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 Acknowledgments
First and foremost, I would like to thank God for the opportunity to write and have my
book successfully published. I will always consider this book to be one of my greatest
achievements in life.
Secondly, I wish to thank all of my spiritual teachers for their exceptional guidance
in expanding my consciousness to further grasp the true essence of the human being,
while working on this creation.
Thirdly, I am so grateful to all of the people who have supported me and more im-
portantly believed in me and this wonderful project. Throughout my years on this
planet, it has been my intention to write a book where many, many people would ben-
efit. The days, months, and several years that went into the making of this book will be
remembered for the painstaking yet incredibly exhilarating journey it has been. To be-
come immersed in the world of words is an unbelievable experience that those who are
lucky enough to find themselves in should relish each and every moment, regardless of
the tremendous amount of work involved.
The people who have supported my effort include: my parents, Frank and Mary
Rakela, my siblings, Nancy, Kathy, Teresa, and Jim Rakela, Jan Shulman, Nelly Nazario,
Sarah Shaines, Susana Puglise, Mary Lou Falconey, Nicky Zann, Tony Leroy, and the en-
tire staff at Llewellyn, especially Dr. Stephanie Clement, who was instrumental in as-
sisting me in the manifestation of this book.
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ing their encouragement may the publishing of this book be their reward as well.
 Contents

Introduction xi

part 1
The Journey To Love
1. Understanding the Love Relationship Formula 3
2. What Challenges Our Relationships 7

part 2
The Love relationship tormula
3. The Love Relationship Formula—Introduction 17
4. The Love Relationship Formula 21

pact 3
aspects of synastry
5. An Up-Close-and-Personal Look at the Moon in Synastry 45
6. More on Mercurial Exchanges in Synastry 51
7. Challenging/Malefic Combinations in Synastry 55
8. Noteworthy Benefic Combinations 71
9. Planets Are the Experience 73
10. Benefics in Aspect 79
11. Same Planetsin Aspect 81
12. Sun Sign Compatibility—Signs Describe the Experience 85
13. Needs Attract—Venus Through the Zodiac 97
14. Karmic Relationship Connections 103
15. Part of Marriage—Another Marriage Indicator 113
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16. Multiple Marriages 117

17. Sun/Moon Midpoint 119
18. Corrected Synastry 121
19. Aspectsand Orb =—-123

part 4
The Love relationship rormula
in couples’ charts
20. Famous Couples’ Charts 129
21. Difficult Couples’ Charts 141

part 5
All about The Houses
22. Where Should I Go to Meet Someone? = 155
23. The Houses and House Sector Divisions 159
24. Planets in the Seventh House of Relationships 165
25. The Love Relationship Formula Through the Houses 173

part 6
Timing Is everything
26. When to Attract the Right Partner Using the Love Relationship Formula PG 6)
27. Meeting and Marrying under Mercury Retrograde 275
28. Meeting under a Void-of-Course Moon 277
29. The Love Relationship Formula in a First Meeting Chart 279
30. The Love Relationship Formula in a Marriage Chart 283
31. The Love Relationship Formula in the Composite Chart and Solar Return 287

Appendix 289
Glossary 295
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charts
Paul Newman 133
Joanne Woodward 134
John Lennon = 139
Yoko Ono 140
Gary 145
Sue. 146
William 151
Ruth +152
First Meeting Chart of Jared andLynn 282
Marriage Chart of Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward 286
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 y Introduction

For one human being to love another;

that is perhaps the most difficult of all tasks,
the ultimate, the last test and proof,
the work for which all other work is but preparation. *
—Rilke

All of life is a relationship. We have a relationship with ourselves, others, planet earth, our
solar system, and our God. Being in embodiment, as opposed to being a soul, is a rare op-
portunity for connecting with others and exploring and understanding the concept of re-
lationship. Forming an alliance with the one we love calls upon the depth of our every ex-
perience. Hopeful, yet never sure of the outcome, we proceed. It is the unknown that
beckons us. Yet take the risk we must if we are to discover our own humanity. Our inner
desire to love and be loved cannot be suppressed. It is also here that we grow and further
our understanding the most, for with love there is greatness and sorrow.

* From Letters to a Young Poet by Rainer Maria Rilke, translated by M. D. Herter Norton. Copyright 1934,
1954 by W. W Norton & Company, Inc., renewed (c) 1962, 1982 by M. D. Herter Norton. Used by per-
mission of W. W. Norton & Company, Inc.

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 RI Introduction

Sometimes this unique opportunity to cultivate a relationship is seen as a curse instead

of the blessing that it is. This is usually due to unresolved issues with difficult, abusive,
terminated, or nonexistent relationships. However, even the pain or disappointment, as
great as it may be, should be viewed as a means to help us become more aware of who
we are as individuals. In this case it is not a matter of being “stuck” in the pain, but
finding a way to see through it.
Relationships are based on feeling. Although we think we can hide from our emo-
tional feelings, we are only fooling ourselves. It is the shadow within that constantly
seeks to be recognized. How often we avoid what we need to address because of the
fear and anguish involved—the memories that we embrace if we were once in love, and
the hate we feel due to the heartfelt pain of loss. Or perhaps we have never experienced
love. But in learning from our emotional experiences, we are never taught how to find
and maintain lasting romantic happiness in a relationship, which is how and why “The
Love Relationship Formula” came into being. We end up suppressing this emotion, and
suppressed feelings lead to internal anger.
Anger is the rage that wants the feelings to be known. Sometimes we hang on to our
anger, for it is a matter of survival; otherwise our feelings might die. This fear seems far
worse than anger itself, for at least we are feeling something! We are conditioned to be-
lieve that anger helps us separate, but this does not empower us; surrendering to the
idea of just letting go does. Bringing disappointments from the past into our next rela-
tionship will only keep us from experiencing what we truly desire—love.
The most powerful attraction is our personal happiness, which can only be experi-
enced through inner feelings of self-love. Love and all its worthiness validates our exis-
tence. But the inspiration behind love is not in pursuing the ideal person, but rather in
becoming one. Having a wonderful relationship with ourselves will attract exactly what
we are looking for—that same thriving relationship. All limiting patterns can be broken.
This starts by expressing our feelings, so we become more aware of ourselves. Feelings
are truly the essence of our existence, allowing us to give meaning to life and meaning
to our relationship with another.
The relationships we encounter in life, we attract through the subconscious mind.
Ridding ourselves of the pessimistic experiences that have taken up residency here al-
lows us to create in our mind the right intention. This objective, finding the “ideal” re-
lationship, eventually becomes our mind’ reality. Since awareness of a universal rhythm
 Introduction RII

allows us to live life more effectively, when visualization of the ideal union is combined
with the rhythmic science of astrology, we obtain successful results for our efforts.
Delving into the summation of my clients’ experiences involving synastry, I discov-
ered a common thread that beautifully describes a soulmate relationship. This is reflected
in the Love Relationship Formula. In this realization, I conceived a global breakthrough
that truly benefits couples. This astrological formula gives a precise understanding of
what is going on between a couple, and identifies the aspects of their relationship that
they need to enhance.
Every relationship is unique. At times, we may wonder what one person sees in an-
other. The cosmic chemistry between a couple is a strong drawing card that may even
relate back to prior lives. Behind this intense attraction is a greater purpose that can be
explained with the Love Relationship Formula. Unraveling your relationship destiny by
understanding the significance of your bond with another will bring tremendous depth
and meaning into the union. The fifteen points of the Love Relationship Formula,
which describe a couple’s “perfect” synastry, have been specifically formulated to im-
prove your relationships beyond expectations. It is based on over two decades of re-
search into the true meaning of love. My sincere hope is to share this vital, unparalleled
information with you so that you may live a more joyous life with another.
In this book lies the spirit of my mind, heart, and soul. Those who read it, and read
it well, will be rewarded with hope, inspiration, and lasting love.
—Christine Rakela
part I

&
The
journey
tro Love
 y understanding
the Love relationship Formula

We are all looking for the “right” relationship—the one that works! Timing, fate, and
your astrological connections have everything to do with it. For a relationship to really
prosper, however, both parties must have some sense of stability in their lives, have no
other involvements, and have a desire for each another, as well as a desire to make it
work. But what signifies a good, lasting relationship? Have you ever wondered if there
is some kind of secret to having a great relationship? Well, there is.
What if we could come up with a formula that could lead to the “perfect” relation-
ship—one that truly satisfies the needs and desires of the two people involved? Now
you have the opportunity to benefit from the Love Relationship Formula, which has all
of the right ingredients for the relationship you are looking for and more. So often we
think we know what we want, but then we are disappointed in our romantic encoun-
ters. Why? Because the Love Relationship Formula is incomplete. Once you understand
what the formula is, you will attract and maintain a winning relationship. The Love Re-
lationship Formula is actually a reflection of your finest self.
 4 understanding the Love relationship srormula

One of the most important findings is that the Love Relationship Formula is consis-
tent in relationship after relationship. Since the formula is based on the mathematical
angles used in astrology, with a specific composition of planets, if a (cosmic) mathemat-
ical pattern is consistent, it cannot be denied. Why? Because math is a form of perfec-
tion. Therefore, it is possible for a relationship formula to exist that is based on math for
precision, yet fluctuates to the needs, desires, ideas, and emotions of being human.
But what makes the Love Relationship Formula even more valid is that you will find
the formula not only in a couple's synastry, but also in first meeting charts, marriage
charts, and composite charts of long-term unions, and even in the solar and lunar re-
turn charts. The consistency of the Love Relationship Formula is what validates its cred-
ibility and love potential for all.
Before we explore the world of synastry and understand our Love Relationship For-
mula in its entirety, we must first discuss relationship challenges. What emotional
blocks are keeping us from a lasting love? In this process we will learn what works,
what doesn’t, and why. The next few pages will allow you to release emotional blocks,
get back in touch with your feelings, understand love, and confront your relationship
beliefs that may be inhibiting you from finding true love. Once we rid ourselves of all
this relationship baggage, we may enjoy the Love Relationship Formula to its fullest.
Without getting into any astrological specifics, here are four questions to ask yourself.

1. Do you communicate well with your partner, or is only one of you calling the
shots?
2. Does your partner meet your needs, or are you constantly meeting his or her
needs, and thus your needs are neglected? (We will talk about your desires later.)
3. Do you feel secure and comfortable with your partner, or do you need to control
or monitor him or her?
4. Are you pulling all the weight in the relationship emotionally, physically, and fi-
nancially, or are the responsibilities equally divided?

However you answered these questions, now we will find out why.
In relationships, good communication is of prime importance. Mental needs are just
as important as physical needs, and must be fulfilled. You have to be. able to express
your feelings and opinions with your partner, and if a disagreement is in order, then
 understanding the Love Relationship rormula 5

fine. A client once stated to me how she was so afraid to express herself, because other-
wise, she thought, her spouse might leave her. With his Saturn (restriction) in adverse
aspect to her Mercury(communication) and her Venus (affection, self-esteem), I could
understand why. However, if she did not face up to this challenge, her self-esteem
would continue to diminish and he would eventually leave or neglect her because she
didn’t think she was worthy enough to express how she felt. Yes, he might leave her,
but he might also stay and give her the respect that she deserves, because she thought
enough of herself to speak her mind. This challenge, of course, was not an accident. It
came into her life to transcend her low self-esteem, fear of rejection, and need for ap-
proval to validate her existence. Once she confronted this episode in her life, either her
significant other would change, or she would attract a more supportive relationship.
Expressing how you feel, talking issues out—these are musts. If you find yourself in a
relationship where you are experiencing verbal repression, than you need to seriously
reevaluate your relationship, for one thing is for sure—you are not happy. Why? Because
you can't be yourself.
 ¥Y what challenges
our Belationships

Needs Versus Desires

We all have desires. But desires are short-lived and needs must be met. Forget about what
you want or what you think you should have—stop twisting God’s arm! Concern your-
self with your needs, because otherwise you will never be fulfilled. How often is it that
we go running after our desires? Yes, the grass always looks greener on the other side—
but is it? When you get what you want, but not what you need, the longing within continues.
What we desire is fulfillment, not greed.
Thanks in part to the media, it almost seems to be easier to go after our selfish de-
sires then deal with our needs, which furthers sexual promiscuity, unwanted pregnan-
cies, co-dependent relationships, and fatal attractions. What we really want is long-term
gratification. It is something that we all yearn for in life and it comes through a deep,
meaningful union with another. This happens when we recognize our needs through
the Love Relationship Formula.
It's not always easy to get in touch with our needs, and sometimes we are surprised
by our discoveries. Why? Perhaps they are not in line with our “ideal” relationship, the
 8 what challenges our Relationships

one that our parents, grandparents, and, worse yet, society has programmed into our
heads—that image of how it is “supposed to be.” Remember, the whole idea behind re-
lationships is that they are an illusion, like ornaments on a Christmas tree. It's romanti-
cism—it’s happy connotations of what life can be like with someone. This is not real.
There is no such thing as an ideal relationship. The ideal is what we may strive for, but
it should not rule over or confine us in any way. The ideal relationship does not exist in
dense reality; it can only be found in God.
In The Divine Romance by Paramahansa Yogananda, he writes about how we seek that
special union with another human being, but what our soul is really looking for is union
with our divine selves. We should never lose sight of this fact, for in doing so we give our
power away to another. In seeking the divine romance, looking outside of ourselves for
love is a very unfulfilling experience. It’s like setting ourselves up for a disappointment.
Sometimes we have to come to terms with the fact that we may be madly in love
with someone, but they may not be the right person for us. Why? Usually it’s because
our needs are not being met. Ifwe neglect our needs, we are neglecting ourselves. When we
find ourselves attending to someone else’s needs and loving too much, we are probably
neglecting our own needs.
Giving your power away to another leaves you with nothing, and eventually they leave you
too. For you end up giving away the very thing your lover was attracted to in the begin-
ning of your relationship. You feel that if you shower them with love and attention, then
they will not abandon you. But what is happening is that you end up abandoning your-
self in the process. Givers always attract takers, and taking advantage of someone, con-
trolling someone in a relationship, is not love. In any relationship, we give to a point, but
we also need to learn when to cut off our efforts and let the other person help them-
selves, so we in turn can help ourselves if necessary. The strength of a relationship depends
on the two people involved. Both must be able to stand alone, yet stand together. The Love Re-
lationship Formula encourages you to get in touch with your higher self and your needs.

The “Fix”—lIgnoring Relationship Issues

We are prone to ignoring relationship issues. Even though we don't intend to repeat this
mistake, at times we do. Looking for ways to escape, we continually distract ourselves
from the truth. The problem stems from the fact that we are constantly looking for the
“fix” instead of looking for a way to reunite with our divine selves. The “fix” never allows
us to arrive at the point of relationship realization. Awakening from this delusive state, we
can then truly unite with another. Remember that romance is a delusive state of mind.
 what challenges our Relationships —

To bring romance into an awakened state, we can begin to create a positive romantic
ideal. I often hear, “All I need is the right person, Mr. or Ms. Right, and then everything
will fall into place.” Its time to take off those rose-colored specs and start dealing with
your issues, for the work really begins with you. So much of my own personal discov-
ery and transformation was learning about myself through my own astrology chart and
struggling to change the adversity. It’s called “turning squares into trines,” and you can
achieve this much easier than an alchemist turning base metals into gold.

What Are Your Beliefs?

As you strive to become a better person, you will attract a better partner—one in line
with who you really are. For in life we attract what we are. I had a hard time recogniz-
ing that like attracts like when I attracted someone into my life who I felt exemplified
qualities or behaviors that where unlike me. After much soul-searching, I came to real-
ize that a certain thought/belief system pulled these emotionally unsettled individuals
my way. I finally concluded that yes, thoughts are things, and their importance is not to
be underestimated. For our thoughts are more powerful than we realize. So be careful
of what you are thinking, because it may come true for you!
Getting control over your thoughts is easier said than done. You can become very
comfortable being angry with someone, or feeling life is out to get you, or that life is un-
fair. This will not help your situation. What will improve your circumstances is work-
ing on yourself to change the old pattern. You may need to find healthy ways to release
the tensions, resentments, or anger, and how you deal with it will lead to your success
or failure. The choice is yours.

Timing
Timing has everything to do with securing a relationship. When our timing is off, one
or both parties are unavailable on some level: emotionally, physically, psychologically,
spiritually, or financially. You will not find security in someone who is unavailable or
prefers a love affair or third-party relationship. Both can be highly regrettable, especially
the triangle. I have seen women wait for years, as he tells her he’s going to leave his wife
someday. In most cases, he never will, for the pattern is set.
Going from one relationship to the next can also burn you out. The only way to recu-
on
perate is to be with yourself. Celibacy is not a curse! It is a time to get your act together
check in
the emotional front. The more you are with yourself, the more time you have to
ls who
to your own issues—to change. The dating merry-go-round of attracting individua
 10 what challenges our relationships

are not right for you is a reflection of something in yourself. But you will continue to at-
tract what is in your life blueprint until you transcend it.
Part of the healing process is dealing with your issues and not being distracted by an-
other relationship. Although romance sounds nice, it doesn’t usually solve your dilemmas.
However, there are some rare cases where someone you meet is a part of that healing
process. But don’t count on this. For after a recent breakup, one tends to be vulnerable
and hurting, and therefore needs to take time to heal the wound. If you look for someone
to do that for you, you might well become prey to someone else's vindictive tendencies,
and the cycle continues.
Space between relationships can be a very important time and can be just as signifi-
cant as the time spent in a relationship with someone. Hopefully, we take what we have
learned into our next relationship. For as the saying goes, if you don’t learn from your
mistakes, you are destined to repeat them until you do. There is nothing worse than
going through the same painful experience a second time around. The more you work
out your issues alone, the less you will have to work them out in a relationship. The idea
is to enjoy your relationship.
Besides the timing and the cosmic connections, to have a relationship succeed you
must feel you are worthy of love and a wonderful relationship. If you take a good look
at yourself, you may find that you are too critical of yourself and maybe of others too,
thus making it difficult for anyone to get close to you. Or perhaps you are always trying
to meet with someone else’s approval or are living someone else’s life.
You must feel good about yourself. Otherwise you will not feel happiness with an-
other. Don’t expect that you can depend upon another person for your happiness. No
one is required to provide this joy for you. Being an adult is being responsible for your
own happiness. The Love Relationship Formula allows your personal happiness to thrive
as you incorporate timely choices.

Control and Denial

There are two kinds of emotion in life: love and fear. When fear dictates, we deprive
ourselves of love and happiness. In this instance love is a one-way street, for people
who do not fully love themselves attract partners who exemplify those same feelings.
This can also be said for the emotionally detached and noncommittal individuals who
attract people who are already spoken for, or unavailable. This only further promotes a
fear of love and intimacy. Sabotaging ourselves keeps us from what we want. These are
conditioned patterns that must be addressed, for what one tends to attract in this state
 what challenges our relationships Il

is essentially an abusive relationship in either a verbal, physical, psychological, or emo-

tional manner, sometimes all of the above. What we do for love!
At times, due to karmic retribution, we find ourselves in an abusive relationship. If
we are not able to work things out, hopefully we learn not to tolerate this kind of treat-
ment—that we deserve better. Ridding yourself of anyone who negates your self-esteem
will signify that you do not accept this behavior. Therefore, you are less likely to attract
this detrimental conduct into your life again. Once you take action, your life will
change for the better. Don’t think that you can wave a magic wand and change a per-
son. Wouldn’t life be so great if that were possible! But how a person sees you can rarely
be changed, especially if they want to have a certain control over you, which is due to
their own selfishness and insecurity.
Usually when one person is calling the shots in a relationship, they are also project-
ing their issues onto you, which will soon erode your self-esteem along with your po-
tential. When we fall in love with someone who controls us, we give our power away. If and
when you regain your power, your relationship will either move to a new level or dis-
solve if the other party continues to want to overpower you. Relationships are growing to-
gether and sharing, not conquering and controlling. 1 have seen many love slaves in my time
and I always urge them to move on. At times, however, it’s not until they are either fed
up or totally devastated that they break the chains. Sometimes many years have gone by
and an emotional price has been paid.
One of the hardest things to do is to move on when a relationship is or has become
destructive, because you have made a tremendous investment of time and energy. But
abusive relationship situations may need to end if the couple cannot resolve their dif-
ferences. The longer you wait, the longer your recovery will be. | am certainly not an
advocate of terminating relationships. You can possibly save your relationship by work-
ing on it. The people whom we meet in life and become intimate with, we have much
to learn from because they mirror what is going on within ourselves. Many times it is
not what we care to see. This is why some people can’t seem to stay in a relationship,
because they start to see the reality of who they really are and want to believe otherwise.
Many of us come from dysfunctional families. We learn to adjust, and therefore sur-
vive. So often to survive we enter the world of denial. We block out scenes of physical
and/or verbal abuse, drug or alcohol-related incidents, love affairs, or a lack of emo-
tional support (love). We rationalize that its okay if dad drinks, because he’s stressed on
the job. It’s okay that mom has an affair, because she needs love and attention.
 12 what challenges our Relationships
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People in denial blind themselves from the truth. They don’t want to feel. They don’t
want to face themselves. And ifyou cannot feel, how can you possibly love? When we take
this behavior into our relationships, it becomes an issue of control, abandonment, or a
need to take care of someone. What we really need to do is take care of ourselves! If love
and respect are not forthcoming in our earlier years, we need to take time out to under-
stand our feelings—not deny them. The Love Relationship Formula allows you to avoid
unhealthy obsessions and be aware of control and denial issues so that you fully appre-
ciate yourself. .

What Is Love?
True love is respecting and deeply caring for someone.
Venus, the goddess of love, depicts for us a picture of heavenly romance, which love
certainly can be. But this illusive state does not touch upon the realities nor the respon-
sibilities involved. The cherub, resourcefully armed with bow and arrow, symbolizes the
innocence, truth, and love that we experienced in our childhood. But as we take this
into adulthood, we begin to learn otherwise.
When we wish to establish a romantic bond with someone, we start by showing re-
sponsibility toward them. In time trust is earned, which leads to love. When we love, we
become the truth. We become real. Love is tapping into the depths of our soul, connecting
with our essence. Once we realize our oneness by reuniting with our divine selves, we
can unite much more easily with a significant someone. The word divine describes a heav-
enly yet spiritual understanding that inspires in us a desire to fulfill an essential need that will
greatly improve our life. Divinity is an exalted state that we must strive for to enhance our
relationship potential.
Mother Teresa said that of all the places she had visited, there was a great hunger for
love in the United States. To end that loneliness that is so prevalent in our society is not
an easy feat. So many are starved for love and appreciation. But behind this human de-
sire is one longing, and that is to fill that emptiness, that void, with divine love.
So often the problem is that we are not seeking love, but what love can give us. Self-grat-
ification, me-me-me, does not lead to love. We can only fill that empty void with divine
love. This is the love that does not involve just you and another, but our spiritual Cre-
ator as well. The Love Relationship Formula encourages a compassionate, spiritual love
that embraces and supports a relationship.
 what challenges our relationships 13

Triads or Dyads
Relationships are dyads, male and female energies. But just experiencing the polar op-
posite of one another is not enough. For true fulfillment, a third entity of divinity is
needed. It enhances as well as embraces the totality of this relationship experience.
In a relationship, two people are a duality. The divine must be a part of this duo for
the relationship to prosper. Then it can become the triune reality of love.
Even the composite chart, which is created by finding the midpoint between a pair
of planets and other significant points of interest of the two horoscope charts, describes
the subtlest details of a relationship. A relationship (two) emanates a third entity (three)
described in the composite chart. This third entity is the spirit of the relationship. How
that spirit affects the two people involved depends on what they are individually able to
contribute to the relationship. The more they improve themselves, the more the dy-
namics of the relationship as a third entity, as spirit, will prosper.
In astrology, we relate to the triplicities, based on energies conceived of a triangle
that relate in harmony and therefore promote unity. The three horoscope signs in each
element, such as the fire signs, Aries, Leo, and Sagittarius, relate to this experience. The
three compatible horoscope signs in one element indicate the triad principle, as the
trine in astrology is a harmonious angle connecting one element to another. Therefore,
the more trines or sextiles (half of a trine) that you have in your compatibility analysis
of all of the planets or significant points of interest, the better off your relationship will
be. With the Love Relationship Formula intact, we can rate your interaction as a couple
with the help of the triad principle.

Our Relationships Reflect Our Parents

If we look into the past, we usually find a situation or series of situations that have
caused an inner difficulty to develop, grow, and fester until it is addressed. So often this
goes back to our relationship with our parents. The interaction you had with your par-
ents will directly reflect what is going on in your intimate relationship.
Mental conditioning has occurred when we attract people into our life who exemplify our
attracted some-
parents. There is no escaping this pattern. Once you realize that you have
that
one who mirrors one of your parents, then you can begin to change the pattern
most patterns
started in childhood. Since most of us come from dysfunctional families,
need to be changed.
 14 what challenges our Belationships

Paul, a handsome and well-to-do client, came for a consultation and told me that
within six months of meeting and developing a relationship that seemed to be going
great, the woman would decide to leave him. This had happened several times, and he
was devastated and could not bear for this to happen again. My first question to Paul
was, what happened to your relationship with your mother? There were some adverse
aspects in his chart indicating a definite problem. It turned out that at a young age, Paul’s
mother died and he felt terribly abandoned. He said that he was angry and hurt, and
being just a child he didn’t know how to deal with his loss, so he repressed this trauma.
Unfortunately, Paul has such a fear of being abandoned by a woman that his fear at-
tracts the very thing he fears. He has a belief system that women abandon him, and has created
a pattern offemale abandonment that is true to his beliefs. This belief system can be changed.
If we look at Paul’s astrology chart, his aspects clearly depict the situation that he finds
himself in, and also indicates how he can begin to transcend his astrological karma. He
has a Moon-Neptune (mother/emotions-spiritual/illusion) conjunction in the tenth house
in Scorpio, the sign that rules over transformation and death, in sextile aspect to Uranus
in Virgo (progressive, detailed insights). Here Paul would have experienced his mother
not being around, possibly due to her passing away. Now that he is older, he needs to un-
derstand his strong connection with his mother, which, although suppressed, is still there.
With a Moon-Neptune conjunction, Paul was meant to experience his emotions, not sup-
press them. A spiritual way of looking at his situation along with some counseling or psy-
chotherapy can lead to a new understanding. The women in Paul’ life were leaving him not
to hurt him, but to get Paul to finally own up to his suppressed emotions that were wanting to be
felt and heard. Sometimes we need to be broken to finally find our way. Paul surrendered
to his emotions and cried. I knew from that point on his life would change for the better.
So often we block or control our feelings, and thus may block and control the
people who come into our lives. Surrendering to our feelings, to love, is not a failure—
it’s a success. It can be scary to extend ourselves and be open to love. But if we are not
receptive to love, it doesn’t have a chance to enter our lives.
The problem with many relationships is that an unwanted pattern starts to take
hold, and instead of addressing the issue, the person who is being undermined goes
into denial. Once you lose touch with your feelings, you are not able to confront the
initial problem. The relationship pattern is what is now controlling you. You can begin to’set
the pattern right with the Love Relationship Formula. This formula sheds light on all of
these personal issues. If you find that you are overlooking these issues, then you are
overlooking your relationship.
part 2

&
The Love
relationship
eocmula
 ¥ The Love
relationship
rorcmula
—Introduction

Happiness and love are designated so eloquently by our karma. Thus, the actions that
we consciously take, predetermine our future. In the end, what we are all looking for is
happiness. But happiness is actually a fleeting moment. Love, however, is a constant.
I once read an article in Vogue magazine entitled “The Happy Pill Question” by Erica
Goode. It was about whether you would take a pill that would make you happy all of
the time. Well, to my surprise, in the article the panel concluded that they would not
take the “happy pill.” Why? Because if they could not feel sadness and pain, they would
not know what happiness and love truly were. They would not be able to experience
the gamut of emotions, the agony and the ecstasy. And not to feel is not to love. It seems
that we need our sad and painful experiences so that we have a reference point—some-
thing to compare love and happiness to, to fully appreciate them. We all have our ideas
 18 the Love relationship eormula—introduction

about love, but we must be in touch with our feelings in order to experience it. For love
is the ultimate expression of feeling.
How many of us come from dysfunctional families that have created denial issues of
one kind or another? Denial on any level blocks our true feelings. Once we become
aware of and purge ourselves of denial issues, then our inner feelings can guide us to-
ward love. Our tendency, however, is to create patterns that are the same dysfunctional situa-
tion that we grew up in. Since it feels comfortable and familiar, we feel we can handle it. Even
from a dysfunctional perspective, we know what's coming. Yet dysfunctional is just that—you
are not functioning in a balanced manner. This is not what you want to become more familiar
with, for it denies you personal happiness.
By being in touch with our feelings, needs, and desires, we are able to choose a
more suitable and loving mate. Synastry, or astrological compatibility, can help piece to-
gether the emotional foundation of finding that special someone as well as improving a
current relationship. Through astrology, because it is a science, we can come up with a
formula that comprises the ideal relationship. Like anything, you have to believe in the
formula for it to work. You can have the astrological mechanics, but if your belief sys-
tem is creating unavailable relationships for you, then that is what you will continue to
attract.
The formula for relationships, however, is basically two-fold, involving both science
and artistic expression or emotion. It is the art or emotion that gives rise to the formula.
Einstein wasn't great just because of the formula, but what he added to it—the finesse.
Just as he had a tremendous belief in what he was doing, so must you. What's nice
about the human being is that we are emotional—flexible. It has to be that way for this
is the functioning of any relationship. At no other time is flexibility more vital than
when you are interacting with another human being.
Formulas help us make sense out of life. The formula for relationships based on sci-
ence and art or emotion can also be found in the Golden Ratio—the formula of tran-
scendence. On some level, life is a mathematical equation, otherwise known as the
Golden Ratio—‘“phi” 1:16:18 . . . “Phi represents a divine ideation—an etheric formula
for transcendence and beauty superimposed by the Creator upon the physical plane,
(us). The Phi ratio describes with numbers and geometry the universal formula for
growth. Its resulting pentagonal symmetry is found only in living forms.”*

* Reprinted with permission from The Coming Revolution: A Magazine For Higher Consciousness, L. R. Pro-
ductions (Fall 1981): 44-45. For further information, contact Summit Lighthouse, RO. Box 5000, Gar-
dinar, MT.
 The Love relationship rormula—introduction —19

It is through this mathematical equation that we have form, beauty, and harmony.
We can also have this in our relationships, which can be derived from the Love Rela-
tionship Formula.
Pythagorus once declared, “All is number.”* But why does life express itself in cer-
tain consistent mathematical patterns, especially the Golden Ratio? We find that it is be-
cause the vibration to these numeric ratios are pleasing and work in accordance to
man’s and woman’ soul, thus bringing them in touch with their higher selves, espe-
cially involving a relationship. Implementing the Golden Ratio into our lives allows us
to become more centered or aligned with the universe. The further we get away from
this principle, the more scattered we become. This is why it is so important to seek out
true perfected forms, for here harmony prevails.
There are many formulas that make sense of our existence, such as Einstein's in-
terchange between mass and energy, E=mc’. Astrology is also mathematical and is also a
formula.
Astrology is a reflection of life, and better yet, it makes sense out of life. Through as-
trology a formula within a formula can be derived that makes sense out of love rela-
tionships. You may ask yourself, how could this be? There are so many variables. But
not if you stick to the basics. The science of astrology gives us a foundation on which to
base our Relationship Formula. But with this formula comes intellectual, emotional,
physical, and spiritual depth. That is why it is so unique. It allows us to go beyond Sun
sign compatibility, for ’'m sure you have found that unlikely duos, such as Pisces and
Sagittarius, or Scorpio and Gemini, do get together. So we don’t want to limit ourselves
with Sun sign astrology. The Love Relationship Formula allows for this flexibility as you
rely on the guidance of true, perfected, numeric forms.
Striving for the ideal, the “perfect” relationship, helps us set a standard so that we
may eventually attract the right relationship. This attraction is based on your belief system
from your conditioned past, your karma, and the compatibility ofyour astrological connections
based on the Love Relationship Formula. When you combine all three methods, you will
universal
be successful in attaining the right relationship. Now we will delve into the
principles of astrology to find out what signifies a good, lasting relationship.
uting
To start with, and as a general rule, Sun sign compatibility is a strong contrib
on how the planets
factor. However, we are not just relying on Sun sign astrology, but

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e For Higher Consciousness, L. R. Pro-
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Summit Lighthouse, P.O. Box 5000, Gardinar
ductions (Fall 1981): 45. For further information, contact
MT.
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and significant points in two charts interact with one another. It is this interaction that
will create a certain dynamic that will make or break a relationship.
Throughout my twenty years of counseling singles and couples, I have come across
a group of compatible planetary influences, used in the Love Relationship Formula, that
reflect a truly fulfilling relationship. There are fifteen aspects that comprise the ideal re-
lationship—the one that works. If you don’t have them all, don’t fret. Your relationship
can still survive. But the more compatible planetary connections you have, the better off
you and your partner will be. Because. this is backed up by the mathematical science of as-
trology, make no mistake, this is the perfect formula. As in any formula, when you have all of
the right ingredients, it works!
 y The Love
Relationship
formula

In the beginning of your relationship, it is important to establish a pattern that will

bring the union to its highest potential. As you read through the following pages, rec-
ognize what is going on in your relationship and what needs to be addressed. If you are
single, this will prepare you for what you want to attract into your life in a long-term
partner. Every point described here is a reflection of the relationship you are having with
yourself and what you have to offer. Therefore, whatever each person is willing to give to
the relationship will become the inner spirit of the relationship, which is the third entity
that you create as a couple. This “spirit” may be found and understood through the Love
Relationship Formula, along with other challenging planetary influences.

1. “Venus-Mars”—Romantic Attraction and Desire

2. “Sun-Moon”—Strong, Enduring Bond

3. “Sun-Venus”—Showing Affection and Respect

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. “Sun-Mars”—Energized, Passionate Goals

. “Sun-Ascendant”—Mutual Approach to Life/Similar Interests
. “Sun-Jupiter’—Confident, Supportive, Expansive Goals:
. “Moon-Venus”—Sensitivity to Feeling
. “Moon-Jupiter’—Emotional Happiness
WD. “Mercury-Jupiter’—Positive
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10. “Venus-Jupiter’-—Compliments, Favors, Positive Self-Esteem
11. “Venus-Saturn’—Long-Term Security
12. “Venus-Uranus’—Exciting, Lasting Attraction
13. “Venus-Pluto”—Deep, Intense Love
14. “Mars-Jupiter’>—Motivated Desires
15. “Jupiter-Saturn’—Friendship Ties

(The ideal and lesser ideal aspects are listed in order of importance. For more informa-
tion, refer to chapter 19, “Aspects and Orb.”)

(1) “Venus-Mars”—Romantic Attraction and Desire

The ideal: conjunction, trine, and sextile
The lesser ideal: square, opposition, semisquare, sesquiquadrate, and inconjunct
I am sure you are probably familiar with the two classic symbols representing the male
(G' Mars) and the female (? Venus). They, like astrology, have been around for a long
time. You could relate Venus and Mars to positive and negative ions just waiting to link
up. When you meet up with a romantic encounter under this passionate, attractive in-
fluence, your whole life is enlightened by the experience. Being human, you can’t help
but embrace the idea of falling in love.
The first planetary influences that support the Love Relationship Formula are Venus
and Mars, the planets of romantic attraction and desire. As Venus represents the femi-
nine mystique and Mars the masculine drive, these two planets need to be in aspect to
each other in order for the social/romantic connection to occur. Whether it be a con-
junction, square, trine, opposition, etc., any kind of angle is significant as it links the
two planetary influences. Of course a square, a hard aspect in astrology, involving Venus
and Mars as opposed to a trine, a soft aspect, may bring out a more passionate and chal-
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lenging exchange of energies. The tighter the aspect in orb, 0 to 6 degrees, the stronger
the influence. The harmonious angles create a more compatible romantic rapport where
both people are fully enjoying the romantic/sexual dynamics. Uranus involved with this
planetary duo will also enhance the sexual excitement.
The planet Mars denotes men, aggressiveness, desire, and passion. I also call Mars
the planet of identity, for how we assert ourselves and approach our goals establishes
who we are as individuals. The planet Venus denotes woman, beauty, attraction, self-es-
teem, social/romantic life, and comfort. Venus represents how we value ourselves. This
is a very important influence, for how we value ourselves is what we are going to attract
into our lives. If your self-esteem is well defined, you in turn will like who you are and
will therefore attract love, beauty, harmony, and comfort into your life.
When the planets of love and passion merge, the desires of the Mars person are sat-
isfied by the Venus person. Mars is driven toward the attraction (Venus) both socially
and romantically. Venus is receptive and loving to the Mars person's ego assertiveness.
Mars indicates how you approach life. Being the planet that wishes to identify with
someone, Mars seeks out its opposite—Venus. Mars is attracted to Venus, and Venus is
receptive to Mars’ actions. Therefore, you can extend yourself through Mars, to find out
more about your own true identity. Mars needs to be in strong aspect to your partner's
astrology chart in order for Mars to feel at home. This zestful planet will motivate you
to pursue and get involved. Once you (Mars) establish your connection with Venus,
you can relate more romantically to your partner.
Most men feel that they cannot identify with their Venusian side. Men identify with
Mars, masculinity, and women identify with Venus, femininity. So men naturally project
their Venusian side onto women. This creates an attraction, man to woman. However, if
he wants to compliment her further, he needs to expand upon this idea by bringing out
more of her femininity, her beauty, and her attractiveness. Truly, a man who compliments
a woman, compliments himself! This concept is one of the most important factors in the
ideal relationship. He can do this by respecting and appreciating the woman he loves.
The physical magnetism of Venus and Mars represents male and female coming to-
for a
gether in a partnership, usually in marriage. This marital union is not only designed
is our
romantic relationship, but also procreation. Venus is the planet of fertility, and Mars
it is nec-
male sexual counterpart, the sperm. So if you are interested in having children,
opportuni ty,
essary to have these two planets in aspect. Jupiter, the planet of expansion,
a family. On
and good fortune in aspect to Venus or the Moon, is also favored for having
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the other hand, a Saturn aspect to Venus may limit the amount of children. Usually one
is enough. A Mars-Saturn aspect may also curb the affections and block fertility unless
other romantic Venus-Mars aspects are pronounced.
Inharmonious angles between Venus and Mars may actually enhance the romantic
dynamics between you as long as there is mutual cooperation in the act of lovemaking.
Dancing and loud music can release any emotional tension and lead to an evening of in-
tense love, provided your relationship is in good standing to begin with. Finding a bal-
ance may be required, as one of you seeks out sexual relations and the other prefers an
affectionate exchange.
Venus and Mars in aspect are essential to a close, passionate relationship. The ro-
mantic sparks created with this male/female pairing are a driving force toward a loving
partnership.

(2) “Sun-Moon”—Strong, Enduring Bond

The ideal: conjunction, trine, and sextile
The lesser ideal: square, opposition, semisquare, sesquiquadrate, and inconjunct
A Sun-Moon aspect is a powerful and enduring combination in a couple’s compatibility.
It is highly supportive of lasting ties. The conjunction is the most significant because it’s
like a new Moon, which tends to enhance our ambitions in life by creating a fresher
outlook. Usually it’s a man’s Sun in aspect to a woman's Moon, as the Moon will find
support and reliability with the Sun. A woman can therefore depend on her man. How-
ever, in this day and age when sometimes the woman is the breadwinner, or at least his
equal, a man’s Moon aspecting a woman’s Sun is a possible find.
_ The Sun and Moon are known as the luminaries. They light up the astrological ex-
perience, especially when the Sun and Moon are in favorable aspect in a couple’s com-
patibility. The Sun represents the masculine luminary, and the Moon represents the
feminine luminary. In a relationship, each of us possesses both the male and female en-
ergies. You may identify with one or the other, but both are inherent within. Therefore,
the woman could be in the role of the masculine luminary (the Sun) and the man could
be in the role of the feminine luminary (the Moon). The fact that the Sun-Moon con-
nection exists is what is most important. This does not take away from a man’s mas-
culinity or a woman's femininity, it only encourages a strong link in the relationship
that will last through the years.
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Here, one’s long-range goals (the Sun) work easily with the other's habitual patterns
(the Moon). The Moon's intuition understands the Sun’s wishes. The emotions, the
Moon, and the ego, the-Sun, are at home with each other. An ideal aspect between the
Sun and Moon, especially the conjunction in the same element, encourages you to com-
pliment each other. It's a smooth ride as the emotions and ego set sail together.
The Moon person can depend on the Sun person. But that doesn’t mean you should
lose yourself in the Sun person and then become totally dependent. Co-dependent be-
havior leads to a limited relationship, so don’t let your partner become your entire life.
Your partner should be an enhancing force, encouraging you toward continued per-
sonal growth.
When the Sun and Moon are in adverse aspect, you are sometimes not willing to
compromise. You experience frustrations and disappointments. The struggle here is try-
ing to find a way to balance the emotional needs with the willful ego needs. Adverse as-
pects, especially the square aspect, create a dynamic attraction in the relationship, for
one feels compelled to get involved. Yet getting along on a daily basis can meet with ob-
stacles. Both people must learn to be patient in addressing the issues so that their needs,
emotional and wordly, can be satisfied. The polar opposite aspect allows you to explore
and struggle with who you are as individuals and in a relationship. In attracting our op-
posite, we learn to see ourselves more clearly and understand the give and take that
promotes the continuum of our life experience
A Sun/Moon midpoint has a strong impact on a relationship as well. If a Sun-Moon
aspect is not present, usually a Sun/Moon midpoint in aspect to the Sun or Moon is, to
strengthen the union. This significant bond generates an attraction between the emo-
tions and the ego that endorses long-term prospects. (For more information about the
Sun/Moon midpoint, see chapter 17.)

(3) “Sun-Venus”—Showing Affection and Respect

The ideal: conjunction, trine, and sextile
The lesser ideal: square, opposition, semisquare, sesquiquadrate, and inconjunct
Attraction may inspire, but demonstrating love and respect in a relationship is an ab-
solute priority. This occurs when Venus, the planet of love and values, aspects the Sun.
In a Sun-Venus aspect, the Venus person displays love, affection, and respect toward the
Sun person. Being demonstrative will let your partner know how you are feeling about
them. If you hug someone, you want to feel the hug back. If you say “I love you,” you
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want to hear it in return. Mutual Sun-Venus aspects indicate that both parties are in-
clined to address each other in a caring, loving manner, which in turn shows respect for
one another.
Only fear can get in the way of expressing your true affections toward someone.
Sun-Venus aspects help break through feelings of fear surrounding set patterns from the
past. Without question, you will feel love and fondness for the person. When you fall in
love with someone, a Sun-Venus influence is usually present. The loving qualities of
Venus are receptive to the Sun’s purpose of being. The Sun empowers Venus, and Venus
loves the Sun. You feel more than inclined to show affection and nurturing. In admiring
your partner, you compliment their self-esteem. Fond devotion (Venus) is inspired by
the Sun. Amorous Venus increases the fortitude and stamina of the Sun person. The
Sun is flattered by Venus’ display of affection. Venus attracts the Sun's rays that spotlight
all of the feeling and love Venus has to offer. Harmonious angles and the opposition are
highly effective in creating a scenario of true love. Social values are also emphasized. This
combination works best when in favorable aspect and when it’s mutual.
Even in adverse aspect, the Sun-Venus combination can be respectful and loving, es-
pecially if there are many other positive planetary pairings in the Love Relationship For-
mula. The tendency, though, is for either person to get too involved with themselves,
thus not being able to fully respect the other. The Sun, which represents the ego, may
become self-absorbed when the Venus person attempts to demonstrate their affections.
Venus then feels ignored, as the ruler of Libra prefers the idea of sharing the love given.
The Venus person would garner hurt emotions, as if what they have to offer is being
shunned. The Venus person may also become rather self-indulgent, attracting the Sun’s
vitality to bolster their Venusian image. The Sun’s pride would be slighted in this in-
stance. In either case, one needs to recognize when one is concerned only with oneself
and not one’s partner to gradually improve upon the mutual respect that is needed in a
loving relationship. Nevertheless, the presence of a Sun-Venus influence inspires an af-
fectionate, loving rapport that presides over the lifetime of a relationship. No other in-
fluence will allow you to experience such fond, heartfelt feelings for the one you love.

(4) “Sun-Mars”—Energized, Passionate Goals

The ideal: conjunction, trine, and sextile
The lesser ideal: square, opposition, semisquare, sesquiquadrate, and inconjunct
As feelings are awakened through Sun-Venus, passion is aroused through Sun-Mars as
well as Venus-Mars aspects. Many couples have a Venus-Mars aspect. If you don’t, the
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Sun-Mars aspect is the next best thing. Mars is associated with a masculine image, ag-
gression, and passionate sex. Mars is our desire nature and how we take action to satisfy
our desires. The Sun represents our vitality, pride, ego, achievement, and purposeful
goals that bring us joy and recognition. In the physical body, the Sun relates to the heart
and represents the capacity to generate warmth to those around us. When these power-
ful forces link up, Mars, the planet of energy and passion, lights up the life, vitality, and
purpose of the Sun person.
When you are in the company of someone whose Mars aspects your Sun, you feel en-
ergized. As Mars optimizes the Sun's ambitious goals, oftentimes we attract people whose
Sun relates to our Mars. We can’t help but feel that revved-up drive and passion. The Sun
literally glows, especially when in harmonious aspect to Mars. The Sun represents pride
and ego. Here, Mars can motivate the Sun person to succeed, and perhaps win. The Sun
person likes taking the lead and being fully recognized by the Mars person.
The Sun prefers being in the spotlight as Mars pursues a more passionate exchange.
A man’s Marts is especially favored when in aspect to a woman's Sun, as the male drive
can be expressed toward the woman and therefore compliment her—the Sun loves at-
tention. As Mars is our identity planet, the Sun’s influence allows the Mars person to be
more in touch with independent goals. Therefore, the Mars identity feels secure to move
forward, to be assertive. The Sun, already shining brightly, will throw a spotlight on
Mars. Thus Mars feels driven even further toward the self, as the identity is strengthened.
In adverse aspect, Mars may try to conquer and challenge the Sun person, becoming
competitive or, in extreme cases, combative. This drive for dominance needs to be
curbed. How this works out depends on the individual. Self-awareness and personal
growth can lessen the effect of this challenge. The attraction is there, yet we need to
channel the energies so that both parties benefit. Couples with a Sun-Mars aspect need
to be active, either sexually or with other activities such as sports. On a positive note,
goals are achieved through mutual cooperation and drive. The passionate embers of
Mars are ignited by the Sun to enhance a romantic relationship and to motivate the cou-
ple toward success.

(5) “Sun-Ascendant”—Mutual Approach to Life/Similar Interests

The ideal: conjunction, trine, and sextile
The lesser ideal: square, opposition, semisquare, sesquiquadrate, and inconjunct
has
Another complementary pair is the Sun in aspect to the Ascendant. The conjunction
the greatest impact, as the Ascendant is the reflection of the Sun person’s personality.
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Therefore, the Sun person will see himself or herself in the Ascendant person. Remem-
ber, the Ascendant, or rising sign, is what you are projecting out into the world. This is
how others see you. If you have Capricorn on the Ascendant, others see you as conser-
vative, practical, and proper. If you are a Capricorn, you would notice someone who
has this influence and feel a like-mindedness that would make the relationship more
compatible. Therefore, your Ascendant plays a very important role in attracting the
right relationship. This is not always a lasting impression, but it does make for a strong
initial attraction. What lasts is your ability as a couple to capitalize on a parallel ap-
proach to your goals. When a couple is involved with similar interests, the relationship
has an opportunity to bond more. Shared activities, such as a recreational or leisurely
pursuits, will not only fortify the union, but also allow the couple to continually inter-
act through the years.
The Ascendant reveals your perspective of the world and how the world sees you.
The Ascendant represents the self, the personality, and physicality, and describes by sign
what course of action you take in approaching life goals. Everything we experience—
our birth into a certain set of circumstances, our childhood, and our environment—
conditions our outlook on life. It is the indicator of how we will approach everything in
life, because through the sign’s energy this is the way in which we have learned.
The Ascendant signifies the mask people wear. This facade will describe quite accu-
rately the personality and how the individual will achieve their aims. When your Sun
connects with your partner’s Ascendant, you feel as though you can identify with this
individual. The Sun's purpose relates to the Ascendant’s analogous methodology about
pursuing one’s objectives in life. What is nice about the Sun-Ascendant influence is that
it is also tempered by the Sun being in opposition to the Descendant, a Venus Point,
which emphasizes a display of love and affection. Therefore, the mutual approach to a
couple’ aims instills a shared fondness as well. The Sun-Ascendant aspect, preferably a
conjunction, promises an enduring connection through similar interests and ideas about
your outlook on life, which will promote the continued growth of your relationship.

(6) “Sun-Jupiter”—Confident, Supportive, Expansive Goals

The ideal: conjunction, trine, and sextile
The lesser ideal: square, opposition, semisquare, sesquiquadrate, and inconjunct
For both sexes, a Sun-Jupiter aspect brings support and enthusiasm to one’s aims and
purpose in life, especially when it is in harmonious aspect. If you do not have a Venus-
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Jupiter connection, then make sure Jupiter is at least aspecting the Sun. Jupiter will
make the Sun person feel important, so he or she can advance in life. Being the planet
of abundance, expansion, and opportunity, this uplifting influence wants you to suc-
ceed. Jupiter builds confidence and provides opportunity for the Sun’s achievements
and wants you to expand upon your goal-oriented role in life.
In a relationship, auspicious Sun-Jupiter aspects will help strengthen the union. The
Jupiter person is acting in your best interests when in aspect to your Sun. In turn, the
Sun person will approve of Jupiter's expansion and prefer Jupiter's optimistic outlook.
You are encouraged to move ahead on certain projects or career pursuits. This shows
your partner's appreciation for your skills and talents and promotes your self-esteem.
You now have the support to achieve recognition and prosperity. These days, most
women will have a career, and they, like men, have a strong sense of pride in their ac-
complishments. When Sun-Jupiter aspects are mutual, both parties truly benefit, as
their intentions are to further each other's goals. Materialistic aims are improved. Any
shortcomings are tolerated as your image is bolstered. A shared success is felt for every
goal reached. This favorable relationship influence can help alleviate any difficult as-
pects that are found between your charts.
When adverse Sun-Jupiter aspects are present, you may receive encouragement from
your partner with high expectations, but not always the follow-through support. You may
find yourself somewhat on your own, feeling the desire to expand or proceed, but not
sure if you can trust it. This may put some stress on your relationship. There may also be
times when Sun-Jupiter in discordant aspect may promote overconfidence, causing you to
be blinded from the truth. In such cases, expansion always needs to be determined by re-
alistic guidelines. Calculated risks are the way to go. Those who possess inner strength
and confidence may be able to balance an adverse Sun-Jupiter influence by enjoying the
positives and avoiding overly spculative ventures that yield an illustive victory. Either way,
your relationship has an opportunity to prosper from this encouraging influence. You are
able to bring out the finest in one another by offering your fullest support.

(7) “Moon-Venus”—Sensitivity to Feeling

The ideal: conjunction, trine, and sextile
The lesser ideal: square, opposition, semisquare, sesquiquadrate, and inconjunct
of
Besides encouragement, showing sensitivity is essential in unlocking the true essence
is described
one’s feelings. In a relationship, we always want to enhance feeling, which
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by the Moon-Venus aspect. Both are planets of emotion. When in aspect with one an-
other, they activate nurturing, warmth, and sensitivity toward your partner. It’s where
you take that extra step or go that extra mile to be supportive and sensitive to your
partner's needs. Here, the Moon feels and understands Venus’ values. Venus is comfort-
ing and receptive to the moods and feelings of the Moon. The Moon-Venus aspect in a
compatibility reading brings out the finer qualities of the relationship. To contribute in
a productive way to your relationship, you need to be in touch with your feelings.
Showing sensitivity means wanting to understand your partner’ needs and desires. A
lack of sensitivity, or just ignoring your partner, does not indicate concern or apprecia-
tion. Hurtful feelings and resentment may arise from such negligent actions.
People who are in denial suppress their emotions, thus they cannot truly feel. They
are unaware of others’ needs and feelings because they are unaware of their own. There-
fore, a person in denial may experience great difficulty in relating to their partner. Such
people may need to find someone with whom they can begin to discuss those buried
feelings. Only then can they have a successful relationship. The Moon-Venus aspect cre-
ates an environment where just that can happen. When the Moon and Venus are in pos-
itive aspect, they reflect a nonthreatening nature. When you experience this in your re-
lationship, you feel comfortable letting your guard down and expressing what you are
feeling. The Venus person is able to comfort the emotion emanating from the Moon
person. In turn, the Moon person is open to receiving this kindness and affection from
the Venus person. Displaying sensitivity toward another indicates that you care for
them. What are you feeling? What is your partner feeling? If you don’t know, ask. Start
showing consideration for your partner and the union you both share.
In this day and age, men need to become more in touch with their hidden feelings.
They are repressed because they have been conditioned to hide them. But this is chang-
ing, for it is no longer the norm for a woman to lean on her man for support, and he
doesn’t always have to be the strong, responsible one in the relationship. It is more of an
idea of sharing the responsibilities. In this way, as men become more in touch with their
feelings, they can fully appreciate their relationship. It has been documented that a man
gets in touch with his feelings through having sex and a woman through nurturing. A
balance is really what is required here for a mutually fulfilling relationship. The warm
sensitivity of Moon-Venus aspects indicate care and consideration that will always en-
hance the bond between you.
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Discordant Moon-Venus aspects sometimes instigate jealousy or a fear of losing your

significant other to someone else. This may induce possessive behavior that will not be
appreciated by your partner. Both of you may have this tendency. Continuing to show
sensitivity to your partner's feelings will win them over much more easily than exercis-
ing possessiveness. Try capitalizing upon a warm, caring attitude that is always accessi-
ble. The sensitive qualities of the Moon-Venus angle will enable you to reach out to
your partner in a manner that is caring, endearing, and well received, especially as you
grow closer through the years.
Since Venus is exalted in the sign of Pisces, feeling has an opportunity to be ex-
pressed in a higher spiritual essence. A similar effect occurs when the compassionate in-
fluence of Neptune, ruler of Pisces, is exalted in Cancer, the sign governing the Moon.
This links Venus and the Moon with Neptune, which induces a romantic soulmate con-
nection. As we all yearn to find heavenly, compassionate love, we must be aware that
Moon/Venus/Neptune aspects are also prone to deception. We learn through Moon/
VenusNeptune aspects that the truth counts. The spiritual essence experienced between
a couple grows out of honesty. Suspicion and dishonesty will only erode your relation-
ship. A positive Moon/Venus/Neptune aspect shows that you can express a sensitized
compassion for your lover that knows no bounds. Being in touch with your feelings en-
hances the spiritual bond between you, as a caring and loving disposition finds its way
to both hearts. If you do not have a Moon-Venus influence in your synastry, a favorable
Venus-Neptune aspect will bring added sensitivity into the relationship.
(Venus-Neptune aspects are covered in chapter 14, “Karmic Relationship Connec-
tions,” and can enhance the Love Relationship Formula.)

(8) “Moon-Jupiter”—Emotional Happiness

The ideal: conjunction, trine, and sextile
The lesser ideal: square, opposition, semisquare, sesquiquadrate, and inconjunct
The Moon-Jupiter aspect enhances emotions. In a committed partnership, this aspect
promotes happiness and brings out your sense of humor. There’ a lot to be said for a
man or woman who makes you laugh. Laughter alleviates stress. In the medical field,
Dr. Bernie Siegel, who wrote the book Love, Medicine & Miracles, clearly explains how
to
laughter relieves stress and can actually heal. This is certainly a great commodity
If your
have in your relationship. We speak of how we want to enjoy our relationship.
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interaction brightens one another’ outlook, you will both feel optimistic about your re-
lationship and your future together. By sharing your internal joy, you enhance the long-
term outlook of the union.
Jupiter emanates such happiness that even an adverse angle will encourage the
Moon to attain a brighter outlook. Mood swings caused by other planetary crossings
can be corrected by Moon-Jupiter pairings. The Moon (emotion) is receptive to opti-
mism (Jupiter). Tensions and past issues find peace. When your Moon is around
Jupiter, you relax, for you know everything will be alright. Such wonderful reassurance
will draw you to your partner as he or she lightens your load, making all the difference
in the world. Interacting with your partner becomes a pleasure. The generous spirit of
Jupiter will pamper the sensitive Moon. The inner personality of the Moon opens to re-
ceive the wonder and goodwill that Jupiter has to offer. The Moon person will encour-
age the Jupiter person's high standards, philosophical ideas, and adventuresome spirit.
Jupiter wishes to make the Moon person feel good, and will go out of their way to do
so. You will operate on a positive instinctual level in understanding one another.
If an adverse Moon-Jupiter aspect is prominent, the Moon may be demanding of
Jupiter good fortune. Jupiter may impose its over-optimism onto an unreceptive
Moon. The sensitive Moon is overwhelmed by Jupiter’s higher quests. The Moon’s needs
clash with Jupiter's desire for freedom. Regardless of some discordant feelings, the
Jupiter person will still brighten the Moon person’s day. Although Jupiter's giving may
be overdone, the Moon in some manner will be amenable to receiving its cheerful atti-
tude. There is nothing more treasured than restoring someone's happiness. Bringing joy
into your relationship will alleviate tension and anxiety, building a cherished bond of
contentment between you. Thus, you are able to provide happiness that lasts through
the years.

(9) “Mercury-Jupiter”—Positive Communication

The ideal: conjunction, trine, and sextile
The lesser ideal: square, opposition, semisquare, sesquiquadrate, and inconjunct
Whether you are relating through laughter or sadness, social interaction is a human
need. You can have a great sex life with someone, but if you cannot communicate, your
relationship will eventually fall apart. Besides our physical needs, mental needs must
also be fulfilled. You have to be able to express your feelings and opinions with your
partner, even if it means a disagreement or argument every now and then. When Mer-
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cury, the planet of communication, is in aspect to Jupiter in a compatibility analysis,

this creates an atmosphere for positive verbal exchanges. Here, Mercury (communica-
tion) is met with enthusiasm (Jupiter). Your ideas are expanded upon. Social opportu-
nity will also be enhanced when Mercury is in aspect to the Sun, Moon, Venus, or
Uranus. These planetary connections will allow you to express your thoughts and feel-
ings, especially when in positive aspect. Mercury-Jupiter aspects are essential in a busi-
ness partnership as well.
Mercury’s influence can be described as nonsexual—platonic. When a relationship
is platonic, you can be friends. The bond of friendship allows you to communicate your
thoughts and feelings to your partner. We all want and need someone to relate to in life,
and Mercury-Jupiter aspects create an intellectual openness that enhances the interac-
tion with your partner. The communicative rapport between you flows easily as the
conversation expands upon the ideas being expressed. When mutual, both will enjoy
conversing with each other. Mental blocks are nonexistent here. You will find that the
right intellectual rapport is also a drawing card in developing a relationship. For as a
couple, you seek out one another to relate to, and the relationship continues to benefit.
Where we may get into trouble is when Mercury is in adverse aspect to Mars, espe-
cially if Saturn, Neptune, or Pluto is involved. Look out! If you are experiencing difficulty
with stressed, blocked, or evasive communications in relating to your partner, an ad-
verse Mercury-Mars, Mercury-Saturn, or Mercury-Neptune aspect could very well be
the reason why. Also be cautious with a discordant Mercury-Pluto aspect as this can
promote manipulation, an undesirable attribute we can all do without. Mercury-Jupiter
aspects encourage a couple to bond on a communicative level, which enhances the rap-
port between them. Intellectual interaction is the thread of a relationship.

