Structure:: Knight Game Plan
Structure:: Knight Game Plan
Open: Use an indirect opener that includes a time constraint and root to start conversation. 2. Be interesting: Demonstrate value through identity storytelling or routines. Disqualify, throw pebbles, or neg your target. 3. Be interested: Find out what specifically makes this person interesting to you and let them know. 4. Close: Seed a date, kiss close, or bounce to a new location. Body Language Always lock in after opener. Dont lean in to hear and if possible make her lean in. Dont approach with direct body language. When making eye contact, look long enough to get the color of the eye then look away horizontally. Also utilize good eye contact throughout the conversation. During a street approach walk ahead of your target in the same direction and open over your shoulder. For positive things she does, give her positive body language. For negative things she does, give her negative body language. Affirmations: 1. I am a leader. 2. I am interesting. 3. I am a romantic. 4. If I truly want something, I am successful in getting it. 5. I can attract any woman I want. 6. I am high value. 7. I am confident in who I am. 8. I am calm, cool, and collected. 9. I am charismatic. 10. I am interested in other people. 11. The people I meet are fun and positive. Frame: Always seize the frame and make it yours. An optimal frame puts you at ease, in the best light, and able to demonstrate your best self. What would the perfect version of me do? There is nothing more powerful than fate and destiny. Create it and invite her along for the ride. You care about her more than anyone else. You want to give her pleasure no one else could possibly give her. You deserve to be happy and satisfied emotionally and physically. You are the prize. Limiting Beliefs Debunked: 1. Shell think Im hitting on herIf I am interested then thats okay because I want her to know Im attracted to her. If Im not interested then shes just got a misguided sense of self-importance. 2. Any non-positive response is a negative responseOnly negative responses are negative responses. The world is not black and white. Any neutral responses can be promoted to positive responses. Either see things as they are or in the best possible light. 3. Im bothering herYou are the greatest thing that could ever happen to her. There is almost nothing in her life that he shouldnt be willing to put down because you showed up. After all, you are there to be the most interesting, intriguing, and sexy person she has ever met. You are a prize beyond compare and she would be a fool to pass you up.
4. Im not doing wellIf she hasnt left and if she isnt asking you to leave. You are always doing better than you think. Dont forget that the person who is giving you the hardest time is you. Youre doing great! Keep going! 5. People are going to judge meMost people are more concerned with themselves than others. Even if they do see you they will admire your bravery and guts. Diet/Exercise: 1. Eat right after you work out. 2. Sets of 25 pushups and 100 abs exercises. 3. Be cognizant of what is in the food and the portion. 4. Limit sugary drinks. General Responses: She laughs (at beginning) Im glad you laughed, because you really are breathtaking, and I wanted to get a glimpse of the personality inside the beauty. Its great to meet a woman with more going on than just her looks. Some variation of youre trying to pick me up arent you?... Only because I find you attractive. Did you say you had to leave? Well youre beautiful personality has given me a reason to stay. Oh yeah, stop holding me up! Just two minutes. If she dodges your number close by asking for FB. Lets take it slow. You might be one of those crazy FB stalker people. I dont want you sifting through my pictures and personal life. Lets exchange phone numbers and see where it goes from there first. General Tips: If you make eye contact with a girl and she doesnt immediately look away initiate a wave. (I may modify this later but good place to start.) If she gives an IOI reward with an IOI or kino. If she gives an IOD punish by isolating her, turning away, or giving her similar IOD until she gives you another IOI because she feels shut out and reward her with kino or IOI. Sometimes you can mitigate objections by stating them. I know this is kind of an awkward question This is a little weird but Im not normally like this but Micro-stepping: If your emotions have paralyzed you, then break your actions down into smaller and smaller steps until they are manageable. Execute steps. Seduction is a series of emotional spikes. If a girl rejects you, ask yourself, What did she know about me? Have a plan to get back into game mode if you get rejected. If you get rejected, it is your fault. This is good. Because if it wasnt your fault, you wouldnt be able to fix it. (Eventually youll realize some things are out of your control but this mentality helps get rid of the excuse mentality.) The most seductive thing you can do is show someone a new perspective of the world. The least seductive thing you can do is argue. Dont argue, ask why they do/are/think a certain way. Use Push-Pull, she shouldnt know where you stand until shes so entrenched that she wouldnt think of escaping. When shes shown 3 IOIs escalate physically. Be the exception! Speed is shit. Timing is everything. Move us the yes/compliance ladder. For every step forward that she is cold to, take 2 steps back and then advance again until she is warm. Everyone is walking feedback. There is no failure except if you fail to approach.
