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Samay 97

The document discusses different perspectives on marriage from Osho and other thinkers like Mahatma Gandhi. It says that restricting marriage within one's own community or region is unnecessary and inter-caste and inter-religious marriages should be encouraged. Such marriages allow for more diversity in genes and experiences which make children more adaptable. However, arranged marriage still persists due to social and family pressures but does not guarantee love or compatibility between partners. Free love marriages in the West also face issues of infidelity and divorce. True love is a spiritual experience beyond physical desires and one must be mentally and spiritually mature to experience it.

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Samay 97

The document discusses different perspectives on marriage from Osho and other thinkers like Mahatma Gandhi. It says that restricting marriage within one's own community or region is unnecessary and inter-caste and inter-religious marriages should be encouraged. Such marriages allow for more diversity in genes and experiences which make children more adaptable. However, arranged marriage still persists due to social and family pressures but does not guarantee love or compatibility between partners. Free love marriages in the West also face issues of infidelity and divorce. True love is a spiritual experience beyond physical desires and one must be mentally and spiritually mature to experience it.

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eGg ;lsGg . k|]ddf Ps b}jL cfs{if0f / k"0f{ ;dk{0fsf] efj x'G5 / Ps cflTds kl/t[lKt
klg . k|]d zfl//Ls sd, dfgl;s / cfWoflTds 36gf a9L xf], To;sf/0f k|]dsf nflu Ps
dfgl;s / cfWoflTds kl/kSstf klg rflxG5 . k|]d lg;t{ bfg xf] . k|]ddf lbg' g} kfpg'
xf] . ;fdfGotM cx+sf/L JolQmn] k|d ] ug{ ;Sb}g . cx+sf/ hlt bx|f] x'G5 sfdjf;gf Tolt
g} k|jn x'G5 . lsgeg] sfdjf;gfsf] r/d lzv/df xfdL If0f e/sf nflu cx+sf/af6
d'Qm x'G5f}+ / To; If0fdf xfd|f] If'b| JolQmut kl/ro x/fp“5 . To;sf/0f cx+sf/L JolQm
sfdsf] cfsif{0f /f]Sg ;Sb}g . Tof] p;n] hfg]sf] Ps dfq ;'v xf] . t/ k|]dLsf] cx+sf/
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