Share Your World — 12/19/2022

Share Your World

Di, at Pensitivity101, is our host for Share Your World each week. Here are her questions for this week.

1. How organised are you in either your working or private life?

More organized than I used to be, not as organized as I ought to be.

2. Do you remember family birthdays or anniversaries and send cards?

I have family members’ birthdays and anniversaries set as reminders on my iPhone. After I get those reminders, depending upon which relative it is, I will buy a present, send a card, or call them on the phone.

3. If you see something in a shop that is an extravagance but you can afford it, do you buy it?

Nope, there’s nothing I need or want that I would consider an extravagance. Unless you consider a pint of Ben & Jerry’s Stephen Colbert’s Americone Dream ice cream an extravagance. I don’t. I consider it to be a necessity.

4. Are you looking forward to the New Year?

I look forward to the new year every year. I was disappointed by 2020, 2021, and 2022. Maybe 2023 won’t continue that disappointing streak. I’m not holding my breath, though.

Gratitude: What simple thing warms your heart?

My grandchildren.

Share Your World — 10/24/2022

Share Your World

It’s time for another Share Your World Series of questions. Di, at Pensitivity101, is once again sitting in for Melanie. Thanks, Di. Anyway, let’s get right to it, okay?

1. How organized are you? Do you plan ahead, take things as they come, or does it depend on the circumstances?

It depends on the circumstances, but if I lean one way or the other, I’m more of a fly-by-the-seat-of-my-pants type of guy than I am a heavy-duty plan ahead type. My wife, on the other hand is definitely the plan ahead type.

2. How many Christmas presents have you bought already?

Sheesh, it’s not even Halloween yet. Are you kidding me with this question?

3. Do you prefer a family gathering for special occasions, or just you and your significant other?

I prefer just me and my wife. My wife prefers family gatherings and she’s thinking about hosting Thanksgiving at our place for about 15 people. See, I told you she’s the plan ahead type.

4. How many words do you think your pet understands?

Based upon the way our dog listens to our commands, I’d say she doesn’t understand a word we say.

Please share a gratitude meme for your readers.

I am not exactly a Houston Astros fan, but as a fan of the Boston Red Sox, I am grateful to the Astros for sweeping the New York Yankees in four games last night. As a result, the Yankees, the team I love to hate, will not play in the 2022 World Series.

Friday Fictioneers — Outta Sight

“I will not have it,” Margaret insisted, “I’m embarrassed to have anyone come into our apartment. I know you’ve been working from home since this whole pandemic thing started, but you’ve got your crap spread out all over the dining room table and it’s ridiculous that we can’t use it for meals. I will not tolerate your mess anymore. I’ve organized all of your office supplies and put them inside the credenza. You can keep your laptop on the end of the table, but you need to keep your work area neat.”

Bill hugged Margaret and simply said, “Thanks, sweetheart.”

(100 words)


Written for Rochelle Wisoff-Field’s Friday Fictioneers prompt. Photo credit: Jan Wayne Fields.

SoCS — The List Maker

For this week’s Stream of Consciousness Saturday prompt from Linda G. Hill, we are asked about lists. She asks us to make or talk about a list.

I’ve always been a natural list maker. And I’ve found that, as I’ve gotten older, list making has become even more important than ever, because my memory is not as good as it once was. I make grocery lists, to-do lists, lists of shows or movies I may want to watch on TV or books I may want to download onto my iPhone.

And, because my cursive has evolved to the point that even I can’t read my handwriting, I make all of my lists using the handy dandy Notes app on my iPhone. For example, here’s my most recent and very legible grocery shopping list.Most of the items on the above list (except for the ice cream) were dictated to me by my wife. As I walk around the grocery store, pick up the items on the list, and drop them into the shopping cart, I use the text strikethrough feature of the app to indicate that I’ve secured the item in question so that when I get home my wife won’t yell at me for forgetting something.

And yes, I’ve got a holiday gift list going, too. But that’s top secret, so, sorry, but I can’t post it here.