2 of our greatest fears include public speaking and death. Death has a more emotional pull so well deal with that. Use spirituality/belief to counter death and teach her something new about how to view the world. Dont forget that you give more shits than anyone else. You care more than anyone else has ever cared. You may not show that initially, but you are a catch she would beg to have if she had perfect knowledge. No one has perfect knowledge though. Thats why you have to go through the steps. You are not a pick up artist. You are a seducer. Seduction is based on insecurity. You are there to fill a need. If she didnt need you, your seduction wouldnt work. Think of it like sales. You are there to tell her that her life is lacking. You are the perfect solution to that lacking life. Realize the truth of this. You are a prize beyond compare. Anyone who doesnt know you simply isnt living their life to its greatest potential. You choose who you are. There are some products in the market that we purchase because the sales person made us feel bad about our life. Then there are some products we purchase because we have a need and then we realize we could never live without that product because it has so radically changed our lives for the better. Be the latter. We dont have AMOGs, we have big men. Dont leave after completing the goal of an interaction. It may make her feel un-valued. Always proceed with conversation for a minute or two and leave on a high note.
Personality Strategy: Chivalry/Bad Boy Intellectual /Spiritual Romantic/Dangerous and Impulsive Step 1 Open: Indirect and Direct Approach from the side from a 45 degree angle optimally. Give a FTC and make your body confirm. Root your opener. Start with a pre-opener like hey, howdy, etc. Opener should arouse curiosity. It should be a springboard for follow up conversation. It should display identity/personality. Remember that there are many different aspects of your personality. Calibrate for the situation. Group should not feel uncomfortable with you there. If there is more than one person approach obstacles or non-targets first. Unless she comes up with a completely original answer, she is wrong. Kino Shake her hand but hold it longer than a normal handshake. If you know her, initiate with a hug. 1. Girl gives IOI or you are very attracted to her off the bat. Direct Opener Hey, hows it going? Hey, I have to go in a minute but youre really cute and I would just be kicking myself if I didnt ask for your number. Hey how are you doing? You know, I saw you and I just knew that if I didnt come and talk to you Id be kicking myself/regret it for the whole day. Im*insert name here* Hey excuse me, I just had to come and tell you that *genuine compliment* e.g. you have the most amazing elegance about you, you knowIt just struck me so I wanted to tell you that Im*insert name here* 2. Girl does not give IOI or just in general. Indirect Opener
Situational Opener Do I look gay? General Transition: I was just at a *location* at this guy started hitting on me. Specific Transition: I was just at insomnia cookies/bakery and ordered a chocolate chunk cookie and the black guy behind the counter said Ill give you my chocolate chunk. For shopping areas: Hey, Im buying a sweater for my friends sister for her birthday later today and I know she wears mainly smalls and mediums. I need your opinion, should I get her something thats a little too small or a little too big? For groups: Hey, guys were having a little debate and need a quick take on something. If a guy is dating a girl, and she goes out to a bar with her friends one night and makes out with a guy just for fun, do you consider that cheating? Okay, so heres the real question. And Ill tell you why Im asking in a second. If she goes out and gets drunk and makes out with a girl for fun, is it cheating? Hey, so my friend called me the other day and she broke up with her boyfriend and she said something weird. She said she loved him but wasnt in love with him. Do you know whats the difference? Hey, do you like Disney Princess movies? Hmm... Ok so check this out, when I was in 6th grade, there was this girl who was obsessed with Disney Princesses. She used to run around the playground for an hour straight at lunch time. Shed wear tiaras and ask guys if they were her true love. We used to call her the weird Disney girl. Well you look just like her! Okay thats cool If it was me I wouldnt admit it either. Now Im not saying youre definitely her, but just in case you are, I want to tell you Im sorry. Sorry for all the times I made fun of you. See, in school I was always one of the cool kids. And I used to make fun of the Disney girl. Now Im older and more mature, and I feel bad. So do you forgive me? ... *Hug* Hey, let me get your quick take on something. My friend has been dating this girl for a year and theyve told each other intimate stuff but never I love you so she got a little drunk the other night and texted I love you to him. Does that count?
