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About Me
Im Paul Ong, the Author of The 5 Life Principles to Your Ideal Self eBook. Firstly congratulations for downloading this eBook and welcome to 5 Life Principles family. I truly believe if follow your ideal self blueprint you will we be amazed at what you have achieved by the end. Now, you may be wondering what makes these 5 principles so powerful compared to all the other self-help guides on the market? In order to answer that let me explain a bit about my background and how Ive used the 5 Life Principles I was born into a family of ethnic Chinese refugees who escaped Vietnam (after the war) in the late 1970s on a boat with little money and the clothes on their back. In my childhood years, I got poor grades because of my dyslexia, which remained untreated. As a teenager, I didnt do much physical activities which lead to high body fat and no muscle development. It wasnt until my early 20s that my first discovery of 5 Life principles began. My older brother was undergoing a transformation of his own and he was one day explaining it to me. Most of it was in one ear and out the other as who listens to their older brother anyways. One piece of information did stick however and that was life was basically made up of health, wealth and relationships. See at the time I was barely passing university, no job, unfit, no gf and little friends other than the computer. Appling that simple structure to my life allowed me to graduate with Honours from a Top Sydney University and immediately landed a job for a company founded by Microsoft and Accenture. Taking care of my appearance and ditching the computer for a social life. 3
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It seemed like I had conquered a mountain at the time but I soon realised work life was long hours and minimal salary increases. It put a downer on my spirits made me lower my expectations on everything. To be honest it wasnt that life sucked it was what I would call in the comfort zone and just plotting by. Until I stumbled upon a movie call The Secret and learned about the powers of the Law of Attraction. Put simply everything we attract in our lives is through our thoughts. So if your thoughts is focused on the lack of everything we attract it and if we focused on how plentiful everything is we attract that also. This kicked me out of my comfort zone and allowed me to aim for more once again. Eventually helping me have a 6 figure income, buy my first car and my apartment by the age of 25. Now youre probably thinking yes yes I heard of this powers of attraction stuff all before nothing is that easy. I couldnt agree more but belief is cornerstone of all future success. What I cover in 5 Life Principles is categorising the most talked about self-help topics in context of each other. Over the years I have also combined the above with goal setting, being positive, being happy and making the right impression. Now at the age of 31, I have achieved what some people do not achieve in a lifetime. A property portfolio to be envied which include a condominium in the heart of Sydney City and a 4 bedroom house in one of Sydneys wealthy suburbs. A full life, having travelled to over 20 countries including UK, Hong Kong, USA, India and many more... But beyond the wealth aspects of my success, I have developed many long term, supportive relationships and has lead an active, healthy lifestyle.
In achieving my goals, I understood that this was all possible because I was able to combine the importance of health, wealth and relationships with positive beliefs and powers of attraction to reach my goals.
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Contents
Disclaimer ....................................................................................................................... 2 About Me ......................................................................................................................... 3 The Blueprint ................................................................................................................... 7 1. Understand Your Ideal Self ......................................................................................... 8 Understanding the components of Yourself ................................................................. 8 Life Stages ................................................................................................................. 12 Developing your Ideal Self through Inspiration .......................................................... 13 2. Have Goals and Hobbies .......................................................................................... 17 Goals vs Hobbies....................................................................................................... 17 Setting SMART Goals................................................................................................ 19 Selecting Useful Hobbies........................................................................................... 22 3. Motivation - Being Positive ........................................................................................ 24 Things to can watch and read .................................................................................... 24 Socialise with like minded people .............................................................................. 24 Progress your goals ................................................................................................... 25 Supplements .............................................................................................................. 25 4. Enjoyment - Being Happy.......................................................................................... 26 Look Forward to things .............................................................................................. 26 Rewards .................................................................................................................... 27 5. Bring out the impression ............................................................................................ 28 Look the part .............................................................................................................. 28 Act the part ................................................................................................................ 28 Laws of attraction....................................................................................................... 29 6. References ................................................................................................................ 32 Mindset ...................................................................................................................... 32 Gaining muscle .......................................................................................................... 33 Losing weight ............................................................................................................. 34 5
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Attracting men ........................................................................................................... 34 Attracting women ....................................................................................................... 35 Parenting ................................................................................................................... 36 Wealth ....................................................................................................................... 36
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The Blueprint
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The next biggest aspects of yourself is health, wealth and relationships. As many people mention almost all your personal concerns can be put in one of these buckets. Sure you can choose to ignore small issues but once your buckets get too full in any one area, your life can become difficult and stressful. You will certainly find it hard to stay truly complete and remain balanced all throughout your existence.
