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Self-advocacy is asking for what you need in a direct, respectful manner. It helps you: Obtain what you need make your own choices Express disagreement respectfully. Here are a few ideas to help you advocate for yourself.

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Be Your Own Advocate

Self-advocacy is asking for what you need in a direct, respectful manner. It helps you: Obtain what you need make your own choices Express disagreement respectfully. Here are a few ideas to help you advocate for yourself.

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PACER CENTER

ACTION

Be Your Own Best Advocate

INFORMATION SHEETS

What does it mean to advocate for yourself? Being your


own advocate means that you ask for what you need while
respecting the needs of others. For example, if you are at a
store and a clerk ignores you, you are able to ask in a polite
way to be served. Self-advocacy is asking for what you need
in a direct, respectful manner.

I would like to talk with you about and then calmly


describe how you see the situation.

Why is this skill important? Self-advocacy


helps you:
Obtain what you need
Make your own choices
Learn to say no without feeling guilty
Express disagreement respectfully

6. Dont expect immediate results. Change is not always


instant or lasting. Sometimes it takes many conversations
with the other person before anything changes. You may
even have to remind the person more than once.

How to Advocate for Yourself


You become a self-advocate by taking the initiative to ask
directly and specifically for what you need. When you ask,
you are polite. You listen to the
other persons response without
Asking for help
interrupting. You are patient,
is one way of
knowing that change might take
advocating for
some time. If you feel nothing
yourself.
is changing despite your best
attempts, you ask for help from
a parent, teacher, or other adult.
Here are a few ideas to help you advocate for yourself. You
may want to practice them with a friend or family member.
1. Take a deep breath. Deep breathing gives your body lots
of oxygen, and oxygen helps you feel calmer and think more
clearly.
2. Think about what just happened. Before you react to
something someone said or did, think about it a bit. Ask
yourself questions such as: Did that person really mean to
bump into me, or was it just an accident? or Is the clerk
really ignoring me or is she just very busy? Maybe I need to
be more patient.
3. Think about what you want to be different.Before you
talk to the other person, make sure you know what you
want to happen. Do you want to be treated differently? Do
you want that person to stop doing something?
4. Speak clearly and slowly. Start by saying something like,

5. Let the other person speak. Being a self-advocate doesnt


mean that only you talk. The other person needs a chance
to respond to what you are saying. If that person becomes
impatient, try to stay calm and take a deep breath.

7. Ask someone to help. There may be times when you and


the other person cannot agree or the other person becomes
unreasonable. One of the best parts of being your own
advocate is that you dont have to solve all the problems on
your own. You can and should ask for help. Asking for help
is also advocating for yourself.
8. Understand your disability. In many school and
job situations you may need to take the responsibility for
explaining your needs based on your disability to others.
Practice speaking openly about your needs and strengths
with your family and friends. This will make it easier in new
situations and with people who dont know you.

When to Advocate for Yourself


You may need to advocate for yourself in many situations.
Here are some times when you might need to stand up for
your rights or make sure your voice is heard. You may want
to role-play these and other scenarios with a family member
or friend:
A substitute teacher hands out a test. You have an
accommodation to take your tests in a quiet room, but
the substitute does not know this. How do you respond?
Your bus arrives and someone you dont know offers to
help you go up the steps. You dont want to be rude, but
you would rather not have help, even if it takes you a
few minutes longer to board and take your seat. How do
you respond?
You have a reading tutor who works with you in the
librarys learning center. The tutor has been late three
times and is late again. How do you respond?

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Self-Determination Synthesis Project


www.uncc.edu/home.asp
This project includes information about self-determination
resources, such as research references, curricula, Web links,
and other materials. From the University of North Carolina,
Charlotte, it includes links to many lesson plans.

How to Learn More about Self-advocacy


No one is born knowing how to be their own self-advocate.
It is a learned skill. You can find out more about it by
watching someone who is a good advocate (a parent, aunt,
uncle, or neighbor, for example). What is the tone of their
voice? How do they stand? Do they make eye contact? What
else do you notice?

Promoting Self-Determination in Students with Developmental


Disabilities by M.L.Wehmeyer,Ph.D., (2007). Guilford Press,
New York, NY.
This book offers practical methods for teaching selfdetermination, including choice making, problem solving,
decision making, goal setting, self-advocacy, and self-regulated
learning. It also provides best-practice recommendations.
Special features include reproducible worksheets and forms.
Available at www.amazon.com

You also can check out these helpful resources for teens and
families.

For Teens:
www.fvkasa.org
This site is from Kids as Self Advocates (KASA), a national,
grassroots network of youth with disabilities and needs
speaking out about living with disabilities, health care,
transition issues, school, work, and more.

Self-Determination for Middle and High School Students


National Center on Secondary Education and Transition
(NCSET)
This NCSET handout is a helpful resource for those
addressing self-advocacy and self-determination issues.
NCSET coordinates national resources, offers technical
assistance, and disseminates information related to
secondary education and transition for youth with
disabilities. Available at
http://ncset.org/topics/sdmhs/default.asp?topic=30.

www.mcil-mn.org
This site is from the Metropolitan Center for Independent
Living in Minnesota, which helps people with disabilities
live independently, pursue meaningful goals, and enjoy the
same opportunities and choices as all persons. Programs are
often available for transition age self-advocacy training and
peer mentors.

For Families:
Developing Positive Assertiveness: Practical Techniques for
Personal Success by Sam R. Lloyd, (2001). Crisp Publications,
Los Altos, CA
This book is for anyone who wants to take charge of their
life. It includes a helpful collection of practice situations.
Available at www.amazon.com

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