(10) “Venus-Jupiter”>—Compliments, Favors, Positive Self-Esteem

The ideal: conjunction, trine, and sextile
The lesser ideal: square, opposition, semisquare, sesquiquadrate, and inconjunct
Communication is a necessity and compliments are a must. We all like to be around
someone who makes us feel good about ourselves, and this is just what a Venus-Jupiter
aspect can do. A Jupiter aspect to Venus compliments our image and our social/roman-
tic life. Since Venus is the planet of femininity, it’s highly favorable to have a mans
Jupiter in aspect to a woman's Venus, as Jupiter will bring out her Venusian qualities.
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This is what to look for, ladies, for this means beautiful flowers on birthdays and holi-
days, and nights out on the town. He makes her feel good about herself by emphasiz-
ing her attractive appearance. When a woman's Jupiter is in aspect to a man’s Venus,
she builds his self-esteem and also expands upon his Venusian image of her. Jupiter
and Venus are givers. Their benevolent natures are well-received. Jupiter expands
upon what Venus would like to share. Jupiter compliments Venus’ beauty and charm,
and Venus attracts and is receptive to Jupiter’s generosity. Affection is greeted with hap-
piness. Venus values what Jupiter wishes to expand upon, especially higher-minded
pursuits.
Because Jupiter is the planet of abundance, this influence will bring out more and
more of what Venus has to offer. Here, the Jupiter person appreciates and highlights the
Venus person’ artistic talents and potentials. When in mutual and harmonious aspect,
the image of the relationship is enhanced tremendously. Social festivities and leisure life
will also be thoroughly enjoyed. Venus-Jupiter aspects allow you to compliment your
partner in a meaningful way so that he or she feels appreciated by you. As you are in-
spired by the Jupiter person to feel your best, you in turn reciprocate the compliment.
Where in the past compliments may not have been forthcoming, this relationship will
benefit greatly from the mutual appreciation.
When men project their Venusian side onto a woman, man is attracted to woman. A
man who compliments a woman, compliments himself, for she is a reflection of his
Venusian side. If she looks good, he looks good. Only a man can truly compliment a
woman by aspiring toward her beauty, grace, and talents. Making love to a woman
compliments her. A man who cannot compliment and appreciate the woman in his life
may sour the whole relationship. Chances are he is looking elsewhere to project his
Venusian side.
Even on adverse angles, Venus and Jupiter still work well together to flatter the rela-
tionship. However, excessive tendencies involving. self-indulgence or an extravagant
lifestyle indicate that Venus may not be able to appreciate what Jupiter has to offer.
Venus may also show signs of jealousy if Jupiter is too successful, thus stealing the spot-
light away from Venus. Regardless of the circumstances, in any relationship you need to
be aware of interacting on a complimentary level with your partner. For in offering
them goodwilll, you are paying attention to them. As your mate is open to receiving this
attention that you are giving, it improves the loving rapport between the two of you. A
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Venus-Jupiter aspect allows you to sincerely compliment your partner. Praising your
partner will brighten your entire relationship.

(11) “Venus-Saturn”—Long-Term Security

The ideal: conjunction, trine, and sextile
The lesser ideal: square, opposition, semisquare, sesquiquadrate, and inconjunct
Besides feeling appreciated, we also need to feel secure in our relationship. There are
two aspects that can provide us with that security. The first is a Venus-Saturn aspect,
which can engender a long-term alliance. Saturn, our planet of fears, insecurities, and
burdens, is comforted by Venus, the planet of love and affection. It usually works best
when a woman's Saturn is in aspect to a man’s planet of Venus. Women need to feel se-
cure in a relationship. She wants and needs to know that her mate is going to be there.
A man is able to offer comfort and love to his mate, knowing that he can provide, and
she can rely on him. Under this influence he will demonstrate dependability. When this
influence is mutual, both partners have an opportunity to be there for one another.
A Venus-Saturn aspect will allow you to feel at ease with your partner. When meet-
ing for the first time, you feel as though you have known the person before. This level
of familiarity brings such contentment that you are free to be yourself. Feeling this
comfortable lends itself to a lifelong companionship. In most instances you will find
Venus-Saturn aspects in a couple’ comparison, especially those who have been together
for many years. More often than not, couples, especially men, will marry under Venus-
Saturn transits and progressions as they are destined to become serious in love.
Reciprocal Venus-Saturn angles tend to reveal very karmic relationships indicating
you have met before and are meant to spend time together to balance the pros and the
cons of your relationship. When mutual Venus-Saturn aspects exist, it can be acceptable
as long as the man’s Jupiter is in aspect to the woman's Venus, so he can compliment
her and bring out the beauty and attractiveness that she possesses. If this is not the case,
the man’s Saturn will tend to suppress the woman’s Venus—her femininity, self-esteem,
and creative expression. This can in some instances lead to a controlling situation. Sat-
urn needs to learn to respect the love and comfort of Venus.
Because Venus is also the planet of self-esteem and self-love, your partners planetary
Venus or
influences need to activate Venus in a positive manner, such as Uranus trine
e you.
Jupiter conjunct Venus, to let you know they are attracted to you and appreciat
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Even though you may feel secure in the union, too much Saturn and its restrictive in-
fluence will gradually smother the self-esteem of the Venus person. Eventually the Sat-
urn person will react negatively, as Venus’ charm and attractiveness become dull and
undesirable. The Venus person must react to and change this*conditioning, or the rela-
tionship will suffer. Otherwise, the Saturn person may find themselves controlling, tak-
ing for granted, and even rejecting the Venus person. Unless a man or woman sees this
pattern in themselves, they cannot learn to appreciate their partner.
Being too comfortable in a relationship does not mean that you appreciate what is there.
Unless you do with your actions and say with your words that you love your significant other,
your relationship will experience unfortunate setbacks. Never take your partner for granted.
Although Venus-Saturn aspects denote long-term security, you still need to demon-
strate appreciation for your partner. To ease this influence, a Venus-Jupiter aspect
needs to be present. Where a Venus-Saturn aspect has a tendency to become too com-
fortable, a Venus-Jupiter aspect encourages your partner to acknowledge your pres-
ence with compliments.
Adverse Venus-Saturn aspects may not only show a lack of appreciation, but the Sat-
urn person may be especially demanding and critical of the Venus person. Control tac-
tics evolving from the Saturn person keep the Venus person in his or her place. Al-
though Venus may try to revolt, Venus has little control and may be overwhelmed by
Saturn’ restrictive and disapproving ways. If you decide to remain in a relationship
where a person's Saturn is in hard aspect to your Venus, you are destined to earn your
love, hopefully without compromising your dignity. Only a Jupiter influence to Venus
can help alleviate some of Saturn's pressure, which is part of the Love Relationship For-
mula and why they work so well together.
Finding a balance between Venus-Jupiter and Venus-Saturn indicates why it is so
important to love and respect yourself and to establish a positive image. In doing so we
have the opportunity to attract a more productive as well as committed relationship.
Through Venus-Saturn aspects, you can secure a comfortable, lasting relationship,
where loyalty is highly valued. (For more information on Venus-Saturn connections,
refer to chapter 14, “Karmic Relationship Connections.”)

(12) “Venus-Uranus”—Exciting, Lasting Attraction

The ideal: conjunction, trine, and sextile
The lesser ideal: square, opposition, semisquare, sesquiquadrate, and inconjunct
Security, relating, sensitivity, and love are all important, but how does a couple find one
another and stay interested in one another? There needs to be a compelling, lasting at-
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traction. One that makes you feel as though you cannot take your eyes off the person
you find so intriguing. This type of romantic meeting will lift one’s spirits as well as
touch one’s depth, the reason being that we become so intrigued that we need to tap
into our deepest resources to understand the attraction. Here, we are suddenly inter-
ested in another human being who allows us to feel excited and more aware of our feel-
ings. In that one moment, we forget ourselves and experience a part of the essence of
life—connecting with another to enhance our romantic understanding on this planet.
Very often a couple meets under a Venus-Uranus transit, which is a love-at-first-
sight contact that is usually lasting when on a positive angle, such as a trine or sextile.
Unlike Venus-Mars or Mars-Jupiter transits, which also arouse a couple toward meeting,
Uranus will suddenly excite a social/romantic attraction with Venus. One feels com-
pletely drawn to the other person. If a couple does not meet under a Venus-Uranus
transit, they may very well have a Venus-Uranus aspect within the compatibility of their
two charts that is activated in the meeting.
Here, the Uranus person is attracted to the Venus person. Uranus finds Venus excit-
ing, charming, and appealing. Venus finds Uranus fascinating. In this case, it is more
desirable if a man’s Uranus is in aspect to the woman's Venus as your man will always be
attracted to you, almost never allowing his eye to wander. Mutual attraction is a definite
plus. It’s like only the two of you exist. Here, one’s attractiveness (Venus) flashes out to
another (Uranus). An example would be Uranus in Leo trine Venus in Sagittarius. Since
the Uranus person desires the Venus person, Venus may enjoy being noticed and in
control, as Uranus continues to impart romantic intrigue.
Attraction on some level in a relationship is a must for it keeps the other person in-
terested in you. This usually stems from Venus and Uranus in aspect. Along with this
attraction, there needs to be good relating, comfort and security, romance and sex,
friendship, respect, sensitivity, understanding, and depth, all of which are a part of the
Love Relationship Formula. All of the ingredients need to be there. An attraction alone
will not uphold a relationship, but is needed in order for the couple to notice and be-
come intrigued with each other. The love story of Romeo and Juliet exemplifies this
sudden, fervent attraction. Uranus in aspect to Venus were surely mutually present as
the two young lovers were captivated with each other's presence.
but they
Very exciting attractions may occur under adverse Venus-Uranus transits,
may not be long-lasting. Rarely do I see these attractions hold up over the years. Some-
on is ignited
times the romance is experienced as a flash in the night. Romantic fascinati
other fac-
in the thrill of the moment, only to suddenly and indifferently cease. Unless
. Adverse
tors of the Love Relationship Formula are strong, abrupt endings are indicated
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Venus-Uranus transits are categorized under “love affairs.” However, in synastry an ap-
pealing attraction will be indicated throughout the life of the relationship, whether it is
a positive aspect or not.
Inharmonious Venus-Uranus aspects challenge the relationship. You need to be
careful to avoid becoming too detached or burning out from all of the romantic excite-
ment. Space is required so you can experience excursions of self-discovery with the un-
derstanding of bringing new and interesting ideas into the relationship. A striking at-
traction will still be evident between you.
When a Venus-Uranus aspect is present, you will pay attention to the person you
find so desirable. Feeling drawn to the object of your affection furthers romantic possi-
bilities that enhance the bond between you. A lasting attraction will promote a long-
term relationship, especially with favorable angles.

(13) “Venus-Pluto”—Deep, Intense Love

The ideal: conjunction, trine, and sextile
The lesser ideal: square, opposition, semisquare, sesquiquadrate, and inconjunct
Once we experience attraction, there is a gradual desire for greater depth and meaning.
Very deep and intense feelings arise with Venus-Pluto aspects. Through lovemaking, we
experience a merging of souls that cannot be explained or understood, only felt. We
may sense that a past-life connection has once again been reestablished. Reliving this
bond of love can be quite dramatic.
Under favorable aspects, the power of love and what it has to offer is such a moving
experience that it reaches beyond our reality as we know it. The Venus person is recep-
tive to and feels the depth and transformation persuaded by the Pluto person. This is
where love and sex come together for the ultimate in lovemaking. The objective is to
evolve through sexual intimacy to a higher plane. Sex without love is a limited experi-
ence. Pluto without Venus is very alone. Pluto represents not only sex but isolation. We
evolve through isolation just as much as we evolve through sexual intimacy. Pluto en-
courages us to become in touch with the deepest core of our being. Here, transcen-
dence can occur. Venus becoming involved with Pluto sensitizes this transcendence
through the sexual act. Thus lovemaking is everything it should be. It’s always best
when it is mutual. If not, it is preferable to have the man’s Pluto influencing the
women’s Venus, as he will be able to express his deep, passionate interest toward her.
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This convergence heightens a sexual awareness that will only enhance a long-term
relationship. Fated meetings happen under Venus-Pluto transits and progressions. Love
(Venus) is intensified (Pluto). The Pluto person is driven toward sensuous and desirable
Venus for sexual relations, and Venus (emotional feeling) is transformed by Pluto as two
souls embrace in the act of love.
Inharmonious influences between Venus and Pluto can be challenging. Pluto may be
too driven to merge with Venus. Venus, being receptive to Pluto’s advances, is eager to
please, yet may not approve of such aggressiveness. Venus’ personal overtures may be
inhibited by Pluto’ alienation, due to a fear of a deeper emotional involvement. Venus
may want all of Pluto’s attention, as Pluto desires his or her own company. Tensions
may arise if the couple is not sensitive to each other's needs. A primitive interaction will
not achieve the desired result, which is to bring each other to a point of transcendence
through the act of lovemaking. Oppositions and conjunctions in particular can indicate
very karmic relations. In these cases the couple is meant to come to a deeper under-
standing of one another through sexual intimacy. Difficult changes may lead to personal
growth or break-ups. If the couple cannot reach a mutual understanding, they will go
their separate ways. With the support of the Love Relationship Formula, even adverse
Venus-Pluto aspects can be directed toward a meaningful exchange, where lovemaking
is a deep, genuine experience.

(14) “Mars-Jupiter”—Motivated Desires

The ideal: conjunction, trine, and sextile
The lesser ideal: square, opposition, semisquare, sesquiquadrate, and inconjunct
The depth of love experienced in a relationship places an importance on sex. A Mars-
Jupiter aspect in compatibility emphasizes ardent lovemaking. This influence can boost
the passion of both sexes. Since women need more of a sense of security in a relationship,
whereas men need to be physically attracted to their partner, it works best when a
women’s Jupiter is in aspect to a man’s Mars. As Mars rules the masculine identity and sex-
ual desire, Jupiter wants the woman to be able to expand upon this concept. She will not
only be able to motivate him to get things done, but will also arouse his passionate side.
Desires and physical cravings (Mars) are encouraged and fulfilled through Jupiter. Oppor-
aspect
tune situations are also acted upon, thus promising financial gain. A Mars-Jupiter
It enhances
between two peoples’ charts does not replace the Venus-Mars connection.
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what is already there with a more dynamic exchange of love. Mutual Mars-Jupiter as-
pects encourage a motivated and active relationship. You just might enjoy doing every-
thing together! If a Mars-Jupiter connection is lacking, a Moon-Mars or Mars-Uranus
aspect will create emotional and sexual excitement as well.
In any formula, you have to have all of the ingredients. If you only have Mars square
Jupiter, or Mars square Sun, the person with whom you are interacting could become
overly aggressive with you if the affection (Sun-Venus) and sensitivity (Moon-Venus) are
missing from the relationship. Mars,.in ancient astrology, is known as the planet of war.
Jupiter's influences may intend to expand upon this combative idea when in adverse as-
pect. If a negative Mars-Saturn crossing is also involved, the situation could become abu-
sive. Mars always needs an aggressive outlet. In a loving, substantial relationship, Mars
will most likely be used constructively to attend to certain activities that are a part of
daily living. Mars combined with Jupiter will support a passionate exchange as well.
At times, daring Mars may become reckless, or overly optimistic Jupiter may take
uncalculated risks. Much play and no work could be the result. Hasty business deals
may also not come to fruition. Differences will have to be reconciled. One’s temper may
erupt, as the other’s successes increase. Jupiter may want to go out, whereas Mars may
be in the mood for sex. Although Mars may want to conquer, Jupiter's spirit will con-
tinue to encourage intimate exchanges.
The power of sex can sometimes push one to become [Link] an affair with lit-
tle chance of longevity. Make sure the Love Relationship Formula is secure before sex
occurs. I have seen so many men and women devastated from having had sexual rela-
tions that I encourage a longer union before having sex. You think that you can handle
an unemotional yet sexual attachment, but I have seen the brightest minds become
emotionally wiped out when the sexual union takes a turn for the worst. I encourage
men to be more responsible and women to not be so sexually vulnerable. Become more
acquainted with your partner first, while applying the Love Relationship Formula. This
takes time. Since sex produces children, a committed relationship is a responsible cou-
ple. Mars-Jupiter influences will promote the physical and sexual dynamics of a rela-
tionship that inspire a thriving, motivated couple.
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(15) “Jupiter-Saturn”—Friendship Ties

The ideal: conjunction, trine, and sextile
The lesser ideal: square, opposition, semisquare, sesquiquadrate, and inconjunct
A relationship will last longer when you are friends as well as lovers. A good friend will
listen to your issues and want to help you when in need. Mutual and favorable Jupiter-
Saturn aspects are a real plus to any relationship, establishing a good, supportive friend-
ship throughout the duration of your relationship. If a Venus-Saturn aspect is not pre-
sent, security and comfort can be found with a Jupiter-Saturn aspect. Jupiter is the planet
of optimism, support, opportunity, and expansion. The Jupiter person will take on the
burdens and issues of the Saturn person, and also encourage the expansion of their so-
cial foundations. Jupiter's desire is to make Saturn feel secure with venturing out and in-
teracting with others. Jupiter inspires one to go beyond any Saturnian fears, so that life
goals can be attained. Saturn offers wisdom and guidance to Jupiter’s hopes and dreams.
Jupiter's generous, nature offers support and protection, while Saturn adheres to
what is proper to achieve substantial results. With reciprocal harmonious Jupiter-Saturn
aspects, the accomplishments of the couple not only inspire mutual respect, but also
lead to long-term rewards. A solid foundation for their future plans is established.
Sound investments generate security and a level of comfort within the partnership.
When you are friends, you can rely on each other, discuss what is needed, and reach for
your dreams.
When Saturn is in adverse aspect, it will restrict Jupiter from pursuing his or her
wishes. Too many rules and regulations could discourage Jupiter from reaching for new
horizons. Saturn needs to keep in check a controlling attitude that limits optimistic
Jupiter from achieving new ambitions. In any situation, fear is limiting, but especially if
it does not allow you to progress toward your desired objectives. On the other hand,
Jupiter may want to pursue risky ventures that Saturn considers to be pipe dreams.
Balancing out each other's objectives will lead the couple down a more constructive
path where goals can be accomplished for the benefit of both parties. Jupiter helps al-
leviate personal issues that cloud the Saturn person’ perspective. Saturn, if used con-
structively, can devise realistic plans that enable one to reach the desired objective.
What you are destined to work out together will open up the dialogue to enhance your
lifelong connection.
 42 The Love relationship rormula
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Using the Love Relationship Formula

The fifteen combinations of the Love Relationship Formula are designed to work to-
gether to exalt your relationship. Even if adverse aspects, such as a square or opposi-
tion, are present, the remaining influences that comprise a lasting relationship will help
support the couple in addressing and working out the challenges that may exist. The
link between the two planets enables a certain reaction to occur that is further directed
by the aspect involved, be it a trine (positive) or a square (adverse). In some cases, ad-
verse angles are needed to create sparks or challenges that allow the couple the chance
to understand each other on a deeper level and grow closer together as they work
through issues. There is much to be learned and gained. As the couple strives to bring
harmony into their relationship, the surrounding influences of the Love Relationship
Formula promptly assist them. Although all fifteen components of the formula are
needed to have a loving and lasting union, having the following nine combinations in
mutual aspect would put your relationship in good standing: Sun-Moon, Sun-Venus,
Sun-Jupiter, Moon-Venus, Moon-Jupiter, Mercury-Jupiter, Venus-Mars, Venus-Jupiter,
and Venus-Saturn.
The ideal relationship would be comprised of a mutual conjunction, trine, or sextile
of each of the fifteen combinations of the Love Relationship Formula, preferably within
1 degree of orb. In our imperfect world, we allow some flexibility with varying degrees
of orb and the inclusion of adverse angles with planets in the Love Relationship For-
mula only. All of these planetary ingredients in the Love Relationship Formula in favor-
able aspect will bring you the desired relationship you are looking for. More informa-
tion to further your understanding of the complexities of a relationship can be found in
the following chapters.
The Love Relationship Formula is a planetary guideline that will lead you to a won-
derful, loving relationship. To share our lives with another is something we all yearn
for—it’ our birthright. Therefore, demand that it happen, for your journey to love has
every opportunity of being a success.
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The Moon nurtures, protects, and absorbs. Its receptive capacity promotes an instinc-
tual awareness of one’s environment. The Moon represents not only our emotions, but
any type of a mother image. We can be the mother image ourselves, and/or we can pro-
ject this image out into the world, thus looking for the one that will nurture our needs
and satisfy our hunger for the emotional connection that brings fulfillment. If our Moon
is activated, it brings up our feelings and therefore our needs. Here, sensitivity, nurtur-
ing, or a sense of obligation become a part of a relationship.

Moon-Mars—
Emotional Arousal and Initiation, Agitation, and Angry Feelings
Motivation comes in many forms, but when we are emotionally motivated, we experience
a strong desire to accomplish a personal objective. Moon-Mars pairings in harmonious

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aspect usually inspire us to take action and be productive. In a relationship, our emo-
tions become an integral part of acting out in a physical manner, where a passionate ex-
change between a couple is emotionally rewarding. Feeling (the Moon) is receptive to
ardent desire (Mars). One’s emotions (the Moon) are stimulated (Mars) toward intimacy.
Mars is able to channel his or her desires through the sentimental openness of the Moon
person, so both experience a level of satisfaction. The Moon's emotional outlook can
find expression through Mars’ amorous zeal. Emotion and passion ignite to enhance the
romance in the relationship. This cosmic interplay allows the couple to accentuate the
male and female personas, where both are exalting the sex of the other.
Both planetary influences symbolize an identity exchange as well. The Moon repre-
sents the inner emotional desire to connect and nurture, and Mars represents the as-
sertive, worldly self that looks for comfort in identifying with a significant other.
Mars is better known as the initiator. Just as it can initiate passion, it can also initiate
rage. Irritability and anger are the result of adverse Moon-Mars aspects. Volatility exists
when the Mars person provokes the Moon person toward emotional fury, or when the
Moon person is not receptive to the advances of the Mars person. Mood swings that pro-
voke quarrels can arise unexpectedly. Usually this is caused by suppressed anger of one
kind or another that is touched off by Mars. The natural instinct of Mars is to compete
and dominate, but in a relationship this conquering attitude is not seen as agreeable. The
Moon will become increasingly annoyed with the lack of consideration from Mars.
If you where born with a Moon-Mars aspect, you are more susceptible to this kind
of temperamental behavior. I would suggest following a vigorous workout program or
keeping very busy. Take the reins and direct this unsettled energy to help improve your
life. Otherwise oversensitized emotions may get the best of you.
The energetic mannerism of Mars needs to be properly channeled so that tensions do
not build and become explosive in a relationship. If other encouraging planetary factors
are present, Mars can tame its restless manner, where constructive interaction leads to an
exciting involvement. A passionate exchange will bring the satisfying result you desire.

Moon-Saturn—
Serious, Controlled, and Repressed Emotions/Co-dependency
The Moon is a reflection of our personality that was established during childhood. The
early conditioning that we experienced as children is directly related to our emotional
 an up-close-and-personal look at the Moon in synastry 47

needs as well as our fears. Being raised with a certain emotional conditioning, we end
up attracting this pattern in our relationships, for better or worse, until it is addressed.
The Saturn aspect to the Moon causes us to fear, control, and block our natural
emotional response. This fear is more pronounced if a nurturing environment in child-
hood was not forthcoming. Unfortunately, Saturn influencing the Moon may encourage
an unhappy relationship situation unless other supportive astrological factors exist. But
this may not be so evident at the beginning of a relationship.
At first, the Saturn person will feel a sense of obligation toward the Moon person.
Being responsible will anchor Saturn into the relationship. But if there are emotional
imbalances with the Saturn person, he or she may like the idea of controlling the emo-
tional response of the Moon person. This allows the Saturn person to feel secure and
more in control, a condition that was most likely lacking in childhood, which is now a
strong part of the relationship.
In turn, the Moon person acknowledges Saturn’s personal obligation and feels com-
fortable setting up a home life. Even though the Moon person is aware of the control-
ling mannerisms of the Saturn person, the Moon person may seem comfortable as this
does represent some type of stability. As time goes by, the Moon person will induce
more and more of a family attitude, gradually bringing up Saturn's insecurities. Whereas
Saturn may begin to fear the responsibilities involved with family life, projecting a wor-
risome attitude onto the Moon. The Moon person begins to feel emotionally blocked
and therefore unable to discuss the lack of fulfillment with his or her emotional needs
and domestic issues that continue to mount. The Moon person feels that he or she can-
not express himself or herself emotionally, but then Saturn feels that his or her emo-
tional needs are also not being met.
Saturn clearly feels a sense of obligation as the role of the provider, yet may not fully
want the responsibility of taking care of someone. But because Saturn wants to control,
in order to feel secure, he or she will end up staying in the relationship out of fear and
emotional insecurity. This becomes a co-dependent relationship.
Mutual Moon-Saturn aspects cause both people to feel obligated in the relationship.
But when emotional needs are not being met and you are staying in a relationship out of
a sense of duty and/or fear, you are not happy. Moon-Saturn aspects represent sad, re-
pressed, or controlled emotions. In most circumstances, this mirrors a dysfunctional fam-
ily environment that systematically ends up affecting your adult life and intimate relation-
ships. This can be appeased under a Moon-Jupiter influence. Nevertheless, Saturn may
 48 an up-close-and-personal look at the Moon in synastry

continue to be impersonal toward the feelings of the Moon, as the Moon is indifferent
to Saturn’s needs.
Eventually Saturn, under too much pressure, may be forced to leave the relation-
ship, even though in most instances Saturn, still feeling co-dependent, does not want to
part. The karmic connection involved with this Saturnian influence could cause the re-
lationship to last for many years. Living under such pressure is not the ideal in a rela-
tionship. If this influence exists in your compatibility, you are being given a chance to
recognize what emotional issues have been restraining you throughout the years, and
now is your chance to release this fearful, co-dependent behavior.
We attract situations like this where we need to face up to our deepest fears for a reason, to
finally confront them. Moon-Saturn connections indicate where co-dependency, aban-
donment, and rejection issues can be further understood. The co-dependent factor that
is involved with this planetary combination will keep people together too. If there is a
need to be co-dependent, this can be fulfilled when your Saturn is in aspect with an-
other’s Moon. You may not even know this issue exists until it happens. But clinging to
each other is not the ideal in any relationship situation. If this is the case, addressing co-
dependent issues will only improve your life in the future. Harmonious Moon-Saturn
aspects will derive better results in working out emotional issues. Adverse aspects with
this cosmic pair are intense, where a serious approach to one’s hidden emotional self is
a must.

Moon-Uranus—Emotional Excitement, Unpredictable Feelings

Early on in a relationship, the thrill of having a Moon-Uranus aspect in a couple’s synas-
try will inspire emotional excitement. Whether a couple can channel this influence to
keep those charged feelings alive may depend on both parties. Nevertheless, an exhila-
ration will arouse the couple toward wanting to enjoy and be moved by this electrifying
appeal. This magnetic attraction will arouse great interest. The enthusiasm generated
creates an atmosphere of surprise that is titillating. The Moon (one’s emotions) is fasci-
nated by Uranus. The Moon person is receptive to the surprises of the Uranus person. But
what may excite one may also split one apart as feelings become unpredictable and inde-
cisive. If Uranus acts in an erratic manner, the Moon will feel frazzled by the experience.
When this pairing is in adverse aspect, tensions build as the Moon may become
upset over the lack of sensitivity from Uranus. An impersonal approach will not fare
well with the open intentions of the Moon. The erratic behavior of Uranus may un-
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knowingly cause undue stress. This dynamic influence does not guarantee a long-term
connection. More substantial astrological connections are needed. If it is the man’s
Moon, he may have a new, eccentric vision of his woman.

Moon-Neptune—Mutual Identity, Obligation, and Emotional Illusion

I have always felt that positive Moon/Neptune aspects in synastry represent a sense of
mutual identity where you can relate emotionally and telepathically to your partner.
Since Neptune’ etheric influence knows no bounds, emotionally you can sense what
your partner is feeling. But that does not mean that you can understand what you feel,
for Neptune also emanates a very nebulous energy.
When we are obligated in our relationship, we usually exercise compassion toward
our partner, especially if we are aware of a sensitive underlying connection with them.
This sympathetic bond that exists between the couple helps support a long-term al-
liance, but the couple might form a platonic association as opposed to a more romantic
involvement. Nevertheless, the empathy shared by the couple is a special addition to
the relationship. The Moon trusts Neptune’s compassion and flows with his or her vi-
sion. Neptune finds that he or she has an emotional channel on which to impart his or
her otherworldly, magical charm. More sensitive human beings will have an awareness
of their spiritual oneness with another.
The creative side of Moon-Neptune aspects ensures that the Neptune person will
project an intriguing, illusive quality over the receptive Moon. In turn, the Moon per-
son will be fascinated by Neptune’s idealism, inspiring the Moon's imagination to ex-
plore a world of fantasy.
Adverse aspects involving the Moon and Neptune in synastry create a distorted
emotional rapport between the couple. When we have empathy for someone, we don't
expect to be sucked into all of their problems and become completely overwhelmed.
But having an insane compassion for a loved one can become an emotionally draining
experience. The opposite can exist as well, where there is an obvious lack of compas-
sion but still a strange feeling of obligation that leaves both feeling quite disturbed and
frustrated. The Moon is not impressed with Neptune's unreliable nature. Neptune is not
sure it can handle the extreme moody tendencies of the Moon. Falling into an emo-
tional abyss is certainly not desirable in any relationship. However, adverse Moon-Nep-
sus-
tune aspects may be another indicator of the relationship mirror that exposes our
ceptible, hidden emotions. Once dealt with, a spiritual bond can be maintained.
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Moon-Pluto—
Intense Understanding, Emotional Depth, and Manipulation
The intentions of Pluto cannot be denied as this cosmic force will invoke emotional
depth in another when in aspect to the Moon. Our emotions are already heartfelt, but
may lack the deep understanding that is required to find answers to life’s many ques-
tions. When the Moon is in harmonious aspect to Pluto, we are better able to explore
our inner self, developing and capitalizing upon helpful insights that mold our future.
The Pluto person instinctively understands the feelings of the sensitive Moon. The
Moon person will feel attracted to the mystery and depth that Pluto provides. The emo-
tional impact of this karmic bond is truly felt and experienced.
Adverse aspects involving the Moon and Pluto will intensify the emotions, but the
manipulative tendencies of Pluto are triggered. Pluto’ profound insights could turn on
the Moon person, where one is plotting away with secret tactics. The vulnerable Moon
person could fall prey to a hidden agenda. These underhanded strategies will not bene-
fit either party in the long run.
Perhaps if buried emotions need to surface, a Plutonian influence is helpful, but not
at the expense of toying with another's feelings. If you love the person, your objective
would clearly be to assist in unraveling that which is an emotional hindrance. This
means working in the best interests of your partner, not using manipulation as a means
to an end. A man’s Moon will feel the powerful strength of a women, personified by her
Plutonian influence.
 v More on
Mercurial
exchanges
In synastry

We have already established that Mercury-Jupiter aspects expand upon the communi-
cations to the greatest degree. Mercury may also be enhanced through influences from
the Sun, Moon, Venus, and Uranus.

Sun-Mercury—Highlighted Communications
The Sun person will emphasize a communicative exchange with Mercury. Willing to lis-
ten, the Sun encourages Mercury to express his or her thoughts by providing a platform
on which to converse. Mercury appreciates the Sun’s understanding and proceeds with
sharing his or her ideas and opinions.
When under an adverse influence, the Sun may not take Mercury seriously. Scat-
tered thoughts are in need of direction and may make relating difficult. Mercury may
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feel that the Sun does not comprehend the witty yet unstructured mannerism that Mer-
cury demonstrates. Under favorable aspects, the creative ideas of the Sun can be clari-
fied through Mercury, as the Sun can be supportive of Mercury’ intellectual skills.
Highlighting communications causes a significant interaction between a couple.

Moon-Mercury—Sensitized Communications
There is an excellent balance in a relationship when the mind and the emotions come
together in a harmonious angle. Feelings (the Moon) are expressed in an intellectual
way (Mercury). Ideas (Mercury) are received in a sensitive manner (the Moon).
If Mercury and the Moon are afflicted or in difficult aspect, there may be some con-
fusion, as Mercury may not understand the feelings of the Moon and the Moon may not
be receptive to Mercury’s ideas and opinions. Mercury may need to be more sensitive to
the Moon, capitalizing upon his or her intellectual approach to ease the communicative
rapport. The receptive Moon needs to be open to discussing Mercury’s concepts and
using his or her intuitive capabilities to guide Mercury if necessary. When a couple
agrees mentally and emotionally, decisions are easily made, which in turn supports a
lasting tie.

Mercury-Venus—Agreeable, Profitable Communications

Congenial conversation occurs under Mercury-Venus aspects. Ideas (Mercury) are ac-
cepted and appreciated (Venus). The intellectual approach of Mercury supports Venus
materialistically and with shared incentives, so they both profit. Venus agrees with what
Mercury has to say, and Mercury understands the feelings of Venus. Smooth communi-
cations allow the couple to relate quite well.
Under adverse aspects, Venus may continue to cooperate when Mercury is in error.
Indecision about how to relate to Venus may baffle Mercury and promote a critical as-
sessment of Venus’ pursuit of pleasure. To counteract the adversity, Mercury needs to
capitalize upon his or her wit to understand the desires of Venus, as lovely Venus has an
opportunity to comfort and assist Mercury with ideas that benefit both of them. Sensi-
tive, cooperative communications will lead to personal and monetary gain.
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‘Mercury-Uranus—Excited, Intuitive Communications

The interaction between Mercury and Uranus inspires the mind to want to learn more
by communicating one’s thoughts and ideas. The mentality (Mercury) is intrigued with
what Uranus has to offer. Mercury’s ideas are stimulated by Uranus. Intuitive thought
(Uranus) has an avenue to express itself intellectually through Mercury. This mental and
intuitive acceleration can greatly assist a couple in understanding one another.
Inharmonious aspects create mental discord where Uranus will cause too much
stress for Mercury. Uranus may want to break through Mercury’s old way of thinking,
and Mercury will judge Uranus for being indecisive or overly progressive. Nevertheless,
Uranus will fuel Mercury with new concepts, as Mercury is fascinated with Uranus.
Both may complement each other, providing a stimulating rapport between the couple.
 4 challenging/
mMalefic
combinations
In synastcy

Combinations to Look Out for or Totally Avoid

Malefics are the opposite of benefics. The benefic planets are Jupiter and Venus. The
more benefic planetary combinations you have, the better off you are with developing
and enjoying that wonderful relationship. In most cases, however, there will be some
malefic aspects in a compatibility analysis. These are the areas that will need more at-
tention in order to keep the harmonious balance in a relationship. Usually there are
some karmic lessons connected with the experience of these malefic planetary influ-
ences. Therefore, here is the relationship that can help you rid yourself of this past-life
burden.

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You can learn a lot from a partner who is giving you a difficult time. The Dalai Lama
has stated that your enemy, or the person you are at odds with, is your best teacher. Of
course, we don’t want to be enemies with our spouse. However, if we look at the sev-
enth-house sector of close relationships in an astrology chart, this is the area of intimate
conflicts and open enemies! This clearly indicates that issues will surface that must be
addressed. This one-on-one encounter can actually strengthen the relationship, driving
you together as opposed to driving you apart. Here, each of you will give to the rela-
tionship, creating stronger bonds.
Since we wish to evolve through our interaction with others, we need to understand
differing ideas and opinions. I am not speaking of abusive situations, although we can
learn much from such circumstances. Ralph Waldo Emerson pointed out in his essays
how we learn from our shocking experiences. If all of life were the ideal of happiness,
we would never learn anything. We can still have peace in our relationship, yet learn
from the differences, the criticisms, and the conflict. I am not talking about a battlefield,
but a stage where you can open up the dialogue.

Sun-Saturn—Constructive, Criticized, and Difficult Goals

When transiting Saturn aspects your Sun, everything seems “heavy” or more difficult
than usual. In compatibility, Saturn’s stern mannerisms are projected onto the Sun per-
son. Here, the Saturn person has an opportunity to be constructive about pointing out
the shortcomings of the Sun person. Let's keep in mind that we all have our weak-
nesses. As they are revealed, we should be given a chance to correct this shortcoming or
turn our weaknesses into strengths. In this case, much depends on our partner. Are
they going to be helpful or are they going to further criticize a weakness, thus debasing
their loved one? Saturn can be quite hard on others, thus undermining their efforts. Not
everyone is going to meet your expectations. Concentrating only on your partner's in-
adequacies will diminish the romantic rapport between you. In extreme cases, casting a
fear of failure onto your partner will paralyze his or her efforts. If you are constantly
criticizing your partner, he or she will feel insecure and unappreciated for everything he
or she does. Unmistakably, the tendency for Saturn is to criticize when it is in aspect to
the partner's Sun. To criticize constructively, however, may require some patience and
understanding. Then both people will benefit. Once you offer constructive criticism,
you may need to give your partner some space to apply that advice or wisdom.
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Many times, the Saturn person has been too hard on themselves and will project
their own shortcomings onto their partner. If you are hard on yourself, you will surely
be hard on others, thus isolating yourself from the very acceptance and interaction you
are looking for in life. If this sounds like you, you may need to explore your past and
find out who's rating system you had to measure up to for acceptance. Then give your-
self a break, so you can be more accepting and patient with your partner, which will
only deepen the bond between you.
Saturn is known as the teacher planet, and a good teacher will emphasize discipline
and responsibility to help organize and improve another’ ambition toward any goal. In
applying Saturn's influence, we can always aim toward constructive improvements in
our life, but how others assist us is a reflection of how they really feel about us.
Although adverse Sun-Saturn pairings in compatibility are known to be karmic, un-
less the Saturn person's Venus is in aspect to your Sun, and perhaps your Moon as well,
thus promoting affection and sensitivity, 1do not recommend this combination for a re-
lationship. It’s just all too critical. A couple may also experience brief periods of finan-
cial loss, illness, lack of intimacy, or difficulty parting from a prior love. Nevertheless,
the bond between you will be strong. A separation does not necessarily mean that it is
over, yet much time could pass before a reconciliation. If you find that a Sun-Saturn
combination is part of your synastry, ideally both of you will be evolved enough to
channel these influences and benefit from a rewarding relationship that stands the test
of time with patience and understanding.

Sun-Uranus—Exciting, Unpredictable, and Disruptive Goals

When the Sun and Uranus link up in favorable aspect in synastry, exciting ideas can be
pursued. Your spirit will be revived while in the company of your Uranian partner. Rec-
iprocal Sun-Uranus aspects perpetuate a progressive lifestyle that eliminates boredom
and restraint, allowing both of you to experience the ideal scenario. You will seek out
adventure and enjoy the thrill of self-discovery. If you feel stifled in your day-to-day life,
meeting someone whose Uranus aspects your Sun will inspire you to see life in a whole
new way. The Sun person is encouraged to move in new directions and feel his or her
independence (Uranus). Breaking away from tradition will invite a better future as the
Sun is stimulated to explore other avenues. Uranus’ fresh outlook will promote a lasting
companionship.
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All of this excitement can have unfortunate setbacks under adverse aspects. The er-
ratic nature of Uranus may create such tension that the relationship could become ex-
plosive. The eccentric behavior of Uranus may not be tolerated by the Sun. A couple
adamantly wanting to pursue their own aims will move in separate directions. A clash
of wills could suddenly bring the union to an end unless both parties are willing to give
each other needed space. When you are able to allow your partner the freedom to attain
his or her own objectives, the relationship has an opportunity to prosper. Having the
independence to pursue your [Link] be who you are is a must in any commit-
ment. If you encourage your partner's individual growth, it will only improve your rela-
tionship. Remember, setting someone free gives them the opportunity to come back to you.

Sun-Neptune—lIdealistic and Deceptive Goals

The creative, spiritual influence of a harmonious Sun-Neptune aspect will attract op-
portunities that improve your circumstances. These idyllic conditions encourage your
vision where your ideals can become a reality. Neptune’s unearthly and captivating
manner will continually intrigue the Sun. The Sun person will be inspired by Neptune
to take the lead in creative pursuits. Neptune may look upon the Sun as the ideal per-
son to follow. When in positive mutual aspect, the couple is fascinated by what each
other has to offer. Finding fulfillment in each other will only encourage the longevity
of the union. Shared sympathy will warm the Sun’s heart and reveal Neptune’s innate
compassion.
The presence of unfavorable aspects may create a tremendous uncertainty about
each other's objectives. The Sun may question Neptune’ reliability. Neptune may find
the Sun too egotistical and demanding. Being overly interested in oneself causes igno-
rance of the complicated relationship issues at hand. If you feel you are being misled,
the trust factor may dissolve, leaving both of you stressed-out. Neptune will have to
earn the Sun’ trust by directing his or her imagination toward the well-being of the
union. A spiritual approach to understanding each other's objectives may help channel
this illusive influence. As you find yourselves through each other, you may even be able
to rekindle the tie. A platonic friendship may arise that will help base the union on hon-
esty. Your relationship gains from maintaining its integrity.
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Sun-Pluto—Involved, Powerful, Transformed, and Manipulative Goals

A powerful bond may occur when the Sun and Pluto are in positive aspect. The couple
may feel that destiny has brought them together. These forces will induce a strong phys-
ical attraction as well. Pluto encourages the Sun’s confidence. The Sun brings to light
the deeper motives of Pluto. Partnerships are supported along with the restructuring of
one’s personal agenda. Psychologically, the differences of both influences challenge each
other. The Sun wishes to express his or her outgoing, creative side, while Pluto wants to
maintain his or her privacy. A clash of interests may be the result.
Deep-rooted issues may prevent the couple from cultivating a lasting relationship
under adverse aspects. The struggle for a superior position will undermine the relation-
ship’s compatibility. The Plutonian influence will force the Sun person to transform his
or her ways without his or her consent. Feeling undermined, the Sun will expose Pluto's
secrets and take advantage of jealous tendencies. Not backing down, Pluto will want to
conquer and gain supremacy over the Sun's ego by taking advantage of any weaknesses.
As the two become rivals, there is little hope of renewing this tie. To avoid such power
plays, a couple needs to use their commanding qualities to transform old issues and
build a strong foundation of self-assurance that supports the couple’s growth. As Pluto
becomes more understanding in prompting the Sun to change, and the Sun carefully
guides Pluto to transcend subconscious drives, this may encourage the evolvement to-
ward a more rewarding union. The personal growth that one experiences can never be
measured by time, but only by the repercussions that hold lasting value.

Mercury-Mars—Assertive, Agitated, and Angry Communications

We tend to be mentally invigorated when Mars influences Mercury. There is a desire to
say what is on one’s mind without holding back. This may cause you or your partner to
be rather abrasive in speech, or interrupt you as Mars does not possess a great deal of pa-
tience. Nevertheless, this mental alertness will encourage lively conversation. It's impor-
tant to direct the communicative energy so that a constructive rapport develops between
both parties. One may need to exercise some control over the commanding influence of
Mars, who may want to dominate the conversation.
Harmonious Mercury-Mars aspects will allow the couple to express their ideas and
ve. If
opinions, and act decisively. Intellectual exchanges are stimulating and producti
 60 challenging/malefic combinations In synastry

everything begins in the mind, Mars can activate Mercury to be driven toward excelling
to your highest potential. Otherwise, you can be as offensive as you wish to be.
When a couple is not able to channel the Mercury-Mars influence, different points
of view lead to angry exchanges. Discussions turn nasty and in some cases provoke ver-
bal abuse, especially if adverse Mars/Saturn aspects to Mercury are present. Disagree-
ments in a relationship are fine, but they should not turn into shouting matches where
Mars declares victory, though he or she has actually lost. Yelling at your partner will de-
stroy your relationship. Since Mars likes to conquer, lying may become a part of this
communicative scenario. In some cases, this may be unintentional and allow for more
motivating conversation. Lying, however, will eventually erode the trust factor in the rela-
tionship. When it comes to a relationship, trust is pretty much everything!
Accentuating only your ideas and pursuing plans your way is not the concept behind
a relationship. Its sharing and compromising. You want to be assertive in conversation so
that both of you benefit, not because you want to win. The dialogue needs to unfold as a
win/win situation. You can express your thoughts and accomplish your aims so that your
relationship has an opportunity to meet even greater expectations.

Mercury-Saturn—Serious, Blocked, and Fearful Communications

I have found that many couples have Mercury-Saturn aspects, especially when raising
children is a part of their lifestyle. Saturn can encourage the couple to bypass frivo-
lous conversation and get to the point. An agenda is discussed, and rules or chores
around the house are decided. Plans are laid out for the present and future, and a se-
rious attitude toward one’s objectives is applied. Saturn acting in such a positive man-
ner is usually the result of favorable synastry to the Mercurys of both individuals,
such as Jupiter conjunct Mercury or Uranus trine Mercury. In this case, their minds
are stimulated toward conversation, and the conversation can move in a more serious
direction if necessary.
In any relationship, being practical and working together as a team attracts stability.
This leads to an orderly life where an everyday agenda allows us to accomplish and grad-
ually attain our sought-after aims as a couple.
Saturn does not have a reputation for being well liked. Its depressing, restrictive,
burdensome, and frustrating influence we can do without. We may at times feel that
Saturn has failed us. Usually the reverse is the case. In a relationship, when Saturn is in-
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teracting with Mercury we might feel that if we lose control, our fears will overwhelm
us. Therefore, some of us might attempt to control what our partner says when dis-
cussing matters. But if you are dominating the conversation and blocking what your
partner would like to contribute, the relating is going to become one-sided. Your part-
ner is going to start to feel that they cannot say anything for fear it will upset you, or
just not go along with your plan. If you continue to project your Saturn onto your part-
ner, the fears will grow and fester. Eventually your partner will feel isolated from you as
you persist in calling the shots. Controlling the strategy of the relationship is not work-
ing as a team. This must be overcome if too much Saturnian force is restricting the rap-
port of the relationship.
Time and patience may be required to slowly and thoroughly discuss the issues at
hand. Although Saturn will push you to work harder than what you thought would be
required of you, this meticulous planetary teacher will always find a way to reward you
for a job well done. This is not a material reward, but one of value that will give your re-
lationship the meaningfulness that it deserves.

Mercury-Neptune—
Nebulous, Confused, and Deceptive Communication
I have seen many relationships end that had adverse Mercury-Neptune aspects. The
couple could not communicate and work out the misunderstandings that continued to
plague the relationship from the start. Even if you have great synastry, Mercury-Nep-
tune aspects may erode the rapport between the two of you. This further confirms that
good communication between a couple is of vital concern for a long-term alliance.
Although Neptune emanates a creative and spiritual influence, when in aspect to
one’s planet of communication (Mercury), one’s thoughts become vague and forgetful.
The Mercury person will have a difficult time expressing himself or herself as thoughts
drift and misunderstandings begin to occur. The Neptune person will get frustrated
for
with the Mercury person, feeling that Mercury does not understand him or her,
Mercury is probably not listening in the first place. The intellectual rapport encounters
In time,
confused ideas that misrepresent what is truly going on with the relationship.
someone to
the connection will dissolve, leaving one or both feeling that they deserve
whom they can relate.
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If this is a part of your relationship experience, I would suggest that you write down
what needs to be discussed, and listen carefully to what your partner is saying and re-
spond to it.
Jupiter aspects to Mercury will certainly help the situation, encouraging favorable
verbal exchanges that support the relationship. Occasionally, Saturn aspects to Mercury
can also help you look at the situation from a practical perspective. In most instances,
only an evolved couple can channel these Neptunian energies.
In comparing Neptune and Jupiter to Mercury, Jupiter always encourages financial
gain, whereas Neptune is not economically supportive and tends to dissolve any mone-
tary resources. People are rarely hired under Mercury-Neptune transits.
In synastry, you will find that the Neptune person seems to drain the Mercury per-
son’s funds. This may not be intentional, but it happens. Financial stability is a must if
a relationship is going to prosper. Continually having money dissipate from your ac-
count will either slowly put you into debt or make you feel like you cannot get ahead.
If the Neptune person is not contributing to the couple’s pocketbook, the Mercury per-
son will start to become resentful. If both people can contribute to the monetary growth,
then they should. It’s respecting the future investment that you will be spending together.
Money isn’t everything, but it sure helps. When you accompany your partner down the
path of life, financial stability must be present.

Mercury-Pluto—Deep, Pensive, and Manipulative Communication

When we are immersed in deep thought, we become very involved with our thinking
processes. We are inclined to probe the subconscious mind to gather information that
can assist us in our life choices. Favorable Mercury-Pluto aspects allow a couple to un-
derstand more of the intellectual depth of their relationship. The Mercury person will
be intrigued by the mysterious insights of Pluto, and wish to intensely explore them.
The Pluto person, after having reexamined Mercury's concepts, will encourage pro-
found thinking in the Mercury person. However, Pluto’ influence is so deeply rooted in
the underworld that even with the trine or sextile one might encounter adversity. Being
that it is difficult to channel this powerful influence on any angle, Mercury needs to be
aware of the hidden attributes that could seek to undermine him or her.
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Adverse Mercury-Pluto aspects in synastry will initiate mental power plays that are
exhausting and quite destructive. Through the manipulative tendencies of Pluto, the
Mercury person will be overwhelmed and end up giving into coercive, power-driven
tactics. Pluto may embellish the truth or lie to acquire what he or she wants. Continu-
ous scheming will gradually erode the lines of communication. Once these lines are sev-
ered, very little can be done to save the mental rapport of this union. The Pluto person
is convinced that it is okay to manipulate the conversation to his or her point of view.
Thus, one person ends up making most of the decisions. Mercury feels deprogrammed.
These forceful, secretive ploys indicate an intellectual quest for power. The use of such
tactics with your partner signifies a tremendous imbalance in your relationship. The
word relationship holds the functional importance of the word relating, which is inter-
acting on a positive level with your partner, not manipulating them.
Those who wish to harness the power of Pluto through selfish means risk the
chance of this influence backfiring on them. This in turn will damage the communica-
tive foundation that you want in your relationship. The mind is where everything starts.
Therefore you want to use this transformative influence to engage its highest potential
so that both partners may benefit. Such is the power of Pluto, to destroy and rebuild.
Ridding yourself of an old consciousness and establishing a new, productive one is the
most cohesive way to enhance your relationship.

Mars-Saturn—Restricted Motivations and Desires/Abuse

Mars-Saturn influences are very difficult to handle in any union, especially when in ad-
verse aspect. Mars is our identity planet, and how we assert ourselves or take action es-
tablishes who we are as individuals. To keep Mars functioning at a proper level, we
must feel an inner sense of freedom so that we can move forward in the pursuit of our
goals and exercise an ability to stand on our own. When Saturn aspects Mars, the Mars
person feels restricted in some way by the Saturn person. At first, they may find them-
selves encountering delays with their personal, daily agenda. Then frustrations set in
re-
that cause the Mars person to begin arguing. The Mars person needs space and feels
go along
stricted by the Saturn person. The Saturn person expects the Mars person to
some space,
with their plan. If the Saturn person recognizes that the Mars person needs
If not, as
as opposed to being in control, this can help the relationship tremendously.
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time goes by more frustrations set in and eventually the Mars person needs to regain
their personal freedom. If this is mutual, there can be major differences that are difficult
to resolve, especially if resentment is building.
If one’s identity is suppressed over long periods of time, resentment turns to anger,
and anger can lead to an abusive relationship. Arguing, yelling, and physical violence
may become the pattern of the relationship. You may wonder at times, how did this
happen? If conflicting issues are not being addressed, eventually there is an explosion.
Suppressed energy cannot be contained. When I see any Mars-Saturn aspects in a com-
patibility analysis, I always let the person know what they are in for, and then it’ their
call.
At times you will encounter a couple who continually argue, yet stay together for
years! What usually is going on here is that they feel comfortable in the relationship be-
cause they know the person so well. This is usually a reflection of a Venus-Saturn con-
tact, which implies a past-life connection. They may not like what is going on, but they
feel inclined to stay in the relationship. Even though they may feel emotionally miserable,
at least they know what they are dealing with here—there are no surprises. It’s the same old
situation, but better this than having to go look for someone new!
Our fears are certainly warranted, but staying in a relationship that is depleting the
core of your being will gradually destroy you. Better to part, knowing that you deserve
a loving, supportive relationship.
Since Mars is more widely known for its passionate side, our passion for a person or
personal quest needs an outlet. As Pluto is our planet of involvement, sex, and intimacy,
Mars arouses us toward this purpose. But Mars may need to be supported and guided
to reach this goal properly. Usually a favorable aspect such as Jupiter trine Mars will
motivate Mars in a productive manner so that passion is an enjoyable experience.
When an adverse Mars-Saturn aspect exists between a couple, their timing is off.
Mars wants to exert himself or herself, whereas Saturn wants to slow down, be conser-
vative, or in control. Either force could become extremely upset with the other. Mars
may not feel motivated to reach out to Saturn and express his or her passionate side,
while Saturn may reject or want to put restraints on Mars.
In a romantic or passionate exchange, timing is important. You want to experience
arousal, intimacy, and sex so that both people are satisfied. In synastry, the Saturn per-
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son or the Mars person may block this timing. Mars may need to be more patient with
Saturn, and Saturn may need to be more spontaneous and flow with Mars. Or Saturn
may want to control Mars, and Mars may want to express unprompted passion. If
Jupiter is involved with this Mars-Saturn pairing, you have an opportunity to work out
the differences.
A woman's Saturn in aspect to a man’s Mars will allow the woman to feel in control
of her man’s drive. Yet, she may find that she has to initiate romance. Saturn here is re-
stricting the man from his natural inclination to take the lead, be assertive, and express
his passion. If her Jupiter is in aspect to his Mars as well, then a balance can be created
between the two influences, as Jupiter will help expand upon his drive and motivation.
Difficulty in having children is often associated with adverse aspects from Saturn,
Uranus, Neptune, or Pluto to a woman's Venus, the planet of fertility, which may create
an unstable or disagreeable environment for conception. However, in synastry this lack of
conception is often caused by a women’s Saturn influencing a man’s Mars. This is especially ev-
ident when Mars and Venus are not found to be in aspect. The Saturnian aspect to Mars can
limit a man’s sexual advances and/or performance. It also restricts the sperm from reaching a
fertile environment. The reverse could also be the case where the fertile environment is experi-
encing difficulty in accepting the sperm. To override this restrictive influence, the Venus-Mars
aspect must be strong.
The attraction of Venus and Mars encourages people to stay together, whereas the
interaction of Saturn and Mars does not. Venus and Mars promote intimacy and con-
ception, but Saturn and Mars block one’s desires and can lead to restrictive, controlling,
and abusive relationship situations if not properly channeled. How interesting it is that
conception takes place frequently with couples who have Venus-Mars connections, and
almost never with couples who have adverse Mars-Saturn connections and no Venus-
Mars connections present. I can see children benefiting from their parents staying to-
gether with a Venus-Mars connection. Could there be a higher plan here? The problem
is that oftentimes couples may have both Venus-Mars and Mars-Saturn combinations,
and their relationship has difficulty surviving.
When you fall in love with someone who has Saturn in adverse aspect to your Mars,
aspect
youre in trouble. A similar effect may occur with Saturn conjunct or in adverse
to control or
to your Ascendant, a Mars point. You will find the Saturn person wanting
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monitor you, and knowing that they can. If Saturn is influencing your Ascendant, it is
also in aspect to your Descendant, a Venus point. Saturn-Ascendant and Saturn-Mars
connections represent a karmic obligation that may need to be confronted and resolved.

Mars/Uranus—Excited Passion/Sudden Anger

Adding to the attraction of Venus and Mars is the stimulating force of Uranus. When
this Uranian influence interacts with Mars, our passions are suddenly aroused. Throw-
ing caution to the wind, we are highly motivated to pursue our desires. An immediate,
dynamic attraction will draw a couple together like magnets. In favorable aspect, the
spontaneous Uranus person overwhelms the passionate Mars person with excitement.
The intrigued Mars person acts assertively to capitalize upon the impulsive spirit of the
Uranus person. Mars accentuates the unique Uranian qualities. The strong fascination
that characterizes the relationship augments the magic. The couple will thrive on this
sexual stimuli, looking forward to every intimate experience.
Adverse Mars-Uranus aspects may provoke a turbulent challenge, along with the
sexual excitement. Full of surprises, Uranus will end up clashing with the straightfor-
ward approach of Mars. Freedom-loving Uranus will rebel against the dominating Mars,
who wants to run the show. A sudden display of anger will be the result as neither will
want to give in to the others demands. Minor irritations can turn explosive as tempers
flare. Although this could cause an interesting change in one’s normal routine, the com-
pounded tension could breed resentment and anger. Violent arguments may also inter-
rupt sexual relations. This rage needs to be harnessed before hostile actions destroy the
good of the relationship. It will take two determined souls to channel this erraticism
down a constructive path. Each person needs to be able to express their individualized
self. Therefore, when they are in close company, both will direct this spontaneous in-
fluence to enhance personal intimacy.

Mars-Neptune—
Romantic Mystique or Nebulous, Deceptive Representation
Most relationships are built around some form of romantic intrigue. Our imagination
becomes intertwined with an idealistic interlude of passion and romance. This illusion
is something into which we all enjoy escaping to experience relationships in a different
realm.
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When we meet someone whom we are attracted to, we may come to find that we
have a certain fantasy about them. In other words, they seem to fit our ideal in a man or
a woman with whom we-would like to be intimate. In harmonious aspect, Mars, the
identity planet, will assert himself or herself toward the mysterious desire he or she sees
in another. The Mars person is enraptured by the Neptune person's qualities. Thus in-
trigue sets in. The Neptune person is able to channel the Mars drive in a more under-
standing and compassionate manner not only for themselves, but also for those around
them. Mars is able to guide Neptune to reach his or her ideals.
A couple who possesses this dynamic in a stable relationship can enjoy the fantasy,
but also deal with the reality of daily living and still appreciate one another. Without
stability, the fantasy can take on deceptive forms. Mars can become so caught up in an
amorous illusion that confusion is the result. Mars may become disillusioned with the
vague, confusing behavior of Neptune. The compassionate ways of Neptune may clash
with Mars’ aggressive, direct, and self-centered behavior. Neptune can tease Mars, as a
provocative, romantic illusion that is just that—unattainable. In extreme cases, the aura
of seduction can lead to rape. For those who are emotionally unbalanced, Mars-Nep-
tune aspects can lure one, whether it be victim or perpetrator, into such a destructive,
savage act. Since the aggressive abuse of power is more evident in the male species,
women need to develop a stronger awareness of their male counterparts. Men need to
be more responsible in controlling their desires even when they are shrouded in sexual
deception.
We always want to be careful of projecting our romantic fantasies onto another, oth-
erwise we may be disappointed if they don’t measure up to our expectations. Whether
you are under the influence of Neptune in aspect to your Mars, or if a Mars-Neptune
pairing exists in your natal chart, you must keep your desires in check. For your ideal
may not be a true reflection of what you originally thought.
A problem relationship exists when the Neptune person feels they always have to
acquiesce to the drive of the Mars person for fear of strife and mistreatment. Neptune,
on the other hand, may flirt with Mars with no intention of involvement. Balancing
their different ways of approaching goals is what is required. The Mars person needs to
ap-
develop an understanding, compassionate attitude. The Neptune person needs to
needs, and
preciate a commanding, straightforward performance. We all have personal
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each person’s needs want equal time. Pursuing the spiritual and emotional needs of the
relationship in a direct manner will bring positive results.

Saturn-Uranus—Traditional Goals Define or Restrict One’s Freedom

Our personal freedom is described by Uranus. As individuals, we are able to capitalize
on our unique selves, freely expressing our ideas. There is no greater freedom than to
be who we are. Uranus persuades us to be progressive. Its futuristic concepts will per-
meate our consciousness until we decide to individualize, to strike out in our own per-
sonalized direction. 3
When Uranus is feeling erratic and out of control, Saturn’s maturity may be called
upon to offer stability and guidance. In harmonious aspect, the Saturn person will help
the Uranus person understand that being responsible will bring them the freedom they
desire. Saturn’s conservative ways will give Uranus a foundation on which to build their
future. Clearly stated in the lessons of history, independence is earned. Uranus will in-
still in Saturn a progressive attitude.
Adverse Saturn-Uranus aspects indicate a clash between the old and the new. The
youthful spirit of the Uranus person may be severely quelled by the Saturn person.
Uranus may totally upset Saturn’s traditional outlook by unexpectedly lashing out at
Saturn’s conventional behavior. Saturn wishes to tone down Uranus’ erraticism so
Uranus will be accepted into mainstream society. Uranus will feel inclined to break free
of tradition, and Saturn may be lost in the historical dust. Saturn may look upon
Uranus’ eccentric behavior with disapproval and not understand why Uranus wants to
be so unconventional. Uranus, feeling out of step with Saturn's restraint and customary
ways, will distance himself or herself from outdated priorities. A lack of sensitivity may
push the couple further and further away from each other, unless other compatible as-
pects support an affectionate exchange. Such differences can also prevent a couple from
getting together in the first place.
Although Saturn and Uranus clash, they still need each other to accomplish their
goals. In establishing a means to an end, Saturn needs Uranian insight to keep tradition
moving with the times. Uranus needs Saturnian pragmatism to realize its futuristic in-
spirations. This bridge between Saturn and Uranus can be described by the asteroid
Chiron, wanting to take the past into the future. From a psychological point of view, the
old structures of Saturn can be released through the self-discovery of Uranus, allowing
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us to come more fully into our own. If the views of both Uranus and Saturn can be re-
spected as well as integrated, a couple will not feel so torn between traditional and pro-
gressive values. In any relationship, a couple needs to agree on the values of the past
and the present.

