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2023-03-03T08:30:26+00:00

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Meeting Suffering With Gentleness

Last updated on: March 3, 2023 at 8:30 am By Satya Robyn

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I have had a hard week. Not a ‘my cat died’ week, a ‘dealing with a serious illness’ week or a ‘falling apart’ week. Still, I have suffered. I have felt the burden of my responsibilities to the people and projects I am in relationship with. I have been crushed under the weight of a too-full schedule, despite decades of practising ‘doing less’. I have felt melancholy about both the new arthritis in the finger joint I rest my pen... Read more

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2023-02-15T08:25:15+00:00

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How to Handle our Internal Cookie Monster

Last updated on: February 15, 2023 at 8:25 am By Satya Robyn

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(or, does gentleness lead to indulgence?) Last night I had a big pasta dinner followed by one of my home-made brownies. After another hour or so I wanted chocolate chip cookies, and so I ate one – and then another. It had been a long and difficult day, and I was being ‘gentle with myself’. It led me to wonder, if I was even more gentle with myself, would I eat another two cookies? And then two more? Is being... Read more

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2023-01-24T08:21:56+00:00

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The Secret to Unlocking All Dharma Books

Last updated on: January 24, 2023 at 8:21 am By Satya Robyn

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One of the things I really love is when an improbably random trail of breadcrumbs leads me to some treasure. This happened yesterday, when my partner sent me an essay they thought I might enjoy. Usually I don’t have time in the middle of the day to read essays, but a client had cancelled and so I looked at it straight away. I was intrigued enough to look up the author, Nobuo Haneda – putting his name into a search... Read more

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2023-01-24T08:19:27+00:00

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The Buddhist Police Inside My Head

Last updated on: January 24, 2023 at 8:19 am By Satya Robyn

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I have been working as a psychotherapist for twenty five years, and for the first decade or so I was aware of a voice inside my head that spoke up whenever I felt out of my depth. ‘You’re not a real therapist,’ it said. ‘Other therapists have had better training than you. They know about things you don’t know about. They would do a much better job with this client.’ As I reflect on this voice I’m pleased to realise... Read more

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2023-01-24T07:50:38+00:00

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Did The Buddha Want Us To Go Gently?

Last updated on: January 24, 2023 at 7:50 am By Satya Robyn

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Sometimes I worry that ‘Gentle Buddhism’ is an oxymoron. When I think of the Pali sutras, the closest thing we have to the Buddha’s actual words, what I remember is their endless lists of good qualities – concentration, wisdom, patience, pure speech… and how the Buddha exhorts us to perfect these qualities in order to become enlightened. When I think of the Buddhist teachings in this way – as a self-development programme – it feels almost impossible. It also feels... Read more

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2022-12-01T10:15:22+00:00

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Should We Help Ourselves Or Others First?

Last updated on: December 1, 2022 at 10:15 am By Satya Robyn

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My dream last night was vivid and spooky. I was walking around a pond with my elderly parents. The edges were steep and muddy. All at once, my mum slipped and fell into the pond – I still have an image of her, completely immersed in the murky water. My dad moved towards her and I had the thought, ‘Wait! You’re not strong. Be careful or you’ll slip in and go under too…’ I have been reading Kenneth Tanaka’s book,... Read more

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2023-01-17T08:54:37+00:00

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A Gentle Approach to a Daily Buddhist Practice

Last updated on: January 17, 2023 at 8:54 am By Satya Robyn

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One hundred and fifty four days in a row. This was how long I had maintained my daily meditation practice, sitting cross-legged for half an hour of silence every morning. On the hundred and fifty fifth day, I woke up and had the thought, ‘I’m not going to do my practice today’. So I didn’t. And it felt okay. For me, this is progress. Much of my life has been characterised by strong ‘manager’ parts of me that drive me... Read more

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2023-01-10T08:58:09+00:00

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What If This Year Is My Last?

Last updated on: January 10, 2023 at 8:58 am By Satya Robyn

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As my first day of work in 2023 approached, I got myself into a painful tangle. I’d previously done lots of writing in my journal about my goals for the year, and they felt clear. As I looked at the list, however, I felt panicky and trapped. There was a lot on there! In my urgency to describe the WHAT of 2023, I had neglected to think about the HOW. I had chosen myself a word to guide me during... Read more

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2022-12-22T08:07:46+00:00

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Why Soft is More Powerful Than Shove

Last updated on: December 22, 2022 at 8:07 am By Satya Robyn

She was curled into a furry ball on the green chair, her tail pumping weakly as she greeted me through her morning sleepiness. I tickled her ears a little, and scratched her neck. As I gently stroked her she lifted her head and leaned back, exposing first her chest and then her soft belly. Soon she was all stretched out, happy, and utterly relaxed. Yesterday I listened to a podcast on the colonisation of Buddhism with Dr. Wendy Dossett. In... Read more

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2022-12-20T09:50:11+00:00

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Your Word For 2023 Will Work Magic

Last updated on: December 20, 2022 at 9:50 am By Satya Robyn

I couldn’t remember my Word of the Year for 2022. ‘This is not a good sign’, I thought to myself. ‘How can my special word have an influence on my year if I can’t even remember what it is?’ When I remembered it, I was happily surprised. The word I chose for 2022 was ‘enough’. I chose it because I was a little bit sick of excess, and of always wanting more and never being satisfied. I chose it because... Read more

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