Settling Down Too Early

I have so many friends (maybe just acquaintances) that have already, in their late 20s, been married once and divorced. Even a few that have been married twice in this span!

From the time you are 15 and 20, you will be a completely different person.
From the time you are 20 and 25, you will be a completely different person.
From the time you are 25 and 30, you will be a completely different person.

After that, you are usually stuck in your ways, but the point is that you are a human being and you will keep evolving. Young relationships typically don’t last, regardless of the chemistry or the fondness the two people have for one another. It’s a lot of work, stress, hardship and heartache. It seems that lots of people today use marriage just as a billboard to say “Hey! Look at us! Look! Look! Look! Hey! Look! We are in love! It’s official!” in order to validate their union to other people.

Before you take the plunge into marriage life, please disclose your life to your partner at all costs. If you have ever lied to a past love, cheated on a past love, led a past love on, etc. you should tell your partner that. You may think you are a different person now, but truth is, you have lied and cheated before, and you are more than capable of lying and cheating again because you are no stranger to doing such things.

If you have lied to or cheated on someone, and your girlfriend/boyfriend asks you if you’ve ever cheated on someone and you say “No”, don’t get married. You don’t deserve being called a husband or wife.

Don’t pretend to be an angel when you are not.

Don’t act like you have never fucked someone’s life over when you have.

Don’t settle down when you are just a kid. Wait until you are a mature adult that is capable of admitting your fuck-ups and deep losses in life.

Judge People By Their Actions, Not Their Words

A common mistake we all should learn to catch ourselves making is listening to someone’s words and forgetting what their true intent really is. It’s like, if someone tells you that they value you as a part of their lives and tell you that they will always be there for you if you ever need them, what kind of natural feeling do you have when, by the next day, they act like you don’t even exist? Disgust for that person since they’ve proven themselves to be liars! So, listen to a person’s words, but don’t take them as face value if their actions contradict the crap they say.

It’s like, if you tell me you have no desire to be in a relationship and that you are happy without one, then by the next week you are in a relationship with some random minx, then why did you bother saying otherwise in the first place? Be true with your intents.

If someone is constantly lying to you and hurting you without remorse, it’s only better for you to tell them to fuck right off and out of your life.

If you tell me that you are a “crazy, bad person” and portray yourself verbally as someone who’s deranged, don’t get into a relationship and procreate! Why should a person that calls themselves something like that be allowed to procreate? And people wonder why the world is in the shape that it’s in when idiots (liars) are having children…….

It would be a much better place to live if liars’ pants really caught on fire. 🙂

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Eventually, karma always comes back to haunt you if you’ve wronged somebody that you shouldn’t have.