Saturn-Neptune—Structured or Blocked Ideals,

Realism versus Idealism
Neptune’s influence has always enhanced our life by allowing us to dream of what
could be attained. Dreams are important because they impress upon us a hopeful atti-
tude about our future. We have all witnessed people who have lived an impoverished
life pursuing their dream and, in a moment of grandeur, have accomplished this hard-
earned goal. Dreams instill hope. Hope gives credence to the spirit of life.
When Neptune is in harmonious aspect to Saturn, our dreams become realistic, and
therefore have more of an opportunity to be attained. In most cases, the Saturn person
can offer a successful strategy for Neptune's vision. The Neptune person, attempting to
grasp an illusive pursuit, will appreciate Saturn’s disciplined and focused approach.
Neptune will loosen up Saturn’s strict behavior so that Saturn will be more open to
compassionate and creative ways of living.
Since Saturn’s influence is not one of wishful thinking, Saturn could project a harsh
attitude toward anyone pursuing a dream. Especially when in adverse aspect, Saturn
will dull and in some instances completely restrict a person from their vision. Disillu-
sionment sets in, and the Neptune person feels blocked from achieving their ambitious
goals. Creative and spiritual aims are subdued as well. Saturn may feel frustrated by
Neptune’s lack of responsibility. Neptune may feel disappointed by Saturn’s cold, mate-
rialistic stand. Saturn may question Neptune’ sense of integrity as promises are not al-
ways delivered.
Neptune is known for its idealism. The planet of love, Venus, is exalted in Pisces,
Neptune’s ruling sign. Thus Neptune encourages us toward romanticism. To be a ro-
mantic, one has to dream. In parting from reality, one can experience the mystique of
the
romance. Life and love become more colorful. As a couple, romantic ideals add to
relationship. An amorous rendezvous, a picnic in the park, or a candlelight dinner is
it will
time out for the two of you to enjoy your relationship. When Saturn is present,
cast a dark shadow over this loving, Neptunian ideal.
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Adverse Saturn aspects will take the joy and the romance right out of the relation-
ship. Too much reality creates a disillusioned state of mind that does not support the
couple. This lack of inspiration will gradually dissolve the romantic rapport unless sup-
portive influences exist. Without dreams, the human spirit would wither away.

Saturn-Pluto—Restricted Personal Growth/Intense Responsibilities

Pluto is our planet of transformation that represents the continuum of life—endings,
yet new beginnings. This planetary influence also rules our personal growth. In life, we
thrive when our growth is enhanced. Experiencing new stages of evolvement in this in-
carnation, we seek out events that change our life and bring more meaning to it.
In synastry, Saturn imparts its realization of, or limitation to, one or more of our
needs. Favorable aspects depicted by Saturn will promote the use of solid, conservative
planning. In this case, the Saturn person will constructively guide the determined Pluto
person, insisting on a practical approach to personal goals. Saturn demands discipline
and order from Pluto’ involvements. Pluto appreciates Saturn’s ambition and focus.
Any Jupiter aspects would support Saturn’s responsible behavior and expand upon
Pluto’s growth incentive.
In adverse aspect, Saturn's restrictive energies will tend to delay and even block
Pluto from the personal growth it innately desires. In this day and age, we do not want
to be in the company of someone who is preventing us from experiencing our personal
transformation. The Saturn person will repress what needs to surface and be trans-
formed through Pluto. The Pluto person will bring up fears and insecurities, thus cur-
tailing Saturn’s accomplishments. Total restraint, lack of evolvement, suspicion, and
envy are worst-case scenarios. Saturn might feel responsible in directing and controlling
Pluto. Yet Pluto, with its volcano personification, cannot be controlled and restricted for
long.
The couple needs to adopt a responsible attitude that contributes to each other's in-
dividual growth. Otherwise, karmic patterns where there was an abuse of power in a
past life may need to be resolved. One needs to embrace the process of life, transforma-
tion, so the relationship can evolve to a new level.
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Benefic
combinations

When in positive aspect, Jupiter-Uranus, Jupiter-Neptune, and Jupiter-Pluto influences

can offer underlying support to any relationship.

Jupiter-Uranus—Enthusiastic Ventures, Joyful Independence

Favorable Jupiter-Uranus aspects bring enthusiasm where you are inspired by your
partner to pursue aims that promote your uniqueness. As you discover yourself, your
aura will shine. Not only do you receive encouragement from your partner, but Uranus
will continue to be the recipient of Jupiter’s goodwill, which includes supplying the
capital to finance Uranus’ inventive ideas. Jupiter will understand Uranus’ unconven-
tional approach, such as practicing metaphysical studies. Uranus’ intuitive skills will
offer guidance for Jupiter, furthering expansive plans. Even under adverse angles, ex-
citement through inspired yet reckless spending, risky investments, or rebellious be-
havior is not uncommon.

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Jupiter-Neptune—Expansive Ideals, Spiritual or Overrated Quests

When harmonious Jupiter-Neptune aspects are in effect, an intuitive understanding en-
hances religious beliefs, spiritual aspirations, and philosophical views. Neptune's com-
passionate nature will persuade Jupiter’s philanthropic manner toward more charitable
causes. A sympathetic, mutual appreciation creates a spiritual bond that holds great
value.
Under inharmonious aspects, Jupiter's misplaced trust in Neptune’s counsel leads to
disappointments. Defraudation may take a toll on Jupiter’s bank account. Exaggerated
ideals promote visions of grandeur that never materialize. Jupiter can maintain stability
by curbing overly ambitious expectations. Neptune, instead of taking advantage of
Jupiter’s generosity, needs to show appreciation.

Jupiter-Pluto—Expansive Growth and Empowerment

Jupiter, in favorable aspect, wishes to expand upon Pluto’s growth, which over time will
build great inner strength. Here, one is encouraged to explore one’s more meaningful
side to gradually become empowered by the affirmative insights. Pluto intensifies
Jupiter’s philosophical views and aims for a fruitful experience, which can only happen
when one is involved. A keen focus on financial issues augments funds. This auspicious
Jupiter-Pluto contact only contributes to an already enriching rapport between a cou-
ple. When challenging influences exist, Pluto’s narrow-mindedness will limit Jupiter's
expansive actions and refuse to accept Jupiter's philosophy and beliefs, and Jupiter will
be annoyed by Pluto’ cynical outlook. Compromise from both persons is needed to
create unity.
 ¥v planets are
the experience

The planet is the experience, the horoscope sign describes the experience, and the
house is where the experience happens. In the Love Relationship Formula, we are deal-
ing specifically with the planets—the experience. The signs, however, do give us some
added information that may further describe the experience. But this description does
not replace the influences that emanate from synastry. The houses indicate where this
experience is taking place. We are concerned with understanding the experience of the
couple, as one planet aspects another from chart to chart.

The Planets
Since the planets are the experience, their dynamics are of the utmost importance when
interacting with other planets, especially in the compatibility of a relationship.

Sun
The Sun symbolizes your will, vitality, strength, purpose, and your goals. It indicates
where you become aware of your purpose in the world and are encouraged toward

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great achievement. Honoring integrity, you recognize your importance and are able to
express your fullest potential. In developing your skills and talents, true dignity is at-
tained. In a man’s chart the Sun represents his disposition toward manhood, and in a
woman’ chart the Sun represents her idea of the male role model. Having purpose and
being proud of who you are allows you to find your place in the world and must be
mutually respected in a relationship. Your will is your greatest asset.

Moon
The Moon symbolizes emotions, feelings, instincts, habits, the mother, and all female
associations. Various emotional responses emanating from the Moon explain your mood
swings. Your inner being will display behavioral patterns that describe conditions from
early childhood and your relationship with your mother. Feeling out circumstances,
you learn to adapt to new conditions and find emotional stability. In a man’s chart the
Moon represents his idea of the female role model. In a woman’s chart the Moon repre-
sents her emotional femininity and her womanly ideal, which reflects upon the mother.
Emotions play an important role in relationships where you learn to be sensitive to an-
other's feelings because you have come to an understanding of your own.

Mercury
Mercury symbolizes communication, the intellect, learning, and analysis. Through the
process of gathering information, you learn to analyze your ideas and develop a com-
municative rapport with others. Reasoning skills allow you to accumulate data that will
augment your versatility. Mercury allows you to connect with your partner so that you
can develop better relations. Strong one-on-one links are established that promote a
lasting union.

Venus
Venus symbolizes love, attraction, self-esteem, values, and femininity. It is through the
power of love that you learn to establish meaningful values, especially in learning to love
and appreciate yourself as well as those around you. The magnetic appeal that Venus dis-
plays allows you to attract opportunity. Developing love and appreciation increases your
prospects for success. Love is not only receiving but also giving. You are apt to seek har-
mony and beautify your surroundings. Venus by sign describes your self-esteem and, for
a woman, her femininity. The house placement of Venus describes where you will show
appreciation and what you will attract to yourself. In a woman’ chart Venus indicates her
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womanhood, how she feels and relates to herself. In a man’s chart Venus represents the
woman whom he finds himself attracted to on a physical level and the feminine ideal he
wishes to bring into his life: This planet represents our affectionate and sensual nature. In
a relationship, wherever Venus is, there is comfort and love.

Mars
Mars symbolizes desire, energy, passion, independence, aggression, and masculinity.
Here, energy can be used constructively or destructively. When it is properly channeled,
you are driven to establish your identity by seeking out your independence and per-
sonal goals. How you approach your objectives will indicate how well they are satisfied.
Your desire nature will invoke intense passions that can be directed toward a love inter-
est or an important ambition. In a man’s chart Mars represents how a man feels about
himself and expresses his masculinity. In a woman's chart Mars represents the man she
finds appealing, her masculine ideal. Mars brings out the passionate, sexual desire in a
relationship.

Jupiter
Jupiter symbolizes expansion, opportunity, abundance, optimism, and wealth. It indi-
cates where you look for opportunity to attract the good fortune that life has to offer.
Always broadening your consciousness, you will look to expand mentally, socially, spir-
itually, physically, and emotionally. Jupiter instills an optimistic and confident persona
that invites benefits. It prefers that you express your generosity to others, even as you
are acquiring abundance. As long as you don’t overextend yourself, augmenting your
experiences will lead to fulfillment. This influence is highly supportive of a relationship,
as it tends to bring out the best in a couple.

Saturn
Saturn symbolizes limitation, reality, discipline, maturity, and authority. Here you must
confront reality and recognize your limitations. You will learn how to consolidate your
goals by structuring your life appropriately. Applying discipline and hard work in some
capacity will be required, but you will develop integrity and gain respect from others.
solid re-
Saturn’s calculating manner may seem cold, but its intentions are to acquire
accomplished
sults. Since it rules over the aging process, one becomes more settled and
rewards. What
as one matures. As you cultivate a grown-up attitude, you will reap your
way that you will
you will come to realize is that it is only through earning your own
relationship.
truly appreciate your life. Saturn may help generate stability in a
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Uranus
Uranus symbolizes sudden change, the unpredictable, uniqueness, the unconventional,
and one’s individuality. There is much encouragement to be your true self, capitalizing
upon your individuality. Due to Uranus’ erratic tendencies, circumstances will be un-
predictable and prone to sudden changes. There will be a breaking away of any limiting
conditions that are hampering your progress so that you may proceed into the future
and manifest your fullest potential. There is a desire to be free and escape the status
quo. Imaginative and inspirational insights wiil enhance your existence as you continue
on the path of self-discovery. Developing your individuality may lead you to engage in
unconventional activities, yet awaken you to the truth that lies within. Uranus can be
exciting and disruptive in a relationship.

Neptune
Neptune symbolizes illusion, idealism, creativity, compassion, spirituality, nebulous-
ness, deception, and dissolution. You may pursue your greatest hopes and dreams,
which inspire the imagination. Yet, because of the vague projection of Neptune, your
belief is tested to see if you have sufficient faith in order for the goal to be realized. Cre-
ative aims and spiritual quests are highlighted. However, deception is lurking, and if
you succumb to unscrupulous behavior, you will meet with disappointment. You will
learn to cultivate perceptiveness to take advantage of the idealistic means of Neptune
and to avoid the undermining world of illusion. The unreliability of this influence could
erode the foundation of your relationship. You could also reach new spiritual heights
that secure a compassionate bond forever. Embracing a sympathetic understanding of
humanity will help you develop a caring nature.

Pluto
Pluto symbolizes intense involvement, transformation, regeneration, partnership, joint
finances, sex, obsession, manipulation, and elimination. The process of transformation
involves dramatic change that allows for a new phase to begin. It is the experience of
death and rebirth that allows you to be reborn into new circumstances. Through Pluto
you encounter the heights and depths that bring greater meaning to your existence. You
are challenged to delve into the subconscious mind and regenerate undesirable condi-
tions. Attitudes and expectations will change as society reflects itself wpon you. Part-
nerships and sex are explored where one may become seriously committed. Because of
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Pluto’s intensity, when you become involved, there is a chance of developing obsessive
attachments. In a relationship you will attract experiences that compel you to alter your
behavior. Reexamining each other's psychology, you become aware of a deeper force
working within that promotes your personal growth. When cooperation is present, you
experience meaningful, intimate encounters that enhance your relationship. A lack of
cooperation leads to dominating or manipulative behavior. Pluto seeks either alienation
or unity.
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¥ senefics in aspect

Compatibility is always supported by the benefics, Venus and Jupiter, which attract op-
portunity and benefits our way. When two similar benefics, such as Venus-Venus or
Jupiter-Jupiter, are in aspect, it helps create a sense of buoyancy in the relationship that
may alleviate certain difficulties. Unlike Saturn-Saturn aspects, which generate pressure,
Venus and Jupiter in similar aspect encourage the relationship to continue.
Venus and Jupiter in aspect to each other are a wonderful pair that will complement
each other to the fullest. This combination was mentioned earlier as a significant part of
the Love Relationship Formula. When Venus-Jupiter aspects are mutual, great happi-
ness literally emanates from the couple. Others are pleased to be in their company. In
health astrology, Venus and Jupiter in combination are known as the sweet-tooth plan-
ets. There is a definite sweetness here that adds to the rapport.
A Venus-Venus aspect under positive influences creates more warmth, feeling, and
comfort between the couple, where they experience a relaxed atmosphere. Sociability is
enhanced as both tend to be congenial. The couple will demonstrate a loving consider-
ation toward each other as a fond companionship is encouraged.

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When discordant Venus-Venus aspects exist, they may detract from the shared affec-
tion, yet they still support the relationship connection as two benefics are in aspect. A
lack of appreciation, an uncooperative attitude, or possessiveness could put the couple
at odds with each other. Mutual consideration needs to be restored by showing more
sensitivity to one’s partner.
A couple with a harmonious Jupiter-Jupiter aspect experiences optimism, abundance,
and support within the relationship. Jupiter is always an uplifting influence that encour-
ages the couple to enjoy each other’ company. Since they are able to agree on philo-
sophical, religious, and moral issues, the intellectual exchange reinforces the union. Both
benefit by bringing out the best in each other.
When discordant Jupiter-Jupiter aspects exist, differences over religious pursuits,
philosophical outlooks, or moral standards may cause disagreements, yet there is al-
ways an opportunity to work it out with the benefics in aspect. Reckless extravagance
may be encouraged for the wrong reasons. Expansive behavior needs to be contained to
balance this outgoing dynamic.
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sf Same planets
In Aspect

When the same planets are in aspect in a compatibility analysis, the impact of the influ-
ence is emphasized. If the planets are afflicted at birth, the two similar planets will be
affected by the adversity. If the planets in question are in favorable aspect at birth, this
will enhance the two similar planets involved.
A Sun-Sun aspect emphasizes the influences described by the Sun signs. Two Librans
are more likely to find compatibility than two Aries. There can be a like-mindedness dis-
played if the Suns are in the same sign. If this energy can be channeled for the good of the
relationship, the union can be successful. The ambitions and purpose of both will be sim-
ilar, thus enabling the couple to understand one another better due to common interests.
Adverse angles to both person’s Suns indicate a clash of wills that makes it difficult
to compromise. Each Sun sign has its own agenda, yet both have skills and talents to
contribute to the success of the relationship. If the couple can allow for and appreciate
their differences, that could offer new options for growth in the relationship. Then con-
flicting views have an opportunity to be expressed and directed toward the continuance
of the union.
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A Moon-Moon aspect causes the feelings to be more pronounced between the two
individuals. The instinctive habits are in sync, which allows for an innate understand-
ing of each other. You will feel comfortable in each other's company. The emotional sen-
sitivity is supportive of a lasting relationship. Mutual feelings ease and complement the
domestic scene. You will respond in a similar manner to everyday situations, which in-
creases the compatibility between you.
When adverse aspects are present, one person’s moods may not agree with the
other’, which will instigate a stressful environment. A lack of appreciation toward each
other’s responses will create distance between the couple. Differing habitual patterns
may cause discord. Both need to be sensitive to one another in expressing emotional
needs or opinions.
A Mercury-Mercury aspect enhances communication, especially when in favorable
aspect. Intellectually, there will be a harmonious rapport, where common interests are
shared. Both will inspire communication and appreciate what each other has to say.
Under adverse aspects there is an intellectual challenge, as their interests may be dis-
similar. It may be a struggle to work out issues, especially if one’s Mercury is in a fixed
sign—Taurus, Leo, Scorpio, or Aquarius. Being too critical will not achieve the desired
result. Learn to be flexible with your partner.
A Venus-Venus aspect under positive influences creates more warmth, feeling, and
comfort between the couple, where they experience a relaxed atmosphere. Sociability is
enhanced because both of you tend to be congenial. You will demonstrate a loving con-
sideration toward each other as a fond companionship is encouraged.
When discordant Venus-Venus aspects exist, they may detract from the shared affec-
tion, yet they still support the relationship connection. A lack of appreciation, an unco-
operative attitude, or possessiveness could put the couple at odds with each other. Mu-
tual consideration needs to be restored by showing more sensitivity to one’s partner.
A Mars-Mars aspect is very stimulating and can rev up the passions between a cou-
ple, even with challenging angles, as long as the Love Relationship Formula, especially
Sun-Venus and Moon-Venus, is present. Together, the couple can utilize the energies to
accomplish any job. How well they collaborate is dependent on other planetary con-
nections to either Mars. The directness of Mars is highly effective. Under this energetic
influence, you can become quite irritated when restrained. Physical outlets, whether
they are aimed toward completing chores, working out, or engaging in passionate sex,
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help channel this active force. A joint effort to become involved in sports
or physical fit-
ness will engender a mutual bond.
Under adverse Mars-Mars aspects, the couple may not be in agreement
on which
way to assert themselves. Both will resist the demands of the other, defendi
ng their
viewpoint until they win. However, in order for them to achieve success with
any ob-
jective, one of them will need to compromise.
A couple with a harmonious Jupiter-Jupiter aspect experiences optimism, abundance,
and support within the relationship. Jupiter is always an uplifting influence that encour-
ages the couple to enjoy each other's company. Since they are able to agree on philo-
sophical, religious, and moral issues, the intellectual exchange reinforces the union. Both
benefit by bringing out the best in each other.
When in adverse aspect, differences over religious pursuits, philosophical outlooks,
or moral standards may cause disagreements. Overzealous or reckless extravagance may
be encouraged for the wrong reasons, thus causing unnecessary excessiveness. Expan-
sive behavior needs to be contained to balance this outgoing dynamic.
A Saturn-Saturn aspect is known to create some adversity, especially when in chal-
lenging aspect, as this influence will put extra pressure on you. You both need to con-
form to the idea of discipline and hard work. There are many lessons to be learned. You
find that sharing the responsibilities is difficult, particularly when one feels inferior to
the other’s success. Both may seek control and may limit the other’s ambitions as well.
A division of the responsibilities will allow you to implement your own strategy toward
achieving any goal.
Saturn will test you, individually and together, thus highlighting weaknesses that
undermine the strengths of the relationship. Passing this test will build a stronger bond
between you. It may be your karmic duty to see it through to a conclusion. Shared re-
sponsibilities flow more naturally with the easier aspects, where each of you can rely on
the other for support. Although Saturn-Saturn aspects provide a stabilizing link in a
long-term commitment, as each can appreciate a responsible attitude in the other, both
may need to pursue separate ambitions, especially under adverse aspect. As you learn
from the experiences of each other, you can outline successful plans for monetary secu-
rity and retirement. The couple’s endurance will create a lasting foundation.
A Uranus-Uranus conjunction aspect is the most likely aspect, as other aspects re-
quire an age difference of approximately fourteen or twenty-one years. The conjunction,
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especially with positive aspects, will encourage the implementation of new ideas. You
inspire each other to live a progressive lifestyle and feel the need to express your indi-
viduality, along with your freedom. If the desire for space is not respected, conflicts will
arise. The fourteen-year gap qualified by the sextile and the twenty-eight-year gap that
reflects the trine aspect will cause the younger person to be motivated by the older, ex-
perienced one. Creative, original aims will be encouraged. If both can appreciate the
stimulating behavior of the other, much can be gained. As a new perspective is embraced
and new ambitions are launched, an enthusiastic attitude will uphold this union.
Under adverse Uranus-Uranus aspects, erratic behavior will cause much dissension.
You will disapprove of each other's actions. This clash will cause one person, usually the
younger person, to rebel and pursue their freedom without a second thought. Trying to
discipline this type of behavior may be unsuccessful. Yet you, the partner, must try, re-
membering that in order to experience life, some freedom is needed.
A Neptune-Neptune aspect is generational. Depending on other factors in the Love
Relationship Formula, a couple is either prone to forming a spiritual connection that of-
fers mutual compassion, or to a confused interaction that leads to disillusionment. Fa-
vorable influences to a Neptune-Neptune conjunction or sextile will instigate a sympa-
thetic understanding along with support for each other's dream goal.
Adverse Neptune-Neptune influences lead you down an illusive path where you are
easily deceived. The partnership lacks sensitivity, and stimulates illusive desires for what
you cannot have. You need greater emotional awareness in order to develop a more
compassionate nature.
A Pluto-Pluto aspect can only occur as a conjunction in a particular generation
being that it takes anywhere from eleven to twenty-five years to move through one zo-
diac sign due to its irregular orbit. This being the case, you may experience the con-
junction and sextile, and possibly the square, in one lifetime. The conjunction, which is
more likely in a relationship situation, will enhance deeper feelings of attractiveness or
the exact opposite, repulsion. The natal aspects affecting the Pluto-Pluto conjunction
will indicate a favorable or unfavorable result. Nevertheless, the couple may feel a close
affinity, with the opportunity to delve into subliminal issues.
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4 sun sign
compatibility
—signs Describe
the experience

Since it is the zodiac sign that describes the experience of the planet, we have more in-
formation on which to base our explanation of a certain person, place, or thing. In vi-
sualizing a more detailed picture, the signs further clarify the experience. Signs may
support or detract from the Love Relationship Formula.
Suns sign compatibility indicates what type of a relationship one Sun sign will have
with another. Although the Love Relationship Formula goes beyond Sun sign astrology,
we must take it into consideration as an introductory link to attaining further astrolog-
ical knowledge in understanding compatibility.
The Sun signs are categorized into two different groups called triplicities and quadru-
plicities. Both groups reveal the finer points of each astrological Sun sign.

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Triplicities
Triplicities are derived from the elements fire, earth, air, and water. There are three signs
in each element. When we speak of Sun sign compatibility, we are describing an interac-
tion that takes place as the Sun sign of one person connects with another’ Sun sign
within the same element, such as a Sun sign in Leo experiencing a favorable connection
to a Sun sign in Sagittarius. This same compatibility among all of the other planets is
what supports the Love Relationship Formula, although it is not dependent on it.

The Fire Sign Triplicity—Aries, Leo, and Sagittarius

Aries
Aries likes a challenge when it comes to establishing a relationship. Their dynamic en-
ergy allows them to be aggressive in pursuing their heart’ desire. Aries is driven to win
you over with their enthusiastic and flamboyant style. Their fiery character and roman-
tic appeal know no bounds. Possessing an outgoing nature and zest for living, they like
to take the lead. A competitive streak propels them to strive to be the best. Their pio-
neering spirit encourages them to be risk-takers and seek independence. Aries will ex-
pect you to be self-reliant as well. As a partner you must be their equal, yet display ex-
citement and assertiveness to have them maintain complete loyalty to you. Although
Aries is emotionally and physically passionate, they need to learn patience. Their de-
manding and headstrong manner can put them at odds with their partner. A fluctuating
temperament may also cause them to be pushy, unyielding, and easily angered. Never-
theless, Aries see themselves as strong and need to be physically and mentally chal-
lenged. Confrontation, to them, has its seductive appeal. They may have difficulty, how-
ever, in sympathizing with their partner’s needs. To balance a relationship Aries must
forego concentrating only on the self to establish a mutually satisfying rapport with
their mate. Fortunately, their passionate wiles will never exclude them from having the
love they desire.

Leo
Leos refuse to be inferior to anyone and want the best for themselves and their loved
ones. Their prideful manner dramatizes their skills and talents so that they may acquire
an even stronger position of importance. Leos are appropriately named the lovers of the
zodiac. They wish to enjoy all of the sensuous pleasures that romance has to offer. Their
idea is to have fun exploring the many facets of leisure life. The charisma and flair that
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sun sign compatibility—signs pescribe the experience 87

a Leo projects attracts many romantic prospects. In a relationship they

need respect and
fond attention, and can be demanding when it comes to love. Leo has a way of intensi-
fying the capacity to feel love. A high vitality gives them a strong sexual drive. Others
find their commanding, fiery, and genuine love nature very attractive. Leos exude a
regal persona that radiates self-assurance, and they love being the center of attention,
but they will be especially grateful for your admiration. Leos are responsible, know how
to manage their lives, and are an inspiration to all. They like giving orders and are con-
vinced that, regardless of the circumstances, they will win. They will thoroughly appre-
ciate flattery and may desire a glamorous romance that does not exist. Although they
can be egotistical, showy, and stubborn, Leos will wine and dine you with their seduc-
tive charm until they win your heart. Leos at first may see love as a game, but their true
challenge is to love with an open heart.

Sagittarius
Sagittarians are optimistic, purposeful, versatile, and adventuresome. Their fiery and
freedom-loving energy compels them to explore new horizons intellectually, socially,
physically, emotionally, spiritually, and psychologically. They are on a quest to gather as
much knowledge as possible to broaden their experience. They are willing to travel the
world with you, enjoying every romantic place. Sagittarians have an intuitive flair for at-
tracting favorable situations their way. You will be drawn to them by their flirtatious
manner and jovial spirit. In a relationship they expect you to be independent, but will
appreciate an affectionate and caring nature. Besides being a great lover, Sagittarius will
insist on being your friend. As much as they desire to be with you, the centaur needs its
space. Their restless spirit wishes to be expansive as it searches for the ideal. Sagittari-
ans enjoy any activity, especially when it is outdoors. They love a party, which affords
them the social avenue they seek to have fun and interact on a communicative level.
There is a tendency to become reckless and overindulge themselves in food, drink, or
whatever inspires them at the time. They need to avoid biting off more than they can
chew. Pompous behavior and blunt comments may be quite embarrassing when all is
said and done. Sensuous and sexy, Sagittarians are not afraid to flaunt their natural style.
They exude confidence and class in managing an office or running a marathon. An hon-
est nature bypasses the games people play in relationships, for they are only interested in
seeking the truth. They will want to understand your problems as well as cultural differ-
ences that relate to humanity on a larger scale. You can depend on Sagittarians, as they
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are loyal and trustworthy. Sexually, they want a powerful bond that will sweep them off
their feet in love. They may be gullible, but they have a generous manner that is the envy
of many. Their buoyant personality makes them resilient even in the worst of circum-
stances. You will thoroughly enjoy their company whether they are needing intellectual
or philosophical stimuli, or frolicking in the streets at night. If they are not mentally
challenged, they can become physically or psychologically ill. At times Sagittarians may
be exhibitionists with glamour and glitter, but it will never take away from their down-
to-earth persona. Maintaining an independent identity in a partnership may be difficult
for them, yet it is necessary in order for them to feel right with themselves. Gambling
on Sagittarians in love may seem risky, but their charming, provocative, witty panache
is highly appealing. Best of all, they are sure to prove their love for you, knowing that
your intimate adventure together is a timeless embrace few souls experience.

The Earth Sign Triplicity—Taurus, Virgo, and Capricorn

Taurus
Taureans prefer stability and loyalty when it comes to relationships. They are keen on
commitment and desire a permanent relationship, [Link] same allegiance from
their partner. Taureans seek a partnership that is financially and sexually fulfilling, but
they need to avoid making their partner feel entrapped with their possessiveness and
rigid ways. A self-righteous and stubborn attitude will limit their progress as well. Al-
though Taureans wish to capitalize upon material resources to maintain their security,
they want to enjoy leisure life to the fullest. Their selfish desires may draw them into
experiencing a love of comfort and luxury. Expecting the very best when it comes to
love, Taurus promises sensual delights. Their sensuality is not to be questioned as they
seduce with their physical prowess and sexy voice. Taureans are never hurried, but
learn slowly and deliberately with the intention of reaping rewards. A solid, practical,
and conservative manner allows them to be extremely efficient on the job, producing
hard-earned results for their efforts. Underneath their calm exterior, they must practice
patience, as once driven to anger it will undermine their self-respect. Venus, which
rules Taurus, represents the extremes of love and money. Taureans may be caught in the
dichotomy of wanting a more peaceful and spiritual existence yet still desiring material
gain. They need to transcend materialism and possessiveness to appreciate the true
meaning of love and peace. Nurturing and affectionate, they have the capacity to care
deeply for others.
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Virgo
Virgos may be analytical and cautious, and possess a workaholic nature, but they are
also intrigued with the sensuous delights that intimacy holds. A curious appetite will
cause Virgo to want to explore all of the avenues of sexuality. The accumulation of such
wisdom will only enhance their lovemaking prowess. Shy in public, you will not find
such modesty in privacy with your Virgo mate. Although they are practical and trust-
worthy, they may find fault with your romantic approach and feel they have to retrain
you to meet their expectations. They only desire the ultimate experience in love for the
both of you. Their subtle seductions will lure you right into a relationship. You need to
reassure your Virgo mate with your compliments and sensitive yet responsible love-
making. Your performance together will be rated until it tips the scales of satisfaction.
You may have to tolerate a judgmental attitude along with compulsive behavior. Their
disciplined and reserved disposition may sometimes cause them to be emotionally re-
pressed. Virgos are hardworking and adaptable, yet are disappointed when perfection
is not attained. The dutiful manner of Virgo makes them more a giver than a receiver.
Virgos want to serve and will make sacrifices to support their lifetime mate. Wanting
to win your love, they have a tendency to be hard on themselves. You will find their
well-groomed appearance very attractive. They can be messy at times just to balance
out their need for orderliness. Reliable and responsible, Virgos prefer to understand all
of the details. They will use their resources and mental abilities to advance in life. Vir-
gos need an exclusive relationship where they can totally depend on their partner for
love and emotional support. Once they warm up to you, you are destined for a lifelong
relationship.

Capricorn
Capricorns are known for climbing the highest mountain to achieve the loftiest of goals.
Their success rate outshines all of the other signs, and they will aim toward winning in
their relationships too. Their approach to love may seem somewhat traditional, with
courting and flowers, but old-fashioned manners are quite romantic and lead to lasting
love. Since Capricorns need to feel that they belong, they will seek out a solid, reliable
commitment. They are really looking for your love and approval. In a relationship, they
prefer a loving, stable partner who works as hard as they do and is a powerful, ambi-
them to
tious social climber. Their shy, sexy persona can be very attractive. You will find
will land
be a loyal lover, aimed to please. Their persistent, regal, status-seeking manner
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them in a comfortable, and possibly luxurious, position. Hard-working beyond com-

pare, they are keen on accomplishing something every day, which provides much sta-
bility in a union. A responsible friend and lover, they are dedicated to taking good care
of you. Capricorns like to play as hard as they work, so youwill find them out having
fun and will truly enjoy their company. Highly sexed but timid, you may have to warm
up your Capricorn partner with steady affection. They may be critical of your style, but
they hope that you will be conscientious enough to improve your approach. Yearning
for prestige, Capricorns are known to be materialistic. They will always be concerned
about their own security first, since providing for themselves will support a relationship
in the future. Capricorns are proper, realistic, organized, and accomplished. They are so
engrossed in what they are doing that they seem unapproachable. A matter-of-fact pub-
lic image may seem cold and uninviting on a personal level, yet greatly appreciated
when it comes to business. In all respects they tend to be cautious and only take calcu-
lated risks. Although Capricorns are pragmatic, they still have a good sense of humor.
Respect for traditional values and ancient understandings will be applied to the every-
day world. Wise, efficient, and loyal, once they know your love is sincere they will let
go of their fears. Their persistence along with lasting sex appeal will attract a romantic
commitment that is worth their time and investment. If they can overlook their part-
ners shortcomings, they are destined to enjoy a warm, intimate union.

The Air Sign Triplicity—Gemini, Libra, and Aquarius.

Gemini
Geminis want to experience the versatility of life. They can rely on their cleverness to
attract exciting exchanges with others. Their refreshing, charming personality is quite
appealing. In a long-term relationship, they need mental stimuli to keep their interest.
A boring partner will never do. Geminis have the ability to intellectually intrigue those
around them. They are restless by nature. A moody, changeable disposition makes it
difficult for them to stay in one place for too long. There may be the tendency to be un-
predictable, avoid responsibilities, and wander in a scattered state of mind. Constant
mental activity and involvements with everyone under the sun can wear them down.
Such a rapidly moving mind causes a high-strung nature that needs to be directed. Ac-
quiring more depth will help guide them. They will use their cerebral assets to land a
partner. To a Gemini, sex definitely starts in the mind. Their mind as well as their love
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life can be complex. They need to channel their racing, powerful thoughts. Geminis
must find a balance within themselves before they can find harmony in a relationship.
The Gemini twins can display an angelic spirit and also play the role of devil’s advocate.
They have the ability to become their own worst enemy or raise themselves to new in-
tellectual heights. They receive intuitive messages loud and clear, prompting them to
take the leap, for regrets only happen when they don’t listen to their inner impulses.
Never at a loss for words, Geminis enjoy entertaining and selective teasing. They are al-
ways informed with the facts and are known to be great debaters. They have a knack for
interrupting, but are wonderful conversationalists. Their dual nature makes them capa-
ble of handling many jobs or relationships at once. Labor-saving devices allow them to
move even more quickly throughout the day. Geminis look for a relationship that will
honor their freedom and enhance their multifaceted mentality. When they are seized
with intrigue, they know it’s a match.

Libra
Librans are sociable, charming, and attractive, and prefer a one-on-one relationship.
They pride themselves on being diplomatic, always restoring peace and harmony where
it is needed. They desire a relationship that is complementary to their own image and
aspires toward being cooperative. Librans gain through interacting with others to find
that important balance that makes a relationship work. They show appreciation for
beauty, art, and culture. Librans are born with class and like to look good. Their attrac-
tive and seductive persona are very inviting. They wish to surround themselves with
beauty and spoil themselves with luxury. In tune with the art of love, you are in for a
pleasurable romantic experience, complete with soft music, candlelight, good wine,
gourmet food, and sensual sex. In most instances a polite facade makes them well liked,
but an overly sophisticated persona may deter interaction with those around them. The
quiet side of Libra can be passive and sometimes depressed. Their ambivalent manner
causes them to shy away from emotional risks. Indecision may be their worst attribute, as
it paralyzes their efforts. Aware of the pros and the cons, they must evaluate everything
very carefully. Librans are especially thankful for one-on-one feedback, which helps their
objectivity so that they can make a decision. They will depend on you for this type of
sharing. Seeking cooperation, they attempt to be nice all of the time, yet when confronta-
tion arises they may expose their impersonal side and spew anger. As smooth talkers, they
can be quite manipulative in wanting to control their environment. They look for the ideal
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relationship, yet are afraid to become too involved. There is a tremendous fear of being
hurt that blocks Librans from making emotional commitments, but this fond connection
is just what they really want. Once they realize that love is the act of sharing, they can
release their fears. They desire a partner who is their equal, but they still need to give
from their heart to bring balance into the union. When they learn to trust themselves,
they will find their loving soulmate and feel comfortable in establishing a long-term
union.

Aquarius
Aquarians are unique, fascinating, and independent. They are born humanitarians and
want to be everyone’ best friend. Blessed with original insights, they are progressive in
thought and spirit, opening new doors for us all. They need to explore relationships
and are sexually open-minded. Although Aquarians demand their freedom as well as
their privacy, they desire a lover who will be their life companion. Their intriguing per-
sonality may challenge your intellectual insights yet remain appealing. They possess a
passive, manipulative manner that you need to be aware of when interacting with them.
In a relationship, you need to respect their offbeat, freedom-seeking ways. They prefer
someone who is interesting, attractive, and intelligent. Aquarians fear intimacy, as they
do not want to be so responsible for one person. However, an unpredictable and de-
tached manner will not suppress their affectionate nature. They are easily sexually
aroused and will use their mental prowess to guide them in lovemaking. Aquarians are
not your everyday people and will project their avant-garde, individualistic style. They
may be seen as activists wanting to reform old ideas and make way for the future. They
are charitable, incisive, and conscientious. Behind a shy persona is a strong mind and
self-confident nature. Their restless spirit has them on the go, trying to be there for
everyone. Others may try to take advantage of their humane ways. Aquarians are polit-
ically minded and up on the newest information. They cheer for the group and not just
the individual. Understanding unconventional concepts and the need for change, they
seek inspired ideals that reflect who they are. Nonthreatening and nonjudgmental, oth-
ers open up to their liberated views, and so will you. Their intuitive guidance could
turn them into a therapist or sex counselor. They may have a few romantic tips for you.
To make love Aquarius’ primary goal, they must comprehend the true meaning of inti-
macy. By integrating love and friendship, they can release their fears and experience the
feeling of a reciprocated love.
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The Water Sign Triplicity—Cancer, Scorpio, and Pisces

Cancer
Cancers exude a shy sexiness that is very appealing. Their sensitive, changing persona
may be difficult for others to understand, but is useful to their own character. Although
their emotional life dominates, the intuitive powers of Cancer direct them intellectually.
In a relationship, their protective and nurturing demeanor is reassuring, and as long as
their needs are met they want to provide for your every need. Cancer's safe haven is
their home, where they will shelter you with their love and affection. Candlelit dinners
and snuggling up on the couch will warm your soul. They enjoy exercising their culi-
nary skills and collecting memorabilia. Tending to domestic affairs, you will find them
raising children, cooking, decorating, or landscaping, and loving every minute of it.
Their receptive abilities allow them to understand you quite thoroughly. If Cancers feel
insecure, they are inclined to become possessive, clinging, and controlling. They must
establish their own inner feeling of security in order to balance this tendency.
Once Cancers are able to master their moods, they retain a powerful position in
dealing with others. Cancers guide themselves by feeling out people and situations to
acquire an in-depth comprehension. When they are upset, they will probe their inner
being until the problem is resolved. As Cancers are extremely sensitive, they may expe-
rience emotional anxiety. Their protective nature does not preclude them from explor-
ing their highly sexual demeanor. Dreamy, romantic escapades stimulate their lusty, sen-
suous side. In order for Cancers to express their feelings, intimacy is a must. A shining
example of patience, they put most people to shame with their ability to wait. They do
not care to be in the limelight and will withdraw into their shell if necessary. Cancers
are skillful at manipulating others and need to avoid this sometimes unconscious ten-
dency. They are prone to being clan-oriented, overly emotional, and defensive. When
fear gets the best of them, they can be insecure and overprotective. They may at times
be vulnerable to others’ accusations. Self-doubt may bring fear of rejection and worry of
becoming a victim. Wanting love’s good fortune, they may become jealous if they do
not have all of your affection. Cancers love unconditionally and are persistent, caring,
and giving. They need to learn how to give love freely without possessing their loved
one. Cancers will want to hold on to you and never let go as long as a loving rapport
and home environment are present to fulfill their needs.
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Scorpio
Scorpions are intense and magnetic, and exude a powerful persona. They have extreme
likes and dislikes that either compel them to be in a committed relationship or cause
them to be alone. Their commanding presence will entice you their way. When involved,
they are the most passionate lover, willing to thoroughly enjoy sex. They are intrigued by
the art of seduction, and so will you. The Scorpion’s sexual prowess is not to be ques-
tioned. Because their emotional depth is tremendous, they feel sex throughout their en-
tire being. .
The extremist attitude that Scorpions possess causes intense sexual involvement or
sexual denial. In a relationship, Scorpions are very selective, since once they are com-
mitted it might as well be forever. They desire a mate who is assertive, amorous, and ad-
mirable, and who is willing to understand their need for privacy, which includes their
inner thoughts. Secretive and perceptive, they rely on their intuition to guide them.
They are confident with their insightful powers that accurately describe people. Self-as-
sured, capable, and able to dominate, they seek an influential position on the job. They
are obsessed with power and adamant about attaining a higher status. Their stubborn-
ness can lead you right into an argument that is all-consuming. Scorpions can be re-
vengeful if someone crosses them, but karmic retribution will follow. Even if they are
able to detach emotionally, they still become jealous and oftentimes obsessed. Destruc-
tive, self-indulgent habits will steer Scorpio into a negative, downward spiral. In order
to achieve self-mastery, they must transcend themselves on every level. They are drawn
to the unknown, seeking adventures that will add to their already challenging life. Since
they desire power, it becomes a strong fixation in their life until they are ready to expe-
rience a transformation that enables them to rise above all earthly pursuits. Finding a
deeper meaning, they one day hope to bring such depth into a relationship, to melt into
infinity with another.

Pisces
Pisceans are compassionate and illusive individuals who need to pursue their ideals.
Their participation in group situations may support this initiative. A mysterious aura
follows them that is highly attractive yet triggers a degree of uncertainty. Nevertheless,
you will find them intriguing. They are highly romantic and dream of the perfect love
life. In a relationship, they appreciate a soulmate connection, which persuades them to
be more open. Pisceans will expect you to express your desires and, through your sym-
pathetic touch, free any personal inhibitions they may possess. As long as they feel
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loved, they are first-rate lovers with much to offer. Pisceans will tend to your needs with
compassionate love. Full of surprises, their changeable persona makes them difficult to
figure out, as you cannot quite tell whether they are coming or going. Yet, they are al-
ways aware that they need to be of service in some capacity. They are willing to make
sacrifices and extend themselves to the needy and less fortunate. Gullible tendencies
may have them chasing after rainbows, which are sometimes actually realized due to
their strong, convincing faith. Their multifaceted manner allows them to love in many
ways. They may be prone to romantic escapades, but their love is also expressed spiri-
tually and platonically. Since they are highly devoted in love, they are easily hurt. Pis-
ceans want to have it all when it comes to matters of the heart. But when they are ideal-
istic in love, emotional and sexual fulfillment may elude them. They are able to juggle
people and daily life situations quite well. If you care to join them in their adventure,
they will inspire you along the way. They are creative, inventive, and sensitive. Still, you
will be puzzled and not appreciate their indirect, introverted, and fickle ways, for their
own confusion is projected onto you. Pisceans may become very depressed over unful-
filled dreams and desires. Suppressed, negative emotions may take a toll on their health
and relationships. Pisceans believe in the unknown, intangible world, which may in-
clude mysticism, religion, or life-after-death experiences. Although they are vulnerable
to escapism, they are wise and perceptive and will guide you with their intuitive skills.
Their one desire is to have a relationship in which they are able to merge love and sex.
This form of unity creates the ultimate experience for this idealistic sign.

Quadruplicities
In addition to categorizing the signs by the elements and triplicities, you can classify
them by quadruplicities. There are three groups called cardinal, fixed, and mutable signs.
The group the planet falls in, according to the sign it is in, will determine its function.
Although signs falling in the same quadruplicity will conjoin, square, or oppose each
other, I have often found this dynamic to be a part of the attraction and not necessarily
a hindrance to the couple, as was originally thought. Remember, compatibility is not
just based on your Sun sign, but it comprises all of the astrological elements of the
chart, which is how and why the Love Relationship Formula came into being.

Cardinal Signs—Aries, Cancer, Libra, and Capricorn

the
Cardinal signs are known to be enterprising. They are initiators, as they represent
hold a
beginning of each of the seasons. Cardinal signs are very ambitious and tend to
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position of importance in life. Possessing a self-assertive nature, they are able to make
great strides. If the majority of your planets are in cardinal signs, you will be concerned
with initiating action. Aries prefers to act independently, as a pioneer conquering new
territory. Libra wants to initiate good relations to bring balance into any partnership.
Cancer feels out a situation, knowing when to act and be assertive. Capricorn wants to
accomplish set goals to gradually attain success.

Fixed Signs—Taurus, Leo, Scorpio, and Aquarius

Fixed signs are steadfast by nature and are known to be focused yet stubborn. They are
persistent, committed, and dependable and do not like the idea of change. A proud per-
sona emanates strong endurance capabilities, where they are determined to see a goal
through to success. They are not easily distracted and work well under stress. When
seeking powerful positions of authority, they can be relentless. If the majority of your
planets are in fixed signs, you will be concerned with perseverance. Taurus is solid and
trustworthy, desiring security at all costs. Leo desires a position that instills confidence
and self-importance. Scorpio seeks to regenerate the self and experience a sense of unity
with others. Aquarius promotes progress, with the goal of improving themselves and
humanity.

Mutable Signs—Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius, and Pisces

Mutable signs are changeable, so adaptability is required. They are flexible and versatile,
and able to switch gears when necessary. Capable of adapting to many different situa-
tions, they are easier to interact with on an everyday basis. If the majority of your plan-
ets are in mutable signs, you will be concerned with learning to acclimate yourself to
new circumstances by being resourceful and exercising your versatility. Gemini is in-
clined to explore new ideas that offer versatile communications. Virgo is adaptable in
assimilating knowledge and analyzing data. Sagittarius seeks to broaden their outlook
and experience variety. Pisces is open to accepting obligations and understanding the
unknown.
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y Needs attract
—venus Through
The zodiac

What constitutes attraction? Although opposites attract, many times attraction is deter-
mined by our needs. The signs in astrology describe our needs quite accurately. A per-
son with Venus in Capricorn has a need for emotional and financial security. They may
also want to control their relationship. Whereas a person with Venus in Cancer feels a
need to give and nurture, and perhaps be considered as a provider. They may also be-
come co-dependent. As stated earlier, we cannot ignore our needs—they must be met.
When our needs become dysfunctional, excessive, and destructive, we find our-
selves in an unhealthy, undermining relationship, for our dysfunctional needs have at-
tracted a relationship that exemplifies the disturbance that is going on inside of us.
When we attract an unqualified partner, we need to ask ourselves what our needs are.
Here again, the more we get in touch with our feelings, the more we understand our
needs.

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Venus in Aries
Your need to be daring and independent requires that you stand on your own two feet.
You are determined to call the shots when it comes to relationships. Although Aries
likes to conquer, there is great leadership ability in guiding a relationship, even through
the tough times. An impulsive drive will push you toward the one you desire. You are
convinced that if you are persistent, you will win. You prefer being the aggressor in the
relationship, but dominating the one you love for selfish reasons is an unfulfilling expe-
rience. If you can learn to be more-cooperative, a successful union lies ahead.

Venus in Taurus
Your needs will be based around financial security, for you are inclined to enjoy the
good life and want to feel very comfortable in taking delight in earthly pleasures. With
such a sensuous appetite in love, romantic dinners that lead to more intimate moments
are high on your list. If you are going to extend yourself, you hope to get results.
Whether it’s a lively rendezvous or a lasting commitment, you intend to get what you
want. Once a love relationship is established, you will need to guard against being
overly possessive. Think in terms of sharing and being productive in your relationship,
as opposed to having or owning your partner.

Venus in Gemini
You have a need for variety in the area of love that can become complicated if not chan-
neled properly. Your curiosity will persuade you to look for new experiences. Since you
want to experience the spice of life, one lover may not be enough unless somehow your
partner can intrigue you enough to stay interested. Stimulating conversation will be a
turn-on and will assist you in arousing a romantic response in the object of your affec-
tion. Sentimental exchanges are not your style. You will receive attention from your
lover when voicing your thoughts poetically or expressing your heart's desire through
writing. Remember, a revolving door of experiences without any meaning will not bring
you the true satisfaction you seek.

Venus in Cancer
You have a need to love, nurture, and protect the one you love. You are concerned
about your partners moods, wanting to make sure that they are happy and healthy.
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Your instincts are alert to protect your partner if a threatening situation

arises. In return,
you want to feel secure in a warm, loving environment. The need to provide and
nur-
ture can be given freely when you are in a comfortable monetary position. If emotional
and/or financial security is lacking, you may worry and tend to cling to the one you
love, thus smothering them. This co-dependent tendency can be avoided once you
build a sense of security within yourself. Use your past experiences in relationships to
nurture your future. Your sensitive approach will attract love and appreciation.

Venus in Leo
You need to express love in a creative, dramatic, and regal manner. You desire the spot-
light as you indulge in life’s luxuries. You need to feel important so your charisma
shines. Your partner may have to cater to you, but you know you are well worth it. You
prefer that your partner also dresses with style. If you are the one trying to do the im-
pressing, remember that you don’t have to spend a lot to win someone’ heart. It's your
devotion that counts! You exude a tremendous warmth that captures its own audience.
Your loved one will be sure to applaud. You may require more attention to reaffirm your
position of importance. Unless you are too demanding or self-indulgent, you will easily
attract your desired love.

Venus in Virgo
You have a need to be of service to others, but when it comes to love you need to be
careful not to overanalyze it. Love is a feeling and is not to be intellectualized. You pre-
fer a well-groomed mate, for you are very particular about matters of hygiene. You may
have a critical perspective so you can devote yourself to any problem. You are very reli-
able, but are perhaps overly concerned about getting your job done instead of spending
quality time with your partner. Your shy persona is very appealing, drawing romantic
opportunity your way, but your reserved nature curbs you from extending yourself. You
discriminate between what has value and what doesn’t. What needs your attention may
not be the details, but the one you love.

Venus in Libra
You have a need to bring harmony and beauty into your relationship. Sharing ideas,
conversation, and love is the ideal. You will show respect and politeness toward your
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partner. You are inclined to maintain a gracious, diplomatic attitude that is appealing to
all. Always exercising poise and good taste, you attract romantic opportunity with style.
Socializing with your partner will allow you to feel more in sync with them. But if you
choose to relate on a superficial level, you may find yourself alone. Since we do not live
in a perfect world, it may be difficult to take an opposing side if required. Remember,
it’s how you do it. Chances are you will charm others to your point of view. You need to
think in terms of sharing, balancing, and cooperating, without losing yourself in an-
other. A loving relationship complements your inner being.

Venus in Scorpio
You may have a strong need to get involved in an intimate alliance. Your feelings run
deep and it may take someone extra special to understand your emotional depth. Once
involved, you are committed. You may need to let go of past relationship experiences
that can hold you back if not purged from your life. But do keep that which has value.
You are encouraged to overcome possessive and jealous tendencies. Your evolution
through relationships will allow you to know the true meaning of the power of love.
You prefer private moments with your mate. Although you hold untold secrets, your
sex appeal is noticed by all. You may need to share some of those hidden feelings with
your partner to add to that already intense connection. Never alienate yourself from a
meaningful experience.

Venus in Sagittarius
You want to broaden your horizons socially for there is a need to show the friendly side
of love to everyone. You have a flair for flirting with those around you. Having fun is
your style. Your partner will truly enjoy you being playful and sexy. Honest to a fault,
you need to watch your tendency to be blunt. Make an effort to be more sensitive for
the best results. Even though you need space, you wish to share your sense of adven-
ture with your mate. You may still like to roam, but you need to understand the mean-
ing of each relationship experience. Cultivating this wisdom will eventually guide you
toward a wonderful union, as happiness in love flourishes.
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Venus in Capricorn
Emotional and financial security define your needs. There is a strong yearning
to feel se-
cure in love, yet you may need to provide financially for yourself before you
place your
trust in another. Any diligent effort you make will be well rewarded. Nevertheless,
you
still desire a loyal, committed relationship and you will be keen on accomplishing
this
goal. Your formal manner toward love might make you seem unapproachable. Do ex-
tend your sophisticated self if you wish to be recognized. Once in a relationship, show
your affection; otherwise your partner may feel you have lost interest. Saying “I love
you” may be the most demonstrative gesture you make, and the response will secure
your heart and soul.

Venus in Aquarius
Being unique when it comes to matters of the heart, you need to feel like a free spirit.
You may fear the responsibility of being too close and committed to another. Therefore,
you may detach from intimate situations to maintain your independence. It may be dif-
ficult for you to conform to a traditional relationship, but you are capable of making a
commitment as long as you can express yourself in a unique, unconventional, and pro-
gressive way. You want to be different, yet share your intuitive wisdom so that you both
gain. Although you wish to follow your own unique path, one day you will learn to love
unconditionally in return.

Venus in Pisces
Your compassionate, loving nature needs to be expressed toward your mate. You are
right at home with pleasing your partner, no matter what the occasion. Feeling oblig-
ated, you will make sacrifices for your partner. Giving unconditional love and helping
those in need are innate qualities, yet at times you may also need to learn when to curb
your efforts and let others help themselves. You must be wary of illusions in love. You
may be so idealistic that no one can measure up to your expectations, so you end up
imagining that they do and you are deceived by your own romantic fantasy. Developing
wisdom in the process, you learn to appreciate reality. You must have faith in your aims
and be willing to make a total commitment toward them so they can be realized. A
greater perceptiveness evolves through your enlightenment. Give your partner the op-
portunity to love you as you love them.
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y KacmIc
relationship
connections

Karma is what tends to bring people together. When we meet up with a soulmate, the
power of love transcends time and space. The flame is once again rekindled to allow us
to join forces through the romantic merging of souls. The dynamics involved are be-
yond our human comprehension. But what we do recognize is what we feel. It is this feeling
of remembrance that compels in us a desire to be together, to experience the ultimate embrace
of timeless love. This universal law, which follows our every action, promotes our reunit-
ing with a past love. We wish to connect once again with a soulmate whom we have ei-
ther experienced a powerful bond of love with, or have not been able to forgive. Or per-
haps we have wronged that person and wish to make it right. A soulmate connection
does not always indicate a wonderful relationship. You may have known each other be-
fore or in a past life, but under what circumstances? There is a certain comfort felt when
you are in a karmic relationship. You just feel, right from the start, that you know this

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person. They seem familiar because you have been with them before. Memories of our
karma reside in the subconscious mind. This imprint, along with early childhood con-
ditioning, will determine who we will end up attracting into our lives. These meetings
are not accidents or coincidences, but strategically planned by the Divine Intelligence
that guides us all. With such magnificent, omnipresent planning, you would think we
would consider each meeting with great care, wanting to be grateful for the opportunity
to relinquish our negative karma and not accumulate more of it.
Learning is referring back to the past. Many times it is years later that we understand
what has really happened in a relationship. Once you see the pattern, your relationships
can improve. For in seeing the pattern, the lesson is learned, and therefore the continuing
karmic experience can be released. It’s hard to understand why the human soul must go
through such trying experiences in order for the soul to heal and recapture its essence.
Our painful experiences are actually meant to heal us—not destroy us. Karmic reper-
cussions can be indicated by specific planetary combinations in a compatibility analy-
sis. The following karmic connections will provide keen insight into your relationships.

Sun-Saturn—Past Obligations, Difficult Situations

You may have a lot to learn with Saturn being the teacher planet. The first lesson for
your relationship is to stand strong and channel Saturn's heavy impact. As the Sun per-
son, you should not lie back and take the critical abuse, but try to redefine your Sat-
urnian partner’ objective. Saturn has the tendency to undermine the Sun person’s con-
fidence, thus humiliating them. As both planets are at odds with one another, especially
in the opposition, the idea is to strike a balance with varying viewpoints, for each planet
needs equal time. The Sun's pride will denounce instruction from Saturn, whereas Sat-
urn feels the Sun has much to learn. Ideally, your Saturnian partner will aim to make
constructive comments to assist you on your karmic journey. Your experience may in-
volve brief periods of monetary loss, illness, lack of intimacy possibly due to sexual dys-
function, or difficulty parting from a previous love. Eventually, this will pass, strength-
ening the union due to the hardship.
A solid bond will be difficult to break and will secure your union for years to come.
Even in parting you may find the return of a past love who feels the karma has not been
relinquished. At times a difference in age will show the older person projecting their
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Saturn, especially in the square or opposition, onto the younger person's Sun. Regard-
less of age, the effect is the same, indicating that karma accumulated in prior lives is
seeking resolution. In a marital situation, an adverse aspect involving Saturn will com-
pel you to stay together in spite of the past-life pressure that is built into the relation-
ship. If a break-up were to occur, which certainly could be the result of such heavy de-
mands, Saturn’ restrictive force could cause a long separation, delaying a reunion that
seems inevitable due to the karmic tie. Unless there is serious reason to terminate the
relationship, you should continue to work out the differences.
Saturn in adverse aspect to the Sun promises that you will confront your past life
burdens that you may learn to strengthen your character and improve yourself for other
uncompromising encounters that you are bound to face. Until your karma is fulfilled
you are destined to withstand the demands made upon you with only resolve in mind.
In a relationship, genuine lasting love is usually acquired when a couple has been will-
ing to bear life's pains and tribulations, thus earning them the honor of being two lov-
ing souls in a lifetime embrace.

Moon-Saturn (Saturn-IC)—Obligated/Co-Dependent Emotions

Karmic repercussions are clearly evident when you feel a compelling sense of obligation
in a relationship. Such are the influences of Saturn aspecting your Moon. Saturn expe-
riences the need to provide for and control the Moon, as it projects its authoritarian
manner upon its lunar subject. Although Saturn may not care for such responsibilities,
Saturn will continue to stay in a relationship out of fear and insecurity. The emotional
dependency creates a co-dependent relationship. This karmic connection can cause a
relationship to last for several years. During this time you will need to confront re-
pressed emotions and needs not only in this lifetime but from past lives as well.
Favorable Moon-Saturn contacts in a relationship may allow a couple to work
through co-dependent issues, even though emotional needs will still require attention.
Adverse Moon-Saturn contacts, including the conjunction, force the Saturn person to deal
with concerns of being overly responsible that come from dysfunctional family conditions
that can be traced back through lifetimes. Hoping that their emotional needs will be met
if they are a good provider and observe a sense of duty, Saturn feels overwhelmed with re-
sponsibility. Wanting to be in control, they are subjected to a co-dependent relationship
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that does not meet their needs. For Saturn is blocking the emotional sensitivity that the
Moon has to offer, but can’t. In some cases, when the lesson is finally learned, the rela-
tionship may end due to the indescribable stress that ends up destroying the love be-
tween you. When mutual Moon-Saturn aspects exist, both individuals are being given
an opportunity to address co-dependent behavior. The karmic lesson here is to learn to
provide for your partner without getting buried in an overly obligated situation that
does not support your needs.

Venus-Saturn (Saturn-Descendant)—Past, Familiar, and Loyal Love

There is a feeling of comfort when you meet someone you have met before, especially
from a past life. You feel as though you just know the person. You can relax. It feels so
comfortable. You are in the presence of a karmic connection. Venus is the planet of love,
affection, and comfort, emotionally and materialistically. Saturn, the planet of reality,
fears, and insecurities, will find great comfort when in aspect to Venus. Saturn is at ease
in Venus’ warm embrace. Venus-Saturn aspects usually generate long-term compatibil-
ity. You feel so at home with the person that it feels natural to be together. There is a
feeling of safety; our fears and insecurities are alleviated. Saturn is assured that Venus
will be there.
Saturn must also learn to respect the love and comfort that Venus has to offer, especially if
this love was not fully appreciated in a past life. Too many adverse Saturnian influences
will bring up control issues and create an overly content environment. You feel so com-
fortable that you may end up taking your partner for granted. If your partner is being
ignored, they will eventually feel unworthy. This is the beginning of the decline of your
relationship. As a couple, you need to feel appreciated and loved.
Saturn may also be inclined to control Venus, by not appreciating or complimenting
Venus. Saturn has a difficult time saying “I love you.” Saturn may actually feel out of
control if Venus is appreciated. Saturn worries that fears and insecurities will take hold
if Venus likes himself or herself too much, for then Venus may not have any need for
supporting and being there for Saturn. Saturn is definitely insecure, but as an adult, one
needs to define one’s inner self so that deep insecurities do not take root and affect one’s
relationships in a negative manner. If Saturn feels secure with himself or herself, Saturn
will learn to respect as well as be responsible toward Venus. In turn, Venus-must also
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show worthiness. A responsible love is a lasting one. Karma is a reflection of

a lasting
relationship that endures over time because one is reassured of the other's loyalty.
Many karmic situations are also the result of being unappreciated, unloved, and
re-
strained. These are conditions in relationships that must be addressed, for they are an
indication that a past-life situation of neglecting and controlling someone has occurred.
You must change the pattern of someone wanting to control or neglect you by telling
them you don’t care for their selfish, dominating behavior. Once said, you must con-
tinue to fully appreciate yourself. The karmic feeling of being internally familiar with
your partner supports a long-term union. If you are able to hold each other in high re-
gard, your relationship will last a lifetime.

