3 good things today

Mar. 10th, 2026 11:40 am
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1. re:remembering your dreams: I finally had a weird enough one last night that it stuck with me upon waking up, and I managed to write most of it down. The highlights is me driving a manual car IN ENGLAND and somehow not managing to crash, and also re-obtaining various belongings which had been stolen.

As far as I can tell, most of the dreams I manage to remember have similar themes of either people stealing my stuff or me driving and mostly not crashing into things, sometimes with an added bonus of people barging into my rooms before or after the theft/driving activities. I'm not sure what the point is but at least I've stopped dreaming about missing classes/exams in high school.

2. Had to change my train ticket to my next sit, and went through a very annoying process with the train company; basically you have to prove that you a) bought a new ticket and b) tore up the old one-- well mine was an electronic ticket so I struggled a bit there but got it sent in eventually. Once sent, they take a few days to consider whether you deserve a refund or not, and whether they're going to take a fee out or not. Well! My refund was approved after a few days and I'm waiting for it to be deposited. And no fee taken out, either.

3. I can see a seagull sitting on a neighboring roof's chimney from my attic room window, and there's a very funny fight with another seagull trying to knock the first one off so it can sit there instead. I love birds!
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[personal profile] princessofgeeks posted about Rachel Reid having said that Shane has "the Hero's Journey", in the Heated Rivalry books.
And [personal profile] raven commented, agreeing and saying that Shane grows and changes more, internally.

I've been thinking about this, and I started to write a comment but it got so long I decided to post here about it.

I re-read the start of Heated Rivalry—it's a flash-forward prologue to the hookups era and focuses on an after-game hookup, with the overall theme being Shane's dilemma where he's desperate for the hookups (with hints at his feelings for Ilya that he's massively suppressing), his denial about being gay (seeing it as an aberration he's too "weak" not to give into), and his rationalizations about just not having found the right woman yet. He's conflicted and miserable despite the scene being hot.

Then by the end of the book, Shane and Ilya are opening the Irina Foundation, and Shane has fully accepted being gay and loving Ilya. So the external barriers (the NHL's and hockey culture's homophobia, being closeted, not living together) are still there for them both, but Shane has made the internal Hero's Journey of battling against being gay (his internalized homophobia) then overcoming that and accepting it, and accepting his love for Ilya. Ilya battles against acknowledging that he's falling in love (a lost cause from early on), but he's clear about his sexuality from the start, and he's accepted his feelings for Shane by the tuna melts scene, whereas Shane's not there yet.

The Long Game might be seen as a bit more Ilya's Hero's Journey as he starts with many problems—loneliness as he's just moved to Ottawa, having to be on a poorly-playing losing team, still not seeing enough of Shane—and he gets depressed, which he has to battle against. Like (eventually), therapy, medication, being honest with Shane about how much he's struggling, finding friends in the Centaurs and a family in the Hollanders. But the terrible "wait until we retire to come out" plan is still hanging over him (over both of them), largely due to Shane's fear of exposure and change, and as Ilya is still afraid to be honest with Shane about how much the terrible plan makes him suffer.

So then there are two external deus ex machina events that force the "wait until we retire" plan to collapse—the Tampa plane near-tragedy, and the fanmail outing. Both of them energize Ilya to fight back (the near crash makes him rally his team and win games, and to move things along with Shane as he'd finally been honest about his pain in the cathartic row beforehand), and then the fanmail outing is actually what Ilya needs to move their relationship into the light. All this doesn't solve Ilya's tendency to depression, but he gets a lot better at handling it. He learns to manage the dragon, rather than killing it.

There's still a Hero's Journey for Shane in The Long Game though, which I missed initially as the book seems so Ilya-focused. This time it's Shane's fear of coming out of the closet and being exposed, which he's way more afraid of than Ilya is—again, Ilya has real issues to battle with (even his depression can be seen as an external antagonist as it's partly biologically driven and recurs despite psychotherapy and meds), but Shane's big challenge is once more internal. He's terrified of being outed and of losing hockey and being shamed and reviled by the world. It's his intense need for privacy and his internalized homophobia that he has to combat—and in initially not doing so he hurts Ilya (but Ilya conceals that hurt from him until their big fight). The fight and the Tampa plane near-crash wake Shane up and move him along a bit, but he's still delaying their coming out as he's so afraid of it.

