Dear Future Wifey

Laterras R. Whitfield
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Journey with me, Laterras R. Whitfield, as I discover, uncover, and recover love. From interviews with singles, married, divorcees, and maybe even those in polyamorous relationships, we promise every episode to be L.I.T. (Living Intentionally Transparent).

  1. 22 hr ago

    Love Beyond The Cameras (Guests: Charity Lawson & Dotun Olubeko)

    One of reality television's most celebrated love stories, "The Bachelorette's" Charity Lawson and Dotun Olubeko join Dear Future Wifey for a candid conversation that goes far beyond the cameras. Recorded live at the Christian Cultural Center in Brooklyn, NY, the couple opens up about what it really takes to build a relationship after the final rose. From navigating a highly public engagement to choosing growth over pressure, Charity and Dotun share why they intentionally extended their engagement, the role therapy has played in strengthening their relationship, and how they've learned to prioritize a lasting marriage over public expectations. They also reflect on the unique challenges of finding love on reality TV and whether modern dating has become more about entertainment than genuine connection. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/charitylawson https://www.instagram.com/dotunolubeko CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Love Beyond The Cameras (Guests: Charity Lawson & Dotun Olubeko)

  2. 22 hr ago

    The Making of A Husband (Guest: Sarkie Ampim)

    Recorded live at Christian Cultural Center in Brooklyn, New York, this unforgettable conversation with Sarkie Ampim peels back the layers of his heart. For months, many people formed opinions about Sarkie based on viral clips and social media debates. But in this candid live interview, he addresses many of the false assumptions people have made about him, revealing the man behind the microphone. With honesty and vulnerability, Sarkie opens up about the painful ending of his last relationship and the healing journey that followed. He reflects on the lessons, growth, accountability, and emotional work that have reshaped his perspective on love, relationships, and what it truly means to become a husband. This isn't just a conversation about dating—it's a masterclass on emotional maturity, self-awareness, and transformation. Whether you've agreed with Sarkie in the past or questioned his viewpoints, you'll walk away with a deeper understanding of the experiences that helped shape the man he is today. If you've ever wondered what it looks like when a man chooses healing over hiding, this episode is for you. You'll be shocked to hear a man share his heart like this. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/sarkieampim CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    The Making of A Husband (Guest: Sarkie Ampim)

  3. 29 Jul

    I'm Worthy of Love (Guests; Dayron & Whitney Owens)

    What happens when you believe you're too broken, too flawed, or too unworthy to be loved? And what happens when love finally arrives, but fear won't let you fully embrace it? In this powerful episode of "Dear Future Wifey", Laterras and Ashley R. Whitfield sit down with Dayron and Whitney Owens (Day & Whit) for an honest conversation about healing, trust, and building a blended family God's way. Whitney opens up about the emotional weight of being a single mother and the internal struggle of making room for another man to step into her son's life. After carrying the responsibility of motherhood alone for so long, surrendering that space wasn't easy. She shares how fear, protectiveness, and past experiences made it difficult to trust someone else with the role she had guarded for years. Dayron vulnerably reveals his own battle with feeling undeserving of love and how those deep-rooted insecurities nearly prevented him from embracing the relationship God had for him. Together, they discuss how confronting feelings of unworthiness, extending grace, and choosing vulnerability transformed not only their relationship but their family. If you've ever questioned your value, struggled to trust after heartbreak, or wondered how to successfully blend love and parenthood, this conversation will remind you that healing often begins where fear ends. This is a story of redemption, restoration, and discovering that the love you've been praying for may require you to first believe you're worthy enough to receive it. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/dayandwhit https://www.instagram.com/whitthevibes https://www.instagram.com/dayday_owens CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    I'm Worthy of Love (Guests; Dayron & Whitney Owens)

  4. 22 Jul

    Vulnerability Built Us (Guests: Mondarius & Haley Black)

    What happened next became a testimony of God's faithfulness. This conversation is filled with transparency, hope, healing, and proof that even after devastating loss, God still has the final word. If you've ever wrestled with commitment, endured heartbreak, or wondered whether God still performs miracles, this episode will strengthen your faith and remind you that your story isn't over. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/beefingwiththeblacks https://www.instagram.com/callmecollins.hdc CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com  SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Vulnerability Built Us (Guests: Mondarius & Haley Black)

  5. 15 Jul

    Why Is Love Hard? (Guests: Pastors Jermone & Erica Glenn, Dallace Tyrae, Careya Pace, Haley & Mondarius Black, Tianna Clark, & Will Johnson)