Venus-Neptune (Neptune-Descendant)—
Heavenly, Nebulous, or Deceptive Love
If |were to add a 16th point to the Love Relationship Formula, it would be the Venus-
Neptune aspect. However, since the element of deception is present, a couple will need
to exercise great perceptiveness in channeling this influence.
Heavenly love can best be described as two soulmates coming together in a timeless
embrace of love. This romantic dream is part of being human—to desire your perfect
soulmate. We have established that human beings need to relate. But human beings also
need to be intimate—thus the desire for love.
Mutual, harmonious Venus-Neptune aspects in synastry can set the stage for a lov-
ing, spiritual connection between a couple. The compassionate aims of Neptune are
fondly welcomed by the affections of Venus. Love is spiritualized. You feel in your heart
what you know to be true in your soul, and your soul’ desire. You are fulfilled by the
presence of your romantic truth. Neptune’s enchantment inspires perfected ideals of
Venusian love and artistic expression. It is rare when we experience such a karmic op-
portunity, but when we do we must appreciate the romantic dream as it is happening.
Love can be experienced in three ways. There is romantic love, unconditional or
spiritual love, and deceptive love. Painful love is a form of deception. To love romanti-
cally and spiritually is the ideal. When we are inclined to pursue a relationship, we hope
to attain this sought-after goal. Since Neptune represents idealism and Venus love, when
we are under this influence we think that what we are seeing is what we are getting.
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Therefore, we are not always prepared for the illusions of love that permeate our world.
We may end up wanting to believe that someone is right for us when they are not. We
are caught up in the world of illusions, which is sure to disappoint. Acquiring a clear
picture of what you want in a romantic relationship is paramount in avoiding deception
in love, especially when we are yearning for that deep, meaningful relationship. A lack
of love can easily lead us astray in our search for love.
Adverse Venus-Neptune aspects in compatibility will test your faith and your ability
to see love clearly. Venus will find Neptune’ tenderness deficient. Neptune misunder-
stands Venus’ affectionate manner, which creates emotional tension between the couple.
Your relationship must encompass true consideration, otherwise dishonesty could drive
the union apart. Although the Neptune person may desire more of a platonic love, both
may have high expectations of the ideal love due to the karmic tie. The couple needs to
be more sensitive to and understanding of each other. Exercising spiritual love and de-
votion will attract romantic love for the right reasons.
When we are dealing with illusions, the best form of love is platonic. There will be
times in a long-term relationship where friendship is stronger than the romance, yet
ever strengthening the bond between you.

Venus-Pluto (Pluto-Descendant)—Deep Love, Possessive Attachment

In the act of lovemaking, when the experience cannot be understood or explained, it is
said to be karmic. This intensified love allows us to go beyond what we think love and
sex are to find that involving ourselves in the merging of souls is the act of love we are
looking for in a relationship. For this is the profound sexual experience that will only
strengthen the bonds between lovers. Pluto desires sex, and Venus desires a more lov-
ing exchange. The embrace of sex and love can only enhance a passionate union. The
past-life connection is relived once again, reminding the couple of the depth of love two
souls can experience. Because Pluto adds depth to everything it influences, when it af-
fects Venus the love experience becomes so meaningful that the couple wants to be
there for each other in every intimate moment. In synastry, when this aspect is mutual,
both lovers will enjoy making love to one another.
Many couples have met under Venus-Pluto transits, especially the conjunction and
trine. Love is transformed and allows the couple to join forces of love that could last a
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lifetime. However, if you have not transcended old, buried feelings from the past, love
may be withheld until you do.
Pluto may have great expectations when in adverse aspect to Venus, thus wanting to
experience the depth of intimacy that Venus might feel threatened by right from the
start. If such a demonstrative display of sexual feeling is tempered, Venus may not be so
defensive, as more of a compromise between sex and love is established. As always, re-
spect for your partner is of prime importance. Pluto needs to think about the Venusian
idea of sharing, otherwise Pluto may be swiftly alienated by Venus. The Plutonian desire
for sex needs to be understood by Venus. Pluto becoming sexually obsessed with Venus
is an unhealthy attachment that could destroy the whole relationship. When we be-
come so involved that we lose touch with ourselves, there are deep psychological issues
that need to be addressed. These challenges are often seen in relationships and need to
be transcended so that sexual intimacy and affection continue to enhance the romantic
union. Under Venus-Pluto aspects, a past-life bond only grows deeper.

Mars-Saturn (Saturn-Ascendant)—Restricted Desires, Abusive Actions

Abusive relationships destroy lives. In the world today, we yearn for love and find too
mush abuse. It always amazes me when someone, male or female, thinks they have a
right to obliterate another's life by their abusive words and actions. Obviously some-
thing from the past has triggered this type of behavior and the perpetrator feels justi-
fied. We can certainly verify situations where abused children become abusers as adults.
But then there are those abusers who come from decent families and just have it out for
you. This can be described as a karmic situation where someone, whether from an
abused background or not, feels they have the right to verbally or physically harm you.
Their objective is to control you, lower your self-esteem so you can't stand up for your-
self, and then verbally and/or physically abuse you. They make you feel guilty for caus-
ing the situation, which makes you feel like you are supposed to tolerate the mistreat-
ment. We see or hear of examples daily of those who are abused. It is a disgrace to
human evolution.
our soul needs
Karmic circumstances, however, will bring up abusive situations that
someone
to confront. Many times it involves standing up for yourself and not letting
ship. Thus the
you love abuse you. Saving your soul may mean ending your relation
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karmic lesson is learned. I believe in an evolved society where no one deserves abuse. If
you steer clear of adverse Mars-Saturn contacts, along with the other listed malefic
links, you can avoid abusive situations.
Unfavorable Mars-Saturn aspects, unless supported by a Jupiter aspect to Mars, may
be destructive and, in the worse-case scenario, possibly lead to bodily harm. Favorable
Mars-Saturn aspects can allow for a more constructive approach to relationship issues.
(For more information refer to chapter 7, “Challenging/Malefic Combinations in
Synastry.”)

Mars-Pluto (Pluto-Ascendant)—
Aggressive, Transforming, and Involved Experiences
There are no two planetary crossings that emanate such courageous, transforming qual-
ities than Mars and Pluto. One is intensely dedicated and karmically driven toward an
evolving goal that gradually changes one’s life. In harmonious synastry, this aggressive
drive is viewed as a powerful and sometimes overwhelming passion, especially when
Venus is involved. The transformative, past-life influences of Pluto wish to take Mars to
a new level of existence. Here, one’s identity (Mars) is reshaped by Pluto. The passions
of Mars are transformed and experienced on a deeper level (Pluto) so that the couple is
changed emotionally for the sexual experience. To feel passion there has to be depth.
The Pluto person will enhance the depth of intimacy in the Mars person. The assertive
Mars person will arouse the Pluto person toward sexual involvement. Mars is intrigued
with secretive Pluto and wishes to explore the unknown. Mutual, positive Mars-Pluto
aspects will allow the couple to evolve sexually because of the emotional transformation
that occurs while being intimate. The impact of Mars-Pluto influences generates a soul-
ful experience that cannot be described, but only felt.
Due to past-life issues, difficult Mars-Pluto aspects can cause great resistance in a re-
lationship. The couple may adopt a might-makes-right type of behavior pattern that
brings unwanted stress. The Mars person may be demanding sexually with the Pluto
person, who would rather be alone that night. The Pluto person may desire a sexually
evolving rapport that the Mars person does not care for at the moment. Intimate con-
flicts arise that must be addressed. Pluto may manipulate the situation by enticing Mars
to become involved, especially if jealousy is present. Mars may want to conquer Pluto's
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power to remain in control. A battlefield could easily develop if both people are not
aware of their conscious (Mars) and subconscious (Pluto) desires that could transmute
or destroy. A person born with Mars in square aspect to Pluto indicates that their sexual
actions are aggressive and overly passionate, which may lead to some rough sex. Very
karmic and abusive sexual situations may occur when Mars, Saturn, and Pluto are in
adverse aspect to one another or even to planets in their respective signs, Aries, Capri-
corn, and Scorpio. If this combination is in your birth chart or your synastry with an-
other, the possibility for abuse exists.
A person with Mars in sextile or trine aspect to Pluto in the birth chart indicates that
the sexual actions are more refined. Here one goes beyond passion into the experience
of two souls merging as one. Transmuting our sexual desires that we might experience inti-
macy in its true form is the subconscious yearning of every human being.

Uranus-Pluto—Involvement with the Unusual

We all encounter circumstances in life that seem to hold us back from realizing our-
selves. Uranus-Pluto transits are harbingers of breaking out into a new lifestyle and di-
rection. There is an intense drive to capitalize upon one’s uniqueness and individuality.
Favorable Uranus-Pluto aspects in synastry support a special instinctive collabora-
tion. Here, being in an extraordinary relationship means attracting someone into your
life where there is a unique bond that transcends time. Through Uranus-Pluto influ-
ences, what unfolds is an unusual involvement where one feels intuitively committed to
a person regardless of any barriers of age, distance, or cultural differences. A mutual
like-mindedness and respect draws the couple together. A collective affinity (Pluto) is
an experience that validates your importance (Uranus). The Pluto person intensely en-
courages the Uranus person to feel free in expressing their unique potential. The
Uranus person brings new insights to the Pluto person's thought-out objectives. The
couple will especially benefit where joint ventures are concerned. Since both planets in-
voke change of one kind or another, the idea is to be progressive with a shared vision.
We would hope not to find ourselves out of touch with our partner’ inner desires.
Yet, when Uranus and Pluto are in adverse aspect, an intense relationship may put
undue pressure on the couple, thus making it very difficult to be in syne and agree on
anything. Each person may have their own individualized ideas that clash with each
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other. Pluto will not appreciate the unexpected, erratic behavior of Uranus, whereas the
hidden, manipulative motives of Pluto will aggravate the open, independent, and free-
dom-loving Uranus. If you wish to save this relationship, one of you will have to con-
form. Even so, you will find that attempting to compromise to bring unity to this rela-
tionship is a continuous problem. But try you must. Each person may feel the need to
be their own individual. If this individuality can be mutually respected, there is some
hope of reconciliation. Otherwise, both will strike out in their own direction. Since
karma transcends time, Uranus-Pluto influences awaken the couple to a unique experi-
ence. The intuitive karmic connection draws them together for a spiritual reunion.

Neptune-Pluto—Intense Idealism
One of the more intense karmic connections I have seen involves Neptune-Pluto as-
pects. These outer planets coming together offer us an experience where we are guided
into an unknown venture. In a relationship we feel the underlying impact, but are not
clear as to its meaning. When in harmonious aspect, the depth of Pluto joins with the
romanticism of Neptune, creating a meaningful yet mysterious bond between the cou-
ple. The depth of the connection somehow keeps the couple karmically intertwined.
The romantic projection of Neptune may encounter an intimate rendezvous through
Pluto. One’s personal growth with Pluto finds limitless possibilities in Neptune. The
couple have a shared vision of romance and of their future together. A subconscious ex-
change leads one to wonder about the bond that exists. Nevertheless, it also supports
the continuance of the relationship, especially if there are joint creative goals.
The more difficult aspects with Neptune and Pluto bring great uncertainty into the
relationship. The Pluto person feels adrift in a nebulous cloud that does not seem to en-
courage their best interests. The romantic gestures of Neptune are spurned by Pluto.
Pluto’s desire to understand and merge with the amorous illusions of Neptune are met
with deception. Deeply rooted feelings of distrust may eventually dissolve this union
unless a deep, spiritual approach is applied to one’s goals. What we learn of trust is to
trust ourselves, especially when deception is ever lurking.
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¥ part of Marriage
—another Marriage Indicator

The Part of Marriage was developed by Arab astrologers. This arabian part, which is
considered to be a marriage indicator, is found through the placement of Venus and its
position above or below the horizon. Favorable aspects to the Part of Marriage indicate
a happy and successful marriage, especially if the sign in which it resides is positive.
Unfavorable aspects to the Part of Marriage denote difficulty and strife.
The Part of Marriage is the same distance from the Descendant as Venus is from the
Ascendant, yet located on the same side of the horizon line as Venus. The Part of Mar-
riage is calculated by using the following formula:
The longitude of the Ascendant plus (+) the longitude of the Descendant, minus (-)
the longitude of Venus, equals (=) the Part of Marriage.
For example, if Venus is 20° above the Ascendant, the Part of Marriage will be lo-
cated 20° above the Descendant. If you find Venus 11° below the Descendant, the Part
of Marriage will be 11° below the Ascendant. The placement of Venus indicates the
placement of the Part of Marriage in relationship to the horizon. In time you will be
able to spot the Part of Marriage with a visual assessment.

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How a marriage will work out is described by aspects influencing the Part of Mar-
riage. Harmonious influences will support the marriage and discordant influences will
detract from the marriage. This describes the karmic repercussions that one has at-
tracted in this lifetime. Significant aspects to the Part of Marriage not only predict a
matriage’s outcome in the natal chart, but may also be ascertained from the marriage
chart itself. If you have a planet such as Saturn, Neptune, or Pluto afflicted and debili-
tated in aspect to the Part of Marriage or in the seventh house, the marriage could have
very unfortunate results. Whereas a positive trine aspect from an unafflicted Saturn
could offer long-term stability. An adverse Uranus aspect to the Part of Marriage could
indicate an unexpected parting of the ways. Yet a favorable Neptune in Libra in trine as-
pect to the Part of Marriage generates a seemingly perfect couple.
Since the sign describes the experience, the Part of Marriage can be supported or di-
minished by the sign it occupies. If the Part of Marriage resides in Aries, there may be
many more challenges than if it resides in Libra, a more congenial, romantic sign.
The Part of Marriage in Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis’ astrology chart is in trine as-
pect to Jupiter in Gemini, which attracted prosperity and good fortune. We also find the
Part of Marriage, although nicely placed in Libra, in semisquare aspect to Neptune in
Virgo, in an exact semisextile aspect to Mars in Virgo, and in square aspect to Pluto in
Cancer. These adverse influences created a very volatile situation involving deception,
aggression, power, and the death of her husband, as history has shown.
The half a dozen marriages of Zsa Zsa Gabor is a reflection of her Part of Marriage in
sesquiquadrate aspect to illusive Neptune in Cancer and in sextile aspect to a Sun-
Uranus conjunction in the appropriate sign of freedom-loving Aquarius. Although Nep-
tune in Cancer wanted to find a nurturing romantic ideal, Uranus pushed to break up
old patterns, and Neptune’ adverse angle consistently eluded Ms. Gabor from her long-
term relationship goal. Her Part of Marriage in Sagittarius had a fortunate effect on men,
attracting several marriage partners.
The overwhelmingly famous Paul McCartney seemed to only have eyes for one
woman, his late wife Linda. His Part of Marriage is conjunct his Moon and in semi-
square aspect to Jupiter exalted in Cancer, which is further proof that even Jupiter in a
semisquare can bring luck or, in this case, the right woman. Neptune is also in semi-
square aspect to his Leo Part of Marriage, which would describe the dissolution of his
brief first marriage. Linda McCartney, however, was very Neptunian, being a creative,
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spiritual person who was also a photographer. Neptune rules over film. Even her family
name, Eastman, was a pioneer in the film industry.
Earning the title of “The King,” Elvis Presley found his true love, Priscilla, at an early
age, she being even younger. His Part of Marriage in Aries is in sextile aspect to Saturn
in Aquarius, but the stability that Saturn offered was undermined by Uranus conjunct
and Pluto in exact square to his Part of Marriage. Such a volatile combination would
break up any relationship. Uranus in Aries promoted a restless and independent atti-
tude and Pluto in Cancer would eventually terminate the union. Only an evolved cou-
ple would be able to tackle these explosive variables.
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¥ multiple Marriages

When multiple marriages occur, we can attribute them to very specific influences that
usually affect Venus, Mars, and the Descendant, the seventh-house cusp of relation-
ships. More often than not, you will find a mutable (changeable) sign, Gemini, Virgo,
Sagittarius, or Pisces, on the seventh-house cusp.
In the chart of Zsa Zsa Gabor, who was married several times, we find Pisces on the
seventh-house cusp, along with a Mars-Uranus conjunction in Aquarius in semisquare
aspect to the Pisces Descendant. The Sun, Moon, Venus, or Mars in aspect to Uranus will
also create an unpredictable outcome when it comes to intimate relationships. If Uranus
is in the seventh sector or in adverse aspect to any of the personal planets mentioned in
the seventh sector, it will be quite difficult to lock-in a long-term commitment.
Mick Jagger has Uranus in Gemini in square aspect to Venus in Virgo, and Uranus
opposes his seventh-house cusp, which is Sagittarius. His free spirit just can’t seem to
settle down with such erratic influences. Elizabeth Taylor, who has also had several
marriages, has a Venus-Uranus conjunction that resides in the fourth house of domestic
life, and Mars in Pisces is in semisquare aspect to the Venus-Uranus coupling. Gemini,
a mutable sign, resides on her seventh-house cusp.

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The eight marriages experienced by Mickey Rooney were a direct reflection of hav-
ing Uranus in Pisces, in sesquiquadrate aspect to Venus and in square aspect to the sev-
enth-house cusp, which just happens to be Gemini. Doris Day had four marriages due
to Uranus in semisquare aspect to Venus, and Pisces on her seventh-house cusp. Her
Aries Sun in the seventh-house sector in square aspect to Pluto caused her long-term al-
liances to expire only to encourage the process of regeneration. A stellium of planets oc-
cupying the seventh house may also indicate more than one marriage. The ninth house
rules over the second marriage partner, the eleventh house rules over the third marriage
partner, and so on.
A sudden parting in a relationship may be instigated by having Uranus situated in
the seventh house, especially if this unpredictable planet is afflicted or in adverse aspect
to the seventh-house cusp. A departure is even more likely when Venus is afflicted, es-
pecially by the outer planets. The occurrence of a divorce or separation is usually de-
noted when the Sun in a woman’s chart, or the Moon in a man’s chart, is aspected by a
malefic influence. Saturn, Uranus, Neptune, and Pluto in adverse aspect to the Moon,
especially in a man’s chart, or in adverse aspect to the Sun, especially in a women’s
chart, will test your relationship to see if it’s worthy of a lifelong commitment.
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4 sun/Moon
midpoint

Sun-Moon relationships are noted to be the best, especially when in favorable aspect,
such as a conjunction or trine. If the Sun and Moon are not in aspect in your synastry,
you will most likely find them in the Sun/Moon midpoint.
The midpoint of the luminaries of astrology indicates the potential of any future re-
lationship. The Sun represents the male energies and the Moon represents the female
energies. Male and female energies, regardless of sexual orientation, create an attraction
that is hard to resist. Whenever your Sun/Moon midpoint aspects your partner's Sun or
Moon, one feels drawn to the other, emanating a desire to be involved. This influence
promises a long-term alliance, yet may not ensure sexual compatibility, which is related
to Venus and Mars.
I have found both positive and adverse Sun/Moon midpoint aspects to the spouse's
Sun or Moon in marriage charts, which substantiates the strength of the influence—just
having them in aspect is what is important. Since attraction is so appropriately em-
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forces in enhancing fertility odds. Here again the luminaries promote conception and
creation.

The Sun/Moon Increasing Fertility Odds

The studies on fertility deserve to be mentioned for the main reason that in some cases
they worked, but not consistently. The studies involved matching up the time of a
woman's biological ovulation cycle with a Sun/Moon cycle to become pregnant. This
particular Sun/Moon cycle is derived from the fact that once a month a woman be-
comes more fertile when the Sun and Moon in transit form the same angle that oc-
curred at her time of birth. More research however, needs to be done to further sub-
stantiate these findings.
Fertility is discouraged under adverse angles of Saturn, Uranus, Neptune, and Pluto
to Venus, the planet of fertility. A woman's Saturn in aspect to a man’s Mars blocks the
conception process as well. Positive angles with Sun/Jupiter, Moon/Jupiter, Venus/Jupiter,
and Venus/Uranus encourage pregnancy. (For more information on fertility problems,
refer to the Mars/Saturn section in chapter 7, “Challenging/Malefic Planetary Combina-
tions in Synastry.”)
Although the studies involving a woman's ovulation cycle with the Sun/Moon cycle
have been inconclusive, the Sun/Moon midpoint angle is still highly consistent in the
attraction of relationships.

The Moon’s North and South Nodes

The Moon’s Nodes denote coming together, unions, groups, and connections. Wherever
the Moon’ Nodes, especially the North Node, fall in the composite chart for a couple,
they will emphasize the direction that needs to be pursued by the two of them as well
as the essential purpose of the union. In synastry, fated or karmic relationships are
noted when the Sun, Moon, or Sun/Moon midpoint is in aspect to the Nodes, which
represent the destiny—the past, present, and future of one’s soul. The couple is fated to
address a past-life intention that lends itself to the growth of their souls.
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¥ corrected synastry

The potential difficulties indicated by certain adverse natal configurations can be allevi-
ated if the planets involved are in favorable aspect in a couple’ synastry, especially
when beneficial combinations of the Love Relationship Formula are present. For exam-
ple, if you were born with Mars square Venus, which represents difficulty in compro-
mising in your relationships, and you find that you have Mars trine Venus in your com-
bined compatibility, the positive dynamics between the two of you as a couple can help
ease the personal limitation of the natal Mars square Venus. You may also discover that
an adverse aspect such as Mars opposite Saturn in a couple’s synastry is alleviated
through a harmonious aspect in the composite chart, such as Mars trine Saturn. Positive
configurations found in your natal chart will not be undermined by similar adverse as-
pects in synastry or a composite chart, but will help support the adversity. Check your
natal chart for any adversity and see if any unfavorable combinations found are sup-
ported in your synastry as a couple.

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¥y Aspects and orb

The Angles Describe What We Can Expect from Relationships

Math permeates our society, our life, and our earth. Everything that exists is based on a
mathematical equation. Why? Because math is a form of perfection. Therefore, in dis-
cussing the Love Relationship Formula, the precision of the angles is important. How-
ever, for all of the angles to be totally precise you would have to be the ideal human
being. This is where we allow for a certain orb from one point of an angle to the other
point. This orb represents the flexibility that is a reflection of being human.
The distance between planetary angles emphasizes an influence. The basic orb used
by most astrologers is 8 degrees. I prefer 6 degrees. The tighter the orb, the stronger the
influence. A 1 to 2 degree orb is very significant, whereas an orb of more than 8 degrees
loses its strength of impact. I have found, particularly in synastry, three other important
orbs to consider.

1. Aspects to the Sun can be up to 8 degrees. I have found that aspects to the Sun of
10 degrees are too wide. I only allow for an 8 degree orb involving the Sun. Ex-
ample: Venus at 1° Leo square Sun at 9° Taurus.

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2. Planets or significant points of interest that are in the same sign are conjunct re-
gardless of degree. A wide orb certainly will lose some strength, but the planets
are still said to be interacting with one another in that specific sign. Example:
Mars at 6° Sagittarius conjunct Jupiter at 20° Sagittarius (wide).
3. Planets or significant points of interest that are in opposition can have a wide orb
from one exact opposite sign to the other exact opposite sign. Example: Mercury
at 10° Aquarius opposite Pluto at 25° Leo (wide).

When a planet by degree interacts with another planet or significant astrological point,
they form a geometry angle, such as 45 degrees, 60 degrees, 90 degrees, 135 degrees,
150 degrees, or 180 degrees, with space as its backdrop. These angles draw together
planetary combinations that describe the image and personality of who you are and
what you can expect from life. Harmonious angles, such as the sextile and trine, indi-
cate what you may not have to work on in your relationship because the planetary in-
fluences are working in harmony with each other. The conjunction can be either har-
monious or inharmonious depending on the planets involved.
You may have all of the Love Relationship Formula combinations, yet if some as-
pects are inharmonious, such as the semisquare, square, sesquiquadrate, inconjunct, or
opposition, these angles represent the challenges that will surface in the relationship of
the couple. This is what needs to be addressed and worked out together for a success-
ful union.
Let's remember that adversity presents a challenge and is not to be looked upon as
negative. Here the couple learns to balance the forces through the planetary aspects.
Most aspects in astrology are not exact angles and/or are adverse angles because the
human being still strives for perfection. The human being, however, is a combination of
math/logic and emotion that is described by the flexibility and challenges of the angles.

Aspects
Conjunction (0-6 degrees)
When two planets or significant points of interest act together, influencing each other
up to 6 degrees of orb, a conjunction exists. Up to 8 degrees is acceptable for the Sun.
Depending on the dynamics of these two influences, the outcome may be positive or
adverse. They must try to work as a team. If given the proper outlet, this effect can be
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channeled for the best results. Meeting someone under a conjunction may have a great
deal of impact that could have a lasting effect if supportive influences are involved. In
synastry, the planets or points of interest in aspect will have a strong impression on a
couple.

Semisextile 30 degrees)
The connection of two planets or points of interest in a semisextile conveys a very sub-
tle interaction of the cosmic influences involved. This persuasion, considered a soft as-
pect, is almost unnoticeable as it is so indirect. This inconspicuous angle will hardly af-
fect any connection. The impact is felt more when the orb is within 1 degree.

Semisquare (45 degrees)

This angle is a minor adverse aspect that will create difficult circumstances that are de-
pendent on the planets or significant points of interest involved. Pressure and con-
frontation will be experienced, as one is pushed to take action. Due to the challenges
involved, this effect is not supportive of romantic meetings, but can create dynamics in
a couple's synastry.

Sextile (60 degrees)

A compatible connection of two planetary forces that are usually in fire/air or earth/
water signs, the sextile offers encouraging support from one influence to another. A ro-
mantic encounter will have a positive yet subtle influence under this aspect, which is
supportive of any relationship.

Square (90 degrees)

This is the most adverse aspect in astrology. The angle denotes blocks to one’s desires
and highly volatile situations. The two cosmic influences are at odds with one another,
provoking either an explosive conflict that needs to be addressed or producing a driving
force to tackle the situation at hand. We need to remind ourselves that a crisis is also a
rare opportunity. Square aspects can be very stimulating where a certain dynamic in-
spires a person to fulfill their potential. Depending on the influences involved, a strong
romantic impact can be experienced with Venus and/or Mars. In most instances, a con-
nection involving a square aspect will be challenging.
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Trine (120 degrees)

This link promises success with a beneficial interaction. There is an ease of accomplish-
ment that creates a favorable relationship between these cosmic points. The trine seeks
harmony to bring more satisfaction into the scenario. This angle has a tendency toward
laziness, expecting that everything will work out well. You may need to instill self-mo-
tivation to encourage some action. In most cases, a meeting under a trine influence will
encourage a positive union and supports compatibility in synastry as well.

Sesquiquadrate (135 degrees)

When we combine the square and the semisquare, we form the sesquiquadrate angle.
Under this influence you are compelled to take a stand, be decisive, and initiate a
course of action. Even though you are driven, you will still meet up with resistance and
challenges along the way. A romantic encounter under this influential angle denotes
stress and is not considered to be enduring. In synastry, a couple will be challenged to
direct the influence for the better.

Inconjunct/Quincunx (150 degrees)

The two planets involved in this particular aspect do not share the same element or
quality, thus making it very difficult to communicate. The planets or points of interest
engaged in this scenario will feel inclined to follow through, yet will switch gears before
arriving at the end result. You will have to be flexible and make adjustments where they
are needed. A person you meet under this effect will send mixed signals that may lead
nowhere. Depending on the planets involved, this aspect will require attention to chan-
nel the influence for the best.

Opposition (180 degrees)

When two planets or cosmic points oppose each other, they are in conflict and choose
not to compromise with each other. Each influence is determined to have its say, thus
causing tremendous disagreement. Both sides need to find a way to cooperate to reach
that middle ground. Although the opposition is considered the lesser of the hard angles,
unless supported by favorable aspects, a romantic encounter affected by this aspect may
relay too much tension to sustain a lasting partnership. In synastry, the influences need
equal time and can create strong, romantic dynamics depending on the planets or
points of interest involved.
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The Love
relationship
eocmula in
cou ples’ charts
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y famous
couples’ charts

Compatibility Analysis of Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward

Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward have been married for over forty years. Their
commitment has withstood the test of time and is a remarkable example of a long-term
relationship. The rarity of finding the presence of mutual Sun-Moon conjunctions adds
to the longevity of their union, as this important cosmic combination supports a lasting
bond. Reciprocal Sun-Venus aspects bring love and appreciation for each other that en-
courage an affectionate tie. This well-established relationship is further enhanced by
mutual Sun-Mars influences where the couple is motivated to take action, whether it be
attending to domestic chores or enjoying a passionate evening together. Sun-Mars in-
fluences promote their success together, along with a strong competitive streak to see
who wins first. Her Jupiter aspecting his Mars indicates she can persuade her man to do
more for her, including arousing his romantic side. Not to mention her Uranus con-
joining his Mars in Aries, which creates much sexual excitement.
But reciprocal Venus-Mars aspects are the drawing cards that fuel the romantic em-
bers between them, which has led to the procreation of three children. Moon-Mars

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combinations may also heighten the passions if channeled properly. To add to the at-
traction, mutual Venus-Uranus aspects are present, causing this couple to find each
other very appealing. To augment an already fine union, mutual Moon-Venus pairings
instigate sensitivity to each other’ feelings that show they care. Moon-Neptune combi-
nations inspire a mutual emotional identity that makes them feel in sync and that took
time to acquire after working through some tentative feelings. A greater understanding
is reached as they are forced to understand each other's emotions under Moon-Pluto
pairings that only deepen the emotional interaction. Mutual Moon-Jupiter aspects bring
out a wonderful sense of humor as they thoroughly enjoy one anothers company.
They are both highly encouraging of each other's ambitions in life with favorable,
reciprocal Sun-Jupiter influences. He is able to bring out the best in her with his com-
plimentary advances as his Jupiter aspects her Venus. Since his Saturn aspects her
Venus as well, the Venus-Jupiter influences are able to balance out the rapport so she
does not feel so suppressed by his Saturn influence. They are quite at home with each
other under mutual Venus-Saturn aspects as Saturn finds comfort with Venus’ warm
embrace. This karmic connection makes them both feel at ease in each other's presence
and may assure a lifelong commitment.
His Saturn aspecting her Sun and her Saturn aspecting his Moon also bring up some
karmic issues that have put some pressure on this union. Nevertheless, this relationship
is spiritualized by the auspicious Venus-Neptune pairings and intensified with a deep
love through mutual Venus-Pluto aspects that instigate a compelling attraction for these
two souls to unite. They have learned through Venus-Neptune that the truth counts and
through Venus-Pluto that there is more unity in being agreeable. Under reciprocal
Jupiter-Saturn aspects, a terrific friendship continues to link this couple together. How-
ever, any relationship is not without its difficulties, which may spring from reciprocal
Mars-Saturn influences that will at times cause blocks to their desires or trouble in ex-
pressing differences. Luckily there are so many mutual Mercury influences, such as
Mercury-Sun and Mercury-Jupiter, that the lines of communication are open to discuss
whatever is necessary. Although mutual Mercury-Pluto aspects instigate deep, thorough
conversation that succumbs to strong differences of opinion and Mercury-Neptune in-
fluences may cause nebulous yet creative dialogue, they are strengthened by the other
Mercury aspects, especially to the Sun, Jupiter, and Saturn. They are able to give each
other the space they need with reciprocal Sun-Uranus aspects, but maintain a wonder-
ful, romantic, and compatible partnership. An exact conjunction of his Moon to her
Sun/Moon midpoint supports a lasting connection. The Love Relationship Formula is in
excellent display here with this honorable couple.
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Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward, synastry aspects

(Love Relationship Formula aspects underlined)
Sun 6°02' Aquarius conjunct Moon 24°52! Aquarius (wide)
Moon 1°39' Pisces conjunct Sun 8°03' Pisces
Venus 14°24' Capricorn sextile Sun 8°03' Pisces
Sun 6°02' Aquarius semisquare Venus 13°05! Pisces (wide)
Sun 6°02' Aquarius conjunct Mars 16°02' Aquarius (wide)
Mars 23°38' Aries semisquare Sun 8°03' Pisces
Ascendant, a Mars Point, 13°05' Capricorn sextile Sun 8°03' Pisces
Sun 6°02' Aquarius trine Jupiter 7°33' Gemini
Jupiter 8°52' Capricorn sextile Sun 8°03' Pisces
Saturn 13°42' Scorpio trine Sun 8°03' Pisces
Sun 6°02' Aquarius sextile Uranus 9°30! Aries
Uranus 19°04! Pisces conjunct Sun 8°03! Pisces (wide)
Pluto 12°O1' Cancer trine Sun 8°03' Pisces
Moon 1°39! Pisces conjunct Venus 13°05! Pisces (wide)
Venus 14°24' Capricorn semisquare Moon 24°52' Aquarius
Moon 1°39! Pisces semisquare Ascendant, a Mars Point, 11°50! Capricorn
Mars 23°38! Aries sextile Moon 24°52' Aquarius
Moon 1°39! Pisces square Jupiter 7°33' Gemini
Jupiter 8°52' Capricorn semisquare Moon 24°52! Aquarius
Moon 1°39! Pisces semisquare Saturn 9°40! Capricorn (wide)
Moon 1°39! Pisces oppose Neptune 2°03' Virgo
Neptune 21°38' Leo oppose Moon 24°52' Aquarius
Moon 1°39! Pisces sesquiquadrate Pluto 17°39' Cancer
Pluto 12°01! Cancer sesquiquadrate Moon 24°52' Aquarius
Mercury 13°19! Capricorn sextile Sun 8°03' Pisces
Sun 6°02! Aquarius conjunct Mercury 14°18! Aquarius (wide)
Mercury 13°19! Capricorn semisquare Moon 24°52' Aquarius
Mercury 13°19! Capricorn sextile Venus 13°05" Pisces
Venus 14°24' Capricorn semisextile Mercury 14°18' Aquarius
Mercury 13°19! Capricorn inconjunct Jupiter 7°33' Gemini
Jupiter 8°52' Capricorn semisextile Mercury 14°18' Aquarius
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Mercury 13°19! Capricorn conjunct Saturn 9°40' Capricorn

Saturn 13°42' Scorpio square Mercury 14°18' Aquarius
Mercury 13°19' Capricorn square Uranus 9°30! Aries
Neptune 21°38! Leo oppose Mercury 14°18! Aquarius (wide)
Mercury 13°19' Capricorn sesquiquadrate Neptune 2°03! Virgo
Mercury 13°19' Capricorn oppose Pluto 17°39' Cancer
Pluto 12°01' Cancer inconjunct Mercury 14°18' Aquarius
Venus 14°24! Capricorn sextile Venus 13°05! Pisces, Benefics in aspect
Venus 14°24' Capricorn conjunct Ascendant, a Mars Point, 11°50' Capricorn
Mars 23°38' Aries semisquare Venus 13°05' Pisces
Jupiter 8°52' Capricorn sextile Venus 13°05! Pisces
Descendant, a Venus Point, 13°05! Cancer semisextile Jupiter 7°33' Gemini
Venus 14°24' Capricorn conjunct Saturn 9°40' Capricorn
Saturn 13°42! Scorpio trine Venus 13°05! Pisces
Venus 14°24' Capricorn square Uranus 9°30' Aries
Uranus 19°04! Pisces conjunct Venus 13°05! Pisces
Venus 14°24' Capricorn sesquiquadrate Neptune 2°03! Virgo
Neptune 21°38' Leo semisquare Descendant, a Venus Point, 11°50' Cancer
Venus 14°24' Capricorn oppose Pluto 17°39! Cancer
Pluto 12°01' Cancer trine Venus 13°05! Pisces
Ascendant, a Mars Point, 13°05' Capricorn conjunct Ascendant, a Mars Point, 11°50!
Capricorn
Mars 23°38' Aries semisquare Jupiter 7°33' Gemini
Ascendant, a Mars Point, 13°05' Capricorn conjunct Saturn 9°40! Capricorn
Saturn 13°42' Scorpio square Mars 16°02' Aquarius
Saturn 13°42' Scorpio sextile Ascendant, a Mars Point, 11°50! Capricorn
Mars 23°38! Aries conjunct Uranus 9°30! Aries (wide)
Jupiter 8°52' Capricorn conjunct Saturn 9°40! Capricorn
Saturn 13°42' Scorpio inconjunct Jupiter 7°33' Gemini
Neptune 21°38' Leo sesquiquadrate Saturn 9°40! Capricorn
Saturn 13°42' Scorpio trine Pluto 17°39! Cancer
Pluto 12°01' Cancer oppose Saturn 9°40' Capricorn
Pluto 12°01' Cancer semisquare Neptune 2°03! Virgo
Moon 1°39' Pisces conjunct Sun/Moon midpoint 1°27' Pisces
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Paul Newman
January 26, 1925 / Cleveland, OH / 6:30 AM EST
Placidus Houses
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29° 34!

Joanne Woodward
February 27, 1930 / Thomasville, GA / 4:00 AM EST
Placidus Houses
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Compatibility Analysis of John Lennon and Yoko Ono

John Lennon and Yoko Ono had a very controversial relationship. It is said that they
had an incredible love for one another that we can now verify by their astrological com-
patibility. Their marriage of only eleven years may have lasted a lifetime, but it was cut
short when Lennon was gunned down in front of his apartment building in New York
City. When we evaluate their compatibility, it gives us every reason to believe that their
love was genuine. Libra and Aquarius are well matched as they are both air signs. But
the important link is his Moon (widely) conjunct her Sun, which has a lasting effect on
the bond between them and indicates that he could rely on her, which would play out
in their time together. Her Moon is also in favorable aspect to his Sun.
The love and respect they had for one another was instigated by mutual Sun-Venus
aspects. What enhanced this love were reciprocal Venus-Mars aspects, which influenced
the romantic dynamics, mutual Venus-Neptune aspects, which created a compassion-
ate, spiritual bond, and joint Venus-Pluto influences, which instilled the merging of
souls that they may understand love on a deeper level. Theirs was a bond of love that
few may experience. They felt energized as well as competitive in each other’ company
due to reciprocal Sun-Mars influences, and her Jupiter aspecting his Sun showed sup-
port for his ambitions. She also offered her man tender-loving care with her Venus as-
pecting his Moon. Mutual Moon-Jupiter pairings helped ease the tensions and pro-
moted an optimistic spirit, and shared Mercury-Jupiter aspects inspired excellent
communication.
Shared Venus-Jupiter influences promoted a complimentary exchange that en-
hanced each other’ talents. Although adverse Venus-Neptune aspects are present, they
developed their higher spiritual side by respecting each other. His Neptune adversely
influencing her Sun and Mercury may have caused some complications with her fol-
lowing through on some of her projects. Her Saturn aspecting his Sun and Moon has
karmic implications, indicating that she felt responsible for him and that he had some
lessons to learn from her. His Saturn aspecting her Venus and Mars still allowed him to
feel very comfortable with her since he sensed that he must have known her before
when they first met. Luckily both his Jupiter and Saturn influence her Venus, indicating
that a complementary balance would ensue so he would not take her for granted. Nev-
ertheless, he was able to call the shots in the relationship.
Although it is unusual to find her Saturn not in aspect to his Venus or his Descen-
p,
dant, her Saturn aspects his Jupiter, which establishes a good, long-term friendshi
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thus she felt secure with him. Conversation was inspired by Mercury, Venus, Mars, and
Jupiter, and was realistic with mutual Mercury-Saturn pairings. They were able to mo-
tivate each other through Mars-Jupiter aspects to do errands or enjoy romance. They
found each other appealing with reciprocal Venus-Uranus influences, and mutual Mars-
Uranus, Mars-Neptune, and Mars-Pluto angles brought excitement, depth, and roman-
ticism to the union. However, Mars-Uranus also created upset when they were out of
sync with expressing their emotions and having a detached disposition. Adverse Mars-
Pluto aspects needed to be channeled to avoid personal resistance from one another.
His Jupiter in trine aspect to her Mars inspired her to accomplish set goals. The mu-
tual Jupiter-Neptune combinations persuaded them both to expand upon their ideals,
which in this case is clearly writing, playing, and singing music. Reciprocal Sun-Uranus
aspects encouraged both to be more progressive, as Sun-Pluto influences prompted
deep-rooted changes that would affect their lives forever. They may have been an avant-
garde couple, but their story of love cannot be denied.

John Lennon and Yoko Ono, synastry aspects

(Love Relationship Formula aspects underlined)
Sun 16°16! Libra trine Sun 29°23' Aquarius (wide)
Moon 3°33' Aquarius conjunct Sun 29°23' Aquarius (wide)
Sun 16°16' Libra sextile Moon 11°08! Sagittarius
Sun 16°16' Libra sextile Venus 13°47' Aquarius
Venus 3°13' Virgo oppose Sun 29°23' Aquarius
Mars 2°40' Libra inconjunct Sun 29°23' Aquarius
Sun 16°16' Libra semisextile Mars 15°08' Virgo
Sun 16°16! Libra inconjunct Jupiter 20°42' Virgo
Sun 16°16' Libra trine Saturn 9°44! Aquarius
Sun 16°16' Libra sextile Uranus 20°33' Aries
Uranus 25°33' Taurus square Sun 29°23' Aquarius
Neptune 26°02' Virgo inconjunct Sun 29°23' Aquarius
Sun 16°16! Libra square Pluto 21°38' Cancer
Pluto 4°11' Leo oppose Sun 29°23' Aquarius (wide)
Moon 3°33' Aquarius conjunct Venus 13°47' Aquarius (wide)
Moon 3°33' Aquarius sesquiquadrate Mars 15°08' Virgo
Moon 3°33' Aquarius sesquiquadrate Jupiter 20°42! Virgo
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Jupiter 13°42' Taurus inconjunct Moon 11°08! Sagittarius

Moon 3°33' Aquarius conjunct Saturn 9°44! Aquarius
Mercury 8°33' Scorpio trine Mercury 7°53' Pisces
Mercury 8°33! Scorpio square Venus 13°47' Aquarius
Venus 3°13' Virgo oppose Mercury 7°53! Pisces
Mercury 8°33' Scorpio sextile Mars 15°08! Virgo (wide)
Mercury 8°33! Scorpio semisextile Ascendant, a Mars Point, 8°30! Libra
Ascendant, a Mars Point, 19°54! Aries semisquare Mercury 7°53' Pisces
Mercury 8°33' Scorpio semisquare Jupiter 20°42' Virgo
lupiter 13°42' Taurus sextile Mercury 7°53! Pisces
Mercury 8°33! Scorpio square Saturn 9°44' Aquarius
Saturn 13°13' Taurus sextile Mercury 7°53! Pisces
Mercury 8°33' Scorpio sextile Neptune 9°05' Virgo
Neptune 26°02' Virgo oppose Mercury 7°53! Pisces (wide)
Pluto 4°11' Leo inconjunct Mercury 7°53! Pisces
Venus 3°13' Virgo conjunct Mars 15°08! Virgo (wide)
Mars 2°40! Libra sesquiquadrate Venus 13°47' Aquarius
Ascendant, a Mars Point, 19°54' Aries sextile Venus 13°47' Aquarius
Mars 2°40! Libra conjunct Ascendant, a Mars Point, 8°30! Libra
Venus 3°13' Virgo conjunct Jupiter 20°42' Virgo (wide
Jupiter 13°42' Taurus square Venus 13°47' Aquarius
Saturn 13°13' Taurus square Venus 13°47' Aquarius
Venus 3°13' Virgo sesquiquadrate Uranus 20°33' Aries
Uranus 25°33' Taurus semisquare Descendant, a Venus Point, 8°30' Aries
Venus 3°13' Virgo conjunct Neptune 9°05' Virgo
Neptune 26°02' Virgo sesquiquadrate Venus 13°47' Aquarius
Venus 3°13' Virgo semisquare Pluto 21°38' Cancer
Pluto 4°11' Leo oppose Venus 13°47' Aquarius (wide)
Jupiter 13°42' Taurus trine Mars 15°08' Virgo
Ascendant, a Mars Point, 19°54! Aries inconjunct Jupiter 20°42' Virgo
Saturn 13°13' Taurus trine Mars 15°08' Virgo
Mars 2°40! Libra oppose Uranus 20°33' Aries (wide)
Uranus 25°33! Taurus sesquiquadrate Ascendant, a Mars Point, 8°30! Libra
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Neptune 26°02' Virgo conjunct Mars 15°08! Virgo (wide)

Ascendant, a Mars Point, 19°54! Aries square Pluto 21°38' Cancer
Pluto 4°11' Leo semisquare Mars 15°08' Virgo
Jupiter 13°42' Taurus square Saturn 9°44' Aquarius
Pluto 4°11' Leo semisquare Jupiter 20°42' Virgo
Uranus 25°33' Taurus trine Jupiter 20°42' Virgo
Jupiter 13°42' Taurus trine Neptune 9°05! Virgo
Neptune 26°02' Virgo conjunct Jupiter 20°42' Virgo
Uranus 25°33' Taurus sextile Pluto 21°38' Cancer
Neptune 26°02' Virgo sextile Pluto 21°38' Cancer
Pluto 4°11' Leo inconjunct Neptune 9°05! Virgo
Sun/Moon midpoint 9°54! Sagittarius conjunct Moon 11°08! Sagittarius
Sun 16°16! Libra square Sun/Moon midpoint 20°23' Capricorn
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John Lennon
October 9, 1940 / Liverpool, England / 6:30 PM GMD
Placidus Houses
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Yoko Ono
February 18, 1933 / Tokyo, Japan / 8:30 PM JST
Placidus Houses
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couples’ charts

Compatibility Analysis of “Gary” and “Sue”

You would think that this couple would be off to a good start in life. Their compatibil-
ity indicates mutual Sun-Jupiter and Venus-Jupiter contacts, along with his Venus con-
junct her Sun. They would be supportive of one another's career goals and they would
try to bring out the best in each other. Even a Venus-Mars conjunction in Cancer indi-
cates a male/female attraction. This is further enhanced by his Venus in trine aspect to
her Ascendant, a Mars Point. Mutual Mars-Uranus aspects add even more passion to
this romantic connection. The benefics in aspect, Jupiter-Jupiter and Venus-Venus, are
present, offering encouragement. The reciprocal Moon-Uranus aspects may promote
emotional excitement, but also stress and detachment, which would play out.
The Sun-Moon midpoint aspects could be tighter in orb, but they are present, con-
tinuing to promote this relationship. There is also one discordant and one harmonious
Sun-Moon aspect. Although Sun-Moon angles do endorse an attraction, a Venus-
Uranus contact can be more magnetic. Here we find her Uranus in Cancer conjunct his

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Venus, which indicates that she feels very drawn to him. She is also very sensitive to
him and his needs, as her Venus is in wide conjunction to his Moon and Ascendant.
He is very fond of her, as his Venus is conjunct her Sun in Cancer, but his attraction to
her is limited and his emotional sensitivity toward her is lacking. Their Sun signs are
very descriptive, too. She is a Cancer who nurtures and provides. He, on the other
hand, is a Gemini who exercises a Mercurial approach and is looking for an intellectual
challenge.
This couple, however, was very comfortable with each other with mutual Venus-Sat-
urn contacts. But too much Saturn creates coldness and restraint. His Saturn, in partic-
ular, conjoining her Sun and in wide aspect to Mars and Uranus, as well as in semi-
square aspect to her Venus and also in square aspect to her Neptune, limited her
tremendously. He eventually would not cooperate, or show that he appreciated her ef-
forts even if he did, and at times he was very critical of her actions. This was truly a re-
flection of his Saturn conjunct her Sun and semisquare her Venus. The burden became
hers. She even looked after his teenage child. His Sun and Neptune in sextile to her
Mercury assisted her in approaching him in a gentle manner, but there was no recipro-
cation. Even her Pluto in sextile to his Mercury tried to unravel the situation. His inter-
action was limited due to her Saturn in square aspect to his Mercury, signifying little if
no communication at all. Her Saturn was also causing constraint in wide conjunction to
his Moon and Ascendant. He clearly had difficulty expressing himself toward her. But
his Pluto in conjunction to her Mercury indicated that he might be manipulating the
situation, which would eventually become too taxing and suppressive for both of them.
There are no Moon-Jupiter contacts to alleviate the pressure and create more enjoy-
ment, no Mercury-Jupiter aspects to improve the suffering communications, and no
Jupiter-Saturn contacts to help build a friendship that shares the burden—three strikes
against them. Although his Jupiter does semisextile her Ascendant, a Mars Point, and
her Jupiter is inconjunct his Ascendant, the planetary pairing of Mars and Jupiter in as-
pect is missing. There are no Mars-Jupiter planetary contacts to bring more motivation
and passion into this relationship, which is already lacking due to the mutual Mars-Sat-
urn influences causing blocks to their desires and repressed anger.
She ended up becoming the aggressor in romance as well as the breadwinner, de-
noted by her Mars conjunct his Venus and in her eighth house, among other influences
previously discussed. The financial situation was terrible, partially due to the fact that
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neither of their Mercurys were enhanced. She could not motivate him to change the cir-
cumstances, and he did not care to converse and address what was happening. This led
to the deterioration of the bond between them. He became unsupportive and distant.
She became drained and resentful, yet she tried not to show it. Although mutual Venus-
Neptune aspects wanted a spiritual connection to unfold, because they are making ad-
verse angles a level of dishonesty was clearly present. This relationship lasted for ap-
proximately five years. She finally decided to end it.

Gary and Sue, synastry aspects (Love Relationship Formula aspects underlined)
Moon 16°15! Virgo sextile Sun 20°O1' Cancer
Sun
sesquiquadrate
15°24' Gemini Moon 2°47' Scorpio
Venus 16°20' Cancer conjunct Sun 20°01' Cancer
Mars 22°26! Leo semisextile Sun 20°O1' Cancer
Sun 15°24' Gemini sextile Jupiter 13°23' Aries
Jupiter 17°33' Libra square Sun 20°01' Cancer
Saturn 22°55' Cancer conjunct Sun 20°01' Cancer
Moon 16°15' Virgo conjunct Venus 4°04!' Virgo (wide)
Moon 16°15! Virgo conjunct Saturn 27°12' Virgo (wide)
Moon 16°15! Virgo sextile Uranus 10°20' Cancer
Uranus 17°26' Gemini sesquiquadrate Moon 2°47' Scorpio
Sun 15°24' Gemini sextile Mercury 8°25! Leo (wide)
Mercury 23°02' Gemini sesquiquadrate Moon 2°47' Scorpio
Mercury 23°02' Gemini square Saturn 27°12' Virgo
Neptune 5°52' Libra sextile Mercury 8°25! Leo
Mercury 23°02' Gemini sextile Pluto 18°34' Leo
Pluto 9°53' Leo conjunct Mercury 8°25' Leo
Venus 16°20! Cancer semisquare Venus 4°04' Virgo, Benefics
Mars 22°26! Leo square Descendant, a Venus Point, 17°19' Taurus
Venus 16°20' Cancer conjunct Mars 6°12' Cancer (wide)
Ascendant, a Mars Point, 14°00' Virgo conjunct Venus 4°04! Virgo (wide)
Venus 16°20! Cancer trine Ascendant, a Mars Point, 17°19' Scorpio
Jupiter 17°33' Libra semisquare Venus 4°04' Virgo
Venus 16°20' Cancer square Jupiter 13°23' Aries
Jupiter 17°33' Libra oppose Jupiter 13°23! Aries, Benefics
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Saturn 22°55! Cancer semisquare Venus 4°04' Virgo

Descendant, a Venus Point, 14°00' Pisces oppose Saturn 27°12' Virgo (wide
Saturn 22°55' Cancer semisquare Venus 4°04' Virgo :
Descendant, a Venus Point, 14°00' Pisces oppose Saturn 27°12! Virgo (wide)
Venus 16°20' Cancer conjunct Uranus 10°20! Cancer
Uranus 17°26' Gemini semisextile Descendant, a Venus Point, 17°19' Taurus
Venus 16°20' Cancer square Neptune 16°49! Libra
Neptune 5°52' Libra sesquiquadrate Descendant, a Venus Point, 17°19! Taurus
Saturn 22°55! Cancer trine Ascendant, a Mars Point, 17°19! Scorpio
Saturn 22°55' Cancer conjunct Mars 6°12' Cancer (wide)
Ascendant, a Mars Point, 14°00! Virgo conjunct Saturn 27°12' Virgo (wide)
Mars 22°26' Leo semisquare Uranus 10°20! Cancer
Uranus 17°26! Gemini inconjunct Ascendant, a Mars Point, 17°19! Scorpio
Neptune 5°52' Libra square Mars 6°12' Cancer
Mars 22°26' Leo conjunct Pluto 18°34' Leo
Saturn 22°55' Cancer conjunct Uranus 10°20! Cancer (wide)
Saturn 22°55' Cancer square Neptune 16°49' Libra
Uranus 17°26' Gemini sextile Jupiter 13°23' Aries
Jupiter 17°33' Libra conjunct Neptune 16°49! Libra
Jupiter 17°33' Libra sextile Pluto 18°34! Leo
Neptune 5°52' Libra square Uranus 10°20' Cancer
Uranus 17°26' Gemini sextile Pluto 18°34' Leo
Neptune 5°52' Libra semisquare Pluto 18°34' Leo
Sun/Moon midpoint at 0°12' Leo square Moon 2°47! Scorpio
Sun 15°24' Gemini square Sun/Moon midpoint at 11°24! Virgo
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Gary
June 6, 1946 / Brinkley, AR/ 11:50 AM CST
Placidus Houses
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Sue
July 13, 1951 / Tokyo, Japan / 2:10 PM JST
Placidus Houses
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Compatibility Analysis of “William” and “Ruth”

This couple felt an immediate attraction due to their mutual Venus-Uranus aspects.
They fell in love, as reciprocal Sun-Venus contacts encouraged an affectionate exchange.
The passion grew quickly with shared Sun-Mars aspects and even more supportive
Moon-Mars influences. Mutual as well as hard Venus-Mars contacts created romantic
dynamics, but also tension. Mutual Mars-Jupiter aspects also increased the romantic
passion. Reciprocal and challenging Moon-Uranus aspects added excitement along with
emotional erraticism and detachment. Unpredictable mood swings would eventually
arouse great stress and possible emotional separation. In the beginning, she felt compli-
mented by him (Venus-Jupiter). He had a way of bringing out her sense of humor
(Moon-Jupiter). She supported his goals and believed in him with her Jupiter aspecting
his Sun. He seemed to promise her more than he could deliver. Yet, she was sensitive to
his needs as her Venus widely opposed his Moon, and he tried to be sensitive to hers as
his Venus, in Aquarius mind you, was inconjunct her Moon. They also had a shared
sense of identity with mutual Moon-Neptune aspects.
They decided to get married, even though they had only known each other for ap-
proximately four months. Since their relationship was long-distance, she moved to an-
other country with the idea that he would eventually move back to the United States
with her. There was a strong foundation of security due to her Saturn conjunct his
Venus, the planet of comfort and love. His Saturn was sextile her Venus and was also in
square aspect to her Ascendant, a Mars Point, and Descendant, a Venus Point, indicat-
ing that he felt totally comfortable and at ease with the relationship—maybe too com-
fortable. However, Venus-Saturn contacts tend to be very karmic. It was an experience
that neither of them will ever forget. Anyone’s Saturn in hard aspect to your Ascendant,
along with Venus, may have the upper hand. He was in control and apparently liked it
that way, too. This is a reflection of his Sun-Saturn conjunction and Saturn in semi-
square aspect to his Venus.
It wasn't too long after they were married that major problems started to occur.
Their communication broke down, he started controlling her by doing what he wanted,
her self-esteem plummeted due to his demeaning comments, and this became a physi-
cally abusive relationship. What happened?
the situa-
They were financially strapped and he did not seem motivated to change
with him as well.
tion. He began to take his frustration out on her. She became annoyed
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His Saturn in semisquare aspect to her Sun brought out criticism toward her and her
goals, which never materialized as planned. Saturn in sesquiquadrate aspect to her
Moon made it difficult for her to express herself because she was emotionally repressed.
Saturn in semisquare aspect to her Mercury seriously blocked communications for her
and made her fearful of saying something that might upset him. His Pluto and Neptune
were in difficult aspect to her Mercury as well, indicating manipulative tactics by him
and confusion and misunderstandings for both of them. Even though her Jupiter was in
trine aspect to his Mercury, there was a language and cultural barrier that did not help
matters.
Saturn in sextile aspect to her Venus and in square aspect to her Descendant, a
Venus Point, can cause a man to take a women for granted, especially if he wants to
control her. The physical abuse started when transiting Saturn in Pisces in 1994 and
1995 opposed his Mars, Uranus, and Pluto in Virgo, and conjoined his Sun, Mercury,
and Saturn. Transiting Saturn in Pisces also conjoined her Mars and was in semisquare
aspect to her Saturn. Since she was born under a Mars line with her Mars in the fourth
house and with her Saturn in Aquarius in semisquare aspect to Mars, she needs to be
very careful of violence erupting in the home. Her Sun and Mercury in Aries inconjunct
Pluto, indicating resistance and aggressive tendencies, may have also contributed to the
situation.
Other influences were triggered as well. Mars in Pisces exactly opposed Mars in
Virgo. Her Saturn was in sesquiquadrate aspect to his Mars. His Saturn was in wide op-
position to her Mars, and in square aspect to her Ascendant, a Mars Point. Mars-Saturn
influences, if not channeled properly, can lead to aggravation, blocks to one’s desires,
and in extreme cases abuse. Also mutual Mars-Pluto influences intensified the conflict.
He completely lost it. His actions destroyed the love between them. She sadly realized
that it was not going to improve, and they divorced.
When a person starts abusing you, they feel that they can. They have convinced
themselves that this is the way to handle the relationship, to keep it under control. One
of the most painful situations in life is when you love someone and they verbally and/or
physically abuse you. Because you love them, you continue to hope that they will
change. They may only change when you decide to leave them. Too many Saturn con-
tacts, especially with the personal planets and Mars in particular, along with communi-
cation difficulties, shattered this relationship.
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William and Ruth, synastry aspects (Love Relationship Formula aspects

underlined)
Sun 3°51! Pisces semisquare Sun 21°44! Aries
Venus 21°42' Aquarius sextile Sun 21°44! Aries
Sun 3°51' Pisces sextile Venus 10°04! Taurus
Sun 3°51!' Pisces conjunct Mars 24°06! Pisces (wide)
Mars 24°07' Virgo inconjunct Sun 21°44! Aries
Sun 3°51! Pisces conjunct lupiter 3°35' Pisces
Saturn 7°08! Pisces semisquare Sun 21°44! Aries
Moon 27°44! Scorpio trine Moon 25°07! Cancer
Venus 21°42' Aquarius inconjunct Moon 25°07! Cancer
Moon 27°44! Scorpio oppose Venus 10°04! Taurus (wide)
Moon 27°44! Scorpio trine Mars 24°06! Pisces
Mars 24°07' Virgo sextile Moon 25°07' Cancer
Jupiter 19°08' Taurus sextile Moon 25°07! Cancer
Saturn 7°08' Pisces sesquiquadrate Moon 25°07' Cancer
Moon 27°44! Scorpio square Uranus 26°37' Leo
Uranus 13°11' Virgo semisquare Moon 25°07! Cancer
Neptune 20°00! Scorpio trine Moon 25°07! Cancer
Moon 27°44! Scorpio conjunct Neptune 12°41! Scorpio (wide)
Sun 3°51' Pisces semisquare Mercury 17°24! Aries
Mercury 2°39' Pisces semisquare Mercury 17°24! Aries
Mercury 2°39! Pisces conjunct Jupiter 3°35' Pisces
Saturn 7°08! Pisces semisquare Mercury 17°24! Aries
Uranus 13°11' Virgo inconjunct Mercury 17°24! Aries
Neptune 20°00! Scorpio inconjunct Mercury 17°24' Aries
Pluto 15°19! Virgo inconjunct Mercury 17°24! Aries
Mars 24°07' Virgo sesquiquadrate Venus 10°04! Taurus
Jupiter 19°08' Taurus conjunct Venus 10°04' Taurus (wide)
Descendant, a Venus Point, 2°10! Sagittarius square Jupiter 3°35' Pisces
Venus 21°42' Aquarius conjunct Saturn 10°08' Aquarius (wide
Saturn 7°08' Pisces sextile Venus 10°04' Taurus
Venus 21°42' Aquarius oppose Uranus 26°37' Leo
Uranus 13°11' Virgo trine Venus 10°04' Taurus
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Pluto 15°19! Virgo trine Venus 10°04' Taurus

Mars 24°07! Virgo oppose Jupiter 3°35! Pisces (wide)
Jupiter 19°08' Taurus sextile Mars 24°06! Pisces
Mars 24°07' Virgo oppose Mars 24°06! Pisces
Saturn 7°08' Pisces square Ascendant, a Mars Point, 3°10! Sagittarius
Saturn 7°08' Pisces oppose Mars 24°06! Pisces (wide)
Mars 24°07' Virgo sesquiquadrate Saturn 10°08' Aquarius
Uranus 13°11' Virgo oppose Mars 24°06! Pisces (wide)
Mars 24°07' Virgo semisquare Neptune 12°41' Scorpio
Neptune 20°00' Scorpio trine Mars 24°06! Pisces
Mars 24°07' Virgo conjunct Pluto 7°51' Virgo (wide)
Pluto 15°19' Virgo oppose Mars 24°06! Pisces (wide)
Saturn 7°08! Pisces conjunct Jupiter 3°35! Pisces
Saturn 7°08' Pisces trine Neptune 12°41' Scorpio
Saturn 7°08' Pisces oppose Pluto 7°51' Virgo (wide)
Pluto 15°19! Virgo inconjunct Saturn 10°08! Aquarius
Jupiter 19°08' Taurus oppose Neptune 12°41' Scorpio
Uranus 13°11' Virgo oppose Jupiter 3°35' Pisces (wide)
Pluto 15°19' Virgo oppose Jupiter 3°35! Pisces (wide)
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William
February 22, 1965 / Kingston, Jamaica / 11:30 AM EST
Placidus Houses
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Ruth
April 11, 1962 / Philadelphia, PA /10:00 PM EST
Placidus Houses
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All about
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y where should 1
go to Meet someone?

