Disscussion
Disscussion
Issues
Grade
Level:
6-8
Students
always
have
passionate
opinions
about
controversial
social
topics.
They
also
often
become
friends
with
others
who
reinforce
their
ideology.
And
students
dont
often
possess
the
skills
to
disagree
gracefully.
This
activity
invites
students
to
cross
their
ideological
boundaries
and
become
friends
with
others
who
thin
differently
than
they
do.
Objectives
Students
will
debate
a
controversial
topic
with
grace
and
dignity
Students
will
practice
disagreeing
by
using
the
"Disagree
with
Grace
statements
Students
will
make
friends
across
ideological
boundaries
Materials
Controversial
Topics
Handout
for
each
student
Explain
to
students
that
theyre
going
to
be
discussing
a
controversial
topic
in
class.
Content
specialists
can
use
whatever
topic
is
controversial
in
their
field
(i.e.
evolution
vs.
intelligent
design
for
science,
the
discovery
of
America
by
Columbus
vs.
the
invasion
of
the
Americas
by
Columbus
for
history).
The
model
were
providing
is
on
the
common,
everyday
put-down,
Youre
so
gay!
Any
controversial
topic
will
do
though.
Their
goal
is
to
simply
not
raise
their
voices
be
aggressive
put
down
others
opinions
or
be
unkind
in
any
way
at
all.
This
is
a
lesson
in
crossing
the
social
boundaries
of
ideology.
1einforce
the
idea
that
they
live
in
a
world
of
diverse
opinions
and
that
being
able
to
conduct
dialogue
safely
is
an
important
skill.
Next,
have
them
read
the
Controversial
Topic
Handout
on
"Youre
so
gay!
silently
for
at
least
five
minutes.
1emind
students
that
as
long
as
they
disagree
with
grace
the
discussion
can
continue.
Specifically,
invite
them
to
be
mindful
of
their
tone
and
volume
when
speaking
with
classmates.
Tell
students
that
they
are
not
trying
to
move
people
to
believe
like
they
do,
theyre
just
discussing
different
opinions
gracefully.
Last
of
all,
have
students
reflect
on
how
they
felt
during
the
dialogue.
Were
they
Angry?
Why
or
why
not?
Did
they
get
frustrated?
How
so?
Why
is
it
important
to
listen
to
peoples
opinions
that
are
different
from
our
own?
How
can
"disagreeing
with
grace%
help
us
during
our
lives
personally
and
professionally?
What
is
one
positive
thing
learned
from
my
classmates
different
point-of-view?
Extension
As
a
follow-up,
share
with
your
students
these
articles
on
school-age
children
who
have
recently
been
killed
or
taken
their
own
lives
because
of
anti-gay
bias
in
schools.
Jaheem
Herrera,age
11
Carl
Walker-Hoover,age
11
Lawrence
King,age
15
Remind
students
that
the
words
we
use
can
either
give
life
or
death
-
thats
how
important
they
are.
Have
students
brainstorm
a
list
of
other
controversial
topics
that
they
may
want
practice
with
"disagreeing
with
grace.
Have
students
practice
crossing
ideological
boundaries
so
that
they
can
see
others
points-of-view.