Monthly Archives: December 2012

HAPPY NEW YEAR

There are many versions of this but this is the one I know.  The music on occasions drowns out the choir but the best version I can get right now!

A New Kind of Christianity – Brian McLean

A great speaker who makes so much sense.

What music can do

Music is so much a part of my life, it runs like blood in my veins.  I listen to a wide variety and will pick a certain music for my mood or to change my mood. It is a spiritual experience whatever the music (well for me at least!).  If you think of films where would they be without music?  The soundtrack and accompanying music will fill you with different emotions depending on the way the composer has manipulated the music.

I only have to hear the first few notes of my favourite songs and my stomach goes all fluttery. Certain songs hold memories for me, take me back to past moments in my life and some songs move me completely.

I especially love Christmas music and Church music (choirs) and some hymns always leave a lump in my throat.  There is a part of the communion service where we sing Holy, holy, holy Lord, God of power and might…….  One Sunday we used a new tune and suddenly the words came alive to me in the beauty of the music and brought tears to my eyes.  I wanted to lift my arms in praise (not something we do in my church!).  This beautiful version only comes round so often (it changes with the liturgical year) but I welcome it every time.  It shows how with the right music you can experience something amazing, see things differently – new.

It’s strange because there are some combination of notes that really do it for me.  I don’t know what they are – I don’t read music – but when they come they are beauty to my ears.  I thank God for music, for giving us the ability to make it, for the great composers of the world  and for us to experience the emotions music evokes.

Happy Christmas

Christmas tree KingstonHAPPY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW NEW YEAR

TO ALL MY READERS.

 

Spirituality and our response to God

Advent CandleI guess I’ve thought of spirituality as a quiet moment when one feels closer to God.  Stephen Cottrell in his book Do Nothing Christmas is Coming has made me re-think this.   He says:

spirituality is not some vague, mushy feeling of goodwill towards the universe; it is the way our experience of God is sustained and expressed.  If we believe that God has a concern for the universe, then so should we.  If we believe that God is concerned about those who have little at Christmas, then so should we.

I’ve never really considered spirituality in this way.  However, I do agree that what concerns God should concern us and we should respond to the cry of others.  At this time of year when we are filling our fridges and freezers to bursting point let us consider those who will find it hard to provide food for their families; while we are nice and cosy round the fire there are some without a home who will be sleeping out of doors and even if they are in a Christmas shelter for a couple of nights, will be back on the streets in the cold afterwards.

35 For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, 36 I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was ill and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.” (Matt 25@35-36)

Christmas can be a sad time of year, the lonely with no family left to celebrate with, those who are missing loved ones and those for whom Christmas can be a time of stress where abuse takes no break for Christmas.

There are things we can do and we should do if we can.  This year I have cut back a little on present giving, smaller gifts.  After all what do most of us actually need these day?.  I sometimes help out in a charity shop and after Christmas we get lots of donations – gifts still in their boxes, books unread.  We do well out of it but what does it say about us?  There is a couple I know who spend far more on presents than I ever would yet half of it gets returned or given away because they ‘didn’t want it’.  What’s the point?  As our vicar said this morning what has this to do with the coming of Jesus?  For a lot of people Christmas is just an excuse for partying, getting drunk and over eating.  When I think of the money spent what a difference that would make to someone in need.  I’m not saying don’t enjoy Christmas or go on a guilt trip – I love this time of year – but by cutting back on the amount you spend you could donate something to a charity – a gift that will really count.

 

Advent Books

There are many books around to help one reflect on the Advent season and this year I have treated myself to two little ones.  The first is Sacred Space which comes from The Irish Jesuits who use a distinct prayer method. Each day is split into six simple steps with reflections through readings, prayer starters and a weekly theme.  There is also a short Advent Retreat section at the back which can be done each week at a time when there is a chance for a deeper reflection.  I find this a very helpful little book as it has breathed some life into my prayer time (which has been very lax lately). The pointers have lead me into new ways of thinking about situations in life.

The second book is entitled Do Nothing, Christmas is Coming (An Advent Calendar with a difference) written by Stephen Cotterell.  His style of writing is very down to earth.  It’s short and snappy as well as amusing at times.  There’s a short passage for the day followed by ‘Stop’ – a bullet pointed thoughts and action programme.   At the end there is a one line quote from a well known person.  Stephen describes Advent as a defragmenting similar to what one does with a computer to speed things up by putting like files with like – a way to untangle all that Christmas stress!  It is certainly a new way of looking at things and making life a lot more simple at this time of year if you dare to choose.