As a counseling astrologer I was constantly asked, Where should I go to meet someone?

The ruling planet of the seventh house holds great significance here as it describes by
house and sign where you are most likely going to meet your partner. For instance, if
you have Sagittarius on your seventh-house cusp and Jupiter resides in your sixth
house, you will meet people who want to be in a relationship with you through your
work environment. Aspects to seventh-house planets, in this case Jupiter, will be influ-
ential as well. For example, if the Sun in your third house of siblings is in trine aspect
to Jupiter, the ruler of your seventh, a brother or sister could be instrumental in intro-
ducing you to a romantic prospect.

The Planet of Your Seventh House in Your First House

You may meet someone by pursuing your personal and physical interests. Nancy met
her husband, Tom, in a Buddhist center while doing yoga and meditation, which was a
daily ritual for her. She has Gemini on the seventh-house cusp and Mercury, which

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rules Gemini, in the first house, with Saturn in the ninth house of spiritual pursuits in
trine aspect to Mercury.

The Planet of Your Seventh House in Your Second House

You may meet someone by enhancing your self-esteem and capitalizing upon your po-
tentials and possessions. Holly met her husband, Bill, through a video dating service.
Not only was the video all about her, but she was keen on selecting someone who was
going to improve her image. She has Taurus on the seventh-house cusp and Venus,
which rules Taurus, in the second house conjunct Mercury.

The Planet of Your Seventh House in Your Third House

You may meet someone through some form of educational activity, within your close
community, through a sibling or cousin, or through traveling. Kathy met her husband,
Rik, at her ballet school, which is very involved with the community. She has Taurus on
the seventh-house cusp and Venus, which rules Taurus, in the third house.

The Planet of Your Seventh House in Your Fourth House

You may meet someone through the company of your parents or in a social setting in
the home. Jan met her husband, David, at a party her parents gave in their condo-
minium. She has Capricorn on the seventh-house cusp and Saturn, which rules Capri-
corn, in the fourth house.

The Planet of Your Seventh House in Your Fifth House

You may meet someone in a creative, romantic, leisurely, or recreational environment.
Jim met his wife, Judy, at a tennis tournament. Even as a married couple they are both
driven to play the game. He has Scorpio on the seventh-house cusp and Pluto, which
rules Scorpio, in the fifth house.

The Planet of Your Seventh House in Your Sixth House

You may meet someone through work or environments that promote health and well-
being. Nick met his wife, Mary, while working as a musician at a nightclub. Nick has
Gemini on the seventh-house cusp and Mercury, which rules Gemini, in the sixth house
in trine aspect to Neptune in the tenth house.
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The Planet of Your Seventh House in Your Seventh House

You may meet someone through a close relation, business association, or a familiar cou-
ple. John met his wife, Lynn, at the home of a married couple he knows very well. He
has Sagittarius on the seventh-house cusp and Jupiter, which rules Sagittarius, in the
seventh house in trine aspect to Pluto in the fourth house of home.

The Planet of Your Seventh House in Your Eighth House

You may meet someone through financial institutions, such as banks or insurance com-
panies, at monetary-strategy seminars, rejuvenation centers or spas, or through meta-
physical or occult studies. Mary met her husband, Ron, who works in investing, at a
bank. She has Cancer on the seventh-house cusp and the Moon, which rules Cancer, in
the eighth house.

The Planet of Your Seventh House in Your Ninth House

You may meet someone through higher educational environments, religious/spiritual
pursuits, traveling, advertising, publishing, the legal field, or long-distance communi-
cations media. Tim met his wife, Carol, at a graphic artist advertising firm. He has Leo
on the seventh-house cusp and the Sun, which rules Leo, in the ninth house conjunct
Venus and Jupiter.

The Planet of Your Seventh House in Your Tenth House

You may meet someone through the enhancement of your career and reputation. Nela
met her husband, Dan, while attending to her career, which was managing one of her
video/photography stores. She has Taurus on her seventh-house cusp and Venus, which
rules Taurus, in her tenth house of career.

The Planet of Your Seventh House in Your Eleventh House

You may meet someone through a friend or group organization, or when pursuing your
She has
dreams. Debbie met her husband, John, through a group of close friends.
eleventh
Aquarius on the seventh-house cusp and Uranus, which rules Aquarius, in the
house.
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The Planet of Your Seventh House in Your Twelfth House

You may meet someone through being of service behind-the-scenes, attending to spiri-
tual obligations, discovering hidden talents, self-analysis, hospitals, retreats, or anything
that is secretive. Anne, a college student at the time, met her husband, Frank, while
serving men food and drink at a USO party during World War II. She has Leo on her
seventh-house cusp and the Sun, which rules Leo, in her twelfth house. Her Sun is also
in opposition to Neptune in Leo, which rules dancing. It was the first dance that
evening that took this couple to the altar.
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y The Houses and
House sector DIVISIons

The Three House Sector Divisions

The twelve house sectors in astrology are divided into three categories called angular,
succedent, and cadent. Each group has its own features.

The Angular Houses

The angular houses are the first, fourth, seventh, and tenth houses. These house sectors
are known as power points since they form the cross that sustains the chart. The angu-
lar sectors depict worldly happenings and strengthen the character of the individual.
They enforce the idea of interacting with others. Planets in these houses are referred to
as being in the foreground. They hold a lot of weight and therefore can help or hinder
an individual depending on the planets involved. Favorable influences to planets in an
angular house describe a more fulfilled person. Unfavorable aspects denote a dominat-
ing, egotistical personality.

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The Succedent Houses

The succedent houses are the second, fifth, eighth, and eleventh houses. These house
sectors indicate where you hold steadfast to your goals to maintain self-perseverance.
The succedent sectors instill determination to acquire results and attain more security.
Planets in these houses are referred to as being in the middle ground and, although sig-
nificant, tend to hold less weight.
Favorable aspects to planets in succedent houses denote one gravitating toward so-
lidifying partnerships where there is much meaningful sharing. Unfavorable influences
indicate an unstable direction in life, sometimes due to fickle romances.

The Cadent Houses

The cadent houses are the third, sixth, ninth and twelfth houses. These house sectors
indicate that it’s in your best interest to develop your mental skills so that you may.
adapt to ever-changing life experiences. The cadent sectors challenge you to confront a
hidden persona and to find ways to interact with the world. Conceptual thinking does
not need to be an isolated experience, but can be channeled by being of service to oth-
ers. Planets in these houses are referred to as being in the background and are consid-
ered to be in a weak position, thus they may not be able to support or undermine you,
depending on the influences involved.
Favorable aspects to planets in the cadent houses allow one’s ideas to follow a course
of action that supports intellectual exchanges. Unfavorable influences denote the ten-
dency to hold on to stubborn opinions and not want to be flexible with one’s plans.
Compatibility exists between the angular, succedent, and cadent houses as well. If
the majority of a person’s planets are in cadent houses, their thought-provoking ener-
gies may clash with someone who is action-oriented due to several planets in angular
houses. If the majority of a person’s planets are in succedent houses, they may find they
are able to connect with either the angular personality or the cadent one, since the
succedent personality wants to establish a partnership link.

The Houses
The houses are where the experience happens. Knowing what each house sector repre-
sents will give you a clearer understanding of the significance of a planetary placement
in the chart.
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The First House

The first house sector represents the self—your physicality, personality, appearance, and
approach to your life goals. The manner in which you extend yourself will establish
your identity. The Ascendant, or rising sign, which is the cusp of the first house, de-
scribes your projection out into the world. It is the mask you wear; the first impression
you make on others.

The Second House

The second house sector represents earned income, values, possessions, and resources.
Utilizing your potentials indicates how you will earn money and secure what you value.
Establishing yourself financially is a reflection of your self-esteem. When we appreciate
who we are by capitalizing upon our skills and talents, we are able to attract more into
our lives. However, a true meaningful existence comes from developing spiritual and
psychological resources.

The Third House

The third house sector represents communications, basic education, local environment,
siblings, cousins, and brief trips. Gathering information and interacting with others will
build upon your intellectual prowess. Relating to your brothers, sisters, cousins, and
neighborhood will generate a community spirit of cooperation. Learning is encouraged
as you obtain the facts that will secure your surroundings. Short journeys further your
understanding.

The Fourth House

The fourth house sector represents the home, one’s roots, emotional foundations, and
one parent, usually the mother. All concerns about family living are indicated here, in-
cluding real estate transactions. Psychological feelings may lead you to discover more
about your heritage. One parent will be instrumental in shaping your emotional base.
The fourth-house cusp describes your inner personality founded on early childhood
experiences.

The Fifth House

The fifth house sector represents creative activities, romance, leisure life, speculative
ventures, and offspring. Your creative experiences offer you an emotional outlet through
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which you may fully express yourself. The most significant aspect of creation is having
children. What you create, be it art or children, is your legacy. There is opportunity to
enhance romantic exchanges and relax in leisurely style. You will speculate on what life
has to offer and where you might make an investment.

The Sixth House

The sixth house sector represents daily routine, work, service, and health and well-
being. You will have to take on responsibilities and be of service to those in need. Al-
though you have a daily agenda, you will learn how to make adjustments when and
where they are required. Taking care of the basic needs of your physical, mental, and
spiritual bodies will demand attention to maintain overall good health.

The Seventh House

The seventh house sector represents close relationships, marriage, and the public. You
will develop the capacity to relate to those around you, especially on an equal basis in
an intimate relationship. Looking for feedback, you will appreciate the idea of sharing.
You must learn how to cooperate with your partner in order to maintain a peaceful bal-
ance in the union, knowing that every relationship requires some give and take. Your
significant other may complement your life by entering into the institution of marriage
with you.

The Eighth House

The eighth house sector represents regeneration, death/rebirth, sex, joint financial ven-
tures, taxes, insurance, and inheritances. You are encouraged to draw upon your inner
resources to undertake a personal transformation so that you may evolve to your high-
est potential. Old, worn-out issues are released so that you may experience a rebirth on
an emotional, psychological, physical, or spiritual level. It is through partnerships that
you will want to seek unity and therefore rid yourself of any conditions that limit your
experience. Intense changes will always bring about an ending, but also a new begin-
ning. The handling of money has much to do with life-and-death experiences and se-
curing your status in society. Finances may be well invested to support your existence.

The Ninth House

The ninth house sector represents higher education, philosophy, spirituality, religion,
foreign dealings, and long-distance communication and travel. There is an opportunity
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to expand your intellectual horizons, going beyond your close environment. You may
indulge in traveling or involve yourself with spiritual or religious teachings. Wisdom is
gained by opening your perspective to educational pursuits and establishing your phi-
losophy about life.

The Tenth House

The tenth house sector represents your career, reputation, social status, and one parent,
usually the father. You will find your place in the world by establishing your reputation
and career position. It is only through achievement that you can reach success with
your chosen ambition, securing yourself in a more prominent status. Your professional
image may be defined by others as you build a more successful foundation through
your social involvements. One parent will be instrumental in forming your career.

The Eleventh House

The eleventh house sector represents friends, groups, organizations, and future hopes
and dreams. Looking ahead you will want to define your ideals so that you can attain
your prospective goals. Selective choices will have to be made among future possibili-
ties in order to realize your dreams. Your reward will be as brilliant as your everyday
achievements. Friends and organizations that share your vision will offer their support.
You may attract groups with similar progressive ideals that develop an awareness for
humanity.

The Twelfth House

The twelfth house sector represents self-analysis, hidden abilities, secrets, transcending
past issues, hospitals, and behind-the-scenes involvements. Our unconscious experi-
ences from the past lie buried deep within our psyche. Unraveling these karmic issues
will require a psychological transformation that will allow you to realize your potential.
Here
Karmic retribution involves spiritual debts and, once resolved, spiritual rewards.
you meet with challenges that test your faith in yourself. As you rise above past condi-
soul.
tions that have plagued you, you can attend to spiritual obligations that free your
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seventh House
of Relationships

What Type of Mate Will You Choose?

Since the seventh house represents our personal relationships, the type of partner you
will attract is derived from an analysis of the planets in your seventh house. You will be
inclined to choose a partner who in some manner exemplifies the qualities of the
planet(s) residing in your seventh house, along with the sign on your seventh-house
cusp. Whatever house sector the planet that rules the seventh-house cusp is found in
will add to this scenario. Any aspects from other planets to planet(s) in your seventh
house or the ruling planet of the seventh-house cusp will also influence this interpreta-
tion. Transiting planets may affect the outcome as well.

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Sun in the Seventh House

Minor Influence with Leo on the Seventh-House Cusp
Marriage, committed relationships, and partnerships are the center of attention with the
Sun in the seventh house. You are inclined to find a mate whom you can depend on
and admire. Pride will cause you to be selective in choosing a marriage partner. You are
hopeful that your partner will promote your own strengths where you both feel em-
powered as a couple. A desire for social prestige may cause you to delay marriage. You
need to be careful in seeking out a dominant spouse. You may look for a father figure,
someone you can lean on if necessary. If the Sun is afflicted, you may attract an arro-
gant, selfish, and dictatorial individual. Adverse Pluto aspects instill jealousy and ma-
nipulation. Adverse Neptune aspects bring deception. When Jupiter or Venus are in
positive aspect to the Sun, there is opportunity for a successful marriage.

Moon in the Seventh House

Minor Influence with Cancer on the Seventh-House Cusp
You may experience ambivalent feelings when choosing a partner since you are easily
influenced by your romantic prospects. Yet, there is a strong emotional need for a mate
that will compel you to seek out that special connection. Once found, cooperating with
your partner will help you avoid mood swings that may cause you to feel vulnerable.
There is a tendency to rely on others too much, especially for emotional support, which
could develop into a co-dependent situation that challenges your relationship. You may
need to guard against attracting partners who play on your sentiments and manipulate
you emotionally. For men, there is a desire to have a “mother figure” who nurtures and
protects them.
If the Moon is afflicted, the couple will encounter difficult situations that test their
emotional limits. An over-active Moon could indicate more than one marriage. Since
the Moon is domesticated, it would be best to consider establishing a home environ-
ment. Exercising mutual sensitivity will create deeper bonds.

Mercury in the Seventh House

Minor Influence with Gemini or Virgo on the Seventh-House Cusp
Desiring mental satisfaction, a great deal of thought is applied to establishing a relation-
ship that fulfills an intellectual need. Thus, you will seek out a partner who appeals to
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you intellectually, bringing out your communicative abilities. A person who expresses
interesting concepts will encourage you to develop your own intellectual potential. You
are easily bored with people who are not mentally stimulating. You will lose interest un-
less they are able to inspire a gratifying communicative exchange.
Positive aspects to Mercury indicate an intriguing, witty intelligence in a mate, along
with excellent speaking skills and social etiquette. Adverse influences indicate argu-
ments, or at least a clashing of opinions. Aim toward cultivating an open exchange of
ideas. Your partner may be involved with literary pursuits, education, sales, or some
form of communications media.

Venus in the Seventh House

Minor Influence with Taurus or Libra on the Seventh-House Cusp
Since Venus rules the seventh house, there is a need to bring balance into a relationship
by sharing one’s ideas and experiences to accomplish this one-on-one exchange. You are
eager to be received well by those around you as you attract affectionate exchanges. You
may need to temper your desire for too much affection, as this will put pressure on
your mate. Wanting to achieve the perfect marriage may be an unrealistic goal. Never-
theless, you will appreciate your relationship. You wish to have a partner who finds
pleasure in a harmonious lifestyle, surrounded by quality and beauty. Your partner's
physical appearance will be important to you. A mutual affectionate exchange needs to
be adopted to balance your expectations of each other. Indulging in sensuous delights
can be thoroughly enjoyed, but depending on your partner to ease every unsettling cir-
cumstance is too demanding. A joint effort will create a more amicable environment
where both of you benefit.
If Venus is in favorable aspect, a promising marital situation will be the result. Your
partner may also be blessed with good fortune, monetarily and socially.
Adverse aspects to Venus may undermine your relationship, causing disappointment
and loss. Saturn afflicting Venus will cause insecurities and delays. Neptune afflicting
Venus will attract deceptive conditions. All discordant aspects need to be monitored to
achieve true relationship development.
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Mars in the Seventh House

Minor Influence with Aries on the Seventh-House Cusp
Mars conquers and rules when it resides in the sector of relationships. Chances are your
partner will like to call the shots and dominate the relationship. This placement will
bring about combative situations where one person is antagonized and feels defensive.
As social relations are very active, you will find a partner who is worldly and not afraid
of competition, and who will challenge you to compete as well. This behavior may
bring out the worst in your relationship, unless you learn to adjust to such aggressive
behavior. Your relationship to your partner may seem unexciting without a forceful, ar-
gumentative engagement. Mars enjoys confrontation and likes to win, so don’t expect a
compromising attitude. Your partner may be connected with the police or the armed
forces, or may be an athlete or a pioneer conquering new territory. For women, you will
want a mate who is willing to fight for you, or a man, bound by tradition, who takes the
lead. For men, you will attract a woman who is direct, controlling, takes the initiative,
and is able to handle both domestic and work responsibilities. Romance can be very
passionate as your partner will not settle for anything else but intense desire. Ardent at-
tractions will prompt you to get involved at a young age. There is a desire to marry
early, especially if the aspects to Mars are favorable.
When Mars is afflicted, strife and hostility could be the result with a partner. Tem-
pers tend to flare, as Mars wishes to control and dominate, even resorting to violent
behavior if necessary. Aggressive actions will not deliver wanted results. You may have
to change your war-like strategy to a more compromising one in order to come out
winning.

Jupiter in the Seventh House

Minor Influence with Sagittarius on the Seventh-House Cusp
Jupiter's benefic influence promises a happy and successful relationship or marriage,
unless afflicted by adverse aspects. You will attract a partner who expands your hori-
zons. This inspiration will only improve your relationship. You may develop a whole
new philosophy about life as you are encouraged through your partner to extend your-
self socially, and to enjoy other cultures and life experiences. You may depend on your
partner to provide you with avenues that build confidence and purpose.
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When both partners have Jupiter in the house of Venus, the couple benefits tremen-
dously because they are able to bring out the best in each other. Your mate may be
in-
volved with the law, philosophy, teaching, sales, promotional enterprises, foreign deal-
ings, or travel.
Adverse aspects to Jupiter will be challenging. Hardships are incurred when Saturn
influences Jupiter. A marriage later in life is possible. An afflicted Jupiter denotes a part-
ner who is self-indulgent, opinionated, lazy, extravagant, and dishonest. Discordant
Neptune aspects attract what seems to be a dream relationship, only to end in deceit
and betrayal. Since Jupiter's influence is so resilient, even after a nasty break-up you will
find the courage to seek out another relationship. Although you may need to curb high
expectations and a tendency toward over-indulgence, you naturally bring out the best
in others, emphasizing their generosity and friendliness.

Saturn in the Seventh House

Minor Influence with Capricorn on the Seventh-House Cusp
You will approach relationships with a serious, calculating attitude, recognizing that
you gain by being responsible toward your partner. You desire a mate who gives you a
sense of purpose and encourages a dutiful disposition. A mature partner will be appeal-
ing to you, as this type of person represents stability and the opportunity to achieve
success. Yet, you may be reluctant to accept the responsibilities of a long-term relation-
ship. Fears and insecurities about commitment may cause delays in marriage. You may
have concerns that a controlling partner may take advantage of you. Until you feel secure
with yourself, a permanent relationship should be carefully considered. Women may
tend to look for and marry a “father figure,” someone to guide them through life. If dis-
cipline is lacking, such paternal stability can be extremely helpful. Saturn wants us to be
more reliable, to face up to the realities in our life that will secure a solid foundation. Ex-
ercising complete faith and loyalty toward your partner is what is required to maintain a
long-lasting relationship.
Being that the seventh house is also the area of open enemies, avoiding your obliga-
tions may bring an unwanted reprisal from your partner. If you neglect your partner's
needs and happiness, you may be neglecting your own as well. Saturn in the house of
Venus represents a karmic debt owed to your partner. Any form of abuse, however, is
not to be tolerated.
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An afflicted Saturn indicates an unhappy marriage, yet you may feel inclined to stay
in the relationship, as Saturn seeks stability here. This union may come with restrictions
from a controlling partner, who may also be cold, critical, and uncommunicative.
Favorable aspects to Saturn may attract a partner who is industrious, faithful, de-
pendable, conscientious, and seemingly unaffectionate but responsible. Although your
partner may be uncommunicative at times, he or she will provide a solid, hard-working
base that you can rely on. Appreciating your partner will bring more stability and un-
derstanding to your relationship.

Uranus in the Seventh House

Minor Influence with Aquarius on the Seventh-House Cusp
You will have an unconventional approach to your relationships where marriage may
be idealistic or unusual, with platonic overtones. Your partner may be younger or older
than you, from a different ethnic group or cultural background, or of the same sex.
Everything that departs from tradition is considered to be Uranian. A lot of space or
breathing room may be necessary in your relationship so both of you are able to realize
your individuality. Being apart for long periods of time or living in separate residences
are two possibilities. On occasion, the accelerated personal growth of one party out-
shines their partner and a drifting apart occurs. Uranus in the seventh house is associ-
ated with divorce, but if the union is exciting and original enough, the couple will
enjoy their time together. Any new developments in the relationship should be taken
nonchalantly.
Under positive aspects you will most likely choose a partner who has a unique ap-
proach to life and wishes to maintain a separate identity. Their inventive, creative, and
original approach will inspire you to further your own uniqueness, as well as contribute
to the relationship itself. The personal magnetism of your partner is quite appealing,
along with their brilliant mentality, sometimes bordering on genius. Subconsciously,
you may be looking for a partner who can be a dynamic catalyst, challenging you to
break with tradition.
Adverse aspects to Uranus may reveal a restless disposition and fanaticism in your
mate that requires patience and understanding. If you are not willing to give your mate
sufficient freedom, tensions may ensue that cause discord in your relationship. Your in-
clination to find excitement in romantic alliances will stimulate you to experience love
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alfairs that sour your commitment. If your mate is unfaithful, you may need to question
why you selected a dishonest partner. The conventional marriage will be tested with
Uranus residing in the sector of relationships. To uphold this union you may need to be
understanding of your partner's eccentric, progressive ideas and to give them the free-
dom they need to be themselves. Loving someone does not mean binding them to an
agreement, but allowing them to discover their potential.

Neptune in the Seventh House

Minor Influence with Pisces on the Seventh-House Cusp
Yearning for your “soulmate,” you seek the ideal marriage. But you are likely to be dis-
appointed since the perfect relationship does not exist. To bring your vision into mani-
festation, you need to be realistic about feeling entitled to have the ideal union. In order
to attract what you wish for, you must believe it is right for you to have. A partner with
integrity will fulfill your need for a spiritual connection.
Pursuing a partner you idolize but who cannot be there for you is a lost cause. Your
partner may be unattainable due to their affluence, status, religion, or nationality.
You are inclined to establish a partnership centered on being overly sympathetic or
full of admiration. In either case, you could become a victim. Showing compassion
from a spiritual perspective allows you to maintain your power so that the other person
does not take advantage of your good nature. Overglamorizing your partner will one
day lead to a rude awakening. You will realize the type of partner you attracted was not
at all what you had imagined. You may need to be more selective in choosing a partner
where there is mutual respect and loving understanding.
Under favorable aspects, a creative individual will inspire you to new heights. Your
mate could be a poet, an entertainer, an artist, a spiritual or religious person, or some-
one who is involved with film or television. Platonic partnerships tend to go smoothly.
An afflicted Neptune in the sector of relationships brings major disappointments
and loss in intimate partnerships. One is completely fooled by their partner's demeanor.
Deception in marriage can be the result of being with an alcoholic, drug addict, homo-
sexual, or downright liar. A self-deceptive tendency will continue to attract unstable sit-
uations. Your involvement with unstable, indolent mates may leave you feeling drained.
or disabled,
Always remember, when taking care of someone who is in ill health, needy,
partnership.
don't forget to be there for yourself. One must be realistic to attract a solid
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Curbing the urge to become involved with vague romantic attractions that never reach
the ideal is necessary if you hope to attract a substantial relationship.

Pluto in the Seventh House

Minor Influence with Scorpio on the Seventh-House Cusp
There may be a subconscious desire to comprehend the depth of your being. To under-
stand your deepest resources, you maysseek out an overpowering partner. Although
your partner will challenge you, they will unleash the strength you need to transcend
past issues, especially those issues that continue to plague you. You wish for a strong,
dominating mate, one you can admire, yet you are resentful when their fortitude over-
whelms you and you are unable to handle the repercussions. You will discover pro-
found insights that supersede a superficial persona. You will gain tremendously from
the wisdom acquired.
Since Pluto deals with extremes, you are either intensely committed or not commit-
ted at all. Favorable aspects to Pluto encourage a long-term commitment, where your
partner promotes personal growth. Fated meetings are inspired that bring a deeper sense
of purpose into the relationship. Your partner will project a strong, self-sufficient image
that helps further your own metamorphosis.
When Pluto is affected by unfavorable aspects and placement, intense problems in
the relationship surface that will require the effort of both [Link] transcend. If you
are not willing to change along with your partner, then you may be alienated from them
until you learn to resolve your deep-rooted issues. Pluto in the seventh house of Venus
forces you to find a meaningful purpose in having a relationship so that you might be
changed forever. Unfinished business from a past life may need to be addressed. Shock-
ing situations may occur because of your partner’s sarcastic attitude and complete disre-
gard for your feelings. You may be the one left with mounting responsibilities after your
partner has disappeared. Facing a precipice after a marriage has fallen apart is not un-
common. When you learn to understand your inner self, you can remain detached and
straightforward about your life, not allowing your partner's will to entice you into ques-
tionable affairs that undermine your integrity. Concentrating on your personal evolution
will promote regeneration so that you may discover for yourself what your true, sub-
conscious motives are. In this manner you are able to perpetuate a lasting relationship.
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the Houses

The Love Relationship Formula can also be interpreted by placing the planets of one per-
son's chart into the houses of the partner's natal chart. Since each house sector is repre-
sented by a certain planet, placing a planet by sign and degree in a house sector either
positively emphasizes that influence or detracts from it. If your mate’s Jupiter falls in your
second house of values and self-esteem, the house of Venus, your earning potential and
self-esteem will be enhanced by your partner. Your partner's planets falling in a certain
house sector does not take the place of the stronger dynamic of your partner's planet(s)
aspecting a planet in your chart (synastry), but adds to it. Adverse aspects occurring in
your partner’ chart to a natal planet will undermine the planet's influence when placed

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in your chart. Transits, progressions, and solar arc directions to your partner's planets
may also affect this interpretation.

Sun in the First House

Your partner's Sun falling in or aspecting your first house will bring forth a higher vital-
ity, motivating you to excel and compete. The emphasis is on the needs of the self. You
will have an opportunity to release your inhibitions and aggressively pursue your de-
sires. Your solar partner is able to respect and appreciate who you are, as they see them-
selves through you. This is especially true if the Sun is conjunct the Ascendant, as the
Ascendant is a mirror image of the projection of your personality. If a man’s Sun falls in
the first house, near a woman's Ascendant, he will feel comfortable expressing himself
effectively in the male role. She will encourage him to take the lead, appreciating his
importance and acknowledging him with high regard. He will feel accepted in being
able to project himself naturally toward his lady friend. A woman's Sun in the man’s first
house would have a similar effect. When the Sun is in adverse aspect, major differences
may arise where the Sun person attempts to win over their partner with a charming
manner, or the complete reverse, dominating their partner, to no avail.
The Sun in the house of Mars, a pairing in the Love Relationship Formula, inspires
confidence, along with warmth and affection. One’s passions are aroused with this
placement as well. A partner's image is enhanced, benefiting the couple as a whole. Your
solar partner will supply the support and morale, yet expects some recognition as the
Sun does seek attention here. You reap the glory, yet in turn have admiration for your
solar partner. Sharing in the enjoyment of displaying your highly regarded, beautiful re-
lationship will benefit both you and your partner.

Sun in the Second House

When your partner's Sun falls in or aspects your second house, there is a concentrated
focus on the accumulation and capitalization of your resources, financial and personal.
Skills and talents are brought to light to improve your monetary status. Your solar mate
attracts opportunity that benefits you, even if it involves providing the financial back-
ing. Monetary security can be attained through reliable guidance.
Under adverse aspects, monetary difficulty may be present. Your partner may also
have too many expectations of your potential, including financial independence. A gen-
erous nature will need to be acknowledged to continue congenial ties. Your solar mate
feels that they have earned the recognition. Bestowing kindness for services rendered
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will placate any needs. Unless it is under adverse aspect, the

Sun in the house of Venus,
which is part of the Love Relationship Formula, wishes to compliment
their partner by
showing respect and affection, emphasizing their good traits, including
physical attrac-
tion. By encouraging your potentials, your self-esteem will increase
and in turn gener-
ate monetary gain that provides mutual benefit.

Sun in the Third House

When your partner's Sun falls in or aspects your third house, there is an emphasis
on
interacting in your environment, especially where new information is gathered. You are
mentally stimulated, learning, formulating, and exchanging ideas that open up your
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perspective and allow you to appreciate the art of conversing. Your solar mate encour-
ages you to express your point of view and will listen attentively. This mental exchange
promotes camaraderie.
Although your partner will expect you to be able to tackle any problem, determine
an agenda, or make plans for traveling, they will provide the intellectual insight to help
you do so successfully. A platonic brotherly or sisterly companionship is highlighted
rather than a marital situation of husband and wife.

Sun in the Fourth House

When your partner’s Sun falls in or aspects your fourth house, especially in conjunction
to the Imum Coeli, you may find an inner comfort through your solar partner's ability to
build up your self-confidence. Your mate allows you to literally feel at home here. This
is the house of the Moon, which tends to rely on the Sun. A Sun/Moon coupling is a
strong match in the Love Relationship Formula.
Your partner may have a tendency to take on a parental role with you, as you are in-
tuitively looking for guidance. Bringing out the potential in the home, they present an
extraordinary collection of interior living ideas that you will find appealing. Although
your solar mate may have certain standards, you will subconsciously go along with
them to emulate the example.
Adverse aspects to the Sun may bring emotional issues that test your confidence and
cause an unsettledness in the home. Your solar partner may not offer the leadership you
are seeking or be a domestic wizard. You may find yourself relying on your own inner
strength to steer you through challenges on the home front.
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Sun in the Fifth House

When your partner’s Sun falls in or aspects your fifth house, you are encouraged to
enjoy creativity, romance, recreational activities, and speculative ventures to the fullest.
Your involvement will only increase your pleasure with your solar partner. You will feel
more at ease, putting your worries aside to appreciate leisure life and the world of en-
tertainment. Romantic activities are enhanced as your solar partner delights in your af-
fectionate exchanges.
Your partner will promote any creative or recreational pursuits, knowing that you
will find more fulfillment through participation. Your involvement with children may
be more pronounced, and if other astrological factors agree, raising your offspring will
be a welcomed experience.

Sun in the Sixth House

When your partner's Sun falls in or aspects your sixth house, they can be of great assis-
tance to you, serving your needs. Since your solar partner appreciates your services as
well, they will also want you to return the favor. If you are not functioning up to par,
suggestions on how to improve your output will be discussed, and you will value your
partner's support to maximize your efforts.
Having the Sun in the sixth house is a very platonic position where there is, gener-
ally speaking, no emotional involvement. It can indicate a relationship between em-
ployer and employee that ends up being temporary. Needs attract relationships, and if
there is a need that is being accommodated by a work situation, then the union may
continue, yet is still deemed to be short-term. Your solar partner will have expectations
and wish to be compensated for services rendered.
Adverse aspects to the Sun will cause difficult situations to appear on the job. If your
health practitioner's afflicted Sun falls in your sixth house, you may be misdiagnosed.
Finding a doctor whose Sun supports your sixth house of health is worth the effort.
Your partner may be the cause of added stress to your daily routine. Both of you will
benefit from attending to your health and well-being.

Sun in the Seventh House

When a person’ Sun falls in or aspects your seventh house, especially in conjunction to
the Descendant, it indicates a very karmic relationship, especially when it is mutual. Al-
though the person may feel the karma, they may want to hide, too, so as to hopefully
avoid it. But karma needs to be confronted. Under favorable aspects to your partner's
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Sun, a significant relationship can be developed that leads to a commitment. Your solar
partner emphasizes the better traits of the relationship, promoting a diplomatic balance
based on respect. Your weak points may be exposed only to be strengthened by the
support of your solar mate. This connection marks the ideal partner, one who is always
acting in your best interests. The Sun in the house of Venus, a powerful connection in
the Love Relationship Formula, will motivate you toward fulfilling worldly ambitions
and exploring what can be achieved in relating to others. Romantically, you will be se-
lective in appeasing your tastes and desires. You will emanate an affectionate nature to-
ward your solar partner, revealing your true feelings.
Adverse aspects to the Sun could lead to a rivalry, where your partner turns out to
be a worthy adversary. You may feel vulnerable that your once-loving confidante may
reveal your personal flaws to their benefit. Eliciting the cooperation of a disgruntled
solar mate will require an affectionate manner. Unconditional love works wonders.

Sun in the Eighth House

When your partner’ Sun falls in or aspects your eighth house, you are encouraged to
make a metamorphic change in your life. You are destined to be reborn by relinquish-
ing old patterns that will be addressed by your solar mate. Much thought will be given
to past loves, life-and-death issues, and monetary handlings. You will discover with
added insights that you can now face these problems once and for all.
Since the eighth house deals with fated relationships, you will feel the need to pay
back some karmic debt to your partner. According to the aspects to the Sun, this may
bring freedom to these two souls or instigate further complications in working this oblig-
ation out. Either way, there is much to be learned and gained regardless of the outcome.
your
An afflicted Sun denotes a very critical solar mate, where you will have to stand
. The Sun
ground and display your strengths to handle a possibly undermining situation
will require
person is not tolerant of a weak character. Winning your solar partner over
you empower
that you respect yourself and show the confidence to prove it. Unless
may destroy your self-
yourself, you will be met with disapproval and degradation that
limited and sometimes
esteem and desire for personal growth. Intimate exchanges are
denied to further demean you.
that add to your evolve-
Favorable aspects to the Sun support rebirth experiences
offering good advice that ben-
ment. Your solar mate is inclined to assist you financially,
promising as long as there are no
efits you in the long run. Joint monetary ventures are
produce a strong sexual attraction that
afflictions to the Sun. Soulmate connections can
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is

is enhanced by harmonious influences to the Sun. Harnessing a deep mutual respect

will allow your relationship to transcend any setbacks that may arise, intensifying the
bond between you.

Sun in the Ninth House

When your partner’s Sun falls in or aspects your ninth house, your life direction will
change as you embrace a new philosophy that becomes your own. Broadening your
horizons through higher education, spirituality, or travel is inspiring. This is a signifi-
cant placement for being guided by the guru. Your solar partner may instill in you their
own beliefs that will only enhance the mental exchange between you both. The Sun in
the house of Jupiter, a combination in the Love Relationship Formula, will enlighten the
intellectual rapport and offer expansive opportunities for growth.
Under adverse aspect, the Sun person may expect you to comprehend and accept
their concepts without rebuttal. Beware of the religious fanatic who attempts to entice
you into a cult. More often than not, misunderstandings occur, along with a clashing of
opinions.
Travel may be a theme in the relationship, especially if you met this way. You may
expand your horizons as you are exposed to other cultures by your solar partner. Under
favorable aspects to the Sun, a subjective understanding will be communicated that
benefits both parties. Fulfillment is attained by moving beyond the confines of your
surroundings and pursuing higher ideals. ;

Sun in the Tenth House

When your partner’ Sun falls in or aspects your tenth house, especially in conjunction
to the Midheaven, your career goals are promoted to enhance your success. Your solar
mate will also want to further your reputation by upgrading your job title, thus im-
proving your status in life. If your solar partner is in an influential position, you may be
introduced to a privileged echelon that supports your advancement. Your partner may
feel responsible for helping you achieve a higher rank. Once a position of importance is
attained, you will be required to maintain your placement.
Adverse aspects to the Sun may hinder you from making progress in your career.
Your reputation could be soured by a solar partner who wants all of the attention and is
looking out for their own best interests.
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Harmonious aspects to the Sun create tremendous ambition, where you will seek
the approval of your superiors to secure your work position. Prestigious connections
will be made that augment your social standing.

Sun in the Eleventh House

When your partner’s Sun falls in or aspects your eleventh house, you are encouraged to
relate to groups so that friendships are enhanced and wished-for goals are achieved.
Your partner may inspire you as well as assist you in realizing your goals by providing
you with the information you need to express your vision. Friendships and group affil-
iations established through your solar spouse may offer you the support you are look-
ing for to achieve your aims.
Unfavorable aspects to the Sun could prevent you from attaining success with your
ambitions. Friends may seem unreliable, vanishing just when you need them.
When the Sun is under favorable influences, your goals are easily accomplished.
Your partner is seen as a caring companion who offers wise advice. Because of your
spouse’ leadership ability, you are inclined to follow their lead, especially in group sit-
uations. They will provide sound guidance in the management of your affairs. Honor-
ing the companionship that develops over time will produce mutual respect. You can
depend on your solar mate to be both a trustworthy friend and lover.

Sun in the Twelfth House

When your partner’s Sun falls in or aspects your twelfth house, you will become more
aware of a need for privacy, self-analysis, and the transcending of past experiences. Your
partner will encourage you to see that working behind the scenes is necessary to
achieve not only worldly objectives but also personal objectives. Great spiritual depth is
attained as you explore the hidden areas of your life.
Under harmonious aspects, you may find that your solar mate is a knowledgeable
sound
advisor, allowing you to unload your burdensome issues while offering you
share your
counsel. Being that you are able to confide in your partner, you are willing to
limitations and
deepest secrets. You are confident in your ability to transcend personal
further your potentials in life.
covert enemy,
Adverse aspects to the Sun indicate that your mate can become your
. Not only will their
taking advantage of any secrets you would rather not have exposed
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advice cause setbacks, but you may be persuaded to become involved with clandestine,
unethical dealings.
Although your solar partner is capable of helping you see your subconscious prob-
lems, it is in your best interests to make an effort to transcend any limitations that may
have held you back from achieving your fullest potential. You are also prompted to seek
out your highest ideals, as the Sun resides in the house of Neptune.

Moon in the First House

When the Moon of your partner falls in or aspects your first house, especially in con-
junction to the Ascendant, an emotional bond is established between the couple. Both
will feel at home with each other. You are willing to compromise to maintain a sensitive
balance in the relationship. This familial behavior is recognized by your lunar mate as
part of their own patterns, creating a mutual approach to goals. When a similar dispo-
sition exists, it adds to the compatibility.
Favorable influences to the Moon will cause your partner to persuade you to express
your sensitivity, through their demonstrative manner. Emotional ideas are the seeds that
you could turn into meaningful projects. Your partner will want to nurture and protect
you when you are ready to launch any worldly venture.
Unfavorable aspects to the Moon will provoke your partner to become quite moody
and uncooperative. Worry and depression may set in that could affect your health. Your
mate may be overly concerned about your problems and want to take measures to allevi-
ate them.
Since your lunar mate will be able to understand the inner workings of their partner,
it will be easier to arouse a compassionate response that is reciprocated. In addition to
an emotional interest, your desire in your mate will instigate a passionate, physical at-
traction, as the Moon resides in the house of Mars. Considering your partner’ feelings,
you will need to change your approach to accommodate their psychological awareness.

Moon in the Second House

When your partner's Moon falls in or aspects your second house, there is an emotional
focus on meaningful values and financial holdings. Your lunar mate will take an interest
in advising you on how to capitalize upon your resources. The Moon is exalted here in
the sign of Taurus, an economically productive sign that likes to see results. Your part-
ner’ intuitive ability will be accurate when selecting investments to increase your gains.
The Moon in the house of Venus, a pairing in the Love Relationship Formula, promotes
feeling, kindness, and generosity, where one takes pleasure in giving. Venus becomes
quite fond of their lunar mate in this regard.
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Adverse aspects to the Moon denote complications with a chosen financial strategy.
Your earnings may fluctuate under the guidance of your partner, causing much stress.
You may be criticized for your lack of efficiency. Your lunar mate may experience mood
swings that are not easily quelled until you are generous in return.
Harmonious aspects to the Moon promote an innate understanding that allows you
to give unconditionally. You are taught what has value, as you yearn for a meaningful
connection with the partner whom you hold in deep regard. A bond of thankfulness
may be formed with those for whom you feel a strong affection.

Moon in the Third House

When your partner's Moon falls in or aspects your third house, they are inclined to pro-
mote your communicative potentials, which will enhance the rapport between you.
Your partner will be intrigued by your mental abilities, including problem-solving tech-
niques. Your mate will be actively involved in imparting a flow of ideas, along with per-
tinent information that improves your own conceptual understanding. When your in-
tellectual prowess is augmented, both parties gain.
Discordant aspects to the Moon may make it difficult to comprehend one’s point of
view. Your lunar mate may become emotional and touchy when you fail to be a good
listener and do not care to converse. Whatever ideas you do choose to express may not
be heard due to your partner's moody disposition or total lack of interest.
Harmonious aspects to the Moon favor educational interests, where you are mentally
stimulated to expand your cerebral point of view. Your mate’s objective will be to open
up your mind to new concepts and help you converse more effectively. If your partner is
looked upon as a mentor, this placement is excellent for increasing the rapport between
teacher and student. What can be gained through traveling may also be introduced by
your lunar partner. Brief trips to connect with siblings or relatives are encouraged.
Learning to appreciate what your partner has to say will expand your intellectual
horizons. An instinctual feel of how to relate to your partner will cause the commu-
nicative exchange to flourish, cultivating a strong friendship.

Moon in the Fourth House

When your partner's Moon falls in or aspects your fourth house, especially in conjunc-
tion to the Imum Coeli, you will feel a close affinity to your lunar mate. Since the Moon
toward
naturally resides in the fourth sector, there is a mutual sensation of empathy
will allow
each other that makes you feel right at home. This powerful emotional link
your partner to anticipate your every response.
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Adverse aspects to the Moon may cause your lunar partner to smother you with too
much nurturing, thus oppressing your efforts. Domestic upheavals are common as
emotional stress becomes excessive. Your partner may feel overly confined by pressures
at home. They may also want to avoid making any property investments that make
them feel trapped. Frequent changes of residence are common.
Under favorable aspects, your partner may prefer the role of mother, wanting to pro-
tect, nurture, and counsel you. A reciprocal, instinctive bond will bring about a greater
understanding between you that may be communicated nonverbally. Suggestions on how
to improve domestic affairs, such as sharpening one’s culinary skills or addressing house-
hold chores, will be openly discussed. Developing a deeper awareness of your intuitive
environment will only improve the emotional connection between you and your mate.

Moon in the Fifth House

When your partner’s Moon falls in or aspects your fifth house, you are encouraged to
pursue your creative talents with your instinctual guidance. There will be support from
your partner as they will intuitively know how best to advise you, finding pleasure in
your quest for personal fulfillment. As a couple you will enjoy the feelings that are em-
anated during romantic and leisurely get-togethers, and you may demonstrate a strong
commitment by sharing in the raising of children. The Moon in the house of the Sun, a
combination in the Love Relationship Formula, indicates a long-lasting union.
Favorable aspects turn your lunar mate into your best fan, someone who will sup-
port your talents and encourage a more dramatic presentation. They will offer insights
that benefit speculative gains as well.
Unfavorable aspects to the Moon can limit your creative expression. Romantic and
leisurely endeavors may be inconsistent. Your partner’s moody temperament may make
life disagreeable at times.
You will become aware of the need to project yourself in a more creative manner
that will be accepted by your audience. Demonstrating what you truly feel will touch
the hearts of many.

Moon in the Sixth House

When your partners Moon falls in or aspects your sixth house, they will offer you insight
into improving conditions with health matters and on the job. You will appreciate how
your partner seems to know just what to say or do to help perfect your daily routine.
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Inharmonious aspects to the Moon may cause a stressful environment on the job, not
to mention the subsequent ill effects on your health. Your partner's temperamental dispo-
sition may create irritable circumstances for both of you. They may become a hindrance
to your job advancement, although they claim to be your equal in handling matters.
Under harmonious aspects, your physical well-being can be upgraded with the help
of your lunar mate. This is similar to a doctor taking a sympathetic interest in his patient.
Instinctual suggestions on how to refine your job situation further your daily progress.
Serving the needs of others will allow your lunar mate to be a Good Samaritan.
There is much to be learned in being of service to others and not being concerned
about what one is receiving in return.

Moon in the Seventh House

When your partners Moon falls in or aspects your seventh house, especially in conjunc-
tion to the Descendant, there is an opportunity to create a strong emotional bond within
the relationship. Your partner will instinctively desire a harmonious balance that engen-
ders a more congenial exchange. Complimenting your persona will be important to your
mate. The sensitive awareness of your lunar mate will promote a favorable reputation
with others, and they may even act as a mediator, negotiating in your best interests.
Under adverse influences, your partner will not tolerate any condescending remarks,
but prefer equal status. A touchy disposition may delay any cooperation.
Positive influences to the Moon in the house of Venus, an important combination in
the Love Relationship Formula, give your lunar mate the opportunity to broaden your
social circle. Their innate understanding will lead you to connections upon which you
can capitalize. You will embrace the emotional link established between the two of you,
knowing that the feelings that are appreciated and respected will only escalate into a
spiritual love.
You will find yourself wanting to compromise with your partner, as a shared collab-
oration is better than none. The fond caress of a couple demonstrates the caring attitude
that one develops over time with this lunar placement.

Moon in the Eighth House

When your partners Moon falls in or aspects your eighth house, there is an emotional in-
tensity connected with partnerships that may even relate back to a previous life. The
Moon in the house of Pluto indicates extremes where you and your lunar mate are either
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seriously involved in a commitment or not. According to what transpired in your rela-

tionship in a past life, you may have a mutual exchange of ardent intimacy or a sense of
alienation from your mate. You have an opportunity to awaken your mates memory
and point out how they can benefit now from what was experienced then, whether it
was good or bad. The intuitive insights gathered from your partner may help guide you
as a couple toward a more evolved commitment.
Discordant aspects to the Moon may cause you to decline from entering into a ro-
mantic relationship with your mate. Joint financial ventures may not succeed as planned.
Disagreements over how to handle monetary dealings, including any inheritances, may
strain the rapport between you. Your partner may not find you trustworthy, creating
quite a dilemma for both of you to resolve. They may become emotionally confused,
dwelling on the negatives of the union.
Harmonious aspects generate gains through joint financial enterprises where payoffs
are used to improve the couple’ life together. Your partner is keen on you developing
your personal growth, that you might feel reborn. Intimate relations are deeply moving,
where you both experience a transcendence together.
You need to take into consideration the fact that evolvement involves the feelings of
your partner, and that respecting those feelings will instigate a lasting relationship.

Moon in the Ninth House

When your partner’s Moon falls in or aspects your ninth house, you will be intuitively
guided by your lunar mate to expand your horizons through educational pursuits and
travel, and through experiencing other cultures. Your mate may feel they comprehend
your beliefs and philosophy about life, but may want to add to your ideas to reshape
your theories. Their intention is to improve upon the intellectual exchange to benefit
the relationship. Traveling to foreign countries is highly encouraged, as your lunar
mate, with their dreamy imagination, will want to explore all facets of the world.
Afflictions to the Moon indicate a lack of understanding of your beliefs, be it reli-
gious or spiritual, or of your philosophical outlook on life. Educational goals may be
limited or not pursued at all, denying you the opportunity to better your standard of
living. The mental rapport that you and your partner desire may be unsatisfying and
disagreeable.
The Moon in the house of Jupiter is a pairing in the Love Relationship Formula. Fa-
vorable influences give your lunar mate an innate ability to expand your philosophical
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horizons, thus benefiting both of you. The discovery of what can be learned from dif-
ferent cultural backgrounds will enhance your sympathetic understanding of the world
around you. This emotional perceptiveness will enrich your intellectual connection.
Appreciating your partner's viewpoint will allow you to be more sensitive to hu-
manity. The result is a shared, higher-minded affinity that enriches you both.

Moon in the Tenth House

When your partners Moon falls in or aspects your tenth house, especially in conjunc-
tion to the Midheaven, they will rely on the intuitive wit that you possess and be ex-
tremely supportive of your ambitions. Your partner's belief in you will help you achieve
success. Inspired by your lunar mate, you are more determined to go that extra mile to
attract the recognition you desire. Your mate may offer suggestions on how to bring out
your dormant skills and talents, protecting your reputation at all costs.
Under adverse aspects, your career may be thwarted by your partner advising you
incorrectly, detracting from your talents. Your dislike of your mate’s damaging efforts
will build resentment that may cause them to malign your reputation. The mishandling
of their own affairs may become a draining burden for you.
Positive aspects to the Moon will enhance your career position. You are destined to
come before the public as you are instinctively guided by your lunar mate. Respect from
others will come easily with your partner's assistance.
You will gain by showing respect for the people who help you, for success in life
also depends on the support we receive from those around us.

Moon in the Eleventh House

When your partner's Moon falls in or aspects your eleventh house, a strong friendship
may develop as your partner is intuitively drawn to you. Your mate will encourage your
ideals and may even share in the pursuit of them. As a couple you will gain from group
associations such as a club or guild.
Under afflicted aspects, your lunar mate’s mood swings may strain friendly ties. As
they reveal a selfish neediness, group affiliations are denied.
When harmonious aspects are present, a bond of companionship is developed that
to-
enriches a long-term relationship. Organizations with similar ideals are enjoyed
your lover and
gether. Displaying a sensitive awareness will cultivate friendships with
those around you.
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Moon in the Twelfth House

When your partners Moon falls in or aspects your twelfth house, they will instinctively
understand your secrets and be able to delve into buried issues that seek to be resolved.
The Moon in the house of Neptune creates a compassionate awareness where your part-
ner will want to nurture and protect you from any harm.
Discordant influences to the Moon may cause your partner to take advantage of you,
exposing your weak points, which could be quite embarrassing. They may even be-
come your secret enemy.
If harmonious influences are present, your lunar mate will be a sympathetic coun-
selor, allowing you to feel comfortable confiding in them. Although your partner's in-
terest is to help you, some deep issues may require your own self-analysis.
It is only through the passage of time that your partner can assist you in transcend-
ing past limitations. Trusting another is a confidence that needs to be earned.

Mercury in the First House

When your partner's Mercury falls in or aspects your first house, especially in conjunc-
tion to the Ascendant, you are inspired to partake in a stimulating intellectual exchange.
Thus, conversation with your Mercurial partner is appealing.
If Mercury is afflicted, the mental rapport is on different wavelengths, where you
cannot seem to find any common ground on which to work [Link]. Misunderstand-
ings may be the result. Repetitious discussion can be draining. Patience is required to
develop a better communicative manner.
Under favorable influences, your Mercurial mate will augment the exchange of
ideas, creating intriguing conversation. You are motivated to participate, knowing there
is great knowledge to be acquired.
The intellectual rapport that your partner instigates will not only continue to en-
hance your relationship, but open up your perspective on how enlightening it can be to
share new concepts.

Mercury in the Second House

When your partner's Mercury falls in or aspects your second house, they may be help-
ful in reorganizing your monetary situation to be more efficient. Any inadequacies will
be addressed. Thoughtful suggestions will be given to improve your financial invest-
ments and returns.
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Any unfavorable aspects to Mercury will cause difficulty in working out an eco-
nomic plan. Your partner's ideas may be too risky, increasing your spending or perpet-
uating a loss of revenue.
Favorable influences indicate that your Mercurial mate will inspire you to develop
financial strategies that upgrade your earnings. Because of their assessment, your in-
come will be more than sufficient. Ideas on how to further one’s monetary earnings can
always be appreciated. However, the final decision is yours.

Mercury in the Third House

When your partner's Mercury falls in or aspects your third house, you are motivated to
share in the intellectual exchange of ideas and opinions. Your Mercurial mate will feel at
ease maintaining an open dialogue with you.
If Mercury is badly aspected, restricted communications lead to misunderstandings
that are difficult to resolve. Your ideas may clash with your partner, causing arguments.
Under well-aspected influences, knowledge is acquired through the discussion of
new and interesting concepts. Ideas flow easily, engendering a successful rapport. Your
partner may put you in touch with the neighborhood and siblings alike. Traveling plans
are encouraged.
We are constantly learning through our interaction with one other. It’s advantageous
to aim toward a communicative exchange that benefits you and your partner.

Mercury in the Fourth House

When your partner's Mercury falls in or aspects your fourth house, especially in con-
junction to the Imum Coeli, your partner will want to understand your deeper emotional
foundations. This is usually derived from your link with your family and what was ex-
perienced. Open expression will be encouraged by your Mercurial mate, giving you an
outlet to demonstrate how you feel. Your mate will also be keen on organizing domes-
tic affairs. Being able to move about when needed or travel out of town can be incorpo-
rated into your daily agenda.
If there are afflictions to Mercury, you may be restricted from expressing how you
feel. Your partner may manipulate your schedule to agree with their own itinerary.
Under positive aspects, your emotional issues are discussed and understood. You
will be instinctively aware of your partner's ideas and how they can improve your do-
your
mestic or personal issues. The household runs smoothly with the assistance of
partner.
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Mercury in the Fifth House

When your partner’s Mercury falls in or aspects your fifth house, you are persuaded by
your partner to pursue creative aspirations, hobbies, or recreational activities. They will
inspire you to find fulfillment with your objectives. Romantic conversation is high-
lighted, which at some point in time will help if the discussion of having children
arises.
Under adverse aspects, your partner may hamper your creative accomplishments.
An overly critical approach may discourage your efforts.
Harmonious influences denote that your Mercurial mate’s ideas will spark your
imagination and excite you with new possibilities. Ideas on any speculative venture are
thoroughly discussed. Creative ambitions are furthered and brought into manifestation
by applying carefully thought-out, intellectual insights to your plan.

Mercury in the Sixth House

When your partner's Mercury falls in or aspects your sixth house, they will be able to
offer you good advice on improving your health through diet or exercise, along with
suggestions on maintaining quality health. In this manner you will be better prepared
to handle daily stress. Your partner will also provide you with insights on being more
efficient on the job.
If discordant influences to Mercury are present, job production is hindered by mis-
information from your partner. Be careful not to get involved with a misleading health
plan that does not bring results.
With favorable aspects, you look forward to the counsel of your partner on physical
fitness. You will also appreciate the work strategies that are designed by your Mercurial
mate to make your job easier. Developing positive health habits and job productivity
will only benefit you in the years to come.

Mercury in the Seventh House

When your partner's Mercury falls in or aspects your seventh house, especially in con-
junction to the Descendant, you will share your viewpoint about your relationship with
your partner. You will find your Mercurial mate open-minded and willing to listen to
and embrace your perspective. Smooth communications not only improve your rap-
port, but enhance romance as well. A cooperative attitude motivates your partner to
broaden your social circle. Developing such connections may also lead to lucrative
gains.
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Adverse aspects to Mercury sour the communications between you. Your partner
may be adamant about airing their opinions. You will have trouble finding ways to re-
late to your mate.
Well-aspected influences will support the intellectual bond, allowing you to interact
on a cooperative level, free to express your point of view. Your partner will wish to com-
pliment you with their concepts so that you can share and improve upon your own
ideas. Appreciating what your mate has to say will enhance the social link between you.

Mercury in the Eighth House

When your partner's Mercury falls in or aspects your eighth house, they may have an
understanding of your deeper self and therefore be instrumental in giving you ideas on
initiating your personal transformation. Your Mercurial partner will also impart sound
advice on financial investments.
A badly aspected Mercury indicates that you need to be cautious of risky joint in-
vestments with your partner, as financial fraud is likely. Manipulative tactics could be
used against you. Personal growth is limited.
Harmonious aspects offers you insight on promoting your evolvement. You may
trust your partner's guidance to better yourself personally as well as monetarily.
It is only through probing the deeper mind that we can understand our true selves
with the good intentions of our mate.

Mercury in the Ninth House

When your partner's Mercury falls in or aspects your ninth house, you will be more in-
clined to relate to your partner on a higher intellectual level, although discussing every-
day events may be a part of the conversation. When traveling together, you will be ex-
posed to exciting new sights that may change your outlook.
Unfavorable aspects indicate that you may be at odds when conversing with your
Mercurial partner. Differences of opinion may lead to arguments.
Under favorable influences, Mercury in the house of Jupiter, a combination in the
Love Relationship Formula, will promote the expansion of your mental horizons. Ex-
cellent one-on-one communication is developed involving one’s beliefs and philosophy
about life. Your view of life will be enriched through your partner’ cerebral inspiration.
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Mercury in the Tenth House

When your partner’s Mercury falls in or aspects your tenth house, especially in con-
junction to the Midheaven, they will provide logical advice on your career as well as ap-
preciate your efforts in achieving set goals. Your partner will be interested in furthering
your reputation and will interact with others in hopes of enhancing your persona.
Discordant influences to Mercury indicate that your partner may misguide you,
hurting your career and reputation. Their critical approach may deter you from making
any progress.
Under positive aspects, your Mercurial partner enjoys telling others of your accom-
plishments, hoping to advance your social standing. They may want you to be aware of
the particulars and polish up your fine points to achieve success.
Your partner, wanting to act in your best interests, will create a platform where you
both can discuss the manifestation of your career.

Mercury in the Eleventh House

When your partner’ Mercury falls in or aspects your eleventh house, they will be able
to appreciate the pursuit of your ideal goals. Your partner will connect you with those
who share similar interests. Since you find conversation with your mate very appealing,
you hope to strike up a friendship as well.
Inharmonious aspects may cause your partner to distort the facts about you, putting
you in a precarious situation with your social circle. You cannot fully rely on the advice
received from your mate.
Under harmonious influences, your Mercurial partner, after evaluating your poten-
tials, will indicate where you can make improvements to attain the success you desire.
Interaction within your group affiliations will make you feel more secure about your ob-
jectives. Developing a friendship with your romantic partner will always support you
into the future.

Mercury in the Twelfth House

When your partner’ Mercury falls in or aspects your twelfth house, you are encouraged
to deal with hidden problems that may be hindering your progress in life. Your partner
may act as a therapist, offering good counsel to unravel those issues. Your mate wishes
to understand your transformation and provide support where it is needed.
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If there are adverse aspects to Mercury, you are not inclined to take the advice of
your Mercurial partner. Your mate is inclined to spread gossip about you, humiliating
you behind-the-scenes.
Under positive influences, your partner’ guidance in furthering your personal growth
is welcomed. Your partner’ ability to peer into your deeper self and point out your
weaknesses will assist you in your metamorphic change.

Venus in the First House

When your partner's Venus falls in or aspects your first house, especially in conjunction
to the Ascendant, the social/romantic sparks fly. Venus in the house of Mars, a powerful
duo in the Love Relationship Formula, will motivate you to turn on the charm and be
yourself. Your partner will find you quite captivating and want to compliment you both
personally and romantically.
If afflicted, your Venusian partner may become overly possessive or jealous. You
may not be so open to their warm affection. Confrontational situations may arise that
lead to arguments. Yet, the romantic link may still be present amidst the hot/cold rap-
port. Although this affectionate placement is strong, there is also a chance of rejection
with seriously adverse influences.
Harmonious aspects to Venus will persuade your partner to show their love and ad-
miration for you. Flattering comments will promote both you and the relationship.
Loving someone is complimenting them. When you compliment your partner, you
compliment yourself. This loving exchange is meant to build a stronger bond so that
continues to enhance your relationship into the future.

Venus in the Second House

When your partner's Venus falls in or aspects your second house, your earning poten-
tial is strengthened as your partner promotes the use of your skills and talents. Your
mate has your best interests at heart. Compliments and respect will befall you, bring-
ing out your finer qualities so that you may take advantage of them. Capitalizing upon
all of your resources, not just monetary resources, can bring more meaning into your
existence.
Adverse aspects to Venus could jeopardize any financial opportunities. At your part-
ner’s request you may become involved with risky ventures, overspending, or handling
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money recklessly, which should be avoided. Personally, because of neglect, you may ex-
perience a lack of appreciation or low self-esteem.
Any favorable aspects with Venus in the house of Venus, representing benefics in as-
pect, will support your efforts in utilizing your potentials. The appreciation of love as
well as spiritual and artistic values is enhanced that you might gain in your develop-
ment as a human being.

Venus in the Third House

When your partner's Venus falls in or aspects your third house, a smooth communica-
tive rapport is developed that enhances the bond between you. Your Venusian partner's
warm reception will motivate you to express your thoughts and feelings in a pleasing
manner. Being your charming self, you will take advantage of the many ideas that intel-
lectually inspire you. Your partner will also share their compromising perspective.
Unfavorable aspects to Venus block the natural course of conversation. Your partner
may have an uncooperative attitude that leads to a strained rapport.
Favorable influences indicate an effortless rapport where both of you share your
ideas to benefit each other. A mutual understanding instigates a harmonious exchange.