To delve deeper into the components of yourself and maintain a good balance, you have to understand each component further. After that, try to reflect and realize what each exactly means to your own self and then make it a life that counts.
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Feel healthy enough to do what you need to and achieve your dreams.
Have enough to match what your responsibilities are and what you want to do/have. It s not about being greedy.
HEALTH
WEALTH
SELF
RELATIONSHIPS
Friends / Family Acquaintances People you present your image to. Your world/reality - People that you see and interact with.
Health Have you ever felt sick and thought to yourself nothing else matters. I just want to get better! This is why your physical health is one of the most essential things to maintain and should never be taken for granted. You will find it very difficult to accomplish other goals until you have this under control. This could be even more important if you have love ones which are dependent on you.
BELIEFS
Positive and Happy
Other beliefs are fine as long as they are congruent / don t interfere with your health, wealth, relationships
Also related to your health is your physical appearance as this is the image of yourself you show when dealing with other people. As studies have shown that between 60 to 90 percent of a messages effectiveness is done by non-verbal cues. So it is equally 9
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important to feel good on the inside and look the best you can on the outside. In order to get the most out all your interactions.
Wealth Living life pay check to pay check and always worrying about bills will definitely weigh you down and put you off balance. You need to start thinking of wealth an aspect that helps you achieve your dreams, goals or ideal lifestyle because that is what your life should be focused on.
Well how do you gain wealth? In this modern age the knowledge of wealth creation is out there in many forms books, courses and seminars (both online and in person). However knowledge alone will not get you there without action and attitude of trying. I was at a KC See seminar recently where he share a simple poll. The majority of people who attend his talks understand the importance of multiple streams of income yet less than 20% actually do anything about it. So I want you to be in 20% that take action and use all 5 Life Principles to put yourself on track to achieve your ideal wealth.
Relationships The relationships you have can be both positive and negative. You need to ask yourself what the net effect of each relationship to you is. Bearing in mind all relationships will have its ups and down. A positive relationship net effect will be that you are able to achieve your goals and they bring you happiness. A negative relationship net effect is that they bring you more issues and overall block you from achieving your goals.
The next step is understand how to manage this relationship. For instance a friend that is a bad relationship to have can be easily cut off. However if it is a close family member it becomes more complicated. Some may think its just a matter of trying to change the other person then it will be fine. However everyone is in charge of their own reality and you have enough work trying to improve yourself.
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Beliefs Your beliefs are a strong force in your life and the development of a new belief system doesnt happen overnight. However if open your mind up to accept it and take one step in the right direction youll find that it will you empower to take another step. This is the process of becoming your ideal self.
So the two most fundamental beliefs that all people need to adopt are being positive and happy. These will help to stay focused and motivated. The power of this is that once youve applied it and achieved a goal you will gain more confidence in it. Then cycle repeats over and over again to reach YOUR FULL POTENTIAL.
These important aspects will work together to develop yourself with positive and admirable personality. You should be able to handle them well since each of them takes a great part of your entire life. The type of person you are now reflects the people, things and circumstances you have been into the past years of life.
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Life Stages
There are different personal stages and career stages in life. These are considered as the two most important factors that are associated with the priorities, responsibilities, hobbies, and the goals that you actually have. Thus, it is essential that you put these factors into consideration when it comes to identifying your own ideal self. Ideal self can change over time as you are moving from one stage to another stage of your life. It is also possible that you have multiple careers / sources of income at anyone time.
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Handy Tip : Use Pinterest to store your inspirations online and is a powerful method of visualization. Below is a sample of my Pinterest.
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Goals Goals should be results oriented. Your goals in life may revolve around the different aspects of your life such as health, wealth, relationships, and beliefs. Health: Your goals may be focused about getting yourself healthy of bodily fit. Setting your goals to achieve an optimum health is necessary. Wealth: Your goals may also be focused about becoming wealthy or successful in life. Your goals in wealth can include a particular income or amount of assets. Relationships: Your goals can be focused on having a happy and strong relationship or finding new ones. You can also use your goals as your motivation to being a good partner, friend, parent, son, daughter, brother or sister. Beliefs: You can also use your goals in life to maintain your beliefs as well as your principles. Or you can also rely on your beliefs and principles in order to achieve your goals. They both works effectively that way.
Hobbies Your hobbies are mainly targeted to improving your happiness and beliefs. You hobbies are not focused on the different aspects of your life such as health, wealth and relationships. But it depends upon how you handle your hobbies in life. It could be very beneficial as long as you know how to incorporate it to the betterment of your future and to improve yourself. You can even use your hobbies as your motivation of achieving your ideal self.