Then the fanmail outing is the final blow that means he can't hide anymore (to Shane's horror, but to Ilya's secret relief). So that's his big hero's test in this book (where realizing he was gay and choosing Ilya over 'performing straightness' was his big battle in HR). And the scene where Shane stands up to Roger Crowell is his "battling the dragon" moment, where he fights for Ilya and for himself, defies Crowell who represents homophobia and the potential loss of hockey, and finally, finally, Shane fully chooses Ilya rather than prioritizing hockey and maintaining his straight public persona.

He's afraid that being exposed will mean his reputation will be destroyed, that he won't be seen as "good"—and that happens to some degree, but he finds it's survivable. It's shown in the way he doesn't arrange any extra chairs at his wedding to Ilya at the end of TLG after they've been outed. He doesn't think many guests will come now that he's not "good" anymore in a black & white, all or nothing public image sense. But his friends do come, and Shane finds there's a place he can exist in between being perfect and being reviled. It's a more adult, integrated sense of self.

I suspect Shane will once again have a Hero's Journey in the pending 3rd book in the HR trilogy (Unrivaled). What will that be? I wonder if it might be Shane's retirement from playing hockey in the NHL and what comes after? He was terrified of coming out because he thought it would mean losing NHL-level hockey, but he survived that in TLG after battling Crowell, emerging still playing NHL hockey with Ilya on the Centaurs. Inevitably, he and Ilya will age out of playing NHL hockey and it will definitely be more of a challenge for Shane than for Ilya. Ilya already prioritized Shane over hockey when he moved to the Centaurs—I wouldn't be surprised if he retired first, in Unrivaled, with both of them having to deal with that as a precursor. There's an excellent fanfic about that (can't recall the title!) which I imagine Rachel hasn't read, as most authors don't read fanfic of their books especially with an a ongoing series, to avoid accusations of copying.

But for Shane, hockey is still a huge part of his sense of self. He's going to have to figure out who he is when he's not an NHL player anymore. I suspect Rachel might bring in external factors again to move him along in his battle against retiring (as otherwise I suspect he'd put it off for way too long)—like a major injury or an accumulation of smaller injuries. There might also need to be another big goal for him to switch focus to as well, something to give his life meaning after retirement, to answer the question: "who am I if I'm not playing pro hockey?" A dad? A coach? It'll be interesting to see.

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A friend let me know about a new Bureau of Prisons guideline for treatment of inmates with gender dysphoria, which you can read in its entirety here. The short form is that they're denying trans inmates gender-affirming care despite medical consensus, and substituting conversion therapy, which has been proven to be harmful and does not in any way "cure" gender dysphoria.

My friend's letter, posted with permission )

Couple of quick HR recs

Mar. 10th, 2026 12:51 pm
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I'm so impressed by friends who post long rec lists - I can barely keep up with reading a few WIPs and some random other recs here and there!

Partly as I'm trying to finish editing a podfic for the Podfic Big Bang (not HR, sorry, I'm still daunted by Ilya's accent but I'll get there eventually), and am also writing a HR AU and outlining another largely epistolary HR fic. And doing some art. Agh!

Anyway, before I forget - this one is great! Partly a social media fic and with a great premise, clever and funny - some explicit texts between Ilya and "Jane" go viral as the internet can't believe how bad at sexting Jane is. I'll Be Jane by gurlsrool.

Also this HR vid is great! Fine Not Fine

Check In: Day 9

Mar. 9th, 2026 07:08 pm
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Hi everyone! Hope all is going well!

Did you write today?

Also, what are thing you do to help with writer's block?

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Mar. 9th, 2026 06:38 pm
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Greetings!

I'm trying something new this year: my general likes and DNWs for challenges and exchanges are in a master letter post here. What follows are prompts and notes on my specific requests for this exchange.

Crossover Fandom
Alexis Castle & Cassie Fraiser; Alexis Castle & Cassie Lang; Alexis Castle & Dairine Callahan; Cassie Fraiser & Cassie Lang, Kim Possible & Kamala Khan (Castle, Kim Possible, MCU, SG-1, Young Wizards)

All these fall under the general umbrella of "girls' night out" prompts - plain and simply, I'm intrigued by the potential mischief, adventures, or straight-up bonding that might happen if any of these duos were thrown together. Feel free to massage timelines to allow for these characters to be of similar age as they correspond or collaborate.