Here is one of my favourite singers with a wonderful rendition of a great Advent carol – very haunting.

A Celtic Advent

Celtic Knotwork

Celtic Knotwork

Advent is here, our tree and decorations have been brought down from the loft (but not put up yet) and this morning had a real wintry feel about it with a heavy frost draping roofs, fences, plants and grass.  The sun was shining and everything looked beautiful.

To start the season, I yesterday attended a Celtic Advent workshop at the London Centre for Spirituality with our hosts June Boyce-Tillman (Professor of Applied Music at University of Winchester) and Kenneth Boyd Browne, former Interim Director of the Centre.

The day was split into four parts, the first being The Creative Breath.  We began by humming, any  note we wanted while some small instruments were used every now and then.  It was interesting to see that eventually everyone was humming in harmony!  This reminded me a little of my choir warm-up (in fact all the singing aspects did).  There is something quite haunting about  humming one note and there was a hint of Tibetan monk about this which I liked.  The exercise ended with a chime from the singing bowl.  We then paused before moving on to a breathing exercise in which June used a hand drum for rhythm and spoke some sentences about breathing and nature.  Next Kenneth read what is believed to be the first Irish poem and while a candle was lit we sang a song with lyrics written by June to an existing tune.  We then ended the first session repeating the words from Palm 42 ‘as the heart panteth after the water brooks, so panteth my soul after thee, O God.’

The second session was entitled Light and Darkness.  We began with another song written by June called Harvest of Darkness followed by a short talk on redemption and Ken read ‘This is the long night…’ (sorry not sure where this comes from) and then we had a period of silent meditation on being aware of the light of God that is tat the heart of life. During this a plant was put on the table next tot the candle. Outside workmen drilling away like crazy! At first it was annoying yet it was possible to switch off from it times.  Before we broke for lunch June showed us some pictures of Celtic Knotwork and invited us take some photocopied sheets during lunch to either colour in there and then or to take home.

During lunch we had a chance to chat with each other and small world that it is I found two ladies who lived a couple of miles up the road from me and one worked at the school where my son used to go!  I had really enjoyed the morning, the silence, the singing and the poetry and was looking forward to the afternoon sessions.  I picked up a ‘Knot sheet’ and some text for later and had a chance to whiz round the bookshop there.

The afternoon began looking at Centredness with a lovely poem by John O’Donohue called The Secret of Thereness.  I’ve not come across this poet before but I found this poem really touched me and I shall seek out his books when I get a chance.  We then had a reading from Ian Bradley’s Book (which I have) The Celtic Way about Knotwork followed by another song entitled I know I am loved.  Ken then read a story about St Patrick and the Stones and a stone was placed in a bowl of water next to the candle and plant.  Ken then showed us a posture prayer which we all did twice.  It reminded me of a yoga move as the hands come up the sides of the body, back of the palms touch the ears and then reach up.  The hands come together as in prayer and are brought down to where the heart is, then twist to a clasp as we come home to ourselves.  I loved this movement and will definitely use it again.  Afterwards we split into small groups of three or four to discuss ‘Where is my centre?’ and then feed back any thoughts to the group as a whole.  Observations included feelings of being out of sorts, reviewing things to get back to that centred feeling, finding the stillness within and about focus and finding stillness in a busy environment.  We all agreed that it is easy to find in the countryside but finding it on a bus or tube at commuter time is much harder!

The final part of the day looked at Birth and Rebirth. Ken  read a passage from The Spiders Web by Peter Tremayne, followed by a reading and discussion with June on The Celtic Tradition.  Some interesting points were made here about how pagans and Christians interacted and got along whereas Christians seem split over the different denominations!  June also said that if the Celts were around today they would wonder what all the fuss was about over halloween.  Ken then read A Christmas Rose by Rev Canon Grover while a rose was placed on the table with the candle, plant and stone.  We then sang Sacred Endings and Beginnings, another of June’s songs set to a traditional folk song.  There was a reading on The Pilgrimage (I think from Ian Bradley’s book) and we ended with the last of June’s songs See she comes in expectation  followed by a prayer.

I didn’t know what to expect on this workshop but I found peace. There were plenty of pauses between exercises and readings to pray or gather thoughts.  The day was uplifting, thoughtful and fun.  It was nice to get away from all the ‘stuff’ I have to do in the next two weeks, relax and remember what Advent is all about.