I needed something a little different where maybe even the keys in multidimensional arrays don't match up. Setting $assoc to false will cause only to check for missing keys, otherwise it compares values as well. This was also based on '2ge at 2ge dot us' function

<?php

function n_array_diff_assoc ($a1, $a2, $assoc=true) {
    $r = array();
    if(is_array(current($a1))):
        foreach($a1 as $k => $v):
            if(isset($a2[$k])):
                $diff = n_array_diff($a1[$k], $a2[$k], $assoc);
                if (!empty($diff)):
                    $r[$k] = $diff;
                endif;
            else:
                $r[$k] = $v;
            endif;
        endforeach;
    else:
        $r = $assoc ? array_diff_assoc($a1, $a2) : array_diff_key($a1, $a2);
    endif;
    return $r;
}
?>