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After establishing your SMART goals, you have to make it into action. Make sure that you stick to your purpose and plans; this is the best way for you to achieve what you had set out to do. Goals ultimate purpose is to act as your motivator. When goals are planned and thought out properly, they will offer you highly realistic points.
Having SMART goals is one the most effective ways to achieve your ideal self. Use this to achieve your ideal self health, ideal self wealth, ideal self relationships, and ideal self beliefs.
Factors That Will Make Your SMART Goals Successful Dont forget and neglect to write your SMART goals and keep all of them clear and fresh. Dont isolate them from the other essential aspects of your life. Dont let these goals compete and conflict with each other.
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Goals
Handy Tip : Use goal setting apps like Everest to track goals.
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If there are a lot of things that you love doing, think about those things that you have always been dreaming of. List down all the things that can make your life happy, and those that are giving you motivation to do well with your life. Through this, you will be given an opportunity to understand yourself and identify your goals in life. This is now the right time for you to select your useful hobbies.
Determining Hobbies Aligned with Your Goal Through selecting your useful hobbies which are aligned with your goals and the things that you want to reach in life, there will be a great and compounding effect that can help you reach your goals. Determine those hobbies that are related to your goal and this can serve as a helpful way in reaching your dreams. Considering your hobbies towards fulfilling your goals is really a great thing. It is very easy and simple for you to turn your hobbies or the things that you love doing into a future career.
Most hobbies always correspond to your real world positions and needs. Think about what you can do and think how those things might fit into your career. For instance, if playing video games is what you love to do, think about becoming a programmer or video game designer. If art is your passion, consider becoming a painter or a graphic designer. Most of the time, your hobby is defined by what you will be in the future, so learn to choose the right hobbies which you can turn as your future career and can bring success in your life.
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successful in your life. Your future career and your success can sometimes be defined by how you are going to choose your goal and use them to your advantage.
IDEAL SELF
RELATIONSHIPS BELIEFS
Goals
Hobbies
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These strategies will not only help you identify those people who you share your likes and interest, this can also offer a great way for you to be inspired to stay positive and happy with your life. Through their help, you can also discover to your current problems and your issues in life.
Supplements
Most of your feelings are actually driven by some chemicals. There are some effective supplements that can help you be more present, active or awake. These supplements include caffeine, nootropics and nicotine. However, before taking any of these supplements, it is first important to consult your doctor. In using these supplements, it is also important for you not to abuse them to obtain their complete benefits. There are really many things that you can do to stay motivated. If you are motivated to achieve your goals, you will surely fulfil your goals and obtain all the things that you have been dreaming of.
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Going Somewhere New being isolated in your office or at home can really be so overwhelming. Going on places that are new to you can bring refreshment into your mind. Being in a different environment can help you get rid of those bad feelings that you felt inside your workplace or stress at home.
Rewards
If you have some things to look forward to, there will be a feeling of anticipation and excitement that you will feel. As you look forward to the days to come, you also set your goals to yourself and the things that you want to have in your life. Then once you achieve your goals, it is always good to make sure that you are being rewarded. If you are searching for a perfect way of storing all your lists of things that you want to achieve or rewards that you want obtain, the Pinterest board is the right one for you.
IDEAL SELF
RELATIONSHIPS BELIEFS
Goals
Hobbies
Motiviation
Enjoyment
Be Positive, Be Happy
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Laws of attraction
If you want to achieve success and become happy with your life, just make an image of what you want. Think positively and you must also be able to speak words positively and the universe will be the one to make things happier for. This concept is actually based on the Law of Attraction. Whatever you want in life, whatever things you want to achieve, just think about it, believing that you will fulfil your goals, and it will come to pass.
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IDEAL SELF
RELATIONSHIPS BELIEFS
Goals
Hobbies
Motiviation
Enjoyment
Be Positive, Be Happy
Law of Attraction
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Area Personal Stage Career(s) Stage Health Ideal Self / Goal / Hobby
Motivation Techniques
Enjoyment
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6. References
In this section we have include some tips, websites, videos and courses for specific goals.
Mindset
Having the correct mindset is important in becoming your ideal self. You need to believe it can happen before it can materialise. Below are some resources that can help you with this.
Youtube watch The Secret. This an excellent video that will change the way you think about what is possible : http://5lifeprinciples.com/youtubethesecret Youtube watch Tony Robbins. He is a world renown motivational speaker often used many famous athletes and celebrities. There is alot to learn from this man : http://5lifeprinciples.com/youtubetonyrobbins A powerful video with a complete system that help change your mindset and fill your life with abundance : http://5lifeprinciples.com/theAbundanceCode
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Gaining muscle
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Losing weight
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Attracting men
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Attracting women
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Parenting
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Wealth
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