Loss and sacrifice are, on some level, sensations everyone knows. Such things make us feel like victims, like we've given of ourselves more than we knew we could offer, more than we received in return, like we've given up...
moreLoss and sacrifice are, on some level, sensations everyone knows. Such things make us feel like victims, like we've given of ourselves more than we knew we could offer, more than we received in return, like we've given up something valuable and can't ever get it back. Inevitably, loss and sacrifice are also what most of us would identify as isolating events; we tend to see ourselves as living loss and sacrifice alone… [That said] loss, in many ways, is about gain…Loss and sacrifice, if they are to matter-if they are to have meaning-should be remembered, should be acknowledged, should be appreciated. (Fassett and Warren 139) John and I wrote the above insights about loss nearly ten years ago, knowing that we had already and would continue to live these lessons, but not in such a sudden and painful way. John's death at age 36 from advanced esophageal cancer was a surprise for us all-his family and friends, his colleagues and disciplinary community. This special issue o...