Bridge transition into Be Interesting: So how do you know each other? Are you here on your own? I noticed that Step 2 Be Interesting: DHV Routines and Identity Story Telling Identity Story Telling: Give a defined answer Tell a story about how it relates to you on a personal and emotional level. It may help to have a connecting line. For example, Man, I feel like you meet some of the most interesting people at school. When I was in school at End the story by saying and thats why [x] is my favorite [y] SEED! Use identity stories as an opportunity to seed a future bounce or date location. When you are seeding make sure to hype the place up but do not invite her to go yet. Movie: Tangled Music: Josh Groban Places to Visit: China Books: Don Quixote Personal Heroes: Foods: Chinese dishes Interesting Co-Workers: Terrorist scientist 5 Questions Bet: Hey, lets do a quick bet *She has to answer each one incorrectly.* Question 1: Whats your name? Question 2: What city are we in?
Question 3: Whats the name of this bar/shop/place? Question 4: How many questions was that? Question 5: Wow, you got me. Have you played this game before? Place a hat over a drink and bet her that you can drink it without touching the hat. Take a straw and bend it. Insert it under the hat and pretend to drink. Say you did it. When she doesnt believe her tell her to see for herself. When she removes the hat, drink the drink. Ring Finger Routine: My friend is obsessed with Greek mythology and told me this really cool belief that the Greeks held about where people wear their rings. Thumb: Poseidon, representing individuality, independence, and iconoclasm. Index: Zeus, representing dominance, power, and energy. Middle: Dionysus, representing irreverence, rebelliousness, and decadence. Ring: Aphrodite, representing love, romance, and connection Pinky: Ares, representing conflict, assertiveness, and competitiveness No Ring: Hermes, representing friendliness, helpfulness, and adventurousness *They either represent those qualities or they are seeking them.* Palm Reading: Either My friend is a psychic and taught me some palm reading tricks. Or transition from ring finger routing Hmthats interesting. Did you know Heart line deals with romance. Head line deals with intellect. Life line deals with physical well-being, health and stamina. Sky Diving: My Judo Instructor taught me this really cool game he learned in Japan Question 1: What do you say when you see someone jumping out of an airplane? *What she thinks about sex before shes had it* Question 2: What do you say when you jump out of the plane for the first time? *What she says during orgasm* Question 3: What does the instructor say when you land on the ground? *What her partner thinks of her performance* Wave After Wave: 1. You are walking along a quiet beach. As you wander the dunes, you spot a surfboard washed up on the sand. Describe the surfboard and the impression it makes on you. 2. You climb onto the board and paddle out to try your luck on the waves. How are the conditions for surfing today? 3. You have managed to get to your feet and are experiencing the thrill of actually riding the wave, when suddenly you wipe out and tumble headfirst into the water. What do you think, feel, or try to scream as you struggle to find your way back to the surface? 4. You finally emerge from the water unscathed, and looking back toward the beach, you see that a person you know has been watching you. Who is this person? The Stolen Berries: 1. Stroll through the countryside and you see a field with delicious looking strawberries. Only a fence stands between you and a free lunch. How high is the fence? 2. You sneak into the garden and begin to help yourself to the fruit. How many berries do you eat? 3. Suddenly, the farmer whose berries youre stealing appears out of nowhere and starts yelling at you. What do you say in your own defense? 4. After all is said and done, how did the berries taste? And looking back, how did you feel after your berry-stealing adventure was over? All the Worlds a Stage 1. You are a member of a theater group. What type of play do you most want to act in? In the play, what do you picture as your big scene? Explain in detail. 2. You audition for the part and are chosen from among all your fellow performers for the starring role. What words does your main rival have for you on being chosen? 3. At the dress rehearsal before opening night, you see the director sitting with his/her arms crossed. He