    Has social media changed love forever? Is marriage still worth pursuing? Can healthy relationships actually survive in today's culture? At the BCI Conference, Laterras R. Whitfield brings together an incredible lineup of voices for one unforgettable conversation featuring Haley & Mondarius Black, Will Johnson, Dallace Tyrae, Jermone Glenn, Lady Erica Glenn, Tianna Clark, and Careya Pace. From dating and singleness to marriage, purpose, healing, and faith, this powerhouse panel doesn't shy away from the hard questions. Together, they discuss red flags, relationship expectations, waiting on God's timing, navigating modern dating, building trust, and what it truly takes to cultivate lasting, Christ-centered love. Filled with transparency, laughter, challenging perspectives, and practical wisdom, this live discussion is for anyone who has ever questioned whether genuine love still exists or wondered how to prepare for the relationship God has for them. Whether you're single, dating, engaged, or married, this episode will leave you thinking differently about love, commitment, and God's design for healthy relationships. Panelists: Haley & Mondarius Black Will Johnson Dallace Tyrae Pastor Jermone & Erica Glenn Tianna Clark Careya Pace   Watch until the end because one answer just might change the way you view love forever.   CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/beefingwiththeblacks https://www.instagram.com/iamwill.johnson https://www.instagram.com/dallacetyrae https://www.instagram.com/jermoneglenn https://www.instagram.com/ladyericaglenn https://www.instagram.com/tiannaclark https://www.instagram.com/goldencar__ CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield   ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Why Is Love Hard? (Guests: Pastors Jermone & Erica Glenn, Dallace Tyrae, Careya Pace, Haley & Mondarius Black, Tianna Clark, & Will Johnson)

  6. 8 Jul

    Dear Future Business Partner (Guests: Charles & Jonsi McGill)

    What happens when God asks you to leave everything familiar in order to step into everything He promised? This week on Dear Future Wifey, Charles and Jonsi McGill sit down with Laterras & Ashley R. Whitfield for an inspiring conversation that redefines what it means to become your spouse's greatest teammate. In an episode appropriately titled "Dear Future Business Partner," they reveal how obedience to God laid the foundation for both a thriving marriage and a thriving business. Before becoming successful entrepreneurs, Charles served as a school principal while Jonsi embraced the calling of motherhood. Together, they made the courageous decision to leave behind the security of their careers to pursue the vision God placed in their hearts. Along the way, they discovered that the strongest business partnership begins with an even stronger marriage. From navigating the pressures of entrepreneurship to protecting the covenant of their relationship, the McGills share how they refused to let success come at the expense of their love. Their journey proves that when God is the CEO of your life, your marriage can flourish while your purpose expands. Whether you're building a business with your spouse, preparing for marriage, or simply believing God for the courage to follow His calling, "Dear Future Business Partner" is a powerful reminder that the best partnerships are built on faith, obedience, and a shared commitment to God's purpose. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/missjonsi  https://www.instagram.com/iamcharlesmcgill CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Dear Future Business Partner (Guests: Charles & Jonsi McGill)

  7. 1 Jul

    Apply To Marry Me (Guests: Craig & Khadijah Sharif-Drinkard)

    On this episode, we meet Craig and Khadijah Shareef. In their mid-twenties, Khadijah asked Craig to fill out an “application” just to date her. He didn’t have much at the time—working a low-paying job—but she saw his character beyond finances. Now, Craig thrives in his career, and together they’ve built a marriage rooted in intentional choices. We’ll dive into how that initial “application” became a blueprint for their lasting love. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/khadijahdrinkard CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Apply To Marry Me (Guests: Craig & Khadijah Sharif-Drinkard)

  8. 24 Jun

    Three Times A Charm (Guests: Rico & Monica Davis)

    Rico and Monica Davis have each weathered two previous marriages, but this time, they’re stepping into love together. Just a month after saying "I do" on May 9th, these newlyweds share why, despite past experiences, they feel more aligned than ever. In this episode, they reveal how lessons from their past marriages, combined with newfound wisdom, are making this third marriage—with each other—their most intentional and joyful chapter yet. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/officialricodavis https://www.instagram.com/mothick_fit CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Three Times A Charm (Guests: Rico & Monica Davis)
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Journey with me, Laterras R. Whitfield, as I discover, uncover, and recover love. From interviews with singles, married, divorcees, and maybe even those in polyamorous relationships, we promise every episode to be L.I.T. (Living Intentionally Transparent).

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  • Creator
    Laterras R. Whitfield
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    304
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Laterras R. Whitfield
  • Show Website
    Dear Future Wifey

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