In particular, where Alexis is concerned, feel free to overlook the late-series efforts to turn her into a career PI; that seems to me inconsistent with the Alexis we've seen in high school and college, who's evidenced notable musical gifts and inherited her dad's literary skills, and I like the earlier Alexis much better. (That said, I'd also be fascinated to see Alexis as either a wizard-in-training or a player in the MCU....)

Kate Beckett & Elisa Maza (Castle, Gargoyles)

This one strikes me as an utterly natural match - two seasoned NYC police detectives, each with a highly unconventional sidekick. (While the primary documents should feature these two, I will totally not turn down input from Castle, Xanatos, Owen, or any other of the appropriate players - or their keepers' commentary on what happens when they get into each other's hair.)

Richard Castle & Jessica Fletcher (Castle, Murder She Wrote)

Fanon has long suggested that Jessica is Castle's aunt (even if the blood tie, as I once had Jessica remark, is a trifle complicated). That just about has to set up a long and entertaining correspondence...or perhaps we can get a look at what they have to say about each others' novels in the privacy of their own personal journals. [insert mischievous chuckle here]

Castle
Martha & Alexis; Beckett & Alexis; Beckett & Gates

One may correctly deduce from these and the crossover prompts above that I'm a particular fan of the Alexis Castle character - it's rare in my experience of prime time TV to find a teen character who's as intelligent, sensible, and relatively well-adjusted as she was. I also quite liked Martha, who also avoided falling into caricature; she came across as both realistically theatrical and theatrically realistic. And while I strongly disliked the plot twists that led to the 12th Precinct's change of leadership, Kate Beckett and Captain Gates were also generally well-written and ably portrayed.

For all three of these prompts, I'm hoping for more about the characters' offscreen lives - Martha's acting career, Alexis' academic and social interests, Beckett and Gates learning from one another off the clock. The less said about Pi, Hayley, and any or all of the absurd season-arc plots, the better; what made Castle a brilliant series was the character chemistry. Feel free to speculate on Alexis' eventual for-real career choice (I refuse to believe that the whole Castle-as-private-eye thing was more than a temporary aberration), to give Martha a late-stage career boost with a really good gig, or to lay some groundwork for the evolution to "Senator Beckett" down the line.

DCU
Clark Kent & Bruce Wayne

A note here: I am a modern Bat-fan chiefly by way of the Timmverse animated canon and a Superman fan chiefly via film/TV (notably Smallville, Lois & Clark, the Reeve movies, and the new Corenswet film), and am only just now wading back into the shallow end of DC's print universe(s) after a decades-long hiatus. Thus, my Batman is very much NOT the grimdark and not-always-quite-sane version we got from Frank Miller and his four-color successors (indeed, I grew up on Adam West reruns).

So my preference here, not least because the tag set specifically pegs them as Clark and Bruce, is for just that - a dialogue in which these two are both professionals with double lives, committed to being the best they can be at their jobs both in and out of Spandex, yet occasionally challenged by problems only another superhero can appreciate - most likely on both sides of the cape at once. (Alternately, a peek into both their private journals might be similarly entertaining in terms of things they don't say out loud to one another.)

Kim Possible
Kim & Dr. Betty Director; Kim & Yori; Ron & Yori; Ron/Yori; Shego & Ann Possible

Kim Possible was the show that propelled me into fanfic in a serious way, both as reader and writer, and I remain a fan of the series to this day. As to these particular prompts: I'm interested in how the working relationship developed between Kim & the other "Dr. D", and I've always thought Yori could have become a much more interesting character if she'd been further developed. As to Shego and MrsDrP...that's another duo I wish the show had developed further. (I wrote a couple of stories, very early on, which maneuvered them into being betas for each other's M-to-E-rated slashfic. I would not object at all to seeing that premise taken further than I got with it - but that's totally optional; I mention it purely to illustrate the potential for both comedy and a deeply weird but fascinating relationship dynamic.)

