and (b)
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the vast majority of mental health professionals—90% plus—rate the outcomes of personal therapy
quite positively. It is an illusion, or perhaps a delusion, that most mental health professionals do not
experience a need for personal therapy once they are in practice. It is a disquieting myth that
personal therapy is frequently regarded as a failure. Our studies consistently find that psychother-
apists regularly recommend, seek, and value episodic personal therapy as constructive self-care.
Freud (1937/1964) anticipated this research finding years ago:
Every analyst should periodically—at intervals of five years or so—submit himself to analysis once more,
without feeling ashamed of taking this step. This would mean, then, that not only the therapeutic analysis
of patients but his own analysis would change from a terminable into an interminable task. (p. 249)
8. Avoid wishful thinking and self-blame. Our studies have identified not only what predicts
effective self-care but also what correlates with ineffective self-care—the "to do" as well as the "not
to do." Two coping strategies reliably associated with self-care ineffectiveness among psychother-
apists are wishful thinking and self-blame. By focusing on their not being able to change and relying
on wishing rather than acting, the former probably accentuates distress and reduces problem solving.
In a similar way, the negative preoccupation of self-blame may distress the therapist further and
paralyze adaptive resources.
9. Diversify, diversify, diversify. In extrapolating from the empirical research on psychothera-
pist self-care and from mental health professionals' writings on self-renewal, I discern a recurring
theme: the diversity and synergy of professional activities. The diversity is grounded in conducting
multiple forms of therapy (e.g., individual, couples/family, group therapy), engaging in multiple
activities (e.g., psychotherapy, assessment, research, teaching, supervision, consultation), working
with multiple types of patients and problems (e.g., age, ethnicity, disorders), and balancing
professional responsibilities with personal needs. For myself, I have made similar decisions to
diversify; for example, combining a part-time practice with a teaching and research career,
alternating individual psychotherapy sessions of high socioeconomic status mental health profes-
sionals with pro bono group therapy of chronic pain patients, and relentlessly juggling professional
responsibilities and personal needs.
10. And appreciate the rewards. Finally, in coming full circle, the hazards of psychological
practice must be reconciled and balanced with its privileges. Clients are not the only ones changed
by psychotherapy. Compared with researchers, practitioners are more satisfied with their lives and
more likely to feel that their work has influenced them in positive ways. In one recent study (Radeke
& Mahoney, 2000), psychotherapists related that the impact of their work has made them better,
wiser, more aware; accelerated their psychological development; increased their capacity to enjoy
life; and felt like a form of spiritual service.
The practitioner who denies that clinical work is grueling and demanding is, in Thome's (1989)
words, mendacious, deluded, or incompetent. I would also add that the therapist who claims not to
have personally benefited from this grueling work is also likely to be mendacious, deluded, or
incompetent. Without trivializing the strains of this "impossible profession," practitioners would do
well to remember that the vast majority of mental health professionals are satisfied with their career
choices and would select their vocations again if they knew what they know now. Most of our
colleagues feel enriched, nourished, and privileged in conducting psychotherapy. The work brings
relief, joy, meaning, growth, vitality, excitement, and genuine engagement, both for our patients and
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for us. Lose not these moorings amidst the inevitable strains of practice and the rising industrial-
ization of our craft.
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Goldfried, M. R. (Ed.), (in press). How therapists change: Personal and professional recollections. Washington,
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JOHN C. NORCROSS is professor of psychology at the University of Scranton and a clinical psychologist in
part-time practice. He has cowritten or edited 12 books, including the Authoritative Guide to Self-Help Resources
in Mental Health, Changing for Good, Systems of Psychotherapy: A Tranatheoretical Analysis, and the
forthcoming Leaving it at the Office: Psychotherapist Self-Care. He is the president of the APA Division of
Psychotherapy, editor of In Session: Journal of Clinical Psychology, and a member of the National Academies
of Practice. He lives in the northern Pocono Mountains of Pennsylvania with his wife, two children, and their
two deranged cats.
I GRATEFULLY ACKNOWLEDGE the feedback of Robert Brown, Marvin Goldfried, and James Guy on an earlier
draft of this article.
CORRESPONDENCE CONCERNING THIS ARTTCI,E should be addressed to John C. Norcross, Department of Psychol-
ogy, University of Scranton, Scranton, Pennsylvania 18510-4596. Electronic mail may be sent to
norcross @ uofs.edu.