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Today’s great quote – Success

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Message to the followers of my blog and visitors

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 I am very greatful for the growth of my blog and the increase. When I first started, the numbers of followers I have now was just a dream. It seemed so far away. But now, it is a reality. And it has just begun. I will really love for all of us to go on the journey together.

Having shared my gratitude, I want to use this moment to implore my followers. PLEASE COMMENT ON MY POSTS. I want to hear your opinion and receive your feedback. A writer craves for response in order to feel like he/she has an audience. This also goes for the visitors as well. For the visitors who like my content, please follow, like and share your view through comments.

Thanks, peace and God bless you

What to do when no one supports your dreams

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It has happened to many of us.We have this marvellous idea we want to launch, this vision we want to share. But no one seems to be there to urge us on. Not everyone is lucky to have a legendary mother the likes of Ben Carson. The ones who trust, nurtures, inspires and believes. Some of us just have to be our own biggest fans. This is not something which is bad, because being our own greatest support is the best thing ever. Or it should be.

However, humans crave validation. Validation, that word which holds both positive and negative connotations. It is rather easy to say that we do not need validation, but much more harder to abide by it. We do need validation.It is a trait innate to humans. The need for approval of accomplishment. But do we have to get it from a particular group of people to be fulfilled? No, we don’t have to.

Though we need validation, we are selective of who we appreciate receiving it from. A positive reinforcement might come from a stranger on the internet or a college who feels your ideas are great. Most times we do not value the praise that comes from people we give less value to. You might as well prefer the approval from your friends and family, but they might not give it. The issue is in being satisfied with what we can get at any given moment.

So what can be done when you feel that no one supports you? Keep on going! Your dreams are most important to you than anyone else. Why? Because a lot of people are also thinking about their own lives. I’m sure you do that as well. I for one do not go about worrying about everyone’s dream and ambition. Sometimes I even come across an awesome idea which I like, but I forget to express my opinion. Such person might never know that I approved of him/her. People show approval more when you have reached a peak of considerable success.

Every great person today had gone through the same process of feeling alone. When no one supports you,do not use that as an excuse to give up. Use that as a fuel to make progress. Your passion is good enough motivation to keep on going. The need to make yourself a better version you can be should be an inspiration.

Your dreams are for you and at all cost you should fight for them. This is possible without the help of anyone. You can draw courage and strength from many people and sources,but you should be your own hero. It makes you a stronger person whose vision is focused. The greatest support you can get is the one you give yourself.

Keep moving forward.

It’s not about willpower!

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Willpower had become a cliche word for in which so many self help people proclaimed to be an ultimate problem solver.Its only recently that studies on willpower show how limited it is.The effectual reliance on the short supply of this proclaimed wonder tool has no basis in actual keeping up with a positive habit.

It turns out that by rewiring the pattern of your brain,the need to use willpower frequently is not neccesary.The constant loop mode the brain is always in to repeat pattern and habits is our enemy,especially when it comes to creating change.If only we learn how to break the pattern and stop the habit when we notice the loop in action.

So no,it’s not about willpower when you want to change your habits,action,thought processes and your mind.It’s about doing something sporadically,out of the blue even as when your mind tells you to follow the old ways you are used to.When you begin to do this,it becomes more easier to try new stuff.Willpower becomes less needed to go through the day.

Be spontaneous!

Understanding the concept of abundance

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Those of us who are familiar with the law of attraction and other positive manifestation methods will have heared the word “abundance” so many times.Many would have pondered on the meaning of abundance.From the many descriptions,abundance will mean having an endless supply of resources for all of human kind.Right?

It may begin to seem confusing sometimes when you think of those who are poor and suffering even though we have such  wonderful “abundance”.Looking around your room and home,you may have problems not being sceptical as you search for any positive indications of abundance.It is hard to get past the lack you feel and clearly see.You have made a mistake because it is not possible to see the infinite with the physical eyes in a doubtful humanly state.

It is very hard to see the infinite.You can’t just see it with a finite mind.This is a mistake many motivational speakers make or maybe they deliberately withdraw this information so as to make people more eager to grab a copy of their book for them to have more sales quickly.It makes you wonder how people are poor and suffering all over the world when we have all this wonderful “abundance”.

Our abundance is love.We have an endless supply to give to produce the results we need.Love is the root of all good things.If everyone was loving in this world,no one will even have to suffer.But we all know this is not how things are.We have so much love to give and to receive,only if we let ourselves.We deserve all the love we can get and the world around us deserves it as well.The fruit of abundance is love.We must see abundance from a place of love,because when we do this we see what could not be seen before.Our inner eye is openned and we stop giving ourselves and those around us pain.Then we are finally free to see the infinite all around us.