Venus in the Fourth House

When your partner's Venus falls in or aspects your fourth house, especially in conjunc-
tion to the Imum Coeli, your mate emanates a feeling of warmth and comfort in the
home. You are persuaded to beautify your home, creating an appealing environment.
The two of you are quite cozy in your peaceful surroundings. Your mate may also assist
you with property investments, which fare well with this placement.
If any afflictions to Venus exist, a disagreeable home environment is the result. An
uncooperative mate will have you taking flight to avoid conflicts.
Under positive aspects, your feelings are sensitized, allowing you to fully appreciate
the company of your Venusian partner. You can relax and be yourself knowing that you
can rely on your partner's sympathetic understanding.
Since Venus is in the house of the Moon, an important combination in the Love Re-
lationship Formula, your relationship will thrive with mutual caring and approval.

Venus in the Fifth House

When your partner’s Venus falls in or aspects your fifth house, you are convinced to
enjoy leisure life to its fullest. Venus in the house of the Sun, a significant combination
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in the Love Relationship Formula, partakes in appreciating the social and sensuous
pleasures that life has to offer. Your mate is romantically enticing and you will always
enjoy their company. Your:creative abilities will interest your partner and you are en-
couraged to pursue them, expressing their dramatic appeal. A specific talent may be
brought to the light for more exposure. This can be a great placement if your partner
happens to be your agent, representing you.
Stressful aspects to Venus make it difficult for you to benefit from the world of re-
laxation and entertainment. Creative ambitions may be limited by your mate. Romance
is seen as more serious than exciting.
When harmonious influences are present, you can rely on truly enjoying the simple
pleasures of life, showing love and appreciation for what your Venusian partner has to
offer.

Venus in the Sixth House

When your partner’ Venus falls in or aspects your sixth house, they will want to serve
and comfort you so that your daily work routine functions smoothly. Your partner is in-
clined to accommodate your needs to relieve stress and promote health and well-being.
The presence of adverse aspects to Venus may cause your mate to be uncooperative
in serving your needs. Pressure may mount, making it difficult to accomplish daily goals.
When Venus is well aspected, your partner is pleased to be of assistance to you.
They will have the ability to alleviate your worries, but you will also care for your part-
ner’s concerns if needed.

Venus in the Seventh House

ly in con-
When your partner's Venus falls in or aspects your seventh house, especial
one-on-one ex-
junction to the Descendant, you are inclined to establish a harmonious
prompts you and
change. Venus in its ruling house, representing benefics in aspect,
Still, your partner
your mate to find pleasure in a mutually cooperative relationship.
a solid commitment.
may need to assess the romantic potential before entering into
lt for both of you.
When Venus is afflicted, disagreeable tendencies make life difficu
You may find yourself placating your mate to keep the peace.
is in the house of Venus,
Positive influences enhance compatibility when Venus
If other factors agree, a congenial,
where both of you strive toward a successful union.
lasting relationship is the result.
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Venus in the Eighth House

When your partner's Venus falls in or aspects your eighth house, your feelings will be
deeply aroused by your partner, instigating a personal transformation to occur. You may
feel a stronger awareness toward your Venusian partner as well, where your sensitivity
may either be intense or nonexistent. You may need to search for the truth behind such
reactions. Venus in the house of Pluto, an important duo in the Love Relationship For-
mula, perpetuates a powerful, magnetic attraction that deepens with intimacy and sup-
ports a long-term union.
Under adverse aspects, your partner may become obsessed with you and make de-
mands. You may become overwhelmed and not be able to cope with your mate.
When Venus is well aspected, your partner may be captivated by your mysterious
allure. Your evolvement through a sexual exchange, however, is necessary if your union
is to have more meaning than just being physical. Other connections demonstrating ap-
preciation and respect must be present for a serious commitment to occur.

Venus in the Ninth House

When your partner’s Venus falls in or aspects your ninth house, you will establish a
congenial rapport with your partner that improves the flow of ideas. You are encour-
aged to have a more relaxed manner in planning your direction in life. You will accom-
plish more when applying an easygoing approach toward educational goals. Your Venu-
sian partner will show you how to travel in comfort to make the most of any trip.
Discordant influences perpetuate a disagreeable manner where your partner is un-
cooperative in supporting your ideas. Your mate’s philosophy is enforced, without
consideration.
Under positive aspects, you are intrigued with your partner's beliefs and philosophy
about life, wanting to emulate their example. An understanding rapport attracts an
agreeable environment where everyone is friendly.

Venus in the Tenth House

When your partner’ Venus falls in or aspects your tenth house, especially in conjunc-
tion to the Midheaven, they will help you attract career opportunities. Your partner will
appreciate the direction of your ambitions, providing you with the encouragement to
succeed. Venus in the house of Saturn, a combination in the Love Relationship For-
mula, allows your partner to value your career interests and assist you in stabilizing
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your monetary position, which will provide you with comfort and security. As you
work toward your goals, you will earn a reputation of respect from those around you.
Unfavorable influences*may delay or block you from achieving your goals. Your
partner may undermine your efforts by discouraging your aspirations. If you are con-
niving, you may take advantage of your mate’s generosity.
Under favorable aspects, your Venusian partner is sure to value your career choice,
thus increasing your productivity and self-worth.

Venus in the Eleventh House

When your partner’s Venus falls in or aspects your eleventh house, they will introduce
you to a circle of friends who sincerely support your ideals. Your Venusian partner will
appreciate your sought-after aims and help you realize your dreams.
If there are any afflictions to Venus, your partner may interfere with your friend-
ships, even possibly becoming jealous. Your mate may take advantage of your amicable
connections, acting in their own best interests. They will not be able to fully appreciate
your skills and talents or the pursuit of your ideals.
Under positive influences, an appealing friendship develops that will engender a
mutually respectful approach in attaining both your hopes and ambitions.

Venus in the Twelfth House

When your partner's Venus falls in or aspects your twelfth house, they will be able to
comfort you with your problems and offer advice. Your Venusian partner is capable of
understanding your inner needs and is sensitive to alleviating burdensome issues in
your life, not wanting to upset you any further. They will want to familiarize you with
hidden topics such as the occult or exploring the mysteries in life. Your mate is inter-
ested in your higher well-being and will link you up with a spiritual mentor who can
help transcend personal limitations.
When Venus is aspected by discordant influences, your partner may be concerned
about satisfying their own needs and taking advantage of your weaknesses at the same
time. You will want to look elsewhere for reassuring counsel.
Venus in the house of Neptune emphasizes a spiritual connection where both of you
may feel a strong empathy. Harmonious aspects to Venus will calm your private con-
cerns and allow you the chance to ease out of personal restrictions through a more
compassionate approach.
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Mars in the First House

When your partner’s Mars falls in or aspects your first house, especially in conjunction
to the Ascendant, you are highly motivated to be independent and pursue your desires.
Your Martian partner will stand firm and be an advocate in your defense if needed. Yet,
they will demand that you be brave and daring as well. You will both develop a similar
assertive approach to your aims, expecting to excel from your accomplishments. You
will become an equal, competing on [Link] level, and be able to form a successful,
occupational partnership.
Adverse aspects to Mars will instigate arguments where your partner may want to
dominate. Your mate will have high expectations that stress you out and drive you to
accomplish set goals too quickly. An aggressive stance will only put you on the defen-
sive, making it complicated to come to any kind of agreement. If your partner wants to
win, they need to consider succeeding together.
When Mars is in its ruling house conjoining the Ascendant and positive influences
are present, the romantic passions are more pronounced than ever. A powerful physical
attraction will enhance a long-term union.

Mars in the Second House

When your partner's Mars falls in or aspects your second house, you are driven by your
mate to improve your earning potential and acquire more financial resources. They will
want you to utilize your skills and talents to gain monetarily.
If any afflictions exist, your partner may persuade you to squander your money. You
will have opposing views on any monetary dealings, yet your Martian partner may
show signs of jealousy toward your economic growth. Your mate will expect you to be
financially independent and not interfere with their own earnings.
Under favorable aspects, your partner will motivate you to capitalize upon your re-
sources and succeed financially. Besides supporting lucrative gains, Mars in the house of
Venus, a significant connection in the Love Relationship Formula, will enhance your self-
esteem with romantic passions as well. You are also motivated to pursue your worthiness
by capitalizing upon your potentials. Your success enhances your appearance.

Mars in the Third House

When your partner's Mars falls in or aspects your third house, they will motivate you to
express your ideas and opinions so that you may benefit socially. You will find your
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partner quick-witted and intellectually stimulating. Challenging debates may ensue that
entice you to get involved. Your Martian mate may expect you to courageously say
what's on your mind even if it causes conflict with others.
Inauspicious influences will cause your partner to aggressively disagree when con-
versing with you, not wanting to comprehend your opinion. Nasty arguments could
lead to animosity.
When auspicious aspects are present, you learn not to be swayed by another's point
of view, so that you base your own ideas on the information that you have derived. Your
partner's insistence on opening up your mental perspective may lead to greater intellec-
tual accomplishments.

Mars in the Fourth House

When your partner's Mars falls in or aspects your fourth house, especially in conjunc-
tion to the Imum Coeli, they will bring an active influence into the domestic scene that
encourages you to attend to chores and repairs. You will appreciate your partner, in-
spiring a busy attitude. Since Mars is in the house of the Moon, your emotions will be
aroused, allowing you to relate to and express your inner feelings. Hopefully this will
happen in a positive way, prompting you to like your partner’ motivation as opposed to
disliking it. Nevertheless, passions will run high with this placement.
Under discordant influences, your partner may turn out to be a source of aggrava-
tion, becoming an extra responsibility in the home. You may detest their presence there.
Supportive influences allow much to be accomplished in the home. Your Martian
mate will want you to assume an independent stance when it comes to domestic deal-
ings. You are motivated to express your feelings, which will lead to a passionate ex-
change.

Mars in the Fifth House

When your partner's Mars falls in or aspects your fifth house, you are excited to engage
in creative activities and discover your potential. Your Martian mate will inspire you to
participate in experiencing more of the pleasures of life. Romance will be pursued to the
fullest with Mars in the house of the Sun, a strong duo in the Love Relationship For-
mula. Your partner will bring out the passion in you, and persuade you to develop a
take-charge attitude.
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If there are any afflictions to Mars, both of you may want to be the aggressor, espe-
cially in sexual relations, which can lead to quarrels. Your partner may need to tone
down their creative expectations of you.
A powerful romantic connection will develop under favorable influences that inten-
sifies the passionate bond. To enhance this amorous link, respect and appreciation need
to be present.

Mars in the Sixth House

When your partner's Mars falls in or aspects your sixth house, you will be motivated by
your mate to tackle your daily routine and get the job done. Your partner will offer sug-
gestions as to how to improve your efficiency and will even be of service to you if neces-
sary to further your productivity. You will be persuaded by your mate to address health
matters.
Under adverse aspects, your Martian partner will cause upsets about finishing a job
by making unnecessary demands. They think that they can do the work better and
faster, which creates much aggravation and stress for you.
Your partner will keep you quite busy when favorable aspects exist, wanting you to
serve the welfare of others as they would. Attending to your health and well-being will
enable you to give your all to any job situation.

Mars in the Seventh House

When your partner's Mars falls in or aspects your seventh house, especially in conjunc-
tion to the Descendant, you are challenged to direct this force into motivating outlets
for your relationship as you deal with the pros and the cons. You will need to find a bal-
ance in giving and receiving. You will be tested on just how well you can cooperate and
keep unity within the relationship. The passions run high when Mars is in the house of
Venus, a dynamic coupling in the Love Relationship Formula. The energies of desire
and love come together to enhance a lasting union.
If there are afflictions to Mars, your partner may create much disagreement be-
tween you both, where neither of you is inclined to cooperate to work out issues.
Unanticipated arguments may occur for no reason at all. Your mate will want you to
join into any conflict in their defense. Try to support your partner's side of the story
before resisting.
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Your Martian partner will stimulate you to express your best, under positive aspects,
building a more confident self-esteem. Your feelings and sex drive are activated for mu-
tual intimacy.

Mars in the Eighth House

When your partner's Mars falls in or aspects your eighth house, you are convinced by
your mate to delve into your inner being and address the areas that need to be trans-
formed. You may at first feel uncomfortable about focusing on these areas, yet this is
what is required if you hope to attain a personal rebirth. Your mate may want to under-
stand some of your deep, subconscious motivations to know what they will encounter
in a long-term union. You are swayed by your partner to capitalize upon your invest-
ments and upgrade your financial handlings where needed. Joint monetary ventures
bring gains as long as your strategy is carefully planned out.
Under adverse influences, your Martian partner may not be able to make any head-
way with you in understanding deeper issues. Both of you will feel frustrated by this ex-
perience, causing the relationship to falter unless other supportive influences compen-
sate for the adversity.
Under favorable influences, your partner can be a catalyst to your personal growth,
offering spontaneous pieces of information that you can relate to and apply. Mars in the
house of Pluto intensifies transcending experiences and one’s sex drive where as a cou-
ple you may be transformed through an intimate exchange.

Mars in the Ninth House

When your partners Mars falls in or aspects your ninth house, you are intellectually
stimulated by your mate to formulate new ideas and philosophies to assist you in ex-
pressing yourself. At your partner's request, you are encouraged to travel to broaden
your outlook. In assimilating new information, you are challenged to speak your mind,
not backing down from any opposition. Your partner will rely on your mental re-
sourcefulness, expecting you to possess knowledge of every subject. Your mate will
want you to be a good listener while they verbalize what has been decided upon prior
to the conversation.
com-
Discordant influences indicate differing beliefs and philosophies that erode the
munications between you. Arguments may ensue.
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Under harmonious influences, vigorous communicative exchanges are highlighted

that expand your perspective. Your Martian partner will insist that you pursue educa-
tional goals that will assure your future success.

Mars in the Tenth House

When your partner's Mars falls in or aspects your tenth house, especially in conjunction
to the Midheaven, your partner will be adamant about you being driven toward your
career goals and rising to the top. Living up to your reputation, your persevering atti-
tude is admirable. Although your partner may challenge your efforts, their intentions
are to bring out your finer qualities so that you might truly succeed. Your partner's en-
couragement will always be there as long as you are making an effort.
When unfavorable aspects to Mars are present, your partner may take advantage of
you to achieve an influential position, possibly hurting your reputation at the same
time. Your mate may also be overbearing toward you reaching a successful title, forcing
you to compete at your own expense. Your rise to the top may be a bitter one.
Favorable influences will allow you, under your partner's guidance, to achieve your
ambitions. Mars is exalted in the tenth house of Capricorn, indicating great accom-
plishment with the positive reinforcement of your partner.

Mars in the Eleventh House

When your partner’s Mars falls in or aspects your eleventh house, they will be actively
involved in the pursuit of your hopes and dreams. You are eager to accomplish your
sought-after goals with the inspiration of your partner behind you. Besides being your
lover, your Martian mate wants to be your friend.
If there are any afflictions to Mars, your partner may disrupt ongoing friendships
and display jealousy toward them. Your enthusiasm for your ambitious aims may be
short-lived as your mate makes outrageous demands and derails your achievements.
Favorable influences allow you to pursue your idyllic vision and bring it to manifes-
tation. Your partner may become your best friend, offering strong support and dedica-
tion toward the one they love.

Mars in the Twelfth House

When your partner's Mars falls in or aspects your twelfth house, you are prompted to
delve into the mysteries of life, including your own. Your partner will challenge you to
learn to understand any hidden areas of yourself. Weaknesses will be revealed and tran-
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scended. Any dishonesty will be exposed, causing your partner to lose trust in you. You
may question their motives as well. Through your partner's determination, you will as-
certain that honesty with yourself and others is the best policy.
Adverse aspects to Mars may also cause your partner to take advantage of your weak
points, where they could easily become your secret enemy. Your mate may become
upset with you for not making an effort to sort out psychological issues.
Under positive aspects, your partner is compelled to bring your weaknesses to the
surface where they can be confronted and addressed. You will only benefit from such a
direct approach by developing more self-confidence to defend vulnerable areas and
overcome any personal limitations.

Jupiter in the First House

When your partner's Jupiter falls in or aspects your first house, especially in conjunc-
tion to the Ascendant, you are encouraged to expand upon your personality and good
humor since you may feel relaxed and optimistic about the future. You will honor and
not take advantage of your partner’s generous nature, knowing that they prefer to be a
benevolent giver. Whatever you ask for, your Jupiterian partner will most likely be there
to provide. Jupiter in the house of Mars, one of the important combinations in the Love
Relationship Formula, will heighten the romantic passions as it energizes the relation-
ship. Lovemaking is superb. As a couple, you will feel active and enjoy each other's
company.
Under discordant influences, your partner my cause you to be overindulgent or
reckless. Be careful of biting off more than you can chew. Even though your partner is
charitable, you should avoid taking advantage of their kindness.
If Jupiter is well aspected, you and your partner will be filled with enthusiasm and
aug-
be very productive. Expansive opportunities find you. A competitive zest for life is
mented by a passionate, romantic drive that is exciting and complimentary.

Jupiter in the Second House

you will be compli-
When your partner's Jupiter falls in or aspects your second house,
They will be a cat-
mented by your partner to succeed on a personal and financial level.
ry status. Your Jupiterian
alyst in expanding your resources to improve your moneta
thus improving your self-es-
partner will show appreciation for your skills and talents,
in the Love Relationship
teem. Jupiter in the house of Venus, a highly significant duo
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Formula, indicates that your partner is acting in your best interests, happily inclined to
always admire you.
When inauspicious aspects are present, your partner may advise you to overspend
or become involved with risky monetary dealings. Favors may come with a price tag.
Under advantageous influences to Jupiter, your partner will provide for you finan-
cially if needed and you will feel obligated to do the same. Investments could reap lu-
crative gains. Your partner is inclined to cherish you with compliments and goodwill
that further your image.

Jupiter in the Third House

When your partner’ Jupiter falls in or aspects your third house, conversation is intel-
lectually stimulating. You will feel enthusiastic about communicating your thoughts,
building a wonderful rapport that can last for hours. You never fail to enjoy each other's
company. Your Jupiterian partner will encourage you to pursue avenues of learning and
new traveling experiences.
Adverse aspects to Jupiter may cause your partner to dominate the conversation, at
times mentally exhausting you. Nevertheless, you will feel motivated to express your
ideas and opinions.
When Jupiter is well aspected, your partner is interested in expanding your knowl-
edge. Jupiter in the house of Mercury, an important pair in the Love Relationship For-
mula, inspires excellent communication where both parties benefit.

Jupiter in the Fourth House

When your partner's Jupiter falls in or aspects your fourth house, especially in conjunc-
tion to the Imum Coeli, you will want to enhance the ambiance in your home so that
you may fully enjoy your relationship there. Your partner will know how to ease any
stress, emphasizing a content and relaxed atmosphere. Your mate will inspire home im-
provements that will increase the value of your property. You will be inclined to explore
your roots and develop greater insight on your past.
If any unfavorable aspects exist, the home scenario may seem too busy, not allowing
you a chance to unwind when that may be just what you need.
When Jupiter is well aspected, your partner will alleviate any pressure so you expe-
rience more joy. Jupiter in the house of the Moon, an uplifting duo in the Love Rela-
tionship Formula, increases your personal happiness in a relationship.
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Jupiter in the Fifth House

When your partner's Jupiter falls in or aspects your fifth house, they have faith in your
creative pursuits and will inspire you to develop your talents. Your partner will show
you an easier way to attain your objectives, and you will be grateful for their presence.
As you are exposed to new opportunities, you will be confident about taking any risks,
knowing you have the support of your Jupiterian mate behind you. You will thoroughly
enjoy their company, delighting in leisure life and the world of entertainment. Romance
is highlighted and pursued with enthusiasm as the two of you dance the night away.
Your partner will also be supportive of procreation, besides displaying generosity and
appreciation toward any existing children.
If there are any afflictions to Jupiter, risky, speculative ventures need to be avoided,
whether concerning intimate involvements or creative goals. Plans need to be in place
for you to reap results. Too much of the good life or overindulgence in gambling will be
troublesome.
When auspicious aspects are present, Jupiter in the house of the Sun, a powerful
combination in the Love Relationship Formula, encourages a romantically enriching ex-
perience that enhances long-term possibilities.

Jupiter in the Sixth House

When your partner’ Jupiter falls in or aspects your sixth house, you are inclined to ex-
pand your work capabilities in the area of service. You are encouraged to look after the
welfare of others, yet also be concerned about improving your own well-being. Your
partner will introduce you to more efficient ways of addressing your daily routine and
being productive on the job to help you excel to be your best. You are open to new
ways of approaching your goals and are grateful for their support.
Discordant influences to Jupiter may cause your partner to overwhelm you with
their own work methods.
Under harmonious aspects, your partner will provide you with the backing you may
need to elevate your job status. Your Jupiterian mate’ desire to expand your health out-
look will benefit your output and your life. Although Jupiter is residing in another
house of Mercury, a combination in the Love Relationship Formula, this area represents
relates
one’s daily routine, health, and well-being as opposed to communication, which
to the third house. Therefore, there is only subtle support with Jupiter in this placement
concerning relationship development.
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Jupiter in the Seventh House

When your partner's Jupiter falls in or aspects your seventh house, especially in con-
junction to the Descendant, you are both inclined to focus on developing a successful,
committed relationship, often involving marriage. The admiration that your partner
shows is fully appreciated by you. Due to mutual cooperation it’s a pleasure to be in
each other's company. Your partner may want to broaden your social circle, including
prestigious individuals. ;
Adverse influences to Jupiter compel your partner to display too much praise for
you, thus making you feel uncomfortable, or not enough praise where your mate is un-
able to follow through on promises. Because of your partner's wishes, you could find
yourself in a situation that is beyond your capability, to your embarrassment.
Under positive influences, Jupiter in the house of Venus is a benevolent combination
in the Love Relationship Formula that attracts romantic success in a lasting union.

Jupiter in the Eighth House

When your partner's Jupiter falls in or aspects your eighth house, you may become in-
volved with joint ventures with your partner that expand your financial possibilities.
Your mate’s investment tips bring lucrative returns.
At the request of your partner, a complete change is what is needed to release limita-
tions and capitalize upon your strengths. Personal and sexual regeneration occurs where
you experience a rebirth that improves the intimate relations between you and your
mate. A deeper, physical bond, which is part of the attraction, will continue to grow.
If there are any afflictions to Jupiter, your partner may drain your financial assets.
Their idea of how you should change yourself will not be well received.
When favorable aspects exist, your Jupiterian partner will encourage a major trans-
formation that allows you to become in touch with your true self and appreciate your
good qualities. As your mate enhances your self-awareness, you are able to bring out
your best.

Jupiter in the Ninth House

When your partner's Jupiter falls in or aspects the ninth house, its ruling position, ex-
pansive opportunities enlighten your personal, spiritual, social, and physical experi-
ence. You will find your partner's enthusiasm to communicate ideas and opinions men-
tally intriguing. You may develop a newly found confidence in your life direction as
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your philosophy and outlook inspire hope. Since Jupiter represents the teacher and the
priest, as well as the guru, you will discover insights that may change your beliefs. Your
partner will persuade [Link] further your education, travel, and accumulate as much
knowledge as you can to enlarge your experience in this lifetime.
When discordant aspects are present, your Jupiterian mate may expect you to gather
information and be your own teacher when you thought you could depend on them for
guidance. The advice received may not be appropriate for you.
Under positive aspects, your partner may rely on their own wisdom to enlarge your
perspective. Jupiter in the house of Jupiter, representing benefics in aspect, attests to
great mental growth that has the capacity to change your life forever.

Jupiter in the Tenth House

When your partner's Jupiter falls in or aspects your tenth house, especially in conjunc-
tion to the Midheaven, you will be inspired to pursue your career ambitions and attain
a rewarding position. Your partner is happy to assist you in building your occupational
reputation. You will be introduced to prestigious individuals who can improve your sta-
tus. Since your mate believes in your career direction and wants you to have faith in
yourself, you are confident you will succeed. Your partner may display a fatherly ap-
proach in supporting your goals.
With unfavorable influences, you may have grandiose ideas of what you are capable
of accomplishing due to your partner’s persuasion.
When Jupiter in the house of Saturn, a pairing in the Love Relationship Formula, is
well aspected, you may have high expectations of formulating a prosperous career that
brings you the fulfillment and social status you desire.

Jupiter in the Eleventh House

When your partner's Jupiter falls in or aspects your eleventh house, you will expand
your social circle. The enthusiasm generated toward group involvements is recipro-
cated. Your significant other will become your best friend and will appreciate your idyl-
lic aims, besides supporting the attainment of your hopes and dreams. Expanding upon
your aspirations is the priority.
If Jupiter is afflicted, you may take advantage of your partner's goodwill. Being
overly confident may disturb the progress you have made.
Under harmonious influences, you will expand upon your ideals, knowing that your
partner and friends will cheer you on as you reach for the stars.
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Jupiter in the Twelfth House

When your partner's Jupiter falls in or aspects your twelfth house, you have an oppor-
tunity to successfully transcend personal shortcomings that have limited your experi-
ence. Your partner's benevolent nature will assist you and protect you in understanding
your hidden self. Working behind-the-scenes, your mate will renew your confidence
and be a rock of Gibraltar in resolving personal problems. Such reassurance by your
partner will allow you to comfortably delve into any mysteries that need to be under-
stood. Exploring the unexplained in life, such as the occult, will be encouraged.
Under discordant influences, your partner may not keep your secrets private, being
somewhat vulnerable to inquiring minds. You may need to defend yourself from scan-
dalous activities.
If Jupiter is well aspected, you will feel at ease in sharing confidences with your
mate, knowing that they have your best interests at heart. As you release your fears, you
will be open to undergoing a complete metamorphosis.

Saturn in the First House

When your partner’ Saturn falls in or aspects your first house, especially in conjunction
to the Ascendant, you will find your partner relying on you to come through and sup-
port their needs. This dependency may cause you to feel more and more responsible for
your Saturnian partner. You may feel as though you are paying back some type of
karmic debt. Although your partner will appreciate what you do, they will still make
demands of you, at times pushing you to the limit. Your Saturnian partner may actually
be trying to bring out a more realistic view of your personality to help you acquire a
better perspective of yourself. Due to the karmic implications, this placement indicates
a lasting relationship as long as Saturn is not seriously afflicted.
When inauspicious aspects are present, you will feel overwhelmed with the respon-
sibility of taking care of your partner. There may be times when you need to be tolerant
because your partner is in serious need of your assistance. For example, your mate may
experience a job loss and then need to depend on you financially, or there may be a
physical setback that you have to contend with until circumstances change. Unless you
are able to inject some sense of cheerfulness into the union, you may feel the heavy
pressures of Saturn continue to challenge you.
Under auspicious influences, you may feel obligated to promote your partner by
doing important deeds through which they will profit significantly. In turn, your part-
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ner may delineate a realistic approach to assist you in the accomplishment of your own
aims with their accumulated insights.
Regardless, you must guard against being controlled by your partner, as they will
have a strong tendency to project their fears and insecurities onto you, thus making
your life miserable. If you feel you are the only one pulling the weight in the relation-
ship, then you must work feverishly to modify the conditions before a pattern sets in:
otherwise consider it over. Saturn in the house of Mars also opposes a Venus point
when in opposition to the Descendant. Saturn prefers to control, yet Mars seeks com-
fort through Venus. Controlling someone can lead to very abusive and destructive ac-
tions. You will be able to provide for and love your partner much more if they learn to
channel the Saturn influence for constructive gain. Your partner needs to curb their
habit of projecting fear onto you and be concerned about forming a solid relationship
based on mutual respect.

Saturn in the Second House

When your partner’s Saturn falls in or aspects your second house, they will teach you
how to increase your earnings and resources by applying a more realistic approach. You
will discard the nonessentials and preserve that which is necessary. Your Saturnian part-
ner will persuade you to be financially responsible so that you only take calculated risks
and thus protect your assets. Sound investments will prosper.
Under afflicted aspects, you may need to avoid your partner's advice, as they may
not possess the financial wherewithal to improve your economic status. Your partner's
floundering monetary situation underscores their flawed counsel. You may find yourself
assisting your Saturnian mate financially when they come up short. Since Saturn may
suppress Venus, your self-esteem may be lowered due to your partner's lack of appreci-
ation for you. Because Saturn makes us earn our way, you need to address depreciation
that takes away from the individual that you are, personally and monetarily.
When there are favorable influences, Saturn in the house of Venus, a coupling in the
Love Relationship Formula, attracts financial stability through your partner, as they are
instrumental in helping you save money and making safe yet lucrative investments. In
return, your partner will feel safe and sound with you, as you are capable of providing
food, shelter, and comfort. Your partner will encourage you to work hard, knowing that
applying yourself in this manner will have a positive effect on your self-esteem. Secur-
ing your earnings and your image will build a solid foundation that lasts a lifetime.
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Saturn in the Third House

When your partner’s Saturn falls in or aspects your third house, you may address the
areas of communication and learning in a serious, disciplined manner. Your partner will
teach you strategies to firmly express yourself. If you are willing to learn, much can be
attained. Critical thinking will enable you to concentrate on the important issues so you
develop a focused way of communicating. Trivial topics will be bypassed in favor of
more in-depth, comprehensive subjects.
If Saturn is afflicted, your partner may limit your ability to communicate effectively.
Conversation may be frustrating and boring, lacking any kind of excitement. Your mate
may cause the rapport with your neighbors to sour as well. Any advice on furthering
your education may not suit your purposes. Travel plans may be difficult to formulate
and you may experience setbacks or delays. Even attending to errands for your partner
will be tedious.
When Saturn is well aspected, thought-provoking, meaningful subject matter in-
spires conversation between you. Your partner will be able to guide you intellectually to
make the most of your communicative capabilities.

Saturn in the Fourth House

When your partner's Saturn falls in or aspects your fourth house, especially in conjunc-
tion with the Imum Coeli, they will want you to examine your emotions from a realistic
perspective. Hence, you will have a more serious outlook on life because you are seeing
situations with clarity. Your partner may want to assume a dependable parental role in
the household. They will also expect you to be responsible with domestic affairs.
Under adverse aspects, Saturn in the house of the Moon will put pressure on both of
you to be extra responsible in the home environment. Your partner will feel it is their
strict obligation, and you will feel the need to be dutiful and support your partner's ef-
forts. Over time, a depressing situation may be the result, but there is no end in sight as
this has now turned into a co-dependent relationship. The Saturn person's fears and in-
securities are looking for comfort through the sensitivity of the Moon, yet have to work
so hard to acquire such contentment that it may not be worth it.
Only positive aspects will save this situation, where you implement a practical and
truthful approach so that you both benefit.
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Saturn in the Fifth House

When your partner's Saturn falls in or aspects your fifth house, you will develop a seri-
ous attitude about romance with your partner since they may not be so receptive to
your advances. Your Saturnian partner may spurn your creative aims, pointing out that
its not practical to pursue such activities. Although your partner may be critical of your
artistic pursuits, wanting you to be realistic, you may have too great of expectations for
them to be realized and appreciated by your mate. It is not necessary to win your part-
ners approval to achieve your goals. However, assuming a responsible position in tak-
ing care of children may be required.
Under discordant influences, you may try even harder to dramatically express your
creativity just to prove your partner wrong. But this strategy may not change their de-
meaning attitude; in fact, your actions may encourage indifference. Romantic expres-
sion may be completely denied. Eventually you may feel as though you cannot thor-
oughly enjoy life with your partner.
If Saturn is well aspected, a realistic approach to your creative ambitions will serve
its purpose as you slowly succeed with your planned efforts. You may be concerned
with securing a long-term alliance.

Saturn in the Sixth House

When your partner's Saturn falls in or aspects your sixth house, you will feel obligated
to be of service to your partner’ needs. Albeit your partner is interested in improving
your productivity, they will expect you to be dependable and look out for their welfare
also. They will be adamant about following a strict daily agenda.
When Saturn is afflicted, your partner will constantly analyze your output and will
find flaws in your performance that you will not appreciate. As your mate may hinder
your progress, your health may suffer due to such tension.
If harmonious influences are present, your Saturnian mate will demand that you de-
velop a strong work ethic that increases your efficiency. You are practical about imple-
menting a structured itinerary, knowing you will acquire solid results.
Your quality of life is determined by a disciplined approach to your well-being that
not only augments your effectiveness, but adds many years of good health.
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Saturn in the Seventh House

When your partner's Saturn falls in or aspects your seventh house, especially in con-
junction to the Ascendant, you and your mate have an opportunity to establish a long-
lasting relationship. Saturn in the house of Venus, an important combination in the
Love Relationship Formula, allows your partner to find great comfort in the union.
Since this is a very karmic placement, indicating that you were once soulmates in a pre-
vious life, your Saturnian mate will experience a familiar, reassuring connection with
you. However, your partner may test you to see if you meet their expectations. Al-
though you will find this to be a tedious process, it could lead to a lifelong union.
If Saturn is afflicted, you will become very annoyed with your partner's testing
methods. They may be too critical of you, undermining your confidence and self-es-
teem. You may feel that whatever you do, it’s not enough for them. Your partner's inten-
tions may be to control you by making you question your self-worth so that you feel
you deserve little in return. This type of behavior is abusive and should be avoided.
Favorable influences signify your partner’s dependability and will motivate you to
show loyalty as well. When there is mutual reliability, a permanent relationship may de-
velop that will endure life’s tribulations.
Saturn exalted in Libra, the sign of relationships, perpetuates the importance of em-
bracing stability to enhance a long-term union. It is only when one demonstrates re-
spect and appreciation toward their partner that significant advances are made in a last-
ing relationship.

Saturn in the Eighth House

When your partner’ Saturn falls in or aspects your eighth house, they will make you
more conscious of the need to address your weaknesses and experience a transforma-
tion. But achieving this goal will not be easy as you will feel uncomfortable when your
partner makes you aware of your shortcomings. In time you are more willing to look at
your issues realistically and acknowledge that your partner could actually be acting in
your best interests. Still, your Saturnian partner may want to take their time in estab-
lishing a relationship with you.
Adverse aspects will hinder your personal development and cause frustration be-
tween you both, especially in intimate moments. Your partner may not find you so
trustworthy and question your motives. You may realize that their suspicious actions
are a strong deterrent to furthering the relationship and cause you to retaliate. Any busi-
ness partnership may seriously limit your success. Joint financial ventures should be
avoided since accumulated debt could be the result. You may have to face adversity to-
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gether with the hope that the tie will grow stronger for the experience. If this relation-
ship is going to continue, you will have to compensate by contending with your mate’s
insecurity. Unfortunately, this does not indicate a cheerful union.
When Saturn is well aspected, there is an opportunity to stabilize the partnership,
realizing that in working together on personal issues it might improve long-term
prospects. Some hardships may have to be endured, but if you are on the same team,
slowly but surely you can win. You need to aim toward establishing a solid partnership,
one you can rely on, to secure a future tie.

Saturn in the Ninth House

When your partner's Saturn falls in or aspects your ninth house, they will want you to
be practical about planning your direction in life along with considering a solid educa-
tion. Your partner will act as your mentor as well, offering realistic guidance that has
you reshaping your personal philosophy, as well as your spiritual or religious beliefs.
Your Saturnian mate will insist on effective, direct communication that impresses your
listener. You will gain from a serious attitude that strengthens your conviction in ac-
quiring your objectives.
Discordant influences to Saturn will cause the two of you to have differing opinions.
Your philosophies and religious beliefs may clash, causing much dissension. Since you
are not in agreement, it will be difficult to make plans for the future. You will feel frus-
trated in not being able to carry on a progressive conversation with your partner. Travel
plans may be hindered or discouraged, limiting your mobility.
Harmonious aspects depict a planned strategy that enables you to accomplish your
goals. As you restructure your beliefs and philosophies, life takes on a realistic perspec-
tive that allows you to broaden your cultural horizons.

Saturn in the Tenth House

When your partner's Saturn falls in or aspects your tenth house, especially in conjunc-
tion to the Midheaven, they will want you to formulate a realistic view of your career as
you diligently apply yourself in achieving your goals. Although your partner, through a
parental approach, may delay your success with their strategy, you will benefit in the
long run as you are better prepared to manage your position. Your partner's critical as-
sessment of you is only meant to further your self-development. You will learn how dis-
cipline will make you more effective on the job and earn the respect of your co-workers
and superiors alike.
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Difficult influences will stall your efforts to succeed. Your mate will discourage your
career ambitions, creating much anxiety between you. They may disrupt your means of
establishing a good, solid reputation, possibly undermining your position at work.
When Saturn is well aspected, you gratefully accept the responsibilities that come
with the job, knowing that what is earned can never be taken away. Saturn in its ruling
house will bring the career stability you are looking for, and strengthen your work
ethic. Your mate will support you in building a solid reputation that will carry you
through the years.

Saturn in the Eleventh House

When your partner's Saturn falls in or aspects your eleventh house, they will support
you in the achievement of your goals, especially if they are within your reach. Your
partner will offer you sound guidance, outlining a strategy as to how to attain these
sought-after desires. But you will be expected to discipline yourself by working dili-
gently to be successful. You may develop a strong friendship that you can rely on into
the future. However, your Saturnian partner will on occasion create hardships through
their untimely demands. You will both benefit from having a compromising attitude
and appreciating the significant bond between you.
When Saturn is afflicted, your partner will be overly critical of you in the pursuit of
your ideals and limit your accomplishments. The attention your mate needs will put re-
straints on your social circle. As you develop an aversion toward your partner, you will
not want their companionship. It may be more trouble than it’s worth.
Under auspicious influences, you want to seize the moment in realizing your ambi-
tious ideals. Your partner will be extremely helpful in assisting you toward the fulfill-
ment of this objective. There is no greater reward than when you are required to call
upon yourself in every way to achieve your finest aspirations.

Saturn in the Twelfth House

When your partner's Saturn falls in or aspects your twelfth house, you are encouraged
to face up to your fears and insecurities so that you may cultivate a stronger emotional
foundation from within. But if your partner constantly points out your weaknesses, you
may become resentful. Your mate needs to find a helpful way of addressing your prob-
lems so as not to undermine your self-confidence.
Under adverse influences, you may feel forced by your partner to deal with your
shortcomings, when you are not ready to confront them. This conflict will only further
your insecurity as you will feel vulnerable in handling such pressure. In a nefarious sce-
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nario, your partner may become a secret enemy, willing to drastically alter your life for
the worse.
When Saturn is well aspected, constructive approaches in dealing with your weak-
nesses will allow you to build a tremendous source of inner strength. You will be com-
fortable in relying on your Saturnian mate for practical advice that alleviates your fears.
This may be reciprocated as your partner may also need to depend on you for help in
difficult times. The stability provided to you can be given in return.

Uranus in the First House

When your partner's Uranus falls in or aspects your first house, especially in conjunc-
tion to the Ascendant, you are inspired to tap into your individuality and expose your
unique self. You will feel enlightened for the experience of discovering more about your-
self in an exhilarating manner. Your partner will greatly intrigue you as you both enjoy
each other's stimulating company. Uranus in the house of Mars will create a strong at-
traction, besides arousing exciting passions. Although your partner may want to be the
aggressor, both of you will feel the desire to initiate romance. Your mate may also en-
courage you to modify your persona, with the intention of revealing a new image.
Discordant aspects to Uranus indicate there may be struggles over who should take
the lead. Still, you will find your partner forcing you to make drastic changes that you
will object to adamantly. Their lifestyle may not agree with you. Arguments may ensue
as neither of you want to compromise on the issue. If this behavior continues, your
partner may suddenly leave your life as you will not abide by their compelling ways.
You are destined to experience completely new circumstances that will change your
approach to life when Uranus is well aspected. The fascinating dynamics that you share
will always remain. To progress in life, you need to be open to self-discovery, for a revi-
talized union will be the result.

Uranus in the Second House

When your partner’ Uranus falls in or aspects your second house, you are encouraged
to look for new possibilities to improve your income. Exploring your skills and talents
may reveal some new avenues of employment. Since Uranus 1s known for its unpre-
dictable nature, a watchful eye must be kept on all financial dealings.
Unfavorable aspects denote erratic monetary swings that will create stress between
you and your mate. You, especially, may be the one left holding the bill.
ion, believing in
Under positive influences, your partner will be a source of inspirat
your revenue. Since
your potentials. You will capitalize upon original ideas that increase
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Uranus in the house of Venus is a pairing in the Love Relationship Formula, a personal
attraction may develop over the enhancement of your earnings. Improvements toward
your image will create a more exciting persona.

Uranus in the Third House

When your partner's Uranus falls in or aspects your third house, you are mentally stim-
ulated to express yourself due to the enthusiasm conjured up by your partner. They will
excite you into learning and gathering new information that inspires your intellectual
growth. You may alter your perspective in lieu of innovative concepts that you find in-
triguing. Your partner will instigate changes in your environment that enliven your
daily errands. Since travel is highlighted, this is an activity that can be enj oyed together.
You may visit thrilling new places.
When Uranus is afflicted, your partner's ideas may drastically clash with your own.
Their concepts may be so outrageous that you are inclined to reject any suggestions.
Nevertheless, you will be encouraged to open your mind to another's unusual views.
Under harmonious influences, you may benefit from unconventional methods of
learning that will enlighten your understanding. An exciting intellectual rapport will
create an exhilarating attraction as you thoroughly relish each other’s company. Uranus
in the house of Mercury allows you to look at life from different perspectives so that you
and your relationship may truly benefit.

Uranus in the Fourth House

When your partner's Uranus falls in or aspects your fourth house, especially in con-
junction to the Imum Coeli, you may experience a great deal of restlessness in the home
as your partner will cause you to feel uncomfortable in your own domestic environ-
ment. Your mate may inspire spontaneous actions and want you to upgrade your living
situation by adding a computer, cell phone, or innovative equipment. Such an impul-
sive lifestyle may have you coming and going, yet there will never be a dull moment at
home. Your Uranian partner may prompt you to look into your family history so you
can make new discoveries about your roots.
Unfavorable aspects will cause much distress in the household. Your partner may
have an erratic schedule that upsets your normal routine. Their ideas on how to im-
prove the living space may be too unconventional for your tastes, thus provoking tur-
bulence. It will require great patience to handle sudden disruptions that destabilize
your equilibrium. Constant moving may also be a source of agitation.
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When favorable aspects to Uranus exist, you and your partner can apply innovative
ideas to the home that create a more progressive and interesting environment.

Uranus in the Fifth House

When your partner's Uranus falls in or aspects your fifth house, they may stimulate
your creativity in a dramatic manner. You will find original ways to express your talents.
Your partner's motivation will direct you toward new and exciting opportunities.
Leisure life will be enjoyed from a new perspective. Romantic adventures are thrilling
and inviting. Your partner's intriguing hobbies are fun.
If Uranus is afflicted, your partner is disruptive to your creative pursuits. Their im-
personal actions will discourage your provocative desires. Romantic escapades may turn
sour and possibly lead to a separation.
When positive influences are present, romantic exchanges are highlighted where
new experiences instigate excitement for both of you. Your artistic prowess is enhanced
by your Uranian partner’ inspiration. Being your unique self, you discover your true
creative essence.

Uranus in the Sixth House

When your partner’ Uranus falls in or aspects your sixth house, you are encouraged to
seek alternative health regimens to improve your physical well-being. A New Age diet
plan or stress-relieving techniques such as acupuncture or therapeutic massage will be
revitalizing. Upgrading your vitality will allow you to be more productive at work. Your
partner will also want to persuade you to implement progressive methods on the job to
make your work that much easier to accomplish. After applying these innovative tech-
niques, you will agree that your methods were outdated. You may take on a renewed in-
terest in being of service to others, where you and your partner may discover a unique
way to further their welfare.
When Uranus is in adverse aspect, your partner will cause disruption on the job that
is not easily settled. They may think they know it all and may be critical of your work
strategy. Nervous tension may escalate into a turbulent situation. You may be concerned
about your partner’ health as well.
Under harmonious aspects to Uranus, you will want to be more effective on the
job and, at your partner's request, upgrade your work strategy. A progressive attitude
is rejuvenating and improves your well-being. You will always benefit from implement-
ing a plan that leads to better work and health conditions.
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Uranus in the Seventh House

When your partner’ Uranus falls in or aspects your seventh house, especially in con-
junction to the Descendant, you may feel compelled to look at-your relationship from a
whole new perspective. Although unsettling, you will make adjustments that are ac-
commodating for each other. In selective cases, a forced separation due to traveling
could create some distance. A sudden attraction can be overwhelming and needs to be
carefully evaluated, as a sudden departure could be the result if there is not enough in-
trigue to keep your partner interested in you. Through your partner, you could estab-
lish a whole new social circle that includes some unconventional associations.
Discordant influences indicate that you would be wise to avoid a romantic alliance
due to the fact that you could be easily fascinated by your partner only to have them
suddenly disappear without a trace. This attraction gone awry would be extremely tu-
multuous, making it difficult for you to recover from such a shocking disclosure.
Only under auspicious aspects is this Uranian influence to be trusted. The changes
you make within yourself will be reflected back onto your relationship to compliment
the union. As Uranus falls in the house of Venus, a combination in the the Love Rela-
tionship Formula, a powerful attraction will bring continued excitement into the rela-
tionship. Other elements of the Love Relationship Formula need to be present to sup-
port this dynamic appeal.

Uranus in the Eighth House

When your partner’ Uranus falls in or aspects your eighth house, they will enlighten
you to discover more about yourself through experiencing a major metamorphosis. You
will be exposed to the occult and death/rebirth issues that awaken you to the possibili-
ties of transcendence. The avenues pursued that allow you to rejuvenate yourself will be
rewarding. Joint finances are progressive as long as you keep your wits about you.
You will need to guard yourself when inharmonious influences are present, as erratic
situations will unfold that are monetarily disruptive. Following the financial advice of
your mate is not recommended. Although you will be inclined by your partner's per-
suasion to involve yourself with a transcendental experience, their plan on how to pro-
ceed does not agree with you.
Only under positive aspects to Uranus should new investment opportunities be pur-
sued. Most partnership dealings are favored and will have an original twist. Your part-
ner will appreciate your instilled quest to find the truth about yourself,
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Uranus in the Ninth House

When your partner's Uranus falls in or aspects your ninth house, you are challenged to
alter your views on life. Your beliefs and philosophy will be enlightened with a whole
new perspective through the persuasion of your partner. Expansive thoughts will stim-
ulate your mind, possibly changing your outlook forever.
When Uranus is afflicted, the direction of your life may drastically change. You will
be confronted by your partner with radical ideas that may be too bizarre for your tastes.
Your mate’ beliefs may seriously differ from your own, causing much trepidation.
When Uranus is well aspected, your partner will inspire you to take an interest in
foreign dealings and possibly travel abroad. You will form new opinions about your be-
liefs. Life will take on an entirely new meaning as you implement original concepts into
your philosophy. The wisdom gained is intellectual insight that will always perpetuate a
broader understanding of your life experience.

Uranus in the Tenth House

When your partner's Uranus falls in or aspects your tenth house, especially in conjunc-
tion to the Midheaven, your career ambitions may suddenly change for the better as
your partner provides you with opportunities to achieve success. You may reevaluate
your own position and look for original avenues that accelerate your progress.
Under adverse aspects to Uranus, your partner will be disruptive to your career
goals and reputation. They may not offer the proper occupational guidance, possibly
steering you in an unpredictable direction.
When auspicious influences exist, you may attract a unique career position through
your partner’ assistance. A cultivated awareness allows you to be flexible and adapt to
changing situations on the job. Since your social circle is intrigued by you, you sport a
good reputation.

Uranus in the Eleventh House

When your partner's Uranus falls in or aspects your eleventh house, you are inspired to
pursue your sought-after ideals. Your partner will provide you with connections to or-
ganizations, societies, clubs, or charities that you appreciate being involved with on a
regular basis. Since Uranus rules the eleventh house, it stimulates the growth of friend-
ships where new and interesting associations will develop.
Unfavorable influences will not allow a good friendship to manifest between you
and your mate, or others in your surroundings. You may experience an unpredictable
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future in your partner's presence, and not be sure which path to follow to reach your
dreams.
Under favorable aspects, your partner may want to enlighten you to a new, human-
itarian way of living. As you attain the goals you desire, exciting friendships grow and
prosper.

Uranus in the Twelfth House

When your partner’ Uranus falls in-or aspects your twelfth house, they will provide
you with new ways of unraveling subconscious issues that cause you to discover more
about yourself. You will be able to solve deep-rooted problems that have hindered you
for years. You may find that in changing your emotional outlook, you and your partner
will benefit. You may trust your Uranian mate with their unusual antidotes to improve
any psychological condition.
Discordant influences indicate that your partner's approach to deeper issues gener-
ates tremendous stress. They may demand radical changes that leave you in turmoil.
You will wonder if your partner is becoming your enemy by the erratic tactics seem-
ingly designed to undermine you.
When Uranus is well aspected, hidden talents are discovered that inspire your con-
fidence. You will feel relieved and exhilarated by the personal gains made in addressing
deep-seated issues. Finally, your unique self can be realized to the fullest.

Neptune in the First House

When your partner's Neptune falls in or aspects your first house, especially in conjunc-
tion to the Ascendant, you will emanate a mysterious aura when you are in the com-
pany of your partner that others find quite alluring. Although your partner will support
the projection of a compassionate attitude to those around you, you may need to pro-
tect yourself from being taken in by their sympathies. Cultivating an understanding
manner, your Neptunian mate may be sensitive enough to appreciate your dreams and
fantasies. They will quickly learn to relate to you on an emotional/spiritual level that de-
fies definition. A relaxed atmosphere will exist when you are in each other's company.
When Neptune is afflicted, the person you thought you could rely on eludes you.
Since you are not able to see each other for who you really are, your relationship grad-
ually dissipates and you are very disappointed. If your partner is inclined to misrepre-
sent you, beware of the repercussions.
Positive influences to Neptune indicate you will learn that in giving there is much to
be gained, even in the pursuit of your desired ideals. Your partner will proclaim that a
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compassionate understanding allows you to embrace all of life so that your spiritual
essence may be found.

Neptune in the Second House

When your partner's Neptune falls in or aspects your second house, you are prompted
to use your imagination to create new sources of income. Your partner will encourage
you to consider avenues that help the less fortunate, but have limited funding. Al-
though your mate’s intentions are good, you may want to be extra cautious in following
any financial advice, as it may be shrouded with deception. You may find money slip-
ping through your fingers, yet your Neptunian partner doesn’t seem to be concerned.
What works for your partner may not always be economically reliable for you.
Under adverse aspects, you would be wise to ignore the monetary counsel of your
mate, as they sport rose-colored glasses that envision delusions of grandeur. An im-
practical budget will see you going in the red. What appears to be a lucrative invest-
ment will not work out as planned. Disappearing acts belong in the circus, not in your
bank account. You are better off following your own advice. Beware of your partner
wanting to exploit your generosity.
Even under harmonious aspects you are still vulnerable to your partner taking ad-
vantage of you. Your mate’s motives need to be questioned to see if they are acting in
your best interests and inspiring new earning potential.

Neptune in the Third House

When your partner's Neptune falls in or aspects your third house, you will be inclined
to go beyond everyday reality and develop your intuition when interacting with your
mate or those around you. You will find yourself learning through osmosis and, at the
request of your partner, cultivating your imagination to assist you in expressing your
ideas. Glamorizing your educational aims will make them more interesting than before.
Discordant aspects to Neptune in the house of Mercury depict a complete break-
down in communications. You are two ships passing in the night, as nebulous ideas
never seem to reach each other. Major misunderstandings will be the unfortunate result.
If you cannot communicate with your partner, you do not have much of a relationship.
The wrong information will also stymie learning experiences and traveling plans.
,
When Neptune is well aspected, you will embellish your communicative thoughts
you
expressing yourself in a colorful manner. Using your vivid imagination will enable
e you
to be entertaining in the company of others. Your Neptunian partner will persuad
with fascinating traveling adventures that refresh your mind and spirit.
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Neptune in the Fourth House

When you partner's Neptune falls in or aspects your fourth house, especially in con-
junction to the Imum Coeli, there will be a mutual empathy where you both will be able
to relate to each other's emotions and habitual patterns. Nevertheless, your mate may at
times play on your sympathies, wanting all of your tender-loving care. A spiritual link
may develop that brings out your compassionate nature. Issues involving your up-
bringing will be addressed in a sensitive manner to help you heal vulnerable areas.
When Neptune is afflicted, you will feel obligated to support your partners every
need, leaving you drained. No matter what you do, your partner may not trust you,
which could lead to the deterioration of your relationship. Joint property dealings may
be mismanaged leading to disappointment and possible financial loss. Your Neptunian
mate may engage in scandalous real estate deals that you find appalling. Keep a careful
eye on inheritances, which could be easily undermined without your knowledge.
Under favorable aspects, you will establish a feeling of mutual identity that is long
lasting. As your compassion is aroused, you both benefit from sharing the sensitivity
surrounding your emotional foundations.

Neptune in the Fifth House

When your partners Neptune falls in or aspects your fifth house, they will impress
upon you the need to bring out your creative prowess so that you may use your imagi-
nation to the fullest. Any ingenious talents may be cultivated. Your partner will inspire
you to enjoy the glamorous world of entertainment, taking pleasure in the romantic de-
lights that life has to offer. Remember, showing a compassionate nature involves mak-
ing sacrifices that may lead to true love.
Inharmonious influences denote a painful dissolution of a union that once seemed
ideal. Having starry-eyed relationships will only lead to a broken heart. Try resisting your
Neptunian mate’ enticement to escort you down a crooked road. You may have difficulty
aspiring toward illusive, creative goals that your partner insists you can achieve.
When Neptune is well aspected, artistically and romantically you are keen on pur-
suing your heart’ desire. A heavenly romance may develop that is full of fun and won-
der. Loving unconditionally has its own reward.

Neptune in the Sixth House

When your partner's Neptune falls in or aspects your sixth house, they will be a source
of inspiration to you in living up to your ideals on the job. You are more inclined to
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look for the “blind spots” that limit your productivity. Your partner will be understand-
ing with your problems and may encourage a relaxed, meditative approach toward your
work goals. Still, they may cause confusion with your previously set agenda, which is
draining. You may lose track of your priorities, thus dismantling progress that has al-
ready been made.
When Neptune is badly aspected, your partner's vague, careless advice on how to
address your daily routine is very disconcerting and undermines your stability on the
job. They may misdiagnose health issues, instigating even more setbacks. It may be
such that you have to sacrifice taking care of your partner's welfare.
Positive aspects indicate that the healing effects of Neptune will improve your over-
all well-being. These influences generate a calming effect on you where you are more
capable of seeking and attaining your work ideals. Nevertheless, your Neptunian mate’s
involvement may interfere with your progress at times. You will appreciate their sup-
port, but following your own counsel will attract better results.

Neptune in the Seventh House

When your partner’ Neptune falls in or aspects your seventh house, especially in conjunc-
tion to the Descendant, you may feel you have found the perfect partner. But your starry-
eyed perceptions may elude you into believing that this is the ideal mate when maybe he or
she is not. When it comes to love, our imagination can easily play tricks on us. This spiri-
tual influence may describe a platonic relationship. Your partner's association in your social
surroundings will enhance the feeling of having close connections with others.
When misleading influences denote that you are under the illusion your true love
will last forever, you are swept off your feet into heavenly abandonment only to return
to earth with a seriously disappointing thud. A romantic travesty has overcome you,
leaving you in the depths of despair. Deception in love gets even the best of us. But, as
they say, “What you lose in the world will not be a loss to your soul.”*
When auspicious aspects are present, you will have a compassionate understanding
of your Neptunian partner's needs, which will generate better communications. But,
this spiritual link is something that can only be felt, not described. How you now per-
ceive love will change your entire outlook. Neptune in the house of Venus depicts a
heavenly romance that is the soul connection you desire.

* Paramahansa Yogananda from Spiritual Diary (Los Angeles, CA: Self-Realization Fellowship, 1982).
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Neptune in the Eighth House

When your partner's Neptune falls in or aspects your eighth house, you may feel the
spiritual need to experience a personal transformation, yet lack the focus to attain this
goal. Gradually you will be able to channel this influence and realize that a meditative
retreat may provide you with the means to change your inner being. Still, you may en-
counter a vague understanding with your partner that makes you feel uncertain about
your relationship with them. Finances need to be carefully guarded. Any joint bank ac-
counts may see the quick dissemination of funds.
Under adverse aspects, your inheritance may be laced with fraud. Personal and finan-
cial joint ventures are slated to fail. What you start may seem to dissolve without you ever
knowing it. Therefore partnerships are not guaranteed to grow and prosper. Intimacy
never seems to evolve to a higher plane, but descends to unsatisfied desires. You may have
to face fears of the unknown, possibly involving death-and-rebirth experiences or even
the occult. You are facing a tremendous challenge to find your way and perhaps learn
when not to rely on your Neptunian partner.
When harmonious aspects are affecting Neptune, a wonderful spiritual bond could be
the result. You are able to tap into the deeper realms of consciousness with your mate.
Sexuality is experienced on a more compassionate level that may even be dream-like.
Your partner puts you at ease with your metamorphosis, knowing that in purifying your
being you will transcend to your highest self.

Neptune in the Ninth House

When your partners Neptune falls in or aspects your ninth house, you are persuaded to
open up your mind to otherworldly avenues of communication. Implementing a spiritual
practice may change your whole philosophy about life. A more compassionate approach
to your beliefs allows you to honor and broaden your understanding of other religious
doctrines. Cultivating an interest in unusual avenues of learning, you may find that being
creative brings out the intellectual genius in you.
Discordant aspects may cause your Neptunian mate to mislead you in the assimila-
tion of intriguing ideas. You may be led into religions or philosophies that do not agree
with your beliefs. Phony concepts will disrupt your direction, making you feel disillu-
sioned about learning in any capacity. Travel plans are not to be trusted. Since nebulous
communications foreshadow the union, you will encounter major misunderstandings.
When Neptune is well aspected, your partner’s imagination will redefine your own
outlook and stimulate you to travel to see new, colorful sights. Your mate will motivate
you to gather knowledge from many different sources so that you can reach new horizons
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and develop faith in a higher cause. Sometimes we must go beyond ourselves to have a
more meaningful existence.

Neptune in the Tenth House

When your partner's Neptune falls in or aspects your tenth house, especially in con-
junction to your Midheaven, they are convinced that you can reach the ideal goals that
you set for yourself. Although it’s nice to have the support of someone who believes in
you, your illusive aspirations may at times seem unattainable no matter how much ef-
fort is applied. You may become discouraged trying to emulate the success of your part-
ner, not realizing that their ambitions are not comparable to yours. If your aims are to
ever be achieved, you must have faith in their materialization.
Unfavorable aspects to Neptune may completely undermine your efforts to triumph
in a prosperous career. You may have to make sacrifices for your partner that distract
you from your own career goals. Due to your mate’s dishonest actions, your reputation
may be unknowingly fraught with disgrace. If your Neptunian partner shows signs of
unreliability, they could have other motives.
When favorable aspects exist, your partner will provide you with the means to make
your career aspirations come true. You are confident that the aims you have set for
yourself can be realized. When you accomplish a goal that requires total devotion, you
know that you have fulfilled a great purpose in life.

Neptune in the Eleventh House

When your partner's Neptune falls in or aspects your eleventh house, you are inspired
to develop a spiritual friendship with your mate. You envision your soulmate possess-
ing a compassionate understanding that surpasses the eyes of time. Your Neptunian
partner may be able to provide you with the resources that help you manifest your
fondest hopes and dreams. A geographical barrier may exist that allows you the space
to flow with this relationship and be creative on your own. Different backgrounds may
cause a division that will require a sensitive approach to rekindle the bond.
When inauspicious aspects are present, you may be required to make sacrifices
where your sympathetic gestures are needed, possibly due to ill health. Your partner's
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presence in your life may confuse your ideals and interfere with your friendships.
may seem that your mate is not acting in your best interests.
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Under auspicious aspects to Neptune, your partner is a desirable friend who
groups that
ports your idyllic pursuits. They have the ability to put you in touch with
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reflect your aims. Showing empathy in developing friendships in life will be one of your
greatest accomplishments; the other is a sincere dedication to your ideals that allows
your dreams and wishes to come true.

Neptune in the Twelfth House

When your partner's Neptune falls in or aspects your twelfth house, you will be more at
ease working with underlying psychological issues that need to be addressed. Your part-
ner will approach you with compassionate counsel, knowing that this is the best way to
handle sensitive problems. They may help you open your heart to be more sympathetic to
those around you. You are also inclined to show empathy toward your Neptunian mate.
Under badly aspected influences, your partner may cause you to feel very confused
about how to manage any personal difficulties. You may exercise escapist tactics to
avoid what you need to face. Personal weaknesses may cause self-defeating tendencies.
Pursuing unexplained phenomena or creative activities may be largely disappointing as
plans go awry. Secrets may somehow be revealed to the public through your partner's
detrimental intentions.
When Neptune is well aspected, there could be a shared interest in the unknown,
including mysteries and the occult. Developing any hidden talents will boost your con-
fidence and be the right form of therapy for you. Your partner will be instrumental in
bringing out your generous concern for the welfare of others. They want you to shelter
yourself as well from those who would divulge your deepest secrets.
To grow spiritually one has to be giving but also perceptively cunning, knowing
only to release information that others cannot take advantage of in some manner.