looks dissatisfied with your performance. What is it he doesnt like? 4. The performance was a huge success. The crowd has gone home happy after the encore. What do you say to the empty hall as you stand there looking out from the darkened stage? Guess her sign. You have a 1 in 12 chance of blowing her mind. Or you get it wrong and you disqualify. The Cube: So I was coming back from a debate tournament and we were pretty board on the bus so our coach, who was a psychology major, taught us this really cool personality test called the cube. So lets try it Cube: Personality Horse: Romance Life Ladder: Friends Storm: Obstacles in Life Flowers: Offspring/Children During each step of the cube make sure to get specific descriptions and ask after each cold read whether she thinks you are accurate. Calibrate based on her response. Use meta-game. When cold/body language reading, use pliable language. You seem to be instead of You are. Also, root it to a friend or book. That way you are not wrong, the friend or book is wrong. Also, ask her between reads as to their accuracy. Then calibrate. Magic dollar illusion. How many wings does the eagle have?fold the dollar in half the long way Now how many wings?...fold the sides of the dollar so there is only one wing showing Now how many wings?Ask them to hold out their arm and put the dollar on the arm. Say wing 3 times fast.when they do, pick up the dollar Hello? Bens mom coin trick. Bens Mom has 3 children: penny, Nicholas, and? Taking off shoes bet. Ask them if they think they can take of their shoes by themselves. Then when they do, you take yours off with them. Qualities of Flow 1. Mold: Someone who is molding air like they leave an outline in their surroundings. Movements are broad, full, and clearly differentiated from one another. They are typically careful people. Most of the time they are very calculated and dont like to rush into things without taking a moment to think them through. 2. Flow: Every movement is slurred into another in an unbroken line. Although they must be well shaped, these movements usually have neither a beginning nor an end, but usually flow into one another organically. The movements are wavelike, growing and subsiding. These people are free spirited; you dont fall in line with the status quo. You generally like to do your own thing and enjoy yourself while you do it. 3. Fly: For flyers imagine that each movement continues in space indefinitely. Their bodies have the tendency to lift at times and it seems as if they may just pop right off the ground. Their movements tend to link one to the next continuously and freely. Flyers are usually dreams and have high aspirations. You have your sad moments but for the most part you stay upbeat and optimistic because you know you have a big future ahead of you. 4. Radiate: To the viewer, it appears that invisible rays stream your movements into space, in the direction of the movement itself. People who radiate are very powerful. They bring a lot of strength into the room. You usually have a strong presence and people turn to you for guidance and leadership. Play fuck, marry, and kill. Play I love you baby but I just cant smile. 1. Person one says to person two, I love you baby. 2. Person two says to person one, I love you baby, but I just cant smile. (If person two says it three times without smiling they win. If they smile, they lose.) Judo Routine: So Judo iswell actually its easier if I just demonstrate. Put your hands against mine. Now push. See the resistance is where you have power. New push again. (this time let her push you). If I take away the resistance your power isnt as useful. Push one more time (this time direct it or have her
fall into you). By giving way, I can redirect your power the way I want it to go. Now push one more time(trick her and move away) woah now, no need to be so forward. I require dinner and a movie first at least. I need to think of some routine involving speech/debate and/or dance. I think ballroom dance is especially sexy. Categorizing people by event or judo throw? Cold read. Lying/eyes DHVto be continued.