I’m a strong advocate of lists. They keep me organized and without them, I probably wouldn’t get anything done.

#FOWC — An Organized Mind

B520E40C-B666-4680-A24D-F56F1565747B.jpegI’ve always prided myself on having an organized mind. I have the ability to comparmentalize things in my head, and that enables me to save time and to get things accomplished in an otherwise chaotic world.

I use a method of classification to separate those things that are essential from those that are nice-to-haves and from those that are frivolous.

That’s not to say that I don’t do any frivolous things or that I avoid the nice-to-haves to focus exclusively on the essentials. I just make sure to get the essential stuff out of the way so I can enjoy those more frivolous things life has to offer.

Okay, Fandango, let’s get real. Yes, I compartmentalize things, but the truth is, while I ultimately get around to the essentials, doing the frivolous things is so much more fun.

Perhaps that’s why the “honey do” list my wife manages never seems to get any smaller.


Written for today’s Ragtag Daily Prompt, “time,” for the Your Daily Word prompt, “classification,” and for Fandango’s One-Word Challenge, “essential.”

An Organized Mind

IMG_2499I originally posted this last August when my blog was relatively unnoticed. So when I saw today’s Weekly Prompts Photo Challenge using the word “organized,” I decided to recycle this post. Yes, I know it’s a photo challenge, but the post does permit us to turn it into a word prompt. So here is my recycled word prompt response.


I used to work for a guy whose desk was always a mess. I am not exactly a neat-freak, but I always tried to keep a reasonably tidy desk. Having papers and crap randomly spread out on my desk made me feel anxious, so keeping it relatively clean helped me maintain my sanity in what was often a chaotic work environment.

I used to dread it when I had to walk into my boss’s office and ask him for something. He would rifle through papers and folders that were scattered across his large desk for maybe five minutes before he’d finally locate whatever files or papers I had asked for.

When I commented on his disorganization, he would quip, “A messy desk is a sign of an organized mind.”

“No,” I would think to myself, not daring to say it out loud to my boss, “a messy desk is a sign of a messy desk.” I encouraged him to take some time to organize his desk. I even volunteered to help him organize his files. But he always claimed to know exactly where everything on his mess of a desk was located.

But this tale has a happy ending. My messy boss was ultimately let go and I was promoted to take his place. So while he believed that a messy desk is a sign of an organized mind, I learned that a messy desk is a promotion opportunity for someone with an organized desk (and mind.)

My Creative Mind

B5A4C4A8-36E7-4598-98C6-E2162045846DThere are those whose desks look almost pristine. “There’s a place for everything and everything is in its place,” they say, and there’s never a stray piece of paper marring the uncluttered surfaces of their desks.

I am one of those who has never managed to keep my desk free of detritus, no matter how hard I tried. Periodically, tired of hearing derogatory comments from my coworkers (when I was still working) about how my desk looked like a disaster area, I would take a whole day or two to declutter. Yet, within a few days, my desk was a mess once again.

So imagine my delight when I came across an article published by the American Psychological Association titled, “A Messy Desk Encourages a Creative Mind.” Oh snap!

According to that article, a study at the University of Minnesota found that “working in a tidy room encourages people to do socially responsible, normatively ‘good’ things like eat healthfully and give to charity. But working in a messy room seems to help them try new things and come up with creative ideas.”

I came across another article in Inc. magazine titled, “A Messy Desk Is a Sign of Genius.” Booyah!

That article noted that “the notion that a clean desk means a productive worker is an artifact of the mid-20th century.” A study found that “Participants in the messy room generated the same number of ideas for new uses as their clean-room counterparts. But their ideas were rated as more interesting and creative when evaluated by impartial judges.”

And as acknowledged genius Albert Einstein famously pointed out that “If a cluttered desk is a sign of a cluttered mind, of what, then, is an empty desk a sign?”

So, to all of you who criticized me and my messy desk, you were throwing shade at a creative genius!


Written for today’s one-word prompt, “messy.”