Pluto in the First House

When your partner's Pluto falls in or aspects your first house, especially in conjunction
with the Ascendant, they may become intensely attracted to you and driven to uncover
the real personality that lies beneath. Your partner will want you to develop an aware-
ness of your unconscious motives so that you learn to redirect your energies to accom-
plish more in life. Because of your Plutonian partner's persuasion, you will experience a
personal transformation that will allow you to feel entirely rejuvenated. As a couple,
you may become more aware of your mortality as a near-death experience changes your
view about life and the afterlife.
When Pluto is afflicted, your partner may manipulate you with a mesmerizing effect
into following their lead. Nevertheless, much animosity will arise when you point out
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your mate’s psychological problems and they project this issue right back onto you,
making it your fault.
This karmic link describes a deeper bond established in a prior lifetime. Although
you are destined to work out your karma on a profound level that surpasses time, this
could be for constructive or destructive reasons depending on other intersecting influ-
ences. Positive aspects will support you in discovering hidden elements within yourself
that are in need of transcendence, thus driving you toward a meaningful outcome.

Pluto in the Second House

When your partner’s Pluto falls in or aspects your second house, you are prompted to
come to a deeper understanding concerning money and values. Your whole attitude
may change as you recognize what is important and what isn’t. Your partner will insti-
gate a more meaningful approach in capitalizing upon your skills and talents. They will
want you to recognize what the underlying motive is behind earning money and accu-
mulating possessions. Questioning your ideas and intentions toward establishing secu-
rity will bring a clearer perspective on finances as well as on the significance of your ex-
istence. Pluto in the house of Venus, a strong combination in the Love Relationship
Formula, intends to awaken you to what is meaningful so that you may value your re-
lationship completely.
When unfavorable aspects exist, you are slated to experience economic difficulty. Al-
though your partner will want to be involved with your financial situation, they may
force you to take financial risks or pursue a monetary strategy that is not appropriate for
you. As lucrative gains are not to be found, financial loses will cause dissension between
the two of you.
Favorable aspects to Pluto indicate that your partner will be a great source in gener-
ating wealth. Materialistic rewards, although supportive to one’s lifestyle, never take the
place of the true, meaningful riches that life has to offer.

Pluto in the Third House

When your partner’ Pluto falls in or aspects your third house, you will explore the
world of ideas and recognize that the vat of life’s knowledge is ever filling. Your partner
will strongly influence your opinions, questioning your every thought so that you may
find deeper meaning in relating to those in your surroundings. Both of you will benefit
from such an in-depth exchange. As you modify your manner of thinking, you will
demonstrate a powerful persona when communicating to others.
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Discordant aspects may cause your partner to coerce you into following their pat-
tern of thinking. They may want to manipulate you in conversation, causing you to feel
uncomfortable interacting on a social level. Regardless of your opinion, your partner
may want to determine your mode of education.
Under harmonious aspects, you will apply depth of understanding to your thoughts
and way of communicating. Your mate’s persuasion to probe your intellectual abilities
will only add to your wisdom.

Pluto in the Fourth House

When your partner’ Pluto falls in or aspects your fourth house, especially in conjunc-
tion to the Imum Coeli, they will stir up your emotional and habitual patterns so that
you might develop a deeper understanding of your inner being. You will form strong
feelings toward your partner that augment the bond between you. As your awareness
increases, you may sense a past-life connection that touches upon your psychological
essence in such a manner that you are amazed at the effect your mate has on you.
When Pluto is badly aspected, your partner may bring to the surface emotional is-
sues you would rather not deal with at this time. You may feel repulsed at your mate’s
extreme behavior. Domestic conflicts may arise that involve other relatives. An underly-
ing pressure emanating from your partner will challenge your stability at home.
When Pluto is well aspected, you are stimulated by your partner to understand and
transcend your instinctive and responsive experiences to add to your emotional and
psychological growth. One's true essence is exposed through the process of change.

Pluto in the Fifth House

When your partner’ Pluto falls in or aspects your fifth house, they will bring to the sur-
face any dormant talents so that you will enjoy becoming involved with and expressing
yourself in a dramatic manner. Whether they be creative or recreational talents, you will
still feel compelled to excel in this capacity. You will be inclined to engage in leisure life
as well, increasing the romantic time spent together. You may have a propensity to at-
tract love-affair situations even in the company of your mate. Prior romances may ap-
pear that demand your involvement. You may need to explore your deeper motives for
experiencing an affair with someone other than your significant other. In understanding
why you are susceptible to enticement, you will modify your approach to romantic ties.
Inauspicious influences to Pluto denote that your partner may manipulate love to
satisfy their own desires. You may feel unwanted pressure to pursue creative avenues
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that do not agree with you. Your partner may not be interested in collaborating when it
comes to leisurely activities or the raising of children.
Under auspicious aspects, your Plutonian partner will have an influential effect on
you that changes your disposition toward romance, leisure life, and children. You will
find deeper meaning in spending time together and sharing in life’s pleasantries.

Pluto in the Sixth House

When your partner's Pluto falls in or aspects your sixth house, you are persuaded to
embark on a mission to help others. But you may first need to attend to your partner,
who will be expecting your services. Your work routine will be scrutinized by your
mate, who will want you to function in a well-organized manner on the job. They will
be adamant about you changing your routine and implementing more concentration,
knowing that this will improve your output.
Under adverse aspects, your partner may be overly critical of your efficiency on the
job. You may find yourself in a subordinate position where you are constantly meeting
the needs of others, but there is no concern for your needs. This intense pressure may
affect your overall health. Deep-rooted conditions may not be easily treated. You will
need to compensate by fortifying your diet and physical fitness so that you may be bet-
ter able to tolerate such stress.
When Pluto is harmoniously aspected, you will become involved with upgrading
your health and well-being, satisfying your nutritional intake, which will justify your
good health. Your partner’s persuasion will convince you to modify your work routine,
which will bring you the job results you desire.
In looking out for the welfare of others, you will develop a grateful attitude for the
experience of helping someone in need.

Pluto in the Seventh House

When your partner’ Pluto falls in or aspects your seventh house, especially in conjunction
to the Descendant, they will be intensely drawn to you, desiring a deep, lasting commit-
ment and expecting complete loyalty from you as well. You will be challenged in learning
how to cooperate in a long-term relationship. Your partner will reveal your attitude to-
ward relationships, which will indicate some needed changes. Once certain areas of your
mindset are modified, you can enter into a totally satisfying union with your mate.
When Pluto is afflicted, your partner will become very possessive with you, wanting
to alienate you from any social contacts and monopolize your time and attention. You
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will bring up issues that disturb your partner's psychological well-being, where they
may lash out at you, demonstrating hostility. You will need to protect yourself from fatal
attractions or stalkers who are compelled to be with you.
Pluto in the house of Venus, a vital link in the Love Relationship Formula, makes this
connection a very karmic one that aims toward renewing the depth of love that the cou-
ple has experienced in another lifetime. Good aspects to Pluto intensify the longevity of
the commitment, where you both will seek a more meaningful experience of love.

Pluto in the Fighth House

When your partner’ Pluto falls in or aspects your eighth house, they will convince you
to confront your deep-rooted psychological issues. You may feel very uncomfortable
about tackling these subconscious conditions, which may cause upset between you and
your partner. Gradually you will realize that in experiencing a total transformation, you
will be better able to connect with your partner on an emotional, spiritual, sexual, and
intellectual level. Facing these psychological issues will take courage, but you have
everything to gain. As you empower yourself through this rebirth experience, the con-
fidence you acquire will prepare you for another step in your evolvement in life—one
your partner may envy.
Unfavorable aspects to Pluto will make it difficult for you to experience a personal
transformation, as your partner does not want to cooperate in any manner. You may
find yourself burning out from this union, which seems too intense to survive. It would
not be wise for you to become involved with joint monetary ventures since they are
likely to be manipulated by your Plutonian partner. Beware that your partner may be
interested in capitalizing upon your personal strengths. Quests to unravel the occult
would prove to be questionable and in some cases harmful.
Pluto in its ruling house under favorable aspects indicates your partner will insist on
offering you help in releasing psychological repressions. Once purged, you will be a
freer soul, wanting to immerse yourself in personal growth experiences. You will be ex-
posed to the probability of reincarnation, which will affect your outlook on life. A close
bond will be established through satisfying intimate moments that will support a long-
term union. Your metamorphic change may make all things possible.

Pluto in the Ninth House

When your partner’ Pluto falls in or aspects your ninth house, you are swayed by your
partner to change your beliefs, philosophy, and outlook on your existence. You may be
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challenged to explore your own concepts and spiritual or religious values, finally con-
cluding that you may need to totally alter your viewpoint. Understanding what lies be-
hind a certain attitude or motivation will bring greater clarity.
When Pluto is badly aspected, your partner will try to persuade you to follow their
beliefs and philosophy, which will cause major disagreements between you.
When Pluto is well aspected, you have an opportunity to examine your beliefs and
perspective on life, discarding worn-out concepts and broadening your outlook, which
may include traveling to foreign countries and experiencing other cultures. You may
discover an unlimited interest in reaching for new possibilities that bring a profound
experience.

Pluto in the Tenth House

When your partner's Pluto falls in or aspects your tenth house, especially in conjunction
to the Midheaven, they will be highly influential in the pursuit of your career goals,
wanting to propel you into the limelight so that you may improve your status. You may
feel driven to succeed no matter what the cost, realizing that to acquire a position of
power you must have a great strategy combined with a hard-working attitude. A
stronger awareness will allow you to understand your subconscious motivations to
achieve your ambitions. Since your reputation is at stake, hopefully you will demon-
strate honorable actions. If you want to receive respect from others, you must maintain
your integrity even in the midst of power plays.
Under discordant aspects, your partner may manipulate you for their own ambi-
tious gain, or your partner could be envious of your success. Your reputation could be
damaged as your Plutonian mate may be dedicated to undermining your position.
Harmonious aspects will fortify your career outlook where you are determined to
succeed. Victory will require a clear conscience, as you aim toward attaining a position
of power, moving in for the right reasons and not the wrong ones.

Pluto in the Eleventh House

When your partner’ Pluto falls in or aspects your eleventh house, you are inclined to
redefine your hopes and dreams so that you are better able to fulfill them. As you grasp
a thorough understanding of what's behind your approach to your sought-after aims,
you are more prepared to succeed. Your partner will connect you with groups, clubs, or
organizations that share similar ideals to assist you in achieving your ambitions.
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When inauspicious influences are present, your Plutonian partner may coerce you
into pursuing the wrong ideals, which may turn out to be their dream. Your partner
may also display signs of jealousy, which may ruin your friendship and undermine your
social circle.
Under auspicious aspects, you will establish a strong friendship with your signifi-
cant other that could last through the years. You are encouraged to form deep connec-
tions with others as well. Now you have a special opportunity to pursue your dreams to
the peak of fulfillment. Once you're involved, there’s no turning back.

Pluto in the Twelfth House

When your partner’ Pluto falls in or aspects your twelfth house, they will cause per-
sonal issues to surface that you would rather ignore. Yet, if you can find the courage to
address these problems that shake your confidence, you may once and for all release
these repressive conditions that have blocked you for years. Your partner may provide
you with intense counsel to resolve what is burdening you, and also encourage you to
help the sick and underprivileged. When we become involved with someone, the union
always seems to bring up what we need to confront. All relationships have a tendency
to expose our weaknesses, some that we never knew we had.
If unfavorable influences are affecting Pluto, you may feel vulnerable that your part-
ner will easily manipulate you since they know your shortcomings and may wish to
take advantage of them. Your partner may be enticed into becoming your secret enemy
just to see how far they can go without letting you know. You are not only forced to deal
with your psychological issues, which may have everything to do with why you at-
tracted this person into your life in the first place, but also faced with dealing with a
corrupt relationship. Your partner may try to lure you into underground enterprises
that would deface your integrity. If you are constantly on guard, you may be able to
avoid such negative situations.
Favorable aspects will allow you the opportunity to transcend repressed conditions
that have made your life unhappy. Subconscious motivations reveal a lot about who we
are. In understanding these hidden problems, you have a real chance of finding your
true self.
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TIMING Is
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When you are looking for that wonderful relationship, timing is everything! Favorable
meeting times, as predicted by the heavens, will enhance your chances of connecting
with that special someone. In predicting romantic relationships, fate and karma play an
important role. In terms of relationships, fate means that you are destined to meet a
special someone. Karma indicates what kind of person you might meet considering
how well you have balanced your own personal karma. What also comes into play is
your belief system. You must believe that you deserve to be with Mr. or Ms. Right. So
let’s say your fate has been decided and it is established that you will meet a significant
other. Don’t question whether or not you will, just think that your destiny is such that
you will experience this important meeting. Ifyou know it’s possible, then it’s just a matter

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of when. And “when” is dependent upon the astrology involved in the Love Relationship
Formula to attract the best soulmate you deserve.
We come to this planet to learn about loving others as well as ourselves. Many times
loving and respecting ourselves is overlooked. However, it is only when we love and
appreciate ourselves that we have a chance to find true love—the love we desire.
People say they are looking for love, yet they can’t seem to find a relationship. And I
can clearly see why. They are programmed to believe that they never will.
Give yourself a chance! Changing your thinking can help change your life. If you
want to be ina relationship, you have to think about it, and more importantly, you have
to believe it will happen!

“What you believe in you serve and are served by.”*

—Rey. Catherine Ponder

When we meet someone new, that meeting is the birth of the relationship. And with
timing, you have a good idea of what to expect. The transits, progressions, and solar arc
directions that are in aspect at that time will surely affect the outcome of this relation-
ship. Utilizing the astrological connections involved in the Love Relationship Formula, along
with an understanding ofyour belief system and karma, will bring the greatest results. It is im-
portant to remember that you can meet someone under positive planetary influences, but the
Love Relationship Formula must be intact in order for the relationship to prosper. Keep in
mind that the transits, progressions, and solar arc directions make aspects to the natal
chart as well as aspects among themselves.

Venus Transits/Progressions/Solar Arc Directions

Venus Conjunct Sun—Social Exchanges, Love and Affection
Minor Influence with Sun Conjunct Descendant
The Sun shining on Venus will emphasize affectionate encounters with those around
you. It will also motivate you to turn on the charm as you enjoy the pleasantries that
exist in the moment. Bringing beauty into your environment will attract approval from
others. Accentuating your Venusian assets, you are bound to win the favor of your so-
cial circle. Others are agreeable and willing to please. Loved ones will appreciate your

* Ponder, Catherine, The Dynamic Laws of Healing (1966; revised, Camarillo, CA: DeVorss Publications,
1985).
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company. In compatibility and with progressions, this influence is much more pro-
nounced than the subtle effect that emanates from the transits themselves. In fact, when
progressed Venus goes over the natal Sun or is in conjunction in an angular house in a
Solar Return, one can expect to meet up with a congenial partner possibly suited for
marriage. Positive Sun-Venus aspects are a vital part of the Love Relationship Formula.

Venus Trine/Sextile Sun—Favorable Social Exchanges, Love and Affection

Minor Influence with Sun Trine/Sextile Descendant
The affections of Venus are highlighted by the Sun, as your charming self attracts
pleasant and agreeable social encounters your way. A relaxed attitude will allow you to
enjoy the company of those around you. Loved ones feel content in your presence. A
harmonious environment will continue to enhance the social decorum. Your efforts to
create a beautiful environment win compliments and warm support from well-wishers,
as social activities thrive. Favorable Sun-Venus aspects are an important pairing in the
Love Relationship Formula.

Venus Square/Oppose Sun—Distracted Feelings and Emotional Disadvantage

Minor Influence with Sun Square/Oppose Descendant
Your feelings are at a disadvantage when the Sun is in adverse transit to Venus. A cer-
tain moodiness prevails, leaving your social/romantic encounters ineffective. Still yearn-
ing for a sentimental exchange, your desires continue to be blocked. Too much emotion-
alism, however, warrants you avoiding entertaining on this day. Your charming self is
seen as forced protocol. Meetings with your close social circle or lover should be post-
poned. The sensual pleasures in life are lacking, except for overindulging in food and
drink, which is not recommended. Emotional displays should be kept in check as well.

Venus Conjunct Moon—Affectionate Feelings

Minor Influence with Moon Conjunct Descendant
Sensitivity in compatibility is strong when Venus and the Moon join together in as-
pect. You will want to express your feelings and be well received. Affectionate responses
put you at ease as you know you are in the company of those who care. You can win
the approval of others with a loving nature. Fond feelings are encouraged under posi-
tive Venus-Moon aspects, which are a valuable part of the Love Relationship Formula.
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Venus Trine/Sextile Moon—Harmonious and Affectionate Feelings

Minor Influence with Moon Trine/Sextile Descendant
Feeling relaxed, you wish to share your feelings with those around you. The affec-
tionate responses you seek will emanate from those who care.
Pleasant surroundings will induce a content spirit. The shared sensitivity that you
experience persuades a more harmonious environment. Favorable Moon-Venus aspects
are a highly supportive combination in the Love Relationship Formula.

Venus Square/Oppose Moon—Moody Feelings

Minor Influence with Moon Square/Oppose Descendant
A moody disposition will make relationships uneasy. Even if you are wavering with
your own feelings, do be considerate toward others. Finding an emotional outlet will
help channel this adversity. Moon-Venus angles at times require an emotional or sexual
release. Otherwise, it would be best to work out unsettled emotions by yourself.

Venus Conjunct Mercury—Social and Affectionate Exchanges

Minor Influence with Mercury Conjunct Descendant
Congenial social interaction will be well received. Your charming self exudes a good-
natured attitude that appeases the company you keep. Being yourself is quite attractive
to those in your social circle.

Venus Trine/Sextile Mercury—Favorable Social and Affectionate Exchanges

Minor Influence with Mercury Trine/Sextile Descendant
Being content and socially appealing enhances your chances for a romantic advance.
Encounters may easily lead to affectionate exchanges as you share your charming nature
with others. You attract favors as you gain the approval of those around you. There will
be an opportunity to relax and express yourself fully in agreeable surroundings.

Venus Square/Oppose Mercury—Social Disapproval, Feeling Disagreeable

Minor Influence with Mercury Square/Oppose Descendant
You are at a social disadvantage. Misunderstandings could be the result of vacillating
feelings. A lack of information urges you to discuss ideas further. Disagreeable condi-
tions will challenge you to try to bring some harmony into the environment. If you can
not be tactful, keep your feelings to yourself. Displaying a polite manner will ease ten-
sions and avoid criticism from others.
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Venus Conjunct Venus—Congenial and Affectionate Exchanges

Minor Influence with Venus Conjunct Descendant
Your relaxed, easygoing nature will attract more considerate individuals. A gentle,
friendly, and charming disposition is quite appealing as it creates romantic opportunity
for your delight. Pleasantries are around you, so enjoy the good life.

Venus Trine/Sextile Venus—Harmonious, Congenial, and Affectionate Exchanges

Minor Influence with Venus Trine/Sextile Descendant
Social exchanges work to your advantage as your easygoing nature is well displayed.
Others are agreeable and willing to compromise if need be. Although Venus attracts af-
fectionate encounters your way, it doesn’t offer romantic excitement. Enjoy the pleasant
circumstances around you as they could always lead to something further. The sextile
gains affection and approval as well.

Venus Square/Oppose Venus—Unaffectionate Exchanges, Moody Disposition

Minor Influence with Venus Square/Oppose Descendant
Social engagements may not turn out as planned. Your feelings are touchy, causing
you to offend those around you. It would be wise not to overextend yourself or seek out
affectionate exchanges. You are challenged to try to be agreeable and kind.

Mars Conjunct Venus—Social Exchanges, Romantic Desire

Minor Influence with Venus Conjunct Ascendant or Mars Conjunct Descendant
A Mars-Venus conjunction will always attract great attention. Active socializing may
lead to an amorous exchange. Being emotionally receptive, the desires of Mars are en-
amored by the affections of Venus, lighting a romantic flame. The passion of Mars finds
fulfillment through Venus (love). Mars is driven toward the attraction (Venus), both ro-
mantically and socially. As stressful situations ease, you may receive attention from ro-
mantic prospects. Positive Mars-Venus aspects are a strong pairing in the Love Relation-
ship Formula. This loving dynamic creates an exciting moment that, if respected and
nurtured, can last into the future.

Mars Trine/Sextile Venus—Favorable Social Exchanges and Romantic Desire

ant
Minor Influence with Venus Trine/Sextile Ascendant or Mars Trine/Sextile Descend
e Mars
The smooth manner of relating to both sexes is very evident under favorabl
especially
trine Venus influences. You are motivated socially to connect with others,
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through parties or lively gatherings, and are well received with your charming persona.
As you extend yourself, loving Venus is receptive to the desirous advances of Mars, cre-
ating quite a stir. One’ flirtatious qualities are noticed, and a new romance is easily kin-
dled. Amorous encounters entice a mutual exchange of excitement, as one’s yearnings
are met with great affection. Feeling romantically sexy, both parties are inspired to enjoy
this meeting to its fullest, knowing that it may encourage a relationship to prosper into
the future, especially if other [Link] connections are present.
Differences ease in ongoing relationships as loving feelings promote an affectionate
exchange. Improving your personal appearance, perhaps with a new hairstyle, will en-
hance one’s image. Remember that regardless of what transpires with onlookers, just
having social/romantic appeal is a compliment. Romance is highlighted under Mars-
Venus aspects, an essential combination in the Love Relationship Formula.

Mars Square/Oppose Venus—Unfavorable, Overly Aggressive Social

and Romantic Exchanges
Minor Influence with Venus Square/Oppose Ascendant or Mars Square/Oppose Descendant
The lack of correspondence between couples is no more evident than when Mars
squares Venus. Here, conflicting ideas of how to relate aggravate one another, causing
separation as opposed to togetherness. What one needs (love) and what one desires
(passion) do not blend easily. The loving feelings of Venus run into the blunt directness
of Mars. A polite manner becomes easily irritated and quarrelsome. Romantic encoun-
ters made under this influence will eventually sour. Your date will not be what you ex-
pected, turning out to be something completely different than your imagined romance.
An attraction may end up coming from the wrong person. The one you are interested in
may be disagreeable or does not seem to notice you. A lack of passionate sex may only
arouse arguments over the issues at hand. Releasing the emotional tensions through
some type of lively activity, such as dancing, could be helpful. The idea in meeting
someone is that the male and female energies need to get along socially, emotionally,
and sexually. Otherwise, your work is cut out for you.

Jupiter Conjunct Venus—Encouraging Social Exchanges, Compliments, and Love

Minor Influence with Jupiter Conjunct Descendant
Since Jupiter wishes to expand upon the affections of Venus, the social/romantic am-
biance is right for a positive connection to occur. Compliments and favors will come
your way only to enhance your image. Feeling more attractive, you extend yourself to
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others with grace and confidence. Appreciation and love are expressed under favorable
Jupiter-Venus aspects, which are a significant duo in the Love Relationship Formula. The
strongest activation of this influence is seen in progressions and can lead to marriage.

Jupiter Trine/Sextile Venus—Encouraging Social Exchanges, Compliments, and Love

Minor Influence with Jupiter Trine/Sextile Descendant
Its a win/win situation as the two benefic planets unite in harmonious aspect.
Jupiter will send compliments to your Venusian image, attracting great social/romantic
appeal. A relaxed environment allows your feelings to flow, promoting a warm, inviting
interaction with those around you. Social connections are optimistic, respectable, and
full of goodwill. The rapport you establish with others may lead to a further engage-
ment in the future. Your beauty and charm will inspire affectionate exchanges. Since
Venus represents our persona, our self-esteem is highlighted by attracting only the best,
socially and romantically. The positive image you have of yourself will only be more
pronounced and attract what you deserve. The progressed aspects between Jupiter and
Venus can instigate a marriage proposal, which is not surprising since auspicious
Jupiter-Venus aspects are a vital part of the Love Relationship Formula.

Jupiter Square/Oppose Venus—Overwhelming Feelings and Social Life

Minor Influence with Jupiter Square/Oppose Descendant
Being overwhelmed with too much feeling is not helpful when you are hoping for a
social/romantic exchange. Your image of how love is supposed to be is overrated, reek-
ing havoc with your high expectations. Self-centered indulgences may prompt you to
seek out more fun and romance, arousing your feelings toward sensual pleasures. You
may long for more attention and approval, but not everything socially and romantically
can turn out the way you envision. Emotions may need to be kept in check
Romanticism may entice you to engage in a love affair. But your efforts will soon be
discarded as you realize this rendezvous is not what you thought. Emotional relationships
may experience some upheaval as your partner is troubled, moody, hurt, or unsuitable for
your needs. You may attract an inappropriate prospect, and have difficulty establishing
in
a rapport with someone who interests you. Feeling personally frustrated, it would be
your best interest to relax and try to enjoy the niceties of life, as opposed to exploiting
love.
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Saturn Conjunct Venus—Serious or Unappreciated Love, Reserved Socializing

Minor Influence with Saturn Conjunct Descendant
Being at a social disadvantage is not a comfortable position from which to meet
someone new. Your self-esteem may be low and a shy or awkward manner will be dis-
played. Personal insecurities may cause you to seem cold, thus causing others to be in-
different to your needs. The compliments or favors you are anticipating may not be
forthcoming. It would be best to keep a low profile, especially since the odds are not in
your favor. Spending time with familiar faces or having a quiet day by yourself is rec-
ommended. Be patient with a current relationship, for your partner is not able to ap-
preciate you fully during this time. Couples usually don’t meet under Venus-Saturn
transits or progressions. However, they do stabilize relationships or get married under
such influences, for this is where you need to acquire a serious attitude about love. I
find more often than not that men in particular will settle down and/or get married
when they are experiencing a Saturn-Venus crossing on either hard or soft angles. This
combination in the Love Relationship Formula promotes a solid union, along with
other favorable influences.

Saturn Trine/Sextile Venus—Serious, Stabilized Love, Reserved Socializing

Minor Influence with Saturn Trine/Sextile Descendant
Encounters under favorable Saturn-Venus transits may still experience some inhibi-
tions. However, if you don’t have a lot of expectations, and uphold a cordial appear-
ance, the meeting should go relatively fine. A calm, responsible approach offers more
security. You may find more support from ongoing relationships as there is a feeling of
familiarity that allows you to relax and appreciate your loved one. Serious relationships
are established under positive Saturn-Venus aspects, which are a solidifying influence in
the Love Relationship Formula.

Saturn Square/Oppose Venus—Serious, Boring, or Rejected Love

Minor Influence with Saturn Square/Oppose Descendant
Although you may long for a secure love, this is not the time for a new romantic sit-
uation. Your advances will be rejected, which will leave you feeling even lonelier than
you did before. Don’t expect any romantic attention from others as you may not feel or
look your best at this time. The discontent you feel socially and emotionally will require
patience until this transit passes. It is best to keep your own company and, if you’re al-
ready involved, be tolerant of a present relationship that is lacking any excitement. If
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you do attract someone, they may not be able to fully appreciate you or you them. Thus
you will end up dissatisfied and continue to yearn for more. The solid relationship sit-
uation you long for will one-day be there.

Uranus Conjunct Venus—Exciting, Unpredictable Attraction

Minor Influence with Uranus Conjunct Descendant
Surprise developments in one’s social or love life may occur when Uranus conjoins
Venus. Romantic sparks fly, creating an exciting attraction. Two people meeting under
such influences will feel a magnetic enticement. A past love may want to reconcile with
you. Unusual or rebellious encounters could be disruptive. Channel that restless energy
by attending lively functions. Your monetary situation may experience sudden changes
that allow you to enjoy life more. If nothing but an appealing social encounter happens,
consider yourself fortunate. Romantic fascination transpires under Uranus-Venus as-
pects, which are an irresistible pairing in the Love Relationship Formula.

Uranus Trine/Sextile Venus—Positive, Exciting Attraction

Minor Influence with Uranus Trine/Sextile Descendant
Attraction is sparked by our sudden interest in another individual. We find our-
selves in a moment of romantic intrigue that allows us to forget ourselves and feel a
sense of rapturous wonder with another. Especially under Uranus trine Venus, a capti-
vating attraction can occur that will sweep you off your feet. Out of the blue, an unex-
pected meeting will keep you gazing into the sparkling eyes of your romantic prospect.
New feelings arise that will be explored through this exciting encounter. Old emotions
will not be a deterrent, as a radiant, effervescent you is quite appealing. Being a part of
the social scene will enable you to meet up with a significant someone who fascinates
you. Since this vibrant attraction creates a lasting impression, there is more of an op-
portunity for a relationship to develop. A friendly new face, whose presence is short-
lived, may inspire you to move in a promising direction. An ongoing relationship may
experience new feelings that need to be explored. The sextile is subtler, yet still attracts
favorable attention. The return of a past love during this influence indicates a positive
reconnection. Yet both parties must be willing to resume the relationship in order for a
successful tie to occur.
Better financial conditions will allow you to spend money on your appearance and
enjoy lively social functions. The idea behind this transit is to bring out your best
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through compliments, love, and support. This highly significant Uranus-Venus combi-
nation in the Love Relationship Formula promotes a truly enchanting attraction.

Uranus Square/Oppose Venus—Unexpected, Unpredictable Attraction

Minor Influence with Uranus Square/Oppose Descendant
Love and affection find us in unexpected ways. At times there is an unstable variable
that leaves us in more of a predicament as opposed to a promising romance. When
transiting Uranus is in adverse influence to Venus, the outcome of love is unpredictable.
The attraction will appear to be strong, but other factors may lead to uncertainty. Unless
other influences warrant some type of stability, this romance may end almost as soon as
it started. This proves that attraction is not enough to keep a relationship going. Attrac-
tion invites the meeting of two people, yet what follows could be anyone’s guess under
difficult Venus-Uranus aspects. In most cases, because of a dynamic magnetism, a fling
or brief romance will develop that has no future, even though this meeting may affect
you personally.
This erratic influence could also instigate the meeting of a past love. Chances are
that your paths are not meant to merge together again as you both have grown in sepa-
rate ways. Since Venus is a social planet, you may also find the Uranian force impeding
your social life, making it either difficult to connect with anyone or only encountering
people who do not interest you. Unusual contacts will come and go. Ongoing relation-
ships could experience a temporary or permanent separation. A restless spirit could
cause you or your partner to break off a trying relationship. Take the space and time to
pursue individualized goals, then share these experiences with your partner if possible.
This is one transit where love difficulties and financial difficulties may go hand in hand.
Erratic spending may not help acquire the romantic goal. You could spend all the
money in the world, yet love will still elude you.

Neptune Conjunct Venus—lIdealistic, Platonic, or Deceptive Love

Minor Influence with Neptune Conjunct Descendant
The romantic encounter with Neptune and Venus depicts a scenario of heavenly
love, as our dreams become our reality. Visions of the ideal soulmate come to mind,
clouding our good judgment in an amorous encounter. The perfect relationship some-
how seems attainable, and then drifts from our grasp. Rarely does the illusiveness of
Neptune allow us to experience what we know to be true in love. Could it be that our
expectations are unrealistic? In most cases a nebulous romance may never manifest into
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a substantial union, unless you accept a platonic alliance. When meeting under such in-
fluences, the spiritual connection presides over the relationship. If you can appreciate
this bond for what it is, without expectations, you may enjoy the rapport of this union.
Nevertheless, you could still be deceived if you fall into the throws of romance with
abandon. Let a truthful ideal be your guide.
You may be attached to someone who is absorbed in their own pursuits and not
there for you. Yet you are not inclined to be assertive, hoping that all will work out well.
But the fact is that this vague connection could undermine your relationship if you do
not attempt to interact with your partner. The dream phase will eventually dissolve,
hopefully leaving you spiritually enhanced and not emotionally drained.

Neptune Trine/Sextile Venus—Favorable Idealistic, Spiritual, and Platonic Love

Minor Influence with Neptune Trine/Sextile Descendant
Although we are subjected to the illusive world of Neptune, favorable transits in-
volving Neptune and Venus usually denote spiritual connections with others. Platonic
love can always be a welcomed companion as long as expectations are kept in check
and intimacy is not overdone. Still, a carefree attitude that somehow life will continue
as planned is experienced. The ideal romance is sometimes described by Neptune trine
Venus, yet only if this is not based on fantasy. Even then, the couple will most likely ex-
perience a platonic love. The term soulmate is sometimes attributed to the spiritual
connection one feels with another. This bond has passed the portals of time and space,
thus reuniting us with someone we have known from a past life. The mistake people
make is that although you meet, you may not be destined to have a long-term relation-
ship. Sometimes being good friends with someone is better than being their lover. We
all must learn to appreciate relationship boundaries no matter what they are.
You can bet there will be times in your ongoing relationship when it temporarily be-
comes nonsexual. During these periods you want to develop the friendship of the rela-
tionship. What happens at times is that you feel you are drifting away from your part-
ner, like two ships passing in the night. Some people begin to feel that they are falling
out of love with their partner. Both need to develop the spiritual side of the relation-
ship. If this cannot happen, the relationship may dissipate. One or both parties may de-
cide the grass is greener on the other side. They will be equally deceived there, too!
What you need to think about here is at what cost do you consider leaving your rela-
tionship. If implementing a spiritual approach does not work, then it may be time to let
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go. Due to the fact that this is a positive aspect, you have an opportunity to direct your
relationship toward a more compassionate union that inspires a lifetime soulmate.

Neptune Square/Oppose Venus—Platonic, Deceptive Love/Fatal Attractions

Minor Influence with Neptune Square/Oppose Descendant
Men and women alike can be seduced by the sexual intrigue of fatal attractions. And
there is none more deceptive than when tricky Neptune is in adverse aspect to the
planet of love, Venus. It is not so much because we are encountering an illusion when
Neptune influences Venus, but because we find ourselves in the midst of heavenly love
and then we are totally deceived as the everlasting romantic fantasy turns out to be an
emotionally devastating experience.
The problem with Neptune-Venus transits is that you start painting a romantic pic-
ture around someone that you feel attracted to and it’s unrealistic. You are not seeing the
person for who they really are, but for who you want them to be. Before this deception
happens, you have convinced yourself that this is the one! Unaware of the romantic be-
trayal taking place, you proceed with becoming involved. When the veil of illusion has
lifted, you finally see that you have been emotionally betrayed and are devastated.
Adverse Venus-Neptune transits herald imperfect results every time. What it teaches
us is to be realistic in love, to attract stability into our lives instead of illusion. One can
never be too careful in establishing a relationship with another.

Pluto Conjunct Venus—lIntense Feelings and Deep Love

Minor Influence with Pluto Conjunct Descendant
When we experience a romantic encounter with the influence of a Pluto-Venus con-
junction, our deepest feelings surface. The intensity that allows us to merge with an-
other becomes an all-consuming love. If other favorable transits are present, this con-
nection may last a lifetime.
You will find that personal feelings cause you to reflect on your love life, as you
yearn for that deep, meaningful relationship. In alienating yourself from others, you are
better able to understand such heartfelt emotions. An emotional, psychological transi-
tion will help you release old, buried issues. It may be such that repressed feelings from
a past love will need to be resolved so that you can be open to the next relationship.
This important Venus-Pluto aspect is a powerful combination in the Love Relationship
Formula.
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Pluto Trine/Sextile Venus—Deep, Meaningful Love and Relating

Minor Influence with Pluto Trine/Sextile Descendant
Pluto-Venus transits in favorable aspect encourage fated soulmate connections. Thus
a longing for the perfect union will motivate you to seek out that special someone.
Here, powerful influences will drive you toward a destined meeting. A like-minded
spirit will bring the two of you in sync. You will be profoundly aware of the meaningful
rapport. A deep friendship or a significant romance may develop that forces you to ex-
perience the gamut of emotions. You may find yourself overwhelmed with intense feel-
ings of love. Because this is indicated to be a fated connection, if other planetary factors
are supportive, this meeting has an opportunity to last a lifetime. A deep, evolved love
will continue to inspire further growth. Harmonious Venus-Pluto aspects are a signifi-
cant part of the Love Relationship Formula.

Pluto Square/Oppose Venus—lIntense, Obsessive Love

Minor Influence with Pluto Square/Oppose Descendant
Meeting under a Pluto-Venus square will definitely intensify your feelings in a rela-
tionship. However, you may also become totally obsessed with the object of your affec-
tion. Because of the adversity of this aspect, you will be emotionally and sexually drawn
toward this person, feeling a compelling drive to pursue until they are yours. You can
become so fixated that your life starts revolving around the interest of your desire. Oc-
casionally, the opposite occurs as someone you meet could become totally obsessed
with you.
Either way, this forceful drive toward intimacy is not well received. What starts as an
intense pursuit usually does not work out. Obsessive love that is unrewarded can lead
to insane tendencies such as stalking and in extreme cases rape. The perpetrator is not
willing to face up to their own issues and therefore projects them onto another, com-
mitting a horrific act. Beware of fatal attractions. This is obviously not what one cares to
experience. It would be better to be alone.
The dichotomy with Pluto-Venus transits is that the influence will bring to the surface
in a
all of your buried feelings along with an overwhelming desire to involve yourself
mantic sat-
deep, meaningful relationship. Yet, this transit will not bring you the social/ro
These cosmic per-
isfaction that you are looking for in another. So what is the purpose?
so that once and for
suasions want to bring to the surface buried feelings from the past
been holding on
all you can purge them from your life. Whatever old memory you have
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to, it’s time to let 20. These influences will also allow you to understand your deeper
emotional and sexual longings. This will help establish a greater understanding of your
intimate fears and desires. To do this, Pluto on some level will alienate you from others
so you don’t have a choice but to deal with past emotional issues and sexual yearnings.
In the end you are transformed with a whole new peaceful outlook on love and values.
If you are in a relationship and experiencing a Pluto-Venus transit, allow for a lot of
space and pursue soul-searching activities. You must get in touch with your deeper feel-
ings under this transit. Otherwise you may lose your partner so that you finally do get
in touch with those feelings one way. or another.

Mars Transits/Progressions/Solar Arc Directions

Mars Conjunct Sun—Motivated, Passionate Goals
Minor Influence with Sun Conjunct Ascendant
The pride of Mars-Sun takes command in the pursuit of one’s desires. You will be
driven to assert yourself and initiate a response from the object of your affection. A
challenge can be stimulating. Being an appealing leader and not a thug will win follow-
ers. Set an example for other romantic suitors. Positive Mars-Sun aspects are an active
duo in the Love Relationship Formula.

Mars Trine/Sextile Sun—Successful, Passionate Goals

Minor Influence with Sun Trine/Sextile Ascendant
Your social circle will welcome your commanding appearance. You eagerly ac-
knowledge friends and admirers. Your vitality and sex drive will encourage you to seek
out the pleasures in life. A suave approach could bring a romantic exchange. If aroused
passions are reciprocated, a genteel manner will be met with approval. Success is high-
lighted under favorable Mars-Sun aspects, which are an important combination in the
Love Relationship Formula.

Mars Square/Oppose Sun—Frustrated, Passionate Goals

Minor Influence with Sun Square/Oppose Ascendant
Aggressive advances could trigger much dissent in partnership exchanges. Lusty be-
havior may need to be tempered to win any respect from others. Avoid taking risks as
an impulsive, feisty nature will only aggravate those around you. A physical workout
will channel this rowdy behavior.
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Mars Conjunct Moon—Aggressive, Passionate Emotions

Minor Influence with Moon Conjunct Ascendant
Directing our emotions to get the most out of life can be quite challenging during
this transit. Mood swings may override good judgment, causing a disruptive situation
to occur, A restless nature may motivate you to accomplish set goals, yet not everything
may turn out as planned. Lashing out in an argumentative manner will not benefit you.
A passionate exchange may arise, but only with the right person.

Mars Trine/Sextile Moon—Passionate Emotions, Successful Actions

Minor Influence with Moon Trine/Sextile Ascendant
Your assertive nature will get results as Mars initiates a positive course of action.
This can be a good time to start anything. Romantic advances in most cases will be well
received. Passionate feelings are highlighted, especially in more amorous settings. A
smooth approach brings about improved situations. Men maybe successful in the com-
pany of women. The sextile will be productive as well.

Mars Square/Oppose Moon—Aggressive, Irritated, and Angry Emotions

Minor Influence with Moon Square/Oppose Ascendant
Impatience or a temperamental attitude will not fare well with others. You will need
to direct this emotionally volatile influence, as mood swings may cause you to lash out
when you least expect it. This is not a good time to start anything. You will find your
plans going awry and causing much upset. Romantic advances will be rejected. Women
may be overly emotional, demanding, or ill, and may require some assistance.

Mars Conjunct Mercury—Lively, Aggressive Communications

Minor Influence with Mercury Conjunct Ascendant
An active mind will promote intellectual exchanges. You will be ambitious about
connecting with others and expressing your opinion. Enjoy others’ company, but make
sure your direct approach does not lead to rash behavior. Being overly aggressive is not
attractive. You may need to take decisive action due to unexpected news.

Mars Trine/Sextile Mercury—Favorable, Lively, Aggressive Communications

Minor Influence with Mercury Trine/Sextile Ascendant
Mentally decisive, you will initiate a positive connection with those around you.
up
Smooth verbal execution will stimulate more social interaction. You are apt to strike
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a rapport with someone who is your intellectual equal. Motivating news will encourage
you toward more productivity.

Mars Square/Oppose Mercury—Aggressive, Opinionated, and Angry Communication

Minor Influence with Mercury Square/Oppose Ascendant
You may not have success with new encounters. Others are not inclined to appreci-
ate what you have to say as your aggressiveness arouses animosity. Impatience and mis-
understandings create aggravation. Because you feel entitled to arrogantly voice your
opinion, you may create a bad impression. Distressing news may be disruptive, but you
will not fare well in lashing out at others. Try to keep a handle on your temper and wait
for another time to approach disturbing situations if possible.

Mars Conjunct Mars—Aggressive Action/Passion

Minor Influence with Mars Conjunct Ascendant
Mars wishes to conquer, but its overly aggressive actions do not fare well with soci-
ety at large. A disagreeable or hostile situation could erupt that leaves you feeling
drained. Meet up with challenges directly so as to make them right. Your desire nature
will create a strong restlessness that needs to be channeled. New acquaintances may feel
threatened by your forceful approach. Your demands may be rejected. You will gain by
being assertive yet compromising. Vigorous sex with a familiar partner can be satisfying.

Mars Trine/Sextile Mars—Positive Action/Desirous Passion

Minor Influence With Mars Trine/Sextile Ascendant
You may take aggressive action toward fulfilling your desires. Goals can be accom-
plished in a very expeditious manner. A sexual exchange may work to your advantage
and be quite satisfying if you are longing for more passion in your life. A decisive, zest-
ful approach addresses challenges directly. The more subtle sextile will still offer a lively
exchange.

Mars Square/Oppose Mars—Excessive, Aggressive Action/Passion

Minor Influence with Mars Square/Oppose Ascendant
Overly aggressive actions may need to be tempered as emotions flare. Arguments
and fights could easily erupt and leave you feeling drained. Although you are impa-
tiently desiring a passionate exchange, sexual advances are abrupt and excessive. There
is risk of infection even with protected sex. You may also experience hostility and pos-
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sible rejection. If you’re with the right partner, you may direct this energy toward lusty
passion.

Jupiter Conjunct Mars—Zestful Drive, Passionate Desire

Minor Influence with Jupiter Conjunct Ascendant
Looking for adventure, your passionate drive may persuade you to extend yourself
romantically. You will be well received. You may enjoy this arousal with a lusty spirit. But
be clear about your motives, otherwise overindulgence may lead to a night of passion
without substance. Encouraging Mars-Jupiter aspects are an influential coupling in the
Love Relationship Formula.

Jupiter Trine/Sextile Mars—Positive, Zestful Drive, Passionate Desire

Minor Influence with Jupiter Trine/Sextile Ascendant
A highly recommendable time to meet is when Jupiter is in trine aspect to Mars. A
zestful, sexy mood will attract prospects your way. The desirous Mars is greeted with ro-
mantic opportunity. As you are feeling good and looking good, chances are the en-
counter will work out to your advantage. Even the sextile is noted to stir up a passion-
ate interest as favorable Mars-Jupiter aspects are a significant pairing in the Love
Relationship Formula. A new relationship started at this time may reap many benefits in
the future.

Jupiter Square/Oppose Mars—Unproductive, Impulsive Desires

Minor Influence with Jupiter Square/Oppose Ascendant
Although you may feel a restless urge to pursue romance, impulsive desires may be
risky and not turn out as planned. Ideas about rough sex may not get you anywhere on a
first meeting. Overextending yourself to others may be met with hostility. Unproductive
results may leave you feeling even more frustrated. It would be better to channel your
energy into another type of physical outlet. An ongoing relationship may enjoy magni-
fied passions with discretion.

Saturn Conjunct Mars—Blocked Desires/Responsible Actions

Minor Influence with Saturn Conjunct Ascendant
People don’t usually meet under Saturn-Mars influences due to the fact that Saturn
lowers the vitality and passion. Hence, there isn’t the drive to pursue romantic prospects.
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Even if you were to extend yourself, you may not be well received, as Saturn will pro-
voke a rejection of your affectionate advances.
What Saturn-Mars influences can do is give you a serious perspective on life. Since
you are not being allowed to scatter your forces, you will find yourself concentrating on
very specific goals that involve more responsibility. The focus is on work, not romance.
Many times when a person is under a Saturn-Mars transit, progression, or solar arc,
and is involved in a relationship, they may feel that they are falling out of love with their
partner. There is limited or no desire to have sex. Since the male libido is lowered, men
in particular become worried and have difficulty understanding why they are not sexu-
ally attracted to their partner while they are under this influence. It’s advisable to let the
transit pass before making any impulsive decisions about ending your relationship.

Saturn Trine/Sextile Mars—Limited Desires/Responsible, Planned Actions

Minor Influence with Saturn Trine/Sextile Ascendant
Here again passions are limited, therefore you will not feel the impulse to pursue ro-
mance. Your work accomplishments, however, can be quite productive. You may find
yourself acquiring a more realistic perspective on what you want in your love life. You
will acquire results through patience and planning.

Saturn Square/Oppose Mars—Blocked Desires, Rejection, Abuse,

Difficult Responsibilities
Minor Influence with Saturn Square/Oppose Ascendant
Due to a lack of motivation, a person usually does not feel the desire to be romantic.
If they do, however, feel the need to extend themselves, they may experience a total re-
jection from the object of their affection. It is best to keep a reserved position, for over-
extending yourself can lead to trouble. Others will not take kindly to any aggressive-
ness. If you do experience a rejection, try not to take it personally so your situation
doesn’t end up in an argument or fight. If you are in an ongoing relationship, do not
push your luck, otherwise a break-up may be in the offing. Channel this energy toward
constructive goals.

Uranus Conjunct Mars—Overly Excited Passion and Hostility

Minor Influence with Uranus Conjunct Ascendant
Although you might exude an electric presence, the passionate encounter you at-
tract is not likely to endure. Uranus conjunct Mars is just too volatile to support a long-
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term relationship. The erraticism of Uranus joins with the aggressiveness of Mars, cre-
ating a spontaneity that could turn hostile. You may encounter an unusual attraction,
but this exhilarating meeting could end abruptly. A detached attitude will not fare well
with any new meetings. If you are feeling the need to move in an independent direc-
tion, you may decide to terminate any relationship that you have either outgrown or
that has become destructive. Unfortunately, meeting under a Mars-Uranus influence
will unleash such volatile conditions. Taking the reins of your life is a constructive move
against violent behavior. Be careful of attracting agitating circumstances with the casual
passerby.

Uranus Trine/Sextile Mars—Exciting, Passionate Opportunity

Minor Influence with Uranus Trine/Sextile Ascendant
Where adverse transits involving Uranus and Mars usually lead to an affair or hostile
situation, a new relationship venture started under a favorable Uranus-Mars transit has
an opportunity to succeed, especially if other harmonious transits are present. Uranus
will encourage you to be spontaneous in expressing your own unique self, which those
around you will find quite appealing. You will be assertive in connecting with new
people. Personal limitations will diminish, making it easier for you to meet that special
someone. Many people will be charmed by your dynamic personality. As sparks fly,
your excitement will be fueled by thoughts of a passionate rendezvous. Uranus empha-
sizes a new beginning toward an intimate exchange. Any stimulating encounters will be
pursued. In most cases, the directness of Mars in trine aspect to Uranus will allow you
to obtain what you want. Someone will most likely be there for the taking as your allure
is captivating. The sextile is less enthralling, yet others will still notice your magnetic
presence and wish to link up with you. Be ready for the attention you will receive.

Uranus Square/Oppose Mars—Love affairs/Spontaneous Sex/Hostility

Minor Influence with Uranus Square/Oppose Ascendant
Impulsive love usually leads to an affair. That is the impetus behind adverse Uranus-
Mars transits. Under such influences, you feel the restless need to go out and perhaps
show your wild side. The aggressive passion of Mars is spurred on by the excitement of
Uranus. A tempestuous affair can easily be the result. If you are in a committed rela-
tionship, unexpected sex could be a welcomed break from your normal routine, with
your partner that is.
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Outside of a committed relationship, I do not encourage this sexual interlude.

Uranus-Mars transits may provide a certain stimuli to have sex, but the planetary ener-
gies are so volatile that there is little chance, if any, of this intimate exchange having a
future. This cosmic influence indicates complete reversals. Suddenly you meet and just
as suddenly it could end. Even if a relationship were to ensue, eventually this influence
would cause differences, arguments, and explosive situations that would be very diffi-
cult to resolve. Erratic behavior fuels a stormy relationship, which could become quite
destructive. The spur-of-the-moment involvement turns into tremendous sexual ten-
sion that splits the affair apart. If you are in a current relationship that is becoming vio-
lently turbulent or that you have outgrown, you may want to break off the union com-
pletely. You may find your partner impersonal and uncooperative. Magnetic attractions
may seem great in the moment, but if pursued as a relationship they may have a hidden
agenda filled with sudden hostility and anger.

Neptune Conjunct Mars—

Illusive, Passionate Ideals and Desires, Possible Disappointment
Minor Influence with Neptune Conjunct Ascendant
The passions that are aroused under an illusive encounter may need to be closely
followed. Your mysterious charm will attract popularity, but hidden feelings could lead
you to be enticed by the unknown. What seems to be a romantic interlude could easily
turn to disappointment, unless your passionate ideals match those of your partner.
Here, both of you could enjoy an enchanting adventure. Exercising a level of integrity
will keep you from drifting toward an unscrupulous rendezvous. Self-gratification may
draw you to scandalous characters. Putting one’s trust in another when the disguise is
soon to be revealed is toying with temptation. The erotic lure of passion is intriguing yet
dangerous. Unrealistic desires or seduction could lure you toward deception. The envi-
ronment you succumb to will either take you into a magical world or lead you astray.
Only you can make that choice.
It is best to participate in creative activities. Entertainment, especially involving
music, the performing arts, or theatre, is encouraged. If the world of illusion interests
you, maintaining high ideals will protect your reputation.
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Neptune Trine/Sextile Mars—Inspiring, Illusive, and Passionate Ideals/Desires

Minor Influence with Neptune Trine/Sextile Ascendant
Being driven toward an illusive pursuit does not always reap the benefits for which
we are hoping. Even under positive Neptune-Mars transits, we still encounter the cloud
of illusion. However, more idyllic conditions can enhance a favorable meeting. The ro-
manticism of Neptune is greeted with the passion of Mars. But you need to keep your
wits about you, aiming toward pure motives that honor your integrity. To be carried
away in an erotic escapade may not support an alliance into the future. Although the
temptation may be there, know what you are getting into before accepting an invitation.
Harmonious Neptune-Mars transits are more easily handled in an ongoing relation-
ship. You may commence with a romantic evening. Candle-lit dinners and a midnight
swim are persuading antidotes to inspire a warm, intimate evening. Avoid evasive com-
munication and create the satisfying ambiance that you both want to experience.

Neptune Square/Oppose Mars—lllusive, Disappointing Ideals and Desires

Minor Influence with Neptune Square/Oppose Ascendant
The lure of erotic love is laced with deception under adverse Neptune-Mars transits.
Yielding to no one, the mysterious passions are unleashed. Seduction will be enticing,
but will surely disappoint. Nefarious encounters could lead you close to danger. Sexual
deception will erode your trust. In the worst-case scenario, sexual perversion, assault,
or rape could occur. Do not acquiesce to the pressures of someone's compelling desires.
Those with demanding passions may be reeking with dishonor. You might experience
loneliness and disappointment, but hopefully you will have maintained your integrity.

Pluto Conjunct Mars—Intense, Passionate Drive

Minor Influence with Pluto Conjunct Ascendant
The pairing between Mars and Pluto may create an intense drive that will compel
you to take action. From a positive perspective, this powerful force encourages you to
seek out a desirous involvement with another. Although passion will need to be ex-
pressed, the Plutonian influences wish to transform any deep, hidden feelings. The mo-
ment of ardent intimacy awakens the soul to a more profound experience in being with
only
another. This shared sexual experience instigates an emotional evolvement that will
down the
strengthen the bond between you. Secret passions, however, could lead you
wrong road. Manipulative power plays may erode good judgment as you are persuaded
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toward undesirable behavior. Deep-rooted issues could also sway emotions in an un-
wanted direction, causing resistance. If this is the case, your partner may need some
guidance to transcend destructive patterns.

Pluto Trine/Sextile Mars—Successful, Passionate Drive

Minor Influence with Pluto Trine/Sextile Ascendant
Favorable Pluto-Mars aspects will intensify your deep sexual desires. This over-
whelming and determined feeling will zero in on the object of your affection and surely
lead to a passionate exchange. Usually, both are willing. The ardent passion emanating
from this planetary combination is experienced as the depth of souls merging in the
night. Secret cravings become known as they arouse you to the height of passion. Al-
though this driving force pushes you toward a driving intimate exchange, what you feel
and experience actually become more important. Pluto-Mars transits will certainly ini-
tiate arousal, but they will also encourage you to be transformed through the sexual ex-
perience. Pluto is our planet of personal growth. It does not just seek out intense sex,
but a shared sexual experience that will bring you to a greater awareness of evolving
through intimacy.
Mars initiates love to secure an intense involvement with another (Pluto). Deep
erotic feelings are acted upon. Passion (Mars) is transformed (Pluto) through a mean-
ingful experience with another.

Pluto Square/Oppose Mars—Crazed, Passionate Drive or Sexual Denial

Minor Influence with Pluto Square/Oppose Ascendant
Assertive Mars coupled with the intensity of Pluto will compel you to be driven to-
ward an end. This adverse influence will either force you into deep sexual denial or ag-
gressive sexual desire. Being that this compelling force is not easily controlled, you
could reek havoc on your life. Love games, power plays, jealousy, possessiveness, and
manipulative tendencies may override good judgment. Sexual impulses may need to be
kept in check. Putting pressure on someone to go along with your desires will only be
met with resistance. Sexual power plays may seem to entice what you want, but later
turn to sexual alienation. Erotic seduction could also lead to hostile, aggressive behav-
ior. Trying to conquer your love interest to satisfy your sexual desires is not the idea be-
hind sex. For in sex, there needs to be mutual consent for both individuals to be ful-
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filled. Here, selfish desire (Mars) wants a sexual exchange (Pluto). Since ultimatums in
relationships do not fare well, I would not seek out this option. The resistance you will
encounter will cause you to reevaluate your strategy toward intimacy. Sexual denial may
allow you to transform your aggressive desires, thus leading to a more promising sexual
exchange in the future. Ifyou have to manipulate love to get what you want, you have lost
sight of the ultimate goal—a deep, meaningful, intimate exchange.

Jupiter Transits, Progressions, and Solar Arc Directions

Jupiter Conjunct Sun—Supported Goals/Good Fortune
Better relations with the male sex are noted when Jupiter is in aspect to the Sun. A pos-
itive outlook supports your plans, especially in dealings with men. You will find them
more cooperative and encouraging. An enthusiastic spirit is appealing to those around
you. The confidence you project will attract appreciation your way from important in-
dividuals. Be open to exploring opportunities that will improve your status in life. Your
ambitions are enhanced under Jupiter-Sun aspects, an important part of the Love Rela-
tionship Formula.

Jupiter Trine/Sextile Sun—Highly Supported Goals/Good Fortune

Great relations with men are inspired by a favorable transit from Jupiter to the Sun. The
male sex in particular is happy to agree with your agenda, offering support along the
way where needed. Feeling confident, you will attract the generosity of those around
you. Important, successful individuals will recognize and appreciate your aims. Ex-
tending yourself will only further your standing in life. Enjoy the opportunity to gain
the respect you desire. This uplifting Jupiter-Sun influence is a significant combination
in the Love Relationship Formula.

Jupiter Square/Oppose Sun—Overrated Ideals

An overly confident nature is bound to lead to risky investments, especially with the
male gender. What appears to be a good connection may be based on egotistical values
of one kind or another. Inflated expectations are costly and will leave you feeling
sup-
drained. Others are indifferent to your philosophy. They lack the awareness and
is
port you feel you deserve. Try curbing self-centered desires. A more tolerant attitude
needed.
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Jupiter Conjunct Moon—Optimistic Feelings/Good Results

The optimistic spirit of Jupiter encourages favorable relations. A happy mood will ease
any stress and create a wonderful environment in which to connect with a special
woman. There is an opportunity to reconcile any existing differences. A positive out-
look puts luck on your side. As Jupiter-Moon aspects are part of the Love Relationship
Formula, extend yourself, knowing that a confident you will be greeted warmly.

Jupiter Trine/Sextile Moon—Optimistic Feelings/Very Good Results

Harmonious relations with women are indicated when Jupiter is in favorable aspect to
the Moon. This optimistic influence will improve your chances of enjoying the company
of a special woman. A lively spirit will create an ambiance of happy times together.
Jupiter has a way of affecting our mood to ease the pressure of a long day and allow us to
look at the bright side. Positive, shared experiences could set a date off in the right di-
rection. For ongoing relationships, this is an excellent transit for reconciling differences
as well, which is why Jupiter-Moon aspects are part of the Love Relationship Formula.

Jupiter Square/Oppose Moon—Optimistic, Overextended Emotions

You may want to relax and enjoy yourself, but you will find yourself nurturing the emo-
tional needs of another. Jupiter expands upon the emotions in a disagreeable way, mak-
ing it quite taxing for those involved. Dealings with women may require more time and
patience. Think of constructive ways to channel any emotional stress. Nevertheless, a
sense of optimism will exist that will make the situation tolerable.

Jupiter Conjunct Mercury—Optimistic, Favorable Communications

Optimistic feelings will steer you in a positive direction. New contacts may assist you at
the moment as well as in the future. Good communications will enliven your spirit,
making you attractive to others. Prestigious connections are to be enjoyed and may en-
hance your position in life. Personal and economic expansion is greeted with success.
Jupiter-Mercury aspects are an essential combination in the Love Relationship Formula.

Jupiter Trine/Sextile Mercury—Optimistic, Favorable,

and Supportive Communications
Uplifting communications allow you to look at your future with a favorable outlook.
New meetings will inspire you intellectually and personally. Ongoing relations will be |
more appealing as issues are reconciled. You will most likely prosper from decisions
made at this time. You are optimistic about your progress and will also fare well with
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business dealings. Under Jupiter-Mercury aspects, a necessary coupling in the Love Re-
lationship Formula, you will gain from extending yourself as you are well received by
those around you.

Jupiter Square/Oppose Mercury—Overly Optimistic Communications

The intellectual rapport you are longing for is lacking. You may not share the same phi-
losophy with others, making conversation somewhat strained, yet you may have to be
entertaining for one reason or another. Unrealistic expectations may have you biting off
more than you can chew. Although you are feeling confident that all will work out well,
this may not be the case if you throw caution to the wind. I am all for a positive atti-
tude, but to guard against mental highs that end up being disappointing lows, do at-
tempt to keep everything in perspective. After you have overinvested yourself, you will
realize you should have exercised good judgment.

Jupiter Conjunct Jupiter—Fortunate Advantage, Goodwill from Others

Since Jupiter tends to bring good fortune our way, when it is in positive aspect to itself,
luck is on our side. New individuals met under this auspicious influence will greet you
with respect. A more confident you will be on the receiving end of favors, good-will,
and recognition. Your ideas will be accepted by those around you, as you attract oppor-
tunities your way. Although Jupiter-Jupiter transits are not known to be romantic, with
such a lucky pair you may persuade your love interest to gladly accompany you. Any
differences, especially in ongoing relationships, can be reconciled at this time.

Jupiter Trine/Sextile Jupiter—Fortunate Advantage, Goodwill from Others

You will attract auspicious opportunities that allow you to enjoy the good life. Support
and backing will come from those around you. New individuals will honor you with fa-
vors, recognition, and goodwill. Your uplifting philosophy will be delightfully accepted,
along with a newfound confidence. Since you will be well received by others, luck is on
your side with romantic interests as well. You may benefit long-term from the good for-
You
tune that you reap as you have faith in your personal and business investments.
gain from reconciling any differences. The sextile also promises good fortune.

Jupiter Square/Oppose Jupiter—Overly Optimistic Goals

take on too
You may need to quell an overconfident nature as your tendency is to
not to overes-
much. Some goodwill is indicated, but your luck may be short-lived. Try
ated promises. Great
timate your potential. You will have difficulty delivering on exagger
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expectations may not come to pass, especially with new acquaintances. This is not the
time to put your faith in anyone. New alliances may promise to be costly, personally and
financially. Areas of personal growth may offer some benefit, but any undertakings are
suspect. Delays may actually work out to your advantage, as you have more time to ex-
plore expansive options. If you can manage the expense of travel plans, then they can be
pursued. Channel that optimism so you approach everything in moderation.