During Step 1 and Step 2: Disqualify Calibrate your use of disqualifiers. If you are already higher value than her, or if shes insecure, or if youre past step 2 then do not disqualify. Disqualifications put a temporary barrier between you and a woman. It also shows that you arent interested. She should begin to wonder why you arent interested after all shes a woman and youre a man. These give her hurdles to overcome and allow her to chase you. We desire that which we cannot easily obtain. For better or worse, we value less the things we get easily and more the things we have to work for. RECOVERY! Sometimes you may go too far with a disqualification or she be offended. Dont apologize or take it back. Root your disqualifier. For example, When I grew up, teasing was a form of affection! Teasing you shows that I am enjoying our time and Im comfortable with you Retrace and Reframe (pick a couple with romantic tension): Lets start over. We can pretend were Mal Reynolds and Inara Serra. (Or Castle and Beckett) The divorce papers are in the mail. You can keep the dog. Youre fired. You kind of remind me of my first girlfriend. (Pause). She was so wrong for me. Aww youre so cute. Im adopting you as my little sister. Im sure there are plenty of other guys just waiting to meet you on OKCupid. Congrats. Youve made your first mortal enemy. Ewyou totally spit on me. Youre so close to perfect for me. Just one inch too short. Youre hilarious. Youd be perfect for my friend. How do I keep running into assholes? Is she always like this? You remind me of myself. Im also a horrible person, but its okay, I enjoy every minute of it. Do you ever put your hair up? You have an amazing neckline, I bet it would look awesome. Step 3 Be Interested: Standards and Recognition Hopefully at this point shes given you 3 IOIs in step 2 or 3. If so, transition and escalate the interaction. Dont forget your standards. If she meets your standards, recognize them. This is the step where you determine whether or not you are interested in pursuing some form of relationship. Disqualification Qualification Convey your sexual identity! So, tell me 3 things that make you attractive besides your looks. I look for 3 things in a woman. A, B, and C. Youre doing pretty well. You have 2 out of the 3. (Adventurous, appreciates romance, passionate). Im interested in people and how they are unique. For example, if everyone in the room looked identical to you, what would set you apart? Backup in case she doesnt understand: Let me word it to you differently. How about your friends? What do they like about you? Why do they enjoy hanging out with you?
It may help to pretend that you are trying to get to 3 points. Half-points dont count. If there is a quality about the woman that you like, besides her looks, thats a half-point. If you mention this quality that makes it a full point. So try to think of 3 reasons why you are attracted to her besides her looks and mention them.
Step 4 Close: Number, Kiss, Bounce, Sex Always know the place/city you are in even if you are visiting. Find interesting places and remember where they are. If you do not know the place/city well enough take a day to list and visit potentially interesting places. You should have seeded a place to go in step 2 with your identity stories. Number Close: skip phone/text game if you can. If you number close her, make sure you have the place and dates already set up so that you can just text her with logistics. A lot of women are used to rejecting number closes off hand. So you have to either build a lot of rapport or manage to get around the default response. Instead of asking, offer to give her your information. Take out a writing implement and paper. Rip it in half and write your contact information on one half and give her the other half. She should get the hint. If not, tease her a bit... Doh, what do you think its for? Bounce Close: the bounce close is essentially the same as the number close but you do an immediate bounce to your seeded location. If you dont get any other closes, dont forget to number close at the end of the bounce close. And yes, follow the same protocol. Seed a place, list your free dates, get the number, only text her to set up logistics. Be committed to your bounce. Do not hesitate. You should not have to use further convincing at this point, just know how youre going to get to the location and lead the woman there. Kiss Close: Were going to have to think of something sexy. Until then, I suppose quadruple hand test with Styles close will suffice.????????????????? Obtain compliance through seduction. Through the night, see how much she is willing to comply with your demands. Move her continuously up the ladder. If she resists, take 2 steps back and then advance again. Sex Close: You need to have a reason for her to come back. Seed the reason, tell her the reason, and inform her that she cannot stay for long. Be the seducer she needs! In the end, its about giving her the greatest pleasure! Hey I have this really cool thing X that I have to show you. But you cant stay for long; I have to wake up early tomorrow. Conquer and occupy last minute tension/resistance. Pretend a womans body is like a field of landmines. The usual erogenous zones are booby traps set to explode all your careful work thus far. So, allow her to remove the traps. Kiss all the places she hasnt been kissed before. Be a good masseur. Take her bra strap down. Kiss her shoulder. Bring her bra strap up. Repeat on other side. Does she tense at a certain point? Move around the point. Touch her vagina from the back. Utilize analogous zones. Her hands are her breasts. The small of her back is her butt. Her lips are her vagina.