Human Interest Real People Real People Tragedy Father of American Airlines Pilot Says Son Was 'Engaged to Get Married' This Fall: 'Devastating' "I know I’ll see him again but my heart is breaking," Sam Lilley's dad said By Janine Henni Janine Henni Janine Henni is a Royals Staff Writer for PEOPLE Digital, covering modern monarchies and the world's most famous families. Like Queen Elizabeth, she loves horses and a great tiara moment. People Editorial Guidelines Published on January 30, 2025 04:58PM EST 2 Comments A photo of Sam Lilley that his father Timothy Lilley shared to Facebook on Jan. 30, 2025. Photo: Tim Lilley/Facebook Sam Lilley, 28, was the first officer onboard the doomed American Airlines flight that collided with an Army helicopter on Jan. 29, his dad Timothy says"It is so devastating to lose someone that is loved so much," the dad said in a Facebook postTimothy noted that his son was engaged and due to get married in the fall The father of a pilot killed in the midair collision between an American Airlines passenger plane and a U.S. Army Black Hawk Helicopter near Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport in Washington, D.C., on Wednesday, Jan. 29, said his son was planning on getting married this year. Timothy Lilley, the father of 28-year-old Sam Lilley, who was serving as the first officer on American Airlines Flight 5342, opened up about his heartbreak and his son's plans for the future in an emotional Facebook post on Thursday, Jan. 30. "I was so proud when Sam became a pilot," he said. "Now it hurts so bad I can’t even cry myself to sleep." "I know I’ll see him again but my heart is breaking," the dad wrote. "He was doing great in his career and his personal life. He was engaged to get married in the fall. Sam was the First Officer on the flight that crashed in DC last night. It is so devastating to lose someone that is loved so much." Figure-Skating Sisters Everly and Alydia Livingston, Ages 14 and 11, Among the Victims of American Airlines Plane Crash Speaking with Fox affiliate WAGA-TV, Timothy said it was "undoubtedly the worst day of my life." He explained that he knew something was wrong when Sam failed to check in, which is something that he always did. Timothy, a former Army helicopter pilot, was in New York for work when he realized that his son was flying when the crash happened. Around 9 p.m., local time, on Wednesday, Jan. 29, Flight 5342 collided with an Army Black Hawk helicopter over the Potomac River while approaching the D.C. airport. Emergency response teams assess wreckage in the Potomac River near Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport on Jan. 30, 2025 in Arlington, Virginia. Andrew Harnik/Getty Helicopter Pilots Were Wearing Night Vision Goggles at Time of Crash. Expert Says They Could 'Make It Harder to See' (Exclusive) The flight had departed from Wichita, Kan., and the airline said the plane was carrying 60 passengers and four crew members. Officials have said they don't believe there were any survivors. The father went on to speculate that the passenger plane was following proper protocol but alleged that the military helicopter made a mistake that led to the collision, WAGA-TV reported. "From what I can see, those guys turned right into the jet. I think the PSA jet was doing everything right. The Army pilot made a grave error. It hurts me because those are my brothers, and now my son is dead," he said. The National Transportation Safety Board is now leading an investigation with assistance from the Federal Aviation Administration. Close