Psychological Issues in Terminal Illness and Dying
Learning Objectives
- Manging the terminally ill
o Alternative to hospital care
Hospice care
Institutions for the dying that encouraged personalized warm, palliative care
o Encouraged to bring their personal items (curtains etc)
o Restrictions to visits are removed as far as possible
Acceptance of death in a positive manner
Home care (most commonly chosen)
Choice of care for many terminally ill patients
Sometimes problematic for family members
o Financial and time problems, burnout
o Medical Staff
Nature of terminal care
Palliative care
o Enabling patients to be as comfortable as possible
o Lots of unpleasant custodial work (feeding, bathing etc)
Caregiver burn out
May withdraw into crisply efficient manner rather than warm and
supportive
Curative care1
o Curing diseases
Hospital staff are significant to the patient
Patient may be in need for trivial things as they are unable to do so themselves
Patient do not need to put up a positive outlook when interacting with medical staff
Less time spent on terminally ill as more time spent to help those that can cured
Avery Weisman’s goals for the staff
Informed consent
o Patient told nature of condition and treatment, be involved in it
Safe conduct
o Staff should provide guide for progressing through the tough period
Significant survival
o Try their best to make good use of their remaining time
Anticipatory grief
o Prepare patient and family members for future loss of patient
Timely and appropriate death
o Patient should have a say in when they want to die
o Individual Counselling
Thanatologists
Those who study death and dying
Different from typical psychotherapy
Duration will be short lived
Patients set their own agenda
o What they want/don’t to talk about
With terminally ill children
Hardest death to accept
Death can be physically painful
Children and parents are confused and fearful
Children may not directly express their concern
o Therapists can takes cues about what to discuss from the child
- Death across the life span
o The most likely cause? And how is it?
Past
Infectious disease
Today
o Death in infancy and childhood
SIDS (Sudden Infant Death Syndrome)
Infant stops breathing without obvious reasons
o Most were found dead during sleep
Children’s understanding of death
They think of death as a long sleep and is often curious rather than frightened or
saddened by it
o Death in adolescence and young adulthood
Takes a realistic view of death
Death of young adult is considered tragic
Waste of life
Robbed of a chance to develop and mature
o Death in middle age
Just live with it
Mid life crisis
o Premature Death
Death that occurs before the projected age of 70
Mostly sudden deaths due to heart attack or stroke
Disadvantage of not allowing people to prepare of exit
o However, individuals do not have to cope with physical deterioration and
family members do not have to go through emotional torment of patient’s
worsening conditions
o Death at old age
Relatively easier for elderly to die
Elderly themselves might already have some mental preparation
Poor mental heath and reduced life satisfaction predict decline amongst elderly
o Sense of purpose tied to a longer life
- Psychological issue in dying
o Self-, social-, treatment-related issues
o Changes in patient’s self-concept
Difficult maintaining control of biological functions (drooling, incontinence, shaking)
Mental regression, difficulty concentrating
Could also be due to effects of painkillers and other medications
o Issues of social interaction
Fear that their condition will upset visitors
Possible to ask family members to prepare the visitors
Withdrawal may occur for multiple reasons
o Communication issues
Often feel that it is a taboo topic and not to bring it up
o Treatment issues
Turn towards dubious remedies offered from informal health care systems
Hoping to a miracle cure
o Rights to death
Patient self determination act: DNR / DNAR (DN attempt R)
DNR more familiar to all
o Misimpression that attempt is likely to succeed
o Can make patients or family think they are deciding whether to live or die
even if all roads led to death at end of life situation
DNAR
o Clearer language
o Not familiar to all
Euthanasia
What if patient was mentally impaired?
patient needs to be conscious and triple checked(make request 3 times)
o life expectancy less than 6 monthslife expectancy less than 6 months
o must be informed about alternative care methods
Living will (advance medical directive)
We should be able to have a say about what treatment we want
- Survivors adjustments
o Kubler’Ross 5 stages
Denial
Subconscious blocking out of full realization of reality and implications
o A mistake has been made
Anger
Showing resentment to anyone that is healthy
o Harder response for family members to deal with
Why me
Bargaining
Abandon anger for a different strategy
o Pact with god, charity
Depression
Coming to terms with lack of control, “anticipatory grief”
o Mourning the prospect of their own death
Acceptance
Tired, peaceful (not always pleasant), calm descends
Evaluation
Pros
o Chronicled nearly full array of reactions to death as those who work with
dying will be quick to acknowledge
o Points out counselling needs of the dying
o Breaks through silence and taboo of death
Cons
o Not all patients get to acceptance
o Patients can jump from one stage to another
Gives public opinion that it is a trend when it is not
o Anxiety is completely over-looked here
Worries are still present for terminally ill patients but is not
addressed at all
- Problems of survivors
o Survivor’s routine
Resumed the interrupted activities
o Grief (may go on for months)
A response to bereavement involving a feeling of hollowness
Often marked by preoccupation with the dead person
Expressions of hostility towards others
Guilt over death
Restlessness and inability to concentrate on activities
Emotional avoidance and positive appraisals actually lead to better adjustment in the wake
of a death
More aggravated in males and in sudden, unexpected death
o Issues for child survivors
May expect the dead to return
May believe a parent left because the child was “bad”
May feel “responsible” for a sibling’s death
- Death education
o Education
Programs designed to inform people realistically about death and dying
Purpose is to reduce terror and avoidance connected with topic of death
o College courses are a viable means of death education
o Tuesday with Morrie was a best seller
- Treatments may have debilitating side effects
o Advanced diabetes
Amputations of extremities, such as fingers or toes
o Advanced cancer
Removal of an organ, such as a lung
o Patients feel they are being disassembled
o Whether to continue treatment may become an issue
Alternative to AMD – Advanced care planning
- Share personal values and beliefs
- Explore how values and beliefs affect healthcare preferences in difficult medical situations
- Think about who among loved ones can be your voice if you become very ill one day
AMD vs ACP
Advance Care Planning is an on-going communication process to help patients make informed decisions regarding
future healthcare wishes. It is not a legal process in itself. An Advance Medical Directive (made in accordance with
the Advance Medical Directive Act) is a legal document that one completes stating that one does not wish to receive
extraordinary life-sustaining treatment to artificially prolong life in the event of terminal illness where death is
inevitable and impending. One can make an Advance Medical Directive and also undergo the advance care planning
process. The existence of an Advance Medical Directive should be documented during ACP discussions. To find out
more about an Advance Medical Directive, go to [Link]