Saturn Conjunct Jupiter—Expansion of Long-Term Goals

A responsible attitude will allow you to advance toward a more secure future. This par-
ticular pairing of Saturn and Jupiter, an influential combination in the Love Relation-
ship Formula, seeks out long-term goals that offer greater stability. If these influences
are occurring in your fifth (romance), seventh (close relationships), or eighth (partner-
ships) house sector, there may be an opportunity to commit to a relationship situation.
New individuals met at this time may be important, successful, and wealthy. Expanding
your reputation through serious, ambitious goals will attract support your way. Older
persons may be of great assistance to you.

Saturn Trine/Sextile Jupiter—Favorable Expansion of Long-Term Goals

Expanding your life experience to a more progressive and substantial outlook will at-
tract a more stable foundation for your future. Solid relationship developments may
occur with important, professional, and wealthy people. If one of these planetary influ-
ences is occurring in your fifth (romance), seventh (close relationships), or eighth (part-
nerships) house sector, there may be an opportunity to commit to a lasting relationship.
An enduring bond will be established under favorable Saturn-Jupiter aspects, a combi-
nation in the Love Relationship Formula that enhances long-term security.

Saturn Square/Oppose Jupiter—Working Hard to Secure the Future

Work demands will require most of your time and energy, as you lay a solid foundation
for your future. This is not the time to extend yourself socially. You may need to accept
extra responsibilities that limit your freedom, but may lead to greater abundance. Ap-
plying yourself toward future aims may be the only avenue that makes you feel secure.

Uranus Conjunct Jupiter—Unexpected Good Fortune

An optimistic attitude attracts good fortune your way. The Uranus-Jupiter conjunction, es-
pecially in the fifth, seventh, or eighth house sector, may unexpectedly bring a romantic
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prospect into your life. A new, dynamic individual could cross your path. This person
could be influential in encouraging you toward being individualistic, which will pro-
mote a new cycle of growth. You may also win the approval of others, generating an up-
scale crowd to satisfy your unique image. The odds of luck are in your favor. Be open to
great expectations.

Uranus Trine/Sextile Jupiter—Wonderful, Unexpected Good Fortune

Luck strikes when Jupiter is in trine aspect to Uranus. Good fortune may offer new pos-
sibilities with romantic prospects, especially if one of the planets is activated in the fifth,
seventh, or eighth house sector. A fortunate meeting is bound to occur that is quite
stimulating and may offer a new direction in your life that is very appealing. As Jupiter
wants you to expand your horizons, Uranus will suddenly open the door of opportu-
nity. Be willing to extend yourself and make the most of your circumstances as change
works to your advantage. You will most likely be well received as you gain the attention
of those around you. In expressing your unique self, your buoyant nature will win the
favor of important people. They may be willing to share their riches with you.
The sextile may be less exciting, but will nonetheless lift your spirits. A progressive
attitude will land you in the company of sophisticated individuals.

Uranus Square/Oppose Jupiter—Overrated Good Fortune, Unfavorable Luck

When luck is not on our side, we need to be careful about taking chances. Our ten-
dency with the presence of an adverse Uranus-Jupiter transit is to take the risk, yet the
odds for a favorable outcome may not be in our favor. This enthusiastic transit indicates
that promises will not be delivered. Therefore it would not be worth your while to pro-
ceed in this overrated direction. Someone’s wild persuasions will cost you. A new indi-
vidual may give the impression of success and trustworthiness, but turn out to be the
wrong person for you to be involved with. You may only be able to rely on honorable
connections. Guard against overoptimism. Erratic decisions may not bring you what
you desire.

Neptune Conjunct Jupiter—Expansive Ideals, Exaggerated Hopes

ideals.
You will find yourself in a more relaxed frame of mind as you consider original
you to inter-
Trusted friends will offer their support. Creative opportunities encourage
and new ideas
act more with those around you. Outings or a journey will be pleasant,
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may prosper. Enhanced fantasies are enjoyable but will not necessarily lead to a sub-
stantial relationship. Meditative practices may offer a clearer perspective.

Neptune Trine/Sextile Jupiter—Advantageous, Expansive Ideals

s that will attract goodwill.

Neptune Square/Oppose Jupiter—Overrated Ideals, Illusive Hopes

A vague sense of direction has you yearning for more. Yet overrated expectations may
not manifest as expected, especially with romantic encounters. Since you are experi-
encing dissolving ideals, you must exercise caution in all of your personal dealings. II-
lusive, idealistic goals should be avoided, as others cannot be trusted at this time. Mak-
ing humble sacrifices is regarded highly by those around you.

Pluto Conjunct Jupiter—Promoting Cooperation, Personal Growth, and Intimacy

Although Pluto-Jupiter aspects are known for their productivity in business, let’s not
forget that Pluto also rules over partnerships and sex. When both or one of these plan-
ets are in the fifth, seventh, or eighth house sectors of romance, relationships, and part-
nerships, respectively, your chances for intimacy increase. A confident attitude will eas-
ily persuade others to your point of view. Your eagerness to enjoy life to the fullest
needs to be in cooperation with others for the greatest benefit.

Pluto Trine/Sextile Jupiter—Favorably Promoting Cooperation, Personal Growth,

and Intimacy
Jupiter wishes to expand your personal growth by generating an enthusiasm for part-
nerships in business or pleasure. If intimacy is what you are looking for, this influence
will enhance your chances for an intimate exchange either now or in the near future.
The sextile may only offer subtle support from others.

Pluto Square/Oppose Jupiter—Challenging, Unproductive Personal Enterprises

Our experiences with adverse Pluto-Jupiter combinations have taught us that overex-
tending ourselves may get us into trouble. Whether it be in business or pleasure, this is
not the best time to invest your time and energy. Your eager approach may only work if
you cooperate with others. Even if you gain, you may feel manipulated as your trust is
wavering. Evaluate areas of expansion and personal growth carefully and have faith in
your own beliefs.
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Unromantic Outer Planets in Transit

The outer planets do not usually attract romantic opportunity or benefits unless in as-
pect to Venus, Mars, or Jupiter. Since Saturn, Uranus, Neptune, and Pluto are known as
planets of guidance, we have much to learn from their impact on our lives.

Saturn-Sun—Serious, Difficult Goals

You will be concerned with building a stronger foundation in your life by accepting
more responsibilities to further your aims. Although new encounters, especially with
older persons, offer some sense of stability, romance is clearly lacking. For women, men
may be distant, selfish, or unsupportive, personally and financially. You are better off fo-
cusing on constructive goals. Relationship developments may be at a standstill until this
transit passes. Stabilizing your life will help build a reliable, solid foundation under fa-
vorable transits. Familiar and older individuals can be of some assistance. Although ro-
mance is not forthcoming, you may acquire a more realistic idea of what you want.
Careful planning will bring success.
Adverse aspects may indicate a difficult time for your career and reputation. Since
everyone is scrutinizing your efforts, this is not the time to be overextending yourself.
Your work load is extremely demanding, exhausting you so that you have no incentive
to seek romance. You may be feeling underpaid, overworked, abandoned, and lonely.
Men in general will be disappointing, in trouble, or will not be supportive to your
needs. Have faith that this will pass and your life will be better for the experience.

Saturn-Moon—Serious, Blocked Emotions and Outlook

The conjunction of this pair does not bode well for romantic developments, as the emo-
tions are suppressed. You will feel restricted in connecting with those around you.
When you finally do, an uneasy warmth may not bring the desired result. A matter-of
fact approach may be the only way to get through the day. Exercising caution, you will
be emotionally protective of yourself. Save emotional and financial investments for an-
other time. Women may be worrisome, lack sensitivity, or brush you off.
im-
Harmonious transits will encourage you to be productive. You gain by making
will have a
provements to your familial relations. You are emotionally centered and
d image will be re-
more realistic approach to new encounters. A conservative, dignifie
around you.
spected, especially by older individuals. You appear responsible to those
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When you are under difficult transits, worry and exhaustion will block you from
pursuing a social life. Feeling limited, it would be in your best interests to stay home
and attend to chores. Anyone met at this time would only be draining and anxiety-rid-
den and not offer you the emotional understanding you may desire. You may be seen as
distant, reserved, or cold. Try to avoid depression by doing something constructive. If
anything, you could be a source of support to someone in need.

Saturn-Mercury—Serious, Practical, and Restricted Communication

Feeling industrious, you can make solid plans for the future. Applying self-discipline,
you will put paperwork in order and better organize your life. Your conversations with
others will be of a more serious nature, even with new individuals you meet. But you
are not interested in socializing or concerning yourself with amorous thoughts. Make
that date for another time. Pursuing intellectual aims will be far more productive.
Even positive aspects may bring social blocks and challenges to your status. If you
have to mingle, keep the conversation matter-of-fact and limit your interaction. You
would be wise to consider intellectual ambitions that enhance your long-term interests.
Carry out your work in a methodical manner that is fulfilling.
Under adverse influences, this is a terrible time to socialize, as personal limitations
may sour your reputation. Feeling unpopular could cause a serious depression. Social
exchanges will mentally exhaust you at this time. You need to be with yourself, organize
your life, and address tedious chores. Double-check for mistakes as your thinking is not
up to par. Aiming toward building a solid foundation will sustain you.

Saturn-Saturn—Securing Stability/Pressured, Difficult Times

Building a foundation is usually accomplished by a lot of hard work. Relationships take
work too. The reality of your situation in life will be further recognized. You may find
that either you appreciate who you are with, or you don't. I have seen couples get mar-
ried with a Saturn Return occurring in their seventh house sector of relationships. This
aspect was not what they met under, as most Saturn-Saturn transits will limit one’s in-
teraction romantically with another.
Favorable influences are supportive, offering more stability. Your efforts will be re-
warded. In personal relationships, you may have to care for another in worrisome need.
If you feel blocked extending yourself to others, try a more conservative approach. Still,
others may seem detached and uninterested.
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Inharmonious transits will restrict you from social interaction. People met at this
time may be impersonal, burdened with problems, or disappointing. It would be best to
keep a low profile and stick to tedious chores. Your work load may be demanding, yet
through accepting responsibilities, a more solid foundation can be built. If you are feel-
ing lonely and insecure, deal with the obstacles that are preventing you from achieving
success.

Saturn-Uranus—Realistic Future Goals, Restricted Freedom

Bringing a more structured format into your future ambitions will only add to long-
term investments. Responsible planning will give you the freedom you desire. A new
meeting could encourage you to pursue your individualistic incentives. A steady part-
ner may be of concern to you. All work duties are in a shifting pattern at this time.
New people encountered under harmonious angles could be very intriguing. You
may meet an exciting individual who offers a long-term rapport that is uneasy yet
thrilling. Changes within your work schedule might be challenging, but help further
your goals. You may be relieved of your responsibilities toward another person.
Adverse aspects indicate that you may experience some upsetting changes that leave
you feeling insecure and ill at ease. A familiar face could leave your life, while a new in-
dividual may stimulate you toward the pursuit of unique ambitions, but lacks the ro-
mantic incentive. Someone may require your support during this time. Extra duties or
adjusting to another's schedule may limit your call for freedom. If you are caught in the
middle of tradition and unconventionality, work out your obligations before moving
forward.

Saturn-Neptune—Reality Undermines Romanticism/Love Turns Sour

Even at their best, Saturn-Neptune transits still cast a shadow over romantic meetings.
Too much realism blocks the idealistic feelings of Neptune. Once reality undermines ro-
mance, life becomes dull. This lack of luster restricts us from realizing our dreams. Ilu-
sions of love are always reflected in Neptune’ presence, but Saturn has a way of steer-
ing us in a more functional direction that eludes romance completely.
Whatever the angle between these two planets, you will find yourself feeling bored
by the end of the evening, if not before. Even if there are moments of excitement, they
will surely be impeded by the confines of Saturn. When we are prevented from pursu-
ing an objective, Saturn is clearly telling us that it is just not meant to be. If you force
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the issue, you will only be disappointed. Realistic circumstances (Saturn) hinder ro-
mance (Neptune) from occurring. Nebulous Neptune finds no-nonsense stability
through Saturn, which causes an overcast outlook.
Life at times will travel a dreary road. Yet amidst it all, we still need to be grateful for
what we have. You could say that this is a time of taking stock of what you possess, re-
alizing that the best has yet to come.

Saturn-Pluto—Securing or Restricting Personal Growth and Intimacy

You will find yourself concerned with security issues, where accepting more responsi-
bility will build a stronger foundation. Intimacy will lag behind, for you are not ready to
extend yourself until this work cycle is completed. Even favorable aspects between Sat-
urn and Pluto will persuade you to develop your work potential. Securing your position
on the job will require a focused and compromising attitude, so you gradually acquire
status. You can gain from long-term goals that deal with the reality of relationships as
well. Lock in that dependable partnership. Hidden or manipulative issues will surface
so you can exercise greater control.
Conflicting influences, especially the square aspect, will bring a tremendous chal-
lenge, as your work duties are overwhelmingly demanding at this time. Accept the re-
sponsibilities that are required of you. You will be extremely limited creatively and per-
sonally. Fears of being alone may be all-consuming, as intimacy is lacking. Manipulative
tendencies may keep you restrained. You are at a standstill with close relationships, so
do not overextend yourself. Forced demands will lead to an ultimatum or ending. If
you have an opportunity to secure a commitment, consider it carefully.

Uranus-Sun—Exciting, Unpredictable, and Detached Relations

Discovering new insights will open up your perspective on life as interesting individu-
als show you the way. A sudden, unpredictable infatuation may be encountered that
causes great excitement. Your feelings may prompt you to escape from a boring, dissat-
isfying situation. But your romantic intrigue is short-lived when the other party unex-
pectedly pulls away to pursue other interests. Although this is not an enduring combi-
nation, it nonetheless inspires you to break out into new directions. Sometimes other
people act as a catalyst for growth and are only meant to be a brief part of our life expe-
rience. Ongoing commitments will experience estranged relations.
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There is a certain thrill experienced when you meet under a Uranus trine Sun tran-
sit. The enthusiasm generated will cause you to wonder whether this is the romantic
prospect for you. Infatuations will be fleeting, so keep your emotions in check. The dy-
namic individuals met during this period will stimulate you to further personal growth.
Relationship developments may occur if other transits and progressions are supportive.
Even though Uranus transits to the Sun are not known to be enduring, in most cases
you will still come out ahead regardless of the outcome. The more subtle sextile from
Uranus to the Sun inspires some excitement, but does not have the same impact as
Uranus trine Sun.
Unusual and dynamic individuals may cause quite a disruption in your normal rou-
tine. Most encounters will be too volatile, erratic, or impersonal to pursue. Yet a sur-
prising, unexpected encounter may sweep you off your feet as you desire to move into
the future with your new attraction. Throwing caution to the wind, you are so stimu-
lated that you have no qualms about getting romantically involved. Then as suddenly as
you meet, the initial excitement fades into disappointment as you realize that it’s sud-
denly over. Uranus comes into our life to stir up old, worn-out conditions, yet it’s ob-
jective is unpredictable, especially when in adverse aspect. Usually you experience a
complete reversal that you had not anticipated. Of course you were feeling so good with
all of the excitement, how could this happen? Breaking out into a new direction with a
new love always has its risks. But with an adverse Uranus-Sun transit, it is a risk not
worth taking. Continue to be independent. More growth is needed to attract your sig-
nificant other.

Uranus-Moon—Exciting, Unpredictable, and Detached Emotions

Feeling restless, you are inclined to be out mingling with others. A changeable disposi-
tion could have you on a social merry-go-round one minute or wanting to check out a
new environment the next. A lively, effervescent personality will attract attention. New
meetings may seem exciting, yet may not be enduring. A detached and independent
manner will have you headed in a different direction without delay.
Positive angles will bring excitement and inspiration into your daily routine. New
and unexpected encounters will lift your spirits, and may even invoke some romantic
mo-
thrills. Yet longevity is lacking. Your sparkling persona will be noticed, so enjoy the
ment but keep expectations in check.
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Challenging aspects will create unexpected, erratic situations that have you in a
whirlwind. Mood swings may cause you to feel unsettled and indecisive. Persons met
under this volatile happening may seem vibrant and intriguing at first. Then, a change
of heart occurs that causes one of you to break out of this alliance. Strained relations
and sudden endings may transpire.

Uranus-Mercury—Mental Intrigue/Exciting, Unpredictable Communications

The conjunction will stimulate conversation in social situations that includes progres-
sive ideas. Even though you will be feeling restless, you can still extend yourself as well
as improve your work position. Scheduling changes may cause some tension, but you
will quickly come up with an original plan of action. You may find encounters with oth-
ers to be intriguing, but do not expect an affectionate advance. Nevertheless, intellectual
exchanges can open you up to new insights.
Exciting ideas will motivate you to further your work ambitions under harmonious
angles. Good publicity will enhance your standing and attract new connections. Ac-
cept all invitations, as favorable news may come your way through social as well as
work situations.
With adverse contacts, you will experience a high level of stress. Unexpected sched-
uling changes may throw you into a tizzy. You will be plagued with indecision, chang-
ing your mind from one minute to the next. Sudden social developments will push you
to act promptly, as you come up with a spur-of-the-moment agenda. You will not bene-
fit from radical or impulsive decisions. Others, including new meetings, are unreliable,
so keep your expectations in check. Unexpected publicity is unstable and may create
unsettling conditions in your life. Alter only what is needed, for new situations are sub-
ject to reversals.

Uranus-Uranus—Sudden Change, Exciting Future

You will be persuaded to break up old patterns and move into the future. A new rela-
tionship, full of intrigue, may inspire but may not endure. Current relationships may be
permanently broken. The excitement felt will convince you to act impulsively. Do hold
onto that which you value. Uranus perpetuates a cycle of change when we have become
too settled in our life experience. For your own individualized growth, you need to
purge yourself of any impediments.
Change will work to your advantage under harmonious transits. Be open to exciting,
progressive opportunities. Unique individuals will come your way to enhance your fu-
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ture ambitions. Someone impressive may be a strong influence in your development,

offering uplifting insights. Ongoing relationships improve as tensions are eased.
Unexpected changes will create much disruption with adverse transits. Your need
for freedom is strong and may push you into a rebellious mode. You will capitalize
upon individual aspirations and release that which is holding you back. Relationships
will be too unconventional or unpredictable to be pursued. Someone may briefly be a
part of your life and suddenly leave you. Stress may break a once compatible bond. You
will need to come up with an original plan to handle the reversals of activity that could
turn your life upside down.

Neptune-Uranus—Original, Unusual, and Illusive Ideals

Sudden ideals may come alive and progress through creative inspiration. Yet romantic
encounters may be colored with nebulousness, causing you not to know where you
stand. You may strive for idyllic conditions, but may experience unexpected disap-
pointments. New persons are fascinating yet unstable, causing much uncertainty about
the future.
You are inclined to feel that dreams will come true under favorable transits, besides
being able to enjoy life more as pressures ease and your outlook is inspired. New per-
sons could encourage you toward your future vision and may steer you toward friend-
ship. Be open to a propitious outcome, realizing that strange feelings of dissatisfaction
will have you yearning for more in life.
Under difficult aspects, you will want to detach and escape from your routine to
pursue a vague ideal that somehow offers you something better than what you think
you have. But this ideal is not founded on realistic concepts. Nevertheless, anxiety will
continue to urge you toward impulsiveness. New individuals met at this time will seem
intriguing, but these encounters could suddenly dissolve, leaving you with unsettling
discontent. Just when you think everything is fine, unanticipated cheating or deception
may appear. Expect the unexpected, because it is going to happen.

Uranus-Pluto—Close, Unusual Bond/Compromising Your Independence

Compromising your freedom, you are better able to integrate a sense of unity so that
everyone benefits. There will still be a desire to be intensely independent. An unusual
attraction may pass your way, yet cultural and conditioned influences may deter you
from becoming romantic allies.
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The harmonious trine and sextile aspects allow a collective force to come together in
the sharing of unique, progressive ideas and incentives. An unexpected and unusual
bonding with another, with whom you feel an unspoken affinity, may appear and draw
you close together regardless of personal hindrances, traditional customs, or geograph-
ical barriers. A lifetime connection can be established.
These two planets of transformation in challenging aspect will prompt you to
change yout lifestyle and direction with any relationship. You will want your freedom
and not feel inclined toward making a commitment of any kind. The need for personal
growth is strong and encourages you to make a break from any limiting conditions. Un-
conventional connections may occur that are intriguing, yet not progress in the direc-
tion that you would like. If you want to keep your significant other, be sure to meet
your partner halfway for the best results. Be willing to compromise, even as you main-
tain a margin of distance. You may feel the pressure to conform to a relationship situa-
tion, and although freedom calls, you will need to cooperate to keep unity, even if it
means you acquiesce.

Neptune-Sun—lIdeal, Illusive Goals

You will want to escape into secluded surroundings, as you dream of getting away from
it all. Life will seem unfair, as what you reach for eludes your grasp. Unless they share
your vision, those around you are not reliable and seem to be disappearing right when
you need them. Men who are not spiritually grounded and respectful of your needs may
be selfish, impractical, evasive, or involved with drugs and alcohol. They may need to
prove themselves before you agree to a relationship. You may desire to retreat into seclu-
sion. You will benefit from pursuing spiritual progress and maintaining your integrity.
Positive transits assist you in bringing your ideals into reality. You will meet persons
who encourage your vision. Look for advantageous opportunities that improve your cir-
cumstances. Romantic relationships that are founded on mutual love and respect may
prosper. Keep starry-eyed meetings in perspective. Creative and spiritual activities will
increase your awareness of worldly compassion.
Under adverse transits, you will be highly disappointed in the pursuit of your goals.
The ideals you expect to achieve may fade away. Although you desire the perfect ro-
mance, you are likely to be deceived by your lover. Beware of scandal, impotency, un-
conventional sexual acts, or adulterous situations. Clandestine affairs will promise more
than they deliver. No one gains from deceiving themselves or others. Men, especially,
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are evasive and lack the supportive sensitivity you need. If you are attracted to medita-
tive environments, before becoming too involved, feel in your heart what you know to
be true. You tend to be more passive than usual. You should keep a low profile and
avoid potentially deceptive circumstances. Never sacrifice your reputation or pride.

Neptune-Moon—Compassionate, Spiritual, and Confused Emotions

You are apt to be more sympathetic and understanding with people when influenced by
the conjunction. Your compassionate nature will succeed with others in easing their ills.
If a moody persona overcomes you, retreat into meditative silence to recapture your
essence. Women may be emotionally sensitive or not there for you at this time.
When in favorable aspect, compassionate feelings embrace those around you. A
grateful attitude helps you relax and rely on spiritual persuasions. Due to a broader out-
look, you will utilize your creativity and prosper. Women will be sensitive, compliant,
and understanding with you.
Challenging influences, such as the square and opposition, create overemotionalism
that causes confusion with your incentives. Avoid extending yourself to others, as you
will experience disappointment or rejection. You may want to escape your present en-
vironment yet lack the clarity to make improvements. Women are not dependable
under this influence, so consider relying on yourself, tempering your own emotions
where needed.

Neptune-Mercury—Creative, Vague, and Deceptive Communications

There is always a level of deception when Neptune is involved with our interactions with
others. The conjunction will try to manifest a more creative rapport if your connections are
trustworthy. Yet a nebulous state of mind may weaken direct communications, causing
misunderstandings to manifest. Under this influence you risk being misrepresented, so
new meetings may not pan out. Better to enjoy a secluded environment that allows your
imagination and spirituality to grow regardless of vague interruptions. Monetary upsets
may also require your attention.
Creative connections and environments are appreciated with positive transits. Even
as you relax, you may be inspirational to those around you. Your imaginative and spir-
itual insights prosper and will be encouraged by new individuals. Social acquaintances
can be charming, but you may prefer more reclusive surroundings.
Difficult transits are completely adverse. You will be misrepresented and deceived.
e
Postpone important decisions. Someone close to you may have intentions to undermin
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you. You are not privy to this scheme and much could be at stake. Business dealings are
surrounded by uncertainty. You may be distraught by a financial setback that may take
time to unravel. New meetings are clouded in deception and will not prosper. Disap-
pointments are likely. Although you are dissatisfied with your present circumstances,
stay in meditative seclusion until this influence passes.

Neptune-Neptune—Idyllic, Deceptive Goals and Dreams

Your imagination will capture you, and you are hopeful that your wishes will be
granted. But vague assumptions will prevent your dreams from becoming a reality. Har-
nessing this creativity might be challenging yet rewarding, as old conditions dissolve to
be replaced by new conditions.
Favorable transits allow your dreams to manifest. Your resourceful thinking will
spell out how you can improve your life. Whatever idyllic quest you pursue can be at-
tained. People in your close surroundings will share in your vision. They will put you
at ease as you enjoy their company. Romantic developments are infused by your imag-
ination. You will be inspired by creative or spiritual pursuits.
Adverse influences will cause great uncertainty, as you are dissatisfied with present
conditions. You may yearn for more, but have a vague sense of direction. You will en-
counter deceptive circumstances and people that will undermine your efforts, causing
distress and disappointment. What you thought was a stable situation may dissolve.
New individuals with misleading intentions are not to be trusted. Romantic fantasy may
be deceiving, especially clandestine love affairs that end up being a disenchanting let-
down. You will have to rely on intuitive and spiritual insights to be your guide. If a mo-
tive is not pure, don’ go there.

Pluto-Sun—Intense Goals, Total Transformation, Endings and Beginning Life Anew

Major changes take place when we need to eliminate that which we have outgrown to
further our potential in life. Climactic endings that seem to be out to destroy us rush
through our soul. All along we are being reshaped to assist us in evolving to the next
stage of our existence, which we would rather avoid. Plutonian transformations can be
quite traumatic. In the end, a complete metamorphosis occurs.
When you are experiencing positive influences, change, although dramatic, may
work to your advantage. If anything, you are being given an opportunity to empower
yourself by moving into a stronger position with work and relationships. Others may
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see you as a leader or one who is able to handle a principal role with your constructive
use of power. Accept their admiration with gratitude. Your self-expression is easily pro-
jected, bringing you to.a more purposeful place with your goals. You can be persuasive
and determined to achieve what you desire. An important man may assist you in your
future direction. Romantic developments are also likely with the right person.
During challenging transits, you may go through the depths of hell to gradually find
more purpose in your life. You must be willing to rid yourself of persons and situations
that have run their course and could be undermining you. You are completing an old
cycle and will approach life differently from this point on. Weed out what you need to,
but hold on to that which has value. You may confront conflicts, uncooperative cir-
cumstances, and power plays. However, you must compromise if you are going to
maintain unity. You may be swayed by others’ decisions that defy your own findings.
People who criticize you, undermine your efforts, debase you, or abuse you should be
cast aside forever. Possessive and jealous lovers may be lurking. There will always be
temptation with power and desire. Let your integrity lead the way. Men may be forceful
and manipulative. Stressful relationship issues may leave you feeling drained. Your cre-
ativity and self-expression are blocked, causing a strained discontent that forces you to
take a stand and address needed changes. Yet you will not gain from ultimatums. In
order for us to be purified we need to finalize karmic experiences and be reborn. This
transformation may make or break you, but will definitely take you to a new dimension
of your existence.

Pluto-Moon—Deep, Intense, and Manipulative Emotions

Inner feelings will allow you to understand situations on a deeper level. You are more
aware of your responses to and from those around you. Familial situations may arouse
tension. This may be a time to consider resolving conditions from the past. Do not let
intense issues get the best of you. Stay focused and allow these innate emotions to be
your guide. A powerful woman may be very influential, persuading you to her point of
view.
Beneficial transits offer deep insight into your experiences. You will be keen on find-
ing answers to questions. New individuals met will be understanding and offer helpful
the
information. Spiritual connections may occur that are rewarding. You will have
unity.
upper hand in relating to others. It is to your benefit to be cooperative and seek
family issue
You also gain by releasing old issues and correcting the past. Any unsettled
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will be appeased through your willingness to compromise. An advantageous change of

environment or residence is possible.
Arduous transits will be emotionally disturbing. Manipulative relationship situations
may arise that are difficult to resolve. You will find yourself searching high and low for
answers. You must try to trust your intuitive insight to help you. People will have ex-
pectations that leave you feeling emotionally drained. Unresolved issues could surface
and cause friction. If someone leaves your life, it may be for the better.

Pluto-Mercury—Deep, Intense, Manipulative Thought and Communications

You may find yourself engrossed in deep thought, looking for answers and pondering
your future direction. If involved in a social situation, you may have to cooperate with
others even though you are feeling manipulated. Conversation on a more evolved level
will be revealing. There may be someone you can connect with who understands your
perspective. Psychological groups may offer good interaction and personal transformation.
Supportive aspects still promote compulsive, repetitious thought, yet you are also
able to come to some good conclusions. Communicative exchanges will be on a deeper
level that offers insight into your life experience. New individuals met will be impressed
with your compromising approach and powerful mental aptitude.
When in adverse aspect, you will find yourself in constant, repetitious thought as
you look relentlessly for answers. Somehow you must guard against a lack of good
judgment. Decisions made at this time may not benefit you in the future. New meetings
are not apt to go as planned. Communication difficulties will leave you feeling frus-
trated and drained. Stress felt in a relationship situation will reach its breaking point,
especially if hidden motives are suspect. Ties are broken. An ultimatum will also lead to
an ending. Before you act, be aware of the outcome.

Pluto-Neptune—Powerful, Transformed Ideals/Deceptive Involvements

Positive aspects encourage you to bring your ideals into a powerful reality. You may
meet people of different cultural backgrounds who further your vision. A close, spiri-
tual bond may materialize with someone special. You may be compelled to involve
yourself with unexplained phenomena or wish to withdraw into meditative silence.
Unfavorable influences will persuade you to retreat into seclusion to recharge your
personal resources. This rejuvenation may be necessary to help you take charge of your
destiny. People met during this time may be from different cultures and not share in
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your philosophy or way of living. Be aware of manipulative or deceptive tendencies

from others. Finding those you can relate to on a deeper level will be challenging. You
may pursue deeper insights into life’s mysteries, but avoid underground fantasies.

Pluto-Pluto—lIntense Transformations, Finalities and New Cycles

Positive transits encourage a personal transformation where a new cycle in one’s life is
begun. Releasing old issues will bring better order into your daily existence. You, along
with others, will be cooperative in business as well as more intimate relationship situa-
tions. You will benefit from agreeable partnerships that are supportive of your growth.
Relationship concerns are easily resolved, whether someone is coming into your life or
departing. A powerful individual may sway your opinion.
Discordant angles generate difficult partnerships where your partner is keen to ma-
nipulate you to satisfy their needs. You may feel compelled to cooperate with a con-
vincing, iron-willed person. Intimate relationships will need to evolve to a new level of
understanding, or face a parting of the ways. New persons met at this time will always
retain an uncompromising stance, thus making getting along quite taxing. It is advis-
able not to become involved with new partnerships of any kind, as you will only be
dealing with power struggles down the road. You will consider reevaluating your life
goals, ridding yourself of anything or anyone hampering your progress. Dormant ambi-
tions can now be pursued to your benefit, as you let go of that which has run its course.
Your attitude about life, death, and where you fit into the universal plan is transcended
into a whole new perspective. You will find yourself living with greater purpose in the
pursuit of your aims.
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Meeting during a Mercury retrograde period can be very precarious as this influence
does not always support plans following through to the anticipated result. Thus, the de-
sired long-term relationship may not manifest. Most couples end up struggling to keep
some stability in the union that seems destined to be short-lived even when the Love
Relationship Formula is present.
Marrying under Mercury retrograde can also be risky. A famous example of this was
the marriage of John F Kennedy, Jr., and Carolyn Bessette, which took place in secret at
a quaint church on Cumberland Island off the coast of Georgia. The date was Septem-
ber 26, 1996, and Mercury was retrograde. Although Neptune was in favorable trine as-
pect to Mercury, Mars was in adverse semisquare aspect and Uranus was in sesqui-
quadrate aspect to Mercury, creating even more volatility toward what may transpire.

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This event involving Mercury retrograde would play itself out in the most unfortu-
nate of tragedies. On July 16, 1999, at around 9:30 PM, their small plane crashed near
Martha’s Vineyard, ending the lives of John, Carolyn, and Carolyn’s sister Lauren. Never
should we tempt the fate of Mercury retrograde.
You will find Mercury retrograde appearing in solar and fapiat returns. When it falls
in the seventh-house sector of close relationships or the fifth-house sector of romance,
you will be inclined to reevaluate your current position on relationships and romance.
You may not be able to move forward with any decisions until the solar or lunar return
with Mercury retrograde has ended. The planetary influence will be present, but not
able to proceed in carrying out the activity involved in this sector. You will consider
changing how you are applying yourself as you reassess where you stand. Even though
you might be at somewhat of a standstill, the underlying motive will persuade you to
move ahead. Personal frustrations will slow down the process. You will experience in-
securities until you look at the problems in this romantic area that are holding you back
from experiencing more fulfillment. In life, we often encounter difficulty acquiring what
we want. If the goal is not within our grasp, then we need to go back and change our
pattern or approach to this relationship goal so that it can be attained.
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void-of-course Moon

The Moon is the fastest-moving planetary influence in our universe as we know it.
Every twenty-eight days it journeys around the earth, traveling through each of the
twelve constellations that we refer to as zodiac signs. In the course of a day, the Moon
makes many aspects to the other planets and specific points of interest. Its influence
will only last a couple of hours and sometimes less with each contact it makes, as the
Moon moves | degree every one-and-three-quarters to two hours. Since there are 30
degrees with each horoscope sign, it will take the Moon approximately two-and-a-half
days to travel through each sign. During this brief journey through each sign, the Moon
will make various angles until it reaches the last major angle it will make before it
moves into the next consecutive horoscope sign. After the Moon makes this final angle
or aspect to a planet or significant astrological point, it is said to be wobbling in its
orbit, or void of course (v/c), until it reaches the next sign.
Since the Moon reflects our feelings, our emotional instincts are said to be out of syne
whenever it goes void of course. If we are not in tune with ourselves, we feel uncentered,

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scattered, and confused. Lacking good judgment, we are prone to making mistakes.
More often than not, plans go awry. It seems that our approach has missing links that
keep us from achieving our goal.
What is started under a void-of-course Moon usually does not pan out even when
the Love Relationship Formula is present. Therefore, if you meet someone under a
void-of-course influence, this encounter is not destined to have a future. It would be
best to plan any get-together when the Moon is not void-of-course for a better outcome.
Otherwise, you will be disappointed when the connection dissolves and and you have
wasted a lot of time and energy.
When the Moon is void of course, it’s okay to pursue routine tasks. But more im-
portantly, it is a good time to mull over your plans and take inventory of what is hap-
pening in your life at this time. Then, when the Moon moves into the next sign, take ac-
tion toward what you would like to accomplish, such as setting up that romantic date.
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In Q First Meeting chart

The first meeting chart will give us a very good description of a couple’s future. Every
planetary influence will affect the outcome of the relationship. When the Love Rela-
tionship Formula is present, the relationship prospers.

First Meeting Chart of Jared and Lynn

“Jared” and “Lynn” met on January 25, 1987, at 4:00 PM in Garfield, New Jersey. The
placement of the Sun in the seventh house of marriage sets the stage for future events.
Jupiter is in semisquare contact with the Sun, creating opportunity for a relationship to
prosper, as long as they don’t overextend themselves. Jupiter is also in favorable trine
aspect to the Ascendant, a Mars Point, and sextile the Descendant, a Venus Point.
Jupiter’s good fortune supports this auspicious meeting when in aspect to the angular
cusps on the horizon. The semisquare aspect between the Sun and Venus emphasizes

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an affectionate exchange, as long as one’s feelings are not filled with expectations. The
romantic passion is highlighted as well, with Venus in wonderful trine aspect to Mars,
and the Moon in trine contact to Mars. The Moon conjunct Venus denotes caring and
sensitivity between them. When the Moon, Venus, and Mars influence each other posi-
tively, a couple encounters one of their greatest loves. Saturn conjunct Venus promises
a long-term commitment, yet Saturn trine Mars emphasizes a more dutiful alliance. Sat-
urn is also in semisquare contact with the Sun, conjunct the Moon, and in square as-
pect to Jupiter, creating a serious, obligated perspective on building a life together and
developing a solid friendship. Jupiter in square aspect to Venus denotes a happy couple
who enjoy an active social life. A strong, exciting, lasting attraction is indicated with
Venus conjunct Uranus. Even more enthusiasm is generated from the Jupiter square
Uranus aspect, which encourages the couple toward self-discovery.
Communication is enhanced with Mercury in wide conjunction to the Sun, in sex-
tile to the Moon, Venus, Mars, and Saturn, and in semisquare to Jupiter. Mentally they
would get along brilliantly, agreeing to a diplomatic and practical approach to their
goals. Only Mercury in square aspect to Pluto would be somewhat challenging, as they
would be persuaded toward deep, repetitious thought and possibly coercive behavior.
Chances are their intuitive insights would not allow for bad judgment as Mercury is ex-
alted in Aquarius and in fine contact with several other planets.
Mars in square aspect to Neptune, and also in T-square aspect to the MC and IC, in-
dicates nebulous developments in home, career, and love. Luckily their career goals
have a creative, healing essence and their conservative home is a Neptunian, spiritual
haven as well. The romantic connection of Mars trine Venus helps channel any vague
moments. Mars inconjunct Pluto might indicate some resistance between them that is
easily resolved with a cooperative attitude and good interaction. Venus in semisquare
contact to Pluto intensifies the love bond. Uranus is in contact with all of the angular
points, stirring up the unexpected along with something new to be experienced. Pluto
square the Sun and in sesquiquadrate aspect to Jupiter presents situations that force
them to evolve to a new level, unless they are already doing this for themselves.
The monetary picture is at times stressful due to Pluto in square aspect to Mercury
in the eighth house of joint financial handlings. Yet the Moon in Sagittarius trine the
second-house cusp of earned income, along with Venus, Mars, and Saturn, has helped
substantiate their finances. The three children they have is a reflection of Jupiter in
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square aspect to Venus in the fifth house, and of the Moon and Venus in Sagittarius, which
promotes abundance. Both agree that they have been happily married for twelve years.

Aspects in the First Meeting Chart ofJared and Lynn

(Love Relationship Formula aspects underlined)
Sun 5°21' Aquarius conjunct Mercury 14°16' Aquarius (wide)
Sun 5°21' in the seventh house semisquare Venus 18°47' Sagittarius
Sun 5°21' Aquarius semisquare Jupiter 22°02! Pisces
Sun 5°21' Aquarius square Pluto 9°53! Scorpio
Mercury 14°16' Aquarius sextile Moon 13°30! Sagittarius
Moon 13°30! Sagittarius conjunct Venus 18°47' Sagittarius
Moon 13°30! Sagittarius trine Mars 12°08' Aries
Moon 13°30' Sagittarius conjunct Saturn 17°57' Sagittarius
Mercury 14°16! Aquarius sextile Venus 18°47! Sagittarius
Mercury 14°16! Aquarius sextile Mars 12°08! Aries
Mercury 14°16' Aquarius semisquare Jupiter 22°02' Pisces (wide)
Mercury 14°16' Aquarius sextile Saturn 17°57' Sagittarius
Mercury 14°16! Aquarius square Pluto 9°53' Scorpio
Venus 18°47' Sagittarius trine Mars 12°08! Aries
Venus 18°47' Sagittarius square Jupiter 22°02! Pisces
Jupiter 22°02' Pisces sextile Descendant, a Venus Point 23°30! Capricorn
Venus 18°47' Sagittarius conjunct Saturn 17°57’ Sagittarius
Uranus 24°58! Sagittarius semisextile Descendant, a Venus Point 23°30! Capricorn
Venus 18°47' Sagittarius semisquare Pluto 9°53' Scorpio
Mars 12°08! Aries square Neptune 6°36! Capricorn
Mars 12°08! Aries inconjunct Pluto 9°53' Scorpio
Jupiter 22°02' Pisces trine Ascendant, a Mars Point 23°30' Cancer
Jupiter 22°02' Pisces square Saturn 17°57' Sagittarius
Jupiter 22°02' Pisces square Uranus 24°58! Sagittarius
Jupiter 22°02' Pisces sesquiquadrate Pluto 9°53' Scorpio
Uranus 24°58' Sagittarius semisquare Pluto 9°53' Scorpio
Uranus 24°58! Sagittarius inconjunct Ascendant, a Mars Point 23°30' Cancer
Neptune 6°36' Capricorn square MC 6°01' Aries
Neptune 6°36! Capricorn square IC 6°01! Libra
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First Meeting Chart of Jared and Lynn

January 25, 1987 / Garfield, NJ / 4:00 PM EST
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ina Marriage chart

Marriage Chart of Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward

Choosing an auspicious day to get married can influence the longevity of your relation-
ship. Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward were married on January 29, 1958, at 6:00
PM in Las Vegas, Nevada. The Love Relationship Formula exists in the chart on this par-
ticular day, regardless of the angle between the planets. The Sun and Moon are in trine as-
pect, harmonizing the relationship right from the start. There is a strong, fortunate Sun-
Venus conjunction that attracts love, affection, and respect for them as a couple. This
loving influence offsets adversity and encourages a lasting, affectionate bond. Although
the Sun is in wide conjunction to the Descendant, a Venus Point, it still offers some sup-
port. A Sun-Mars aspect creates a passionate drive that sparks some competition. A

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favorable Moon trine Venus sensitizes the relationship, where there is considerable care
and understanding. The connection of Mars and Venus, even on a semisquare, en-
hances the romantic dynamics. A Mars-Jupiter sextile augments the passion and overall
motivation of the relationship. The Moon inconjunct Jupiter promotes their enthusi-
asm, which may come and go but is still present. Jupiter in wide square to the Sun em-
phasizes the success of their goals along with their high expectations. A Venus-Jupiter
aspect invites an uplifting social circle and adds a complimentary appeal between them.
Feeling comfortable in each other's company and establishing a long-term union is in-
dicated with Venus in strong aspect to Saturn. A supportive friendship is attributed to a
Jupiter-Saturn aspect. The pairing of Venus and Uranus instigates a powerful attraction
on an opposition, yet some space is needed for their own individual development.
Venus inconjunct Pluto coaxes an intense involvement as long as they are both willing
to cooperate. There are some influences that present a challenge, such as Sun square
Neptune, Sun opposite Uranus, Mercury sesquiquadrate Pluto, and Mars conjunct Sat-
urn, among others. But the Love Relationship Formula gives the marriage what it needs
to confront any issue and come out winning. This couple certainly did.

Aspects in the Marriage Chart of Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward

(Love Relationship Formula aspects underlined)
Sun 9°41' Aquarius trine Moon 2°13' Gemini (wide)
Sun 9°41' Aquarius conjunct Venus 7°37' Aquarius
Sun 9°41' Aquarius semisquare Mars 26°39! Sagittarius
Sun 9°41' Aquarius square Jupiter 1°14' Scorpio (wide
Sun 9°41' Aquarius semisquare Saturn 22°28! Sagittarius
Sun 9°41' Aquarius oppose Uranus 9°37' Leo
Sun 9°41' Aquarius square Neptune 4°46' Scorpio
Sun 9°41' Aquarius conjunct Descendant 21°57' Aquarius (wide)
Moon 2°13' Gemini sesquiquadrate Mercury 18°59' Capricorn
Moon 2°13' Gemini trine Venus 7°37' Aquarius
Moon 2°13' Gemini oppose Mars 26°39! Sagittarius
Moon 2°13' Gemini inconjunct Jupiter 1°14' Scorpio
Moon 2°13' Gemini inconjunct Neptune 4°46! Scorpio
Moon 2°13' Gemini square Pluto 1°36' Virgo
Mercury 18°59! Capricorn sesquiquadrate Pluto 1°36! Virgo
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Venus 7°37' Aquarius semisquare Mars 26°39! Sagittarius

Venus /7°37' Aquarius square Jupiter 1°14' Scorpio
Venus 7°37' Aquarius semisquare Saturn 22°28' Sagittarius
Venus 7°37' Aquarius oppose Uranus 9°37' Leo
Venus 7°37' Aquarius square Neptune 4°46! Scorpio
Venus 7°37' Aquarius inconjunct Pluto 1°36! Virgo
Mars 26°39! Sagittarius sextile Jupiter 1°14' Scorpio
Mars 26°39' Sagittarius conjunct Saturn 22°28' Sagittarius
Mars 26°39! Sagittarius sesquiquadrate Uranus 9°37' Leo
Mars 26°39! Sagittarius semisquare Neptune 4°46! Scorpio (wide)
Mars 26°39! Sagittarius trine Pluto 1°36' Virgo
Jupiter 1°14' Scorpio semisquare Saturn 22°28' Sagittarius
Jupiter 1°14' Scorpio conjunct Neptune 4°46' Scorpio
Jupiter 1°14! Scorpio sextile Pluto 1°36! Virgo
Saturn 22°28' Sagittarius sesquiquadrate Uranus 9°37' Leo
Saturn 22°28' Sagittarius semisquare Neptune 4°46! Scorpio
Uranus 9°37' Leo square Neptune 4°46! Scorpio
Neptune 4°46! Scorpio sextile Pluto 1°36! Virgo
North Node 5°41' Scorpio conjunct Jupiter 1°14' Scorpio
North Node 5°41' Scorpio conjunct Neptune 4°46! Scorpio
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Marriage Chart of Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward

January 29, 1958 / Las Vegas, NV / 6:00 PM PST
Placidus Houses
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Relationship rormula
In the composite chart
and solar neturn

Since romantic relationships are the most common reason why we use the composite
chart, when it encompasses the Relationship Formula the results may seal together a
lifelong union. We may also benefit in other ways. in synastry, weaker influences from
the natal charts can be strengthened in the composite chart. If a person has Saturn
square Mars in their birth chart, and in the composite chart of the couple there is a
Jupiter trine Mars aspect, it will ease the personal restriction of the natal Saturn square
Mars aspect. If the Love Relationship Formula is present, this may be an excellent rela-
tionship for the Saturn-square-Mars person to be in to alleviate the drawback of the
planetary adversity. In most instances, a relationship exists so two people can fulfill a
need in each other. This is part of the attraction. When Saturn square Mars is viewed as

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a lack and therefore a need, this need is fulfilled by the Jupiter trine Mars in the com-
posite chart.
In a relationship analysis, it’s always important to analyze the natal charts of the two
people involved. This will give you valid clues as to what kind of a relationship the two
people are looking for. Then see if the composite chart is a reflection of this vision and
includes the Love Relationship Formula.
When the Love Relationship Formula exists in the solar return chart, there is op-
portunity for love. The formula can be present in various sectors of the chart, with a
seventh-house emphasis involving the Sun, Venus, and/or Jupiter. The first (self), fifth
(romance), seventh (relationships), and eighth (partnership) house sectors are the more
significant areas that support relationship advancement if encouraging planets and as-
pects are involved. The Love Relationship Formula needs to be present in some capac-
ity to help solidify a wonderful, long-term union. If love continues to elude you, astro-
cartography and relocation charts can assist you in finding a desirable place for positive
relationship developments to occur. In exploring the possibilities, check your compati-
bility, transits, progressions, solar arc directions, and solar return to be sure that all as-
trological influences are working in your favor, especially The Love Relationship For-
mula. For love may be closer than you think.
 y Appendix

Create a Love Relationship Formula Report

Using Your CD-ROM Program
First you need to install the program. Just remove the CD-ROM from its folder and place it in
your computers CD-ROM drive. The program will begin to install itself.
If it does not install automatically, click on the Start menu and then select “Run.” In the Run
menu dialog box, type in your corresponding CD-ROM drive followed by the filename
SETUPexe. Typically, the CD-ROM is set up as D:\
DSETUREx¢
The install wizard will run and guide you through the rest of the process.
For an alternate method, you can access your CD-ROM drive by clicking on “My Computer”
and then the CD-ROM drive (typically D:\). Double-click the SETUPexe icon.

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You will see an introductory splash screen with the name of the program (it flashes on and
off very quickly), and then you will see a screen called “The Love Relationship Formula.”

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The Love Relationship Formula is a basic astrology program, designed around the most so-
phisticated astrology programming available. Cosmic Patterns, in collaboration with Llewellyn
Worldwide, has developed this program to provide you with birth charts (the circle with all the
astrological symbols), and also to provide basic romantic interpretations for two people (seven-
to ten-page printouts of information about a couple's charts).
Let’s discuss the choices you have:

¢ The Start button is used to create your charts.

¢ The About button provides information about the CD-ROM program; about Llewellyn
Worldwide, the publisher of The Love Relationship Formula; and about Cosmic Patterns
Software, the designer of the program.
¢ The Quit button allows you to exit from the program.
 Appendix —.291

To use your program, select “Start” from the menu, then select “New List of Charts (New Ses-
sion).” If you are returning to the program and want to see the last chart you made, select “Con-
tinue with Charts of Previous Session.”

This is where you enter your birth information. There are some simple instructions on the
right side of the screen, similar to what follows here. Let's make charts for Bill and Hillary Clin-
ton as an example.

¢ In the Name box, type “Bill Clinton,” and then Enter.

¢ In the Date box, type “08191946” (for August 19, 1946), and then Enter. You will notice
that as you enter the date (in mm dd yyyy format), the cursor will skip to the next part of
the date field for you.
° In the Time field, type “085100 AM” (his 8:51 AM birth time in hh mm ss format), and
then Enter.
* In the Place box, type “Hope, Arkansas” (the birth place). As soon as you type the word
“Hope,” a list drops down. You will notice that “Hope, Arkansas” isn’t in the list, but Hope
is close to Texarkana, Arkansas. Begin typing “Texarkana.” When you have typed “Tex,”
“Texarkana” appears at the top of the list. Select it. The drop-down list disappears, and
you see “Texarkana, Arkansas” in the Place box. You will also see information filled in the
boxes below it: the latitude is 33N26 00, the longitude is 094W03 00, the time zone is 6
hours 0 minutes West, and the Daylight Saving Time box is marked “N.”
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A number of cities are included in the program’ atlas. If your city does not automati-
cally come up, you can use a nearby city from the list. You may also look up your birth
place in an atlas to find the latitude and longitude, time zone, and daylight saving time
information, and fill in this information. Generally, a city close [Link] birth place will have
a longitude and latitude close enough for your purposes, and will also be in the same
time zone. If the time zone information is different, your chart could be off by an hour,
one way or the other. Depending on the distance your choice is from your actual birth
place, your chart will be slightly different. You can obtain the correct longitude, latitude,
and time zone information from a time table book for astrology.*
¢ The Zodiac/House button allows you to select a different house system. The program au-
tomatically selects the tropical zodiac and the Placidus house system. Experiment with the
other choices to see what changes on the chart wheel. In this program the interpretation
will only change if you select the sidereal zodiac.
* Select the “Save” button at the bottom of the screen to save the chart (you can delete it
later if you need to).
* Then select the “Done” button. If you forget to save and go directly to the Done button,
you will get a prompt asking if you want to save the data. In fact, all the way along,
prompts appear to help you enter the data.
* You now see an Information box that says “You will now be prompted to enter the data for
the second person.” Click “OK.” Follow the same procedure again by typing “Hillary Rod-
ham Clinton,” “10261947,” and “080000 PM” (Hillary was born on October 26, 1947, at
8:00 PM in Chicago, Illinois). In the Place field, type “Chicago.” You will see Chicago
Heights and Chicago in the drop-down list. Select “Chicago,” “Save,” “OK,” and “Done.”

The screen on the next page is what you see when you have chosen the “Done” button:

* Two possibilities include The American Atlas, compiled and programmed by Neil F Michelson (San
Diego, CA: ACS Publications, 1978 and newer editions); and The International Atlas, compiled and pro-
grammed by Thomas G. Shanks (San Diego, CA: ACS Publications, 1985 and newer editions).
 Appendix =.293

The Love Relationship Formula Report for

Hillary Rodham Clinton

and

Birth Data for Hillary Rodham Clinton:

Hillary Rodham Clinton

October 26, 1947

8:00 PM

Chicago, Illinois

* If you scroll down, the names of the charts you just entered appear. You can see Bill and
Hillary's names and birth data. If you scroll down, you can see more information lists, and
then the interpretation.
* Ifyou select “Wheel” from the Reports menu, a form appears. It contains a chart for Bill at
the top and one for Hillary at the bottom.
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¢ At the upper left it is labeled “Chart Wheels.” This form should look just like the one
printed here.

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Bill Clinton
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¢ Select “Print” and Print Current Report” to print either the wheel or the interpretation re-
port. Only the item on the screen prints. Select the other option on the Reports menu to
change the screen.
¢ Select “Exit” and then “Yes” to go to the opening screen. From here you can either exit the
program, or select “Start” to make another chart and interpretation.

That's it! You can now create charts and interpretations for any birth information you want. This
program is so easy to use, you won't need much help. Still, we have included step by step in-
structions for those of you who haven't used an astrology program before.
 v Glossary

Angular Houses—The angular houses are the first, fourth, seventh, and tenth houses. Planets in
these house sectors are referred to as being in the foreground. They hold a lot of weight and
therefore can help or hinder one depending on the planet and aspects to the planet.
Ascendant—The cusp of the first house, pertaining to the self, one’s personality, physicality, ap-
proach to life goals, and first impression made on others, located on the horizon line. Angu-
lar power point abbreviated ASC.
Aspect—When a planet by degree interacts with another planet or significant astrological point
thus forming a geometry angle such as 0 degrees, 60 degrees, 90 degrees, 135 degrees, or 180
degrees, with outer space as the backdrop.
Astrocartography—Plotting geographic locations on a global astrological map, which emphasizes
the use of power points, the Ascendant, Descendant, Midheaven, and Imum Coeli, that indi-
cate where you will be able to maximize your potential. A planetary mapping method used to
relocate to ideal astrology zones.
Astrological Karma—Karma that is designated by the astrological influences.
Astrology—The study of the stars, including planets, zodiac signs, and house sectors, to help us
understand the past, deal with the present, and guide us into the future.

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Belief System—What you think, and therefore attract and become. The ideas that you store men-
tally that reflect your view of people and life.
Benefic—A planetary influence that attracts opportunity, favors, and benefits. Jupiter and Venus
are known as the two benefic planets.
Cadent Houses—The cadent houses are the third, sixth, ninth, and twelfth houses, and are
known as the background houses. Here the planetary influences are considerably weak, and
therefore may not be able to support or undermine you, depending on planet, sign, and
house placement.
Conditioned—Programmed in one’s environment to act in a specified way, which creates learned
emotional and behavior patterns. Trained to believe that one must behave in a certain re-
strained manner.
Dysfunctional—Not able to function normally due to disorder, in some context, in one’ environment.
Co-dependent—A mutual compulsive need to lean on each other for support in some manner,
which restricts the individuals in becoming independent.
Descendant—the cusp of the seventh house, pertaining to close relationships and marriage,
which is located on the horizon line of the astrology chart. Angular power point abbreviated
DSC,
Dyad—A relationship of two, and only two, such as male and female. Usually this duality is
based on the polar opposite of the other.
Element—Fire, earth, air, and water are the four elements used in astrology to describe each
planet or significant astrological point.
Exalted—Each planet has an exalted sign. A planet in its exalted sign experiences an elevated
rank or dignity. Here the planet and sign are positively expressed, thus creating a magnified
experience. Example: Jupiter in Cancer.
Fall—When a planet is in the opposite sign of its exaltation, it is said to be “in fall.” Example:
Jupiter in Capricorn.
Golden Ratio—The formula of transcendence that concurs with “Phi” —1:16:18—and appears in
all life forms.
Holy Grail—The magnificent formula of all formulas that transcends life itself.
Houses—Divided sectors of an astrology chart that describe an area of one’s life. There are twelve
house sectors in a chart. This is where the experience happens.
Karma—A universal law that suggests that you are held accountable for all of your actions, even
in previous lifetimes. Karma determines one’s destiny.
Imum Coeli—The cusp of the fourth house, pertaining to home, property, and one’s roots, which
is on the meridian line that divides the astrology chart. Angular power point abbreviated IC.
Malefic—A planetary influence that is nefarious in context. Inferring evil intent. Saturn is known
as a malefic planet, especially in adverse aspect to Mars and the outer planets.
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Midheaven—The cusp of the tenth house, pertaining to career and social status, which is on the
meridian line that divides the astrology chart. Angular power point abbreviated MC.
Midpoint—The middle [Link] between a pair of planets or other significant astrological
points of interest.
Nodes—Commonly known as the dragon’s head (North Node) and the dragon’s tail (South
Node). The Moon's North Node indicates the future direction in which you should be
headed, for that is in line with your destiny. The Moon’s South Node indicates what you have
experienced in a past life, and are consciously moving away from to experience something
new. We need to release the symbolism of the South Node and reach for the symbolism of the
North Node to attain our highest potential.
Orb—The allowed degrees within an aspect. The distance between an astrological angle that em-
phasizes an influence.
Phi—Represents an etheric, mathematical formula for transcendence, 1:16:18.
Pythagorus—Greek philosopher and mathematician. Created the Pythagorean Theory.
Quadruplicities—Groupings of four signs that emanate a similar approach to goals pursued in
life, and based on the beginning, middle, and end cycle of the seasons. The quadruplicities
are cardinal signs—Aries, Cancer, Libra, and Capricorn; mutable signs—Gemini, Virgo,
Sagittarius, and Pisces; and fixed signs—Taurus, Leo, Scorpio, and Aquarius.
Part of Marriage—An astrological point that refers to marriage. The Part of Marriage is the same
distance from the Descendant as Venus is from the Ascendant, yet located on the same side of
the horizon line as Venus. It is calculated by adding the longitude degree(s) of the Descendant
to the longitude degree(s) of the Ascendant, and then subtracting the longitude degree(s) of
Venus. For example, if Venus is 20° above the Ascendant, the Part of Marriage will be located
20° above the Descendant. If you find Venus 11° below the Descendant, the Part of Marriage
will be 11° below the Ascendant.
Planets—Cosmic bodies in our solar system. In astrology, planets are the experience.
Sun—Represents the self, vitality, and one’s goal or purpose in life.
Moon (for convenience, referred to as a planet)—Represents emotions, sensitivity, habits, mother,
female associations, and the past.
Mercury—Represents intellect, communication, understanding, learning, and analysis.
Venus—Represents values, attraction, love, romance and affection, self-esteem, beauty, finan-
cial prosperity, artistic values, and femininity.
Mars—Represents desire, energy, identity, passion, aggression, and masculinity.
Jupiter—Represents expansion, opportunity, abundance, good fortune, optimism, travel, and
religion.
Saturn—Represents limitation, reality, discipline, maturity, responsibility, and authority.
unpredictable, un-
Uranus—Represents sudden change, progress, the future, excitement, the
conventionality, and individuality.
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Neptune—Represents illusion, idealism, creativity, spirituality, deception, and dissolution.

Pluto—Represents intense involvement, power, transformation, endings yet new beginnings,
obsession, manipulation, elimination, and regeneration.
Progressions—Transits used to predict future developments that are .calculated by using an
ephemeris and counting a day for a year of your life, after the Greenwich Meridian Time has
been refigured and an Adjusted Calculation Date derived.
Relocation—Moving to a particular latitude and longitude, different from your birthplace, that is
astrologically indicated as an improved place to live. Relocating your birth chart to another
geographical area.
Signs—Referring to the zodiac, of which there are twelve signs: Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer,
Leo, Virgo, Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius, and Pisces. Horoscope signs al-
ways describe the experience.
Solar Return—A significant astrology chart that is based on when your Sun returns to the exact
degree, minute, and second of your birth, which indicates the trends that will play out in
your life for that particular year.
Soulmate—A person whose soul you have been close to in a previous lifetime. Someone with
whom you feel a spiritual and/or romantic bond that is upheld through time.
Succedent Houses—The succedent houses are the second, fifth, eighth, and eleventh houses. They
constitute the middle ground and hold less weight.
Sun/Moon Midpoint—A significant astrological point that represents the male and female energies
that is calculated by changing the zodiacal degrees of the Sun and Moon to, the 360 degrees of
a circle of notation, then adding them together and dividing by two.
Synastry—The study of relationships based on astrological compatibility.
Transits—Planets in motion in our solar system that, in traveling through the constellations, form
aspects (mathematical angles) to other planets, be they stationary or in motion themselves.
Triads—A relationship of three, such as mind, body, and spirit, that exemplifies the idea of
bringing a dyad relationship together with a spiritual conception, be it God or a higher divine
power. A grouping of three elements.
Trinity—From a religious perspective, this triad is the union of God the Father, Son, and Holy
Spirit. The union of three people, things, or ideas moving toward a common goal, which is
usually one of spirituality and truth.
Triplicities—Groupings of the elements of fire, earth, air, and water that form a geometric trian-
gle by degree that relates to three compatible horoscope signs. The fire triplicity includes
Aries, Leo, and Sagittarius; the earth triplicity includes Taurus, Virgo, and Capricorn; the air
triplicity includes Gemini, Libra, and Aquarius; and the water triplicity includes Cancer,
Scorpio, and Pisces.
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