MCU
Clint Barton & Kate Bishop Kamala Khan & Cassie Lang; Kamala Khan & Kate Bishop
Maria Hill & Kamala Khan; Maria Hill & Kate Bishop; Pepper Potts & Kamala Khan

Pretty much all of these prompts involve various of the prospective "Young Avengers" lineup; what I'm chiefly hoping for here is the process by which all these folks get to know one another - whereas the first few MCU movies put the original team together in response to a specific crisis, Kate's and Kamala's generation is building itself in a space between crises so as to be ready for the next one, and that's going to make team-building look seriously and/or humorously) different. Also, this set of characters is - let's say "geographically diverse" (a good reason to conduct major parts of conversations via "mail" for narrative purposes). And although Pepper is the odd woman out in this cluster, she's also - in the wake of having lost Tony by this time - both someone whom Kamala might look as a means of connecting with the "old guard" and who is now in a real way a bridging figure between the old team and the new.

Continuity note: I am up to date with respect to the MCU feature films, but way behind on the various Disney+ series; in particular, I have so far skipped Secret Invasion but am aware of what happened it. For our purposes, let's rule that the Maria Hill in SI was a Life Model Decoy or similar, and that the real Maria is in fact still alive and active in the relatively current MCU.

Nancy Drew (Keene)
Carson & Eloise; Carson & Nancy; Eloise & Nancy

This set of requests arises out of pure curiosity. The thing is, while Aunt Eloise becomes a fairly regular guest character over the course of the yellow-spine books, I don't recall ever being given even the most minimal description of the elder Drews' family life or background beyond their status as siblings. (I am not sure at this late date if Carson and Eloise ever even turned up in person at the same place at the same time.) And though Nancy and her father are portrayed as having a close relationship, they seem to spend very little time together, at least onstage - he's almost never along, for instance, whenever Nancy is traveling.

So: let's fix this - maybe by way of correspondence between Nancy and her aunt about family history, maybe through diaries wherein unspoken feelings are expressed, maybe by father and aunt reminiscing via post (or sharing reactions to various of Nancy's adventures). I did a bit of speculating about some of this in one of my own fics; feel free to riff on that material - or not - as you find useful.

Stargate SG-1
Cassie Fraiser & Samantha Carter; Cassie Fraiser & Vala; Samantha Carter & Vala

I was charmed in the best sense by Cassie in the character's first appearance, and I'd very much like to see how one or both of Sam and Vala would have connected with her (mentor & student, mischievous co-conspirators, girl geniuses doing !Science!, ???). And we didn't get nearly enough onscreen development of Sam's and Vala's working relationship. (Cassie is featured in two prior stories of mine, for Unsent Letters and Crossworks respectively; feel free either to incorporate elements of that material or to go somewhere else entirely.)

Tomorrowland (2015)
Athena & Casey; Athena & Frank; Casey & Frank

I'm particularly fond of this movie - to my mind, it has the best qualities of the old-school Disney live-action features from the '70s and '80s, is remarkably inventive on its own nickel, and features first-rate performances from all three of its leads. It's those performances and those characters that I'd like to see explored in this request, along with your ideas about what happened next (a subject on which the film leaves a lot of room for speculation). Note that while all these prompts are two-sided, I'm not at all opposed to seeing material from all three characters in your story - and that this set of prompts is "&" rather than "/". (I have seen some excellent romantic fics in this fandom, but for present purposes I'd prefer to keep things more focused on other aspects of these characters' relationships.)

Sidetracks - March 9, 2026

Mar. 9th, 2026 01:30 pm
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Sidetracks is a collaborative project featuring various essays, videos, reviews, or other Internet content that we want to share. All past and current links for the Sidetracks project can be found in our Sidetracks tag. You can also support Sidetracks and our other work on Patreon.


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TV Stuff at High Prices

Mar. 9th, 2026 12:46 pm
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1) I am starting plans for a fall foliage road trip in October through Michigan. Anyone have any recommendations?

2) Following up on what I wrote about in my last post, I watched several episodes of Paradise S2. I'm not sure why I'm still watching this. Spoilers )

3) By contrast, I saw the Muppet Show (special? Apparently a one-off?) and found it a delight. Disney has definitely struggled in finding a way to utilize the Muppets and two shows have now failed. I'm glad they tried to do something different with them, and I rather liked the show where they were trying to make a more realistic "behind the scenes" Muppet show.

