Three Questions to Ask Your Doctor

In this world of managed healthcare, the time you spend with your doctor is precious. Make the most of that time by preparing for those visits. 

The day prior to your appointment, think about the concerns you’ve had since your last visit. Write them all down – everything. Walk away from the list for a while. Then, go back and identify the three most important items on that list, and move them to the top of your list.  

From the top three, choose the most important question. That’s the very first question you’ll want to ask your doctor. 

Why three questions? We all know that the answer to a question often leads to another question. Narrowing your list to three important concerns allows time for full explanations of those questions, and gives you time to express thoughts that arise during the discussion. You may also find the responses to your three top questions provide answers to some of the other questions on your list.  

Do you need to limit your list to only three questions? Absolutely not. But moving your most important questions to the top of the list almost guarantees they will be answered. Once your anxiety over the “big” concern is alleviated, you’ll be able to move more rapidly through the remainder of your visit.  

How do you ask that first question? Do it as soon as your visit begins. Attach it to your greeting. “Hello, Dr. Smith. I’m here for my post-surgery visit, but I have a question.”  

Don’t wait until your scans are reviewed, your neurological exam is completed, and the notes are made into your medical record. In reality, your visit is almost over at that point. The answer to your question may be found during a review of your scans, or during your exam.  

What if you don’t have three questions? That’s fine, too. Some people, by nature, are simply not curious or are not information seekers. If this sounds like you (or your loved one), use your visit to listen closely to the instructions and guidance your doctor provides. Before you leave the visit, be sure to know who to call if you have any concerns between this visit and the next.  

Looking for question suggestions? Here are a few ideas… basic pieces of information you’ll want to be sure you know the answers to. If not, ask!

1. Would you please print the spelling of my tumor type?
2. What is the goal of my treatment plan?
3. What other treatment options are available, both here and at other hospitals?
4. Are the suggested treatments experimental, or are they standard therapies?
5. What will my quality of life be during the suggested treatments?
6. How long will it be before we know if the treatments are effective?

ABTA Information Specialists and Social Workers can help you develop your own questions, specific to your situation and your concerns. We can be reached Monday through Friday at our toll-free number:  800-886-2282.

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Current as August, 2008