But maybe these days a return to the past would be particularly welcome (and surely there's still a lot of appeal for kids). I've got to imagine they've got a potential guest list a mile long. My partner and I kept thinking that some of the puppeteers must have been filled with glee at being able to recreate this show.

It did make me laugh when Sabrina Carpenter said she'd watched the show, her parents had watched the show, and her grandparents had watched the show. We'd be rather young to be her grandparents but, yeah, 50th anniversary after all.

4) I found the first of my top 3 shows of the year last month when we watched How to Get to Heaven from Belfast. I'd quite enjoyed Derry Girls, so was interested in trying this. I found it had a lot of the fun from Derry with an added mystery at the center. Read more... )

5) When in his latest charity auction batch Stephen Colbert listed a Lord of the Rings sword that had been on the stage wall, we couldn't believe he'd be selling such a thing at any price. Turns out it's a replica of the actual sword used in the film, which he already has (and he joked he would be buried with). Even so, I figured it would go for a lot, and it's going to be well over $25,000. His neckties are going for over $1000.

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Mar. 9th, 2026 01:02 pm
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I'm a bit sad VidUKon no longer doing DVDs/USBs of premieres (I totally get their decision), but it did get me thinking about trying to make DVDs (or possible Blu-Rays) of my vids so I have them on physical media.

Any recs for software for Windows? (something that creates basic menus would be nice)
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Fandom: Heated Rivalry
Characters/Pairing/Other Subject: Rose Landry/Svetlana Vetrova
Content Notes/Warnings: none
Medium: digital art
Artist on DW/LJ: n/a
Artist Website/Gallery: ducktollers on tumblr
Why this piece is awesome: Svetlana and Rose under gorgeous bisexual lighting. Yum!
Link: outta their way gayboys, backup link here

The List of Shame

Mar. 9th, 2026 04:22 am
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People frequently ask us about whether their specific US state is trying to enact a social media age verification law so they can call their state representatives and yell at them about it! I have had "build a system that will let me easily update this without having to do so manually, categorizing these bills by status, what problems they have, and what we'd do about them if they pass" on my want-to-do list for a really long time, but until I can, here's the current list of bills I know about.

This (very long, sigh) list is accurate to the best of my knowledge as of 8 March 2026, but it may not include every bill that's been introduced in every state. (I've used a few different lists plus my own "searching until I got too depressed to continue" to assemble it, excluding laws I think have absolutely no chance of passing but including laws where I think there's still even a slight chance.) If you know of one that isn't on the list, please let me know in the comments!

These are state laws only. I'm concentrating on those because you can find lists of bad federal bills more easily, but all the lists of state bills I know of are industry-gated or limited-distribution. If you don't have a preferred source for finding out about bad federal legislation about the internet, Bad Internet Bills (from Fight for the Future) and the EFF Action Center are a great place to start!

This list is only counting social media bills; I am not including bills that don't apply to us because they're modeled on the app store/OS age signal model legislation or bills that deal with age verification for other services like chatbots or "AI companions", because I'd go completely off the rails and resort to just screaming incoherently when the list passed a hundred items. I will try to update this at least quarterly, or whenever the Magic 8 Ball says there's a rapidly moving bill that you need to yell at people about.


The Current Hall of Shame )

Fic: Rules of Catharsis

Mar. 8th, 2026 10:03 pm
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Title: Rules of Catharsis
Author: nostalgicatsea
Universe: MCU
Rating: G
Warnings: None
Word Count: 266
Summary: Contrition alone could neither save nor damn him. Only the wronged held that power. But Tony was gone, unable to answer him, and Steve wondered who else could grant him the reprieve that came through absolution or castigation.
Note: This is more implied Steve/Tony and is heavily focused on Pepper & Steve and Steve & Morgan, but since Tony haunts the entire fic and drives Steve through it, I decided to include the Steve/Tony tag.
 
Read on AO3 or Dreamwidth.



Fic: In Passing

Jul. 2nd, 2024 09:58 pm
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Title: In Passing
Author: nostalgicatsea
Universe: MCU
Rating: G
Warnings: None
Word Count: 153
Summary: There is only this, only here and now. It takes Steve eleven years of transience to accept this, eleven years too late.

Read on AO3 or Dreamwidth.

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